I totally agree because a guy should always be the one who is the leader in the relationship; and his girl should be constantly trying to keep his attention because he is on his purpose in life. The second a woman starts leading the relationship; it will end eventually.
I disagree, and I believe that that's an unhealthy way of looking at a relationship with someone you like or love. I've been independent long enough to be used to being single. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I want to be. And yeah, I'mma care about the health of the relationship and the happiness of my partner. But I'll be sure that I'm still getting what I want out of the relationship too. If I don't care enough about either my partner's happiness or my own, then I don't really need to be in a relationship. Reducing a relationship down to simply power dynamics is very naive. If one person or the other guides the relationship, that's fine, but when both people in a relationship are healthy adults with realistic expectations, you both come into it trying hard to make it work. In that case, both of y'all care.
So true! I have gained about 8 pounds during COVID. My pre-COVID job was an extremely active one where exercise was part of the work. So, I didn't have to "formally" work out as much. Anyway, I'm getting back to form. But my point is, that even at 8 pounds above my "fightin' weight", I STILL look better than over 90% of American men my age. My intention is not to brag, it's to make a point. The US has a serious epidemic and it's not so much about exercise really. The problem is more due to diet and nutrition. I know people that work out HARD and are still chubby. EAT.MORE.PLANTS!!! The unrefined and unprocessed (or minimally processed) kind. It's that simple.
1:36 good shaped body 4:06 nicely maintained facial hair 5 o'clock shadow and stubble with jawline 5:01 dressing well 7:27 nice hair style 9:00 look tall 10:36 Good grooming habits
So you are saying personality and sense of humor have nothing to do with it? (LOL) the 2 most common things that women say on a dating profile are all lies
@@ashifarman4813 idgaf if your not interested its a fact men are being turned into sissys more and more every day by our sick society and its for a very sinister purpose … when shit hits the fan yall will be begging us to bring back our toxic masculinity 💯
What about man who is covered with mud and blood .. but has freshly slain deer in tow? Proving he also can provide and protect. Oh, well. Never mind .. That was important thousands of years ago ..
I don't specifically believe in doing something just because women will find it sexy, don't spend Your whole life making girls happy and chasing them. Find your purpose and get busy in achieving it, girl who deserves you will come to you automatically.
Girls who deserve you will come to you during your progress. If they only show up once you’ve bettered yourself all alone, then they aren’t worth keeping around.
I like your honesty. If you lost out in the looks department, tough luck, life isn’t fair. Trouble is, if you did miss out (like me), getting in shape doesn’t make any difference (or very little). Looks are 85%, Money 10%, Fitness 3%, charisma 1%, SOH 1%, Good Maths skills 5%.
Or your 70yrs.old,finally gaining extra pounds,and most alarming,graying,and basically losing your hair...mostly on top,so yes,tried the hair fiber thing, and worked kinda,till you don't have enough on top for the fibers to stick to, oh well,do the old stand by,put on a sticking hat,or cool 😎 cap of some sort...da!!!oh yeah, some say just shave it all off!?!Well in my opinion, I don't want to look like a Q-ball,Not for me!!!
Dude, looks is big, but excelling in the other areas you’ll still find someone around your level or slightly better. But if you view your looks as a 3 then just assist your expectations to the same for a woman. There’s someone out there for everyone.
I can think of two people I work with who are bald, short and don’t look good facially. Both are married to attractive women so there are other things that are important - just don’t ask me what - I’m single!
When I was a teenager, I took tetracycline for acne. Unfortunately, my dermatologist didn't tell me one of the side effects was darkening of my teeth. When I went to Brite Smile years ago to get my teeth professionally whitened, I was so disappointed they could only whiten my teeth two shades brighter.
I am a 40 year old male who has spent the majority of my life in sports and hanging with popular socially acquired crowds. I have always took care of myself health wise from 14 until current with clean eating and exercising. I used to be a very nice dressed, always very well groomed and styled especially when going out. All of that good jive lasted until I hit 31 or 32 then I turn the tables a bit. While still taking care of myself physically but not as religiously, I started focusing on my relationship, family and work. I quit the Abercrombie and slacks look and went to white tees and jeans, grew my beard and stash out more, stopped worrying about my hair styled as much and started getting tattoos around 34 and continue to do so while being more of a grease monkey and motorcycle enthusiasts in my spare time now and honestly, I have to say that I notice alot more females looking, talking to me and more even asking me if I'm single! Also, I do enjoy not having to worry about spending half a day on my looks anymore and more time with my family and my dogs lol! Point is in my personal experience, you don't have to be a Ken doll or male model to attract the average woman and a 10 female usually isn't the best choice for a relationship in my experience as well lol! There's so much more to life than craving attention guys and it's way too short anyways so enjoy it the best you can!!
God, Courtney, you are beautiful from the inside out. Thanks for your work. We, men, need constant reminders. Even if we are just trying to keep the woman that is in our lives. Women should be so happy about the work you do.
I'm 58 years old, and I've dedicated 100% of my time and effort into my career. In highschool I was the typical geek, and was laughed at and teased by my peers. I graduated highschool, went on to university, attended medical school and became a pediatric neuro-surgeon. Unfortunately, my past has left me emotionally scarred when it comes to women. I live alone, BUT I love what I do, and the rewards that come with the job.
Your beliefs have been on auto pilot since you were younger and are not a reflection of who you truly are. The universe and everything in it will treat you exactly the way you want to be treated deep down.
@@christianguenther1276 If you truly believe that, then you are correct. I'm here to say anyone can change IF they really want to and make a conscious effort to do so. We are our own worst enemy though, that negative self talk isn't the real you speaking.
I was fat most of my adult life, until I decided to change at the age of 39. On the first day of 2021, I weighed at 400 pounds, now I am at 260. I was always a big, relatively tall guy, so at that weight I look good, and obviously women have noticed the difference. But, the biggest difference is that they don't look at me while saying "oh, he looks handsome now", they actually look at me with a thought "wow, this guy is dedicated, he knew what he had to do, and he did it". Guys, you don't have to be ripped to be phisically attractive, being in shape doesn't mean that. I still have a lot of extra weight I need to shred, but the improvement, especially, in confidence is overwhelming.
Hi Courtney I thoroughly enjoyed your video. You’re very attractive, articulate and speak very well. You spoke during the video about your voice and the comments from some listeners, it appears you have not let get to you. Well done. You will always get people who are sad about their own life and hate when someone has their life together. I’m an older guy, happily married but what you’re saying is keeping the standard high. Good video keep it up☘️
I know the dark hair point is true in most creatures on earth, so lionesses will tend to flock towards lions with darker mains, because darker hair is an indicator of less stress in nature, and nature, less stress equals more success. Because if you think about it for A minute, if a lion gets a chance to blonde his main that means he spending a lot of time out in the sun, that means he’s not succeeding at hunting as much. Where, as a lion, with a darker main more than likely has a very good hunting success. Because that means he gets to spend more time hanging out in the shade.
"A good chest does more good that harm". What harm? No harm. Only good things comes from exercise disciplined routine. Its not only about physical view. Its mostly because it clears the mind and makes us more focused and optimized.
This whole video: Take care of your body! xD I'm genuinely shocked of the amount of people (both men and women) don't value their mental and physical health, but I'm glad you're here to give the honest advice. Probably because I'm 18 lol You're doing great, Courtney; thank you for the amazing videos~ 😊❤️
and yet, when men ask women to be fit they get all bent out of shape and tell us not to body shame ladies, if you are confident to make demands then don't be hypocrites when we do the same
I had this stupid debate with my brother about how he believes most women want a man with a dad body. Which I replied sure I see many woman checking out the dad body guy and not the guy in great shape. Funny as he wear a shirt in the pool. I luckily have a great jawline, not a bit of fat under the chin and sunken cheeks and high cheekbones. I loved to put on a tight white t (I have a big chest and small waist), with jeans and a pair of smaller black wayfarers. If I have a tan, the attention is incredible. Actually, even without the tan, the attention is incredible.
