This is so scary. BW doing skits that intentionally hurt the image of black women. The hatred for us is unreal. The real question is WHOS REALLY BEHIND THIS?
This is the 5th viral hoax, starring black women to take off this year; Carlee Russel, Kadia Iman, Ro or Rho Bashe, Oyster girl and this Cheesecake chic.
I’m a SAG-AFTRA actress and I turn down work that ruins the my image and other DSBW image! I rarely do skits because most men want us unambiguous DSBW to play either an entitled snob that gets humbled or be ghetto/uncivilized! She doesn’t have confidence in her talent or isn’t a real professional actress! She’s desperate and thinks all opportunities are good opportunities! Scarcity Mindset! ❤️❤️❤️
There's so many things to take away from this situation. As BW, there's much to discuss when it comes to our image. First, let's address the fact that this woman claims to be a therapist. Why not use her field of expertise to counter the narrative? Everything about her reiterated so many negative stereotypes. There were comments made about her age, her hair, her purple lipstick, her "cheap" dress, how inappropriate her dress was for a date anywhere, let alone an expensive restaurant, how deep her voice was, how she didn't "deserve" to be even asked to go on a date, and trust me, the list goes on. Overweight, masculine, undeserving, all associated with BW. What "conversation" was she really trying to have? Nothing constructive came of this. Unless I missed something, that is. If I'm being completely honest, self-respecting BW shouldn't even engage in these conversations. Don't share the posts. Don't comment. Nothing. Pay it all in dust. It got way more attention than it deserved.
@tataliciousdelicious9840 Same! Regardless of whether it was a skit or not, the damage would be the same. What's worse are the reactions from other BW. It's to be expected from others, and by others, I mean BM. But BW? That was again, expected but disappointing nonetheless.
Exactly! This should have never got the traction it did. It's past time we start distancing ourselves from the 2.0 pickmes. Just pay them the dust they deserve #youcantsitwithus.
I agree with all of this. I didn't share or comment on any of it. When I finally saw the video where she was "so-called" responding, I noticed that it said she was a therapist, and I too was waiting for some type of deep comment or observation. I didn't hear anything deep and decided to entirely stop clicking on the videos about her.
This was great promo for the Cheesecake Factory. I’m sure they have gotten a lot more traffic at their restaurants. But of course a black woman is the face of the promotion and wasn’t even paid for it. Always giving out free labor and always the butt of the joke.
You have a valid point. I think the same thing happened with the 48 oysters lady too 🙃 everybody ran to the restaurant after the date gone wrong fiasco.
Please stop with this 🔴 'Moving in silence' got BW to where we are and not understanding the abuse our mothers and generations before went through. One skit does not need to make us go underground.
I don't think it's a good idea to move in silence at all. Black women need a serious reality check, they need a giant mirror right in front of them so they can see how depleted they truly are. So much so that they have no problem bashing other women and other black women for literally no reason. Now they're going to be looking even more stupid because this actually turned out to be a skit
Literally this- being discerning in which BW to connect with and talk to is important, and for the BW and the people who don’t want good things for BW with standards, say absolutely nothing else. I wish ADOS women like this lived outside of the US to truly understand the cultural image of the American BC overseas, because they would stop making this type of content embarrassing themselves. And I’m saying this as an Afro-Caribbean woman and I know what people are saying about my people, and it sucks, but a lot of us are learning our lessons. Remember, anything you put on social media practically lives forever. So why would you post anything that works against your public image?
The fact that everyone acted like it wasn't a skit was the actual problem. Everyone including black women get so excited to share black women bashing stereotype content.
They did not know! They thought this was real. She kept looking into the camera and I wondered why. Her race is what will cause the most bashing. You are correct.
Why can’t we as black women stay on code? Aren’t y’all tired? Engaging in this type of negative behavior against our own image and self sabotage os insane. At this point it’s exhausting and shows we are really our own worst enemy.
I can’t fuckin stand it. Or when they participate in those bitter baby mama skits. I wish their was something that ruined their careers for participating in this dumb shit!!!!
Omggg I saw a video of a BW on tiktok going in on this woman and calling her all types of names and being so aggressive (for lack of better word) towards her and I’m just like girl… you know this is fake you just wanna flap your gums so that men can gas you in the comments
BW doing these anti-bw skits should be a no no...Being ANTI-YOU is not smart,for money or otherwise...I knew this was a skit,the whole time.. A bunch of foolishness...
Are you serious right now? So now you want to blame her for how you reacted to skit? 🙄 If you black women would have mostly taken her side, this wouldn't be an issue. But instead of looking within and fixing yourself because you are the one that's broken, you continue to insist on her. What is wrong with you? Goodness
@IndependentGirli She says she’s a therapist. It’s unethical for a mental health professional to be deceptive. Online or otherwise. But you e been defending her throughout the comment section. Are you in fact Nickia? Your license needs to be revoked. If you are indeed a therapist I’m sure your professional license organization is receiving complaints about you. That’s the type of investigation ppl ARE doing now. You are a disgrace to the profession
Women labeled unattractive have husbands who buy opt to buy them a Mercedes. Many women who are considered attractive are being dogged out. Attractiveness does not equate to higher value; all women are valuable. The difference is within individual standards in accepting or rejecting certain treatment.
@Karen You’re correct, but if you live in area surrounded by Pookies the odds are against you. I found my high earning black husband when I went to Uni in an all white conservative town. Other races are lucky in that they can marry the boy next door and marry up.
Recording it was the biggest giveaway to me. Had she wrote about the story from a fake page and it got passed around it might've been more believable 😂 cuz I was just like how is she holding a phone recording through this like this cannot be life
@@AFFTFOMSICHTS did you see the follow up interview they did though on that one channel with that hotep lookin dude? Every step of the way her character was "taking accountability " but to the point where it was giving pick me. Like she wasn't wrong sometimes but she went into pandering territory.
Exactly. I think it is not a skit. I think bc of the backlash she is now calling it a skit and got the guy to agree. The insults in the comments and other platforms were too overwhelming. The interview after the video did not reveal it was a skit either.
I noticed an uptick in these types of videos. Black women have been working on our image and desirability and the powers that be DO NOT want black women as the standard. These videos are made to make us look bad!
Yes I absolutely agree. Black women have been working on our image, discussing and pushing for corrective promotion, leveling up, becoming hypergamous, being competitive when it comes to dating ALL races of men, dating and marrying interracially more and more, going on our femininity journeys and deciding to rest in our femininity and all of that is a threat to the status quo! They know if more and more bw continue to wake up and do these things and truly embrace our natural black beauty and make sure we look good, and demand better treatment and representation, then we are real strong competition for the status quo beauty standard and ppl don’t want that to change
I really wish Black Women would stop speaking this into existence. She is not you and you are not her. I still got approached by non Black and Black Men, this skit did not affect me and it shouldn't affect you, do not claim it.
Some people really will do ANYTHING for a $. Later, when she gets as far as she can go, she'll come crying back saying how she regrets it now, but she didn't know then what she knows now, and all the other b.s. excuses...🙄🤦🏽🙅🏽
Oddly enough I do not think the plan was to play a entitled bw. I think she was trying to play an entitled woman. However there are a few channels on RUclips who love to bash Bw so they didn't consider it was a skit because its easier to hate on us. If this therapist was a ww no one would be bashing all ww.
@@roshellegouldbourne787thank you. I am so tired of this whole narrative that black women are a monolith. I get tired of being judged and reprimanded when someone who happens to look like me does something stupid in public and/or online. It's ridiculous. Black women need to really practice autonomy.
And keep them high! We are moving up the social mobility ladder and jealous people want to keep black women at the bottom with lower-class black men. And if we help these black men build we know it's a good chance they will leave us as soon as they get their money right and be with the women that they really want. Nope, we saw this with our aunties, mothers, and friends. But black women in 2023 are going to break that cycle and it starts NOW!🤵🏻+👰🏾♀+💍=🤰🏾🤱🏾👶🏽👶🏼👶🏻
@@Ourown311idk about that bc there are too many low self-esteem having BW out here all over the internet telling everybody how great it is being a side chick. Somebody’s got to counter the narrative & call that foolishness out🤷🏽♀️
My hubby said “THIS IS ALL MADE UP ,NO SELF RESPECTING MAN WOULD REMAIN THERE! SHE ‘S DESTROYING WOMEN ‘S IMAGE TO HUMBLE THEM FOR MALE ATTENTION!” He Was Right!
In the black community women have to look like a celebrity- wear $1,000 wigs , 25k BBL, 10k veneers to hang out with below average black men to be worthy of cheesecake dates if you lucky …. That standard is exhausting & not even a fair exchange. I just started going to more upscale , diverse places. Its relaxing , I get complimented more & I look like a typical everyday black girl.
Girl what? Lol 😅 all that just to get a date with a black man to cheesecake factory? With nonblack men you don't even need hair weave and can be in a sweatsuit and still be wined and dined. It's sad but that's been my experience
@@BronzerGodhonestly YES You ever see the skit where it says if you want to land a white millionaire wear a bad wig as a black woman. Let's be for real
Yeah, the lady (a real therapist and actress) stated she just wanted to have the “conversation,” but ended up getting dragged in the process. I do not feel sorry for her. She should know by now that this would be the outcome. Stop trying to police and humble BW standards. It’s getting weird now. Everyone is trying so hard to get BW to settle all of a sudden. Leave us alone.
Why can’t BW, who do not share our views on standards leave us TF alone!? Why do they have to try to “corral” us into their views of standards?!? Same with BW IR dating? BW out number BM by millions, but BW who only want the kangz are upset at a very small number of BW want to open our options? Make it make sense! I glad this heffa got her entire hairline snatched out of her head for this dumb ish! I don’t feel sorry for her!
