If you want more on this topic and also more specific to parents, visit this video here: 7 Signs Your Parents Don't Care ruclips.net/video/3K01N4MMKOw/видео.html.
They’re stuck in what I like to call a perpetual angry birthday party in their head, where they think to get to do whatever they want to people because every day is their special day according to them. Maybe a partner walked past them when they were watching TV and didn’t entertain a rant they were going on, or they were jealous about something they read in the newspaper and go into the antisocial pout. Or the classic trivial phone call about ‘you don’t know everything I went through with my plants today, there’s nothing to eat,’ etc. It’s exhausting.
Hi Tamara, thank you so much for your informative videos. You are helping so many people. I know this video is about unhealthy parents but I'm convinced my husband has most of the issues you have addressed in your video. My vision is becoming more and more clearer now. He's exposed now and he hates it. 😮
You're welcome! And thank you for your kind comment. I truly hope this content gives peace just knowing there is truth here. Sounds like your husband is coming to the light. It will take time for sure.
There are so many of these people that I have felt at fault, learning though has made it bearable. I gray rock and isolate to often. Great definement! Thanks
I'm in a bad time with my parent again, and i wasn't expecting this video to be about narcissism, but you literally described a whole sequence of what i am facing right now. Wow..
Thank you!! I appreciate that. 🤗 Depending on your location I might be able to see you, eventually. Right now, I am maxed out and booked for the next few months. :(
You've described my older sister and her flying monkey daughters and trifling relatives to a tee. Except I've got my extended family immortal and in the here and now that that lot can't lick. Notice how I make the distinction between FAMILY and relatives.
Sometimes when I am trying to talk about person's behaviour, he becomes patronisingly-avoidant, and chuckles something like "Yes-yes, of course", "you are still small and silly". And it differs greatly with the reaction when this person is under stress, he definitely has a vulnerable personality, but this is so confusing. Arguing with a person who has very little tolerance to something different is a torture. I would try to persuade them only if it's a matter of big importance.
Thank You Ms Tamara for the lecture! It helps me very much to understand what's happening in my family. I do love the way you explain things to us! God bless You, thank You🙏
Be careful. They get their flying monkeys to attact with them and for them. I was in the same boat. I reacted and that was the worst decision. If you aren’t no contact yet, go no contact. Take a break from social media. Block and block as much as you can. I wish I had taken my own advice. Sadly they got me to react. If I could go back I’d go no contact from day one. You don’t have to delete social media ( although it’s the best because otherwise they will literally stalk you) but leave it for a good while. Long enough to let the storm blow over. You will be glad you did because as she says, the narc will ruin and one up you no matter what. They are truly obsessed with winning at whatever cost. It’s tiring and I can truly say, in my life my narc has won. I’m finally 💯 no contact with my entire family. It’s hard. Real hard but they do not respect my boundaries. And as she also said, I can explain and explain but my family does not see my side. They only see the narc’s side. It’s very tiresome. Best of luck.
Tamara mam i have my own sociopath mother (great in gaslight and love bomb and guilt trip and liar and manipulative)and older narcissist sister (same as her)and so how can i come out of the trauma , i had read articles to cut some people off from my life , excersize , move out , have some friends but is there any advice would you like to give and can you make a video for positive reinforcement theory as it would help depressed people a lot more
It's really helped me watching those videos, I went threw this for over 3 years. Tamara I'm wondering if you can advise me in private and hear my story
If you want more on this topic and also more specific to parents, visit this video here: 7 Signs Your Parents Don't Care
ruclips.net/video/3K01N4MMKOw/видео.html.
Hi tama thankyou very much you are very helpful
Tamara thankyou very your therapy have help me alot i have make it
Tamara, Do you have an email address, so you can advise me privately?
They’re stuck in what I like to call a perpetual angry birthday party in their head, where they think to get to do whatever they want to people because every day is their special day according to them. Maybe a partner walked past them when they were watching TV and didn’t entertain a rant they were going on, or they were jealous about something they read in the newspaper and go into the antisocial pout. Or the classic trivial phone call about ‘you don’t know everything I went through with my plants today, there’s nothing to eat,’ etc. It’s exhausting.
Wow you really explained it perfectly!!
Hi Tamara, thank you so much for your informative videos. You are helping so many people. I know this video is about unhealthy parents but I'm convinced my husband has most of the issues you have addressed in your video. My vision is becoming more and more clearer now. He's exposed now and he hates it. 😮
You're welcome! And thank you for your kind comment. I truly hope this content gives peace just knowing there is truth here.
