Feminists Politicizing the Black Women Deserve Luxury Aesthetic & Why it’s a Problem
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To the SJW’s: Most of us are aware that political activism afforded us the luxuries we have today. Just because systemic justice and wealth are inherently connected doesn’t mean every single movement has to address both simultaneously. There’s a class system that keeps people of ALL races from accessing luxury yet they are still able to enjoy the idea or the image of themselves enjoying it ON ITS OWN. They don’t mix escapism with complaints about classism even if the two are connected. Black people are disproportionately affected by classism so I understand why we want to discuss it, and its okay to, just not in THIS movement. Doing so completely undermines its purpose. Got it? Ok, bye💁🏾♀️
Well said, I appreciate your thoughts on the subject
@@melleb916 I personally think some black women are so used to the struggle and lack of promotion that embracing trauma is the only thing that makes sense. While I'm not rich I enjoy seeing on social media all races of females enjoying luxury but I also personally love seeing when its a black female because its highlights the possibilities.
Not everything has to be about politics and the struggle all the damn time! When I look to a luxury lifestyle it's to enjoy and relax SJWs are so defined by the struggle the can't even engage in r&r or nice things. It's really very tragic to watch!!!
Chrissie, i feel compelled to share an experience just based on the topic of your video. about 4 years ago, my hubby got a 8 nights, 7 days stay into a luxurious chateau, spa wellness center. It was in the alpes, so we went. From the moment we arrive, we were taking care of. Even the gifts that was left in the room for us was like a wow. Anyways, as usual I was the only black person, until the fallowing day, I nearly fanned out but keep it to myself when I saw this black American woman with her husband and her daughter which was then handed to a nanny. Then at dinner, thus group of professional American players came in , about 12 of them and 8 was black, they were all join by their partners, again the only two of us black women there. Down stairs was this Hugh shopping center of luxury. I went inside and was looking at some bags , it was what they called the free hour. That means it's the only time that you're not taking care of by the place. The very well known , very tall black American man walk in , he started to pointing at stuff and said to his girlfriend that he wanted all that for her. Then came in some professional men from my country with amongst them two of their wives was black. They were not ordering anything just sitting and starting our finest champagne. So while I was exiting the place to go back to get my pressoteraphy and body cleansed done, this black American professional woman, smile at me and i said hi. Her french was excellent . I told her that I am a fan etc. She ask me if I wanted to return in the shopping center like. I said ok, she added that she have only 15 minutes free time. She did not ask me what I do, where I'm from , only if the guy was my hubby. I said yes and how we are married since I was 18. Anyways this woman takes up two things and Baugh them. When we was about to go our separate ways, she said to me, please to meet me, I said it's a pleasure for me too. She handed me the same gift she gifted herself. I was in shock and I said to her how I will have room service sent her sole fine wines. She said I must not to worry, she have a home and also a portion of a winery. From that time and days later, i have not seen her, not even to thank her. The gift she gave me, i could not afford to give myself even if I work for 3 months. Anyways, this is all to say to black ladies, please go out there and dont afraid to use your last coin to treat yourself because you never knew who you might Cale across. Now I will listen to Chrissy video.
@@tweetyslife253 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
I swear black women are the only people expected to tie every single aspect of our identity back to our struggles. We aren’t allowed to exist without being reminded of the place we hold in society.
Thank you. I am tired of it😭
That part... it's beyond sad and sick at this point...
It’s like EVERYTHING has to be about suffering to these people. They don’t have a personality outside of struggle. They don’t have an identity outside of oppression. Constantly focusing on trauma is SO terrible for your mental health. It’s so stressful. And then we wonder why we have so much undiagnosed depression and anxiety.
This community wants us to suffer ☹️
Exactly. But bm can do luxury and there is no one posting about police brutality underneath their photos while they are laid up with non black women. I really want someone to make it make sense.
Exactly and Dammit I need a break from the struggle sometimes. The 24/7 fight mode is killing us y’all. We are over weight, diabetic with HBP.
People be tryna be so woke and progressive and shaking the table that they end up shooting themselves in the foot.
Can never be "woke" enough
@@Ms.MD7 exactly. I’m convinced this is just a dick measuring contest for intellectuals from what I’ve seen
Being woke and a activist has lost it's meaning. People just annoying at this point.
This is so true. Have you heard of the Tv show "why women kill"?.Great tv show. I highly recommend. It is the story of 3 couples and one of them is a black woman with a white man. I saw your post and thought about it. Her character is just awfull and a cautionary tale of masculine behaviour and shooting herself in the foot. She almost looses everything because of social justice behavior and 'kill the patriachy'... In the 2 other couples, the women are feminine and hypergamous. But she is the only one saving everybody...
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Although black women say we are not a monolith....look at the backlash we get for enjoying the simplest shit!!!!!
Same here even getting new a new pair of eyeglasses can cause a backlash LOL! it happened to me
💯 You’re so right!
They’ll be like “we aren’t a monolith” and then attack women who aren’t existing within the stereotypes ascribed to the monolith 😕
Make that make sense.
We self police ourselves to keep each other to the struggle standard. Then have the nerve to cry racism when greater society sees us that way. 🤪
Exactly. How many non black women do the exact same thing and guess what? No one bats an eye. I don't know what is wrong other black women taking issue with a luxury movement. It's really sad how much too many black women embrace and cling to struggle and having to work your fingers to the bone for the most simplest of things.
I'm starting to think it's a bit of jealousy and resentment for other black women who know how to enjoy life and not see everything as "the world is out to get me" mindset
Black women deserve luxury.
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Period
put the men too
My ancestors worked sugar cane fields in the Caribbean, I'm entitled to all the luxuries this world has to offer. BW literally gave birth to the worlds economy, we should be first in line to enjoy the benefits.
Say it!!!!!
You are so right
Periodt!!!
All facts, no cap!
Thank you!
A bubble bath is not a political issue.
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Girlll im even tired. Its that simple
Thank you ! 🤣🤣 That's luxury too. I just bought a bathtub pillow so I can do it more often 🥰🥰
😂 😂 😂
It's like people don't want black women to be happy and have money.
Exactly, I’m convinced PickMeism is an illness.
They dont
They don’t. They want us struggling and waddling in low self esteem. It’s the way to keep us down.
@@TheCluesRNTheBlues BM aren’t competing with men that’s the point. Your arguing with women on a channel targeted to women is indicative of that mentality.
@@TheCluesRNTheBlues People should be PickMes? Is that your stance? lol
If I had to wait for "equality" before traveling and indulging in luxurious things... I'd be waiting through several lifetimes 🤣🤦🏽♀️.
