Why Walking Away From A Man Works - Esp Over Age 40 + Walk Away From a Man Without Leaving
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The guy who told you to leave, NEVER give him another chance. If he can kick you out after a fight he will do it again. Don't trust him again.
Unfortunately I had no choice, and his words were in the heat of the moment, I was behaving badly, and he later cried and asked me to stay. I think that "trapped animal" part makes us say and do things we do not mean at times. But overall, you make a good point. Thank you.
EXACTLY!!! It becomes a habit and shows you have no self respect if you decide stay. Always have a plan B and NEVER tell the man!
@@AdrienneEverheart I think we only say things we mean, it’s on your mind first and then it’s on your tongue.
Truest 😭 just like my situation now 😞😞 anyways im out of his house and now he saying just this a 2-3months break only and then what?! im no longer young anymore im 35 cant afford to waste time again
I know women who went back and they worked out. Every situation is very different so it’s hard to make blanket statements. No one is perfect and people can learn. Some do. Some don’t. 🙏
Walking away from a relationship show's that you don't accept any form of abuse and shows self respect and love. I highly recommend doing so
Yesssss! Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
“I am not here to convince you of my value.” Pure Gold. ❤
SOLID GOLD!
Amen!
So many women are repeating eachother saying " I know my worth" these days, they are all the same brain. ........yawn
Yes soo good!! ❤
Ladies stop giving so much to men who give so little.
men objectively give more than women.
@@jimmybobby91584 you mean in semen?
yeah soo true
Women get 1000 times more from men then they ever give back to men
Been long distance with my man for a year. I have no interest in moving. I’m a single mom with a great career and life. He is single and works for a huge company that has locations all over. I love him so much. He will be a great husband, I know this. I sat him down and used your line, “I’m looking for a husband. I don’t want a boyfriend I see once a month. I want more kids. If you don’t see yourself moving to Maryland, let’s go our separate ways.” 18 days later hes signed a job offer in Maryland. Feels like a dream. I can’t believe this advice is free! Love you Adrienne been following you for years and it’s changed me to my core! ❤
I’m so happy you made your voice clear. So many women are fearful of letting a man know they want to be a wife. But men really get it, and take action. Or they run away for good and find some other woman’s years to take and use. Happy for you all. ❤️
I love MD, especially TCB. Have a great life! ♥️
I walked away from my man last week. Packed up all of my stuff and took space. Best thing that ever happened in our relationship. He took 4 days in nature, turned inward, is seeking support outside the relationship and is evolving and growing. We are now having hard conversations without anger and frustration, from a place of love and compassion.
I never thought I’d see that man in tears, but he was and is now making actual changes. He thanked me for walking away, helping him wake up, and said it’s been the best thing that’s happened to him and the changes he’s making is for him and for us.
GOOD JOB! 👏 Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
Oh dear we are in the same situation,I wish my man will do the same 😢 now were away from each other for like weeks now. no idea about hes plan i still love him 😢😢😢😢😢
Wait until he realizes the negative way he felt before the split up and the unpleasant way he felt after is ALL 100% DUE TO YOU! 🎂 Have fun with the cats. Women part 30 who are single 😂
He needs to make a stop at the jewelry store. Then he can really start crying. Wives are not free.
Sounds like you’re going to be the the lonely guy in your mother’s basement with the cats. Look who’s here needing advice. Lol.
Walk away love yourself. Don’t let anyone waste your time…it’s hard but worth it.
I walked away seven months ago. Once I stepped away I realized how toxic the relationship had been and I rediscovered my self worth. I didn’t get the satisfaction of him coming back around but Ive leveled up past him. Lost weight and reduced my alcohol consumption. Got my mind and body right. Taking the time to heal all by myself. Im alone, but I am at peace. ✌️
Love this! Keep going!
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The best revenge imo is to look our best and they can't have us!
Sounds like he was ready for you to leave
Good for you! I’m doing the same.
OMG I walked away last night. After nine years of boyfriend/girlfriend I am stuck. THANK YOU FOR THIS MESSAGE! I needed the strength 💖
Good for you! I had to walk away for a man I was with for a long time. I pray the man who is better for you will come soon. I regret ever, ever staying as long as I did. I kept wondering how I could be different to get back to the really good times. Years later, I look back, and I regret ever hanging on. The humiliation I felt over the time wasted and his treatment of me, is still something that makes me feel sad that I didn't value myself more to dump him. I'm glad you left. Move away and go back to college, maybe you'll meet a man that can value you.
