And judging them 😅😅😅 he was heated about the ladies and the amount of children's fathers . I know ladies in his past are somewhere laughing about this video. I need a background check on him lol he needs the interrogating lol
@@jasonbrody8724 except he asked how many baby daddys they have and sh*t like that You gotta practice what you preach if you don't judge based on someone's past then do that
he talks the same like that guy from the whatever podcast Justin Waller, same tone same inflections everything. From all the role models he could have chosen he chose the cringiest
@@boangherrazvan3977 he’s not saying anything wrong people just got a problem with the way he’s saying it… and to a lot of people point does it need to be said in this moment?…
I was married 3 times 3 babies daddy lol. #1 passed away in Iraq. #2 decided me having cancer and chemo was too much for him to take and left the family he couldn’t handle “my chemo sickness”. #3 still married going on 16 years now! So not all stories the same
@@Godsbackhand7 nah I get it these days both species have a moral and cultural conflicts ! Everything is online and things instead of walks on the beach! Sorry I’m on a ranch and farm
@@Chuck_EL we accept dollars different. We put our hand out upside down because we don’t need it we just accept it. Or some weirdo shit to make up and look cool. Bahaha
tbh he was using that line to look more attractive. I'm not even from the ghetto but ive told girls im from the ghetto so that they would find me interesting and cool. It's a status thing. It's like saying you were homeless or in jail. Women love that shit.
Unfortunately some people make being “ghetto” a personality and others think that’s an ideal partner. I’m from the ghetto and I’m way too soft for all the drama these vocal ghetto people be having, that’s why I moved out the ghetto and don’t mention that sh*t with my full chest.
At 21:59 what Preach was saying is Brian is one of the multiple baby daddies for his daughter's mother. He's part of the issue he's complaining about. Men out here creating single parent households and then mad at women for holding down those households
As a kid, I listened and watched all the women and men around me. My maternal grandmother had 4 baby daddies and 2 husbands. Oh lord she had a struggle. My paternal grandmother got married had two kids by her husband and he cheated and then abandoned her and his legitimate and illigetimate kids. Anothet struggle . Due to this both grandparents estates are not settled. This is the generational trauma. I never wanted kids outside of a stable situation. Unfortunately I struggle with my mental health and I only found out I was autistic in my 40s. This dude is giving me neurodivergent vibes. He's obviously intelligent due to fixing aircraft but the social skills are off...and he sounds like he's been listening to Froggy and Fickle,😅😅😅. IYKYK. I was married but my marriage ended due to my poor mental health and my ex being insecure and physically assaulting me. I never let a man impregnate me because I know they can and will up and leave or do some dumb shit that you have to protect your babies from. I'm glad i didn't have kids in my marriage because if my undiagnosed autism aggravated him so much, what would he have done if our children had inherited my autism? Children with conditions can break marriages and relationships. I understand why people have multiple baby daddies and baby momas but it's a strain on the parents and on the kids. Even Nick Cannon now realises that he cant split him self into multiple households and multiple locations at once. It's tough and the kids see it even if there's enough money, there's never enough time with their non-resident parent and their half siblings.
That works in a regular setting but put that in front of an audience and all bets are off. That's why these dumb videos and "gender war" garbage are so popular.
Eh they waited for him to speak like they couldn’t tell that some voice they didn’t like wouldn’t come out of him, I don’t know it felt like with this show some people come prepared to pop
Not only is he wearing the Faux Benevolent, Ghetto Narcissist uniform, but the perseveration, the rigidity, the emotional flippancy…is giving undiagnosed…
To be fair these pop the ballon’s shows kinda set it up for ppl to get offended. Cuz once someone pops the ballon you have to listen to all the reasons they don’t like you lol.
1) Contestants know how the show works, it's way past first episode. 2) Listening why people don't like you can be helpful. Sometimes it's just "not my taste" (like with jeans preference), but sometimes it's legit criticism of what you're doing wrong (being too aggressive and interrogating people who rejected him). If other contestants can see your flaws in 10 minutes - best believe your real life date will too. But yeah, it isn't for everybody. You have to go there prepared to be stressed. May be useful information, but still stressful.
@@TacseraEpSekahs oh yea buddy was definitely tripping and must don’t know how to talk to women if he thought he was going to act like that and they find it attractive. He probably could have pulled most of them if he just didn’t come off as a asshole
Yeah and he seems.concerned with their past, but says he doesn't take into consideration the past. What he means is, he can judge other people's pasts, but his is off the table.
@@whyisitneeded9012 Nah, it's immediately apparent - he came in looking like a predator searching for his choice of meal. He cannot take rejection, and has terrible manners. Maybe his trousers were too tight or something, but that's on him. He needs to work on his people-skills.
I don’t think that he expected most of the women to have multiple men with multiple kids. That is crazy work. Take that away and I’m pretty sure he would have been fine. By deal breakers, I think he meant just general past (criminal history, financial issues, promiscuity without kids, minor health issues, etc.).
The fact that this pop the balloon lady has a whole husband then comes on this show watching single people roast each other....makes me giggle every time 😂
Yeah I was like TF? He literally opened with “I don’t judge, people make mistakes, past doesn’t define you blah blah” then he proceeded to ask EVERY SINGLE WOMAN -how many baby’s daddy’s do u have? Why so many? What’s wrong with you?? All that and then he admits that he IS a baby daddy. His energy is giving angry, argumentative and judgmental.
There's always going to be people who'll have no shame nor not care to go on one of these shows. That, and possibly show off to future partners online.
Because society looks down on women , especially 30+ age women . Something must be wrong with you But won’t want to date a woman with kids 😂😂😂😂 . They don’t know what they want
People who choose to go on these shows aren't even looking for love most of the time, they just there for the vibes or to boost their self-esteem even more.
I keep telling people that multiple children with multiple people is a turn off for almost everyone. 1 is ok, but after that it's a slippery slope. This is regardless of gender... It is what it is...
100%. Especially once you start hitting 30+ in age people tend to have a kid, so it makes sense. Multiple tells me you make bad decisions in partners and birth control lol. Too much chance for drama with recurring characters from their past.
But when you claim that you don't care about someone's past and then try to use it to shame someone simply because they passed on you it comes off as petty. It also just reinforced why they passed you up. Let's not also act as if it's mostly used to try and beat women down
You are right. This guy put his foot in his mouth though. Another thing I commonly see is people not understanding kids from a divorce are different than out of wedlock
It is a turn off, but when asked about deal breakers he explicitly said he didn't have any. The way he judged them said otherwise. It was a deal breaker for him. He should have been honest about that.
13:46, the first woman was like "ok, enough is enough" and the other two went like "wait yeah she is right" pop pop pop, was funny and their facial expressions too
Facts! Most people reject someone because of SURFACE LEVEL dealbreakers (Job Title, Type of work, Height, Clothing, ETC), but what lies beneath are the real dealbreakers for example "How do you handle stressful situations", "How do you manage your emotions when things don’t work out", "How do you treat people when they do you wrong"…
@@ethan0262 I never thought about if men in prison should have a wife or girlfriend. I heard men say women only want rich men but some say women only want killers. This race obsessed country I’m sure they mean free women want rich men and slave women want a killer for protection. There’s a rapper name: rich killer.
@@niknikky I think it can be. For the most part what you do doesn't dictate who you are. You can work at a food bank or with disabled kids and still be a horrible fucking person. Or you could be a good person but still just not mesh with what someone wants personality wise
Makes sense why my Man is single at 40 going onto 41. I normally defend Guys. But I agree with all the Women for popping their balloons. Anyone Male or Female who can't handle rejection is a dangerous individual.
They are dangerous individuals. I had a guy ask me out and I says no and he still kept asking because he wasn’t going to take no for answer and he’s been “wanting” me.
@@craziebarbietalks692 That's mental. You might need to get a restraining order against Him. I had to cut off a former friend who couldn't take no for an answer to the point, that He tried to ruin a married Man's marriage. My former friend really liked this Girl. But She rejected Him because He was too needed and sounded desperate. Then my former friend was now showing resentment and started doing false accusations. Then this Girl who rejected my former friend, now went away on holiday. So did one of my other colleagues aswell who is a Guy. Then this my former friend now put 2 and 2 together and assumed that they went away on holiday together. Then this my former friend now told me that He is going to tell this Guys Wife on Facebook that Her Husband is having an affair. That's when I told my former friend that I can't be friends with Him anymore. The truth eventually came out that both my colleagues went away on holiday at the sametime with their family. So this evil former friend of mine would have just ruined a Man's marriage out of jealousy and envy over getting rejected.
Just defend who is right. Gender shouldn’t have anything to do with it. I just had to say that because that mindset is what keeps this gender role going. I appreciate you for doing what’s right this time.
Rejection is a part in life that everybody has to deal with. It not just in dating but it's different aspects. Jobs, schools, even family can reject you. Just have to find ways to handle rejections. Good luck to everyone.