Sounds like your husband is coming to the light. It will take time for sure.
There are so many of these people that I have felt at fault, learning though has made it bearable. I gray rock and isolate to often. Great definement! Thanks
I totally understand that. It's difficult to pull apart.
And you're welcome. Thank you!
Whew....
"Communicate to Exhaust You " 😮💨
💯
Yes, back away from the table in dealing with that kind of mess.
There is never, ever a reason to engage with someone who has NPD about your feelings.
Never.
Yes yes know your worth and value
I'm in a bad time with my parent again, and i wasn't expecting this video to be about narcissism, but you literally described a whole sequence of what i am facing right now. Wow..
Great information. Thanks... sounds like there is no real resolution with a true narcissist
Thank you, and you're welcome. There really isn't.
I wish I could see you for therapy. You are amazing. Thank you.
Thank you!! I appreciate that. 🤗
Depending on your location I might be able to see you, eventually. Right now, I am maxed out and booked for the next few months. :(
You've described my older sister and her flying monkey daughters and trifling relatives to a tee. Except I've got my extended family immortal and in the here and now that that lot can't lick. Notice how I make the distinction between FAMILY and relatives.
Get well soon🙏🏼
Thank you so much🤗
Sometimes when I am trying to talk about person's behaviour, he becomes patronisingly-avoidant, and chuckles something like "Yes-yes, of course", "you are still small and silly". And it differs greatly with the reaction when this person is under stress, he definitely has a vulnerable personality, but this is so confusing.
Arguing with a person who has very little tolerance to something different is a torture. I would try to persuade them only if it's a matter of big importance.
Thank You Ms Tamara for the lecture! It helps me very much to understand what's happening in my family. I do love the way you explain things to us! God bless You, thank You🙏
You're welcome. ❤🤗Thank you Bonny!! God bless you too. I'm so glad this is helpful.
I had over three years of terror on Facebook by a group of narcissistic people
Be careful. They get their flying monkeys to attact with them and for them. I was in the same boat. I reacted and that was the worst decision. If you aren’t no contact yet, go no contact. Take a break from social media. Block and block as much as you can. I wish I had taken my own advice. Sadly they got me to react. If I could go back I’d go no contact from day one. You don’t have to delete social media ( although it’s the best because otherwise they will literally stalk you) but leave it for a good while. Long enough to let the storm blow over. You will be glad you did because as she says, the narc will ruin and one up you no matter what. They are truly obsessed with winning at whatever cost. It’s tiring and I can truly say, in my life my narc has won. I’m finally 💯 no contact with my entire family. It’s hard. Real hard but they do not respect my boundaries. And as she also said, I can explain and explain but my family does not see my side. They only see the narc’s side. It’s very tiresome. Best of luck.
Wow ...
Excellent ...
My mom's side of the family is this way and my dad and step mom are this way too. It is hard to deal with, I can barely talk to them.
I'm sorry.
Yes, it is difficult to deal with. On Friday, I am doing a live chat about why this is so hard to overcome. I welcome you. 6:00pm.
Thank you so much Dr. Hill...❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
You are so welcome🤗 Thank you for watching.
Thank you very much indeed for this!
You're very welcome!☺
Tamara mam i have my own sociopath mother (great in gaslight and love bomb and guilt trip and liar and manipulative)and older narcissist sister (same as her)and so how can i come out of the trauma , i had read articles to cut some people off from my life , excersize , move out , have some friends but is there any advice would you like to give and can you make a video for positive reinforcement theory as it would help depressed people a lot more
Its like all your brightness has been stolen lol❤🎉😂
T.H. 👍
I Need help my family is extremely narcissistic this is caused by my mother who directs everything to me
🙌🏽💯🙏🏽
It's really helped me watching those videos, I went threw this for over 3 years. Tamara I'm wondering if you can advise me in private and hear my story
yes, please feel free to email me and I'd be happy to schedule a consult with you.
@@TherapistTamaraHill what is your email address please?
@@TherapistTamaraHill where can I find your email please? X
Contact@anchoredinknowledge.com 🙂
They are crazy it seems as you describe it to us lol
They are in need of a lot of help. Sometimes more help than we can provide.
❤️🩹 💞
I’m sorry but this is like gang violence lol it’s scary
Love you ♥, Thanks