She lyin…she was, simply, tryna drum up (MORE) bad PR for bw…If she wanted to have “a conversation”, why not use the type of male that bw, USUALLY, date??
I also want to add the women who seem to have the biggest issue with BW leveling up and BW who seem to be doing these skits are LSW. I can't be the only person who peeped this. The real issue is people don't want DSBW realizing they have options. Us removing ourselves from people who should not have had access to us to begin with is rubbing a lot of people the wrong way. Certain power structures can't help certain people have "privilege" if DSW are not at the bottom helping lift people up. I didn't even bother to give an opinion on the skit when it started trending on twitter. To me this proves DSW are on the right track. Let the world know you have options.
I've been saying for the longest that a lot of people have a problem with BW especially DSBW being too proud and too free because they can't stand on our necks to get what they want anymore.
They want us to be the mules of the world. DSBW have greater oppression than LSBW. Our experiences are similar but DSBW really catch it from all corners. LSBW still have some privileges in the black community.
@downtownon7thavenue Was there a LSBW in this video? Or are you speaking of WW? Because it’s only a dsbw in this video dragging the image of dsbw. That’s a you problem. Can’t blame other ppl.
There's a mixed-race woman in the UK currently being dragged because she said a man's 50-60k salary (apparently rough £4k a month) isn't enough for her needs. Moving in silence is definitely the best way!
The therapist accuses people of not having critical thinking skills, but she is the one that allowed them to think that way in the first place by not putting skit in the title. She takes no responsibility for her part in this and comes across as mean and deceptive.
But she's right They didn't have critical thinking skills I can give reasons as to why it was fake and most people literally had to think about it or deny it just because the reasons are logical common sense Really think about it
But she's right. So what are you talking about? And why are we still focused on what the therapist did, instead of focusing on ourselves because now we see that black women and women in general have low self-esteem. It's women that end up looking extremely stupid because this was a skit and look how they attacked her. So this is not about the therapist, this is a much bigger issue
@@salutemimi81 I understand but it didn't need to be that way if she just told the truth in the first place. People shouldn't have to play detective and research a video when the person making the video can just say this was just a teaching tool a skit.
@@IndependentPrettyGirlis I understand attacking the character but also the therapist since she was deceptive. People shouldn't need to research a video and play detective when she could have just told the truth in the first place. She could have said this is just a teaching tool a skit. So, she opened the door for people to have no critical thinking skills by not being honest in the first place. It was unnecessary.
@@Ginza92 LOL that's idiotic; the whole reason you would NEED/use critical thinking skills is to decipher that which is NOT obvious. If someone has to tell it to you, then you don't need critical thinking skills and you have NO critical thinking skills. Also, your idiotic way of thinking is what keeps black women weak minded, divided, and fighting each other instead of operating as a group. This is why men and all other races treat black women like trash. Because you all treat each other like straight TRASH. Can you imagine bashing a person's humanity because you think she's "rude?" girl bye.
I'm not telling a man how to date me - I let him do what he do, and if its not up to my standards I have free will to leave, it's not that deep there's 7 billion ppl on the planet 🙄
I'm learning in real time why it's important to keep my dating standards to myself. There are women in my own family who are giving me a hard time because they simply do not understand all of the mental and internal work that goes into leveling up, being strategic and dating a certain caliber of man. Unfortunately, they're more content with accepting bits and pieces of a man rather than working on themselves to have something whole and healthy. A lot of Black women sadly have low self-esteem and are used to accepting less so they want the rest of us to do the same.
What are they giving you a hard time about? What is being discussed with them to give you a hard time about dating? Earlier, a saw a BW comment that some BW in her RL are tripping bec she doesn’t want to date at all. I am really beginning to see BW as just as big of a “problem” and detriment to BW as BM are! BW are a trip: they probably won’t give you a “hard time” about some dusty turning you into a baby mama or beating TF out of you, but have plenty say about you trying to level up and raise your standards to date a higher caliber of men! 😮
Not only should black women move in silence, but we need to move strategically. We are in the greatest economic reset ever and many men of other races are going to be the new face of wealth many of them are into black women and they don't care about being cut out of the family will. We see that on social media as more nonblack men of means are dating and marrying black women and we are becoming the face of the new "It Girl," and black men and nonblack women are pissed, but I don't care.
@@kittykatz4001Black women are just as bad, if not worse with trying to keep other Black women and girls at the bottom. The extreme circumstances, which are plenty, result in being physically harmed or even unalived. Even families expect other Black women and girls to take care of adult male relatives. Everyone, including the government, relies on Black women to support these “kangz”. Note: No one invests in Black males like Black women invest in them, with very little return. Even Black men rarely invest in other Black males.
@@kittykatz4001 They think that I'm expecting too much from men and don't understand why I was working on myself before dating again. But that's because a lot of us are conditioned to not expect anything at all. My standards aren't anything outrageous but to them, when you're used to settling for married men, situationships, men with several baby mommas and all that nonsense, you're asking for too much.
Hi Chrissie! I’ve been watching your videos since 14 and I’m now 20. I loved your femininity videos so much! You made videos about makeup, clothes, weight, and hygiene and they were so helpful. They have disappeared on RUclips and I couldn’t find your femininity videos on Chrissie online either. I really hope you bring them back; I’ve been implementing them in my daily life and they have made a huge difference. I think so many women have benefited from your advice and could continue to if they had access to it again.
Said it from the beginning it was a performance. He seemed way to cool with her bringing out the phone. Then they BOTH used all the gender war talking points that they know they will pissOff men and women. Literally like they were reading off a script.
I knew it was a skit... It's so funny because women of all backgrounds can display this kind of behavior, however when you place BW as the focal point it will spark all kinds of think pieces and debates painting a narrative of why BW do not deserve respect, love and need to be humbled. What really enrages me is the fact that black women are looked upon as a monolith and even if the story was true, just one black woman displaying this type of behavior means that all of us need to be reprimanded as if we all share a hive mind. I am over it.
It always seemed like a skit to me as well. Idk what’s worse, deep fakes or social media skits. It’s skewing people’s perceptions of reality and I don’t like that. People don’t have discernment to understand what’s real anymore
Well, black women do it to themselves. Most of the attacks that I saw were from other women, especially black women. So they keep themselves at the bottom. No one does that to them, they do it to themselves literally. If most black woman would have come out and stood up for these ladies right to have standards and values, we would be having a completely different conversation and they wouldn't have the nerve to tell us that we don't deserve high standards
Stop with the blame the victim. We didn’t stand with this skit because we were not in agreement with her “standards”. I think we need to have a conversation about what standards mean and it doesn’t include being rude or dismissive of people.
@@sharonivy888 who died in meet you the standards police for all humans? I'm pretty sure she can have whatever standard she wants. That doesn't give you the right to berate and Bash her all over the internet just because you don't agree with her and because your standards are non-existent
I knew it was skit because: The way she was dressed. The way he was dressed. You go on date and no discussion takes place prior. You let him pick you up at home on a first date. He was ok being recorded. It just seem like a bunch of bs to me.
That’s the same sentiments I had when I discussed this with my friend. I told her that this lady has a right to her standards which is the black male equivalent of saying that they have a ‘preference’. I wish more women would get into the mindset of accepting that there are different strokes for different folks and just scroll on if they see a woman on social media talking about standards that don’t apply to them. And as a side note, if this was indeed a real situation and the lady did not want to eat at the Cheesecake Factory, she should have pulled something like ‘Oh, I think it would be better if we eat elsewhere because I’ve had a bad experience here.’ Or some bs like that. Remember ladies, you catch more flies with honey 💅🏾
If it were a real situation, she absolutely should have still stated, the Cheesecake Factory is not appropriate for her on a first date. Therefore, the guy could inquire what would be more appropriate or end the date.
Yeees! That second part of your post is on point! BW could greatly benefit from reading, and understanding the art of seduction and seducing a man using honey….
The reason they were going to Cheesecake Factory was because she was an hour late, though. They missed their reservation to the nicer restaurant. It wasn't where he was planning to take her, and she didn't give him a heads up that she was running late.
@@gabriellegeorge2648 lol but the skit was fake so all of that u said didn’t actually happen. But even if this happened in real life and a black woman was an hour late to a date (which I’m not disagreeing that that’s very rude) if he still agreed to take her out then he should’ve told her he was taking her somewhere else other than the original restaurant they were gonna go to. & even if a woman is an hour late to a date she still has the right to refuse to go to the Cheesecake Factory if she doesn’t think it’s good enough for her and she could’ve politely simply said I really don’t feel comfortable eating here and if we can’t go anywhere else then can u please take me home.
Per usual she said nothing but the truth. Well I did side eye the cheesecake factory lady (It was because she was an hour late not respecting his time and in the video he said he had a reservations but they missed them so that cheesecake factory was their second option) I had an ephiany over the past few weeks and realized this is all one big agenda. It's no coincidence that once black women started leveling up, going to the gym, opening businesses and rejecting dusties that we have been inundated with propaganda. Between Eboni, sexyyredd, Halle, iyanla, brick lady, Tyler Perry, toktok skits, Tamar, Jodie and podcast pookies it all became too much. A few days ago Jamie tried to "expose" Nikki thats when I peeped game. I usually ignore unsavory representations of BW in media. Because you're right, If you don't agree with what a black woman says or does moving silence. Black males are out here terrorizing people everyday and you don't hear mass public condemnation from their "hiGh vALuE" brothers, they silently agree and keep it moving. Getting on code means not amplifying the ratchet voices of BW. Starve them of attention and they'll disappear.
They can try all they want to deter us from leveling up and leaving the dust behind, but our eyes are open now! “Once the mind has been expanded with a new idea, it simply cannot go back to what it used to be!”
