How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2022
  • Rachel, Kyle, Ashley and Yair are two married couples in a non-monogamous relationship. They share a house, car, dog, cat, partners and finances. They also have plans to have children together.
    Obstacles they've faced having to do with rights and benefits as four partners have prompted them to meet with a lawyer to get divorced from one another and create a co-habitation agreement.
    Watch this video to learn how they manage finances in their non-traditional relationship.
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    How A Polyamorous Foursome Manages Their Money

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  • @TheNoerdy
    @TheNoerdy Год назад +204

    Are we at the point that you need 4 people with normal jobs to afford a house

  • @Jonathan_Solomon
    @Jonathan_Solomon Год назад +890

    I would love to see a follow-up story 1-3 years from now.

    • @stoonookw
      @stoonookw Год назад +52

      I mean a lot of relationships don’t work 1-3 years later

    • @whiteyobanion1104
      @whiteyobanion1104 Год назад

      They'll all be dying of STDs.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 Год назад +93

      They'll still be together and you'll still be alone, most likely.

    • @lorrainea.285
      @lorrainea.285 Год назад +23

      That will most likely be on “Snapped” or “Crime ID”🤨

    • @nazapadu02
      @nazapadu02 Год назад +16

      the beta guy leaves

  • @saintking64
    @saintking64 Год назад +269

    Kyle looks like a hostage for 70% of this video

    • @gb5007
      @gb5007 Год назад +32

      Kyle is clearly submissive to the other man who does all the talking for him...

    • @shannongreen1520
      @shannongreen1520 Год назад +6

      Evan Ward :In my Neal Brennan voice..My name is Kyle..I am ok...Tell my family that I love them....Send the ransom money...😆😆😆

    • @Finite8614
      @Finite8614 Год назад +36

      "Hey I'm Kyle and this is my wife's boyfriend Yair"

    • @Talkwithtina808
      @Talkwithtina808 Год назад +3

      😩

  • @user-gb5ff7gj1m
    @user-gb5ff7gj1m Год назад +533

    I can’t imagine how much more complicated life is having three partners . Having one partner is already complicated enough.

    • @kayleighshuler9758
      @kayleighshuler9758 Год назад +39

      Try shifting your focus and imagine how much love and support you might have!

    • @ghastlycandle
      @ghastlycandle Год назад +6

      I feel like a relationship with multiple people works better with an even number of people compared to say 3 people (I'm not polyamorous so I could be wrong, but that's my guess). I think as long as there's everyone's communicating and everyone's on the same page and consenting I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't know if I personally could do this, but it's not my place to judge others on their relationships if they're okay with it.
      I know some people will use the scenario of Person A and Person B leaving Person C for each other and to that I'd say that I think it depends on how they go about it (cause not every relationship lasts, sometimes people fall out of love and that's okay), if A and B explained to C the situation and why they feel what they feel, then that's better than just running away from C or keeping it a secret

    • @N0Xa880iUL
      @N0Xa880iUL Год назад +3

      @@ghastlycandle Ah yes, maths.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 Год назад +4

      🌠 Unhealthy Relationship Quotes 🌠

    • @jk-gn2fu
      @jk-gn2fu Год назад +2

      @@yukijames1321 You got bored because you smash the same partner everyday. If you have two partners and switch between those two, it feels new everyday!

  • @PraisePelumi
    @PraisePelumi Год назад +372

    Whoever is paying down the mortgage without owning it is getting scammed 😂

    • @Tmoises58
      @Tmoises58 Год назад +47

      I laughed harder than I should have.
      This is why I live alone

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 Год назад +26

      The non owners should pay cheap rent. A win win for everyone

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights Год назад +30

      It's called rent. They are tenants

    • @TheCreoleSon89
      @TheCreoleSon89 Год назад +10

      Courts won’t help with this situation either lol

    • @PraisePelumi
      @PraisePelumi Год назад +23

      @@beatricerights they’re not just tenants 😂 imagine paying down your partners mortgage and your name isn’t even on the title

  • @EugeneWangombe
    @EugeneWangombe Год назад +386

    Just register a company and consentually smash as co-workers. Get tax benefits, and discounts on insurance and good credit. It doesn't have to be this complicated. Unless...

  • @d.prescott4895
    @d.prescott4895 Год назад +183

    This all happened during the pandemic? So, in two and half years they met, moved in, joined finances, are getting divorces, and hired a lawyer to work out their relationship? Why the rush? I still haven't figured out how to make bread.

    • @brynnwalk4390
      @brynnwalk4390 Год назад +6

      My thoughts exactly 😂. I thought I heard the timeframe wrong.

    • @TheErmerm999
      @TheErmerm999 Год назад +5

      I am here to check on your lockdown sour dough starter...

    • @henkaistudio
      @henkaistudio Год назад +1

      @@TheErmerm999 Polygamous Foursome relationships are very rare because you see two women and two men in altogether in this relationship.

    • @carmagurl317
      @carmagurl317 Год назад

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 Год назад +330

    Rachel is clearly the main man and boss in this four-way relationship / household ...