Oh boi same here 😢 a week later broke up with him 😢
yes it's always better to walk away if you're not satisfied, even if it's been like that for 9 years, you will thank yourself that you didn't make it 9 years and 1 day..
congratulations ❤
The annoying part is that when I get to the point that I’m over it and actually decide to walk away it’s truly over for me. I’m done with the crap and don’t have interest in going back. It does work though. I’ve gotten a proposal that way but by then I was truly over it.
I walked away a year ago, and he never came back to me... unfortunately, I still love him. I'm 57, and he is 63... I still work on myself and realize he never loved me! We were together 3.5 years.
I’m sure he loved you, yet unable to maintain. You are beautiful and worthy of great love. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
My mother always told me to keep going on other dates if there’s no ring.
Theres often very good reason why a male wont put a ring on a womans finger
😂😂that the exact reason your single😂
@@user-sx5fn8yo5s I’m not single 😂
ND WHAT SHE SAY TO DO AFTER YOU GET THE RING?
I’m in my late 30’s and my ex is almost in his mid-40’s. He broke up with me in 2021 then six months later wanted to get back with me. Stupidly, I took him back hoping that he would change and even went to couple’s therapy. Had weight loss surgery this year FINALLY realized my value and worth, dumped him, moved out of his house and got my own apartment then blocked him for good. I’m at so much peace right now and truly believe that I can get what I deserve from another man.
Amen, congrats to you ❤
😂yet you still single
@@user-sx5fn8yo5s Happily single and at peace.
There is always the block button on your phone ladies. If a guy doesn’t want you get a younger one 🤩😆🌸🦋
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Another RUclipsr says the same thing. "Girlfriend is not a legal status."
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Some guys are led by their egos and never admit to what they lost.. I've walk away and changed my number. The message is I'm never an option I'm the priority. Separation leads to elevation.
Change "guys" to "girls" and you get the bigger picture of what is happening today.
I’ve been with a guy for 3 years now and haven’t met any of his friends or family. I’ve paid for vacations, groceries, dates and buying him expensive items. I’m tired of feeling stuck and taken advantage off. I’m ending my relationship today!
How's it going? I'm going through the same. About to walk away today.
You deserve better! You are giving so much. It is hard but Adriene is right, just walk away, for you ❤
Walk away from that s.
Any updates?
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“ … make sure you want to be HIS wife” 🙌
We can all fall into the chase and not stop to think about that very question
If he's separated, just run. He doesn't know what he's doing but he's dragging it out.
Agreed! Sep. men are good for just casual dating and practice. everheartcoaching.com/femm/
@@AdrienneEverheart 🙂
Separated means married. He's not available to marry you.
@@natashadickson4819 True. But a lot of separated guys can talk a good game. Maybe you just met him or you're just friends but you seem compatible. He talks about how terrible his wife is, and as a mother. He talks about divorcing all the time, he even has a date picked out - its less than a year. He talks about the future (yours). He wants to spend every waking minute with you and tells you how much he enjoys you. He tries everything to involve you in his kids lives until you catch yourself imagining what life would be like together as a family. Now you're screwed. And as the date gets closer to his "divorce" he's getting nervous. And then fear and insecurity set in. The dialog changes and when you have a disagreement, YOURE the one in the wrong. He projects those fears and insecurities onto you and you will never do or be right. It can get so bad that you can't even be friends with him anymore. As Adrienne said about a man being comfortable, if he doesn't have to make a decision he will live in the state he's in and even find a way to be comfortable there. If the wife doesn't want a divorce then he has to do everything himself. Some men can live separated for years. They will do whatever they want anyway and live in their dream world.
@@patriciarose2342 true. It's a trap that you can easily fall into and then it's a difficult way out.
Hi, after just over a year of dating a man, he then tells me I was just a distraction. The rug had been well and truly pulled. I walked away… it’s been three weeks and my heart feels in tatters.. we would spend every weekend together… he had drifted from his purpose…. Focusing back on myself.