Yeah yeah I fuck with that but I also don’t fuck with that… you gotta be transparent but you also gotta be translucent. You gotta be fit but you gotta be fat sometimes too
Now setup a situation where you confront the person that rejected you directly I don’t think any normal person can take that unless they made it into a living
Both things can be true! But to be honest, that kinda sound like that would've been some of his questioning had he not got rejected. Would have loved to see if he would use it against them, But we didn't get that chance. But he's from NOLA contrary to popular belief that tone is normal for us! People who don't sound like him usually are the ones to worry about.
@@eug504ene I agree and nobody would’ve been talking if he rejected them that way. But the fact that they already popped their balloon, it showed he couldn’t handle the rejection and was fishing for a way to shut them down. Listen I have family from up north, literally the aggressive talking capitals of the world. But you can tell his voice got more aggressive the more he got rejected. Bruh was just mad passive aggressive and butt hurt.
Tbf he didnt get to talk to them the ones who didn't pop at the time individually because they started him off with talking to the ones who did pop first. But he did say your past is your past but then changed his mind
I don't say "I'm from the ghetto" for that reason. My early childhood to age 9 was in an old Kansas City neighborhood on the outskirts. It was a rough area but I never felt like I was in particular danger. From there on since, I've been rural.
No he very much seems to be from the ghetto. His saying that, plus his pants, aggressiveness, and not knowing what a TikTok social media manager does also seems like the he got locked up in the ghetto. He kept saying he was from the ghetto to downplay how rough it actually is where he's from. "Ghetto" and "Louisiana" in the same sentence told everything, very much codewords and iykyk.
@@Cthomp91 He says having one baby daddy is fine but having two baby daddy’s and not being with them places the mistake on the woman. He isn’t contradicting himself he’s actively making “rules” that make him in the right still even though he’s an ass
@@elanorapowell6811 and he also straight up said the women should have chosen better or they wouldn’t have more than one father. So by his own logic, since his ex left him, she didn’t choose well enough. He’s not a good choice by his own words. Contradictions.
everyone blames a mother for being a single mother but never ask why the men made her a single mother. also, if she hasn't had kids to someone, they say, "why didn't they want to make you a had woman? why dont men want to have kids with you? what's wrong with you?" it's craaazzzy
That's good. Especially! If one doesn't have children themselves. Like you, I'm in my 40's too. I don't have children either, I am planning to start a family in the future. That's why single women with no children or a woman with one child is a prime option for me. Women with multiple children and with different men is a big deal breaker.
What is weird is that the guy says he has no issues with what has happened with his girl before him in a relationship, but starts berating the ladies about their past. If they don't want you move on and keep it pushing.
It's just his way of lashing out because he couldn't handle the rejection. He tried to humiliate them because he felt humiliated. A very weak Psyche for a 40 year old man. They were all polite and courteous and he was still extremely angry. Don't go on a show like this if you can't handle rejection. I agree with you completely.
I agree. Baby daddy culture in the black community is out of control. Especially since having a child can be a near-death experience. Some of these males should not have their legacy continued.
Exactly @pmarcusb the females can choose to close their legs too or make sure there is a condom on or that she’s on some type of birth control.. it’s not all the men’s fault.
@@kevinkaminski5748Sad but true. These dudes are telling/showing women exactly who they are but women keep sleeping with them. The desperation isn't cute 🤮
I dated somebody exactly like that, it was exhausting. They were controlling and temperamental and emotionally volatile and they only listened to have something to attack me with.
Old lady here! When I was single...23 years ago..ugh..I still remember the times I got rejected for asking a guy out. I don't think I ever defended myself as i understood that I just wasn't that guys 'cup of tea' with their nah, no thanx responses 😂😂. It was embarrassing too but you brush it off and move on. And never, never take yourself too seriously unlike this wee fella. Take rejection with grace my man, grace.
@@ethan0262 ah. Then that reflects badly on them, than on you & I'm sorry you experience that crap. That kind of reaction stems from their insecurities. I was a teen in the 90s and we'd get people shouting out "aw shaaaaame" whenever you got rejected in public. Of course I did feel a little shame, but I also felt stronger/confident in a way. It's weird, but I learnt better through rejection/failure than I did in success. Good luck out there🤞🏼
@@ethan0262 the point is it doesn't matter. Ppl need to just accept they're not for everyone & move on. If a man or woman can't handle being told "no", that's their problem.
The problem with these ppl having multiple parents to different kids is they never get past the "honeymoon" phase before they start having kids. You don't know someone after 6 months so why have a baby with them. I know too many ppl who are in love, moved in, and pregnant after 3 months. Its sad.
I don’t think it’s that. I think the women for whatever reason don’t hold marriage as a standard. The last lady said she had 2 for one man but 3 kids 25,18,12. At the least one of those men was around more than 5 yrs. It’s definitely cultural for black ppl because parents don’t teach dating standards. The common narrative or guidelines on men knowing by the first year whether they’ll marry you is very modern like within the last 3-5 years thanks to social media. We didn’t hear this growing up. Most black girls/ females aside from the money driven are just learning how to date for quality. At least that’s my thought.
@@ammeg3404 I kind of agree, but i can guarantee you most of these women want to be married, but we cant act like a lot of men (and women) don't want to be married in this new day and age.
The crazy thing is he also had a kid with a woman hes not with. So he is a baby daddy but judging women for having baby daddies. Before also saying he wouldnt judge anyone by their past. He couldnt mask for long 😂
@@TheLoveBomberzand he soon will be that same boat! Next woman he gets with will add to the list. That will be 2 mothers to 2 different children. Point is that he is no better than these women. Some of us dont make this mistake at all but still show more compassion
He's slower than a turtle stuck in molasses on a desert road, and he's weird as heck. - He was also insanely angry. Notice his nervous hand, and aggressive stance when talking to them. ALL of these ladies missed a bullet with this guy.
I think there might have been something else, (maybe his height for example), and she was just looking for any other excuse. And then her brain came up with... Pants 🤦🏾♂️
I always find the people who define themselves by their neighborhood to be.... pretty shallow. Like they haven't formed a personality around their own perspective, but the shared experiences of others around them
Those are the types who will intentionally fit themselves into specific stereotypes because they think that's what's expected of them. They become messy to deal with because they have no real personality.
@@Netherwolf6100 I am probably the most communicative person of his emotions you ever met, I always mull them over and approach the person that made me feel that way to tell them how I felt they never take it well even with me not being mean about it
The fact that no one popped the balloons at the start like they usually do just shows that the women were actually interested in the guy until he opened his mouth. He didn't have to be that rude. Just move one.
they didnt react because he was rude. they all reacted because his inconsistent and a player. when anyone, especially guys says they have no standards and trying to play on being a saint. you know damn well hes a player and a coward. i bet half of these girls would rather have a deadbeat who beats them than a shrimp like him.
@@dcal1452 not if he has money or seem to have money. women prioritize the ability to provide aka your status & wealth. than hyiene and than looks aka hight lastly comes personality.
@@dcal1452 he's maybe 5'6 , he's good looking and is in shape. So it doesn't really matter , besides he's not that short where he looks out of proportion. i think the American average is 5'8 or 5'9 right
@@dendrien Well these women especially will have those priorities because they’re all older single parents. At this point, they’re dating to find someone to help them.
Round of applause for the women staying so calm 👏🏽 I’m so heated just from watching this… As for the BD/BM culture, it IS crazy… but we live in a society that tells women they are running out of time. That their value is based on if they are married and if they have kids. That marriage is a “milestone”. So they end up settling thinking kids and marriage will give them the happily ever after ending. As a 33 year old with no kids, the pressure of society is a constant battle and it’s also hypocritical. These ladies getting criticized for having 3 kids, with 3 different guys. Criticized for being open to love. And then I get criticized for not having any. There’s no win, Society just be attacking women
What "top tier" man says they are a "top tier" man? And what is a "top tier" man doing on a show like this? Don't they have better things going on in life and better ways of finding their life time partner? This was so weird to watch.
Any man who unironically calls himself “top tier” belongs in the trash! 😂 If you’re truly “top tier” then it’ll speak for itself. It’ll show in how you act and speak and treat others. “Top tier” isn’t spoken, it’s shown.
@@whyisitneeded9012 Insecure: “I’m too strong for you”? Secure: “I appreciate that my personality can be overbearing at times” Insecure: “I’m a top tier man with a billion options, why would I want someone with two baby daddies’? Secure: “I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve been blessed with and I choose to date women with one baby daddy”. Insecure: “Wait, how old are you? And you’re not going to choose me for my tight jeans”? Secure: “haha. That’s fair enough. They are tighter than usual” Insecure: “First baby is a pass. Second one is on you as you should get married on the second time and it make the same mistake” Secure: “I do prefer dating a woman with one baby daddy, yet I have no place to judge the situation as I don’t know what happened” Need any more examples?
@@poeravanigga what normal person talks like this are you normal bob from SpongeBob no sane human being especially on this show is gunna talk like that literally everyone is bitter about getting rejected it’s normal and I hazard a guess you’d be just as bitter, especially having to approach the person that rejected you
@@benjaminwatson7868 What normal person speaks like this? 90% of the men who come on the show speak like this. That is because they are secure within themselves. Unlike Bryan. From the ghetto.
