Schools NO BONNET Dress Code for Mothers + Unkempt Black Women are Purposely Put on the News
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😂 damn... I'll do better #nobonnetpublic
I'm with you on this, Chrissie!
Its about time. I hate to see women and girls out in public like this
One thing my dad taught me as a jamaican black girl was to never go out with a bonnet, even if the store was a 2 min walk up the street.
@@Shannafai exactly. if my hair looks a mess I just throw on a ball cap.
I see nothing wrong with this policy. Its sad that it had to be enforced in the first place 😫
Right!
It's really sad that a dress code has to be enforced for adults to look presentable. Even wearing jeans and a t shirt should suffice when in a public setting for your children.😫😣😥
Agreed 😂😂😂😂✅
Tahira Bedgood the facts... and the tea
I Am Eloho True
My mom was old school. You did not leave the house with rollers or bonnets. Absolutely not! Nope! No way! She used to say, "Make yourself presentable. Take some pride in your appearance." I have never seen my mother unkempt. She was always neat and clean. She expected the same of us because we represented her. Thank you, Mama!
Exactly!! I was taught the same thing.. A lady never leaves the house like that period.
Yes! Life lessons!😊
Facts, but sis wear did you get this fire lipstick you got on in your avi?
Well said...
Angela Denmark mine too amen sis
That's a great idea. My niece attended a predominantly white / Jewish school and they ask the white parents to stop wear their yoga/gym clothes to school.
theia graham pretty sure they asked all the parents ... don’t see how yoga/gym clothes are only worn by white patents 🙄
Franchesca Stephens she said it was a predominately white school .
@@itherealest think/read before you speak, the commenter said a predominantly white/Jewish school ☹️
I can understand pajamas but what's wrong with dropping your kid off wearing gym wear?
@@izdiharmuhammadproductions4640 some gym wear can be pretty skimpy lol. Like tiny shorts and bras. Those loose tanks that guys wear that will have their chest all out. Etc.
I 100% agree with the principal. Poverty and generational singe motherhood has caused a lot of black women to completely give up on ourselves. We don't realise how the entire world sees us smh. This is so incredibly embarrassing
This shit is embarrassing as hell.
I agree.
jacpppp it really is. The videos in this made me cringe.
Extremely embarrassing. And it’s a reflection of us and how the rest of the world sees us. We need to start showing society that we are feminine, well kept, pretty, put together, all of that. I don’t even know why black women think it’s okay to leave the house without looking presentable.
Yep don’t complain about ppl talking shit about how black women wear there hair since u want ppl to make rules on what black should look like
Whatever happened to fake it til you make it? Looking appropriate does impact the kids. I sub-teach sometimes and the black kids pay attention to my clothes and hair.
I make an effort to tell the little black girls at school they look pretty.
Thank You for this. They need to see it and hear it.
Ronnie Patton I am a teacher and you are right. The children pay attention to everything I wear! I promote and encourage the children to look nice everyday!!!
I wish we wouldn’t get so relaxed with certain things. Black women (and men) used to be dressed classy as a standard. The bar needs to be raised.
Also, I always tell the little dark skin black girls at my daughter’s school that they’re beautiful every time I see them. 💜
I totally disagree with fake it until you make it...that's one of the reasons black folks are in so much debt.
You can do other things like buy regular clothes that are affordable...set some clothes off to the side if you have to drop your child off in the morning
I am a former teacher, now a guidance counsellor, living in the Caribbean and yes children pay attention to what we wear. They even compliment you when they think you did a really good job of putting an outfit together. We are indeed their role models. Also, all school in St. Kitts, where I am from, insists that parents MUST be appropriately dressed to come to the schools and nobody out here protesting it.
I hate seeing people wear those satin bonnets outside of the house. It makes me cringe. Just come outside looking appropriate.
Shanny D AKA Lil Michonne it obvious you don’t know the definition of bonnet
bon·net
/ˈbänət/
Learn to pronounce
noun
noun: bonnet; plural noun: bonnets
1.
a woman's or child's hat tied under the chin and with a brim framing the face.
a soft, round brimless hat like a beret, as worn by men and boys in Scotland.
HERALDRY
the velvet cap within a coronet.
the ceremonial feathered headdress of a North American Indian.
noun: war bonnet; plural noun: war bonnets
2.
BRITISH
the hinged metal canopy covering the engine of an automobile; the hood.
3.
a cowl on a chimney.
4.
HISTORICAL•SAILING
an additional canvas laced to the foot of a sail to catch more wind.
Origin
Shanny D AKA Lil Michonne: Looking appropriate or to please you?! Some may think wigs or weaves is inappropriate. However it is "to each his own". This is a matter of preference.
Sasha Sasha lol you’re a troll. Let’s see...answer this. How can I pronounce something I typed? Go away troll
Turesa Hammond please me lol. I don’t go out looking a hot mess. I take pride in my appearance. Weaves and wigs or appropriate as long as you’re looking decent. Apparently you go out looking crazy. Sorry to hear it. I’ll pray for you sis
@@QueenShanine : You don't need to pray for me, nor do I ask for your prayer. I was just asking you about the word usage of appropriate. Stop making up stuff, because your point is weak. Some women wear their natural God-given hair. Your point of view is not for everyone!!! Bonnet, scarf, wig, weave, hat etc... it is a matter of preference.
These would be the same women who spend HOURS getting ready for the club but 10 minutes getting ready for work.
Priorities.....
Work? 🤔
I didn’t know going to work was a fashion show
👏👏👏
Franchesca Stephens Drip or Drown baby 😂 lol
I remember when I was younger. I was sick and stopped at a drug store wearing some old tattered hoodie and sweats to pick up medicine. This older black woman stopped me and told me no matter what happens, everytime I step outside the house I should dress like I care about myself because I never know what will happen to me when I step outside the door. I felt so guilty because she's right. Ever since then, no matter what I do or how I feel, I dress appropriately because now I have to set an example for my daughter. I I'll never forget that woman.
Gere Musall Live your life and don’t let this don’t control you
@@klewis9152 exactly.
When we listen to wisdom we always win. I remember some great advise given to me by older black and white women and I took it to heart and it helped me achieve great success. Keep seeking wise counsel.
But you were sick though.
She wasn't wrong
This is exactly what Monique was talking about!!! The bonnets set us ALL back. Please stop people.