Yes BW! Know YOUR OWN PERSONAL STANDARDS and KEEP YOUR STANDARDS TO YOURSELF! It’s so easy to do. Especially online. When you see nonsense ignore it. Don’t pile on to negative comments about BW. Don’t attack BW’s looks!!! It doesn’t matter how much you disagree with a BW , please don’t attack her looks and her natural features. I ignored this skit, and I block people who tear BW down. It’s super easy to do. Great video as always, Chrissie! 💖💖💖 Put yourself first BW! 💖 We deserve the best! 💖
@@hmm-zoolol yes that's what irritated me on this one. Therapist are supposed to be truthful, and trust is the foundation of their profession. It's the deception of it that I don't like.
Actually, everyone. The gobbling down of dozens of oysters wasn't just a skit. It was an ad. Check the name and the price. They even showed the special. I'm surprised they didn't say #ad
You are so right; women need to take a page out of men's book and not tell other women what they don't deserve. If a woman doesn't do coffee dates, that's her business. And, if a woman doesn't want to go to the Cheesecake Factory on a first date, that is her business. For me, after living on this earth, I've learned the hard way about things. In spite of the money that a man spent on me, it didn't mean that the man cared for me. I just concentrate on treating myself to nice restaurants.
In the uk a white girl who is a nurse in a neonatal unit has intentionally killed more than a dozen babies, court found her guilty and she has been thrown in jail and she is still been doubted as innocent victim and folks are doubting her and defending her. Had she been a black girl, she would have been believed she instantly without a doubt, that she k!lled those babies😢
Doctors actually raised the alarm, but had to apologise to her. The higher up left their job when it all came out. I think she wrote a diary of what she did, but apologies if that part is wrong. They would have known what shift she was on and the wards, the dates etc so more likely would have had overwhelming evidence. The only people doubting are mad people with no brain.
Don't be stupid, it would have been the same outcome, whatever her colour. In fact she probably would have been believed more if she was black. People would have been scared of being perceived as racist. And what does this have to do with this video, absolutely nothing. I'm not saying racism doesn't exist, but the UK is one of the least racist countries, it is ranked as the least racist country, out of the 12 most western European countries. And clearly the woman who uploaded this video has the same attitude, with black woman this and black woman that. When I first saw this video, I didn't think about the colour of her skin, I just thought that this was the attitude of quite a lot of women, of all race's. There are plenty of examples of women all over the internet, saying that they want a man who is 6 ft, with a six figure salary, and not want to work and to be a kept woman. Keep up with your victim mentality, see how far it gets you. 😔 Keep up with your victim mentality
This reaffirms my stance that we need to work on sisterhood. Too many black women feel that they have nowhere to connect, and end up fighting against their own sisters. I'm going to focus on doing a better job with being supportive in 2024. Sending ❤ to you all and wishing you the highest level of peace, prosperity and quality relationships👸🏿💖
This is a great goal and I’ll add if they do not respond positively to your invitation of support, don’t dwell on it, go with the ones who accept your support and forget the rest.
That second girl is downright beautful. And even if she wasn't, why should she accept coffee and drink dates if she doesn't want to??? The audacity to act like we dictate what others should accept is ridiculous. It highlights some people's own low self esteem.
My lash tech (a BW) literally told me that being with a BM that she knows is settling for her as a DSBW because he truly prefers light skin, biracial & NB women but just can’t pull them is better than being single! I was stunned! The desperation is sad but real! Please wake up & see your value BW!
Chrissie speaking facts. From the moment I heard about the video I knew it was fake. I didn’t bother to watch it. Black women don’t do that corny shit in real life. If anything black women out here dating down For-real. Society has us so brain washed its really sad. Please ladies learn your real worth before its to late.
I'm definitely not a super model or considered a 10 by society and I've been taken to places I wish to go many times. The men just have to like you enough to spend their money. They usually ask me straight up were I want to go or for suggestions or if they're on vacation, have invited me to join them and they take care of anything. All you have to do is be intelligent, nice personality, look good and prepare to have fun.
I knew it was a skit, because no decent man in his right mind will wait outside a woman's house while she is an hour late, he would have asked her to meet him at the restaurant. Her date was also way too calm when she pulled out her phone and started recording, plus the conversation between the two at the end. Bm were saying a majority of bw is like her which is not true. They will use a skit to lump all black women in the same category.
Hold up.....😅 I was with you at, " I knew it was a skit", but the "No decent man in his right mind will wait outside a woman's house while she is an hour late"???? Trust me, as a descent man who dates majority full black women😉...... that unfortunately can happen. A lot🤣
@@FloridaGeorgiaYou keep accepting and being ok with your dates being late and not being respectful of your time and that is why it continues to happen. Stop tolerating that behavior and it will change. There are decent bw that you can date that will be respectful of your time and will communicate so if they are running late.
Glad you went over this coz I refused to give this type of f*ckery some views...it just looked fake plus I'm tired of men fighting us to have some standards. The embarrassing things ppl would do for clout baffles me then again, I'm not surprised. Attention seeking is one hell of a drug. And you're right about this Chrissie; all the comments under the posts were so misogynistic and colorists/featurists...another way to embarrassed BW image.
@@hette457I’ve decided years ago-that although there are so many factors there to deter men of other races from dating BW- to see the opportunity in this dire situation. Because I know the stereotypes abt BW, I’ve decided to embrace me; take care of me; workout and work on myself. . . So that when I show up to the venue, I’m the very opposite of what they think a BW is supposed to be. Nothing is more delicious than not fitting into someone else’s idea of you. They don’t know what to do with a confident, beautiful BW who exceeds societal’s expectations of her. This sh*tty situation is meant for BW to rise above and shine!
There is an agenda to stop black women from what we started doing over five years ago. The world sees that many of us have accepted that black men have moved on and we got our US Passport and started traveling and we are documenting our travels and dating and marrying nonblack men. Over the last few years, black women have put up videos of us getting proposed to by black men wedding videos of black women getting married to nonblack men, and videos of black women and nonblack men in the delivery room giving birth to our mixed race children. Many of us have or are on the way to leaving the US and permanently moving overseas and even giving up our US Citizenship. We are being told that we are only good for black men and black men of the lower social class and only good for McDonald's value meals and nothing more.
The agenda is to keep us at the bottom. But it will not work. Many of us are getting our money right, our bodies right, our minds right and our passports. We are going for the gold medal in the dating world and nobody will stop us.
They can try to stop us all they want but it’s too late! Sure, we are not at the tipping point yet, but a large number of us have awakened and simply cannot go back to what it used to be🤷🏽♀️ They can try to manufacture this artificial scarcity for BW but we no longer believe it!
Exactly. Be there when they want to F you , at their disposal until they find the woman they truly want🙄 Miss me with that. We have standards now and we are looking for the best men for the job 🥰
Not the therapist needing therapy! This woman purposely tried to gaslight other women to the point of posting an embarrassing video for eyes on her profile. Anyone with a brain would NEVER hire her as a therapist so I suppose being a clown on camera may be the best route to take after this.
Well, now she’s known as the Cheesecake Factory actress. Not a good look. She also made herself and other women that look like her, look bad. It seems like when BW take 2 steps forward in the right direction, it’s BW like this, that make us take 10 steps back. She was wrong on all levels. Why not post a video uplifting us in a good light. How awesome would this “skit” be if they both dressed nice, went on a date, enjoyed each others company and came up with an unforgettable ending. They should have thought outside the box. This wasn’t a good look at all. And it’s even worse because the man of no color didn’t care about the backlash she was going to get. He didn’t get the backlash, she did. Do you really think he would have done that skit, with other women in his community? I’ll answer it for you. No.
I kinda feel like the collective of bw have been taking allot of L’s lately. The fake kidnapping of Carlee Russel situation, the fake brick situation and now this? Seriously what’s happening?!!
@@MzDC202 Fake afff!!! She’s been pulling tricks like that so she can get free money from donation. I think this was her third time or so. Just ridiculous😅
When you are used to dating up, you know that personality, a feminine demeanor , intelligence and being nice goes a long way. It’s not impossible to get a great dinner or a $500 date with no sex involved. Literally, I’m just myself, but I chose to date up. When men have money, they are typically happier, generous, have more going for themselves and have great conversations. Some of these guys are giving me great business advice, have become dear friends. They are so willing to be helpful in that regard and that is priceless. I know clearly what I’m after and they applaud it because I’m very straightforward. But it was things that I had to teach myself and also research. I know the life that I want and the kind of man that I want and it’s OK to have the standards that you hold . Men do it all the time and literally don’t know what they truly want half the time. Just be you, just do you. There are good men out there. Open your options. Such great talking points in this video. Definitely something to rewatch a few times to really grasp the concepts.
I agree. There’s a black female divorce judge on RUclips that makes skits that paint black women in divorce court as villains. All of the villains in her courtroom are the women.
Yes; the 48 Oysters Girl video was actually a skit to promote the Oyster bar and it worked because now the line to get in is out the door. I exposed both skits last week.
A little break from social media is always necessary. There’s too much noise out there. People have to learn to do what’s best for them and not always follow group think.
I’ve been completely off of it since early September and I’m really enjoying my life. I get so much done now, went back to the gym, eating better, sleeping better etc.
I seen this on my timeline and my inner voice in my head told me to "keep scrolling". Glad I did 😂 Chrissie, you the only reason I even know the full story.
So she was willing to make herself look bad just for 15 minutes of fame? BM was calling her all types of names, rating her a 3 or a big toe, and bringing up the late Kitten Heels (may he rest in pp) nonstop. Attention is one hell of a drug.
She drew direct attention to her looks by saying “who takes someone who looks like this to cheesecake?” Gesturing to herself constantly. So of course people mentioned that how she looked did not stop her from going into that restaurant - outdated hair & lipstick color etc. It may not have been kind, but she needed a reality check.
I think coffee dates for the 1st date is actually the safest way to meet up with someone you’re still getting to know. There are some upscale Cafés out there btw! The girl who doesn’t accept coffee dates is really pretty! I’m glad she didn’t lower HER personal standards!
