Just so everybody knows: ANYBODY who applies to go on Jubilee and air out their personal ish ARE NOT normal people. This is not a cross-section of our society; this is a cross section of clout demons and ONLY clout demons. Just please keep that in mind
8 years. I dunno if that Asian guy is gonna see this... Bro, please, please don't get back with that girl. You have so much to give and there are so many women who are waiting to return and multiply what you have who aren't motivated by, "I'm 30 now and realise I'm gonna get left behind".
exactly y people say "work on yourself before getting into a relationship" having discipline is a basic human evolution, without it we wouldnt have developed as far as we have society wise. discipline is an art form not all can fall in line too@@annomalli
@@annomalli bro is not in love. He clearly lacks any form of self-worth, and she has probably been stringing him along for these eight years. He needs someone to beat some sense into him.
@@GallantRage1Thank you. If you love someone enough, you will let them go and move on with your life after being done dirty by them. Like the one saying: “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”
I hope that Asian fella doesn't fall for her manipulations and get back together with her. She showed him what kind of person she is. He'd be her emotional hostage.
He is the problem with many young men today. He does not understand that his lack of self respect was what got him here and will keep him there. She on the other hand is a 4 at best who think's shes a 10. So yes a 4 or above guy will hit that just to kill some time. Then all of a sudden in her mind shes "settling".. Thats because she know's The Wall approaches. Probably started to get thrown off the carousel a few times and knows the ride is coming to an end. The young man lacks self respect and male guidance.
By leave her cheating self in his past you mean forgive her and start over? I believe in 2nd chances so I think he should take her back. Pride won't get him anywhere.
@@anthonymark2516 You are judging him pretty harshly from a small excerpt. I also get major incel vibes from the way you are rating her, yikes. They seem perfect for each other. No point in attaching yourself to some fragile pride. They should give it a second shot
that is literally what this guy is acknowledging but your observation skills are nonexistent lmao that's literally why he's begging him to leave her. learn how to read and dont victim blame for no reason... this was for no reason, since it was already acknowledged that we are concerned for him and not the girl.. @@nicodiaz627
Usually its because of an Internal issue or learned behavior. Ex insecurity, fear of being alone, or your upbringing normalized this type of behavior. Not justifying/recommending it; just adding insight.
Yeah, and if it’s a female 30 and over, they definitely thinking twice about relationships they threw away since they are getting less attention. The amount of women around my age (mid 30s) who were dating much older men when in their 20s and now shame men for dating younger…. It’s wild, lol. The hypocrisy. A big part of female aggression is manipulation/shaming. Of course bitter, jaded women would want to shame men into dating women their own age.
Once she leaves you the first time, don’t EVER look back. If you don’t hold her accountable, she won’t ever respect you anyways. I was cheated on multiple times during my relationship - even when I got married to her. She cheated the first year we were together with her ex. I didn’t even find out until 7 years later - after being married to her for 5 years. And even after I found out, apparently she had been sleeping with her co-workers as well. It BROKE ME. She was my first love too - and I was DEFINITELY not her first rodeo. Despite this, I tried giving her another chance. Another 4 years. But guess what, she still divorced me, got pregnant immediately by another co-worker and now lives with him. That’s why I tell you. LEAVE them, and don’t ever look back. Even if it might hurt at first, it is the best thing for you. Respect yourself, MOVE ON, and give that chance to someone better…
You had a lucky escape bro. Now shes someone elses problem and make no mistake. Ppl like that - that jump from person to person, will never be happy mate. Ex was the same and 1 day will prob get her ass whooped by a man. Acts untouchable. Staying single is much easier imo . Anyway
@@PenelopeG96 don’t be scared. I felt the same as you, which is why I didn’t leave her sooner. I have a daughter with my ex. But, I learned that in the end, women like that don’t love you. They’re just using you for the time being. They drop men like a hat and have no value for themselves. While the ball is in your court, make the right call… I ended up being alienated from my daughter anyways… prioritize your children.
I feel like this surge of polygamy in relationships is due to this fact. People ain’t concerned about finding something that lasts, just the pleasure. By the time they do want that thing, all the good dudes either found somebody better or are too hurt/distrustful to look for a relationship
The first girl is completely out of control. No way did she say “he’s totally not my type”, be together with him for 8 years and then cheat on him. How horrible. I can smell the red flags from a mile away, that guy needs to heal himself bc no way should he be thinking it’s ok to go back to that thing.
I disagree. They seem like a good match. She is simply keeping a facade out of pride. And she cheated, so what? Get over it, it's been 3 years. No point in holding on to such petty pride for so long. They should wipe the slate clean and start over together.
The way she kept bringing up love languages... it was like that was what she found to cope with and explain what she did and now she's clinging to it like it's the answer to everything
I think there was a study where they found that when the betrayed takes the cheater back, the cheater actually loses even more respect for the betrayed. Don't do it. It's a lose lose situation. The cheater had very little respect for the betrayed to begin with. They'll lose even more respect for the betrayed and so will likely cheat again. And also, just have some self respect. Don't take a cheater back.
Yup. Same as doing the pick me dance too. As soon as they cheat, do the 180 and watch them come crawling back. Don't take them back because you don't need them at all.
i mean. can you blame them for it? consider that you need to be a whole lot of stupid and worthless consider you accept this kind of behaviour in the first place. no-one likes a doormat other than for convience sake and certainly not attracted to one.
@@KurlanAank18 I agree. It’s the toxic push and pull of a childish adult with narcissistic tendencies. You are just a toy in the toybox and they only care about you when they can’t have you or when other people want you. The more you do for them, the more you give, the more they think that that’s the new status quo and they just deserve it and your value is now lower as you do more and more for them. It’s almost as if they are a child and you are their parent. They will take whatever enablement people are willing to give them and push the boundaries all the time. And if you tell them no, they’ll have a temper tantrum and do everything they can to try and hurt and punish you, as the child in adult skin that they are. And no, they probably won’t be honest about their behavior and are probably wearing a target of a mask as to who they are, because once you find, what’s underneath, you just see next to nothing
Yeah, people like that actually respect people more the worse they are treated. That’s why they always have screwed up relationships because they are only used to chaotic relationships where two people can’t be level with one another in respect, so they’ll create chaos if there isn’t any
The Asian chick wants to het back with her ex for all the wrong reasons. "Now hes the type I'm attracted to", "Now we're almost 30". No apology, not hearing remorse. Its still all about her.
If only he could see it. He can't even hear that she doesn't want him for him. She wants him cause he's familiar, and she knows she'll be better at hiding shit from him. Dude, he deserves so much better.
shes sure proving being highly manipulative and likely dont care about anyone than herself and her needs. hes a convinience and this girl is so high on her own ego that shes not even trying to be a good lier.