Thank you ❤️
Oh honey this is just terrible. Im so sorry! I have a program that gives you protocols to follow so things like this never happen to you again. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
Me too. After dating a guy for 8 months, he suddenly told me we have nothing in common, he was making excuses that I never enjoyed our time together and he needed space. I said ok. We spent every weekend together, I enjoyed his whole family. It’s been 2 months, I went a head and blocked him for my own good. It’s been heartbreaking, but I’m working on myself to know my value.
@@MultiMichaelcarter sending love ❤️ just remember it’s a reflection of them not us 💋
@MultiMichaelcarter it happened to me too. We've been dating for 8 months and he said we are not compatible. I saw it coming but held on to hope. It''s heartbreaking but life gets better anyway😊
Thank you for saying walk away from to know both ways of solution for your own happy life! Being tied for someone is forever! Nothing is forever! We died alone on our own destiny!
I walked away from my Coparent who is also a very connected soul bond after he put me and another girl into a 3rd party situation. He had been lying to me after I gave him a second chance. I told him nope, 3rd party nonsense is a non negotiable and I want a husband and father to our son who has high integrity. I gave up my job, my home for 11 years and move crossed country with our then 8 month old. Best decision of my LIFE!!!!! My life has grown 100x times, I’ve stepped into my Queen energy and our child is well adjusted. Is my ex still there? Yup. Am I being a wife and mom to him without the real commitment? Heck no!!!! Best decision I’ve made for my life and I recommend it for anyone stuck with a man who won’t give you what you desire. Don’t settle. Never settle! ❤🙏
I would never take a man back that I had to convince of marrying me … he needs to know and be convinced on his own. Otherwise I would never be at peace.
That is why you walk away. So he can decide for himself.
You walk away , if he comes after you then he’s your man if he doesn’t then he won’t be your man forever.
You shouldn't have to walk away before he knows he is you man,you chose him the first time,didn't you?
Exactly my sentiment
Adrienne my man and I are both 41. I already decided today is the day I need to walk away. We have been dated for 4 months but its just once per week. Today is our once per week and I will tell him your script. I want more than once per week.
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@@PrincesseKittyKat I know. He has 2 young kids and they are with him many days of the week. I have a 12 year old daughter who is independent. Unless he wants to incorporate me more into his family dynamic there is no point to continue.
@@PrincesseKittyKat my daughter and I live on the other side of the planet from her dad and any of our family. There is literally no one I can give my daughter to on this continent. He shares his kids with his ex. My daughter is old enough I can go out for dinner or whatever. Thats basically how its been going when he doesn't have his kids
@@PrincesseKittyKat the guy I'm dating only lives a few minutes away. My daughters dad lives in The States where we are from. My daughter and I live in Sydney Australia. I am dual Aussie/American because I chose to immigrate to Sydney when I was in my 20s. My daughters dad had to return to the US because he wasn't able to fully immigrate to Australia. I much prefer living in Australia and raising my daughter here. Even if it means doing it alone.
@@PrincesseKittyKat who cares?? My ex an I had a daughter. He can't live in Australia. What else do you need to know.
I walked for the first time ever&blocked him everywhere. Usually he’s the one saying we should break up but never follows through. I left without a word or warning whilst he was at work. Its been almost 3 months & nothing but a sobbing phone call to my mum about how he wasnt 3 years on me .
But I’m okay with it&I have felt so empowered yet miss him sometimes. He didn’t respect me . He threw me out once& I had to go back& even then its like it was about power for him. No change no humility just throwing any word at me that comes to mind in anger. I had enough. I never knew what you meant about a woman knowing when to walk until now. I thought I’d fall to pieces but I have barely cried. He wasnt the man I met..I regret nothing. In fact, I needed to do this for the both of us.
I will be okay. I’m curious&my heart is still his but I need my heart more than he does right now.
I know you say leave the crack in the door but honestly - let him move mountains. My boundaries were so loose cos of my living situation. I needed him&he exploited that. Let’s see if he would die&kill for me as he says he would when the scales are balanced. I’m not his toy anymore.
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That's so sad that people are having to jump through all of these hoops just to get a commitment these days, it doesn't sound natural at all. I honestly don't know what to make of this. If i wasn't good enough for you the first time round i don't think it would ever be the same even if i did lock you down.
