You are right and that's because our grandmothers didn't have a lot of options in men that modern women have today. For example, women's exposure on social media alone easily attract men in their DMs and physically. So they would naturally test and/or go for the best options they can get unlike our grandma's who didn't have social media.
@@wealthamadi6624 in the face of options people generally make terrible choices.. That accounts for the decay in current relationships.. People no longer work on their differences to foster strong bonds.. Jumping around does no one any good no wonder we have a lot misery around...most people walk around with psychological baggages...
Kinda...usually women who lack a kind of awareness that should tell them that just because something feels good and empowering to do doesn't mean it should be done.
That dominance test is the quickest way to get rid of a good man. My Dad taught me that when you see that type of woman, she's sick in the head, so run! 🏃♂️ What if you try and that guy has absolutely 0 tolerance for controlling women? You lost him b4 u even know it. I thought they said Women were supposedly smarter than us.
By the time you think of these silly tests, it means there is a big problem already and that you are a problem woman. I advise young women out there to NEVER do this. Just have your core values (not too rigid) and observe casually.. it is very easy to see if your values align without tests. These tests always end up badly and girls regret. The really nice guys always fumble and make a mess when they are before women they like. The crude Bad boys are confident and smooth. Silly girls who do these testing always fall for the bad boys and we all know how it always ends. Nuff sed.
Thing is, women don't know they're testing you. It's just something they do passively. It's not like they consciously decide "oh, let me see if this man is confident or can say no" It's the same way they think they want something but it's the opposite they want. It's not like they're lying. They just don't know
There's an entire 'dating industry'...that I guess sometimes can be dubious...if one listens to them they tend to push the idea that most men are terrible with women which is obviously untrue because most people even those at the bottom of society marry.Truth is dating is not so different from making friends.
The goal of every woman is to be in control and make you do her bidding, but once you assert your authority and place they will over time adjust and fall in line. But if you play along with her to please her then you're gone bro. Women are very manipulative and they can come at you in different ways.
I feel you bro, but tests are good. Our Father in Heaven will test us to see if we’re ready before He decides to bless you. remember we are created in his image so tests are good and when we test others it reflects our nature as God’s children. I hope you are testing women that come into your life because ultimately, you want to choose the right woman who is best for you and who meets your needs.
@@spearsc49 Women make rules for the betas and break rules for the Alphas .. Or do you think if Chris Brown approached any woman today … she will play all those pranks with him ? She will buzz him Immediately she gets home but let it be you opposite is the case
There are too many options out there for men, so playing silly tests just shows how insecure and mental that individual is for me. I will just pass and keep moving
Men are straight forward...why is it so complicated with women? That's why the old folks were for polygamy. If there is more than one woman in your life then they don't complicate your life.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Unfortunately some women are irrational in their 'tests'....a person who looks down on nice people is not very wise...the world sometimes can be cruel and its good one utilizes goodness in people while its there.
I'm definitely failing test 2🤣🤣🤣 I hate when a chick waste my time... If I'm not your type we shouldn't be out in the first place. Why wait till the date before you tell me. If I'm going out with you on a date then we are already establishing something. I'm ignoring some other girl to be on that date and you're just telling me I'm not your type ahhhh.
I stumbled into your channel and been a fan ever since. Your wisdom is intoxicating and highly informative, inspiring, educative, intellectually liberating. God bless you our honorable sister. Please, not to scare you but are all that. Continue the good work. Thank you.
Thank you my sister ijay for standing strong in honesty without fear or favor. We know a lot of cowards will come after you & no ifs and buts about it, but remain honest & steadfast in God because on obstacles thrown can stand. All the people that took a stand, like you, historically, have been challenged to no avail simply because they are the voice of reason & the voice of God. Don't worry we are behind 100 & God is behind you, and we pray you continue to be blessed. Amen !!!!!!!
