She Wants a Baby, But NOT Him...
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
- A 38 year old woman wants a baby, but isn't in love with her fiancé.
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Get new book out bro
What car is that?
Lets keep on the down low, Attorney for opposing party is contacting people illegally why do you want to talk, text, I don't know you? curious why you are contacting me for the second time?
This is youtube not interested in paying you money for consulting, Im wise Im your age, and I know a lot,
@@paulkalaj3500 what's up with that? Someone contacted me also claiming to be Rich? With a New Jersey area code?
1) Marriage is IPO for women
2) Divorce is cashing out.
3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government
And…men still sign up to be slaughtered…men are asleep 😴
I would say more of a SPAC than IPO.
Damn 100% truth. Well put.
Say f no to that
Say yes to self respect
@@realfreedom8932 I love your SPAC analogy.
Accountability is a Woman’s Kryptonite
-Kevin Samuels💯
Man go to hell
_"Women want all of the perks and none of the responsibilities."_
-TOM LEYKIS💯
@@maxr6118 Ding Dong Kevin Samuels is dead!
Kevin Samuels one of the og redpills RIP
He’s operating in her frame. Once she has the kid, she has no more use for him.
ATM! Child support for her kid!!!
He began operating in her frame when he married her....just like all married men!
Actually, SOME women want a family, not just kids. But at 38, a woman feels the death knell of her biological clock, and can do anything to get pregnant. AVOID. She is typical for that age bracket if she's had no kids yet and want some. Her previous high standards are lowered, and she doesn't care about the man as a person, just at what he brings.
"The woman you divorce, is not gonna be the same woman you married."
Deep.
and the absolute truth..........
The woman that divorces you IS the real woman.
Well obviously....
Man marries a woman hoping she won't change and she does. Woman marries a man hoping he'll change. And he doesn't.
100 💯
I dont even feel like dating anymore, tbh I feel so much at peace by myself. I work 10-12hrs, workout and meditate in whatever time I have left. Feel so much content with life that I don't wanna complicate it with women right now at this point in time.
This is perfectly fine. Sometimes it’s the best choice to stay single.
Same here. I just hire hookers for sex as all I need a woman is for sex. Rest everything else I already have on my own.
Go to Catholic mass and add the element of loving god with all your heart to your life and you will be legitimately unstoppable and fulfilled.
I don't blame you, Uber. i doubt that Western men have ever faced such a poor selection of women.
@@BlazerLz , lol, lotsa lost souls in church never saying their sorry for anything!
3 or 4 times a months will become twice a year after they're married.
Right, lol
Birthdays and Christmas. Lived it, hated it.
3 to 4 times a month is a lot lol
@@jomo8209 I was going to say the same thing, Birthday and Christmas lol! But that's if your lucky!
@@bearclaw5115 same I had that thought on my mind 😂😂
No relationship will work without love, affection, and sex. Otherwise it’s just roommates where the dude pays for everything
If you’re not being sexual then you’re just friends. Or acquaintances.
Woman don't love men.
sex is definitely the glue that holds a marriage
Exactly!
😂😂😂 true
Wow! Well this is a similar story to mine. My wife claims to be in love with me but there is no intimacy and after we married she had an agenda to buy properties and have me maintain them. She convinced me to get cats and somehow I was the only one to take care of them. She yells at me as though I work for her. She should have married a personal assistant not me. I'm getting the fuck out.
Now you can get half the properties and work for yourself.
She should’ve married a personal assistant 😂 that line killed me. I’ve had MANY gf’s life this dude. I feel you.
Yup get out, better to eat alone than be used
Ah....the female narcissist
Good luck brother
Don't get married, have the kids if you want (and help with them) and never let her quit working. Upon splitting up demand 50% custody. Worked for me.
This dude is going to be paying child support for at least the next 18 years. The minute that baby pops out, she's not going to need him anymore...just his money.
AMEN! Most of these greedy broads look at the guy's wallet first THEN decide to "fall in love" after! So once the guy's spawning utility is over and done, naturally she hits the bricks but only after she's got the monthly payment plan from Mr Right!
100% the girl needs to love you more than you love her. It's the best way and both people are happiest
Just don’t ever let her know that. Women don’t like truth , they can’t handle the truth. Once they figure out that they weren’t your first choice, your in trouble.
