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Survive a breakup with Feminine Energy & Get Him Back (if desired) | Adrienne Everheart

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  • Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
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Комментарии • 691

  • @kevinsgurl0425
    @kevinsgurl0425 4 года назад +260

    My Grandma used to say a re-lite cigarette never taste the same.... meaning once someone leaves you let them go.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +32

      A woman always know when to walk away. If you feel like things are unfinished, then there is still something there. My ABC program has been proven to help get your man back & tie up his heart for good! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

    • @bettyb5715
      @bettyb5715 4 года назад +3

      So right let them go...

    • @thomasgallegos2832
      @thomasgallegos2832 3 года назад +8

      It can but it will take time and a lot of patience. It just can't happen suddenly like nothing happened. That will make it fail again.

    • @jennifermartin4629
      @jennifermartin4629 3 года назад +14

      Omg grandmas have the best sayings that’s a great one!!!

    • @crystalgathing
      @crystalgathing 2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂 I love it!!!

  • @JustineMfulama
    @JustineMfulama 4 года назад +304

    YES YOU ARE SO RIGH. Too many of us make excuses for why a man 'just can't commit right now' and does not really mean it. I say it all the time, men make time for the things that are important to them. So if you are important to him he will make time for you, it's very simple. THANKS FOR SHARING!

    • @justinesimone5343
      @justinesimone5343 4 года назад +3

      Justine Mfulama Exactly!

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 4 года назад +1

      That's fact simple..

    • @siyanbademichael9926
      @siyanbademichael9926 2 года назад

      whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.......

    • @siyanbademichael9926
      @siyanbademichael9926 2 года назад

      ±2349154661264⏯⏯❣❣...

    • @globaloneinc.2838
      @globaloneinc.2838 2 года назад

      Women also do the same. Time is important to women as well as men.

  • @tarapursel8075
    @tarapursel8075 4 года назад +197

    I absolutely will not focus on the beautiful feelings we experienced during the love bombing phase. We are not fixers. We are beautiful, graceful creatures and we have better things to do than waste time trying to get him back to the way he was yesterday. Let him stay gone, and don't even try to find a replacement. Make yourself the replacement. Take yourself to dinner. Make love to yourself. Focus. On. You. He will get it, and by the time he does...you won't even want him back. You're better for yourself than he ever was for you...even during the love bombing phase. Make sure you let go of the anger and love every second of your life. That anger you harbor serves nobody. Let it go and trust the universe.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +4

      This all sounds great! Whatever you focus on you'll get more of in return with a new man that is in alignment with you. Good luck with dropping the bad, for many this is easier said... bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

    • @candorablecando8093
      @candorablecando8093 4 года назад +1

      Yes x 1,000!! I’m learning these lessons the hard way but letting go of expectations, HIM and past regrets. Truly enjoying working on myself and focusing that love back on me. It’s a wonderful healing process and fun!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!

    • @dollynumb1038
      @dollynumb1038 4 года назад

      Thank you!❤️

    • @letsgetintoit9377
      @letsgetintoit9377 4 года назад +1

      Never knew how much I needed to hear this at this moment. Thank you for allowing yourself to being a messenger

    • @kelleybright3113
      @kelleybright3113 4 года назад +3

      No shit I'm off babysitting ppl over 18

  • @carieyounginsurance
    @carieyounginsurance 4 года назад +66

    Talking never fixed anything- trust me...it’s futile...enjoy your life! Do you and you’ll never be alone again

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +8

      It’s so important to give a man the space he needs, but you also need to know how to speak your boundaries in a feminine way. My ebook “500 Ways” will help you in almost any situation bit.ly/500waysbook

    • @luckyduckydaisyflower2344
      @luckyduckydaisyflower2344 3 года назад

      Love this

  • @d0llfacevirgo
    @d0llfacevirgo 4 года назад +315

    I adore you! I dont want any of my exes back but I just want to encourage the ladies in your comments and let you guys know ADRIENNES TIPS 100% WORK! I take all of the amazing info you give us then put my own spin on it and do what feels good for me. For me, I do not mind being in my masculine before meeting (I do message men first on dating sites) but once I meet them, Adrienne is in the back of my mind reminding me to stay in my body! To let him lead, to be playful and soft and warm. My date tonight opened every door, paid for everything and mentioned about 10 other places that he wanted to bring me to on future dates. I had to end the date because I was sleepy but he wanted to go to places all night! Im definitely going to do the “slow burn” 😏 These feminine techniques work on Black men/women too in case anyone was wondering. THANK YOU ADRIENNE!

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +16

      I’m
      So happy you commented! 💋🥰

    • @kylieking8163
      @kylieking8163 4 года назад +4

      Thank you so much for sharing

    • @lollykiss2000
      @lollykiss2000 4 года назад +6

      d0llfacevirgo you are so beautiful 😍

    • @d0llfacevirgo
      @d0llfacevirgo 4 года назад +2

      Michelle Michelle thank you so much Michelle!