I'm living it up now 😎
Right. Live that life girl! So much beautiful places to see.
Right! Love your best life boo ❤️
Yesss!
Right other minorities don’t think like that they just go and enjoy themselves when they can.
Notice how no Asian folks said shit about crazy rich Asians.
People need to stop with this and allow black women to also be Portrayed in a better light.
@@gcc2313 Some people can't even imagine black women living the good life because they've never seen it in their real lives. So they literally can't fathom why anyone would "waste" their time playing dress up when what they want won't ever happen in real life lol. It's sad that people can't even imagine black women having fun and living in luxury.
You never hear them tell white feminist they can't enjoy their diamond earrings and BMW but heaven forbid a blk woman enjoys life. 🙄
So true a lot of yt feminists are married, living in suburbs or a farm house somewhere with nice amenities and creature comforts.
They do indeed talk about them too though. There are hour long video essays breaking them down, but it's mostly white or queer commentators. Their audiences and Chrissie's just don't intersect that much at all.
I remember when I began going to the spas alot at age 21 and my mother always making me feel guilty for pampering myself. I truly believe all people (even other black people) just don't like seeing black women relax and being free-spirited.
When I lived with my mom I rarely ever washed or took care of my hair because she would get so mad at me when I’d be the bathroom trying to care for my hair which can take hours. She’d make comments like “I didn’t bring you to America to be focusing on your hair” etc. I felt really defeated and as a result my hair always stayed covered in a bonnet when I was around her. If I had a wig I’d only fix up my wig when she was at work. Now I live in my own place and don’t have to hide or tiptoe when doing my hair ☺️
Your mom 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@lunanelsa4507 your mom 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Same boo… my mom couldnt stand seeing me being social happy and free. Judged everything when this woman has done everything in her past, just not what she knew she was worthy of… they hate we have found our worth and value.
I'm not trying to put the world's problems in my Chanel bag, just a lipstick and some cards will do!! Girl we know the world is unfair, some of us just recognize that bathing in sorrow every moment can be unhealthy and won't change the world 🙃
Not in the Chanel bag😂
Yes Chanel bag!
Exactly and we know how imagery effects perception and if more people see BW in luxury, it is us normalizing and changing the narrative, where we once couldn’t be and the lives that we lived once upon a time in History, but y’all aren’t ready for that conversation..
All of this! I think the girl that made the video is young. She just has to live a bit more to realize she can't carry the world's problems on her shoulders or eventually she will get crushed and the world will move on without her.
THIS!!!
😂😂😂😂, there's no room for the struggle in my Longchamp bag.....
Black women can also multitask!!! My goodness social media loves contributing to trauma porn🙄
My thoughts EXACTLY!
Right im tried of that shit
It's rlly Twitter I find alot of the talking points only get upvoted in that Twitter bubble but it sounds crazy in real life
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and i will add further, that patriarchy doesn't have to totally work against you.
and any bw to be an anti capitalist without a community even bm won't deny is not built, is asinine. when in the capitalist system is one of the only systems i have seen black women CEO's.
i am not saying that like it's a godsend no, i am stating that poverty promotion systems have promoted things like FGM, Femicide, child brides, no education, free range breeding, and a host of other more problematic agendas that escape the tip of my mind.
Whoever told bw to fight for placement of an tangible word like "justice" or has justice in their mission statement is a social justice warrior rather they vote democrat like democrats or not; and it puts bw in an endless woke battle of street level politics to fight with no friends, partners, authority, or placement of safety.
THAT PART!
It's like they want bw to be constantly grinding at all times. Any sign of relaxation, calm, and peace is seen as lazy or undeserving.
Yes! And It’s sickening.
right...
Muling mentality 101
Very true. They feel like we should always be mulling for st or someone
I noticed it in jobs, like I've been in situations where people were trying to give me the more laboring and grosser tasks.
There is always an incessant need to try and humble black women who appear happy, rich, spoiled and feminine. It’s like any time we step out of their sista Soulja roles we are met with backlash
Facts!!
A whole word!!!
Say that again!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yea y’all have been in that role too much and people got used to it.
For real though, my first insight into spoiled rich kids was Fresh Prince of Bel Air...I loved how the family was well to do and the butler was so well spoken.
Tatyana was a shining example of this, she was a dark skinned black girl living in luxury within a well to do family...I wish this was the outcome for most of us
It's abusive and asinine to tell someone who's enjoying themselves that there's too much wrong in their lives for them to be happy. Self-care is critical.
Very narcissistic.
For black women to lead better lives, and find luxury, the answers are quite simplistic. If you desire to be financially secure, dont have children, unless you are either married, or in a committed, monogamous relationship, with a partner, who is upwardly mobile, and gainfully employed. If you desire a well paying position, pursue a degree in science or technology. The town I live in is filled with black women, who have bachelors and masters degrees, in sociology, childhood development, and "underwater basket weaving", but with degrees like those, these women are financially strapped from high interest student loan debt, which will keep them broke for decades. If you want to have satisfying, healthy relationships, quit dating and breeding with "thugs", "bums", "goons", and ex-convicts. Please remember these 2 things: 1. As a black woman, your futures are not pre-ordained, you have no fate but what you make for yourself...2. There are not enough "Russell Wilsons" to go around.
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If you spent as much time improving your life as you spend creating hypothetical scenarios to BW's life, you wouldn't be such a hater.
@@jojoone1099 I am always amused when black women interpret genuine concern for "hatred". I do believe that society has not dealt fairly with women of color, but the modern day black woman has always been denied a luxurious lifestyle, by her own bad choices. She will not listen. She will understand nothing, until there is noting left for her to understand. Then she becomes bitter, angry, a true hater.
@@jojoone1099 Things like poverty, multiple children, single motherhood, lack of quality education, substandard medical care are not "hypothetical scenarios " they are harsh realities, that impact so many black women.
The irony is, Half of these feminists are Ivy League educated and live middle - upper middle class lifestyles. Masters degrees and phds are luxuries as well. They feed into capitalism as well 😬 Can black women just be allowed to have agency and nice things sometimes 🤦🏾♀️ We know life isn’t a bed of roses, especially those of us living below the poverty level, we don’t need all these academic dissertations to tell us that 😣
What an excellent point!
Exactly!!! In institutions that wouldn’t allow them to attend decades ago
Bruh exactly.
Ivy League education is the HEIGHT of luxury. They need to STFU while we enjoy your luxury and restful lifestyles!!
Yes! The RUclipsr “FH” and others alike come to mind...