    • @Dr.HouseMD
      @Dr.HouseMD Год назад +52

      Its pretty bananas that a person can go off her meds for just a few months and accomplish this much in two years.

    • @savvyw5891
      @savvyw5891 Год назад +8

      Yet she is wearing a collar. So . . . Is she?

    • @jnspincliffe2
      @jnspincliffe2 Год назад +40

      You don’t have to use ‘man’ to describe her taking the lead

    • @beatricerights
      @beatricerights Год назад +2

      @@savvyw5891 Lmao

    • @lineage13
      @lineage13 Год назад +72

      She's got two husbands and a wife and she owns the house which is in her name, while they pay her mortgage haha

  • @alohaazzie8462
    @alohaazzie8462 Год назад +217

    Let’s see…Rachel is the ring leader
    Yair often has the power struggle with her, but usually just falls as second in command
    Kyle is the silent yes man and just goes with whatever they all say
    Ashley is just happy to be included

    • @boba5559
      @boba5559 Год назад +7

      Spot on!!! You could be a forensic scientist 😂

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 Год назад +15

      Rachel is glad she gets to take advantage of this man and his wife at the same time 😂

    • @ThePeanutGiant
      @ThePeanutGiant Год назад

      Silent man is the simp and is bottom of bottom.

    • @mikehawk9810
      @mikehawk9810 Год назад

      Yeh.... the two women are into each other and the betas follow along because they have no idea how to lead.

  • @ede.5487
    @ede.5487 Год назад +327

    Kyle, blink twice if you need rescuing. These people are running all over you !

  • @2BOLD4U
    @2BOLD4U Год назад +128

    I wasn't expecting their financial situation to be as complicated as it is.

  • @tuckermay2597
    @tuckermay2597 Год назад +27

    they're worried about not all of them getting credit card benefits but casually glance over the fact that the home is only in 2 of their names yet they split it equally! meaning the other 2 have no legal claim to the equity

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 Год назад +6

      Yea because the law is created to only accommodate monogamous relationships. Did you not hear them? They’re literally trying their hardest to get all four of them rights as a four-way-relationship.

    • @hollynonya6991
      @hollynonya6991 4 месяца назад

      @@borderlinenocturnal6195 that's because monogamy is the norm for human adults
      It's called pair bonding

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 12 дней назад

      ​@@hollynonya6991For the zast majority of human history, polygamy was the norm. Monogamy is a very recent development

    • @hollynonya6991
      @hollynonya6991 12 дней назад

      @@sd7785 men spending their seed? Yeah 😂
      Not women however
      But we're talking about NOW
      Presentism, Google it

  • @xislis6037
    @xislis6037 Год назад +245

    I'm more shocked at how they share finances than the type of relationship they are in (their choice). I have so many questions like, "does everyone put in the same amount and get to keep whatever is leftover in a personal account?" I've only ever seen dysfunctional polygamous relationships and money is kept separately.

    • @greyrock9747
      @greyrock9747 Год назад +13

      I'm poly and I'd say I've seen less dysfunctional than in monogamous relationships.

    • @vicconstruction9126
      @vicconstruction9126 Год назад +4

      @@greyrock9747 Lol. You have so much to learn. Good luck.

    • @greyrock9747
      @greyrock9747 Год назад

      @@vicconstruction9126 You have confused being overconfident and condescending with intellect. Easy mistake. I bet you never even been in a poly relationship and you are speaking from ignorance.

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 Год назад +1

      one way is i make the $$ ( im okay with them working but me/primarily-income and kids come's 1st priority's so as a example 1 is full time and 1 is homemaker or both are 20hours at work the rest of the time is homemaking ect ) and the bi wife's allocate it like congress/parliamentary does aka one big happy account and something squirrelled a side for my car/racing hobbies that there ok with my spending aka like the uk king as yep he can do anything he'd like but parliament can stop him by not funding it

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart Месяц назад +1

      @@vicconstruction9126 monogamy is successful?

  • @annery993
    @annery993 Год назад +26

    Did I miss it or do Kyle and Yair not interact much? It seems to be the Rachel show.

  • @planetChristie
    @planetChristie Год назад +51

    They should’ve just kept their account separates and had 1 account for the bills. Transferring money over is less complicated!

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 Год назад +5

      I agree. That's how my polycule does it.

    • @ScottDDavisMusic
      @ScottDDavisMusic Год назад +1

      That seems simpler to me as well.

  • @Tunechi65
    @Tunechi65 Год назад +135

    This is Rachel's show, everyone else is just living in her fantasy. 🤡

    • @inko123
      @inko123 Год назад +7

      💯

    • @letsgetjackdup9952
      @letsgetjackdup9952 Год назад +26

      Rachel and Yaier... you see that connection is strong there. The other two are just there

  • @Jaime-eg4eb
    @Jaime-eg4eb Год назад +179

    I wish them well, they seem happy. Personally I would never want to share finances like that! It's difficult for two people to disentangle their finances when they separate, this seems even more complicated (potentially).

