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Like they really didn’t ask her any question or each other any important questions like what do you like about ur job ….etc. that is definitely me I am very introverted in some cases that maybe seen as a bad thing to other ppl .
These types of girls pushed me out of 3 different jobs. I've always been very shy and kinda mid when it comes to beauty standards. Most bakeries I go to (I'm a cake designer and professional baker) employ super pretty girls to work up front and do basic back-of-house work. I never fit in and they kinda shut me out. It was devastating every time because I LOVE bakery work. It's one of many reasons I've now completely switched career paths.
She was just too much of an adult to be a part of this foolishness. I was a property manager at 23 and I definitely wouldn't be around these girls. They're too childish
Exactly/ 👍. Why even subject yourself to this buffoonery? She seems the best but unless someone convinced her to go there sue asked for this and wanted this damn near the same way as the other girls. I would never go there nor take their disrespect.
too much of an adult to be apart of it, but she was still apart of it? still saw what jubilee advertised the video as, still signed up for it and still showed up on the day jubilee decided to shoot this video. 🤣🤣
You know why she was "boring"? Because she's satisfied with herself and not making an effort to be like them. Same thing happened to me in HS. If you don't sell out to fit in, you don't fit in at all.
Yes, she is basically the only kind and humble girl who is not a narcissist. My Gosh, when that Vera girl says that she deserves the top position because sHe'S bLoNDe And TAll...Girl calm down you're not Kate Upton lol. And when the black girl gets triggered because the boys said she was the least attractive one...What a bunch of narcissistic women...
I know you put quotes on unattractive, but I think she is attractive. I mean she’s a pretty girl, she just doesn’t have the same energy or put the same effort on aesthetics like the others.
@@chaosundiscovered but I don’t think she needs to change anything at all… I don’t know if she has low self-esteem, if so she needs more confidence, but if she doesn’t then I don’t see any problem at all
Then, they started making excuses when they found out how the guys really felt about them. The "ugly" chick ranked reasonably well. I know that the guys aren't attracted to black women. Yet, I didn't find this black girl attractive either. I thought the plain Jane chick was better looking than her. Also, the other chicks were surprised that she ranked higher than a couple of them, as well, even by one of the guys that wasn't her boyfriend.
They didn’t do anything she already felt insecure and out of place right from the beginning. They are not responsible for her feelings, she’s literally older than them, she doesn’t need internet heirs to come to her defense.
This is why I say being a ugly girl is probably the worst experience. At least if ur an ugly man, your not expected to be attractive and your other qualities are still acknowledged.
Exclusion is one of the cruelest forms of bullying. So much is said without saying a word. And that’s it, they’re choosing not to respond to her trying get into the conversation because she’s not making the “vibe” cut.
Yeah it messes with people for sure. I was excluded both at home and in school and it took me YEARS to heal into a normal person in my adult life. I still don't have any friends but I'm not awkward anymore, I can talk to people, I don't worry about what people are thinking about me any longer. But I'm nearly 30 now so 😅 just happy that I found a man who loved me through all that.
@@soulshartspeople who exclude themselves do so for normally two reasons, PTSD from PAST exclusion so they do so to beat ppl to the punch, or they have a social disorder. Those are normally the two reasons ppl do this.
Wow. Her boyfriend dropped the ball massively. I can’t imagine being dismissed and isolated, only for it to be validated even more by my so called “boyfriend.” She deserves better.
The fact her own boyfriend dogged her infuriated me and I was embarrassed for him. I couldn't imagine watching someone I loved get insulted like that, and I'd eat a bullet before I piled on to it.
@@flynnoflenniken7402 who says he doesn't appreciate her? She's an average girl who doesn't pretend and that's what he likes and appreciates about her. Should she leave him for someone who will lie to her and pretend? Y'all silly, no joke.
Cute without a painted face, Financially stable, respectable career path, emotional awareness and control, humble and not a damn college student. Hold your head high Jen, you're a gem in this day and age.
Dont forget the most important point - Her voice and mouth makes her sound and look like Wallace from "Wallace and Gromit". Thats a perfectly straight line of a mouth when smiling and talking.
the craziest part to me is the black girl afterwards saying "i just think the women voted with more open hearts" after being vile to this girl. She literally saw a situation, said to herself "well girls = good and men = bad" then worked back from there
But most women at least from my school or peers act that way. Like that seems to be the norm, not annoying. And as an introverted woman, I can be talkative and loud towards people that I'm comfortable with,just not everyone. But people expect me to be that talkative all the time with people I don't even know. Like it seems that overdoing and faking is favoured.
Seriously right! Come to IVY, most girls are close to the girl who was left out I’d say, she’d be the only girl who I’ll be able to converse cordially with
Saaaame - reminded me of social stratification in school… based on superficiality. But as we get older, it’s based off more complex factors. Why just yesterday I was at a family reunion and I connected with a relative who was the state BAR president in 2013, an older woman, of course far from conventionally attractive. Yet I as a 30 year old lawyer connected with her on many levels and held her in high esteem. Beautiful Wisdom is found in “average” looking places. I’d be FRIENDS with Jennifer. If I were gay or a straight guy I would DATE Jennifer. I don’t trust any of the others. 😂
it broke my heart when she said that the other girls have things going on for them. gurl u are a 26 year old woman with what seems to be a great career. if anything YOU are the one winning. compared to these little girls who are students
Right. She stood out the most and has her act together the most. She just needs a confidence boost. She also seems very grounded and nature compared to the others.
Exactly! Being independent and paying your own bills is extremely attractive male or female. The others HOPE they can achieve their goals, she's already on her journey.
Exactly. That hurt me too. She's doing great and will probably make good money, she has her boyfriend. Good for her. And i find her cute and I like her personality.
This is called relational aggression. This is how mean girls exclude and bully a scapegoat, so they can bond at someone else's expense. It is ultimately catty, competitive, and insecure behavior. Isolating a victim is what abusers do. But an entire social clique isolating you? *deep breath. It's diabolical.
You can tell she’s actually intelligent as well and how hard she was struggling to relate or laugh at their terrible jokes lol she was acting exactly how I would’ve in that room, inflated egos have literally nothing of value to say lol
They put her at the bottom because of their own collective standards and you can tell when they boost eachother for dumb things like tattoos and education
I love how she was pointing out positive qualities in the other girls, and they couldn’t even mention one nice thing about her or even acknowledge her at times it seems. Not sure if it was just the editing, but damn that hurt. I respect how much grace she displayed in this situation.
The other women were raised poorly. I was raised to acknowledge and be welcoming and friendly to everyone in a group setting. Those women were sheltered and never challenged to be better.
facts... those other girls are physically pretty but I couldn't see past the disrespect and you just feel they are insufferable if you're in the same room with them for more than 30 minutes.
This is an example of how “girls supporting girls” really is. It’s all fun and games til one of those girls doesn’t have the same interests or doesn’t know how to talk the same (introvert or heavy social anxiety)
Also,being excluded so clearly like this will also put out most extroverts' lights, so to speak. We loose confidence REAL quick cuz we know we ain't in the in group
@@BBDulcet-if1si you don't need to be part of the group. half the time groups like that are empty and vapid. so people of substance don't need that trash. keep being you and forget THAT exists 🙂
This was me at school. I was brutally dumped from a friendship group because I didn't want to act and dress a certain way or pretend to be interested in stuff that I wasn't. I was never loud or hyper so I was always pushed to the side but I was always genuine, dependable and understanding. Speaking as an introverted person: just because we don't show you what's on the inside, doesn't mean there's nothing there.
These girls don't represent all of us. I would have put myself in last place, because I would never want anyone else to feel less than, and I know I'm not that wrapped up in others opinions so I could take it.
The girl who is "average" she is honestly the most beautiful one out of all of them because she's simple and isn't delusional. With a little help with her self esteem she'll be so much better with herself even more. But she's better than the rest shoulders above everyone!👏💪 The loudest are the stupidest ones. This is a great examples!
Yeah but does she not have self awareness. Average isn’t bad she doesnt have to adhere to normative beauty standards but as my mother says when you dress up and take care of yourself a certain it should always be for you because you have self respect and love yourself
@@Katfall2012yh and it's just something I noticed that ppl for some reason put negative conatations on neutral words. Contempt, settle, average and in this case it's simple
Average is not a bad word. I'm average. You're average. It takes effort to be physically beautiful (other than winning the genetic lottery). And if you say otherwise, you're bullshitting.
As a guy, I would date her in a heartbeat. No fakeness, no charades. All real. Decent human being all around. Definitely a gem in today’s world. No doubt.
There is something to be said about all the manufacturedness women feel the need to surround theme selves with to feel good themselves . She was basic and plain but also real. What you see is what you get . No cake face or eyelashes on your pillow. No 3 hours to get ready. And no wondering why she feels it’s ok to walk around in her real face at home but needed ti get dolled up for strangers and everyone else but you.
i'm an introverted girl that doesn't wear makeup and never got along with 95% of girls, for this exact type of shit. this girl wasn't unattractive, she just needs a little confidence boost and she'd be amazing! when people put you down your whole life, it's hard to find that confidence in yourself. people are just generally assholes. i feel for this girl though
The fact that they didn’t even take the time to ask her questions or get to know her… she didn’t even have a chance to show her personality. But ironically I think it showed how down to earth, mature, and cool she is. Out of all of them I think I’d want to be her friend. It did feel just like high school.
I agree. I feel like a lot of women feel like she does about herself and she's the only one that I could see myself hanging out with as friends. She's mature and has a career and seems normal.
@@shalinimahalingam9064its kinda funny like thé 23 yo girl didnt sée herself as too old for thé 19 and 21 years olds yet she considéred thé 26 yo to bé old
Another woman viewer here. 🙋🏼♀️ And I can, sadly, confirm that this clique-y behavior is not an anomaly just seen on the internet. This really does happen IRL amongst some groups of women. So when Aba was like, “Women are mean, brutal, etc”, I do support that. They definitely can be. I have been the “#5 girl” on many occasions and also the “mid tier” friend who is invited out to the bar. I just want to wrap this comment up by saying, If you’re a person who has experience something like this, you do matter. You do have value. Don’t ever let another person degrade you based on subjective opinions. If someone tries to socially isolate you and play the “fake nice” card, leave them in the dust where they belong. They obviously don’t have the ability to appreciate a person for more than surface level beauty and have no idea what genuine kindness looks like.
Genuine kindness lol? Who tf gets turned-on by a random stranger's genuine kindness when the first thing they literally see when meeting a person for the first time is how they look lol? That is just sus as hell. These people, at the end of the day, don't even know who tf you are lol! Their eyes don't be staring at your basic-looking a** first when they pass by you. 😂 People ALWAYS gravitate towards beauty FIRST, and whatever bs last. But go ahead. Put an old granny, or any fat whale in that situation and see what sane man will be showing interest first. Unless he wants to be forever mocked, and ridculed as a laughing stock on the internet like that nasty couple on TikTok. Get real. 🙄 P.S. Me personally, I find even genuine kindness to be a turn-off. They try to be this sugary-sweet person that rubs people off in a toxic positivity way that comes off as a people-pleaser. I'd take open honesty, and transparency over your so-called, "beautiful" 'white lies' about genuine kindness any day.
Yeah, he was pretty embarrassing. I’ll give him a bit of the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s just a bit awkward, but that doesn’t make up for how dumb he acted.
Poor girl has her self confidence to the bottom so she thinks she has to be with this sorry excuse of a boyfriend. I hope she understands there are better men out there and leaves him.
This is why even as an extrovert I am ok with having no more friends. I still have acquaintances but that’s fine. I have learned to never beg for love and affection and loyalty. I give that to myself.
At one point this same situation made me think I needed therapy or something, because I kept asking myself, why the hell am I the problem....what am I doing that's so wrong? And then when I sat down and had conversations with some of my siblings and childhood friends, I realized that you will meet people like these in bulk because fucked up attracts fucked up. Never be afraid to call them out on their bullshit, avoid them, and if they still insist on trying to be around you just to bring you down, be aggressive as fuck towards them, and less empathetic. The right people will not exhibit signs of being fucked up and will always put you at ease whenever you interact with them
As a black woman, I’ve had caucasian girls over compliment me like that and I felt some weird vibe from it all. I feel like they pushed her to most out of not seeming ‘racist-ish’ coz I don’t think she was the most attractive
This!! She wasn't the most attractive because she was black, she just wasn't the most attractive in that group and that's ok too. It was so performative, it was sickening.
THIS. It’s annoying because people will pretend there isnt racial or other bias in pretty much everything but simultaneously over compliment black or just non-white people. Like, just be normal. Jfc.
