Once a guy goes bald and is comfortable with it, and confident. There is nothing you can do that will make him feel low about himself. Hats of to confident bald men that carry themselves with respect and confidence.
When I started losing my hair, I had anxiety about it during two years. Then, the day I shaved it all, this anxiety disappeared. I did not feel any change in my ability to attract women. I was bald when I met my wife and now I have two children with her. Just embracing it completely, being one with your baldness, makes you more mature and makes you learn that true confidence is indeed the key. I know who I am, my strengths and my weaknesses, I know my place in this world. Baldness is a detail. I hope you guys having that anxiety will also overcome it. Life after it is great.
This is especially true for women who are 25+. Guys get huffy about shaving it off because the girls who are 17-24 mostly prefer guys with hair, given that they prefer guys in their general age range. But bald works well when it's done right. You have to be in shape, get a tan, and have some sense of style. If you're out-of-shape, no muscle, weak as a kitten, ghost white, wearing a dollar-store t-shirt, nothing will work for you. I've been shaving it off since I started receding and I've never struggled for female attention.
Thank you for this Courtney. I’ve been shaving my head for years. I started losing my hair at 24, and even before then, my hair line was super high up. Took me a long time to grow secure in that. So one day I shaved it off, I dug the look and have not looked back.
@@AsimKhan-hz5kr did it take you a while to fully embrace? I went through a bit of a denial period. But I’m so much happier since shaving my head. Courtney is absolutely right about this.
It's okay in the end it feels better to shave the head then keep the receiving hair. I shaved my head last month it was a shock but you get over it. I'm 23 by the way some people just have bad luck genetically
Hey guys, I'm 27 and have full alopecia - a condition which means I have no hair AT ALL on my whole body. It took a long time to "accept" myself both internally and externally, and in many ways that adjustment is still a work in progress. Don't stress about shaving your head, it's the universe's way of speeding up your self-improvement journey to become the real you. It's a gift. The inner man in you wants to break free and manifest himself. Embrace it, for your own sake. People hide behind all kinds of things, including hair. Life has been made simpler for you. Focus on what's important and reclaim a higher power !!!!! Peace and love ✌🏼 Courtney, your channel is a breath of fresh air and so refreshing to see as a man. Keep it up !
Hey man! I'm late to see this comment but I also developed alopecia universalis on my whole body at age 29 out of nowhere, it's been almost 5 years now since I've lost it all and the worst part has been the lack of eyebrows/eyelashes, I couldn't care less about the hair on top of my head personally lol. I hope all is well with you! I've never had the opportunity to talk to anyone else who has exactly what I have.
I'm 34 and started losing my hair in my late 20s. Started using hair fibers to make it look like my hair is still full. It sucks to do it but, I'm scared I wont be attractive. This video gave me the confidence boost I needed to take the step and go bald.
@@tylershubert1596 I'm gonna have to do it soon. I'm so depressed man, there's this beautiful girl that's entered my life, like I would marry her if I had the chance. I'm just scared once I go bald she'll lose all attraction to me ( I usually have longer hair)
I used hair fibers for years, and they truly are a game-changer. However, the major downside is the fibers need hair to attach to (obviously), so the more you less, the less convincing it looks. My "wakeup call" was seeing a pic of me out with some friends, and realizing my hair looked like it was littered with sawdust. It looked so unnatural, to the point I buzzed my head afterwards. Haven't looked back since.
Bless you for making this video, fortunately for me I took the plunge 3 years ago but held off far too long prior to that but it was the best choice I could have made for myself. The confidence that follows after embracing it is real. It was a major paradigm shift for me in many aspects of my life. THANK YOU for being a female voice to support men who are still going through it. You’re a real one
That's how it goes, I held off for far too long as well. Wore hats night and day, worried about someone making a comment 24/7 and the rare time when I had to take the cap off any small breeze would instantly flop my "bangs" up or to the side revealing not my 4head, but my 5 and 6head. lol I'd take bald guy over Balding guy any day of the week.
As someone who is genetically disposed to being bald, it seriously isn't bad at all. I had the widows peak early 20s, thinned crown mid 20s and finally shaved it smooth at 30 and been that way ever since. It is easy maintenance, looks good and most women seriously don't mind. Combovers suck. Thanks for your vote of confidence Courtney.
I adopted the completely bald look 20 years ago when my hair was seriously thinning, I've never looked back and the confidence boost you get is great. Thank you for your endorsement Courtney. 😎
My husband is bald with a beard which I find very attractive and I think he takes care of his scalp and beard more than I do for my hair. He started losing his hair in his late 20s so he's been bald since I knew him but I've seen pictures of him in late teens early 20s before that and I like the way he looks better bald than he did with a full head of hair.
When it comes to the ladies, I’ve shaved my head since I was about 19 & always had more success than my full head of hair friends, so it literally is about confidence & looking bad ass.
Awesome man. I’m quite tempted to shave mine bald, I have a good head of hair but I have some real beefy scars underneath from when I fractured my skull as a kid and would love to see what they look like with my head completely bald....probably gnarly and off-putting rather than sexy lol....who knows. Glad it’s worked so well for ya, doesn’t surprise me though as being bald is generally less common so if you rock it and it suits you then you’re bound to stand out from the crowd when it comes to attraction from females. Peace dude.
@@partlysimpson5154 I’m not gonna lie having some muscle definitely helps, but some ladies aren’t into that, guess it just comes down to the girls personal taste & how well you carry yourself.
@@alexanderbeck7953 did you give the bald look a go pal? It’s not for everyone but you can definitely look good rocking a bald head if you are confident doing it 👊🏻
@@martynscotton1020 no I haven’t yet sir, however I’ve had it really short...a grade or two away from being completely bald and that seems to suit me well and shows the scars...some people assume it’s weird tramlines or a haircut gone wrong but their idiots....it’s pretty obvious their massive actual scars....I could’ve died so it’s something I take pride in and wear as war wounds and a badge of honour....even though they weren’t caused by saving peoples lives or serving in war etc. Yes exactly mate, it’s all about confidence and being yourself. Like you said to the other chap about muscles....I reckon you’d be surprised most women actually love it and some won’t admit it but many think it’s attractive and are aroused by muscles and abs....some may be against it as they don’t want a long term partner looking like it due to all the undeniable attention from other women...especially in terms of marriage and having children etc etc....that’s the main thing that comes to my mind trying to look at it from a female perspective. Peace
I've had a bald head by choice for the last two years. I'm not losing my hair, I just thought I'd try it one day and I've loved it ever since. I love being bald. It's the best.
@@johnmooney2086 I had the male pattern baldness that didn't look good so just shaved it off and have kept it that way and im fine with it. However I would rather have all my hair since im a natural red head.
I gained more confidence when I lost my hair. After that, I knew if I got a girl she would be with me for reasons more sustainable than just physical attraction. Been married 10 years.
I can't stress enough how much of a difference it makes being bald with a tan and a nicely lined up beard. I went to a club in Miami after I got a tan and lined my beard up and lots of women were looking at me. And we met a group of girls and the blonde girl was so attracted to me she kept flirting with me the whole night lol. Also working out and tattoos helps as well.