Some BW are so intrenched in struggle that they will even make something as simple as enjoying a bubble bath and a glass of proseco a political issue. Those women can't be saved. Sometimes it's ok to just BE.
Some women are to far gone!!!
Right!
and i will add further, that patriarchy doesn't have to totally work against you.
and any bw to be an anti capitalist without a community even bm won't deny is not built, is asinine. when in the capitalist system is one of the only systems i have seen black women CEO's.
i am not saying that like it's a godsend no, i am stating that poverty promotion systems have promoted things like FGM, Femicide, child brides, no education, free range breeding, and a host of other more problematic agendas that escape the tip of my mind.
Whoever told bw to fight for placement of an tangible word like "justice" or has justice in their mission statement is a social justice warrior rather they vote democrat like democrats or not and it puts bw in an endless woke battle of street level politics to fight with no friends, partners, authority, or placement of safety.
Well alcohol is part of the grand plan to keep black people under the influence and mentally incapacitated 😏
Self care is survival and it is revolutionary!
We can’t have nothing lol some bw literally want us to live by the quote “all my life I had to fight” like damn!🤣🤣🤣
Girl yes!!!!! Why do we always have to be in fight for some shit mode?!?!
I’m not fighting for shit..I’m going to the spa 🧖🏾♀️💅🏾
All my life I had to fight ninja😂
They really want company 🥴😭
I’m not fighting a battle I didn’t make 😩
Black women's addiction to struggle and trauma bonding is so frustrating. I used to be her and I am so happy I outgrew this low vibration view of reality. The need to mammy and mule for the black community is ridiculous. What you focus on grows. The more I realized I deserve a life of ease, adoration, luxury and peace more opportunities appeared for it. We need to realize the feeling of deserving is key always.
@@slickrick2420 My reference to the black community was about black women's expected place in it. Please read before you comment. Plus if you are a man why are you here? This isn't for you?
Who ever said luxury was only about bags and cottagecore? Who? These women are OBSESSED with the idea of oppression. It’s so key to their identity.
Also...there’s an assumption that if I’m travelling around the world living my best life, I’m not also taking care for my health, seeing my therapist weekly, and tending to other necessities. They really want us to bake all day and NEVER taste the pie 🥺
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THIS!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
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Exactly!
Black women deserve a break as well. I’m 41 and I am tired. I’m not fighting no damn more. My mother’s family has been in Amerikkka since 1670’s. We actually traced it back. We been fighting ever since. I’m not fighting no damn more. I’m dressing nice, buying bags, traveling and go on spa dates. I’ve laid down my cape. Can a chick just clock out for once. Hit me up in 2023.
Stop fighting! You’ve already lived almost 1/2 your life expectancy and I 2/3rds of mine. And it’s a helluva lot better for black people then when your parents and my Grandparents were young people. Turn off the news, Twitter and all such BS and go live. Life is too damn short to be worrying and scuffling behind the dusties and the SJWs. The Caribbean is a good start. St Maarten is lovely this time of year.
Me as well I’m TIRED AS WELL
I’m 20 and already tired that’s why I just stopped speaking out as much about black issues it’s too much
❤❤❤❤❤ proud to join you, Chi Denise!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
looool you have space for two ma'am cause I need a fat nap lol and i'm only 21
I love these images of black women looking pretty and just enjoying life!
Same. These photos are everything
Now this comment should have a million likes!!
Me too 😍
Ditto!! ❤️♥️
Yes
How did she turn something as simple as a vacation into a whole speech....girl likes the sound of her own voice
Most of the woke academia camp does.
And her voice is atrocious lolll.
For black women to lead better lives, and find luxury, the answers are quite simplistic. If you desire to be financially secure, dont have children, unless you are either married, or in a committed, monogamous relationship, with a partner, who is upwardly mobile, and gainfully employed. If you desire a well paying position, pursue a degree in science or technology. The town I live in is filled with black women, who have bachelors and masters degrees, in sociology, childhood development, and "underwater basket weaving", but with degrees like those, these women are financially strapped from high interest student loan debt, which will keep them broke for decades. If you want to have satisfying, healthy relationships, quit dating and breeding with "thugs", "bums", "goons", and ex-convicts. Please remember these 2 things: 1. As a black woman, your futures are not pre-ordained, you have no fate but what you make for yourself...2. There are not enough "Russell Wilsons" to go around.
And this is why I don’t talk about my aspirations to be a luxurious black woman.
There is so much black women that can’t grasp the fact that A BLACK WOMAN CAN ENJOY HERSELF TOO.
I HATE this poverty promotion. I hate it dearly.
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I cannot love this comment enough!!
YAY I travel the world, get facials/ massages & I treat myself very well. I don't have kids & I get to focus on my career/ travel the world.
For black women to lead better lives, and find luxury, the answers are quite simplistic. If you desire to be financially secure, dont have children, unless you are either married, or in a committed, monogamous relationship, with a partner, who is upwardly mobile, and gainfully employed. If you desire a well paying position, pursue a degree in science or technology. The town I live in is filled with black women, who have bachelors and masters degrees, in sociology, childhood development, and "underwater basket weaving", but with degrees like those, these women are financially strapped from high interest student loan debt, which will keep them broke for decades. If you want to have satisfying, healthy relationships, quit dating and breeding with "thugs", "bums", "goons", and ex-convicts. Please remember these 2 things: 1. As a black woman, your futures are not pre-ordained, you have no fate but what you make for yourself...2. There are not enough "Russell Wilsons" to go around.
How does a black woman become a luxurious black woman? There are not all that many Russell Wilsons walking around .
I'm gonna have nice things, now whose gonna stop me.💅🏾💁🏾♀️
Get all you can and enjoy it🥂
Having nice things is the best. I love going to the mall
You deserve those nice things. 🧖🏾♀️
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Exactly
I think a majority of bw are pretty grounded in reality. Out of all groups we are constantly reminded of it, work, school, etc. If bw want to kick our feet up once in a while, relax and luxuriate, that is our prerogative. 🥂 I love this movement to be honest. It’s a nice change of pace. Great video
True. I love watching the rich black girl Tik toks
I agree, we don’t actually live in escapism
@@GlamGoddes101 we can't and I think the majority of us don't want too. We are too kind hearted to just sit back and ignore problems even if we wanted to. I don't see why people don't think the women who fight for everyone else all the time can't take a break once in a while. People, even black women themselves see other black women as guard dogs.
