Lol I was such a quiet and awkward kid growing up, and I'll never forget in middle school seeing a boy go up to a girl and saying "where's my hug?" With his arms open after she hugged his friend, and I thought "you can do that?" and then I saw the look on her face when she half hugged him and I was like "no you cannot..." 😅
This is cringe and hard too watch especially the lesbian couple cause it seams like she was forcing the issue and the other girl was totally uncomfortable smh
@@craziebarbietalks692 If the internet is to be believed, a lot of lesbian couples move (too damn) quickly. Like, you got people out here moving in after a month and saying I love you after the second date, hence the "Lesbian U Haul". So with that in mind, hat girl's expectations were in line with the way a good number of lesbian couples move. Unfortunately.
@@no.6377 it’s true. I’ve gone to school with a few lesbians and they moved so damn fast then the relationship turned into shit real quick lol. I also dated a girl just to see if I actually was gay. She moved too damn fast and that’s when I realized I wasn’t gay. When I broke it off after 2 weeks🤣🤣🤣🤣 she got mad and talked shit about me. Like girl this was temporary
Good on the stable woman for knowing what she wants and then being really compassionate to the super intense woman. For laid back people that type of energy does feel chaotic and it’s draining.
the stud girl doesnt listen.... the girls shes with said that she doesnt like pda, and then goes on to suggest they kiss ON CAMERA. Her date was giving all the answers as to why they didnt work out and she just wasnt listening, she was in her own world.
Its super weird how these grown adults would rather take shots then just be upfront about what they didn't like about the other person. Everyone preaches about communication but nobody actually wants to do it.
People want communication until someone has something to say about then. Like the lady, she wanted the other woman to be upfront, if she were, she would have been offended. She got affended about the money talk, got offended she didn't want ro hold hands... Some people don't know what they want and the push that onto others. Most people are not ready to hear the truth
literally everyone will say "be honest with me" but they only mean be honest to a certain extent. like if most girls ask their partners if they look good in something and to be honest, rarely will anyone actually say "na it looks shit". People would rather live the lie, which is fine - you do you
Both of them have slim to no options. But if big girl with the hat wasn't a big girl was built like a Barbie doll other big girl would have been open to PDA. She isn't attracted to hat big girl she just has slim to no options.
@@pennyproud1621I don’t think it’s her looks. The woman with the locs is put off by her demeanor…mean mugging the server, just being all over her and they just met, etc. The woman with the locs appears to be someone who is very low-key…also the girl with the hat appears to be…not the brightest…I can tell her lack of intellect bothers the woman with the locs
7:20 I'm glad Preach caught onto that. It felt like this had happened multiple times and they only put in this one. "Omg should I ask thi-" "Yes, stop asking us that. Do you know what you're here for? Read the damn card!"
@@hidenname541that was already disproven. It came from a study that also included lesbians who have been victims of domestic violence in previous straight relationships.
@@ab-gail Yea they do. Insecure people do that. And don’t say “insecurity is feminine” because that is BS. It’s a human trait. Stop with the false dichotomies. People are a mix of traits and qualities and are many different things.
I hate when people say "I'm a bad texter" because it's almost always bullshit. A "bad texter" might misspell a lot of things, or get distracted and leave on you read here and there, or just provide a lot of short answers because they prefer to talk on the phone. If they're only replying sporadically, or consistently leaving you on read, or they never initiate conversations... that's not being a bad texter. That person just doesn't care. Just say "I'm not that into you" or whatever and be done with it.
Hey just a quick appreciation comment: yall are hilarious and there's always a lot of fun in your stuff. But you're also both very socially perceptive and emotionally intelligent with matching empathy to boot. Thanks for the laughs and the love, the good vibes and keeping it real. I think what y'all do is actually positive for young folks with interpersonal/social weaknesses (especially young men who need better role models). Much respect! fyi - if you guys wanted to know for analytics, Aba, I found y'all from your past interactions with Destiny (girl's name btw).
The lesbian with the bucket hat is hella obnoxious. Shes been on other shows and she has been outright "gurl what's your number" and commenting on womens body parts etc. Shes like a toxic dude.
yeah its unfortunate, some lesbians bring that toxic masculinity stuff into homo relationships. when nobody hetero or homo should be doing it, but its more unfortunate bc like shes a woman-?
When you go on the *first few dates* and the other person is not yet comfortable enough to be physically affectionate with you, they do not need to explain themselves. They don't know you like that yet. You're just gonna come off as pushy and creepy when you demand explanations for something you have no entitlement to. There's direct and there's pushy.
The hat girl should've been confident to decide that the other girl wasn't reacting the way she wanted her to and it wasn't what she wanted. Instead she was acting like a lawyer and trying to force her to admit she wasn't really interested.