I literally came across this vid after just shaving my head. I've been doing this for about a year or so. I grew a short beard. Never felt more confident about my look. Thank You for this video, Courtney! :)
Back in high school I shaved my head completely bald. It was so surprising but I’ve never received more compliments about it and especially from older women. If you’re considering shaving your head go for it!!
Thank you so much Courtney for touching on this subject. Losing your hair is depressing but I think You just boosted the confidence of thousands of men including myself!
My hair had been thinning and receding so I simply buzzed it low with a fade and letting my facial hair grow more and honestly I’ve gotten more attention from women ever since lol
I started to lose hair around 20 years old, and now, almost 10 years later, it's one of the best things that could ever happen to me. It's a blessing in disguise.
You're looking good from the photo. I lost my hair too, ironically I put more effort in my hair now shaving it than I ever did maintaining it before. I have the same beard style too.
Hey Filip! I totally agree with you. At first I viewed it as a curse but nowadays I regard it as a blessing since I completely transformed from a rather insecure balding young chap to a self-confidence young man.
Thanks, Courtney. I started going bald when I was 19 yrs old. I tried to hold on to it but then I just shaved it all off and I did feel better about myself. Thank you for making this video. It definitely helps us guys out a lot to hear this kind of thing from a sweet, attractive girl like you.
@@viper62967 I respectfully disagree, as Courtney creates these videos for us to learn from her insights, not to mention are incredible ones. If people just sit around and do nothing apart from wishing for more Courtneys would fall from the sky, it would be far from sufficient to make a profound, lasting difference in this world, defeating the fundamental reason why she’s here so generously making these amazing videos for us!!
I started loosing my hair while in my teens during the big-hair decades of the 70s & 80s. I embraced what was naturally happening and refused to do the comb over. Thanks to celebrities like Michael Jordan rocking the shaved dome by the mid 80s, bald didn't seem so bad. I've never given my lack of hair a second thought and put all the money I've saved from salons by building a classy hat collection. Protect that top side, my friends.
@@whiterabbit1632 technically it’s the mom who Carries the genes of losing hair. Not the father. I know because all my brothers including me is bald. And other men on my mom’s side of the family. But my dads side, all the men, including him still have a full head of hair.
I just ran across this because I was catching up on your podcast driving into work and all I need to ask is where is the ❤ button! My hairline was receding several years ago and I was so nervous going shaved. Bottom line is at the barbershop I was afraid to look thinking I made a huge mistake, but a young lady with her little boy getting a haircut looked over and said “that looks awesome; you look at least ten years younger”. Since I became a grandpa a couple of years ago I went with a neatly trimmed short chin beard and mustache and feel so much better about myself, plus I’ve gotten a lot more attention recently from women which is really nice. Making the decision to embrace being bald absolutely helped with my self confidence. Love your content, presentation and style Courtney!
Once you finally shave it off, that's one thing off your head. Seriously, it's less to think about and you can focus on other things. Less stress means more sleep and supports healthy testosterone, so you can focus on your diet and taking care of yourself. It's really a snowball effect, I can't stress enough how my health has improved in the year I've been shaving it and that added lean muscle really complements my new look.
I have Alopecia Areata. When I shave my head, all it takes is one day of missing the shave and people stare at the weird asymmetric patches where there's no stubble.
I started to bald in high school and just started shaving it in my 20's and never looked back. I agree with you completely about the beard combo grew out my beard a few years ago and love my beard
Losing one's hair happens, and yes, it can be a emotional hurdle in manhood. That said, it doesn't really affect anything. I mean, every guy has some reaction to losing or not losing his hair. I've tried Minoxidil, and Finasteride, but I'm happier that I still don't wear glasses at 45. You come up with coping mechanisms because it's a drag getting old. Don't sweat it. You will be attractive to whomever will find you attractive whether or not you have hair.
@@Guus115 thanks so much man. I actually dont. That pic is from when I first started shaving, I would let it grow 2-3 days between shaves. But for the past 3 years, I've been shaving it clean every single day. BEST decision I ever made. Not a fan of SMP
I've been bald for 30 years and have shaved my head every day since. I also have a one day growth beard. My wife and other women tell me it looks great, so If you are undecided about going all the way don't hesitate, get it done, you won't regret it. Above all for the sake of everyone on planet Earth, avoid the dreaded comb over it looks ridiculous.
I started to getting bald when I was 23, now I have 30 and got problems with self-esteem related to it. This is the first video that I watch from this channel and I loved it, thanks for this content, I will start to change my perspective from now on. Greetings from Brazil!
I'm glad you made this video. I started balding at 17 and I'm 24 now. I lost quite a bit of confidence from it. I would notice people looking at by hair, I didn't like it at all.
Being bald for me with a little scruff beard works trust me from experience. It’s all about though what makes you look best. Also being in shape helps. And dressing good/decently like you got your sh*t together. Makes you seem like a grown man on a mission. Young girls don’t like it as much, but grown woman love it. You’re a man’s man. My bald fellas
Totally, as a heterosexual guy with a FULL head of hair at 37 I think bald looks great. The only reason this video exists is some girls are way too picky about hair (still doesn't make sense to me, means more testosterone).
Started shaving my head around 2004; kept doing it. When I see a man struggling with the thinning/receding hair, I sometimes suggest shaving their head and about a third of the men say the shape of their doesn't look bald. @Courtney, you might have a follow-up video addressing men who would like to shave their head, but feel the shape of their head doesn't look good bald.
This is the only intelligent comment so far. Everyone else is simping over her. If they are being desperate simps, they are not going to pull off the bald look.
I had thick hair until a few years ago and it started thinning on top so I just went for the no guard buzz. It was such a relief when I embraced this look. Add some style to your wardrobe like Courtney always advises and you’re onto a great look.
*I started shaving my head 8 years ago, so great because no "donut" look, no shampoo, no comb or brush, no umbrella, and no more expensive haircuts !!!*
It’s all about how you carry yourself. Hair or no hair. Most of my friends are bald and their gfs and wives are very attractive. Just workout, have a good skincare routine, and carry yourself the right way. You’ll attract who you’re supposed to attract . No need to overthink it.
Hi saw your comment. If you can grow a moustache and chin hair that's a good sign because you can look on RUclips and there are different ways you can increase your facial hair like micro needling with serums I did it for my cheeks and it actually worked for me it came through thicker
I appreciate you Courtney and your awesome content.because you mentioned confidence several times I thought I would share. I accepted the fact early in highschool that I would probably be bald. But what I desire to share with you is this. Even being bald it took confidence to shave my head. I had to do mental gymnastics with the thought and then one day I did it. Interestingly I never regretted it. I don't faithfully shave everyday anymore but if I want a little boost to my grooming to boost my confidence I start with shaving my head. I'm letting my beard grow Long for the third time in my life. This time will be different. Blessings Courtney, we love you.
When I was in my 20s, people asked me all the time, "Do you shave your head or are you loosing your hair?". My answer was, "I'm losing hair but I used to shave even when I had hair." I realized that was a total turn off answer. Got a Scalp Micro Pigmentation 4 years ago. Now nobody asks me if I shave my head because I'm losing my hair. Every bald guy can use a subtle Scalp Micropigmentation.
