For everyone wondering, here is a 2 year update, Kyle broke up with them and moved out a few months after this video. Rachel and Ash both got pregnant around the same time with Yair. They seem to be doing ok based on their social media.
Yeah, i'm guessing Kyle never actually wanted to do this. Now the "family marriage therapist" Rachel is pregnant with another man. Why would you stay!? Their kids are going to be messed up.😬
Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...
This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.
I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it. I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret
@@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!
How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)
@@Carolineandthecompany she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.
Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship
Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say Ashley is just happy to be included
I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.
@@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.
one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it
I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).
@@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.
@@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.
@@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?
She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.
She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it
Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!! also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.
8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting: Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man) *Yair smiles* *Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction* *Yair stops smiling and feigns panic* Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.
they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity
Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.
What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now
I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.
I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.
This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!
It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.
The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!
I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that
This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.
Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.
They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.
I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision
We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.
Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.
Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip. Population doesn't work out well without intelect, a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline It doesn't work with goofy heads.
I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.
? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.
It takes a village to raise a child. Why are so many people anti culture if it's not US and American? Do people not realize how racist comments like this sound? US Americans are a rare culture that believes upbringing a child must only be done by two parents. It's a very white attitude.
@@gb5007 K=LMAO, RACHEL IS THINKING OF BRINGING ANOTHER COUPLE INTO THE MIX. I'm afraid moving forward this may become the norm. I'm afraid men may force their wives to do this unwillingly.
yeahs because monogamy has been the solution for marital and relationship problems for ages, No monogamous couple has ever had issues and all societies that praticed monogamy have been fair and just... um seriously... wake up
Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.
Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.
I believe that people can do whatever they want with their lives as long as it’s not harmful to anyone. In other words, your hole your problem. Live and let live
I'm surprised about how many people in this comment section have been living under a rock.... Non monogamy is a very common thing in society and can be very fulfilling and rewarding. I don't understand why it angers people so much that consenting adults chose to pursue a loving relationship with more than one person, if you don't like it, don't do it. Polyamorous people exist, get over it!!!
America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?
Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.
I'm mostly impressed by how well organized they are. Especially financially. I cannot even track how much I spend on food. I wish I were so organized and educated about finances. I have zero understanding of how things really work beyond earning money and not wasting too much....
They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol
That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage
@@Christiamorous I’m sure there can be some successful polyamorous relationships, but the ratio has to be much lower compared to monogamous relationships. Think about all the drama they would get involved in.
@@00SuperHAN00 Compared to monogamous folks? That's silly. I can go to my female best friend's house and can sleep over without it being a problem for my fiancee. Think I could do that in a monogamous relationship? There are so many rules and lack of healthy communication in monogamous relationships - those are just a couple of the many reasons I don't do monogamy anymore. 70% of straight monogamous relationships end in their first year. 41% of marriages end in divorce. Would you blame monogamy for that? No? Why not, since you seem to be so sure polyamorous relationships are doomed to failure?
@@Christiamorous Lack of healthy communication is not the problem of a monogamous relationship but rather an individual problem. If one is experiencing consistent relationship issues, that individual needs to do introspective work rather than blame the structure of the relationship. You said you and your fiance have absolutely no problem with sleeping over at other partners’ houses, but in the long run, this can create serious trust issues and jealousy. Yes, a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last forever. But I am sure the success ratio is still way higher than polyamory.
I'm sorry but I have to say this. A white women in the U.S , demanding to "have it all" says that she is discriminated against because they system won't allow her to get everything she wants. You simply can not make this stuff up!
Keep your account separate pay for your portion of the bills and create a joined savings account you still need money to spend separately from your partner like buying them birthday gifts
I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.
They can create an organization called the family... register it as a corporation or llc. And have the same rights as any other married couple... except this is for all of them.
The future is uncertain, and the rising cost of living may lead to a reality where difficult choices and sacrifices become the norm. It's disheartening to think that financial pressures could shape our lives in ways we never imagined.