Uhh...she's not going to be happy, and will eventually leave you for someone that reciprocates her love. You're not very smart.
Yep I agree. If you like them more than they like you it's game over
@@sarahrobertson634 Sarah, the guys here are wondering:
What are your rates?
Do you give group discounts?
@@CEWIII9873 For dooshbag counseling? It's free of charge. I've got an online Dooshbag Anonymous group that helps guys not be quite as useless as dogsh*t.
Once my gf of 8 years monkey branched I realised they are only after resources. At that moment my ability to love died. Shame, really.
Yea that's pretty much it, we learn lessons and we get better, I got monkey branched too, kinda ruined the relationship magic for me, now I do still enjoy the company of girls but I always have the mindset I need to be ready to walk away at any point
I feel you man. The betrayal is the worst. Loyalty is what we hold most important to us. It breaks your spirit for the future and is hard to trust again.
That woman is yelling: "I will have a baby from this dude and then dump him". 100% sure she will get rid of him after the baby has grown a few years...
Raising children without the dad in the home is difficult . what you’re describing in these woman that use the guy for his sperm and child support payment isn’t the norm .
Truth. Lived this firsthand … mediocre attraction, marriage, high risk pregnancy, etc. Once our child was born, I disappeared in the relationship, and she disappeared with seven-figures in cash and prizes. Lesson learned.
When I was about 30 I meet a woman about the same age who was in my group of friends (she was also of the same religion and ethnicity as me). She initiated contact with me and showed some interest. We started dating and early on she mentioned that all her female friends have either moved away or have gotten married. I sensed that she was feeling alone and was looking for someone to attach herself to. I liked her and wanted to give it try. after about two or three months I realized that I never had that vibe from her that she was not really into me (no genuine desire for me) to have a serious relationship. So, I ended it. Looking back, it was the right decision.
Big w, I believe you dodged a bullet. Thank God that you were able to read the signs and execute.
It's gonna end ugly no matter how it starts. No way for a man to protect himself. If you want kids just admit that there's a high probability of carnage and accept it.
I am not certain the risk is worth it anymore.
Go Ronaldo and do your own children with a surrogate.
Went through this myself. Many years ago when I was just beginning to date my now Ex wife a guy who knew her said to me, "Run! Just run!" I should have listened to that man. He was right. Listen to me now. "RUN! JUST RUN!"
Happened to me, actually met my exes mom, and her own mother said my daughter is bat sh.. crazy, I laughed it off, and now 4 years later I shoulda listened lol
Anytime a woman says that she no longer desires you, don't question and don't reason with her...Leave.
He ll be buying a cow that doesn’t produce milk but selling the farm to do it.
I’m 60. Got house, sled, atv and
Two paid for trucks. And paid for hunting property.
Why is that?
I bounced two wives before they got to me. I.E.
I did the math, it added up they didn’t love me. I was just the temporary financier for their dream.
F them.
F the American legal system
I’m better than that.
I have my spiritual faith, cash on hand, retired w self respect
amen, brother............
Got house, sled, atv and
Two paid for trucks. And paid for hunting property. And all of that for what? What is the endgoal?
@@asghaa The material stuff we’re consolation prizes. Then as now I would never give up my faith to God.
Nor frame as a man…for a woman
End goal?
I tried the best I could.
My mother admitted to me that she did this with my father. She was very popular and dated around a bunch as a young woman. Went on one date with my father and didn’t like him. A couple years later she decided she wanted to have kids, realized he would be a good provider and father, called him up and started dating him again. Got the ring and me not long after.
Spoiler alert… if she says she’s not into you… do not ever go back to her. You won’t be happy. Your children won’t be happy. And eventually… she won’t be happy. Which will only make you and your children less happy.
