The Divorce Double Standards in the Blk Community - Jodie Turner Smith, Damien Lilliard & More
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Some of you in the comments are still missing the point. Yes celebrities of all races are divorcing but only one coupling type is being used to manipulate black women and limit our options. The divorce rate is also the highest in the black community regardless if other race celebrities are divorcing at a high rate. Therefore trying to use Jodie and Tamar against black women who marry or date out is just another way to control black women. Let’s not miss or overgeneralize the message.
I'm still dating out. Black males will never be my only option and they are no longer my first one.
@Pimpdaddyalanyour handle alone tells us you’re the dustiest of the dusties. Dust mites be gone! If you need a passport and can’t afford one let us know. Maybe we can start a goFund YOU!! 🤣
Donna pug u probably don’t even look good
@@donnapug Whew! Not that is a good telling off! Go Donnapug!
@PimpdaddyalanYou are not taking the emotional and mental abuse of black women seriously. When you laughed at this comment you are condoning the abuse.
We are here to have a serious discussion. If you can not be mature about this (once again) SERIOUS conversation please leave.
I’m being nice to you and explaining how & why what you said was inappropriate. If you aren’t going to take things seriously then respect our boundaries in our own place.
If this is too much for you to read and comprehend then you are further signifying to us what type of person you truly are. Have the day you deserve love ❤️
The moral is to not romanticize anyone's relationship. Just focus on yourself. I don't get why people try to fear monger when literally 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. It's literally a toss up so what's the use in idealizing the lives of others!
Right?
ID think the arguments regarding couples is about romanticizing anything. It's too much tit for tat regarding who marries and who gets divorced.
@@sheritownsend5359😅.
Celebs are divorcing in droves these days. It doesn’t seem to matter whether they are interracial unions or not.
I heard Justin Trudeau is single 👀👀👀
💯
I'm still dating out. Black males will never be my only option and they are no longer my first one.
Ladies, never be loyal to anyone that has never been loyal to you.
They also don’t want us to date out, because they want to continue to keep us for back up, in case things don’t work out with their preferences.
They ain't workin out 😂they preference gets the same mf😂 bw get.
That part!
Not over here!
They can only hope that they have options like that. Whomever is still waiting on them has low self esteem.
This is it.
I don't care if these celebrity black women and non black men marriages didn't work/divorced. I am still open to dating other races of men. It is alot of interracial marriages between black women and non black men who workout in real life.
Me and my husband just had our first child. I wish they try that😂
The moment Jodie proposed to Joshua, I knew that marriage wouldn't last long 👀👀 at least she married up.
I wish she didn't do that😒
She did marry up
@@tangiechapman6219 she did, that’s the only thing she did correctly😂😂😂
@@garnetbabe2.0godschild40 yeah me too😒😒
Ciara and Russel Wilson is another couple black women celebrate and live through vicariously. They wouldn’t dare tell black women to stop dating black men if they broke up.
Exactly.
I agree. Also a lot of those weird guys are always trying to clown Russell for marrying her.
They put Russel down a lot though. I’ve seen him being called a simp way too many times for simply taking care of his family. It really shows how ridiculous and ignorant black men are when it comes to traditional dynamics.
I don't care how bad it gets out here, black men are in my rear view mirror. Black love is a losing game.
Your last sentence reminded me of that Amy Winehouse song.
Literally nothing to gain from being with them at this point
LOVE is never a losing game. What is passing for "love" in the BC is a losing game.
@@sheritownsend5359you literally just agreed with her. Some of you just comment for no reason but just to comment.
@@toebeans3985I loved that song!
Everyone is divorcing nowww no matter the race 😂😂
Not only that, but, per recent census, the marriage rate is below 50%. Lowest ever in America.
@@sheritownsend5359 are you surprised? Things are going bad out here? But i still have Hope
Or length of the marriage. Some people who have been married for many years have been getting divorced.
Literally it’s like divorce season cause damn. I never seen so many breaking up at once
It's also interesting that the people who are against BW dating out never mention the success stories like Serena Williams and Eve. They only get to chirping when a relationship fails.
Exactly 💯🔥
Until death do them part, there is no such thing as a successful relationship. I don't put any of these couples on a pedestal.