I've seen videos of it and usually it looks awful. It's quite obvious that the person is bald especially when their head is in a well-lit area and the light just shines off their head. Waste of money if you ask me but hey, do whatever boosts your confidence.
@@TranceForLyfe I work in retail and when someone bald or balding comes in the boss sometimes shows them my head and they think I'm chatting bs when I tell them that it's a tattoo.
@@TranceForLyfe Its not just the money, its 6 hours of needles penetrating your scalp. It gives you a frame to your face and you won't look like a dickhead.
I started losing my hair at age 18, then while in college I shaved my head. The women in my classes stopped conversing with me. Later on, one woman, at a distance, asked me if I was going through chemotherapy treatments.
@@donaldhutchison4652 but that's his lived experience. That's what he went through. It's OK to voice that. It's not all roses. This girl is sugar coating things.
All that means is you don't have enough weight on you. Put some muscle on at the opposite would happen. I've shaved my head off and on since high school and the hottest women I've dated are from when I've shaved my head, helps to have a stocky frame even WITHOUT a beard.
Never clicked on one of your videos so quickly. I'm not wringing my hands over it, but I know that the tide is receeding and we're approaching decision-making time here. Thanks for the valuable perspective as always, Courtney.
@@55Porter Why would you recommend a drug that can cause permanent sexual dysfunction, depression, and breast enlargement in men??? Just let the hair go, it's a battle you aren't going to win anyway.
Look up Bald Cafe. He will help encourage you that it is not the end of the world. I started with a buzz and moved to the razor shave and love it now. Balding is never a good look imo. Go bald and don't look back. Epictetus said something like "why should I worry about the baldness of my head? I can't control it, and everyone can see my baldness. And what kind of person would point out and mock that which all can see? Only an ignoramus."
@@CaneFu all that's overblown. The vast majority of people who take it at 1mg or less per day experience no side effects. Many others who do return to normal after they stop. It's just a miniscule percentage of people who try it one time and end up permanently messed up. If keeping hair is important to someone it's probably worth a shot.
I been bald since I was 22. It was rough when I first saw it happening. But it Never stopped me for a minute with women. Shave your heads and rock it with pride and confidence! Stay hard! Hahaha
A great option is SMP (Scalp Micropigmentation), it's not cheap but works great. End result will look like you have a shaved head-not bald. People are shocked when I tell them it's not real hair, just looks like it. It really helped me, and changed my whole look.
I feel more confident being bald than I did when I used to be obsessed with my hair. I have many people tell me they couldn't picture me with hair. I think it also depends on the mans structure and how he carries himself as well.
I been bald over half of my life I been told I'm handsome too I'm well groomed my dress code is on point I'm -65 years old been told I look like I'm in my 30's and 40's life is great for me Courtney im loving your videos thank you so much
Only Women gonna tell this you, because they are mature, I'm 17+ and surely try my best to not get bald 🤧, but if I got I'm not regretting for sure ,thanks Courtney ❤
How to be attractive as a bald guy: Step 1 Have a masculine face Step 2 Have a good head shape Step 3 Have an above average body frame, work out a little and have a good diet
Courtney - thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am "follically challenged" and it does hit you in the gut initially regarding confidence. However, it was something I couldn't change. However, I could change my fitness. I go to the gym daily and due to my passion, I am actually stronger and in better shape than younger guys. Thus, I think my being bald actually pushed me to be more fit if that makes any sense. Thanks for being a true lady. I enjoy your videos!
I shaved my head at 21. Being bald is great. I've never had an issue with being bald. But not having a choice is more difficult. The desire to maintain control.
I’m 38 and started losing my hair very young at 21. Spent the next 2 years trying to cover it up, until I just accepted it and shaved it bald at 23. Best decision I ever made! Thanks Courtney for posting this video! 😃
As someone who hung on waaay to long to a thinning and receding hairline before taking the plunge to a clean shave, my advice is do it sooner rather than later! My biggest problem was that my scalp had never seen the sun so when I first shaved it looked like I was wearing a comedy Dr. Evil bald cap (I swear, it was as white as a sheet of paper!). It’s taken about 3 years to start blending in to the skin tone of my face (admittedly I live in the UK so that might have something to do with it). Now I’ve got used to it, all the reasons for doing it in this video are 💯 true! Matched up with styled facial hair that suits you and a classic smart wardrobe, you really can’t go wrong!
@@lloydkline1518 There are women out there who are hot for grey hair also;) I quess it's about how you act out there. I've had bald long before I lost my hair so i dont even remember how it was when I had hair. One thing is a fact. If you dress like a member of right wing aryan skinhead, and you're not, you may meet ladies you dont even wanna meet. 😂
@@saminevalainen3554 I was talking about the michial jordan look;; I know he a billionaire & celebrity:: etc etc he shave all his hair before he was 40;; Grey hair once a certain age everybody gets Grey hair::;; it about how woman & men wear it;;; age has more to do with skin decline : people skin chances with age ; people can dye your hair;; however even 💄 cannot help.skin decline
@@saminevalainen3554 hair is more of a woman thing ;; long hair is a young man thing; it ages does not look good;; short or bald head great;; grey hair issue is more of a woman thing ;;my mother dye her Grey hair
I started balding in my 20's. It took me 2 years to build up the courage to shave my head. As soon as I did it I felt and looked 10 years younger and so the confidence shot up. I started doing quite well with women. Do it!!
That is doubly accurate for fear of rejection by women. I used to try to get random women's numbers in my early 20s. I stopped doing that by my mid 20s. But my dating life has been very anemic due to the fact that I work in the defense industry which is 90% male dominated so I don't really meet women. I just tried to get a date with a cashier at a local store this past week. I have not dated anyone that was not a friend of a friend for about 16 years. It was such a positive experience because a nice person turned me down and my day was not any worse for it. If only I could go back to my 20s. So many missed opportunities. The funny thing is that all those "missed opportunities" that most of guys like to recall might have been rejections also. But at least, we would not have had the regret.
He had hair when he liberated the continent. He went bald later on in his life. Having hair is a prerequisite for liberating continents. If he was bald during the war, that continent would have told him to get the hell away and shamed him for all the things that men have ever done to women. They would have sided with their oppressor (the bad boy) and put a positive spin on all the bad guy's bad behavior.
If your gona be bald you gotta be in good shape to get good looking women. Women love the whole bald head with muscles look. It makes u look very masculine
I have been binge watching your videos for the past couple of days and I can’t get enough of them! I was also thinking that you should do a video of signs that you’re being curved if you haven’t already. Keep up the great work!!!
I appreciate the video, but being bald sucks. Everyone I’ve ever seen with hair that later lost it looks worse without hair, including myself. Hair makes a big difference in appearance and I can’t lie to myself and pretend it’s not a big deal.
I was very over weight. Met someone amazing, so I started working out, eating right, lost weight but after lost more hair. I just shave my head and I like my look a lot. Being happy is important.