Based on this logic I guess it’s okay to end a relationship if the woman gets out of shape or vice versa. This is the reason people are miserable in relationships in this part of the world. But hey at least you are honest about it
Dear Courtney. Everything you state in your video is true, - I just need to add one thing, - it works both ways, and i often see woman "demanding" or expecting the thing you state, but can not live up to it themselves. THATS a big problem :) - Have a super nice day, and tell your sisters to step up :) -Greetings from Denmark
Or forget all these tips, go pick a girlfriend up from the Ukraine where the women are 10 x hotter and their standards for men are more reasonable...I feel like uk and usa women are too stush, there is ridiculously stunning women in some of the European countries and from what I've seen don't play hard to get or any of that bs. Ofc if you are handsome you can get women anywhere, just ignore them and they want you even more. ;)
I have done a fitness show and trust me I never got so much attention when i went out that night after the show. For weeks after the show girls loved the abs! You have to wear a very tight shirt so they can see them. Im 40 and still alnost have a 6 pack. Lost most my hair and still pull younger hot girls, I do kinda hide it and wear a hat alot but u can make up lost hair with a 10 body.
I either grow a full beard or I am clean shaven with sideburns. We need more sideburns on men. But I see stubble as the sign of a man who cannot grow a beard or is a derelict.
It’s funny how there are these channels made by women to help men become more attractive but u don’t see channels made by men to help women attract men? Just my observation. I guess it’s bcoz we r the ones that approach women and there are a lot of men these days not doing it right. I’m not attacking men but I think us guys have been going downhill for decades thanks to conditioning. Im sure this wasn’t such a problem with men in the past. As far as I’m concerned men in the past acted much more masculine naturally. We have been feminised by society for years now and clearly it’s been turning women off. I also think based on looking at videos from the past like the 1950s and 1960s that people used to be in better shape and were always well dressed. Personally I think women will always attract men even when they don’t look their best unless they look absolutely minging! Courtneys really got it together. She’s not just very pretty but her hair looks nice, she always dresses really well too. Her guy is lucky coz he gets to cuddle up with her and listen to that beautiful feminine soothing voice. Guys need to understand, u ain’t gonna get a girl like her if u don’t make some effort yourself.
Gents, teeth are naturally slightly yellow. Please do not go for artificial whitening agents as they are harmful. However, the yellow teeth that aren’t taken care of well are not good.
When I told a girl, I had a lot of money in the bank, she said I was very good looking. I'm only average looking. Money talks, and since I met this girl, my money is always saying, 'Goodbye'! 😣
Looks and height are everything for men in dating. There is multivariate analysis proving this. If you are 5 feet 6 as a guy, you will be rejected by over 95 percent of all women based on height alone. Women are ten times more visual than men. I am lucky I am 6 feet 3. Women confess to me that they never would date short guys. Some men prefer heavy set Women. Many men actually like them. Name one woman anywhere in the world that prefers short men.
Some things I can’t control. I don’t have a great jawline. I do work out but not crazy amounts, just a couple times a week. I have some muscle with some fat. I grow my beard a little longer to compensate for the mediocre jawline.
Im 5'11" , 8/10 times i feel like i am tall enough , still i am only 18 and i hope i'll get taller , i guess getting to 6'1" its not very possible anymore but im still hoping for 6 foot
My father always said, "just remember, no matter how good she looks like, someone out there is tired of her $hit, so, pay good attention at what you want and how she is"
My saying was always "show me the hottest, sexiest woman in the world...and I'll show you a guy that's tired of that p*ssy and is cheating on her" but...I know what your dad was saying too 😂
@@whitewalker608 Ooooo! You must be really lonely, boy. …If they don’t like you, it’s your job to _make_ them like you! For the most part, most girls don’t like you at first. You have to woo them. Girls generally have a lot of choices - - especially the ones worth having! The choice of which boy gets to be with a girl is up to the _girl_. Boys don’t have any _choice_ in the matter. They either become interested in a girl or they fall in love with a girl and that’s the end of that. What you may not know, now, is that you will love the girls you fall in love with - - for the rest of your life! …There is no escaping them! Life is hard; full of pain and emptiness; and then we die! The mistake that I made when I was young was to observe that there were plenty of fish in the sea. So when a girl resisted me too hard, I would just ‘go fishing’. I realized later that I should have always doubled-down. It’s a competition to win the right to fertilize those eggs. The girl is the judge and jury. You have to become indispensable to them. Unfortunately, the advent of really reliable and accessible birth control has caused girls to, well…. Never get pregnant. They can’t ever fall in love with you if they don’t know what love is. When they have a child of their own, they are going to love that child more than their own life. Only then is there a chance they will fall in love with _you_. The rest is just passion. Passion doesn’t last.
1.good shaped body 2.nicely maintained facial hair 5 oclock shadow and stubble with jawline 3.dressing well 4.nice hair style 5.look tall 6. Good grooming habbits
Great calm voice, Courtney. I’m a truck driver. I’ll stack a list of videos to last a few hours and just listen with the screen off. I’m too old for your advice to matter much lol. Your voice is like a calming salve for my soul in traffic. Thanks,
5/6 isn’t bad for me. I’m 5’ 6” and have a lot of experience in the past decades. I’m in my 40s, single dad, and I’m still doing fine. I’ve always stayed in shape and take care of my appearance. For all you shorter guys like me, it’s exactly what Courtney says, it’s about your confidence only. All but two of my ladies of the past were taller than me. I like taller women, what can I say? I just don’t see myself as a short person, and if you don’t see yourself this way, then neither will women. It’s really is that simple. Walk talk, be confident.
I am same height as you. My wife has passed so I am on the market again, and the first girl I went out with was taller, it doesn’t bother me at all. I think I will do the five o’clock shadow thing though.
I’m 5’ 8” and have dated several women taller than me. They were actually very insecure about being “too tall,” if you can believe it. Having said that, I struggled with women until I put on a decent amount of muscle mass. More than anything, women want a man who looks and acts masculine.
In my case, hitting the gym, or track or just being active also improved my state of mind. This makes me more confident where I don't have to try and overdo it. If a girl shows no interest, I move on.
I USED to be confident from workout out year.. last couple years females dont care, i dont even get looked at anymore n im constantly rejected by females. My confidence has all dwindled away.. i can’t get a female to save my life it seems. This world has turned to trash and girls minds are all mush now.. 😢
"I won't date you unless you're 6'5"." That is such a ridiculous standard. Those women will be sorely disappointed as that's less than 2% of the male population!
I mean, I sort of understand why women want their men to be a little taller, but requiring your date to be above 6'0" is fucking ridiculous, let alone 6'5"! 😂 That is SO dumb! Notice how guys never have these preferences for women. All we want is for our girlfriends to take care of themselves and stay in shape. Having a good face obviously helps, but as far as physical attraction goes, our requirements are usually within any woman's reach. Women have standards that 80% of men LITERALLY can't compete with.
@@hasselett ehh, the large majority of women don’t have strict height requirements. The ones who say this kind of thing are usually super hot Instagram model types. They can get away with drastically narrowing their dating pool like that because they’re so sought after in general.
Luckily most girls who aren’t very tall themselves are horrible at guessing people’s heights, so if your like 5’9 and above they just assume your about 6 feet tall
I'm only 5'10" and my height has never been an issue with women. I even dated a couple women who were taller than me. Not saying there aren't women out there who are obsessed with height. But from my personal experience it's not the norm.
@@alexanderkohary1690 No problem. Actually, quiet sobbing with a little bit of tears works fine because it shows the sensitive and feminine sides of you. And get a dog. Women loves cute dogs. 😀
"Teacher, what must i do to have quality women? I've done everything that you asked me" "If you want to be perfect, go, sell all you have and give it to my sister, then you will have eternal abundance of women"
Being fit transcends mere physical attraction. Somebody dropped this gem on me many years ago: Observe how well or how poorly someone takes care of themselves and their own life -- that is the very best you expect them to extend to you over any appreciable stretch of time.
