Awful Wedding Moments That Are On Another Level - REACTION
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@@bookdragon7510 omg so soon! I’m so happy you got it already!
That whole mansion thing is certainly lawsuit material, especially if they had a rental contract. I hope they sue that person big time
some people are just subhuman n need to return to the hell from whence they came
Same
Yep. Take 'em for all they got for that hellish experience.
Hell yes! I was so mad just listening to what happened. If it were me I would have put hands on that person honeymoon be damned
they should suit them of course
My father attended a wedding where there was nothing. This was an empty friends house, that would be fixed by a wedding coordinator. And not a single vendor showed up. No tables, chairs, food nothing. Guests ran to the store to buy food, plates, napkins and knocked on doors and people were lending chairs, tables, etc. Obviously a lawsuit happened but it was traumatic for the bride, as she had no relatives and planned everything herself. This happened 30 yrs ago. Her daughter is getting married and she has been checking everything a thousand times and being a MOB-zilla of legendary proportions. No one blames her.
Daaaamn did they not care at all about their own businesses?!?! I guess there was no such thing as bad google reviews back then but still…
Omg what a nightmare 😳
@@julietteoscaralphanovember2223 probably not for 30 years ago. The vendors they used may either be too old to remember or no longer around.
Sounds like the coordinator didn't deliver the deposits to the vendors.
I certainly hope no one blames her. I wouldn't if it was someone I knew.
You don't leave a drunk friend alone at a train station. That is bad enough, the prank call "but it was only a joke" was the death sentence to that friendship.
100%
I witnessed a very sweet proposal at a wedding. You know when, after the important part, the bride turns around and throws her bouquet? Well, she did that after the ceremony outside the church and didn't turn around but threw it towards one of her bridesmaids directly, with the other bridesmaids making sure the girl that was supposed to get it was the one to catch it (since the one to catch it is assumed to be the one who'll get married next). Then that bridesmaid's boyfriend proposed. It was obvious that at least the bride and bridesmaids knew what was going to happen (and I found out later that he had asked his gf before whether she wanted to marry him since a no would have ruined the wedding). So there are appropriate, sensible ways to make a really lovely proposal during a wedding.
But...those proposals in the video were definitely not the sensible kind.
It's okay to make a proposal if you check with the people getting married, couples can give their blessings as they choose and that's the important part, respecting the couple and their choice. It's like showing up to someone's wedding and midway through getting up and driving go karts through the venue because you felt like it, it's just a scummy thing to do when someone invites you to an important ceremony.
Respect is super important.
That poor couple at the mansion where her dress went missing. I really hope that they can get some compensation for everything that happened it’s outrageous.
Yes! The pressure washing equipment should be paid for as well.
Also props to the woman posting the story for being more collected and mature after that whole shitshow than any Karen throwing a fit because a kid is biking on the sidewalk.
Do we know by now where the mansion is?
@@Mikrokozma33 I hope that we find out as I think it deserves a terrible review on that channel Thant I can’t remember just now.
If that had been me...well let's just say the police would have been called for more than a missing wedding dress.
The fact that the bride whose "friend" lied to her groom about her cheating is still even considering letting her be a bridesmaid is fucking insane.
I feel like the "friend" has some feelings for the groom...why else would she want to break them up 2 weeks before the wedding?
@@staciethompson7140 That's 100% what i thought too.
Maybe i read too many reddit posts.
I had that people think terrible "jokes" like this are funny. A friend of mine, at work was "pranked" by her manager. The manager said she received a call saying my friend's child had been admitted to the hospital. My friend started crying and was picking up her stuff to leave. The manager then said "April Fools". What a horrible person. It wasn't funny in the least. My friend reported her manager to HR. She would have quit, if she could afford to. I was lucky that I had a different manager.
People-pleaser, I'm sure.
OMG
That wedding venue from hell story was on another level. I worked as a secretary for a historic venue a lot of people used for their weddings. When I started handling lots of very valid complaints that were the fault of the horribly fraudulent management at the venue, it was eye opening and soul-crushing what my employer was willing to put people through without remorse. I quit. And I have spent YEARS warning people not to hold their events there. It weighed on my sense of self even to have ever WORKED for them.
You should have told the people to document everything and sue the place if the venue ever did shady shit as you put it besides warning the guests not to hold events there. That would get things done a lot faster and get that place shut down or changed to new owners versus just telling them not to go there. But good for you for warning people and for leaving. Sounds awful.
We spent $5000 on our wedding, had 50 people in attendance, I traded my services (I had a housekeeping business at the time) in exchange for renting housing at the lake so my family that was coming from out of town could join and not worry about accommodations. I bought all my decor rented tables and chairs, had friends make a playlist, and had the taco truck cater the food. That was 5 years ago and people still talk about how much fun they had and how beautiful it all was. The more money you spend I think the more stress you put on yourselves, on your family, on your friends. The day should be about having a great time with those close to you and saying I do to your love. Expecting your family to front the bill is insane! Live within your means people.
Never - ever - leave your friend ANYWHERE - drunk! Biggest friend rule - always have each other's back. Especially if you're out drinking. It's a total safety thing.
That's nothing - my husband left me drunk downtown Colorado Springs and just went to the hotel we stayed at before getting stationed in Germany. I didn't even bother to memorize the name of the hotel! A co-worker of his from Ft. Carson took me his house and you can guess what almost would have happened, if not a friend of ours who saw him half way carrying me to his car, followed us in a cab and got me out of there after climbing up the balcony!!! I filed for divorce only a few months later, and didn't even care that we both were deployed to Cosovo. Leaving someone drunk anywhere is the greatest betrayal ever....
