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I'm not a parent but imma rant real quick - It's either "it's that damn phone" or the "I'm the one who puts a roof over your head" - ah yes, take away the one thing that actually cheers me up and thank you for choosing to have me and provide me, a minor, with the bare minimum.
ALSO ITS THEIR GOVERNING ACTUAL GOVERNMENT RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE CARE OF US. the phone one pisses me off cause I use it to ignore all the toxicity and than I just end up being called addicted to it. Which I may be but like then the parent also sits around the house on a device all day so I don’t wanna hear that it’s my damn phone anymore.
Yo brah.. what makes our parents thinks that we made up depression? I mean its a freaking FEELINGS. We can control it outside but not on the inside! I mean.. parents need to stop saying crap and try asking us whats is our problem that we are dealing with..😟
I Hate it when you have Depression or something is bothering you and your parents just say. "You are a child just be happy" or "When I was your age I had bigger stuff to worry about"
And my parents says that I can not understand how much they had hardworked for my living but they are not understanding that I am not a chind anymore I am 16 and I am able to understand them and I really know that I am not worth to be their daughter
It’s always the “you have NEVER experienced real life before so how could you be so stressed?” It’s like parents only parent when you’re happy but when you’re sad they gaslight you…
kid: literally depressed parents: yeah why are you so depressed it's as if you've got problems that are worse than anybody else's. it's as if you're paying the bills.
@@enchantedpoop3320 Most parents like mine think that kids that have depression are just faking it for attention or maybe they think it's from being on electronics for too much. Most parents just simply don't care and think we're over reacting.
I'm a 27 year old male. And I suffer from literally everything on this list. Life hasn't been kind to me. Don't be scared to call the cops on your abusive parents even if they threaten you after. Be brave my youngins God bless you all.
its funny how even if some parents did watch this, they wouldn't realize that their kids are depressed because they simply don't know their kids well, even if they think they do Edit: I almost forgot I commented this but I came back to all these replies. I'm glad to know people were able to relate to this and hope it gets better for all of you in the future, hang in there everyone
@@koolkidhav that's true but sometimes parents are just controlling and toxic so their kids stop talking to them about themselves. Meaning that the parents only think of the kid as the kid they knew a year ago, you know :)
@@moniishighonkpop8445 Damn this is actually right, my mom said she knows me more than I know myself but she doesn't even know anything I like, dislike, what my hobbies are or anything, it's like she didn't even pay attention the past few years to how I changed
what is so annoying about any person or child being depressed is that they can’t talk about it with their daily people, because they’d think they’re “overreacting” or “ur just faking it”
Parents like: my problems were way worse than yours, therefore you don’t have problems. I give you everything; either I’ll explain that you should be happy by default or I’ll imply that you owe me happiness.
“Come to me anytime you want to talk okay?” That sentence hit me hard tbh. WAS IT REALLY THAT HARD MOM..?! But instead of that, u decided to send me to the mental hospital just because you dont want to deal with me. You forced me to go to school. Whenever I tried to talk about my feelings, you always turned it into an argument. u never trusted me and went on my phone thinking im hiding something from you… or told me im just overreacting, then you questioned why im not talking anything with you anymore… I WONDER WHY. Whenever you saw me struggling, you always made it about yourself, you told me “you are hurting me so much, im so disappointed…” MOM, IM THE ONE WHO IS HURT. Dont make that about yourself… and then called me “ungrateful” for that. Why cant you just accept that im mentally ill and its not my fault…? Why can’t you just support me for at least once? Why? Was it really that hard, mom?
Same and as someone who gets bullied a lot in school the only place I can get help from is the internet and my mom has been taking away my devices saying things like "this is the reason you're always so moody!" Or "You never talk to us you just spend time on your stupid devices!"
Happened, loved science and languages when I was younger, now everyone expects me to be the next Da Vincii, the sad part? It's all my fault, it was all...
Oh yes definitely. Used to have very high grades, buuuut when I began to develop mental health issues I physically am unable to do my homework without it being 1 day before the deadline, which leads me to staying up late
Well I have always wished for them to be more understanding and tried to be who they want but we are more of a disappointment to them if we don't get good grades or even looks at the phone for 2 seconds!
Literally my parents. They instead call me crazy rather than comforting me. They called me crazy cause when im crying, i never answer their question when they're asking me why im crying. This is why i ended up venting to my online friend rather than my relatives.
@@MasterIsabelle Yes, even though I got an horrible father whose I don't talk with for like 2 years I got an amazing mom that understands me and helps me
i told my parents that i felt depressed and they literally told me "you're faking it for attention" "get over yourself" "you're happy all the time. just stop acting sad" like, no. im not acting sad, i've been acting happy around you for the things like these that you're saying to me.
You know what my mom says: She says: stop arguing !!! Or else i will slap you My dad: " Why you dont stop arguing"!!! You know for you your family will not have any respect Me: but-but i .. My mom: shut up!! My dad to my mom : why don't you slap her!!! So this is my daily life 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
"Please talk to them, let them know you're *willing* to listen *without judgement* " I almost cried there, my parents judge me for every single sentence I say, I can't remember the last time they let me explain myself whenever I was blamed for something
Sometimes it’s best to not just hope longer for the parents to change and listen to you because they won’t just change like that out of nowhere , maybe it’ll be best when you need to distance yourself from them carefully and try to get help from other people who will be on your side. It’s a hard step to take , to open up and trust someone. Sometimes it could be you ask help from the wrong people but you can’t give up on yourself. I know that it will get better for you. Maybe not necessarily your parents but I think that you can do it. You’re worth to be listened to and supported.
All here, teens being depressed or teens that had depression, it's sad how we had learn to cry in silence so no one would come at your room and tell you "Why are you crying?" and if you tell them they would take away from you everything that makes you happy. The good thing is we will all talk to our kids and ask them how they feel so they don't experience depression like we did.
yea as 11 years old kid I was using discord and talking to other people that was suffering from depression or other things like me then my parents noticed I was talking to "strangers" which I consider them as my best friends then they didn't let me use discord anymore and I felt empty nothing but empty they took the only thing that made me happy they took it away I am litterly crying in silence rn I need someone to take me away from this place or something I need someone to talk to
Pls I literally already mastered how to cry while silencing it + while having a blank face 🥲 Main reason: im too damn insecure and nervous to tell my parents *anything* related to my emotions and thoughts because of fear of being judged for them. Example: *actually tries to open up* parents: well it’s your fault *insert passive aggressive here* (even tho I myself know I didnt do a single shit for me to feel or think that way)
I am a 12 year old and when i saw this vidio pop up i couldnt help but watch it. a little while ago i did think i might have depression, but i put those thoughts out of my head. some time after i started homeschooling i felt really anxious around people and i started feeling more comfort from eating. i also found that recently i have been listening to a lot of music with names like "Anxiety" or "fake fine" and even things like "this is what sadness feels like" and "im not ok". i have also been a good artist since i learned how to use a pencil, but i have also been recently drawing ghost chibis or anime girls that are lying on ground dead. another symptom i have noticed from here is sleep. i have often, even if its past 1 am i connot fall asleep. there are two more as well. i often get grumpy when i have three pages of work that i have to do, and feel overwhelmed. i have also cried for no reason at times. i tell my parents i dont know why im crying, but really i can feel that it was built up saddness. i also tend not to cry when a great-grandparent dies. sorry i know this commentwas long and this video was meant for parents. i just needed to get this off my chest
i relate to most of these, i can't sleep like i used to, i also cry for no reason sometimes and just feel like crying and my mom thinks something happened then i tell her nothing happened and he says it happens thankfully she gets it, i get mad for everything, i hate it but I can't resist it, when I try to not get mad ill eventually break out and feel really angry. and I also have a ton of hunger these days.
Man, I have a LOT of depression. But, last year I discovered a show on RUclips called Battle For Dream Island, where 20 objects battle for an island called.. you can just guess. There's a lot of shows that follow that same format, and I am OBSESSED. I even draw my own characters, and I want to get into Ringling. (a really good art school, in case you aren't sophisticated) I have ALL THE ADOBE STUFF, but I haven't gotten around to using it yet. Oh well, I'll use it someday.
Why is this so relatable lol I literally told my dad, “I didn’t really sleep that good. I’m tired,” and I take a long time to sleep, so I’m just laying there for 2 hours and my dad says, “You play to many games.”
This is so accurate it makes me sad. I told my parents that I thought the reason I was having trouble sleeping was because I had depression, and they told me it was because I was always on my computer (which I use to connect with friends and distract myself from the real world) and cut down my screen time. It got worse after that.
@jordqnn yeah like, she saying that "your phone is the reason it takes you ages to fall asleep", but all I am is have isomnia -_- She also watches her phone until 2am and falls asleep for 10mins Parents are addicted to technoligy as we are or sometimes even worse, so why they judge us if they exactly the same ?
I hate when parents say "you can come to me whenever you have something you need help with" but then when we actually ask for help it's always "Oh yeah don't worry you'll be fine you'll get over it" It's good to know that you don't have to be a certain age to deal with these struggles. I'm glad I'm not alone.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
You’re not alone. I’m in my late thirties and my mother’s judgmental hypercritical narcissistic behaviors still f8ck me up. There’s hardly enough weed in the world to fix that. Those who have loving parents will never truly understand the blessing and handout they were given.
My family has the "you're too young for that" excuse. I'd mostly hear "You're too young to be so forgetful." Because I am very forgetful, so I'd make notes to prevent that. But I'd get yelled for making notes because "You're young and should be capable of remembering things without writing them down." So notes thrown away, things forgotten, cycle restarted.
it takes me being crying and screaming on the floor because i can't get enough air because i've been having a panic attack for her to even listen to me, and once i've grounded myself she just turns it into a lecture.
makes alot of sense considering youtube is a place that children can explain there emotions without being yelled and screamed at by their parents for absolutely no f*cking reason.
I'd like to thank this channel for helping me. In middle school, I had developed depression. It ruined my life and it ruined my relationship with my friends and family. I realized what it was before my parents did, and I have no idea whether or not I would've gotten the help I needed if it weren't for videos like these. It was because of these videos that I was able to identify the cause, and I don't think my parents would have ever realized that I was dealing with depression, since it had manifested itself in extreme irritability and moodiness, which my parents had perceived as typical teenage behavior. I'm in high school now and I've still been struggling with depression since then, but I was able to get help for it and I can imagine it would've been much worse had it not been for Psych2Go. I love what y'all do and I hope your videos can help many more people :)
I despise that phrase with my entire being. "Typical teenage behavior." It just makes it sound like everyone instantly becomes a brat once they reach that age but that isn't the case at all.
my mom said that everyone goes through a depression ‚stage‘ as a teenager.. she said that because she was depressed in her teens too, but i dont think its a stage, nor do i think that its normal to go through that at all.
I remember two months ago my mom was yelling at me because I told her I was tired and couldn't find something for her on internet rn ( she started saying no one ever helps her on anything). I was mostly emotionally exhausted and with a mental breakdown so in the middle of her yelling I started to cry hard. I couldn't stand her, then she was like *why r u crying? Did I hit you or what?* I was so bad I started to cry harder then two days passed and we didn't talk about it anymore. And that's how it's going.
Even if i control my emotions, if i shut the door slightly loudly im dead as hell 😀 like im not allowed to have emotions other than happiness unless i have a CONCRETE reason for it(by concrete reason i mean its not the reason that i have its the reasons that THEY think are valid) now i usually supress my emotions even infront of my friends and i try to act as happy as possible
today i got a few bruises becuz of my abusive drug addict dad he always call me ugly and idiot then i said if im an idiot then why you didnt finish school?then he throw things on me and said to get out of the house it isnt even his house its my aunts house i cant really with him
Mine isn’t as serious as some of you guys are saying but I think that the reason the I depressed is because my mom has gaslighted next for as lon as I can remember. (Yes it’s diagnosed)
TW: dont get me wrong, i love my parents a lot but when they found out i was hurting myself, my dad kept saying how i've had a good life and i dont have any reason to feel the way i do. and he's right that i've had an easier life than most people because i have a family, a house, food and stuff but that doesnt mean im okay mentally and i wish my parents understood that...
#1 reason why i'm happy i have a cat even tho i slightly feel bad for blaming the cuts on her it's better than being lectured and yelled at. my parents also don't really understand the whole being mentally unstable part for me and my parents are always crazy with being appreciative so i can see where you're coming from with this i hope you feel better and have a lovely life 😊
1. Severe moodiness 2. Low energy 3. Lack of interest in fun activities 4. Change in eating habits 5. Feelings of sadness or hopelessness 6. Behavioral problems at school 7. Declining grades 8. Social withdrawal Hope this helps, hang in there 🖤
I'm easily irritated I get more energy in the afternoon Depends on the activity but nonetheless it's rare I used to eat more than I currently do Mild feelings of hopelessness...it comes and goes due to paranoia I started I fight in 5th grade...and I curse if that counts Mainly in math...it's more so fluctuating. Idk
I wanna get tested for adhd and I wanna also go to a therapist for my mental health but I haven’t actually told my mom about how I feel about anything as long as I can remember, I don’t think that’s good.