Thanks for the video. I'm 46 and have thinning hair in my crown area. Hid it for a few years with longer hair on top. But I was always worried about the bald spot showing. I decided to go ahead and try shaving it a few months ago. And, I really like it. I feel free!
This is spot on Courtney, I have more ladies approaching me now then when I had hair, also photo's of me before and after are proof its a good look guys, cheers!
Women actually approach you? Where do they approach you? How tall are you? Do you have one of those square iron jaws with giant shoulders? Bro, you gotta give more info. Women do not approach even the most attractive guys. You gotta be like a billionaire or something.
I started shaving my head a few days ago, so the timing of this video is perfect. I guess it kind of affirmed to me that I made the right decision. BTW, great channel!
I shaved my head back in 2004 when I was running in Heat. The bald head solution made running 10 degrees cooler improved times and made hot summers way less difficult to run in. Fast forward 20 years and I have always said I choose to be bald like the episode in Steindfield. I am not much for the beard, I think if men shave their head shave the beard as well since it means basically you are consistent about your appearance. No offense to the bearded bald guys I just feel like if they had hair they would want it showing that they care about their beard. Just go full grown saved with confidence and do not give a CR*P.. Take care bald brothers.
Honestly, i always kept my hair very short (military style) so when I lost my hair I was 26 I didn't give a damn about it, I only had very long hair when I was 15-17, yeah I was a heavy metal guy so you understand.
Never been one to talk about my issues especially on a RUclips video. But I'm in my early 20's and I'm still adjusting to being bald.. been so depressed .. these comments really helping me
I started losing my hair when i was a 17 and didn't want to accept it. By the time i was 23 i had a full on george costanza bald spot on my head. One day i kind of impulsively decided to shave my head and by god... It was the best style choice i had ever made. I instantly got so much more attention from women. I literally lost my virginity within a few months after shaving my head lol.
I used to have long, curly hair in my 20s. In a ponytail, it could stretch out to just about get down to my belt. First thing that started to go was the typical bald spot towards the back of my head. With the longer hair, it wasn’t as visible. Then, when the front started receding, too, I knew it was time to give it up. Luckily, I’ve always been able to grow a pretty good beard!
I started thinning my hair around 18 years old and have been buzz/bald cutting it ever since. There is a huge industry built around monetizing male insecurity. In my opinion, the best thing is to OWN it. Play the cards that you're dealt, take care of your health and have a good career and you'll be just fine. It's also a great way to save money on hair products and barber/hair salon appointments. Even more importantly, cutting hair at home is a great way to save TIME.
Two things: A- I always thought Tupac looked amazing bald so I look up to him for hair loss. B- "I know what makes you a man... Your bald head"- Agnes from Despicable Me 2.
Shaved my head at 29 after 5 years noticing and obsessing about it. Afraid of the comments I will receive if I shave it etc. I swear to you 2 years later I couldn't give one shit about what people think and I am glad I am bald. I go for the rugged look and chick's dig it. Got my first girlfriend after I shaved my head.
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Once a guy goes bald and is comfortable with it, and confident. There is nothing you can do that will make him feel low about himself. Hats of to confident bald men that carry themselves with respect and confidence.
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😂 I'm one big ball of low self esteem but my baldness hasn't caused that
Baldness should be consider as a disability.
Reporting in.
I became a bald guy last week, well, hmm, but I'm not gonna stay bald, I'm gonna keep a buzz cut. I guess that does not count as bald.
For my bald brothers with beards, make sure you keep it oiled and clean. And don’t forget the skincare routine!
Amen.
I totally agree. I been doing the basics when it comes to skin care but I would like to know any suggestions to keeping your skin clear and refreshed.
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Well said on point!!!
@@Treisiess hahahahahahahaha
When I started losing my hair, I had anxiety about it during two years.
Then, the day I shaved it all, this anxiety disappeared. I did not feel any change in my ability to attract women. I was bald when I met my wife and now I have two children with her.
Just embracing it completely, being one with your baldness, makes you more mature and makes you learn that true confidence is indeed the key.
I know who I am, my strengths and my weaknesses, I know my place in this world. Baldness is a detail.
I hope you guys having that anxiety will also overcome it. Life after it is great.
I will kill myself if it continues
She said she would make a video on it...
And she delivered!!!
So you mean she shaved her hairs ?
I'm interested to see that !
This is especially true for women who are 25+. Guys get huffy about shaving it off because the girls who are 17-24 mostly prefer guys with hair, given that they prefer guys in their general age range. But bald works well when it's done right. You have to be in shape, get a tan, and have some sense of style. If you're out-of-shape, no muscle, weak as a kitten, ghost white, wearing a dollar-store t-shirt, nothing will work for you. I've been shaving it off since I started receding and I've never struggled for female attention.
Women who are 40+ accept bald guys because good looking men dont want 40+ old women, so they accept what they can get.
Women younger than 40 prefer men with hair, apart from the ones with bald fetish (who are a small small minority).
I decided to shave my head 2 months ago after accepting my receding hairline. Best decision I've made. No regrets 😁
You need to go to the gym, and make those triceps big,
Proudly married to a balding KING! He's killing it! OWN YOU, confidence is everything!
Thank you for this Courtney. I’ve been shaving my head for years. I started losing my hair at 24, and even before then, my hair line was super high up. Took me a long time to grow secure in that. So one day I shaved it off, I dug the look and have not looked back.
27 to 28 age started for me
@@AsimKhan-hz5kr did it take you a while to fully embrace? I went through a bit of a denial period. But I’m so much happier since shaving my head. Courtney is absolutely right about this.
Same story here. I actually prefer myself now with a shaved head.
My hair is currently receding. I'm 28 but don't mind it at all. I love it.
Mine was going at about 17-18
I had no idea going bald in your mid 20s was such an emotionally painful experience. I try to be adult about it but it's crushing my mind.
Same I be depressed about it 😔
I feel you bro I'm 39 and getting thin in the front
I was the same, but shaved it off years ago and it’s the best thing I ever did. Check out Bald Cafe - you’ll be ok man 🙂🌞
It's okay in the end it feels better to shave the head then keep the receiving hair. I shaved my head last month it was a shock but you get over it. I'm 23 by the way some people just have bad luck genetically
Get a hair transplant bro save up for it. Usually costs 10k to 15k.
Hey guys,
I'm 27 and have full alopecia - a condition which means I have no hair AT ALL on my whole body. It took a long time to "accept" myself both internally and externally, and in many ways that adjustment is still a work in progress. Don't stress about shaving your head, it's the universe's way of speeding up your self-improvement journey to become the real you. It's a gift. The inner man in you wants to break free and manifest himself. Embrace it, for your own sake. People hide behind all kinds of things, including hair. Life has been made simpler for you. Focus on what's important and reclaim a higher power !!!!! Peace and love ✌🏼
Courtney, your channel is a breath of fresh air and so refreshing to see as a man. Keep it up !
You are a true gem! ❤️ thank you for sharing this. Glad you’re here! 😊
Hey man! I'm late to see this comment but I also developed alopecia universalis on my whole body at age 29 out of nowhere, it's been almost 5 years now since I've lost it all and the worst part has been the lack of eyebrows/eyelashes, I couldn't care less about the hair on top of my head personally lol. I hope all is well with you! I've never had the opportunity to talk to anyone else who has exactly what I have.