I once looked up an Ex on FB, thinking maybe I wasn't mature enough to handle the relat. way back then. Chick's most recent BF was on FB, responding to Ppl's praise for his Dramatic Weight Loss (150+lbs); Guy said, _"Yeah, there's nothing like being so involved with someone you think you love that you separate your self from other family, friends, social circles, while being gaslight into questioning your own thoughts, reality & self- worth, until you have no appetite, just to get repeatedly abandoned, until the chase to get her back consumes your time, your thoughts, your sanity and your body. Anyway, thanks. I lost weight; now, I'm trying to learn how to feel healthy._ 🥺 Yep. I felt every word of his. I didn't call her. _{ still thought about it }_ But, No. 🤔🤔🤔 no
@@SovietNyanCat I'm Great. I'm far away; that guy lives near her. The last thing you want is a *Stunningly Beautiful 900 MegaTon Luv Nuke* Knocking on your door at midnight. ☢ 😳😨😔😌😏😊😄😃😍🥰🤯😰😢
@@joewat3982 Love to see it. May your growth continue plentifully my bro. And @ the nuke, deeefinitely the last thing I’d want to see on my doorstep during demon hours.. 🤫
Asian girl wanting to know where he is, straight projection. Cheaters will oftentimes get anxious and assume their partner is also cheating, so she started being controlling. It's upsetting seeing no one on set call her out.
Basically, short Asian chick saying she got ran through played out and now she ready to come home cause the jungle wasn't as fun as she thought it would be.
I wish you were wrong (and possibly more eloquent with your words) but, yes, that’s how it comes off. She doesn’t have anyone decent, after her experiences, so she is running back to safety. (She didn’t land that NBA player she thought she deserved.) Someone tell that guy to run like the dickens! 😂
Nah she just wants someone to be a father to all the children shes going to have with other men. She will never leave that life. She just wants him to keep her safe and secure while she keeps riding it.
It's not our responsibility to save women who have no concept of duty, virtue, or responsibility. She can vote the same as a man, so she deserves real consequences like a man.
There's two type's of people who hates cheater's, the first being the type that actually hates cheating and then the second which is the person that hates being cheated on. She doesn't hate cheater's she hates being cheated on
She was talking a lot about “Love Me” “he loved me”… “after him I was with someone who loved me…” it’s all about what she receives instead of what she gives …
The most disgusting thing i ever heard is listing someone's flaws after JUST meeting them and giving a presentation. The kind of friends who accept that, are not friends you should have around you....
I agree, it’s really disgusting and it’s also far too common. Those aren’t friends when people enable you to be a donkey. Those are leisurely acquaintances, who want to see you fail so that they have less competition indoor drama as a distraction from being vapid themselves
Shes poly they were probably more than just friends, maybe they do reviews after dates because they all want a piece of that action as well? Now that sounds dark and gross for sure.
The point of understanding yours and your partners love languages, is so that you can adapt to each other. Using different love languages as an excuse is the same as saying you're too lazy to care about the other persons preferences.
Worse: he has no respect for himself. I'm surprised after all she said and done he still thinks there's a possible world where they would work as a loving couple 😮
How did you miss that he has no respect for himself? She cheated because that's the kind of person she is. Meanwhile, he didnt leave that hoe that broke his heart alone.
There is no point in going back to exes because, i just don't break up on a whim, I analyze it thoroughly before breaking up, and if I did broke up it was for a reason.
@@Anotherguy1st It’s because she is a woman and her biological clock is ticking. She got piped by lots of random dudes who didn’t take her serious (because they realized that she isn’t worth much), and now she wants to run back to safety to her ex bf who she knows would remain loyal to her, while she goes and does whatever she wants to do. The age matters to women because they realize that their time is running out to have children, and they can’t attract the type of guys that they used to be able to attract.
2:00 Yoooo, I did that, too. I made an Excel spreadsheet of all this data that pointed to my exgf cheating. I sat her down, stood in front of her and laid it all out. I said I had no more info, its all circumstantial, so I needed to ask her an important question, and its important she answer truthfully. "If I can trust you, I can forgive you." So, did you do xyz? She said no. I sighed and said I lied and DID have more info, removed the Excel filter lmao and showed proof she DID do xyz. I said the real test was could I could trust her and she failed. I broke up with her on the spot. I give presentations as part of my job. Moral of the story, don't lie to a guy who parses data for patterns for a living.
@@Butterflyyyxoxo lmao she said to me very early on in the relationship that she would lie, cheat, run away and I needed to hold her accountable. Mama always told me to listen to people when they show/tell you who they are the FIRST TIME. I knew what I was getting into. No regrets, no bitterness, no hard feelings. We are still cool today. I have respect, which is greater than love.
The short girl who cheated on the guy trying to make it seem like he 'missed out' on her words of affirmation was lowdown because like he said earlier in the video; her words meant nothing because her actions didn't match up to what she was saying. No doubt telling him what he wanted to hear, but creeping behind his back without him knowing.
Then why are you judging others where they belong in what they did, she cheated yes . Does she deserve second chance ?.no. so does that make u pass a comment on saying she belongs to streets like a prostitute? No, even if u dont date men or women u have to have dignity when passing such derogatory comments, or may be u are an andrew tate fan that's why I said that
Completely agree, there is no point in going back because, i just don't break up on a whim, I analyze it thoroughly before breaking up, and if I did broke up it was for a reason.
@@torachan23 So you’ve talked to the majority of women? And you’re here on RUclips? Stfu. You’re a loser just like me stop pretending like you’re Dr. Love knower of all women
13:27 not "Satan's lil' devil!" 😂😂😂😂😂 this video has to be my favourite out of all the ones I've seen by y'all. I had to pause MULTIPLE times to catch my breath, jeezus
My and Jen's situation is the epitome of why men and women, as young boys and girls, need to be taught better relationship skills. It's sad that My has resigned himself to thinking Jen is the best he can get. Ladies, enough of you do the dance of "I'm with a guy, but he's not my type...", hop on the carousel, "but now I want safety, so I choose an ex". That's not any good either. They are two broken people, by different means, who won't be good for each other in the long run. Exes need to stay that way, plain and simple.
@@theezenriarinze9203the happiest demographic statistically is single women. You're full of shit, step away from red pill spaces and come back to reality
@@theezenriarinze9203 women complain about everything. means nothing.women dont know what its like to have zero options. its the same saying being rich aint great when someone was born into wealth. women are used to having it all in society like a rich snob.
That Asian guys needs to walk away. The girl doesn’t love him she’s hitting 30, her friends are all probably married now. She just wants what her friends now have. The poor guy is going to get back with her and end up regretting it.
@@av4781 So she can get the best of both worlds, without feeling bad? So nasty, she just wants a secuirty blanket that is it, she'll never be faithful to him. She should go be for the streets, if that's what she wants.
Trust is lifeblood of every relationship. Infidelity is an irreparable sepsis. There is no return from cheating; Ever. Never take back a cheater, the trust is already dead, and the relationship will become a prison of resentment.
I think if there's some serious growth from the cheating party and a change of the ways ie showing this guy respect, feeling and showing remorse and demonstrating she's trying to do better, I could see getting back together but not in this situation. I also think what I'm talking about is rare.
My ex-girlfriend was also distrustful of me, always wanting to know my location... She ended up being the one who was talking to a man behind my back throughout the whole relationship I had with her and cheated on me with him. It's usually cheaters who have so much trust issues to the point of being a pain in the ahh.