It was and is all AROUND tacky and DISGRACEFUL! But above all, a harmful, disrespectful and VERY deceptive depiction of Black women. Puh, our standards are so high and is why most of us are baby mothers. 🙄 *sarcasm* FOH
I can’t believe anyone actually thought that was real. I said it was fake from the jump. When AI becomes advanced these people are going to fall for any and everything.
I can agree more. It was obviously a skit and of course a huge demographic took advantage of seeing this just so they can speak her hatred BW. At this point, I don't care what nobody says, these creatures are mad because they can't be us. There's no other explanation for the obsession.
Maybe Chrissie needs to start speaking French because obviously, English isn't working. How many times has she said mums the word? Stop bumping your gums!
It's so annoying because of course all the black Conservative women reacted to this thinking it was real exposing their mainly non black audience to this litteraly so many people think this is real SMH and why did she mentioned "as a black women" I don't understand why everyone is so obsessed with putting black women down it's so upsetting and frustrating I'm so tried...
Any video that shows a BW attempting to have standards is going to cause controversy because BW, especially DSBW, are supposed to accept whatever is given. It’s obvious why something like this is a problem for most unproductive, broke group of males. But I suspect BW have a problem with this because many of them fell for the narrative and settled for the bare minimum so how dare you want better for yourself? #Miserylovescompany
Honestly… I knew it was a skit and NEVER clicked on it for that reason. It’s common sense that no one would record themselves saying something so silly. At some point, we have to let these internet trolls stay right where they are. They don’t even come up with compelling believable content.
The acting is always so bad! It’s giving tubi. I’m confused how no one recognizes that these are skits! Cheesecake Factory acting was horrible! When she said “oh no he didn’t” I thought I was watching an old 90s sitcom 🤣 Like, it’s beyond obvious. What I’m really side eying are the folks that fell for it. Are people really this slow? I’ve been on some terrible dates (recently too) and not once did I think “let me record this interaction” 🤔 I just went home and called my girlfriends to clown dude like a normal person 🙄
A lot more black women should really read the 48 laws of power, that book describes what i went through , most of my life since i was in primary school.(But most probably wouldn't want to,because they see it as a book for "narcissist's",when its really not, because most of them still see themselves as the victims and have made it their whole personality,or enjoy being masochist's, always embracing being the perpetual victims of suffering or being unlucky.) It really is a dog eat ,dog world out there, everybody is playing the game.....even if people tell you they aren't playing the game,they are lying..Black women should stop being so forthcoming and honest about every intention and situation as well, as this makes us easy targets to be used for being a martyr or sacrificial lamb, always expected to be honest and self righteous and full of morals, when nobody else is forthcoming, nuanced, fair or even honest with us......
It was so obviously a skit. In real life a girl wouldn't pull out her phone to record. we'd literally get quiet and start texting our friend or something.
When do people find time for outrage! It was such a blessing that I never joined IG, Twitter, Tik Tok, Snapchat etc. I don't come across such weird nonsense and I pick the content I watch intentionally which is why I choose Chrissie 😊
I knew this bs was fake and I never even watched it. I'm unclear why Black women keep participating in the skits knowing all Black women get talked about as a result. It's multiple wars happening now and more people was talking about this. This was worse than the single mother wanting to buy all her kids McDonald's bs.
Thank you for this video. I commented on another forum that I thought this was completely fake. I just had a feeling it was. It’s interesting that some people are still running with this story.
Thankyou Chrissie❤ Your take on not remarking on her looks as black women is refreshing. I want to think people went in on them more so because she made several references to her looks. Even the best looking people tend to get roasted when they display that level of narcissism. Even so, keep to the code. 😂
I used to work in HR. Yes, your online presence can and will stop you from getting hired/promoted. Employers are basically using your social media as one of ur references 🤷🏾♀️
Part 2 shows two different takes of the skit: ruclips.net/video/23RUQxqj2ec/видео.htmlsi=g8CmlifoqTnyL2bX
Where is this statistic that shows that black women mostly have kids with broke men? 🤔
A therapist making a skit that makes black women look like villains? Make it make sense 🙄
Its just annoying and tiring at this point.
Is she actually a therapist? After this little performance I wouldn't believe her unless she can show actual proof.
Her behavior is why people question our credentials and our professions. Therapist where, honey?
That's exactly what I said when I read that.
If I found out my therapist did something like that, she’d be fired.
This is so scary. BW doing skits that intentionally hurt the image of black women. The hatred for us is unreal. The real question is WHOS REALLY BEHIND THIS?
This is the 5th viral hoax, starring black women to take off this year; Carlee Russel, Kadia Iman, Ro or Rho Bashe, Oyster girl and this Cheesecake chic.
A black man somewhere in a corner laughing with his non DSBW.
Black women. Some blk women refuse to stop working against themselves and other women like them.
I'm so tired of all of this bw slander.
@purplelove3666 Have you seen yourself? Who's safer, a twerking Black woman, or a Black Male Who's just been told, no?!
The mammies are behind this because they want company to their misery. Or BM are behind it. Either or.
I’m a SAG-AFTRA actress and I turn down work that ruins the my image and other DSBW image! I rarely do skits because most men want us unambiguous DSBW to play either an entitled snob that gets humbled or be ghetto/uncivilized! She doesn’t have confidence in her talent or isn’t a real professional actress! She’s desperate and thinks all opportunities are good opportunities! Scarcity Mindset! ❤️❤️❤️
Or maybe she simply agrees with the message
@@mr.nyceguy7800excuse me, why are you watching this video if you don't agree? please leave 😡
Yes! Definitely operating from a scarcity mindset
@@taylardotson8100 I'm watching this video because I love it when you least desireds prove bm right
Not cool to do this for clout! I agree with you, Ms. SAG-AFTRA!
There's so many things to take away from this situation. As BW, there's much to discuss when it comes to our image. First, let's address the fact that this woman claims to be a therapist. Why not use her field of expertise to counter the narrative? Everything about her reiterated so many negative stereotypes. There were comments made about her age, her hair, her purple lipstick, her "cheap" dress, how inappropriate her dress was for a date anywhere, let alone an expensive restaurant, how deep her voice was, how she didn't "deserve" to be even asked to go on a date, and trust me, the list goes on. Overweight, masculine, undeserving, all associated with BW. What "conversation" was she really trying to have? Nothing constructive came of this. Unless I missed something, that is. If I'm being completely honest, self-respecting BW shouldn't even engage in these conversations. Don't share the posts. Don't comment. Nothing. Pay it all in dust. It got way more attention than it deserved.
I totally agree with absolutely everything youI said. I knew this was a skit and I was so annoyed with this bs
@tataliciousdelicious9840 Same! Regardless of whether it was a skit or not, the damage would be the same. What's worse are the reactions from other BW. It's to be expected from others, and by others, I mean BM. But BW? That was again, expected but disappointing nonetheless.
Exactly! This should have never got the traction it did. It's past time we start distancing ourselves from the 2.0 pickmes. Just pay them the dust they deserve #youcantsitwithus.
I agree with all of this. I didn't share or comment on any of it. When I finally saw the video where she was "so-called" responding, I noticed that it said she was a therapist, and I too was waiting for some type of deep comment or observation. I didn't hear anything deep and decided to entirely stop clicking on the videos about her.
Pick me as a therapist too. People want to go viral at all costs.
This was great promo for the Cheesecake Factory. I’m sure they have gotten a lot more traffic at their restaurants. But of course a black woman is the face of the promotion and wasn’t even paid for it. Always giving out free labor and always the butt of the joke.
You have a valid point. I think the same thing happened with the 48 oysters lady too 🙃 everybody ran to the restaurant after the date gone wrong fiasco.
It did nothing but bring out true colors and cause more chaos in our community
Right. I thought about that
Mammy'ing and muling
@@__Selena__That might have been pretend also to get social media views.
Of course it was a skit. Then they had an interview with a hotep to top it off 🥴
That part.
Ok! I said that made me know it was bs
A dusty hotep.
Right, I thought it was real until they went on that podcast. Then I was like "who is asking BM for dating advice?"
Dude had a whole Kofi on… Come on ya’ll !!! 🥴🥴🥴
Self sabotage is sad. A race trained to destroy themselves.
I wouldn't even say it's training, they are just choosing to destroy themselves at this point.
BW collective is allergic to self preservation🤦🏽♀️
As long as our people desires the Devils treasures, we have to accept the Devils pain
@@Ourown311 Thank you! This constantly blaming everybody else but black people needs to *STOP* .
💯✅ You stated that perfectly.
How many times must we say this: MOVE IN SILENCE!!! 💅🏾
Not moving in stealth can stop movements before they get off the ground.
Even the HinduTimes covered this nonsense.
Please stop with this 🔴 'Moving in silence' got BW to where we are and not understanding the abuse our mothers and generations before went through. One skit does not need to make us go underground.
Black Women + Silence is like a foreign language, 🤣
I don't think it's a good idea to move in silence at all. Black women need a serious reality check, they need a giant mirror right in front of them so they can see how depleted they truly are. So much so that they have no problem bashing other women and other black women for literally no reason. Now they're going to be looking even more stupid because this actually turned out to be a skit
Literally this- being discerning in which BW to connect with and talk to is important, and for the BW and the people who don’t want good things for BW with standards, say absolutely nothing else. I wish ADOS women like this lived outside of the US to truly understand the cultural image of the American BC overseas, because they would stop making this type of content embarrassing themselves. And I’m saying this as an Afro-Caribbean woman and I know what people are saying about my people, and it sucks, but a lot of us are learning our lessons. Remember, anything you put on social media practically lives forever. So why would you post anything that works against your public image?
The fact that everyone acted like it wasn't a skit was the actual problem. Everyone including black women get so excited to share black women bashing stereotype content.