Kimber B, imagine this is two years old! Just shows we are not learning as we go!
@@angelphilbert1200 yes, and it’s so sad. We have to do better.
She got on that mammy head wrap not even a bonnet. Edit: that principal going to get the entire district together.
😭😭😭
Sister Sovereigntea LMAOOO stop 😭
Yep, and I hope it goes across the board, like reach way down here in Texas. I see bitches in pajamas and bonnets everyday at my kids school. Like I said, they don't go to the club like that, I'm gonna need to get black women to get it together.
💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂
Seems to me the Principal wants to help the children see positive models for behavior and dress from their own parents first. It is sad that people are offended by being asked to represent themselves and their children in the best light.
But sometimes you just want to put away your hair and keep it protected. I feel like that's not as serious as someone showing up in a see through shirt.
Teejay Jones, I agree, so why not have a stylish hat? Lay out some jeans, a cute tee shirt, and a stylish hat. Throw on some sunglasses. One does not need to do full glam to simply get dressed.
@@Racatacataca Okay.. How is a hat going to keel your hair from manipulation and possible damage?
@@caramellibragirl4033 Well if your goal is to keep it protected then no one would want to take their hair out to put it in a bun. And to answer the other question maybe they're stay at homes or maybe its their day off. I don't think anyone is going to ask interrogate someone into why they came like that.
Question: What happens if they show up in a bonnet? Are they going to hold someone's child hostage??
My aunt always told me always look presentable when you go outside your door. You never know who you're gonna meet. I'm tired of the whole "I'm getting my hair done" sis have better time management then.
I too am tired of the hair argument. Women from past generations had less options, products and tools for hair styling and still managed to leave the house looking presentable.
Black women holding black women accountable is powerful and needed. This principal is enforcing standards. That’s a good thing.
Exactly. I remove my bonnet just to walk my dog. 🤷🏾♀️
Correct, I support it. The principal looks fabulous herself. They could learn something.
I’m sorry but good standards is caring about the children’s education and academic performance. Not the parents clothes and hair! And a bonnet is not sleepwear!
According to google the definition of bonnet
bon·net
/ˈbänət/
Learn to pronounce
noun
noun: bonnet; plural noun: bonnets
1.
a woman's or child's hat tied under the chin and with a brim framing the face.
a soft, round brimless hat like a beret, as worn by men and boys in Scotland.
HERALDRY
the velvet cap within a coronet.
the ceremonial feathered headdress of a North American Indian.
noun: war bonnet; plural noun: war bonnets
2.
BRITISH
the hinged metal canopy covering the engine of an automobile; the hood.
3.
a cowl on a chimney.
4.
HISTORICAL•SAILING
an additional canvas laced to the foot of a sail to catch more wind.
Yep! I applaud her stance 💯
Black women have a lot of work to do as far as our image and perception goes. I'm sorry but it's incredibly tacky and low class to go outside like you just woke up. We need to stop being professional excuse makers.
jacpppp wheeeeeew chile’, PREACH!!!!
Amber Ay it’s called unfair and unbalanced representation
Thank you! When I was at University, people would come to class in pajama pants and house shoes. Like come on now? You can throw on a T-shirt and some jeans? It’s not a cute look.
@Amber Ay Exactly. But that just means WE have to push back against them since no one else will for us. I'm tired of it.
I completely agree. Bonnets are to sleep in, you don't step out of your home with them, not even to the mailbox.
My grandma is a 77 year old black woman and has NEVER gone outside with a bonnet and or pajamas on. My mother is 55 year old black woman and has NEVER gone outside with a bonnet and/or pajamas on. I am a 28 year old black woman and I followed in their footsteps. I was taught by both my mom and dad that it is important to look presentable when you go out in public. Have clean face, hair, clothes and carry yourself like yourself well. I understand that some women like to keep their hair covered but there are so many pretty and feminine scarves/ wraps you can wrap your hair up in.
im so dead😂😂😂 i thought i was the only one who thought that was weird the news emphasized that she “worshipped” marilyn monroe
If this were the club they would be following the dress code. Please take effort into your appearance.
AfroLioness 1 DAT PART it’s crazy how true that is.
haha right!
Big Facts!!!
Yeah. They'll get all fancy for the club, but can't have some decency when they go to school. Dog gone shame.
THIS IS THE ONE!!!
Why is our self worth so low that we get upset because our people want us to look presentable in public🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️.
Damn facts
We as black people, especially Black women, need to STOP excusing degeneracy and mediocrity under the guise of "not knowing better." Ignorance is NOT a good look and it should NOT be associated or synonymous with anything of our culture. PERIOD. These things are NOT of black culture...
If anything...teach people how to do better if you see them struggling. Offer suggestions or resources, but we must STOP enabling this behavior. It gets us nowhere.
Slight Tendencies I’m sorry but this school has mediocre educational standards because the school is failing! And this policy makes the school look even worse! It’s only black people who put this much emphasis on how someone looks! It’s only black people who bash each other because of appearance! These white people laughing at that principle because this dress code is what she chooses to focus on and not the academic achievement!
Tyson's Speech Impediment I’m defending a black mother who could not enroll her child in school because of what she was wearing!! I copied the definition of what a bonnet is because you want to make your own definition for shit cause you don’t like it. I’m just speaking FACTs!! Periodt
What is sad is all black women get the rap for this. We are not seen as individuals but as a collective when it comes to a bad image but are seen as individuals when it comes to a positive image. We have to think of the collective when it comes to representing the black woman image.
I have never even worn a bonnet to bed, let alone outside..
Yup, 20 black parents can walk across looking normal but let somebody show up like these women or a guy in a th rag and now it's all black people
K41
There are very few people who have never interacted or seen people outside of their own race. And even when they are isolated, they should hav the sense to realize that people aren’t all the same. If they use what they see on tv as a justification for believing stereotypes, then that’s says less about black people and more about them.
Y'all always say "it's not all". No one said all black women do this. But clearly, black women does do this a lot.
K41
Yes, every race has stereotypes. And I’m sure there are some stereotypes about your own race that you, yourself, easily disprove, so why the hell would you (or anyone) believe in a stereotype so religiously?. Especially if it’s a potentially harmful one. It makes no sense. Your friend is right. You’re really silly if you believe asian people are smart due to their race.
So prior to meeting a homeless asian man, you assumed homelessness/poverty was based upon race?