14:40-14:47 It sounds more like something else, her facial expressions and a lack of words in response to his explanation show hints of sadness, disappointment, and idk the word. That little head nod at 14:42 looks like a "oh ok well I didnt know that but ok" kind of expression. Its almost like she wanted something a bit deeper, and he wasnt ready for that kind of commitment, or she had doubts to his motivations especially in regards to his explanation of his "possible cheating" IE the whole text msg "come cuddle". And she was using this whole "show" to try and test him to see how he took those kinds of questions and how hed explain it off, before she would consider taking him back. Theres definitely sub layers to her stance of holding herself, and tinges of slight sadness though in her mannerisms. His facial expressions speak of, something more college level, where he liked the sex and probably enjoyed her company, but his inability to effectively explain off the situation of "come cuddle" seems more like he just wants a FWB. Once he realized that shes not interested in FWB, he switched sides from a yes to a no. Idk if id call that devious, it seems more like she was trying to force a more complex response then casual puppy hookup mentality, and as a means to examine his "come cuddle" explanation. Id say shes secretly wanting to get back together but she doesnt want to deal with the possibility of cheating, and she wants something deeper.
The most disturbing idea is when a guy spend so much time/attention for a woman but for her he's only orbiter number 29. Those dynamics are scarry. Better alone and desperate than making a fool of yourself.
Unless you know they have done a shit-ton of work to change themselves as a person, why would you ever take back a cheater? You can forgive a person for cheating. But I don't think you could ever trust them enough to be in a relationship. You'd always be looking over your shoulder waiting for the knife to stab you in the back.
lmao if he smart, he would leave her ass but know his simp ass he will stay and the kid won't be his and he won't get a DNA test even when people tell him to get one but he ever man up he leave her ass
I’ve met some women in their mid 30s/early 40s who have the exact vibe. The man who has known them since they were in college has told me how absurdly wild they were when they were young and cute. The atrocious thing is that they still talk, dress, and date around like they’re still in college all the while they’re gross and unseasonably wrinkly. They’re clinging to that sex appeal that always got them whatever they thought they wanted, but it’s at this point practically non-existent.
She done got ran through and now she is about to hit the wall at 30 and want her safety blanket back. She is a walking red flag and if he go back to her his an idiot.
Jen sounds like she’s feeling her clock ticking to have kids and wants to have them with someone she knows and is familiar with. She’s going to have kids with him - feel like she’s just settling and then cheat on him again. Lol
I agree with you but also these types of guys make it worse for everyone in the long run. A lot of women behave like this because they know there will always be these guys at the end of the day
It's on par with people complain about they getting no respect from their partner but when you give them advice to leave their partner they be like "but I love her" Or wanting to work for a company that is obviously doesn't respect you
Never be affraid to be alone. Most people go back or stay in relationships for fear of being alone. but trust me, the loneliness you fear is easier than being stuck in a relationship that is not worth it. Its a walk in the park and it gets easier.
The cheater is so manipulative. She couldn't take responsibility for cheating being what ruined them. She turned it into some BS of "we communicate so different" to downplay the issue. There's no rationality in cheating on someone to resolve communication issues. I hope the dude never gets back with her for his sake, because it just seems like whenever something goes wrong or if she shows toxic behaviour she is just going to spin into something else to not take accountability. Just hoping his answers today are just him acknowledging his feelings and then he says "im out" when she tries to manipulate her way in.
Just don’t choose it for yourself and teach any children you have how that’s not OK as well. How to have self-respect. Hope your friends out when they are also struggling. We’re not gonna be able to help this dude here in the comment section.
Most guys don't have "options" like women do. And she was his first so yeah it makes sense that he's willing to try and make things work(although he'd be the dumbest idiot to take her back). Like they say: You're only as faithful as your options🤷🏾♂️
I think they're so hurt that they say there is a chance knowing that there isn't just to get the hopes up of the person that hurt them. I do not believe they actually mean there is a chance.
The fact that people go on public platforms to air out their personal dirty laundry will always be disturbing to me. It's basically modern day Jerry Springer and Maury, but not nearly as classic and memorable.
The blond girl, the ex of the guy with long hair, I've met girls like her. She's the kind of girl who, her boyfriend hates doing something like going somewhere but he goes anyway just to make her happy. Instead of being grateful, she will blame him for not loving to be there: - *_What do you mean? You wanted to come here and here we are, I didn't refuse to come here with you!_* - _Yes but you clearly don't enjoy being here! If you really loved me, you would love coming here and I wouldn't even have to ask you to come here!_ Sounds familiar or am I the only one?
@@tobiaslawrence8928 The point is, with some people, no matter what you do, it's never enough. In the example that I gave, the guy made the effort to go with her to some place, even though he didn't want to go and the girl, she doesn't even acknowledge that he made an effort to make her happy, she only sees what he could have done better.
Nah the full video makes him look way worse. Something about never cleaning and a drunk fight in New Orleans or something. And also having girl friends that text you to come cuddle is very sus.
He's not even a bad looking guy, he doesn't have much of an excuse not to move on. He just seems like the type of guy that doesn't put himself out there much
It's an easy concept to abuse. "My love language is gift giving but you're not buying me enough stuff!" or "you knew my love language is words of affirmation but you didn't validate me 20 times a day and that's why I cheated"
That "Come Cuddle" part was so true for me in my life. Had a girl best friend that wanted me to spend a lot of my time with her and when I realized she didn't want me intimately (we even had an aggressive convo about that) I tried to find other women and even got into 2 relationships that went nowhere bc she wanted to spend time with me consistently (granted I did like her but damn could a guy move on?)
My, my man 😭😭😭 I’m sorry she did that to you bro, you can tell he was really all for her and he just got used and abused and he still think he can change her 😔 she just wanted to get around and find out no one cares like that.. he deserves that full giving girlie too the way he is too
"Ill cheat on him now, and then get him back when we are both 30" is one of the wildest plans, ever hatched by a Saturday morning cartoon villian masquerading as a human, I've ever seen. That shit makes Wil E Coyote seem reasonable in comparison.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Dane has my repect for being honest and he was able to see that he and his Ex won't get back together. Whereas this *My* dude REALLY NEEDS to work on his self-esteem, He should've definitely changed his answer from Yes to No on the *I Wish My Ex And I Were Still Together* with the way she was acting throughout that segment.
If a cheater says "I don't know what happened" don't walk, run away from them. This is a person who will either do it again or has very big issues with taking accountability for their actions and you don't want such person in your corner.
i had a ex-friend who actually sent me a powerpoint ending our friendship due to my religious and political beliefs. im assuming this is a dumb suggestion from therapists nowadays. i treated her like family and accepted who she was even having differences but she decided to destroy 5 years of friendship over politics. im glad she left since if thats how she is she probably would’ve dragged me down more if we were still friends.
If when I turn 30 and I'm asking my ex to take me back, I have failed myself somewhere along the way Edit: "We have very different love languages" is a wiiild excuse to cheat lmfaooo
She says that in between saying that she’s never loved anybody more some crap. It’s all just some stupid excuse that people hear other people say and so they think that it makes it more ambiguous or correct to say. She never even tried to say what her love language supposedly was. It was like she just completely poured it out of her butt, and at most hand waved to it. I bet if she said anything, we would be flabbergasted about how stupid it was, or it would be a lie
@@BrolyPowerMaximum I cannot stand her, but didn't she say her love langauge was words of affirmation? Anyway I think its all bogus and shes just using it for an excuse for her deplorable actions.
"the reason why we're not together is like everyone's communication is so different" "then I did loved you but then you didn't care what I did verbally for you" ✌️"Love Language" is the new word of gaslighting
If a partner cheats, does some serious work on themselves, changes their character earnestly, shows their love vs saying it, demonstrates remorse, and improves as a person, i can see a world where you take them back. Especially with kids. Thats not what i see here. I don't trust this chick.