    • @d0llfacevirgo
      @d0llfacevirgo 4 года назад +8

      Sky Dream thank you so much for your warning and Im so sorry you had to experience that. I am an empath and I can easily feel out narcs now, finally, after years of dating and growth in my self awareness. Im actually dating and falling in love with a different man now who I got using Adrienne’s techniques. I tell EVERYONE about her ❤️

  • @Mrsquepza
    @Mrsquepza 3 года назад +54

    I bought your program, I felt my heart broken... it works. My “he” came back, so crazy... he’s so different, don’t know if because I have a softer energy or a more fulfilled life; but he came back a lot nicer. not sure if I want him back as partner, but I (for sure) don’t feel my old triggers coming out. I’m actually proud of myself! I will let it unfold, I somehow trust however it ends, it would be the best for both of us.
    Thank you 🙏

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад +4

      I’m so happy the ABCs to Get Him Back got you two reconnected! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

  • @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN
    @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN 4 года назад +56

    12:27 1.he needs to provide something 2.he needs to maintain 3.You can't compete with him
    33:06 short feeling statements
    33:51 you have to believe that you're are going to get better

  • @sexyladyakb
    @sexyladyakb 4 года назад +134

    I chopped my hair off got my eyebrows microbladed and have been obsessed with bringing my beauty back to my face

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +33

      Your beauty is within! :-)

    • @liabw05
      @liabw05 4 года назад +7

      Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy I agree! And when you feel beautiful you will eminate beauty joy and warmth! 💜

    • @des4127
      @des4127 4 года назад +3

      Doing the same!!!👍

    • @alphasierra9059
      @alphasierra9059 4 года назад +12

      Don't equate physical beauty with your value. You don't owe the world pretty. Care for yourself- yes, but don't forgt who is behind your face.💖 enjoy your self care in its entirety.

    • @leesteal4458
      @leesteal4458 3 года назад +3

      @@AdrienneEverheart It's within but you can get confidence from the energy without.

  • @rosephillips6547
    @rosephillips6547 4 года назад +70

    I love your soft spoken voice and the feminine energy that transmit is serene.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +1

      Wow, thank you! If you can attend the FEMM 3 day class starting this Saturday: www.EverheartCoaching.com xoxox!

    • @marystacey2216
      @marystacey2216 4 года назад

      He,s ghosted me xx

    • @nebitnoprezime9871
      @nebitnoprezime9871 3 года назад

      I love You Adrienne ❤️🙏🏻🌸😘🌹🌷💐

  • @naileaolivas2788
    @naileaolivas2788 4 года назад +214

    Lmaooo ghosts belong in the cemetery let him disappear into the aethers

    • @carolyn9237
      @carolyn9237 4 года назад +6

      Such a good line I'm taking that to my grave

    • @samarztk
      @samarztk 4 года назад

      John E what does that mean? You kicked him out?

    • @sjulita
      @sjulita 4 года назад +1

      @@jon_s I did things to not let him go. He don't speak to me anymore. Let ppl go, respect yourseld

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 4 года назад +1

      @@jon_s I understand what your saying and as great as the advice is by Adrienne if it's not meant to be it's NOT meant to be. You cannot force that and no amount of feminine energy will keep him. If someone leaves let them walk! They are not meant to be in your life. This will only work Long term if they are the right person, if not they will leave eventually anyway. Men that have walked/ ghosted/dissapeared from me were not worth my time and it was a blessing in disguise!! The trash took itself out 👌🏾

    • @CatFalco
      @CatFalco 3 года назад

      i laughed irl at this comment.
      we do not stan any phantoms

  • @beautyisashley5606
    @beautyisashley5606 4 года назад +73

    Met a guy I really love but I was definitely in my masculine energy. Our connection was amazing but I see now what kind of energy I was meeting him with. He ended up leaving and walking away, I truly do miss him and I’m going to try whatever I need to not only to get back to myself but to get him back...or even the guy I deserve.

    • @des4127
      @des4127 4 года назад +3

      YOU GO GIRL!SAME!!!👍

    • @colleenreid5029
      @colleenreid5029 4 года назад +4

      I made this mistake too, I was giving out the wrong energy, He left me too saying I was hot and cold with him, I wasn't focused on the relationship that I should of been, I really hope he reaches out to me again and haven't scared him away for good, Any update have use connected again?

    • @beautyisashley5606
      @beautyisashley5606 4 года назад +11

      livelife lovelife We haven’t connected the way I would like yet. He has began to call me beautiful again and respond to my messages after months of no reply. I have stopped reaching out though because I need to create distance, lean back and allow him to make the move if he desires. I’m reminding myself more and more that I need to let a man be a man and do what they do naturally, which is pursue. In today society’s I’ve noticed that a lot of men themselves are not stepping into their own masculinity. I have also started quantum dating which is soooo weird but it is helping me get out there more and practice, but that is where I noticed men not being in their masculinity. It’s baffling to me but I’m not giving up. You shouldn’t either.

    • @colleenreid5029
      @colleenreid5029 4 года назад +7

      @@beautyisashley5606 Men are so use to not being men these days they expect a woman to run after them, Defenitly not your right let him try and connect with you the way he is supposed to as a man if he can't do that then it's his lose, I'm stepping back too if he can walk away over silly things then he's not the man for me, we could of worked things out but he chose to walk away, I'm going to try and be as happy and as feminine for myself and see if he will notice if he doesn't the that's fine too, Us girls need to learn not to except breadcrumbs 💖

    • @beautyisashley5606
      @beautyisashley5606 4 года назад +3

      livelife lovelife exactly!! I love this, I’m all for it. Keep standing in your power beautiful. Things will come together.

  • @MichL_71
    @MichL_71 4 года назад +60

    "You cussed at me just the right way" 😄

    • @tarapursel8075
      @tarapursel8075 4 года назад +9

      Never happen. It's funny, the way we just do things spontaneously out of anger, without actually stopping to think, "in what world would this ever be effective? How will this help someone see things the way I'm trying to convey them?" No, no. Let's not question ourselves logically. Let's just yell at him.

