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Comedian Bobby Lee needs to watch this
She didn’t confiscate his manhood but she definitely found his own balls before he did. Men’s fault for allowing women to do that
8:38 Evolution of Desire
Here's a question for you: Let's say he levels up, becomes alpha and starts laying down the law and she says "f this" and takes everything? That's the issue with marriage these days. His first mistake was getting married, 2nd having kids, now he's trapped.
Does he give up over 50% of everything he has, and then gets hooked with astronomical child support and alimony? Does he take the L and move on?
That's the thing about marriage, and that's why men die by a thousand cuts...."don't brush your teeth here" (if you don't do as I say I'm going to F you sideways) "don't put the white socks in the dark hamper" (if you don't do as I say I'm going to F you sideways) "take out the trash" (if you don't do as I say I'm going to F you sideways) "take me shopping" (if you don't do as I say I'm going to F you sideways) "carry my bags" (if you don't do as I say I'm going to F you sideways)
Get out of RUclips, misogynyst
I’m a 59 year old man and single now. My Dad’s advice when I married goes along with yours. She wants a man but after you get married she’ll try to change you, if you let her she won’t want you because you’re not the man anymore.
Wisdom
My ex kid you not try to get me to shave my chest. I said nope, next she tried to get me to stop “wasting money” on car audio I said nope. My next woman is 21 I’m 44. I told her I’m the man I will be for life take it or leave it, I won’t change. I’m at the point where I’m indifferent , don’t like it there’s the door.
Bingo, Im 57 and my ex pull that shit on me. I told her Im the same Man when we met. What makes u think I need to change? Yeah ur correct leaving your crazy ass
@@brianwaller7383 Have you read the way of the superior man?
If we ask women to change that's "abusive". Huge double standard by women.
I’m 49 now and dated a girl when I was 21, she was 18. She’s been married for nearly 20 years and has two kids. She recently told me a similar story and realized I was the one that got away. I’ve always been my own man, entrepreneur and winner in life, I guess you would call me an Alpha. So it’s true women pine for the Alpha that got away even after 30 years when their man becomes undesirable to them. She told him she doesn’t love him and always loved me. Wake up guys, every girl has this skeleton in her closet. Btw I told her I’m not a home wrecker and happy dating my 25 year old girlfriend 😆
Great man, good for you. I turned 40yesterday. I too hope to get a submissive young girl
Would an alpha be watching dating advice RUclips?
@@GordonFreeman. hah! got him🤣
@@GordonFreeman. Your watching the same video bruh
@@petershim9512 another talk the book too perfect story. Women are less likely than you or me to say they still love their high school sweetheart unless they get caught cheating with him
What's the difference between a wife and a girlfriend?
50 pounds.
“A marriage contract is the only agreement where a woman is richly rewarded for breaking it.”
-Rich Cooper💯
Rich, one of the worst things to happen to me is discovering your channel immediately AFTER my divorce. If I had discovered you in 2021, I might still be married. I was a classic beta by a thousand concessions. The concessions happened during the second decade of the marriage after we had a kid. I was alpha for the first 10 years and the marriage was amazing. I blame myself for losing frame and losing who I was when we got married.
D. A. M. N. So close to my own story.... But in less time.... But i do regret i found Rich too late
If your not a beta anymore like you say, then why would you still want to be married to her? No disrespect intended, and I am also a divorced man. But to have a relationship with a woman and you allow her to remain in your life if she earns it is absolutely understandable, however, signing a legal document that removes any leverage a man has and awards the women even if she violates her vows is the most beta thing I can think of. A woman's nature is her nature, you had your turn with her, now its time to ride newer more exciting rides.
and if you had discovered it way earlier, you might not have been marrried at all! 😂
The problem with situations like this is even if he does become more masculine and dominant, she will not want to submit to him. She will think that there can be two "alphas" in a relationship and will not change her behavior even if he steps up.
Agreed. That horse left the barn. I can’t think of any institution or organization or company that thrive on lack of clear hierarchal leadership. The leader must be the man because as this gentleman wisely points out, women cannot respect a man otherwise.
No guy should marry a woman that earns more than he does. This guy should have gone for a shop girl.
There's no way this woman is going to quit her business and earn less, so he's never going to have authority in their marriage.
I agree. As much as it is unlikely for him to change, same with her. For instance, if he is going to take care of more stuff, make more money to support the family, she needs to step back and take on more of the role with the kids and home - I am sure she doesn't want to do this. She simply wants him to be magically better, pick up all her slack while she rests from her nervous breakdown, and have him still do all the parent and household chores he is doing now.