I agreed to an extent. I would say that what you were saying is true, if kids are in the picture or if you have like a shared business, perhaps where there’s other things on the line. But yeah, not only is that not content with putting him down by saying she’s had better and better, but then saying that she wants to have kids and a family at 30 so now she might look at him for a while, she’s butting into other peoples business as if she has any freaking clue what other people should be doing when she herself can’t respectable adult
Even in that scenario it’s a no. Once you cheat things just won’t be the same, you can’t recover from that, and the ONLY scenario where maybe you could get back is for your kids to make it easier for them
She made a POWERPOINT of her red flags? That's actually BANANAS. That's a red flag all in itself.
“BuT i WaS dRuNk”
The true self appeared with fireworks going off@@TheFunctioningInsomniac
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“Yeah i was high so i wrote my exam paper on how bad my ex was in bed.”
She got a lot of time on her hands
Just so everybody knows: ANYBODY who applies to go on Jubilee and air out their personal ish ARE NOT normal people. This is not a cross-section of our society; this is a cross section of clout demons and ONLY clout demons. Just please keep that in mind
Facts
All the women "yass kween"ing in the comments of videos where women are toxic sludge ain't a good look though.
Excellent point.
Thank you for clout demons, definitely using that
Most women are clout demons.
8 years. I dunno if that Asian guy is gonna see this... Bro, please, please don't get back with that girl. You have so much to give and there are so many women who are waiting to return and multiply what you have who aren't motivated by, "I'm 30 now and realise I'm gonna get left behind".
Bro is in love. Love makes men that aren't super disciplines do stupid things, like take or think about taking cheaters back
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exactly y people say "work on yourself before getting into a relationship" having discipline is a basic human evolution, without it we wouldnt have developed as far as we have society wise. discipline is an art form not all can fall in line too@@annomalli
@@annomalli bro is not in love. He clearly lacks any form of self-worth, and she has probably been stringing him along for these eight years. He needs someone to beat some sense into him.
@@GallantRage1Thank you. If you love someone enough, you will let them go and move on with your life after being done dirty by them. Like the one saying: “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.”
I hope that Asian fella doesn't fall for her manipulations and get back together with her. She showed him what kind of person she is. He'd be her emotional hostage.
I hope women start doing what you want him to do
He dated her for 8 years, he knows deep down that she isn't the one. Dude needs to move on and heal.
He's doing this to himself
@@clanwargods Ted Mosby in real life
@@Chuck_ELLOL 😂 so appropriate. God I hated that character
Asian brudda needs to respect himself and leave her cheating self in his past
He is the problem with many young men today.
He does not understand that his lack of self respect was what got him here and will keep him there.
She on the other hand is a 4 at best who think's shes a 10. So yes a 4 or above guy will hit that just to kill some time.
Then all of a sudden in her mind shes "settling"..
Thats because she know's The Wall approaches. Probably started to get thrown off the carousel a few times and knows the ride is coming to an end.
The young man lacks self respect and male guidance.
By leave her cheating self in his past you mean forgive her and start over? I believe in 2nd chances so I think he should take her back. Pride won't get him anywhere.
@@anthonymark2516 You are judging him pretty harshly from a small excerpt. I also get major incel vibes from the way you are rating her, yikes. They seem perfect for each other. No point in attaching yourself to some fragile pride. They should give it a second shot
@@av4781
Aren’t you making short judgments about them too assuming they could be good together?
That goes both ways.
@@cheesesteakphilly No. They stayed 8 years together. It's not something that happens when you don't get along. Give better counterarguments.
Omg! That woman going to destroy that man in the core of his soul. I am concerned for him. She is not a good woman. Run my friend, please
He is also responsible for having no self respect and allowing her to walk all over him time and time again.
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Yes! Because best believe the heartbreak is gonna be 10 times worse the second time.
that is literally what this guy is acknowledging but your observation skills are nonexistent lmao that's literally why he's begging him to leave her. learn how to read and dont victim blame for no reason... this was for no reason, since it was already acknowledged that we are concerned for him and not the girl..
@@nicodiaz627
He's a simp he deserves this
bro, if she cheated on you, why tf would you go back?
Usually its because of an Internal issue or learned behavior. Ex insecurity, fear of being alone, or your upbringing normalized this type of behavior. Not justifying/recommending it; just adding insight.
If I'm single, it's just access to easy sex. You wouldn't be wrong to mislead her the same as she misled you.
@@Arcanine1995 Yes when my best friend died my self esteem plummeted and I got back with my ex for a few months
He loves her. He’s blinded by it.
So he can dump her😂
It's always the cheaters who think cheating is forgiveable
Dont it tho? Tryna control they karma 😂😂😂
Yeah, and if it’s a female 30 and over, they definitely thinking twice about relationships they threw away since they are getting less attention.
The amount of women around my age (mid 30s) who were dating much older men when in their 20s and now shame men for dating younger…. It’s wild, lol. The hypocrisy.
A big part of female aggression is manipulation/shaming. Of course bitter, jaded women would want to shame men into dating women their own age.
Eh. I still think there's hope for cheaters. Not for anybody who cheats on me, personally. But i have to believe that people can grow and change.
@@elcastro5000Grow and change with someone new. Don’t expect the people you harm to jump in again.
@@Ineverusemychannel exactly
Once she leaves you the first time, don’t EVER look back. If you don’t hold her accountable, she won’t ever respect you anyways. I was cheated on multiple times during my relationship - even when I got married to her.
She cheated the first year we were together with her ex. I didn’t even find out until 7 years later - after being married to her for 5 years. And even after I found out, apparently she had been sleeping with her co-workers as well. It BROKE ME. She was my first love too - and I was DEFINITELY not her first rodeo. Despite this, I tried giving her another chance. Another 4 years. But guess what, she still divorced me, got pregnant immediately by another co-worker and now lives with him. That’s why I tell you. LEAVE them, and don’t ever look back. Even if it might hurt at first, it is the best thing for you. Respect yourself, MOVE ON, and give that chance to someone better…
yes and itll always be in the back of your mind and you will never trust her fully so just move on because itll never be a trustful relationship
Damn
You had a lucky escape bro. Now shes someone elses problem and make no mistake. Ppl like that - that jump from person to person, will never be happy mate. Ex was the same and 1 day will prob get her ass whooped by a man. Acts untouchable. Staying single is much easier imo . Anyway
@@lifeisalie8922 thanks. I agree. Life is much better single. Better alone than with bad company!
@@PenelopeG96 don’t be scared. I felt the same as you, which is why I didn’t leave her sooner. I have a daughter with my ex. But, I learned that in the end, women like that don’t love you. They’re just using you for the time being. They drop men like a hat and have no value for themselves. While the ball is in your court, make the right call…
I ended up being alienated from my daughter anyways… prioritize your children.
That Asian girl just wants a stable nice guy but she's not attracted to him and want sleep around on the side.
Ding ding sing we have a winner- the typical modern western woman. Lierally all have that urge, some act on it, inside they all want it
no. she wants him out of convinience and she knows he'll take her back.
Hypergamy?
I feel like this surge of polygamy in relationships is due to this fact. People ain’t concerned about finding something that lasts, just the pleasure. By the time they do want that thing, all the good dudes either found somebody better or are too hurt/distrustful to look for a relationship
@@dendrien"Open relationship" where she's "Open" but he can't be type
The first girl is completely out of control. No way did she say “he’s totally not my type”, be together with him for 8 years and then cheat on him. How horrible. I can smell the red flags from a mile away, that guy needs to heal himself bc no way should he be thinking it’s ok to go back to that thing.