Those are the type of white girls that wear Black Live Matter shirts when they’re around a diverse group of people, but wouldn’t wear it when it’s just a group of white girls going out to a predominantly white venue/establishment. It’s all fake. Black people see right through it way too well.
The worst part is her boyfriend. I have always said that I have no problem with being average as long as my husband thinks I'm a 10. She deserves better than him.
Those women were vicious to her. I really believe that if you put her in a different outfit, she'd outshine a few of them since she's actually pretty and her personality is leaps beyond theirs so that combined would put her above them in my opinion. This is what I'd do if I was her. She needs to dress for her body type. She has a big bust but narrower hips. She needs to wear something that flares a bit on the bottom. She could wear a sundress or a skirt or even some pants that have bulky pockets something to disguise that her bottom is narrower than the top. She needs a v cut shirt because it accentuates a good asset that she has and that is she has big boobs. Her hair is ok in my opinion because it gives her a sort of cute nerdy vibe.
I have been this girl/woman SO many times in my life and I'm only 23. Women are experts at social isolation and fake niceness, and they learn it at a very young age. The fake compliments and "encouragement" (ie: "omg! I LOVE your skirt! You should definitely wear it more often" when the skirt actually looks terrible). I had so many fake friends growing up that acted like the women in this video and other people around me would just tell me that my friends are "SO nice!" The worst part is, a lot of women don't grow out of this behavior. I've seen 40 to 50 year old women act like this.
My mother in law and sister in law (also my father in law off) are pieces of work. I know why my husband ran away from his family to another state for college and his masters! I compliment truly unique items such as earrings or pendants, tattoos, and choices bc I can tell the other lady put a lot of thought into it, that it was something special. And often she will tell me a story of “oh it was given to me by someone special” or “I made this myself” and I get to learn something significant about them I wouldn’t have otherwise known. :3
Your comment reminded me of that scene in Mean Girls where Regina George complimented that girl on her skirt then called it ugly when she walked away lol
She’s modest and quiet but comfortable . She doesn’t really try to put herself at the center of a room and that’s okay. But I can tell she notices a huge difference between her and everybody else. I definitely relate to her.
Some honest compliments they could've given her: I like your hairstyle. You have pretty teeth. You're financially secure and you're the only one having a real job. You're shy and that's cute. You're nice and don't rely on being in the center of attention or putting others down. You have the courage to go to the gym.
No that’s too intricate. Those ladies were shallow. You should never expect compliments like that from shallow people. Your better off validating yourself and complimenting yourself than expecting that from shallow people.
It made me kind of mad, no one can compliment her??... Wtf, she was the only one that seemed stable, smart, responsible and most importantly LOYAL. She has really beautiful eyes too, screw those people.
She doesn't wear make up, her hair is not done, she wears a basic outfit, and I think she's pretty. She is just very natural. The other girls are not prettier than her, they are very average, they are just wearing a lot of make up, hair done and more sophisticated outfits lol
I love how these girls singled out the 'unattractive' girl and just barely complimented her like it was suicide by association 🙄. This generation loves to talk about inclusion and how everyone is beautiful in their own way but then throw shade and purposefully ignore people who don't fit their toxic beauty standards.
Exactly Women are always judged by their own gender and men for their looks. Sometimes I wish girls could act with each other the way guys do with themselves. Some dudes could meet the ugliest guys alive and if the guy was chill they would be friends instantly 😭 It's so funny how you see all these women online saying that they hate how looks are important but irl they ignore PPL (especially women) with below average looks. We girls should rlly do better lol
So true. And that generation hates originality. I was born in 1995 so I'm considered on the cusp of millennial and gen z and tbh I don't fit with either. I'm an old soul and I love originality. I love unique and different. And that's why I love the 26 year old. The others all look the same and are dressed the same. With the same little baby voice and the same personality. That's boring to me. They say everyone is beautiful but if they don't fit societal standards, they want them to change to fit in with their beauty standards and agenda. It's so stupid.
She's so sweet! Oh my goodness she did not deserve this, how can people be so cruel? And the BOYFRIEND?! Dissing her like that, good grief, makes my heart break. She's mature, responsible, has a job. God bless her.
This was a tough watch. The brutal reality of young ladies who are self obsessed. Jen tried hard to be involved but was blatantly ignored by the other four girls. Then when it came to the end and her boyfriend came on, I could not believe how he further kept her down when she said she was average. Someone needs to have a word, he doesn't know what he has sitting beside him. A beautiful young lady who has her life together and needs a little tlc. I wish you well Jen, sending you a hug from one sister to another 🤗
I don’t get it, she was the most instinctively attractive and feminine one there, the rest where fake, vapid, cliquey and up their own butts. She was the only one giving off “keeper” vibes, while the rest where all firmly in the “useless club girl pass around” vibe.
Hearing these women talk transported me straight back to highschool and how unbearable some of these girl friendgroups were. So full of themselves with no self awareness.
I remember being teased a lot for being ugly but a group of mean girls. Yet out of school. Both of my sisters at the time would bring around friends to our house and a lot of those girls who were my sisters friends ended up telling me or my sister's that they think I'm attractive. 3 even asked me if I wanted to date them. I also remember at 18 being told by a woman in her 40s that if she was 20 years younger; she would have me and I recall at 18.. being cold approached by a random woman on the street who told me she thinks I'm fit (British slang for hot) and asked for my Facebook. So you can see how confused I became Proved to me that beauty is subjective
@@metalheadjake3339 It's not *that* subjective, the mean girls probably had their own motives for putting you down, and they detected that calling you ugly was what stuck.
@@metalheadjake3339 ay, I was terribly invisible in high school. when I moved away from my hometown I had trouble handling all the attention I suddenly got from women. did some crazy stupid shit between the ages of 21 and well.. just about 3 years ago or so 😂😂i'm 31 now.
Shes attractive she’s just not a tryhard like the others, I’m surprised people haven’t realized how easily women can shapeshift and make themselves seem prettier than they are on the inside. They didn’t like her because they judge themselves just as harshly about their own appearance, and cover it up. But they know she has something they don’t, authenticity and substance. Hence why they isolated her from the group and the conversations, so she wouldn’t be able to participate in publicly showing her “worth” in ways other than makeup skills.
as far as girls bein able to shapeshift. idk maybe some . all it is they do to change their appearance immediately is make up tho, and once you get to know a lot of women w/ n w/o makeup on its quite easy to tell what’s underneath ur other point is right on the mark tho imo. isolating her was the best thing they could do for their self-esteem, because she did have those intangible qualities that people look for in a partner .
High school, your correct. I'm glad I didn't go through that. I saw how my friends behaved, I stayed away. Started working at 15 1/2 and had a few good friends. I wouldn't be on a platform to be publicly embarrassed. I know I'd be last. I don't need to hear it.
@@hardplans2366 i mean, i am a woman and i must say that the sneakiest women and men i have met have been from the west... I can never be friends with most of the western women in my generation yet i have absolute angelic female friends from where i am from. Humans are corrupt everywhere but i gotta say, based off from what i have seen, worst women and men are western ones
I agree that women are socially cruel AF. I've noticed if you are not the type to play their fake bs games then they will also isolate you. I was not raised to behave that way. It took me a long time to understand this about girl groups. I think culture plays a part in it too. I have not had the same experience with groups of Norwegian, German, or Polish women. I found them to be much more direct, real, and civil. I honestly feel for the woman being isolated by the self absorbed little girls.
I'm a Pakistani and people are so chill here. They'd be petty bullying in like 5th grade but once ude in hs or college it's all fun and games. The guys here are super desperate tho, do that's a turn off but nothing as extreme as social isolation
Listening to the girls rank themselves made me feel like I was back in middle school again. All the girls were fake-nice/syrupy sweet until they came across someone who was different than them.
Well, I agree with you. I have to say that there’s a bunch of podcast Burrows who rank girls so girls think it’s fine middle school kids are still soaking up how people socialize. I don’t think it’s fair for men to get on podcast and talk about how women degrees are worthless? It’s about the way you look and how you present yourself and, having kids and then having a totally different attitude when girls themselves and sexualize themselves, but you know that’s society hypocritical nothing is fair. The way they acted I think they were just having conversations and she wasn’t that confident. I still think she’s pretty. I think that I’ve been preachment no harm they’re pretty much Balance the most of the time. I don’t think they meant for the comment section and go off on the girls the way that they did it. I think it was , a bit exaggerated we can’t promote shows like this and shows like this on TV and promote this and then criticize younger people believing this is how you socialize. We set the tone you know.
Yeah I get the pressure to “fit in” and “be liked” by being super nice and complimentary to everyone else, even though it really does come off as fake. Then when they run into someone who is comfortable with being non disingenuous the easiest thing to do is to glaze over them completely. Girl was comfortable in her own skin and didn’t try to fake being girlfriends so was ignored, while the other girls were trying /hard/ and it showed.
True lol. I know that if this was happening with my old class, I would just be the last one. Just cause I don’t talk to them, am introvert and average looking
I relate to this so much growing up autistic, it never ends either, it feels like every 5-10 years we go through cycles of accepting differences among people and then rejecting them again 😅we're for sure in the rejection phase currently.
That woman is really what men want and they don’t realize till later in life. She values intelligence and logic; she not trying to be liked by a group of hens constantly squawking at each other.
Yeah unfortunately men will go for the hot but bitchy girls in their 20s, much like women will go for a hot douche in their 20s. Both genders tend to sort out their priorities as they get older & realize relationships can't be sustained on lust alone
Men don't want that even her own man shat on her for being average looking. It's sad and I hope she finds the man who value her because most men are just as shallow if not more shallow then those women in that video.
@@myme8208 that BF has not reached later in life and was obviously still seeking social approval and acceptance in his behavior. By the time its too late, men want peace. They would rather have peace in simplicity rather than chaos in complexity.
@@myme8208ikr😂😂. Love it when men spew these kind of comments and still fumble on such girls. Or any other kind that they claim to prefer. In another context they'd say that she's not feminine enough or some other crazy thing. There's just no winning
Unfortunately this kind of girl gets cheated on and gets told "shouldve chose better" when ultimately it's the man who shouldve made his intentions and needs clear with her. 😢
I was going to say the same. Her issue is confidence in self and (confidence in her) style. A couple points up in both sections and she smokes them all.
Oof. This stung because I absolutely relate to being ostracized like this by other girls. If you’re awkward, shy, and not really into fashion, makeup, hair, or having a certain type of attitude or way of talking, you just won’t fit in with these types of girls.
they don't fake it though. They'll be the types that dont self reflect, aren't very smart and likely have no inner voice. If you aren't as i previously described, then if you were to try and fit in with people like that, you would then have to fake it. My point being, that those girls don't fake being shallow, dumb and useless...they actually are.
But you can also be the standart and be excluded as well, when the majority is "average" people and you stand out on looks. They side against the pretty & well put together girl. And title her as "egotistical" or the "mean girl steriotype" without even having a conversation with her. It GOES both ways. I Guess when you are minority you will always end up excluded either way. Cause people exclude when they can't relate
So what you're saying is, if a guy wants a wife, he shouldn't walk into a cackle of pretty girls? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Looks like you evolved a whole quiver of stings.
She’s definitely not ugly. She just needs a boost in confidence, a hairstyle that compliments her face, and clothing that compliments her shape. Doesn’t make her ugly. 🤷🏾♀️
@@GettiBurger oh yeah that’s definitely what we just said😁absolutely she should become a whole different person man! you read that so fawking rt hehe :)
@@mimitheeog It was the same old sly insults as in the vid: you criticized her hair, her personality, her fashion. How about instead just saying she's fine as she is. Which she is. There's nothing wrong with her at all.
@@paulw5039how did i criticize? nothing was mentioned about her personality…you just saying shit lol. but anyways, i didn’t even express a whole thought so there are a lot of things i didn’t say…so i don’t think anything is wrong with her if that’s how she likes herself so be it but i agreed with comment in terms of her not feeling as confident compared to those other girls..if she in deed wants to feel more confident trying out things wouldn’t hurt, so yeah
When the girls started to group up and ignore the other girl...that gave me horrible flashbacks. I know what its like to be in that position 🤦🏾♀️ it sucks
It's crazy to see a crowd of people hating her boyfriend. She loves him and he loves her, it's like y'all want to tear them apart for your own pleasure. She didn't ask for another boyfriend and he didn't ask to be reassigned. Grow up.
This is a regular Tuesday among groups of women. As a woman, I try to INTENTIONALLY notice and engage with the quieter person or the person people would would not deem attractive because I’ve been ignored in the same way for not being extroverted enough or attractive enough. Recently grew into myself and the way women treat me has shifted, but I intentionally either walk away from groups of women like this or hype up/ engage with the ones being ignored because I refuse to treat people the way I was treated. It’s terrible.