    • @mariamkarouni3980
      @mariamkarouni3980 4 года назад +3

      That was so funny to hear. I love Adrienne her teachings are beautiful to learn and very accurate even when sometimes funny. ♥ I think shes so awesome I Love learning from her .

  • @vivienmoonalchemist
    @vivienmoonalchemist 4 года назад +31

    One of my favorite things about this video is that you really embody the energy you speak about and it just feels really natural flowy. I could feel myself dropping into this feminine space and I was like... Wow I felt that shift! Bless you.

  • @remex1479
    @remex1479 4 года назад +21

    you opened my eyes to not wanting my ex back, he lied to me, stabbed me in the back and spoke about my personal issues to girls i didn’t know, he was always hot and cold and just was very immature. this is not my ideal relationship, ty so much 💓 he ignored me and hasn’t even apologised or even owned up to his mistakes

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +4

      Sometimes after we do the work we realize that we don’t want our ex back and we deserve more! I’m so happy to hear about the positive changes you have made! 💕

    • @Muchesia-Sylvia
      @Muchesia-Sylvia 3 года назад +1

      Am in this same boat. I dont want him back.
      He hurt me real bad and he couldn't even say he was sorry.

    • @user-iw8vg6rd4y
      @user-iw8vg6rd4y 3 года назад

      Oh my we may have been dealing with the same guy

  • @sunclover
    @sunclover 4 года назад +102

    I changed my guys name to "Do not drunk text" 😂😂😂

  • @aizamarasigan490
    @aizamarasigan490 4 года назад +29

    It has been six months and I completely decided to deactivate all my social media accounts. We havent talk ever since and I got really depressed that I almost lost my job, my life. It was a hard process for me everyday but I know It was for the better. I am suffering everyday and kept on praying to get through. I am blessed with such supportive family and workmates that I was able to get better. I kept watching this kind of videos to learn. Thank you for sharing this video.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +4

      I’m sure it feels terrible to be in limbo. I can speak from my own time being in that terrible place of loneliness and isolation. Hugs to you. 👉🏼My best advice to you is to love yourself more than the man. Love yourself more than any man. I encourage you look into my femm tools for dating and slowly learn how to start dating again and keep putting 1 foot boldly in front of the other. You can do it. I did it, my clients do it and you can too.🥰 bit.ly/femmtools

    • @malaiaudu1746
      @malaiaudu1746 2 года назад

      You will be okay

    • @TheRalphie2020
      @TheRalphie2020 Год назад

      ❤❤❤

  • @xoxia7758
    @xoxia7758 2 года назад +3

    I’ve been curtsying in front of men at my social dances, like my grandmother taught me-haha, as a welcome to dance and a thank you. Just very subtle. And it took them a while to catch on but they always smile. One man has started gently bowing back every time. It’s so sweet.

  • @lisasollenberger3822
    @lisasollenberger3822 4 года назад +38

    I feel like I have a new girlfriend! You’re a great person and an amazing source for all things feminine energy. Thank you so much❤️✨

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      You are so welcome and great to have you here. Keep on learning! everheartcoaching.com/ebook/

  • @Denisemartinez7564
    @Denisemartinez7564 3 года назад +5

    Learning so much about myself! I've written the self-affirmation "I am a goddess on a pedestal" in my room to remind myself!

  • @me-meluv6921
    @me-meluv6921 4 года назад +50

    Adrienne you are soooooooo true and real as hell when you speak. As I was watching you on U tube. My ex texted me after almost a month. I'm elated ! I'm literally over the moon.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +6

      I’m so excited for you! Feminine Energy is VERY powerful. This program will help more: bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

    • @mokakuma7329
      @mokakuma7329 5 месяцев назад

      what was the reason he dumped you tho

  • @HiLifeItsMe
    @HiLifeItsMe 4 года назад +17

    Adrienne, you’re amazing. You make me feel like my true self. Loving, peaceful, and calm. I’m now able to balance my energy and understanding it’s okay to be in my feminine energy and be in my body and at one with my feelings. You’re the BEST.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      You are so kind! I appreciate your feedback and wishing you the best.

  • @britishyogadubai
    @britishyogadubai 4 года назад +3

    I moved country, met an amazing man without even realising (my greatest support) my brother died unexpectedly & now my man ‘cannot commit’ has a lot going on & is going back to live in the UK. Trying to keep it together, RUclips is really helping. Thank you.

  • @Maoceia
    @Maoceia 3 года назад +6

    Waiting them out is difficult! I'm adding stuff to my life and working on myself. The struggle is real!

  • @AdrienneEverheart
    @AdrienneEverheart  2 года назад +2

    Be sure to join my online Coaching Community: diamondgirl.me/group
    5:00 My riffing tool
    5:50 Masculine - Go make it happen!
    6:00 Changing who you are???
    6:20 #2 what we do in a breakup - communicate (marriage or dating)
    7:50 Why it will all work out perfectly!!!

  • @kathyshann2136
    @kathyshann2136 4 года назад +9

    this gives me a sigh of relief, no having to juggle the balls right! Im enough, I have enough, and life is easier without that stress...if its hard and its work and its worry its not right. I was camped in "boy energy" for years it seems ha! ...thanks ...keep talking! Ive been listening for awhile and big diff for my joy

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy to help! FEMM Tools is a great place to start working on your feminine energy. bit.ly/femmtools

  • @merladyneptune3908
    @merladyneptune3908 3 года назад +3

    Adrienne feels like the big sister we all need to have

  • @virtualcouncillor5168
    @virtualcouncillor5168 4 года назад +6

    Best advice ever. Think you saved me from having the talk there. I backed out of it and he's still coming to my birthday so I will pretend nothing happened.