This can happen in any marriage. Even married to an alpha, woman gets bored and thinks grass is greener etc. Then files for divorce, keeps the house and you have to pay for child support but actually uses the money for girl spa holidays and cosmetic procedures. Stay vigilante guys
Smh.... The worst about it all, seen it twice recently after 7, y, wanted the fam... Started 2 more careers, 4 me. Us etc make sure, all is taken care of, never, married always needed to see, true colors 10 and goal, get it? Man oh man, when you need the best friend your partner, she had a roster the whole time, in the 40s she went for the dollar signs and then 7 years never did I ever disclose, what I've been saving since I was 20 peace still mine, I've all on the late 30s? Seems to be a little bit fruitful and I'm digging it, SMH it is what it is, she went for one foot on the banana peel the other one on the grave and I'm thinking you guys should move in with the cardiologist good luck to him
I would love to be that young and be in that situation. I would be gone before the end of the day. Lots of time for a man to change direction in life at 38.
It’s never too late for any man. There are younger women available all over with feminine and loving upbringings like in Korea, Columbia, the entire eastern block, the Philippines, Venezuela, Cuba, Romania, and Argentina.
Wow is 38 young, I’m 32 and I feel like I’m over the hill
Always stay loyal to your own lane..she has do adapt otherwise you are going to go through hell
@@jarrodhayne560 I am 66yo male with a 38 yo wife!
8ve never felt over the hill, I still have my whole life ahead of me!... I spent my youth staying single and travelling the World, and having fun, I got married at 53.... My 38 yo wife says time for baby now!... I said go find someone else to be the Father!
She is still with me
?????. People say Oh your Selfish!
Nope... Just living my life on my terms
I 9nly get one shot at this (life) and I ain't gunna mess it up!
I’ve been on the phone with two of my (girl) friends this week. They both talk about how scared they are to maybe settle with an average man. Really makes you think that you’re better off paying for pros instead of committing to ho3s.
Yes, they always want a prince even though they aren't a princess.
They don't realize that their standards are so high that some poor dude is going to be settling for them...
@@stevec3526 Let's be real.....they're a "one", on a good day!
Below average women thinking they deserve above average men....the delusion is real, gentlemen!
Even pros are pretty useless.
Chris Rock has a comedy bit about how when your wife is glaring at you for no apparent reason, she's probably thinking about how she settled for you. The fact that he's now going through a $70M dollar divorce is reason enough to know how it's going to end for any man in a marriage without genuine desire.
Just wanna thank you for putting this content out rich, was going through it with a ex, and about to beg her again that we can make this work, then you posted this , and snapped me right back out of it, I don't beg, nor push for someone that ain't feeling me
I'm sure she feels magical connection to his wallet :)
And future alimony of course.
The truth is yes. Lots of marriages are like this. Many women are not interested in their husband and are not into him.
My Grandma had already 2 kids from a relationship where her husband was abusive and left her. A single woman with 2 kids couldnt do it on her own so she found a beta provider at her work, my Grandpa, She didint really wanted more kids but he wanted a child and so my mother was born. Grandma many times over the years admitted that she didint loved grandpa, it was more like a friendship and she only had my mother becouse my grandpa wanted to have his own child and they were not even sleeping together after my mother was born. And of course he raised her 2 kids as well. It was so obvious in their relationship that he was the beta, he was doing all the womans work like cleaning, cooking, doing laundries taking care of the kids, while she was the man of the house. He was good, too good for her and i miss him but he was also the archeotype of a beta male.
“Women are crazy because men are stupid, men are stupid because women are crazy”
RIP George Carlin
That's actually true.
good riddance to George, he wanted white people dead
Men are not stupid EXCEPT when it comes to women.....they have a evolutionary P blind spot.
Been there. My "wife" stopped almost all sex the day after our one child was conceived- 22 years ago. Oh,and she was 39, and probably knew she had one last chance to have a kid.
This happens a lot
So how’s it turned out?
And your still with her? Run!
@Politics Fan Okay so given the admittedly slim facts at hand. But that’s the immediate conclusion, it’s entirely his fault? Okay?
@Politics Fan My reading of this is that she stopped having sex with them as soon as she got pregnant? And wondering how you draw the conclusion that it’s all him? Could he suddenly become ugly with a bad attitude overnight??
Rich, you should do a video about disgust, specifically how if a woman shows any sign of disgust in your direction it's done and you need to end it because shecan never uncross that bridge.
For instance, last girl I dated was actually going quite well, but one day I leaned in for a kiss and she pulled back, then mumbled dismissively at me. Then finally she realized she left me hanging and gave me a half-hearted peck. I ended it soon after that because clearly the burning desire period was over and from that point starts the nagging, arguing and likely the stepping out on the sly.