I’m the same! I was originally a very quiet girl in high school and didn’t get a lot of attention or feel included in school events or on sports teams. I guess I had a glow up in my early 20’s and started getting second glances and more invitations to parties/social events. But I’ll always remember how it felt being the quiet girl that no one gave a chance, so I’ll always try to include girls who are shy or introverted into the group.
Yes! I do the same, I'm still more on the shy and quiet side but I tend to gravitate towards other women that are the same. This is women supporting women. Sometimes all it takes in life is a friend who relates and uplifts.
I do this too, I find that the “weird” people are often the most interesting and kind, not to mention the most fun to goof off with. I was treated the same way growing up so I try to make an effort to include those excluded people, although I’m actually very shy haha so it can be hard sometimes. Everyone deserves love and understanding ^^
IMO she ain’t ugly, she’s just a woman who doesn’t fit in the pathetic beauty standard that are put by the society we live in. Seems like the other females are full of insecurities, drama and bullshit whereas the one we’re talking about is very accepting of who she is and how she looks like, her confidence id being brought down in the low, she’s being antagonized the shit out of. To me she’s automatically a 10, no debate needed.
Lol, I mean, at the end of the day, MEN still go for those 'pathetic beauty standards'. You think women like these dress for other women? IG girls look ridiculous imo, but that's the standard that gets attention. So for the people feeling sorry for that girl, would you date her if you had these other options? Likely not.
@@Donatello777 just stop lying my goodness. Y'all cap so hard bc she acts all insecure and shy. If she acted like she was all that, you would be so quick to humble her but because she's already humbling herself, you pity her. In a way you probably see your insecure self in her because how she acted was very much not like her true self, she doesn't have any sort of self confidence, and for that reason you're capping.
This is a big part of why I struggle to maintain relationships with girls. A lot of their kindness is performative, but their actions show how they REALLY feel about you. They close the circle on you, they cut you off when you’re talking or just flat out ignore you. If you’re not in their “beauty bracket” so to speak, they want nothing to do with you. It’s so annoying.
I'm neurodivergent, and the only good friends I've ever made have been neurodivergent or just very lovingly blunt (for example my best friend of 8 years literally just watched me for the first week of HS choir and one day she grabbed my backpack while I was walking out of class to stop me just to tell me she thought I was cool and wanted to be my friend😭I love her sm😭)I think just look for shy or blunt women 10/10 recommend :,)
Wow i feel so bad for her between the boyfriend and the female bullys. Shes not even ugly at all, just different. The other ladies are more conventionally attractive, but only slightly. None of them are super attractive or anything. I garuntee if she had some kind super glow up and her partner gave her some more confidence (which he should have been doing anyway) she would have been on par with the others minus the cringey meangirls vibe. I cant believe how openly they passively bullied her, but also how well she took it. When some (new) guy makes her feel more confident and she just some little bits with her hair, makeup, and confidence then she will be a queen for sure. I hope she finds someone that helps her do that! 🖤
She might be mid in looks, but she is still by far a better dating option when you factor in everything else. She has a steady job, she isn't stuck up and narcissistic, and she doesn't dress like a hypebeast or wannabe influencer like those other girls.
Financially speaking, she is the MOST attractive. Not high maintenance, has the most stable job and probably has developed serious skills not having the same "social life" in high school.
@@ellencox8415 yall if she was my gf well am staraight and a girl but like she ain't even ugly honestly she like a 7/10 meanwhile one them girl on the show is a solid 5/10 not gonna say names .
I hate when people associate being loud or extroverted with “good personality”. There are different kinds of personalities. I have a thoughtful, quiet, observant, creative personality. I take some time to get to know. But it doesn’t mean I don’t have a “good” personality.
No one ever really associated being loud as a good personality. ESPECIALLY for women. Let’s be real here. The soft quiet type is majority of the time seen as most attractive for a woman. If people are saying your personality is not great if you have are those things you talk about, then it could be something else
@@Criticalnin I wonder if that's why us shy girls are treated so bad by other women these days. Quiet = bad because it doesn't fit modern feminist standards. Which isn't very feminist but yeah.
Im an extrovert and I have introverted friends. Its not about good or bad. Its about fun, energetic and charming personality that attracts other people. Its just more fun but with an introverted is more like interesting. Depending on the person. But really when you're funny u will win people evertime over thats how it is😂 like aba and preach
This is why in any group setting, I include EVERYBODY in the conversation. They could rate her however, but at least include her or acknowledge her in some way. Feeling invisible is one of the worst feelings.
@@queennubian2573 "Hyping up" your girl is stupid. That said, being supportive and having a reasonable assessment of her value to you is not. All he needed to do was pull a classy, "She's beautiful to me," and he'd have done well. He didn't, though. That's a shame.
13:05 this is exactly how I imagine my man would be in that situation shi he wouldn’t even consider us going on this show tbh And I respect him for that because we both don’t understand why women go on shows like this just to be degraded and singled out by even the other women
Idk, men are acting like they’re above this. A LOT of my dude friends have given me shit for talking to the “average” girl, and hanging out with her, even as a friend, because she’s not the hottest one. I’ve seen dudes literally form a circle around hot girls at a bar or a club, and not even speak to the less conventionally attractive one. Like, sure, you’re allowed to have preferences, but you’re not even going to say hello to a woman unless you want to sleep with her? Maybe all humans are exclusive and nasty.
I can't believe she said those other girls got something going on while she is a WHOLE PROPERTY MANAGER, ABOUT TO BE AREAL ESTATE AGENT. I want to hug her.
It’s sad they think they’re above her because of looks. She stayed put and they kept shuffling next to her, but never asked her anything or gave her the spotlight or any praise. Hanging out with 4-5 girls who think they’re better than you, who treat you like your less of a woman, will bring the shyness out of anyone. I commend her for standing there and being herself. I know I’d be standing there tearing up, wondering why I’m being excluded.
Sadly it will take years for her to get her justice. In 20 years she'll still be happy with who she is living a happy and successful life (emotionally and mentally not necessarily financially) but unless the other ones realize that looks and "personality" (having a good personality isn't just about being extroverted and having people notice you) aren't everything the they will end up being an unhappy former trophy wife trying to hang on to her looks as they age (PhD or no PhD).
As a average woman, this is the story of my life... Women are horribly mean to one another. I've really love your reaction ! 🥰😂I want so much friends like you guys !
@@The_DavidGoggins Well to be honest the black girl in this video should definitely be last though and only got picked 1st because they don't want to seem racist.
(As a black woman) I think the women were being disingenuous when they put the black woman in the most attractive spot. Their reasons for putting her there weren’t even based on her looks. They just didn’t want to seem racist lol Edit: Some people are accusing me of not being black which is weird lol. I have no reason to lie bc the video speaks for itself. The black woman is definitely attractive but my comment isn’t about what I think about how she looks. It’s obvious they were being disingenuous bc they only complimented her nails, accessories, and personality, not her actual beauty lol. I know bs when I hear it. If you’re black, you’ve likely experienced a similar situation like I have.
Same these pretty girls at my college are so sweet and friendly so I thought they would befriend me (almost everyone at college are their friends) so I approached them and they just weren't it . They only were nice to others as long as they could use others , actually most women i let are just so damn shallow tbh I hate it . I'm lucky I've made 3 good friends who are genuinely nice and understanding people however .
@Qwe15290 Get out of here with dry-ass, single-digit IQ barely functioning, Ipad-rotted brain, if you got no business to mind other than your lone-ass self
As someone who isn't attractive, I will say as a girl, the reality is that I'm not allowed to think I'm pretty but also not allowed to talk about what it's like to be ugly. I just have to remove myself from others so they don't have to deal with me and then the world will be "all fine and dandy."
Yeah, the idea that “everyone is beautiful” is a lie that assumes that physical beauty is an important part of being human. Some people aren’t lookers and there’s nothing wrong with that. People will gaslight conventionally unattractive people and insincerely insist they find them beautiful because they think being unattractive is worse than death. Being ugly isn’t a crime
You are so true 😂 You're not allowed to call yourself ugly cause there will always be people uglier than you. Therefore it makes you obnoxious for not "recognizing your privilege". But if you were to say you think you are beautiful or let alone - hot! They would call you arrogant and try to humble you right away. Like sure these women didn't treat the realestate girl properly. But it's so easy to point that out when they were put in a situation that is already off putting cause they would have to rate each other and themselves and the truth is, all of them were about similarly attractive but 4 out of 5 did put in a lot of money and effort into presenting conventionally attractive. What are they supposed to do about it when one girl simply doesn't put in the same effort to conform to societies expectations? Ranking her higher would not have been truthfull and they would have received bashing for not being authentic and just "pittying her". It's not that she isnugky but we talk about LOOKING (not being as in with your entire mannerism and personality) "attractive". When the guys came in they proved the raiting to be accurate cause it was the same order plus racial bias that only changed the black girl to be instead of Nr. 1 to Nr. 5 as the men could just brush it off as "not their type" while the women can't justify not being racist with such an excuse when we asume they are straight. The f***d up part really was just her bf cause he should be rating her attractiveness as a whole cause once you know someone you can't just judge anymore solely on appearance
No one is physically ugly, we are all created differently for reasons we won't understand. Kindness and love is beautiful and attractive. Love yourselves ❤❤
Most people are average, she's average, and that's fine. Social media has overexposed us to unrealistic standards for both men and women, with cosmetic surgery, filters, ppl who say they're "natty" but obviously not, etc... But if you take an avg looks person and bump up their self-eeteem and confidence, massively boosts their overall "score"
I fully agree, and I have to admit that I fall into that same trap more often than not. Being chronically online and on social media makes on fully believe that entirely average people are sub-average.
A lot of these new-age pseudopsychologists and mental health "counsellors" preach about self-care, self-care, and more self-care but with yoga and meditation. Their job is to make you feel good by affirming, promoting internalization, then deflecting responsibility to whatever is affirmed. "You are unproductive because you are anxious and that is because of some unidentified trauma we need to dig into"
That’s what we call a lady you can lean on. A career woman that isn’t blowing money at the beauty shop? Someone who isn’t obsessed with loud self promotion? That sounds like a foundation builder. All those other girls are going to have to change to adjust to the real world. She’s already there. He should be proud of her. She’s someone you can build a life with.
That’s the girl you raise a family with and live a happy fuckin life, her dude is REALLY bad with his words… Wish he’d build up his queen’s confidence a lil more.
The problem isn't about her being unattractive, the problem is people having a problem with her being unattractive. When I say unattractive, I don't mean she's ugly, I mean she won't make most people look twice...and there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaking as someone who's been through this type of shit recently, I can tell you it's the most draining experience and it makes you question yourself! These are not kind girls at heart and that real estate girl deserves better, in both boyfriends and people. edit: bro she sounds like she's gonna cry man, I wanna hug her so bad, she's so pretty and nice :(
I think they don't like her cos she's clearly mature and further on in her life by the way she talks and carries herself whereas the other 4 clearly don't want to grow up and are like "Ew we're not old like you, we're young and cool" which is obviously so stupid.
After HS everyone's "grown up." Or at least u should know the difference between right & wrong. If u don't that's on u & only u. "Bc if u gotta kick someone down that person was already above you." As an adult, I'm not even banging anyone. I didn't ask & stop inviting yourself into places uninvited. It's creepy & has rapey vibes. I don't understand how ppl don't know if you don't got sh to say, keep it to yourself. Somexs even the good stuff is unwarranted. Knocking someone down just to sum them down by outside appearance & outside appearance only, I don't need or even want you in my life. Not bc I'm bitter. I just think you're pointless. Which plenty ppl find me attractive anyways if ppl really had to know. I know, it's so tragic. But still no1 asked. Although it does amuse me when there's those type personalities that think they're the voice for all & wever they tweak goes. U unironically scream followers. As if ppl don't actually have their own personalities that don't revolve around just you. & U only. & Yet all the "not like other girls" or the "pick me's" r hahas. Bc individuality is frowned upon on, & pick me means anything. Well, idc about pick me in any sexual relations but damn right. Better pick in other areas that r gonna help me in... I actually got bored w/ myself typing this. But old or young, some ppl never really do grow up. & Need a whole damn arse PowerPoint about the basics. Hold on let me make the bullets to simplify
Let me see if I understand, are you basically telling me that these girls are bullies just because they don't interact much with Jennifer? That sounds like bullshit haha
@cutface13 well in a group conversation they completely isolated and ignored her, shes not ugly and she is absolutely 10x the maturity of those other girls, yet they didnt even want to talk to her on personality. Like the fakeness in their voices and pretending to be kind to each other while only using her to prop themselves up because they viewed her as too quiet to say something back and she was too mature to get into a beauty contest like that.