She's not submissive. She owns a business, and she's used to giving the orders. She's a fool. She targeted a nice guy with family tendencies, and she's unhappy with that. The point is, is that she's defective, and probably watching too much Steve Harvey and Dr. Phil. The best thing she could do for him, is give him the kids and the house, and leave. All she's thinking about is getting her guts pulverized by some chad. Women are about 98% worthless nowadays. I'll bet she rarely cooks or cleans.
@@steverapos3904 ^ Exactly 💯
100%. i used to blame my wife all the time for this exact same thing, and then i realized i was an unplugged beta for my entire life…. She turned out to be the product of MY OWN INACTION in our failed marriage…. Never again
I have had a similar scenario in my last relationship, I was too nice and agreeable, tried to turn it around, but it did not end well. Although she also wanted to develop her soft, feminine side more, her inner bossgirl always got triggered when I would call the shots and be disagreeable. So after some fighting here and there (which was not too bad) and a lot of resistance on her side (which was bad since it was sabotaging all of my efforts) I finally gave up.
Now, a year later, I have a new girlfriend, a sweet, soft, warm, agreeable woman - who has her shit well together in life and business - but enjoys my lead and strong shoulder. So I believe developing passing along each other from feminine to masculine and vice versa is not easy. Bossbitches feel insecure without their artificial strenght and control.
This video is a very hard reality check for me as a married man. Im almost exactly as that woman’s husband. Getting Rich’s mindset means I have to unlearn everything I have believe for almost 50 years. I dont even know where to start.
LMFAOROTFLSM 🤣
You're not alone brother!
You can do it.
Your not alone, brother. Read Rich’s book, No Mr. Nice Guy, The Way Of Men, The Rational Men series. They help but also getting a 1-on-1 talk virtual chat with Rich. Take care of yourself. You deserve good things.
Got divorced because of that old programming, which never was my true self and did not attract her in the first place. Believe me I heard why I was not men enough, because of that BS old programming. Keep progressing your work on yourself and be the best version of yourself. Stand your ground.
This man should get a DNA test for his children.
100%
Every man should get a DNA test for his children.
@@basedblueboy8770 yes this is true.
Why? It won't matter he is already on the hook! All that will do at this point is create more drama internally and externally.
@@markskidz8114 The drama will eventually come, some years later. Better get this confirmed at once, or you will regret later.
I've been labeled an asshole because I insist that my wife maintain a reasonable weight, when she agreed to do this before we married,
I agreed to be faithful and have been !
I have a co worker who was surprised when I told him I get sex on demand and that the wife cooks and cleans. He said he would have to beg to get sex and that she never cooked. He had to do grocery store runs when he got home from work. I told him you have to demand it and be a person worth respecting. He is like 300-400lbs 6’ and I am 6’ 170lbs. Like Andrew Tate said “women will sleep with the guy if she respects them, even if they hate you, they will still sleep with you” “if they don’t respect you, they won’t sleep with you”
"if she respects them, even if they hate you, they will still sleep with you" - the whole male-female dynamics in one short in-your-face line. Bravo!..
So sorry for your wife . A slave 😔
Just ordered your book. Your videos have really been eye opening to me. Just going through a separation with my wife of 12 years and your channel has really helped me cope with everything. Thank you!!
Wishing you the best. I don’t know you, but I still want you to win 👍🏾
I broke up with mine after 12 years too. It totally caught me off guard and I never saw it coming. It leaves you bewildered and seeking answers to wtf happened. That’s what sent me down the rabbit hole. The things you will learn with shock you. Me I decided to totally stop any association with women. I haven’t touched a woman in 3 years now. I call it MONK MODE. I’m done. I’m simply not willing to put up with a culture of women who ALL have 100 men on their phone to replace me with at moments notice. I call the smart phone with social media a “ box of dicks”. Our grandmas didn’t have a box of dicks in their pocket to replace grandpa with when things got hard. They worked it out. But these women today don’t need to work it out they just open their box of dicks and get another one. I’m simply not willing to tolerate it. So at 38 it’s full monk mode for me. I’m cool with it. It’s better than being lied to, deceived, cheated, and mentally abused by entitled women. I’m a 6’2 good looking man too and I could easily get another woman if I wanted. But no I’m done.
When you learn to control your biology it doesn’t take long to realize a woman really has nothing to offer you. If you don’t need constant sex they are useless. They don’t make good friends and you can’t trust them . Men make much better friends.