Looks do matter. Humans on a baseline psychological level are judgmental. We assess risks, threats, distance and even potential mates based off of perceptive judgment. A man's overall health is a priority if you're wanting to market yourself to a quality friendship. 🙂
Yes, I believe it's high time people start to accept that humans are just "wired" in the way that they perceive some aspects and features to be beautiful and some to be undesirable. It's just human nature to like one aspect and dislike another and people need to understand that. Looks do indeed matter.
My health is my responsibility, and I owe it to myself to keep myself in shape, exercise and eat halfway decently. That I might be attractive to someone else because I am in shape is a side benefit. As I tell my sons, if you take care of your body, it will take care of you. Treat your body as a temple and respect it.
I’m 64 and enjoy doing the same activities I did when I was 19. Skiing , golfing ,hiking, biking.etc…I find it funny looking back what a scrawny looking kid I was back then. I see today’s youth out of shape drinking too much coffee , eating junk , wearing odd clothes . That was my generation too , were not so much different. Keep active and exercise doing something you enjoy . I remember good looking people losing their looks and health due to bad lifestyle choices.
I asked Tim Gunn once how you know what clothing is in style. His response: “Whatever you walk out of the house feeling the most comfortable in and feeling the most like YOU… that’s what’s in style.” Authenticity always wins ✊
Indifference is the core. Even a man who has the physical traits, financial resources, confidence, looks, heighth, guaranteed women will get tired and want someone else no matter how God like the man is. Stop caring what women think.
I like how you point out that physical qualities like body type and style of dress do matter and that it will attract a woman who is into that type of physical quality! Also, most of those traits, we do have some influence over.
Confidence makes you irresistible Your inner thoughts should be authentic and come as glowing on your face and eyes! I seen more hot girls with guys having chubbiness and dad bods Your confidence should be positive and spread happiness Atleast make her comfy around you
While that's true, you should still wanna be in the best shape of your life as a man. Because like Courtney said, you having your shit together as man and you in shape; puts you ahead of most of the guys in the dating market who aren't.
You're right, I agree, but being healthy, fit physique wise, and just healthy does make one both mentally strong and confident. It has changed my own state of mind. I was obese, 270 pounds with a 47" mid section. Once I dropped to 190 pounds and got down to a 36" mid section. My mindset improved and treatment by others improved too. Everything matters.
"Dad" boobs??? Sheesh. Have a little respect. Dad's are the best people around. Why does a guy even join in on disrespecting them??? Maybe someday you'll be there.
Small details that can make a huge difference: Simply change your pillow cases more often. Whatever time frame you're doing it in, just shorten it and it'll solve the majority of your facial problems.
@@JstJaybeingJay it gets filthy and all that bacteria goes on your face :D. The skin on your face is the most sensitive. Clean your cellphone as well, at least once per day
100% true! To those guys who say, "Screw this dumb advice, I don't care what women notice, I do what I want." I say, thank you. That's less competition for those of us who want to win the hearts of high value women. Thanks Courtney!
Just for the record: you are not going for the 'hearts of high value' women, you are going to their panties... BTW - and it is my own observation - you get the most attraction as a man if you are neither seeking, nor trying to avoid attraction but instead you do what you exactly laughed at: if you are simply focusing on your own shit, like work, school, sports. And if anyone asks you if there is any fuckable chick in that activity you can simply not answer that because you don't know it.
From the beginning of time women have been selective when it comes to the men they want to be with. ITs about resources. Money, appearance and good genes. both men and women are shallow, men are just honest about it and women want to appear not shallow (lies they tell themselves) but yes most women will be honest with each other. I don't fault them, because if they will mate with someone they definitely want a long term investment they dont want to be stuck with a deadbeat and someone who will give them sickly children. Why do you think Elon Musk has 10 children with 8 different women? Its not his personality that these women are attracted to.
Very long story short, my dear sweet wife passed going on 3 years ago, 2 Saturday's ago a mutual female friend of ours came up to me and said I had been on her heart for quite a while and that she had always been quite fond of me as well as my sweet wife. Last Saturday I invited her to have a coffee at a bakery w me and it was from the moment I picked her up in my car to the moment I dropped her back off the best time I have ever had w a woman. I told I very enjoyed our time together and she invited me to 3 different upcoming events. I don't know where this will go, but it's off to a incredible start. I've known this person for about 30 years and I already know I've fallen for her but will wait and see how things develop Lord willing. Thank you for all your advice. I followed it as best I could . We she is wonderful and everything I had prayed for in a friend and hopefully way more.
From my perspective women are really attracted to a guys outline, physique, bone structure , if your cute ,dress code, energy which are all physiological identifications.80 % of initial attraction is physical however that 20 % abstractly vocalized is essential especially personality ,empathetic accuracy and emotional intelligence!!!!.The IMMATERIAL aspects of an individual is the most effective and VITAL conceptualization for persuading the opposite gender an also MAINTAINING a stable marriage!!!!!
Well said, Pierre! Though it is ultimately good to take care of your body and keep up appearances on the outside, it's all for nothing if you're a terrible person, or lack confidence on the inside
From my experience, the taller the girl is(5’10-6’) the less she cares about height and the shorter the girl is(5’ and below) are the ones who want a basketball player for a bf. The taller girls probably aren’t picky because their options are limited as far as having a taller partner.
True, I'm 5'9 and I don't care, with heels I'm taller than most guys anyway. My kids don't have to be 6'5
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Hello! Tall girl here! (Six foot) I used to care about height. "Absolutely not, I will never go for a guy shorter than me!" As time went on though, I met guys I liked that were shorter than me (not midget, they were at least touching my head lol), and I realized I didn't care as much anymore. I wouldn't exactly say this process occured because of lack of options, because I had tall options as well. Moreso I think I learned to find it endearing. TLDR: good guys aren't worth giving up just cuz they're a little shorter than me.
Agree - super tall gals don't have many options. I'm 6'-2". I met a gal once she was maybe 5'-11" or 6'-0" who was interested in me but naw she was just too gangly for me (like me!). I like 'em at 5'-7" the perfect height for me. That said if i could design myself i'd be 6'-0" bang on - it's all about proportions if u ax me...
Women: he has to be taller than me, stronger than me, older than me, and make more than me. Men: she has to be shorter than me, weaker than me, younger than me, and make less than me.
Strength I agree! A man should be the epitome of strength, both inside and out. The protector, the provider. It’s natural law. Height is irrelevant if the man is truly strong. Age tends to denote wisdom, and most women want a man they can look up to. Wealth also denotes power, albeit in a different context than brute physical strength. But women are drawn to both a protective man and one who can provide. If you’re both, hats off to you. It’s like a lion in the wild. The one that can defend the territory but also keep it large and specious will keep adding females to his pride!
@@thusspokezarathustra1847 There are men out there that don't they normally lazy bums that chose not to work or do anything unless they are getting something. Good normal people will normally not run into them.
The Body positivity only applies to those who created it… WOMEN! Men remember that! We can’t afford to be out of shape. Stay healthy and get fit if you’re not. Because having a good body MATTERS!
I agree with everything you say. I was in really good shape in college, and had a great time dating. Later on like so many guys, I let my body slip and starting getting a bit fat. Then a friend challenged me to get back in shape, and because I was reaching the age my dad died at, I took this challenge quite seriously. I've been quite serious about my workouts pretty much ever since, I've definitely gotten some very positive comments over the years, though honestly the main reason I stay in shape is I enjoy playing sports and I don't want to die young like my dad. Also, pretty much agree with what you said about height, although twice in my life I had very long relationships with large women, by large I don't mean fat, I mean one was on the college basketball team, and she ended up marrying a guy shorter than her, and a girl that was just big, neither of us married, but we are both still friends.