@sotired9790 Acknowledging a relationship as loving, stable, and healthy is not putting it on a pedestal. It's also asinine to say since everybody dies, there is no such thing as a successful relationship because that would also have to apply to nonromantic relationships. Would the parental relationship between a mother and her child automatically be considered a failure since they will both die one day?
@@KeraBear28 I think they just meant that being that marriage is supposed to last until death, once someone in a marriage dies that’s the real testament of a marriage actually lasting but until that happens you don’t know if it’ll last because ppl can get a divorce at any time
In the Star wars guy who is married to a black woman.
Jodie’s relationship seemed doomed from the start. The man shared it stated with casual sex. Then they shared she asked him to marry her. It seemed she liked him more then he liked her. I would not have used this relationship as a poster since before they announced their divorce.
Women do it everyday!🤷♀️🤦♀️
On Family Feud, Chrissy Tiegen told the audience that she and John Legend had s*x the first time they saw each other. Aren't they still married with 3 or 4 kids?
Facts. This is what I remember. It was like he was amused by her infatuation. Their love never seemed mutual to me.
@@Lovely-nd8ts He could have easily said no, if he did not want to be married. Black men tell black women know all the time when black women beg them to marry them after being strung along for years. He seemed happy in the marriage.
@@Patty-ys4pv just because black men are typically the worst of the worst when it comes to relationships, marriage, and stringing black women along, it doesn’t mean that we should celebrate or condone black women proposing to non black men. Idc that Joshua said yes, he still should’ve been the one to propose to Jodie, and black women should not be proposing to any race of men.
I think the fact that black women and white men are some of the most successful couples in this country is a flex. I think the reason the coupling works is because when it happens, it’s genuine and not forced. I fear that if some of us date out only cause we can’t stand black men, the numbers will take a negative hit. Black men date out cause they hate us. And that’s why their relationships fail with other races. I don’t want us to have that same mindset when dating out. I stand by that.
A lot of BW doing it to piss BM off. It will end in tears.
💯agree.
@@mystyyyyy she already interviewed a white man on her channel that said he doesn’t want a black woman that hates black men. He was talking about those swirler channels that constantly mention their hate for them. We need to be realistic and take our futures serious. Reasons do matter. May the best man win.
@@rect835I saw that video. I saved that video!!! It was great! Eye opening. Educational. I recommend it.
@@rect835 The standard for Black Men and Black Women to date outside are much different
Black men threw a FIT when Tia Morwy divorced her black husband
Now Tia is mad of the consequences.
Well he's a dusty who didnt lvl up when he got with her. These BM are really mad that tia kicked him out & didnt struggle with him for rhe next 50 yrs.
@@mstwelvedeadlycynsshe isn’t mad. She just wanted another black man but on her level and that isn’t happening. She’ll open up to swirling eventually and will be happy her in her next marriage if she isn’t the breadwinner again.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Tia is not mad about anything. You have a comprehension issue.
@@queenprincess4life She looking at Tamara like 🤔
8:15 Great point Chrissie that's often overlooked. BM never go after other BM for failed relationships and definitely not when it involves a nonblack woman. They make the man out to be the victim. If a BW dates out, there is animosity; they take it personal.
This is a Hollywood problem with couples divorcing. Don't matter the race or gender. Quite sad. But I still can't believe Jodie proposed to him . Why!
Because she’s a clown 😂
Ikr. Look at the pics of the BW, pregnant and all, proposing to BM. Did you note body language of the men? 🌈
IDKY, but do you remember a commercial years back where a Black couple, on a date, was sitting at a table and the girl proposed to the guy by pulling out a ring? This made a lot of BW angry. The girl in that commercial was Jodie.
@sheritownsend5359 It was her???
whoever propoe it doesn't last long anyway
The Swirl Is Not Stopping!
Exactly
That's a fact.
The kangs aren't gonna stop swirling in the dust storm despite their failing relationship stats. The rates for bw and non BM is still the highest, so it is better to keep your options open.
Ever!!😂
🎶Whitey, whitey. If you black, nothing for you. But if your white, there’s something for you 🎶
As a young black girl I love what you’re doing for our image as blk women 💕
Stay enlightened young queen!!
Same ❤
I’ve been following her for near 8 years now ❤️, never disappoints
Ain’t shit gonna change for y’all though
Chrissie you been going in with these videos. You say what everyone is scared to say and what needs to be said.