What I did was buy a Harley and reconnect with old friends. Best decision ever
I know it’s hard man. It takes awhile to absorb. But you WILL make it man. I’m rooting for you brother. Godspeed
That obviously has to be tough, keep your chin up! Make yourself the beat man you can possibly be. Do not accept her back if she starts “dating” other males. I bet she will see the grass is definitely not greener out there.
You got this, just got out of a 4 year relationship with my ex, doing the same , re building and going back to my actual alpha self I was before I got betatized, just don't go back when she wants you back
What state/province are you divorcing in?
Let’s be honest, she’s sugar coating the story to make her seem more fair then she has been. He probably said he blames her one time and she’s running with it. Instead of women “testing” men in a negative way, why not reward them in a positive way when they are “strong”. If that’s what they are after is a strong guy then always breaking them down is never gonna work. You’re ruining perfectly fine men and turning them into bitches. And the worst part is, that man is yours and you made him a hell of a lot worse then when you first came into contact with him.
You know the truth. Rich isn't going to ridicule her because she's a paying customer, but the one thing I've learned after 22 years, is that every woman, my wife, and all the women she associates with, are all users. They're manipulative, two faced, stealing users. Not a one of them can be trusted to make the right judgment if they're left to their own devices. That woman that wrote Mr. Cooper is no different. Men need to understand the duplicitous nature of women, and treat them accordingly. Do not tolerate a disobedient, disrespectful woman in your life.
The red pill for a man: "I carry the burden of performance. I need to be the best version of myself for me and my family. They deserve nothing less."
The red pill for a woman: "I have the benefit of just "being". He needs to be the best version of himself for me and my family. I deserve nothing less."
This is the underlying foundation for all relationships; one is altruistic, the other is solipsistic, and it's a bitter pill to swallow when it isn't achieved. This woman will never get the satisfaction she demands. I suspect she bought into her relationship hoping to change him, and we know that doesn't happen.
To quote the Indiana Jones Templar Knight: "She chose poorly..."
Well described. That's it in a nutshell. Specially when it comes to the "I" and "me" part. That is the difference. Spot on!
Stop listening to what women SAY, and just watch what they do and react.
If she nags and nags at you despite your every attempt to please her, then your compliance is NOT what she wants.
Do the opposite. She'll probably get angry with you, but you'll also gain some respect back.
@Adam Peterson this is my last 3 years...
she always insists on doing stuff her way and disrespects me when i agree, when i dont she's like "we are done" and goes around packing stuff
cant forgive her anymore, i kinda want to kill her for destroying my productivity
@Adam Peterson yes it does
Nagging is unacceptable and should be called out . Make a point of doing the opposite or nothing at all in response..
Pearl of wisdom at 11:58. I'm a business owner who goes out of his way to be as generous and nice to the people who work for me as humanly possible, BUT despite this, I still have a reputation as an a55hole for no other reason that I enforce my boundaries.
Even when people cross my boundaries, I always start off as humbly and politely as possible, but it is amazing just how many people go through life looking for trouble. I think that my approach makes me initially appear to be a beta, which means that a large minority of people start off by trying to intimidate me. 99% of the time, they quickly figure out through social dynamics that my boundaries stand so they back down, and 1% of the time I make them regret it either through physical or legal violence.
Then suddenly you’re labeled a narcissist
Keep teaching us, Rich. Please don’t ever stop.
This woman's RED-Pill is nothing more than "The grass is always greener".
It's doubtful that she will let him win an argument when it's time for the rubber to meet the road.
Most bossy women [who are bosses] can't take criticism without fighting against it which will make him docile, to protect his family.
There's protecting his family from outsiders, but he's protecting his family from her.
I’m 💯 on me doing the driving in my household. My wife sometimes likes to push back but fortunately shes come off that and realizes that she honestly prefers that I drive, especially at night. It is a good way to take charge, take control and “ drive “ the relationship. It’s an easy change to make. Good observation Rich.
This is the only thing I don't quite get from Rich. No, my wife is not as good as I am at driving, but I can relax, nap, or do work stuff while she chauffeurs me around. Why is that bad?
I look at it this way...in the military, the most junior ranking person is the driver, and the highest rank sits in the front passenger seat to give orders.
My wife can’t even drive, she has bad eyesight. It’s been a strange blessing.
