Black Men Enjoy their IR Dating Promo & Black Women can too - Godfrey + Yo Gotti Dababy Drop Video
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#Godfrey #YoGotti #Dababy #Colorism
Godfrey called bw who date out "Angry bitter black women" while he is yelling at a billboard of a bw & wm in the middle of Brooklyn. Who's really angry and bitter?
Shorty dead stopped on the sidewalk to rant into his camera but we mad??? 😂😂😂😂😂 Goofry needa to go lay
I meannnnn! He looked crazy foaming at the mouth!! 🤪🤪🤪The way l cackled
@@Destiny-nz5yg Not Goofry! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Their egos are too high. They think everything centers around them. I've been IR dating since I was old enough to date. It has nothing to do with them.
Black women not being in Yo Gatti and Dababy’s video will forever be a compliment. Black women have been the face of ratchetness for years, now let their preferences be the face of it.
Well said.
Everything is just going “according to plan” 😉
Yes! I have no interest to shake my a$s in a bikini around men who don’t promote spoiling,monogamy or marrying me
In all honestly, I don’t think it’s not their interest isn’t in black women. They have ran through and mistreated them so bad and have moved on to someone else. It’s giving us BW a chance to be open to men who value us
Yes!
So black men can have mgtow and literally say “we abandoned y’all first that’s why you mad” but black women are still supposed to be loyal to them? Lmaoo that’s abusive wtf
It’s the entitlement. Many BM feel like they are entitled to BW, and that’s why they expect many BW to still prefer, date and want to marry them while they can prefer whoever.
Jesus that was soo arrogant and catty💅🏼😂 just giving more reasons to not want them
Sadly, some BW still are loyal to them
It’s like a game of Tom & Jerry!!
Lol. Mgtow? Girl... they got Mgtow, ibmor, sysbm, the incel movement, not to mention KS, TS, AMS even exist like they breathe the same air that you and I do.
It's past abuse at this point lol. I'm terrified and people may not agree with me but I have/am encountering a significant struggle because the last thing I wanted was mixed kids. I wanted a blackity black black husband so we can have some blackity black black kids.
But that is no longer an option. Also there are a lot of women involved in the manosphere. I. Am. Scared.
My neighbor, a black guy who only dates skinny, blonde white girls. My old BF was black and they would talk to each in passing. My new dude is a white ginger man. My neighbor all of sudden can’t speak. My uncle who only dates white women said black women are not allowed to date white men because we are the queens. Which is true we are queens and I’m dating a WM who treats me as such.
Oooo a ginger 😩
Dated a black man become a single mother
Dated another black man got cheated on and verbally abused
Dated a black man o paid for everything my silly ass
Started to date a Italian man I don’t even lift a finger 😩
I don't understand the logic if we're not supposed to date white men because we're queens then why don't all black men treat us as queens and who wants to be a queen without a king I mean we CAN but it's not not the ULTIMATE GOAL
@@babyphat1ish Because other races of women follow everything that bw do & bm know the attention will no longer be on them
@@KamoreeLove you absolutely right in my family majority of the women my mother etc have children with black men but I can only count on one hand the ones who are married. First generation has many biracial children but the only ones who are married for longer than 10 years are on one hand
Go ahead queeen 💅🏾i wish u guys the best fk that guy and ur uncle (no disrespect)
We’re the angry ones but he’s yelling on the sidewalk about a healthcare ad 😂😂
😂😂😂
Exactly 😂
😅😅😅😅
😂😂
Just goofy af 😂😐🙄
He said "we did that sh*t first!!!" as if it's a competition. Black men have a problem realizing that we are not dating out for the same reasons they are. It bothers them so much, they have to make it seem like it's because we're mad at them. That's why I mind my divested business and water my plants. 🤷🏾♀️😂
He said it as if it was an accomplishment! Whew chile, the low bar-ism of it all!
Exactly! Similar behaviors VERY different motives.
He's like, "We started it, so, *keep it going* . 😭😂
The maths ain’t mathsing
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Would rather be in a health insurance ad than be degraded in a rap video. They did us a favor.
For real. We can't be mad at white people for this one.
Speak on it
Preach!
Not to mention some of these health ads are actually health care promotion. So if it's for expecting mothers, it'll bring more attention to black pregnant women's mortality rate. and so on... 💅🏿
This!!!
He said"first of all where is the black dude with the white girl? We started this." Then goes in to complain about how black women followed suit. He didn't even realize his hypocrisy.
Exactly!! He’s showing his true colors without even realizing it. So now that BW want to expand our options we’re simply piggybacking off of BM now. Pathetic!! 😂😂
And I love how in his explanation he felt like he deserved credit for pointing out that black men abandoned us.
Guys it’s worse! He’s not even giving us agency or critical thinking. He is saying that white men have that agenda and are trying to put ideas in BW’s heads. So whatever BW want doesn’t even register, whether we want black men (they are abandoning us) or white men (they have an agenda to emasculate BM by promoting this type of imagery). So this is an acknowledgment of defeat and fear in front of the more effective WM agenda. Or maybe it is that WM are really interested in BW and BW realize they have more options? Looks like the reality is to hard to swallow for him.
He sure tf didn't and he makes me so sad listening to dust mites like him
BM consider BW their property to use or discard as they please. Period.
My boyfriend is Asian, and I'll swirl until I die. So I'm unbothered by his crying, as he needs to mind his trauma-minded business. 💖
my bf is asian too. I date out and not sorry (Although i'm not a black women) PRican men are not worth the hassle
💯💯💯💯
My sis from another miss .. same here I’m with Chad
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Married to a half Mexican/ half white guy. I am black and I love it... 2 kids . One on the way. He makes good money. I don't work . Don't want to work and don't have to. I am so divested in the black community it's scary .
The way he quickly brushes over the fact that black men abandoned their women and jumps right into mocking black women is so gross. 🙄
Very cruel and sadistic!
Godfrey was smiling when he said black women are tramuatized by black men. He said ok I get it. Interesting. Godfrey admitted the abuse and brushed it off with a laugh.
Psychopathic behavior, he even acknowledged they abandoned us first. Disgusting.