Pattie Labelle has said this before..."Always dress your best no matter what because you never know who is looking..."
Why are black women trying to defend the foolishness. This is too sad..
SOMMMMMMEEEEEEE BLACK WOMEN LETS BE CLEAR
"This *isn't* anti-black...this is anti-hot mess" lol indeed! ;)
Amen
Anti-hot mess Lmao!!!
😀💡
Lol I agree!!😂🤣🤣😆😁😄 anti- hot mess!!
Ugh my mom used to wait outside with me for my school bus with rollers in her head. My 6 year old self was so embarrassed that when the kids on the bus asked if she was my mom I said "nope, that's our neighbor" 😩
What your mom replied , when she heard you ????
😂
@@lakaperse6995 She never heard me saying it 😂
@@AnaSpeirs Ok🤣🤣
Why are black women always repping Marilyn Monroe. What about classic black Hollywood starlets like Dorethy dandridge, Josephine Baker, fredi Washington and lena horne??
Exactly 💯
I'm not wearing anyone's face on my clothes.
I've never seen any clothes with any of the black starlets that you mentioned....
Or like Hazel Scott!
They didn’t get nearly the recognition they deserved. Unfortunately never mentioned in pop culture or considered a “legend” like MM. black women have never gotten their credit but I agree. We don’t idolize black women who have paved the way for he Beyoncé’s and Rihanna’s either... can’t always blame Hollywood :/
Yes! Now may we please have a dress code for the grocery store? Stop wearing pajamas in public. After age 2, it ain't cute y'all.
That and slippers
@@sarge7526 yes, usually the big fluffy ones! lol
I never took my kid anywhere in PJs at any age but to each their own. I get what you're saying
Clara Smith This entire video is policing attire. Go somewhere.
Tennille Bowens Thank you. If I see your baby in pajamas I see you as low-class. Unless you’re taking them to the emergency room they should have on regular clothes. This goes for newborns too.
I went to the gas station in my satin scarf and this black man told me “ I know you are beautiful, but the scarf 😩 why the scarf baby girl. So til this day I will snatch that damn thing off my head before I go in any place 😂 I wasn’t offended at all either. I took it as a lesson learned and note to self
I wear scarfs all the time. I just tie them up super cute🤗🤗. Natural hair has a mind of its own🤣🤣
So a random dude told u something and u changed your whole life????
😂😂😂😂😂
Catherine Paris nothing is wrong with that. She didn’t know any better and her friends could not tell her the truth. Maybe they don’t even know either.
@@catherineparis8678 it was a change worth making. We need to be more teachable sometimes.
I support this principal. I thought it was common etiquette to look decent in public. 🤔
Also, if you’re a Marilyn Monroe fan, she would never look like that in public 😑
Ha! That last part about Monroe is so true!
😭😭😭 that was a thorough read.
Marilyn had style
Etiquette. That’s something they do not possess. 😔
Them parents ain't there for their kids education. They are basically treating school like a daycare. Period!
Yep!
Most hood parents do
Wow sad because its so true.....
Well damn, where's the lie? It's sad that this is so deeply accurate. They hate to be bothered with issues relating to their kids and school. Monday-Friday 8-3 is supposed to be the school's shift to parent.
Because school is a daycare, mostly. There is no need to have 12 years of basic education. It's just extended daycare for until the kid turns 18 and is a legal adult and can now fully contribute to the economy.
Even in Africa we know that when you go out, you need to present yourself in the best way. Nothing fancy but maintain dignity and pride. Even poor people want to show their best face.
This is very true👌
So true. My parents are Nigerian and they could never go out in pj's. I did it once and my dad was mad at me and said it was disgraceful which was true. Never do it again
Agreed
@@tosinalade853 I'm British Nigerian, my dad goes everywhere in blazers (casual places) and full suits and the traditional attire (church, formal places), he also at the airport in blazers, my mum is dressed up and wearing wedges at the airport too... I think hell would freeze over before she walked out in a bonnet and pyjamas.
Even in Africa ??
So a few weeks ago myself and a group of black women were having a discussion about this. A black girl in college said she felt lazy one day so she rolled out of bed in her sweat pants (pajamas basically) bonnet and all & went to her lecture class. Her professor pulled her aside and told her never to show up to her class like that again, because it’s not professional and she would fail her next time if she did. Can you believe this ridiculous girl said she showed up with not one but two bonnets 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ and her nightclothes just spite her teacher & they got into an argument. Said she felt “discriminated”...🙄 the problem with a lot of Black women is we feel like society should just always take us as we are, even if we are being problematic. This is the real world! Who do you honestly think is gonna take you seriously going out in public especially in a professional setting looking any type of way....? I know this is going to piss a lot of black women off but oh well, too bad! I applaud this principal 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
This is certainly not how we level up, look our best and compete. Stop 🛑 it, it’s embarrassing.
Chauntella I agree ☝️ it’s fucking embarrassing
Chauntella I don’t care about white society or their opinions but I definitely agree with you sis. I’d rather have a professional reputation than a trashy one any day.
Wait, so she would fail her? For what? Is she paying for school? Keep in mind, this is only towards black women. Just them. And other schools across the country have been banning other types of hairstyles. This is just the beginning.
And we get treated like trash out here doesn't matter how we look.
@@LRain-jf5hr girl not all of us. Especially the ones that care about their appearance
It's not discriminatory she just don't want people walking in there inappropriate. I have dropped my kids off in my bonnet but I don't get out the car and walk through the building but I have seen women walk in with nothing but a leather jacket, negligee, flip flops and no bra.
Nae West negligee?? 😂
I think a lot of lazy, possibly less educated women will use discriminatory as an excuse for this issue. What it all boils down to is we need to be more of a role model for our children and others.
Are you serious?? That crazy. We never saw parents dressing inappropriately growing up.
Nae West You really shouldn't even be driving your car with a bonnet on, I just think people give you so much more respect when your hair is combed and your nicely groomed and look like you care, I never go out of the house unless I look nice from head to toe, always say if I go out not looking nice I will see a schoolmate that I haven't seen in 10-15 years for sure, so I always dress like I'm going to see somebody I haven't seen in ages LOL but serious and furthermore if the cops stop you I honestly don't think they will hassle you as much, if you're looking really decent, and like you're an upstanding citizen, just my opinion.✌
So true we as black women need to do better.