You hit the nail right on the head there Rich! So she says that her husband is "sweet, kind, loving and is a great father" and he is also one of the best people she has ever met. But then she goes on to say that she is no longer attracted to him and wants him to morph into one of these confident alphas walkin' tall that she's been getting heart palpitations over.
Problem is darlin' (as Rich has clearly pointed out), these types of alpha guys you admire are generally not sweet, kind, loving nor compliant like your husband; they generally present as unkind assholes and if your husband converts himself into one of these unplugged alphas then he will no longer possess the very qualities that you admire in him. I know you modern women are told that you can have it all, however in this case it seems that you certainly cannot.
LOL at marriage
Much better sweet,kind and humble men like my husband.
I agree, it's a paradox
Esther Perel speaks of being sexual as a decision and not letting the responsible parent and do gooder take over the whole persona. Need the yummy.
Telling a woman she's any less than 100% accountable for her decisions (like marrying a man who's not her type) is simping, and telling everyone how alpha you are just makes it worse.
I trained how to fight until I wasn’t scared anymore. Used to spar national champs but only ever had one fight which was in a bar in Thailand against another tourist lol… I just wanted to get rid of the fear then I moved on, ill only ever fight in self defence. No point risking getting your skull cracked open for your ego. Be smart boys! Don’t be a tough guy
My wife left me years ago! She said I was an inconsiderate asshole. Self employed, Working 24/7, not listening to her etc etc etc. Her mother’s advice? Kick him out “he’ll come running back”!! A few months later? She said “you just kept on running” lol a few years later she met someone “nice” but any issues with our kids? Where some sort of protection issue came up? A bully kid, trouble in school? Etc…I got the call to sort out the problem. I appreciated that she saw this skill in me but it would have been cool if she had told her mother to stay out of our marriage and stand behind me as her husband. Perhaps we would have had a great family life and I wouldn’t have had to deal with the family responsibility office destroying my life for 18 years!! Society has been attacking men for a long while. Crazy shit out there. In the end I admit I have been emotionally compromised kinda like PTSD. Traditionally, men who go to war were able to go on leave. There is no rest when you are in an 18 year financial conflict and the access to your children were taken away by your angry X and the courts. I definitely have trust issues with women now. Hopefully I can get over this mindset eventually. I would love to meet a cool girl to spend my life with. Kids are now grown and stable 18-23. I never gave up on them.
Fantastic video. I can’t stand when i see a woman bossing around her husband. I find myself in airports often and i see more and more frequently a woman leading the men and kids, handling tickets, leading through the airport maze, and the husband just following like one of the kids. It’s so freaking sad and pathetic.
Knowing how to fight is a wonderful feeling.
At least some women are starting to see some truth
Through pain, comes discipline.
Yeah when it's too late, when their in their mid to late 30s
That the red pill cult is dangerous. Yes,we see this truth
@@PoyTroy better late then never. I mean not for them of course but hopefully for the minority of younger women watching. This mess will take decades to fix but women speaking up is a start.
4:40 “you’re gonna have your floors cleaned anyway on a regular basis if your sorted out”
…. Me sweeping once a week lol
I realized this is very much true. Growing up my father couldn’t lead anything to save his life. He literally couldn’t. He was a huge beta male despite my mom wanting him to lead. My mom gave up being a Dentist so he could take charge and nothing. The guy wants to want it. If not sorry it’s not going to work that way.
The last 4-5 minutes are gold."You want better results set the standard higher."
Not every man is an alpha, but you don't have to be a doormat either.
I really like how you did not get onto this woman for being a ball buster (which she is) but rather pointed out that if her husband was not such a weenie, he would have made her toe the line. Great call. We can't control what others do, only how we respond to it. This was really a great topic, handled really well.
Older woman, girl boss, multiple kids. Anger, anxiety, breakdowns, etc. She's the right age for perimenopause or menopause. Every single item listed is a menopause symptom. Alot of women in this age range wake up one day and discover they hate their husbands. Their hormones changed and it's all over. The only therapy that might work is hormone replacement therapy to delay the fact she is slowly but surely turning into a man.
Preach it!!! Pretty sure I'm going thru this right now - -
Older vvomen are simply low value.
Martial arts always gets mentioned but I never hear firearms brought up. I know things are different in Canada and the blue states, but it can be a nice thing to get into. My dad taught me to shoot a long time ago but it's become a serious thing for me being able to protect myself and my family.
I think only part of it is the self-defense aspect, the rest is about primal aggression. Hitting another person with your fist releases something within you that even full-auto shooting doesn't. And full-auto is awesome!