Me too. I love seeing it and I love trying to emulate it. People always want to kill black woman's joy. Like damn leave us alone.
watch kevin samuels and see how out of touch with reality they really are
Most people want BW to struggle consistently and be the backbone to every moment. BW’s have the right to be relaxed, provided for and feel beautiful no matter what. We don’t want to be masculine 🤷🏾♀️
So true. I said in a black British group I'm minding my business with the Palestinian and Jewish situation. She said I was nasty for saying this.😑🙄
@@MsTomas086 you didn’t say anything wrong 😅 i sit my behind down for any movement that could potentially put me in harms way or put me in masculine position. I’ll keep those struggling in my prayers 🙏🏽
@@MsTomas086 that situation literally has nothing to do with us. I haven't said a word about it either.
@@MsTomas086
They’re mad when you say something and they’re mad when you don’t.
Israel apologists are mad as hell when you talk about the human rights violations committed by the Israeli government.
But then people will still be mad af when you don’t want to talk about it. People can’t just be happy.
It seems like everyone in the world is outraged by BW’s speech AND our silence. It’s so annoying!
@@MsTomas086 and yet some of them never said anything concerning BLM,they sat and enjoyed their feminity now they want us to mule for them.Nope,like always am sitting myself out of this too
Been traveling for almost 7 yrs straight...and the amount of racism I've experienced I can count on one hand and still have fingers left to count....Most ppl are good ppl....and as for micro aggressions...if I need a magnify glass to see it or spot it...it's not worth my energy, time or peace of mind ...and ppl tend to mix up ignorance, with racism or micro aggressions...there's a difference...
One is passive and one is overt
Please PREACH!!!
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@@mindingmybusiness8477 Not stupid questions. Don’t do him like that. 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly!!! It’s like some ppl are constantly looking for something bad to happen that they make it real
Am I the only one that likes to watch rich black tik toks? I enjoy them
Yes I love them !!!
Ooo sis that’s a sector over there?? I need to find it Lol
@@TheeBratzDollxox yep you can favourite the blackgirlluxury hashtag and interact with the videos and it will start popping up in your fyp
No TikTok for me, not a fan this app
No, you're not the only one. Seeing the leveling up experience is so refreshing and encouraging.
These women who are spending there lives in “warrior mode” don’t realize the damage that they are doing to their mind, body and spirit. Just LIVE, ladies! Life isn’t always easy, but it certainly does to have to be hard either.
Exactly, just by looking at her you can see how exhausted she looks. It takes a toll on you cause there will always be something to be mad at .
@OwO Covet Good for you, sis. You deserve to live a lifestyle that is most conducive to the protection of your peace. God bless! 💕
and should give chances to latino guys 😅😅
I guarantee the women who are saying this arent even thinking about racism when their out doing their own thing.
Soooo trueeee
The fact that she said that she was trying to figure out what she didn’t like about the black women in luxury movement. Like girl were you just sitting in your room trying to find something wrong?!? These mammy’s lives must be so miserable 😖.
You really read my mind 😅
Lol so true!!!
Mammy=miserable
I can’t with black feminists. WW feminists, no matter how well educated, still expect their husbands to provide and enjoy luxury and pampering.
@@kittykatz4001 That’s how you can tell that feminism is a SCAM. Those white women be performative on screen, but submissive and cooperative behind closed doors
When a rapper spent millions of dollars to put a pink diamond in his head where was the talk of police brutality and capitalism
He's a black man, leave him alone, poor baby! 😔
*sarcasm*
Can we just.. like.. enjoy being alive? For like 5 minutes without a freaking think piece and dissertation 🥵
Exactly! So many people forget to be thankful for the good things. I make sure to get involved in social justice initiatives, but not to the detriment of my mental health and I refuse to allow the expectations of others stop me from enjoying my wonderful life. I choose happiness . . . And luxury!! 😊
SOOO TRUEE! lol
PLS OMG
Apparently no? Why must you ever relax 😂
No but for real though!
The sick thing to me is that they don’t think twice when they see white, Asian, mestizo, and Semitic women in luxury. They don’t feel the need to comment on it, they don’t feel the need to discuss it.
But as soon as they see other BW in that exact same luxury, suddenly her existence becomes worthy of think pieces and conversations on race politics.
Why can’t we just exist without our existence being political in some way? Why can’t we enjoy a vacation without our community getting bothered and needing to discuss oppression politics?!
It’s like, BW aren’t allowed to breathe without oppression being forced in our faces. We can’t unwind. We can’t relax. We can’t decompress. The community won’t let us. It’s sick.
Nobody brings up these conversations when wealthy BM are showing off their cars, jewelry, mansions, and designer clothes. They make US the face of oppression and suffering. And that has real repercussions. We are out here with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and trauma because we aren’t allowed to exist as human beings.
They love to say we aren’t a monolith until we exist outside of the monolithic stereotypes. Leave BW alone!
Spot on,, well said
👆🏾👆🏾👆🏾 Whoa
Couldn’t have said it better myself 🙌🏽
Jealousy point blank! Great comment BTW.
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How do people expect us to act feminine and take on masculine roles at the same time?
Going out with WW, they expect me to act loud and make exclamations like “Guuurllll” or “Perioddddd Poo”. I just speak properly during the whole outing, and their reactions are hilarious. 🥴
You know what’s interesting? I perceive this whole masculinity vs femininity dichotomy so backwards compared to most people. I have always seen black people as more hyper expressed in their gender traits. I think the men are hypermasculine and the women are hyper feminine. I think people say they aren’t either because we associate masculine and femininity as good and people don’t see black people as good. To me black women are hyper feminine with the weave, nails, gender specific slogans and vernacular. No other race really does that. White women pretty much speak the same as white men. I think western culture just values a more muted palette of gender traits. Basically people consider black people “team too much”. Black women are very feminine but just more flamboyant and boisterous compared to other races. I think saying that they aren’t feminine is inaccurate. Just my 2 cents though.
@Weave Head That does not make sense. Looking traditionally masculine is having muscles/ being ripped. Black women don’t look like that. We aren’t some cult that only dresses a certain way or we all have the same body. We are not a monolith, we are individuals. If you’re offended that most black men want a masculine role while acting traditionally feminine, then that’s sad. Black women don’t look masculine, you’re just blind. Does every woman in your family look masculine? If that is so, send pictures of them to my Instagram @e.s.th.er
@@FuchsiaSquare Right- like that’s all about environment, not race. I started to say like a lot since I moved to California. I genuinely think we say like a lot.