She comes across as the girl that is plain or average until you have a conversation with her. And the more you talk with her, the more wonderful she becomes. Had a girlfriend like that. The way your perception changes during that conversation is amazing. Suddenly, all the "faults" become endearing and cute.
I've been this girl many times. Forgotten, ignored, etc. It sucks and my heart hurts for her. I've learned to not put myself in these types of situations and tey out experiences that aren't based in judgment like this Jubilee bs
The sad part is its simular to the guy that might be kind and charming but never leaves his friend circle and doesnt meet many people. Those girls also get drowned out by the "omg look at meeee" girls and nobody notices them
As a dude I feel her pain sm I was just an average looking brown dude during high school and guys wouldn't respect me and women would constantly just ignore me and acted like I didn't exist and I thought it was my personality that was the issue or that I was doing something wrong until I had a major glow-up and became considerably above average in attractiveness then suddenly people just are so engaged with whatever, get compliments way more often and even had random girls just come up to me and compliment me or start a convo with me its proof that this world Is shallow and that everything is about looks
19:48 humility humbleness....is just code for i respect the fact that your beach and wont stand up for yourself.... THAT IS NOT WHAT HUMILITY OR HUMBLENESS MEANS.
A property manager, she wins….she’s attractive and in a career that actually pays bills. They bullied her and singled her out all throughout the video. It brings me to tears because they’re all so beautiful but she has it all and to see her semi break down hurts. I’m so glad these people aren’t her friends because she deserves better from society and her boyfriend.
When its the very society that is artificially propped that makes people that don't fit the desirable critera are left into wilderness. And honestly its for the best.
Hold on, i dont get it. Why is everyone bashing him, i think he confused the numbers cause he started right with 5 (least attractive) with the black girl and ended with his girlfriend, so she wouldve been 1 or did i miss something?
Career isn't what gets her points, but it did set her apart as the only one who wasn't full of shit about herself. Most of us men aren't looking for a career-minded woman. We ARE looking for one who's not delusional.
@@Spuckeblaseit’s because the only thing he could say about his girlfriend is that she’s simple💀 He complimented all the other girls but the best he could say for the GF is she simple 😂 im dead
I feel bad for her. You can tell when she was talking about herself compared to the others, she was feeling really bad for herself. She’s probably an awesome person but an introvert, so she won’t shine like they do in such a public space
don't feel to bad for her, she's probably going to make some adjustments after this (which friends have probably recommended before). Other than that those girls were like immature bratty kids, they have a lot of growing up to do.
She's set for life got a good career making bank. She can go any where and choose to surround herself with non shallow people. She will be alright. She has money to glow up if she wants the key words is paid & options.
Not wrong being an introvert btw. The wording just made it seem like that...but hopefully I'm wrong. Got done last week dealing with some shallow woman saying she didn't want to get involved with me because I'm an introvert (+ no British accent, but that's not the point), and her mannerisms made it seem like being an introvert is a sin or some shit...so apologies since I get a little tilted when it comes to people calling people out for being "themselves".
She was the only one that didn’t act like a teenager. She was the only one with a real job. She was the only one that could hold a great conversation… If she would care. She was the real sigma woman, not playing the game of hierarchy.
@@Shalyn-ln9tu not really the point is it? She was the only one who didn't play their games. She actually seemed like the only one you could have a conversation with, without your brain melting. Ironically her BF seemed like a piece of crap, he seemed like he was trying to justify dating her. That's screwed up.
When the boyfriend said, "...and that's why I chose THAT." That had me cringe hard. She's a human being bro! He's there explaining himself like he needs an excuse for why he's with her. You have no balls!
She was so cute and so sweet with everyone and they all crapped on her, that boyfriend needs to get dumped asap and those other people need a bloody reality check. It’s all well and good being pretty on the outside but i saw not a single pretty person there. Except for her. Poor girl…
Bruh this girl got violated by everyone. Did yall think the boyfriend was out of line as well?
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*Ex-Boyfriend for sure after that
@@mr.t1417Bot
That was just uncalled for lol he prolly gonna be an Ex right after this
was this reuploaded
She deserves better
She isn’t even unattractive. This new generation will talk about inclusion one minute and be absolutely obsessed with people’s looks the next.
I must admit I skipped a little of the video but from what I can make out nobody said that she was unattractive
Facts
@@on-mg8dftrue
Thisssssssss the hypocrisy
this has always been the way it is unfortunately, it's just more pronounced with social media
As an introvert, this is on point about how other girls will exclude you for not “vibing” like them.
INTJ female here. These girls made me cringe.
Like they really didn’t ask her any question or each other any important questions like what do you like about ur job ….etc. that is definitely me I am very introverted in some cases that maybe seen as a bad thing to other ppl .
These types of girls pushed me out of 3 different jobs. I've always been very shy and kinda mid when it comes to beauty standards. Most bakeries I go to (I'm a cake designer and professional baker) employ super pretty girls to work up front and do basic back-of-house work. I never fit in and they kinda shut me out. It was devastating every time because I LOVE bakery work. It's one of many reasons I've now completely switched career paths.
@@shemac1482Hello there fellow INTJ. I concur they were cringe. Plus their voices were annoying, just a thought. They sounded disingenuous.
On the bright side, we end up attracting decent friends, who aren't shallow and superficial. Win!
She was just too much of an adult to be a part of this foolishness. I was a property manager at 23 and I definitely wouldn't be around these girls. They're too childish
WOMAN VS GIRLS INTERACTION 😂
I bet you $100 each one of those girls believe she is mature for her age
Exactly/ 👍. Why even subject yourself to this buffoonery? She seems the best but unless someone convinced her to go there sue asked for this and wanted this damn near the same way as the other girls. I would never go there nor take their disrespect.
too much of an adult to be apart of it, but she was still apart of it? still saw what jubilee advertised the video as, still signed up for it and still showed up on the day jubilee decided to shoot this video. 🤣🤣
How did you become a property manager? Did you buy a cheap house and rent it out?
Jennifer would be the first person I would feel comfortable even talking to .
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Me too cause she really represents my personal experience with being excluded by female groups 😭😔
You know why she was "boring"? Because she's satisfied with herself and not making an effort to be like them. Same thing happened to me in HS. If you don't sell out to fit in, you don't fit in at all.
Yes, she is basically the only kind and humble girl who is not a narcissist. My Gosh, when that Vera girl says that she deserves the top position because sHe'S bLoNDe And TAll...Girl calm down you're not Kate Upton lol. And when the black girl gets triggered because the boys said she was the least attractive one...What a bunch of narcissistic women...
@@bal9944 nnicely put
@@bal9944what the hell is up with that blonde and tall weirdo??? And? I do suspect racism despite that black girl having that lowkey shit personality
Yeah that's right! And at the end of the day, that is a life well lived. ❤
As a black girl lemme tell you something, that black lady won top spot cz no one wanted to be judged for being racist...that's all I'm saying
For an "unattractive" girl, she is the least cringe, the most responsible, and still cute.
That's what probably makes her the most attractive. She seems more humble. Everyone else just comes off as fake.
As a bi girl, the real estate chick is the most attractive one there too me
I know you put quotes on unattractive, but I think she is attractive. I mean she’s a pretty girl, she just doesn’t have the same energy or put the same effort on aesthetics like the others.
i was going to say i think she is pretty ?
@@chaosundiscovered but I don’t think she needs to change anything at all… I don’t know if she has low self-esteem, if so she needs more confidence, but if she doesn’t then I don’t see any problem at all
They made her felt lonely in a group, which is one of the worst feelings someone can feel
Then, they started making excuses when they found out how the guys really felt about them. The "ugly" chick ranked reasonably well. I know that the guys aren't attracted to black women. Yet, I didn't find this black girl attractive either. I thought the plain Jane chick was better looking than her. Also, the other chicks were surprised that she ranked higher than a couple of them, as well, even by one of the guys that wasn't her boyfriend.
Being ostracized is far more painful than being bullied.
Her boyfriend probably made her feel worse with that comment as well
@63legendary that black girl was attractive
They didn’t do anything she already felt insecure and out of place right from the beginning. They are not responsible for her feelings, she’s literally older than them, she doesn’t need internet heirs to come to her defense.
This is why I say being a ugly girl is probably the worst experience. At least if ur an ugly man, your not expected to be attractive and your other qualities are still acknowledged.
At that age, no. Women are constant reminders, their scrunched face is very telling when they look at one.
Exclusion is one of the cruelest forms of bullying. So much is said without saying a word. And that’s it, they’re choosing not to respond to her trying get into the conversation because she’s not making the “vibe” cut.
Yeah it messes with people for sure. I was excluded both at home and in school and it took me YEARS to heal into a normal person in my adult life. I still don't have any friends but I'm not awkward anymore, I can talk to people, I don't worry about what people are thinking about me any longer. But I'm nearly 30 now so 😅 just happy that I found a man who loved me through all that.
Would you still consider it bullying if you exclude yourself?
Dude, i felt that, this is how girl groups work sometimes
Omg I feel her this happens to me a lot. 😢it fakin sucks.
@@soulshartspeople who exclude themselves do so for normally two reasons, PTSD from PAST exclusion so they do so to beat ppl to the punch, or they have a social disorder. Those are normally the two reasons ppl do this.
Wow. Her boyfriend dropped the ball massively. I can’t imagine being dismissed and isolated, only for it to be validated even more by my so called “boyfriend.” She deserves better.
The fact her own boyfriend dogged her infuriated me and I was embarrassed for him. I couldn't imagine watching someone I loved get insulted like that, and I'd eat a bullet before I piled on to it.
Yeah, that was painful. He has a really gross attitude, and I hope she finds someone better who actually appreciates her.
@@flynnoflenniken7402 who says he doesn't appreciate her? She's an average girl who doesn't pretend and that's what he likes and appreciates about her. Should she leave him for someone who will lie to her and pretend? Y'all silly, no joke.
Deserve huh? y'all wild af... but you are women so i expected nothing else.
Had to find a way to blame the guy huh??
Cute without a painted face, Financially stable, respectable career path, emotional awareness and control, humble and not a damn college student. Hold your head high Jen, you're a gem in this day and age.
this.
Well said👏
Dont forget the most important point - Her voice and mouth makes her sound and look like Wallace from "Wallace and Gromit". Thats a perfectly straight line of a mouth when smiling and talking.
@@Theworldismine5that’s dumbass comment cuz SHE GOT A BOYFRIEND, which means of course we do. If she was single you might have an argument.
Wholeheartedly agree!
the craziest part to me is the black girl afterwards saying "i just think the women voted with more open hearts" after being vile to this girl. She literally saw a situation, said to herself "well girls = good and men = bad" then worked back from there
Literally 💀 The men basically voted the same order just put her last
She was the least cringe out of all of them. I hate how all the other girls were faking and overdoing the sass. It’s annoying to watch.
But most women at least from my school or peers act that way. Like that seems to be the norm, not annoying. And as an introverted woman, I can be talkative and loud towards people that I'm comfortable with,just not everyone. But people expect me to be that talkative all the time with people I don't even know. Like it seems that overdoing and faking is favoured.
@@Justprettytingz💯
They are college kids. She’s mature. Big difference
Seriously right!
Come to IVY, most girls are close to the girl who was left out
I’d say, she’d be the only girl who I’ll be able to converse cordially with
They’re performing cause it’s a performance show
I felt for her the entire time. I know what it’s like to not feel included so all I wanted to do was hug her and stick up for her
Saaaame - reminded me of social stratification in school… based on superficiality. But as we get older, it’s based off more complex factors.
Why just yesterday I was at a family reunion and I connected with a relative who was the state BAR president in 2013, an older woman, of course far from conventionally attractive. Yet I as a 30 year old lawyer connected with her on many levels and held her in high esteem. Beautiful Wisdom is found in “average” looking places.
I’d be FRIENDS with Jennifer. If I were gay or a straight guy I would DATE Jennifer. I don’t trust any of the others. 😂
SAME
Same! My throat swelled up with her too
Yeah, sure. Feeling pity for her will SURELY boost her confidence, let alone self-esteem. 🙄
@@Evil_Beauty more like understanding from being there.
it broke my heart when she said that the other girls have things going on for them. gurl u are a 26 year old woman with what seems to be a great career. if anything YOU are the one winning. compared to these little girls who are students
Right. She stood out the most and has her act together the most. She just needs a confidence boost. She also seems very grounded and nature compared to the others.
Exactly! Being independent and paying your own bills is extremely attractive male or female. The others HOPE they can achieve their goals, she's already on her journey.
not only that but her personality makes her way more attractive than those other women. most people dont find pettyness and being mean attractive.
they will be paying taxes soon their rainbows and sunshine era will come to an end
Exactly. That hurt me too. She's doing great and will probably make good money, she has her boyfriend. Good for her. And i find her cute and I like her personality.