    • @AG-en5y
      @AG-en5y Год назад +3

      Sharing finances is your main concern? Brah

    • @Jaime-eg4eb
      @Jaime-eg4eb Год назад +17

      @@AG-en5y Yep, they seem happy and who am I to tell them that my life choices are better? If anything, in a nihilistic disconnected world they seem to have something special going on.

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 Год назад +2

      @@Jaime-eg4eb I'm a practice nihilism to some extent and what they got going on is doomed for failure.

    • @Jaime-eg4eb
      @Jaime-eg4eb Год назад +3

      @@shinji1264 I think you are probably right, but if we only valued relationships that weren't doomed in some way we'd all be pretty lonely haha. I see some good in this one, for sure.

    • @ghastlycandle
      @ghastlycandle Год назад +9

      @@Jaime-eg4eb I agree, I think it's interesting how a lot of people who haven't been in this kind of relationship dynamic automatically assume that a poly relationship won't work out in the long run. Not every relationship lasts obviously, but how can we know when something will or won't work based on a 10-min clip that shows a brief segment of others' lives? I think most see polyamory with "infidelity" glasses, I don't think they see it as a relationship where people are happy being with each other but rather people who are "incapable of choosing" or "like to cheat" or "like to sleep around". Just like any other relationship, if everyone is communicating, consenting, all on the same page, then what's the issue? They're grown adults who are okay with this relationship dynamic, no one seems to be getting hurt, who are we to judge them?

  • @Corey25
    @Corey25 Год назад +149

    Graham is going to have fun with this one

    • @ManifestwithMary
      @ManifestwithMary Год назад +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @donnyjay4269
      @donnyjay4269 Год назад +4

      For sure..I’m looking forward to his take 😂

    • @Veerow2005
      @Veerow2005 Год назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Devinn504
      @Devinn504 Год назад +3

      😂

    • @uiucchemistry2664
      @uiucchemistry2664 Год назад +1

      Same, can’t wait to see his reaction video! This is so messed-up and will likely end up in flames lol

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 Год назад +249

    This just seems like a solution for Rachel to justify her affair with Yair...

    • @AJ-jw6yp
      @AJ-jw6yp Год назад +19

      That's what I thought too!! I don't see this ending well at all

    • @jessevilla9948
      @jessevilla9948 Год назад +16

      Or perhaps it’s possible for people to happily live outside of social norms.

    • @MisterMellyC
      @MisterMellyC Год назад +1

      Right???

    • @lilbrova
      @lilbrova Год назад +3

      Looool thank you!!! 🤣🤣
      All this long story.. it's so obvious

    • @lalakuma9
      @lalakuma9 Год назад +1

      and with Ashley?

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric Год назад +55

    The therapist runs this "relationship". Her entire mannerism says it all.

    • @saidzid3379
      @saidzid3379 10 месяцев назад

      Way to go! 👏

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 месяца назад

      Imagine having a Relationship Therapist in a Polyamorous Foursome xD
      Succes guaranteed

  • @samanthacruz5587
    @samanthacruz5587 Год назад +172

    It's hard just to find one partner while these people managed to find more than one. Unbelievable

    • @chioma_u
      @chioma_u Год назад +9

      😭🤣😭🤣

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Год назад +4

      I don't understand this problem, really.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 Год назад

      Cause they actually have a degrees of selflessness, unlike you and most other lonely people. ;)

    • @fi-train8961
      @fi-train8961 Год назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @mikehawk9810
      @mikehawk9810 Год назад

      No they didn't. The red head is into the brunett. The hubbys are tagging along because they have no choice or balls

  • @beatricerights
    @beatricerights Год назад +99

    This could get more complicated if Rachel decides she wants to bring another couple into the mix. She has to figure out a different sleep arrangement. GO RACHEL!!

  • @jerrykennedy2082
    @jerrykennedy2082 Год назад +14

    this should be a tv show.

  • @acenariomanuel5251
    @acenariomanuel5251 Год назад +42

    Just because they study and have an extensive vocabulary that does not mean that they are not crazy.

    • @intheuniversekey
      @intheuniversekey Год назад +1

      Well ever met a doctor with a PH D that has misdiagnosed before? I have. So high vocab and education and knowledge does not equal wisdom and they lack the wisdom of where to apply the knowledge.

    • @kevingaymon2707
      @kevingaymon2707 3 месяца назад +3

      No more crazy than the rest of us. Have you seen divorce rates and people still can’t get married fast enough.

  • @traetonmcglohon4563
    @traetonmcglohon4563 Год назад +386

    This is definitely not going to end horribly 😅

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 Год назад +8

      LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL 😂😂😂😂🤪🤪

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 Год назад +21

      Can't end any worse than those monogamous relationships that end in murder due to infidelity....

    • @kelechiezealaji4202
      @kelechiezealaji4202 Год назад +47

      @@hotshotx1598 double the people, double the murder lol

    • @jellybellyfun3288
      @jellybellyfun3288 Год назад +1

      Not??? 🤔

    • @gregsgrowth530
      @gregsgrowth530 Год назад +3

      @@kelechiezealaji4202 or triple ?