Right. I see some but I ain't calling names👀
I agree, it was sooooooo obvious to me that it was a skit. The only skit that fooled me was the 2022 McDonald's for one out of four Children skit.
I promise they look for a reason to get online and spew their hate for all black women as if this one person represents us ALL.
They did not know! They thought this was real. She kept looking into the camera and I wondered why. Her race is what will cause the most bashing. You are correct.
Acted? Did you read the comments. BP were mad! They thought this was real.
Why can’t we as black women stay on code? Aren’t y’all tired? Engaging in this type of negative behavior against our own image and self sabotage os insane. At this point it’s exhausting and shows we are really our own worst enemy.
Honestly like what is wrong with other BW wth its so weird how BW want to humble other BW...
I can’t fuckin stand it. Or when they participate in those bitter baby mama skits. I wish their was something that ruined their careers for participating in this dumb shit!!!!
Exactly. And that's why. I pay no attention to these women or men like this
Omggg I saw a video of a BW on tiktok going in on this woman and calling her all types of names and being so aggressive (for lack of better word) towards her and I’m just like girl… you know this is fake you just wanna flap your gums so that men can gas you in the comments
@@Destiny-nz5yg very sad and sickening 🤨🤨
BW doing these anti-bw skits should be a no no...Being ANTI-YOU is not smart,for money or otherwise...I knew this was a skit,the whole time..
A bunch of foolishness...
Content like this is so 2014🥱
Are you serious right now? So now you want to blame her for how you reacted to skit? 🙄 If you black women would have mostly taken her side, this wouldn't be an issue. But instead of looking within and fixing yourself because you are the one that's broken, you continue to insist on her. What is wrong with you? Goodness
@IndependentGirli She says she’s a therapist. It’s unethical for a mental health professional to be deceptive. Online or otherwise. But you e been defending her throughout the comment section. Are you in fact Nickia? Your license needs to be revoked. If you are indeed a therapist I’m sure your professional license organization is receiving complaints about you. That’s the type of investigation ppl ARE doing now. You are a disgrace to the profession
@@beigenegress2979 stalker much??
@@beigenegress2979 Insecure Stan much? 💀
Women labeled unattractive have husbands who buy opt to buy them a Mercedes. Many women who are considered attractive are being dogged out. Attractiveness does not equate to higher value; all women are valuable. The difference is within individual standards in accepting or rejecting certain treatment.
Exactly 👏🏾👌🏾💅🏾
Exactly
This is the most profound comment on this topic💯
@Karen
You’re correct, but if you live in area surrounded by Pookies the odds are against you.
I found my high earning black husband when I went to Uni in an all white conservative town.
Other races are lucky in that they can marry the boy next door and marry up.
That's a fact.
My gut instinct was it was a skit too. Everything about that situation was WAY too good to be true.
Recording it was the biggest giveaway to me. Had she wrote about the story from a fake page and it got passed around it might've been more believable 😂 cuz I was just like how is she holding a phone recording through this like this cannot be life
@@AdoseofAlana_right 😂😂 so ridiculous
SAME it was too obvious 😂😂😂
They were very obvious. Both are bad actors. People believe anything.
@@AFFTFOMSICHTS did you see the follow up interview they did though on that one channel with that hotep lookin dude? Every step of the way her character was "taking accountability " but to the point where it was giving pick me. Like she wasn't wrong sometimes but she went into pandering territory.
Attention is the NEW drug 🫨😤
Attention gets them clicks and that equals to $$$$
🔥🔥🔥🔥And they want it at all COSTS
And its addictive as hell!!
Not really new but definitely popular these days.
Child!!!!
So she made a skit to drag a stereotype of black women only to literally get her actual-self dragged for who she is in the world....
Exactly, it's foolishness all around.
A dummy Chile 😂
Exactly. I think it is not a skit. I think bc of the backlash she is now calling it a skit and got the guy to agree. The insults in the comments and other platforms were too overwhelming. The interview after the video did not reveal it was a skit either.
@@ElegantLilythe point is she was interviewed and didn’t reveal it being a skit.
@@angelinimartinireal talk she did a video trying to clear herself. Then went on another thing with him and never called it a skit once
I noticed an uptick in these types of videos. Black women have been working on our image and desirability and the powers that be DO NOT want black women as the standard.
These videos are made to make us look bad!
They won't succeed!
Yes I absolutely agree. Black women have been working on our image, discussing and pushing for corrective promotion, leveling up, becoming hypergamous, being competitive when it comes to dating ALL races of men, dating and marrying interracially more and more, going on our femininity journeys and deciding to rest in our femininity and all of that is a threat to the status quo! They know if more and more bw continue to wake up and do these things and truly embrace our natural black beauty and make sure we look good, and demand better treatment and representation, then we are real strong competition for the status quo beauty standard and ppl don’t want that to change
@@etherealdreams7546Amen.
Why would she play into this " arrogant, problematic & entitled BW" narrative knowing the deck is stacked against the group?
I really wish Black Women would stop speaking this into existence. She is not you and you are not her. I still got approached by non Black and Black Men, this skit did not affect me and it shouldn't affect you, do not claim it.
That's what I dont get. We already have a rough rep as it is. Wth was she thinking?🤦♀️
Some people really will do ANYTHING for a $. Later, when she gets as far as she can go, she'll come crying back saying how she regrets it now, but she didn't know then what she knows now, and all the other b.s. excuses...🙄🤦🏽🙅🏽
Oddly enough I do not think the plan was to play a entitled bw. I think she was trying to play an entitled woman. However there are a few channels on RUclips who love to bash Bw so they didn't consider it was a skit because its easier to hate on us. If this therapist was a ww no one would be bashing all ww.
@@roshellegouldbourne787thank you. I am so tired of this whole narrative that black women are a monolith. I get tired of being judged and reprimanded when someone who happens to look like me does something stupid in public and/or online. It's ridiculous. Black women need to really practice autonomy.
Us Black woman gotta keep our standards private.
And keep them high! We are moving up the social mobility ladder and jealous people want to keep black women at the bottom with lower-class black men. And if we help these black men build we know it's a good chance they will leave us as soon as they get their money right and be with the women that they really want. Nope, we saw this with our aunties, mothers, and friends. But black women in 2023 are going to break that cycle and it starts NOW!🤵🏻+👰🏾♀+💍=🤰🏾🤱🏾👶🏽👶🏼👶🏻
What you mean private?
BW gotta stop telling other BW what type of standards to have.
Yes! Keep our mouths shut and let the level up speak for itself!
@@Ourown311idk about that bc there are too many low self-esteem having BW out here all over the internet telling everybody how great it is being a side chick. Somebody’s got to counter the narrative & call that foolishness out🤷🏽♀️
As a fellow clinician, the fact that a licensed therapist participated in this nonsense is mind blowing to me.
Same here....leads me to believe she's lying about her career or either flat out stupid.
Right this is honestly scary to me...
@beigenegress2979 and 1 clearly had a real life mental breakdown that wasn't a damn skit.
I think it's downright unethical .
My hubby said “THIS IS ALL MADE UP ,NO SELF RESPECTING MAN WOULD REMAIN THERE! SHE ‘S DESTROYING
WOMEN ‘S IMAGE TO HUMBLE THEM FOR MALE ATTENTION!”
He Was Right!
In the black community women have to look like a celebrity- wear $1,000 wigs , 25k BBL, 10k veneers to hang out with below average black men to be worthy of cheesecake dates if you lucky …. That standard is exhausting & not even a fair exchange. I just started going to more upscale , diverse places. Its relaxing , I get complimented more & I look like a typical everyday black girl.
Girl what? Lol 😅 all that just to get a date with a black man to cheesecake factory? With nonblack men you don't even need hair weave and can be in a sweatsuit and still be wined and dined. It's sad but that's been my experience
@@BronzerGodit’s soooo true!
@@BronzerGodhonestly YES
You ever see the skit where it says if you want to land a white millionaire wear a bad wig as a black woman. Let's be for real
It's only exhausting if you're limiting yourself to black males. Why any black woman would even entertain males that hate them is beyond me.
Where do you like to go? Let us know!
Yeah, the lady (a real therapist and actress) stated she just wanted to have the “conversation,” but ended up getting dragged in the process. I do not feel sorry for her. She should know by now that this would be the outcome. Stop trying to police and humble BW standards. It’s getting weird now. Everyone is trying so hard to get BW to settle all of a sudden. Leave us alone.
That’s what you got from this? Wow you really are slow
And I can see why you and the people liking your shiii are single and bitter 😂
Why can’t BW, who do not share our views on standards leave us TF alone!? Why do they have to try to “corral” us into their views of standards?!?
Same with BW IR dating? BW out number BM by millions, but BW who only want the kangz are upset at a very small number of BW want to open our options?
Make it make sense!
I glad this heffa got her entire hairline snatched out of her head for this dumb ish!
I don’t feel sorry for her!
I don’t think that she should have accepted the gig.
She lyin…she was, simply, tryna drum up (MORE) bad PR for bw…If she wanted to have “a conversation”, why not use the type of male that bw, USUALLY, date??
I also want to add the women who seem to have the biggest issue with BW leveling up and BW who seem to be doing these skits are LSW. I can't be the only person who peeped this. The real issue is people don't want DSBW realizing they have options. Us removing ourselves from people who should not have had access to us to begin with is rubbing a lot of people the wrong way. Certain power structures can't help certain people have "privilege" if DSW are not at the bottom helping lift people up. I didn't even bother to give an opinion on the skit when it started trending on twitter. To me this proves DSW are on the right track. Let the world know you have options.
I've been saying for the longest that a lot of people have a problem with BW especially DSBW being too proud and too free because they can't stand on our necks to get what they want anymore.