Sad
@@unrepentantjaegerist7236 He look r embarrassed and was like we should still continue to take abuse.
They are sadistic in large numbers.
No other act explains "madness" better.
I love how he tried to clean it up in his apology with "wHaT aBouT blAcK LovE!?". If thats what he really thought he would have wanted it to be a bm and bw in the ad 🤔
😒🙄 Yeah! Hey, Micheal Jordan, Eddie Murphy, Martin Lawrence, etc. wHaT aBoUt bLaCk luuuub! 🙄😂😂🖕🏾
This is the same thing I said
@Supermodel Chick basically he’s saying bm are obligated to date out but bw aren’t. They’re trying to gate keep bw so they have something to fall back on and they’re mad bw are dating out (literally doing what they’re doing which is why I can’t understand why they’re mad). If they didn’t like interracial dating they wouldn’t have the highest of it. They hate to see bw interracial dating only and they want bw to keep parading blk love everywhere as it keeps them on a pedestal.
He legit said why not bm and a ww in the add. But now it’s black love. He’s so full of it.
Exactly
Bw are too forgiving. I’m already seeing mammies pulling out their capes and super suits to come to Godfrey’s defense. Just because he’s Nigerian does NOT mean he’s for us! There’s lots of colorism in Africa. This is why people think they can say anything they want to us, because they know that all they have to do is sugar-coat it and pull some puppy-eyes saying “I didn’t mean it like that 🥺🥺🥺”
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He’s definitely Not for us at all. His Nigerian superiority complex also slips out from time to time.
Nigerian men used to be so respectable and classy. Now they are mimicking their American and West Indian counterparts.
You mean they're obsessed! i think one of the main reasons why black Americans women don't want to date outside of their race is because of the lust they have for black men.
According to some of them this is only an "American" bm thing. However, when we spark certain conversations, the first thing people say is "Y'all act like these problems only exist in America!" No sis, YOU acted like these problems only existed in America. Let them keep right on caping. It's funny how he didn't even find a good-looking, well put together bw on the live. He chose to call someone who embodied all the negative stereotypes. An overweight, mammy in a bonnet talking about how her sons nail ww to the cross, and she's proud of that. How sway? There's so much to subliminally unpack there, I don't know where to begin. Smh...
It saddens me when BW are soooo weirdly race loyal and literally not dating KNOWING BM are tasting the rainbow with ZERO hesitation or regard.
And LOUD about it too 🤦🏽♀️
S Magee that’s so embarrassing
Godfrey: 🗣 WE DID IT FIRST!!
Swirling black women: …And we’re doing it BETTERRRRR. 😏💅🏾
And that’s on Snow White and her seven dwarfs
This is the comment!!!!!!!! 💥
That’s why they’re really mad 😆
A word!
@@theruthmyster 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂😂
I LITERALLY saw Godfrey with his white gf in Wholefoods buying groceries in NYC years ago....
I believe you. I also find it interesting because I saw one his interviews from DJ Vlad and Goofy the fool said he has sex with white women but he doesn't date them. Oh he a liar.
And there he is, complaining about BWWM IR relationships...
@@KayDejaVu So the usual.
@@candlecane i suspected it years ago when he first started pandering, but i was'nt certain. i guess another one bites the dust!!
Perhaps his girlfriend broke up with him because he sounds so upset. I can understand any argument that black couples are no longer being promoted however Godfrey issues was that there were less black men with non black women been promoted. I have never seen any other race of men getting upset that they are not been promoted with female from other races. I pity Godfrey because he sounds very emotional about black females dating out when he doesn't really date black females.
That live before he apologized with the lady in a bonnet was so pathetic. He called her up like a child telling his mama someone was picking on him at school. And she of course had her mammy cape on 🙄🦸🏽♀️
Sure did lol
And her complete mammie uniform: mammie head gear, red mammie claws, pick me mammie talking points
@@SimplyaLady92 right! 😂 and she said she had two sons, is a mammy truly a mammy if she don’t got two ain’t shit sons shes enabling?!
@@SimplyaLady92 Right😂😂😂
she came flying in a super sized cape!! 🤣🤣🤣
Not only is there a handsome Asian man on kiss me more but sza came out wearing her afro on the song too. It's like when they remove black men, black woman can be themselves and look better doing that than listening to black men. In SZA's other videos with black men, she is wearing weave. Kiss me more checked off so many boxes for me! Continue opening your options black women. We deserve better and have met and seen better. Godfrey is seriously slow and selfish. 😂
Frr sis
I vehemently agree with you. Same with Issa Rae , in the photograph movie she has long straight hair and was paired with a black man. In the lovebirds movie, with an Indian man she was with her Afro and braids. I do believe that when we are with other type of men, we. expressed unapologetically ourselves and they simply let us be
@@haryel5058 they provide the safe place necessary to be ourselves and connect with our femininity. You can't be your true authentic self while living in poverty and fear.
@@haryel5058 Doesn’t that also remind you of the movie Something New with Sanaa Lathan? They even pointed it out as a part of the plot. Sanaa’s character was able to let her natural hair out bc the white guy she was with told her she shouldn’t be ashamed of it. But the men she was with before who were black preferred her with the straight weave
Thank you for this! I saw it on Disney but did not realize he was an Asian man. I'm watching it now and it's so wholesome and lovely. I love the fact that they show an older couple which highlights the longevity of relationships that black women can have.
I'm in my mid 30's now but when I was about 12 years old in 6th grade, i had my first crush and it was with a white boy named Nick he had blonde hair and water blue eyes, me being attracted to Nick had nothing to do with black men. They need to stop because no one is trying to spite them lol.
This!! ^^^ don’t know where that delusional mindset came from but it’s laughable at best & extremely pathetic at worst. Imagine being so insecure & thinking a strangers actions are a result of your own? I can’t.