  • @shaia9427
    @shaia9427 Год назад +106

    I love how free and honest they are to live their truth. It might not be for everyone but they do what makes them happy.

  • @MsTek
    @MsTek Год назад +903

    How to make your life way more complicated.

    • @carolinestanczuk
      @carolinestanczuk Год назад +75

      How to be happy. It's makes them happy and our systems do t support anything else than man and woman relationship and that is sad. They care about each other and not hurting anyone in process so... Why are we care it's nothing to us to judge them! We may or may not agree with that way of life but should not disseminate :)

    • @pouroverfinance
      @pouroverfinance Год назад +50

      @@carolinestanczuk she simply stated a fact, this lifestyle choice is very complicated. The video did very little to highlight finances, it was literally a video about their complications as a foursome.

    • @N0Xa880iUL
      @N0Xa880iUL Год назад +19

      @@carolinestanczuk Average polyamory enjoyer

    • @stoonookw
      @stoonookw Год назад +20

      Yoooo why is there so much hate here? Y’all are robots LOL

    • @user-gb5ff7gj1m
      @user-gb5ff7gj1m Год назад +16

      Not to be judgmental, but one partner already complicates life... two more partners... I can’t even imagine ... not even talking about kids later in their relationship

  • @jwonz2054
    @jwonz2054 Год назад +27

    8:30 - Just look at the awkward subtle infighting:
    Rachel: "I wouldn't mind if he got down on one knee" (points to Yair, the other man)
    *Yair smiles*
    *Ashley looks quickly to see her former husband's reaction*
    *Yair stops smiling and feigns panic*
    Totally stable! Definitely not Rachel just pursuing Yair while not wanting to breakup with Kyle.

    • @nothingc
      @nothingc 4 месяца назад

      And Kyle did leave the foursome

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 месяца назад

      You know they said they switch every day right at the start?
      You guys are so unreasonable.

    • @jwonz2054
      @jwonz2054 4 месяца назад

      @@RaiiiL The proof is in the pudding and their pudding spoiled.

  • @JohnCarlosMartinez
    @JohnCarlosMartinez Год назад +25

    Yeah, Graham Stephen is not reacting to this one.

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 Год назад +26

    I feel like relationships like this could easily go wrong if each person does not love all the other people in the relationship equally. And then they also decided to add the complication of money, marriage, and power dynamics... yikes... I can't look.

    • @Strawberry143x
      @Strawberry143x Год назад

      VOLCANO WAITING TO ERUPTTTTT🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋🌋

    • @normandy2501
      @normandy2501 9 месяцев назад

      I don't think it's ever possible to love them all equally in an intimate context. Polygamy wouldn't really be a need otherwise based on my understanding. It at least makes it easier to regularly build on their relationships under one roof, otherwise I'd just call it glorified friends with benefits in order to avoid any hurt feelings.

  • @ThePeanutGiant
    @ThePeanutGiant Год назад +22

    Kinda troubling how you can tell the dynamic that exists within this group without explicitly being told just from a short video.

  • @rommyaznaran9508
    @rommyaznaran9508 Год назад +42

    These people are very disciplined and organized! Sitting down to budget all expenses. That’s discipline.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 месяца назад

      Yes, they are the best role model to show this type of relationstip.
      Population doesn't work out well without intelect,
      a 4 man relationship is basically the same. it requires alot of intelect and discipline
      It doesn't work with goofy heads.

  • @damnjustassignmeone
    @damnjustassignmeone Год назад +12

    Imagine the litigation if they ever want to separate this arrangement. Wow.

  • @makeracistsafraidagain7608
    @makeracistsafraidagain7608 Год назад +22

    It seem like Kyle is the only person who has been dragged into this type of relationship, he’s just there looking like confused person about this relationship..

  • @jacquelinm2662
    @jacquelinm2662 Год назад +105

    This is so complicated and probably will end the relationship. Why not split up just the basic bills: rent, light, water, etc.? Trying to share a credit card and tracking every expense among is the four is doing the most. Sounds like Rachel's plan and she is defiantly in control in this relationship.

    • @edb484
      @edb484 Год назад +2

      for sure she is running things

    • @kayleighshuler9758
      @kayleighshuler9758 Год назад +4

      I’m curious if you’ve been in this type of relationship and seen it fail due to finances firsthand?

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 Год назад +8

      Yeah, I don't get the complications with the finances. They're purposely making things more complicated. I don't think Rachel is being defiant, though she seems to definitely have a more dominant personality, as does Yair. The other two seem to be more submissive, but given that they all decided to do this, they all are fine with being in this foursome.

    • @JaZmine147
      @JaZmine147 Год назад +2

      They could have 1 account that everyone has access to and they send a specific amount each month like a household account. They buy food from there and pay rent etc. And then everyone has their personal accounts.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 месяца назад +1

      They are socializing and doing it very well.
      I mean we all do it. What's wrong about it?