This is intriguing indeed. The burden of capitalism is easier to carry if there are more than two adults in a family. I wonder if they have thought of using a trust for all legal documents that require only one name.
Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?
You’re crazy if you don’t think there will be a huge rise in this type of relationships Rate of single women over 30, increased housing cost and declining birth rates will all factor in
Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants
All for polyamory if that's what works for all involved. Seems pretty obvious to me though that Kyle is emotionally overwhelmed. Interesting that his (former?) wife doesn't notice this as a therapist.
Yes, thats an incredibly simpleminded view on this. Amazing. How do you live with having such simple Ideas? What? EVERYTHING is ok when it makes them 'happy'? You do realize your silly defintion falls apart the second we apply it to In-est, huh?
I am confuse...As she stated her sexual routine...So two days heterosexual and one day homosexual for her...I am not sure about the men...Are they also bisexual??? Can anyone please clear my assumptions??
Because of my religion, I wouldn’t live out this lifestyle but I personally enjoy how there seems like more support and more love and everyone looks happy. ❤️
Don't assume the "quiet" ones don't get their way. They can control things like you wouldn't believe. Rachel just likes hearing herself talk. I think Yair and Kyle are going to get into a physical altercation at some point. Yair will then go back to Israel and marry a nice girl like his parents are probably praying he would.
Probably because there's nothing wrong with it, are they hurting anyone ? no, are they taking away someones else's rights ? No, they are living their lives and living their couple the way they see fit
This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.
This won't last long or too much longer. I don't believe relationships like this work for the most part, this one of the few forms of poly I just can't see working to well. There is a type of bond and love you would have to have between partners which I don't see here. Triplett Triad, now that is a poly relationship to strive for. They all truly love each other and are all together.
triads are usually the most toxic form. because of couple privillage or low level homophobia, like if you leave a throuple your leaving two people not just one, your alone, abandoned people struggle to leave or speak up feeling outnumbered, at least this there is some balance, things can fade if things arent working, without completely breaking apart the entire relationship.
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Are we at the point that you need 4 people with normal jobs to afford a house
The truth of this comment though..😆😆
Yes
Bruh! 😂
Yes.
@@FriesLIVE good. More excuse to sleep around 😁
I would love to see a follow-up story 1-3 years from now.
I mean a lot of relationships don’t work 1-3 years later
They'll all be dying of STDs.
They'll still be together and you'll still be alone, most likely.
That will most likely be on “Snapped” or “Crime ID”🤨
the beta guy leaves
For everyone wondering, here is a 2 year update, Kyle broke up with them and moved out a few months after this video. Rachel and Ash both got pregnant around the same time with Yair. They seem to be doing ok based on their social media.
The patient man wins everytime
Well, back to normal polygamy 😂
Yeah, i'm guessing Kyle never actually wanted to do this. Now the "family marriage therapist" Rachel is pregnant with another man. Why would you stay!? Their kids are going to be messed up.😬
@@Sayithowitis15 “I’m guessing” is accurate. Their kids will be just as fine as anybody else’s kids
@@Sayithowitis15 Surprising that Rachel lady got pregnant; she seemed menopausal on the video.
Kyle, blink twice if you need rescuing. These people are running all over you !
Or subtly raise you hand 🙋♂️🤚!!
We’re here for you Kyle!!
Platonically, of course! 😉
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Glad I ain’t the only one. He’s getting the short end of the stick 🥲
😆 🤣 😂
Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...
Go on
Lmfao 🤣
Hey you might be on to something….
Lmao, genius. They should hire you.
Pls yes, go on
This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.
My thoughts exactly 😂. I thought I heard the timeframe wrong.
I am here to check on your lockdown sour dough starter...
@@TheErmerm999 Polygamous Foursome relationships are very rare because you see two women and two men in altogether in this relationship.
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0:20 A mixologist, a culinary director, and a private chef
bro thats not a polycule thats a catering company 💀
I can’t imagine how much more complicated life is having three partners . Having one partner is already complicated enough.
Try shifting your focus and imagine how much love and support you might have!