Mine was Mark, a sandy blonde haired and blue-eyed 👱in KINDERGARTEN!! So what is Godfrey going on about the BW trauma when I didn't even know what any of this meant at that age? All I know is that I was crazy about him and he was crazy about me. A natural attraction, and yes, even at that age he was attentive, affectionate and shared whatever he had. He always got me grape gum because he knew it was my favorite and that I loved purple. My first 😍. If BW are only dating WM due to TRauMa then where is this same trauma stemming from and wouldn't they have the same TRauMa exhibited for their reasons for dating the WMs daughter? BM have ZERO mental health issues dating Becky, but BW have to be in a
traumatized state of mind to date Brad? A bunch of nonesensical, egotistical, juvenile and narcissistic behavior at age 51. Pathetic really.
Mid 30s as well and my crush in middle school was a Chinese boy and the following year a blonde haired brown eyed boy whose name was Sonny.
Mine was Caleb from church. Brown hair brown eyes
This was me lol
Beautiful BW; I’m a BW and my husband is tall, handsome, kind and giving. He’s also SWEDISH (dark blonde/blue). I’ve never been happier or felt more respected and loved. PLEASE get out of your own way and be with the man who WANTS you 🙏🏽💕
@For my Sisters Wow, your sister needs to improve her self-esteem, respectfully. Any man that listens to KS is an immediate red flag
Chrissie, black women who date interracially will not take what he said to heart... trust me, we're not paying attention to this man nor hurt by what he said LMFAOO All he did was contradict his whole rant, such an angry black man. smh
Right, he is not stopping me from potentially meeting my future husband. He might be black or he might not but I’m not closing my options up because of some hurt mans feelings. I date who I genuinely like.
Yeah, I don't even know who this guy is. I don't follow males (outside of something about real estate or health), especially not these ashy conscious BM. I suggest BW delete these type of men from their social media, ignore them all! The broke ones with no power and platform especially.
Exactly, his little tantrum was hilarious😭🤣 plus I think he just wanted a rise outta blk women
@Liv P YES ! complaining on the white man’s internet , about what a white man chose to put on his white owned billboard 😂🥴
@@eridanijay4886Im Africán. Never heard of him before this video. Don't care to know him after this.
If BW are still looking to BM for fairness, guidance, and honesty, then they will forever be lost. The blind leading the blind.
Asian men and BW getting together are starting to become more frequent.
Yes! I mentioned that there is a short film on Disney Plus called "Us Again" and it features a dark skin Black woman and an Asian man as a married couple. It's really cute and I'm here for black women dating asian men.
Or Jin and Juice they just had their 2nd kid
I'm glad....I love Asian Men.
Have you ladies seen the Maze Lee couple? They have a blended family of 8 kids! She's a beautiful dark skin sister with a fro, who just recently got her Ph.d and her Korean husband is adorable and handsome. All of their channels are making bank...big bank! People love their family videos.
@@filmfestivalradio1 so proud of Alena getting her PhD
I’m not African American and I’m not caucasian but he sounded kinda racist to me? 🤷🏾♀️
I mean his desperation for black men to be the winners of some ‘media interracial dating’ competition no-one else is aware of is obvious 🙄🤣 but that aside, it’s as though he’s saying white men and black women cannot date each other because black women might think it’s ok and start doing likewise? 😳 Like what in the double standard, anti-miscegenation is going on in his mind? 🤣
Welcome to the black community!
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you are so right! this man is crazy and he doubled down in his comment section
This is everyday shenanigans for us sadly
Not racist, just stupid. Lol
You're breaking so many generational curses.
Realest thing I've read about Chrissie and others like her. I told my sister that these women are life and game changers for the betterment of black girls and black women.
What’s a generational curses
He says: "we were the ones that kind of abandoned you..."
and he seems okay with that
he scares me🤔😶😥😪
I understand what you're going through it's the same thing and south Asian culture
the south Asian men glorify white women but they get angry when they're on women want to merry non south Asian men
I got so much flat from marrying a Spanish guy
I understand as a brown woman you have my support
@@Reshme77 Wow, I never knew this.
@@Reshme77 that's interesting because I hear a lot of AM complain that AW date WM and trash AM. I guess AM are taking tips from BM by shaming their women for doing what they themselves do.
Ive seen it all my life
It's heart shattering that women can't feel secure by their own people.😓
What strange irony is this ?where we are actually more dehumanized by black men than by white men?
Lmfaoo literally.
@@rosejames5172 They didn't do it first, actually. They just joined in. Remember, sexism is older than racism.
That comparison is stupid. It’s all dehumanizing whether one is bigger than the other doesn’t mean we should accept the other just because it’s smaller. Like are you listening to yourself?
@@rosejames5172 if you’d say some bm then say some wm too…. My dear this nonsense of saying some is ridiculous. Keep the same energy for all races. Some bm are colorist and some wm not all are racist
@@rosejames5172 Rose James the emotional blackmail won’t work on us this time. We’re addressing an issue here which is just as important to us as racism. So let us be and let us deal with the issue at hand so don’t patronize us.
To the black women who interracially date: Be careful, this is only the beginning of their rage. I interracially date and get so many aggressive reactions. I even know some couples who have gotten guns drawn on them or black men trying to pick a fight with non-black partners. Stay safe and try to ovoid places where you'll run into men like this. They'll do anything, including violence, to keep us from leaving. P.S. If you're craving soul food, have it delivered!
I believe it my Godsister just got married to a WM and she said it is very hard and the ignorance/stares is the majority of time from BM more than WW
@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 yes I remember I was just leaving a party with my white male friend. He walked me to my car and black men were going OFF and yelling at us. It was irritating and weird.
When I'm with my white boyfriend, BM give me mean looks.. The crazy part is they are usually with WW. SMH
That’s what I was afraid of tbh, but I’ll take that potential risk over THEM abusing us mentally and physically anymore!
@@rosejames5172 I apologize.. I thought you were the same troll who left me a crazy message on a another platform.. I think it was a man with a women's name.
As a biracial woman, when my black boyfriend, cheated on me with a Latino woman and, then my next boyfriend did the same thing. I woke up to see a reoccurring pattern in the black men I dated. I decided to date a white man, instead, who turn out to be my husband. I am happily married to the, same man, for a long time now. Black women should, put a value on themselves and date outside of their race; so that black men, can look and see, that you are, being valued by other races of men as their wives. They will then now that, their game is now over!!!