Yes and no. It can be that but there are many reasons people forget to text Sometimes I write out the text and one of my kids start crying or I was cooking or I'm overwhelmed and I forget to press send. When I'm texting whilst busy I forget a lot to actually reply. I think I did and wonder why I didn't get a reply then check the messages then profusely apologise because I thought I did reply. I prefer phone calls for this very reason. I wait till I am completely free and actually set aside time to have a deep and meaningful conversation with the person/family/ friend
Depends i be busy always have. Moving around, leaving my phone around. I aways will respond a few times but if i dont respond right away im not on or near ny phone good luck.
is this really what ppl think lol. i just have adhd and prefer phone calls edit: ahh okay i see what you & Aba r saying now. it’s very different if that’s your excuse when you’re trying to start something new
I had a girl come back around after a questionable absence. She straight ghosted me if i am honest. Month later, she texts me asking how are thing's, and i eventually got around to calling her out for her treat me poorly. She tried to laugh it off as a "No, i would never do that" until my receipts disagreed. I ended up blocking her the same day Guys. please have standards. You are a human being too. Your time is valuable too. There IS someone out there that is willing to try just as hard as you do, to be in your life. Never accept answers such as "i knew i liked you once i rant through the rest and decided to double back to the only option that instantly drooled over me". Because seriously, imagine if the tables were turned, how quickly she would point out every single toxic detail about your whole existence if you did the same to her.
It looks more like he sprayed perfume too close to his shirt as against food stain. The round shape of the stain looks more like spraying something too close to fabric
If you are too busy to reply to someone new for days, at the stage where you expect someone to try as best they can to figure you out, invest time and it isn't a 'chore' yet, something is wrong. Legitimate reason or not that person isn't currently available to start any kind of relationship.
It's just wild to me that the primary form of communication today is texting. That is the worst way to communicate with someone. So many things can be misconstrued or misunderstood. Thank god I'm married and too old for today's dating scene. It boggles my mind when I see these guys today trying to talk to my daughter. It just seems so awkward. Honestly, kids today just don't know how to talk to someone face-to-face.
I reaaaaally needed to hear some of the stuff you guys said. I'm 27, yet sometimes I act like the girl with the bucket hat. If they don't like you, well... they don't like and that's the simple truth. It's pathetic to wait for that other person to show interest (a situation I was a few days ago with a girl I like), when their silence and lack of communication tells you everything you need to know. Thanks guys and will do better in the future.
The girl with the hat is just determined to be offended by everything. They went on one date and the other girl got in trouble with her like 15x already. She's just so insecure and sensitive about everything. It would just be drama in the long run.
I find the lightheartedness of this channel more entertaining than the main. Either way, I’m gonna watch videos from both but these make me laugh a lot more lol. Keep doing you guys. Cheers.
Even with people who I don't look at on a romantic level I don't take 3 or 4 days. Because it just feels like it's rude, and I'm like if that's the energy you get and you can't explain anything I'm just going to move on with my life.
Abundance mindset and learning that attraction cannot be negotiated are two of the most powerful lessons everyone should know as early in life as possible.
Not clearly communicating you have an issue with what someone is doing is a huge problem becuase it sends mixed singals that will be interpreted differently. If i was the chick I would have ended the date because that doesnt sound like "i dont like PDA", it sounds like "i dont rock with you". CLEARLY communicate because you dont know each other and each others signs and what they mean.
Maybe she's barely figuring out if she likes her or not, dude they were barely getting to know each other 😂 some of y'all want people to communicate like they're narrating a game. Get some body language signals, go out and meet more people
9:50 i appreciate this comment, aba i struggle with this *heavily* especially when its with people im constantly exposed to/ grew up with. im still learning this is another piece i needed for my foundation of learning.
It’s so strange how circumstances influence your perception. For example, the two women… I completely agree with everything you guys said regarding their different financial situations, specifically the part where you said that the woman who’s feelings were hurt by the other’s obvious distaste. However, in December I lost job where I had a 6 figure salary. Back then, I would’ve wholeheartedly hopped on the, “that’s your problem” bandwagon. However, now while rebuilding I’m not making what I did back in December and can relate to the woman who had her feelings hurt on some level even though I still agree that it is something that she needs to get over. Anyway, I say all of this to say that regardless of our past experiences our current perception is largely influenced by our current reality and I think it’s interesting.
It means you're stupid. Normal people can understand situations even when we're not in them... hopefully you remain forcefully single while you broke...
I hope Preach becomes a father and a grandfather someday because all that energy and that laugh. I just know he has the dad gene in him and would be the best! “They both big” 😬 😂🤣🤣
I dunno, I have adhd and social anxiety, when I see someone text me I get anxious and I formulate a reply in my mind and then I’m building up courage to text it even when I’m super excited about someone, or even when I’ve known them for decades, with my friends I’m more likely to respond quicker because I know them I can predict their responses, so that makes me less anxious, but if I’m having a few bad days even my friends don’t hear from me cause I’m too in my head about how to respond. Because of that, I often do genuinely forget to reply, I’ve formulated the reply in my head, when I eventually get distracted before I found the courage to reply, I forget and then get convinced I did send it, then I be waiting for their reply and to avoid getting anxious about that I put it out of my mind, like they’ll respond when they’re ready, it’s chill it’s cool, then if I really like them it’ll be a day or so where i go to check and then realise omg I didn’t text, now I’m freaking out that I haven’t replied and how rude I may seem. On a good day, I pull up my big girl panties and say honestly I thought I replied and was waiting for you, if it’s a bad day, I just continue to freak out until I’m distracted or the person texts again and then I’ll try to figure it out from there repeating the cycle. But then I also get anxious with phone calls 😅 I don’t know how to fix it but I’m in therapy so 🤞🏽 but for years I didn’t know I had social anxiety and couldn’t figure out why texting and calls were so stressful so I just came off as uninterested or aloof, or leading people on 🤷🏽♀️ Sometimes is just hard for people, but maybe they shouldn’t be dating until they figure that out 🤔
That one where she was telling the other about no pda and etc, she's acting like how a lot of guys act that are being impatient with a girl they really want to get with but isn't ready. So it's not just guys that can't these kinds of hints.