  • @atomicplaygirl66
    @atomicplaygirl66 4 года назад +7

    8:42 best ghost advice ever!!

  • @candorablecando8093
    @candorablecando8093 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for giving me permission to forgive myself for screw-ups with my man in the past that pushed him away. I’ve been beating myself up for some stupid things I said and did before I started my work in feminine energy. He’s now dating someone else and seems over the moon about her. I’ve been focused on myself and continuing my inner work to open up my heart and stay present in the moment. I’ve also been saying “hello” to men more often and enjoying their attention even if it’s just a fleeting moment. I still love him but am open to all possibilities for love. Especially loving myself first. Thank you for amazing work, Adrienne, and sharing it with grateful women everywhere!! ❤️

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      I am so happy to hear that you are starting the process to heal yourself, and that you are learning to start accepting arrows from other men! This will help you out! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

    • @jesulitacaliliw6193
      @jesulitacaliliw6193 4 года назад +1

      I can relate on you,,,, coz I did wrong to my man also that makes our relationship screwed up,, and I feel so guilty of it and I ask forgiveness to him but he doesn't want to talk to me anymore,,,,, and I punished myself,, regretting the mistake I did but I got no chance from him,,, I'm hurting myself by keeping him in my mind,,,,

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      Do you feel you rushed the reply? Men can take time. Yet if he does not reply at least you tried. Hugs to you. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      As long as you’re down in the dumps you will not be attractive to any man. Own what you did and make amends. Grow through the pain. 🥰

  • @KathrynBrock1
    @KathrynBrock1 4 года назад +19

    How do you practice the feminine energy with random men without giving the making the wrong men start to pursue you or obsess about you? I often feel like I can't even smile at men because they think I'm flirting or I'm into them. I want to practice but I'm terrified of being persistently hit on or pursued by men I have no interest in.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +6

      One of feminine energy's most powerful products is strength. You become stronger and more confident. And you will absolutely be able to flash your feminine energy charm while being in total control of your decisions, including what arrows you accept from men, and which ones you simply pass by. XOXO Much more on this here: www.everheartcoaching.com/femmtools

  • @missyb1020
    @missyb1020 4 года назад +8

    Great advice! It's been over 2 years after a 5 year relationship and I think I'm really going to be able to finally get over him by getting into my feminine energy. I don't think I've ever been LOL thank you so much!!!

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +4

      You deserve REAL love. Repeat after me! Inner boy hunts him down, inner girl accepts his no and surrounds herself with quality men. Wishing you the best. 🥰🌹

  • @LeafsIn2024
    @LeafsIn2024 4 года назад +20

    Second time listening. No distractions. Powerfully thought provoking. Thank you, Adrienne. God bless.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +1

      Oh honey I’m so happy to help you. You can always go deeper with the ABC’s. Remember ABC’s stand for absolute best chances. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack bit.ly/500waysbook

    • @LeafsIn2024
      @LeafsIn2024 4 года назад +1

      @@AdrienneEverheart Oh, I like that! Thank you. I am at that point where I am starting to give myself permission to transition out of my guarded, used and abused life and, as you said, getting out of my head and getting back into to my heart but in an intelligent and safe, self-loving way so love for others is healthier, more accountable and safer, too. The differences you spoke about! Trust me, that is HUGE!!!
      So, off I went on an Adrienne video binge watching and really soaking in your words and body language that I was not in the right place for before.
      Ironically, three exes are back and my bf is doing the work he needs to as I decide on whether or not he's really God's choice for me.
      To be honest, I'm actually just enjoying my time with you - listening, learning and relaxing for the first time in my 50+ years of life. It FEELS good!! lol
      Good night, beautiful one. With my love and appreciation. God bless.

  • @karlasnyder645
    @karlasnyder645 2 года назад +2

    I did not come here to manipulate an outcome, or try to fix anything, or even get him back. I'm here because I was honest about my needs and wants. A year is more than enough to know if someone is "the one". He told me he was going to propose to me in a year, well I moved in with him just recently and next month will be one year. No proposal, however, now he has changed to saying "I want to make sure we are compatible." That is not what I was told before. Sure he pays for everything, however, I refuse to stay trapped in the "girlfriend title" because I'm at an age where I am not willing to give a guy 3 years of my life with unlimited sex and wife perks just to be told " We are not compatible." I am breaking up with him and I guess my heart needed to be uplifted. When you said "think about what you love and what you are grateful for" I immediately thought how fast I lost my mother, how grateful I am to have a son and how full-filling it is to be a mother and then my mind kept thinking of more and more and sure enough you helped me lift my spirit. Life is too short to wait out on a man who isn't even sure if you are marriage material. I have been told of engagements that took only a couple of months and stayed forever. My parents for example, they met and immediately got married. My father stayed along my mothers side all the way until cancer took her away for me.

  • @lolagonzalez952
    @lolagonzalez952 3 года назад +1

    lol I loooved your "it's like a big ship" analogy and you gotta wait for him to tuuuurn it around XD hilarious but true thankyou

  • @lyndarubicz5762
    @lyndarubicz5762 3 года назад +2

    I have started this decluttering and updating today. It feels excellent to dump all the junk!

  • @MissAllaCinderella
    @MissAllaCinderella 4 года назад +10

    Glad I stuck around to the end! Just went through a “breakup”, and he still called me 5 times today and left 3 silly voicemails! 🤦🏼‍♀️But HE broke it off with ME.
    Currently ignoring him, but mostly because I had no clue on how to respond to something like that.