  • @emekaagbo6697
    @emekaagbo6697 4 месяца назад +5

    They are very practical, the danger would be if anyone decide that they have had enough

  • @alonasistrunk2620
    @alonasistrunk2620 Год назад +13

    Why can't they just add all of the non-card owners as authorized users? Most cards offer five slots. That way, they all would benefit from the cards and their history.

  • @adiaj9228
    @adiaj9228 Год назад +40

    I wish them all the best......because this could be DISASTROUS if it doesn’t work.... like Dateline, 20/20 disastrous .

  • @NicoliePollieOllie
    @NicoliePollieOllie Год назад +11

    This could really work for some people but they've only known each other for 2.5 years, and that's not nearly enough time

  • @rommyaznaran9508
    @rommyaznaran9508 Год назад +10

    That’s what happens when you live in NYC lol… you need as many people in a relationship to divide expenses. The up side is that you can split the mortgage

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 Год назад +109

    Rachel looks the most satisfied with this arrangement...the other not so much

    • @adeyosola414
      @adeyosola414 Год назад +8

      You read my mind.🙂🙂

    • @yoyoiven
      @yoyoiven Год назад +10

      Poor Kyle lmao

    • @trishytrish5263
      @trishytrish5263 Год назад +18

      I noticed that Kyle just seems like he’s going with the flow but isn’t too key on the situation. Notice how Rachel mentioned she wanted to have a baby with Ashley and the look Kyle gave was like he’s being left out of the decision

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 Год назад +3

      We live in a society.... They said, choose your partner's wisely ladies n gentlemen, if you're quiet and non combative it's probably best you get someone of similar attitude.

  • @EldePHX
    @EldePHX Год назад +15

    This would be one of those videos where the amount of dislikes would vastly out number the likes.

  • @Luboman411
    @Luboman411 Год назад +12

    At 0:30. The sleeping schedule already sounds like it would require a simple Excel spreadsheet since this would be permutations of four people on two beds. So...8 combinations, rotating each week? Right? LOL. Can't wait to get to the Gordian knot that is their finances! Get the pivot tables ready! :D

  • @jk-gn2fu
    @jk-gn2fu Год назад +26

    I think polyamory is great in terms of economy, fixed costs such as property tax can be divded by many people, 3~4 people can combine their money to buy a house. Currently, the rent is expensive, while house prices are constantly going up, earlier you get your own house, more money you earn. Everyone benefit from one Costco membership. Also many people can take turns to do house chores, doing many people's work at once takes less time than doing two people's work many times.

  • @shelly5224
    @shelly5224 Год назад +35

    It looks like Rachel is really the puppet master with Yair as her second in command here and it appears that she's convinced these ppl that some of the VERY unintelligent financial decisions being made are good ideas. There is literally no reason they couldn't have separate accounts and contribute to one joint for bills. I feel like something nefarious is afoot but hey, I hope I'm wrong and they live their best lives happily ever after.

  • @Jalisialuxe
    @Jalisialuxe Год назад +17

    Very interesting … I wonder does the guys also have a relationship with each other? Like are the guys bi? Or are the guys doing this because their ladies want it?

  • @ede.5487
    @ede.5487 Год назад +72

    Rachel is the mastermind behind this. Split up two marriages, Kyle is unhappy and Ashley is unhappy. I stay away from people like Rachel !

    • @sexytechreviews_
      @sexytechreviews_ Год назад

      Rachel is a very toxic Narcissist. I also stay away from people like her.

    • @Ovprksdnw
      @Ovprksdnw Год назад +6

      What makes you state so confidently how unhappy Kyle and Ashley are? I've checked their social media and podcasts, and they're all extremely content with the arrangement, at least as of now

    • @bee1979
      @bee1979 Год назад

      @@Ovprksdnw what’s their social media?

  • @Dr.HouseMD
    @Dr.HouseMD Год назад +7

    This is the background music you use for a quick documentary on a cat that’s getting his GED…but he’s literally a guy living full time in a cat costume and won’t take it off.

  • @leonardscottiv7682
    @leonardscottiv7682 Год назад +85

    Did I just watch 4 white people talk about being discriminated against??? please!!
    also, this is Rachel's show and everyone else is obliging. the final statement in this entire video was from Rachel and she said "and frankly, it helps me." Coincidence? I think not.

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад

      White people love finding a way to be the victim LMAO

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 Год назад +12

      Right. 4 white, employees, attractive, able bodied straight people.

    • @JoyFay
      @JoyFay Год назад +11

      She is using them

    • @MrMlbfan6
      @MrMlbfan6 Год назад +11

      She looks like she had a affair with the chef and convince them to share

    • @tioswift3676
      @tioswift3676 Год назад +10

      Here’s your daily reminder that discrimination has zero bounds. The more you know

  • @editorjohn8803
    @editorjohn8803 Год назад +58

    Yair and Ashley have cooked up something that'll go from Wright to completely Wrong

  • @Ldogg247
    @Ldogg247 5 месяцев назад +9

    This is totally awesome! I would love to have a union like this. 2-4 couples all on the same page and filled with love 💗

    • @pauls4923
      @pauls4923 4 месяца назад +1

      immoral..give me a break

    • @nadafro3116
      @nadafro3116 4 месяца назад

      you mean foursome?