@@slurples149 That means that someone wanted you, am I right? It's better to have a family that wants you than being an "accident" to your biological family yeah?
@@slurples149 oh sorry and don't worry about your english, because you don't have to be perfect at it, as long as you can communicate with an english speaker, it's good enough
I don’t think i’ve ever been more relaxed, I am a child who has been diagnosed with many mental disorders including depression. I experienced abusive trauma when i was a toddler, but now.. I can finally explore myself and find out why I do such things. I mean this, I absolutely love you.
Mother of a 9 year old girl here. Started watching the video and halfway through, realized I can learn more from these comments from kids going through it all than I can from the actual video. Y’all are beautiful and amazing. I promise you, it gets better. You are definitely not alone. Sending love
it gets so much worse when the child becomes a teen. one thing I'll say. NEVER. BLAME. THE. PHONE. UNLESS. IT. HAS. SOMETHING. TO. DO. WITH. THE. SITUATION.
@LindsayMarchell Have you told your child that she is beautiful and amazing? That it can be be better for her? That she is not alone and you can help her? That YOU LOVE HER?
In elementary school I was top of my class in the top classes. Middle school now I have almost failed 6th and 7th (during Covid in 7th and 8th) 8th was much better but was stressful af it's mostly the sudden burden of all the stuff that teachers used to do you now must do. I suck at figuring out what to do without a list so my 1st 2 years were hell my puppies were what got me through. It didn't help that I'm taking all AP or gifted classes in all but math and some are easy (science history) others (English) were hell as its more creativity instead of lists and I never properly learned Grammer idk how to use a fricking comma so yeah.
I used to be good in school 6th grade but when I was in 7th grade my grades slipped due to all the stress and anxiety I was going through and my parents say it’s nothing your being overdramatic and it’s just painful and now I don’t know who to open up to
That’s my case haha, I really trust strangers more then my own parents because whenever I come to them with anything serious they threaten me or say something uncomforting.
i agree, when u tell ur parents that u feel stressed the answer i always either: "no ur not ur too young" or: "its cause of ur phone/tablet/laptop" like- it doesnt matter what started it, i need to fix it anyways.
Do you know that you can go outside make friends. I know its not a best solution but its a start. Take matters to your own hands. Complaining About it online wont get you what you want.
@@abdullahiqbal1110 I've wanted to do that my whole life but ofc I'm not allowed I'm always stuck at home and my parents wonder why I'm so fucking angry.
I was only 11 years old when I started to feel like this, it’s the worst pain ever and I wish it would go away. I’m in a toxic household filled with people who don’t understand me, or think I need help when I do. I don’t wanna do something I’ll regret
ify. im also in a toxic household filled with people who don't understand me. bad thing is they aren't my parents. another bad thing is my parents won't even try to communicate with me or my younger brothers. another bad bad thing is my parents are separated and they hate seeing each other. what a time to be alive, right.
11 is young, im so sorry for you. but yeah, the pain is just so much and you dont even realise why the pain is there in the first place. but it surely goes away if you fight well. it might even take like 4 months, but it goes away
Most comments are from young ppl and it really touches my heart cause when i was a teen I didn't understand why I always felt lonely and hopeless and in my birth country (Dom.Rep.) depression isn't something ppl really talk about much as "we don't get depressed " lol i was diagnosed during my pregnancy at 24yrs. Now I'm 34 and now that I understand my symptoms I'm more patient with myself because i know it will pass. Now I'm concerned about my almost 11yrs son cuz there's been a few changes in our lives this past year and I've noticed a few changes on him that now that I've watched this video i can see some little red flags that will help me help him with his emotions. Thank you! Oh! And kids... please talk to your parents, they really want to know how you feel and what demons you're dealing with even if they don't understand at first, sometimes it's hard for some people to break that stigma that Depression doesn't happens to kids... talk to them because they will be there for you. I know i would. Good luck to y'all ❤
Wish there were actually parents in the comments, it just worries me about how less past generations are conscious of the importance of a good mental health
Yeah. Nowadays people brush it off and say get over it. Mental health is more of a joke to people than an actual thing that hurts people's lives. Especially with children. BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT PEOPLE. THEY'RE JUST INNOCENT LITTLE KIDS. THEY DONT HAVE FEELINGS! fuck you society. Fuck you. Sorry needed to vent there 😅
Yeah, but here's the great part: most of us who are watching this video are going to be parents in the future. _We_ can grow up to be better parents than _our_ parents ever were.
@@luischaboii8990 What? If anything, mental health is taken MORE seriously than before. The mentally ill were put in institutions 20x worse than anything today where they were regularly abused, neglected, and treated as non-humans where they were experimented on against their will. In the 50s people literally thought that contradictory statements from parents caused schizophrenia. Mental health services, awareness, and parental education on kids' mental health is SO MUCH better than ever before
These days, you can’t say “I’m depressed’’ without someone saying “youre faking it” or “you just want attention” edit: I posted this when i was like 11 i forgot abt this comment LMAOO 😭
@CallMeCat I feel bad for you, your online friend shouldn’t have not been friends with you. And I feel better for you telling me I am not alone. I hope you get a better friend then the one who ignores you.
I literally have all of these symptomps as a child, especially about school. The actual reason why children hate school is the system. Like I would just quit school if there wasnt a thing called "Diploma" which gives you a chance to have an actual job. Once I felt very sick and so I took a break from school and started studying on home. I started to think that homeschooled people were very lucky because it is alot better than the school. There are no annoying people trying to offend you in front of 24-29 people. And the best thing about being homeschooled is that you are training yourself. Most of the students get bad grades n' stuff just because they cant understand the teacher. School is actually something stupid to me. No one can explain a thing in a way that everyone can understand. School ahead alot of other things give children depression, which I already experienced. Example; being bullied of your age or different reasons. Now cyber-bullying might cause depression on children. Minors or teenagers actually need to be a little careful about it while talking to children because there are some very effective people out there like me. And I assure you, those days when I was like 11 or 12 I got bullied on my age alot. No one is born 17 they also forget that they were childs once or at least had their "cringe" moments. But they literally affect children's mental statement by that. After I got bullied for like 3-4 times I seriously quitted playing on laptop or on phone for a long long time. That also affected my grades according to my depression. So if a minor or a person over 13 like me is reading this comment, please ave a little empathy to the children.
“My child is fine” Me: who stays up until 3 AM because that’s the only time I feel completely comfortable. Can’t get schoolwork done without being forced to. Yeah, no I’m doing great
Oh shit i have the same problem but i can somehow finish work before 2 am but there was that one time i only had 1 hour of sleep and went to school, luckily the next day school was closed to me due to covid measures to i slept for a long time
Same nighttime is when I feel most calm and safe and chill I stay in my room all day my parents get upset I remember last week my dad made me go to this stupid parade even after I told him I didn’t feel like going cuz I didn’t feel right and had changed my mind and he said “well what do you mean you don’t wanna go? You have to go” it was hot and I was miserable and the whole thing was so boring too I made up an excuse saying I was sick but they didn’t care I have feel I have to be around everyone in the daytime and i don’t like it at night tho? I lay in my bed and listen to music watch RUclips videos read books talk to myself etc. it’s like I’m in my happy place no one can bother me don’t get me wrong I still love my parents they aren’t like extremely abusive but I don’t wanna be around them sometimes it’s mostly my dad I hate being around our relationship shattered when I turned 11 and that was years ago me and my mom have an OK relationship I told my dad I can’t socialize and I can’t be around people cuz I get uncomfortable and he completely shut me down and basically said it’s all in my head and that I actually can I just don’t think i can what the sh!t does that mean??
If most of us show this to our parents they would get mad saying that that's bad without caring, we're to young to be depressed or it's just dumb. I think most of us are actually kids who could relate to this, including me
But it makes sense for a parents perspective what do you have to be worried about? (I was just saying for an adults perspective, I am not an adult and I don't agree with this)
@@koolkidhav || First: The mentality of my parents mad at me because I'm searching for help. Second: They don't care if I'm ok. Third: They're gonna blame the cellphone when it is a distraction for the real world. Four: School. Five: FAMILY BEING ASSHOLES AND TOXIC FUCKS.
@@koolkidhav || Also: Kids with problems with their parents or parents with problems. Also LGBT kids with fear. (Like me). And other "reasons" for not get accepted. Isn't that enough for you?
My parents after they; Make fun of me Make fun of my friends Make fun of my hobbies and choices of style And take my things I love ( Ex: my paint ) Also them: why aren’t you nice to us??
I am now 61. I have dealt with depression much of my life. Looking back I see that during my early years of school it wasn't so much depression but stress. I hated school (though I always got very good grades with little effort). Most of it was pointless busy work. And, I am very introverted. I now see that the stress was from having to interact with people for an entire day. I'd leave home at 7:30 for an hour's bus ride over unpaved rural Iowa (very bumpy, with lots of stopping and starting). I am prone to motion sickness so this could be an ordeal. Classes started at 8:30 and finished at 3:30. An even longer ride home (we were toward the end of the route) in an overheated bus full of noisy kids, finally getting home at 5:00. Years later my mother would remark that she almost had to push me out the door in the morning, I hated it so much. That's a 9 1/2 hour day for a 6 year old kid. How did anyone wonder why I hated it?
It’s hard being a teenager and experiencing depression at the same time because then the adults blame it on your hormones and it’s like NO! It’s not all about that. I genuinely want to die sometimes!
Hang in there ❤️❤️❤️, don’t do it. Talk to a therapist if you can, please don’t leave us. The world needs you here whether you know it or not. We’re all here for you.
The pain and the suffering I wanted to die I almost cut my neck but stay strong Its not worth it if you kill or hurt yourself image the pain/guilt your friends and parents will feel for not begin there for you just tell your parents you need a therapist I don't want people hurting themselves cause all depressed or most don't want a person to suffer like the way we do The most damaged people are the most wisest all because we don't want people to suffer like us
Thank you all I had a pretty decent day yesterday, but I have mood swings so that could change but I’m going to try to do my best to live. I do now have a therapist and I’m going to have my first real session next week.
It’s just really hard sometimes because half the smiles all my friends see are fake. I mean my school is my happy place because all of my friends are there and They are The only thing getting me through this. But I’m going to a new school next year, and I’m scared that if I don’t have them while I’m still in this state I will just be completely shattered.💔
my dear mum has always told me "you can talk to me' and "you know you can tell me anything right?" but those were just empty words, as a child not only did i take care of myself and my siblings but also my mom. Whenever i'd try and talk to her she would just start venting about her own problems, i wasnt even allowed to have wishes, because she would find a way to destroy them and dismiss them. So most of the time i kept them to myself, and i swore that when i'll be older ill become a therapist so i can help people like me. I am curently 12 years old and just passing into 5th grade,and i swear to keep my promise that ill become better and that i'll help people like me
Wait Ik this is random, but how are you 12 in year 5? I turned 12 in yr 6 like everyone else Ik Also about the actual comment: I’m really sorry this is happening. I’m the same age and going through something similar, I don’t have to look after siblings or anything but my mum starts venting when I talk to her about it. I wish I could say it gets better but I’m not sure if it will(not trying to be a sad sack or anything, I just feel like right now I won’t be happy ever again) here are some words of encouragement You got this I believe in you You can accomplish all of your dreams You can tell your mum to f*ck off when she does that to you (Ok so maybe the last one is a bit rude but you should def tell her how you feel(I’m not going through your exact situation so idk if you can but try to) YOU GOT THIS!! YEAHHHH
I feel like the main problem with children telling their parents how they feel is that once they tell what's bothering them the parents start scolding them and treating it as a joke. Just because you've had a good physical health life doesn't mean you can't get depression.
@@finn_bee_ Same for me. I suffered from undiagnosed eisoptrophobia. When I told my parents they just brushed it off. As an eight year old I spent 2 years of my life with hallucinations and quiet anxiety attacks. Looking back it's pretty messed up.
Yeah I agree, my mums the exact same way, when I tried overdose she just laughed and kept scolding me how they would pump my stomach and that my action could've get her arrested. Can't wait till im an adult 😥👍
1: Severe moodiness 2: Low energy 3: Lack of interest in fun activities 4: Changes in eating habits 5: Feelings of sadness or hopelessness 6: Behavioral problems at school 7: Declining grades 8: Social withdrawal
I do all of this except no.6 and no.7. I believe that school's the only thing I'm good at and I don't want my parents to stress about me. Even though studying more, gives me more stress, it's better than getting compared to the neighbor's child, a classmate, or a friend. Ever since I was a child, I've always been an honor student (except 3rd grade) so my parents expect me to either get better grades or maintain my good grades. Whenever I get an 87, 88, or 89, in a subject (that breaks the 90+ grade streak) they make me feel that they're not contented, and say that I should study harder even though I always give it my all.