Dude is pathetic and needs to grow up. And seeing he would actually go back to her is even worse...
I disagree. They seem like a good match. She is simply keeping a facade out of pride. And she cheated, so what? Get over it, it's been 3 years. No point in holding on to such petty pride for so long. They should wipe the slate clean and start over together.
@@av4781 ur the girl in the video
The way she kept bringing up love languages... it was like that was what she found to cope with and explain what she did and now she's clinging to it like it's the answer to everything
@@barbrothers2 she needs to be, with a take like that😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
13:20
the instant “STFU” lmaooo saying what we’re all thinking
I think there was a study where they found that when the betrayed takes the cheater back, the cheater actually loses even more respect for the betrayed. Don't do it. It's a lose lose situation. The cheater had very little respect for the betrayed to begin with. They'll lose even more respect for the betrayed and so will likely cheat again. And also, just have some self respect. Don't take a cheater back.
Yup. Same as doing the pick me dance too. As soon as they cheat, do the 180 and watch them come crawling back. Don't take them back because you don't need them at all.
i mean. can you blame them for it? consider that you need to be a whole lot of stupid and worthless consider you accept this kind of behaviour in the first place. no-one likes a doormat other than for convience sake and certainly not attracted to one.
Cuks, they love it.
@@KurlanAank18 I agree. It’s the toxic push and pull of a childish adult with narcissistic tendencies.
You are just a toy in the toybox and they only care about you when they can’t have you or when other people want you. The more you do for them, the more you give, the more they think that that’s the new status quo and they just deserve it and your value is now lower as you do more and more for them.
It’s almost as if they are a child and you are their parent. They will take whatever enablement people are willing to give them and push the boundaries all the time. And if you tell them no, they’ll have a temper tantrum and do everything they can to try and hurt and punish you, as the child in adult skin that they are.
And no, they probably won’t be honest about their behavior and are probably wearing a target of a mask as to who they are, because once you find, what’s underneath, you just see next to nothing
Yeah, people like that actually respect people more the worse they are treated. That’s why they always have screwed up relationships because they are only used to chaotic relationships where two people can’t be level with one another in respect, so they’ll create chaos if there isn’t any
The Asian chick wants to het back with her ex for all the wrong reasons. "Now hes the type I'm attracted to", "Now we're almost 30". No apology, not hearing remorse. Its still all about her.
If only he could see it. He can't even hear that she doesn't want him for him. She wants him cause he's familiar, and she knows she'll be better at hiding shit from him. Dude, he deserves so much better.
She knows he doesn't have any other options. No dude with options would go back to that dysfunction.
She sounds like she doesn't have many options herself. Well not any good or great options.@@njpme
*HITTING THE WALL*
She had her _"alpha fux"_
Now she's looking for her _"beta bux"_
Take your *red pills* fellas, this is just ♀nature.
The audacity she had to advise another couple on love languages, these hoes be crazy
first Asian chick ran up 250k mikes and wants to go back to new 🥲
almost 30, wanting your ex back is wild. move on.
"My" needs to get laid or get set up on dates. he needs to get over it
_THE WALL_ 🤣💊
It's billions of ppl out here. Go find another 😂
She had her fun. Now you need to pay
shes sure proving being highly manipulative and likely dont care about anyone than herself and her needs. hes a convinience and this girl is so high on her own ego that shes not even trying to be a good lier.
“I am sorry I burned your house to the ground… but I got water now!” 😐
She burned it on purpose too 😂
😂😂😂😂
Psychopathic behavior
Preach Homeboy!
I'm sorry I cheated on you with your brother and got pregnant...but hey you're an uncle now
I once looked up an Ex on FB, thinking maybe I wasn't mature enough to handle the relat. way back then. Chick's most recent BF was on FB, responding to Ppl's praise for his Dramatic Weight Loss (150+lbs); Guy said, _"Yeah, there's nothing like being so involved with someone you think you love that you separate your self from other family, friends, social circles, while being gaslight into questioning your own thoughts, reality & self- worth, until you have no appetite, just to get repeatedly abandoned, until the chase to get her back consumes your time, your thoughts, your sanity and your body. Anyway, thanks. I lost weight; now, I'm trying to learn how to feel healthy._
🥺
Yep. I felt every word of his. I didn't call her. _{ still thought about it }_
But, No.
🤔🤔🤔 no
Hope you're doing ok buddy.
@@SovietNyanCat I'm Great. I'm far away; that guy lives near her. The last thing you want is a *Stunningly Beautiful 900 MegaTon Luv Nuke* Knocking on your door at midnight. ☢
😳😨😔😌😏😊😄😃😍🥰🤯😰😢
@@joewat3982 Love to see it. May your growth continue plentifully my bro.
And @ the nuke, deeefinitely the last thing I’d want to see on my doorstep during demon hours.. 🤫
Asian girl wanting to know where he is, straight projection. Cheaters will oftentimes get anxious and assume their partner is also cheating, so she started being controlling. It's upsetting seeing no one on set call her out.
Jen is hispanic
I agree. Especially considering she interrupted another ex-couple with her thoughts/opinion.
Yeah they want to normalize their behavior and assume the worst in others. I hope the god the guy doesn’t return.
Basically, short Asian chick saying she got ran through played out and now she ready to come home cause the jungle wasn't as fun as she thought it would be.
I wish you were wrong (and possibly more eloquent with your words) but, yes, that’s how it comes off. She doesn’t have anyone decent, after her experiences, so she is running back to safety. (She didn’t land that NBA player she thought she deserved.) Someone tell that guy to run like the dickens! 😂
Nah she just wants someone to be a father to all the children shes going to have with other men. She will never leave that life. She just wants him to keep her safe and secure while she keeps riding it.
It's not our responsibility to save women who have no concept of duty, virtue, or responsibility. She can vote the same as a man, so she deserves real consequences like a man.
@@MusMasi she probably pregnant in that video
And what you guys don't want to admit is that the RED PILL Was right😂😂
16:48 “you didn’t care about everything I did verbally for you”. WTH does that even mean? Man… stay away!
There's two type's of people who hates cheater's, the first being the type that actually hates cheating and then the second which is the person that hates being cheated on. She doesn't hate cheater's she hates being cheated on
I know what you mean
💯
We call those second people narcissist
@@MylesKilliswe gotta stop throwing this word around every direction lol.
She was talking a lot about “Love Me” “he loved me”… “after him I was with someone who loved me…” it’s all about what she receives instead of what she gives …
The most disgusting thing i ever heard is listing someone's flaws after JUST meeting them and giving a presentation. The kind of friends who accept that, are not friends you should have around you....
Its not funny and being drunk makes it WORSE.
I agree, it’s really disgusting and it’s also far too common.
Those aren’t friends when people enable you to be a donkey. Those are leisurely acquaintances, who want to see you fail so that they have less competition indoor drama as a distraction from being vapid themselves
Shes poly they were probably more than just friends, maybe they do reviews after dates because they all want a piece of that action as well? Now that sounds dark and gross for sure.
@@MusMasi oh good heavens 😳 i really hope not 😭
Normal ppl think of all the good traits after just meeting someone lol
The point of understanding yours and your partners love languages, is so that you can adapt to each other. Using different love languages as an excuse is the same as saying you're too lazy to care about the other persons preferences.