@@poerava wait so a legitimate criticism- having multiple children from multiple partners in this case- makes someone 'insecure' but putting down someone on the basis of what they're wearing is 'secure'?? Niqqa what're u smoking. Also it's almost ironic how even if he had said the mumbo jumbo u wrote u still would've been triggered cuz news flash, ur the insecure one lmao
He gives the right answers, but his demeanor tells a different story and also notice how when the women are talking he rubs his fingers together like he's anxious to respond, which shows he's only listening to respond
@@benjaminwatson7868 That doesn't excuse his behavior tbh he's too old to be lashing out at women for rejecting him you could see every time he spoke more women rejected him you just gotta accept it and move on especially in his situation because he had 4 other women who were 6-8 out of 10 looks wise who still didn't pop their ballon
I mean unless he also has multiple baby mamas I figure that would be a default deal breaker 😕. And even then 2 people with multiple children by multiple people most likely won't be a healthy relationship
He did lie from the start.... no dealbreakers, but then this is the dealbreaker. And it's funny, because most if not all had multiple children out of wedlock.
As a black American woman who experienced childhood trauma in foster care, I've witnessed a disturbing trend: many foster girls, especially black girls, become teen moms due to predatory relationships with grown men. These men rarely face consequences. Our culture over-sexualizes and fails to protect black girls, perpetuating a cycle of exploitation. I've seen it firsthand - my sixth-grade teacher impregnated my best friend, yet he was portrayed as the victim in court. This 'baby daddy culture' stems from systemic issues, not personal failures. We must acknowledge the stolen childhoods and lack of protection that many black girls face. Judging them only perpetuates harm. We need to address these cultural problems and ensure black girls are safeguarded and empowered.
And when you do become a teen mom and the father ghosts or dies, it makes sense that you go off and try to find another man as soon as possible, to fill the role of father and partner. But the first guy you find isn’t always the right one, and whoops, you find yourself in the same situation. Now you have a reputation, and you’re desperate, and the next guy to come along knows it. Bam! Baby number 3. It’s not good, but it makes sense. Kind of a tangent, but I’m not sure we have the healthiest mentality about child bearing in the first place. Or relationships. I just don’t see primitive people having an issue with having a child or being in a relationship with someone who already has a child. It’s a culture thing. A society thing. Like, having children is part of life. It’s natural. The structure we’ve invented to pass down wealth and material items is the unnatural part. Just a thought…
There was a previous contestant who claimed to be a plumber. He got rejected, got mad at the women, then faked a sob story online for clout. It was revealed that he was a felon, rapist, and stalker. Luckily most of the women on the show (and viewers) saw thru him in 2 seconds @@trophyscene5015
I have 2 kids, 2 baby daddies. I was married to both. One 8 years, the other for 20 years. Having multiple fathers to your children doesn't mean you were never married.
It's one thing to be 50 years old with 2 failed marriages and a whole other thing if you are twice divorced in your early 30's I hope you can understand the difference.
I feel like this man is right. I think he should relate to his feelings because it means he is expressing himself freely without having to act out. These woman don't know what they want. The person they have kids with matters ALOT especially if it's repetitive behavior.
I have to make another comment about the baby daddy/baby momma issue. Here is my issue. He told them that having the first child you get a pass, but you don't for the second.... HOWEVER, this man has a daughter and wants more with someone else. He's basically putting another woman in the situation he himself says isn't right. Then to make it worse he said he had no deal breakers...HE DOES!! Women who have more than 1 baby daddy.
Yeah he definitely wasn't genuine w/ some of the early ish he said but I feel like the "2nd baby daddy" thing isn't meant for people who have a 2nd child by another man, just a 2nd child by another man they aren't married to. Shay ate though when she said some marriages don't work out. My grandparents divorced in their late years, my grandpa was in his 80s & my grandma was in her 70s. Bryan aint have a response for Shay's well thought out points.
@@vicegripp You're absolutely correct, however, none of the ladies said that they were never married... and he never asked. They didn't give details about their past relationships except that one passed away.
The baby daddies weren’t an issue per-say as to how many they had but rather their relationship skills due to how many they had but weren’t with which he used as a dig, it you can’t fault it being so when they were multiple of these women here
@@KassiaPotiesYou are right they never gave the details aside from the one that passed,but how many people that are divorced refer to their childs other parent as a "baby daddy/momma"? . I rarely see that
Be wary of people who say they have no “deal breakers!” Lol he’s basically saying, “I have no boundaries.” I lose respect for anyone who doesn’t have boundaries, men or women! Seriously.
He’s right, it is a cultural issue. It’s way too accepted (and sometimes even expected) for a young lady to have multiple kids with multiple men. After we had our son, relatives almost immediately began asking my husband and I when we were going to have the next! I was 19 when I had our son and 20 when we married. My husband and I waited five years before having our daughter. I was even told by relatives, “You’re married now, you can have as many kids as you want”. NO, we couldn’t have as many kids as we want. Kids are EXPENSIVE!!! We had as many as we could afford and that was TWO😂😂😂. We have also been married going on 29 years.
Definitely this!! For the last FIVE generations every woman in my family was married by at least 19 (some were earlier than that!) and had their first child by 20. When I hit 21 and still wasn’t married and had no children my mother flat out told me I needed to “hurry up and stop disappointing everyone” 😅 I did end up marrying soon after that and had my kiddo at 23. So I “fell behind” by a few years and still think it only happened that soon because of the family pressure to “hurry up”. And then- as expected- IMMEDIATELY after having my child I was smothered with the constant “when are you having another?!?” coming from every direction. Women probably wouldn’t have so many children/ baby daddies if we weren’t expected to basically stay in a state of semi permanent pregnancy all our adult lives 😂😂
Yeah. It’s a learned behavior. But considering women have only been able to have their own bank accounts and credit cards since ‘74, I’m hoping we grow past it in the next couple generations. I mean, assuming we keep educating people, and don’t let history repeat itself. Your kids won’t have marrying young and popping out infinite kids as an example, at least. 😊
Im glad you covered this, qhen it first got uploaded i was listening to him, and firstly, he reminds me of D.L Hughley. I noticed his way of speaking was proper to avoid being told he is raising his voice. He learned to keep his tone down from being told he isnt in the past, he learned to tone down his volume. Then i noticed he makes sure to say things like no disrespect and really making a point that he has an isolated opinion because his background, which he then uses to justify what HE knows, and disregards everything else. And lastly, he gets aggressive and attacks the same thing, baby mamas. What this indicates is he wants a black woman, but he has such a made up mind about them he assumes they got one or 2 and the bad part is hes right. But hes taking ha 1 single point, ignorint the girl in the pink dresses point that if she left for her own sake and hapoens to have a kid, that IS her learning, and to insist if she settled down with another guy means its her fault? It never was, she left like she should. Then ignoring that every relationship has its own red flags, and distinctions. People dont do things the same way but display similar behaviors. The lesson from the last guy wasnt what this one was. To generalize women but also making SURE to mention every thing about you that makes you you, like being ghetto, country, a nerd, articulate, likes to read etc, but you invalidate the entirety of their character on a past you said you dont believe in judging, because they didnt want you when YOUD Know if youre bullshitting them or not. He refined his demeanor by always choosing the same kinds of women then painting all women as these women. Hes single at 40 because he isnt a catch either. Yall BOTH there. At 40 you should be more emotionally mature in a genuine way. He is not. He has thick enough skin to not lose his head and get loud, because he knows what he DOES say will be mean, but it wont be seen as nearly as aggressive because all the indicators then women he deals with regularly are being monitored by him so he can stay the same person as long as he can tip toe properly. Its manipulative and he knows it. Its why his story doesnt work or make sense, and why he seems to really wanna drive the point home that hes an individual. Then insists someones a follower after they just said they waited to make their own decision. Isnt he a follower by his own logic? He went on the show that already existsed. Why, because other men did? Then youre a follower and if that doesnt make you a follower then she isnt one. This guy was CLEARLY an immature jerk to anyone who also was these things at one point or just pays a little attention. This guys sucks and i have 0 doubt
@Xcuvon lmao I hear you, my phones screen is very sensitive, so autocorrect is annoying, but because it's off the it's aren't corrected but to go back and correct with this screen risks more errors being made in an effort to be corrective lol.
It's weird to me when the dudes come out w/ like ... not smiling, not friendly, not inviting energy. Why are you there? Why be combative? It's opposite of the intended purpose of meeting & vibing w/ someone.
I like how he said he didn't judge people on their past. And then immediately asked people about their past.
And judging them 😅😅😅 he was heated about the ladies and the amount of children's fathers . I know ladies in his past are somewhere laughing about this video. I need a background check on him lol he needs the interrogating lol
Yup lol 😆
Having had children isn’t really in the past though? They are currently parents of children in the present
@@jasonbrody8724 except he asked how many baby daddys they have and sh*t like that
You gotta practice what you preach if you don't judge based on someone's past then do that
I'm trying to figure out why he's looking for a top tier woman when he's ghetto? A woman with 2-4 baby daddies is right at his level 💅🏿
This guy is interrogating the women like he's trying to solve a 20 year old cold case.