@@dantan1249 this is an interesting perspective! I will say a lot of what makes us choose these things to make us look “hyper feminine” is as a result of our natural state being deemed masculine and “not of the standard”. We add all that false stuff to emphasize our chosen gender role, since others perception of us is already skewed else where. Some days I still struggle to wear my natural hair out because I fear I look too much like a boy, when in reality this is how a natural black woman looks - and it’s normal and okay. I try to avoid feeling like I need nails and makeup to feel and look validated in my black femininity.
Chrissie sure dose have an iconic voice
Honestly.
She has a very sultry voice, I love it 💕
I'm the 99th like👍🏽
True!
Yess
How is it “trying to be a white woman” for black women to enjoy and be seen publicly enjoying luxury? I thought our ancestors were kings and queens. I mean our ancestors were African and the people I’ve seen here from Africa are usually living in luxury or they try to so I’m confused....🤔
Amen 👏👏
all our ancestors weren't royalty. yall keep forgetting that there were common people, serfs, servants, etc. more of us came from them and not royalty lmao
@@woomymichel514 right we’ve been manipulated like I wanna know who started that lie just to give us the illusion of importance by simply living vicariously thru a lie about how our ancestors actually lived. We took that and ran with it as if that has help us get anything *now*.
@@woomymichel514 nothing wrong with wanting to feel like royalty,though
@@bq-9238 I never negated that lmaooo
Whenever I go out wearing designer....I feel like a straight up criminal. The questions,the looks, the “dhgate” comments. It’s been so bad that white men have stepped in...to stop white women from questioning me. Black women are so glorious. Chrissie I’ve been watching your videos since my teen years. You took me from a social/shy insecure young girl and inspired me to invest in myself. Now I’m successful, my man is successful and worships me, I’m healthier then ever, and I’m inspiring my younger sisters and spoiling them!! Thank you!❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh hell no what was they trying to do ?? Were these white women trying to fight you?!
Learn the art of being nice/nasty sis. I thoroughly enjoy taking WW who feel that they can question ME down a peg or 8.
@@blackwomanblackluxury8503 I wish a troglodyte would.
I already survived the struggle and have ZERO guilt about deserving nice things. One thing about marrying inter racially, WM are interested in you, not the entire race. They are not going to like all of that constant talk about injustice this and racist that. It’s a good thing actually. It reminds that I am a woman first.
I didn’t grow up in that black community and I’ve always wondered what it was like from another black woman’s perspective. How hard was it to unlearn the the toxic ideas the black community has taught? And how did you get to the place of feeling no guilt when it comes to receiving nice things? ❤️
@@TheCluesRNTheBlues shut up... it’s kinda sus that u watch content for bw....
@Sunflower met mine in college
@@TheCluesRNTheBlues What part of we don't care, and we're not answering your questions are you not comprehending????
Zoe
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Because BW can't just be. Let BW go for more and leave the struggle out of it. Thank you, Chrissie, for stating this.
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We 👏🏾can👏🏾 do 👏🏾both !!!!! Why can’t blk women JUST enjoy and BE rather than always fighting for something
Exactly I don’t understand why these “intellectuals” are so dense. Multiple things can be done, it doesn’t have to be one or the other.
Right!!
That's were the bad attitudes stems from that people like to throw at us. I'd be angry too if every waking moment of my life is struggle so make your life as easy as possible.
Precisely! It's not either enjoy luxury (which is not anti-womanist/feminist) OR help ensure equity for self and future generations (not anti-hypergamous). Why people try to limit BW is astounding. I'm all for enjoying a luxury lifestyle AND helping my community. I believe the early womanists who paved the way, did so for this reason.
Yep. Most BW who are on the luxurious/ carefree tip actually also donate to charities, mentor young BW, etc. And just their mere presence defies the social hierarchy and expectations. I'm not sure why some BW think it's revolutionary for BW to struggle and be miserable all the time. This is expected of us, it's not an F-U to society. We're expected to be mad, bitter, grieving all the damn time.
All the rebuttals the lady had about BW's issues romantic relationships, childbirth, etc. ARE often addressed in these spaces: hypergamy, being open to dating interracially, #noweddingnowomb/ family planning, investing into our fitness/ nutrition/ mental health... "we" already know what we have to do to minimize these issues: a lot of BM (and BW ironically like the lady) have to be left behind and disregarded for the most part. No more letting BM hold us back just because they are black. No more letting weak-minded BW guilt us into pandering to and humbling ourselves for BM to feel better.
“ I didn’t realize what my issue was with The BW on luxury movement was b/c I couldn’t pinpoint it before but...” Told me everything I needed to know in an instant.
Exactly!
Some black women will see another black woman smile and try to figure out a way to shame her for it.
@@jadewinter7 exactly
For black women to lead better lives, and find luxury, the answers are quite simplistic. If you desire to be financially secure, dont have children, unless you are either married, or in a committed, monogamous relationship, with a partner, who is upwardly mobile, and gainfully employed. If you desire a well paying position, pursue a degree in science or technology. The town I live in is filled with black women, who have bachelors and masters degrees, in sociology, childhood development, and "underwater basket weaving", but with degrees like those, these women are financially strapped from high interest student loan debt, which will keep them broke for decades. If you want to have satisfying, healthy relationships, quit dating and breeding with "thugs", "bums", "goons", and ex-convicts. Please remember these 2 things: 1. As a black woman, your futures are not pre-ordained, you have no fate but what you make for yourself...2. There are not enough "Russell Wilsons" to go around.
We need a Black woman in luxury movie that encounters a superficial problem that doesn't revolve around struggle and she falls in love by being heavily pursued by a wealthy man who adores her!
We really do, Hallmark and Lifetime have based their entire network content and built a brand out of these concepts.
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Diane Carol was a good role model for BW in luxury in media
This is why I made a whole video THANKING the Black Women in Luxury / Black Women Deserve Luxury Movement because... we need those visuals too.
Its soooo needed!
We've needed this for a while.
Exactly
Stop it like seriously the only two designers that even allowed black women on their catwalk were:
Paco Rabbane
YSL
Ok all other designers didn’t like black women in their shit
Then Versace and Gucci followed
Now where in the f are my black designers
@@Shineynsparkles How about you be the change you want to see. There are many black owned brands and luxury brands across the world. Make your own page. Who are you waiting for to do it?
They’re overthinking it. The whole level up movement has done more for me than the new age woke movement. It introduced self care into my routine, improved my physical and mental health; I’ve lost weight, I started dressing better, all while on a strict budget. I shopped at the thrift store and bought make up from drug stores. Trips are are hella cheap right now. Pampering yourself doesn’t have to cost much. They are ignoring the fact that any movement can be a money-grab; we have seen that in activist and pro-black spaces over the years.