The dress code was necessary and appropriate. Black women have to better but of course they don’t want to hear it.
So out comes the deck of race cards.
“You don’t wear bonnets when you’re trying to 👀 cute for your man or go to the club!”💥. But won’t look halfway descent when dropping your kids off @ school? #Childrencomefirst 🤦🏽♀️
ceeceebeat Exactly smh
That comment alone was perfection.
Best hashtag ever
👏👏👏
Like Chrissie said, don't use poverty as a crutch because any other time you want to 'sho up and sho out' for the club, your birthday or your man, all of a sudden you can pull it together real quick😒
I am thoroughly appalled that black women are defending their right to go out in public looking a hot mess, when we are already viewed as less feminine by other races and even our own black men. It baffles the mind! Damn! We do not defend mediocrity! We just should not! There is a time and a place for everything and a school run is not the place to wear bonnets and Marilyn Monroe oversized t-shirts. Would they go to an appointment for a job looking like this? I am in full agreement with the principal. And this was high-key shade being thrown at black women, especially the ones who look like that lady wearing a bonnet and the t-shirt.
I'm sure they follow the dress code for the Club.
Funny how there's so much commentary about this now, 2 years later...
I’m confused. What do you mean?
Right and all of these same ladies are singing a whole different tune 👀👀
We are not learning!
Yeah. I forgot who but one celebrity was talking about how she was in the airport in ATL and saw so many people in pj's and bonnets especially black people. She was disappointed in her people as she should.
That Marilyn "dress" looked like a sleep tee shirt.
🤣🤣
Exactly!
It is, and it was see through! She looks a whole bum ass mess. We need to have better standards. Just because you may be lower income doesn't mean you look the part. Have pride and respect in yourself.
@@rarabarak825 I get the feeling she probably didn't even have a pair of shorts on underneath sense she was claiming it was a dress.
Exactly...I don't even understand why black women wear those shirts..Back in the day, I wore shirts with celebs on it but mine had Janet Jackson on it. a black woman with actual talent..I have no idea what MM was even famous for..lol
If you’re really a Marilyn Monroe fan, you should always be trying to look as dolled up and sexy as possible- like Marilyn Monroe.
artisticagi
True😎
I do
Look my best at all times😏
Say THAT again. Where's the pictures of Marilyn in pajamas and bonnet caps while out in public...?
@ג'וקר נשי Nor does anyone need to look like a bum outside the home, ever!!
Facts
True. Marilyn never went out the house in bonnets, pajamas, and slippers.
I have never gone to school like this and always look presentable BUT I go to the bus stop like this. THIS ENDS TODAY. I’m so embarrassed to even contribute to this image. Thanks for this video. I needed the wake up call.
Good for you
Thank you Jesus!
It does leave an impression on children. I remember when I first got my period in the 8th grade; I called my mother crying. She showed up looking very dolled up: Nice red lipstick, hair flowing below her shoulders, a nice white and blue (not tight) knee length form fitting👗.
I was cramping like hell 😆, but I still have that picture ingrained in my mind till this day at 30.
(When we got home I noticed my dad admiring her, ☺️☺️☺️☺️😁😁)
I love this! Memorable and adorable 🥰
Love it!
Awww to you and Lol and cudos to Mom!!
@@naebonnie Not in this girl's case when cramping!😉🙃😂🤣😅😆😄
❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad she did this. I don't see the problem with this at all. Its embarrassing when I see black women with bonnets on in public, it's so tacky 😩😕😒
Ok don’t bitch when boss make rules for black women how there hair should be an what to wear . Damn we been fighting for our rights just to say hey ppl make rules on outer appearance
j borrego what??
@@harajukubarbie3322 same thing I said. They sound ridiculous.
Bonnets trigger me lol...I feel second hand embarrassment when black women wear them, especially down town chicago lol
I respect your opinion. I also do think , if your going out in broad day light. But you shouldn’t judge black women for wearing at night, like a run to the drugstore. Or an short run out the house. I just think it’s weird when going out like that in big public places in daylight. But I think it’s fine to wear it for an short run out the house at night; to pick up an person or something or if you really have to get something.
I think it’s ok to have it on when you have to run out when it’s really URGENT, because if your running late to pick up someone close or to pick up someone at night in general......no one will notice.
An example, my mom would never step out of house to a public place with a bonnet.
But when she would drop me off at the bus stop IN HER CAR(she would not step out the car, unless it was to throw out garbage) She would still have her bonnet on, THEN she comes back to the house and dose her hair for work. But I also think it’s fine to wear a bonnet driving a car if you’re not going to step out for to long or not step out at all, because nobody should be looking inside a car while your driving (because that’s creepy and people need to be minding their own biz).
I just think it’s weird to come out in school or a big public space wearing a bonnet, but I don’t judge people’s personality on that. Because they could be In an certain place for an certain time to pick up or some other things are going on in there life that they need to rush to something. I don’t judge, I just observe🕵🏾♀️ But I sometimes see some black girls who actually well but together with an bonnet or an satin cap, they have nice clothes on, Jewelry and flattering makeup, and sometimes edges done. But most of the time, I see girls that look like they just got out of bed.
This came up in my recommended...the algorithm doing it’s thing because it’s a hot topic that I certainly agree with!
Yes!!
My 3 year old had a school interview to get into preschool.
My husband was dressed in a suit, my son had on a suit and I wore a dress.
We need to do better to represent our babies!! No excuse!!!
Okay so you should defend all these people who are saying that all black people dress like that! because there are exceptions and I totally agree where you're coming from because that's how my family's is we present ourselves as we want to be represented in public!
They are defending the right to be raggedy... this is a deep subject, it’s more about self respect and love more than anything and black women lack so much in that area. We really got to do better
Yep we gotta do better.
I love bee raggedy
*Ang*
I have never gone to my child’s school like this and always look presentable BUT I go to the bus stop like this but don’t get out the car. THIS ENDS TODAY. I’m so embarrassed to even contribute to this image. I realized that even if I don’t get out of the car, I can still be seen from the chest up and I don’t want to contribute in any way to black women being portrayed as ratchet or unkept. People can definitely see me and even wave at me when I’m in my car waiting on the bus. Im gonna start looking more presentable if I walk out the door, period. Even if I’m going to the mailbox. I needed the wake up call and glad I watched this video and also read the comments.