I'm 34 and started losing my hair in my late 20s. Started using hair fibers to make it look like my hair is still full. It sucks to do it but, I'm scared I wont be attractive. This video gave me the confidence boost I needed to take the step and go bald.
Did you do it ?
Just do it bro. I did it. No regrets after. Have had so many compliments from women. Just be confident. Women love it. You got this
@@tylershubert1596 I'm gonna have to do it soon. I'm so depressed man, there's this beautiful girl that's entered my life, like I would marry her if I had the chance. I'm just scared once I go bald she'll lose all attraction to me ( I usually have longer hair)
@@Samplaceholderhow is out going
I used hair fibers for years, and they truly are a game-changer. However, the major downside is the fibers need hair to attach to (obviously), so the more you less, the less convincing it looks. My "wakeup call" was seeing a pic of me out with some friends, and realizing my hair looked like it was littered with sawdust. It looked so unnatural, to the point I buzzed my head afterwards. Haven't looked back since.
Bless you for making this video, fortunately for me I took the plunge 3 years ago but held off far too long prior to that but it was the best choice I could have made for myself. The confidence that follows after embracing it is real. It was a major paradigm shift for me in many aspects of my life.
THANK YOU for being a female voice to support men who are still going through it. You’re a real one
That's how it goes, I held off for far too long as well. Wore hats night and day, worried about someone making a comment 24/7 and the rare time when I had to take the cap off any small breeze would instantly flop my "bangs" up or to the side revealing not my 4head, but my 5 and 6head. lol I'd take bald guy over Balding guy any day of the week.
As someone who is genetically disposed to being bald, it seriously isn't bad at all. I had the widows peak early 20s, thinned crown mid 20s and finally shaved it smooth at 30 and been that way ever since. It is easy maintenance, looks good and most women seriously don't mind. Combovers suck. Thanks for your vote of confidence Courtney.
I adopted the completely bald look 20 years ago when my hair was seriously thinning, I've never looked back and the confidence boost you get is great. Thank you for your endorsement Courtney. 😎
My husband is bald with a beard which I find very attractive and I think he takes care of his scalp and beard more than I do for my hair. He started losing his hair in his late 20s so he's been bald since I knew him but I've seen pictures of him in late teens early 20s before that and I like the way he looks better bald than he did with a full head of hair.
When it comes to the ladies, I’ve shaved my head since I was about 19 & always had more success than my full head of hair friends, so it literally is about confidence & looking bad ass.
Awesome man. I’m quite tempted to shave mine bald, I have a good head of hair but I have some real beefy scars underneath from when I fractured my skull as a kid and would love to see what they look like with my head completely bald....probably gnarly and off-putting rather than sexy lol....who knows. Glad it’s worked so well for ya, doesn’t surprise me though as being bald is generally less common so if you rock it and it suits you then you’re bound to stand out from the crowd when it comes to attraction from females. Peace dude.
this is what we hear, go to gym bla bla bla..what if bald man dont hit gym? Game over i guess
@@partlysimpson5154 I’m not gonna lie having some muscle definitely helps, but some ladies aren’t into that, guess it just comes down to the girls personal taste & how well you carry yourself.
@@alexanderbeck7953 did you give the bald look a go pal?
It’s not for everyone but you can definitely look good rocking a bald head if you are confident doing it 👊🏻
@@martynscotton1020 no I haven’t yet sir, however I’ve had it really short...a grade or two away from being completely bald and that seems to suit me well and shows the scars...some people assume it’s weird tramlines or a haircut gone wrong but their idiots....it’s pretty obvious their massive actual scars....I could’ve died so it’s something I take pride in and wear as war wounds and a badge of honour....even though they weren’t caused by saving peoples lives or serving in war etc. Yes exactly mate, it’s all about confidence and being yourself. Like you said to the other chap about muscles....I reckon you’d be surprised most women actually love it and some won’t admit it but many think it’s attractive and are aroused by muscles and abs....some may be against it as they don’t want a long term partner looking like it due to all the undeniable attention from other women...especially in terms of marriage and having children etc etc....that’s the main thing that comes to my mind trying to look at it from a female perspective. Peace
I've had a bald head by choice for the last two years. I'm not losing my hair, I just thought I'd try it one day and I've loved it ever since.
I love being bald. It's the best.
the same case over here. You’re going to grow your hair back anyway, so why not try something new.
I can’t imagine why anyone would choose this. I would do anything to have all of my hair
@@johnmooney2086 I had the male pattern baldness that didn't look good so just shaved it off and have kept it that way and im fine with it. However I would rather have all my hair since im a natural red head.
I've been doing the bald head/beard thing for a few years....and can definitively say that women compliment me a lot on it .
Not me
I gained more confidence when I lost my hair. After that, I knew if I got a girl she would be with me for reasons more sustainable than just physical attraction. Been married 10 years.
wtf what a beta sentence
@@felixw3806 it actually makes perfect sense
lol
@@felixw3806 _Félix W resumes eating Cheese puffs from his mom's basement as he sorts his Pokemon cards_
Thinking the same thing. It made me smile. Thanks.
I can't stress enough how much of a difference it makes being bald with a tan and a nicely lined up beard. I went to a club in Miami after I got a tan and lined my beard up and lots of women were looking at me. And we met a group of girls and the blonde girl was so attracted to me she kept flirting with me the whole night lol. Also working out and tattoos helps as well.
Let me guess. You're above 6'2"
@@michaelboston5589nah I’m 6 ft
Parece ser meio comum moças loiras gostarem de homens carecas.
@@michaelboston5589 do you think hair gonna safe you from being short?
@@bangbob673 I'd rather be 5'8" with good hair than be 6' without hair
I literally came across this vid after just shaving my head. I've been doing this for about a year or so. I grew a short beard. Never felt more confident about my look. Thank You for this video, Courtney! :)
I'm sure you might have heard this compliment a lot before, but again lemme tell it, YOU HAVE SUCH A SWEET VOICE Courtney! 😊
Back in high school I shaved my head completely bald. It was so surprising but I’ve never received more compliments about it and especially from older women. If you’re considering shaving your head go for it!!
Thank you so much Courtney for touching on this subject. Losing your hair is depressing but I think You just boosted the confidence of thousands of men including myself!
My hair had been thinning and receding so I simply buzzed it low with a fade and letting my facial hair grow more and honestly I’ve gotten more attention from women ever since lol
Haha me too
Yep it definitely works, a lot of people don't know that, also helps boost your self esteem.
I started to lose hair around 20 years old, and now, almost 10 years later, it's one of the best things that could ever happen to me. It's a blessing in disguise.
You're looking good from the photo.
I lost my hair too, ironically I put more effort in my hair now shaving it than I ever did maintaining it before. I have the same beard style too.
@@cwill6491 thank you. Same here, now I have to shave it every 3-4 days. And our beard style is the best, I see more and more people rocking it.
Hey Filip! I totally agree with you. At first I viewed it as a curse but nowadays I regard it as a blessing since I completely transformed from a rather insecure balding young chap to a self-confidence young man.