Bro,
I feel this one. Once that reluctance to affection starts it's already been decided that it's over. No amount of you wanting to "make it work" will matter as she's already checked out
Entropiated
Good for you.
@@magus1724 the more you want to make it work, the less chance it will.
The best way to notice this is when you are walking away or fully have your back turned, turn around really quickly to see how she's looking at you. If she has a look of disgust on her face, there's your answer
Same thing happen to me after 1-1/2 year relationship, I sensed the pullback, called it quits a few weeks later, she was very surprised by my decision and I didnt look back, its taken me years to figure all out, dont be a chump.
Men, if there is no burning genuine desire. RUN! Why would you torture yourselves. Rich is on point.
Rule #1 Don't Settle ! As long as you're on this merry-go-round called life, grab dor the brass ring.
Same for women. Don’t settle for you.😉
She will be dumped as soon as a better option is available for him….a relationship without physical intimacy is bound to fail 🙄
No, because he's beta and would do anything for her, no matter what lol
@@Hiergibtesnixzusehen all the guy needs is swallow red pill 😎
@@Son-of-Krypton Unfortunately, only a few have, although that number is slowly increasing.
Did you even listen!!!? They're intimate three to four times a month. He's in love with HER; she is not in love with him! SMH!
Other way around. SHE will leave him once a better option comes.
When me and my wife had our daughter we were 29 and 28. It was considered high risk. Twenty years later now it would be to young to have a kid. That’s how much the world has changed.
I was shocked to learn that a woman's fertility is already declining at 25!
When the sex ends. So does the relationship.
Any man, hopefully, has had a woman that would do absolutely anything to please you. That's genuine burning desire. That will fade.
Once it gets to the point of no return, relationship wise. You discard her and move on. It will never go back to where it once was.
Very true
Its sad, but i think your damn right
That's nature .u produce children raise them .done.mission completed .woman will lose interest cause he's done he's part with you that's it
Not sure how that is not just using the other person too.
If men are doing it, why the complaint when women do it?
It seems to be everyone out for themselves, and the other person can go to Hell.
I've had a few females ask me to knock them up. A few with trickery (claiming she can't get pregnant, but never has been diagnosed). Others simply asking if I would (when questioned how I can do that without being financially liable, they had no idea)
I have experienced this in many ways and my friends tell me stories of the same. Very tricky and sneaky. Share this info with all your friends. Men need to be informed and aware.
You right about that. Sex is everything
@@rhondahopkins4366everything huh? No need for love then.
My sister did that exact same thing after her 3rd kid. Got in to crazy shape, big bolt-ons and started this fling. I love her. She and I are super close. But after getting RP, I see now how all the complaints she had about her husband was full on bullshit. She's beautiful, smart and capable, but I realize now that she's as full of shit as any of these basic chick's out here doing the same thing. It's made me look at women so much differently. I'm very grateful to this community for opening my eyes to reality and helping me avoid mistakes that would haunt me forever.
You described my life! I am already married with two kids but I dont get the genuine desire from my wife. I have told her already that if she does something stupid she is done for good. Reading your book helped me a lot. Now I have a different mindset.
"Lonely is the man without love..." -Moon Knight...Engelbert Humperdinck
Only women cry for love
@@fadedsoul7837 Men cry loudest for love.
I could never consider marriage with a woman that expressed that she is not physically attracted to me.
I am 36. Still don't have kids. Why? I did not meet the right girl. I had been in few relationship but all end up after 2-5 years when some kind of trouble starts. Woman I meet always prefer to jump out rather than pass through things together
3-4 times a month is a lot for a married couple. He should run as fast as possible! It's like knowing your going to be miserable and still jumping in.
3-4 times a month to ARGUE for a married couple perhaps.
WTF i have 3 - 4 times a Week. I would never stay with a woman if its lesser.
The moment if a woman starts withdraw sex from me - you see mee closing the outside door.. then days sometimes weeks later they cry to my ears why you left me why bla bla bla.. imagine i would withdraw the safety or the how i take care of her ..would she stay??