I showed all of these signs and much worse ones as well, at the age of 17 (3 years ago). My mom, her friends, and my ex boyfriend. All insisted that I was "fine" and would try to lecture me on how I needed to stop being dumb, gross and lazy. My grades in school were all A's - C's but then my grades suddenly dropped, when I started becoming badly depressed. My ex was like "I can't be with a girl who's not very smart and lied to me about it all this time, so fix your grades or I'm breaking up with you." That same week he also cheated on me with his ex and treated me like absolute trash. Jokes on him though, I got tired of his BS and dumped him almost 2 years ago.
I show all these signs but in 6th point instead of school its home. I don't know if I'm depressed or it's a phase/hormonal changes as I'm very cheerful when I'm home alone. When I'm alone I do home alone concerts, watch anime, write songs (mostly sad), love too look at sky & star gazing. But i kinda lost all these connections with friends i feel like an outsider even after years of friendship i know they welcome me, still. I eat healthy food but still i feel i have no energy. I feel immediate mood swings, sometimes very severe like i wanna fall off this building..idk. i know i should be alive ..i got good grades too. I don't have anyone even if people are around..idk. I'm only 17 i don't know anything. Mine is not a toxic household but still i feel toxic as my parents keep quarreling. I wrote a song on that too.
Well having my phone is a coping mechanism for me when I'm sad,I don't want to say I have depression but I do have the symptoms and signs but I still don't want to say I have depression
@@joliejarina1696 same. i think i am just overreacting or that I tell myself and thats why i have the symptoms. but idk. even if i had depression, my parents would just say that i dont have them and that i just tell myself that i have them.
tw: suicide when i was at my possible lowest state and had three suicide attempts in two months all my parents said was “you have depression because you’re rude and ungrateful”. when i asked my mom can i go to see psychiatrist she started yelling at me that i’m not crazy and children’s on medications aren’t functioning at all. it’s still hurts me so much that they didn’t do nothing, but they saw how miserable i was feeling, and the worst part for me, is that i’m no longer feeling THAT bad, and they probably think it was just a phase..
@@x-iei-x4725 thank you…. it’s been a year and i still don’t exactly know what to do, but i have much more support now, so i’m feeling a bit better :) tho it still hurts pretty badly…
@@tutek8100 just try to find salvation in something else, music, going outside, people (though it's not that safe as other choices, but if you have luck you can find some nice people to spend time, clean your mind and be at ease) or even games, online games, there are a lot of 'em in which I met really nice folks.
To be completely honest, my mental health would probably decline more if my phone was taken, since my phone is how I talk to most of my friends, and watching RUclips brings me laughter when nothing else will. I don’t have any social media, so my parents can’t use that as an excuse lol. Not having my phone would make me worry even more than I already do and I’d just want to stay in bed all day drowning in my own self pity :/ This is why parents shouldn’t blame things in the phone and actually try to figure out the root cause (cuz it could be the phone sometimes, but not in every case). Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk XD
@@redcherryblossoms wow that’s actually so true. i wish I weren’t so dependent on my phone but also this is where I get most of my comfort and escape from life. I know that when I’m really hurt I can go to RUclips and get at least a little boost and feel just a bit better, which makes a surprising amount of difference. anyway yeah I agree :)
@@redcherryblossoms from my perspective, using our phones for happiness is a byproduct of not being able to find happiness in our daily activities. For us, they bring color or an escape from our black and white realities, when none of our friends and/or parents can't hear our cries. But because of WYSIATI (look it up too lazy to explain), our parents think our phones is the root cause when they don't see where it rly came from.
that is rude. all parents should love and listen to their children. u shouldnt have to be greatful tht they let u live there. its the bare minimum that is expected of every parent to house and feed u. i hope u are doing better.
@@Ashes652 mhm, they wanted children for a reason so they need to listen to us. We listen to them all the time so we want something back, we want them to listen and not say we are lieing or making up excuses, and not always say they raised us. You had kids so fucking listen and acknowloge our struggles. (Sorry about my grammar i turned off auto correct😅)
I think my 9 yr daughter Daisy is depressed because she hasn’t been acting how she usually acts! She even grabs her head during breakfast and dinner everyday, she locks herself in her room, she even starts crying and when I ask her “are you okay?”, she says “yes I’m fine, dad” and when I see her going to her room, i saw her face instantly change to a sad expression in the mirror on her door. And i can easily tell she’s depressed because I keep hearing her yell “leave me alone please!” But luckily me, my little sister Petra and my wife Claudia can help her and she knows she can trust us! I just hope we can help Daisy….
The most hurting thing is when parents doesnt even notice their child fake smile..... And everytime you talk about your problem and when you tell them.. They always said that you are being dramatic.. Edit: Thx for the likes! I have never get this much likes! ☺️❤️❤️
Yep Whenever I say steadily say something to mom about something like this, she either slaps me and then says stop being dramatic Or People with problems do that
I feel that before and for me it was very hurtful SOOooOOo how i would cover up the tears (which almost work kinda) i keep on laughing or smiling, k that's all.
Timestamps: 1:31 - Severe moodiness 2:27 - Low energy 3:10 - Lack of interest in fun activities 3:36 - Change in eating habits 4:20 - Feelings of sadness or hopelessness 4:39 - Behavioral problems at school 5:14 - Declining grades 5:34 - Social withdrawal I know that I am late but Hang in there and stay strong! ❤️
All of this happened to me at middle school. Now I've dropped out, and never talk to my parents about anything emotional. I've reached the point where all I need is ten seconds of standing still to compose myself. A family member could literally be going through the worst time of their life, and I'll be in the kitchen eating a sandwich of garlic and butter. This how I turned out to be.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help...
Same for me, except it's my father. He has narcissistic personality disorder, and so more often than not he believes that anything he doesn't understand/know already is stupid or incorrect and that everyone around him knows less about any given subject than he does. I've wanted to open up for so long but it never goes well. I once tried to tell my dad about how I felt like my older sister was shoving me around and treating me like trash and he said it was all in my head and that all younger siblings feel inferior to their older siblings because his little sister oBviOusLy felt inferior to him while growing up.
Fr! My mom always used to get mad at me when I was younger and brought it up and finally I fully urged up the courage to say I was depressed and had suicidal thoughts. She then yelled at me saying "That's stupid to think like that, you aren't depressed" Parent's don't understand that lashing out at their kids only makes depression worse and shows that they don't care or don't care to understand. So after that I suffered from it for 3 more years until I finally helped myself 😩
@@cheese9718 Pff yeah, i my family, my mother rule because she has to be right always and nobody can resist or she will bring her mother(my grand ma) to be like 2 vs me ;; soooo things like that is litterely IMPOSSIBLE to say .../ I've already tryed by some, hiding way... you know like don't mean it directly but more indirectly... like i am not gonna say i am" depressed or i want to die", i am gonna say that "I am not really ok and i don't really like my actual life" but yeah... as my mom say "it's stupid, look at your mark, you are doomned and go back to work" so yeah after she will begin stealing my phone etc... damn people used to steal me so much that it's just making horribly anxious/ anyway... i am the opposit of who i was when i was a child... : I was successfull, i was "smart", like everybody was calling me "smart guy" and i was getting always the perfect mark, being litteraly a 2nd teacher and i was scared of nothing, people steal me things, made fun of me, hurt me physicly etc... but i was to strong, i can't even imagine how i could like fight almost alone with all these bullies older than me, i litteraly rised an army of little children with my charisma to fight these lol And now i am unseccessful, i am doing nothing right, i am soo clumsy, i can't concentrate... i can't be happy, i am always hurt, i keep killing my ownself... being scared of everything, being scared of way i could die, because i am always imagine how i could kill myself right now if i want, and it's scare me... i am feeling watched all the time, tears come to quick, i hate myself, and admire others... i hate life and i have no interest in it, or at least no interest in people my age... i am making lot's and lot's of anxity crise, i am shaking all the time because i am anxious all the time... i am weird, people think i am too much weird... i can't talk properly, i am just stupidest thing on earth, i litteraly gave up on everything... i never have love and support, only fake one maybe... nahh even not fake one There is one thing i still like, and don't want to give up, it's my dream of making the world a better place, i love make philosophy, imagine new things to improve the world buttttttt, i even can't do that because, my family of "high grade russian ingenieer" want me to study math and physics etc, when i wany sociology, economics etc.../ they will never accept my last dream/ and as they are not only "high grade ingeneer" they are also as i said russian, what is the problem with that ? fall of USSR, economic crises etc... my family lost all money because of that and migrate to france where Leningrad's university are not recognized so they have job with minimal salary so we are poor, yeahhh i "love" life Also my cat died (litteraly the only person who truly love and supported me my entire life, born with him, nut he died in front of my eyes...his last look was on me... he close his eyes on me... forever...) And i never had a human supporting me or at least a girl who live in India while i live in France... yep
Can relate. My mom was talking to me a few day ago, which I was really surprised about. She also mentioned how she knew me soo well and how she knew what I like and everything. I just let out a dry laugh and said that you know nothing because you never talk to me and then I left the room. She then later said that I had a attitude and from then on. I have just stopped trying in general
As a 12 year old I can relate to majority of the things you listed but I never thought I would have depression. My best guess is that it sprong from my mother's passing and my dad not really understanding me the way I wish he did but I behave in school and don't have much trouble with my grades aside from math but I really think it's the fact that three family members I was close to being my mom grandfather and great grandfather passed away and my dad really isn't helping
@ČřøwŰñŤøłđ ofc, actually told my friend yd morning at 12:30- 3:30 abt my depression. Told her i would most lkly wake up and not remember thinking it was a dream. She didn't believe me and sr enough i did. She finally got around 2 telling me nearly a day ltr. Starting 2 recall what happened nkw tho. Nvr seen her cry, however as i am remembering now, she cried. It hurts and even tho i no longer have 2 lie 2 her, she just won't wvr rly understand. She can't help either. So i hope u find someone u can tell. I've been getting comfort from music and random people on yt till now. Took me almost a yr 2 tell her. So if u evr want 2 comment i will do my best 2 answer.
i struggle with a lot of these but my parents don’t believe it’s depression, however they choose to blame it on me “being lazy” or “being on that phone.” it’s like my cry for help because i’m afraid of talking to my parents about it.
Hugs you tight… i’m really sorry you have to go through all that… i hope things get better for you ;; you deserve to feel better…. Sending many many hugs your way ;; (Edit was just adding r to your)
So sorry for you, you should talk about it to your parents don't be scared after all they are your parents. Sending you virtual hugs. And just do it, and talk to them. Have a good day.
Virtual hugs. Try bringing psychology in your daily conversations with your parents and how useful they can be for our daily lives. This way it'll be easier for them to understand complicated and sensitive things like depression. After that try initiating to have a general analysis for you and your family.
@@asomeoneperson4608 Yeah, but it won't completely fix it. Sorta a coping mechanism I'd consider it. But parents generally treat it like a fix-all, when it isn't. Still, it can be helpful for a lot of people so it is a good thing to recommend if possible
My mother doesn't even need signs. One of my teachers literally told her that in school I am always lonely and sad, have no energy or motivation to do anything and that it looks like I'm always on the edge of crying. But she still doesn't care. I don't even want her to help me anymore, just to allow me to go to a psychologist or something. But no, 'that would ruin her reputation'. Edit ig: I am really sorry for everyone who has to deal with the same or a similar problem. But you are all strong and valid, your feelings matter, eventually it will get better, not because your parents will change, but because you will learn how to stand up for yourself and find a way through all this shit.
Honestly, while I try to be forgiving and understanding- People like that can seriously just go to hell already, since they'll probably never change without the fear of death. If you don't care enough about your own child to help them through mental health because you think it will "ruin your reputation" then you are both heartless and stupid. Honestly, you've got a good case for something legal there- Don't really know how to phrase it, but accounting for the most basic mental needs of someone should be important. Like, I'm generally for small government, but if a kid is dealing with depression and their parent is doing nothing for them there should be a way out, and a way for the parent to be legally reprimanded for being a piece of shit. (I know this is your mother and you probably, hopefully love her, and I hope she has some good in her, but seriously, thats so unbelievably shitty I can't even imagine)
I hope you get better, I fell bad for people like this but your mom is a peice of shit. one good copping mechanism is boxing but anyway I really hope that you get better.
I found my BFF/crush online and he is my everything. My mom grounds me, which means that she's taking him away from me. She doesn't give a damn about me even though she says she does.
I used to communicate with an amazing group of people who i had fun around and i could always vent to on discord. My mom didn’t understand how important they were to me, and took the app away for talking to strangers. Mom, I met people that i could trust. Why did you take them away? We’re currently trying to find a new way to communicate and I’m really hoping the next one will work. If you get an online friend, please make sure that they never get taken away because they are amazing ❤️
Pov: ur parents say that u can talk to them but u know u can't without it turning into a lecture so u just repress emotions and not talk to anyone ✨🕺✨😀
Exept random people on the internet of course because , parents don't give shit about your emotion they will gladly watch you burn to the ground due to depression/anxiety because their answer to why is: video games
This honestly made me cry. I am 11 years old and I’m honestly going through most of these. EDIT. Still makes me cry a bit. Still 11 years old. And recently been having signs of BPD
That’s actually the reason I’m watching this . If I mess up I can recognize my mistakes and try to fix them. I want my kids to have a better childhood that I did .