  • @metorphoric
    @metorphoric Год назад +28

    She is a divorced marriage counselor still living with her ex husband while also sleeping with the ex husband of another woman who she is also sleeping with. WTF....?! Who on earth would want counseling from her? She is a walking contradiction.

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 Год назад +6

      She’s not just sleeping around. They got divorced so they could have more rights as a four-way-relationship. When people are in “lifestyles” or relationships you don’t understand, you could actually listen to them when they talk about it

  • @medical4652
    @medical4652 Год назад +5

    Grab your popcorn for this one, boys and girls!

  • @noahjoo7231
    @noahjoo7231 Год назад +22

    this is the world we live in

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 Год назад +5

      yes it is. look at everyone existing together and minding their own business.

    • @NewsSeriously
      @NewsSeriously Год назад +2

      It’s not your problem.it’s theirs. You can be in and relationship you want. If you can find someone

  • @JH-nb4nn
    @JH-nb4nn 3 месяца назад +2

    No chance that all four of them are happy. 😂Looks and sounds like an absolute NIGHTMARE.

  • @ryanl3812
    @ryanl3812 Год назад +12

    Fascinating. I dig it. But I hate splitting the bill at the end of a meal with 3 friends so I don't think I'd enjoy this much

  • @malonamission7092
    @malonamission7092 Год назад +9

    Being a cuckold myself, I love this. I support this

  • @gb5007
    @gb5007 Год назад +64

    Why does it seem like Rachel is the initiator of this and the others are not entirely happy and just accepting this situation...?

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 Год назад +5

      A farmer and the sheep

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 Год назад

      Because you're a monogamous person who doesn't get it lmao

    • @RR-wc6xc
      @RR-wc6xc Год назад +3

      Don't assume that the "quiet" ones are not the ones controlling the show. Rachel may be a chatterbox, but the introverts can control things like you wouldn't believe.

  • @carlosflores85
    @carlosflores85 Год назад +13

    So a monogamous non-monogamous quad??
    Just wait until player 5 enters the game…

  • @shivinunitholi2493
    @shivinunitholi2493 Год назад +5

    The producers of CNBC Make It seems to have pivoted to another level of "make it with more than one"

  • @TheOneAboveAll_
    @TheOneAboveAll_ Год назад +14

    I mean if a man can "change" into a woman, and a woman can "change" into a man and get married, then what's the big issue with polygamy being legal when all parties agree to it.

  • @MillionaireMindMotivation
    @MillionaireMindMotivation Год назад +78

    The women are more into each other than they are to their male partners. This whole situation is sick, distributing in the fact that they also want to big in kids to this mess and confusing and complicated. Life is already complicated on it’s own. Live simple and be happy. Someone is going to age badly and this will not go well as they will lose attraction to one or more partners because they have options within their relationships. Give us a 15 year update please!

    • @temeka4288
      @temeka4288 Год назад +26

      There will be no 15 year update on this mess. They won't last that long.

    • @Tunechi65
      @Tunechi65 Год назад +17

      More like 1 year update

    • @edb484
      @edb484 Год назад +4

      we need a reality show lol

    • @shinji1264
      @shinji1264 Год назад +3

      15 years? Covid, Monkey pox, natural disasters? I give em 4 tops

    • @Chrisbit1
      @Chrisbit1 Год назад +1

      I think that those 4 will be able to give a child or children a better life than most 2 ppl relationships. There's nothing "confusing" or "sick" about there relationship. I thin you are to quick to judge a situation where you don't have all the facts, do you know them ? have you seen them in public ? have you talk to them ? I'm guessing no. The excuse "life is complicated" is BS in my opinion, they are all adults and they will figure it out even if they have kids. There love is just as strong as the love you have for your partner, they love and show love in a different why and there's nothing wrong with that

  • @Tunechi65
    @Tunechi65 Год назад +38

    America is wild 🤣 folks get bored and start inventing problems to over complicate their lives. My goodness. Is there a "phobia" for this yet if I don't follow along and support it?

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Год назад +2

      Well, it is an orientation. It's not a choice for everyone. The only complications are legal issues, honestly, and that's the government's fault, not people who fall in love or have an orientation.

  • @erikzumwalt4229
    @erikzumwalt4229 Год назад +37

    But are the men ever sharing a bed together 😏😏😏

  • @investedfemelle7564
    @investedfemelle7564 Год назад +36

    I can even make a relationship work with 1 person much less 3 😫😫😫….. good for them

  • @temeka4288
    @temeka4288 Год назад +12

    They did one thing right and that was divorce. So, whenever they want to leave, they can just pack it up and go. No legal strings attached. Just finacial.lol

  • @durancoley
    @durancoley Год назад +17

    so CNBC is THE SHADE ROOM now? I have no issue with the way 4 adults want to live. that's cool. but I did not expect this story from CNBC ....I'm shocked and educated all in one 9 minute video. so I guess it worked.