The way I fcking hollered 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Did you watch the show? They gave the man no viable options .. while having these people with 3 kids acting up😂
@Guillermo_Carratero
lol Right 🤣 Scaring the hoes.
yeah, the cold case being his single status lol
The way he talks...... is like..... he believes everything he says........ is profound....... and inspirational....... yeaaah....hes from the ghetto
he talks the same like that guy from the whatever podcast Justin Waller, same tone same inflections everything. From all the role models he could have chosen he chose the cringiest
I hate the way bro talks ngl 🤣🤣🤣
@@boangherrazvan3977 he’s not saying anything wrong people just got a problem with the way he’s saying it… and to a lot of people point does it need to be said in this moment?…
he knocking down 100 k a year and no baby mommas , hes the winner. those girls built like fat old men
you see.. the tiing is.... okay...im from the ghetto
He the type to ask a woman out, get rejected, then say “You ugly anyway” he is petty af
Pretty much. But don’t forget he’s a Top Tier , High Value Man 😂😂
@@mariopadilla1445 usually the unattractive men are 😂
I mean, it’s a petty show. They are disqualifying him based off his pants… 😂😂😂
@@christopherblake2588nah even if they didn’t his attitude I hope would have him disqualified unanimously
ABSOLUTE TRUTH!
Oh That’s just Bryan. He from the Ghetto.
Southside ghetto is where he stays at
Guys I'm pretty sure he's from the ghetto
The ghetto souf
That's all you need to know.
New Orleans
If you’re a “high value” man, you’d have your pick of the litter anywhere and wouldn’t need to be on a pop the balloon show.
High value man? Nahh, he’s a “Man of Top Tier.”
Some the guys on the show are actually pretty successful and chill people. Like james gourmet pies
You can come on the show for the experience, or the challenge, or for the publicity
That part he coming at them for having multiple BD but at the same time on the show and he has one kid also if he has 2 his stance will change I bet
😂😂😂😂
I was married 3 times 3 babies daddy lol. #1 passed away in Iraq. #2 decided me having cancer and chemo was too much for him to take and left the family he couldn’t handle “my chemo sickness”. #3 still married going on 16 years now! So not all stories the same
You’re right. The woman with three kids was ghosted by three men.
@@Godsbackhand7 nah I get it these days both species have a moral and cultural conflicts ! Everything is online and things instead of walks on the beach! Sorry I’m on a ranch and farm
@@Godsbackhand7no the first one died listen again
@@nicolevolcy3511 so she only got ghosted once
@@melaniemarino7219 You seem like a very strong person. Keep on going 💪
The woman in the light pink dress is well spoken, and I like that she stood firm in her response while staying cordial.
“How are you today?”: _I’m from the ghetto_
“What’s your favorite color?” _I’m from the ghetto_ 😃
"Do you have a dollar?"
*I'm from Houston, but I'm also from New Orleans*
@@Chuck_EL we accept dollars different. We put our hand out upside down because we don’t need it we just accept it. Or some weirdo shit to make up and look cool. Bahaha
😂😂
tbh he was using that line to look more attractive. I'm not even from the ghetto but ive told girls im from the ghetto so that they would find me interesting and cool. It's a status thing. It's like saying you were homeless or in jail. Women love that shit.
Who loves that 😳??@@loverofhumanity
Man said “I’m from the ghetto” like that his catchphrase.
It's my new catchphrase, that and Qween
He differently, had patience with his catchphrases in the mirror before. Coming in 😂
Unfortunately some people make being “ghetto” a personality and others think that’s an ideal partner. I’m from the ghetto and I’m way too soft for all the drama these vocal ghetto people be having, that’s why I moved out the ghetto and don’t mention that sh*t with my full chest.
That neck tattoo said it for him before he open e his mouth
Do people say ghetto anymore? I thought they refer to it as the hood.
For someone who doesn’t have deal breakers, he sure has a lot to complain about😂
Exactly 😂
Ikr! He comes across like a full-blown 🤡🤣
He got more unhinged and crazy as it went on
@@fluffybunnyz285 I see and wanna go find the full video to finish watching his unhinged behavior smh
Yup!!!!
At 21:59 what Preach was saying is Brian is one of the multiple baby daddies for his daughter's mother. He's part of the issue he's complaining about. Men out here creating single parent households and then mad at women for holding down those households
Men are creating them? It takes two people to have a bastard child.
As a kid, I listened and watched all the women and men around me. My maternal grandmother had 4 baby daddies and 2 husbands. Oh lord she had a struggle. My paternal grandmother got married had two kids by her husband and he cheated and then abandoned her and his legitimate and illigetimate kids. Anothet struggle . Due to this both grandparents estates are not settled. This is the generational trauma. I never wanted kids outside of a stable situation. Unfortunately I struggle with my mental health and I only found out I was autistic in my 40s. This dude is giving me neurodivergent vibes. He's obviously intelligent due to fixing aircraft but the social skills are off...and he sounds like he's been listening to Froggy and Fickle,😅😅😅. IYKYK.
I was married but my marriage ended due to my poor mental health and my ex being insecure and physically assaulting me. I never let a man impregnate me because I know they can and will up and leave or do some dumb shit that you have to protect your babies from. I'm glad i didn't have kids in my marriage because if my undiagnosed autism aggravated him so much, what would he have done if our children had inherited my autism? Children with conditions can break marriages and relationships. I understand why people have multiple baby daddies and baby momas but it's a strain on the parents and on the kids.
Even Nick Cannon now realises that he cant split him self into multiple households and multiple locations at once. It's tough and the kids see it even if there's enough money, there's never enough time with their non-resident parent and their half siblings.
Yeah because black women have done a great job holding down households the last 40 years.
He went full Tate and got all the balloons popped. Never go full Tate.
Don't imitate a personality that's not yours. Just be yourself. Go full tate if you're a tate.
Advice too late for Tate himself!
Please go full Tate if you are a Tate fan so we ain't askee why we didn't choose better.
@@ASalahSamakand how is being Tate working out for Tate?😂
Tate doesn't even go full Tate.
Stop defending yourself if someone says they don’t like you. You can’t redeem yourself or make them like you… what’s done is done move on to the next.
Literally just gonna make it worse. You can't force connections looe that
That works in a regular setting but put that in front of an audience and all bets are off. That's why these dumb videos and "gender war" garbage are so popular.
It's not about redemption, its about protecting a bruised ego.
this can go ether way, to the ladies as well, 3on3 baby daddies is is crazy
Eh they waited for him to speak like they couldn’t tell that some voice they didn’t like wouldn’t come out of him, I don’t know it felt like with this show some people come prepared to pop
Why does he speak with double space bars 😭😭😭😭
Cuz he's from the ghetto 😂😂😂😂😂
You can't just say that and leave! 😂😂😂
💀💀💀
Mf tryna reach the word count
LMFAO
I think that’s the cute part of him.
This guy seems like a red-pill trying to go stealth mode...
Yepppp
Not only is he wearing the Faux Benevolent, Ghetto Narcissist uniform, but the perseveration, the rigidity, the emotional flippancy…is giving undiagnosed…
...yeppers.
Fucking red pill Bois suck. 😣
😂😂😂😂
@@cmg25 lmfao not undiagnosed ☠️☠️☠️
Bruh kept saying "I'm from the ghetto" like it was his superhero catchphrase.
Probably because he is impressed where he made it in life and everyone tells him that too.
Superhero😂😂😂
@@MrBashem but like... it's like he wanted people here to share in that 😂😂 and ... they didn't..
"I like women but... 👀" 😂 shit had me fuckin rolling
But.....Boys being boys
20 bucks is 20 bucks
Like “WOAH! But WHAT?”
@@Owen-sx4jj it's not gay if it's for the homies 😤
@@hiroshi7025Don't tell the IRS 🤫
To be fair these pop the ballon’s shows kinda set it up for ppl to get offended. Cuz once someone pops the ballon you have to listen to all the reasons they don’t like you lol.
Also that "pop" gotta be a horrible sound to be rejected by lol
1) Contestants know how the show works, it's way past first episode. 2) Listening why people don't like you can be helpful. Sometimes it's just "not my taste" (like with jeans preference), but sometimes it's legit criticism of what you're doing wrong (being too aggressive and interrogating people who rejected him). If other contestants can see your flaws in 10 minutes - best believe your real life date will too.
But yeah, it isn't for everybody. You have to go there prepared to be stressed. May be useful information, but still stressful.
@@TacseraEpSekahs oh yea buddy was definitely tripping and must don’t know how to talk to women if he thought he was going to act like that and they find it attractive. He probably could have pulled most of them if he just didn’t come off as a asshole
@@TacseraEpSekahs calm down champ, its not that deep
@@natepace8600 Yeah. Sooo many people would have better chances in dating if they knew when to stop digging their own grave 😁
The girls looking at each other as they pop their balloons is hilarious
When Aba first said idk it's the vibe I'm getting. He detected the F boy energy.
Or aba likes to pander
Yeah and he seems.concerned with their past, but says he doesn't take into consideration the past.
What he means is, he can judge other people's pasts, but his is off the table.
@@whyisitneeded9012yall don't even know what that means anymore
He acts ghetto but i know this dude fruity ass hell
@@whyisitneeded9012 Nah, it's immediately apparent - he came in looking like a predator searching for his choice of meal. He cannot take rejection, and has terrible manners. Maybe his trousers were too tight or something, but that's on him.