And so classy when she does it! ❤ 💅🏾
That's why she's the GOAT
Jodie's beautiful skin and bone structure are EVERYTHING! I hope she uses her beauty and increased publicity to her advantage and focuses on her acting/modeling career more.
The problem is a lot of bm dont want bw happy period. Bm dont want bw or like bw but at the same time dont want to see bw in couples. Bm love seeing bw miserable, alone and unloved. Its obsessive and irrational.
They are sick in the head
Also Tina and Richards relationship is definitely built off of some colorism. He said she was his dream women because of her looks. Mathew even admitted that he married her back then because she looked white. Richard wanted Tina, until he got tired of her personality. That’s why it’s important to get to know a persons character first and black men need to grow up and learn that.
Black Woman too. Dont forget Tina publicly like Ciara did to Russell, that their men were not perfect. Too many Ls to give out!
Black men themselves have shitty character.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Bw don’t mainly date out for looks. We date out with genuine intentions, That’s why mixed kids with black mothers are more secure in their identity. Bm date non black women, for shallow reasons which is why their children grow up having issues. End of story.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns the reaction to that was so silly. How is it disrespectful or emasculating to admit that someone is not perfect. Silly.
I think most men could careless about a woman’s personality. As long as the woman is beneficial.
Jodie proposing to that guy will never make not cringe, yikes. She’s too beautiful for those shenanigans.
Women propose sometimes.
@@Patty-ys4pv and it’s embarrassing when they do
C’mon y’all. Did any of us really believe Tamar’s relationship would last? Especially since they met on reality TV? Evelyn’s marriage ain’t gon last either. 🙄
Your point about healing is insightful. I would normally disagree in principle, but you're right when it comes to weaponizing it against female swirlers. There's a lot of "healing" that needs to be done in the blk community period. Not to mention the plethora of bm who swirl and bring their self-hate issues with them, even passing it down to their biracial children. But everyone wants to clutch their pearls when a bw wants to talk about her problems with colorism or self-esteem, especially if she's dating/married to a white man.
Then they turn into a bunch of Helen Lovejoys. "WoN't SoMeBoDy PLEASE tHiNk Of ThE cHiLdReN"🙄😂
😂
Is that line from a movie?
@afiaohemeng8627 no it's from The Simpsons
I was only laughing at the Helen Lovejoy reference.
I was hoping that you would speak about this. The commentary that I saw around Damian Lillard and Kay'La Lillard’s divorce was absolutely disgusting. Black men were celebrating, bashing her looks and encouraging him to date a white woman. It just reminded me how you always say that black women shouldn’t “hold a man down” or position themselves to be the “up-come woman”. You’re so important Chrissie!
It's hella weird that people idolize celebrities and their relationships. We don't know these people or what happens in their lives. I don't know who most of these celebrities are. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
LOL seriously! Who are these people? I think I’ve officially become an auntie. However Chrissie’s points still stand. I’ll listen to the message even if I don’t know who the examples are.
1. Regarding ANYONE who champions BW and non BM relationship break ups, remember: #1 divorce rate in America = BM with non BW, #2 divorce rate in America = BM with BW. What's the common denominator? That's all you need to know and share when somebody tries to make a big deal out of BW and nonBM breakups. Just keep reminding them of that! They'll leave you alone.
2. Regarding ANYONE speaking against BW swirling - Ask them how BW are supposed to handle outnumbering BM by 2 million ( which is common knowledge) when it comes to relationships. Their answers will tell you whether or not they have the BW's best interest in mind.
My husband and I are each other's marriage goals, not no celebrity, not even Russell Wilson and Ciara, Barack & Michelle Obama! 2023 is like Kryptonite on celebrity marriages and relationships.
That's the way it's supposed to be!!! Marriage goals should be what you and your significant other deems those goals to be. Not based on some fantasy image of celebrities relationships.
Don't forget Denzel and Paulette
I truly wouldn't mind dating out but they just stare and not approach in person but they go ham on the dating apps.😒😒😒
Facts, theirs a hispanic guy that is my neighbor...I think, he's handsome, but I dont think, his females in his family would want him 2 talkin/datin to me. 🤷🏾♀️
@@ShadesOfIvoryDid they tell you that?