@@StefunnyStrange girl dont get lost in these comments.
*It’s about education! A child’s future, and the school focus on how the mothers look. F*ck off! What are you even doing over there?! /Scandinavia* btw white women used to head out with rollers in their head and a scarf!
They're acting like they have to wear formal attire or something.
Or they act like wearing some decent attire is too much to handle.
Exactly. A pair of jeans (not crack inducing tight jeans) and a blouse or t shirt is fine. Heck, wear the SAME pick up your children from school approved outfit because unless you’re a stripper that gets off work at 3 pm you should otherwise be presentable in your work clothes and if you are a stay at home Mom or night worker you have time to get dressed appropriately.
My mom is a RN and often worked 3pm-11pm throughout my childhood. Sometimes she would just be getting in a GOOD sleep when it was time to take me to school in the morning. I promise she took out her rollers EVERYTIME and put on something presentable just to drop me off. Her and my father made a point to tell me how nasty and unkempt women looked when they came outside in bed attire. I never forgot it and I've never done it!
I agree with Chrissie on this one, the news enjoyed displaying black women in a negative light. Why didn't they find black parents that were well dressed for an opposing viewpoint?
K. Ayo
Exactly!! You can’t tell me that they couldn’t find one presentable black parent 😑. They are awful.
Oh god
These black women on the news, allowed the news to clown and play them.... after filming this, that news crew cracked up laughing at how they trolled these women and they didn’t even have a clue about it.... smh....
Ladies.... if you’re not “on point”, do NOT let anyone film you... they are making you the butt of a joke.
TASconfidential 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. I don’t understand why these black women don’t get it.
Cause they want air time smdh😒
Bored Wbu? It’s because they easily get “rights”, vs. “exploitation”, confused.
This principal is actually trying to teach these women how to uplift themselves and they don’t even get it.
This black woman understands the “ratchet agenda”, that’s taking over our future generations.
TASconfidential you’re right 💯
They taught the news people were laughing with them whole time the news people laughing at them
These women were simply NOT dressed for the occasion. When you go to take care of business dress like it. This whole situation reminds me of an episode of the Boondocks.🤦🏾♀️
panda berries it does😂😂
I swear😆😄
What happened to black women taking pride in themselves? The lady in that Marilyn Monroe shirt, yeah I said shirt cuz it's not a dress has lost her damn mind. She know good and well that Dorothy Dandridge or Marilyn Monroe wouldn't walk out the house looking like that. SMH
Welfare
@@qjtvaddict The thrift store has some amazing clothes for cheap. I find even brand name items there for under $5. Even if she is on welfare, that doesn't give her an excuse to go out of the house looking raggedy.
That's a fact
@@qjtvaddict plenty of people on welfare are more than capable of looking presentable and many do.... white women are the highest collectors of welfare and youd never know or guess it because they arent walking around like this unless they're in the trailer parks
@@cressidatroylus1522 exactly
As a naturalista I get it, some days my hair is in pin curls or a twist out, but there are chic turbans, stylish head wraps etc you can get them online. If it wasn’t a problem I think the principal wouldn’t have had to take such drastic measures. I’m all for it.
Where do you get really nice wraps can you tell me which site please? I can never find them I want cute ones like jada pinkett smith wears
nordette check out Etsy for really cute affordable ones! eBay has nice ones too
Amazon is good too
Jackie Aina has a site for great. Wraps as well. I think her cousin or friend is the business o.
Ola Bello Seriously. Sis looks like she’s about to clean her house on Saturday morning. She doesn’t look like she came up there to take care of any kind of business like registering her daughter for school. We have all had bad hair days or days when our hair is still under construction, but there are too many attractive head covering options available to be looking like she looking.
My mom use to gaslight me for finding it strange that she would walk out the house with a bonnet, scarf and pajama pants on and I wouldn't. She use to get mad at me for wanting to go outside the house looking like a normal presentable person, because it was just a "quick run to the store." I found it weird back then and the shit is still just as weird to me now that I'm older.🤷🏿♀️
I don't understand why anymore would want to walk outside looking as if they haven't showered SMH 🤦🏾♀️
Remember Sweet Brown (“ain’t nobody got time for that”)? Yeah, the media loves to showcase black women looking crazy and low key laugh at them. 🤦🏽♀️
Ananda Lux Exactly! And the sad part is I didn’t know who she was until an wt coworker showed me her interview🤦🏽♀️. I cringed so hard.
Yeah I saw her on an episode of Cheaters🤣😂
In HS I wore pajamas to school on an exam day. It was literally what everyone of all races and back ground did. I came home from school and when my dad got home he asked how come I didn’t go to school. He found out that I had been to school in my pajamas. He went off on not just me, but my siblings. Telling us we can go out looking slovenly, he didn’t care what “them white kids wore” but when we go out the house we need to look presentable and at school look professional so they have no reason to not take us seriously. When I tell you he ranted and ranted. I wore a dress or a skirt to school till the day I graduated. In college I never went to school in sweats and flip flops. It’s not judge mental or unreasonable. We all already know we’re not on an even playing field we have to carry ourselves accordingly
This sounds like a symptom of post traumatic slavery disorder
@@theruthmyster ...that’s what l am thinking!
I agree with you ! My momma would've cussed me out wearing pajamas to school !
I am so sick of the Marilyn Monroe fandom with (some) bw. It has always rubbed me the wrong way.I have a Dorothy Dandridge T-shirt and one with Pam Grier and Whitney Houston. I wish glamorous black movie stars had the same push and promotion with bw. Maybe next post for Divine Dark skin?
I have noticed more Aaliyah shirts at stores like Forever 21 etc.
Yes!! They are 2 dumb 2 realise they are walking billboards promoting white beauty .
Everytime I think of a Whitney Houston shirt, I think of Bruh Man' s Whitey Huton shirt on Martin 😂😂😂😂
I think a black woman wearing a Marilyn Monroe anything just looks weird. But that’s just me and my opinion. No matter what these women should not be out in public looking that way. I completely understand wearing a bonnet out in public, that doesn’t bother me. But the rest of the outfit it’s just sad.
Maip video Dorothy was so gorgeous! I have no idea why bw aren’t wearing and promoting her likeness. She epitomizes old school glamour.
I think Marilyn was pretty but I can’t relate to her at all. I have no clue what bw would be able to relate to her. Introducing Dorothy Dandridge with Halle Berry
is one of my favorite movies.