I’m a brown skin black woman. I made a Tinder account two weeks ago just trying to see what’s out there. 80% of my likes were white men. I’m talking successful white men with tech companies. I have always preferred light skin black men but hunny! Might have to dip my toes in Brad’s pool.
Good luck!!!! ❤️❤️
😂
Dip sis!!
What do you have to lose?
@@Lafemmefutile not a THING, nothing but GAINS. Emotional, financial, security etc
He’s the epitome of the bm mindset lol
Yep. He cannot be any more of a textbook BM. And to think he is supposed to be the model educated well-spoken BM that we are supposed to want.
FACTSSSSS 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I saw a video one time about Chinese men getting married to African women, and a LOT of the men in the comments were pressed ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ this mindset is global for them. The apples don’t fall so far from the tree
@Inquiring Minds
The issue with those marriages especially in a lot of African countries is that a lot of them tend to be sham marriages to get longer stays not actual marriages
@@tansrr1269 but blk men are going to be more threatened by one of “their” (as if they own us) women marrying a guy of a different race. Because they think they will be seen as weak. I guess that’s a male mentality, but they are literally threatened by other black ethnic groups so its different. Funny thing is, my parents married out of their tribes. But my dad is still weird about me marrying another person from another country other than the one that he comes from. My mom doesn’t care as long as he’s not a broke dusty.
I don't know why BW want that ghetto representation it increases our hyper sexualisation. Please if you're a BW going into marketing please show BW in a variety of concepts with natural hair e.g. goth, cottagecore, dark academia.
Yeeeees
I loveee cottogecore
I love seeing bw in cottage core or even when we dress cutesy/soft romantic or ethereal look. Its looks so nice.
Yaaaasss!!! Some days, I’m Goth, sometimes, I’m Dark Academia, and sometimes, I down with my kawaii Japanese aesthetic! Show that black women have actual styles and personalities outside of just being “black”!
They are really pushing the IR dating because The little mermaid is coming out and it's with a black woman as ariel and a white man, trust when I say the movie will make BILLIONS and further push this narrative, yes to desirability promotion 🥂
Hmmm, good observation🤔
That's such a good point!!! Can't wait
I can’t wait to see it 😍😍😍
Dayum! Finally! I ain’t been to the movies since before the pandemic started but I’ll go back for that! (And Avatar 2)
Can't wait!!!❤❤❤❤
He really called up Bonnetta to protect him.
😂😂😂😂 as they always do ... What a bunch of Croons
Bonnetta 😭😭😭😭
And she soft shoed him, tapped danced and all in that bonnet. It was really cringey
Godfrey just like Kevin Samuels is talking about black women to get attention. That's it. He's knows that's where the attention and money is that's why he's doing it and should be totally ignored. Black men will continue to choose who they prefer and black women should follow suit. However, black women should also be aware that many white men with issues that can't compete in their communities are seeking black women to exploit, use and dump, so black women too should beware and proceed with caution...
Exactly , be wary of any man regardless of race
And white women are being used to exploit black men. Black men only want white women because they’re easy to control. Black women don’t allow you to treat them any kind of way so they label us “angry” and “bitter”
I agree! Thanks for pointing out some of these other races of guys we have to be cautious. They are also looking to exploit and use us too. I'll never forget I was watching a period piece show and the black girl was born rich but when one of the not so refined white dudes heard of it he quickly went to go smile in her face. However before he wasn't saying anything but definitely seen her and her money as a come up.So we got to be careful.
@@kittysune1 Exactly. There’s this French movie « au bout des doigts » where this poor white guy was paired with this black rich girl, the movie was cute but I couldn’t resist eye rolling and side eyeing the writer, they definitely know what there are doing. Dusties are in any shapes , forms and colours. Don’t believe because he’s a non black men he can’t be worst. Some white really think because they’re white , they’ll have access to you. Be careful ladies
They can never create something on their own. Stand on their own. If their not standing on our necks to come up their uncomfortable.
Chrissie your voice is so soothing 😩 “ok, so in this video...” ❤️
I listen to her when I’m falling asleep! Very soothing lol
My favorite line every video. I love her!
Thought I was the only one 😭
Right! 😊
Anytime she says that line, you *KNOW* somebody fucked up.
May all the young black women have luxury & be married to all races of men (black ,white /asian/ middle eastrn). Expand your options & sell your submission to the best candidate😍!! LET GO OF THE STRONG BW STUFF, YOU WON'T NEED THAT WHEN YOUR MAN PROVIDES!!..
Your right! Go to white peoples. We don’t need your type
@@Spotlighttosuccess omg the bitterness and emotion in this comment, and you didn’t even give it a hour yet.😂😂 🧹🧹🧹🧹🧹🧹
@@alexmom6990 it’s simple you with us or against us. Once you pick that side cool but we know what they are going to y’all. Just accept it and don’t cry for protection. Once your gone your on enemy time
@@Spotlighttosuccess what is this the game of thrones😂😂, Sparta 3,000? 24 years of slavery? Like I really want to know, cause I don’t see y’all have these same type of energy for your brothers. Majority of us when we go to the other side, we don’t want to come back. They take great good care of us. If you want to be in Star Wars just say it bruh.
@@alexmom6990 ok cool if they treat you better stay there. But y’all want to keep talking about us. Go there and bleach your skin and stay there. Us as men have to let you be where your happy. Just when it goes wrong don’t use us or put us in it.
Their unravelling has begun and I'm here for it. 👌🏿
Me too! 🍿 👀
Don’t ask for help when it goes wrong. We will be there laughing
Yup. Godfrey is Exhibit A.
@John Smith we don’t care. We just don’t want to hear when things go wrong.
@UCXwMWkrzljE_3F7uUsrBPdw Just stay on that side and not communicate with us. Y’all want to be down with us but complain about us. Just go over to their side
A lot of BM feel some type of way towards BW dating other races because it takes away their "insurance policy." They know deep down these other races of women don't really fool with them like that, so they want to make sure BW are waiting in the wings just in case sh*t hits the fan. I hope other BW continue to wake up and do what's best for them.
