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I'm a blend between B and C. My family appears normal on the outside, but it's been very disfunctional since my dad died 30 years ago. Since then I have been a very lost child who's grown up being the parent, and my mother as "the child". It has gotten easier over time, but I still prefer time alone, and I live alone now that my ex-partner has moved out.
I'm also a blend of B and C, tho my family seems to be pretty functional, despite my dad also having died. I feel that I don't really have much of a role at all: I'm just there.
I’ve been where you are and I still go through that myself, I hope you have a safe environment where you can unleash your pain and gain comfort, knowledge, and healing because it is so hard to go through this and it does damage the person in a way, but you get to feel loved and and cares for the ways you need to. I pray something has changed, love yourself and don’t beat yourself up❤️
I know this may sound absolutely impossible, but sadly, the only way to keep their treatment of you from taking its toll on your health and mental well-being is to sever ties. It’s really hard to do in fact, it feels nearly impossible. Almost everyone who has done it, though will say they wish they had done it sooner and it was the best thing they could ever have done for their mental well-being and physical health. The stress of always having that rock of anxiety in your stomach because of the lies they tell and how they constantly misunderstand and misinterpret everything you say, and they do that on purpose because they enjoywatching you get upset. I know that’s hard to believe but these people are just evil. I hope you can find a way to break free.
You’re not a burden to me, even though I’m a random stranger, I hope you have the best day ever, and I love you, even though I don’t know you. Hope you can get out of that situation, I’ve been there, and it’s hard.
I definitely got B the most, and OH MY GOSH does that sound like my life right now in a nutshell! I’m most definitely a background blender, didn’t grow up in a dysfunctional family but I definitely feel like everybody’s gotten a bit more toxic as time has gone on, I’m always using every opportunity possible to hang out with my cousins at family gatherings, and I do absolutely LOVE my solitude because I get to work on writing my Minecraft AU and making animatics without being bothered, but I do still wish I could step out of my room without having a dumb argument tried to start with me by my younger sister
50/50 between lost child and truth teller, with a bit of Nurturing within me. Questions about family are hard for me, as I feel more alienated from them and at ease when they’re not around. They are strict and overly assuming oftentimes. They expressed little support of my interests and hobbies growing up, and of my coming out (I’m transgender). On the other hand, I try seeing things from as many sides as I can. I am aware of the circumstances and mechanisms that shaped my family into who they are, and I don’t want to take it too hard on them. And everyone, family including, compliments my maturity and critical thinking (and intellect, which I believe they often confuse with knowledge). And I find my hobbies that I do in solitude influenced by both defining traits mentioned earlier. That said, its been complicated, and hard dealing with the loneliness and critical self talk that comes with both of these roles. On bad times, I feel unmotivated, or numb to compliments and even some positive affirmations. Being worked on through therapy and other means, but still I yearn for the day where I live with a genuinely supportive and understanding person or group
For 1, I'd say A, for 2, I'd say A, confident, 3, I'd say A, 4, I'd say A, B, and C, for 5, I'd say A, for 6, I'd say A, for 7, I'd say all 4, for 8, I'd say all of the above. I got nurterer!!!
I got mostly A’s and I know I’m a nurture I’ve been that way my whole life and I’m very happy to be a nurture and I’ve learned to see the good and bad sides to being a nurturer as well. A Good side is: being able to be there for people and genuinely care for them and want better for them and love to see them happy. And a bad side of it is you can become to involved with care for another persons needs that you can forget about your own. From my personal experience.
And as a nurture THE VERY MOST IMPORTANT THING is to set boundaries in place no matter what the relationship is because you still need to love, and nurture yourself, you can’t give all of yourself way, so set those boundaries in place !!