Or,you can date a woman who’s actually an adult. There’s too much going on in life to be constantly bothered by shit test. You can go on somewhere with that …
You really making sense in your contents, l wish l discovered you earlier. Started watching you just three days ago. God job and keep your simplicity 😊
Hi Fanatic comments. What you say is absolutely true. Sometimes they hide these features and expose them after you marry them. You find yourself stuck. What should a man do in these instances?
Am 5 foot 7, but I get women more than most tall and rich guys, it’s simple. I look so good and I have celebrity body, best decision a short guy can make. Money can’t get women loyal, good sex and protection is tied to a man’s body looks, I can ever relate to short man’s struggle because women break their rules for me. All the “nice guy” thing and simping for her would not get her wet, it’s biology 🤷
Somewhat true but we humans have also developed the prefrontal neo-cortex that helps us respond beyond psychological desire and even completely surpress it for desired goals.
@@kwadwotuffour5529 Napoleon Bonaparte, Greatest French man in history, Great military General, Emperor of France, Born 1769--1821, 5ft 6in tall. Dr.Martin Luther King(USA)Born 1929--1968. Youngest Noble Peace Prize Recipient in history at 35 years of age. More than 1000 streets named in his honor in USA alone.More than 1000 schools, day care centers, hospitals, stadiums, etc. named in high honor. 5ft 6in tall. Don't be fooled by HATERS who see the God, god, warrior, beast, small but mighty, the animal, the goodness, the lion, tiger, elephant, the respect & love,etc, in you. Most people are intrinsically fearful, cowards & resort to insult the chosen ones & resort to put downs to make them feel better in other to raise the self-esteem they lack.
One thing you should understand is that most, or some of the time, men do not give honest answers to the questions posed to them by women. They just tell the women what they (men) think the women want to hear from them which may or may not reflect their true thinking. It's make believe! Therefore, women should be a little more cautious in making dating decisions based on answers to probing or test questions posed to men at the outset of dating. It's little deeper and more complicated than superficial answers and/appearances from or by guys.
to pass all of these test , you have to be non-reactive(no facial expressions and slow smoothed and control movements) , and its all about you having a stronger frame , by reframing what's she says and spin it around (agree and amplify) banter* ,whoever has the stronger frame is in control. the reason why they test i because they want to be assured if you are really that cool guy, Women do not trust words, the trust your body language and if you fidget make any sudden movements your failed the test and the smart ones will give you lots of strong eye contact, because the Eyes do not Lie ,. its all about basking in tension .in general they want to be around a man that is confident with himself and live truly according to him , women wants a man who is total control of himself , they dont want a man they can control . women do this unconsciously to determine who is higher status or lower status. ps: they only test to guys they like to confirm your status for example she notice you being smooth ; she says if this your pickup line with some attitude to try to throw you off, you remain grounded with your body language non-reactive look in her eyes calmly Laid-back and say yes, its my pickup line but it only works on hot girls, i fell like your not that hot so i wont be surprised it wont work on ya , dont wait for her approval just move on the next you have to reframe it challenge and toss it back at her as a test, women wants a challenge because it guarantees a spark (Attraction,Rizz,Charisma-Mode) within you to her, because you are the cause and she is the effected based on how you carry yourself. she takes the cues from you.
She only test you if she doesn’t initially finds you physically attractive. She’s testing you to FIND SOMETHING IN YOUR PERSONALITY THAT MIGHT TURN HER ON about you to make up for the fact that she doesn’t find you physically attractive.
Simple thing is make money and then set the rules for those who want to chop your money. These things are for broke lovers. What business does a broke guy has to do with love relationships. Bro save yourself, love yourself unless you are the type that thrives on nonsense.
I like ur channel because I always learn one or two from it .I never be in any relationship before so am learning a lot from you but the most important they need is Money So money first
My then Fiancee wanted to test me and I told her that she should just know that she need not test me cos I'll fail it. Deal with me as someone that have failed her tests.