Frirend at the train station broke the girl code. I'd never trust someone like that. Either way, she didn't deserve to be at the wedding
@@AnamCaraDressage what a terrible person your ex husband is! Glad you are ok and hopefully you remained good friends with the friend that saved you!❤️
@@AnamCaraDressage I’m mad on your behalf.
Your choice of drinks shouldn't affect how your friends treat you.
Wtf is wrong with that bride that was shaming her SO's parent for "only" giving them 2400$ for their wedding costs while commenting on their holidays?
Listen, lady, NO ONE should be entitled to have a royal wedding and certainly no one HAS to give you tons of money for yours.
Do you want an expensive wedding?
You're an adult, pay for it.
Damn, i really can't stand these people.
Could be something to do with the parent starting a wedding fund when she was small. That could lead to unreasonable expectations.
So often the wedding seems to be more important than getting married.
She is upset she received more than my salary...
@@grahvis Yeah, you're surely right.
If she can't even understand that every family situation's different, though, i shouldn't expect much from her.
💀fr 2,400 could pay for a very nice wedding dress too like bruh that's a free dress right there what's the issue, and to me a nice dress is the most important cuz your gonna keep that forever+it's what's gonna be in your wedding photos+you should feel pretty in your dress
Even better...actually blaming and shaming his parents for having the audacity to have their own lives instead of merely existing to pay for the children :D :D :D
I'm heartbroken for the whole family in the mansion story. I really hope they sued or got some money back for that whole shit show that they went through. :(
My cousin is a lesbian. When she got married. The sign outside the chapel read “left or right, chose a side, either way it’s for a bride!” I freaking loved that!! It was so perfect. Almost as perfect as my husband grabbing a wedding cupcake and saying “cool, marvel colour’s !” Right in front of my cousin. Who corrected him. That the cupcake was rainbow pride colours. As I facepalmed the whole time. Lol.
Honestly I think she got as much of a kick out of his blunder as I did! 😂
I want that to be my wedding if a marry a woman
That’s really biphobic. Nobody has to choose a side
@@Kojirakage I think you missed the joke. Here when attending a church wedding. Those people who were invited by or related to the bride. Sit on one side of isle and those there for the groom. Sit on the opposite side of the isle.
So that was the choose a side part of the joke.
Both sides of the isle were for a bride. Not chose what gender you want because you can only like one! lol 😂
@@inthewindago you are correct I missed the joke
@@Kojirakage I forgive you. lol 😂
(sarcasm, you said nothing that requires forgiveness.)
Oh, that mansion wedding one was like a bad, late-night infomercial! “But wait! There’s more!” 😂🤣
David! 😂😂 That’s classic! 🤣
Lifetime movie drama
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol! True! 😂
I'll never understand why if someone has dreamt of an incredibly expensive wedding they don't start saving for it as soon as possible.
But it's their SPeCIal dAy! Of course someone else should pay for the extravaganza 🙄
I honestly think this bride was just raised in the culture or tradition that parents pay for the wedding and didn't realize it didn't have to be the norm for everyone. I imagine she would then start saving up that money for her children's weddings.
Because she also dreamt that she's a fairy princess and the king and queen would pay for everything....
Makes sense I guess cause you would think as people get older that they would come to their senses and realize how expensive weddings are. They more you want, the more it costs! 😂 mom and dad don't have to pay for the wedding.
Why not just look for a space in the forest, get some lanterns, make a dress (or tux, whichever u like more) and have a outdoor wedding? With maybe a Thanksgiving twist where people bring dishes to eat?
For the bride-to-be who was upset over her SO’s parents not giving “enough” towards the wedding, tell us you’re entitled without telling us you’re entitled🙄
That wedding venue story gave me *MAD* anxiety!!!!
That daughter needs to sue!!!!!! 🤯🤯🤯
If I was the couple with the awful venue I would have taken pics of everything and then sued their asses off. Full refund plus compensation for the stress of it all.
I hope they DID take pics and I hope they signed a contract with all this stuff that lady was supposed to do !!! Reading all these, I've come to learn verbal agreements don't mean sht if it's not in writing as proof, smh
Plus the materials they had to buy to clean the space up and not having things be wheel chair accessible.
@@jessica1lopez omg yes, all of it !!! They should be reimbursed just for that nonsense!!! Those poor people having to clean all that up by themselves the day before their wedding!!!!
I wanted to see the pics since they said they had them. I really wanted to see the absolute dumpster fire of a place.
And if they booked a mansion, that's surely to accommodate lots of guests. Meaning they also had lots of witnesses.
I do not think parents are expected to pay for their childrens weddings. Anything you get is a blessing!
it used to be customary for the brides family to pay for the wedding. this is why i held a private backyard ceremony for close friends and family and it was totally informal, loose and wild fun and it was the single most memorable thing in my life, even if i have married someone else since. we were young and happy and we didnt need all the exras. my second wedding, i said, lets go courthouse!! and we did. 24 years later we are still together. i wasnt putting any expectations on either day and both were beautiful in their own ways. AND VERY INEXPENSIVE. even those can be tricky, i had a few zilla type moments(i had a panic attack before walking down the isle, made everyone wait 25 minutes while i remakeuped and sorted my freak out out), but once i just let go, it was alll gravy.