He needs to work on his people-skills.
Bro went from I have no deal breakers to I will find the deal breaker in you. 😂
I don’t think that he expected most of the women to have multiple men with multiple kids. That is crazy work. Take that away and I’m pretty sure he would have been fine. By deal breakers, I think he meant just general past (criminal history, financial issues, promiscuity without kids, minor health issues, etc.).
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The fact that this pop the balloon lady has a whole husband then comes on this show watching single people roast each other....makes me giggle every time 😂
Isn’t her husband the camera man? They’re both hilarious 😂 her asking why and her facial expressions and his zoom ins kill me
The fact that adults partake in this blows my mind 😂
Her husband is the producer lol
@@Orgizo08 diabolical lmfaoooo talk about pandering hahaha I ainn mad at em though they getting their coin
I mean all love show host are married and happy ever noticed 😂😂
13:55 he said he didn’t judge. Then proceeded to judge. He’s very passive aggressive, hostile and unstable.
Yeah I was like TF? He literally opened with “I don’t judge, people make mistakes, past doesn’t define you blah blah” then he proceeded to ask EVERY SINGLE WOMAN -how many baby’s daddy’s do u have? Why so many? What’s wrong with you??
All that and then he admits that he IS a baby daddy. His energy is giving angry, argumentative and judgmental.
💯 As well as ignorant and unattractive.
Just what you like them until you figure out you can't change him 2 kids later then he ain't ish.
@@jusadude186 Who tf are you talking to dodo bird?
@@TextureTalk1 . Your ex, baby daddy, or both.😂
This is so embarrassing I don't know how people go on these things.
There's always going to be people who'll have no shame nor not care to go on one of these shows. That, and possibly show off to future partners online.
they can't be lookin for love, the mentality they come on with is nothing like how ppl approached dating shows in the 80s-2000s
It's usually to expand their brand typically
Instead they could’ve just talked to ppl outside with the cameras off instead of being humiliated in front of the entire internet
Clout chasing. They are hoping to get noticed. That's the sad state of affairs
"I'm from the ghetto but I'm a nerd"
Idk why but jesus christ that's hilarious
Because being from the ghetto and a nerd is not mutually exclusive lol
Like nerds don't live in the “ghetto” lol
Because so often people treat it as if it’s mutually exclusive.
@@rebel1612 this is so true
It’s supposed to be inspiring - he got out by keeping his nose in the books ✈️ 🛠️
I get judged for be currently 30 with no kids and the shaming started when I hit 23
Forget what society says. Keep doing you and continue stacking that paper
Guys seem to like that about me (no kids)- but I also include the “hopefully someday” line
I'm 33 and married and ain't got no kids. And it's gonna stay that way untill I'm ready or God says otherwise.
Because society looks down on women , especially 30+ age women . Something must be wrong with you
But won’t want to date a woman with kids 😂😂😂😂 . They don’t know what they want
Same. I’m like how are yall mad because I didn’t create a single mother? 😂
0:52 the vibe is ARROGANCE that comes from insecurity. He reeks of it and its SO easy to spot when meeting someone 😭
I think everyone who goes on these types of shows are goofy. As my grandmother says, File this under G for Garbage.”
Literally lol
Grandma lit 🤣
People who choose to go on these shows aren't even looking for love most of the time, they just there for the vibes or to boost their self-esteem even more.
I’m stealing that one ☝️
@@delhen21 100% no way this environment encourages people to even try to know each other
I keep telling people that multiple children with multiple people is a turn off for almost everyone. 1 is ok, but after that it's a slippery slope. This is regardless of gender... It is what it is...
100%. Especially once you start hitting 30+ in age people tend to have a kid, so it makes sense. Multiple tells me you make bad decisions in partners and birth control lol. Too much chance for drama with recurring characters from their past.
But when you claim that you don't care about someone's past and then try to use it to shame someone simply because they passed on you it comes off as petty. It also just reinforced why they passed you up. Let's not also act as if it's mostly used to try and beat women down
Clearly it was a slippery slope, that’s why 3 bd slip and fell 😂
You are right. This guy put his foot in his mouth though. Another thing I commonly see is people not understanding kids from a divorce are different than out of wedlock
It is a turn off, but when asked about deal breakers he explicitly said he didn't have any. The way he judged them said otherwise. It was a deal breaker for him. He should have been honest about that.
Bro is so hostile for no reason. 41 year old man arguing with women is crazy work.
Arguing with women who just didn't want to date him
Yup. Huge turn off when a man thinks it’s okay to go toe to toe with a woman. He’s a coward deep down.
Classless man
Look how he dressed 😆 🤣 😂 that tight Jean micro penis shit drake energy
He’s hostile for a reason. However it has nothing to do with these ladies. He came in there looking sexually frustrated.
13:46, the first woman was like "ok, enough is enough" and the other two went like "wait yeah she is right" pop pop pop, was funny and their facial expressions too
Facts! Most people reject someone because of SURFACE LEVEL dealbreakers (Job Title, Type of work, Height, Clothing, ETC), but what lies beneath are the real dealbreakers for example "How do you handle stressful situations", "How do you manage your emotions when things don’t work out", "How do you treat people when they do you wrong"…
The same people don’t want you to reject them because they’ve been to prison.
So let’s judge everyone then.
When women judge too it’s called feminism.
@@ethan0262 I never thought about if men in prison should have a wife or girlfriend. I heard men say women only want rich men but some say women only want killers.
This race obsessed country I’m sure they mean free women want rich men and slave women want a killer for protection.
There’s a rapper name: rich killer.
@@watashiwasta-w6uI don't think you know what feminism is but I was with you on that first part 😅
I wouldn't say job title and type of work are surface-level.
@@niknikky I think it can be. For the most part what you do doesn't dictate who you are. You can work at a food bank or with disabled kids and still be a horrible fucking person. Or you could be a good person but still just not mesh with what someone wants personality wise
Makes sense why my Man is single at 40 going onto 41. I normally defend Guys. But I agree with all the Women for popping their balloons. Anyone Male or Female who can't handle rejection is a dangerous individual.
They are dangerous individuals. I had a guy ask me out and I says no and he still kept asking because he wasn’t going to take no for answer and he’s been “wanting” me.
@@craziebarbietalks692 That's mental. You might need to get a restraining order against Him.
I had to cut off a former friend who couldn't take no for an answer to the point, that He tried to ruin a married Man's marriage.
My former friend really liked this Girl. But She rejected Him because He was too needed and sounded desperate. Then my former friend was now showing resentment and started doing false accusations.
Then this Girl who rejected my former friend, now went away on holiday. So did one of my other colleagues aswell who is a Guy. Then this my former friend now put 2 and 2 together and assumed that they went away on holiday together.
Then this my former friend now told me that He is going to tell this Guys Wife on Facebook that Her Husband is having an affair. That's when I told my former friend that I can't be friends with Him anymore. The truth eventually came out that both my colleagues went away on holiday at the sametime with their family.
So this evil former friend of mine would have just ruined a Man's marriage out of jealousy and envy over getting rejected.
I am near 70 never married,never lived with anyone. I still bed,tag,slay, hit /run 18 YO sweeties nothing over 125 pounds unless she a stunner
Just defend who is right. Gender shouldn’t have anything to do with it. I just had to say that because that mindset is what keeps this gender role going. I appreciate you for doing what’s right this time.
@FirstnameLastname-vi7hm thank you cuz these ppl wanna blame women or men we the same species
Rejection is a part in life that everybody has to deal with. It not just in dating but it's different aspects. Jobs, schools, even family can reject you. Just have to find ways to handle rejections. Good luck to everyone.
Right!! Goodluck to you too🫶🏾
Yeah yeah I fuck with that but I also don’t fuck with that… you gotta be transparent but you also gotta be translucent. You gotta be fit but you gotta be fat sometimes too
Now setup a situation where you confront the person that rejected you directly I don’t think any normal person can take that unless they made it into a living
Agreed
@@andrescubillo7824 🤣🤣
His left hand is EXTRA ZESTY 👀
I was looking for this comment cause I didn't wanna be first lol
@@melissajohnson3074 😂
That's all I saw here, and that index finger ring. Very questionable lol
Diddy😂😂
@@melissajohnson3074🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
When a person speaks about themselves in the 3rd person… they’re usually a psychopath
Yup red flags throughout
You just talking rubbish bro
Or a pro wrestler.
He definitely is trying to distance himself from the part of himself that he has a hard time dealing with.
Damn I might be a psychopath
I saw too many people talk about how he was telling the truth. But nobody talked about how he only had a problem with them because he got rejected.
Both things can be true! But to be honest, that kinda sound like that would've been some of his questioning had he not got rejected. Would have loved to see if he would use it against them, But we didn't get that chance.
But he's from NOLA contrary to popular belief that tone is normal for us! People who don't sound like him usually are the ones to worry about.
@@eug504ene I agree and nobody would’ve been talking if he rejected them that way. But the fact that they already popped their balloon, it showed he couldn’t handle the rejection and was fishing for a way to shut them down. Listen I have family from up north, literally the aggressive talking capitals of the world. But you can tell his voice got more aggressive the more he got rejected. Bruh was just mad passive aggressive and butt hurt.