Coming from a man here. Reason it’s hard to lock us down is because marriage in today society for a “man” is like having a hun to your head. Especially if kids are involved. If things were great like in the old days everyone would have their husbands and wife by the time their 20 and kids out of the house by the time they are 40. Men are stepping out. Just ain’t worth it.
This is what I said. Men aren’t worth marrying at this point. They’re not the same as when I married my deceased husband 20 years ago. You should not have to leave a man to make him wise up to you. I didn’t back then. And he was 11years older than me
In Florida, if you don't pay rent you can be removed from the home in less than 30 days. The homeowner doesnt have to give you notice. If a man wants you to live rent-free with him, that sounds like a good deal until things go wrong and he wants you to leave. instead I recommend offering to pay a small amount of rent and pay by check. You have more roghts this way and he wont be able to get rid of you quickly if something goes awry.
Thank you for sharing - get a rental agreement if you MUST live with a man before marriage. Follow the law when possible because the man is counting on you NOT caring enough about yourself to do so.
Sprinkle sprinkle
I recently walked away from my boyfriend of almost 7 years. He said we're not getting married. I backed away from the relationship and started talking to other men. He still calls me and even called me drunk a few weeks ago and wanted to work things out. But he's back on the same thing so I'm keeping him at bay. I don't have time for this.
Tell him what you want and if he won't give it to you, I would be done with him.
Than mean it. You have to let go and no contract. Make new vibes and energy for someone better. You're only hurting yourself longer.
You should block him. You are his security blanket.
I walked away from a few man. Yes they have come back and treating me the same. So i have enough. Don't walk away just to have him back and have him come back to half ass. Some people doesn't change. Stop making excuses for him. He knows he's hurting you. Let go and make room for someone better. Repeat until you receive someone who is the same energy and level with you. Wasted time is worst than Wasted money. Love yourself and have peace. Best of luck. It will past but you need to let it pass and one day you will be happier and that you made the best choice for you. If he comes back and really work harder for you. Okay until than. Walk away. Know your worth and power.
I’m 65 and have so much love to give 🤞🏼Bless you Adrienne 🌻
Crying! I can’t express my gratitude for finding you and the valuable content you put out. Single single for 2 years working on myself and met someone who seemingly was amazing-gave him a chance. Fast forward, I’ve been on a 9 month roller coaster of a relationship with things I’ve never had to deal with. I’m 40 and some of the things I’ve been through are all new. We are in no contact and I was scouring RUclips and the internet for help. I can’t get through your content fast enough. Thank you for all you do!
This is the realest post I’ve seen. Thank God!! I’m stuck in this right now and I’m so glad you were real
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I was in a situation where the guy lives at a distance and I was led to believe we were going to see if long distance could work. He quickly became distant and not making effort or communicating when he couldn’t keep calls. I stepped back and he called when he wanted to meet when he worked in my area but it was already clear that he only made the effort when he was doing something here anyway. He talked of having females in every city and that’s now clear. I didn’t go to meet him and told him it’s done. He hasn’t even replied. Lucky escape 😅
Just know that in Florida they don't have Common law for non wed couples. I didn't do this diligence and 13 years later i HAD TO WALK WAY... it feels like was banned from my town living friends and jobs, daughter, and half heart. Never again!!! Lesson learned. Adrienne you do an awesome job and thanks for your Chanel.
So happy to help. Ladies everywhere, know your state laws!
So good to know as I too live in Florida
No states have common law marriage anymore
Adrienne honestly I love your videos so much. I've been listening to them for years and I learn something new every time
You are welcome!
Thank you for this realistic advice!! There's alot of foo foo "advice" out there! 💞
Excellent advice as always, Adrienne! ❤
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I thought I was feminine enough until I came across your channel and the work you put out there. Thank you for all your content and the guidance .
I literally wondered where’d been just the other day. I’m so happy to see you. 😊
My ex taught me everything too. He made me a perfectionist by the time I divorced him.
Hugs to you honey.
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you!! 🤗
No friendship! No communication! They leave, accept the breakup and move on. They come back and they’re not desperate don’t give in! Keep moving!
Honestly, I wouldn't have asked him, "where do you see this going?" I would've said what I want & say, if you're not looking for the same thing, then bye!
the reality of walking away is that people aren't always being honest about the man not coming back. you leave and he doesn't chase after you...or if he does come back that doesn't always guarantee a change in him. then you are left more heartbroken than before. So I would say don't leave thinking he will be back, leave for your mental health...leave for peace. don't take him back so easily...allow him to earn his way back in your life.