We paid $10k for our wedding. My parents gave us nothing. My mother-in-law paid for the bar. What are people thinking nowadays???
I believe this depends a lot on the culture and the family traditions you are raised in.
I don't understand the mentality of two people starting their lives together yet not being able to pay for their own things.
Pay for your own wedding. Also, buy (or already have) your own pots/pans, towels, etc.. If you don't have enough money for a toaster, then you shouldn't be getting married. You also don't need a freaking quesadilla maker!
@@libradrag0n i mean, the household items as wedding gifts make sense. it's not necessarily about the couple not being able to afford those things, it's about giving them a leg up in starting a new life together. also, if you have any decent number of guests then what else are they supposed to get you? at least household items are necessary and not just a bunch of useless junk.
The groom inviting his ex's kids, even though he's not the bio parent, sounds like a sweet guy. He doesn't deserve to be burdened by a bridezilla :(
That's what I keep thinking.
Yes! maybe he raised them like his own. That's super nice of him.
I actually read something about people who have had a relationship with a single parent, raised the kids together and when they split they never get to see the kid again. Because they share no DNA or have any rights and how heartbreaking it can be for them. It's classy that he wants to be part of their lives, wants to share his happy moments and that Ex is cool with that. That sounds very healthy to me.
The audacity that man had to propose to his girlfriend and interrupt the ceremony, that the minister had to stop and come tell him that this wasn’t the right time was astounding.
I feel sorry for his potential fiance. She must have been so embarrassed. What a dolt.
That guy proposing in the middle of the ceremony 🤦🏻♀️ I have second hand embarrassment for the poor woman. WTF was he thinking?!!!?
Unless the man had some sort of emotional handicap situation, he is a horrible person who should never had an unspoiled moment in his life.
She has her share of the blame - she was totally wearing a wedding dress to someone else's wedding. Seems like the two of them planned this whole scene out.
I know!! How insanely inappropriate! I was embarrassed just watching.
@@darth-imperius That wasn’t a wedding dress. It’s common practice at African and Caribbean weddings to have a flower girl and a mini-bride.
@@Ilikefrogs.. I learned from the Internet that a lot of Westerners consider wearing white to a wedding a no-no. That's not a thing where I am in Southern Africa.
We ended up postponing our wedding for an entire year, Charlotte. It was supposed to be for this year on May 25 but we decided to go for next year because my cousin who is two years younger than me and my most dearest friend has been diagnosed with cancer and I’m about to start a new job. I’d rather wait so everyone is comfortable and in a better place than feel like a bridezilla making crazy expectations of people.
You're a better person than one bride who wanted to know what to do about her friend with cancer; Wear a wig or don't come O_O
I would have done the same.
I wish your cousin the best cure and recovering (and for you and your spouse to have a great ceremony, surrounded by the best people!).
@@golden_leader9227 Thank you so much. I honestly hope all of your dreams come true
This is how family should react. Maybe you could get married now and have a re-commitment ceremony next year. You are the opposite of a bridezilla. If only, there were more like you.
That is so lovely of you to do. What a beautiful and caring person you are. I wish you and your husband to be nothing but joy. You two deserve the world. Blessings ~Mishell
The “Mansion” people should sue these people to oblivion!.
My whole wedding cost $7000 when I got married 12 years ago, thats EVERYTHING (venue, dress, cake, dinner, and I paid for all my bridesmaids dresses and the groomsmens rentals). It was a beautiful outdoor evening wedding under a mossy oak tree in the yard of an antebellum house in our town. Just gorgeous, so lovely, so cheap. I can't imagine sneering at a $32,000 gift.
If someone had dared wear a white dress to my sister’s wedding I would have “accidentally “ spilled a nice big glass of red wine on her.
And rightly so! It's what a good sister should do
i dont even get well along with my sister but i would definetly do that too
😄 🤣 😂 🍷
Operation “red wine” is in effect
There was a reddit story talking about a just no MIL wearing a wedding dress at her son's wedding.
Wedding shaming with Charlotte is essentially my favorite hobby at this point. 💅
Mine too!
10000% agree
Sames
Same
Same, girl! 😅🙌🏽
While my wedding was ten years ago, our budget was around $7000. We were even featured in “Elegant Weddings” magazine. It was a beautiful day and I enjoyed it so much! I am glad I’m not in debt from the day and that we focused on what matters most. 🥰
If someone ever proposed to me at someone else's wedding, the only thing they would get is a slap across the face. Especially if it were one of my family members weddings.
With what she was wearing I think she encouraged it
That’s so called “friend” Is effectively stealing the photos. From what I’ve researched, the bride sent payment and the “friend“ has been ignoring her. The bride needs to sue for either the photos back or a refund plus court costs and cut ties.
Isn't this the time they "invited" her and then treated her like staff, not even allowing her to drink water?
@@missfreakk1416 close but it's the groom who chewed her out and she showed that she deleted the photos in front of him, but it could be the bride who had no idea about it.
Was gonna give the friend the benefit of the doubt. Something major can come up in life when friends and their photos are the LEAST of your concerns at such times, but from what folks have dug more into the story, yeah, sounds like she was definitely and intentionally in the wrong.