Beard + bald is better than hair and I have a full head of hair.
@@mattblom3990 no, beard + hair is the best combo.
The day I went bald I was self conscious about it on the first day. Afterwards I never looked back since.
Thanks, Courtney. I started going bald when I was 19 yrs old. I tried to hold on to it but then I just shaved it all off and I did feel better about myself. Thank you for making this video. It definitely helps us guys out a lot to hear this kind of thing from a sweet, attractive girl like you.
We need more Courtney's in the world.
With all due respect, I think it's rather that more people need to learn from Courtney's fine example!
@@jmwoods190 Nah, we need more Courtneys
@@viper62967 I respectfully disagree, as Courtney creates these videos for us to learn from her insights, not to mention are incredible ones. If people just sit around and do nothing apart from wishing for more Courtneys would fall from the sky, it would be far from sufficient to make a profound, lasting difference in this world, defeating the fundamental reason why she’s here so generously making these amazing videos for us!!
One of my cousins names is Courtney. She's amazing and beautiful and funny.
@@keithscommunityanddomestic9513 So you're Courtney's cousin. Cool!
Divorced, 39, bald with a beard. Best thing that ever happened to me.
The holy trinity 😂
I started loosing my hair while in my teens during the big-hair decades of the 70s & 80s. I embraced what was naturally happening and refused to do the comb over. Thanks to celebrities like Michael Jordan rocking the shaved dome by the mid 80s, bald didn't seem so bad. I've never given my lack of hair a second thought and put all the money I've saved from salons by building a classy hat collection. Protect that top side, my friends.
A video I needed to see, as someone who really struggled with losing hair at 19. (I’m 35 now, safe to say I embraced it). Thank you, love your videos!
blame your daddy (and mom!)
@@whiterabbit1632 technically it’s the mom who Carries the genes of losing hair. Not the father. I know because all my brothers including me is bald. And other men on my mom’s side of the family. But my dads side, all the men, including him still have a full head of hair.
"If you're someone who's been thinking about shaving your head, now's your time to *shine*..." -- I SEE WHAT YOU DID THERE 🤣
Wow! another quote comment!
8:57
This girl knows how to RUclips by telling an entire population of guys what they want to hear lol.
Lol
Works for me, champ
This video genuinely made me curious, especially because I shave my head. Just remember that her boyfriend has hair.
@@michaelellis772 so?
@@rockymckay1705 Trust actions, not words.
I just ran across this because I was catching up on your podcast driving into work and all I need to ask is where is the ❤ button! My hairline was receding several years ago and I was so nervous going shaved. Bottom line is at the barbershop I was afraid to look thinking I made a huge mistake, but a young lady with her little boy getting a haircut looked over and said “that looks awesome; you look at least ten years younger”. Since I became a grandpa a couple of years ago I went with a neatly trimmed short chin beard and mustache and feel so much better about myself, plus I’ve gotten a lot more attention recently from women which is really nice. Making the decision to embrace being bald absolutely helped with my self confidence. Love your content, presentation and style Courtney!
Once you finally shave it off, that's one thing off your head. Seriously, it's less to think about and you can focus on other things. Less stress means more sleep and supports healthy testosterone, so you can focus on your diet and taking care of yourself. It's really a snowball effect, I can't stress enough how my health has improved in the year I've been shaving it and that added lean muscle really complements my new look.
I have Alopecia Areata. When I shave my head, all it takes is one day of missing the shave and people stare at the weird asymmetric patches where there's no stubble.
@@tastybrownie7448 I'm thinning at the front so definitely hear you there
I started to bald in high school and just started shaving it in my 20's and never looked back. I agree with you completely about the beard combo grew out my beard a few years ago and love my beard
Losing one's hair happens, and yes, it can be a emotional hurdle in manhood. That said, it doesn't really affect anything. I mean, every guy has some reaction to losing or not losing his hair. I've tried Minoxidil, and Finasteride, but I'm happier that I still don't wear glasses at 45. You come up with coping mechanisms because it's a drag getting old. Don't sweat it. You will be attractive to whomever will find you attractive whether or not you have hair.
FINALLY! Some love for us bald bros out here 🥰
U look good bro! Did u have some SMP?
You look awesome!
@@Guus115 thanks so much man. I actually dont. That pic is from when I first started shaving, I would let it grow 2-3 days between shaves. But for the past 3 years, I've been shaving it clean every single day. BEST decision I ever made. Not a fan of SMP
@@CourtneyRyan thanks Courtney. You’re the best 😏
🙏🙌
I've been bald for 30 years and have shaved my head every day since. I also have a one day growth beard. My wife and other women tell me it looks great, so If you are undecided about going all the way don't hesitate, get it done, you won't regret it. Above all for the sake of everyone on planet Earth, avoid the dreaded comb over it looks ridiculous.
I started to getting bald when I was 23, now I have 30 and got problems with self-esteem related to it. This is the first video that I watch from this channel and I loved it, thanks for this content, I will start to change my perspective from now on. Greetings from Brazil!
I'm glad you made this video. I started balding at 17 and I'm 24 now. I lost quite a bit of confidence from it. I would notice people looking at by hair, I didn't like it at all.
People call it being bald, I call it being aerodynamic.
@Fugeeface Entropy Yup. Sad for all of the hairy guys left in the dust. 🤭
It's so aerodynamic
Copedynamic
U ain't McGregor Brother !
I’m glad she didn’t leave us bald guys out. Keep it going Ms. Ryan
I just shaved my head last night, and I am feeling off about it, so I appreciate the confidence boost!
You seem very emotionally mature and intelligent for 25. Great video, I'm 25 and shaving my head too because my hairline went at 22.
So you have bad genes....
@@whiterabbit1632 well you’re a rabbit I don’t know what’s worse.
@@whiterabbit1632 nothing really matters bro!
In the end we are all gonna die what ever your genns are
Being bald for me with a little scruff beard works trust me from experience. It’s all about though what makes you look best. Also being in shape helps. And dressing good/decently like you got your sh*t together. Makes you seem like a grown man on a mission. Young girls don’t like it as much, but grown woman love it. You’re a man’s man. My bald fellas
Well said Ryan.
Totally, as a heterosexual guy with a FULL head of hair at 37 I think bald looks great. The only reason this video exists is some girls are way too picky about hair (still doesn't make sense to me, means more testosterone).
Started shaving my head around 2004; kept doing it. When I see a man struggling with the thinning/receding hair, I sometimes suggest shaving their head and about a third of the men say the shape of their doesn't look bald. @Courtney, you might have a follow-up video addressing men who would like to shave their head, but feel the shape of their head doesn't look good bald.
This is the only intelligent comment so far. Everyone else is simping over her. If they are being desperate simps, they are not going to pull off the bald look.
*sees title
*rushes to barber shop
*walks towards barber
-Ayo, you know the rock?
😂👏🏼
Barbar : say no more
The SmackDown was Layethed this day
@*Boss Status* lucky
@yamaneko lunardragon not perception bias at all. your assumption is invalid since he's explained that he's also heard it straight from their mouths
I had thick hair until a few years ago and it started thinning on top so I just went for the no guard buzz. It was such a relief when I embraced this look. Add some style to your wardrobe like Courtney always advises and you’re onto a great look.