Yep, I don’t think I would even have a child but if I had to speak to one and they needed help I always want to be there to help them so they aren’t alone
Me *gets diagnosed with severe depression* "Can I go to therapy?" My parents: "No it's a lot of money" thanks, mom, and dad now I cope with poorly edited facebook memes. (this is an over-exaggerated version but this is kinda what happened)
*To any parents watching this:* I’m a teenager. I’m depressed. My parents don’t know because it’s hard for me to articulate how I feel. I don’t want to cause problems. I don’t feel as though I can talk to them about the hate that I have for myself. I think that this is due to the fact that we haven’t built up much trust. They don’t let me do many things like go to parties or sleep over with friends. They helicopter me and control my life. I think that it is why I have trouble opening up. Please, make it a goal for yourself to build an honest, open relationship with your kid. It could save their life.
i trust strangers on the internet more than I trust my parents sometimes, not an actual "trust", but a trust where i can vent to someone without being scared of the consequences. i guess it's because i could run away from any fear or any bad reactions online, but i can't in person, idk
One of the best things my mother ever told me she told me because I was in my teens and very depressed. Depression in teens is not new. It is at least thousands of years old. My mother told me, "If anyone tells you these (teen years) years are the best years of your life, don't believe it!" That kept me aluve, literally, through those years. Sometimes, one needs to know "this, too, shall pass." I have chronic clinical depression. I did not take meds for it until I was in my early forties and unable to function. It was not because my parents didn't think meds could help me when I was young. The medicines were not there! My point is, as children and teens, we need help, but we also need to be assured that depression as a teen or even child, is not unheard of and that this will pass. And that if we need help the parents do a thorough job of making sure they are bringing the child to a psychologist who is not a "one saw fits all" with a preset idea of treatment modalities. And, that the person is well-respected in the mental health community and is not a psychologist because of his or her unresolved issues. But to also make sure their own parenting is one of firm love. There are times when the " professional" makes matters worse, not better.
1. Severe moodiness 1:32 2. Low energy 2:28 3. Lack of interest in fun activities 3:11 4. Changes in eating habits 3:36 5. Feelings of sadness or hopelessness 4:21 6. Behavioral problems at school 4:39 7. Declining grades 5:15 8. Social withdrawal 5:35
"why are you always mad?" "you're always iritated" "you look like you don't even have a will to live" "stop being lazy" "stop looking so down" i wonder why . . .
The weirdest thing I hear is that "kids can't be depressed/have anxiety/have any other mental health problem." Trauma doesn't come with an age limit. It's perfectly normal for kids to have problems, and don't try to invalidate their emotions by saying they're "to young."
Its like saying “you cant be tired or exhausted! I work 8 hours a day and im not as exhausted and you’re over exaggerating it to be!” even though children can be sleepy from staying up too late or be exhausted from doing something energy consuming. My mom did this to me 4 hours before im typing this because i was sleepy from staying up too late, also whenever i get tired from doing exhausting things like hoping around to make my baby sister happy, i get scolded because im tired and i want to take a break. Its astonishing how dense most parents can be nowadays.
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@@avashattuckmusic Love your pfp 😂🤟
I'd send this to my parents but I have the constant fear they'll send me away
Thank you
I feel better after watching your videos
Thank you
Please make video on mixed anxiety depressive disorder (madd). Your videos are amazing. Have a nice day. Thank you Psych2Go and team
The one dislike is the parent that says that kids are to young to have depression
I would say those are my parents but I doubt that they would even bother to click on this video
Yeah. Anybody can have depression.
They are toxic or narcissistic, so the dislike!
Saitama: *You're too old to live!*
My thoughts exactly.
I'm not a parent but imma rant real quick - It's either "it's that damn phone" or the "I'm the one who puts a roof over your head" - ah yes, take away the one thing that actually cheers me up and thank you for choosing to have me and provide me, a minor, with the bare minimum.
I really don’t get it when the say “i put a roof over your head” like isn’t that what you’re supposed to do?? Is a law u have to do that
*like wait until I make a roof under my head by myself and you come crawling back and want help-*
ALSO ITS THEIR GOVERNING ACTUAL GOVERNMENT RESPONSIBILITY TO TAKE CARE OF US. the phone one pisses me off cause I use it to ignore all the toxicity and than I just end up being called addicted to it. Which I may be but like then the parent also sits around the house on a device all day so I don’t wanna hear that it’s my damn phone anymore.
Say like they're giving it to us and we shouldn't have it anyway
@@oreo7557 IKR?! Like why have a child if u aren’t prepared to raise them
Goes to parents: yeah I feel depressed
Parents: "your just trying to be like your friends because it's a trend"
Ikrrr. I hate thissss.
Ikr, it's so f*cking sick how parents react to kids being depressed. It just makes it a whole lot worse
Its sad, but yeah
Pls you just called my parents out -
Yo brah.. what makes our parents thinks that we made up depression? I mean its a freaking FEELINGS. We can control it outside but not on the inside! I mean.. parents need to stop saying crap and try asking us whats is our problem that we are dealing with..😟
I Hate it when you have Depression or something is bothering you and your parents just say. "You are a child just be happy" or "When I was your age I had bigger stuff to worry about"
Dads be like saying to their 24 year old kid:hah when I was your age I was 27
And my parents says that I can not understand how much they had hardworked for my living but they are not understanding that I am not a chind anymore I am 16 and I am able to understand them and I really know that I am not worth to be their daughter
It’s always the “you have NEVER experienced real life before so how could you be so stressed?” It’s like parents only parent when you’re happy but when you’re sad they gaslight you…
@@retroreview6178😢
kid: literally depressed
parents: yeah why are you so depressed it's as if you've got problems that are worse than anybody else's. it's as if you're paying the bills.
Me, here, laughing my ass off because paying for my own electrical and water bills sounds better than living with them.
@@thebutterscotchkid2481 yeah fr fr
i’d rather be broke, in dept, eating rats, to pay bills, than living with them
@@ohshanana2397 :((
that's EXACTLY what my parents say, it's always "stop overreacting your problems are nothing compared to ours"
Me, who's a child watching a video for parents: *my goals are beyond your understanding*
You'll be a good parent
Yes
@@ashleythehooman thanks man
@@Michael-tm6vs welcome
Never have I seen a pfp that went with a comment so well
title : "for parents"
the entire audience :
90% teens/kids
9% adults who arent parents
1% parents who all disliked
EDIT : wow 2.5k likes
yes
Why would parents dislike the video
@@enchantedpoop3320 Most parents like mine think that kids that have depression are just faking it for attention or maybe they think it's from being on electronics for too much. Most parents just simply don't care and think we're over reacting.
@@Alex-cw7zs Well but they're kinda right
@@midloran SAY WHATT!?
I'm a 27 year old male. And I suffer from literally everything on this list. Life hasn't been kind to me. Don't be scared to call the cops on your abusive parents even if they threaten you after. Be brave my youngins God bless you all.
God bless u too, I hope everything goes well for you.
Bless you too
How about the declining grades
@@Fishsticks5763 aah, dont talk about school now, its over anyway. also doesn't he have a job already? i hope hes doing well with that
@@Fishsticks5763wtf?
its funny how even if some parents did watch this, they wouldn't realize that their kids are depressed because they simply don't know their kids well, even if they think they do
Edit: I almost forgot I commented this but I came back to all these replies. I'm glad to know people were able to relate to this and hope it gets better for all of you in the future, hang in there everyone
Tbh I think part of this is because kids don't really speak to thier parents a lot either its because they are scared or something else
@@koolkidhav that's true but sometimes parents are just controlling and toxic so their kids stop talking to them about themselves. Meaning that the parents only think of the kid as the kid they knew a year ago, you know :)
@@moniishighonkpop8445 oh ok
@@moniishighonkpop8445 Damn this is actually right, my mom said she knows me more than I know myself but she doesn't even know anything I like, dislike, what my hobbies are or anything, it's like she didn't even pay attention the past few years to how I changed
@@StatussQuo I'm glad you were able to relate to what I said :)
what is so annoying about any person or child being depressed is that they can’t talk about it with their daily people, because they’d think they’re “overreacting” or “ur just faking it”
Agreed also I love your pfp
I agree and I love your pfp.
It sucks. In my scenario I was just told I was sorry for myself. I never spoke about it again. (Edit: Your pfp rules!)
@Eadie Stewart ty!
@@misscornicat ty!
Parents like: my problems were way worse than yours, therefore you don’t have problems. I give you everything; either I’ll explain that you should be happy by default or I’ll imply that you owe me happiness.
That's exactly my parents
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PREACH THEE LORD VICENS
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I still remember my teacher going off on us on how we barely have any stress, like- miss chill we were third graders talking about a fidget spinner
“Come to me anytime you want to talk okay?”
That sentence hit me hard tbh. WAS IT REALLY THAT HARD MOM..?!
But instead of that, u decided to send me to the mental hospital just because you dont want to deal with me. You forced me to go to school. Whenever I tried to talk about my feelings, you always turned it into an argument. u never trusted me and went on my phone thinking im hiding something from you… or told me im just overreacting, then you questioned why im not talking anything with you anymore… I WONDER WHY. Whenever you saw me struggling, you always made it about yourself, you told me “you are hurting me so much, im so disappointed…” MOM, IM THE ONE WHO IS HURT. Dont make that about yourself… and then called me “ungrateful” for that. Why cant you just accept that im mentally ill and its not my fault…? Why can’t you just support me for at least once? Why?
Was it really that hard, mom?
Same and as someone who gets bullied a lot in school the only place I can get help from is the internet and my mom has been taking away my devices saying things like "this is the reason you're always so moody!" Or "You never talk to us you just spend time on your stupid devices!"
I saw this comment as that part was on screen
It's been a year.....how it's going bro?
Hope y'all are on a better place. If not, it will one day so make this day: Day One
So are you okay after a year?
being smart then depression hits is so stupid because suddenly expectations are super high
love the pfp bae
Same
Can't relate
Happened, loved science and languages when I was younger, now everyone expects me to be the next Da Vincii, the sad part? It's all my fault, it was all...
Oh yes definitely. Used to have very high grades, buuuut when I began to develop mental health issues I physically am unable to do my homework without it being 1 day before the deadline, which leads me to staying up late
The fact that random children in the internet cares more about your concern than your own parents is really disappointing....
Well I have always wished for them to be more understanding and tried to be who they want but we are more of a disappointment to them if we don't get good grades or even looks at the phone for 2 seconds!
Goppie it’s cuz we understand eachother, and our parents don’t
yeah, my three friends and the slender in the group who isnt toxic
-but still likes the look
damn. Just damn.
I know how you feel bud...
I feel like 95% of parents always say “you can talk to us” but then get mad when we tell them stuff. Parents are trustless.
This
not 99.9%, just the majority of the people in the comments of this video, my mom listen to me and help me in her own way
Literally my parents. They instead call me crazy rather than comforting me. They called me crazy cause when im crying, i never answer their question when they're asking me why im crying.
This is why i ended up venting to my online friend rather than my relatives.
@@coelhaacapivara1532 man ur lucky
@@MasterIsabelle Yes, even though I got an horrible father whose I don't talk with for like 2 years I got an amazing mom that understands me and helps me
Fun fact : 99% viewers are children and not parents🙃
No reply? Imma drop one here
That's so damn true-
💔
yep..that's true
You are wright
Well, that's not necessarily true. I watched it for my kid.
i told my parents that i felt depressed and they literally told me "you're faking it for attention" "get over yourself" "you're happy all the time. just stop acting sad"
like, no. im not acting sad, i've been acting happy around you for the things like these that you're saying to me.
May god be with you my friend ✝️
It's okay baby, just know it's not your fault and you're not faking it 💜
You know what my mom says:
She says: stop arguing !!! Or else i will slap you
My dad: " Why you dont stop arguing"!!! You know for you your family will not have any respect
Me: but-but i ..
My mom: shut up!!
My dad to my mom : why don't you slap her!!!
So this is my daily life
😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
@@dipanjalghosh7897 i’m sorry you go through this. I understand how you feel. you’re not alone in this 🖤
@@martham6 thank you
“Depression can affect anyone, regardless of age”
*SPEAKING THE DAMN TRUTH. THANK YOU.*
an 1 year child depressed, mother scolded him till death
edit: jk
Bruh I'm twelve and when I was eleven I started to have symptoms of depression!
@@Randomladwhosimps same :/
@@Randomladwhosimps Im 11 and I think I might have depression cause I have alot of symptoms of it
@@Randomladwhosimps i think i might be getting it
us teens are just here wishing our parents would watch this.
Yep
yeah
YesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssSsssssssSssssssssssssssssss! LOL
Yup..
Sneak it into their watch later, maybe they’ll find it
Let’s be for real right now - there are no parents here, just kids and teenagers.
"My child is fine."
Your child is going through photosynthesis
😂😂🙂 sad but true 😭
This made my day 😩🖐🏻
Yum yum sunlight.
Your child is eating themselves..?