I appreciate your comment but it’s not a reflection of my video. Walking away is about what works for YOU - it also has a tendency to wake and shake the man up. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
You are so sweet and sincere 💕. Thanks for the expert advice
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Thks for doing a live YT. Love to hear you speak. Thank you!!!!
You are so welcome
Thank you Adrienne
You are a God send ❤
Sorry, you just lost me. A mans job is to PROVIDE (that means money) & PEOTECT! PERIOD. Women, stop going 50/50! Or being Barbara the builder. He will take your $, buy a sports car & leave you for someone younger!
What did she say to the contrary?
You’re so wonderful! I love your energy 🌸❤️
I’m 3 mins into the video and yes… she is absolutely right. The love of my life, I’ve messaged on these videos in the past about him- we reconnected Jan after 3 years post breakup. Long story short, this past Friday, I messaged him to let him know I was going out and ask if he wanted to meet me… I heard zero back from him. I get to said place and guess what… my ex (that I’ve been talking to here and there since Jan) was there!! He was out with the guys. Another man approached me and danced with me. I think it made my ex realize he could lose me. He sent me multiple texts that night saying he thought I was just all his. Saturday morning I show up at his house, unannounced lol… and now we are officially a couple again 🥰
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@bailey1493 That is actually THE DEFINITION of DESPERATE & not knowing your value!🤦♀️ Come back & let us know how long it lasts after he basically ignored you & ONLY after seeing you dance with another man he proclaims you’re only for him & to make matters worse you show up at his house the next day UNANNOUNCED! So you literally don’t see how you are TEACHING this man how to treat you! Also how did you happen to end up at the same place where he was hanging out with his guys??? STOP CHASING men, let them chase you!!!!
It won't last.. he was your ex for a reason. 3 years is a long time to forget someone and move on. Never ever show up at a mans house..
If you have to put a demand or a gun to a man’s head to get married let him be that old lonely bachelor… and don’t take him back once he leaves to date others….so many other options out there…thank you for your advice!!!
You sure about that?
Thank you❤ I just subscribed 😊
This was a great video .. thanks
I love this 💕
used your deck today...and it answered my question right on time!
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Bravo 👏 👏 👏 you gave words to my emotions. Thanks
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Sadly I think the red pill guys might be right after seeing this video. When women go towards the legal system immediately it doesn’t really sit well when the vast majority of marriages fail. Honest question here. Why would you want to set yourself up for a future like that? Now I’m not going to discredit everything you said. There are many valid points. Just feel like you’re attached to an outcome. Playing the walking away game should be done one way and one way only. That means you walk away and never reach out to the person you need to heal and so do they at that point.
This came to me when i just set boundaries
This is so Great your advice ❤ thank you A .
You are so welcome
this is soooooo great! im not on my 40s yet but on my early 30s but this is such a great advise!!! Words of wisdom at its finest. Thank you for awakening my sleeping girl power because of a coward man.
You’re so welcome! I suggest Femm Tools for Dating too bit.ly/femmtools
😢I’m learning my self love❤
Good video
If you stay and accept poor treatment due to the bonds formed thats where your story ends, sleepless nights constant anxiety wondering if this will ever go anywhere.
So true, you must love yourself more than the man.
Thank you for responding your videos over the years have helped so much
By the time I feel it’s time to leave, I’m not coming back.
Thanks alot dear ❤it opened up my mind literally 😢, im struggling ryt now broke up with him i left his house 😢
I learned this at 29 and I am glad I learned this it at young age.
Beautiful Adrienne, are you the Adrienne from Greensboro that I met over 10 years ago? You just popped up on my youtube and looked so familiar! AMAZING, hope you have been blessed and well. Sending infinite gratitude, and can't wait to listen to your youtube insipiration!
I live in Greensboro rn! However I had to walk away for good! Everyday I feel more empowered but sad I wasted so much time on the wrong guy!