Nope. Being attractive just draws more toxic females. Well, they’re all toxic, but the one who doesn’t care how you look will be more genuine. Once you find her you should take care of yourself just for her.
I’m 5’7” maybe 5’8” on a good day 😉. I’ve dated a girl that was 5’9” she was “out of my league” it honestly just takes you talking to her first. Shoot your shot gents. Courtney says, “take care of yourself” after almost every example. Get into a routine and make that routine your minimum effort and if there’s someone you’ve been wanting to ask out. Do it sooner than later. People are like nachos, if you don’t go after the one you want, someone else will.
Courtney is right about these 6 things. You should be in shape as a man not neccesarily to get a girl but so you can feel comfortable in your own skin. We always have to be on our A game as men. Because when we are, it allows us to not accept bad treatment from women. Looks definitely get you in the door but your mindset and ability to provide for the girl will keep her around. I prefer the stubble/clean cut look for myself but i try to present my best self when i do start looking for a woman. Anyways be blessed everyone ♥️
@@CourtneyRyan you're welcome! I do my best haha. I appreciate you being honest with us about what women really look for cuz so many would lie to us. Definitely do a mens skincare video cuz so many guys don't know about it
And if we are comfortable in our own skin being a bit overweight thats ok too right? Because if is not then you'll say you'll never attract a woman that way to which your point of " not necessarily to get a girl" is total bullshit
Hate facial hair I always go bare, I love my hair, working out at home with own equipment and exercises, already attracted to girls who are smaller than me, that's kinda cute. Only thing I can't really change for the love of anyhting is that I can't really afford any nicer clothes than what I already have... everything I look for is so goddamn expensive, I can only afford them like 1 piece of a set in a month at max or not even that.
The one who cares the least runs the relationship. get with the girl that adores you the most. Not the one you breakin your neck for.
I totally agree because a guy should always be the one who is the leader in the relationship; and his girl should be constantly trying to keep his attention because he is on his purpose in life. The second a woman starts leading the relationship; it will end eventually.
Have you been watching Cole Hastings? I saw that quote in one of his videos.
I literally just watched one of your videos this morning. Ngl I laughed a lot. Good memes.
i'd rather be alone that being with someone i don't desire.. whats the point then lol
I disagree, and I believe that that's an unhealthy way of looking at a relationship with someone you like or love. I've been independent long enough to be used to being single. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I want to be. And yeah, I'mma care about the health of the relationship and the happiness of my partner. But I'll be sure that I'm still getting what I want out of the relationship too. If I don't care enough about either my partner's happiness or my own, then I don't really need to be in a relationship.
Reducing a relationship down to simply power dynamics is very naive. If one person or the other guides the relationship, that's fine, but when both people in a relationship are healthy adults with realistic expectations, you both come into it trying hard to make it work. In that case, both of y'all care.
You are already ahead of most of America by simply:
--- being in shape ---
*wheezing intensifies*
Youre ahead of most of America by just not being fat. In shape is a bonus.
@@johnmcmillian8842 mhmm
So true! I have gained about 8 pounds during COVID. My pre-COVID job was an extremely active one where exercise was part of the work. So, I didn't have to "formally" work out as much. Anyway, I'm getting back to form. But my point is, that even at 8 pounds above my "fightin' weight", I STILL look better than over 90% of American men my age. My intention is not to brag, it's to make a point. The US has a serious epidemic and it's not so much about exercise really. The problem is more due to diet and nutrition. I know people that work out HARD and are still chubby. EAT.MORE.PLANTS!!! The unrefined and unprocessed (or minimally processed) kind. It's that simple.
This goes beyond physical attraction. There were other very attractive traits that you develop and exude while getting in and staying in shape.
1:36 good shaped body
4:06 nicely maintained facial hair 5 o'clock shadow and stubble with jawline
5:01 dressing well
7:27 nice hair style
9:00 look tall
10:36 Good grooming habits
So you are saying personality and sense of humor have nothing to do with it? (LOL) the 2 most common things that women say on a dating profile are all lies
Look tall? Lol your tall or your not
@@ashifarman4813 so men wearing high heela basically lol as if they havent made men feminine enough now a days🤦♂️
@@ashifarman4813 idgaf if your not interested its a fact men are being turned into sissys more and more every day by our sick society and its for a very sinister purpose … when shit hits the fan yall will be begging us to bring back our toxic masculinity 💯
@@vanthadoun1 the vid is abt physical traits not personality
Yes. Most men love women who smells nice, gentle & feminine. As most women loves masculine,well groomed & maintaining good hygiene men.
It's mostly about being healthy and taking care of ourselves (men and women) and that's attractive of course
@@JLchevz Yes people
Please do not repeat your socks 🧦 and Underwear. Change them after every use!! Even if only a few hours before taking a bath.
What about man who is covered with mud and blood .. but has freshly slain deer in tow? Proving he also can provide and protect.
Oh, well. Never mind ..
That was important thousands of years ago ..
@@matikaevur6299 Deodorant and Shampoo did not existed years ago as well…. Not sure what point you were trying to make.
@@matikaevur6299 Depending on what part of the U. S. you're in, she might see you as a keeper.
I love how you lay out the realities of human attractiveness in such a nice and polite way.
I don't specifically believe in doing something just because women will find it sexy, don't spend Your whole life making girls happy and chasing them. Find your purpose and get busy in achieving it, girl who deserves you will come to you automatically.
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taking care of yourself is something you should be doing regardless of whether youre trying to get a girl or not
@@nobee99 So true 👏
Girls who deserve you will come to you during your progress. If they only show up once you’ve bettered yourself all alone, then they aren’t worth keeping around.
100% My friend, this one is indicative of the air heads we men have to tolerate
I like your honesty. If you lost out in the looks department, tough luck, life isn’t fair. Trouble is, if you did miss out (like me), getting in shape doesn’t make any difference (or very little). Looks are 85%, Money 10%, Fitness 3%, charisma 1%, SOH 1%, Good Maths skills 5%.
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Or your 70yrs.old,finally gaining extra pounds,and most alarming,graying,and basically losing your hair...mostly on top,so yes,tried the hair fiber thing, and worked kinda,till you don't have enough on top for the fibers to stick to, oh well,do the old stand by,put on a sticking hat,or cool 😎 cap of some sort...da!!!oh yeah, some say just shave it all off!?!Well in my opinion, I don't want to look like a Q-ball,Not for me!!!
Dude, looks is big, but excelling in the other areas you’ll still find someone around your level or slightly better. But if you view your looks as a 3 then just assist your expectations to the same for a woman. There’s someone out there for everyone.
I can think of two people I work with who are bald, short and don’t look good facially. Both are married to attractive women so there are other things that are important - just don’t ask me what - I’m single!
When I was a teenager, I took tetracycline for acne. Unfortunately, my dermatologist didn't tell me one of the side effects was darkening of my teeth. When I went to Brite Smile years ago to get my teeth professionally whitened, I was so disappointed they could only whiten my teeth two shades brighter.
Can always get some veneers.
I am a 40 year old male who has spent the majority of my life in sports and hanging with popular socially acquired crowds. I have always took care of myself health wise from 14 until current with clean eating and exercising. I used to be a very nice dressed, always very well groomed and styled especially when going out. All of that good jive lasted until I hit 31 or 32 then I turn the tables a bit. While still taking care of myself physically but not as religiously, I started focusing on my relationship, family and work. I quit the Abercrombie and slacks look and went to white tees and jeans, grew my beard and stash out more, stopped worrying about my hair styled as much and started getting tattoos around 34 and continue to do so while being more of a grease monkey and motorcycle enthusiasts in my spare time now and honestly, I have to say that I notice alot more females looking, talking to me and more even asking me if I'm single! Also, I do enjoy not having to worry about spending half a day on my looks anymore and more time with my family and my dogs lol! Point is in my personal experience, you don't have to be a Ken doll or male model to attract the average woman and a 10 female usually isn't the best choice for a relationship in my experience as well lol! There's so much more to life than craving attention guys and it's way too short anyways so enjoy it the best you can!!