… ok
"Please talk to them, let them know you're *willing* to listen *without judgement* " I almost cried there, my parents judge me for every single sentence I say, I can't remember the last time they let me explain myself whenever I was blamed for something
Sometimes it’s best to not just hope longer for the parents to change and listen to you because they won’t just change like that out of nowhere , maybe it’ll be best when you need to distance yourself from them carefully and try to get help from other people who will be on your side. It’s a hard step to take , to open up and trust someone. Sometimes it could be you ask help from the wrong people but you can’t give up on yourself. I know that it will get better for you. Maybe not necessarily your parents but I think that you can do it. You’re worth to be listened to and supported.
Same
Yeah because explaining yourself is "talking back"
Damn same. My parents are the source of my abuse, anxiety, and depression.
yes 🥺😭
All here, teens being depressed or teens that had depression, it's sad how we had learn to cry in silence so no one would come at your room and tell you "Why are you crying?" and if you tell them they would take away from you everything that makes you happy. The good thing is we will all talk to our kids and ask them how they feel so they don't experience depression like we did.
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yea as 11 years old kid I was using discord and talking to other people that was suffering from depression or other things like me then my parents noticed I was talking to "strangers" which I consider them as my best friends then they didn't let me use discord anymore and I felt empty nothing but empty they took the only thing that made me happy they took it away I am litterly crying in silence rn I need someone to take me away from this place or something I need someone to talk to
You're right, I think we'd make great parents. I mean if we can just not kill ourselves till we're 30 years of age LMAO.
@@YourBuddyFile are you all right boy?
Pls I literally already mastered how to cry while silencing it + while having a blank face 🥲
Main reason: im too damn insecure and nervous to tell my parents *anything* related to my emotions and thoughts because of fear of being judged for them. Example: *actually tries to open up* parents: well it’s your fault *insert passive aggressive here* (even tho I myself know I didnt do a single shit for me to feel or think that way)
I am a 12 year old and when i saw this vidio pop up i couldnt help but watch it. a little while ago i did think i might have depression, but i put those thoughts out of my head. some time after i started homeschooling i felt really anxious around people and i started feeling more comfort from eating. i also found that recently i have been listening to a lot of music with names like "Anxiety" or "fake fine" and even things like "this is what sadness feels like" and "im not ok". i have also been a good artist since i learned how to use a pencil, but i have also been recently drawing ghost chibis or anime girls that are lying on ground dead. another symptom i have noticed from here is sleep. i have often, even if its past 1 am i connot fall asleep. there are two more as well. i often get grumpy when i have three pages of work that i have to do, and feel overwhelmed. i have also cried for no reason at times. i tell my parents i dont know why im crying, but really i can feel that it was built up saddness. i also tend not to cry when a great-grandparent dies. sorry i know this commentwas long and this video was meant for parents. i just needed to get this off my chest
i relate to most of these, i can't sleep like i used to, i also cry for no reason sometimes and just feel like crying and my mom thinks something happened then i tell her nothing happened and he says it happens thankfully she gets it, i get mad for everything, i hate it but I can't resist it, when I try to not get mad ill eventually break out and feel really angry. and I also have a ton of hunger these days.
I can understand. That sounded awful
I understand I'm your age as well
Man, I have a LOT of depression. But, last year I discovered a show on RUclips called Battle For Dream Island, where 20 objects battle for an island called.. you can just guess. There's a lot of shows that follow that same format, and I am OBSESSED. I even draw my own characters, and I want to get into Ringling. (a really good art school, in case you aren't sophisticated) I have ALL THE ADOBE STUFF, but I haven't gotten around to using it yet. Oh well, I'll use it someday.
Who plays on playstation
Child: *having anxiety and depression*
Parents: "Video games."
Apparently video games are a better way too cope with stuff like that
Fun fact: studies actually show video games are more effective at reducing depression than therapy
Why is this so relatable lol I literally told my dad, “I didn’t really sleep that good. I’m tired,” and I take a long time to sleep, so I’m just laying there for 2 hours and my dad says, “You play to many games.”
This is so accurate it makes me sad. I told my parents that I thought the reason I was having trouble sleeping was because I had depression, and they told me it was because I was always on my computer (which I use to connect with friends and distract myself from the real world) and cut down my screen time. It got worse after that.
@jordqnn yeah like, she saying that "your phone is the reason it takes you ages to fall asleep", but all I am is have isomnia -_-
She also watches her phone until 2am and falls asleep for 10mins
Parents are addicted to technoligy as we are or sometimes even worse, so why they judge us if they exactly the same ?
I hate when parents say "you can come to me whenever you have something you need help with" but then when we actually ask for help it's always "Oh yeah don't worry you'll be fine you'll get over it"
It's good to know that you don't have to be a certain age to deal with these struggles. I'm glad I'm not alone.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help.
You’re not alone. I’m in my late thirties and my mother’s judgmental hypercritical narcissistic behaviors still f8ck me up. There’s hardly enough weed in the world to fix that.
Those who have loving parents will never truly understand the blessing and handout they were given.
“Those who have loving parents don’t understand how lucky they are” That makes me feel so much better and just clears up my depressive mood.
My family has the "you're too young for that" excuse.
I'd mostly hear "You're too young to be so forgetful." Because I am very forgetful, so I'd make notes to prevent that. But I'd get yelled for making notes because "You're young and should be capable of remembering things without writing them down." So notes thrown away, things forgotten, cycle restarted.
it takes me being crying and screaming on the floor because i can't get enough air because i've been having a panic attack for her to even listen to me, and once i've grounded myself she just turns it into a lecture.
I bet 99% of people here are not parents, and I bet at least 80% aren't even adults.
true
How in the world did you even know?
makes alot of sense considering youtube is a place that children can explain there emotions without being yelled and screamed at by their parents for absolutely no f*cking reason.
i mean, your probably not wrong
correct
I'd like to thank this channel for helping me. In middle school, I had developed depression. It ruined my life and it ruined my relationship with my friends and family. I realized what it was before my parents did, and I have no idea whether or not I would've gotten the help I needed if it weren't for videos like these. It was because of these videos that I was able to identify the cause, and I don't think my parents would have ever realized that I was dealing with depression, since it had manifested itself in extreme irritability and moodiness, which my parents had perceived as typical teenage behavior.
I'm in high school now and I've still been struggling with depression since then, but I was able to get help for it and I can imagine it would've been much worse had it not been for Psych2Go. I love what y'all do and I hope your videos can help many more people :)
I despise that phrase with my entire being. "Typical teenage behavior." It just makes it sound like everyone instantly becomes a brat once they reach that age but that isn't the case at all.
my mom said that everyone goes through a depression ‚stage‘ as a teenager.. she said that because she was depressed in her teens too, but i dont think its a stage, nor do i think that its normal to go through that at all.
The most annoying thing is controlling your emotions. When it blows up they're calling you disrespectful and saying that you hate them
I remember two months ago my mom was yelling at me because I told her I was tired and couldn't find something for her on internet rn ( she started saying no one ever helps her on anything). I was mostly emotionally exhausted and with a mental breakdown so in the middle of her yelling I started to cry hard. I couldn't stand her, then she was like *why r u crying? Did I hit you or what?* I was so bad I started to cry harder then two days passed and we didn't talk about it anymore. And that's how it's going.
every time that happens now i just go emotionally numb. ik i cant lash out and fel hopeless so i just.. go numb.
Even if i control my emotions, if i shut the door slightly loudly im dead as hell 😀 like im not allowed to have emotions other than happiness unless i have a CONCRETE reason for it(by concrete reason i mean its not the reason that i have its the reasons that THEY think are valid) now i usually supress my emotions even infront of my friends and i try to act as happy as possible
today i got a few bruises becuz of my abusive drug addict dad he always call me ugly and idiot then i said if im an idiot then why you didnt finish school?then he throw things on me and said to get out of the house it isnt even his house its my aunts house i cant really with him
Mine isn’t as serious as some of you guys are saying but I think that the reason the I depressed is because my mom has gaslighted next for as lon as I can remember. (Yes it’s diagnosed)
TW:
dont get me wrong, i love my parents a lot but when they found out i was hurting myself, my dad kept saying how i've had a good life and i dont have any reason to feel the way i do. and he's right that i've had an easier life than most people because i have a family, a house, food and stuff but that doesnt mean im okay mentally and i wish my parents understood that...
I wish mine did as well
Almost the same thing happened to me..
#1 reason why i'm happy i have a cat even tho i slightly feel bad for blaming the cuts on her it's better than being lectured and yelled at. my parents also don't really understand the whole being mentally unstable part for me and my parents are always crazy with being appreciative so i can see where you're coming from with this
i hope you feel better and have a lovely life 😊
im rlly rlly sorry i hope ur ok
Yeah that’s says my friend and Family
It would be really nice if the parents got this in their recommended feed.
*And not the kid.*
Yup that would be nice..
RUclips, do us a solid, will ya?
That's.
True.
Never gonna happen
Or just tell them cause nobody is gonna watch ur every mood and check every hour and ask if ur okay and u say yes
All children deserve parents but not all parents deserve a child 😢
sending a hug...
1. Severe moodiness
2. Low energy
3. Lack of interest in fun activities
4. Change in eating habits
5. Feelings of sadness or hopelessness
6. Behavioral problems at school
7. Declining grades
8. Social withdrawal
Hope this helps, hang in there 🖤
Thanks!
thank you thank you💜✨
❤
I'm easily irritated
I get more energy in the afternoon
Depends on the activity but nonetheless it's rare
I used to eat more than I currently do
Mild feelings of hopelessness...it comes and goes due to paranoia
I started I fight in 5th grade...and I curse if that counts
Mainly in math...it's more so fluctuating.
Idk
Yeeepppp I’ve got all of these but ya know my parents say therapy is too expensive so
Parents: you're too young to be depressed you're just overreacting
Also parents: why don't you tell us anything anymore?
Thats what my family tells me. And they still wonder why i dont talk to any one!
I wanna get tested for adhd and I wanna also go to a therapist for my mental health but I haven’t actually told my mom about how I feel about anything as long as I can remember, I don’t think that’s good.
@Shabby Abby that isn’t nice of your mom to be like that
RIGHT!
"your too young" OMGG IM DYINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG ARE PARENTS REALLY THIS CONFIDENT??? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH
Every child deserve parents but not every parent deserve a child
Me whos adopted😔
@@slurples149 That means that someone wanted you, am I right? It's better to have a family that wants you than being an "accident" to your biological family yeah?
@@tomboyenjoyer. Well when i said im adopted i was exagerating, but i dont live with my parents though😔 (Sorry my english is horrible)
@@slurples149 oh sorry and don't worry about your english, because you don't have to be perfect at it, as long as you can communicate with an english speaker, it's good enough
@@tomboyenjoyer. and english is my first language then spanish😭😭 im dumb asf
I don’t think i’ve ever been more relaxed, I am a child who has been diagnosed with many mental disorders including depression. I experienced abusive trauma when i was a toddler, but now.. I can finally explore myself and find out why I do such things. I mean this, I absolutely love you.
I hope you are doing ok ❤️
:)
Kids: *depressed*
Parents: It's BECAUSE of your STUPID THINGS YOU SEE ONLINE
ikr..
Mmhm...
Fr...
yep. bc apparently mcyt is making me depressed
My dad said no one gives a god damn thing about what people feel...so I feel worthless.
Mother of a 9 year old girl here. Started watching the video and halfway through, realized I can learn more from these comments from kids going through it all than I can from the actual video. Y’all are beautiful and amazing. I promise you, it gets better. You are definitely not alone. Sending love
thank you... Please try not to repeat mistakes other parents have made
it gets so much worse when the child
becomes a teen. one thing I'll say.
NEVER. BLAME. THE. PHONE. UNLESS. IT. HAS. SOMETHING. TO. DO. WITH. THE. SITUATION.
@@rosy_cookie143 yes
@LindsayMarchell
Have you told your child that she is beautiful and amazing? That it can be be better for her? That she is not alone and you can help her? That YOU LOVE HER?
your child is lucky to have you..
that “you used to be good in school” hurt me more than it should’ve
being an adhd kid surrounded by useless knowledge is already difficult enough
Same
In elementary school I was top of my class in the top classes. Middle school now I have almost failed 6th and 7th (during Covid in 7th and 8th) 8th was much better but was stressful af it's mostly the sudden burden of all the stuff that teachers used to do you now must do. I suck at figuring out what to do without a list so my 1st 2 years were hell my puppies were what got me through. It didn't help that I'm taking all AP or gifted classes in all but math and some are easy (science history) others (English) were hell as its more creativity instead of lists and I never properly learned Grammer idk how to use a fricking comma so yeah.
I used to be good in school 6th grade but when I was in 7th grade my grades slipped due to all the stress and anxiety I was going through and my parents say it’s nothing your being overdramatic and it’s just painful and now I don’t know who to open up to
yeah...
Showed this to my parents, got yelled at that I “just wanted more screen time”, 10/10 video
Haha
PARENTS: If your child is venting to complete internet strangers and not you, you did something wrong
My parents did something wrong then
That’s my case haha, I really trust strangers more then my own parents because whenever I come to them with anything serious they threaten me or say something uncomforting.
looks like they did something wrong then.