But if you do shoot, at least do competitive shooting, going to the range or the back 40 and shooting beer bottles wouldn't count.
First thing i noticed she said she is a 5.7 on the SMV scale... She is over 30, has two kids, and describes herself as someone who drinks too much and is overweight... I think we may be getting some "white lies" here. It sucks her husband is a beta, but most dudes are who get married in their 20s and have kids. Best bet is to get your husband in with rich or at least get him to watch some videos. Ultimately though he needs to make the choice.
This is one of your better videos. I agree with the majority of what you've said here. Women are just not turned on by soft, agreeable men.
She drinks to much and let herself become fat, and that's his fault?!
Accountability is a foreign concept, to women.
in a sense yes, bc while she was doing this and probably having random crying and outbursts he would reply "its ok honey i love you no matter what!". In reality he should have brought it up earlier "your drinking too much, lets go work out, etc." , but dude is so beta his own wife who sounds type A has realized she is miserable bc she is acting like a man.
@@johnsmith-kt7ef No, we are all responsible for our own choices, so don't bring that shit up. Muppets blame others!
It's his fault if it bothers him and he doesn't do anything about it
My husband drove but I maintained our car's service schedules and regularly checked the tire pressure whilst he sat in the car. We're seperated now. Growing up fatherless ( he died when I was five) I watched my mother do everything and I naturally did that too. I am missing nothing at all with my husband not being here and it made me realise how we were absolutely not a team. Quite a sad realisation.
I must admit, I am very surprised Rich did not make the obvious diagnosis. This woman wanted a family, so she married a stable beta. Only after she has now built her life does she have contempt for her husband. I know Rich wants to help guys be better men, but he has to call out this woman's hypocrisy.
Bottom line: Rule,..or be ruled!
Thank you Rich. I find the content high quality and very helpful. There is no good reason why young men have to wander through the world without a compass. Looking forward to more.
If she is driving, it is because she doesn't trust you to protect her. Or you lost your license for drinking. But likely the 1st reason
Mine always asked me to drive.
When I was bluepilled, I would get pissed off at having to adjust the seat and mirrors.
Constant fights. Now I understand that she was trying to give me the dynamic. Now I just accept it, and everything is calm.
@@DP-cz9xi my current woman will drive us if the trip is just around town because during the week I drive Semi. She knows by Saturday I am sick of being in a vehicle and dealing with traffic. So her driving in a way is to make sure she is in my frame and has respect. If the trip is longer, I will drive her car 1st and she can drive on the way back if I am not feeling it. . Her kia gets 40mpg compared to my BMW which gets 25mpg and only takes premium. I used to be way softer with her and she walked all over me. Then I got sick of it and basically told her "comply or goodbye" and then soft next her ass. Now she has no doubt that I will drop her for any reason and works hard to keep my attention. I may not be a 10 but I am a fucking asshole and they love assholes more than 10's
@@LordVader.66
Yeah I get you. I had a long commute to work and often didn't feel like driving after sitting in two hours traffic.
I understand your ultimatum. I did something similiar because I was sick of the bullshit.
After a couple of books and some podcasts, I quickly realized that it was me. I was "nice" I flipped 180.
The problem is that as a man when a woman takes over initially it is “easy” for a man. He will think “ohh I can just go along for the ride and be compliant and have my happy wife happy life”. Little does he know he just strapped his rear end on the crazy train!
When I was younger, I couldn't wait to find the love of my life. Now, after learning so much about how marriage REALLY works, I become less and less interested in risking everything for it. I have enough complications and bullshit in my life, I don't want or need the additional stress of having a boss at home who can give me my walking papers for no reason at all, along with the financial anal raping that comes with it. You can always find another job if you get fired or laid off, but if you get divorced, you can possibly never recover financially, emotionally or mentally. Today, with social media, feminists, boss bitches and overly entitled twats, the risk is just insane.
I'll just leave it here: You can still have great intimate relationships without bringing in the government to ruin your life © someone smart AF
If I were a single man at this stage of my life, I would never ruin it by allowing a woman in again. I only care about what's between their legs. The rest is just a huge hassle.