I think maybe something happened to the SD card and they accidentally got lost or erased and she doesn’t have the courage to tell them
@@mistyalmondweb I thought she said they were their wedding gift from the photographer - are you sure it’s the same case?
I'm a really chill person generally but that situation with the mansion would have made me VIOLENT
Same!
Probably take the Wednesday Addams approach
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Gives a whole new meaning to “The Haunted Mansion”.
HAHA Best comment :))))
For the bride whose friend left her at the train station, then lied to her fiance: Tell the other bridal party members what happened so they're all on board with you, then tell the bridesmaid who did this that the ceremony had to be moved to another location (make up some reason), then have her show up somewhere else. I think I may have watched a few too many Petty videos to come up with this
YUP. Cuz not only did that "friend" try to wreck pretty much her whole life, but intentionally left her drunk and alone at a train station! Something horrible could have happened, idk how some people aren't wracked with guilt over this shit.
@@motheraiya the reality is that these people do crazy like this because they don't care. For all we know, maybe she was jealous, or was obsessed with the guy. I may have watched a few too many Lifetime movies
It would be smart to do that just in case she tries to ruin the wedding
That's actually genious
Love this!!!!
That mansion one was absolutely insane omg
My father paid for my sister's entire wedding and received NO thanks from the groom during his speech, instead was barraged by a gush fest about how wonderful his own parents and brother are. My sister said nothing. #entitledandungrateful
I felt that first one! Got married last month and I paid my sister to take pictures at my wedding. Ive heard from our mom that she lost the SD card with all of our pictures…
My friends luckily came in clutch and took some wonderful pictures for us to remember the day by
I'm super single and I don't imagine I would get married soon or care if someone wore white, but the petty part of me thinks to put on the wedding invites "Anyone who shows up in a white dress is agreeing to have their dress ruined by color/wine."
Can i borrow this? xD
I feel like a person who would wear white is doing it for a reason.
Two words: Spray Paint
There's a round of applause going on for you somewhere
Don't even tell them it's common sense lol just accidently have someone bump into them with the biggest fullest glass of red wine.
Key is having a bestie who's willing to do it so the bride/groom isn't suspected
My husband had been married before he married me and he had two sons by that first marriage. They were 14 and 16 when we got married. We had been married for a few years and one of our acquaintances was involved with a woman who "FORBADE" him from seeing his children by a previous marriage. FORBADE him??? Are you kidding me? I immediately had a heart to heart talk with my husband and I said, "Look, I want you to see your sons any time you want to see them. If things break down between the two of them and myself and I just can't stand to be around them, I hope you will have enough backbone to tell me to go shopping or something because they ARE going to come and see you! Do not EVER let me stop you from seeing your children." Fortunately, things never got bad between us so my husband was not forced to take that stand but I certainly hope he would have had enough spine to tell me to take a long walk on a short pier because he had every intention of maintaining a relationship with his now grown sons. I absolutely do not "get" how any woman could be insecure enough and stupid enough to dictate to her husband that he not be allowed to see his children and if a woman ever makes her husband choose between his children and her, i HOPE he chooses his children.
@@ButtonsCasey No, he wasn't their biological children but he had lived with them for several years and they looked at him as a father figure and he should have maintained a relationship with them if both he and the children wanted a relationship and his new girlfriend/wife needs to set aside her insecurities and jealousy and allow that relationship to continue! That's just my opinion. Am I wrong?
@@maryannanderson2213 Not wrong at all. Blood doesn't make family in the least. Your experiences with people make family.
I feel like this persons story was way different. The fiance knew she felt uncomfortable having them there and he invited them anyway without working out a solution where they are both okay. Why couldn't he have breakfast with them or hangout another day? Most kids don't care to be at parties anyway. The fiance refused to listen to any of her concerns so what else is she supposed to do besides try to communicate with someone else who will listen. Ya'll made her out to be a monster but i feel for her. I think they needed to have a serious talk. The fiance was rude for inviting them without asking and she, i'm sure, is just panicking because of the sudden change in plans. Everyone calling her a horrible person is thinking she is jealous of kids, umm no, it is the fact that is last minute and the kids of an EX. Yikes man.
@@BlackBlood74 If someone has even the slightest hesitation of accepting their partners kids then they're not worth having as a partner.
@@dustinriley8059 It isn't his kids though. We obviously don't know the full extent of the situation but I'm not going to call her the asshole just yet. For all you know, they had been child free or he doesn't see those kids much or whatever. Honestly, people always see women who don't care for children as cruela. This story doesn't have much info so I'm not sure why people are so quick to judge.
Omg, I'm so glad you covered the bird poop story. I am in the bridal group that story was first posted in and I was so shocked, I hope the venue is forever shamed.
What's the venue???
@@LilyPDXSacramento hostel something. Another person posted it.
@@user-vg6pj2my2n omg ilu thankyousomuch
When I got married, the inlaws bought us a $20 sheet cake, and my parents spent $35 on my dress. It was a lovely wedding, and their gifts were appreciated though not expected.
We wanted to do courthouse and we did a fancy dinner for our sides to get together, so I basically spent $4-5000 on a fancy dinner in a nice private venue with drinks included. My in-laws covered the alcohol portion as a gift, my family found a photographer. That was more than I expected. Absolutely crazy to expect anything to me, let alone so much for your wedding.
We did a wedding chapel and local restaurant's party room.
What a great idea! I'm going to be getting married and I'm a widow, he's a widower. Any kind of fancy wedding seemed silly at our age but I wanted our 5 grown children to meet at some point that isn't one of our funerals. They live all over the country.