Ugh yes
@@noelle5945 same
Kid: literally depressed
Parents: yeah, thats Video Games.
i agree, when u tell ur parents that u feel stressed the answer i always either: "no ur not ur too young" or: "its cause of ur phone/tablet/laptop" like- it doesnt matter what started it, i need to fix it anyways.
Do you know that you can go outside make friends. I know its not a best solution but its a start. Take matters to your own hands. Complaining About it online wont get you what you want.
@@abdullahiqbal1110 I've wanted to do that my whole life but ofc I'm not allowed I'm always stuck at home and my parents wonder why I'm so fucking angry.
Video games district us from others things
Funny how they include pictures from characters from video games/mobile games ehe
I was only 11 years old when I started to feel like this, it’s the worst pain ever and I wish it would go away. I’m in a toxic household filled with people who don’t understand me, or think I need help when I do. I don’t wanna do something I’ll regret
i hope things get better for you.
ify. im also in a toxic household filled with people who don't understand me. bad thing is they aren't my parents. another bad thing is my parents won't even try to communicate with me or my younger brothers. another bad bad thing is my parents are separated and they hate seeing each other. what a time to be alive, right.
Mom rn: iTs JuSt NoRmAl fOr KiDs To FeEl ThIs WaY
ngl but I feel like this when I was 8 years old 👁️👄👁️🔫
11 is young, im so sorry for you. but yeah, the pain is just so much and you dont even realise why the pain is there in the first place. but it surely goes away if you fight well. it might even take like 4 months, but it goes away
Most comments are from young ppl and it really touches my heart cause when i was a teen I didn't understand why I always felt lonely and hopeless and in my birth country (Dom.Rep.) depression isn't something ppl really talk about much as "we don't get depressed " lol i was diagnosed during my pregnancy at 24yrs. Now I'm 34 and now that I understand my symptoms I'm more patient with myself because i know it will pass. Now I'm concerned about my almost 11yrs son cuz there's been a few changes in our lives this past year and I've noticed a few changes on him that now that I've watched this video i can see some little red flags that will help me help him with his emotions. Thank you!
Oh! And kids... please talk to your parents, they really want to know how you feel and what demons you're dealing with even if they don't understand at first, sometimes it's hard for some people to break that stigma that Depression doesn't happens to kids... talk to them because they will be there for you. I know i would.
Good luck to y'all ❤
Tysm❤
Wish there were actually parents in the comments, it just worries me about how less past generations are conscious of the importance of a good mental health
Yeah. Nowadays people brush it off and say get over it. Mental health is more of a joke to people than an actual thing that hurts people's lives. Especially with children. BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT PEOPLE. THEY'RE JUST INNOCENT LITTLE KIDS. THEY DONT HAVE FEELINGS! fuck you society. Fuck you. Sorry needed to vent there 😅
Yeah, but here's the great part: most of us who are watching this video are going to be parents in the future. _We_ can grow up to be better parents than _our_ parents ever were.
@@luischaboii8990 What? If anything, mental health is taken MORE seriously than before. The mentally ill were put in institutions 20x worse than anything today where they were regularly abused, neglected, and treated as non-humans where they were experimented on against their will. In the 50s people literally thought that contradictory statements from parents caused schizophrenia. Mental health services, awareness, and parental education on kids' mental health is SO MUCH better than ever before
@@missbork2468 its better, but its a joke at this point some people. I didnt say it was worse or bad.
@Luischaboii
YOU ARE AMONG US IMPOSTER U VENTED VOTE HIM OUT
my mom: finds me crying
me: tolds her what happend
also her: starts yelling at me casually.
Same... It happened to me yesterday
I am happy that i am not alone
L parents
That's literally my cousin
SAME
These days, you can’t say “I’m depressed’’ without someone saying “youre faking it” or “you just want attention”
edit: I posted this when i was like 11 i forgot abt this comment LMAOO 😭
@CallMeCat I feel bad for you, your online friend shouldn’t have not been friends with you. And I feel better for you telling me I am not alone. I hope you get a better friend then the one who ignores you.
@CallMeCat you really did help. Thank you.
You are right but I can't stop looking at your picture
@@NicoNeeks_ Oop-
@@iluvedhelms yeah but like really I can't stop looking at it when I come back here
I literally have all of these symptomps as a child, especially about school. The actual reason why children hate school is the system. Like I would just quit school if there wasnt a thing called "Diploma" which gives you a chance to have an actual job. Once I felt very sick and so I took a break from school and started studying on home. I started to think that homeschooled people were very lucky because it is alot better than the school. There are no annoying people trying to offend you in front of 24-29 people. And the best thing about being homeschooled is that you are training yourself. Most of the students get bad grades n' stuff just because they cant understand the teacher. School is actually something stupid to me. No one can explain a thing in a way that everyone can understand. School ahead alot of other things give children depression, which I already experienced. Example; being bullied of your age or different reasons. Now cyber-bullying might cause depression on children. Minors or teenagers actually need to be a little careful about it while talking to children because there are some very effective people out there like me. And I assure you, those days when I was like 11 or 12 I got bullied on my age alot. No one is born 17 they also forget that they were childs once or at least had their "cringe" moments. But they literally affect children's mental statement by that. After I got bullied for like 3-4 times I seriously quitted playing on laptop or on phone for a long long time. That also affected my grades according to my depression. So if a minor or a person over 13 like me is reading this comment, please ave a little empathy to the children.
for some people homeschool is better u forget about abusive parents?
abusive parents rarely exists my friend.@@verticlax.
@@FeZ_1875 tf it doesnt im homeschooled my parents are everyone i know whos homeschooled parents are so u can shut up
“My child is fine”
Me: who stays up until 3 AM because that’s the only time I feel completely comfortable. Can’t get schoolwork done without being forced to.
Yeah, no I’m doing great
Same
I feel like the only reason we do anything anymore is cuz we’re forced to
I’m sorry to hear that, I hope things get better for you
Oh shit i have the same problem but i can somehow finish work before 2 am but there was that one time i only had 1 hour of sleep and went to school, luckily the next day school was closed to me due to covid measures to i slept for a long time
Same nighttime is when I feel most calm and safe and chill I stay in my room all day my parents get upset I remember last week my dad made me go to this stupid parade even after I told him I didn’t feel like going cuz I didn’t feel right and had changed my mind and he said “well what do you mean you don’t wanna go? You have to go” it was hot and I was miserable and the whole thing was so boring too I made up an excuse saying I was sick but they didn’t care I have feel I have to be around everyone in the daytime and i don’t like it at night tho?
I lay in my bed and listen to music watch RUclips videos read books talk to myself etc. it’s like I’m in my happy place no one can bother me don’t get me wrong I still love my parents they aren’t like extremely abusive but I don’t wanna be around them sometimes it’s mostly my dad I hate being around our relationship shattered when I turned 11 and that was years ago me and my mom have an OK relationship I told my dad I can’t socialize and I can’t be around people cuz I get uncomfortable and he completely shut me down and basically said it’s all in my head and that I actually can I just don’t think i can what the sh!t does that mean??
If most of us show this to our parents they would get mad saying that that's bad without caring, we're to young to be depressed or it's just dumb. I think most of us are actually kids who could relate to this, including me
What you've said now is 100% true
This.
But it makes sense for a parents perspective what do you have to be worried about? (I was just saying for an adults perspective, I am not an adult and I don't agree with this)
@@koolkidhav || First: The mentality of my parents mad at me because I'm searching for help.
Second: They don't care if I'm ok.
Third: They're gonna blame the cellphone when it is a distraction for the real world.
Four: School.
Five: FAMILY BEING ASSHOLES AND TOXIC FUCKS.
@@koolkidhav || Also: Kids with problems with their parents or parents with problems. Also LGBT kids with fear. (Like me). And other "reasons" for not get accepted.
Isn't that enough for you?
Parents after taking away their pc and phone:
*Why do I fix everything I touch?*
My parents after taking away everything that brings me joy:
*Why don’t you want to talk to me*
Parents when their child left them alone or their child left the earth (you know what im saying) :
*Why did you leave me/us?*
Parents after they tell you you're just being dramatic and you don't need help bc "it's an age thing":
*Why are you on ur phone so much?*
My parents after they;
Make fun of me
Make fun of my friends
Make fun of my hobbies and choices of style
And take my things I love ( Ex: my paint )
Also them:
why aren’t you nice to us??
@@acmx72 true, corn dog.. corn dog is always right
I am now 61. I have dealt with depression much of my life. Looking back I see that during my early years of school it wasn't so much depression but stress.
I hated school (though I always got very good grades with little effort). Most of it was pointless busy work. And, I am very introverted. I now see that the stress was from having to interact with people for an entire day.
I'd leave home at 7:30 for an hour's bus ride over unpaved rural Iowa (very bumpy, with lots of stopping and starting). I am prone to motion sickness so this could be an ordeal. Classes started at 8:30 and finished at 3:30. An even longer ride home (we were toward the end of the route) in an overheated bus full of noisy kids, finally getting home at 5:00.
Years later my mother would remark that she almost had to push me out the door in the morning, I hated it so much.
That's a 9 1/2 hour day for a 6 year old kid. How did anyone wonder why I hated it?
Pov: you don't trust your parents enough to tell them how you feel
I wasnt expecting to be attacked like that u sassy baka
I have same pov
Yep
yooo he used the POV correctly, respect.
how did you know?
Me: *not smiling*
My mom: why don't you smile?
Also Me: *smiles*
Also my mom: Why are you even smiling about?
My mom does this
Same with me and it's fucking anoyying especially since I got my braces off and they just fucking expect me to smile all the time. 🙄
Why are you even in heaven
You should be in hell
- Karen mom
My dad dose this
Pls kill me this is so relatable 😭
It’s hard being a teenager and experiencing depression at the same time because then the adults blame it on your hormones and it’s like NO! It’s not all about that. I genuinely want to die sometimes!
Hang in there ❤️❤️❤️, don’t do it. Talk to a therapist if you can, please don’t leave us. The world needs you here whether you know it or not. We’re all here for you.
YESS ITS NOT "HORMONES" it can be more than that and it probably is
The pain and the suffering I wanted to die I almost cut my neck but stay strong Its not worth it if you kill or hurt yourself image the pain/guilt your friends and parents will feel for not begin there for you just tell your parents you need a therapist I don't want people hurting themselves cause all depressed or most don't want a person to suffer like the way we do The most damaged people are the most wisest all because we don't want people to suffer like us
Thank you all I had a pretty decent day yesterday, but I have mood swings so that could change but I’m going to try to do my best to live. I do now have a therapist and I’m going to have my first real session next week.
It’s just really hard sometimes because half the smiles all my friends see are fake. I mean my school is my happy place because all of my friends are there and They are The only thing getting me through this. But I’m going to a new school next year, and I’m scared that if I don’t have them while I’m still in this state I will just be completely shattered.💔
my dear mum has always told me "you can talk to me' and "you know you can tell me anything right?" but those were just empty words, as a child not only did i take care of myself and my siblings but also my mom. Whenever i'd try and talk to her she would just start venting about her own problems, i wasnt even allowed to have wishes, because she would find a way to destroy them and dismiss them. So most of the time i kept them to myself, and i swore that when i'll be older ill become a therapist so i can help people like me. I am curently 12 years old and just passing into 5th grade,and i swear to keep my promise that ill become better and that i'll help people like me
Fr this comment almost made me cry.
Wait Ik this is random, but how are you 12 in year 5? I turned 12 in yr 6 like everyone else Ik
Also about the actual comment: I’m really sorry this is happening. I’m the same age and going through something similar, I don’t have to look after siblings or anything but my mum starts venting when I talk to her about it. I wish I could say it gets better but I’m not sure if it will(not trying to be a sad sack or anything, I just feel like right now I won’t be happy ever again) here are some words of encouragement
You got this
I believe in you
You can accomplish all of your dreams
You can tell your mum to f*ck off when she does that to you
(Ok so maybe the last one is a bit rude but you should def tell her how you feel(I’m not going through your exact situation so idk if you can but try to)
YOU GOT THIS!! YEAHHHH
Oh, I just realized this was a yr ago, I hope your better now, if not….. refer to the reply above I gues🤣
I feel like the main problem with children telling their parents how they feel is that once they tell what's bothering them the parents start scolding them and treating it as a joke. Just because you've had a good physical health life doesn't mean you can't get depression.
True
Or they'll start criticizing you and telling that all your problems are dumb and useless
Yeah. I was having a mental breakdown and wanted to die and my dad laughed and said “come on we’re tired of this” …
@@finn_bee_ Same for me. I suffered from undiagnosed eisoptrophobia. When I told my parents they just brushed it off. As an eight year old I spent 2 years of my life with hallucinations and quiet anxiety attacks. Looking back it's pretty messed up.