As long as you are confident in who you are, whether fat or not, you will still attract women
Wise words brotha 👊🏼
In this day and age, being masculine is enough
Cost most men are not masculine anymore
I think skin care could be a mini series of its own
God, Courtney, you are beautiful from the inside out. Thanks for your work. We, men, need constant reminders. Even if we are just trying to keep the woman that is in our lives. Women should be so happy about the work you do.
I'm 58 years old, and I've dedicated 100% of my time and effort into my career. In highschool I was the typical geek, and was laughed at and teased by my peers. I graduated highschool, went on to university, attended medical school and became a pediatric neuro-surgeon. Unfortunately, my past has left me emotionally scarred when it comes to women. I live alone, BUT I love what I do, and the rewards that come with the job.
Your beliefs have been on auto pilot since you were younger and are not a reflection of who you truly are. The universe and everything in it will treat you exactly the way you want to be treated deep down.
@@nickferry8909 It's too late for me to ever change my thinking now.
@@christianguenther1276 If you truly believe that, then you are correct. I'm here to say anyone can change IF they really want to and make a conscious effort to do so. We are our own worst enemy though, that negative self talk isn't the real you speaking.
I was fat most of my adult life, until I decided to change at the age of 39. On the first day of 2021, I weighed at 400 pounds, now I am at 260. I was always a big, relatively tall guy, so at that weight I look good, and obviously women have noticed the difference. But, the biggest difference is that they don't look at me while saying "oh, he looks handsome now", they actually look at me with a thought "wow, this guy is dedicated, he knew what he had to do, and he did it".
Guys, you don't have to be ripped to be phisically attractive, being in shape doesn't mean that. I still have a lot of extra weight I need to shred, but the improvement, especially, in confidence is overwhelming.
You only get one shot. Make it count. Courtney, you are an amazing person. Continue to upload these insightful videos.
Hi Courtney I thoroughly enjoyed your video. You’re very attractive, articulate and speak very well. You spoke during the video about your voice and the comments from some listeners, it appears you have not let get to you. Well done. You will always get people who are sad about their own life and hate when someone has their life together. I’m an older guy, happily married but what you’re saying is keeping the standard high. Good video keep it up☘️
The reason stubble is not the best option for guys with thin facial growth is that the patchiness is very noticeable.
From my experience, cutting out dairy and having a solid skin care routine will do wonders for skin health.
YES! It can cause cystic acne. I try not to eat too much dairy for that reason!
I have had dairy since i was a kid never had issues.
@@lavykhurana good for you.
@@lavykhurana It's subjective.
From my experience, including dairy does wonders for my skin and health.
As a 5'5 lad, I can say no matter how much I hate no.5, it is undoubtedly true
“Appearance opens the door, but personality gets you to stay.” - Think Before You Sleep
I know the dark hair point is true in most creatures on earth, so lionesses will tend to flock towards lions with darker mains, because darker hair is an indicator of less stress in nature, and nature, less stress equals more success. Because if you think about it for A minute, if a lion gets a chance to blonde his main that means he spending a lot of time out in the sun, that means he’s not succeeding at hunting as much. Where, as a lion, with a darker main more than likely has a very good hunting success. Because that means he gets to spend more time hanging out in the shade.
"A good chest does more good that harm". What harm? No harm. Only good things comes from exercise disciplined routine. Its not only about physical view. Its mostly because it clears the mind and makes us more focused and optimized.
Alright guys, Courtney said you guys need to look like Jonny Bravo
Check Derek @moreplatesmoredates
@@andrewhenley2161 Derek actually lifts as in hell do squats and dead lifts. Jonny bravo had chicken legs
This whole video: Take care of your body! xD
I'm genuinely shocked of the amount of people (both men and women) don't value their mental and physical health, but I'm glad you're here to give the honest advice. Probably because I'm 18 lol
You're doing great, Courtney; thank you for the amazing videos~ 😊❤️
Who would get mad at your advice?? I appreciate you!!
and yet, when men ask women to be fit they get all bent out of shape and tell us not to body shame
ladies, if you are confident to make demands then don't be hypocrites when we do the same
I had this stupid debate with my brother about how he believes most women want a man with a dad body. Which I replied sure I see many woman checking out the dad body guy and not the guy in great shape. Funny as he wear a shirt in the pool.
I luckily have a great jawline, not a bit of fat under the chin and sunken cheeks and high cheekbones.
I loved to put on a tight white t (I have a big chest and small waist), with jeans and a pair of smaller black wayfarers. If I have a tan, the attention is incredible. Actually, even without the tan, the attention is incredible.
I would love for you to ask guys a series of questions about what guys are attracted to about women.
There is nobody else I would rather take advice from over you.
I was a professional boxer. Totally ripped. Now I'm 57 I'm still the fastest grocery stocker in the US. Women aren't attracted to grocery stockers.
Oh man, I'm dying from the reminder of Kyle getting Tennis Balls put in his knee joints as an attempt to be taller in order to play basket ball! 😢😂
Based on this logic I guess it’s okay to end a relationship if the woman gets out of shape or vice versa. This is the reason people are miserable in relationships in this part of the world. But hey at least you are honest about it
very good never thought some of this what skin care do use do you get for your face then one for your body i love your files
#1 Fat Bank Account 💰
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Nah
Dear Courtney. Everything you state in your video is true, - I just need to add one thing, - it works both ways, and i often see woman "demanding" or expecting the thing you state, but can not live up to it themselves. THATS a big problem :) - Have a super nice day, and tell your sisters to step up :) -Greetings from Denmark
i like hearing you speak, you have a lively sounding voice!
I’m not the best looking bloke, but never had any trouble getting women, it’s all down to confidence, oh and by the way I’m very very funny 🤣 😂😂😂
Or forget all these tips, go pick a girlfriend up from the Ukraine where the women are 10 x hotter and their standards for men are more reasonable...I feel like uk and usa women are too stush, there is ridiculously stunning women in some of the European countries and from what I've seen don't play hard to get or any of that bs. Ofc if you are handsome you can get women anywhere, just ignore them and they want you even more. ;)
I have done a fitness show and trust me I never got so much attention when i went out that night after the show. For weeks after the show girls loved the abs! You have to wear a very tight shirt so they can see them. Im 40 and still alnost have a 6 pack. Lost most my hair and still pull younger hot girls, I do kinda hide it and wear a hat alot but u can make up lost hair with a 10 body.
I either grow a full beard or I am clean shaven with sideburns. We need more sideburns on men. But I see stubble as the sign of a man who cannot grow a beard or is a derelict.
How can body posture/movement and eye contact and tone of voice not be included? I feel these should be near the top
It’s funny how there are these channels made by women to help men become more attractive but u don’t see channels made by men to help women attract men? Just my observation. I guess it’s bcoz we r the ones that approach women and there are a lot of men these days not doing it right. I’m not attacking men but I think us guys have been going downhill for decades thanks to conditioning. Im sure this wasn’t such a problem with men in the past. As far as I’m concerned men in the past acted much more masculine naturally. We have been feminised by society for years now and clearly it’s been turning women off. I also think based on looking at videos from the past like the 1950s and 1960s that people used to be in better shape and were always well dressed. Personally I think women will always attract men even when they don’t look their best unless they look absolutely minging!
Courtneys really got it together. She’s not just very pretty but her hair looks nice, she always dresses really well too. Her guy is lucky coz he gets to cuddle up with her and listen to that beautiful feminine soothing voice. Guys need to understand, u ain’t gonna get a girl like her if u don’t make some effort yourself.
Gents, teeth are naturally slightly yellow. Please do not go for artificial whitening agents as they are harmful. However, the yellow teeth that aren’t taken care of well are not good.