    • @ashleyjay56
      @ashleyjay56 3 года назад +1

      What happened ?? I’m going through the same thing. I’m devastated

    • @NoreenAquino
      @NoreenAquino 2 года назад

      How long did it take for him to regret/realize?

    • @user-pk5pl7ox1e
      @user-pk5pl7ox1e 2 года назад

      Any updates? I'm curious

    • @MissAllaCinderella
      @MissAllaCinderella 2 года назад +1

      UPDATE: It went back and forth with me ignoring him, him reaching out a million times, and me eventually feeling like I had to respond.
      This changed when he realized HIMSELF how much his negative attitude altered how I felt about him over the years. I think he was really starting to give it more thought after his daughters went away to college, but really noticed it after he came upon a note I wrote him yrs ago about all these wonderful things I loved about him, and realized in many ways he wasn’t that man anymore.

  • @kaylabrown7045
    @kaylabrown7045 4 года назад +5

    “How do you get your man back “ this doesn’t work on every man and narcissist men cause I’ve tried no contact and really changed a lot my mind set and I did focus on myself only and been thinking don’t chase and if he really want you he will come ..ok he came back but only for talk about work or problems or to talk about his dog who he has left with me so time to time we have this contact after 2 years like we are not together..and he can tell I’ve changed I feel this but hey ho ...this didn’t work on him...

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 4 года назад +11

    I'm so guilty of doing things I shouldn't ...get so hurt and masculine energy ensues.

  • @apprisedbeauty6783
    @apprisedbeauty6783 4 года назад +2

    Identifying with experiences and feelings rather than holding onto ego identification and logical/neurotic agendas.

  • @colleenreid5029
    @colleenreid5029 4 года назад +5

    You are so soothing to listen too, I think you have just changed my life!! 💖 I was like YES YES the whole way threw this video. Thankyou.

  • @Saboramii
    @Saboramii 6 месяцев назад

    “This is the real life happenin’ here!” ❤

  • @Joisu121
    @Joisu121 Месяц назад

    Very calming! Reminding me not to be neurotic. Thank you!

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  Месяц назад +1

      You're so welcome! Get my free ‘scripts men love to hear’ guide 😘 www.everheartcoaching.com/freegift/

  • @juliauren1338
    @juliauren1338 4 года назад +38

    Great advice as always. I'm only 2 weeks broken up. Thank you. I did the drunk text. I've since been good and stopped that I'm back at the gym and lost 6lb already yippee ni do feel grounded. I dyed my hair I got a new blouse in baby pink. I'm feeling more feminine after being the man I my Last relationship. I'm clearing out stuff too xxx

  • @nellyshiranian6527
    @nellyshiranian6527 4 года назад +20

    I have to share this... when I started watching you at the beginning I had my doubts. But as I watched more and more and took your advice I'm not sure if it's coincidence or things have turned around in my relationship of 12 Years. Oh and by the way I stumbled on your video by accident but there's no such thing as accident everything happens for a reason. I just want to say thank you.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +2

      I'm so happy you tuned in! Great that things are going better! Most women are in the masculine mindset so when we hear talk of feminine energy at first, we reject it, yet a wiser part keeps listening! GOOD WORK!

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +1

      Thank you again! xoxox! So happy for you.

    • @nellyshiranian6527
      @nellyshiranian6527 4 года назад

      @@AdrienneEverheart thank you! Sometimes we get lost in the shuffle... to be perfectly honest I like my feminine energy it feels good /right... and it's all from watching you. 😘

  • @aleksandrakora
    @aleksandrakora 3 года назад +2

    Adrienne, you are so warm and glowing in this video. Your words are going straight to my head. You are amazing and just lovely! I hope I will create the space for my future love 💕. Thank you!

  • @Clothingdesign_sewing
    @Clothingdesign_sewing 11 месяцев назад

    This is so good, so powerfull and healing. This one healed me completely after a spiral down the rabbothole break 3 years ago. Healed me again today after feeling hurt.

  • @valentinaturner6269
    @valentinaturner6269 4 года назад +3

    List starts at 19:58

  • @vanessacarrera3868
    @vanessacarrera3868 4 года назад +8

    Haha I’m purging my bedroom and this is playing in the background & she begins to talk about de cluttering

  • @nishalashay4402
    @nishalashay4402 Год назад

    This is so true 🖤 Making a man feel you; without trying by just being in your body ; be in your own body 🖤

  • @ultimateoptimist5217
    @ultimateoptimist5217 2 года назад +1

    No not all problems dissolve on their own and go away. Be careful what you advise...

  • @ashleyschroeder4898
    @ashleyschroeder4898 4 года назад +5

    Your just an amazing person with a great point of view on life

  • @elainehoward1569
    @elainehoward1569 4 года назад +30

    Grandma would turn over in her grave. She would say “Don’t make me come up from here to slap some since in you! LOL ❤️🌹

  • @BluieBeth
    @BluieBeth Год назад +1

    Oh my sweet friend. You have no idea the strength you give me, every time.
    This man had convinced me he loved me
    And cared about me and then, he did not choose me.
    He chose to be afraid and is perfectly fine (apparently) with me not being in his life.
    But I am absolutely wounded. BAD.
    We work in the same space.
    So I have to face him every single day.
    But I'm doing my best to keeping quiet.
    I treat him like I would anyone else that is an acquaintance and that's it.
    And it rips my heart apart every. time.
    So this time I'm just trying to take it one day at a time and know that with each day, I did it another day. I got through it.
    Thank you for giving me permission to let HIM figure it out.
    He's used to me always closing the gap and then we get close and then he runs again.
    I just can't do it anymore.
    You give that beet advice.
    Thank you ❤️