Yeah I agree, my mums the exact same way, when I tried overdose she just laughed and kept scolding me how they would pump my stomach and that my action could've get her arrested. Can't wait till im an adult 😥👍
1: Severe moodiness
2: Low energy
3: Lack of interest in fun activities
4: Changes in eating habits
5: Feelings of sadness or hopelessness
6: Behavioral problems at school
7: Declining grades
8: Social withdrawal
parents: *iTs ThAt DaMn PhOnE*
god i thought im not depressed but i do all of this except 4th one
I do all of this except no.6 and no.7. I believe that school's the only thing I'm good at and I don't want my parents to stress about me. Even though studying more, gives me more stress, it's better than getting compared to the neighbor's child, a classmate, or a friend. Ever since I was a child, I've always been an honor student (except 3rd grade) so my parents expect me to either get better grades or maintain my good grades. Whenever I get an 87, 88, or 89, in a subject (that breaks the 90+ grade streak) they make me feel that they're not contented, and say that I should study harder even though I always give it my all.
I showed all of these signs and much worse ones as well, at the age of 17 (3 years ago). My mom, her friends, and my ex boyfriend. All insisted that I was "fine" and would try to lecture me on how I needed to stop being dumb, gross and lazy. My grades in school were all A's - C's but then my grades suddenly dropped, when I started becoming badly depressed. My ex was like "I can't be with a girl who's not very smart and lied to me about it all this time, so fix your grades or I'm breaking up with you." That same week he also cheated on me with his ex and treated me like absolute trash. Jokes on him though, I got tired of his BS and dumped him almost 2 years ago.
I show all these signs but in 6th point instead of school its home. I don't know if I'm depressed or it's a phase/hormonal changes as I'm very cheerful when I'm home alone. When I'm alone I do home alone concerts, watch anime, write songs (mostly sad), love too look at sky & star gazing. But i kinda lost all these connections with friends i feel like an outsider even after years of friendship i know they welcome me, still. I eat healthy food but still i feel i have no energy. I feel immediate mood swings, sometimes very severe like i wanna fall off this building..idk. i know i should be alive ..i got good grades too. I don't have anyone even if people are around..idk. I'm only 17 i don't know anything. Mine is not a toxic household but still i feel toxic as my parents keep quarreling. I wrote a song on that too.
"YoU aRE gOiNG To fEEl BeTTeR"
"YOu are AddiCTed to ThIS dAmNEd PhOne!"
Well having my phone is a coping mechanism for me when I'm sad,I don't want to say I have depression but I do have the symptoms and signs but I still don't want to say I have depression
@@joliejarina1696 same.
@@joliejarina1696 but i kinda feel like i do but y' know...? Im not really sureee..
I hate when parents say that. PeRioD
@@joliejarina1696 same. i think i am just overreacting or that I tell myself and thats why i have the symptoms. but idk. even if i had depression, my parents would just say that i dont have them and that i just tell myself that i have them.
even though i know my parents will never watch this, I'm still watching it.
tw: suicide
when i was at my possible lowest state and had three suicide attempts in two months all my parents said was “you have depression because you’re rude and ungrateful”. when i asked my mom can i go to see psychiatrist she started yelling at me that i’m not crazy and children’s on medications aren’t functioning at all. it’s still hurts me so much that they didn’t do nothing, but they saw how miserable i was feeling, and the worst part for me, is that i’m no longer feeling THAT bad, and they probably think it was just a phase..
wtf
I feel bad for you
@@x-iei-x4725 thank you…. it’s been a year and i still don’t exactly know what to do, but i have much more support now, so i’m feeling a bit better :) tho it still hurts pretty badly…
@@tutek8100 hopefully you feel better
@@tutek8100 just try to find salvation in something else, music, going outside, people (though it's not that safe as other choices, but if you have luck you can find some nice people to spend time, clean your mind and be at ease) or even games, online games, there are a lot of 'em in which I met really nice folks.
Most parents will take all of these symptoms as “You’re just using you phone too much” and probably get mad 😀
To be completely honest, my mental health would probably decline more if my phone was taken, since my phone is how I talk to most of my friends, and watching RUclips brings me laughter when nothing else will. I don’t have any social media, so my parents can’t use that as an excuse lol. Not having my phone would make me worry even more than I already do and I’d just want to stay in bed all day drowning in my own self pity :/
This is why parents shouldn’t blame things in the phone and actually try to figure out the root cause (cuz it could be the phone sometimes, but not in every case). Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk XD
@@redcherryblossoms wow that’s actually so true. i wish I weren’t so dependent on my phone but also this is where I get most of my comfort and escape from life. I know that when I’m really hurt I can go to RUclips and get at least a little boost and feel just a bit better, which makes a surprising amount of difference. anyway yeah I agree :)
The sad truth
@@bearybeom yea 😔😕🙃
@@redcherryblossoms from my perspective, using our phones for happiness is a byproduct of not being able to find happiness in our daily activities. For us, they bring color or an escape from our black and white realities, when none of our friends and/or parents can't hear our cries. But because of WYSIATI (look it up too lazy to explain), our parents think our phones is the root cause when they don't see where it rly came from.
"I'm just trying to protect you!!"
Yeah.. now you have a child who is scared to open up and lies to not get in trouble... thanks
Yeah, same... My mom hates lies but her herself lies...
@@justsomedemononthefbiwante4023 sorry to hear that
Yep. Life can suck.
same, I hate lying but I have to lie pretty much daily to avoid getting yelled at and stuff.
That's me with my mother and pretty much everyone else that isn't on discord. I trust more on people in that site than outside of it.
I hope our parents will watch this 🙏
Parents:
"We're here for you, you can always talk to us!"
When you talked about your mental health:
"ITS BECAUSE OF YOUR DARN PHONE!!"
well my phone helps me more than you do..
My parents try to understand but they don’t and they never can until they see this.
@@nishandchris1 Yeah
And they are addicted To Phone as we are
For me its an alarm lol / mom : You can always talk to me I will not judge you. Also mom : *Judging my choice and decide for me.*
"ATLEAST YOU HAVE A ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD"
Thanks MOOOOOOM that's the only thing that makes me HAPPY other than the pHoNe
Yeah, like bro im ur child its ur mf job to look after me.
that is rude. all parents should love and listen to their children. u shouldnt have to be greatful tht they let u live there. its the bare minimum that is expected of every parent to house and feed u. i hope u are doing better.
@@Ashes652 mhm, they wanted children for a reason so they need to listen to us. We listen to them all the time so we want something back, we want them to listen and not say we are lieing or making up excuses, and not always say they raised us. You had kids so fucking listen and acknowloge our struggles. (Sorry about my grammar i turned off auto correct😅)
@@xenodraws2397 yea i had a arguement w them and I didnt do anything to provoke that yelling soooo-
my mum said this during tht arguememt too: "oh. so u want me back in hospital hm?"
"My child is fine."
Your child is watching Psych2Go to understand what the heck is wrong with them, because you won't take them to therapy Karen.
Yep sounds about right :')
My mom in a nutshell
My mum isn't a Karen she is just dealing with her own problems
Who is Karen?
Ye that's pretty much it-
I think my 9 yr daughter Daisy is depressed because she hasn’t been acting how she usually acts! She even grabs her head during breakfast and dinner everyday, she locks herself in her room, she even starts crying and when I ask her “are you okay?”, she says “yes I’m fine, dad” and when I see her going to her room, i saw her face instantly change to a sad expression in the mirror on her door. And i can easily tell she’s depressed because I keep hearing her yell “leave me alone please!” But luckily me, my little sister Petra and my wife Claudia can help her and she knows she can trust us! I just hope we can help Daisy….
I hope your daughter get better soon.
At least there's one parent in this comment section
The most hurting thing is when parents doesnt even notice their child fake smile..... And everytime you talk about your problem and when you tell them.. They always said that you are being dramatic..
Edit: Thx for the likes! I have never get this much likes! ☺️❤️❤️
Yeah or that you just copy that behavior from your friends. I've heard this one a lot and it sucks a lot
if i could share this comment
Yep
Whenever I say steadily say something to mom about something like this, she either slaps me and then says stop being dramatic
Or
People with problems do that
I feel that before and for me it was very hurtful SOOooOOo how i would cover up the tears (which almost work kinda) i keep on laughing or smiling, k that's all.
Or they say it’s hormones
I want to show this to my parents. Maybe if they hear it from another adult they'll finally listen.
i would want too but i would be scared of their reaction
@@juno2916 same
@@letsgolesbians4143 I'm also cowardly, but I'm doing it because I want Alex (my parent) to see this.
If I show this To my parents they'll still show nothing they don't change
@@juno2916 same
Timestamps:
1:31 - Severe moodiness
2:27 - Low energy
3:10 - Lack of interest in fun activities
3:36 - Change in eating habits
4:20 - Feelings of sadness or hopelessness
4:39 - Behavioral problems at school
5:14 - Declining grades
5:34 - Social withdrawal
I know that I am late but
Hang in there and stay strong! ❤️
Me being every single one expect 6 cause I have online school:
Thanks! This was just what I was looking for rn.
Have a good day! :) ♡
7 out of 8😦. Self why did you lose your happy go lucky personality? Why?
I’m all of these things but am I depressed? I don’t think so...
I have all of those except for declining grades
All of this happened to me at middle school. Now I've dropped out, and never talk to my parents about anything emotional. I've reached the point where all I need is ten seconds of standing still to compose myself. A family member could literally be going through the worst time of their life, and I'll be in the kitchen eating a sandwich of garlic and butter.
This how I turned out to be.
That just damn sucks.
A garlic a day keeps the vampires away... or something like that
Wish all parents would watch this and understand the difference between lazyness and depression
ikr
Truee😭
Faxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
fax
YES
Originally I was watching this so when I become a parent I could help my own children,I was not expecting to have all of these signs in myself.
if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help...
I'm 12 and have depression and ADHD like bruh
@@Iamsteve610 Did the doctor diagnose you?
@@intruder9127 yes they did I've only just recently been told that I have depression tho so ye I have had ADHD From the age of 4
@@Iamsteve610 Im 12 too but I have anxiety instead...Im treating myself pretty well tho to get over my social anxiety
If I showed this to my mom she’d just get mad at me acting like she already knows everything about depression. Yet she doesn’t understand at all :/
ikr
Same for me, except it's my father. He has narcissistic personality disorder, and so more often than not he believes that anything he doesn't understand/know already is stupid or incorrect and that everyone around him knows less about any given subject than he does. I've wanted to open up for so long but it never goes well. I once tried to tell my dad about how I felt like my older sister was shoving me around and treating me like trash and he said it was all in my head and that all younger siblings feel inferior to their older siblings because his little sister oBviOusLy felt inferior to him while growing up.
Fr! My mom always used to get mad at me when I was younger and brought it up and finally I fully urged up the courage to say I was depressed and had suicidal thoughts. She then yelled at me saying "That's stupid to think like that, you aren't depressed"
Parent's don't understand that lashing out at their kids only makes depression worse and shows that they don't care or don't care to understand.
So after that I suffered from it for 3 more years until I finally helped myself 😩
@@cheese9718 Pff yeah, i my family, my mother rule because she has to be right always and nobody can resist or she will bring her mother(my grand ma) to be like 2 vs me ;; soooo things like that is litterely IMPOSSIBLE to say .../ I've already tryed by some, hiding way... you know like don't mean it directly but more indirectly... like i am not gonna say i am" depressed or i want to die", i am gonna say that "I am not really ok and i don't really like my actual life" but yeah... as my mom say "it's stupid, look at your mark, you are doomned and go back to work" so yeah after she will begin stealing my phone etc... damn people used to steal me so much that it's just making horribly anxious/ anyway... i am the opposit of who i was when i was a child... :
I was successfull, i was "smart", like everybody was calling me "smart guy" and i was getting always the perfect mark, being litteraly a 2nd teacher and i was scared of nothing, people steal me things, made fun of me, hurt me physicly etc... but i was to strong, i can't even imagine how i could like fight almost alone with all these bullies older than me, i litteraly rised an army of little children with my charisma to fight these lol
And now i am unseccessful, i am doing nothing right, i am soo clumsy, i can't concentrate... i can't be happy, i am always hurt, i keep killing my ownself... being scared of everything, being scared of way i could die, because i am always imagine how i could kill myself right now if i want, and it's scare me... i am feeling watched all the time, tears come to quick, i hate myself, and admire others... i hate life and i have no interest in it, or at least no interest in people my age... i am making lot's and lot's of anxity crise, i am shaking all the time because i am anxious all the time... i am weird, people think i am too much weird... i can't talk properly, i am just stupidest thing on earth, i litteraly gave up on everything... i never have love and support, only fake one maybe... nahh even not fake one
There is one thing i still like, and don't want to give up, it's my dream of making the world a better place, i love make philosophy, imagine new things to improve the world buttttttt, i even can't do that because, my family of "high grade russian ingenieer" want me to study math and physics etc, when i wany sociology, economics etc.../ they will never accept my last dream/ and as they are not only "high grade ingeneer" they are also as i said russian, what is the problem with that ? fall of USSR, economic crises etc... my family lost all money because of that and migrate to france where Leningrad's university are not recognized so they have job with minimal salary so we are poor, yeahhh i "love" life
Also my cat died (litteraly the only person who truly love and supported me my entire life, born with him, nut he died in front of my eyes...his last look was on me... he close his eyes on me... forever...)