The biggest problem is that HE'S saying it. A ghetto dude that can't hardly talk with kids shouldn't have anything to say about high value!
He just speaks the truth. How do you know he is hurt?
Tbf he didnt get to talk to them the ones who didn't pop at the time individually because they started him off with talking to the ones who did pop first. But he did say your past is your past but then changed his mind
He seems like the type to say “I’m from the ghetto” but it was probably for only the first 2 years of his life and lived on the outskirts 😂
Him saying it so many times was also triggering my BS alarms 😆
Lmao
Remember, he's also a country boy 😅 I'm shocked he didn't try to claim the suburbs at one point.
I don't say "I'm from the ghetto" for that reason. My early childhood to age 9 was in an old Kansas City neighborhood on the outskirts. It was a rough area but I never felt like I was in particular danger. From there on since, I've been rural.
No he very much seems to be from the ghetto. His saying that, plus his pants, aggressiveness, and not knowing what a TikTok social media manager does also seems like the he got locked up in the ghetto. He kept saying he was from the ghetto to downplay how rough it actually is where he's from. "Ghetto" and "Louisiana" in the same sentence told everything, very much codewords and iykyk.
He’s got a kid. Not with his kid’s mother. So by his logic, he’s a mistake. 🤷♀️
Dame lols 😂😂😂
No cause it’s just 1 lmao
@@elanorapowell6811 No, by his own words, his ex girl should have picked a better man. He contradicts himself the entire video.
@@Cthomp91 He says having one baby daddy is fine but having two baby daddy’s and not being with them places the mistake on the woman. He isn’t contradicting himself he’s actively making “rules” that make him in the right still even though he’s an ass
@@elanorapowell6811 and he also straight up said the women should have chosen better or they wouldn’t have more than one father. So by his own logic, since his ex left him, she didn’t choose well enough. He’s not a good choice by his own words. Contradictions.
everyone blames a mother for being a single mother but never ask why the men made her a single mother. also, if she hasn't had kids to someone, they say, "why didn't they want to make you a had woman? why dont men want to have kids with you? what's wrong with you?" it's craaazzzy
Whew, you said a whole word right here!!!👏🏾
Literally, the no.1 reason theres so many single mothers is because men abandon them.
@@fawnieeeExactly! They look down on Women who are doing what they can't do. Pathetic!
@@fawnieee80% of breakups are initiated by the woman...
I also never dated anyone with multiple baby mamas… that’s just a deal breaker for so many different reasons
sound pretty good to me
Just curious, but what are your preferences? Both in terms of a decent man and *_the ideal man._*
@@Farhan_049 my guy, its a bot.
That's good. Especially! If one doesn't have children themselves. Like you, I'm in my 40's too. I don't have children either, I am planning to start a family in the future. That's why single women with no children or a woman with one child is a prime option for me. Women with multiple children and with different men is a big deal breaker.
I didn’t date men with kids.
He’s saying he wants more kids when he already has one… does that not mean he’ll have 2 baby moms? 💀
Meaning he is at 1 now yep? You think there no difference between that and having 3 while looking for another? 1 mistake is far different than 3
Hus problem is already having more than one.. And Still Looking
No cuz he gonna marry the second one
@@victorheras5882still gonna be a baby mom….
True. By his rationale, he should not have anymore children. Otherwise, he is his own mistake.
Thanks! Keep up the good energy!
What is weird is that the guy says he has no issues with what has happened with his girl before him in a relationship, but starts berating the ladies about their past. If they don't want you move on and keep it pushing.
No deal breakers, don’t care about your past
Unless your past is multiple baby daddies 💀
Tbh this is not about their past. They still think its ok to have multiple baby daddies. They haven't overcome it yet in his world picture
@@dvurough Nah, he just wanted to shame them cause he was mad.
It's just his way of lashing out because he couldn't handle the rejection. He tried to humiliate them because he felt humiliated. A very weak Psyche for a 40 year old man. They were all polite and courteous and he was still extremely angry. Don't go on a show like this if you can't handle rejection. I agree with you completely.
@@islabee94he didn't have to try, these 304s wildin out 😂
I agree. Baby daddy culture in the black community is out of control. Especially since having a child can be a near-death experience. Some of these males should not have their legacy continued.
@@aateena hey, women choose to deal with them and have a baby. It's her choice to have the baby.
Exactly @pmarcusb the females can choose to close their legs too or make sure there is a condom on or that she’s on some type of birth control.. it’s not all the men’s fault.
3 babies by 3 baby daddies. How is that not 300% on her?
Bm/bd culture is an all American thing blk, wht, Hispanic others etc
@@kevinkaminski5748Sad but true. These dudes are telling/showing women exactly who they are but women keep sleeping with them. The desperation isn't cute 🤮
I dated somebody exactly like that, it was exhausting. They were controlling and temperamental and emotionally volatile and they only listened to have something to attack me with.
So why did you date him? No doubt he showed those traits before
@@Slynell1well it didn’t show at first nor was I experienced enough to recognize early signs that would escalate into more
0:16 preach looking like blade 😂
There's only one Preach and there's only ever gonna be one Preach 😎
@@sneakers_guy5488🌽⚽️
Lmao them glasses 😂
😂😂😂
No. Not even a little bit.
20:50 Woman in black has that "loud auntie" energy without saying a word😂
YES😂😂😂 AND NOT RICH AUNTIE EITHER😂
Thank you for pointing that out 😂❤
Thank you for commenting this bc Auntie, the woman speaking and Preach had such a smoooth transition 😂
I was thinking that!
Good eye!
That guys personally is the villan to his dating life. His energy gives me the vibe that he'll start a podcast to red pill himself 😊
She mentioned the skinny jeans because she didn't want to say what she really thought. Whatever it may be, she probably didn't want the hassle.
CORRECT 🤣
CORRECT 🤣
Yes he seems to be on the DL
Old lady here!
When I was single...23 years ago..ugh..I still remember the times I got rejected for asking a guy out. I don't think I ever defended myself as i understood that I just wasn't that guys 'cup of tea' with their nah, no thanx responses 😂😂.
It was embarrassing too but you brush it off and move on.
And never, never take yourself too seriously unlike this wee fella. Take rejection with grace my man, grace.
lol some women call you gay for rejecting them nowadays.
@@ethan0262that's not a woman you are asking out, you are asking out a girl. Have a reflection because you are going for the wrong women
@@cha9165 lol I think you’re reading my comment wrong. A random woman shoots her shot, we’re not approaching in this case.
@@ethan0262 ah. Then that reflects badly on them, than on you & I'm sorry you experience that crap. That kind of reaction stems from their insecurities. I was a teen in the 90s and we'd get people shouting out "aw shaaaaame" whenever you got rejected in public. Of course I did feel a little shame, but I also felt stronger/confident in a way. It's weird, but I learnt better through rejection/failure than I did in success.
Good luck out there🤞🏼
@@ethan0262 the point is it doesn't matter. Ppl need to just accept they're not for everyone & move on. If a man or woman can't handle being told "no", that's their problem.
"he's a victim of his own success" LOLLLLL
dude’s face was killing me😂🤣🤣
Four billion women on the planet and 8 just turned him down in five minutes.
That lip quiver.... what's wrong with my pants? 😂
XD
The uneven length
"I ain't fresh?"
He was about to cry 😂
@Gchildwarrior "u know he gonna cry when he get to the car." Lol 😆 🤣 😂
That girl from the N.O. already peeped him out and knew he was off.
She sure did cause something is off with him.
"how many babies daddies ...." i never thought this is a normal question to ask. ..... lmao
Maybe it should stop being a "normal occurence". Lmao
@@Ticketman99 yea…men need to stop knocking up any and every woman, women also need to stop letting men knock them up every damn time.
@@Wande861 Facts
Condoms and pills people!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Rude.
He's giving ninja turtle the plumber vibes 😂😂 Dude went there to argue😂
" I like women, BUT I dont mind a little diddy party" 😂😂😂
Bring the oil
Just ✨️boys being boys✨️
OILER ALERT
lmfao
I can tell from the pants bro
He got anger issues
because he's from the ghetto
but he's working on it
but he's from the streets
😂😂😂
The spacing tho lmao
He's also from the South.
Now say that with Walter Weekes voice
Damn lol 😂
This guy got so in his feelings. His ego was so fragile and started getting personal and combative
Bro clenches up his fist when he gets told. bad news.
The problem with these ppl having multiple parents to different kids is they never get past the "honeymoon" phase before they start having kids. You don't know someone after 6 months so why have a baby with them. I know too many ppl who are in love, moved in, and pregnant after 3 months. Its sad.
Right it takes years to get to know someone even when it comes to yourself
You're expecting couples to put off unprotected sex for six months. Good luck
Agreed. Stop being breeders.
I don’t think it’s that. I think the women for whatever reason don’t hold marriage as a standard. The last lady said she had 2 for one man but 3 kids 25,18,12. At the least one of those men was around more than 5 yrs. It’s definitely cultural for black ppl because parents don’t teach dating standards. The common narrative or guidelines on men knowing by the first year whether they’ll marry you is very modern like within the last 3-5 years thanks to social media. We didn’t hear this growing up. Most black girls/ females aside from the money driven are just learning how to date for quality. At least that’s my thought.