My friend offered to make some candy for my wedding favours (I'm a sucker for homemade, I love sentimentality) and I was so touched! I literally nearly cried and she was like its honeycomb toffee, it's sugar and baking powder, chill lol I don't get women who think the world is there to kiss her ass just cuz she's becoming somebody's wife.
@@nataloffski1428 I'm missing something. You were upset because she told you what the ingredients are?
@@dalpz205 No, she was about to cry and the friend told her to chill because to her, it was super simple to make.
Idiot ex-friend: “ You’re uninviting me from your wedding?! Not fair!”
OP: “If my fiancé had believed your BS, there wouldn’t be a wedding. So for you… There is no wedding.” Seems fair 🤷🏻♂️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I loved this!!!
LOL that's pretty clever.
Love that this is the kind of comeback you think of after an argument, yet you've created the fake conversation for someone else's drama 🤣
@@koaluanabunnies Thankfully never been in this situation myself (hopefully neither has most of those reading this), so some imagination is required 😂
1:28 I love how she was just ignoring him because she knew he was wrong and wasn’t having it
The way I read that post about the 30k>2k gift, was that the bride was feeling weird about the discrepancy between the two gifts. She didn't sound entitled, more concerned that his parents might feel weird when they hear about her parents' contribution... I didn't feel she was trying to guilt trip them into giving more
Take the money and keep your trap shut.... one side does NOT need to know what the other contributed, Oh Entitled One.
We spent $110 for our wedding in Reno. That includes the chapel service, license, limo ride to city hall, coupons for prime rib buffet at Silver Legacy. Didn't ask our parents for money, used our savings to start our married life. 29 years later, we are still married, and as happy as ever.
You wanted a marriage, not a wedding.
I think the key there is that it was 30 years ago. Check out the same places now. The limo alone would cost more than that now.
32k is a very large budget, and the OP is a spoilt brat for being upset for not getting more, but a 10k would now be very budget.
@@kateg9437 The judge at the courthouse doesn't charge much at all.
@@kateg9437 You are right about that. But at the same time even 30 years ago people sure as hell spent a lot more for a wedding on average. So wedding being 30 years ago is one big factor but I personally think that the key is that they wanted a marriage not a wedding.
"a tad hard done by?" Well, sounds like a Southerner, so "Bless her tiny, dried up and shrivled little heart." Getting a "Wedding Fund" when you are born must be a "her thing," because that's not a normal thing. And agreed. $32k for one day of your life is absurd. You need a place to live. If you find out you can't have kids, you might have to pay that much to try to have one. Priorities.
Also, if she wants to stick to tradition, it’s the bride's parents who pay for the wedding anyway. If she wants to be more modern, she can pay for her own wedding.
Geez $32000 would have almost bought my house in 88. 🤦♀️ what are they thinking
Girl, save that money. Clearly you’re gonna need it if you expect other people to pay for your stuff!
@@infjandcoping4614 Ikr XD that was my initial thought. Also, nice profile name, fellow INFJ hahaha
$32,000 for a wedding? These people are insane and have some really skewed priorities. Barbie needs to take a step back and reevaluate her life. And her fiance needs to run while he still can
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Hugs on the loss of your furbaby
I paid for all decor, all my family's outfits (nieces, nephew, and parents), and my own wedding dress.... My in-laws paid 900 for the deposit for our venue (so appreciative❤️) and my husband and I paid for everything else together.... My parents have zero extra money and although my husband's family does we took pride in doing things ourselves....the entitlement people have is INSANE to me 👀 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
30k? 30k to start planning a wedding?!?! Thats a down payment on a house!
It’s great that your parents set aside money for your education and addition for your wedding most people don’t have that luxury. PAY for your own wedding! Save your own money for your wedding. His parents raised him that’s all they are required to do. His parents can do as they please with spending their money and going on vacation. That’s their business not yours. They worked hard for their own money they can spend how they wish. Grow up and become an real ADULT. Thank you Charlotte
And $2,000 is very generous! I don’t see how some people are so entitled
I love how she's shaming the in laws for not saving up, when it's obvious the bride herself didn't save a dime.
And making her soon to be partner shaming his own parents into meeting her expectations. Not fair to him. Another red flag moment really. This won’t be the only time she’ll have him siding with her against his parents. When you are truly in love with someone, most ppl will think of their partners feelings before saying something like this.
I have a friend who had saved a certain amount for his daughters' weddings. When they got engaged, he said to them. "You have $XX to spend for your wedding. You can either elope and use the money as a house down payment, or you can have the huge wedding." He has 4 daughters. 1 chose a house. 2 chose a small wedding and took the rest and applied it to a house. 1 chose the huge wedding.
My parent chose to pay for the cake and food at my wedding , which luckily was small and cost them about $500 do still a lot, I would have never expected them to ! I don't see how people expect other to pay for their things!!
As I was watching my immediate thoughts about the couple being ghosted by their friend the 'photographer' were precisely what u said 1st! Ol girl for whatever reason no longer had the photos at all!!!
She's got Schrödinger's memory card😂
I love this video and my mom had a cute/funny wedding moment many years ago . When my mom was in her wedding ceremony , her niece that was her flower girl kissed my mom's wedding dress . My mom had to clean off the lipstick off the dress :) . When her niece was getting married , a flower girl kissed her dress and her niece said to my mom " does this remind you of something ? " it was a little funny .