And i never had a human supporting me or at least a girl who live in India while i live in France... yep
Can relate. My mom was talking to me a few day ago, which I was really surprised about. She also mentioned how she knew me soo well and how she knew what I like and everything. I just let out a dry laugh and said that you know nothing because you never talk to me and then I left the room. She then later said that I had a attitude and from then on. I have just stopped trying in general
As a 12 year old I can relate to majority of the things you listed but I never thought I would have depression. My best guess is that it sprong from my mother's passing and my dad not really understanding me the way I wish he did but I behave in school and don't have much trouble with my grades aside from math but I really think it's the fact that three family members I was close to being my mom grandfather and great grandfather passed away and my dad really isn't helping
Im here if u want to comment...i want say my age but i am 13-15 and i understand... it is often easier to tlk 2 someone u will never meet...
if you really are suffering from this at 12 years of age, then you really got some problems. I hope you feel better in some time
@@maddoxledgerwood8955 thank you for understanding, friend
@@petezahut1923 thanks pal, I'm happy knowing there's people like you in the world who want to help others
@ČřøwŰñŤøłđ ofc, actually told my friend yd morning at 12:30- 3:30 abt my depression. Told her i would most lkly wake up and not remember thinking it was a dream. She didn't believe me and sr enough i did. She finally got around 2 telling me nearly a day ltr. Starting 2 recall what happened nkw tho. Nvr seen her cry, however as i am remembering now, she cried. It hurts and even tho i no longer have 2 lie 2 her, she just won't wvr rly understand. She can't help either. So i hope u find someone u can tell. I've been getting comfort from music and random people on yt till now. Took me almost a yr 2 tell her. So if u evr want 2 comment i will do my best 2 answer.
i struggle with a lot of these but my parents don’t believe it’s depression, however they choose to blame it on me “being lazy” or “being on that phone.” it’s like my cry for help because i’m afraid of talking to my parents about it.
Hugs you tight… i’m really sorry you have to go through all that… i hope things get better for you ;; you deserve to feel better…. Sending many many hugs your way ;;
(Edit was just adding r to your)
So sorry for you, you should talk about it to your parents don't be scared after all they are your parents. Sending you virtual hugs. And just do it, and talk to them. Have a good day.
Virtual hugs. Try bringing psychology in your daily conversations with your parents and how useful they can be for our daily lives. This way it'll be easier for them to understand complicated and sensitive things like depression. After that try initiating to have a general analysis for you and your family.
@@maounobunaga5491That's a great idea.
Same :)
Me: *symptoms off all 8*
Parents "You just need to go outside more."
You know gonna outside can actually lighten up your mood due to the sun and it’s benefits.
Literally my mother
I go outside today. Come back home with favourite snacks and drinks. But am still emotionally unstable and felt like life succ
*goes outside*
**gets bullied by some kid**
@@asomeoneperson4608 Yeah, but it won't completely fix it. Sorta a coping mechanism I'd consider it. But parents generally treat it like a fix-all, when it isn't. Still, it can be helpful for a lot of people so it is a good thing to recommend if possible
My mother doesn't even need signs. One of my teachers literally told her that in school I am always lonely and sad, have no energy or motivation to do anything and that it looks like I'm always on the edge of crying. But she still doesn't care. I don't even want her to help me anymore, just to allow me to go to a psychologist or something. But no, 'that would ruin her reputation'.
Edit ig: I am really sorry for everyone who has to deal with the same or a similar problem. But you are all strong and valid, your feelings matter, eventually it will get better, not because your parents will change, but because you will learn how to stand up for yourself and find a way through all this shit.
yeah my mom only cares about reputatuion too
I'm sorry that that happened to you, that sucks. I hope you're okay
Honestly, while I try to be forgiving and understanding-
People like that can seriously just go to hell already, since they'll probably never change without the fear of death.
If you don't care enough about your own child to help them through mental health because you think it will "ruin your reputation" then you are both heartless and stupid.
Honestly, you've got a good case for something legal there-
Don't really know how to phrase it, but accounting for the most basic mental needs of someone should be important.
Like, I'm generally for small government, but if a kid is dealing with depression and their parent is doing nothing for them there should be a way out, and a way for the parent to be legally reprimanded for being a piece of shit.
(I know this is your mother and you probably, hopefully love her, and I hope she has some good in her, but seriously, thats so unbelievably shitty I can't even imagine)
I hope you get better, I fell bad for people like this but your mom is a peice of shit. one good copping mechanism is boxing but anyway I really hope that you get better.
Same for me to!
It's so hurtful that I am the one listening to this instead of my parents
True friends can be found online, Parents dosent know what their kid feels.
"your so fat"
"go on a diet"
"your so lazy"
"Your not even helping"
I found my BFF/crush online and he is my everything. My mom grounds me, which means that she's taking him away from me. She doesn't give a damn about me even though she says she does.
@@hannahgracee.shorts7438 i can feel you
@@kenzieang1792 I'm glad someone understands
I used to communicate with an amazing group of people who i had fun around and i could always vent to on discord. My mom didn’t understand how important they were to me, and took the app away for talking to strangers. Mom, I met people that i could trust. Why did you take them away? We’re currently trying to find a new way to communicate and I’m really hoping the next one will work.
If you get an online friend, please make sure that they never get taken away because they are amazing ❤️
@@gamingmitkeks1550 that is true
My mom: “you can tell me anything I won’t get mad”
Me: **tells her something**
Also my mom: **gets mad**
True
Basically yeah
true.
thats why i lie but she gets mad
True
Pov: ur parents say that u can talk to them but u know u can't without it turning into a lecture so u just repress emotions and not talk to anyone ✨🕺✨😀
Exept random people on the internet of course because , parents don't give shit about your emotion they will gladly watch you burn to the ground due to depression/anxiety because their answer to why is: video games
Yeah bro same
How do you know my day-to-day life >:000
My mom would just talk and talk about my feelings and how they affect her so in the end, I can never express my whole thought.
That is literally my entire life
This honestly made me cry. I am 11 years old and I’m honestly going through most of these.
EDIT.
Still makes me cry a bit. Still 11 years old. And recently been having signs of BPD
I'm going through all of that
I am 11 too and I am going to all these,don't worry your not the only one.
im 9, me too, But i aint depressed ngl
Im 12, and I was crying watching this..
Damn see this is what I mean your not even a pre-teen, or teenager yet
*At least all of us will better raise our future children because we understand what depression is like*
That’s actually the reason I’m watching this . If I mess up I can recognize my mistakes and try to fix them. I want my kids to have a better childhood that I did .
yes
Yes right!!
I will never try to be a bad person like the others !
@@jellybloom9258 right you are absolutely right!!
Yep, I don’t think I would even have a child but if I had to speak to one and they needed help I always want to be there to help them so they aren’t alone
Me *gets diagnosed with severe depression*
"Can I go to therapy?"
My parents: "No it's a lot of money"
thanks, mom, and dad now I cope with poorly edited facebook memes. (this is an over-exaggerated version but this is kinda what happened)
this also similar about what happened to me, sad. but do have a good sleep and stay safe drink water, and i care about you random stranger we all do
@@ellagermi thank you random stranger remember to eat and drink water yourself
@@cheeseballtub3410 aw thanks :)
in germany the insurance company pays for therapy
@@cupcakeeee5 Oh wow. *casually moves to germany*
It really sucks because my mom is literally a therapist and she says I’m just being a moody teenager
my sister is studying psychology yet she manipulates my mom and is kinda abusive too
@@coelhaacapivara1532 your address?totally not to kill your sister or anything pssh why do that.
@@TheRealWaffles1 use punctuation I could barely read, but funny comment
Wow
@Nutty That's... disturbing.
Nobody here is a parent. We’re all just kids trying not to feel horrible
sending a hug...
@@moonknightsonic-ti5kp thx
@@Moldy_Spaghetti Of course...
*To any parents watching this:*
I’m a teenager. I’m depressed. My parents don’t know because it’s hard for me to articulate how I feel. I don’t want to cause problems. I don’t feel as though I can talk to them about the hate that I have for myself. I think that this is due to the fact that we haven’t built up much trust. They don’t let me do many things like go to parties or sleep over with friends. They helicopter me and control my life. I think that it is why I have trouble opening up. Please, make it a goal for yourself to build an honest, open relationship with your kid. It could save their life.
I hope you’re going to feel okay and hopefully you will be mentally strong and stable
@@синиякрыса thank you I’m doing alright. I really appreciate that
So we are here together
@@grzegorztalik1960 yeah I guess. I hope you’re doing well 🙏
@@megaladon5897 I don't think so
i trust strangers on the internet more than I trust my parents sometimes, not an actual "trust", but a trust where i can vent to someone without being scared of the consequences. i guess it's because i could run away from any fear or any bad reactions online, but i can't in person, idk
me too my parents would never understand. they would probably say something like "its not a big of a deal so deal with it if it is for you"
Same I have an online friend who I love talking to and sometimes I think I can talk to them more than I can my own parents
I just get mad when I talk to my parents… /: annnddd.. my parents also gets mad at me /:< OOF
I'd rather talk to stranger about everything rather than talking to my parents about anything. Talking to a stranger doesn't have consequences.
Understandable,have a nice day.
imagine being a parent who thinks the only emotion children can feel is happiness and enthusiasm 🤡🤡🤡
Because that's what they want... Instead they bring torture and depression to their kid
It's inverted psychology
@@justsomedemononthefbiwante4023 Exactly
Fuckin exactly
lol i do
One of the best things my mother ever told me she told me because I was in my teens and very depressed. Depression in teens is not new. It is at least thousands of years old.
My mother told me, "If anyone tells you these (teen years) years are the best years of your life, don't believe it!" That kept me aluve, literally, through those years.
Sometimes, one needs to know "this, too, shall pass."
I have chronic clinical depression. I did not take meds for it until I was in my early forties and unable to function. It was not because my parents didn't think meds could help me when I was young. The medicines were not there!
My point is, as children and teens, we need help, but we also need to be assured that depression as a teen or even child, is not unheard of and that this will pass. And that if we need help the parents do a thorough job of making sure they are bringing the child to a psychologist who is not a "one saw fits all" with a preset idea of treatment modalities. And, that the person is well-respected in the mental health community and is not a psychologist because of his or her unresolved issues. But to also make sure their own parenting is one of firm love.
There are times when the " professional" makes matters worse, not better.
To any parent watching this, who’s genuinely looking out for their kid, your amazing and your kid is lucky to have you
Thank you for looking into your child's emotional stability! (As a 15 year old teen) I can say that me and my friends need more people like you...
ik this isnt time for jokes but... ur in danganronpa fandom too?
@@THEbeetrootsoup sjhdjsfjha yuh 😫
@A wild Simp Samee I’m excited for the new game!
1. Severe moodiness 1:32
2. Low energy 2:28
3. Lack of interest in fun activities 3:11
4. Changes in eating habits 3:36
5. Feelings of sadness or hopelessness 4:21
6. Behavioral problems at school 4:39
7. Declining grades 5:15
8. Social withdrawal 5:35
Thanks
I have every single one of these should I be worried?
@@moved768 yes… I think
*mmMmMM GOOD GREaT LovE FITTING ALL OF tHESE-*
@@hellgazer8370 same man.. im concerned for myself too-
"why are you always mad?"
"you're always iritated"
"you look like you don't even have a will to live"
"stop being lazy"
"stop looking so down"
i wonder why . . .
"Why are you sulking?"
"i don't know."
"Do you find anything interesting?"
"No."
"Why?"
"I don't know nor do I really care."
Just a conversation I had with my dad.
'eat something, don't we feed you?'
'do you even like eating something?'
@@apple5091 "stop eating so much"
"You're so fat"
i watched this and have no idea if this is the side effects or me
3:24: “Let them know that you’re willing to listen without judgement”.
Really wish I could say the same … my parents are narcissists.
"Your not stressed your just a hormonal child your fine"
Wish my mom could see this video
Your mom is right
Ikr
@@enchantedpoop3320 Bruh, hormones can stress teens out. So yeah, actually it's both. Teens do get stressed gosh dang it
@@enchantedpoop3320 stfu
@@enchantedpoop3320 yes but the source of it is important
The weirdest thing I hear is that "kids can't be depressed/have anxiety/have any other mental health problem." Trauma doesn't come with an age limit. It's perfectly normal for kids to have problems, and don't try to invalidate their emotions by saying they're "to young."
Depression doesn’t pick and choose, it just hits
Its like saying “you cant be tired or exhausted! I work 8 hours a day and im not as exhausted and you’re over exaggerating it to be!” even though children can be sleepy from staying up too late or be exhausted from doing something energy consuming. My mom did this to me 4 hours before im typing this because i was sleepy from staying up too late, also whenever i get tired from doing exhausting things like hoping around to make my baby sister happy, i get scolded because im tired and i want to take a break. Its astonishing how dense most parents can be nowadays.
i started tearing up when they mentioned "listening without judgement" :'(
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:-(
😢💔