You’re absolutely right. I used to divide my energy between working and activism. It left me depleted and depressed. Now that I’m leveling up, I’m so much happier, healthier (physically and mentally), and I stand up for myself more personally and professionally. Being woke can be so limiting if we as black women believe we can never access to nice things like a vacation.
Thank you for this. Honest to goodness thank you for this. They always overthink everything and refuse to allow black women to have escapism. Your examples are so true. Like my idea of luxury as a college student right now is having dinner and movie nights with friends. But they won't even allow that.
You get what you think you deserve. I dont want/need expensive clothes or purses, but im glad/blessed that I can get them if I want to 😁. Im thrilled if black women are getting away from the relentless struggle. Ive been working out more and making time to have fun
Yep!❤
So glad your having fun!
I have been pursuing the nursing field specifically so that when I walk into the room another black woman won't feel so alone.
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Wonderful!
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I love this sm 😭
I’ve been told by people of our race that they were glad that I was their nurse and they felt relieved that I was willing to listen to them and address their issues and concerns with their health care teams.
It's like saying "Don't bother going on vacation because you're going to have to come back to work anyway"
I feel like Jackie Aina popularized it because after I started seeing her luxury posts on Instagram I started seeing it a lot more from other creators.
Same. I am addicted to her videos on luxurious living!
No there have been a lot of Africans that their Instagram pages are luxury focused like chiomagoodhair, toke Malines, kefilwe mabote, bonang matheba just to name a few
@@fabfati Jackie Aina is Nigerian...
@@missunique5227 living in America, so this person is saying so many African girls were already doing it maybe y’all just didn’t see it because you are American
Yes I also think so
Black Women in Luxury is a form of escapism because we already KNOW how hard life is for us. It's just comforting for us to get away from reality and imagine our lives in better and healthier ways.
Edit: I love that you already said it!! We should be allowed to get away from our lives for a few minutes or hours each day to reimagine how life could bring out the best in each of us.
Exactly! I like this movement you don't even have to do the "traditional" luxury things to feel luxurious if that makes sense
Yup and I saw many luxury posts and it wasn’t just black women showing off their new bag, house, car, and going on vacation. I saw black women in bubble baths with a glass of wine next to them. That is also another form of luxury. Everyone has their own personal definition of luxury and you can live in luxury without being rich or over spending what you don’t have. Showing yourself some self care and relaxing IS luxury.
@@TheLeah2344
My sister was doing this for years her Fridays were here pamper days candles, prosecco or wine and just relaxing then a lovely meal. Nothing wrong it. You need to be confident to say to yourself why not, I need me time. Don't dwell on the negatives, find friends like minded.
🎼🎵I 2nd that emotion🎶✌️👍
Exactly! We are allowed our escapism.
This is so cringey Chrissy, I think some of these angry black women who just can't relax and allow other black women to be treated in luxury whatever that means for that woman. Luxury doesn't always mean only expensive things, it can come in forms of just pampering yourself, self care, etc. My man always reminds me "you're worth it" or "you're my queen" if I'm not sure on something he's buying me coz it's "expensive". I'm truly blessed.
I love that for you 💖
Thanks for speaking on this ! Why must everything be so political when it comes to us ? I just want to enjoy photos of black women living their best lives.
We can’t enjoy anything with someone hollering about what about-ism!!!!!
Thank you, even us wearing our natural hair in an Afro is seen as a political statement 🥴. I am not a political statement, I’m a human being.
One thing I hate about being a black/brown woman is how freaking everything is political. From how we choose to wear our hair, to who we date, down to enjoying a vacation. It's annoying.
That’s why I chose being a woman first my skin color is just a skin color
Their logic is absurd, other groups of women experience sexism but are still allowed to enjoy luxuries. At this point it's time we leave these kinds of women behind🤦🏾♀️
Why was she even trying to find a problem with the movement in the first place?.. Some black women never fail to amaze me 🙄
Because she feels undeserving/incapable of it herself. That's it and that's all, in my opinion.
@@farmhouseonthemountain it's definitely jealousy and for some likes. There's zero benefit to her thinking this way and making this video.
@@farmhouseonthemountain i agree she feels that way so she tries to bring others down to her level
@@Aura-Awakened 100% jealousy
Everyday they will find something to argue against. Idk how they don’t get tired.
Why can't I just enjoy a nice fluffy movement without everything getting super serious. People may think it's superficial but I like watching a shower routine or a "how to be attractive" video now and then along with the serious issues. Keyword is BALANCE
I literally see crazy, trauma based, racist and just dumb behavior all day. I literally come here RUNNING for an outlet like Auntie Jackie PLZ BLESS ME it feels better to have something different than that 25/8
Thank you ❤
@@alkahinat4558 agreed
Okay, balance in all things. Being informed on many topics!❤👊🏽💄👑
@@imsoy2k 25/8??? You added an extra hour in the day and a extra day into the week? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hear you loud a clear. You deserve a break 🙌🙌🙌
Ladies you do not look LUXURIOUS walking into a nice RESTAURANT WITH A NINJA SAGGING HIS JEANS AND PAYING THE BILL YOURSELF.
Lol...
Omg I used to see this all the time as a previous bartender . It’s like some black women are so afraid of being single. And meanwhile, I can’t make this up, white men INSIST on paying for drinks and it angers their white girlfriend because they are feminists. Lmfaooo like what????
WTH! She can walk in with anyone and enjoy her life. Stop telling Black women what to do!
There was a black feminist who was going off about how people who want to make a million are all capitalists and all we want to do is flex to everyone our big homes we don’t need. I quickly checked her. I said I want to make six figures because it’s always been my dream to travel and I also want to build generational wealth. Not everyone wants to become rich just to flex to other people. I’m so tired of people looking down on others who have bigger goals.
For black women to lead better lives, and find luxury, the answers are quite simplistic. If you desire to be financially secure, dont have children, unless you are either married, or in a committed, monogamous relationship, with a partner, who is upwardly mobile, and gainfully employed. If you desire a well paying position, pursue a degree in science or technology. The town I live in is filled with black women, who have bachelors and masters degrees, in sociology, childhood development, and "underwater basket weaving", but with degrees like those, these women are financially strapped from high interest student loan debt, which will keep them broke for decades. If you want to have satisfying, healthy relationships, quit dating and breeding with "thugs", "bums", "goons", and ex-convicts. Please remember these 2 things: 1. As a black woman, your futures are not pre-ordained, you have no fate but what you make for yourself...2. There are not enough "Russell Wilsons" to go around.