Some bw sad to say will follow a trend without realizing the hidden message.
It's embarrassing how they are making us to look like we need hand-holding by putting those specific unkept black women on that news story. That's a horrible display against what that principal was trying to do (set minimum standards).
Right. We look like as mothers we don't even know how to dress ourselves! Just a bad message all around for black women and mothers.
People don’t feel self conscious going outside with the headscarf/bonnet?!?!?!
Going out w a head wrap isn't bad
@@kachyn_ I think a scarf that is meant to be worn out is very different than the tattered one or the bonnet you wear at home
Headscarf is different
You don't feel embarrassed going out in public with a clearly cheap wig that doesn't even look like your natural hair
6:25 oh so this woman don't see nothing wrong with her attire outside of her house? She's even confident enough to give an interview! Whew!😩 K then
And is that a knot on her head?
As a parent, I support this principal and her policy. Moms know we simply have to get up at least 30 minutes earlier before our kids. It is important to put ourselves together and look presentable. I enjoy my morning "me time"....I also still make sure I'm put together before my husband comes home from work. No one wants to look at ugliness or raggedyness and no one should want to embarrass their kids or spouse. Other kids do make fun of parents. As black women we HAVE to set the standard for our children (especially our daughters).
Its extremely important for girls to have good fathers to teach them logic, self respect and control their emotions.
True.
I wish I could like this comment 100 times!
Libra Scales Yes as a mum of two I totally agree
Libra Scales bon·net
/ˈbänət/
Learn to pronounce
noun
noun: bonnet; plural noun: bonnets
1.
a woman's or child's hat tied under the chin and with a brim framing the face.
a soft, round brimless hat like a beret, as worn by men and boys in Scotland.
HERALDRY
the velvet cap within a coronet.
the ceremonial feathered headdress of a North American Indian.
noun: war bonnet; plural noun: war bonnets
2.
BRITISH
the hinged metal canopy covering the engine of an automobile; the hood.
3.
a cowl on a chimney.
4.
HISTORICAL•SAILING
an additional canvas laced to the foot of a sail to catch more wind.
My mom used to threaten to come and sit in my class with a bonnet and pajamas on whenever I was misbehaving. I didn't misbehave so that says a lot.
I met the Principal today she’s a lovely well meaning leader. I snagged a pic with her!
Rosalyn Wilson Has the academics and educational standards improved? That is what matters! The students academic achievement and not this principle and her dress code!
Sasha Sasha the little matters. When you take your clothings and dressing seriously, you take other things seriously and that includes your education
I think there is some depression going on there too. When you just don't care how you look.
SaQuanna James exactly
depression= anger without energy
@@alwaysexpectedtheunexpecte5402 I don't believe so.
St Mc wrong answer! If you don’t suffer with depression and have never experienced it in your life your analysis is dead wrong. And this is coming from someone who has battled it for YEARS. From post partum to severe chronic depression. There are a multitude of things that can cause depression. IE, major life changes, birthing a child, sudden unemployment, death of loved ones, rape, child molestation and the lists is endless. Go do some research.
you gave causes i gave symptoms
We’ve circled back to this “issue” in 2021..
Smh💀🤣
I'm so happy that the principal is a black woman as well! This is needed for us to collectively do better. It's not too much to ask. Maybe this will cause us to not go into banks and coororate buildings looking this way as well (I have seen it many times)
U never seen a bonnet at the bank, a cultural scarf maybe which is not what's being complained about here but I don't believe you. Are you blk?
@@lakaylove8009 yes from Jacksonville, FL there is no reason for me to make that up lol
@@lakaylove8009
In Miami Fl, it does happen a lot. Get out of that looney world you're in.
Any parent, who wants to be involved in their child's education; would come to school looking ready for business, not ready to go to bed.
If you can dress for the club and a dude you can dress for your babies at school. If you’re late or tired even-that’s what a pair of sweats, bra, and a shirt are for. You don’t have to be dressed exceptionally well, just respectful of the children and your child like you do that man😒 (side eye, side eye)
Beautiful standard being set! As a public educator, who is a black woman, it’s difficult to honor or pay attention to parents when they’re half dressed; I’ve seen breasts, bonnets, prints, etc. I applaud this school’s administration .
Some of these women and their attire. How in the world do you walk out the house with your breast out, like how sway😩
This memo needed to be said and pushed to the masses! Black women please take PRIDE in yourselves! Your children are watching everything you do!
Melissa Sterling I thought you were suppose to take pride in your education and academic achievement not what you wear. I guess Harriet Tubman looked ratchet cause she had on a scarf outside... these comments are sad coming from black women about other black women
Having pride in yourself is a package deal! You don’t have to dress fancy but presentation is something, would you got to a roach infested grocery store? No! Would you got to the beach In a full 3 piece suit? No! There is a time and a place for everything. 🗣When you look good you feel good! PERIODT!
This principal also banned hoodies, nice form-fitting dresses, silk scarfs, ripped jeans, men's t-shirts!!! It is not against the law to wear a bonnet or pajamas outside. If you want to push something on the masses, push actual law!!! This principal is violating one's rights.(freedom of choice etc.). People need to start a petition against this principal!!!
Melissa Sterling School is about education. And what does a roach infested store have to do with wearing a bonnet at a school ? The fact that image seems to be more important to black women in 95 percent of these comments shows how much of a standard we really have! I’m sure you did not check the report card of this principle last school because the school is below average academically despite her dress code. These comments bashing these parents over how they look show what type of standard we have! This parents did not act ghetto or ratchet or class less and her child was literally denied her education!! And y’all like oh well she shouldn’t came out looking like that!! Seriously!! This is the problem!! These kids won’t have a chance with this look good instead of do good mentality!!
Melissa Sterling a brown child was denied enrollment into public school today! Why?! Because apparently she looked like roach on school grounds! We told her go home and look more decent and then she can enroll her child!! This shit is SAD!
As Mo'Nique said, when you step out of your house, BE PRESENTABLE and RESPECT yourself and your community.
Utilize head wraps more than the bonnets. It looks more appropriate. As a black woman myself I am tired of seeing black women wearing their bonnets as a hat even at Walmart, I have seen Walmart employees wear them while clocked in on the the job. This has to stop.