We’ll said, thank you
I agree that many women are drawn to alpha…there’s no question on that. The thing that makes me stop though is the line where alpha = asshole. I have had the biggest crushes on the men in my field of work who are domineering overall, but they don’t belittle or disrespect you as a woman. The few men that come to mind were strong leaders, but they were more assertive and respectful of your stance in whatever issue was under debate. Assertive vs Aggressive is where I think some men lose women on this whole concept. I feel most at home when my husband takes the lead, which is pretty much always, though if he’s speaking to me rudely, I’m just not going to take that. Nobody should…I will come back and discuss it when he’s cooled down. Aggression will repel many women, but assertiveness and respect for where she’s coming from while taking the lead is hotter than I can explain. Those men are unbelievably attractive, and hard to get out of your head. I’ve been married a long time, and when my husband is the assertive leader, great things happen. Sex is pretty effortless at that point lol…even after many years of marriage. Anyway, this situation seems really common with married couples. I see it everywhere.
This is pure gold knowledge, Thank you for this kind of videos!
This happened to me, but no more. I know now what I need to do, this is a good reminder. Rich speaks truth.
A lawyer friend says 9 out of 10 marriages are financially ruined by the woman’s overspending.
Excellent content. All women need to hear this.
Agreed. When (if) he makes that turn, puts his foot down, he has to be willing to say, “if you don’t like x, there’s the door” and let the chips lie where they may. Many women threaten divorce if he doesn’t comply. He has to be willing to say, “bring it, I’ll live in a f’n van…” He has to be willing to not be held hostage to her demands.
I totally agree with you Rich. Will she really like or be able to accept the guy he becomes, the guy that takes the lead. She’s gotta be willing to hear him say, “f off. There’s the door…”
It shouldn’t have to come to that, but some ladies push the control issues.
Totally, never let her drive. Only a couple times it’s right. 1. You had too much to drink, or 2. Your wicked exhausted because you’ve just done the 12 hour stretch of driving through the night and need a nap, she can take it home the last couple hours.
Stand your ground gentleman. Shouldn’t have to be a dick about it, but if someone is going to playing angles to turn you inside out, you have to see the manipulation tactics being deployed or else your roast duck
Self accountability is not in a woman's abilities
Facts. Lack of accountability
Nailed it. Going thru a divorce right now and naturally it’s 100% my fault.
Think of a man, then take away reason and accountability.
@@starguy2718 Great movie!
Why the need of being sexist ?
Rich thank you. This is one of your finest videos. Your Boss Lady perspective is genuine old school common sense. How grateful I am to have a brilliant, beautiful wife that is 100% female. When I look to the right it fuels my drive. There is nothing "up" with those dudes riding in the passenger seat. Seriously, back in the horse and buggy days, a man would need to be sick or shot to hand a lady the reines. Highly capable women delivered us men into this world. The least a man can do is respectfully open her door to the passenger seat.
Very difficult to make a relationship of two alphas work. Both will try to lead
Totally agree
Yup. My ex was masculine as hell. I take after my father as a more passive man (I rarely engage in fights/arguments and will instead speak through my actions meaning I’ll just dump the girl rather than trying to argue with her) Shit got old real fast with her constantly trying to argue with me over dumb bs (which I always shut down by never engaging with)
@@clownworld4655 don't see anything wrong being passive. Engaging in arguement and fights is emotionally draining. But it is what it is.
We should find more content how to survive being passive. Sometimes being aggressive doesn't work man. Maybe during the middle ages.
I understand men are competitive. But there are those who feels that's it's way easier to give up. Theses are the people that need support. Not getting bull from their fellow peers. Now that's bullshit.
Rich mentions the book 'The evolution of desire'. This book is extremely valuable. For anyone out there who is interested, buy this book. It is a very good complement to Rich´s teachings.
When I hear the phrase "boss girl" the song from Super Troopers comes to mind, Pink Slip, the last four lines; it repeats tell them all to fuq off
Alpha female is the opposite of an alpha male, not the same as one. An alpha female is super feminine, traditional, beautiful and submissive. Women have this weird thing where they want to become the men that they're attracted to.
Bro, there's no such thing as "alpha female" feminine or masculine as they come. She is a woman who needs to embrace her femininity and I am a man who needs to embrace my masculinity. That's it really.
i totally agree with u 🙂we r different and women r turning into a "toxic" version of men.
I usually don't comment but this is very true. Every time I notice progress in my life I've stepped up. Even though I might not be the reason for the problem. My brother once sued by a business connection. We just kept grinding. Even harder. And we won. So is life often.
If you join a martial arts gym, learn what it feels like to be punched in the face and not be afraid. It’s a great confidence booster.