Lol so true. The staring is wild too sometimes, like blatantly staring. Like say something! Lol. But I just accept that they’re not that interested if they don’t approach
I recommend participating in hobbies and activities where diverse groups of men will be. The activity will make it easier for the man to break the ice if he's nervous or unsure of how to apprpach you.
@@angelmushahf Many men who stare are afraid to approach. Especially if you are a Black woman. Many are afraid of rejection. I would smile and keep it moving. Smiling gives them confidence that maybe there's nothing to be afraid of.
So many celebrities, regardless of race, are divorcing left and right this year!! What in the world is going on? 😨
The age of Awakenings! More to come. 😂
I think people are seeing much that life has to offer while it’s short lived. I’m married as well and believe that if there were something wrong, to speak on it and find solutions that helps a marriage stay afloat( now, if there is abuse or cheating going on in a marriage, then yes, breaking away from that person is recommended).
Today’s couples though are not trying to “ put in too much effort “ into something they have no faith in anyway. Life is short. They want to break free I guess🤷🏽♀️
I’d also like to add that in some cases, the spouse may see toxic behaviors and want to break from that asap.
Ever since c0vid marriages are divorcing more & more.
I'm only surprised that ppl are acting like this is brand new
Because marriage isn't for everyone I have been saying this.
When I said "black love is a scam' on tiktok I was crucified. It's a way to blackmail black women, black men don't live by this lmao they are their own whole community seperate from bw
Let me tell you what I saw so much of say the Dave Chappelle show in Chicago. There were so so many black women dating out and not just white men but I saw one with a fine Indian guy. Girlllllllll it was a good site for sure eyes.
You say most people are not perfect, when nobody's perfect at all!
You really couldn’t have said this any better Chrissie
Another PERFECT video! Chrissie you do it everyyyytime. I have never seen a video from you that I don’t agree with because you are always on point! Thank you for what you do for heart and image of the black woman community🙏🏽💗
you can swirl and adopt a baby girl who looks like you. don’t let your vanity force you into limiting your options.
Damn everybody breaking up😂 it must be break up season smh
I agree...it seems everyone breaking up. Relationships are a gamble anyway...
This year the break ups and divorces have been a lot and in our faces round the clock. The issue might be broken people looking for attention and validation from public relationships. Great video as always, Chrissie!
I definitely agree with not reacting to these negative stories and being INDIFFERENT to things that seem like a negative look for black women. I don’t give these kinds of stories energy. I put my FOCUS and ENERGY into positive stories about black women. I really hope more black women do the same and start amplifying stories that are positive for us and stop giving energy to people/ channels/ accounts/ “celebs” that seem to be hard set on pushing a negative struggle narrative onto BW. If we don’t give them clicks and views, those stories will fizzle out.
Love the video, Chrissie! BW deserve the best! 💖 Put yourselves first ladies! 💖💖💖
💯 I do the same. Only positive bw content for me. Not interested in the light bill convos or "dating" men in between living arrangements... 😬 That narrative is not working on me at all. Wish more bw would do the same! Really appreciate this comment. 🙏
If Black women are willing.
YES to FOCUS and ENERGY into positive stories about Black Women 👩🏾👩🏿👩🏽 🏆🏆🏆 BW You are the PRIZE! 💐
Teanna and Jodie both had weird ass relationships. When Jodie's husband bragged about _her_ proposing to _him_ on live TV and she told us all that their marriage started out as a one night stand, I was just done😂😂 Then Teanna telling the whole damn world nothing is off limits when it comes to bringing people into her relationship. 😮
But of course, only one kind of relationship is being used to put down black women😑
The divorce rates still say it all, though. They need to keep this same energy with the likes of Jeanni Mai and her Dark meat side piece.
The bottom line of it all: be open to dating different race of men while not worshiping any men. As simple as that.
Celebrities are divorcing and breaking up left and right. You know what they say, celebrity relationships never last.
Yep.....Tom Brady was left....ww mad too😂
Celebrity relationships have nothing to do with me. Ladies explore your options get a man that compliments you in every way
Chrissie these pro-black channels almost had me lol i thought I was making the wrong choice dating outside my race. But hearing you call out all of the deceitful bm in the media made me feel so much better about it
As a blk woman divorcing my blk husband..I am happy to be single, and decentering men period.