They want us to be the mules of the world. DSBW have greater oppression than LSBW. Our experiences are similar but DSBW really catch it from all corners. LSBW still have some privileges in the black community.
@@Bloombaby99This.
Thank you for pointing this out, it's scary to be honest.
@downtownon7thavenue Was there a LSBW in this video? Or are you speaking of WW? Because it’s only a dsbw in this video dragging the image of dsbw. That’s a you problem. Can’t blame other ppl.
It's the fact that BW having standards is seen as a problem is what pisses me off
Exactly!! The uproar should’ve been about her posting the video or her delivery, not about her standards.
lol standards? But she made him wait for an hour, and was not willing to treat him like a gentleman ? That’s standards? Wow y’all are slow
I even notice other races of men even saying how dare bw have standards, they're not getting blk psy' as easy as they used to. I kid you not.
there's nothing wrong with the cheesecake factory if that girl was whyte she would have gotten the same hate
As if the world needed a "skit" to be convinced that this is how y'all really are 🤣
There's a mixed-race woman in the UK currently being dragged because she said a man's 50-60k salary (apparently rough £4k a month) isn't enough for her needs. Moving in silence is definitely the best way!
If her goal is to be a stay at home mom, then it isn’t enough. But she doesn’t have to broadcast it.
To be fair £4K a monthly here in the UK is huge, even in London where it's most expensive. The average salary is £31K.
@@cd6741 sound like the average salary in the U.S.
Nah you are don’t have standards. You are just dating for survival. Other races of women are also working but y’all are just lazy and entitled
It's always been the best way. We need to let go of this oversharing culture and get back to being discrete.
The therapist accuses people of not having critical thinking skills, but she is the one that allowed them to think that way in the first place by not putting skit in the title. She takes no responsibility for her part in this and comes across as mean and deceptive.
But she's right
They didn't have critical thinking skills
I can give reasons as to why it was fake and most people literally had to think about it or deny it just because the reasons are logical common sense
Really think about it
But she's right. So what are you talking about? And why are we still focused on what the therapist did, instead of focusing on ourselves because now we see that black women and women in general have low self-esteem. It's women that end up looking extremely stupid because this was a skit and look how they attacked her. So this is not about the therapist, this is a much bigger issue
@@salutemimi81 I understand but it didn't need to be that way if she just told the truth in the first place. People shouldn't have to play detective and research a video when the person making the video can just say this was just a teaching tool a skit.
@@IndependentPrettyGirlis I understand attacking the character but also the therapist since she was deceptive. People shouldn't need to research a video and play detective when she could have just told the truth in the first place. She could have said this is just a teaching tool a skit. So, she opened the door for people to have no critical thinking skills by not being honest in the first place. It was unnecessary.
@@Ginza92 LOL that's idiotic; the whole reason you would NEED/use critical thinking skills is to decipher that which is NOT obvious. If someone has to tell it to you, then you don't need critical thinking skills and you have NO critical thinking skills. Also, your idiotic way of thinking is what keeps black women weak minded, divided, and fighting each other instead of operating as a group. This is why men and all other races treat black women like trash. Because you all treat each other like straight TRASH. Can you imagine bashing a person's humanity because you think she's "rude?" girl bye.
I'm not telling a man how to date me - I let him do what he do, and if its not up to my standards I have free will to leave, it's not that deep there's 7 billion ppl on the planet 🙄
BINGO
First comment on this topic I can agree with
Yep
Ha! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
FACTS!
I'm learning in real time why it's important to keep my dating standards to myself. There are women in my own family who are giving me a hard time because they simply do not understand all of the mental and internal work that goes into leveling up, being strategic and dating a certain caliber of man. Unfortunately, they're more content with accepting bits and pieces of a man rather than working on themselves to have something whole and healthy. A lot of Black women sadly have low self-esteem and are used to accepting less so they want the rest of us to do the same.
What are they giving you a hard time about? What is being discussed with them to give you a hard time about dating?
Earlier, a saw a BW comment that some BW in her RL are tripping bec she doesn’t want to date at all.
I am really beginning to see BW as just as big of a “problem” and detriment to BW as BM are!
BW are a trip: they probably won’t give you a “hard time” about some dusty turning you into a baby mama or beating TF out of you, but have plenty say about you trying to level up and raise your standards to date a higher caliber of men! 😮
Not only should black women move in silence, but we need to move strategically. We are in the greatest economic reset ever and many men of other races are going to be the new face of wealth many of them are into black women and they don't care about being cut out of the family will. We see that on social media as more nonblack men of means are dating and marrying black women and we are becoming the face of the new "It Girl," and black men and nonblack women are pissed, but I don't care.
@@kittykatz4001Black women are just as bad, if not worse with trying to keep other Black women and girls at the bottom.
The extreme circumstances, which are plenty, result in being physically harmed or even unalived.
Even families expect other Black women and girls to take care of adult male relatives.
Everyone, including the government, relies on Black women to support these “kangz”.
Note: No one invests in Black males like Black women invest in them, with very little return. Even Black men rarely invest in other Black males.
@@kittykatz4001 They think that I'm expecting too much from men and don't understand why I was working on myself before dating again. But that's because a lot of us are conditioned to not expect anything at all. My standards aren't anything outrageous but to them, when you're used to settling for married men, situationships, men with several baby mommas and all that nonsense, you're asking for too much.
@@elenanoelle5745 Yep. Just as I expected: they will think it’s “expecting too much” to expect a dusty to stop going upside your head, though. 🤦🏽♀️
It is looking like an agenda for real Chrissie. Thank you for this
Hi Chrissie! I’ve been watching your videos since 14 and I’m now 20. I loved your femininity videos so much! You made videos about makeup, clothes, weight, and hygiene and they were so helpful. They have disappeared on RUclips and I couldn’t find your femininity videos on Chrissie online either. I really hope you bring them back; I’ve been implementing them in my daily life and they have made a huge difference. I think so many women have benefited from your advice and could continue to if they had access to it again.
They’ll be on my site very soon💕
me too!
Yessss PLEASE bring it back!
Said it from the beginning it was a performance. He seemed way to cool with her bringing out the phone. Then they BOTH used all the gender war talking points that they know they will pissOff men and women. Literally like they were reading off a script.
I knew it was a skit... It's so funny because women of all backgrounds can display this kind of behavior, however when you place BW as the focal point it will spark all kinds of think pieces and debates painting a narrative of why BW do not deserve respect, love and need to be humbled. What really enrages me is the fact that black women are looked upon as a monolith and even if the story was true, just one black woman displaying this type of behavior means that all of us need to be reprimanded as if we all share a hive mind. I am over it.
It always seemed like a skit to me as well. Idk what’s worse, deep fakes or social media skits. It’s skewing people’s perceptions of reality and I don’t like that. People don’t have discernment to understand what’s real anymore
Well, black women do it to themselves. Most of the attacks that I saw were from other women, especially black women. So they keep themselves at the bottom. No one does that to them, they do it to themselves literally. If most black woman would have come out and stood up for these ladies right to have standards and values, we would be having a completely different conversation and they wouldn't have the nerve to tell us that we don't deserve high standards
Stop with the blame the victim. We didn’t stand with this skit because we were not in agreement with her “standards”. I think we need to have a conversation about what standards mean and it doesn’t include being rude or dismissive of people.
@@sharonivy888 who died in meet you the standards police for all humans? I'm pretty sure she can have whatever standard she wants. That doesn't give you the right to berate and Bash her all over the internet just because you don't agree with her and because your standards are non-existent
@@IndependentPrettyGirlisHaving standards and being rude and dismissive are two different things. You need anger management classes.
I knew it was skit because: The way she was dressed. The way he was dressed. You go on date and no discussion takes place prior. You let him pick you up at home on a first date. He was ok being recorded. It just seem like a bunch of bs to me.
That’s the same sentiments I had when I discussed this with my friend. I told her that this lady has a right to her standards which is the black male equivalent of saying that they have a ‘preference’. I wish more women would get into the mindset of accepting that there are different strokes for different folks and just scroll on if they see a woman on social media talking about standards that don’t apply to them.
And as a side note, if this was indeed a real situation and the lady did not want to eat at the Cheesecake Factory, she should have pulled something like ‘Oh, I think it would be better if we eat elsewhere because I’ve had a bad experience here.’ Or some bs like that. Remember ladies, you catch more flies with honey 💅🏾
If it were a real situation, she absolutely should have still stated, the Cheesecake Factory is not appropriate for her on a first date. Therefore, the guy could inquire what would be more appropriate or end the date.
Yeees! That second part of your post is on point! BW could greatly benefit from reading, and understanding the art of seduction and seducing a man using honey….
The reason they were going to Cheesecake Factory was because she was an hour late, though. They missed their reservation to the nicer restaurant. It wasn't where he was planning to take her, and she didn't give him a heads up that she was running late.
@@gabriellegeorge2648 lol but the skit was fake so all of that u said didn’t actually happen. But even if this happened in real life and a black woman was an hour late to a date (which I’m not disagreeing that that’s very rude) if he still agreed to take her out then he should’ve told her he was taking her somewhere else other than the original restaurant they were gonna go to. & even if a woman is an hour late to a date she still has the right to refuse to go to the Cheesecake Factory if she doesn’t think it’s good enough for her and she could’ve politely simply said I really don’t feel comfortable eating here and if we can’t go anywhere else then can u please take me home.
Know your worth Black Girls! Add tax. And DON'T apologize for it! Agreed with all your points Chrissie. This video was needed. Thank you!
Per usual she said nothing but the truth. Well I did side eye the cheesecake factory lady (It was because she was an hour late not respecting his time and in the video he said he had a reservations but they missed them so that cheesecake factory was their second option) I had an ephiany over the past few weeks and realized this is all one big agenda.