Hands down I expected nothing from my family when I got married, though my dad was adamant on paying (only daughter). Had I known then what I do now I would have begged him to save his money lol but apparently I was too "chill" at the time 🤣 disposable cameras on every table, all the decorations done by me and my then fiancee. I just wasn't into the grandeur aspect, only wanted to have my family there, that's all I needed. If I ever got married again and that's a big IF, I'm bloody eloping next time 😆. Thank you for always cheering me up Charlotte, your sunny enthusiasm always brightens the day 🌞
We’re not getting a penny from our parents. They love us, it’s just our responsibility 😂 $32000 you poor girl 🤦🏻♀️
The "how much money should be gifted for an engagement?" One got me hot AF!! I got a box of chocolates and a bunch of congratulations for my engagement gifts 😂😂😂😂😂
My fiance still has a relationship with his ex's kids. I encouraged him to continue to be in their lives. I was that kid who lost a step parent that I loved dearly. Luckily I still have a relationship with her as an adult, and I love her so much!
The wedding at the Hostel/ mansion would make for a very interesting movie! 🍿
Yes name and shame, they don’t deserve to be in business!
I think that ‘friend’ have feelings for the drunk bride-to-be fiancé 😅 I have no other theory
If I were marrying a man who still loved children he was not biologically connected to and whose partnership breakdown had not affected the relationship he had with them, I'd see this as a 'green' flag.
Hell, I'd see it as a 'chequered flag' and know I had a winner!
Some people I have known are wicked step-mothers. They even ask for his kids not to be at the wedding, they don't want the step kids around on the holidays. They will not include the stepkids in anything even the engagement announcement! One couple took their children to Disney and refused to take the stepson with them. The father even stopped having anything to do with his son, because his wife didn't want him to visit him, it took time away from their family!!! What a bitch women can be to stepkids. I was a stepmother. I included my stepkids in everything we did. We are recently divorced, but our son still sees his half-sister.
I feel like In her situation is more about the ex girlfriend then the kids tbh. She’s just choosing the “easy” target. Cuz that’s what narcissistic people like her do. Smh
Exactly. That’s a man of character and has a loving heart.
In reallity is a pretty complicated situation. Yes, that shows that he has character but other than that it is really complicated. So he has no biological or legal connection to the kids. From the comment we know that he was not married to the woman with the kids ( they were just boyfriend and girlfriend). We also know that the father is in the picture (either they got back together or at the very least he cares for his kids). We also do not know how long he was in their lives. Now lets go to the current situation. He is getting married to a woman. They probably will have kids, thus their own family. Will he still consider the ex-girlfriend's kids as his own, because of some amount of time he was in their lives? Can the kids consider him to be their ex-step dad? Can they ask of him all the things that a dad should provide to his kids? Lets put ourselves to the soon to be wife position. Her soon to be husband and maybe father of her kids has a realtionship with the kids of his ex-girlfriend and consequently with the ex-girlfriend herself. Of course she will feel threatened, not because they are teenage girls but because they can be part of her life (ex-girlfriend and her kids). Her husband might consider them his own kids, thus wanting to be there for them. They are not his kids biologically. They are not his kids legaly, since he did not married their mother or recognise them by law as his kids. He is just the ex-boyfriend of the kids mother. That is a really big issue for her. It is not something simple, that you can say ''this heartless bitch, doesn't want 2 teenage girls in her wedding''.
@@Petros39 This is exactly how I see it. There needs to be more context to really pass judgement.
3:23 cracking your sparkling knuckles 🤣 I love your spontaneous humor
$30k gift for a wedding?! Jesus, I got married in 2010 for under $5k for everything and it was absolutely perfect: married at a golf course with a beautiful, window-lined ballroom, lovely food, tux, dress, flowers, cake. I cannot wrap my head around people who spend so much money on one single day. Take the money for a house downpayment or something!
I'm so goddamn old.
You’re not old, some people have just been sucked in to the wedding industrial complex and feel like they need all the bells and whistles to be validated. It’s nuts!
Right? I would buy a house with that money. People are nuts.
I agree. Imagine the fabulous honeymoon you could go on with all that money! You can have a really nice wedding for far less than $30,000! Besides, the people who come don’t really care about how much you paid for anything. All they care about is if the food is good and the open bar! They won’t notice that you spent $5,000 on your wedding gown, so get one for $500 instead. You’re not royalty for goodness sake!
yeah, i had 2 weddings in my life and both combined cost about 2000 usd. but i knew what could be afforded as my mom was single and we were poor (no dad around) i was happy with my little inexpensive weddings
@@hollyshaw-elliemae Got you beat! I've had 3 and the most expensive one was $1000.
For the attention seekers wearing white dress to a wedding, can't some of the bridesmaids "accidentally" spill some red wine or bump on to them with a plate full of food?
That would be fun to watch 😂
I said to myself, out loud at that *[zero shame over here, lol],* that I would have gone to the DJ to request “Red Red Wine,” just for added effect and to ruin such a classic song for her potentially, proceeded to take my happy-ass to the dance floor with a nice big glass of the bar’s cheapest red they have *[one of the only occasions that I would pay or ask for a glass of red wine since I'm more of a white wine kind of gal, lol],* go right up next to her and start to steal the spotlight dancing for a moment just to truly solidify that my face and presence get cemented into her psyche, and then “twist my ankle” as my red wine “somehow” proceeds to make its way all over and down that white dress she had the utter gall and audacity to wear-either the performative twisting of the ankle or recruiting a friend to accompany me to the dance floor to “accidentally” bump into me causing the red wine I had no intention of drinking to leave my glass and land on its designated target, for either one will suffice, lol.