Why say there are not enough Russell's to go around?
I like most of what you shared but this statement is giving Scarcity mindset, which I reject as a child of God, having access to abundance
This is why the black women is perceived as angry all the time. These women can’t function with struggle.
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If some of these BW stop complaining for a sec they’d realize that the BWIL movement is corrective promotion at it finest.🤷🏽♀️
Ummmmmmm this is why we can’t have nice things. Some want the bag some of us want the better life and some have both. We don’t need to be in a box????
Why did they have to ruin this lol, can we just have fun for a minute like all of that was necessary. At the end of the day black women are always consciously aware of our struggles in the mist of luxury DANG
I feel like the one’s making this a political issue have never stayed at the Ritz Carlton, ordered room service, poured themselves a glass of champagne whilst reading up on black politics. Can we not do both? An we not multitask? This is a derivative of struggle love and wearing that strong independent black woman badge like it is honorable. I hung that trope up and I am happier. One would be surprised how much we participate in oppressing ourselves by worrying about “the world”.
I get your point, but I don’t agree that BW need to read about Blk politics while basking in the Ritz Carleton. I’ll be damned if I give a single thought to Blk struggle if I ever get to stay there!
@@kittykatz4001 I didn’t say they needed to. My point was, BW are multifaceted.
@@lemonlemon7186 I understand.
The fact that she couldn't pin point her issue with it is a huge RED FLAG, bw in luxury made her uncomfortable and she needed to FIND a reason why 🙄
The 🐐 has spoken!
I love black women to death, but sometimes we can be very fucking exhausting to be around😫
SOME of us. There’s no need to generalize here.
This is exactly what I always speak on!!!!! I’m sick of black women being identified to any type of struggle!! Luxury is feminine lol we need to stick to things that put us in that feminine energy and the finer things...after all black women went through we are the most deserving of luxury!!!!!!!!
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Entitlement here we go
@@charlespinkett864 lol whatever nobody entitled if they worked for luxury..missed me with the hate 😂
@@planetChristie that's yall favorite word hate anytime somebody don't agree. Lol
@@charlespinkett864 who is y’all? Cause I can say ya’ll bm don’t think bw are deserving of luxury and want us to settle 🙄
AA women, I send my solidarity. I’m African, sometimes I get a gut feeling of how you lot are perceived, meanwhile in Africa there’s a lot of African women that were born knowing that we deserve the finest things in life ( even thought some of us were born in poverty) and mostly important respect and admiration. If Damn someone says otherwise. We don’t fight for men’s rights, we don’t go out on the streets protesting for men, never, let them fight that when they’re back home they will find a warm meal and a fresh shower.’with that being said, you are exceptionally beautiful, intelligent, empathetic, friendly, light spirited and most importantly a HUMAN BEING . ❤️
Damn my man would have a fit if he heard I was out during a protest
@@mionrugheart2340 exactly!! Even my dad, when we were talking about protests happening in our city, he’s the first to say to not even think of participating, because it’s not my place.
@@jaylaav1166 I tell you!
As an African living in America i felt this comment!!
All I gotta say is must be nice lol
The young lady in the video looks like she could benefit from a makeover and a luxury vacation. Sometimes you need to experience it to understand it’s value. Unfortunately some of us are subconsciously programmed to believe we (black women) don’t deserve the good life. Being woke doesn’t always equate to wanting what’s best for black women in all aspects of life.
Can I educate y’all that “Feminist movement” is started by Whyte Women??? 😒 So when when you have these debates about BW having luxury, best believe “higher ups” are intimated by us having access to the finer things. I was raised in that environment, I know how it works🤷🏽♀️
I agree
Can you go in more detail about the higher ups? I never knew this
Agreed and very good point. I’ve witnessed that too. It’s actually one of the foundations of ws to disenfranchise and implement policies for bp to not gain wealth, accumulate any resources and remain poor. The irony is that Black people thriving and doing well is actually the antithesis of that. Especially since women are the reflections of these communities.
I don't honestly think WW care. Why? Because they own the companies from which you purchase your "luxury" from.
@@Flip384 That is true. Which is why I wish Black women would indulge in luxury from everyone, especially Black people. We shouldn’t be putting so much of our money into White people’s pockets.
HOWEVER, those luxury items have a high resale value that is recognized nationally if not internationally. So Black luxury brands would not get that same spotlight. Ahh well, can’t solve every problem. 🤷🏾♀️
I like dressing up, taking pictures and going out with friends. It is fun and worry free💅🏾
Me too, gurl. It’s relaxing.
Sameee ☺️
I've been experiencing something lately. I've been on my feminine journey for a few years now. And I think now it is natural to me. Not forced and it exudes. People on the street open doors for me. And I let them do it with a genuine smile. They offer to lift things for me and so on. Even women offer to do that for me. It is just a strange but good feeling. And I enjoy it. For a long time I did not allow myself to enjoy things, and now I do. Buying nice things for me and enjoying it without guilt. It is just such a good feeling 🥰🥰🥰. I did not know about this movement but I am all for it. black women and luxury
When you are confident people will notice it. Happy for you😊
@@chiamaka_okafor thanks 😊.
Oh yay I’m happy for you!! I hope to get there soon
I’m in that same journey. Thanks god you perception make me feel better knowing it gets better
*stares blankly in black luxury*
Black women please love yourselves and do what creates healthy and good habits of continual happiness.
Because NO one wants us to be HAPPY.😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love the imagery you showed through out this video ...it’s so refreshing to see dark skin woman in this light
She is so right about not having to fight for everything at the same time
AGREED AGREED AGREED! This video is so refreshing! Black women deserve more from life in EVERY way! And that includes the luxury items too. You just got a new subscriber out of us for providing nuance to this topic.
This is why I align myself with the “black women having balance” movement and not the SJW feminist movement. You’re right. It’s dangerous when you are one thing all the time.
Let’s not act like back in the 50’s & 60’s that Black people were not dressed really well regardless of their financial status. Dorothy Dandridge and Dihanne Carol are held to a high beauty and Luxary regard. It’s called balance.
The problem is that BW, esp us of the darker skin tones, aren't supposed to put our own comfort and luxury 1st, we're supposed to be attack dogs for the community.
Honey, show them through your actions that they can kiss you where the sun don't shine. I rep my DS sisters hard, and it's time for you all to stop being the attack dogs. Let their " preference" be the attack dogs. I'm what they come to when they can't get white, Asian or biracial, and yet, I'm sitting my ass down. Even I'm not their preference, I'm just their ESCAPE GOAT. It's long over due for you ladies to bask in comfort and Luxury.