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  Год назад

      Do you have the ABCs? That program is designed to help in these scenarios. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

  • @darkhorse7460
    @darkhorse7460 3 года назад +4

    Right! I studied psychopathology on my own for more than 10 years(the DARK stuff, individuals with no conscience, Robert Hare is one of my favorite psychologists and former FBI profilers) and took college level psychology, all of a sudden narcissism is the pop psych word of the day. Even though I most certainly believe I've encountered yes, psychopaths, my interest in explaining to people waned and I realized it doesn't help much in healing-ok so you've possibly figured out what is going on with them, and we can definitely look at some patterns to get red flags up(gaslighting, smear campaigns, triangulation, etc.) but how does it help YOU? You need to understand your own pattern, possibly have therapy, learn boundaries, etc.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад +1

      It’s best not to worry about a man’s psychology. Get in touch with your true feelings and be strong in your boundaries. This will help you find high-value men.

  • @jenniperkins4260
    @jenniperkins4260 4 года назад +7

    Wow you’re amazing. My husband of 28 years left me bc of my infidelity- he’s hurting me via retroactive punishment - told me to sleep w/ other men etc. anyway i cried for 3 weeks straight and it’s been hell - finally healed forgave - all my childhood trauma - from my mom (Narc abuse) - and for the last 6 months (after finally got rid of my lover) and been happy w/ him and was totally shocked devastated w/ his turning on me after being my best friend since I was 19 - I’m 48 now.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +2

      ❤️Wounds can take a long time to heal. I do hope you two will work things out. Remember, punishing you forever for what you did wrong is not part of the deal. You want to have a sincere apology and every time he brings it up you apologize and you can say to him, “I noticed this keeps coming up and I want to Move on but will you please let me know what else I need to do?”
      You might want to look into my book 500 ways to talk to a man. It’s a digital download and available at my website.

  • @Brendac549
    @Brendac549 4 года назад +9

    Love how you look in that dress in the cover pic ! It’s refreshing listening to you . Thank you so much ,

  • @JenOnDemand
    @JenOnDemand 4 года назад +26

    Your my best friend in my head lol

  • @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
    @jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 3 года назад +1

    Adrienne I know this is a year old ... just found you! Thank you, thank you, thank you! You're an Angel from Heaven 🙏🏽❤❤❤

  • @sunkissedlotus
    @sunkissedlotus 2 года назад

    Thank you for this. 20 months w a narc virgo manboy living in his moms basement. I deserve way better. Lesson learned. He will feel it. But hopefully ill be in a better spot shinning n smiling.

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 4 года назад +5

    Hello Adrienne!!! This video has been so helpful. It seems like yesterday when I went through deep heartbreak. I feel like I’m finally feeling more feminine energy ever than before. I’m learning to use more of your tools each day. I plan to get your e book 500 ways to talk to a man!!! I know this will help me a lot in dating.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      Patricia Brown hugs to you honey! You know I love you! Sending you healing and brighter days ahead. ❤️

    • @debrakelly1256
      @debrakelly1256 4 года назад +1

      Patricia Brown, "500 Ways..." is an amazing book! 100% worth every penny!

  • @ck.campos
    @ck.campos 4 года назад +2

    wow, this is a GOOOOOOOOOLD video. GOLD tips. you're a queen adrienne!

  • @SmellMyKnee15
    @SmellMyKnee15 2 года назад

    This work is a lot like meditation for me. In meditation, the challenge is being uninvolved in your thoughts. Allowing yourself to be detached emotionally from your thoughts. And today something clicked for me about feminine energy work. I have released myself from the expectations I have of this man in my life. I can just enjoy him and allow him to lead me to the alter. He told me he will do anything to get me. So let’s see 😇

  • @RC-kw9lv
    @RC-kw9lv 2 года назад +2

    Hello Adrienne,
    I just wanted to say thank you for being so vulnerable with your viewers.
    Sharing you too looked into psychics and felt judged even by friends and your therapist is not easy to say.
    I know I cringe at myself thinking about how I too did all that a few years back because I did know how to heal.
    You seem like such a genuine woman who radiates good vibes for everyone.
    Thank you for your work and words.
    Continue the good service and much love.

  • @MsLatorieaQ
    @MsLatorieaQ Год назад +1

    I'm watching this to avoid a breakup. I wish I would have seen this years ago.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  Год назад

      Sending you love. It’s not too
      Late. You got this. Get this program 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

  • @kristinasterling3583
    @kristinasterling3583 3 года назад +4

    If we “date”, hang out, spend time with our ex with no agenda and no strings attached..would it be ok for us to date other men at the same time too?

  • @chipomsimanga8376
    @chipomsimanga8376 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Adrienne. I’ve apologised for my part. He’s blowing hot and cold. I found this video just in time. I’ve messaged. Called. Trying to get through to him to get us “normal” again but he’s retreating. I’m going to retreat too into my own feminine energy and look after me ❤️. It’s going to be hard because we were super close and communicating so well. Thank you for this video

    • @NoreenAquino
      @NoreenAquino 2 года назад +1

      How long did it take for him to regret/realize?