Truly bad texters exist, I live with one. I have been with my man for almost 5 years, and he is trash at texting. It’s his brain though. ADD/ADHD riddled brain and he is also a paramedic and they seem to suffer from threshold syndrome like a mofo. Because of the things he is done and we have been through, I know he loves me. I don’t need him to reply to a text for that. He was like that when I met him and he is still like that now, and we share a life! That being said… I would agree that MOST people, more so than not, who say they are “bad texters” just don’t have a lot of want to text you back.
I’m a girl, so I don’t know if this is a difference in gender or if it’s just me, but I am a bad texter, and for me it’s the opposite of what they were saying. If I’ve been on one or two dates, I’m more likely to be bad at texting back because I haven’t built a strong connection and haven’t fully lowered my walls to expect anything out of it yet…. It’s when I’ve bonded with someone more and connected with them deeper that they’re the person I’m constantly thinking to text when I see a meme or whatever or ask about their day. When I’ve gone on one or two dates with someone and I’m still figuring them out and if there’s even chemistry and all that-I’m much more likely to see their text, not know how to respond and get distracted by something I’m doing and intend to respond later and just forget. I’ve also left friends and family “on read” for days numerous times in the past when my anxiety or depression has been bad. (And a lot of times dating gives me anxiety and even if I am into someone will find reasons to put off dates and all that when it’s still new)
Preach so correct on this.. one time I was outside smoking on break with some of my boys.. I had a beer on my coat pocket and some herb in my back pocket trying to chill. This new girl walk about and says hey! Can I hang out with you guys?? I said “No.” she turned around like fine then! I didn’t wanna hang out anyway!!! She quit the next day and said she doesn’t feel like she fits in. Everyone kept saying what the hell is wrong with you Devin?!?! I said what, she asked me a question and I gave her an answer. In reality I didn’t know if she would snitch on my beer 😏
The “when two big people find each other” comment was funny because I say the same for tall or short people. When two tall people get together I’m so happy for them. I don’t mind opposites but it’s nice finding someone who can relate to you.
I agree with the sentiment that there will always be a reason for someone else to look at you and think "nah, this isn't enough for me," and thats okay. It doesn't feel good, we're all human here and we want to feel enough especially to those we may have affection for but those negative feelings aren't absolute and you aren't enough for some people, and that's okay,heck in reality we all have expectations of those we choose to love but you are indeed enough in general.
Lol you guys crack me up so much and somehow straddle the line between cutting up and making jokes back to back and then engaging in sincere and heartfelt intellectual conversation in the same breath. A rare dynamic - cherish your friends!!
"Why didn't we have sex on the first date" is a gross question. Why is sex on the first date expected? Nobody has religious values anymore? Modesty is dead?
@Dog_in_tree bt they wasn't and was laughing at the question, so isn't that what should matter 🤔. They weren't even thinking about or expecting it just bc it was asked. It shouldn't mean changing how you operate, correct? Or maybe questions and words sway people like yourself
Never heard of y'all. The algorithm brought me here. I liked all the male wisdom I felt like I was getting an inside looking to how men think about these things I'll subscribe😊
I don't understand the argument that a person needs to make the same or more. Then she followed up with my mom taught me to take care of myself. Okay, so if both parties can take care of themselves, what's the problem?
Don’t know if anyone has mentioned the stain on preach shirt but imma get ahead and say we rocking witchu brotha, that stain represents genuine content🤯💯🔥
Hard to see the difference between the channels. But I’m assuming these reactions have less of a “take” at the end and more fun? Either way great and hilarious video!
If you base a relationship on social position or money, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak later on in life. What happens to your feelings towards your significant other when they get irreparably injured and cannot provide anymore? What happens when the divide between what you bring to the relationship vs what they bring becomes a chasm incredibly wide and deep? Look for a partner that looks at who you are and falls in love with you not anything else.
Are you taking about the big girl. Naw she's not doing that. Shes talking about her accomplishments as she should be able too and be proud of her hard work. Wanting someone to be on your level or above is not a negative trait when you have your shit together.
Not considering finances is setting yourself up for resentment later in life, how they get their money, how they spend it, are more important than almost anything in a long term relationship.
Its like a game of mortal kombat. One is pushing and the other is backing. Eventually the person pushes back but the more you push the closer they get to the wall.