I tied between A and C! This actually made me feel so good about myself and gave me reassurance that I really do fit the role I feel I play… now I’m even more sure of it :)
I just wanted to address some symptoms just to clarify which type of disorder it can be :- 1. I just procrastinate alot 2. Feeling sad but unable to cry but sometime i cry over little things (like , watching sad post , reading sad quotes etc , and if someone just said you are not gonna make it or some that things make me sad and it takes atleast 4-5 hrs to get over it .) 3. Extreme mood swings like motivated but suddenly in few minutes sad then happy and guilt over my self . 4. I just so much hung up on past that i can't get over from it. 5. I feel like i just overslept some days or somedays feeling difficulty in sleeping. 6. I just overeating even though i know i have to stop . 7. I just remain in my room all day and feels like hopeless. 8. Also feels like having social anxiety because i just think so much and avoid to go outside often and if someone try to talk to me just feels horrible and want to leave as soon as possible. 9. I don't anyone now because it feels like they will use it against me or something. 10. Unable to concentrate on my studies because i am in constant fear of getting failed in my entrances because i just gave it so many times and didn't pass. 11. Always finds a way where things can go wrong . 12 . Highly indecisive (i just take addmission in 4 colleges and drop out. ) 13. Feeling behind from everyone around me . 14. Recently i just (idk is it right to say this but anyway) addicted or kind of thing to masturbation because i did it but it doesn't give me anysort of dopamine i guess . 15. I am scrolling too much on phone even though the thought of not studying freaking me . I don't know what to do i just feels like i lose control over life . 16. I didn't know about poor hygiene though but i tend to skip shower as much as possible. 17. Also restlessness when ever i get such thoughts or overthink. Trying to get better but these things already ruining everything.
B 1st and C 2nd, both resonate with me a lot... though the dysfunctional family of B and organized part of C are not true in my case... I'm a cautious shy-away mess.
I got A the most, but I feel like I'm closer to the Cheerleader than the nurturer, because I genuinely feel less about myself when others don't appreciate my presence
I got mostly Cs with Bs being very close. I grew up in a dysfunctional family for much of my childhood, but in the end I learned to branch out a bit more.
I ended up with Truthteller, which makes sense since I’m usually blunt and don’t sugarcoat things when it comes to how I truly feel about something or someone. Because the truth can hurt at times, but you’d be doing yourself and others a disservice by lying to them when it comes to telling them whatever they want than need to hear.
I tied A&C... Which are most definitely my more dominant traits.. However... truth be told I'm actually a little bit like the other two on occasion..... depending on situations and family members....😅
I feel like my mind is A but my acts is B. I notice the pain in others and want to be the person to help but never know how, and somehow feel like I'm not the one who should do it so I just keep silent.
I got half cheerleader, and half nurturer. Pretty accurate, even though I can be brutally honest when I need to. I don’t think being bratty honest is always rude, sometimes it’s the nicest thing you can say. That’s just me though!
Im a lost child. Def grew up in broken family and I always used to be seating somewhere else during family reunions... Wich in retrospect was a big mistake since there are family gatherings no more...
I tied between B and D but I can see how there fit. B the lost child definitely suits my biological family and D the cheerleader suits my chosen family which usually resides as my friends. Thank you phy2go I love all your videos and the amazing art ever since finding this channel I have been able to learn better ways to take care of myself and others! 🌱❤
i got like all bs 😭 my parents are divorced (i was 4) so i don’t remember what they were like but my moms bfs were/are really rude and my dads ex girlfriend was nice at first then she showed her true self and they broke up, but my parents are really nice to me and i have a great relationship with them
D, definetly D, though I felt like a lot of the negative sides to many of the characters except for B resonated… if anyone can relate to this, you’re not alone❤️🥰💪🤗
I 💯 agreed on everything that I saw from video and question to answer. It's mind crazy how it is helpful to watch videos and go through life and see we are not going through 😮 and not going crazy 😧😢
I think I'm a lost child here, I've always felt lonely and found it hard to connect with people even though I had a large family (3 siblings). Do you have videos on growing up in a large family?
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I was a chaotic child so first one kinda hard and B came in 5 times
I got a lot of Bs! Thanks these are fun
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I got mostly D's
i literally got 2 of each option!!😭😭will you come up with a longer quiz like this in the future?
I tied with B and D, but the weird thing is they both fit me so well.
Yeah but D is my Mask That I pretend to be but B is my true self
A and B D
@@SpookbinaI’m the opposite! D is me with family and B is me at school hahaha 😂
I'm mostly B & D too, but I do see myself as the other 2 types sometimes as well. 🤷♀️
Not weird, it'd research!
B - being the youngest, the only boy out of the four kids, and the only autistic child, it definitely makes sense.
it’s a shame this is a less popular video. it’s really helpful and accurate (coming from a cheerleader)
Exactly what a cheerleader would say lol. I'm a cheerleader too. 😆
Mostly B! why is it so relatable??