I've been doing test and assignments from nursery to college/ University. More awaits at MBA, masters and PhD. A lot already. I'm sorry young lady, with due respect. I'll gladly fail all your test. Thanks.
i will simply say this, if a guy pass the test that a woman gives. She is in love with the results and not for who he is because if she was then tests wouldnt be required to determine what love is
I really ur presentation about how women test guys and I do appreciate ur vivid explanation to be smart in the kind of response we should Should give them.. Thank u for ur explicit knowledge u have when it come to dating and relationship. I applaud u for ur romantic talks I really do love it, I Jay u re too much.
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1. Make money
2. go to gym
3. dress well
4. smell nice
That is all you need, and free from stress
5. Eat well 6. Avoid porn/drugs 7. Watch your circle 8. Nourish your spiritual & mental spheres
Avoid porn 🤨
@@DjangoVonShaftsemen retention is real bro. Listen
@@DjangoVonShaftyes avoid watching adult content that shit will fry your brains
@@ThatsKB How? variety is spice of life. it keeps me from cheating.
And to fellow men, if you realize you are under such tests, RUN. It can only be a transactional process...
In my experience, women only test guys that they don't like. If they really like you, they will ignore ALL red flags 😂😂😂
Lol, it's in their nature to manipulate even if they genuinely like you or not...
Very true
they test u more to get love assurance
Most time they test their men wthout them also knowing they’re doing it
You no get any experience at all. Women test anyone they get mind gan
Be SILENT and just SMILE
It's powerful
1) Compliance test
2) Confidence test
3) Congruency test
4) Dominance test
Our grandparents never played these games but had the best and strong units.. Sad generation smh 😂
Very annoying generation tbh
all of ts comes naturally being a real man if you were confident in yourself and know yourself none of these videos matter
You are right and that's because our grandmothers didn't have a lot of options in men that modern women have today.
For example, women's exposure on social media alone easily attract men in their DMs and physically. So they would naturally test and/or go for the best options they can get unlike our grandma's who didn't have social media.
@@wealthamadi6624 in the face of options people generally make terrible choices.. That accounts for the decay in current relationships.. People no longer work on their differences to foster strong bonds.. Jumping around does no one any good no wonder we have a lot misery around...most people walk around with psychological baggages...
I don’t think so 😂
If the start of your relationship is based on testing, she will continue testing you all your life. Very toxic dynamic.
Men have gotta be and remain true to themselves, not changing colours like a chameleon.
Kinda...usually women who lack a kind of awareness that should tell them that just because something feels good and empowering to do doesn't mean it should be done.
You will be small boy until the rest of the relationship
fellas, if a woman does a "test", don't even engage. She's immature
& it,s a red flag
You won't even know if it is a test
ALL WOMEN TEST, DUMMY! THEY DONT EVEN KNOW THEY ARE DOING IT. ALL SUBCONSCIOUS WORK
That dominance test is the quickest way to get rid of a good man. My Dad taught me that when you see that type of woman, she's sick in the head, so run! 🏃♂️ What if you try and that guy has absolutely 0 tolerance for controlling women? You lost him b4 u even know it. I thought they said Women were supposedly smarter than us.
maybe were looking at the 20% of women
By the time you think of these silly tests, it means there is a big problem already and that you are a problem woman. I advise young women out there to NEVER do this. Just have your core values (not too rigid) and observe casually.. it is very easy to see if your values align without tests. These tests always end up badly and girls regret. The really nice guys always fumble and make a mess when they are before women they like. The crude Bad boys are confident and smooth. Silly girls who do these testing always fall for the bad boys and we all know how it always ends. Nuff sed.
Bad guy 😂 I sand with you 💯
Indirectly u r reminding guys to remain 'crude' ... So as to always end up the 'winners' 😂
Thing is, women don't know they're testing you. It's just something they do passively. It's not like they consciously decide "oh, let me see if this man is confident or can say no"
It's the same way they think they want something but it's the opposite they want. It's not like they're lying. They just don't know
Women naturally test men, it's not even conscious
Women will always throw text at you. It's women's nature without realizing it. Even in marriage.