I was so fixed on preach’s shirt with the stain/shadow on it It was moving… I couldn’t explain it It could be a pendant pushing the shirt, but why is it darker not lighter?? Mabey a shadow infront of the light But the shadow had a defined edge, so according to the inverse square law The object should be big or the light source really small, smaller than the object
That chick in the hat is like the type of dude women be complaining about, I bet she ask "Wheres my hug?" lol. Just expecting too much.
Those people are so annoying. They don’t have any social awareness and are pushy.
😂😂😂😂😂 bruhhh... 'where's my hug'.. rolls eyes irritatedly..
Unfortunately there is a trope of lesbian like her. The less interested you get the hotter for you they get. 😢
Lol I was such a quiet and awkward kid growing up, and I'll never forget in middle school seeing a boy go up to a girl and saying "where's my hug?" With his arms open after she hugged his friend, and I thought "you can do that?" and then I saw the look on her face when she half hugged him and I was like "no you cannot..." 😅
She do look like “
Where’s my hug type person “
This is cringe and hard too watch especially the lesbian couple cause it seams like she was forcing the issue and the other girl was totally uncomfortable smh
Yeah. Girl in the hat shows she can't listen or take pushback at all. She just keeps going on and on
It’s crazy because she’s acting like they’ve been together for years when they only been on 1 or 2 dates lol
the girl in the hat is pretty intense and giving limerence
@@craziebarbietalks692 If the internet is to be believed, a lot of lesbian couples move (too damn) quickly. Like, you got people out here moving in after a month and saying I love you after the second date, hence the "Lesbian U Haul". So with that in mind, hat girl's expectations were in line with the way a good number of lesbian couples move. Unfortunately.
@@no.6377 it’s true. I’ve gone to school with a few lesbians and they moved so damn fast then the relationship turned into shit real quick lol. I also dated a girl just to see if I actually was gay. She moved too damn fast and that’s when I realized I wasn’t gay. When I broke it off after 2 weeks🤣🤣🤣🤣 she got mad and talked shit about me. Like girl this was temporary
I would never say "I'm not good enough for someone." We're simply not compatible, and life goes on. What you tell yourself is Vital.
It does. I had to learn that the hard way
But euphemisms don't help sometimes
@@ZeRasseruMost of the time.
Yeah, that's a good way to look at it
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Still don't know which one is Aba and which one is The Floor
Aba is the annoying one and the Floor is the one who always right.
The floor is the thing that squeaks in the videos as Aba is the one with the floor-width forehead
The Floor is the one with all the good takes
The floor is the "CREEEEK" you hear that gives the video some extra flavor.
@@DonJuan-z7cuhm
18:57 "They both big :/ " LMFAOOOOOOO Preach wildin
Dead!😂😂😂
Had to rewind LOL
Gah dayuuuum 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Preach was on one this episode 💀
I mean, he ain't wrong....
Good on the stable woman for knowing what she wants and then being really compassionate to the super intense woman. For laid back people that type of energy does feel chaotic and it’s draining.
Exactly. She seems like a clingy puppy and many people can't handle that. I'd panic
She just needs someone to match her energy.
Aba, Preach, The Floor & The Stain
😂😂
It’s a black shirt they won’t notice it Preach
@@andrescubillo7824 :D
the stain is MVP. literally can't get eyes of off it and waiting till it appear when it hides by the jacket
Like when the black light came on at the bowling alley and your jeans looked liked streak city from the.... detergent.
my ocd ass could not ignore the stain on preach's shirt
Thought I was the only one.....noticed it first frame
The way it moves is kind of wierd, what type of material is it?
Lmao don't disrespect the new member of the team. Aba,Preach, Mr.Floor, and now LiL Stain.😂
Lol, it was driving me insane!!
Lil stain is my G
the stud girl doesnt listen.... the girls shes with said that she doesnt like pda, and then goes on to suggest they kiss ON CAMERA. Her date was giving all the answers as to why they didnt work out and she just wasnt listening, she was in her own world.
Its super weird how these grown adults would rather take shots then just be upfront about what they didn't like about the other person. Everyone preaches about communication but nobody actually wants to do it.
People want communication until someone has something to say about then. Like the lady, she wanted the other woman to be upfront, if she were, she would have been offended. She got affended about the money talk, got offended she didn't want ro hold hands... Some people don't know what they want and the push that onto others. Most people are not ready to hear the truth
😂 Communication is important. Being able to accept and listen to what a person wants to communicate is reaaally important
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It's free alcohol that's why lol😂
literally everyone will say "be honest with me" but they only mean be honest to a certain extent. like if most girls ask their partners if they look good in something and to be honest, rarely will anyone actually say "na it looks shit". People would rather live the lie, which is fine - you do you
That girl in the hat gives seems like the kind of person who asks dumb questions like "Would you love me if I was a worm?" 😅 She's _soooooo_ intense!
LMAO big annoying vibes. Just talking to talking
Nah more “where my hug at?” Her Big desperate ahh
Lol "so when do I get a house key" vibes
Both of them have slim to no options. But if big girl with the hat wasn't a big girl was built like a Barbie doll other big girl would have been open to PDA. She isn't attracted to hat big girl she just has slim to no options.