When I told a girl, I had a lot of money in the bank, she said I was very good looking. I'm only average looking. Money talks, and since I met this girl, my money is always saying, 'Goodbye'! 😣
Looks and height are everything for men in dating. There is multivariate analysis proving this. If you are 5 feet 6 as a guy, you will be rejected by over 95 percent of all women based on height alone. Women are ten times more visual than men. I am lucky I am 6 feet 3. Women confess to me that they never would date short guys. Some men prefer heavy set Women. Many men actually like them. Name one woman anywhere in the world that prefers short men.
Some things I can’t control. I don’t have a great jawline. I do work out but not crazy amounts, just a couple times a week. I have some muscle with some fat. I grow my beard a little longer to compensate for the mediocre jawline.
The problem with my beard....I look married, old....if I shadow shave I have 500%more chances
Im 5'11" , 8/10 times i feel like i am tall enough , still i am only 18 and i hope i'll get taller , i guess getting to 6'1" its not very possible anymore but im still hoping for 6 foot
Being taller- I'm working on that one starting today! lol.
My father always said, "just remember, no matter how good she looks like, someone out there is tired of her $hit, so, pay good attention at what you want and how she is"
Lmao 🤣 so true.
Seems like your father underwent a lot of shit
Pearls of wisdom 😎
Your dads a wiseman I like that advice 👌
My saying was always "show me the hottest, sexiest woman in the world...and I'll show you a guy that's tired of that p*ssy and is cheating on her" but...I know what your dad was saying too 😂
Self improvement(gym, work, socializing)= MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
Yes!! 👏🏼
LMAO the amount of work men need to do just to a get a chance with women in dating. Sad world we're living in.
@@AmirChemE unbelievably sad but they say dont hate the player, hate the game
No. Results in any form would give confidence. Self improvement in itself does not
Also hobbies!! If your only hobby is the gym you’re lacking. Get into sports, group activities or outdoors.
"If they don't like you, why do you want them to like you anyway". Words of wisdom.
Right, high value men have many better choices
Reminded me of Ace and Ginger from the movie Casino.
As a wise man (George Costanza) once said, "she hates me so much - it's irresistible".
@@whitewalker608 Ooooo! You must be really lonely, boy. …If they don’t like you, it’s your job to _make_ them like you! For the most part, most girls don’t like you at first. You have to woo them. Girls generally have a lot of choices - - especially the ones worth having! The choice of which boy gets to be with a girl is up to the _girl_. Boys don’t have any _choice_ in the matter. They either become interested in a girl or they fall in love with a girl and that’s the end of that. What you may not know, now, is that you will love the girls you fall in love with - - for the rest of your life! …There is no escaping them! Life is hard; full of pain and emptiness; and then we die!
The mistake that I made when I was young was to observe that there were plenty of fish in the sea. So when a girl resisted me too hard, I would just ‘go fishing’. I realized later that I should have always doubled-down. It’s a competition to win the right to fertilize those eggs. The girl is the judge and jury. You have to become indispensable to them.
Unfortunately, the advent of really reliable and accessible birth control has caused girls to, well…. Never get pregnant. They can’t ever fall in love with you if they don’t know what love is. When they have a child of their own, they are going to love that child more than their own life. Only then is there a chance they will fall in love with _you_. The rest is just passion. Passion doesn’t last.
Oof that don’t leave much lol
1.good shaped body
2.nicely maintained facial hair 5 oclock shadow and stubble with jawline
3.dressing well
4.nice hair style
5.look tall
6. Good grooming habbits
And if you don't talk to women you will still be single af
"Look tall" can be as easy as well fitted clothing and confidence
"Good shape" doesn't have to be muscular just fit/healthy energies and active.
The real #1 is unshakable confidence
Thanks
Thanks
Great calm voice, Courtney. I’m a truck driver. I’ll stack a list of videos to last a few hours and just listen with the screen off. I’m too old for your advice to matter much lol. Your voice is like a calming salve for my soul in traffic. Thanks,
this is unexpected but that's how to get product market fit .. launch something and see what stick lol
Don’t fall asleep on the road lol
@@punisher20g58 THAT’S funny! LOL.
age does not matter, try star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.
You sound like a good, humble guy! You may just have an awesome adventure left with a lady who recognizes your virtues!
5/6 isn’t bad for me. I’m 5’ 6” and have a lot of experience in the past decades. I’m in my 40s, single dad, and I’m still doing fine. I’ve always stayed in shape and take care of my appearance.
For all you shorter guys like me, it’s exactly what Courtney says, it’s about your confidence only. All but two of my ladies of the past were taller than me. I like taller women, what can I say? I just don’t see myself as a short person, and if you don’t see yourself this way, then neither will women. It’s really is that simple. Walk talk, be confident.
I am same height as you. My wife has passed so I am on the market again, and the first girl I went out with was taller, it doesn’t bother me at all. I think I will do the five o’clock shadow thing though.
I’m 5’ 8” and have dated several women taller than me. They were actually very insecure about being “too tall,” if you can believe it. Having said that, I struggled with women until I put on a decent amount of muscle mass. More than anything, women want a man who looks and acts masculine.
This helped a lot. Thank you.
In my case, hitting the gym, or track or just being active also improved my state of mind. This makes me more confident where I don't have to try and overdo it. If a girl shows no interest, I move on.
Looks fade, most folks need a sense of humour!
If it took the gym to alter your mind then you’re already as weak as piss
Absolutely...and better sleep.
I USED to be confident from workout out year.. last couple years females dont care, i dont even get looked at anymore n im constantly rejected by females. My confidence has all dwindled away.. i can’t get a female to save my life it seems. This world has turned to trash and girls minds are all mush now.. 😢
@@ariesscar443 Keep hitting the gym for yourself!
It’s all in the eyes, chico. The eyes never lie.
Goddangit I love it. Me and my boss always quote that movie.
"The eyes chico...they never lie!"* *
@@sigmaballs93 ay man, don be goin fuggin cracy on me OK? That’s the bosses lady
@Hubert Harmon lol in that case, if there’s anything in that eye🤢
I prefer his quote about women
Courtney is that female best friend or older sister that we all wish we had to talk about girl problems with, lol.
LMAO..Let us know when you LEAVE FANTASY LAND
Ha Ha
How many times a day do you get down on your knees to kiss her feet? How often do you put women on a pedestal?
@@MogamishuI did her on the kitchen table, haven't tried the pedestal... hopefully tonight!
@@Mogamishu I finally did her on the pedestal, it was great...tomorrow night the banister.
"I won't date you unless you're 6'5"."
That is such a ridiculous standard. Those women will be sorely disappointed as that's less than 2% of the male population!
I mean, I sort of understand why women want their men to be a little taller, but requiring your date to be above 6'0" is fucking ridiculous, let alone 6'5"! 😂 That is SO dumb! Notice how guys never have these preferences for women. All we want is for our girlfriends to take care of themselves and stay in shape. Having a good face obviously helps, but as far as physical attraction goes, our requirements are usually within any woman's reach. Women have standards that 80% of men LITERALLY can't compete with.
They don't always end up with very tall people, it's become an excuse or soft rejection path for women.
@@hasselett ehh, the large majority of women don’t have strict height requirements. The ones who say this kind of thing are usually super hot Instagram model types. They can get away with drastically narrowing their dating pool like that because they’re so sought after in general.
Luckily most girls who aren’t very tall themselves are horrible at guessing people’s heights, so if your like 5’9 and above they just assume your about 6 feet tall
I'm only 5'10" and my height has never been an issue with women. I even dated a couple women who were taller than me. Not saying there aren't women out there who are obsessed with height. But from my personal experience it's not the norm.
Irresistibility 101: (1) bulging wallet; (2) large organic banana; (3) excellent physical shape; (4) tall; (5) handsome; (6) sense of humor.
I do not have any of these, what can I do except crying?
@@alexanderkohary1690 No problem. Actually, quiet sobbing with a little bit of tears works fine because it shows the sensitive and feminine sides of you. And get a dog. Women loves cute dogs. 😀
@@TheWanderer28 I did what you recommended. Now I am attracting sympathetic protecting and comforting MEN, damn.