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 Год назад +1

      look at the current state of the cost of living and economy, all by agenda.

  • @Adrian-hn4lx
    @Adrian-hn4lx Год назад +86

    What’s the household income though ?? Don’t leave us in suspense like this !!

    • @sadiqraji5376
      @sadiqraji5376 Год назад +20

      Is this even CNBC anymore? More like BRAVO or TLC than CNBC tbh.

    • @llcross04
      @llcross04 Год назад +6

      I was sure waiting to hear it. I'm guessing $450k

    • @Ovprksdnw
      @Ovprksdnw Год назад +2

      All 4 are gainfully employed professionals

  • @Back_To_Basics
    @Back_To_Basics Год назад +31

    Getting a divorce from each other would simplify this situation. Rachel can get married to Yair since she’s hinted while the other two can exit this relationship and live freely as they wish.

  • @AnonymouslyYours290
    @AnonymouslyYours290 Год назад +3

    Why stop at 4?

    • @lbpee9962
      @lbpee9962 Год назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @davidthompson1573
    @davidthompson1573 Год назад +142

    I’ve always been a huge fan of just how well people are able to rationalize destructive, bizarre, and bad behaviors.

    • @rajenderkarupakala
      @rajenderkarupakala Год назад +20

      Yes, modern day clowns everywhere. Some sense is not common these days

    • @brynnwalk4390
      @brynnwalk4390 Год назад +24

      ? How is this destructive? It's what they all want, so what does it matter? Remember freedom of choice? It's no more bizarre than regular marriage, where you literally sign an expensive contract to love ONE person forever. Now that's stupid and destructive. I hate when people like you try to decide what is normal and what's not. Obviously your way isn't working out either, judging by the high divorce rate of traditional marriages.

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 Год назад +22

      If this relationship works for all of them, then it's not destructive. It isn't for most people, but obviously, they're not most people.

    • @whiteyobanion1104
      @whiteyobanion1104 Год назад +13

      @@brynnwalk4390 That's how the followers of the Branch Davidians, Heaven's Gate, and Jim Jones felt; we see how that worked out.

    • @hotshotx1598
      @hotshotx1598 Год назад +11

      @@whiteyobanion1104 yeah but those people justified their beliefs through religious dogma, rather than humanitarian logic

  • @sara125982
    @sara125982 Год назад +1

    This was very interesting to see thanks CNBC

  • @veteranredbeard6222
    @veteranredbeard6222 Год назад +3

    In poly, you don't have a best friend and partner. You have people you sleep with.

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад

      There are people in poly relationships who are asexual though...

  • @pkmnan00bis
    @pkmnan00bis Год назад +5

    " No more than $30 a month on video games. " Aight imma head out ...

    • @ariels2730
      @ariels2730 Год назад +1

      Ikr, that doesn't even cover one game, unless it's crap.

  • @Lommy9999
    @Lommy9999 15 дней назад

    I'm mostly impressed by how well organized they are. Especially financially. I cannot even track how much I spend on food. I wish I were so organized and educated about finances. I have zero understanding of how things really work beyond earning money and not wasting too much....

  • @SteveAcomb
    @SteveAcomb 4 месяца назад +1

    0:20 A mixologist, a culinary director, and a private chef
    bro thats not a polycule thats a catering company 💀

  • @RealestDave
    @RealestDave Год назад +3

    Holy smokes, what an incredible experiment, I guess its the dynamics of modern day relationships

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Год назад +2

      This relationship type is actually older than monogamy

  • @Craftgirly
    @Craftgirly Год назад +24

    How to get someone else’s husband and do it under both your husband and his wife’s noses……… How much longer before Rachel and Yair run off into the sunset 🤣

  • @yuriykharkevych1639
    @yuriykharkevych1639 Год назад +5

    9-minute long promotion video for the "family therapist" Rachel

  • @mizsaigon
    @mizsaigon Год назад +3

    Exit strategy should be part of the plan as well that theyre crafting with their lawyer.

  • @rachael4408
    @rachael4408 10 месяцев назад +3

    The decision to divorce their original partners is so brave... That is so destabilizing to me. I can't even imagine.

  • @Anonymous-li6py
    @Anonymous-li6py Год назад +5

    This is a rectangle love but if the two men are also in love with each other, then it is a square love.

  • @ChristopherDonnerArtist
    @ChristopherDonnerArtist Год назад +2

    This is going to end amazingly!!!!

  • @AbhishekGuptas
    @AbhishekGuptas Год назад +2

    Being single is like standing like Statue of Liberty in front of them.

  • @zaksantiago2370
    @zaksantiago2370 Год назад +2

    Some of you are really panni PRESSED and super judgemental on something you've likely never been a part of or even taken the time to understand.
    Not only are they smart enough to have found what makes them happy and how to manage their finances, but are also brave enough to share it with all of you who are making fun and joking.
    Good grief.