17:50 is a Golden advise ❤
This isn't ending well for a lot of woman, but each to thier own. Girl power and all that
Whom put all that nonsense in girls heads in the first place. The media it's all marketing and really social engineering. The ruling class don't want strong families. So you target the girls and women and here we are over a 150 years later. Utopia 🤡
I walked away over a year ago....for
the SECOND TIME--in 6 months!!! After the first time--he came back and promised me the relationship I wanted--and then he flipped the script a week later and said
he wasn't ready.
I walked again--and I hear he's still looking for my energy in others.
I am not waiting for him.
I'm living my beautiful life!!
Balls in his court--I'm not looking for friendship w him.
The same with me, first I broke, then let him back, then he broke up with me "cannot commit", offered friendship, J want no friendship.
I’m so glad you both posted. If you walk away and HE TRIES to rebuild - get the ABCs program. I walk you through the process of tying his heart up for good. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
I walked away and he found another younger woman and married her 2 years later
Thank you that was a word
You are awesome. I do something similar about narcissists and abuse on my channel mostly in German ❤
No these men won't wake up. They let you go and they will find themselves another woman and marry the new one. These kinds of men want revenge only.
Wow god put this video for a reason ❤❤❤
Hugs to you. ❤️
I left 1yr ago & he continues to use the silent treatment since. He sent pics of his topless new thing while writing how he hates me. This guy refuses to wake up. I’m gone.
I walked away and he found a girl that looks so similar to me but she's 10 years younger. 😅 I feel bad for her because he will probably also waste her years. I will find someone who is ready to commit.
I’m so sorry that happened yet you want a man that will commit not waste your life. Love to you. I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto
Do you have any advice for us who are willing to walk away maybe too easily? When I get deeply triggered that's the coping mechanism I default to.
Yes, that's your Inner Saboteur! I have some videos about that and in my VIP Library, I have a Wounded Child doc that would hep. I suggest you get FEMM for Dating and learn about connecting your Feminine Energy with a man... diamondgirl.me/femm
@@AdrienneEverheart I have all of your programs ❤️
I am that person who normally walks away really easily. What I do now is focus on my triggers when they come up, deep breathe, cry, whatever I need to do. I’ve decided I will only walk away again when it is a conscious decision made from a calm place, which de facto is not when I’m in a triggered state. So I remove myself from the situation if I’m that triggered and decide what I need to do moving forward.
It doesn't matter how OLD you are. You are a strong & independent woman.
You can wh0re around just like you are 20. You are on Fire until you die!
You need to stop watching that red pill crap. Its turning your brains to mush. Whom made them whores in the first place? Yea no self awareness just the blame the game. Divide and Conquer 101.
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Maybe it works for a simp, but a man will not take you back.
Adrienne what If the man I was with I share a Thursday group with? It is a dance group and we both have obligations. I walked away 2 weeks ago and let the teacher know that I would be missing 2 weeks. Should I stay away longer? I don’t feel strong yet. And how do I respond to his messages? He texted me saying again today since a week and a half ago.. just sending a photo of flowers.
I walked away because he was behaving badly consistently when he gets upset. Like can get disrespectful. So I walked away I just knew I had to.
In the part where you said, leave the door cracked... well he's blocked me and has told me to move on when he broke up with me. ...This was a guy like I said I tried my best to please and be a good partner with, gave him a lot of hjs and we never slept with one another because he still lived with his parents and so did I, but still... there, I thought, was a lot of good/fun times... so I really don't get it..
Pls share the mediation you addressed in the video
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He told me to find someone to marry and have kids and then when I said I can’t continue he started to get upset. I told him I need space. This is first time we had no contact for a few days. He is content and scared at the same time but it’s not progressing.
I'm am 40 years old and only have had 4 or 5 long term relationships in my life. So I have learned absolutely nothing about men and the current guy is teaching me alot but idt he likes it. I think he feels I'm not worth it but he won't come out and tell me. 😢
If a man (7 months of dating, LDR, we were coming to each other and I planned to move to his country for the job) breaks up with you because I asked for honest talk after last 6 weeks of flaking and taking space, he cannot commit because of family obligations, and I ACCCEPT his breaking up with me and NOT asking him to stay, is it still counting as "walking away" or just being dumped? Honestly. I went no contact. I broke up once after first 4 months due to imbalances.
If this was long distance do not trust any of it. Women lose every time!!! I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
I think it all works better on men over 40 because young men nowadays have completely lost touch with their masculinity, due to the decline in male role models in their lives (absentee fathers). Thoughts?