Exactly...There's so many pretty African head wraps you can buy..Part of being a woman is wanting to look and feel pretty...It's just SUPPOSED to be in our nature..But it seems these black women these days simply don't care about themselves...And the bonnet wearers look at us normal women as "high mantaintenance and bougie"..No.we're just behaving like real women do...Something is internally wrong with THEM not us.
I just thought the same exact thing. I just purchased a nice wrap from culture hijab for $15..🤷🏾♀️
I get so upset when I see it. Smh
@@lolarew6752 I'm gonna look up culture hijab...I'm not Muslim but I love headwraps.
@@Machelle3200 The same 😊
I agree with the principal. Dress with class.
Me too!
Kimberlie
People are so angry about this. 🙄 They aren’t even asking the moms to dress classy they are simply asking them not to dress in their pajamas or look a hot mess when coming to school. This is a pretty reasonable request.
Stfu
Facts💯
Rahim Jones
Ya big mad or small mad? You’re wearing pajamas to drop your kid off, huh? I could see how this could be a sensitive area for some.
So sad this topic has resurfaced again everywhere smh. Chrissie, thank you for being a mouthpiece even before people understood what was happening. Still relevant.
Yup 💕
Hi Chrissie, as you can tell from my picture I'm very dark skinned and often, I try to look put together no matter where I go. It really does make a difference. Last night when I went to the movies, I wore a beautiful orange floral dress blue and red print with some sandals and an orange necklace. Had my nails, toes, and makeup(just lipstick done). On my way to the restroom, a woman told me she liked my dress and that the color is perfect for my skin so I told her the same thing because she was wearing a yellow maxi dress and happened to be dark skinned 😊. #bringingoutDSBW/G's confidencehiddenawayintheir❤s
And you do look gorgeous sweetheart! Keep it up. 😀😊
@@rebecca4829 thank you love ❤ 😘
I was cyber jumped for agreeing with her. No matter how you explain it, a lot of black women will try to spin this as anti-black. It just looks bad yall, looking like you rolled out of bed and went out. Them: Well my twists are wet! Me: keeping the bonnet on makes it take longer to dry. Do better! I am so glad noooooo woman in my family does this. The men look presentable too.
LoveKaseyK lmao what are hooded dryers/ blowdryers for? They will use any excuse to be raggedy! That’s all it is.
*Ang* ANY!
You could even still wear the bonnet just cover the bonnet with a nice colorful African headwrap or silk scarf. It takes one minute to cover your head with a nice tasteful wrap. If I'm in a rush I grab the scarf and tie it while walking out the door or in the car before I pull out the driveway.
TwiFiveGirls101 right! I love colorful head wraps. I’m not allowed to wear them but I think they’re very beautiful.
A week before this dress code was put out, that school experienced a walk out of 200 kids because the principal assaulted a student for putting eyelashes on her friend in the restroom. The attack escalated to the student being assaulted again in handcuffs by the school's officer. Funny how they're now viral over a dress code and not the walk out and assault. It's almost like they planned to put it out as a distraction. It worked🤷
Sis is very anti-Black. That school is always on the news for their kids being beat by cops.
This aged perfectly! 🍷🍇
Right
Right! I seen this in my for you page and was giggling.
Bonnets are the woman’s doo rag. Men won’t stop wearing them outside the house and woman are feeling the same way i see. Oh well.
Exactly
damn right! i was just watching this 2 years ago
OMG thank you for saying all of this!!! Im so glad that you said the parents who come to school looking like this is not the parents that are involved in their kids education!! Thank You!!!! I see it all the time!!!
When my husband and I go to the kids school about our kids my husband wears a slacks and shirts and i wesr nice slacks and blouse or a nice dress. Thank you for saying it all!!!
You're going to enroll your kid in school and this is how you look???? Omg!!
Janice Hylton On behalf of school staff everywhere I thank you for coming to school with clothes on.
kmross73 I have a special needs child who will be 25 this year. She's been special education since she was 2. And what I've learned is people will treat you and your baby based on how you carry yourself.
I've been in malls and store and people(TA) have come up to me and ask "are you Lexi's mom? You dress her so nicely."
Mind you, I had her at 16. Was on welfare and put my self through school.
There is no excuse for parents to come out of their homes to go represent their kids looking like this. It's terrible!!!
kmross73 Agreed 😂😂😂😂😂👍🏽👍🏽
Janice Hylton well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I worked in a few school systems in ATL and when you’re in a meeting with the parent about fighting , cursing and attire and the parent and daughter have on the same exact thing, speaking the same way, you have to enact these rules. I’m Black and I’m offended that ppl make it seem like this is a Black woman thing. That’s the discriminatory part.... on our part. 🤦🏾♀️
I was a stay at home mom and would always put myself together before dropping my child off. My husband would always get upset about it.
One day he dropped off our son and saw a mother looking hot mess. After observing this, he called me and said he will never complain about the time I spend making myself look presentable.
🤣
I agree with this unfortunately. I grew up in a small city in south Florida and I saw this a ton growing up and I never thought it looked appropriate thanks to the values instilled by my mother and common sense.
Tiffany Marie black women have become an embarrassment from getting disrespected and beat up on by Latinos and white women on reality T.V., and the black men who constantly diss and put down black women....it’s sad
What they would do in a neutral world is assign a BW reporter to do the story... but notice they had a bunch of well-put-together WW reporting instead? Deliberate. BW need to get smart.
That lady was going to enroll her child... and THAT is the 1st impression she wants to leave? SMH.
A lot of these women can get fancy for the club but act like their kid's school or the grocery store is their backyard.
And the Marilyn Monroe worship among BW has to stop. We couldn't pick Naomi Campbell to idolize instead? Find someone who looks like you!
Exactly. It was intentional
Very much so deliberate its to show viewers that's a black thing. They probably passed lots of black parents who were dressed normal
EcClair Mayo I agree.
And we back at this conversation yet again in 2021. And Chrissie still said WTF she said!!! And I cosign!
Yes!!
Periodt! 😂😂😂
💯💯
"Some of y'all are rebels without a cause"
That was brilliant
#nobonnetinpublic
I don't understand the obsession with Marilyn Monroe, even from people who aren't black. Most of us don't even know who she is. I just hear people talk about her image, which is average.
It's some weird obsession with a president's mistress.
2 years later, Monique caught on!👍🏾
Dress code for parents? That’s a little odd but I understand it if a parent was wearing a see through shirt like come on it’s a place of learning.