I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it.
I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret
@@ghastlycandle Ah yes, maths.
🌠 Unhealthy Relationship Quotes 🌠
@@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!
Kyle looks like a hostage for 70% of this video
Kyle is clearly submissive to the other man who does all the talking for him...
Evan Ward :In my Neal Brennan voice..My name is Kyle..I am ok...Tell my family that I love them....Send the ransom money...😆😆😆
"Hey I'm Kyle and this is my wife's boyfriend Yair"
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You’d have to be a hostage to agree with this nonsense…
Looks like Stockholm Syndrome to me…
How to make your life way more complicated.
How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)
@@Carolineandthecompany she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.
@@Carolineandthecompany Average polyamory enjoyer
Yoooo why is there so much hate here? Y’all are robots LOL
Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship
Rachel is clearly the main man and boss in this four-way relationship / household ...
Its pretty bananas that a person can go off her meds for just a few months and accomplish this much in two years.
Yet she is wearing a collar. So . . . Is she?
You don’t have to use ‘man’ to describe her taking the lead
@@savvyw5891 Lmao
She's got two husbands and a wife and she owns the house which is in her name, while they pay her mortgage haha
Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader
Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command
Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say
Ashley is just happy to be included
Spot on!!! You could be a forensic scientist 😂
Rachel is glad she gets to take advantage of this man and his wife at the same time 😂
Silent man is the simp and is bottom of bottom.
Yeh.... the two women are into each other and the betas follow along because they have no idea how to lead.
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They should’ve just kept their account separates and had 1 account for the bills. Transferring money over is less complicated!
I agree. That's how my polycule does it.
That seems simpler to me as well.
@@ariels2730You are poly?
@@thedarksideoftheforce6658 yeah, for over 10 years now
Whoever is paying down the mortgage without owning it is getting scammed 😂
I laughed harder than I should have.
This is why I live alone
The non owners should pay cheap rent. A win win for everyone
It's called rent. They are tenants
Courts won’t help with this situation either lol
@@beatricerights they’re not just tenants 😂 imagine paying down your partners mortgage and your name isn’t even on the title
Did I miss it or do Kyle and Yair not interact much? It seems to be the Rachel show.
I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.
I'm poly and I'd say I've seen less dysfunctional than in monogamous relationships.
@@greyrock9747 Lol. You have so much to learn. Good luck.
@@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.
one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it
@@vicconstruction9126 monogamy is successful?
This is Rachel's show, everyone else is just living in her fantasy. 🤡
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Rachel and Yaier... you see that connection is strong there. The other two are just there
I wasn't expecting their financial situation to be as complicated as it is.
rocket power 😎
@@denoosoohuh
For you it’s complicated.
I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).
Sharing finances is your main concern? Brah
@@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.
@@Jaime-eg4eb I'm a practice nihilism to some extent and what they got going on is doomed for failure.
@@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.
@@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?
It's hard just to find one partner while these people managed to find more than one. Unbelievable
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I don't understand this problem, really.
Cause they actually have a degrees of selflessness, unlike you and most other lonely people. ;)
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No they didn't. The red head is into the brunett. The hubbys are tagging along because they have no choice or balls
This just seems like a solution for Rachel to justify her affair with Yair...
That's what I thought too!! I don't see this ending well at all
Or perhaps it’s possible for people to happily live outside of social norms.
Right???
Looool thank you!!! 🤣🤣
All this long story.. it's so obvious
and with Ashley?
She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.
She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it
The therapist runs this "relationship". Her entire mannerism says it all.
Way to go! 👏
Imagine having a Relationship Therapist in a Polyamorous Foursome xD
Succes guaranteed
Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!!
also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.
White people love finding a way to be the victim LMAO
Right. 4 white, employees, attractive, able bodied straight people.
She is using them
She looks like she had a affair with the chef and convince them to share
Here’s your daily reminder that discrimination has zero bounds. The more you know
8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting:
Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man)
*Yair smiles*
*Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction*
*Yair stops smiling and feigns panic*
Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.