@@alexanderkohary1690 Good start?🤣 May need to finetune your techniques. 🤣🤣🤣
"Teacher, what must i do to have quality women? I've done everything that you asked me"
"If you want to be perfect, go, sell all you have and give it to my sister, then you will have eternal abundance of women"
"Your personality doesn't matter if the door isn't open."
- Living A Life Of Abundance
NoCap
"Living A Life Of Abundance" ...Such a sickening verused cliche.
Lmao hard truth
Wise words bro... you are 100% right... 0 attachement...
@@yankee2666 sounds like someone not abundant
Being fit transcends mere physical attraction. Somebody dropped this gem on me many years ago:
Observe how well or how poorly someone takes care of themselves and their own life -- that is the very best you expect them to extend to you over any appreciable stretch of time.
Nice 👌🏼👌🏼
I hope your avatar is not the example of being fit. LOL
Looks do matter. Humans on a baseline psychological level are judgmental. We assess risks, threats, distance and even potential mates based off of perceptive judgment. A man's overall health is a priority if you're wanting to market yourself to a quality friendship. 🙂
Yes, I believe it's high time people start to accept that humans are just "wired" in the way that they perceive some aspects and features to be beautiful and some to be undesirable. It's just human nature to like one aspect and dislike another and people need to understand that. Looks do indeed matter.
Couldn't agree more on this.
Yeah I learned in AP Psychology when I was in high school a while back that literally ALL people are judgemental by nature and that's just how it is.
My health is my responsibility, and I owe it to myself to keep myself in shape, exercise and eat halfway decently. That I might be attractive to someone else because I am in shape is a side benefit. As I tell my sons, if you take care of your body, it will take care of you. Treat your body as a temple and respect it.
@@slundgr I fully agree sir
I’m 64 and enjoy doing the same activities I did when I was 19. Skiing , golfing ,hiking, biking.etc…I find it funny looking back what a scrawny looking kid I was back then. I see today’s youth out of shape drinking too much coffee , eating junk , wearing odd clothes . That was my generation too , were not so much different. Keep active and exercise doing something you enjoy . I remember good looking people losing their looks and health due to bad lifestyle choices.
I asked Tim Gunn once how you know what clothing is in style. His response: “Whatever you walk out of the house feeling the most comfortable in and feeling the most like YOU… that’s what’s in style.” Authenticity always wins ✊
horrible advice but sounds great👍
@@bobbadman1551 said the guy walking out of the house in a forced-feeling gucci suit
@@gregorcollins If I would dress how it felt most “like me” i would go on dates in sweatpants and flip flops.
Thanks for your advice bro!
@@bobbadman1551 point being, you would be the best version of yourself, and that would come across :)
Like a bin bag?
Indifference is the core. Even a man who has the physical traits, financial resources, confidence, looks, heighth, guaranteed women will get tired and want someone else no matter how God like the man is. Stop caring what women think.
star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.
@@lesjones471 i am a virgo man and have wanted a Capricorn woman for 20 years. Never found one.
Agreed g
@@lesjones471 Imagine believing this
@@lesjones471 star signs lmaoooo
Courtney: Have a good skin care routine.
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*"Spicy senoritas!"*
*[Alpha M]*
[GENTLEMEN!!!]
Except Courtney’s not a shill…
I like how you point out that physical qualities like body type and style of dress do matter and that it will attract a woman who is into that type of physical quality! Also, most of those traits, we do have some influence over.
For sure! 👏🏼
Simp
@@jimtart4271 Thats ok John Im sure you have other fine qualities. Its ok, youll find a woman who will love your simpeness 😁
A man who has been in the dating game since the late 90’s, the number one trait that all women universally love and can’t resist is this: Confidence
Fuck yea!!
Confident and 5ft 6in, yea!!!
Confidence; a good sense of humour; someone who can make her laugh; and ultimately, someone who can make her feel secure.
Wrong confidence doesn't matter looks & height does
Does it really work? I mean I'm humorous, confident but haven't ever asked a women out.
Courtney is the perfect person to explain us things like we're 5.
😂 I’m sorry
yeah but Im as with many men are kinda sick of women explaining alot of obvious stuff to us as we are 5...
Thats gud lol
I’m five but I read at a six-year-old level.
We are a 5? 🤣
Confidence makes you irresistible
Your inner thoughts should be authentic and come as glowing on your face and eyes!
I seen more hot girls with guys having chubbiness and dad bods
Your confidence should be positive and spread happiness
Atleast make her comfy around you
While that's true, you should still wanna be in the best shape of your life as a man. Because like Courtney said, you having your shit together as man and you in shape; puts you ahead of most of the guys in the dating market who aren't.
Common sense
Ironic most dad bod dudes have more confidence than ripped dudes in this case
You're right, I agree, but being healthy, fit physique wise, and just healthy does make one both mentally strong and confident. It has changed my own state of mind. I was obese, 270 pounds with a 47" mid section. Once I dropped to 190 pounds and got down to a 36" mid section. My mindset improved and treatment by others improved too. Everything matters.
"Dad" boobs??? Sheesh. Have a little respect. Dad's are the best people around. Why does a guy even join in on disrespecting them??? Maybe someday you'll be there.
Having a healthy gut micro biome plays a big role in skin care/ quality. Thank you for this video Courtney
I have found this to be true
Small details that can make a huge difference: Simply change your pillow cases more often.
Whatever time frame you're doing it in, just shorten it and it'll solve the majority of your facial problems.
What benefits there is to change pillow cases very often?
@@JstJaybeingJay it gets filthy and all that bacteria goes on your face :D. The skin on your face is the most sensitive.
Clean your cellphone as well, at least once per day
@@JstJaybeingJay Not burying your face in the oil that comes off of it every night.
I don't use a pillow, guess i have to change the whole bedsheet.
Twice a week clean that shit and never get in ur bed dirty, take a shower before bedding down!
100% true! To those guys who say, "Screw this dumb advice, I don't care what women notice, I do what I want." I say, thank you. That's less competition for those of us who want to win the hearts of high value women. Thanks Courtney!
Just for the record: you are not going for the 'hearts of high value' women, you are going to their panties...
BTW - and it is my own observation - you get the most attraction as a man if you are neither seeking, nor trying to avoid attraction but instead you do what you exactly laughed at: if you are simply focusing on your own shit, like work, school, sports. And if anyone asks you if there is any fuckable chick in that activity you can simply not answer that because you don't know it.
From the beginning of time women have been selective when it comes to the men they want to be with. ITs about resources. Money, appearance and good genes. both men and women are shallow, men are just honest about it and women want to appear not shallow (lies they tell themselves) but yes most women will be honest with each other. I don't fault them, because if they will mate with someone they definitely want a long term investment they dont want to be stuck with a deadbeat and someone who will give them sickly children. Why do you think Elon Musk has 10 children with 8 different women? Its not his personality that these women are attracted to.
Jason, your comment is werid man..
Simp
@@stevensmith4660 He needs to change his name to Simp. He will loose all of his money in the divorce.
Thank you for not pushing the "dad bod" narrative. I've always believed that it was bullshit.
I started lifting a month ago. I’m so mad at myself for not starting 5 years ago.
All that matters is that you started king! That’s the first step. Like all things stay patient and work hard…you got this 🤝
Wish I would have started years ago also!
@@brennanpoole7960 thanks brother I added 30 lbs to my squat today. I don’t know where the strength came from but my first max felt light.
If it doesnt become a lifestyle you wont stick with it.
@@id10t98 On my way to the gym now at 4 am
ZZ Top is right
Every woman is crazy about a sharp dressed man.