You'd think someone who was so desperate to be watched at other people's weddings might take a little time to learn how to dance...
@@katek.4692 I would just pour a bottle over her . It may cost more but my point would come across the same
I actually got married the day this video came out! Love you Charlotte!
Love the phrase "proposed at someone else's wedding" because it creates a situation where somebody would propose during their own wedding
Has anybody else noticed that Charlotte dead looks like a goddess? There’s just so much truth radiating from her body I just love it
Omg stop this is so kind, you’re a goddess, my love!
truth n beauty 😍🤓
Yaas, we LOVE it for her!!
God yes, she’s one of my biggest girl crushes!
@@CharlotteDobre pardon me Miss, for I am crying into my Simpsons bong!!! WE LOVE YOU!! Come visit California for my wedding next year❤️ I’ve been taking anti-bridezilla meds in the form of your videos❤️❤️❤️
I've been married for25 years, and the photographer was a member of our church. We were so young, and had a 4 month old baby girl. Jerry offered to take pictures as a gift. He then gave us only 1 out of 2 albums. He then stopped attending church services, and we never saw him again. Our pastor even offered to pay him, but he just refused. Six months later his wife sent us a nasty letter demanding payment. We supplied the camera and film.
The AUDACITY
What a creep
In all honesty, I sometimes click off when things get too long, but the bird poop one seriously had me hooked too...WOW, just wow!
The second video 😂😂😂 I’m crying “sorry I hope I’m not embarrassing you “😭😭
I've commented this before, but my entire wedding, including the dress, cost $4,000. It was a beautiful wedding and reception. This is why I can't understand people that don't think they can have a fantastic wedding for $30,000. Seriously? That is almost 8 times the cost of my wedding. Please, get over yourselves.
Yes! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
My wedding was under $2000. But this was in the 80s.
My daughter wedding was in Vegas so we had travel costs but still under $5000 for 4 people. We hadn't been on vacation in years so we usually don't count the trip as wedding expenses
But their reception was with both families pitching in together just under $3,500.
I cooked and we had a decent DJ and full bar it was a blast.
So far my sons wedding I'm not 100% sure as my soon to be daughters family is taking care of most of it. We are paying for grooms cakes(cupcakes for the win) and rehearsal dinner. Plus we are buying my son a suit as they don't want tux. But so far its under $1000 for us.
You can have such a lovely time on a budget that it baffles the hell out of me all these "zillas" in weddings(mom/bride/groom etc..)go so bonkers.
My parents told me any money not spent on the wedding could go towards a house. We took them up on that. My folks and hubs folks paid for all the main meat courses, and alcohol, got to love family that knows how to do a good smoked hog roast, and my beloved aunties and uncles all provided the side dishes.
It was the best party in a long time.
Plus we still live in our home. 33 years later.. we had $3000 to put as down payment.
Didn't some study come out about the cost of weddings vs how long they lasted? Like cheaper weddings lasted longer than big money weddings?
I'd love to read that report lol
Oh and Miss Mary. Your calico furbaby is adorable 😍 my calico says hi!🥰
@@Emeraldwitch30 ❤❤❤ His name is Patchy and he says Hi right back!!!
Okay, I was laughing pretty hard at the start of the mansion story, but by the end of it, I just felt bad. I really hope that couple got compensated somehow.
I could plan a wedding for way less than $32,000. That is enough for a wedding, a nice honeymoon and a savings start for a home.
Dang! We spent around $5000 for our entire wedding. That includes my dress, photography, venue and everything. My parents gifted us $500 and we were grateful. We didn't expect anything from anyone. Also, my parents thought my wedding was expensive 🤣
10'000 points to the preacher who told dude to get the flock outta here!😁👍
That mansion is quite a story. Incredible!
The kid holding the "last chance to run" is legitimately funny and I would totally do that as a joke in my wedding, but I got a sense of humor.
For the state of the mansion story, if my group would of had to clean all that bird droppings off with power washers and there was no compensation or discount given. After we were done with the venue we would clean the mansion of course and I would make sure to sprinkle the entire grounds the mansion sat on. I'm talking from the property line right up to the building with bird seed! Just leaving it in the same state I found it!😉
NICE!!! N' Petty 😘
@@starlingswallow Thank you!😁
Genius 👏🏼
@@catsareawesome791 Thank you, every once in awhile I have a moment! LOL🤣
I'd do one better and feed the birds laxatives. Exactly what you said, just leaving it how I found it :)
Imagine being mad other people wont pay for your wedding... They got me a beer at the pub after the wedding... :P (and we all know, free beer is the bestest beer :P)
Now see, if someone ruined my wedding when I was renting a mansion for days and then tried to steal my wedding dress. That place would be on fire so fast.
It is absolutely adorable when Miss Charlotte gets so flustered that she can’t use her words! I ain’t mad at her tho; don’t think I could speak rationally about that last one. I have a son that isn’t biologically mine who would not only be invited to my next wedding but seated with the family………BECAUSE HE IS! 🤦🏻♂️some people’s children!