This is called relational aggression. This is how mean girls exclude and bully a scapegoat, so they can bond at someone else's expense. It is ultimately catty, competitive, and insecure behavior. Isolating a victim is what abusers do. But an entire social clique isolating you? *deep breath. It's diabolical.
This is the most realistic "girl interaction" I've ever seen documented.
I dunno man
sad and true!!
Yep.
Yesssssssss
It's why I hate women and will never be friends with them. Evil and fake at it's finest.
as a former property manager I can confirm the sound of death in our voices is pretty standard
lol
HAHAHA!
😂😂😂
lol
Does it come with the job, or is the sound of death like a prerequisite to be a property manager?
You can tell she’s actually intelligent as well and how hard she was struggling to relate or laugh at their terrible jokes lol she was acting exactly how I would’ve in that room, inflated egos have literally nothing of value to say lol
There's a reason they have a rating for personality but not for intelligence lol
Funniest part is she's not even the most unattractive in the woman she's just not dressed the same and expressing the same way
They put her at the bottom because of their own collective standards and you can tell when they boost eachother for dumb things like tattoos and education
Facts
Agreed
Takes me back to being bullied in school. This is cruel.
I love how she was pointing out positive qualities in the other girls, and they couldn’t even mention one nice thing about her or even acknowledge her at times it seems. Not sure if it was just the editing, but damn that hurt. I respect how much grace she displayed in this situation.
True after all, it is a drama tv/PC show so there are some hidden agendas that the user es don't know about. 😊❤
Ngl tho she's the only girl I'd actually date everyone else just give me hoe vibes need to prove a point n shit too much effort
Lol
Lowkey made her even more attractive than she already was
The other women were raised poorly. I was raised to acknowledge and be welcoming and friendly to everyone in a group setting. Those women were sheltered and never challenged to be better.
I don't care how attractive those other women are. Disrespect is the most unattractive quality any person can have. Jen you the 1 in my book
But she's not even number 1 in her own book, absolutely nothing wrong with her but confidence is key
facts... those other girls are physically pretty but I couldn't see past the disrespect and you just feel they are insufferable if you're in the same room with them for more than 30 minutes.
@@humblecrabd6981 these pretty girls are only good for fucking. the average one is the one you marry
She still went up there, in this sort of program, I don't trust anyone that wants to participate in these things. It's a red flag lol
@@humblecrabd6981exactly, instantly makes you appreciate that girl more
This is an example of how “girls supporting girls” really is. It’s all fun and games til one of those girls doesn’t have the same interests or doesn’t know how to talk the same (introvert or heavy social anxiety)
Or 'too extraverted ' or 'too much' .. girls supporting girls doesn't go very far in the real world
Also,being excluded so clearly like this will also put out most extroverts' lights, so to speak. We loose confidence REAL quick cuz we know we ain't in the in group
@@BBDulcet-if1si you don't need to be part of the group. half the time groups like that are empty and vapid. so people of substance don't need that trash. keep being you and forget THAT exists 🙂
This was me at school. I was brutally dumped from a friendship group because I didn't want to act and dress a certain way or pretend to be interested in stuff that I wasn't. I was never loud or hyper so I was always pushed to the side but I was always genuine, dependable and understanding. Speaking as an introverted person: just because we don't show you what's on the inside, doesn't mean there's nothing there.
These girls don't represent all of us. I would have put myself in last place, because I would never want anyone else to feel less than, and I know I'm not that wrapped up in others opinions so I could take it.
The "I'm a property manager training real estate agent" was an instant turn on! She's number 1
Unfortunately being average looking is unacceptable to social media standards.
Social media standards are bullshit anyway. That girl rocks
The girl who is "average" she is honestly the most beautiful one out of all of them because she's simple and isn't delusional. With a little help with her self esteem she'll be so much better with herself even more. But she's better than the rest shoulders above everyone!👏💪
The loudest are the stupidest ones. This is a great examples!
usa standards
Being average is a dirty word period. Why? Because now everyone is comparing themselves to the world.
@@sodapop83 THIS! So much THIS!
"i love simple" is the most backhanded compliment I've ever heard. I'd dump him asap!
Yeah but does she not have self awareness. Average isn’t bad she doesnt have to adhere to normative beauty standards but as my mother says when you dress up and take care of yourself a certain it should always be for you because you have self respect and love yourself
Some women don’t take that as an insult… guys love simple. He wasn’t as bad as people are making him out to be
@@Katfall2012yh and it's just something I noticed that ppl for some reason put negative conatations on neutral words. Contempt, settle, average and in this case it's simple
Average is not a bad word. I'm average. You're average. It takes effort to be physically beautiful (other than winning the genetic lottery). And if you say otherwise, you're bullshitting.
I'd dump a guy that said he wanted someone as high-maintenance as the girlies.
As a guy, I would date her in a heartbeat. No fakeness, no charades. All real. Decent human being all around. Definitely a gem in today’s world. No doubt.
Of everyone there, I'm willing to bet Jennifer is the only one who gets jokes and _jokes back._
There is something to be said about all the manufacturedness women feel the need to surround theme selves with to feel good themselves . She was basic and plain but also real. What you see is what you get . No cake face or eyelashes on your pillow. No 3 hours to get ready. And no wondering why she feels it’s ok to walk around in her real face at home but needed ti get dolled up for strangers and everyone else but you.
Well said my friend, I agree. She seems like she's excited just to hold your hand. All game for that!
Dude she gives off weird awkward vibes.. that would be weird asf
@@Venusssxxxofc she did 🙄 I would too and many other people when being excluded like you’re not even part of that.
i'm an introverted girl that doesn't wear makeup and never got along with 95% of girls, for this exact type of shit. this girl wasn't unattractive, she just needs a little confidence boost and she'd be amazing! when people put you down your whole life, it's hard to find that confidence in yourself. people are just generally assholes. i feel for this girl though
The fact that they didn’t even take the time to ask her questions or get to know her… she didn’t even have a chance to show her personality. But ironically I think it showed how down to earth, mature, and cool she is. Out of all of them I think I’d want to be her friend. It did feel just like high school.
very on point
I mean they are all under 25
I agree. I feel like a lot of women feel like she does about herself and she's the only one that I could see myself hanging out with as friends. She's mature and has a career and seems normal.
I definitely think it's because of the age group, if they were all in their mid 20s and not mainly students, it would've been very different
@@shalinimahalingam9064its kinda funny like thé 23 yo girl didnt sée herself as too old for thé 19 and 21 years olds yet she considéred thé 26 yo to bé old
Another woman viewer here. 🙋🏼♀️ And I can, sadly, confirm that this clique-y behavior is not an anomaly just seen on the internet. This really does happen IRL amongst some groups of women. So when Aba was like, “Women are mean, brutal, etc”, I do support that. They definitely can be. I have been the “#5 girl” on many occasions and also the “mid tier” friend who is invited out to the bar. I just want to wrap this comment up by saying, If you’re a person who has experience something like this, you do matter. You do have value. Don’t ever let another person degrade you based on subjective opinions. If someone tries to socially isolate you and play the “fake nice” card, leave them in the dust where they belong. They obviously don’t have the ability to appreciate a person for more than surface level beauty and have no idea what genuine kindness looks like.
exactly, nicely put !
amen!!
Genuine kindness lol? Who tf gets turned-on by a random stranger's genuine kindness when the first thing they literally see when meeting a person for the first time is how they look lol? That is just sus as hell. These people, at the end of the day, don't even know who tf you are lol! Their eyes don't be staring at your basic-looking a** first when they pass by you. 😂 People ALWAYS gravitate towards beauty FIRST, and whatever bs last. But go ahead. Put an old granny, or any fat whale in that situation and see what sane man will be showing interest first. Unless he wants to be forever mocked, and ridculed as a laughing stock on the internet like that nasty couple on TikTok. Get real. 🙄
P.S.
Me personally, I find even genuine kindness to be a turn-off. They try to be this sugary-sweet person that rubs people off in a toxic positivity way that comes off as a people-pleaser. I'd take open honesty, and transparency over your so-called, "beautiful" 'white lies' about genuine kindness any day.
The surface beauty is a layer of paint and accessories…not real.
It really says something about men who can see past the clown paint and over accessorizing. Ladies, men aren’t as obtuse as you think they are.
That girl who didn’t care about being singled out was raised absolutely right and I hope she left that sorry excuse for a boyfriend
She clearly was crying you muppet
Or she was used to it :( this has happened several times to me. Luckily I respect myself enough to remove myself from the situation now.
Yeah, he was pretty embarrassing. I’ll give him a bit of the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s just a bit awkward, but that doesn’t make up for how dumb he acted.
Fr that dude at the end saying “damn right” as she was talking abt her insecurity was so embarrassing I do hope she left
Poor girl has her self confidence to the bottom so she thinks she has to be with this sorry excuse of a boyfriend. I hope she understands there are better men out there and leaves him.
My “friends” treated me this way
They were never worth your time :(
I hope you're doing good though
This is why even as an extrovert I am ok with having no more friends. I still have acquaintances but that’s fine. I have learned to never beg for love and affection and loyalty. I give that to myself.
good god that's awful, i hope u get better friends 💗
That’s one of the worst feelings when you feel dismissed by everyone around you.
Maaan smfh
At one point this same situation made me think I needed therapy or something, because I kept asking myself, why the hell am I the problem....what am I doing that's so wrong? And then when I sat down and had conversations with some of my siblings and childhood friends, I realized that you will meet people like these in bulk because fucked up attracts fucked up. Never be afraid to call them out on their bullshit, avoid them, and if they still insist on trying to be around you just to bring you down, be aggressive as fuck towards them, and less empathetic. The right people will not exhibit signs of being fucked up and will always put you at ease whenever you interact with them
Just remember that people who do that are trash not worth the time or energy.
@dankwaifu Fr I could barely watch it
i couldn't do this, i know what it feels like. I would have gone Gordy in front of them cameras
As a black woman, I’ve had caucasian girls over compliment me like that and I felt some weird vibe from it all. I feel like they pushed her to most out of not seeming ‘racist-ish’ coz I don’t think she was the most attractive
This!! She wasn't the most attractive because she was black, she just wasn't the most attractive in that group and that's ok too. It was so performative, it was sickening.
Right the tall girl said something like you have character “in a good way” 😂 wtf
THIS. It’s annoying because people will pretend there isnt racial or other bias in pretty much everything but simultaneously over compliment black or just non-white people.
Like, just be normal. Jfc.
This makes me so suspicious of any compliments. That black girl is still in her college days and lacks self-awareness.
Those are the type of white girls that wear Black Live Matter shirts when they’re around a diverse group of people, but wouldn’t wear it when it’s just a group of white girls going out to a predominantly white venue/establishment. It’s all fake. Black people see right through it way too well.
The worst part is her boyfriend. I have always said that I have no problem with being average as long as my husband thinks I'm a 10. She deserves better than him.
@@Weyland_Punani
Nigga...
You are a piece of sh!t for this comment. You need help.
She never said she was a 10. She said as long as her husband THINKS she is a ten. Learn to read!
So you chose delusion, interesting decision...
Wdym she chose delusion? What is she supposed to do😂
Those women were vicious to her. I really believe that if you put her in a different outfit, she'd outshine a few of them since she's actually pretty and her personality is leaps beyond theirs so that combined would put her above them in my opinion. This is what I'd do if I was her. She needs to dress for her body type. She has a big bust but narrower hips. She needs to wear something that flares a bit on the bottom. She could wear a sundress or a skirt or even some pants that have bulky pockets something to disguise that her bottom is narrower than the top. She needs a v cut shirt because it accentuates a good asset that she has and that is she has big boobs. Her hair is ok in my opinion because it gives her a sort of cute nerdy vibe.
They did her dirty. Even her boyfriend🤦🏾♀️
They boyfriend is trash
she needs to break up
Yep, I wonder if his only there because she has a future for herself and don't feel like working. Fck that guy 😒 she's pretty and unique.
im ngl they didnt even do her that dirty imo, but her boyfriend tho, jesus. I like simple, what a retard.
Beauty isnt everything
I have been this girl/woman SO many times in my life and I'm only 23. Women are experts at social isolation and fake niceness, and they learn it at a very young age. The fake compliments and "encouragement" (ie: "omg! I LOVE your skirt! You should definitely wear it more often" when the skirt actually looks terrible). I had so many fake friends growing up that acted like the women in this video and other people around me would just tell me that my friends are "SO nice!" The worst part is, a lot of women don't grow out of this behavior. I've seen 40 to 50 year old women act like this.
My mother in law and sister in law (also my father in law off) are pieces of work. I know why my husband ran away from his family to another state for college and his masters!