Most of these sounds like manipulation techniques not a test.
It doesn't just sound like, it's really what it is
Manipulation is encoded into women's software
😂😂
Lol. Test and manipulation in this context, are synonyms of course😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
To all the men tuned in, please take this content with a pinch of salt..the internet is not safe
There's an entire 'dating industry'...that I guess sometimes can be dubious...if one listens to them they tend to push the idea that most men are terrible with women which is obviously untrue because most people even those at the bottom of society marry.Truth is dating is not so different from making friends.
The goal of every woman is to be in control and make you do her bidding, but once you assert your authority and place they will over time adjust and fall in line.
But if you play along with her to please her then you're gone bro.
Women are very manipulative and they can come at you in different ways.
100
Yesterday a girl at the club wanted me to tell other girls in the section to leave because she said “they didn’t belong”, I laughed in her face 😂😂😂😂
Everybody man or woman subconsciously wants to be in control.
I’m a sigma male any test from any woman na vamoose for me , My last name go be Casper … you no go even see my brake light forever
I feel you bro, but tests are good. Our Father in Heaven will test us to see if we’re ready before He decides to bless you. remember we are created in his image so tests are good and when we test others it reflects our nature as God’s children. I hope you are testing women that come into your life because ultimately, you want to choose the right woman who is best for you and who meets your needs.
We must be kindred spirits because my surname is Phantom because I can go ghost too!😂😂😅
@@spearsc49 Women make rules for the betas and break rules for the Alphas .. Or do you think if Chris Brown approached any woman today … she will play all those pranks with him ? She will buzz him Immediately she gets home but let it be you opposite is the case
😂
Oga calm down lol😅
There are too many options out there for men, so playing silly tests just shows how insecure and mental that individual is for me. I will just pass and keep moving
Men are straight forward...why is it so complicated with women? That's why the old folks were for polygamy. If there is more than one woman in your life then they don't complicate your life.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Unfortunately some women are irrational in their 'tests'....a person who looks down on nice people is not very wise...the world sometimes can be cruel and its good one utilizes goodness in people while its there.
You deserve award for your RUclips channel.
Ima be honest… all these games girls play…. Is getting them cheated on and passed around. The dudes with options will be outta there.🤷🏾♂️
Best way to pass a woman's test:
Don't play their silly little games🤷😌
Thanks for your knowledge
Thank you for your patience
I'm definitely failing test 2🤣🤣🤣 I hate when a chick waste my time... If I'm not your type we shouldn't be out in the first place. Why wait till the date before you tell me. If I'm going out with you on a date then we are already establishing something. I'm ignoring some other girl to be on that date and you're just telling me I'm not your type ahhhh.
💯💯 You just spoke my mind. Any girl who says I'm not her type doesn't deserve me. Period.
I swr, once she says it, whether na play or not, my natural instinct will go “thank you, Oya next!!”
I stumbled into your channel and been a fan ever since. Your wisdom is intoxicating and highly informative, inspiring, educative, intellectually liberating. God bless you our honorable sister. Please, not to scare you but are all that. Continue the good work. Thank you.
In love with the vibes, keep pushing.
Hello Ijay,
I mostly like the way you say the facts the way they are. Just keep up doing your good work.
God bless you richly.
I don't tolerate number 2. If someone pulls that test we are done.
You are good,I am happy to hear you saying the things I have not heard . thank you.
GOOD TALK.
That's a real talk... I think i've learnt something big and helpful today from this video.
Wow. No wonder there are so many single ladies. 😐🤣
and they wonder why no one approaches them and don't want to marry them.
Hei!!! Ijeoma has open my head, nna men I have been dulling myself o, thanks jay
Thank you my sister ijay for standing strong in honesty without fear or favor. We know a lot of cowards will come after you & no ifs and buts about it, but remain honest & steadfast in God because on obstacles thrown can stand. All the people that took a stand, like you, historically, have been challenged to no avail simply because they are the voice of reason & the voice of God. Don't worry we are behind 100 & God is behind you, and we pray you continue to be blessed. Amen !!!!!!!
