Thank you! I so needed this! Been feeling this huge need for change. Ive spent my whole life helping and thinking of others first. Ive been trying to put me first but its so unnatural for me and feels wrong. Baby steps. Thanks again! So much love for you 💜
This is probably my favorite video I’ve seen from you Brittany🥺so profound and I love how the passion comes through you when you speak about these topics.
While I agree with nearly all the wise sentiments stated here, I am left perplexed as to why these understandings that were known weren’t implemented as soundly or consistently since the beginning of the application and implementation of your open relationship dynamics, as this would be an intense long-term drain on inner resources and a thick consequence that would pervade every avenue of relationship cultivation and decision-making choice up until this point, including how that overlaps with the decision of starting a family and as a relationship coach on the whole.
This reads like a word salad what are you trying to say exactly? They didn't follow these sound suggestions which led to problems in their own relationship? If that's the case welcome to being a living breathing human being with faults and all
@@Gurubu There is a notion that one takes on a greater amount of responsibility & culpability when one socially proclaims to be a coach and that they have enough awareness and knowledge to guide others in relationship dynamics while taking payment for such skills. Ethical practice comes into play. Being human being is fine, but this becomes arguably incongruous when one presents themselves as knowledgeable in leadership or guiding positions without them actually applying wisdom or ethical practice to their own conduct, and such is suggestively absent as based upon the articulations expressed in the video.
@@Ann_A_Lien I understand what you are saying but if you think all people in the helping, coaching, therapy, medical etc etc professions, even those that require licenses have total mastery of what they teach in their daily lives you are a bit naive. Especially so with the complicated dynamics of polyamory that we have absolutely no cultural conditioning for. No one in the planet has life all figured out, the best we can do for each other is offer pointers and share our experiences or knowledge. The openness and vulnerability in sharing that we fall short sometimes and how we pick ourselves back up is in itself a valuable teaching.
@@AngieF8 Eight years of open relationship + coaching is quite a significant amount of time to not recognize how one is implementing codependent dynamics, particularly with opting for a child inside this space, as much of their coaching and material aims at having knowledge pertaining to these topics which is marketed directly. There is no naïveté in stating this regardless of type relationship dynamics practiced, and would be more important in plural relationship dynamics. Many with training tend to remain under clinical observation. I am aware of the complexity of plural relationship dynamics, as I have practiced them for 12+ years; however, preaching these dynamics and coaching them in a manner of being knowledgeable is another matter, including prior non-admissions of the issues that were occurring in their dynamic that were neglected of being addressed until only recently, and were opaquely communicated.
@@Ann_A_Lien I imagine they wanted and needed to give themselves a bit of privacy as they worked through this. Everyone grows through challenges and I believe that BECAUSE Brittany is a relationship coach, she was able to address this situation better than she could have otherwise. Coaches still absolutely have their own lessons to learn and everyone involved here has grown a lot. The various dynamics that we experience (co-dependent and otherwise) show up in a variety of ways, even if we think we already "solved" that issue.
Brittany! Can i listen to THIS particular video of yours in form of a podcast somehow? I would love to have this exact speech played into my ears every day 😍
So amazing, i resonate a lot with what you said about autonomy, self responsibility and self reliance. I feel that counting on yourself is no different than couting on the divine eithin and around. So my focus is very much on the universal spiritual essence (I call it God) for inner stability and cohesion. Wonderful to observe that this is the only true stability. All else fluctuates. 🙏
I appreciate this because my partner is saying something similar for themselves although the way they're doing it is a bit confusing and triggering for me- but I think this is what they're trying to get at. I feel like I can try to make space for that while also feeling like maybe this is the opportunity for me to do the same.
I haven’t watched their videos for a long time and now suddenly i found out about all of this new information. Someone please summarize the timeline of event for me it is just hard to go back and watch all the videos of what had happened
This is so unbelievably true and important . Everyone should listen to this.
Thank you! I so needed this! Been feeling this huge need for change. Ive spent my whole life helping and thinking of others first. Ive been trying to put me first but its so unnatural for me and feels wrong. Baby steps. Thanks again! So much love for you 💜
So helpful to hear something specific and practical to do. Thank you
This is probably my favorite video I’ve seen from you Brittany🥺so profound and I love how the passion comes through you when you speak about these topics.
Nice advise.
We go in and out of "dysregulation" on a daily basis- but with practice we can shift back into presence more quickly :)
Thank you so much for this I really needed to hear it and will be focusing on the 5 points from now xxxx
While I agree with nearly all the wise sentiments stated here, I am left perplexed as to why these understandings that were known weren’t implemented as soundly or consistently since the beginning of the application and implementation of your open relationship dynamics, as this would be an intense long-term drain on inner resources and a thick consequence that would pervade every avenue of relationship cultivation and decision-making choice up until this point, including how that overlaps with the decision of starting a family and as a relationship coach on the whole.