*I started shaving my head 8 years ago, so great because no "donut" look, no shampoo, no comb or brush, no umbrella, and no more expensive haircuts !!!*
It’s all about how you carry yourself. Hair or no hair. Most of my friends are bald and their gfs and wives are very attractive. Just workout, have a good skincare routine, and carry yourself the right way. You’ll attract who you’re supposed to attract . No need to overthink it.
*so true bald head looks so manly than having hair. the only issue with me is im asian and its hard to grow beard lol*
Not true, baldness and alien looks are the same thing, having hair is essential, not in your cock, in your hair I mean.
Hi saw your comment. If you can grow a moustache and chin hair that's a good sign because you can look on RUclips and there are different ways you can increase your facial hair like micro needling with serums I did it for my cheeks and it actually worked for me it came through thicker
You don't need one.
I appreciate you Courtney and your awesome content.because you mentioned confidence several times I thought I would share. I accepted the fact early in highschool that I would probably be bald. But what I desire to share with you is this. Even being bald it took confidence to shave my head. I had to do mental gymnastics with the thought and then one day I did it. Interestingly I never regretted it. I don't faithfully shave everyday anymore but if I want a little boost to my grooming to boost my confidence I start with shaving my head. I'm letting my beard grow Long for the third time in my life. This time will be different. Blessings Courtney, we love you.
Hello to my bald brothers throughout the world , much love from England Uk
When I was in my 20s, people asked me all the time, "Do you shave your head or are you loosing your hair?". My answer was, "I'm losing hair but I used to shave even when I had hair." I realized that was a total turn off answer. Got a Scalp Micro Pigmentation 4 years ago. Now nobody asks me if I shave my head because I'm losing my hair. Every bald guy can use a subtle Scalp Micropigmentation.
Same here man, got smp done, best decision ever. More people need to get on this
I've seen videos of it and usually it looks awful. It's quite obvious that the person is bald especially when their head is in a well-lit area and the light just shines off their head. Waste of money if you ask me but hey, do whatever boosts your confidence.
@@TranceForLyfe I work in retail and when someone bald or balding comes in the boss sometimes shows them my head and they think I'm chatting bs when I tell them that it's a tattoo.
@@TranceForLyfe Its not just the money, its 6 hours of needles penetrating your scalp. It gives you a frame to your face and you won't look like a dickhead.
No, you save your hair
I started losing my hair at age 18, then while in college I shaved my head. The women in my classes stopped conversing with me. Later on, one woman, at a distance, asked me if I was going through chemotherapy treatments.
Bruh. You giving no one hope
@@donaldhutchison4652 but that's his lived experience. That's what he went through. It's OK to voice that. It's not all roses. This girl is sugar coating things.
All that means is you don't have enough weight on you. Put some muscle on at the opposite would happen. I've shaved my head off and on since high school and the hottest women I've dated are from when I've shaved my head, helps to have a stocky frame even WITHOUT a beard.
Never clicked on one of your videos so quickly. I'm not wringing my hands over it, but I know that the tide is receeding and we're approaching decision-making time here. Thanks for the valuable perspective as always, Courtney.
You’re definitely not alone! Happy to help and thanks for being here 😊
Try getting on Finasteride while there's still hope! As long as you can tolerate it, it can help retain your hair.
@@55Porter Why would you recommend a drug that can cause permanent sexual dysfunction, depression, and breast enlargement in men??? Just let the hair go, it's a battle you aren't going to win anyway.
Look up Bald Cafe. He will help encourage you that it is not the end of the world. I started with a buzz and moved to the razor shave and love it now. Balding is never a good look imo. Go bald and don't look back. Epictetus said something like "why should I worry about the baldness of my head? I can't control it, and everyone can see my baldness. And what kind of person would point out and mock that which all can see? Only an ignoramus."
@@CaneFu all that's overblown. The vast majority of people who take it at 1mg or less per day experience no side effects. Many others who do return to normal after they stop. It's just a miniscule percentage of people who try it one time and end up permanently messed up. If keeping hair is important to someone it's probably worth a shot.
Ok so I’m literally binge watching this channel Bc I just got my heart broke💔 and low key is making me feel a little happier
I been bald since I was 22. It was rough when I first saw it happening. But it Never stopped me for a minute with women. Shave your heads and rock it with pride and confidence! Stay hard! Hahaha
A great option is SMP (Scalp Micropigmentation), it's not cheap but works great. End result will look like you have a shaved head-not bald. People are shocked when I tell them it's not real hair, just looks like it. It really helped me, and changed my whole look.
I feel more confident being bald than I did when I used to be obsessed with my hair.
I have many people tell me they couldn't picture me with hair. I think it also depends on the mans structure and how he carries himself as well.
I been bald over half of my life I been told I'm handsome too I'm well groomed my dress code is on point I'm -65 years old been told I look like I'm in my 30's and 40's life is great for me Courtney im loving your videos thank you so much
Agree with you 100% - thanks for reinforcing these points with the rest of the guys out there - love your channel
Baldness was initially hard to take, but actually the best thing. Love it, except if you're caught in hailstorm! 😂
Only Women gonna tell this you, because they are mature, I'm 17+ and surely try my best to not get bald 🤧, but if I got I'm not regretting for sure ,thanks Courtney ❤
I feel so warm and fuzzy inside listening to you in this video. I've rocked the bald bearded look for 8 years now
As a bald guy, I approve this message 😅
Heck yeah! 😎
STRAIGHTZ💥👊👑👔🌹!!! BALD BLACC🌹🌘MANNZ_PRESENT#))
Now if the ladies were into bald guys with a dad bod, I'd be absolutely unstoppable 🤣
Step 1 for how to be attractive as a bald guy: Be the rock and as famous and rich and tall and buff as him.
Step 2: The end.
The underrated truth.
The rock , Vin Diesel and Jason Stathan too !
For reals. Celebrities are usually already in the hot category, right? Then they shave their head
How to be attractive as a bald guy:
Step 1 Have a masculine face
Step 2 Have a good head shape
Step 3 Have an above average body frame, work out a little and have a good diet
It's all about the face and headshape.
Courtney - thank you for sharing your thoughts. I am "follically challenged" and it does hit you in the gut initially regarding confidence. However, it was something I couldn't change. However, I could change my fitness. I go to the gym daily and due to my passion, I am actually stronger and in better shape than younger guys. Thus, I think my being bald actually pushed me to be more fit if that makes any sense. Thanks for being a true lady. I enjoy your videos!
I shaved my head at 21. Being bald is great. I've never had an issue with being bald. But not having a choice is more difficult. The desire to maintain control.
It's only difficult if you find hair more attractive than being bald. I wouldn't go back to growing hair even if I could.
I’m 38 and started losing my hair very young at 21. Spent the next 2 years trying to cover it up, until I just accepted it and shaved it bald at 23. Best decision I ever made! Thanks Courtney for posting this video! 😃
I actually started to get hit on and flirted with more after I went bald and started buzzing my head. Not a big deal at all.