Or,you can date a woman who’s actually an adult. There’s too much going on in life to be constantly bothered by shit test. You can go on somewhere with that …
Only todays young ppl… most giving relationship advice and have no idea how to maintain one… it’s all games and drama
Just bumped into your channel,glad I did...lovin it Beautiful!!
Thank you, I learnt a lot especially liked your phrase "she is supposed to be standing beside you but not in front of you and pull yiy like her toy"
You really making sense in your contents, l wish l discovered you earlier. Started watching you just three days ago. God job and keep your simplicity 😊
Hi
Fanatic comments. What you say is absolutely true. Sometimes they hide these features and expose them after you marry them. You find yourself stuck. What should a man do in these instances?
Call her out on her bs, if she continues then don't be afraid to divorce her.
She tried to make me jealous. Left her for playing games. How should I handle it
12 inch rode business guru got me😂
This wan na alliteration class o!😂 The letter 'C' lecture.🤣😅
Am 5 foot 7, but I get women more than most tall and rich guys, it’s simple. I look so good and I have celebrity body, best decision a short guy can make. Money can’t get women loyal, good sex and protection is tied to a man’s body looks, I can ever relate to short man’s struggle because women break their rules for me. All the “nice guy” thing and simping for her would not get her wet, it’s biology 🤷
Somewhat true but we humans have also developed the prefrontal neo-cortex that helps us respond beyond psychological desire and even completely surpress it for desired goals.
5 foot 7 is not that short, lol. That's about medium height.
@@kwadwotuffour5529 Napoleon Bonaparte, Greatest French man in history, Great military General, Emperor of France, Born 1769--1821, 5ft 6in tall.
Dr.Martin Luther King(USA)Born 1929--1968. Youngest Noble Peace Prize Recipient in history at 35 years of age. More than 1000 streets named in his honor in USA alone.More than 1000 schools, day care centers, hospitals, stadiums, etc. named in high honor. 5ft 6in tall. Don't be fooled by HATERS who see the God, god, warrior, beast, small but mighty, the animal, the goodness, the lion, tiger, elephant, the respect & love,etc, in you. Most people are intrinsically fearful, cowards & resort to insult the chosen ones & resort to put downs to make them feel better in other to raise the self-esteem they lack.
Great info 👏👏
She knows all the secrets bad girl aye damn girl you really go far in the game of relationships. ❤🎉😂
Very informative topic I learned something keep it up
This here is a banger 💥
One thing you should understand is that most, or some of the time, men do not give honest answers to the questions posed to them by women. They just tell the women what they (men) think the women want to hear from them which may or may not reflect their true thinking. It's make believe! Therefore, women should be a little more cautious in making dating decisions based on answers to probing or test questions posed to men at the outset of dating. It's little deeper and more complicated than superficial answers and/appearances from or by guys.
Very educative ❤
It is very educative
In my opinion, a women testing a man is very immature and child-like. It's a quick way to be single.
You nailed it
to pass all of these test , you have to be non-reactive(no facial expressions and slow smoothed and control movements) , and its all about you having a stronger frame , by reframing what's she says and spin it around (agree and amplify) banter* ,whoever has the stronger frame is in control. the reason why they test i because they want to be assured if you are really that cool guy, Women do not trust words, the trust your body language and if you fidget make any sudden movements your failed the test and the smart ones will give you lots of strong eye contact, because the Eyes do not Lie ,. its all about basking in tension .in general they want to be around a man that is confident with himself and live truly according to him , women wants a man who is total control of himself , they dont want a man they can control . women do this unconsciously to determine who is higher status or lower status. ps: they only test to guys they like to confirm your status for example she notice you being smooth ; she says if this your pickup line with some attitude to try to throw you off, you remain grounded with your body language non-reactive look in her eyes calmly Laid-back and say yes, its my pickup line but it only works on hot girls, i fell like your not that hot so i wont be surprised it wont work on ya , dont wait for her approval just move on the next you have to reframe it challenge and toss it back at her as a test, women wants a challenge because it guarantees a spark (Attraction,Rizz,Charisma-Mode) within you to her, because you are the cause and she is the effected based on how you carry yourself. she takes the cues from you.