@spaniard and take half his money. For the rest of his life.
@spaniard A coworker of mine recently got his life wrecked by her partner, the kids are around 3 and 5 I think and she just decided like that to leave him for a woman. The guy has a decent paid job, is in okay physical shape and has good social skills but who cares in this age, right? It never seems to be enough for them or that the grass is greener on the other side.
Yeah, in my two marriages it only took a month or so after the honeymoon to drop to once a weekend. Then after a year or so, once a month, then after 3 or 4 years to birthdays, valentine's day, new years, or once on vacation etc. Researched this issue when the web was still in its infancy in the early 2000's and came across this "old world" saying about sex after marriage which certainly rang true in my case: "For the first year you are married put 3 coins into a jar every time you have sex. Then, in subsequent years, take one coin out of the jar every time you have sex. When you are an old man there well still be coins in the jar." Scarry but true in the majority of marriages.
Dude! Thank you for this. I exited a 2 year relationship which was heading to this direction. It was hard because i loved her and was in love with her but the signs were clear. We stoped having sex and it was pretty much over for me after that. I feel like i escaped from jail with this woman. Guys out there,always be ready to leave her once you see the signs. Dont justify, just let her go.
This woman is beyond hope. He needs to run like the wind. If they do marry he will be the last option and the sex will disappear. If he's a good looking guy but no attraction for her, her standards are out of bounds. She will never be satisfied with any one that she can attract...
Been there done that. Once the ex realized a child was no longer possible she ended all sex and intimacy. She would also get dry every single time we did have sex. Turns out she wasn’t attracted to me. It all makes sense now.
Seen far too many men and families destroyed by divorce. I opted out years ago, enjoy your life gentlemen.
I don’t even remotely get jealous seeing all my friends from high school and college get married. One got divorced within a year, another is extremely unhappy. My guess is a large percentage of the rest are gonna have a few kids and let the relationship decline another 5-10 years and get divorced in their late thirties early 40s.
You cannot negotiate desire. 💯
When you're right you're right Rich. I was 28, she just turned 35. I had doubts about the relationship but was told that it was normal. There was no red pill stuff on RUclips back in 2004-2005.
Besides you only look up that stuff after the fact. I'm glad I had my child but it's been tough dealing with the Mum after the relationship dissolves.
RUclips came on in 2005.
Why tf would you go with a 35 y/o wench who's ovaries are drying up ? Have some self respect bro, you were in your prime at that age and she wasn't.
@@MrPolicekarim no shit sherlock, but there was no red pill material if any at all. Only crappy videos little kids biting another kid in the finger.
@@gvis8217 The early days of youtube were pretty lean compared to now! But no stupid sponsorships then.
We first got together when I was 24 and she was 3 months off 31. But when she hit 35 we had to make a decision. There were red flags I wasn't aware of and I didn't want her to miss out on having kids because of my indecisiveness. I was told off the parents that relationships were like that. In hindsight it was such bad advice.
Play around in your twenties and learn as much about female nature as you can.
If you're a financial success with the frame of Andrew Tate or Rich Cooper and have an iron clad prenup then have a go at these western women. But failing that, maybe be a passport bro or get a surrogate mum or be 2-3 points above her smv so there's no point in trading up. (Prenup Inc)
Am I on the right track?
I’m not gonna rewatch the video to see if rich mentioned it, but whatever happens to this guy is 100% his own fault. Guys, don’t date until you figure out what you need from a woman and then hold her accountable, which is also holding yourself accountable. Obviously you have to be worth it to her, by being a high value man. If you’re not, get to work, become high value, and then start dating.
Yup. 3 kids and nearly 11 years later, I finally started caring about myself and putting my foot down.
So far the divorce has only cost me 13k and havent seen my kids in nearly a year.
The writing was on the wall since the beginning, even had a good friend of HERS try to talk me out of marrying her because of how she was and her friend knew it.
I thought I knew better and bit the dust.
I think the caution of this tale works both ways. If you don't have genuine burning desire for a woman, pull out fast, no pun intended. The problem with this progress is if she's sexual or hypersexual and you're not attracted to her, her looks will continue to decline and you're going to loath those otherwise comforting moments alone together instead of fueling off of them to destress, refocus, and get back after your goals. She deserves it. You deserve it. Don't take a relationship a single step forward without it.