And Kyle did leave the foursome
You know they said they switch every day right at the start?
You guys are so unreasonable.
@@RaiiiL The proof is in the pudding and their pudding spoiled.
Booyah!
they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity
Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 that's because monogamy is the norm for human adults
It's called pair bonding
@@hollynonya6991For the zast majority of human history, polygamy was the norm. Monogamy is a very recent development
@@sd7785 men spending their seed? Yeah 😂
Not women however
But we're talking about NOW
Presentism, Google it
I love how free and honest they are to live their truth. It might not be for everyone but they do what makes them happy.
Rachel is the mastermind behind this. Split up two marriages, Kyle is unhappy and Ashley is unhappy. I stay away from people like Rachel !
Rachel is a very toxic Narcissist. I also stay away from people like her.
What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now
@@Ovprksdnw what’s their social media?
This is definitely not going to end horribly 😅
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪
Can't end any worse than those monogamous relationships that end in murder due to infidelity....
@@hotshotx1598 double the people, double the murder lol
Not??? 🤔
@@kelechiezealaji4202 or triple ?
I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.
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I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.
Graham is going to have fun with this one
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For sure..I’m looking forward to his take 😂
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Same, can’t wait to see his reaction video! This is so messed-up and will likely end up in flames lol
This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!
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It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.
The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!
There will be no 15 year update on this mess. They won't last that long.
More like 1 year update
we need a reality show lol
15 years? Covid, Monkey pox, natural disasters? I give em 4 tops
I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that
This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.
for sure she is running things
I’m curious if you’ve been in this type of relationship and seen it fail due to finances firsthand?
Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.
They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.
They are socializing and doing it very well.
I mean we all do it. What's wrong about it?
Rachel looks the most satisfied with this arrangement...the other not so much
You read my mind.🙂🙂
Poor Kyle lmao
I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision
We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.
Why does it seem like Rachel is the initiator of this and the others are not entirely happy and just accepting this situation...?
A farmer and the sheep
Because you're a monogamous person who doesn't get it lmao
Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.
Yeah, Graham Stephen is not reacting to this one.
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Yair and Ashley have cooked up something that'll go from Wright to completely Wrong
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No chance that all four of them are happy. 😂Looks and sounds like an absolute NIGHTMARE.
this should be a tv show.
These people are very disciplined and organized! Sitting down to budget all expenses. That’s discipline.
Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip.
Population doesn't work out well without intelect,
a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline
It doesn't work with goofy heads.
“Monogamy? In this economy?” - most long-term polyamorous people, probably
I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.
I’ve always been a huge fan of just how well people are able to rationalize destructive, bizarre, and bad behaviors.
Yes, modern day clowns everywhere. Some sense is not common these days
? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.
If this relationship works for all of them, then it's not destructive. It isn't for most people, but obviously, they're not most people.
@@brynnwalk4390 That's how the followers of the Branch Davidians, Heaven's Gate, and Jim Jones felt; we see how that worked out.
@@whiteyobanion1104 yeah but those people justified their beliefs through religious dogma, rather than humanitarian logic
My God please don’t bring children into this mess.
I usually say stay out but my gosh. I couldn’t agree more. This is over the top.
Agree
I don't see any mess. Just humans who love each other
It takes a village to raise a child. Why are so many people anti culture if it's not US and American? Do people not realize how racist comments like this sound? US Americans are a rare culture that believes upbringing a child must only be done by two parents. It's a very white attitude.
Please god don’t 🙏🏻
"The system has been designed for monogamy"...yeah for very good moral, legal and ethical reasons why this type of situation is not normalized.
Ok grandma, it's past your bedtime
@@pkal244 Ok, Rachel...
@@gb5007 K=LMAO, RACHEL IS THINKING OF BRINGING ANOTHER COUPLE INTO THE MIX. I'm afraid moving forward this may become the norm. I'm afraid men may force their wives to do this unwillingly.