It's no coincidence that once black women started leveling up, going to the gym, opening businesses and rejecting dusties that we have been inundated with propaganda. Between Eboni, sexyyredd, Halle, iyanla, brick lady, Tyler Perry, toktok skits, Tamar, Jodie and podcast pookies it all became too much.
A few days ago Jamie tried to "expose" Nikki thats when I peeped game. I usually ignore unsavory representations of BW in media. Because you're right, If you don't agree with what a black woman says or does moving silence. Black males are out here terrorizing people everyday and you don't hear mass public condemnation from their "hiGh vALuE" brothers, they silently agree and keep it moving.
Getting on code means not amplifying the ratchet voices of BW. Starve them of attention and they'll disappear.
They can try all they want to deter us from leveling up and leaving the dust behind, but our eyes are open now!
“Once the mind has been expanded with a new idea, it simply cannot go back to what it used to be!”
Agree. There's definitely an agenda to promote horrible stereotypes of black women to make us look bad and it's sinister
Yes BW! Know YOUR OWN PERSONAL STANDARDS and KEEP YOUR STANDARDS TO YOURSELF! It’s so easy to do. Especially online. When you see nonsense ignore it. Don’t pile on to negative comments about BW. Don’t attack BW’s looks!!! It doesn’t matter how much you disagree with a BW , please don’t attack her looks and her natural features. I ignored this skit, and I block people who tear BW down. It’s super easy to do.
Great video as always, Chrissie! 💖💖💖
Put yourself first BW! 💖 We deserve the best! 💖
Her behavior is why people question our credentials and our professions. Therapist where, honey?
@@hmm-zoolol yes that's what irritated me on this one. Therapist are supposed to be truthful, and trust is the foundation of their profession. It's the deception of it that I don't like.
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was Bree the first one? the one who tried to tell men they needed therapy? or was that last year?
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Exactly why I avoid them now@@beigenegress2979
I called it. Attacking BW who have the audacity are very popular, making her look average also makes it better
The black women who are taking the check to sabotage us are PICKME CHICKS😡
I knew something wasn’t right about that video.
The fact that he waited a whole HOUR for her, told me that something was up, but I wasn't sure what.
it was her rolling down his window of HIS car…
Same! I’m glad I kept my mouth shut lol
Actually, everyone. The gobbling down of dozens of oysters wasn't just a skit. It was an ad. Check the name and the price. They even showed the special. I'm surprised they didn't say #ad
I hope she got paid for it. For all talking she was doing.
there was a line outside the building after that video
Everything you see online should be seen as marketing first and be seen with a critical eye because EYES equal $$$$.
So that one was a skit, too? Good grief 🤦🏾♀️.
You are so right; women need to take a page out of men's book and not tell other women what they don't deserve. If a woman doesn't do coffee dates, that's her business. And, if a woman doesn't want to go to the Cheesecake Factory on a first date, that is her business.
For me, after living on this earth, I've learned the hard way about things. In spite of the money that a man spent on me, it didn't mean that the man cared for me. I just concentrate on treating myself to nice restaurants.
In the uk a white girl who is a nurse in a neonatal unit has intentionally killed more than a dozen babies, court found her guilty and she has been thrown in jail and she is still been doubted as innocent victim and folks are doubting her and defending her.
Had she been a black girl, she would have been believed she instantly without a doubt, that she k!lled those babies😢
Doctors actually raised the alarm, but had to apologise to her. The higher up left their job when it all came out. I think she wrote a diary of what she did, but apologies if that part is wrong. They would have known what shift she was on and the wards, the dates etc so more likely would have had overwhelming evidence. The only people doubting are mad people with no brain.
Don't be stupid, it would have been the same outcome, whatever her colour. In fact she probably would have been believed more if she was black. People would have been scared of being perceived as racist.
And what does this have to do with this video, absolutely nothing.
I'm not saying racism doesn't exist, but the UK is one of the least racist countries, it is ranked as the least racist country, out of the 12 most western European countries.
And clearly the woman who uploaded this video has the same attitude, with black woman this and black woman that. When I first saw this video, I didn't think about the colour of her skin, I just thought that this was the attitude of quite a lot of women, of all race's. There are plenty of examples of women all over the internet, saying that they want a man who is 6 ft, with a six figure salary, and not want to work and to be a kept woman.
Keep up with your victim mentality, see how far it gets you. 😔
Keep up with your victim mentality
This reaffirms my stance that we need to work on sisterhood. Too many black women feel that they have nowhere to connect, and end up fighting against their own sisters.
I'm going to focus on doing a better job with being supportive in 2024.
Sending ❤ to you all and wishing you the highest level of peace, prosperity and quality relationships👸🏿💖
Wishing you the same!!
This is a great goal and I’ll add if they do not respond positively to your invitation of support, don’t dwell on it, go with the ones who accept your support and forget the rest.
This was so beautiful to say! I pray the very same for you in EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE! ❤❤❤
Im working in the same.
That second girl is downright beautful. And even if she wasn't, why should she accept coffee and drink dates if she doesn't want to??? The audacity to act like we dictate what others should accept is ridiculous. It highlights some people's own low self esteem.
My lash tech (a BW) literally told me that being with a BM that she knows is settling for her as a DSBW because he truly prefers light skin, biracial & NB women but just can’t pull them is better than being single! I was stunned! The desperation is sad but real! Please wake up & see your value BW!
Thank you for confirming what I thought was an obvious skit lol.
Chrissie speaking facts. From the moment I heard about the video I knew it was fake. I didn’t bother to watch it. Black women don’t do that corny shit in real life. If anything black women out here dating down For-real. Society has us so brain washed its really sad. Please ladies learn your real worth before its to late.
Truth
Now I want an ultimate Red Velvet Cheesecake 😩
Girl me too and I'm on a diet 😭😭😭😭
@@Ms.MD7 I'm on a diet too 😂
Try their pineapple upside-down cheesecake. It'll change your life. 😊
@kensmb8668 now that cheesecake is delicious...with that pineapple lawd
@@gj4650 I know that's right. I might have to get some tomorrow.
I'm definitely not a super model or considered a 10 by society and I've been taken to places I wish to go many times. The men just have to like you enough to spend their money. They usually ask me straight up were I want to go or for suggestions or if they're on vacation, have invited me to join them and they take care of anything. All you have to do is be intelligent, nice personality, look good and prepare to have fun.
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I knew it was a skit, because no decent man in his right mind will wait outside a woman's house while she is an hour late, he would have asked her to meet him at the restaurant. Her date was also way too calm when she pulled out her phone and started recording, plus the conversation between the two at the end. Bm were saying a majority of bw is like her which is not true. They will use a skit to lump all black women in the same category.
Hold up.....😅 I was with you at, " I knew it was a skit", but the "No decent man in his right mind will wait outside a woman's house while she is an hour late"???? Trust me, as a descent man who dates majority full black women😉...... that unfortunately can happen. A lot🤣
@@FloridaGeorgiaYou keep accepting and being ok with your dates being late and not being respectful of your time and that is why it continues to happen. Stop tolerating that behavior and it will change. There are decent bw that you can date that will be respectful of your time and will communicate so if they are running late.
@@missj5564I very much doubt he’s checking for the decent ones. In fact, I very much doubt he’s decent to begin with.
Living in sea of contradictions has got to be exhausting, black women.
Glad you went over this coz I refused to give this type of f*ckery some views...it just looked fake plus I'm tired of men fighting us to have some standards.
The embarrassing things ppl would do for clout baffles me then again, I'm not surprised. Attention seeking is one hell of a drug. And you're right about this Chrissie; all the comments under the posts were so misogynistic and colorists/featurists...another way to embarrassed BW image.
Yup, I only saw skit through commentaries.
@@mdaaaa1211 ok dusty, always the same tired argument.
As if the world needed a "skit" to be convinced that this is how y'all really are 🤣
Watch out ladies, wear y'all goggles and masks coz the triggered dusties are comin out to attack 😂 and take some Benadryl too coz we allergic lmao
@@hette457I’ve decided years ago-that although there are so many factors there to deter men of other races from dating BW- to see the opportunity in this dire situation.
Because I know the stereotypes abt BW, I’ve decided to embrace me; take care of me; workout and work on myself. . . So that when I show up to the venue, I’m the very opposite of what they think a BW is supposed to be.
Nothing is more delicious than not fitting into someone else’s idea of you. They don’t know what to do with a confident, beautiful BW who exceeds societal’s expectations of her.
This sh*tty situation is meant for BW to rise above and shine!
There is an agenda to stop black women from what we started doing over five years ago. The world sees that many of us have accepted that black men have moved on and we got our US Passport and started traveling and we are documenting our travels and dating and marrying nonblack men. Over the last few years, black women have put up videos of us getting proposed to by black men wedding videos of black women getting married to nonblack men, and videos of black women and nonblack men in the delivery room giving birth to our mixed race children. Many of us have or are on the way to leaving the US and permanently moving overseas and even giving up our US Citizenship. We are being told that we are only good for black men and black men of the lower social class and only good for McDonald's value meals and nothing more.
The agenda is to keep us at the bottom. But it will not work. Many of us are getting our money right, our bodies right, our minds right and our passports. We are going for the gold medal in the dating world and nobody will stop us.
So true!!!! ❤
@@taylardotson8100 It means only keep your standard known to people of like mind and not brag and boast about it online or anywhere else in the media.
They can try to stop us all they want but it’s too late! Sure, we are not at the tipping point yet, but a large number of us have awakened and simply cannot go back to what it used to be🤷🏽♀️
They can try to manufacture this artificial scarcity for BW but we no longer believe it!
Exactly. Be there when they want to F you , at their disposal until they find the woman they truly want🙄 Miss me with that. We have standards now and we are looking for the best men for the job 🥰
What kind of a therapist does something like that?
A very crappy therapist🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
She did all of that for a tubi role. Smh
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Not even tubi 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 not even tubi….Facebook 😂
No other group of women get treated like this. This is terrible.