Love language is a scam created by a business man. Look it up
It's clear by now why that dude got cheated on.
She has no respect for him
Worse: he has no respect for himself. I'm surprised after all she said and done he still thinks there's a possible world where they would work as a loving couple 😮
How did you miss that he has no respect for himself? She cheated because that's the kind of person she is. Meanwhile, he didnt leave that hoe that broke his heart alone.
I love how these guys trash the RP then validate it by using the terminology and concepts
No it's because he treats her like a human being
one of random example of a bitch from a jubilee video doesnt validate the redpill beliefs @@dolanduk7946
Dude, respect and love yourself more than going back to that. She is NOT worth a second chance.
This.
He has tremendous potential to be a good CVCK
@@av4781 russian bot
There is no point in going back to exes because, i just don't break up on a whim, I analyze it thoroughly before breaking up, and if I did broke up it was for a reason.
That boy is going through it. Sad music and everything.
"I cheated. But we're in our 30s, so take me back."
😂........no.
Yeah I'm kind of confused as to why the age matters at all. Seems like a non issue to me, I'm not taking a cheater back period!
@@Anotherguy1st
It’s because she is a woman and her biological clock is ticking. She got piped by lots of random dudes who didn’t take her serious (because they realized that she isn’t worth much), and now she wants to run back to safety to her ex bf who she knows would remain loyal to her, while she goes and does whatever she wants to do. The age matters to women because they realize that their time is running out to have children, and they can’t attract the type of guys that they used to be able to attract.
I read the no with the Bugs Bunny meme
11:31 Myron yelling "I FUCKING TOLD YALL!!!!!!" rn
2:00 Yoooo, I did that, too. I made an Excel spreadsheet of all this data that pointed to my exgf cheating. I sat her down, stood in front of her and laid it all out. I said I had no more info, its all circumstantial, so I needed to ask her an important question, and its important she answer truthfully. "If I can trust you, I can forgive you." So, did you do xyz? She said no. I sighed and said I lied and DID have more info, removed the Excel filter lmao and showed proof she DID do xyz. I said the real test was could I could trust her and she failed. I broke up with her on the spot.
I give presentations as part of my job. Moral of the story, don't lie to a guy who parses data for patterns for a living.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No wonder she cheated 💀
@@Butterflyyyxoxo lmao she said to me very early on in the relationship that she would lie, cheat, run away and I needed to hold her accountable. Mama always told me to listen to people when they show/tell you who they are the FIRST TIME. I knew what I was getting into. No regrets, no bitterness, no hard feelings. We are still cool today. I have respect, which is greater than love.
Dang, if she answered truthfully you both cold have been riding that one-sided open relationship lifestyle
I would pay to see that 😂
The short girl who cheated on the guy trying to make it seem like he 'missed out' on her words of affirmation was lowdown because like he said earlier in the video; her words meant nothing because her actions didn't match up to what she was saying.
No doubt telling him what he wanted to hear, but creeping behind his back without him knowing.
1:56 - Yo chiiiill why you gotta kill me like that! 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
Nonononononononononono she said power point
My motto is if she cheats she belongs to the streets. Once someone becomes my ex that's where they stay.
asian girl is the streets
If the guy cheats where does he belongs then?
@@mandarapuchandini2694 how should I know? I don't date men.
Then why are you judging others where they belong in what they did, she cheated yes . Does she deserve second chance ?.no. so does that make u pass a comment on saying she belongs to streets like a prostitute? No, even if u dont date men or women u have to have dignity when passing such derogatory comments, or may be u are an andrew tate fan that's why I said that
Completely agree, there is no point in going back because, i just don't break up on a whim, I analyze it thoroughly before breaking up, and if I did broke up it was for a reason.
Short girl is exactly the type of girl Red pill tries to warn men about, to a T
Except red pill acts like every girl is like her
@@VastDeath most of them are. Grow up
@@VastDeathmost are. Some aren’t
@@torachan23
So you’ve talked to the majority of women? And you’re here on RUclips? Stfu. You’re a loser just like me stop pretending like you’re Dr. Love knower of all women
Is it most girls or some girls
13:27 not "Satan's lil' devil!" 😂😂😂😂😂 this video has to be my favourite out of all the ones I've seen by y'all. I had to pause MULTIPLE times to catch my breath, jeezus
_"When someone shows you who they are, believe them _*_the first time."_* - Maya Angelou.
How do you know?
Jubilee makes me think humans were a mistake.
Don’t talk about God like that. 😂😂
nah just the far left liberals that go on jubilee.
They're. Look at society. Humans are trash
Lmao damn 😂
Humans are a mistake. Just look at society
My and Jen's situation is the epitome of why men and women, as young boys and girls, need to be taught better relationship skills. It's sad that My has resigned himself to thinking Jen is the best he can get.
Ladies, enough of you do the dance of "I'm with a guy, but he's not my type...", hop on the carousel, "but now I want safety, so I choose an ex". That's not any good either. They are two broken people, by different means, who won't be good for each other in the long run.
Exes need to stay that way, plain and simple.
Im guessing she realized their options are dwindling, so they assume they can go back to the dudes they bailed on.
Women always have options my grandmother at 90 still does.
@@ButterflyyyxoxoIf having options was enough women wouldn't be complaining all over the Internet.
She's making red pill goons look truthful
@@theezenriarinze9203the happiest demographic statistically is single women. You're full of shit, step away from red pill spaces and come back to reality
@@theezenriarinze9203 women complain about everything. means nothing.women dont know what its like to have zero options. its the same saying being rich aint great when someone was born into wealth. women are used to having it all in society like a rich snob.
That Asian guys needs to walk away. The girl doesn’t love him she’s hitting 30, her friends are all probably married now. She just wants what her friends now have. The poor guy is going to get back with her and end up regretting it.
I say there's no harm in taking her back. I believe in second chances. Plus maybe they could set up a healthy open relationship dynamic? 🤔
@@av4781please never speak again
@@av4781she basically ran up her miles. He’d jus be opening himself to more disrespect by a more experienced 304
@@av4781 So she can get the best of both worlds, without feeling bad? So nasty, she just wants a secuirty blanket that is it, she'll never be faithful to him. She should go be for the streets, if that's what she wants.
@@av4781he does not seem interested in it that's why he broke up with her.
13:19 "hey hey hey Satan's little devil" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Trust is lifeblood of every relationship. Infidelity is an irreparable sepsis. There is no return from cheating; Ever. Never take back a cheater, the trust is already dead, and the relationship will become a prison of resentment.
Same I agree ☝🏽
I think if there's some serious growth from the cheating party and a change of the ways ie showing this guy respect, feeling and showing remorse and demonstrating she's trying to do better, I could see getting back together but not in this situation. I also think what I'm talking about is rare.
One thing i learned about society. Most people are not good people.
I might be a tad dyslexic because I read it as “infidelity is an irreparable stepsis” and had to do a double take.
LMAO not if it's after the cock carousel
My ex-girlfriend was also distrustful of me, always wanting to know my location... She ended up being the one who was talking to a man behind my back throughout the whole relationship I had with her and cheated on me with him.
It's usually cheaters who have so much trust issues to the point of being a pain in the ahh.