Me too. I am a fellow B
Same, I had 5/8 Bs. The description fits me perfectly
@@swanky_swallow Lol same😅
Same
I got full b
I'm a blend between B and C. My family appears normal on the outside, but it's been very disfunctional since my dad died 30 years ago. Since then I have been a very lost child who's grown up being the parent, and my mother as "the child". It has gotten easier over time, but I still prefer time alone, and I live alone now that my ex-partner has moved out.
I'm also a blend of B and C, tho my family seems to be pretty functional, despite my dad also having died. I feel that I don't really have much of a role at all: I'm just there.
I play the role of being a burden and having everyone take their anger out on me
I’ve been where you are and I still go through that myself, I hope you have a safe environment where you can unleash your pain and gain comfort, knowledge, and healing because it is so hard to go through this and it does damage the person in a way, but you get to feel loved and and cares for the ways you need to. I pray something has changed, love yourself and don’t beat yourself up❤️
I know this may sound absolutely impossible, but sadly, the only way to keep their treatment of you from taking its toll on your health and mental well-being is to sever ties. It’s really hard to do in fact, it feels nearly impossible. Almost everyone who has done it, though will say they wish they had done it sooner and it was the best thing they could ever have done for their mental well-being and physical health. The stress of always having that rock of anxiety in your stomach because of the lies they tell and how they constantly misunderstand and misinterpret everything you say, and they do that on purpose because they enjoywatching you get upset. I know that’s hard to believe but these people are just evil. I hope you can find a way to break free.
You’re not a burden to me, even though I’m a random stranger, I hope you have the best day ever, and I love you, even though I don’t know you. Hope you can get out of that situation, I’ve been there, and it’s hard.
Same 😔
I am sorry if this was serious but it's very funny your atleast funny in your insecuritt
Truth teller. Lost child a very close second.
Both very accurate.
My theory is that us truthtellers often end up being lost children since we pointed out the abuse 😢
When you're scared but you still do it anyway, that's brave.
I'm type C and I'm the harshest with myself. Spot on. Wish I could feel confident and content all the time.
B was most but C was right behind. I'm definitely a mixture of both 😅
Oh! For me it's the exact opposite. I got C 4 times and B 3 times 😅
I'm also a mixture of both.
Me to 😅
Same
Me too!! But c showed more, it was kinda spot on
Same, except I exactly tied
for all my fellow B's out there, You matter, and deserve Love too.
Thanks 🎉
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Tied B and D, both make a ton of sense
I feel like D is me masking and B is when the mask isn’t working as desired
I definitely got B the most, and OH MY GOSH does that sound like my life right now in a nutshell! I’m most definitely a background blender, didn’t grow up in a dysfunctional family but I definitely feel like everybody’s gotten a bit more toxic as time has gone on, I’m always using every opportunity possible to hang out with my cousins at family gatherings, and I do absolutely LOVE my solitude because I get to work on writing my Minecraft AU and making animatics without being bothered, but I do still wish I could step out of my room without having a dumb argument tried to start with me by my younger sister
I got exactly what i am
I'm the biggest lost project of the family,and i completely except it.
I got C the most and I think it’s true that I’m most critical about myself, but I think B also fits me
I tied with C and D-
I got AABBDDC WHAT AM I LIKE IN MY FAMILY 🗿
When the truth teller came on, I imagined them saying, "eyoeyoeyoeyoeyo" please it made my day-
Love the quiz content! Keeps the engagement going! 🎉
Thank you for joining in early!
50/50 between lost child and truth teller, with a bit of Nurturing within me.
Questions about family are hard for me, as I feel more alienated from them and at ease when they’re not around. They are strict and overly assuming oftentimes. They expressed little support of my interests and hobbies growing up, and of my coming out (I’m transgender).
On the other hand, I try seeing things from as many sides as I can. I am aware of the circumstances and mechanisms that shaped my family into who they are, and I don’t want to take it too hard on them. And everyone, family including, compliments my maturity and critical thinking (and intellect, which I believe they often confuse with knowledge). And I find my hobbies that I do in solitude influenced by both defining traits mentioned earlier.
That said, its been complicated, and hard dealing with the loneliness and critical self talk that comes with both of these roles. On bad times, I feel unmotivated, or numb to compliments and even some positive affirmations. Being worked on through therapy and other means, but still I yearn for the day where I live with a genuinely supportive and understanding person or group
For 1, I'd say A, for 2, I'd say A, confident, 3, I'd say A, 4, I'd say A, B, and C, for 5, I'd say A, for 6, I'd say A, for 7, I'd say all 4, for 8, I'd say all of the above. I got nurterer!!!