I feel like once the world opened all the way back up people started looking for better😂
Didn’t Jodie Turner-Smith propose to her husband? Now here’s a chance for her to be pursued by someone
One of the reasons for me dating out is what Chrissie said. Ever since I was in 5th grade (probably even before that), I’ve always been attracted to non-black guys. Majority of the time it’s been Hispanic or white guys. I liked an Asian guy at one point too.
I grew up in a diverse, multicultural environment and I’ve always been interested in other cultures, not even from a romantic standpoint. Hell, my major in college was International Studies lol I’ve always felt more comfortable around mixed groups as opposed to a predominant race.
I’ve never felt I was only limited to blk guys because they were never my first option. I’ve been approached by men of other races on several occasions. Also, my lifestyle/hobbies, etc seem to be on the same wavelength of non-blk men. With all of that being said, I’m 34 now. None of this is going to change.
I have dated white men my entire life. Girl Non-Black men is like a breath of fresh air.
@@DarkWifeyit’s one thing to like other races. when you call them a breath of fresh air is when it sounds like self hate. y’all can’t keep your options open without shittig on people.
@@sbrooks904well tell the men that because it’s literally a breeze around here ☺️
✨✨❤️🔥👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿Chrissie this video is so important and needed, and I also understand it’s highly important for the fact that when black women finally come into their senses by smell the roses and coming their true femininity and really appreciating and realizing that they are the true prize and exploring their options people want make a big deal out it it really annoying❤️🔥👸🏿✨👸🏿
It’s sad to see this divorces period regardless of race. We need to focus on healthy relationships.
When… marry for the wrong reason, it will never work. People are too entitled this day and age. Its as clear as day. People are too proud and want to romanticize covenant. Marriage is covenant, but people just want romance all the time. 😊
Best comment. Today we are too proud, too cocky, too in-your-face,
I agree I don’t hold other humans on a pedestal.
Im sorry but every time Jodie appeared on screen I just couldn't focus lol she's STRIKING!
I have no idea what I’m saying but is mercury in retrograde? There’s a new divorce every 6 hours 😭🥴
It was probably the Venus retrograde tbh🤷🏾♀️
@ChrissiesWay yes. Mercury went direct on September 15th. I'm a gemini rising mercury moon and Venus and Cancer sun!!! Venus retrograde is doing this
Lol..We had the last Super moon for this year too which I think was somewhere in September
The Nodes. The South Node is in Libra. Moving away from partnerships to the North Node in Aries. People want their independence back. We're heading into eclipse season. We're likely to see more breakups.
I was really shocked when I saw the news about Jodie 😢
It's too many people spliting up. I'm suspicious cause at this point everyone is in cahoots. 😂
Hi Chrissie
Can you make a video on how we as black women can be more eloquent when we speak and enhance the way we carry ourselves.
Yes I agree I think a lot of black women need those type of teachings because most of us weren’t taught those things like elocution lessons and femininity teachings
I just came across a woman on here with misconceptions about why DSBW date out. She believes we date out because we want light skinned children. And we're colorist. We dont need white people to produce light kids as we are genetically diverse already. I also had to tell her colorism is putting down blackness as the reason to date out. DSBW collectively, do not tell men that others are better than them when we step out. We dont highlight their failures while uplifting others because we know men are men.
I had to comment and tell her black women date black men. But we go where we are appreciated which means we dont pass up on love due to race.
Im seeing everyone use their "issues" with black women to grow platforms. Meanwhile we're in a space where we are recognizing the beauty, and worth that we were led to believe didnt exist and I truly believe the world isnt ready for that one. 💁🏿♀️
These days we're on some "do whatever and leave us out of it" type of stuff. For some reason though they just have to incorporate us.
I guess.
I’m sorry but Jodie proposed to that man…hellllll nooooo! That was doomed from the beginning.
Jodie’s relationship was doomed from the start. Ppl do not see the red flags. Jodie put that man on a pedestal and that’s some of the reasons why their relationship failed. These pro black quacks, however, want to keep BW indebted to them, lol. Which is failing as well, and I’m happy.
He was her celebrity crush. Many women would have done the same for their celebrity crush.
@@Patty-ys4pv u need to stop commenting this same nonsense about him being her celebrity crush as if that justifies a black woman chasing a man. It doesn’t matter if a man is your celebrity crush u let the man pursue and chase you, you never chase any man, let along propose to one idc who he is or how fine you think he is!