Exactly
Yes, the numbers don't add up. There are too many strong black women who are bread winners out there who can't find someone who is equally yoked and motivated. There are too many grown men out there that don't carry their own weight, in all nationalities. I don't have that problem. I found a good one.
My fiance is white. i just found this whole thing amusing. Wasnt offended at all. I will still be with my man who is white and loves me deeply. It all just sounds like jealousy to me.
Honestly 🤦🏽♀️
@james W stfu
For a long time Black Men have been under the impression that Black Women can't date Non-Black Men. That is the furthest thing from the truth. A lot of Black Women have purposely made themselves unavailable to Non Blacks all for the sake of "Black Love". We made it to where black men didn't have to compete for our loyalty. All of that is about to change now. Black women are beginning to wake up and smell the coffee 😄.
WHOOP WHOOP and I’m sooo happy we are waking UP and getting what we deserve We’ve been through ENOUGH girl 💯💯❗️❗️
@@alkahinat4558 YUP. That’s my motto. I always say I prefer future bae to be black but I’m never settling, limiting myself NOR jumping on a struggle bandwagon just to have a “kang” of my own race. I always say I go wherever I’m wanted. Idc who don’t like it 💯❗️❗️
Bye lol
I really don’t understand why people get so riled up seeing black women in a IR relationship. Literally saw a post shaming black women for not dating black men every single time. I’m dating a Latino guy but that doesn’t take away any of my blackness. Black women, date who you want
Yes! Marry who will love you protect and provide no matter the race or ethnicity!
Right, we have the "dominant genes" too right? Why are they scared 🤣🤣🥱
@@cutieetae3351 took the words straight out of my mouth!!!
I'm married to one now and fighting my way out if it everyday 😢
They are trying to shame divested bw because everyone knows that as more bw expand their options it will further undermine the bm’s main source of support-bw.
Jesus Christ, my clown meter just exploded. He's saying two things at once, he's a fkn mess.
You have a clown meter??!! This is precisely what I need!! Because the circus this middle aged black man is running REQUIRES a clown meter. 🤡🤡🤡🤡
😂😂😂😂😂
@@paulaprintz6678 you may also need a dust and Roach meter. Chile
@@nothingtoseehere299 😂
@@nothingtoseehere299 not the dust and roach meter 😂😭😭😭😭😭
I’m glad they’re refraining from showing dark skinned black women as oversexualized. Black women need to be cherished and loved, not exploited.
My ex co-worker told me Godfrey was dating her friend for a period of time. He was a jerk to her a Nigerian-American woman educated with a master's degree. She told me his ego was too much to deal with.
Not surprised. He seems incredibly arrogant
I can definitely see that. I used to watch and enjoy him. Now idr know. He seems to need the last word and if he can see a black woman is correct he will overtalk loudtalk and insult her like some bm do to win. These men lack empathy and preach for women to betray their own selves just to get the title of being chosen by one of them. It's sad and disgusting.
Lmaoooo shoutout to Fidelis healthcare tho 😂😂
Yeah, I'm about to sign up.
@@roshellegouldbourne787 😂😂😂 me too
I’ve never heard of that insurance company until now.. They got national free publicity..lol
I’m signing up as I type lol 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was so confused why Goofry was mad 😂😂 lol afraid more black women will expand their options?? And being left out of that video was a blessing, go level up instead
Yup that's not the representation we as black do not need. Thank you, no thank you!
Right !! I just trying to get attention I barely know who this men was until yesterday. 😂😂
@@alkahinat4558 😂😂😂😂I died laughing at that.
"Goofry"....😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you. The fact that even though Yo Gotti is very vocal about his crush on LIGHT SKIN Angela Simmons, but some Black women still managed to be shocked by his colorist video - is beyond me..
He was so angry his voice was cracking! LOL. If he really meant that he was concerned about the harm to the black family and that the people in charge of that ad don't want to portray a strong black family unit then why didn't he say, "where is the BM and BW in this ad...?"? I think he only apologized because there were a lot of BW who came for him, not a few. One of the comments said "IR dating is cool but it too can be used as a weapon to destroy the black community". I translated that as: IR dating is cool (for BM) but it too can be used as a weapon to destroy the BC (if BW do it).
Ohhh so his issue is that a BM wasn't in the ad being portrayed as a "secure" option. Got it.
Lmbo ur translation is spot on I’m weak 🤣 cus that’s exactly what he meant by what he said
""IR dating is cool but it too can be used as a weapon to destroy the black community". I translated that as: IR dating is cool (for BM) but it too can be used as a weapon to destroy the BC (if BW do it)"
lol i caught that too and interpreted it exactly the same way smh!!!! the hypocrisy is astounding!!!!!
@@SRenaDTML Yes, but he is upset that they aren't being portrayed as the secure option to WW. First, he's upset that the ad featuring a BW with a WM is in a predominately black area because this may cause BW to begin to think that WM are the better choice. Then he goes on to say that WM don't want to portray BM as security and providers which could have a damning effect on the "black" family. Then he oddly asks where is the ad with a BM and WW because there are a lot of those couples and WM don't want people to see that. To me it seems like he's one of these BM that thinks he can create a "black" family with non-BW. He is upset that WM won't portray BM as secure providers to WW. As more and more WM or non-BW start to publically express their negative interactions with BM in relationships, and as more BW start to open up their dating options that means WM not only get to have WW but they will also get to have BW. He's upset that WM won't portray BM as their equals.
Godfrey: Black women having standards? Black women having options?! How dare they?!
Black women: Y'all hear something?
I am a non black woman , a Latina but I see what my black sisters are going through. It’s almost as if black men have a self hatred for themselves , they want to feel “superior” by trying to show off with light skin women , but when black women find white men or other races of men that value them , black men get outraged that they are “leveling up” from black men and the dust . That is what I’m seeing . Black men are so possessive and abusive over black women when they act like they don’t even want them. And then when the black woman realizes her worth and stops messing with these black men that don’t value her , the Black men can’t take it. It really hurts their ego so much . It’s funny to watch them try to keep control but back women will always rise higher 👑
thank you sis, love ya
Couldn't have said it better myself 😊
💡👑
Will always rise higher. I love that ✨✨
You are spot on!