14:40-14:47 It sounds more like something else, her facial expressions and a lack of words in response to his explanation show hints of sadness, disappointment, and idk the word. That little head nod at 14:42 looks like a "oh ok well I didnt know that but ok" kind of expression. Its almost like she wanted something a bit deeper, and he wasnt ready for that kind of commitment, or she had doubts to his motivations especially in regards to his explanation of his "possible cheating" IE the whole text msg "come cuddle". And she was using this whole "show" to try and test him to see how he took those kinds of questions and how hed explain it off, before she would consider taking him back.
Theres definitely sub layers to her stance of holding herself, and tinges of slight sadness though in her mannerisms.
His facial expressions speak of, something more college level, where he liked the sex and probably enjoyed her company, but his inability to effectively explain off the situation of "come cuddle" seems more like he just wants a FWB. Once he realized that shes not interested in FWB, he switched sides from a yes to a no.
Idk if id call that devious, it seems more like she was trying to force a more complex response then casual puppy hookup mentality, and as a means to examine his "come cuddle" explanation.
Id say shes secretly wanting to get back together but she doesnt want to deal with the possibility of cheating, and she wants something deeper.
When he said there’s a chance 🤦🏾♂️ lost me fam!!
Then she mentions the guy who punched her guts out.
@@UnicornOfDepression 🤣🤣 boy was sad AF, Smdh
That guy needs a wake up call. I hope he grows a spine, and finds a deserving woman
@@UnicornOfDepressiondig stroke dig stroke dig stroke 😂
😂😂😂
"Satan's little devil" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Facts
I just come here to listen to that sweet sound of your floor cracking and squeaking as you both shift around
He probably hasnt been laid in 3 years since… and he getting desperate
Desperation, no self esteem or self respect, I feel bad for the guy
My story - tough for average guys 😂
Escorts....
Escorts....
The most disturbing idea is when a guy spend so much time/attention for a woman but for her he's only orbiter number 29. Those dynamics are scarry. Better alone and desperate than making a fool of yourself.
I lost it when bro said “there’s always a possibility.”
His face looks so fet up. I think he wants to let her think they might get back together just so he can revenge break up with her
same. watching this humanizes men when their done wrong in the relationship. this is the same thing some women go through. :/
Unless you know they have done a shit-ton of work to change themselves as a person, why would you ever take back a cheater? You can forgive a person for cheating. But I don't think you could ever trust them enough to be in a relationship. You'd always be looking over your shoulder waiting for the knife to stab you in the back.
For some reason the Asian cheater girl in the end is broadcasting “single mother” vibes to me.
...I could tell you the reasons if you need some help, lol
lmao if he smart, he would leave her ass but know his simp ass he will stay and the kid won't be his and he won't get a DNA test even when people tell him to get one but he ever man up he leave her ass
I’ve met some women in their mid 30s/early 40s who have the exact vibe. The man who has known them since they were in college has told me how absurdly wild they were when they were young and cute. The atrocious thing is that they still talk, dress, and date around like they’re still in college all the while they’re gross and unseasonably wrinkly. They’re clinging to that sex appeal that always got them whatever they thought they wanted, but it’s at this point practically non-existent.
@@bcj842 wrinkly at mid 30s? must be the party lifestyle
idk I think she's the kind who'd trap a good guy and make him a single father. she ain't the kind who'd take responsibility of her child.
She done got ran through and now she is about to hit the wall at 30 and want her safety blanket back. She is a walking red flag and if he go back to her his an idiot.
30 is the new 50, if you want kids, once the mom is 30.. genetic problems start going up, so leave the CC rider in the streets where she belongs
Our boy My out here going through it! Damn, head up bro and stay away from her!
Even the floor is outraged 😭
The PowerPoint woman needs to be talked about more. Insane stuff.
"You went Microsoft Excel on the bitch" had me rollin' GOD DAYUM. Needed that. Love y'all
Making a powerpoint of your date's red flags after the first date is the most lesbian thing I can think of.
Why do they always have to be degenerates on this show? Why must these people "go full degenerate"
*woman
😂
Are you a lesbian?
Tip for the men out there. Never go back to a woman who cheated on you. If she cheated in a previous relation before you, avoid that too
Thanks for the advice buddy, gee I never thought of not going back to my cheating ex 😂
Wow thanks for stating the obvious
This goes for women too. Never get back with a person with a history of cheating.
Ignore the comments - this comment may have saved someone. Thank U!
And don’t cheat.
that head tilt edit was so funnnnyyy
Jen sounds like she’s feeling her clock ticking to have kids and wants to have them with someone she knows and is familiar with. She’s going to have kids with him - feel like she’s just settling and then cheat on him again. Lol
At this point, im just saying, thats all you, im tired of feelin sad for guys that put up with that level of disrespect.
Dam 2 months ago. 😂
I agree with you but also these types of guys make it worse for everyone in the long run. A lot of women behave like this because they know there will always be these guys at the end of the day
Please share the time travel technology
It's on par with people complain about they getting no respect from their partner but when you give them advice to leave their partner they be like "but I love her"
Or wanting to work for a company that is obviously doesn't respect you
@@-lord1754 They don't really want those guys though. They just settle for them once they realize the guys they actually want don't want them.
"Yes, he’s a serial killer, but he’s 30 now so let him out of Jail" their logic 😂
Never be affraid to be alone. Most people go back or stay in relationships for fear of being alone. but trust me, the loneliness you fear is easier than being stuck in a relationship that is not worth it. Its a walk in the park and it gets easier.
❤
The cheater is so manipulative. She couldn't take responsibility for cheating being what ruined them. She turned it into some BS of "we communicate so different" to downplay the issue. There's no rationality in cheating on someone to resolve communication issues.
I hope the dude never gets back with her for his sake, because it just seems like whenever something goes wrong or if she shows toxic behaviour she is just going to spin into something else to not take accountability. Just hoping his answers today are just him acknowledging his feelings and then he says "im out" when she tries to manipulate her way in.
“Don’t stand on business, mind your business” needs to be a shirt IMMEDIATELY
She was just “living her best life”
I’m so tired of dudes who clearly know they’ve been wronged in a past relationship reneging and saying “well there’s always a chance”.
Just don’t choose it for yourself and teach any children you have how that’s not OK as well. How to have self-respect. Hope your friends out when they are also struggling. We’re not gonna be able to help this dude here in the comment section.
That's cos most dudes have close to zero options
Most guys don't have "options" like women do. And she was his first so yeah it makes sense that he's willing to try and make things work(although he'd be the dumbest idiot to take her back). Like they say: You're only as faithful as your options🤷🏾♂️
@@d.speedy5083Maybe if he actually grew a pair, he’d have options. No woman worth having is gonna want a spineless jellyfish for a man.
I think they're so hurt that they say there is a chance knowing that there isn't just to get the hopes up of the person that hurt them.
I do not believe they actually mean there is a chance.
11:47 🐓carousel music 😂😂😂
The fact that people go on public platforms to air out their personal dirty laundry will always be disturbing to me.
It's basically modern day Jerry Springer and Maury, but not nearly as classic and memorable.
That's exactly what I was thinking like what do they gain from humiliating themselves on the internet
clout is a strong , strong drug
Pretty much
@@MikeBarbarossa "They do anything for clout" - offset
@@MikeBarbarossafax lol😂👌🏾
Cheaters will remain cheating never take them back!
its roughly 50-50 on that one. cheating tends to be, often more complicated and individualistic case by case most of the time.