@@ammeg3404 I kind of agree, but i can guarantee you most of these women want to be married, but we cant act like a lot of men (and women) don't want to be married in this new day and age.
The crazy thing is he also had a kid with a woman hes not with. So he is a baby daddy but judging women for having baby daddies. Before also saying he wouldnt judge anyone by their past. He couldnt mask for long 😂
While the dude is trash why are mostly women commenting this point. There is a huge difference between 1 and 3.
Fastest Mask Drop I've seen in a minute. 😅
He's judging them for having MULTIPLE baby daddies
@@TheLoveBomberzand he soon will be that same boat! Next woman he gets with will add to the list. That will be 2 mothers to 2 different children. Point is that he is no better than these women. Some of us dont make this mistake at all but still show more compassion
@@eboniecleaver2 If he marries the next woman and stays with her he is definitely not on that same boat.
He's slower than a turtle stuck in molasses on a desert road, and he's weird as heck.
- He was also insanely angry. Notice his nervous hand, and aggressive stance when talking to them. ALL of these ladies missed a bullet with this guy.
"Hold me back from blessing his heart" 😂😂😂 pure gold
I'm cryin hahahaaha..."You're disqualifying a 41yr old man...because of his pants...hhhhh" dead
He has other issue but yeah she wack
I mean, everyone likes differ styles.. it’s weird he took it so personal. Keep it moving..
I think there might have been something else, (maybe his height for example), and she was just looking for any other excuse.
And then her brain came up with... Pants 🤦🏾♂️
@@welshbandit7208 EXACTLY
@@welshbandit7208 works for me.
This guys is a walking red flag!! He’s super aggressive for no reason and it’s scary.
Super scary!
HE FROM THE GHETTO 😂😂😂
NAW! He is a man; wrestler Steve Auston style.
YEAH! Cause he says so!
It's not for no reason. It's because he from the ghetto. 😂
He ain't scary at all.
10:29 he auditioning for a 90's R&B song... you doing too much playa, chill TF out with moistness 🤦🏾♂️😂🤣🤣😭
I always find the people who define themselves by their neighborhood to be.... pretty shallow. Like they haven't formed a personality around their own perspective, but the shared experiences of others around them
Those are the types who will intentionally fit themselves into specific stereotypes because they think that's what's expected of them. They become messy to deal with because they have no real personality.
What’re you an armchair psychologist
@@benjaminwatson7868 Only to someone who has trouble articulating basic thoughts and emotions.
@@Netherwolf6100 I am probably the most communicative person of his emotions you ever met, I always mull them over and approach the person that made me feel that way to tell them how I felt they never take it well even with me not being mean about it
@benjaminwatson7868 that's great, you don't need me. Send me my next patient.
"I'm from the ghetto." 🤣 Peace to the saints.
Shit had me rollin 😂
Look who we got here 🤣🔥
Do you know what an NFT is yet?
@@damnedifido1062you beat me to it 😂
ENOUGH TEA
The fact that no one popped the balloons at the start like they usually do just shows that the women were actually interested in the guy until he opened his mouth. He didn't have to be that rude. Just move one.
they didnt react because he was rude. they all reacted because his inconsistent and a player. when anyone, especially guys says they have no standards and trying to play on being a saint. you know damn well hes a player and a coward. i bet half of these girls would rather have a deadbeat who beats them than a shrimp like him.
What's interesting is that he was shorter than most of them in their heels. That's usually a dealbreaker for women right there.
@@dcal1452 not if he has money or seem to have money. women prioritize the ability to provide aka your status & wealth. than hyiene and than looks aka hight lastly comes personality.
@@dcal1452 he's maybe 5'6 , he's good looking and is in shape. So it doesn't really matter , besides he's not that short where he looks out of proportion. i think the American average is 5'8 or 5'9 right
@@dendrien Well these women especially will have those priorities because they’re all older single parents. At this point, they’re dating to find someone to help them.
Round of applause for the women staying so calm 👏🏽 I’m so heated just from watching this…
As for the BD/BM culture, it IS crazy… but we live in a society that tells women they are running out of time. That their value is based on if they are married and if they have kids. That marriage is a “milestone”. So they end up settling thinking kids and marriage will give them the happily ever after ending. As a 33 year old with no kids, the pressure of society is a constant battle and it’s also hypocritical. These ladies getting criticized for having 3 kids, with 3 different guys. Criticized for being open to love. And then I get criticized for not having any. There’s no win, Society just be attacking women
THIS!!!!!! 💯
That guy comes off as a controlling creeper with every conversation being weird.
Nah it’s because he’s from the ghetto
Omg this guy was outta control lol. Got rejected then tried to expose the ladies lol. Too funny
tried and succeeded
Seems like a bunch of people deserving each other
Where are his clown shoes?😄
👟🤡👟
@@The-One-and-only-Devilainon your feet
To be honest the ladies weren't any better themselves
What "top tier" man says they are a "top tier" man? And what is a "top tier" man doing on a show like this? Don't they have better things going on in life and better ways of finding their life time partner? This was so weird to watch.
When a lion walks into a room it doesn't have to explain to anyone what it is. Anyone classifying themselves is goofy af.
Any man who unironically calls himself “top tier” belongs in the trash! 😂 If you’re truly “top tier” then it’ll speak for itself. It’ll show in how you act and speak and treat others. “Top tier” isn’t spoken, it’s shown.
Ironically a top tier man has no time for anything but he is a wonderful judge of character
Yo I said the same thing lol. If you're "top tier" then you should know where to find other "top tier" people
That’s a tactic to CONVINCE themselves they are top tier, when in actuality, they are bottom feeders.
@1:20 This brother is giving me broke black mountain vibes!
💯‼️
My radar beeped too
😂😂😂
Dude oozing with insecurity.
Insecure where? 😂😂
@@whyisitneeded9012
Insecure: “I’m too strong for you”?
Secure: “I appreciate that my personality can be overbearing at times”
Insecure: “I’m a top tier man with a billion options, why would I want someone with two baby daddies’?
Secure: “I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve been blessed with and I choose to date women with one baby daddy”.
Insecure: “Wait, how old are you? And you’re not going to choose me for my tight jeans”?
Secure: “haha. That’s fair enough. They are tighter than usual”
Insecure: “First baby is a pass. Second one is on you as you should get married on the second time and it make the same mistake”
Secure: “I do prefer dating a woman with one baby daddy, yet I have no place to judge the situation as I don’t know what happened”
Need any more examples?
@@poeravanigga what normal person talks like this are you normal bob from SpongeBob no sane human being especially on this show is gunna talk like that literally everyone is bitter about getting rejected it’s normal and I hazard a guess you’d be just as bitter, especially having to approach the person that rejected you
@@benjaminwatson7868
What normal person speaks like this?
90% of the men who come on the show speak like this.
That is because they are secure within themselves.
Unlike Bryan.
From the ghetto.
@@poerava wait so a legitimate criticism- having multiple children from multiple partners in this case- makes someone 'insecure' but putting down someone on the basis of what they're wearing is 'secure'?? Niqqa what're u smoking. Also it's almost ironic how even if he had said the mumbo jumbo u wrote u still would've been triggered cuz news flash, ur the insecure one lmao
He gives the right answers, but his demeanor tells a different story and also notice how when the women are talking he rubs his fingers together like he's anxious to respond, which shows he's only listening to respond
Almost like he’s in a situation where he is conversing with the person that rejected him and like any other normal person is bitter
Cuz they had so much meaningful things to say lolol
@@benjaminwatson7868 👍🏿
@@benjaminwatson7868 That doesn't excuse his behavior tbh he's too old to be lashing out at women for rejecting him you could see every time he spoke more women rejected him you just gotta accept it and move on especially in his situation because he had 4 other women who were 6-8 out of 10 looks wise who still didn't pop their ballon
@@nnaturalbird6587just like most females do
Lol “I don’t have any standards.”
Also him *doesn’t like women with multiple baby daddys*
Good standard, tbh.
@@TheIceYvetal honestly, yes. It’s just dumb to say you have no deal breakers.
I mean unless he also has multiple baby mamas I figure that would be a default deal breaker 😕. And even then 2 people with multiple children by multiple people most likely won't be a healthy relationship
He did lie from the start.... no dealbreakers, but then this is the dealbreaker. And it's funny, because most if not all had multiple children out of wedlock.
@Iloveswedes the first lady should have kept her mouth shut talking bout sum "everyone has deal-breakers". That's what happens when you poke and prod.
“I understand things happen, but it should not be that common”
Preach Aba
He sounds like a walking contradiction 😭
As a black American woman who experienced childhood trauma in foster care, I've witnessed a disturbing trend: many foster girls, especially black girls, become teen moms due to predatory relationships with grown men. These men rarely face consequences. Our culture over-sexualizes and fails to protect black girls, perpetuating a cycle of exploitation. I've seen it firsthand - my sixth-grade teacher impregnated my best friend, yet he was portrayed as the victim in court. This 'baby daddy culture' stems from systemic issues, not personal failures. We must acknowledge the stolen childhoods and lack of protection that many black girls face. Judging them only perpetuates harm. We need to address these cultural problems and ensure black girls are safeguarded and empowered.