@@Patty-ys4pv hell no.. that’s a farce. A crock of bull. If you have standards, you have them with all..
Another important point when it comes to Jodie, SHE proposed to the HIM not the other way round. this guy didn't want marrriage to start with.
If he didn't want to marry her he would have said no. Many black men tell black women no even after being in relationships with them for years. He always looked happy when he was with her.
@@Patty-ys4pvhe wanted to get married. He just liked knowing he was “the prize” to her. Maybe she stopped kissing his butt
I date out because of trauma and feel no guilt at all
The amount of bm happy over all these relationships with bw failing is beyond disgusting. What men love to see their women get hurt??? It's just sick!! Why don't bm focus on bm/ww relationships that fail and these women end up taking these bm to the cleaners???
Relationship sometimes do not work however i do believe in black women winning. Black women should open their dating options.
Yesss. It’s ok to find nonblack men more attractive than black men❤️❤️❤️ (same logic they use on why they date out).
Jodie is so beautiful, intelligent, talented, and confident in herself 💜💜💜. Her and that baby going to be just fine 🙏🏽🙌🏽
this obsession with race is just bad...
Hello everyone I hope you are having a blessed day. I want you to know that Jesus loves you, is the truth and the way to your salvation and having everlasting life. Please accept him, repent(change your mind, and ways), form a relationship(through prayer reading the word), and shame the Devil. In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾 ❤
Go where you are celebrated 😊
Well we don't really see the average couple's divorce rate. Celebrities are all over the news and social media, that's why we see their divorce rate. Personally I'm not that interested in anyone else's relationship except for my own.
11:11 I had to be fully healed before dating and entering into relationships so I can be open and love someone how I want to be loved. I just cannot have trauma and other problems while trying to give myself to someone. I cannot focus on that person and their needs if I have my own issues dealing with. I'm glad I got over those because I'm in a happier place and walk away easily from something that doesn't or no longer serves me. It might sound selfish but I'm not getting into any situation unless I'm benefiting in some way. And best believe when I do walk away I'm walking right into dating again and being open for another relationship.
IDK if anybody can be FULLY healed but there is a saying that 'if you don't value yourself, the person you attract won't value you either'. There's another saying that 'water seeks its own level'. These are not direct quotes, but there are a lot of sayings like these. They imply that who you attract and are attracted to, says a lot about the person you are.
There is no such thing as being fully healed, we just learn better coping skills and better responses to situations. Also, a lot of relationship healing occurs within a relationship because that’s when people are tested with different scenarios. Black women taking themselves off the market for extended period of times for healing is counterproductive.
Absolutely agree with this @@tgsg858
Scaring black women won’t work 😂 we will continue to date and marry Brian instead of Tyrone !!! 🤷🏾♀️
I want to speak from a 44 year-old black woman's point of view I'm been considered a cougar not by choice because I just recently was involved with a twenty-five-year-old who approached me who's also a Latino but you know what I'm saying it's like I'm not going to get caught up and skin color it's all about your energy and how you treated me and he treated me just more tenderly I felt in my whole life by any race
It lasted as long as any other Hollywood couple. Their careers are going in different directions with no time to be a couple.
For me there were several thoughts I had about them .
First I wanted it to work for Jodie because of how she said she was treated by BM
Next it was my own personal crush of Joshua Jackson from when I was young
But honestly I felt uncertain about them and hoped for the best but her asking him to marry her felt like the wrong decision to make if you weren't going to do a long engagement and fully get to know and love things about each other also I felt she needed to probably holla at a therapist but that was just my thinking.
Joshua Jackson did frustrate me with him over sharing but he did seem to if not deeply love her enjoy who he was with but we can't know what she feels he failed at or where they failed together but as you asked him to marry you it shows he wasn't exactly on the same page yet.
Lastly I was worried if they rushed into having their kid I thought they should be focused on their partnership more than bringing a child in their situation but maybe they felt with their age they should have kids.
Lastly I'll say I can't relate to not being attracted to other races of men so I never related to BW who struggle with that. The only thing I focus on is our cultural differences. People might see it as me putting other races on a pedestal when that's just me being myself . The only thing I am doing on purpose is not entertaining BM based on the nonsense I'm not willing to deal with I'm not able to pretend the shit they do is okay. And if a white or Asian guy is doing similar things it's worse to me. 🤷🏾♀️
Thanks Chrissie for speaking for us logical women❤
Key word feelings! Jodie craves Hollywood.