I was playing basketball few weeks ago I got an elbow to the face on a rebound (unintentional) I went down and made a three seconds afterwards. I’m not afraid of contact I’m also a football player body playing basketball so I barely feel any contact playing. My point being the contact didn’t rattle me like it would most
Mr Cooper, you give me goosebumps. Thank you for existing.
Thank you for saying there isn't an alpha female I see some trying to claim that and I feel this need to correct them
There are very dominant, controlling women types. I suppose that's what they're trying to say. Usually men and women find such people very repulsive and yet, with their dominant behaviours they achieve many of their agendas. Usually those agendas are sinister and selfish.
I had 2 female co-workers that thought they were both "Alpha", what it really was in their case was they were not easy to get along with. (Especially with other women.)
My wife will drive sometimes so I can look around , usually her spot is the navigator, so I can pay attention to the road, she often thanks me for my patience when she messes up and we have to turn around
No way! If the husband ignores or refuses to change when his wife complains then he becomes “unsafe” and she finds a safer man. Staying an alpha leads to divorce, becoming a beta leads to divorce. Answer: don’t get married
The fact that her man is blaming him means that he feels miserable with his role in their relationship.
As soon as he becomes a stronger masculine man she will divorce him as she won't want him anymore.
the car thing is so simple but crazy how much it's changed the past few years.
just look at car commercials, it's usually a a couple with 2 kids, the family is every color, and the driver is usually the wife / "partner"
Way to GO --bravo for this SEGMENT!
You say only weak men blame others, but that isn't following any merit-based principles. Sometimes others are to blame, and if you only blame yourself, then that is pathological.
Love this episode! You showed both sides of the coin to both genders... Both have to change and do the work if they want it to work out!
I give this woman respect for being aware, being honest, self-reflecting, and reaching out to try and find a solution. That's a sign of maturity and it's quite attractive. It's unfortunate that she's with someone she doesn't truly respect and desire. I personally don't think it's salvageable but I do with the her and her man, the best.
If there was anything about this husband that could be moulded into something resembling a tough alpha male, he wouldn't be married in the first place. Complete waste of time and effort.
Brazilian jiu jitsu changed my life!
Sword training and boxing has helped me! How's your jiu jitsu training coming along?
@@judgementwings I have done it for 9 years. It is great :)
@@judgementwings I did boxing too, that was a lot of fun.
The damage is done. This will not turn around.
When you tell men to be Alfa it makes life so much better for women. Women's leb really screwed women
“Allowing him…”. There we go
Red pill is not easy to take for a lot of men..Years of programming.
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This happened to me too. I knew something was off with my relationship -but it wasn’t until I met a real alpha that it became obvious that I was wearing the pants in my relationship. I shared my thoughts about our dynamic to my beta boyfriend and what I learned -gave him an opportunity to step into the masculine role and I in my feminine role. I realized it was best to end the relationship luckily we were not married and had no children. My advice for her is to relax and lean back into your feminine essence-Anna Rova is a good guide and has a podcast called “claimed”. Good luck. 🍀
Wait a second. Were you still with your boyfriend when you met "a real alpha" and are you with that guy now? Also how did you give him the opportunity to step into his masculine role?
@@hurrifanc.3434 I met the alpha at a family event (he is good friends with my cousin). We did not get together. I was up front with him that I was in a committed relationship. He respected that. We never got together. He is around my family at some events but never got into a romantic relationship. Once I broke up with my beta bf I took some time off from relationships all together. I realized I needed to do some inner work for myself and get in touch with my feminine essence. The alpha eventually found his young lady (happy for him).
I communicated to my beta bf how I was feeling about the dynamic -I gave him an opportunity to step into the leadership masculine role. I think he didn’t understand or see the value in this balance. He was set in his ways and preferred a woman to lead. I saw that the attempt of the role shift was uncomfortable to him. I lost attraction to him day by day. I did not want to be with intimate with him. I didn’t feel safe with him. What really was the tipping point was when him and I were out walking my dog and an irate homeless man was approaching me and he ran the other direction instead of thinking to pull me with him or get in-between me and the danger.
@Kiwi2 lol good one. No he found a lovely Romanian girl (not me). Which I have also met. They are a great match. I personally will be content with the right man. I learned and now I know what I want. I was not actively seeking out other men and I already knew something was off this was a lesson I needed to learn. I sense that you have been hurt and are bitter. Do the work -the healing. There is someone for everyone. Best of luck.
@Kiwi2 instead of trying to bring me down to your lowly level -go chase excellence and book a one on one session with Mr. Cooper. Sounds like you need a little help 😂.