Reading all the comments below, I'm wondering if many even watched (and listened) to the video. The GUY is not asking for advice......it's the WOMAN posing questions. Yes, I agree the guy should run for the hills, but it sounds like he's willing to accept the situation. The woman is at least being "kind of" honest and being upfront with her doubts. So, to address the actual questions here, I would STRONGLY advise the woman to do the right thing by the guy, and work on finding the "right" man to establish an honest relationship with. I realize I may be asking the impossible......but it "might" be taken to heart.
Im never dating again. Im good.
Update for those liking this. I tried dating again 1 more time, maybe all girls arent the same rigth? Got this cute chick, it was constant banging 4 to 5 times a day 4 times a week for like 4 months and then she broke it off to go with her male best friend, I didnt care tho, I saw it coming. I started listenning to Tom Leykis, you should to.
She is going to dump him like a rock over a cliff, just as soon as they have a baby at some point. Major mistake if he does this. I guarantee it’s going to happen.
genuine burning desire ... that guy is screwed she will rip his heart out .. the man needs to walk, 38 is a peak age for a Dude. Tough shit for her. Sorry but he shouldn't waste his prime on a Woman that's not into him
Clear cut case of baby rabies. Run Forrest run.
THIS GUY JUST SANKED HIS BATTLESHIP 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
A British taxi driver phoned a radio show on older mothers. He spent a lot of time picking women up with their kids. He said, (the gist of it), "In their twenties they look okay, they're coping, the situation is under control. By their late thirties they're a bag of shit, knackered, angry, disorganised, out of control, furious with the sprogs".
This is true... it happened to me. Once the baby was born I was nothing but an ATM.
Can't wait for you to critique the movie Don't Worry Darling
True.... U are really knowledgeable in these things... Perfect analysis...
My ex told me once, if she got pregnant she wouldn't tell me, and raised kid without even me knowing...
She's an ex for a reason
Thats 99 percemt of women. Hense when you ask them they say "my baby". If its debt.. its then "our debt"
I think I commented on that post! A lot of people did tell her to leave because what she was doing isn’t fair to him.
Sad
The guy needs to listen to that Iron Maiden song, "Run to the HillS, Run for your Life."
Mike
Dude needs to get the hell out of there!
As for later years as a parent. Me and My Wife had a child late in life. Granted we’ve been married over 20 years and also have 2 adult children. My wife is great shape for her age and she still had some issues. It turned out well in the end but I would not recommend it.
Pregnancy risk increases logarithmically beginning at maternal age 35.
This is very bad for the guy.
He should simply say no to marriage and even living together.
Friends means exactly what it means.
The trap is closing ,run like hell.
This video is ON Target 🎯
This did not happen to me. I'm beginning to wonder in some bizarre way, as I continue to improve myself by working out 3x a week and doing cardio 7x a week plus improving my family business, if I dodged a freight train. If you had showed me this video half a year ago I would be completely baffled or disgusted. Now I just shake my head and laugh.
I heard 38 and left the chat
I used to work for a large west coast city. There was a secretary from Compton or somewhere named Kelly. Mid 30's and apparently wanted kids. Sure enough had the first kid, then another. No husband no man around, she didn't want one in her life, I guess. Those two girls were growing up warped for sure. In my view no woman that can't accept a man as a parent and a permanent presence in their kid's lives, or at least TRY to have one, has no business reproducing. But there it is.
Not far fetched at all my ex wife after 10 years of marriage 13 years together one day said the ol I love you but not in love! We both got comfortable and started to gain weight and then she became a boss lady at work and I admit that I became boring. All the signs was there but I didn't know of them till now it's too late to salvage the relationship but I know now what I should bring to the table as well as what she should bring to the table as well!
I went through the same thing. A loveless/sexless marriage. A wife that refused to help me with the kids and daily/weekly chores. After 10 years, she left me and the kids to be with her affair partner. I helped her pack her stuff and moved her out. I got the divorce done in 5 months. She tried to come back. I said no.
Nailed it. Described my ex to the fucking letter
Facts. Don't be stupid. Don't do what she wants. This is a no-win situation for the guy.