  • @drea2043
    @drea2043 4 года назад

    I've been working with Veronica Isles and today she recommended one of your videos...I feel like your message about going back into your feminine energy was the last piece of the puzzle for me to bring my ex back into my life and to finally have the fulfilling relationship and love I've always wanted. So grateful to have found you, and Veronica, and others, who are guiding me on my journey to discovering the power we truly have to creating our lives. I never realized (until today w/your videos) that by me trying to fix, and control the problems and relationship, I was in my masculine and this is quite likely the reason why my boyfriend ended our long-term relationship which at one point had been extremely loving and was headed towards marriage. I am going to lean back and let him come to me. I feel a new sense of peace and understanding. Thank you for breaking it down so that I could understand this and bring it into my life. xo

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад

      Hugs to you! 💕 I am so happy you found me! Learning to be in your feminine energy will completely change your relationship. I would start working through the ABC program. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

  • @roslyndrayton6716
    @roslyndrayton6716 4 года назад +7

    Thank you Adrienne. Your tips are AMAZING! I've been working on your FEMM energy technique...I get rather flattered when I get a positive response back when I am not expecting it.

  • @raisingjojo6428
    @raisingjojo6428 3 года назад +2

    OMG!!! Ive found my favorite RUclipsr🥰🥰🥰🥰 i NEEDED THIS‼️‼️

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад

      Great to meet you. 👉🏼Please be sure you subscribe bit.ly/everheartYT

  • @irepchrist1763
    @irepchrist1763 4 года назад +5

    One of the best advices I have ever heard :)

  • @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995
    @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 2 года назад

    We can’t escape the grieving part.

  • @eisraa.8105
    @eisraa.8105 3 года назад +3

    How do i feel so good when literally every single aspect of my life is down in the gutter? Family, friends, relationship, career, im literally alone trying to put the pieces together and idk if i can

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад +2

      Hugs to you, honey! 💕 I know it can be so difficult when everything seems to be going bad. You need to try and shift your way of thinking. Surely you can find a couple of positive things every day. Also, really watch how you talk to yourself. Say nice things to yourself. bit.ly/femmtools

    • @xochitlgarcia9784
      @xochitlgarcia9784 3 года назад +1

      I feel you. I'm in the exact same boat. One day at a time. Prayers and positive energy your way. 💖🙏🏽

  • @avgonyma1
    @avgonyma1 4 года назад

    "I just wanted to work on it, just a little bit" .....I sooo understand you!

  • @Mrs.Deanna_Ember
    @Mrs.Deanna_Ember Год назад

    Its not hypocritical to remind people to take a break from being on the phone or online so much, some of us need to hear that..

  • @kellysauruswrecks
    @kellysauruswrecks 3 года назад +1

    Adrienne.... take my money! haha I needed this oh so badly.. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my chest just watching this.. I have your ABCs program and plan to start watching it tonight... I 'm glad you mentioned in this video that it's 3 months... I can feel the haste in my belly... wanting to get back together immediately... but I know deep down that I need to find myself again... I allowed myself to dive into him and let go of everything I enjoyed before him.. Covid hasn't helped any of us keep up our usual activities... but despite the deep heartache of the breakup... I feel kind of excited to dive into your program and ultimately.... return back to myself.. And since I'm ever growing and evolving... it's something that I get to do for the rest of my life... Exciting!! Thanks for all of your videos ❤️

    • @queenpatrick205
      @queenpatrick205 3 года назад

      Hello do you need help why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex Back

    • @queenpatrick205
      @queenpatrick205 3 года назад

      Text him on whatzapp

    • @queenpatrick205
      @queenpatrick205 3 года назад

      +1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7

  • @anamacklis2355
    @anamacklis2355 3 года назад +1

    Everyone is you pushed out in your reality, according to quantum physics, so yeah, you can have anyone you want!

  • @EvaWright
    @EvaWright 4 года назад +4

    Ugh, well I see what I did wrong now. Ms. Try and fix it texts. At least I stopped myself before getting crazy with my anger. I had to let him go with love because letting him go is better than trying to keep him, then him cheating or drinking uncontrollably and keep disappearing for days at a time. He's not the same man I used to love. Trying to stay playful and soft and warm in spite of my angry masculine side trying to take over. :)

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +2

      Eva Wright I so understand! He doesn’t sound high quality right now. I hope that changes and you two can realign one day. ❤️

  • @ellamcroberts5065
    @ellamcroberts5065 4 года назад +2

    You are just relieving my stress level! I am so grateful to you for your teachings! Everything you shared in this video made sense! Can you give me a way to stop the angry response once the argument ensues?

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +1

      Hugs to you! 💕 You can speak your feelings and boundaries with warmth, or you can always walk away for a little while and pull your energy off of him. My ebook “500 Ways” can help you with this. bit.ly/500waysbook

  • @reesemonique
    @reesemonique 3 года назад +1

    Maintaining!!! Man this is so important That consistency

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад

      🥰🥰 I suggest New Man Manifesto to learn more. bit.ly/newmanmanifesto

  • @BBGshop7
    @BBGshop7 3 года назад

    I can NOT believe I have overlooked you in my recommendations all this time, but I'm glad to be here. (That RUclips algorithm is bae sometimes.) LOL! You are so pleasant! Thanks for teaching about this. It is resonating with me :)

  • @bellaanthony464
    @bellaanthony464 3 года назад +1

    I’ve always been really loud because of hearing loss, I can come across as obnoxious and overbearing but when I wear a hearing aid or amplifier, People listen to me better and enjoy my presence much better. It’s such an embarrassment to wear, but who cares right!? I should do it because I speak so much more feminine and sweet and warm. I’m going to buy another one to wear. It will make me feel so much more confident talking with people.