I got D and that is true by my pov because i want to support them even though we are not at good terms because inside i do care
Of course I'm C. 💁🏾♀️
I got the most C, with the second most being B. Both honestly fit me so well
I got mostly A’s and I know I’m a nurture I’ve been that way my whole life and I’m very happy to be a nurture and I’ve learned to see the good and bad sides to being a nurturer as well. A Good side is: being able to be there for people and genuinely care for them and want better for them and love to see them happy. And a bad side of it is you can become to involved with care for another persons needs that you can forget about your own. From my personal experience.
And as a nurture THE VERY MOST IMPORTANT THING is to set boundaries in place no matter what the relationship is because you still need to love, and nurture yourself, you can’t give all of yourself way, so set those boundaries in place !!
How did you comment this a year ago???
@@Thedramalovesme89 I walked into my healing journey if that helps
I tied between A and C! This actually made me feel so good about myself and gave me reassurance that I really do fit the role I feel I play… now I’m even more sure of it :)
I got D, and yeah that definitely is me. Oofda
DBDCACAA. Mostly A's a tie between D and C for second place
I tied b and c, they both just fit me so much.
Got cheerleader, and I'll GLADLY take that.
Definitely reliable and always wanting to find ways to work through the issue.
Thanks for useful and valuable video as always ❤❤❤
I just wanted to address some symptoms just to clarify which type of disorder it can be :-
1. I just procrastinate alot
2. Feeling sad but unable to cry but sometime i cry over little things (like , watching sad post , reading sad quotes etc , and if someone just said you are not gonna make it or some that things make me sad and it takes atleast 4-5 hrs to get over it .)
3. Extreme mood swings like motivated but suddenly in few minutes sad then happy and guilt over my self .
4. I just so much hung up on past that i can't get over from it.
5. I feel like i just overslept some days or somedays feeling difficulty in sleeping.
6. I just overeating even though i know i have to stop .
7. I just remain in my room all day and feels like hopeless.
8. Also feels like having social anxiety because i just think so much and avoid to go outside often and if someone try to talk to me just feels horrible and want to leave as soon as possible.
9. I don't anyone now because it feels like they will use it against me or something.
10. Unable to concentrate on my studies because i am in constant fear of getting failed in my entrances because i just gave it so many times and didn't pass.
11. Always finds a way where things can go wrong .
12 . Highly indecisive (i just take addmission in 4 colleges and drop out. )
13. Feeling behind from everyone around me .
14. Recently i just (idk is it right to say this but anyway) addicted or kind of thing to masturbation because i did it but it doesn't give me anysort of dopamine i guess .
15. I am scrolling too much on phone even though the thought of not studying freaking me . I don't know what to do i just feels like i lose control over life .
16. I didn't know about poor hygiene though but i tend to skip shower as much as possible.
17. Also restlessness when ever i get such thoughts or overthink.
Trying to get better but these things already ruining everything.
Depression.
Not me getting Bs for EVERY question
B 1st and C 2nd, both resonate with me a lot... though the dysfunctional family of B and organized part of C are not true in my case...
I'm a cautious shy-away mess.
Yeah, finally another person in my case. I’m just scared of messing up :P
I got A the most, but I feel like I'm closer to the Cheerleader than the nurturer, because I genuinely feel less about myself when others don't appreciate my presence
I got mostly Cs with Bs being very close. I grew up in a dysfunctional family for much of my childhood, but in the end I learned to branch out a bit more.
1:58 BRO that happened to me like a month ago...
"Your results are based on which letter you pick the most"
They all tied.
I got B and it fits me completely but child me would definitely be D
I ended up with Truthteller, which makes sense since I’m usually blunt and don’t sugarcoat things when it comes to how I truly feel about something or someone. Because the truth can hurt at times, but you’d be doing yourself and others a disservice by lying to them when it comes to telling them whatever they want than need to hear.
Mine was too accurate, like scary accurate
I had an even split between B and C- and they were both pretty accurate. This was a fun quiz!
I got 3 times B and 3 times C
Well both fits me well
I’m either lost child or Truthteller
I tied A&C...