I agree with the principal. They have women in their damn night clothes dropping kids off. It's disrespectful.
A place of learning for the KIDS not the PARENTS. Nobody wants to be distracted by somebody's parents coming to the school looking a mess.
To learn so dress appropriate and teach your kids how to be presentable.....these black woman in binnets are acting a fool get a damn hairscraf.....wearing a t shirt like a sterotype welfare queen smh
Parents no longer know how to be a role model for their children and parents no longer know how to parent. This principle is simply setting guidelines and helping these parents learn, these parents just don’t know and probably don’t have the understanding or the background. Very sad but true. Please share this video with other sites. This is a good time to spread awareness about Chrissie’s channel and the magazine!!
Yes but won’t say shit about white women in there see through yoga pants an tight shirts ( my mom works at white school) lol there one step from prostitute looking lol
I'm glad she did what she did. I hope she doesn't fold under the pressure.
Black women, we gotta do better. Please.
KD I didn’t know dressing better means you are or will do better! This dress code is in place for the students and they are still failing! This is sad black people care more about looks than the quality of the children’s education!
@@svs2699 Statics and studies prove that looking put together does help you. Look up the halo effect and lookism. This has nothing to do with black people specifically.
There is a reason why you are supposed to look professional in high paying jobs. You can't come looking any type of way. Doesn't matter the race.
I'm Haitian and women in my family will sometimes wear their Sunday best just going to the grocery store. The principal is right
I’m so sick of those shower cap looking bonnets in public
Yaya Beautiful well it’s obvious you don’t know what a bonnet is... according to google
bon·net
/ˈbänət/
Learn to pronounce
noun
noun: bonnet; plural noun: bonnets
1.
a woman's or child's hat tied under the chin and with a brim framing the face.
a soft, round brimless hat like a beret, as worn by men and boys in Scotland.
HERALDRY
the velvet cap within a coronet.
the ceremonial feathered headdress of a North American Indian.
noun: war bonnet; plural noun: war bonnets
2.
BRITISH
the hinged metal canopy covering the engine of an automobile; the hood.
3.
a cowl on a chimney.
4.
HISTORICAL•SAILING
an additional canvas laced to the foot of a sail to catch more wind.
Being a single mother has nothing to do with a women leaving out the home not representing her self or child accordingly. This is a choice and some mothers who may be single, married or otherwise really believe walking out the home such as this is okay when it is not. Hopefully these women have someone in their lives to guide them towards being more feminine at all times. I had no one to teach me and it took time but it is possible. I do agree with the dress code. We should be our best selves.
Nothing is wrong with this policy! It’s just sad that a lot of black woman take their children to school in bonnets’ sleepwear ect!
It is definitely embarrassing to see black women with bonnets, large T-shirts and house slippers. Black Women just don’t understand the importance of looking presentable sometimes and we need to be aware of the image it presents.
Yes sis
The funny thing is I can remember being very young and always asking my Momma why she would always get dressed up to go out of the house. Even if it was just around the corner to the store, no matter what she always would make sure she looked presentable in her own words. She ALWAYS at least would toss on a wig and put on some lipstick. I can still hear her now, "Bear, pass me my wig and grab me my lipstick off the dresser" lol
Facts! I thought of you when this came out and your femininity series
Penny Proud Hopefully you only wear it in the house.
Penny Proud
That’s a bit different imo. Doing chores vs going to a public building with your bonnet/pajamas on.
Penny Proud
Yeah, lots of college students do that as well (though I give teens/young adults more excuses than full grown men and women).
Penny Proud
Lol, so are blankets, but I don’t think many people would be willing to walk around with a blanket- cape
Penny Proud
In my opinion, you probably shouldn’t make a habit out of it, but I think everyone slums it a bit sometimes.
I was so happy to see it was a black woman that introduced this. We all know it would have been written off as racism had it been anybody but a black woman.
And they said she's a Marilyn Monroe fan lol. Team Dorothy Dandridge all day everyday!!
Even if she was, Marilyn would be ashamed! She was the epitome of " white beauty". Never a rag a muffin in public.
@@VanityMania I was about to say....if she was a Marilyn fan she didn't uphold Marilyn's standard. That woman was always fly in public.
I don't know these women or what they went through but there are options. Throw on a t-shirt and jeans & sneakers & take care of your business.
@@laurenanderson6466 Exactly, she looked like she rolled out of bed.
Addis Ababa
She was white🤦🏿♀️ why are you trying to make her biracial?
Agreed, just throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt or top. And even a colorful scarf on her head would have been fine. The lady looks like she is going to bed. It’s disrespectful to the school
I don't know, maybe I'm just extra...even jeans and a T-shirt wouldn't be okay for me. I'd dress up just to go to my child's school. Then again I dress up to go to the local mall to buy vegetables and bread...lol!
Exactly. If you _must_ keep your bonnet on use a scarf and wrap it nicely with a bun or something but atleast wear presentable clothing
You dress that way, you attract disgusting men around you and then ask where are the nice men. Why would a nice man approach you looking like a twat
I don't care if I'm just walking to the corner store or going to Wal-Mart, I always make sure my hair is nice and done. Nice ponytail or bun, some jeans and a t-shirt. I'm never walking out the house with some damn bonnet or scarf on my head. And I'm never wearing my inside sleepwear clothes outside. Black women, get it together.
She has every right not to tolerate that in her school. Black women should carry themselves more dignified. They do it to go out to the clubs.
I'm definitely team #NoBonnetInPublic with one exception...if you're driving to the emergency room or responding to some other real emergency where it was literally necessary for you to just drop everything and go.
Kera Bear I think you should still have a hat that you always have access to. It’s not difficult to put a hat on.
Kera Bear Head coverings in public are so common in many cultures. Satin caps and bonnets are only considered ghetto because of the people who wear them.
@@clairedaniels1877 if you received a call from someone telling you that your mother was just in a car accident and is in the ICU would it honestly even cross your mind to think about what's on your head?
@@asho345 A bonnet is not a head covering. It is mainly used for sleeping in black female American culture. You're making a false equivalence.
Kera Bear It’s second nature to put a hat on my head. I have hats in my drawer that are there for me when my hair isn’t done and it literally takes no time to put one on. Would you not wash your behind and underarms or brush your teeth for an emergency? I don’t think you would.