As someone who hung on waaay to long to a thinning and receding hairline before taking the plunge to a clean shave, my advice is do it sooner rather than later! My biggest problem was that my scalp had never seen the sun so when I first shaved it looked like I was wearing a comedy Dr. Evil bald cap (I swear, it was as white as a sheet of paper!).
It’s taken about 3 years to start blending in to the skin tone of my face (admittedly I live in the UK so that might have something to do with it).
Now I’ve got used to it, all the reasons for doing it in this video are 💯 true! Matched up with styled facial hair that suits you and a classic smart wardrobe, you really can’t go wrong!
Yes it’s true, there are women out there who are hot for bald guys!
Bold head has no gray hair
@@lloydkline1518 There are women out there who are hot for grey hair also;) I quess it's about how you act out there. I've had bald long before I lost my hair so i dont even remember how it was when I had hair. One thing is a fact. If you dress like a member of right wing aryan skinhead, and you're not, you may meet ladies you dont even wanna meet. 😂
@@saminevalainen3554 I was talking about the michial jordan look;; I know he a billionaire & celebrity:: etc etc he shave all his hair before he was 40;; Grey hair once a certain age everybody gets Grey hair::;; it about how woman & men wear it;;; age has more to do with skin decline : people skin chances with age ; people can dye your hair;; however even 💄 cannot help.skin decline
@@saminevalainen3554 hair is more of a woman thing ;; long hair is a young man thing; it ages does not look good;; short or bald head great;; grey hair issue is more of a woman thing ;;my mother dye her Grey hair
I started balding in my 20's. It took me 2 years to build up the courage to shave my head. As soon as I did it I felt and looked 10 years younger and so the confidence shot up. I started doing quite well with women. Do it!!
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.
True!!
That is doubly accurate for fear of rejection by women. I used to try to get random women's numbers in my early 20s. I stopped doing that by my mid 20s. But my dating life has been very anemic due to the fact that I work in the defense industry which is 90% male dominated so I don't really meet women. I just tried to get a date with a cashier at a local store this past week. I have not dated anyone that was not a friend of a friend for about 16 years. It was such a positive experience because a nice person turned me down and my day was not any worse for it. If only I could go back to my 20s. So many missed opportunities. The funny thing is that all those "missed opportunities" that most of guys like to recall might have been rejections also. But at least, we would not have had the regret.
Trust me fellas she's not lying!! My father was a bald guy ...my mom and all his several women on the side would agree
as well 💪🪒💈
Just remember: Dwight Eisenhower was bald and that man liberated a continent!
And became president
Damn Straight!
He had hair when he liberated the continent. He went bald later on in his life. Having hair is a prerequisite for liberating continents. If he was bald during the war, that continent would have told him to get the hell away and shamed him for all the things that men have ever done to women. They would have sided with their oppressor (the bad boy) and put a positive spin on all the bad guy's bad behavior.
This lady gave me more confidence in my look than ive had in years. Thank you
If your gona be bald you gotta be in good shape to get good looking women. Women love the whole bald head with muscles look. It makes u look very masculine
Yes, being bald and out of shape is a big No-No.
I have been binge watching your videos for the past couple of days and I can’t get enough of them! I was also thinking that you should do a video of signs that you’re being curved if you haven’t already. Keep up the great work!!!
her voice is like a calm to calm. so relaxing.
I appreciate the video, but being bald sucks. Everyone I’ve ever seen with hair that later lost it looks worse without hair, including myself. Hair makes a big difference in appearance and I can’t lie to myself and pretend it’s not a big deal.
I was very over weight. Met someone amazing, so I started working out, eating right, lost weight but after lost more hair. I just shave my head and I like my look a lot. Being happy is important.
Thanks for the video. I'm 46 and have thinning hair in my crown area. Hid it for a few years with longer hair on top. But I was always worried about the bald spot showing. I decided to go ahead and try shaving it a few months ago. And, I really like it. I feel free!
Same here mate
I've always kept my hair very short since I joined the military. When I started to go bald, it was no problem at all - cut my hair even shorter!
This is spot on Courtney, I have more ladies approaching me now then when I had hair, also photo's of me before and after are proof its a good look guys, cheers!
Women actually approach you? Where do they approach you? How tall are you? Do you have one of those square iron jaws with giant shoulders? Bro, you gotta give more info. Women do not approach even the most attractive guys. You gotta be like a billionaire or something.
I started shaving my head a few days ago, so the timing of this video is perfect. I guess it kind of affirmed to me that I made the right decision. BTW, great channel!
Own it my friend. Once I shaved it I never looked back. Wish I had done it 5 years earlier
@@andyknight4175 I like it so far.
I shaved my head back in 2004 when I was running in Heat. The bald head solution made running 10 degrees cooler improved times and made hot summers way less difficult to run in. Fast forward 20 years and I have always said I choose to be bald like the episode in Steindfield. I am not much for the beard, I think if men shave their head shave the beard as well since it means basically you are consistent about your appearance. No offense to the bearded bald guys I just feel like if they had hair they would want it showing that they care about their beard. Just go full grown saved with confidence and do not give a CR*P.. Take care bald brothers.
Honestly, i always kept my hair very short (military style) so when I lost my hair I was 26 I didn't give a damn about it, I only had very long hair when I was 15-17, yeah I was a heavy metal guy so you understand.
Never been one to talk about my issues especially on a RUclips video. But I'm in my early 20's and I'm still adjusting to being bald.. been so depressed .. these comments really helping me
I started losing my hair when i was a 17 and didn't want to accept it. By the time i was 23 i had a full on george costanza bald spot on my head. One day i kind of impulsively decided to shave my head and by god... It was the best style choice i had ever made. I instantly got so much more attention from women. I literally lost my virginity within a few months after shaving my head lol.
I used to have long, curly hair in my 20s. In a ponytail, it could stretch out to just about get down to my belt. First thing that started to go was the typical bald spot towards the back of my head. With the longer hair, it wasn’t as visible. Then, when the front started receding, too, I knew it was time to give it up. Luckily, I’ve always been able to grow a pretty good beard!
It's not about been bald, it's all about confidence!!
I started thinning my hair around 18 years old and have been buzz/bald cutting it ever since. There is a huge industry built around monetizing male insecurity. In my opinion, the best thing is to OWN it. Play the cards that you're dealt, take care of your health and have a good career and you'll be just fine.
It's also a great way to save money on hair products and barber/hair salon appointments. Even more importantly, cutting hair at home is a great way to save TIME.
Two things: A- I always thought Tupac looked amazing bald so I look up to him for hair loss. B- "I know what makes you a man... Your bald head"- Agnes from Despicable Me 2.
Are you black though? Personally I’m pasty white Englishman so I look to Voldemort as inspiration.
@@me5969 uuhhhhhhh... do I need to be black to look up to Tupac?
Shaved my head at 29 after 5 years noticing and obsessing about it. Afraid of the comments I will receive if I shave it etc. I swear to you 2 years later I couldn't give one shit about what people think and I am glad I am bald. I go for the rugged look and chick's dig it. Got my first girlfriend after I shaved my head.