@@pennyproud1621I don’t think it’s her looks. The woman with the locs is put off by her demeanor…mean mugging the server, just being all over her and they just met, etc. The woman with the locs appears to be someone who is very low-key…also the girl with the hat appears to be…not the brightest…I can tell her lack of intellect bothers the woman with the locs
7:20 I'm glad Preach caught onto that. It felt like this had happened multiple times and they only put in this one.
"Omg should I ask thi-"
"Yes, stop asking us that. Do you know what you're here for? Read the damn card!"
Lol that's my favorite part of this video 😂
That girl in the hat was mad creepy. She did not want to take no for an answer.
People dont know this but lesbian relationships have the highest rate of domestic abuse
@@hidenname541that was already disproven. It came from a study that also included lesbians who have been victims of domestic violence in previous straight relationships.
@@comesifa7469 No thats an actual statistical fact, at least where i live (Europe)
@@comesifa7469multiple studies
@@comesifa7469not true. Plus look into the fact that lesbians have the highest rate of divorce
girl in the bucket hat personifies the reason people get ghosted
Ironic how the "dude" of the lesbian relationship sounding exactly like a real dude dealing with rejection from a girl not into him lol
Damn, was literally just about to say this lol literally sounds like every salty dude that's interested in a girl who isn't interested in him
It’s not gender based. Straight women act that way too.
Typical Toxic hetero lesbo. I had a roommate exactly like her. They come off a conveyor belt. They're fucking crazy.
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Not with those masculine mannerisms though. That’s what they mean.
@@ab-gail Yea they do. Insecure people do that. And don’t say “insecurity is feminine” because that is BS. It’s a human trait.
Stop with the false dichotomies. People are a mix of traits and qualities and are many different things.
Preach gotta lot of energy today, aba strugglin
Which is which I forgot AGAIN
They seem high lmao, which who cares but lol at Preach's energy hes having fun XD
@@NZMunchie they're not high
@@donavan34I think Preach might actually smoke weed sometimes but 🤷🏾♀️
Sometimes u just hyper or tired
I hate when people say "I'm a bad texter" because it's almost always bullshit.
A "bad texter" might misspell a lot of things, or get distracted and leave on you read here and there, or just provide a lot of short answers because they prefer to talk on the phone. If they're only replying sporadically, or consistently leaving you on read, or they never initiate conversations... that's not being a bad texter. That person just doesn't care.
Just say "I'm not that into you" or whatever and be done with it.
“U were just really.. reserved” my heart would’ve sank into stomach
“U heard it here first folks we did not smash” would’ve had me holding back tears
Hey just a quick appreciation comment:
yall are hilarious and there's always a lot of fun in your stuff. But you're also both very socially perceptive and emotionally intelligent with matching empathy to boot.
Thanks for the laughs and the love, the good vibes and keeping it real. I think what y'all do is actually positive for young folks with interpersonal/social weaknesses (especially young men who need better role models). Much respect!
fyi - if you guys wanted to know for analytics, Aba, I found y'all from your past interactions with Destiny (girl's name btw).
The lesbian with the bucket hat is hella obnoxious. Shes been on other shows and she has been outright "gurl what's your number" and commenting on womens body parts etc. Shes like a toxic dude.
sometimes lesbians be like that and you think they wouldn't because they have experience being a girl 😭
Ouuu what shows
yeah its unfortunate, some lesbians bring that toxic masculinity stuff into homo relationships. when nobody hetero or homo should be doing it, but its more unfortunate bc like shes a woman-?
When you go on the *first few dates* and the other person is not yet comfortable enough to be physically affectionate with you, they do not need to explain themselves. They don't know you like that yet. You're just gonna come off as pushy and creepy when you demand explanations for something you have no entitlement to. There's direct and there's pushy.
The hat girl should've been confident to decide that the other girl wasn't reacting the way she wanted her to and it wasn't what she wanted. Instead she was acting like a lawyer and trying to force her to admit she wasn't really interested.
I agree. “I’m bad at texting” is an excuse people use for disinterest.
Or worse…
For dumb power games.
Yes and no. It can be that but there are many reasons people forget to text
Sometimes I write out the text and one of my kids start crying or I was cooking or I'm overwhelmed and I forget to press send. When I'm texting whilst busy I forget a lot to actually reply. I think I did and wonder why I didn't get a reply then check the messages then profusely apologise because I thought I did reply. I prefer phone calls for this very reason. I wait till I am completely free and actually set aside time to have a deep and meaningful conversation with the person/family/ friend
Depends i be busy always have. Moving around, leaving my phone around.
I aways will respond a few times but if i dont respond right away im not on or near ny phone good luck.
I'm bad at texting, I prefer calls over text because it's hard to convey how I feel over text. I always end up seeming dry over text
I’m more into calling when I feel it’s necessary. If it might not be, then I’ll text it
is this really what ppl think lol. i just have adhd and prefer phone calls
edit: ahh okay i see what you & Aba r saying now. it’s very different if that’s your excuse when you’re trying to start something new
For the ones asking who Aba is... he's the one the baby is gonna be named after
😂😂😂
Crossover event!