Humbling black women is a million dollar industry lol
Black women don't lower your standards!
Black women get you some standards today!
Black women we are worth the world!
AMEN!
Not the therapist needing therapy! This woman purposely tried to gaslight other women to the point of posting an embarrassing video for eyes on her profile. Anyone with a brain would NEVER hire her as a therapist so I suppose being a clown on camera may be the best route to take after this.
Called it nobody wearing purple lipstick w a lime green dress
🤣🤣🤣 That is the most gangsta comment under this video!
@@FloridaGeorgia cause like wtf😂😂😂
Well, now she’s known as the Cheesecake Factory actress. Not a good look.
She also made herself and other women that look like her, look bad. It seems like when BW take 2 steps forward in the right direction, it’s BW like this, that make us take 10 steps back.
She was wrong on all levels. Why not post a video uplifting us in a good light.
How awesome would this “skit” be if they both dressed nice, went on a date, enjoyed each others company and came up with an unforgettable ending. They should have thought outside the box. This wasn’t a good look at all.
And it’s even worse because the man of no color didn’t care about the backlash she was going to get. He didn’t get the backlash, she did.
Do you really think he would have done that skit, with other women in his community? I’ll answer it for you.
No.
Attention is the most coveted commodity. That’s why babies cry for it and men die for it!
This woman will live to regret this self inflicted shame!
I kinda feel like the collective of bw have been taking allot of L’s lately. The fake kidnapping of Carlee Russel situation, the fake brick situation and now this? Seriously what’s happening?!!
Attention via social media is a drug and bw are not immune to it.
Wait that woman who got hit in the face with a brick is fake too??
@@MzDC202 Fake afff!!! She’s been pulling tricks like that so she can get free money from donation. I think this was her third time or so. Just ridiculous😅
@@rosejames5172 no it’s not!
@@Shanoxxa WOWW 😒!
When you are used to dating up, you know that personality, a feminine demeanor , intelligence and being nice goes a long way. It’s not impossible to get a great dinner or a $500 date with no sex involved. Literally, I’m just myself, but I chose to date up. When men have money, they are typically happier, generous, have more going for themselves and have great conversations. Some of these guys are giving me great business advice, have become dear friends. They are so willing to be helpful in that regard and that is priceless. I know clearly what I’m after and they applaud it because I’m very straightforward. But it was things that I had to teach myself and also research. I know the life that I want and the kind of man that I want and it’s OK to have the standards that you hold . Men do it all the time and literally don’t know what they truly want half the time. Just be you, just do you. There are good men out there. Open your options.
Such great talking points in this video. Definitely something to rewatch a few times to really grasp the concepts.
You are a "whole" woman. Congratulations.
I agree. There’s a black female divorce judge on RUclips that makes skits that paint black women in divorce court as villains. All of the villains in her courtroom are the women.
Yes; the 48 Oysters Girl video was actually a skit to promote the Oyster bar and it worked because now the line to get in is out the door. I exposed both skits last week.
A little break from social media is always necessary. There’s too much noise out there. People have to learn to do what’s best for them and not always follow group think.
Yes! Especially given the political climate right now…
I’ve been completely off of it since early September and I’m really enjoying my life. I get so much done now, went back to the gym, eating better, sleeping better etc.
Agreed. I’m down to just RUclips and IG/Facebook (don’t even use it last post was 2021).
I seen this on my timeline and my inner voice in my head told me to "keep scrolling". Glad I did 😂
Chrissie, you the only reason I even know the full story.
💖 Glad you did ! I should have listen to my inner voice too 💖
I knew it was skit! everyone is trying to "go viral". I appreciate your channel for having COMMON SENSE!
So she was willing to make herself look bad just for 15 minutes of fame? BM was calling her all types of names, rating her a 3 or a big toe, and bringing up the late Kitten Heels (may he rest in pp) nonstop. Attention is one hell of a drug.
I automatically stopped listening when they started attacking Alicia's looks. Plus it was mostly coming from other black women. Disgusting 🤢
Same
She drew direct attention to her looks by saying “who takes someone who looks like this to cheesecake?” Gesturing to herself constantly. So of course people mentioned that how she looked did not stop her from going into that restaurant - outdated hair & lipstick color etc. It may not have been kind, but she needed a reality check.
I think coffee dates for the 1st date is actually the safest way to meet up with someone you’re still getting to know. There are some upscale Cafés out there btw! The girl who doesn’t accept coffee dates is really pretty! I’m glad she didn’t lower HER personal standards!
Horrible acting I knew it was fake
It was and is all AROUND tacky and DISGRACEFUL! But above all, a harmful, disrespectful and VERY deceptive depiction of Black women.
Puh, our standards are so high and is why most of us are baby mothers. 🙄 *sarcasm* FOH
My boyfriend who is a bm showed me this skit, and i had to have a discussion with him about the sabatoge of black womens image. It’s exhausting.
I can’t believe anyone actually thought that was real. I said it was fake from the jump. When AI becomes advanced these people are going to fall for any and everything.
Chile😂. The worst part of this is that she got black women saying that want to be taken to the cheesecake factory in dates.
This is why the internet is annoying. There were so many think pieces when it was obviously a skit
I can agree more. It was obviously a skit and of course a huge demographic took advantage of seeing this just so they can speak her hatred BW. At this point, I don't care what nobody says, these creatures are mad because they can't be us. There's no other explanation for the obsession.
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Black men are trying to ruin black women’s other dating options. As a therapist she needs to make better choices.
Nobody but online dorks care about your dating options, stop the woe is me conspiratorial nonsense.
Maybe Chrissie needs to start speaking French because obviously, English isn't working. How many times has she said mums the word? Stop bumping your gums!
It's so annoying because of course all the black Conservative women reacted to this thinking it was real exposing their mainly non black audience to this litteraly so many people think this is real SMH and why did she mentioned "as a black women" I don't understand why everyone is so obsessed with putting black women down it's so upsetting and frustrating I'm so tried...
Any video that shows a BW attempting to have standards is going to cause controversy because BW, especially DSBW, are supposed to accept whatever is given.
It’s obvious why something like this is a problem for most unproductive, broke group of males. But I suspect BW have a problem with this because many of them fell for the narrative and settled for the bare minimum so how dare you want better for yourself?
#Miserylovescompany
I knew it was a skit. The point is to try to make us look stupid for having standards. I knew she was a mammy agent.
Honestly… I knew it was a skit and NEVER clicked on it for that reason. It’s common sense that no one would record themselves saying something so silly. At some point, we have to let these internet trolls stay right where they are. They don’t even come up with compelling believable content.
The acting is always so bad! It’s giving tubi. I’m confused how no one recognizes that these are skits! Cheesecake Factory acting was horrible! When she said “oh no he didn’t” I thought I was watching an old 90s sitcom 🤣 Like, it’s beyond obvious. What I’m really side eying are the folks that fell for it. Are people really this slow? I’ve been on some terrible dates (recently too) and not once did I think “let me record this interaction” 🤔 I just went home and called my girlfriends to clown dude like a normal person 🙄
A lot more black women should really read the 48 laws of power, that book describes what i went through , most of my life since i was in primary school.(But most probably wouldn't want to,because they see it as a book for "narcissist's",when its really not, because most of them still see themselves as the victims and have made it their whole personality,or enjoy being masochist's, always embracing being the perpetual victims of suffering or being unlucky.) It really is a dog eat ,dog world out there, everybody is playing the game.....even if people tell you they aren't playing the game,they are lying..Black women should stop being so forthcoming and honest about every intention and situation as well, as this makes us easy targets to be used for being a martyr or sacrificial lamb, always expected to be honest and self righteous and full of morals, when nobody else is forthcoming, nuanced, fair or even honest with us......
We will level up anyway
And still we rise!😮
🥰🥰🥰🥰Yes ma'am! They're scared of what we can do!
It was so obviously a skit. In real life a girl wouldn't pull out her phone to record. we'd literally get quiet and start texting our friend or something.
When do people find time for outrage! It was such a blessing that I never joined IG, Twitter, Tik Tok, Snapchat etc. I don't come across such weird nonsense and I pick the content I watch intentionally which is why I choose Chrissie 😊
Yepp. I deleted Twitter, tik tok and don’t use IG/Facebook. I don’t even see any of this nonsense only when Chrissie or Paris post about it 😂.
Exactly. I only use FB and You Tube. The way my algorithm is setup, I don't see the ratchetness!
I didn't pay none of this mess no attention because I had my doubts and I'm beyond tired of these skits .
I knew this bs was fake and I never even watched it. I'm unclear why Black women keep participating in the skits knowing all Black women get talked about as a result. It's multiple wars happening now and more people was talking about this. This was worse than the single mother wanting to buy all her kids McDonald's bs.
I'm glad folks folks bring that McDonald's one up, I am ashamed to say they got me on that one!
Thank God for diaries and journals chile
Giiirl but people aren’t using them 😭, what’s going on?
I felt this was fake because why would anyone allow disrespect in their own car? Smh
Chrissie's always on it, as usual!@
Chrissie is a great commentator and content creator! MOVE IN SILENCE AND MOVE STRATEGICALLY!
It’s low key giving “Pick me” with her low key catering to the manosphere
Thank you for this video. I commented on another forum that I thought this was completely fake. I just had a feeling it was. It’s interesting that some people are still running with this story.
Thankyou Chrissie❤
Your take on not remarking on her looks as black women is refreshing.
I want to think people went in on them more so because she made several references to her looks.
Even the best looking people tend to get roasted when they display that level of narcissism.
Even so, keep to the code. 😂
I used to work in HR. Yes, your online presence can and will stop you from getting hired/promoted. Employers are basically using your social media as one of ur references 🤷🏾♀️
Yep, gotta move incognito mode.
Your channel is a blessing.