I compliment truly unique items such as earrings or pendants, tattoos, and choices bc I can tell the other lady put a lot of thought into it, that it was something special. And often she will tell me a story of “oh it was given to me by someone special” or “I made this myself” and I get to learn something significant about them I wouldn’t have otherwise known. :3
Yes I prefer men and only non sheep fashion obsessed status chasers. There are cool women but you have siv through the shit to find gold
Your comment reminded me of that scene in Mean Girls where Regina George complimented that girl on her skirt then called it ugly when she walked away lol
@veronica1606 love the mean girls reference
Sad but true.😞
She’s modest and quiet but comfortable . She doesn’t really try to put herself at the center of a room and that’s okay. But I can tell she notices a huge difference between her and everybody else. I definitely relate to her.
Very relatable, she doesn't need to fit in
This is the literal description of me. Why do I get bullied for being this way?
And she is like literally not unattractive!!!
Thats horrible man. No need for them girls to be mean like that.
Some honest compliments they could've given her:
I like your hairstyle.
You have pretty teeth.
You're financially secure and you're the only one having a real job.
You're shy and that's cute.
You're nice and don't rely on being in the center of attention or putting others down.
You have the courage to go to the gym.
No that’s too intricate. Those ladies were shallow. You should never expect compliments like that from shallow people. Your better off validating yourself and complimenting yourself than expecting that from shallow people.
"You have pretty teeth?" 😅
And she’s got a beautiful smile
that last line is shady though
She wasn't shy though.
It made me kind of mad, no one can compliment her??... Wtf, she was the only one that seemed stable, smart, responsible and most importantly LOYAL. She has really beautiful eyes too, screw those people.
@mr.m6038who wants to date an incel? 💀
@mr.m6038 you kinda dont have much of a choice bro, if youre an incel shes a good get for you.
Exactly, the other girls were way too stuck up & had no actual substance to them.
this is the kind of thing that comes with time. short term you look at the flashy things
She doesn't wear make up, her hair is not done, she wears a basic outfit, and I think she's pretty. She is just very natural. The other girls are not prettier than her, they are very average, they are just wearing a lot of make up, hair done and more sophisticated outfits lol
I love how these girls singled out the 'unattractive' girl and just barely complimented her like it was suicide by association 🙄. This generation loves to talk about inclusion and how everyone is beautiful in their own way but then throw shade and purposefully ignore people who don't fit their toxic beauty standards.
Exactly
Women are always judged by their own gender and men for their looks. Sometimes I wish girls could act with each other the way guys do with themselves. Some dudes could meet the ugliest guys alive and if the guy was chill they would be friends instantly 😭
It's so funny how you see all these women online saying that they hate how looks are important but irl they ignore PPL (especially women) with below average looks. We girls should rlly do better lol
THIS!!!
So true. And that generation hates originality. I was born in 1995 so I'm considered on the cusp of millennial and gen z and tbh I don't fit with either. I'm an old soul and I love originality. I love unique and different. And that's why I love the 26 year old. The others all look the same and are dressed the same. With the same little baby voice and the same personality. That's boring to me. They say everyone is beautiful but if they don't fit societal standards, they want them to change to fit in with their beauty standards and agenda. It's so stupid.
Fax
Duh! That’s the true reality of society. So many fake 🤡 out here.
She's so sweet! Oh my goodness she did not deserve this, how can people be so cruel? And the BOYFRIEND?! Dissing her like that, good grief, makes my heart break. She's mature, responsible, has a job. God bless her.
This was a tough watch. The brutal reality of young ladies who are self obsessed. Jen tried hard to be involved but was blatantly ignored by the other four girls. Then when it came to the end and her boyfriend came on, I could not believe how he further kept her down when she said she was average. Someone needs to have a word, he doesn't know what he has sitting beside him. A beautiful young lady who has her life together and needs a little tlc. I wish you well Jen, sending you a hug from one sister to another 🤗
Aight man chill we get it 😅
I don’t get it, she was the most instinctively attractive and feminine one there, the rest where fake, vapid, cliquey and up their own butts. She was the only one giving off “keeper” vibes, while the rest where all firmly in the “useless club girl pass around” vibe.
@@SafeTopps lame, if u dont like what he has to say just fuck of
@@SafeTopps 😄 just had to let that out!
@@tracey-anne53 I feel u
Hearing these women talk transported me straight back to highschool and how unbearable some of these girl friendgroups were. So full of themselves with no self awareness.
Grown women are like this.
I remember being teased a lot for being ugly but a group of mean girls.
Yet out of school. Both of my sisters at the time would bring around friends to our house and a lot of those girls who were my sisters friends ended up telling me or my sister's that they think I'm attractive. 3 even asked me if I wanted to date them. I also remember at 18 being told by a woman in her 40s that if she was 20 years younger; she would have me and I recall at 18.. being cold approached by a random woman on the street who told me she thinks I'm fit (British slang for hot) and asked for my Facebook.
So you can see how confused I became
Proved to me that beauty is subjective
@@metalheadjake3339 It's not *that* subjective, the mean girls probably had their own motives for putting you down, and they detected that calling you ugly was what stuck.
It's been said forever, women actually _hate_ other women.
@@metalheadjake3339 ay, I was terribly invisible in high school. when I moved away from my hometown I had trouble handling all the attention I suddenly got from women. did some crazy stupid shit between the ages of 21 and well.. just about 3 years ago or so 😂😂i'm 31 now.
Shes attractive she’s just not a tryhard like the others, I’m surprised people haven’t realized how easily women can shapeshift and make themselves seem prettier than they are on the inside.
They didn’t like her because they judge themselves just as harshly about their own appearance, and cover it up. But they know she has something they don’t, authenticity and substance. Hence why they isolated her from the group and the conversations, so she wouldn’t be able to participate in publicly showing her “worth” in ways other than makeup skills.
Cope.
So well said. The others might not even know what it’s like to be down to earth
as far as girls bein able to shapeshift. idk maybe some . all it is they do to change their appearance immediately is make up tho, and once you get to know a lot of women w/ n w/o makeup on its quite easy to tell what’s underneath
ur other point is right on the mark tho imo. isolating her was the best thing they could do for their self-esteem, because she did have those intangible qualities that people look for in a partner .
women who dress up/do makeup aren't 'tryhards'🤦♀️
@@iloveazaeliabanks No, they're catfish. Women are masters at it.
High school, your correct.
I'm glad I didn't go through that.
I saw how my friends behaved, I stayed away.
Started working at 15 1/2 and had a few good friends.
I wouldn't be on a platform to be publicly embarrassed.
I know I'd be last.
I don't need to hear it.
As someone who's been unattractive my whole life this hits hard and I feel for her. The disrespect from everyone was unbelievable.
The sharpest knives aren't thrown by men.
"Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other"
Al Bundy
Sage of the ages
fr
@@hardplans2366 i mean, i am a woman and i must say that the sneakiest women and men i have met have been from the west... I can never be friends with most of the western women in my generation yet i have absolute angelic female friends from where i am from. Humans are corrupt everywhere but i gotta say, based off from what i have seen, worst women and men are western ones
Beauty is temporary. You can be a pretty face or you can be a full person.
These gals aren't any more attractive than the "avg" girl in the cast. They just wear a bunch of extra stuff. They just talk a lot, and are immature.
I agree that women are socially cruel AF. I've noticed if you are not the type to play their fake bs games then they will also isolate you. I was not raised to behave that way. It took me a long time to understand this about girl groups. I think culture plays a part in it too. I have not had the same experience with groups of Norwegian, German, or Polish women. I found them to be much more direct, real, and civil. I honestly feel for the woman being isolated by the self absorbed little girls.
WELL SAID. That's why I never had female friends. I didn't want to play their fake bs games and they did not like that.
Asian cultures are SUPER brutal when it comes to women socializing as well. Bullying literally at an all time high.
@@paninthedada Lots of suicides at high school
Yes I notice too Slavic women who come over into the US have a more down to earth and real personality
I'm a Pakistani and people are so chill here. They'd be petty bullying in like 5th grade but once ude in hs or college it's all fun and games. The guys here are super desperate tho, do that's a turn off but nothing as extreme as social isolation
Listening to the girls rank themselves made me feel like I was back in middle school again. All the girls were fake-nice/syrupy sweet until they came across someone who was different than them.
FR they’re all probably like “omg I’m such a good person!!!”
Well, I agree with you. I have to say that there’s a bunch of podcast Burrows who rank girls so girls think it’s fine middle school kids are still soaking up how people socialize. I don’t think it’s fair for men to get on podcast and talk about how women degrees are worthless? It’s about the way you look and how you present yourself and, having kids and then having a totally different attitude when girls themselves and sexualize themselves, but you know that’s society hypocritical nothing is fair.
The way they acted I think they were just having conversations and she wasn’t that confident. I still think she’s pretty. I think that I’ve been preachment no harm they’re pretty much Balance the most of the time. I don’t think they meant for the comment section and go off on the girls the way that they did it. I think it was , a bit exaggerated we can’t promote shows like this and shows like this on TV and promote this and then criticize younger people believing this is how you socialize. We set the tone you know.
Yeah I get the pressure to “fit in” and “be liked” by being super nice and complimentary to everyone else, even though it really does come off as fake. Then when they run into someone who is comfortable with being non disingenuous the easiest thing to do is to glaze over them completely. Girl was comfortable in her own skin and didn’t try to fake being girlfriends so was ignored, while the other girls were trying /hard/ and it showed.
REALLL
True lol. I know that if this was happening with my old class, I would just be the last one. Just cause I don’t talk to them, am introvert and average looking
I relate to this so much growing up autistic, it never ends either, it feels like every 5-10 years we go through cycles of accepting differences among people and then rejecting them again 😅we're for sure in the rejection phase currently.
As SOON as those girls heard "26" they immediately thought she didn't belong. I swear these young kids think you're old at 24.
Thanks
25 year old here, can confirm
They probably labeled her a "Boomer".
Well they dont realize they are going to be 30 in a minute, lol, life goes sooo fast
@@cdl6892Facts
That woman is really what men want and they don’t realize till later in life. She values intelligence and logic; she not trying to be liked by a group of hens constantly squawking at each other.
Yeah unfortunately men will go for the hot but bitchy girls in their 20s, much like women will go for a hot douche in their 20s. Both genders tend to sort out their priorities as they get older & realize relationships can't be sustained on lust alone
Men don't want that even her own man shat on her for being average looking. It's sad and I hope she finds the man who value her because most men are just as shallow if not more shallow then those women in that video.
@@myme8208 that BF has not reached later in life and was obviously still seeking social approval and acceptance in his behavior. By the time its too late, men want peace. They would rather have peace in simplicity rather than chaos in complexity.
@@myme8208ikr😂😂. Love it when men spew these kind of comments and still fumble on such girls. Or any other kind that they claim to prefer. In another context they'd say that she's not feminine enough or some other crazy thing. There's just no winning
Unfortunately this kind of girl gets cheated on and gets told "shouldve chose better" when ultimately it's the man who shouldve made his intentions and needs clear with her. 😢
Crazy thing is she's not unattractive, she's just VERY unassuming. A notch or 2 up in confidence and she would've been in it!
Truly!
I was gonna post the same thing. If she could boost her confidence, she'd contend. ♥
She’s not she’s just hiding still in her shell.
I was going to say the same. Her issue is confidence in self and (confidence in her) style. A couple points up in both sections and she smokes them all.
Yeah basically this. If she didnt talk like shes dead inside then she would get 1.5 more on a 1-10 scale. Im sure she is a nice girl and id date her
“Damn right” when she said she’s average is crazyyyyyyyyyyyyy
They all could get crazy work
Oof. This stung because I absolutely relate to being ostracized like this by other girls. If you’re awkward, shy, and not really into fashion, makeup, hair, or having a certain type of attitude or way of talking, you just won’t fit in with these types of girls.
That was me especially if ur not fake. Ive noticed in every group u need to fake it to stay in the group.
they don't fake it though. They'll be the types that dont self reflect, aren't very smart and likely have no inner voice.
If you aren't as i previously described, then if you were to try and fit in with people like that, you would then have to fake it.
My point being, that those girls don't fake being shallow, dumb and useless...they actually are.
But you can also be the standart and be excluded as well, when the majority is "average" people and you stand out on looks. They side against the pretty & well put together girl. And title her as "egotistical" or the "mean girl steriotype" without even having a conversation with her. It GOES both ways. I Guess when you are minority you will always end up excluded either way. Cause people exclude when they can't relate
And that is a good thing
So what you're saying is, if a guy wants a wife, he shouldn't walk into a cackle of pretty girls? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Looks like you evolved a whole quiver of stings.