@@dendrienonce a cheater, always a cheater
@@VastDeath you do realise majority of people has bin or done the cheating right? but sure, i say potato you say tomato.
@@dendrien once a cheater. Always a cheater
@@dendrienfound the cheater
13:26 "I don't recall asking you a God... damned... thing"
There is nothing worth the level of disrespect this man will suffer taking her back.
The blond girl, the ex of the guy with long hair, I've met girls like her. She's the kind of girl who, her boyfriend hates doing something like going somewhere but he goes anyway just to make her happy. Instead of being grateful, she will blame him for not loving to be there:
- *_What do you mean? You wanted to come here and here we are, I didn't refuse to come here with you!_*
- _Yes but you clearly don't enjoy being here! If you really loved me, you would love coming here and I wouldn't even have to ask you to come here!_
Sounds familiar or am I the only one?
Nah, it makes sense
I don't get it
@@tobiaslawrence8928 The point is, with some people, no matter what you do, it's never enough. In the example that I gave, the guy made the effort to go with her to some place, even though he didn't want to go and the girl, she doesn't even acknowledge that he made an effort to make her happy, she only sees what he could have done better.
@@Sadlander2 damn that's messed up
Nah the full video makes him look way worse. Something about never cleaning and a drunk fight in New Orleans or something. And also having girl friends that text you to come cuddle is very sus.
OMG THAT FUCKING FLOOR CREAKING! I just can't anymore.
I don't feel bad for doormats that allow bad behavior. Leave or shut it.
He's not even a bad looking guy, he doesn't have much of an excuse not to move on. He just seems like the type of guy that doesn't put himself out there much
Some boys love getting stepped on
Well, most boys nowadays are begging girls to step on them...
I feel bad for anyone of your friends and family who have to deal with your callous, inhumane response to a really sucky thing.
I winder have you ever been there? Like judge not the man laying in the ditch till you have been hit with the brick that put him there
I would rather be underground than around Jennifer, man this interaction is so sad.
I just watched the whole video, I'm gonna start diggin...
The floor boards got me dying 😂😂😂
I hate the term “love language “
Coming from people who speak english, they don’t know shit about what language means.
I mean there are examples of love languages out there but some people don't know what they are and just say it to sound smart lmao
It's an easy concept to abuse. "My love language is gift giving but you're not buying me enough stuff!" or "you knew my love language is words of affirmation but you didn't validate me 20 times a day and that's why I cheated"
It’s definitely useful but with most things it gets overused and misused unfortunately
I think the issue with it is how its been used to justify people's bad behaviour as shown with the cheater
That "Come Cuddle" part was so true for me in my life. Had a girl best friend that wanted me to spend a lot of my time with her and when I realized she didn't want me intimately (we even had an aggressive convo about that) I tried to find other women and even got into 2 relationships that went nowhere bc she wanted to spend time with me consistently (granted I did like her but damn could a guy move on?)
My, my man 😭😭😭 I’m sorry she did that to you bro, you can tell he was really all for her and he just got used and abused and he still think he can change her 😔 she just wanted to get around and find out no one cares like that.. he deserves that full giving girlie too the way he is too
Person: cheats
Person cheating with: “yeah i was busy not knowing you existed.”
"Ill cheat on him now, and then get him back when we are both 30" is one of the wildest plans, ever hatched by a Saturday morning cartoon villian masquerading as a human, I've ever seen.
That shit makes Wil E Coyote seem reasonable in comparison.
Love y'alls humor and editing- always get me crackin up!
This... my brothers... is a SICKNESSSS
That is all
of the absolute highest orda
we do not want it
You need more energy more passion
Devient
and we don't want it, eh!
I'd rather die alone than get back with an ex who cheated on me. Especially after I've taken the time to come to terms with it
16:17 Dude some guys REALLY can’t take a hint or even a NO from women, the fact that she brought him out here just for him to realise is craaaazy
Carousell girl is a good representation of all the modern day "coaches".
modern day roaches
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Being on your own is a good experience - it's called reality
Dane has my repect for being honest and he was able to see that he and his Ex won't get back together. Whereas this *My* dude REALLY NEEDS to work on his self-esteem, He should've definitely changed his answer from Yes to No on the *I Wish My Ex And I Were Still Together* with the way she was acting throughout that segment.
If someone is cheating to mess around with you.. they'd gladly cheat on you to mess with someone else.
"Microsoft Excel". She literally said Powerpoint. GG Aba.
*Pushes up glasses* AcTuaLlY…
If a cheater says "I don't know what happened" don't walk, run away from them. This is a person who will either do it again or has very big issues with taking accountability for their actions and you don't want such person in your corner.
i had a ex-friend who actually sent me a powerpoint ending our friendship due to my religious and political beliefs. im assuming this is a dumb suggestion from therapists nowadays. i treated her like family and accepted who she was even having differences but she decided to destroy 5 years of friendship over politics. im glad she left since if thats how she is she probably would’ve dragged me down more if we were still friends.
I'm assuming you are xtian?
@@devankurmitra4118 yep.
And I hope god helps her down the road of life.
what is a powerpoint presentation going to do? She should of just left.
@@ChrisM2kwavemaybe saying stuff like that is part of why she isn’t your friend anymore😂😂😂
Shoutout to My for being honest about his feelings/emotions. I hope he was still able to be himself after that relationship
If when I turn 30 and I'm asking my ex to take me back, I have failed myself somewhere along the way
Edit: "We have very different love languages" is a wiiild excuse to cheat lmfaooo
She says that in between saying that she’s never loved anybody more some crap. It’s all just some stupid excuse that people hear other people say and so they think that it makes it more ambiguous or correct to say.
She never even tried to say what her love language supposedly was. It was like she just completely poured it out of her butt, and at most hand waved to it.
I bet if she said anything, we would be flabbergasted about how stupid it was, or it would be a lie
@@BrolyPowerMaximum I cannot stand her, but didn't she say her love langauge was words of affirmation? Anyway I think its all bogus and shes just using it for an excuse for her deplorable actions.
"the reason why we're not together is like everyone's communication is so different"
"then I did loved you but then you didn't care what I did verbally for you"
✌️"Love Language" is the new word of gaslighting
I hope homeboy didn't get back with his ex. She has mad crazy manipulator energy. He also got gaslit so hard during their 8-year ordeal.
If a partner cheats, does some serious work on themselves, changes their character earnestly, shows their love vs saying it, demonstrates remorse, and improves as a person, i can see a world where you take them back. Especially with kids. Thats not what i see here. I don't trust this chick.
likely because she only cared for him for convience sake and that hes a doormat. everything is about her and her alone.
Better start over with someone else, unless you are a certified C U C K
NEVER take a cheater back. You can care about them, maybe even keep in touch.
But NEVER take them back into a relationship. Grow up
I agreed to an extent. I would say that what you were saying is true, if kids are in the picture or if you have like a shared business, perhaps where there’s other things on the line.
But yeah, not only is that not content with putting him down by saying she’s had better and better, but then saying that she wants to have kids and a family at 30 so now she might look at him for a while, she’s butting into other peoples business as if she has any freaking clue what other people should be doing when she herself can’t respectable adult
Even in that scenario it’s a no. Once you cheat things just won’t be the same, you can’t recover from that, and the ONLY scenario where maybe you could get back is for your kids to make it easier for them
powerpoint....and she continued dating her? man, that's crazy