Well this didn’t age well…
@@taserblaizer377 lol RIP little Aba, you deserved better!
To little Aba😂
Preach got little kid fighting off a nap energy today lol
So on point!!
I had a girl come back around after a questionable absence. She straight ghosted me if i am honest. Month later, she texts me asking how are thing's, and i eventually got around to calling her out for her treat me poorly. She tried to laugh it off as a "No, i would never do that" until my receipts disagreed. I ended up blocking her the same day
Guys. please have standards. You are a human being too. Your time is valuable too. There IS someone out there that is willing to try just as hard as you do, to be in your life. Never accept answers such as "i knew i liked you once i rant through the rest and decided to double back to the only option that instantly drooled over me". Because seriously, imagine if the tables were turned, how quickly she would point out every single toxic detail about your whole existence if you did the same to her.
The hat girl is a pain in the ass! Too passive agressive, too pushy! The big girl dodged a bullet.
Preach: they both big. 😂💀
I can't watch these button episodes without Aba & Preach. You two Make these episodes so funny every time 🤣
LMFAO I LOVE PREACH IN THIS VIDEO
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It’s the jacket lol ..
"She not Santa Clause. This ain't Christmas. You gettin' coal!" 🤣
What ever preech was eating before filming was good as hell cuz it stuck around for a lil midnight snack on his shirt😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
It looks more like he sprayed perfume too close to his shirt as against food stain. The round shape of the stain looks more like spraying something too close to fabric
@@briankenome haha staingate we gots the stain csi on it
@@stephenfrancis303 😂
Yeeessssh. Lol
If you are too busy to reply to someone new for days, at the stage where you expect someone to try as best they can to figure you out, invest time and it isn't a 'chore' yet, something is wrong. Legitimate reason or not that person isn't currently available to start any kind of relationship.
Agreed.
If it’s urgent they woulda called me. Kmt. People are too entitled
@@PityOnlyFoolshow stupid are you? Scale of 1 to 10 if you can even count that high. If not, 1 to 5 will do.
@@PityOnlyFools why would someone who doesn't know you well call you for anything urgent?
@@DreJri would and do
It's just wild to me that the primary form of communication today is texting. That is the worst way to communicate with someone. So many things can be misconstrued or misunderstood. Thank god I'm married and too old for today's dating scene. It boggles my mind when I see these guys today trying to talk to my daughter. It just seems so awkward. Honestly, kids today just don't know how to talk to someone face-to-face.
So true.
I reaaaaally needed to hear some of the stuff you guys said. I'm 27, yet sometimes I act like the girl with the bucket hat. If they don't like you, well... they don't like and that's the simple truth. It's pathetic to wait for that other person to show interest (a situation I was a few days ago with a girl I like), when their silence and lack of communication tells you everything you need to know.
Thanks guys and will do better in the future.
"You can't ever make someone be who you want them to be. They are who they are." Nothing more to say, than words to live by.
The girl with the hat is just determined to be offended by everything. They went on one date and the other girl got in trouble with her like 15x already. She's just so insecure and sensitive about everything. It would just be drama in the long run.
I wish they introduce the new members of the team. I missed the episode when the floor joined but now when did the wet spot joined ?😮
😂
I find the lightheartedness of this channel more entertaining than the main. Either way, I’m gonna watch videos from both but these make me laugh a lot more lol. Keep doing you guys. Cheers.
Same 😂
Even with people who I don't look at on a romantic level I don't take 3 or 4 days. Because it just feels like it's rude, and I'm like if that's the energy you get and you can't explain anything I'm just going to move on with my life.
Bucket hat is overly aggressive and somehow blatantly unaware of it.
Abundance mindset and learning that attraction cannot be negotiated are two of the most powerful lessons everyone should know as early in life as possible.
Not clearly communicating you have an issue with what someone is doing is a huge problem becuase it sends mixed singals that will be interpreted differently. If i was the chick I would have ended the date because that doesnt sound like "i dont like PDA", it sounds like "i dont rock with you". CLEARLY communicate because you dont know each other and each others signs and what they mean.
That works on the assumption that someone cares to explain things.
Maybe she's barely figuring out if she likes her or not, dude they were barely getting to know each other 😂 some of y'all want people to communicate like they're narrating a game. Get some body language signals, go out and meet more people
I love how much fun preach is having with this one 😂😂😂❤❤
9:50
i appreciate this comment, aba
i struggle with this *heavily*
especially when its with people im constantly exposed to/ grew up with.
im still learning
this is another piece i needed for my foundation of learning.
It’s so strange how circumstances influence your perception. For example, the two women… I completely agree with everything you guys said regarding their different financial situations, specifically the part where you said that the woman who’s feelings were hurt by the other’s obvious distaste. However, in December I lost job where I had a 6 figure salary. Back then, I would’ve wholeheartedly hopped on the, “that’s your problem” bandwagon. However, now while rebuilding I’m not making what I did back in December and can relate to the woman who had her feelings hurt on some level even though I still agree that it is something that she needs to get over.
