I don't feel good enough in my polyamorous relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 41

  • @jid3479
    @jid3479 2 года назад +24

    Glad too see you both back, looking awesome and inspiring. I personally find even if poly isn’t part of my life you both have a way to inspire me to be a better Me. Thank you

  • @marenwen4690
    @marenwen4690 2 года назад +9

    As I am seeing this, I remember this one video Brittany made, when Conor just moved out of their shared appartment. And I thought, I am so grateful that i saw this moment of your life. It makes everything you guys tell so much more credible! Cause when you sit there and share your experience, everything is so well reflected and I love that, but the time when something just hurts and you are in the middle of it, is also a part of it. I thank you so much for sharing that too.

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад +2

      Yes! We love that you saw that real moment of our lives that we shared here. There have been so many journeys within this relationship for us both. So many challenges and growth opportunities! It's powerful to see the times we are really working and not just talking about a more polished practice. Thanks for highlighting this!

  • @btukey
    @btukey Год назад +7

    It is really quite simple. I was told that my wife needed to be in an open marriage to be happy. So now I'm stuck in one faking it every day. This lifestyle benefits women, who can easily find many partners. I don't suggest men get into this if they can avoid it. Broke me as a man and ruined my life

    • @viniciusdonadio948
      @viniciusdonadio948 3 месяца назад

      Maybe try not agreeing to something you don't agree with internally next time, regardless of your gender.
      And don't generalize it please.

    • @joeljoel5061
      @joeljoel5061 2 месяца назад

      Think there is more to it than this. I'm a really good looking outgoing guy. I can meet women easily. My struggle is that I want something that's just mine, and finding that while you are in a poly situation is a nightmare. If you want to meet women just meet PEOPLE. If you hunt for a partner it doesn't work, but if you seek relationships with humans a partner will find you. I myself struggle fiercely in my triad. I love both of my partners very much, but I miss my monogamous marriage horribly and would trade all the good parts of polyamory to have it back.... But our boyfriend lives with us and it's been six months etc. I feel stuck.

  • @lylyicing
    @lylyicing 2 года назад +4

    Being in open/poly relationship teaches so much about yourself. I admire it. I’m new to this and I’m excited to experience myself in it and confront new aspects of myself in this relationship style.

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад

      We love this and feel the same way too! We are excited about all you are learning about yourself!

  • @LaurenGH88
    @LaurenGH88 2 года назад +5

    You guys look incredible!

  • @abrilbedoya9274
    @abrilbedoya9274 Год назад

    I love the truck story because it is finding self worth in something that is yours, with your unique set of abilities and strengths. I have been very frustrated in the past for not being able to fit in certain situations but I now see those things were not for me! So there's nothing to feel bad about it!

  • @rawganic5183
    @rawganic5183 2 года назад +2

    LOVING the visuals in this video. (backdrop and how you are both dressed to match it is very aesthetically pleasing - you both look very fresh in those clothes and the colors suit you :) haha sorry just felt like mentioning that! love your content xx

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад +2

      Aw yay, we love knowing that. It all matters a lot!

  • @shawnastarr3605
    @shawnastarr3605 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for your videos you guys their so helpful and I learn a lot.♥️

  • @houseofpaganpridepolylife3700
    @houseofpaganpridepolylife3700 Год назад

    what do you do if your partner suggests poly life but you feel as tho you are being played. what do you suggest he just keeps going over and over with me repeating time after time . what would you do? he loves his wife and wants to do right by her but he is emotionally stuck. marriage counselor in michigan

  • @KarinLynnBates
    @KarinLynnBates 2 года назад

    It’s really wonderful to see a video with you again and speaking on an important topic! I wish I could attend the workshop, but I’m leading workshops for my work that day. I hope you have healthy attendance and everyone learns a lot!

  • @zoebirss9944
    @zoebirss9944 2 года назад

    Ohmigod thank you so, so much for this. I haven't experienced these feelings yet in my poly practice. I'm very new. But I know I will! It is so helpful to hear how these feelings can come, be processed, and passed. I was able to empathize with both of your stories. So glad you are posting again.

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад +1

      We love you tuning in here at the beginning of your poly practice! And yes, all can be processed and passed!

  • @leela7335
    @leela7335 2 года назад +1

    Hi! Something really shifted in your eyes, Conor, from before and after telling your story. Like you lit up :)

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад +2

      We love your level of attention!

    • @leela7335
      @leela7335 2 года назад

      @@conorandbrittany hm… thanks, but i feel like my attention is draining my energy. Like, what am I supposed to do with it? Share it with others like I did here? Idk.

  • @christinahartnett2316
    @christinahartnett2316 2 года назад

    Unfortunately I have to work so I can’t make the free seminar but I’m grateful for these last couple of videos bc my husband and I are in a open relationship and sometimes it can be difficult.

  • @annilala3154
    @annilala3154 2 года назад +1

    Love you!

  • @dearmeecha1310
    @dearmeecha1310 Год назад

    I’m really enjoying your videos lately. 🙏

  • @POLYLIVING
    @POLYLIVING Год назад

    I definitely struggle with my partners when they feel incredibly drawn to someone I don’t find good enough for them. I’m working on focusing on how strange my taste has always been😂

  • @carolinaann6235
    @carolinaann6235 Год назад

    Love the car story 😂❤

  • @ssal7704
    @ssal7704 2 года назад +1

    This came just at the right time ☺️☺️

  • @JobbaMoscha
    @JobbaMoscha 2 года назад

    Wow, thank your so much for this inspiring and vastly relatable video! You guys rock = )
    Connor I wonder if you actually feel that you could dive somehow similarly deep and healing with your journaling process or is the maybe wordily 3D action rather your alchemical Ally?

  • @rhiannaberrigan7447
    @rhiannaberrigan7447 2 года назад

    This video was helpful to me! Love you both

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад +2

      Thanks so much, Rhianna! We love knowing this!

  • @joannflinn484
    @joannflinn484 Год назад

    Just came across your videos. So many things I wanna ask... I am in a poly relationship and struggling but surviving. I want to do so much more than just survive. Do you have another seminar coming up?

  • @IsThisJustFANTAsea
    @IsThisJustFANTAsea 2 года назад +1

    Could I suggest a new format of filming? I just had this idea of you, Conor and Brittany, facing each other and speaking, rather than full on to the audience. Positioned so that we still see both or mainly both sides of your faces in the shot. I just feel it’ll help me connect more clearly with your messages if I can see y’all connecting more visually and reactionary during your pieces.

    • @conorandbrittany
      @conorandbrittany  2 года назад

      We have these videos. They are our Raw Processing series available on our website. We sit facing each other discussing deep and even highly triggering topics. Modeling in real life compassionate communication and other techniques we advocate. We hope you find them useful!