@@pkal244 you’re so open minded that your brain fell out!
yeahs because monogamy has been the solution for marital and relationship problems for ages, No monogamous couple has ever had issues and all societies that praticed monogamy have been fair and just... um seriously... wake up
Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.
What’s the household income though ?? Don’t leave us in suspense like this !!
Is this even CNBC anymore? More like BRAVO or TLC than CNBC tbh.
I was sure waiting to hear it. I'm guessing $450k
All 4 are gainfully employed professionals
Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.
Seems like Rachel is the one winning the most from all this and Kyle is not.
I sensed that too. She put them together and is basically what keeps them together.
A ringleader narcissist for sure
Good call
I believe that people can do whatever they want with their lives as long as it’s not harmful to anyone. In other words, your hole your problem. Live and let live
Imagine the litigation if they ever want to separate this arrangement. Wow.
It looks like Kyle is out of the picture (far left male) but the other three are still together. Rachel is currently pregnant
Kinda troubling how you can tell the dynamic that exists within this group without explicitly being told just from a short video.
this is the world we live in
yes it is. look at everyone existing together and minding their own business.
It’s not your problem.it’s theirs. You can be in and relationship you want. If you can find someone
I'm surprised about how many people in this comment section have been living under a rock....
Non monogamy is a very common thing in society and can be very fulfilling and rewarding. I don't understand why it angers people so much that consenting adults chose to pursue a loving relationship with more than one person, if you don't like it, don't do it.
Polyamorous people exist, get over it!!!
This could really work for some people but they've only known each other for 2.5 years, and that's not nearly enough time
In poly, you don't have a best friend and partner. You have people you sleep with.
There are people in poly relationships who are asexual though...
America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?
Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.
Why stop at 4?
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I'm mostly impressed by how well organized they are. Especially financially. I cannot even track how much I spend on food. I wish I were so organized and educated about finances. I have zero understanding of how things really work beyond earning money and not wasting too much....
They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol
That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage
There is no way this kind of relationship can last longer than 10 years.
Recently celebrated a polyamorous friend's 15th wedding anniversary. Just because you can't imagine it doesn't mean it can't happen.
@@Christiamorous I’m sure there can be some successful polyamorous relationships, but the ratio has to be much lower compared to monogamous relationships. Think about all the drama they would get involved in.
@@00SuperHAN00 Compared to monogamous folks? That's silly. I can go to my female best friend's house and can sleep over without it being a problem for my fiancee. Think I could do that in a monogamous relationship? There are so many rules and lack of healthy communication in monogamous relationships - those are just a couple of the many reasons I don't do monogamy anymore.
70% of straight monogamous relationships end in their first year. 41% of marriages end in divorce. Would you blame monogamy for that? No? Why not, since you seem to be so sure polyamorous relationships are doomed to failure?
It didn't. Kyle apparently walked out a few months ago.
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Lack of healthy communication is not the problem of a monogamous relationship but rather an individual problem.
If one is experiencing consistent relationship issues, that individual needs to do introspective work rather than blame the structure of the relationship.
You said you and your fiance have absolutely no problem with sleeping over at other partners’ houses, but in the long run, this can create serious trust issues and jealousy.
Yes, a lot of monogamous relationships don’t last forever. But I am sure the success ratio is still way higher than polyamory.
They are very practical, the danger would be if anyone decide that they have had enough
I support them 100% … one relationship seems too much for me… 4 sounds like just too much work
So a monogamous non-monogamous quad??
Just wait until player 5 enters the game…
Love to see them all thriving and in love and sharing it with us! How do I find Rachel's podcast/socials?
Just want to know if the two guys are straight, and if they ever end up with eachother on the rotation
Yair looks and acts like he doesn't like his wife, Ashley. This is sooooooooo gross.
I'm sorry but I have to say this. A white women in the U.S , demanding to "have it all" says that she is discriminated against because they system won't allow her to get everything she wants. You simply can not make this stuff up!
Keep your account separate pay for your portion of the bills and create a joined savings account you still need money to spend separately from your partner like buying them birthday gifts
I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.