Which are most definitely my more dominant traits..
However... truth be told I'm actually a little bit like the other two on occasion..... depending on situations and family members....😅
Mine is A and C and it fits me so well!
I tied between A and B. Cannot decide which fits better.
I tied on all of these and all of these apply to meeeee..
I tied between C and B Soo it’s both true
WHAT AM I!!! I TIED IN A B C AND D
I feel like my mind is A but my acts is B. I notice the pain in others and want to be the person to help but never know how, and somehow feel like I'm not the one who should do it so I just keep silent.
I got half cheerleader, and half nurturer. Pretty accurate, even though I can be brutally honest when I need to. I don’t think being bratty honest is always rude, sometimes it’s the nicest thing you can say. That’s just me though!
B. Lost Child. The description is spot on.
While emmersed in the dysfunction.. i was a 'lost kid' .. but when being away.. im more of the 'observer' in recovery..
Tied with B and C
I picked every letter twice, and I exhibit literally all of them 😭
Same! 😅
1. B
2. B
3. B
4. A
5. A
6.A
7. A
8. A
Nurturer
Im a lost child. Def grew up in broken family and I always used to be seating somewhere else during family reunions... Wich in retrospect was a big mistake since there are family gatherings no more...
Is the least favorite kid an option?
Watch this video to find out!
I'm a little bit of all of these, but C checks out for me
B describes me the most im 10 and a problem child
I tied with B and D
Omg i got d , this fits me so well thank you ♡
I tied between B and D but I can see how there fit. B the lost child definitely suits my biological family and D the cheerleader suits my chosen family which usually resides as my friends. Thank you phy2go I love all your videos and the amazing art ever since finding this channel I have been able to learn better ways to take care of myself and others! 🌱❤
0:14 Test
2:41 Answers:
2:42 Nurturer
3:10 Lost child
3:44 Truthteller
4:17 Cheerleader
Not enough options for me, there needs to be D And E options for a wide range of people
Strange yet fitting to be a tie of A and B
Tied with A and C, certainly interesting
I tied with A and C
LOST CHILD FITS ME SO WELL HELP -
"Thruth teller" is such a sugar coated way to say snitch lol
i got like all bs 😭 my parents are divorced (i was 4) so i don’t remember what they were like but my moms bfs were/are really rude and my dads ex girlfriend was nice at first then she showed her true self and they broke up, but my parents are really nice to me and i have a great relationship with them
I answered mostly C, but have definitely worn each of the other three as masks when I needed them.
I literally only picked C-
I got B lol! was not expecting that but when thinking about it, it did fit with me..
B and D fit so well-
Mostly B, and that definitely fits me. I like quizzes like this, so I'd like to see more.
I'm equally the nurturer and the cheerleader
D, definetly D, though I felt like a lot of the negative sides to many of the characters except for B resonated… if anyone can relate to this, you’re not alone❤️🥰💪🤗
Lost child first, cheerleader close behind - describes me very well 😅
I got Cheerleader but the description for Nuturer matches my personlatity and how I relate to my family much better.
I'm a mix of all😅 2 of each letter
A and C, sounds about right
Lost child and truth teller. I fit both so well it's scary
D,D,D,D,C,C,B,D but I am sometimes A
A was my most picked and D was my second
They fit so well
D. Very accurate and the downside I'm still working on. Critical opinions tend to still get the best of me. But I'm better than I used to be 💚
Haiyaaah I got a pair of each letter. They each resonate with me to a degree. I’m also an ENTP so go figure lol
lost child, i think that is pretty accurate
I 💯 agreed on everything that I saw from video and question to answer. It's mind crazy how it is helpful to watch videos and go through life and see we are not going through 😮 and not going crazy 😧😢
well… mentally i’m a truth teller but emotionally i’m between nurtuner and cheerleader
Cheerleader with Lost Child close behind... which makes me think that one may be a mask for the other.
I am a D and I think that is most accurate but I don't think all D
I think I'm a lost child here, I've always felt lonely and found it hard to connect with people even though I had a large family (3 siblings). Do you have videos on growing up in a large family?
Lol. Indeed, I’m the youngest of nine children.
B&C suits me completely
C FITS ME SO WELL BRO
I am mostly B, and slightly C
I would answer blank or all letters to some of the questions. I don't think I'm simple enough to be classified into one category.