  • @louieadam251
    @louieadam251 Год назад +4

    Pretty exciting as long they communicate and love each other.

  • @Brownskinhoney
    @Brownskinhoney Год назад +3

    INTERESTING!! I like the 4 incomes though🙌🏾

  • @rauserbegins5850
    @rauserbegins5850 Год назад +2

    I just came for the comments.

  • @safety_sid
    @safety_sid Год назад +33

    I would have liked to know how they managed household chore load. I remember in college when I lived in a house with 4 other roomates the disassociation of responsibility was very real with so many bodies around the house.

    • @ChristianRunsNY
      @ChristianRunsNY Год назад +10

      I think we can all agree who we were in college is a little different than functioning responsible adults lol. I skipped classes, I don't skip work. I put off chores I don't now with a home to care for. 4 adults can manage.

    • @RaiiiL
      @RaiiiL 4 месяца назад

      well they seem to be educated adults, and not some lazy teenage brats

  • @13SM
    @13SM Год назад +5

    As soon as you see their occupations it all makes sense....to each their own

  • @NoneNoneNone78
    @NoneNoneNone78 2 месяца назад +2

    Why do i feel like Rachel’s doing all this just for yair 😂 She seems to be in love with him. And is making ( manipulating) everybody to follow her needs and wants

  • @scottishmapping2750
    @scottishmapping2750 4 месяца назад +1

    Love the idea just so many questions about it

  • @teambennett-wells962
    @teambennett-wells962 Год назад +11

    I am very curious and have a lot more questions. I need them to have thier own show. One question I definitely have is: if one of the women gets pregnant how will they know who the father is to sign the birth certificate? How would they know who the biological father is?

    • @usamahkhalid6333
      @usamahkhalid6333 Год назад +1

      That's what I am thinking as well

    • @topgunnah9509
      @topgunnah9509 Год назад +4

      DNA test

    • @missraeray
      @missraeray Год назад +4

      Apparently they want a complete overhaul of the entire process to fit this lifestyle . So all four would sign

    • @elisakrivas
      @elisakrivas Год назад

      They could do a DNA test, but chances are, the birth certificate won't have that information.

    • @TheErmerm999
      @TheErmerm999 Год назад +1

      if you were one of the guys would you care. its either your child or your step child either way your there from day 1 so your dad or daddy. DNA doesn't really matter when your changing nappies.

  • @user-hg2ul3kq9e
    @user-hg2ul3kq9e Год назад +18

    I love this story, thank you so much to them for sharing their lives so bravely. It's beautiful, this is what I would like to have. I was in a 20 year monogomous relationship. I wish I had known about these kinds of relationships then, it would have changed everything. The level of self awareness, and the ability to communicate, and the courage to be vulnerable (with 4 people!) is amazing. I would also love to see a follow up. I am so happy they are pursuing legal action to try and make this more accessible to families, and provide equal rights. I wish my children had the love, support, understanding, and mentoring of four adults. We need more stories like this! The only thing that freaked me out was the shared finances, lol! Make sure everyone is well protected.

  • @Jawwni
    @Jawwni Год назад +2

    Did no one notice the bug when they were chopping food at 1:00 ?

  • @monstervain
    @monstervain Год назад +2

    Ashley and Kyle look like they're suffering in silence

  • @devontawhite
    @devontawhite Год назад +72

    I found this very fascinating. Love hearing stories of people living unconventionally. Thanks for sharing your financial journey.

    • @VanillaEarth744
      @VanillaEarth744 Год назад +10

      That is sinful living

    • @Pyasa.shaitan
      @Pyasa.shaitan Год назад +2

      @@VanillaEarth744 so is a person starving on street and government giving wallst trillions.
      Are you doing something against it?

    • @VanillaEarth744
      @VanillaEarth744 Год назад +3

      @@Pyasa.shaitan I've helped out ppl in the streets and other Charity's. Hbu?

    • @Pyasa.shaitan
      @Pyasa.shaitan Год назад +1

      @@VanillaEarth744 you and me helping is not the same as government making healthcare education free with wages going up for mass of people. Instead of funneling trillions into military and wallst.
      Can you and me helping save the planet? I don’t think so. Government has to work for the working class people & not for the billionaires and multi trillion dollar corporations.

    • @borderlinenocturnal6195
      @borderlinenocturnal6195 Год назад

      @@VanillaEarth744 wearing a shirt made of two different types of fabric is technically sinful living so like… shut up

  • @brittanyr140
    @brittanyr140 Год назад +3

    Kyle left the relationship a few months after this video. This didn’t age well…
    At least they were already getting divorced…

    • @TomikaKelly
      @TomikaKelly 11 месяцев назад +2

      How can we see an update?

  • @wackymojo3419
    @wackymojo3419 Год назад +2

    I expected Johny Sins brother to live with two women didn't expect him to live with another man too, maybe he's the camera guy? 🤣

  • @AG-en5y
    @AG-en5y Год назад +2

    Red head is the running the house. She’s the king, queen, prince and princess of the house