This is a story as old as time itself. Men abandoning or not doing what it takes to create a healthy happy family. I don’t believe this leads to men who aren’t in their masculine so much as it does insecurity and a lack of faith in relationships. Stay TRUE to your values and you will attract a like minded man. I suggest Femm Tools for Dating bit.ly/femmtools
I walkway from him because he is liar and he is 43 years old he is a cheater too so I leave him. 😅
Why be married to a man who doesnt want yo really be yhat connected to you?...
No matter how much you love him..if hes not taking the initive ...walk.
A certificate only binds you on a materual level,not a heart level.
Facts 💯
This is what women can’t seem to understand now. They’re blinded by a man made marriage that will make a man stale if there’s no emotion there or passion for you.
Thank you so much for this video .. 9 year relationship no ring no talk of marriage he doesn’t want to live with me says he’s happy in his own place . I feel more and more upset an rejected and just don’t know what to do ?
You have nothing more to do but walk away. Get the ABCs program to help you... diamondgirl.me/abc
Leave my friend!!!!
Walk away as in they come back or you just feel better?
I know my worth. I am beautiful, smart, youthful looking still, educated, still wants to be a mother (hopefully! Because I never got the chance to HAVE any because I didn't want to have it/them with Mr.Wrong! And I also oculdn't afford it at the time, but then I realized that you can always make money, you can't always have a baby). My aunt, she was 49, in her second marriage in 2012, when she gave birth to TWIN boy and girl so cute... I hope this will be a happy ending for me and my life. My asshole ex left me almost 5 months ago. He was so egotistical, uncaring and judgemental.
I like this video, this helped.
Love o my life - 5 1/2 yrs
Broke up with me over the living together conversation. I walked away. It’s been 3 months - im a mess still
Sending you love! I have another option for you. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
Do NOT take dating advice from other women.
Do NOT take dating advice from men!
@@sonofhibbs4425 no? Good Luck!
Is it because I am of a different race??! My ex was a white Irish man (my last ex that is). *HE* was the one to leave me and he hasn't been back since. I was NEVER abusive to him and I made sure to try my best because that is what he also promised to do. He was such a liar.
I left my ex husband years ago and he tried to come back 7 years later...so yeah, this stuff works! I didn't want him back.😂
Thank you SO much for sharing! The GET HIM BACK WORKS but most often we do not want the man back: everheartcoaching.com/get-him-back/
Thanks for the video. My wife watched this recently. She wants a divorce after 24 years of marriage. I adore and love her, always have and always will. She wants to be independent and start a new life. She left me, our son and our grandson and moved out of state. There is much pain and anger from her decision. You should take care to try and see both sides before encouraging the woman to “walk away” regardless of age. Women are nuts.
I'm sorry for your trouble. Because she is a woman, it is likely that her leaving has been several years in the making. By saying that women are nuts and placing blame on the video or a blog post or anything else, you seem to be looking outwardly for reasons why she left. Again, I'm sorry.
Honestly, this video is not intended for those in a committed relationship.
Apparently she has been asking for things from you that you ignored… even though you’re married… you still don’t stop talking showing appreciation affection and date nights… otherwise you lost her…
“Women are nuts”. With that kind of disrespectful attitude maybe that’s why she left but yes blame it on a RUclips video.
Yes you are right in comment.
I have a question: Why is marriage considered "The ultimate goal" in relationships? Also, I'm thinking that if he doesn't want to get married and you do... that means you're basically not on the sane page. In that case, you should walk away for yourself. Yes! Edit: "same" page not "sane" Lol
Marriage is for me about legal reasons as well as romantic. Public announcement is important for masculine men. And yes, as my story goes if you wish for Marriage and he’s not into it, you may need to walk away. Read my blog on Why Walking Away Works (Space & Commitment at ANY Age) diamondgirl.me/walk
Why NOT marriage? So you can walk away?
@@lmart16 I've been married and divorced twice. I'm not doing that again!
Marriage is not peaches and cream at this point. I’ve seen too much foolishness. It’s not like it was when I just met my partner 20 years ago. Men aren’t the same and not worth marrying now. Women…be careful what you ask for. I’m seeing men change drastically after marriage now.