@Kiwi2 I would rather be single the rest of my life than settle for a beta male 🤷🏻♀️. However, I am now ready to date, putting myself out there and have many options. Let the best man win 🏆. As for you -if you don’t level up and upgrade your mind set-you’ll be unhappy and single forever. I don’t wish that on anyone. Sending you positive vibes 🪄
It's funny, I see the same thing and feel the same way about women driving. What's funnier is the women driving the husband and family, unless there are mitigating circumstances - is it's a metaphor for the relationship/family dynamic, yes? Keep up the good work, Rich!
For one thing you are absolutely right - I remember we had funny fights with my wife (she is aggressive sometimes and tries to punch my arms 😂 and I let it) just because I’ve said on occasion “shut up and listen, woman! I will not be pushed around in my house - sit on that couch and be beautiful!” 😅
I was raised by an alpha, and handle myself this way. My marriage was good, until I had a few health problems and became unemployed. Then she started disrespecting me, calling me controlling and even choked me while I was laid up on the couch with covid. For the silly reason that I wouldn't clean out the freezer when she asked. I called the cops and made a report. I set up counseling and we are going. Soon as I let my guard down, she tried to take my roll as alpha. Now I'm back and setting shit straight and I'm regaining my position by not accepting bullshit, holding her accountable, and ready to leave if I have to. And letting her know I'll leave, sell the house gain 100k and start over.
This was really good. If most men could listen to this we could save the world.
From my experience ladies: these men won’t magically transform into leaders. They will forever want to hide behind the system and laws and society - never taking any responsibility or action. For me the last straw broke when I started making more money than him, had just gotten my hunting license and he told me that he didn’t want weapons in the house… By that point all he was doing in his free time was playing video games (1st person shooter funnily enough) and printing miniature figurines for board games with his friends. 🙈
Do you have a truck and a boat, ill be your huckleberry, Oh check the tire pressure and split that wood lol
@@setha360 Actually spent a decent amount of time splitting and sorting away wood for this winter as oil prices continue to rise over here in Germany. I also happen to have a truck and two kayaks for summer trips across the lakes and fishing. Wanna come visit? ;)
You thought your 🐱 could change him.🤣🤣
This woman's hubby should read " No more Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover.
My wife gets upset that I don’t tolerate bs, we argue about it because she says that I’m a prick but she sure loves me to negotiate a deal or handle most situations
Thanks!
No problem!
Bobby Lee needs to see this asap
Just because you hold your ground doesn't mean she won't leave you.
Then she says "we fight too much, I'm not happy" then leaves
@@jsts22 For real.
This is doomed. This guy is my childhood friend exactly, a total submissive. And these guys always marry a domineering woman. And no matter how many times you tell these guys that they have to stand up to their wives and be a dick sometimes even if it pisses her off, they will never do it. They always chicken out. And these women really want them to stand up to them and show backbone, but they are too weak to do it. So it is doomed.
Happy men, happy world.
Grade a solid advice absolutely true
Thank you Rich
You’ve been a light and encouragement for me during a dark time
I wondered who Andrew Tate was based upon his ad for an Infowars energy supplement
Your hilarious thumbnail for the over 40 women can’t find men is what led me to him
Thank you dude
I’m in a lull but am about to rise
Almost 50 but not too late
I will start with a Mercedes AMG GTR, probably 😃
Cheers friend
good book I read it, right on the money
Just loved this, bang on Rich, thk u
Very true with the car thing lol
Rich Cooper is right, the chances of them BOTH changing as much as is required for this couple to make it work is _extremely_ remote.
Brothers I am a hard-core beta. It's just ingrained in my nerves and finding very hard to get over it. Was friendzoned by a girl for 4 to 5 years. After watching red pill content, I told her I want to stop communicating to her but still found myself messaging her asking for some details just to get ghosted. She messaged me general things like happy Diwali I didn't replied. But after few days my fucking mind made me msg her to enquire "how can sell these products in your region". Other than that I not speaking to other girls don't have any game, porn is in the picture to fill the void. I am pathetic and hate myself. I am ruined.
sorry brotha. i recommend you get in the gym ASAP, it will help you. do it. you wont regret
Patrice O’Neal mentioned this years ago. “Women want a man who they can look at in face and blink slowly at”. They need to be reaffirmed to know they picked the winner.
I really think it's a great deal Rich can preface what they're up to if they decide to implement change in terms of the resistance that might occur. Pure understanding of human relationship behavior. Needless to say I'm an avid follower.