While I agree with what she was saying, it's been years that black women have been male identified, and not embracing or basking in our femininity. We deserve vacations, bags, luxurious items, and other things other feminine groups get to enjoy. Y'all, this is just my opinion, but I'm done worrying about "bigger fish". I'm tired of always fighting and having this unspoken chip on my shoulder as a black woman. I want to be able to unwind and rest in the femininity that I have a right to from birth. I'm sorry... I can't get down with some feminists personally. 🤷🏾♀️
Here’s my opinion on this: I absolutely agree with your points. Luxury is different to every woman. Where as some women may want to be able to go out and get their nails done, buy a birkin bag or have a million dollars in the bank others may want to go home to their well-off husband and kids and have a movie night. All of these are luxuries depending on who you’re talking to. For example, something like my home which is a 600 sq ft studio apartment with a huge bathroom is a luxury for me! I’ve designed it to where it’s really cozy and peaceful. It’s my safe place from this crazy world I live in. I pay up my rent for months at a time so I dont have to stress about bills and I just rest in my femininity until it’s time to grind again. This is how I live in luxury and preserve my femininity until I eventually get married. I intend on getting married to a man who’s going to take care of me (regardless if he’s a millionaire or not but someone who’s finiancially secure, so I can focus on being a mother and a wife). The “black women in luxury” movement is very important! I’m in such a better place mentally and financially because I’ve decided to create a luxurious and leisure life for myself. 🥰❤️
I happy for you Sis💕😘
@@divineshine4482 Thank you boo!! ❤️❤️❤️
Good for you girl👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
I’m only 1 minute in but why can’t you have both luxury + be protected + have access to credible hospitals... why do we always have to choose 1???
All these things can be true at once
“ Stay in Code”, it means, stay quiet sometimes. Enjoy life, level up for yourselves.
Exactly
You know you have LOVE when in less than 1 minute of uploading, you're up 100 LIKES. Love you Chrissie, can't wait to enjoy this after I write this paper!
Can we breathe? Can we? I don't want politics wrapped in everything.
I love the luxury movement, as a participant of it myself, it’s my way of caring about myself when we live in a world that does not love us. When I saw that TikTok, I was just like do they not want us to enjoy ourselves ? I don’t like that.
Or just minding our own 2 cents and enjoying life and being happy. Like, damn.
Don't even bother to not be bothered, there's an issue with that too it seems 😅.
I have pictures of my great- grandmother frolicking on the beach in the 1920's......so yeah, miss me with all of this struggle vs. luxury emotional blackmail. As far as I'm concerned, my great-grand mother set the standard for the women in my family to follow way back in the day when it was arguably harder for Black women to just be. So whether I'm sipping coconut water and rum or glasses of champagne, I am going to enjoy my life, travel, and fight the power as needed.
What she's describing is not luxury. It's basic respect and expectations that should be upheld in all relationships.
I think BW have a hard time focusing on ourselves. Going deep and luxuriating in yourself and the stories about your image.
Part of this is our addiction/expectation of pain.
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Wow addiction/ expectation of pain
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I agree with her what she said but the movement isn't about want to be warriors. Many black women come different spaces,environment and experience's. I do not want to spend my time all the time talking about depressing thing's all the time. There is a time and place for everything.
This right here is why we CAN'T have nice things. Some ppl just insist on reminding u every second where u came from. It's quite annoying. But we can walk and chew gum at the same time, we know it's not all about buying shoes. We know it's not all materialistic but when have we EVER had the luxury of just being materialistic???? Can we just enjoy not having to struggle without finding a whole new fight? Goodness! 😌
So true! Let us enjoy life
Came back to this video after a certain YTer's video on the topic and 5 months after she still can't refute these talking points. Let black women have things!!
I literally just watched that youtubers video and I HAD to come here . My thing is , okay cool what is the solution then , what should black women do then ? All I kept hearing were think pieces without solutions (From that other youtubers video).
@@teekay5108 EXACTLY!! Not one solution. Just dread. I honestly feel like these people make their videos just to flex how booksmart they are. I also called her out for being a hypocrite because she literally IS a black women in luxury (she said she took 5-6 WEEKS off) and she kept calling me a troll and never responded to what I was saying lmaooo. I usually like her videos but ngl these SJWs just be SJW-ing everything for no reason
Yap I got you
Omg Chrissie I saw this and instantly thought of you ! It’s sad that black women cannot be happy and that some black women do not realize that it’s okay for them to be happy and live a bit . I felt that the jealousy was showing clear as day from the woman who created the video and it made me sad. I’m not rich but I indulge in “luxury” ; traveling every chance I get and being posh. It also feels good to say that my darker skinned sisters are leading this luxury “movement “ and look absolutely spectacular doing it. It’s amazing
This is 100% Hateration
Pure and simple.
I got my first pairs of heels today for the summer. I’m excited 😝
Yasss
At this point some black women just need to say that they don’t want black women to be happy or relaxed. This “ all my life I have to fight” mentality is really draining and annoying. Why can’t we enjoy the luxuries our ancestors weren’t able to enjoy. 😒
And that's just what it is. Some bw are our greatest enemies, They're only happy when we're miserable.
Our ancestors fought for us to have these privileges, and now some black women are upset that we are enjoying them? This feels like a slap to their face.
“I don’t know who started black women deserve luxury” says the woman who started black women deserve luxury.
It’s nice you’re so humble
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Black women need to learn to relax. The women saying we don't have time for relaxing and luxury make me wonder - do they ever read a book, do they ever go to a party? Do they ever take a minute to go and hang out with friends where they don't discuss all the problems in the world? If they ever do then they don't have to worry about the black girl luxury movement. Because like it or not, they are already a part of it to some degree. So at some point they just need to chill.
I'm so glad my grandparents spoiled me growing up without politics involved. My grandma took me shopping for makeup, clothes, on nice vacations, money for good grades, to get my hair done, to fine dining restaurants and everytime my grandfather would pay if we were all together. I didn't realize how much that helped me develop my femininity and ability to receive until I got older. It's okay to enjoy the finer things in life and does make you feel good! When I'm enjoying luxurious things I'm not thinking about politics! I'm thinking about enjoying the moment and relaxing...so is everyone else. That young lady on TikTok needs sit down and eat some food from Capital Grille. Don't ruin it for everyone else😑
Kind of hard for a black woman to enjoy "luxury", when she has 4 kids, by "Pookie" and "Ray-Ray", or if she has over $100,000 in high interest student loan debt. How does a black woman enjoy "champaign" on a "beer" income?