Exactly
Buddy that’s a really uncool way of describing trans people
Also polyamory is different to polygamy cmon
They can create an organization called the family... register it as a corporation or llc. And have the same rights as any other married couple... except this is for all of them.
I wish them all the best......because this could be DISASTROUS if it doesn’t work.... like Dateline, 20/20 disastrous .
Bloodbath central
The future is uncertain, and the rising cost of living may lead to a reality where difficult choices and sacrifices become the norm. It's disheartening to think that financial pressures could shape our lives in ways we never imagined.
9-minute long promotion video for the "family therapist" Rachel
You did a really good job on the video, and I'm happy for you all! ❤️
Breaking news: I’m happy to announce that I’m #5!
Sorry Kyle, red hair is a recessive trait not a dominant in genealogy
This is intriguing indeed. The burden of capitalism is easier to carry if there are more than two adults in a family.
I wonder if they have thought of using a trust for all legal documents that require only one name.
Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?
The guys were dragged into it.
Just curious if the two men have a romantic connection as well, as clearly the two women do.
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You’re crazy if you don’t think there will be a huge rise in this type of relationships
Rate of single women over 30, increased housing cost and declining birth rates will all factor in
Grab your popcorn for this one, boys and girls!
Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants
This won’t last more than a couple years tops. Jealousy is real
All for polyamory if that's what works for all involved. Seems pretty obvious to me though that Kyle is emotionally overwhelmed. Interesting that his (former?) wife doesn't notice this as a therapist.
Yes, thats an incredibly simpleminded view on this. Amazing. How do you live with
having such simple Ideas?
What? EVERYTHING is ok when it makes them 'happy'? You do realize
your silly defintion falls apart the second we apply it to In-est, huh?
They are trying to get famous on a reality show or something. Otherwise this is just stupid.
The cracks were already showing then. There is no chance they are still together now.
Kyle left, Rachel & Ashley now pregnant with Yair babies.
@@imranhakim1351 how do you know?
@@kennedykingmaniii Lol, CNBC deleted my comment, it's from Rachel ig.
Maybe I’m too old to understand these ppl but whatever works for them
The producers of CNBC Make It seems to have pivoted to another level of "make it with more than one"
I am confuse...As she stated her sexual routine...So two days heterosexual and one day homosexual for her...I am not sure about the men...Are they also bisexual??? Can anyone please clear my assumptions??
Because of my religion, I wouldn’t live out this lifestyle but I personally enjoy how there seems like more support and more love and everyone looks happy. ❤️
That maybe the facade. The reality is Rachel has confirmed that Kyle had left the foursome. Their lawyer made some money working for the foursome.
Don't assume the "quiet" ones don't get their way. They can control things like you wouldn't believe. Rachel just likes hearing herself talk.
I think Yair and Kyle are going to get into a physical altercation at some point. Yair will then go back to Israel and marry a nice girl like his parents are probably praying he would.
When exactly has degenracy become socially acceptable enough for it to be aired as if there was nothing wrong ?
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Probably because there's nothing wrong with it, are they hurting anyone ? no, are they taking away someones else's rights ? No, they are living their lives and living their couple the way they see fit
What degeneracy?
This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.
One couple will definitely dominate and control the other if one of the partners of the other couple dies.
This won't last long or too much longer. I don't believe relationships like this work for the most part, this one of the few forms of poly I just can't see working to well. There is a type of bond and love you would have to have between partners which I don't see here.
Triplett Triad, now that is a poly relationship to strive for. They all truly love each other and are all together.
triads are usually the most toxic form. because of couple privillage or low level homophobia, like if you leave a throuple your leaving two people not just one, your alone, abandoned people struggle to leave or speak up feeling outnumbered, at least this there is some balance, things can fade if things arent working, without completely breaking apart the entire relationship.
@@TheErmerm999 This is true as well.
@@TheErmerm999 Also, if you didn't know Triplett Triad is a polyamorous closed triad. Those three are awesome.
@@dranixrush3306 thanks for the recomendation
@@TheErmerm999 Yep.