Anyway, I say all of this to say that regardless of our past experiences our current perception is largely influenced by our current reality and I think it’s interesting.
It means you're stupid. Normal people can understand situations even when we're not in them... hopefully you remain forcefully single while you broke...
Preach been on fire lately
Shout out to you both
He been in fire, period.
The bucket hat lady just loves setting herself up for Ls😂😂
Lol 😂 Exactly she is rather obnoxious wouldn’t you say?
I hope Preach becomes a father and a grandfather someday because all that energy and that laugh. I just know he has the dad gene in him and would be the best!
“They both big” 😬
😂🤣🤣
I can really relate to this video cuz I got grease stains on two of my most worn hoodies just this week.
that stud chick is so “where my hug at” 😭
Plan B Is What PUG CEO Should've Used But Again He Doesn't Know 2+2 So I See Why He Didn't
It's a fact, Rejection sucks no matter what or who you are.
You gotta just take the hit and keep walking, Life smack you down, you Keep Getting Up!
7:21 lol 😂... I clocked that tone right away too.
Aba, Preach, The Floor and The Stain On Preach's Shirt
I dunno, I have adhd and social anxiety, when I see someone text me I get anxious and I formulate a reply in my mind and then I’m building up courage to text it even when I’m super excited about someone, or even when I’ve known them for decades, with my friends I’m more likely to respond quicker because I know them I can predict their responses, so that makes me less anxious, but if I’m having a few bad days even my friends don’t hear from me cause I’m too in my head about how to respond. Because of that, I often do genuinely forget to reply, I’ve formulated the reply in my head, when I eventually get distracted before I found the courage to reply, I forget and then get convinced I did send it, then I be waiting for their reply and to avoid getting anxious about that I put it out of my mind, like they’ll respond when they’re ready, it’s chill it’s cool, then if I really like them it’ll be a day or so where i go to check and then realise omg I didn’t text, now I’m freaking out that I haven’t replied and how rude I may seem. On a good day, I pull up my big girl panties and say honestly I thought I replied and was waiting for you, if it’s a bad day, I just continue to freak out until I’m distracted or the person texts again and then I’ll try to figure it out from there repeating the cycle.
But then I also get anxious with phone calls 😅 I don’t know how to fix it but I’m in therapy so 🤞🏽 but for years I didn’t know I had social anxiety and couldn’t figure out why texting and calls were so stressful so I just came off as uninterested or aloof, or leading people on 🤷🏽♀️
Sometimes is just hard for people, but maybe they shouldn’t be dating until they figure that out 🤔
That one where she was telling the other about no pda and etc, she's acting like how a lot of guys act that are being impatient with a girl they really want to get with but isn't ready. So it's not just guys that can't these kinds of hints.
The stud was figuring out how men feel in the friends zone!
Truly bad texters exist, I live with one.
I have been with my man for almost 5 years, and he is trash at texting.
It’s his brain though. ADD/ADHD riddled brain and he is also a paramedic and they seem to suffer from threshold syndrome like a mofo.
Because of the things he is done and we have been through, I know he loves me. I don’t need him to reply to a text for that.
He was like that when I met him and he is still like that now, and we share a life!
That being said… I would agree that MOST people, more so than not, who say they are “bad texters” just don’t have a lot of want to text you back.
I’m a girl, so I don’t know if this is a difference in gender or if it’s just me, but I am a bad texter, and for me it’s the opposite of what they were saying. If I’ve been on one or two dates, I’m more likely to be bad at texting back because I haven’t built a strong connection and haven’t fully lowered my walls to expect anything out of it yet…. It’s when I’ve bonded with someone more and connected with them deeper that they’re the person I’m constantly thinking to text when I see a meme or whatever or ask about their day.
When I’ve gone on one or two dates with someone and I’m still figuring them out and if there’s even chemistry and all that-I’m much more likely to see their text, not know how to respond and get distracted by something I’m doing and intend to respond later and just forget. I’ve also left friends and family “on read” for days numerous times in the past when my anxiety or depression has been bad. (And a lot of times dating gives me anxiety and even if I am into someone will find reasons to put off dates and all that when it’s still new)
That’s me too. I just get nervous about talking to people I like 😅
Preach so correct on this.. one time I was outside smoking on break with some of my boys.. I had a beer on my coat pocket and some herb in my back pocket trying to chill. This new girl walk about and says hey! Can I hang out with you guys?? I said “No.” she turned around like fine then! I didn’t wanna hang out anyway!!! She quit the next day and said she doesn’t feel like she fits in.
Everyone kept saying what the hell is wrong with you Devin?!?! I said what, she asked me a question and I gave her an answer. In reality I didn’t know if she would snitch on my beer 😏
😂😂
She was a definite mole!
I respect the honesty😂✊🏽
The “when two big people find each other” comment was funny because I say the same for tall or short people. When two tall people get together I’m so happy for them. I don’t mind opposites but it’s nice finding someone who can relate to you.