13:36 if the test is too much. Me after the first attempt at tempting me …..RUNNNN
My parents never test themselves with all this yet they lived together till my father passed away
Thank you very much for your efforts and awesome discussion Ijay. Keep it up.
Very good advice as alway young lady. Thank you. I wish I learned this in my earlier years
She only test you if she doesn’t initially finds you physically attractive. She’s testing you to FIND SOMETHING IN YOUR PERSONALITY THAT MIGHT TURN HER ON about you to make up for the fact that she doesn’t find you physically attractive.
Nice message
Great points
Thanks, I take notes of everything you said.
Great to hear! Thank you 😊
Simple thing is make money and then set the rules for those who want to chop your money. These things are for broke lovers. What business does a broke guy has to do with love relationships. Bro save yourself, love yourself unless you are the type that thrives on nonsense.
Thank you so much am really really learning
Thanks I learned a lot in this video
This is hilarious 😂. You know how I pass women's tests? I DUMP them like a bad habit 💯
1:30 I pass this all the time, because no way am I going to be anyone's yes man!!
Real and on point
All your videos are too Nice & so Educative . thanks 👍
Glad you like them! Thank You 😊
Thx dear , you chnnl serves the truly .
I like ur channel because I always learn one or two from it .I never be in any relationship before so am learning a lot from you but the most important they need is Money
So money first
Thank You❤ . Sitting on your head, the way you said it😂
I never liked being asked for money , it’s a turn- off but I keep running into it ..just asking makes me feel drained .
I really enjoy your videos. They are very educative
Have already fall into some of this test
Hie ije, you have opened my mind, I thought that if I can say no to what ever she asked me to do then she will be disappointed
Thanks for the amazing words of advice. What an eye opener.!😊👌
Excellent tips
A very big thank you for these insights 😅.
Glad you like them!
Hello beautiful
My then Fiancee wanted to test me and I told her that she should just know that she need not test me cos I'll fail it. Deal with me as someone that have failed her tests.
Ijay God bless you may God continue strength you and give you more wisdom
Abeg nobody was taken out of my ribs 😂
😂😂 see you
My dear your full of wisdom you just got yourself a new subscriber..keep it up...
If a man pass what does he get for passing
Too much work. 😂
Watch this do women ever stop testing for good No they do it because it's fun and they will always look for a reason to do it.
Thanks sweet lady well noted
I've been doing test and assignments from nursery to college/ University.
More awaits at MBA, masters and PhD.
A lot already.
I'm sorry young lady, with due respect. I'll gladly fail all your test.
Thanks.
😂😂😂😂
Na marriage never dey hungry the girl.
When d time come, na she go dey test herself
🤣🤣
Yoo that pretty cool ijay, quite a good talk and it's true
i will simply say this, if a guy pass the test that a woman gives. She is in love with the results and not for who he is because if she was then tests wouldnt be required to determine what love is
Truing I agree with you 🤞 1000%
Very informative, 👍
You test me I’m gone ,don’t got time for bullshit.
😂😂😂
Only the evil ones test, don’t test anymore.
Just be good and be it.
Very true...a nice lesson
Facts 🔥🔥
I really ur presentation about how women test guys and I do appreciate ur vivid explanation to be smart in the kind of response we should
Should give them.. Thank u for ur explicit knowledge u have when it come to dating and relationship. I applaud u for ur romantic talks I really do love it, I Jay u re too much.
Gonna go ahead and share your handle with my gees
Sha if I’m told @you’re not my type you’ve lost my interest in the conversation”
All I heard was the “sit on your head or face”😁