I've been married, this gal hasn't.
I can assure you, whatever issues are there before marriage, are magnified after marriage.
This guy should leave her, she's glass half empty, scarcity mindset.
My ex wasn't like that. We were together 15 years and our sex life was always great. Several times a week for years. Having a kid caused us to break up probably because she wanted to go back to her father. Which was as insane as it sounds because we had been a family ourselves for 15 years. When we had our kid she was 40 and I was 35. So like you say she was considered a geriatric pregnancy
I don't understand. What do you mean that she wanted to back to her father? You mean to take care of him?
These women don’t know what they are getting into having babies so late. They are comparing their abilities to younger women who make up the majority of pregnancy and birth research. My wife had our first at 27 and the next two at 35 and 38. Although the later pregnancies were easier because we had resources, the recovery was ten times harder for her. It’s a young woman’s game.
39 year old american first mom..... she ain't gonna lose the weight after birth
The guy says: does she have a genuine burning desire for you? Well even if this is the case, you can’t predict if she’s going to maintain this but 99.9% of women won’t do that. So the factor of genuine burning desire is not enough cus women can act up for years that they have genuine burning desire before marriage and kids. Once they get that, they will divorce you.
Exactly.
Hopefully I’m not getting this wrong, I think when women have children at 30 the chances of that child being autistic is 1 in ~1200, when a women has a child at 40 the chances of that child being autistic is 1 in 100. Also, autism can lead to gender change
Walk away
Rich drives his super car like a grandma apparently. Look at everybody passing him !
Accountability and personal responsibility seem like historical terms today. As Rich said, the guy in this scenario should never even have considered this. and the woman needs to do the right thing. If she knows she not in love with him, then it's her responsbility to nut up and move along. I think people like this go on these forums because they already know what sort of "advice" they're looking for. they want to be given permission to do what's rong. If she went to her priest or pastor if she's religious, or a relationship therapist or whatever, she'd get the answer she doesn't want.
So freaking true
One of the biggest things RP taught me was how to recognize genuine desire and I'm so grateful for that. The fact that I'm more picky now causes me to be single more than I'd ideally enjoy, yet I'm still far happier this way than I would be in these 'situation-ships' that far too many other guys allow themselves to be roped into these days...
In conclusion she wants free money. It's all about money. Don't commit & don't provide.
I once had a friend who was 23 big strong tall muscular dude who had a good job. He met this beautiful girl he “fell in love with her” did everything for her moved out of his parents place got an apartment for him self and her. I don’t know the details but he later went missing and last thing I heard he tried giving her 10K cash. His car was found on the side of the road by a high bridge leading to the ocean. The man was never seen again and his body never found. That was 5 years ago. I often thought how stupid this young man was for what we think he jumped off the bridge and took his own life. I was 18 then and he was 23. Now that I’m 23 and I see how hard, lonely and competitive the world is it to think wow if my life was just a little worse I would for sure would have jumped too. Moral of the story is don’t judge people for you never know what there going through and no matter how hard life is don’t jump it will get better ❤
Oh snap, I didn't know you rode bicycles. Love that on your roof
When you said she was thirty eight, that’s really needed to hear. This man is in for terrible time.
Life saving advice, but like they say….you can take the horse to the water, but can’t make it drink.
Bike rack on a McLaren? Awesome!
Its an Audi RS5 coupe....his daily driver. Its common to get bike racks for these in Europe.
1,192 views Sep 24, 2022 A 38 year old woman wants a baby, but isn't in love with her fiancé.
OK I got the memo.
This guy deserves better.
He needs to RUNAWAY as fast as his legs can take him.
She's too selfish to be a parent. Not having them is the kindest thing she can do.
Unfortunately, you don't need to be selfless to be a good parent. Not to be political but look at former President Trump. Even Sen. Hillary Clinton said he has an awesome family.
@@I_Lemaire
Oh give me a break, he'd throw his own children in jail to keep himself out.
He married women who were good mothers.
@@kellysmom9773 Well, still. Thats the point of the channel. Selfishness is strategic.
If She doesn't love him now once she gets the child she will brake everything off
I think I'm exactly heading in this direction and probably need to make a course correction
So it sounds like a pretty normal relationship then huh