Jodie will be fine. She seems the type that will move on quickly. She has 0ptions.
@@Karen-pf7yc Well for context it wasn't about her moving on why jump to that she asked him for marriage and created a child with him if not I'd say fine go be Lorie Harvey with it but if you've watched her she didn't seem like she entered the relationship in the way your saying it's like can we please keep it 💯 about people's decisions and how they need to be accountable not jump to their resilience on a situation they cause. No beef your just jumping to her being ok when we have no idea but let's hope you are correct.
All Basketball players are cheaters!! Kayla was tired of that sh***
BW don’t let these dudes manipulate u out of dating out. Find the _best_ man if you’re looking for a man. Most of the good ones are *outside* the BC imo 👰🏽♀️🤵🏻
I don’t know anyone in my real life getting a divorce. I don’t know ppl generalize things bc of celebrities.
Imma say it marriage i said MARRIAGE isnt for everyone. Im dead serious ladies aint gonna learn till you keep getting divorced.
come healed is a term coined by black women to black men.
I'm so glad Chrissie comes on here to set the record straight after she gets whiff of the BS circulating on the innanet when it comes to swirling and colorism.
😏✨✨❤️🔥👸🏿👸🏿😌🤨in all honestly this is triggering also questionable that black men especially don’t even want nothing to do with black women and or having a black family so don’t understand the typical black women shaming because we can and are having successfulness interracially dating and or relationship's…. Ridiculous honestly!!!❤️🔥✨❤️🔥👸🏿👸🏿👸🏿
I have never thought it was a good idea for a woman to purpose to any man.🤨
Jodie Turner Smith is stunning. I wish she understands that ❤
Girrrrrl you told the TRUTH! More power to you, you speak for me, thank u, thank u, THANK U😊
Thank you for making this video. I will continue to date out.❤
Most broken people on the planet 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 THAT PART.
There’s a very popular creator on this platform who is definitely an undercover black male worshipper. She suggested in a recent video that divestors worship non black men, but conveniently left out the one sided loyalty black women have towards black men. This creator makes pretty good content about hypergamy, but I suspect she’s slightly anti swirler with a sprinkle of black male worship.
Who is she?
I'm sure I know exactly who you're referring to, and it's disappointing because her content can be really valuable otherwise. I really hate how the term "divested" has been so misconstrued and vilified over the last few years. Many BW have divested from the toxic community and expanded their options without uplifting any other ethnic group.
@@lanid4B I used to adore her content, but I sense a slight shift in her undertone that doesn’t always resonate with me. Divestors will always have critics because they dared to choose themselves over the black community. I will always choose myself first.💅🏿
@@Marley4everable Amen to that🙌! Prioritizing our needs, best interest is what it was always supposed to be about.
@@Marley4everableDoes her name start with a C and end with an E? Not Chrissie obviously lol
Chrissie I miss you, and your channel. I'm so glad your making more content.
Taraji P Henson embarrassed the hell out of herself begging bm to come back . It was very uncomfortable to watch .
What's worse is she really felt that she was doing something in this day and age lol
@@cygnetlake8017 she is such a bird
It is not about color. Modern relationships are a MESS!
Exactly 💯
2023 has been the year of Divorce for celebrities. Mercury Retrograde anyone???
They say they dont want bw and that non black men dont want them. but get mad when black women date out.
What Jodie said about her daughter wasn't even bad. People just love to demonize dsbw.
Wait what??? When did Teyana and Iman breakup???? Huh??? I'm sad lol
Right. I loved them together. They had such a cute little family
I usually have no clue these ppl are in relationships. 🤷🏾♀️ i know who Dame Lillard is but not that he was married.
I have no idea who Dame Lillard is
Back men live rent free in yall head, 😂😂😂
Nah black women live rent free in y’all clowns head that’s why you and other niggas come here on this channel and then come troll in the comment section, y’all are obsessed 😂😂😂
This was a great video! None of us are perfect and we need to stop trying to be and also realizing that other people aren’t either.
That Damien probably has a side ww🤔
swirl or not swirl it will be the same the whole thing is dead. ( unless you find a true love and a courageous mate that value mariage )