I could listen to Chrissie reading the back of the WiFi router 💀💀 her voice is so relaxing
Lol
She has a 'deadly' combination lol. Spitting facts but I can listen to her as I unwind even for the most enraging topics 😆😆😆
@@TheJayWay Perfectly said.
Lmaooooo
Corrective promotion: On Disney+, there is a short about an elderly interracial couple (ambw) getting in touch with their youth through dance. It just came out. Very sweet short. It's called "Us Again" P.s. she is dark skinned.
Do you remember it's name? I want to watch and spread the word to support that type of content
@@kionnakelly2918 I just edited the post it should be up now
Ooo thanks, ima check it out!!
@@rizzybone964 It is sooo touching. I choked up watching it. So good.
Girl, it was so good. I watched it twice!
The tables are turning because this is what BW used to look like for decades, one thing about that pendulum its gonna swing the other way! Head up sisters, love you😘😘
Note: when more of us start to have biracial daughters we will teach them hypergamy and they will erase us. Please consider adopting little dark skin black girls😘😘
@saturn Too right Girl!
Yes I wanna adopt black girls
When the time is right i WILL adopt my future black daughter. Those children in system deserve so much love
@@chic187 I'm getting the darkest girl😘
@@kalmwithak7151 it's not about preserving the race it's about keeping hypergamy and divestment for black women. If you teach your biracial daughters hypergamy they will replace us and the little dark skin girls in the adoptive system will never learn about their plight
Godfrey has been pandering to Black women for his whole career, but behind closed doors he is verbally aggressive and disrespectful towards us. This is just a window into his true feelings.
*Billboard exists*
Godfrey: “.. and I took that personally.” 😭
For real
Sees black women and white man
Godfrey: anyway I started shooting
@@bekycybille1889 hollering 🤣🤣
Black Women and Non-Black Men: **exists**
Godfrey: **insert disappointed bald man with hands on his hips**
This man backtracked quickly when BW checked and stopped giving him their support. We stayed on code 👏🏿👏🏿
This fool messed up his bag and revealed that he was pandering to BW. Not suprised 🤷🏿♀️
I honestly lost a lot of respect for Godfrey. Instead of complaining about a black couple not being featured on that ad, he was more so complaining that a BW/WM couple was on that ad instead of a BM/WW couple 😑. And as far as Yo Gotti and DaBaby goes I’m honestly glad that there weren’t a lot of dark skinned black women in that trashy video. Let their preferences engage in that low vibrational ratchet mess.
I’m so glad he showed his true colors. These incidences are so eye opening. I don’t have these people to think about. I think on what I want and confident in what give. BM don’t owe me anything and I’m doing damn fine by myself. Anybody I’m with is damn sure gonna be better off and cherish me. I don’t owe you anything!!! ✌🏾
It's wild the number of 'Bitter' and 'Angry' black men my husband and I have come across while out. No one else has said a nasty word or even given a nasty look except black men ESPECIALLY when I was pregnant. OMG, some of them were so mad! I remember one incident in particular involving 3 guys, smh. It's always bothered me that for some reason they thought or seem to think that if I wasn't with him, I would be with them. Umm, no, I would be with Chris Evans 🙄
This sounds scary hun!!! A lot of these men have nothing to lose. Ladies, please be safe out here!
So im not the only one that noticed Chris Evans is hot 😊.
Black men (from my experience) get taken aback when I tell them that I don’t have a problem talking to men of different races and how they aren’t my first choice 😂😂 - like you can see the shock in their eyes
Love it. What do they say?
You're so pretty
How are you going to say in the same breath that you abandoned us, especially with a defiant tone, but also you don’t want us to get any ideas about dating out? Are we your private property? Make it make sense! I hope for anyone who didn’t get it before: these men want us to stay abandoned and they DEFINITELY DON’T WANT OTHER NON-BLACK MEN TO CLAIM YOU!
They truly enjoy the idea of us dying alone, while they date and marry out. It's sick.
And said it with his chest! It was absolutely horrifying hearing this. and his anger was scary.
For them, this is mainly a competition for social acceptance from the dominant society. They want us subjugated and stuck beneath them as they vie for acceptance and resources for themselves.
@@eridanijay4886 You are completely on point. I think slavery broke the mind of black american men because it put black women and men on the same level of subjugation. These men see us as their competitors, not like people that they should protect because that’s the natural order of things. Slavery created an unnatural order. In the WS system, there is no difference between genders regarding oppression; it just crushes all of us. I think BM have internalized that concept - this is why they keep contradicting themselves: wanting to be treated like men/demanding submission but at the same time behaving as if they are on the same level as women/exuding feminine spirit/not taking responsibility for protection or provision. It’s the same individual survival spirit as on the plantation.
@@Lafemmefutile now you disected the whole thing damn
you are absolutely right
I was proud of us over there. So many black women were NOT having it👏🏽
I love Brown/Black men, but they did not want me. A German/Polish man took the time out for me, got to get the know me. He married me after 3 years dating, bought us a house, and helped push my business startup. I dated a Black/Brown man for 6-7 years prior to that, and nothing came of it. Now AA men hate me because of settled down with a white man.
Ironically, “settled down” with a white man😂
@@chrissymarsha2282 ??
@@williams8791 that means, she’s NOT actually “settling down/dating DOWN” with that white guy … but she put “settled down with a white man.” (Which is the irony)
The men in my own family told me that if I wanted a greater chance with men men who are like them (educated, successful, family-oriented, etc) I needed to expand my dating pool. The men in my family spoil/pamper the women in my family, but they acknowledged that there aren’t as many BM in the community to do those things.
When my own family made it clear that MY job is to put security over “race loyalty” I got the message loud and clear.
I explored my options. They have hated on me so badly in the past calling me ugly, manly, even told me they wouldn’t be with me because I’m too dark and constantly compared me to lighter women. One even once told me he wouldn’t be with me because I didn’t look like another girl who was light skin and that he liked my body but would only fuck me if I put a paper bag over my head. Thing is I didn’t even like him like that like he just decided one day to up and tell me that out of the blue. They only showed interest in me when it became trendy by the Kardashians. Sigh it’s sad b/c I love my blackness and my own people, but what can you do when some refuse to open their eyes to the problems in our community. I expanded my options and went to who wanted me without seeing me as a fetish. I’ve been with him for 8 years.