AMEN!
And when you do become a teen mom and the father ghosts or dies, it makes sense that you go off and try to find another man as soon as possible, to fill the role of father and partner. But the first guy you find isn’t always the right one, and whoops, you find yourself in the same situation. Now you have a reputation, and you’re desperate, and the next guy to come along knows it. Bam! Baby number 3. It’s not good, but it makes sense.
Kind of a tangent, but I’m not sure we have the healthiest mentality about child bearing in the first place. Or relationships. I just don’t see primitive people having an issue with having a child or being in a relationship with someone who already has a child. It’s a culture thing. A society thing. Like, having children is part of life. It’s natural. The structure we’ve invented to pass down wealth and material items is the unnatural part. Just a thought…
Telling people their children are mistakes is absolutely mind blowing.
Bro is 41, and has no red flags. He is a FOOL.
One time a guy told my sister he fixes planes….he actually washes them 😂
U beautiful ❤️
Thats still a job,any job is honourable,get a grip woman
@@Littlevillager2004he should make sure he has a good grip on those slippery plates then😆
@@Littlevillager2004yes it's honorable but clearly he doesn't think so if he lied about it
@@Littlevillager2004missing the point, theres a difference between telling someone they are an aircraft mechanic when in actuality they are a janitor
Homie was hurt and started lashing out 😂
Never stop making these videos. Been following a long time. Proud of you 2
20:20 bros figeting like he’s about to knock one of them out for saying something wrong wtf
Maybe he’s just nervous. I fidget like that when I get anxious. He maybe feels under attack.
He was giving the plumber from the beginning.
Giving the plumber what? Which one of them said they were a plumber?
There was a previous contestant who claimed to be a plumber. He got rejected, got mad at the women, then faked a sob story online for clout. It was revealed that he was a felon, rapist, and stalker. Luckily most of the women on the show (and viewers) saw thru him in 2 seconds
@@trophyscene5015
@@trophyscene5015the plumber is from another video of pop of the balloo. where there’s a guy who a plumber who acted like the dude in the video
@@trophyscene5015 There was another episode of Pop the Balloon with a plumber who couldn't handle rejection and was very aggressive.
@@trophyscene5015ninja turtle man
7:21 “YO HOLD ME BACK FROM BLESSING HIS HEART” took me cleeeeeean out 😂😂😂
LOUISIANIMAL????? 😭😭😭😭😭
Pop pop! 🎈
He’s an animal from Louisiana
But he’s also from the Ghetto
That guy never gets picked. That’s why he’s so mad.
I have 2 kids, 2 baby daddies. I was married to both. One 8 years, the other for 20 years. Having multiple fathers to your children doesn't mean you were never married.
It's one thing to be 50 years old with 2 failed marriages and a whole other thing if you are twice divorced in your early 30's
I hope you can understand the difference.
@averymillsape5048 That’s still an L
You don’t have 2 baby daddies. You have 2 ex-husbands.
@@swolebodygaming5225 they are still babie daddies tho??
@@swolebodygaming5225 rightly translated Sir👍🏻
Casually having kids is too normalized. You are right
But he said it doesn’t matter
I feel like this man is right. I think he should relate to his feelings because it means he is expressing himself freely without having to act out. These woman don't know what they want. The person they have kids with matters ALOT especially if it's repetitive behavior.
I have to make another comment about the baby daddy/baby momma issue. Here is my issue. He told them that having the first child you get a pass, but you don't for the second.... HOWEVER, this man has a daughter and wants more with someone else. He's basically putting another woman in the situation he himself says isn't right. Then to make it worse he said he had no deal breakers...HE DOES!! Women who have more than 1 baby daddy.
Yeah he definitely wasn't genuine w/ some of the early ish he said but I feel like the "2nd baby daddy" thing isn't meant for people who have a 2nd child by another man, just a 2nd child by another man they aren't married to. Shay ate though when she said some marriages don't work out. My grandparents divorced in their late years, my grandpa was in his 80s & my grandma was in her 70s. Bryan aint have a response for Shay's well thought out points.
@@vicegripp You're absolutely correct, however, none of the ladies said that they were never married... and he never asked. They didn't give details about their past relationships except that one passed away.
The baby daddies weren’t an issue per-say as to how many they had but rather their relationship skills due to how many they had but weren’t with which he used as a dig, it you can’t fault it being so when they were multiple of these women here
@@KassiaPotiesYou are right they never gave the details aside from the one that passed,but how many people that are divorced refer to their childs other parent as a "baby daddy/momma"? . I rarely see that
Be wary of people who say they have no “deal breakers!” Lol he’s basically saying, “I have no boundaries.”
I lose respect for anyone who doesn’t have boundaries, men or women! Seriously.
3:22 "I'm from the ghetto" is so cringe! I'm about to quit watching this if keeps saying that
He’s right, it is a cultural issue. It’s way too accepted (and sometimes even expected) for a young lady to have multiple kids with multiple men. After we had our son, relatives almost immediately began asking my husband and I when we were going to have the next! I was 19 when I had our son and 20 when we married. My husband and I waited five years before having our daughter. I was even told by relatives, “You’re married now, you can have as many kids as you want”. NO, we couldn’t have as many kids as we want. Kids are EXPENSIVE!!! We had as many as we could afford and that was TWO😂😂😂. We have also been married going on 29 years.
Definitely this!! For the last FIVE generations every woman in my family was married by at least 19 (some were earlier than that!) and had their first child by 20. When I hit 21 and still wasn’t married and had no children my mother flat out told me I needed to “hurry up and stop disappointing everyone” 😅 I did end up marrying soon after that and had my kiddo at 23. So I “fell behind” by a few years and still think it only happened that soon because of the family pressure to “hurry up”. And then- as expected- IMMEDIATELY after having my child I was smothered with the constant “when are you having another?!?” coming from every direction. Women probably wouldn’t have so many children/ baby daddies if we weren’t expected to basically stay in a state of semi permanent pregnancy all our adult lives 😂😂
Yeah. It’s a learned behavior. But considering women have only been able to have their own bank accounts and credit cards since ‘74, I’m hoping we grow past it in the next couple generations. I mean, assuming we keep educating people, and don’t let history repeat itself. Your kids won’t have marrying young and popping out infinite kids as an example, at least. 😊
Im glad you covered this, qhen it first got uploaded i was listening to him, and firstly, he reminds me of D.L Hughley. I noticed his way of speaking was proper to avoid being told he is raising his voice. He learned to keep his tone down from being told he isnt in the past, he learned to tone down his volume.
Then i noticed he makes sure to say things like no disrespect and really making a point that he has an isolated opinion because his background, which he then uses to justify what HE knows, and disregards everything else.
And lastly, he gets aggressive and attacks the same thing, baby mamas. What this indicates is he wants a black woman, but he has such a made up mind about them he assumes they got one or 2 and the bad part is hes right. But hes taking ha 1 single point, ignorint the girl in the pink dresses point that if she left for her own sake and hapoens to have a kid, that IS her learning, and to insist if she settled down with another guy means its her fault? It never was, she left like she should. Then ignoring that every relationship has its own red flags, and distinctions. People dont do things the same way but display similar behaviors. The lesson from the last guy wasnt what this one was. To generalize women but also making SURE to mention every thing about you that makes you you, like being ghetto, country, a nerd, articulate, likes to read etc, but you invalidate the entirety of their character on a past you said you dont believe in judging, because they didnt want you when YOUD Know if youre bullshitting them or not. He refined his demeanor by always choosing the same kinds of women then painting all women as these women. Hes single at 40 because he isnt a catch either. Yall BOTH there. At 40 you should be more emotionally mature in a genuine way. He is not. He has thick enough skin to not lose his head and get loud, because he knows what he DOES say will be mean, but it wont be seen as nearly as aggressive because all the indicators then women he deals with regularly are being monitored by him so he can stay the same person as long as he can tip toe properly. Its manipulative and he knows it. Its why his story doesnt work or make sense, and why he seems to really wanna drive the point home that hes an individual. Then insists someones a follower after they just said they waited to make their own decision. Isnt he a follower by his own logic? He went on the show that already existsed. Why, because other men did? Then youre a follower and if that doesnt make you a follower then she isnt one. This guy was CLEARLY an immature jerk to anyone who also was these things at one point or just pays a little attention. This guys sucks and i have 0 doubt
Capitalize those I(s)!!!!!!
@Xcuvon lmao I hear you, my phones screen is very sensitive, so autocorrect is annoying, but because it's off the it's aren't corrected but to go back and correct with this screen risks more errors being made in an effort to be corrective lol.
It's weird to me when the dudes come out w/ like ... not smiling, not friendly, not inviting energy. Why are you there? Why be combative? It's opposite of the intended purpose of meeting & vibing w/ someone.
I think they specifically just choose those types for good views. They want the insecure dudes with a short fuse and no self-awareness.
they go to find women yet they hate them, dangerous individuals