She’s definitely not ugly. She just needs a boost in confidence, a hairstyle that compliments her face, and clothing that compliments her shape. Doesn’t make her ugly. 🤷🏾♀️
exactly what i was thinking, i definitely don’t think she’s ugly
Tbh if she did the same thing as there other in terms of make up, clothes, accessories etc she would at the top.
@@GettiBurger oh yeah that’s definitely what we just said😁absolutely she should become a whole different person man! you read that so fawking rt hehe :)
@@mimitheeog It was the same old sly insults as in the vid: you criticized her hair, her personality, her fashion. How about instead just saying she's fine as she is. Which she is. There's nothing wrong with her at all.
@@paulw5039how did i criticize? nothing was mentioned about her personality…you just saying shit lol. but anyways, i didn’t even express a whole thought so there are a lot of things i didn’t say…so i don’t think anything is wrong with her if that’s how she likes herself so be it but i agreed with comment in terms of her not feeling as confident compared to those other girls..if she in deed wants to feel more confident trying out things wouldn’t hurt, so yeah
When the girls started to group up and ignore the other girl...that gave me horrible flashbacks. I know what its like to be in that position 🤦🏾♀️ it sucks
Same
Same
Same!!
Same
Same, I had worked before at a job with only women and it was like that.
It's crazy to see a crowd of people hating her boyfriend. She loves him and he loves her, it's like y'all want to tear them apart for your own pleasure. She didn't ask for another boyfriend and he didn't ask to be reassigned. Grow up.
This is a regular Tuesday among groups of women. As a woman, I try to INTENTIONALLY notice and engage with the quieter person or the person people would would not deem attractive because I’ve been ignored in the same way for not being extroverted enough or attractive enough. Recently grew into myself and the way women treat me has shifted, but I intentionally either walk away from groups of women like this or hype up/ engage with the ones being ignored because I refuse to treat people the way I was treated. It’s terrible.
I’m the same! I was originally a very quiet girl in high school and didn’t get a lot of attention or feel included in school events or on sports teams. I guess I had a glow up in my early 20’s and started getting second glances and more invitations to parties/social events. But I’ll always remember how it felt being the quiet girl that no one gave a chance, so I’ll always try to include girls who are shy or introverted into the group.
Yes! I do the same, I'm still more on the shy and quiet side but I tend to gravitate towards other women that are the same. This is women supporting women. Sometimes all it takes in life is a friend who relates and uplifts.
@@rewdskwid I couldn’t agree more. THAT’S women supporting women
Same! It physically hurts me to see others feel that way
I do this too, I find that the “weird” people are often the most interesting and kind, not to mention the most fun to goof off with. I was treated the same way growing up so I try to make an effort to include those excluded people, although I’m actually very shy haha so it can be hard sometimes. Everyone deserves love and understanding ^^
IMO she ain’t ugly, she’s just a woman who doesn’t fit in the pathetic beauty standard that are put by the society we live in.
Seems like the other females are full of insecurities, drama and bullshit whereas the one we’re talking about is very accepting of who she is and how she looks like, her confidence id being brought down in the low, she’s being antagonized the shit out of.
To me she’s automatically a 10, no debate needed.
Lol, I mean, at the end of the day, MEN still go for those 'pathetic beauty standards'. You think women like these dress for other women? IG girls look ridiculous imo, but that's the standard that gets attention. So for the people feeling sorry for that girl, would you date her if you had these other options? Likely not.
Uhhhhhm she is UGLY…AND odd looking. Just the facts🤷🏻♀️
You're just pitying her. You don't find her attractive either.
If I said she’s a 10 to me and no debate needed, I won’t take my word back.
@@Donatello777 just stop lying my goodness. Y'all cap so hard bc she acts all insecure and shy. If she acted like she was all that, you would be so quick to humble her but because she's already humbling herself, you pity her. In a way you probably see your insecure self in her because how she acted was very much not like her true self, she doesn't have any sort of self confidence, and for that reason you're capping.
This is a big part of why I struggle to maintain relationships with girls. A lot of their kindness is performative, but their actions show how they REALLY feel about you. They close the circle on you, they cut you off when you’re talking or just flat out ignore you. If you’re not in their “beauty bracket” so to speak, they want nothing to do with you. It’s so annoying.
LOL you are nothing in their mind, if they find you unattractive
@@Grimm_Butterfly same thing here!
Exactly right. It’s so bad in that age bracket of 19-23 that if you don’t laugh when they laugh, YOU OUT!
I've always had good one on one friendships. Groups are hard. If you can be friends 1:1, this kind of b.s. doesn't happen
I'm neurodivergent, and the only good friends I've ever made have been neurodivergent or just very lovingly blunt (for example my best friend of 8 years literally just watched me for the first week of HS choir and one day she grabbed my backpack while I was walking out of class to stop me just to tell me she thought I was cool and wanted to be my friend😭I love her sm😭)I think just look for shy or blunt women 10/10 recommend :,)
Wow i feel so bad for her between the boyfriend and the female bullys.
Shes not even ugly at all, just different. The other ladies are more conventionally attractive, but only slightly. None of them are super attractive or anything.
I garuntee if she had some kind super glow up and her partner gave her some more confidence (which he should have been doing anyway) she would have been on par with the others minus the cringey meangirls vibe.
I cant believe how openly they passively bullied her, but also how well she took it.
When some (new) guy makes her feel more confident and she just some little bits with her hair, makeup, and confidence then she will be a queen for sure.
I hope she finds someone that helps her do that! 🖤
She might be mid in looks, but she is still by far a better dating option when you factor in everything else. She has a steady job, she isn't stuck up and narcissistic, and she doesn't dress like a hypebeast or wannabe influencer like those other girls.
Financially speaking, she is the MOST attractive. Not high maintenance, has the most stable job and probably has developed serious skills not having the same "social life" in high school.
@@ellencox8415 yall if she was my gf well am staraight and a girl but like she ain't even ugly honestly she like a 7/10 meanwhile one them girl on the show is a solid 5/10 not gonna say names .
@@ellencox8415 facts 💯
@@ellencox8415 so much assumption yikes
@@khalidcarter25 putting attractive girls down for a unattractive one
I hate when people associate being loud or extroverted with “good personality”. There are different kinds of personalities. I have a thoughtful, quiet, observant, creative personality. I take some time to get to know. But it doesn’t mean I don’t have a “good” personality.
No one ever really associated being loud as a good personality. ESPECIALLY for women. Let’s be real here. The soft quiet type is majority of the time seen as most attractive for a woman. If people are saying your personality is not great if you have are those things you talk about, then it could be something else
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 They do tho, irl
I guess depend in your kind of loud, there are good loud, you know, people that make you feel welcome with their happy self.
@@Criticalnin I wonder if that's why us shy girls are treated so bad by other women these days. Quiet = bad because it doesn't fit modern feminist standards. Which isn't very feminist but yeah.
Im an extrovert and I have introverted friends. Its not about good or bad. Its about fun, energetic and charming personality that attracts other people. Its just more fun but with an introverted is more like interesting. Depending on the person. But really when you're funny u will win people evertime over thats how it is😂 like aba and preach
This is why in any group setting, I include EVERYBODY in the conversation. They could rate her however, but at least include her or acknowledge her in some way. Feeling invisible is one of the worst feelings.
preach girlie, love that & I try to do the same.
Fr. It was so disgusting just watching them push her to the side like that. And the bf was just the same. What’s wrong with hyping up your gf?
@@queennubian2573 "Hyping up" your girl is stupid. That said, being supportive and having a reasonable assessment of her value to you is not. All he needed to do was pull a classy, "She's beautiful to me," and he'd have done well. He didn't, though. That's a shame.
Being invisible is the worse feeling. The fact those other 4 didn't even look her way to include her in conversations was fucked up.
That feeling of trying to squeeze into a conversation circle yet being pushed out is all too familiar to me lol.
13:05 this is exactly how I imagine my man would be in that situation shi he wouldn’t even consider us going on this show tbh And I respect him for that because we both don’t understand why women go on shows like this just to be degraded and singled out by even the other women
Same girl!!! Bc I'd show em wassup after the cameras cut 😂💯
Idk, men are acting like they’re above this. A LOT of my dude friends have given me shit for talking to the “average” girl, and hanging out with her, even as a friend, because she’s not the hottest one. I’ve seen dudes literally form a circle around hot girls at a bar or a club, and not even speak to the less conventionally attractive one. Like, sure, you’re allowed to have preferences, but you’re not even going to say hello to a woman unless you want to sleep with her? Maybe all humans are exclusive and nasty.
Then why do you choose them as friends? 😑
for reeeeaaal!!!! all these two faced men in the coments saying they would date her are no better than the women in the video
@@nosredna8466not really the point
@@iLikeCok It's the point I made though
Fr😂 it’s funny to me cause the happiest guys I know married the average girl and the most miserable married the attractive popular girl
I can't believe she said those other girls got something going on while she is a WHOLE PROPERTY MANAGER, ABOUT TO BE AREAL ESTATE AGENT. I want to hug her.
Future real estate agent. She's a property manager right now.
@@Ryan-wx1bidid you not read the part where they said "about to be real estate agent" .... That means future real estate agent
Unless they edited it lol
@@blackwaldoduck159 They edited the comment lol.
For real! That statement took me off guard. Sounds like she’s got more going on than most of the other girls.
It’s sad they think they’re above her because of looks. She stayed put and they kept shuffling next to her, but never asked her anything or gave her the spotlight or any praise. Hanging out with 4-5 girls who think they’re better than you, who treat you like your less of a woman, will bring the shyness out of anyone. I commend her for standing there and being herself. I know I’d be standing there tearing up, wondering why I’m being excluded.
Sadly it will take years for her to get her justice. In 20 years she'll still be happy with who she is living a happy and successful life (emotionally and mentally not necessarily financially) but unless the other ones realize that looks and "personality" (having a good personality isn't just about being extroverted and having people notice you) aren't everything the they will end up being an unhappy former trophy wife trying to hang on to her looks as they age (PhD or no PhD).
I would never put myself in that position
@@jemma-joongood for you, but everyone is different
I mean socially speaking they would benefit more from what society offers because they’re more beautiful so…
*you're= you are not your!
As a average woman, this is the story of my life... Women are horribly mean to one another.
I've really love your reaction ! 🥰😂I want so much friends like you guys !
A show that is based on ranking people about their attractiveness is so fucked up, do not compare to others. What kind of message is that. Wow.
the black people always get last
@@The_DavidGoggins Well to be honest the black girl in this video should definitely be last though and only got picked 1st because they don't want to seem racist.
@@danboyisdopex9864 no. you're just racist
Yeah like what's the point of the video?? Nothing good comes out of it. It's pure content fodder.
@@danboyisdopex9864 she shouldn't have been last
She seems like the only one who could hold a decent conversation with any depth.
(As a black woman) I think the women were being disingenuous when they put the black woman in the most attractive spot. Their reasons for putting her there weren’t even based on her looks. They just didn’t want to seem racist lol
Edit: Some people are accusing me of not being black which is weird lol. I have no reason to lie bc the video speaks for itself. The black woman is definitely attractive but my comment isn’t about what I think about how she looks. It’s obvious they were being disingenuous bc they only complimented her nails, accessories, and personality, not her actual beauty lol. I know bs when I hear it. If you’re black, you’ve likely experienced a similar situation like I have.
Probably, she was honestly the ugliest one out of the bunch 😂
Deadass. You could see it in their facial expressions.
100%
😂😂 I was watching like oh y’all really don’t wanna get cancelled huh .
Home boys humbled her quick
I thought the same thing
no cause they were like “you have long nails! Number 1!!!” bro that’s ALL you had to say about her? Looool
I swear Jubilee is just an expert at finding the most insufferable people ever 😭
Ugh, watching this reopened a lot of old wounds from high school. Both girls AND boys are very cruel towards anyone they don't think is pretty enough.
SAME
Let me know when the club meeting is 😭😂
Fr it hurt
YeP !...
the pretty privilege.... Mostly had by girls, but,
when the boys have it.. BOY DO THEY HAVE IT 😍
Same these pretty girls at my college are so sweet and friendly so I thought they would befriend me (almost everyone at college are their friends) so I approached them and they just weren't it . They only were nice to others as long as they could use others , actually most women i let are just so damn shallow tbh I hate it . I'm lucky I've made 3 good friends who are genuinely nice and understanding people however .
She should dump that BF.
Well she can get me ❤ she's my type. 😊
she cooler than all of'em
@Qwe15290 Get out of here with dry-ass, single-digit IQ barely functioning, Ipad-rotted brain, if you got no business to mind other than your lone-ass self
@Qwe15290she’s my type too don’t ew them for having good taste 😂
@Qwe15290 u ew
As someone who isn't attractive, I will say as a girl, the reality is that I'm not allowed to think I'm pretty but also not allowed to talk about what it's like to be ugly. I just have to remove myself from others so they don't have to deal with me and then the world will be "all fine and dandy."