@Alejo Daniel Medina Gallardo exactly she is gorgeous
You’re so pretty wtf?
Wow. Those men are disgusting. Wonder how black women raised their kids like this
The whole NONBM x BW is gonna to get worse for BM because the number of non black men who love BW who are also financially stable outnumber the black female population. This will get worse for BM, it's over for them.
Good.
Listen...they are done done!!
Oh well...lol!
_.LOLO._ \_.FOFO._ the pick mes will either wake up or just wither away in the dust with the dusties.
@@FoxxyFatima yes the pick mes will reach a breaking point, because these men never pick them but only use them until they’re no longer needed
@@channelcoconut6830 Exactly. A lot of pick me's end up stressed, rapidly aged, obese with various health complications, and poorly groomed because they allow men to use them and their resources up. I know someone like this, I'm sure she was mentally ill before... but she has severely declined. Her bum came into her life and brought her down numerous pegs... he even admitted recently that he was jealous of her when he first met her because of how successful she was. She's still chasing after him, even after him cheating/ domestic violence/ aggressively begging for money and all. He may be a bum... but he STILL won't even marry her. I wouldn't be surprised if this woman snapped on him.
I don't know why these women hate themselves so much.
Let the exotics and the preferences be the face of these videos. In the long run, it will change the narrative and the association of black women to these exploitative rap videos that do nothing for our representation. I'm glad they're taking over. Hand them the baton!!
Yesss
Agreed
Yes! Let them also be the new face of single parenthood, struggle love & poverty! 😊
This is why I've pulled support from the Megans and Cuban/Asian Dolls (yuck those names, lol) the male rappers have BEEN off my radar... I hope BW start getting into jazz, pop, alternative, indie music more and let the hyper-sexual, trashy rap go. Let these other groups have it. Too many of us fight to stay at the bottom, all because of aimless ego.
@@eridanijay4886 I was just about to comment the same. We still have black female rappers twerking, so the image isn't going to change much.
It’s really disturbing the way darkskin black men police black women’s preferences/choices, but expect darkskin black women to excuse and accommodate their’s with a massive amount of anti-black’s behind them to cape. This channel has really educated me on the experiences of darkskin black women and the downright ugliness of colorism in society and the black community. It is truly disgusting and sad to see how white supremacy has impacted us like this and how some of us are too ignorant to see the mental toll it’s took on us all. Thank you, Chrissie. Your platform is very needed and special.
This has nothing to do with White Supremacy.
@@roshellegouldbourne787 It most certainly does because it is the root of colorism. Denying that is like denying water is wet. WHO DID BLACK PEOPLE LEARN TO HATE COLOR FROM??? Bye.
Exactly 💯
@@roshellegouldbourne787 If you think this has nothing to do with white supremacy then you are lost. Sound like your a BW behind this account so if you are a BW I don’t expect nothing more because most BW are lost.
@@femmefatale71 I wanna like you comment but it doesn’t make sense why are you coming at the other person they are right.
SUBBED. My Husband is White and our marriage is perfect. It exists… housewife, mother and so happy. 🌺
I'm so happy for you ❤
I remember when I put a screen saver photo of Johnny Depp on my phone and a Black Male co worker who had an Asian girl friend mind you saw it he blew up and walked away screaming “see that’s what’s wrong with black People! That’s what you like? Smh”
The HYPOCRISY!!!
😂😂😂 the irony. He has an asian girlfriend but is mad about a Johnny depp screensaver 😂😂😂. These men are nuts.
What I love more than anything is how all the black female you tubers came together to check the disrespect of what he said. In my eyes that black female code.
This is kinda off topic, but it also relates to media portrayals of bw. So this guy on Tiktok was bragging about how good this show was on Netflix and said that the cast was all black. I decided to give it a shot, the show is called the Upshaws. Literally the first episode turned me off. The wife was light skinned, the daughters were light skinned, and they had a dark skinned bw who played the role of a “baby mama”. No surprise that they made her and her child dark skinned.
Agreed, I hated that. Especially because I think the dark skinned actor is beautiful and has always played classy roles. The nerve🙄
@@yahira6928 what’s the name
This is EXACTLY why I don’t watch the Upshaws nor Family Reunion. I’m sick of the obvious black husband and the ambiguous wife and daughters. OVER IT.
Isnt this the story of MOST if not all black comedies/ series?
I used to think that people were exaggerating since I'm black but not american until i started noticing that all my favourite comedies, and others had biracial wives/ girlfriends. And the darker skinned women in the shows were/ are portrayed as loud, angry, single, single mothers, struggling financially, struggling relationships or the can't keep a man stereotype. Something id never noticed before!!! Very few portray dsbw as having it all good.
It's the ego for me. They just have to believe that we are traumatized by them or broken if we are in an IR relationship. Or it's PR spin and we aren't really with WM. anything but we just found happiness elsewhere.
Right! When WM date black men people say it must be because he has BBC 🍆 but when BW date WM all of a sudden we have trauma and rejection problems and need therapy to love ourselves! Wtf maybe we like some nice BWC!! 🤷♀️
BM seem to have a real investment in BW sadness and misery. It's almost as if they would rather see a suffer than they themselves succeed.
Yeah, this needs to be discussed more. That was just pure narcissism. I will say, some BW do have a habit of trying to make excuses to people for dating/ marrying out. I don't think we should explain ourselves anymore to people regarding our dating habits or intents. Because they're just going to run with this. In a year or so, every BM is going to say that BW are only dating and marrying non-BM because we're gold diggers and are holding grudges over "choosing the wrong BM before".
Males rather complain about this than build for their community jesus...
Exactly!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The way black men scorn me when I'm out with my norwegian man... is truly astonishing.