Had a somewhat similar experience. I grew up in a blended family. My Daddy "stepfather " (I hate that title btw so did he) raised me as his own 💞. Fast forward to my oldest brothers (step) wedding .... while taking formal pictures , my Aunt(step) asked for a picture of just the kids(of my Daddy) . We gathered at the assigned place. She then announced that she meant only his REAL children! Btw my Daddy had passed away 4 years earlier and I grew up with her and her children! I stepped off the platform as gracious as I could to allow this picture to be taken. It was all I could do not to cry. But I smiled so as not to spoil my brothers day
@@melissafields3376 oh Melissa - I’m literally crying after reading this - your aunt is a horrible person - and you are his real child 😢 You handled that with such class and graciousness! Im so sorry that happened to you!
@@melissafields3376 okay, I'm sorry - but as someone who understands the blended family, with my own (step) sisters I would have told the aunt to f-off. They are my sisters. You are his child. This idea of real vs. step is so infuriating because the man obviously chose to have you be in his life. What could possibly be more real than that? Your aunt should be ashamed of herself, and I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Don't ever for a second think you are any different than any of his other children.
@@melissafields3376 I'm truly sorry that happened to you, but even more sorry that your "daddy" didn't say anything 😕
@@shannonlewis2716 her daddy passed away few years prior to the wedding. She said that in her comment!
Wow. I feel like the lesson from this and other videos when it comes to venues is if you are struggling to reach them in the lead up to your wedding date that’s your warning to start looking into a new venue. If you can’t reach them before the wedding you can’t trust they will be helpful with any issues day of. That is next level though.
Thank you for my heart smiling from you and your magnetic and sparkling personality and fantastic humor and perspective!
Thank you
Where I am from, it is customary to have a box at the reception entrance where people who wish to gift money to the couple can deposit an envelope with cash. My mom was at a wedding like this. Halfway through the reception they realized the box was gone, someone had stole it. Of course, everyone blamed staff, waiters and whatnot. Luckily the owner of the venue defended them and said "nope, not here, I trust all my employees". Even luckier, they had a camera there and when him and the couple went to check they saw the MAID OF HONOUR walking out with box. Apparently it was very awkward.
The fact that we accept our enemies to dictate what we do is they throw some vague threat is really pathetic
The one about the wedding photos is interesting, there was a story recently about someone who offered to do wedding photos for a friend who was getting married, but they refused to give her a break to eat And so she walked out of the wedding. I'm super curious if they're connected
I don't think so because if I remember the follow up to that 1 was that she talked to the bride about doing possibly a post wedding photos after the bride learned how awful her husband had been. The bride was going to pay her money for it by the way.
@@KatjeKat86 right I forgot she talked with the bride after lol
I was thinking the same thing, but I realized the groom was the one who told her she wasn’t allowed to to eat or take a break. and she got in contact with the bride a few days later and found out he had lied to the bride about what happened.
In that case, the person deleted the photos and left.
That mansion wedding one should be made into a movie 😂 and have the actual place and owner shown in the credits 🤣
Anything over 0$ should be treated with respect and gratitude. The fact she was complaining after receiving 30K!! Is absolutely nutzo
Having one of them silent stoic panic attacks and when it was over I remembered Charlottes uploaded and suddenly felt calmer. You are actual medicine Dobre.
Never have friends do the pictures is, the Biggest regret I have from our wedding. First it took ages, and when they finally "got around" to sending them, they accidentally deleted them all instead.
I was lucky. A family friend took the photos and we put disposable cameras on all the tables. Only lost 2. And my aunt brought one back as her little grandson had put it in his back pack lol. Who know where the other went. But we had great weird pics. But I'm kinda off the wall weird so it fit!
But our family friends didn't want to come cuz they had no money for a gift. I told them I wanted them there as gifts were not required to come.
It was my moms idea for them to photograph and we bought the film and had it all developed. Any good shots we had inhanced and blown up larger.
But I've seen those reddit posts of people demanding certain gifts or amounts of money. Ugh greedy money grabs. Guest sees invite thinks oh sharing their big day. Bride sees invite and thinks gimme gimme?
My daughter's wedding is coming up and we found we can print out QR codes that send people to our email so they can send any good pics they get to us on their phones.
I'm still a bit concerned we will get some inappropriate shots, but worth a try, I guess.
@@hellannthefirst5529 that is still not the posedpics but just normal party pics which is also nice to have.
Lol I am so happy they called that dude out for proposing at someone's wedding.
I love your channel so much, your personality is awesome!!! Loved this video lol
My wedding cost about $1200, including dress, food, flowers, all that junk. In the end, that worked out to about $100 for each year we ended up staying married. In that way, I do believe that I overspent.
The kid carrying a flag saying “last chance to run” or something similar was a haha trend for a while because I remember seeing it in Pinterest posts when I was a teenager who was pinning her imaginary wedding😂
I really love your makeup today! Your eye color is popping and your eyeliner is winged for the gods!!! ❤️
Big tea on the mansion one! enjoyed listening to it while eating some snacks.
204 days until my wedding, definitely going to talk to the venue manager to make sure everything will be in order.
I'm single now but i still love wedding dresses.💕
Since i was only a little child i always love those dresses...
Why do I love these videos so much??🤣💗
that's not just thief.. that's malicious mischief too!
uh......the thing about parents paying for your wedding.......NO. its YOUR wedding. YOU pay for it