  • @bonniewilcox797
    @bonniewilcox797 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for being so good at what you do. You are doing so much more feminine collective. Masculine too.

  • @Mandycapetown
    @Mandycapetown 3 года назад +3

    So needed to watch this today. ❤️

  • @IntentionallyBeautyWellness
    @IntentionallyBeautyWellness 2 года назад +1

    What if you can’t move out for a couple months because the money is tied up. How do you be around him while he’s pretending like he didn’t hurt you? What’s the best advice?! I am using my warm feminine energy, not trying to fix it, but then he thinks all is forgiven and okay. It’s not.

  • @diyosadiaries864
    @diyosadiaries864 4 года назад +5

    How bout making a man choose you when ur in a 3rd party situation?!

    • @blondieblu8819
      @blondieblu8819 4 года назад +1

      If he doesn’t walk away from that situation on his own, nothing you do will make him decide to do that.

  • @itsshayla
    @itsshayla 4 года назад +2

    Hopefully this question will be answered by the end of the video but just in case-
    My boyfriend got overwhelmed with life and abruptly broke things off with me. We’ve been separated going on 3 weeks now. Last week we met up to return items to one another then we Decided to walk and talk about what happened to lead to the break up. He got emotional and voiced his regret and assured me he’s still very much in love with me and knows we still have a connection. Today it’s been one week and he’s barely texted me but no phone calls. He’s mentioned wanting to see me again but hadn’t asked. Should I keep waiting on him? I’m trying not to initiate anything but I did text him good morning today. I’m making myself busy so I’m not obsessing. How long should I keep my heart open ?

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +2

      Hugs to you! 💕 Lean back and focus on yourself. Live your life and don’t wait on any man. I would start working through the ABC’s. He will come back! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

    • @NoreenAquino
      @NoreenAquino 2 года назад

      How long did it take for him to regret/realize?

  • @marissa816
    @marissa816 2 года назад

    I wrote a mean letter to him after he broke up with me…I can’t get it back and now I regret it

  • @chillaxncrochet
    @chillaxncrochet 3 года назад +1

    In the beginning he treated me great and wonderful but after we met the first time he tapered off and then it made me question how he felt about me. He said he was comfortable with us. What does that mean. I wouldn't or couldn't trust his love in us so I questioned how he felt. Pushing him away. Now because of it he broke up. I fell deep in love with him and want him back.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  3 года назад +2

      I would suggest pulling your energy away from this man. LDR are difficult. You really need the proximity to make them work. Start working through the ABC's. bit/;y/abcgethimback

  • @cindysampson965
    @cindysampson965 7 месяцев назад

    Can you talk about your break up periods with your husband? Like, duration of time, did you speak during them, etc.. thank you!

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  7 месяцев назад

      Check out my latest RUclips podcast video on this episode 19.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  7 месяцев назад

      Also the ABCs goes deeper. Learn how to GET the man you love BACK 👉🏼bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack

  • @Angelina22298
    @Angelina22298 4 месяца назад

    Wonderful advice. ❤Thank you

  • @valariesgreen0603
    @valariesgreen0603 4 года назад +3

    is was really good information. Thank you

  • @ojala5555
    @ojala5555 4 года назад +1

    Love this video😊 Thank you for so much warmth, excellent advices and guiding,Adrienne💗

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +1

      I’m so happy to help you! Keep learning with FEMM bit.ly/femmtools

  • @wthlv4876
    @wthlv4876 2 года назад

    So funny with that BIG SHOP its TRUE. Lots of love to You

  • @Ishtarthemoon
    @Ishtarthemoon 4 года назад +4

    do you not feel like boundaries are masculine energy? in my study of the occult and tantra yoga we learn that masculine is about self defence and protection. boundaries seem to be in that sort of space, i always thought boundaries are masculine energy and that we need both feminine and masculine to be in balance within the self.

    • @yabe1496
      @yabe1496 4 года назад

      Interesting approach. Now Im wondering about it.

    • @brandicemanuel1212
      @brandicemanuel1212 4 года назад +4

      Boundaries are a form of self-love.

    • @AdrienneEverheart
      @AdrienneEverheart  4 года назад +5

      Boundaries are what you desire and feel and not about controlling the other person. For example, (extreme) Rape - you say NO!, NO! NO! and get to safety. This is a boundary. "No, I don't feel comfortable driving to your house at 1am" Boundary. Don't confuse your line in the sand with anything else.

  • @studentberry3131
    @studentberry3131 2 года назад

    Honestly its strange how u brought up certain things that I experienced..but deep down..how i feel is that he does love me and i him...right now though, we both need to heal from some things and actually trust the fact that we love each other because our past made us both guarded.. Im letting go of expectations and trusting the process while also elevating and hopefully my kids get the best version of the both of us..they will all get a better version of me no matter what.

  • @ryrose3431
    @ryrose3431 2 года назад

    Adrienne is an angel!

  • @judithhaven8820
    @judithhaven8820 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video. It was soooooooooo informative! God bless You.

  • @Ihartstrobereeznappl
    @Ihartstrobereeznappl 2 года назад

    What if you’re the one who messed up and that’s why he found that as an excuse to leave? He was already distant for a couple of weeks and doubting us due to his own depression but that small mistake by you gave him a way out.

  • @TheAngeliaMusic
    @TheAngeliaMusic 4 года назад +3

    I love what you are saying!

  • @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN
    @KKKKAAAARRRRYYYYNN 4 года назад +3

    8:42 ghosts belong in a cemetery