He treats me extremely well whats the issue 🤷🏾♀️
It’s bizarre to see Godfrey making a big deal about this - it’s 2021. Black women YES, please expand your options. Be with the person who LOVES you for you and the person who will treat you with the respect you deserve, REGARDLESS of his skin color. The man who adores me doesn’t have the same skin color. So what. As Martin Luther King Jr said - judge a person by the content of their character, not the color of their skin. Peace ♥️
Amen amen & amen.
Chrissie you had me afraid for a minute. I thought you weren’t gunna mention his old video as an example of how black men pander to us. He literally said in the video “I would be a fool to shame black women on a platform” & Did that IMMEDIATELY. IMMEDIATELY
I dont date IR and I still think he is a hypocrite
His choice of words and anger was not warranted, did he marry black?
No but he dates non-black.
You already know the answer: As usual, no. This man is/ nearing 50 and is unwed. He's dated numerous white and Asian women. He started race hustling BW in the last few years.
Godfrey and his mammy are an embarrassment. Their dialog was a mess.
BM are in competition with BW. we have to realize as women that we are the prize to ANY race. its an energy that us as women possess
It’s stop being fun when black men slowly coming to the realization of that they TOO can be replaced. Beyoncé said it best. “Don’t you ever for a second get the thinking, you’re irreplaceable.”
Love that song and it’s message 👏🏾
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty these niggas really think they’re irreplaceable 😂😂 they hated destiny’s child bills bills bills too😂
@@andreapotter9110 it’s what I always say, if I’m wearing both the pants and the apron what the f do I need you (nothing ass guys) for? 😂
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty Queen, I swear they were in they feelings. They did it to TLC on the no scrubs song. They were so mad that they made a “remix” 😂🤣
Yep, and we determine which direction the culture moves in 💅🏾.
I was waiting on you Chrissie for this one 😭 Black men are showing out!!
All we need to do is point, laugh and go on about our business 😂
Black women please don't leave us! I always messed with my race, never switched up
@@cominupintheworld7025 We’re not talking about you king we’re talking about dusties.
Lol I love how’s its always BM who don’t even deal with BW always complaining about BW IR dating.
They are soo freaking ridiculous I swear
Because in their demented heads, this is all a competition for acceptance from whites... meanwhile BW are actually making non-shallow connections and gaining tangibles. Honestly, some of BM realize that BW gain from dealing with non-BM.... but they have to "pay to play" with non-BW so to speak. Men invest in women... that's the norm, but we already know these modern BM like to be treated as women and compete with us so, it annoys them that BW are dating and marrying non-black men who can offer resources...
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty exactly!!!!!
Black women aren't just BM's "back-up plan", BW desiring BM adds to their value with other races of women and they know it, even if BM don't acknowledge it on a conscious level, without BW wanting BM they don't appeal so much to other races of women. When BM date out, BW are part of the package.
The universe blindly follows everything the black woman does, they like whatever we like it’s not just black men it’s literally everything
I was on a date with this white guy, this was years ago, but we were walking around the store and black dudes were giving me so much side eye, but what killed it, was a black dude, with a biracial child sitting up on his shoulders, was so bothered by me being with this white guy, that he followed us all around this store. To the point where, had he not had a kid with him, I definitely would have said something. It's the hypocrisy for me. 😏😒
I would have said something for sure, embarrassed him matter of fact
That advertisement is matching studies of bw/WM marriages lasting longer.
And that this pair (bw/wm) tend to be highly educated and have great careers.
His outrage is one sided, he never calls out black men for dating outside their race, which is why I unfollowed him!
I owe loyalty to myself and not to black men. I have absolutely no problem dating outside of my race.
I wished African American women thought like black women in Europe.
I am a lot older than most of your followers, but I have to chime in. Very few Black men have shown interest in me. I expanded my dating circle decades ago. Listen dark-skin ladies, don’t exclude other races of men from your dating options. There are men who embrace our dark skin and kinky hair. Date and explore your options!
This shows that BM cannot handle a DROP, morsel, a tiny bit of what we go though regarding interracial relationships. The very few times it's promoted, what do we see a man cursing out an AD on the street. Hence, before his rant, no black women had said anything to him...who is the one TRAUMATIZED and HURT?
Why are BM so focused on tearing BW down?
Self hatred
We are past this stage. We no longer care what BM thinks or do.
Bcuz we're the only ones they can bully. They can't fight or bully other men.
It’s in their genetics
Kevin Samuels
I mean, women on this side of the internet ALREADY KNEW about the hypocrisy and double standards when it comes to IR dating but it's good to hear it come straight from the horse's mouth so the girlies who had on their rose colored glasses could finally take them off.
Right. It was pretty amazing (in a bad way) to hear him admit on camera to the world "we abandoned you first". I hope everyone understands that that's what we're dealing with if they didn't before. He spelled it out clearly.
Chrissie, you said "calling you ugly aka average at best" but he actually called us all ugly. There's audio recording of him saying black women are all mathematically and objectively unattractive.
@@alkahinat4558 yes. Search Keven Samuels says black women are mathematically unattractive
My cousin just married a WM on this weekend and her sister is dating a Chinese man. So I say more power to them and any woman of color.
Godfrey the snowbunny chewer can’t even settle with a WOMAN let’s just start here, in his 50s instead of him worrying about an ad concerning a fictitious couple he DOESN’T KNOW, he needs to focus on his mental stability, it’s clear that he’s so angry
Crazy, bitter, angry single black men.
He is legit screaming at a bus stop in the middle of the night about a fictitious couple. Ladies burn the cape.
The dust-roaches are ANGRY!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A black male friend of mine is upset that I’m dating a white guy while he has his white girlfriend currently pregnant 😂 I couldn’t believe it
He’s not your friend
Let’s just be honest. BM have been able to take BW and procreating with BW for granted for as long as they can remember even though a lot of their bloodlines should’ve been left to die out a long time ago.
That’s why they take having children for granted and why so many of them leave women to be single baby mothers. BM have never appreciated being given bloodlines nor have they ever had to compete to secure one.
Now they fear all of that is about to change
Black women also have to stop taking pride in being baby mamas
As a childfree, educated, non-religious black woman - I would literally have no options if I only went for black men.
I'm open to black men but I pick the man, regardless of race. And I let them chase.