Yeah, the idea that “everyone is beautiful” is a lie that assumes that physical beauty is an important part of being human. Some people aren’t lookers and there’s nothing wrong with that. People will gaslight conventionally unattractive people and insincerely insist they find them beautiful because they think being unattractive is worse than death. Being ugly isn’t a crime
You are so true 😂 You're not allowed to call yourself ugly cause there will always be people uglier than you. Therefore it makes you obnoxious for not "recognizing your privilege". But if you were to say you think you are beautiful or let alone - hot! They would call you arrogant and try to humble you right away.
Like sure these women didn't treat the realestate girl properly. But it's so easy to point that out when they were put in a situation that is already off putting cause they would have to rate each other and themselves and the truth is, all of them were about similarly attractive but 4 out of 5 did put in a lot of money and effort into presenting conventionally attractive. What are they supposed to do about it when one girl simply doesn't put in the same effort to conform to societies expectations? Ranking her higher would not have been truthfull and they would have received bashing for not being authentic and just "pittying her".
It's not that she isnugky but we talk about LOOKING (not being as in with your entire mannerism and personality) "attractive".
When the guys came in they proved the raiting to be accurate cause it was the same order plus racial bias that only changed the black girl to be instead of Nr. 1 to Nr. 5 as the men could just brush it off as "not their type" while the women can't justify not being racist with such an excuse when we asume they are straight.
The f***d up part really was just her bf cause he should be rating her attractiveness as a whole cause once you know someone you can't just judge anymore solely on appearance
Dont call yourself ugly because u r not included in dumb beauty standards doesnt mean u r ugly looks is not everything
DAMN. PEOPLE GOT NO LOYALTY
No one is physically ugly, we are all created differently for reasons we won't understand. Kindness and love is beautiful and attractive. Love yourselves ❤❤
I know what happened. This video is about ranking girlfriend. But Jennifer ain't a girlfriend. Jennifer is wife material. The others are school girls.
Most people are average, she's average, and that's fine. Social media has overexposed us to unrealistic standards for both men and women, with cosmetic surgery, filters, ppl who say they're "natty" but obviously not, etc...
But if you take an avg looks person and bump up their self-eeteem and confidence, massively boosts their overall "score"
True
I've met "perfect" looking people who just have zero personality whatsoever and at the end of the day the looks will only get you so much.
Eh, this bullshit has been around forever, you can just now see it
and social media made average looking think they're the shit
I fully agree, and I have to admit that I fall into that same trap more often than not. Being chronically online and on social media makes on fully believe that entirely average people are sub-average.
Imagine paying 40-60 per hour for a life coach who is younger than you are, and she says "get more sunlight" or sum shit 💀💀
Fr She'd tell me too drink more water or somethin
No doubt she asks “we’ll have you checked your star chart?”
A lot of these new-age pseudopsychologists and mental health "counsellors" preach about self-care, self-care, and more self-care but with yoga and meditation. Their job is to make you feel good by affirming, promoting internalization, then deflecting responsibility to whatever is affirmed. "You are unproductive because you are anxious and that is because of some unidentified trauma we need to dig into"
Maybe it a life changing blow job
That’s what we call a lady you can lean on. A career woman that isn’t blowing money at the beauty shop? Someone who isn’t obsessed with loud self promotion? That sounds like a foundation builder. All those other girls are going to have to change to adjust to the real world. She’s already there. He should be proud of her. She’s someone you can build a life with.
Her man let me down hard with the shit he said lol
That’s the girl you raise a family with and live a happy fuckin life, her dude is REALLY bad with his words…
Wish he’d build up his queen’s confidence a lil more.
@@magicdragon9621 peer pressure.
@@The.Nasty. Peer pressure. Thing about social media.
Yes whatever guy gets with her will build with her and then replace her with a super pretty girl
She’s not even ugly, she just needs to bump her confidence up. She’s really cute
She's not ugly but she is not pretty. She is plain.
And do something with that raccoon on her head
@@ericad528 you take off your make up and you probably worse.
All of you sound like the other girls in the video
The problem isn't about her being unattractive, the problem is people having a problem with her being unattractive. When I say unattractive, I don't mean she's ugly, I mean she won't make most people look twice...and there's nothing wrong with that.
Speaking as someone who's been through this type of shit recently, I can tell you it's the most draining experience and it makes you question yourself! These are not kind girls at heart and that real estate girl deserves better, in both boyfriends and people.
edit: bro she sounds like she's gonna cry man, I wanna hug her so bad, she's so pretty and nice :(
Stop it
@@acebooge32 you shut up
I think she's hot tbh. Her boyfriend is a giant weakling for giving into peer pressure and calling his girlfriend ugly. He should've had her back.
Stop it
Hollup let him cook
How are they not embarrassed?? I’m curious what those immature girls would think now after rewatching it.
They should be mortified at their behaviour.
I highly doubt that.
Probably victim mindset 😂😂 early 20’s is all about you 😂😂😂 no accountability
2:00 killed me for some reason 😂😂😂😂
adult bullying - is pathetic...and she's the best pick..their men should be ashamed of them
I think they don't like her cos she's clearly mature and further on in her life by the way she talks and carries herself whereas the other 4 clearly don't want to grow up and are like "Ew we're not old like you, we're young and cool" which is obviously so stupid.
I agree
After HS everyone's "grown up." Or at least u should know the difference between right & wrong. If u don't that's on u & only u. "Bc if u gotta kick someone down that person was already above you." As an adult, I'm not even banging anyone. I didn't ask & stop inviting yourself into places uninvited. It's creepy & has rapey vibes. I don't understand how ppl don't know if you don't got sh to say, keep it to yourself. Somexs even the good stuff is unwarranted. Knocking someone down just to sum them down by outside appearance & outside appearance only, I don't need or even want you in my life. Not bc I'm bitter. I just think you're pointless. Which plenty ppl find me attractive anyways if ppl really had to know. I know, it's so tragic. But still no1 asked. Although it does amuse me when there's those type personalities that think they're the voice for all & wever they tweak goes. U unironically scream followers. As if ppl don't actually have their own personalities that don't revolve around just you. & U only. & Yet all the "not like other girls" or the "pick me's" r hahas. Bc individuality is frowned upon on, & pick me means anything. Well, idc about pick me in any sexual relations but damn right. Better pick in other areas that r gonna help me in... I actually got bored w/ myself typing this. But old or young, some ppl never really do grow up. & Need a whole damn arse PowerPoint about the basics. Hold on let me make the bullets to simplify
Let me see if I understand, are you basically telling me that these girls are bullies just because they don't interact much with Jennifer? That sounds like bullshit haha
@cutface13 well in a group conversation they completely isolated and ignored her, shes not ugly and she is absolutely 10x the maturity of those other girls, yet they didnt even want to talk to her on personality. Like the fakeness in their voices and pretending to be kind to each other while only using her to prop themselves up because they viewed her as too quiet to say something back and she was too mature to get into a beauty contest like that.
She comes across as the girl that is plain or average until you have a conversation with her.
And the more you talk with her, the more wonderful she becomes.
Had a girlfriend like that. The way your perception changes during that conversation is amazing. Suddenly, all the "faults" become endearing and cute.
Exactly how my gf is lol i even love her social awkwardness its more attractive to me
What happened in the relationship
thisis so true
Did you marry her? 😊❤
Facts. I can tell them other girls are either boring, or always try to make the conversation about them.
I've been this girl many times. Forgotten, ignored, etc. It sucks and my heart hurts for her. I've learned to not put myself in these types of situations and tey out experiences that aren't based in judgment like this Jubilee bs
Usually people that are cruel to you are jealous of something you have or the type of person you are.
The sad part is its simular to the guy that might be kind and charming but never leaves his friend circle and doesnt meet many people. Those girls also get drowned out by the "omg look at meeee" girls and nobody notices them
As a dude I feel her pain sm I was just an average looking brown dude during high school and guys wouldn't respect me and women would constantly just ignore me and acted like I didn't exist and I thought it was my personality that was the issue or that I was doing something wrong until I had a major glow-up and became considerably above average in attractiveness then suddenly people just are so engaged with whatever, get compliments way more often and even had random girls just come up to me and compliment me or start a convo with me its proof that this world Is shallow and that everything is about looks
19:48 humility humbleness....is just code for i respect the fact that your beach and wont stand up for yourself.... THAT IS NOT WHAT HUMILITY OR HUMBLENESS MEANS.
A property manager, she wins….she’s attractive and in a career that actually pays bills.
They bullied her and singled her out all throughout the video. It brings me to tears because they’re all so beautiful but she has it all and to see her semi break down hurts. I’m so glad these people aren’t her friends because she deserves better from society and her boyfriend.
When its the very society that is artificially propped that makes people that don't fit the desirable critera are left into wilderness. And honestly its for the best.
Hold on, i dont get it. Why is everyone bashing him, i think he confused the numbers cause he started right with 5 (least attractive) with the black girl and ended with his girlfriend, so she wouldve been 1 or did i miss something?
Career isn't what gets her points, but it did set her apart as the only one who wasn't full of shit about herself. Most of us men aren't looking for a career-minded woman. We ARE looking for one who's not delusional.
Why r you guys lying bro😂
@@Spuckeblaseit’s because the only thing he could say about his girlfriend is that she’s simple💀
He complimented all the other girls but the best he could say for the GF is she simple 😂 im dead
😂 I pray she sees this reaction video and know you guys picked her and are rooting for her. She needs to read the comments too.
I pray god will kick all females in the pusseh like they deserve. I love god.
She’s the most likeable out of all of them
@@KhadijahsMammaAnd she got some tig ol' bitties.
Same! I hope the bitchy girls see it too, but I’m sure they’ll justify their lack of personalities lol
Samesame
I feel bad for her. You can tell when she was talking about herself compared to the others, she was feeling really bad for herself.
She’s probably an awesome person but an introvert, so she won’t shine like they do in such a public space
don't feel to bad for her, she's probably going to make some adjustments after this (which friends have probably recommended before). Other than that those girls were like immature bratty kids, they have a lot of growing up to do.
She's set for life got a good career making bank. She can go any where and choose to surround herself with non shallow people. She will be alright. She has money to glow up if she wants the key words is paid & options.
and yet she wants to be a real estate agent. that's funny. She has work to do if she wants the job of an extrovert.
Not wrong being an introvert btw. The wording just made it seem like that...but hopefully I'm wrong.
Got done last week dealing with some shallow woman saying she didn't want to get involved with me because I'm an introvert (+ no British accent, but that's not the point), and her mannerisms made it seem like being an introvert is a sin or some shit...so apologies since I get a little tilted when it comes to people calling people out for being "themselves".
I’m definitely a Jen, that’s why I stick to myself now. Even when I had a bff, she would make me feel this way if we were around others.
These are the same girls who pretend to be positive online fr 😂
These women are foul, they knew exactly what they were doing. Just pure cruelty
It be like that bro, that’s why we gotta show the “boring” ones genuine love too
ikr the fake niceness is such BS.
AlL MeN ArE TrAsH.
ItZ AlL MeN ThAt Do DiS
Remember when those soccer players on tiktok were being harassed for rating women on looks..... lol.
Ironic
I mean they were asked to rank attractiveness. Someone had to go last, how is that foul?
@@jalinjohnson8221the idea that she is "boring" is kinda strange to me. She seems really sweet and she looks good, dont see any issues.
She was the only one that didn’t act like a teenager.
She was the only one with a real job.
She was the only one that could hold a great conversation… If she would care.
She was the real sigma woman, not playing the game of hierarchy.
Well, students are a real job/commitment. Notice how she is older than the other, so she is in another category than the other. She was a student, too
@@Shalyn-ln9tu not really the point is it? She was the only one who didn't play their games. She actually seemed like the only one you could have a conversation with, without your brain melting.
Ironically her BF seemed like a piece of crap, he seemed like he was trying to justify dating her. That's screwed up.
When the boyfriend said, "...and that's why I chose THAT." That had me cringe hard. She's a human being bro! He's there explaining himself like he needs an excuse for why he's with her. You have no balls!
TY for pointing that out! He labeled her as "THAT" like she was some random, abnormal object....TF
Agreed
He used so many words to describe the other chicks and all he could do is call his girl "simple"😢
Yeah bc why do you have to explain why you “chose” you’re girlfriend, by the statement it’s giving you’re embarrassed
THAT! It’s giving very much, “ I settled!”
She was so cute and so sweet with everyone and they all crapped on her, that boyfriend needs to get dumped asap and those other people need a bloody reality check. It’s all well and good being pretty on the outside but i saw not a single pretty person there. Except for her. Poor girl…
he probably tells her that she is pretty behind closed doors