Very long story short, my dear sweet wife passed going on 3 years ago, 2 Saturday's ago a mutual female friend of ours came up to me and said I had been on her heart for quite a while and that she had always been quite fond of me as well as my sweet wife. Last Saturday I invited her to have a coffee at a bakery w me and it was from the moment I picked her up in my car to the moment I dropped her back off the best time I have ever had w a woman. I told I very enjoyed our time together and she invited me to 3 different upcoming events. I don't know where this will go, but it's off to a incredible start. I've known this person for about 30 years and I already know I've fallen for her but will wait and see how things develop Lord willing. Thank you for all your advice. I followed it as best I could . We she is wonderful and everything I had prayed for in a friend and hopefully way more.
How did it turn out?
Sweet story. Hope it pans out for you.
As a woman, I agree with this list!!! 🙌🏽 ♥️
She missed the fat wallet though .
do woman pick men baste on wot thay think there children will be dist curious
@@orrinclerk1454 you high af
From my perspective women are really attracted to a guys outline, physique, bone structure , if your cute ,dress code, energy which are all physiological identifications.80 % of initial attraction is physical however that 20 % abstractly vocalized is essential especially personality ,empathetic accuracy and emotional intelligence!!!!.The IMMATERIAL aspects of an individual is the most effective and VITAL conceptualization for persuading the opposite gender an also MAINTAINING a stable marriage!!!!!
Yes!! ❤️
Fantasy land
@ad izzle not always
@ad izzle my wife always screams during sex... especially when I walk in on her.
Well said, Pierre! Though it is ultimately good to take care of your body and keep up appearances on the outside, it's all for nothing if you're a terrible person, or lack confidence on the inside
These are not just to attract women but to become a better person in general. Go Courtney!
From my experience, the taller the girl is(5’10-6’) the less she cares about height and the shorter the girl is(5’ and below) are the ones who want a basketball player for a bf. The taller girls probably aren’t picky because their options are limited as far as having a taller partner.
my experience as well. I'm 5'7 and had better luck with taller chicks than smaller ones lol
True, I'm 5'9 and I don't care, with heels I'm taller than most guys anyway. My kids don't have to be 6'5
Hello! Tall girl here! (Six foot) I used to care about height.
"Absolutely not, I will never go for a guy shorter than me!"
As time went on though, I met guys I liked that were shorter than me (not midget, they were at least touching my head lol), and I realized I didn't care as much anymore. I wouldn't exactly say this process occured because of lack of options, because I had tall options as well. Moreso I think I learned to find it endearing.
TLDR: good guys aren't worth giving up just cuz they're a little shorter than me.
Agree - super tall gals don't have many options. I'm 6'-2". I met a gal once she was maybe 5'-11" or 6'-0" who was interested in me but naw she was just too gangly for me (like me!). I like 'em at 5'-7" the perfect height for me. That said if i could design myself i'd be 6'-0" bang on - it's all about proportions if u ax me...
@@aldosigmann419 dude, I would pay for that 2 inches you don't need;)
It’s always cool seeing my favorite creator do podcasts/ interviews. Hope you do more in the future after roommates?
I definitely will!
Women: he has to be taller than me, stronger than me, older than me, and make more than me.
Men: she has to be shorter than me, weaker than me, younger than me, and make less than me.
I think Age and Money earnings doesnt matter. But ik Some people care about earning more money than there spouse. Which is not that important
Strength I agree! A man should be the epitome of strength, both inside and out. The protector, the provider. It’s natural law. Height is irrelevant if the man is truly strong. Age tends to denote wisdom, and most women want a man they can look up to. Wealth also denotes power, albeit in a different context than brute physical strength. But women are drawn to both a protective man and one who can provide. If you’re both, hats off to you. It’s like a lion in the wild. The one that can defend the territory but also keep it large and specious will keep adding females to his pride!
Number 1, if you’re not grooming yourself and brushing your teeth, you have more issues that need dealt with than finding a woman
But some still mange to find one with confidence.
I don't know a single person who doesn't brush his teeth daily.
@@thusspokezarathustra1847 There are men out there that don't they normally lazy bums that chose not to work or do anything unless they are getting something. Good normal people will normally not run into them.
The Body positivity only applies to those who created it… WOMEN! Men remember that! We can’t afford to be out of shape. Stay healthy and get fit if you’re not. Because having a good body MATTERS!
@cris bro regardless get in shape not for women but for yourself.
@@DevinObi
Yes.
Do it for yourself.
Once your health and well-being takes precedence token symbols of "success" become pleasant, but secondary.
Woman just described a 10% alpha chad, good luck securing him.
Well then I guess we are all just totally fucked.
@@danielwolfe7933 idk why this comment made me laugh so hard. But thank you, you made me feel better about myself.
I agree with everything you say. I was in really good shape in college, and had a great time dating. Later on like so many guys, I let my body slip and starting getting a bit fat. Then a friend challenged me to get back in shape, and because I was reaching the age my dad died at, I took this challenge quite seriously. I've been quite serious about my workouts pretty much ever since, I've definitely gotten some very positive comments over the years, though honestly the main reason I stay in shape is I enjoy playing sports and I don't want to die young like my dad. Also, pretty much agree with what you said about height, although twice in my life I had very long relationships with large women, by large I don't mean fat, I mean one was on the college basketball team, and she ended up marrying a guy shorter than her, and a girl that was just big, neither of us married, but we are both still friends.
When I was in the states, it seemed that "taller than me" actually meant. "6 inches taller than me when I am in heals."
The truth is it's 6 feet, magic number for most broads. My problem is that I'm about 5'7".
*SKIN CARE?* Men are men. Men never did that in the past. The beauty of a man is the roughness and not the femininity of his features.
Wow, girls like tall, well dressed guys who are in shape ... that`s some revelation ! ... who would have thought ?
A comment i agree.
Hey short men, don’t commit suicide there is a woman who will love you. Stay patient.
She’s sweet and honestly it’s a nice channel to follow. I wish youngsters watched more such advice
And always has very tasteful cleavage. Enough to get our attention not too much so that we lose attention to the message 😅
Most woman want 90% but have 10% to offer
"Well, if the man has 90%, then I only need to give 10% for a full 100%, right?!" -Women
@@b-0220 that’s when you miss the boat. Each side has to bring 100% to the table
Nope. Being attractive just draws more toxic females. Well, they’re all toxic, but the one who doesn’t care how you look will be more genuine. Once you find her you should take care of yourself just for her.
I’m 5’7” maybe 5’8” on a good day 😉. I’ve dated a girl that was 5’9” she was “out of my league” it honestly just takes you talking to her first. Shoot your shot gents. Courtney says, “take care of yourself” after almost every example. Get into a routine and make that routine your minimum effort and if there’s someone you’ve been wanting to ask out. Do it sooner than later. People are like nachos, if you don’t go after the one you want, someone else will.
The last sentence is gold my friend, an absolute gem.
I thought I was gonna run away with a perfect score. Damn this coffee habit...
Welp, got it from the horses mouth, I have nothing about me that women will find attractive.
Courtney is right about these 6 things. You should be in shape as a man not neccesarily to get a girl but so you can feel comfortable in your own skin. We always have to be on our A game as men. Because when we are, it allows us to not accept bad treatment from women. Looks definitely get you in the door but your mindset and ability to provide for the girl will keep her around. I prefer the stubble/clean cut look for myself but i try to present my best self when i do start looking for a woman. Anyways be blessed everyone ♥️
Absolutely ❤️ thanks for being here as always, Georgio!
@@CourtneyRyan you're welcome! I do my best haha. I appreciate you being honest with us about what women really look for cuz so many would lie to us. Definitely do a mens skincare video cuz so many guys don't know about it
And if we are comfortable in our own skin being a bit overweight thats ok too right? Because if is not then you'll say you'll never attract a woman that way to which your point of " not necessarily to get a girl" is total bullshit
Hate facial hair I always go bare, I love my hair, working out at home with own equipment and exercises, already attracted to girls who are smaller than me, that's kinda cute. Only thing I can't really change for the love of anyhting is that I can't really afford any nicer clothes than what I already have... everything I look for is so goddamn expensive, I can only afford them like 1 piece of a set in a month at max or not even that.