This reads like a word salad what are you trying to say exactly? They didn't follow these sound suggestions which led to problems in their own relationship? If that's the case welcome to being a living breathing human being with faults and all
@@Gurubu There is a notion that one takes on a greater amount of responsibility & culpability when one socially proclaims to be a coach and that they have enough awareness and knowledge to guide others in relationship dynamics while taking payment for such skills. Ethical practice comes into play. Being human being is fine, but this becomes arguably incongruous when one presents themselves as knowledgeable in leadership or guiding positions without them actually applying wisdom or ethical practice to their own conduct, and such is suggestively absent as based upon the articulations expressed in the video.
@@Ann_A_Lien I understand what you are saying but if you think all people in the helping, coaching, therapy, medical etc etc professions, even those that require licenses have total mastery of what they teach in their daily lives you are a bit naive.
Especially so with the complicated dynamics of polyamory that we have absolutely no cultural conditioning for.
No one in the planet has life all figured out, the best we can do for each other is offer pointers and share our experiences or knowledge.
The openness and vulnerability in sharing that we fall short sometimes and how we pick ourselves back up is in itself a valuable teaching.
@@AngieF8 Eight years of open relationship + coaching is quite a significant amount of time to not recognize how one is implementing codependent dynamics, particularly with opting for a child inside this space, as much of their coaching and material aims at having knowledge pertaining to these topics which is marketed directly. There is no naïveté in stating this regardless of type relationship dynamics practiced, and would be more important in plural relationship dynamics. Many with training tend to remain under clinical observation. I am aware of the complexity of plural relationship dynamics, as I have practiced them for 12+ years; however, preaching these dynamics and coaching them in a manner of being knowledgeable is another matter, including prior non-admissions of the issues that were occurring in their dynamic that were neglected of being addressed until only recently, and were opaquely communicated.
@@Ann_A_Lien I imagine they wanted and needed to give themselves a bit of privacy as they worked through this. Everyone grows through challenges and I believe that BECAUSE Brittany is a relationship coach, she was able to address this situation better than she could have otherwise. Coaches still absolutely have their own lessons to learn and everyone involved here has grown a lot. The various dynamics that we experience (co-dependent and otherwise) show up in a variety of ways, even if we think we already "solved" that issue.
Brittany! Can i listen to THIS particular video of yours in form of a podcast somehow? I would love to have this exact speech played into my ears every day 😍
thank you so much, i feel seen by your content
Thank you for this. This is definitely something I’ve been working on for the last year. It is a game changer for sure! -Kami
So amazing, i resonate a lot with what you said about autonomy, self responsibility and self reliance. I feel that counting on yourself is no different than couting on the divine eithin and around. So my focus is very much on the universal spiritual essence (I call it God) for inner stability and cohesion. Wonderful to observe that this is the only true stability. All else fluctuates. 🙏
So beautiful to hear from you love
This is something I have been focusing on lately. You put it beautifully.
Thanks Dani!
Amen! Give yourself grace, grrrl. You deserve it.
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This was a great video, and nice to hear about you, you are so positive and honest! i love your videos so much. ❤
This is a great video, I really enjoyed it a lot, thank you a ton
I appreciate this because my partner is saying something similar for themselves although the way they're doing it is a bit confusing and triggering for me- but I think this is what they're trying to get at. I feel like I can try to make space for that while also feeling like maybe this is the opportunity for me to do the same.
Why do u film at Connor’s house and not yours! I’ve noticed this a lot lately.
Well, I mean it’s not like she cut ties with him, she also co-parents their son with him as well, so…
I'd guess they like having the filming setup/backdrop they have at Connor's. 💖
Gear; tripod, camera, lighting… And backdrop.
Brit is pretty proudly minimalist so I could see this being a great compromise where the set is at his house lol
I think Conor said he does a lot of the technical stuff so he probably has a setup.
I did a mazlows hierarchy of needs for myself, it's what I found helpful for me
Such an important topic, thank you!! Thats hard practice for me, too. I’m working on this since years 😄🧡
I love InsightTimer ❤ this is so beautiful. I really appreciate this video.
Would love a link to the chart! Definitely feeling this video. ❤
Loving the hair lil lady!!
Thanks love!
I haven’t watched their videos for a long time and now suddenly i found out about all of this new information. Someone please summarize the timeline of event for me it is just hard to go back and watch all the videos of what had happened
Awsome thank u 🙏
Beautiful and definitely resonates
Fuck I love her! ❤
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💙✨ YOU 🫶🏾. Thanks!