I agree with the sentiment that there will always be a reason for someone else to look at you and think "nah, this isn't enough for me," and thats okay. It doesn't feel good, we're all human here and we want to feel enough especially to those we may have affection for but those negative feelings aren't absolute and you aren't enough for some people, and that's okay,heck in reality we all have expectations of those we choose to love but you are indeed enough in general.
11:34 valuable life lesson right here 👏 It takes a lot of maturity to accept this.
Lol you guys crack me up so much and somehow straddle the line between cutting up and making jokes back to back and then engaging in sincere and heartfelt intellectual conversation in the same breath. A rare dynamic - cherish your friends!!
If someone don’t align with what you want or like or belief move on. Why try to convince, beg, persuade, or shame?
Preach's energy today is amazing 😍
"Why didn't we have sex on the first date" is a gross question. Why is sex on the first date expected? Nobody has religious values anymore? Modesty is dead?
People are nasty.
Hold on back up the people wasn't expecting it so what are you wanting😂
@otisthomas9976 asking "why didn't we" kind of implies that it's expected, or at least that it's the norm.
@Dog_in_tree bt they wasn't and was laughing at the question, so isn't that what should matter 🤔. They weren't even thinking about or expecting it just bc it was asked. It shouldn't mean changing how you operate, correct? Or maybe questions and words sway people like yourself
You don't have to be religious to have "no sex on a first date" be a standard.
Never heard of y'all. The algorithm brought me here. I liked all the male wisdom I felt like I was getting an inside looking to how men think about these things I'll subscribe😊
I'm a quadruple texter, i be having podcasts with myself in that chat, he's going to come back to his phone to see a lot of nonsense.
I love when I see they’ve posted on this channel now! It’s always a good fun vid 😁 love both channels but this one’s my fav 😊
The floor be spitting straight facts 🗣🔥🔥🔥
For a brief second i thought it was Ziwe in the thumbnail and just imagining how great that episode would be
I don't understand the argument that a person needs to make the same or more. Then she followed up with my mom taught me to take care of myself. Okay, so if both parties can take care of themselves, what's the problem?
Don’t know if anyone has mentioned the stain on preach shirt but imma get ahead and say we rocking witchu brotha, that stain represents genuine content🤯💯🔥
Uh... it ain't normal to be wanting PDA on the first or second date. Hell even the third day. That's being pushy as fuck.
“When two big people find each other” 😭😂💀 aba why
They both big. Preach i saw that 😂😂😂
The girl in the hat experience how women speak to men when they are successful but it's Soft guy era! Drizzle drizzle!
Drizzle drizzle
Hard to see the difference between the channels. But I’m assuming these reactions have less of a “take” at the end and more fun? Either way great and hilarious video!
Main channel is more news and celebrity commentary, while this one is light stuff for people who just want that
If you base a relationship on social position or money, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak later on in life. What happens to your feelings towards your significant other when they get irreparably injured and cannot provide anymore? What happens when the divide between what you bring to the relationship vs what they bring becomes a chasm incredibly wide and deep? Look for a partner that looks at who you are and falls in love with you not anything else.
Are you taking about the big girl. Naw she's not doing that. Shes talking about her accomplishments as she should be able too and be proud of her hard work. Wanting someone to be on your level or above is not a negative trait when you have your shit together.
@@PearlTheSpinster this is more of general statement as a thought provoked by the content.
Plus, money and status can easily disappear... Then you end up with nothing in the relationship
Not considering finances is setting yourself up for resentment later in life, how they get their money, how they spend it, are more important than almost anything in a long term relationship.
@@yn7751 it's more their character in how they use their money than how much they have right?
Preach got an arc reactor from Tony Stark
Preach on a rolll today🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Preach is so hyped today. And I’m here for it ❤🎉😂
The last girl that I tried to date that said she was a "bad texter" definitely took 3-5 business days to respond 💀
I love Preach’s leather jacket and energy in this video!
I love Aba's response about being crass & knowing time & place.
I love preach today
Its like a game of mortal kombat. One is pushing and the other is backing. Eventually the person pushes back but the more you push the closer they get to the wall.
Didn't expect anythng different
I have been watching a movie on my phone and completely forgot after taking a look at a not so important text.
I was so fixed on preach’s shirt with the stain/shadow on it
It was moving… I couldn’t explain it
It could be a pendant pushing the shirt, but why is it darker not lighter??
Mabey a shadow infront of the light
But the shadow had a defined edge, so according to the inverse square law
The object should be big or the light source really small, smaller than the object
that gay dude is hilarious, "ooh, a spark" 😂
The floor is always spitting facts
The real star of the show
That little 😯 preach does when aba of all people says "you could be a gentleman" killed me 😂😂
If you have to kiss someone to tell if their are sparks then there are none. U should not have to even touch some one if there is good chemistry 😂
Associates due to convenience is what i heard; she had all these pre qualifiers😂
We need to see Aba on the button now.
"you're not santa claus. this ain't christmas" is extra funny because i am actually watching this on christmas.
Aba: the big girl...
Preach: they're both big
😂😂😂 Stop it
Preach FUNNY AFFFFF bro had me crying the whole video! 🤣