Dealing with mama's boys!| Dating a man who listens more to his mother than you

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @yoda12121
    @yoda12121 2 года назад +15

    Man territorial ain't the word lol. It's almost like the mother and son are dating or married making you feel like you in the way.

  • @joannparker1977
    @joannparker1977 2 года назад +15

    Take it from me: I don’t care how much y’all love each other, even to the extent you’re soulmates. Run away. End the relationship no matter how awful, wrenching, and heartbreaking it is. I married one. And we have two beautiful, successful adult children. My husband and I have been married 39 years. And Momma is always there. Even if she’s not physically. That “honeymoon phase” always ends. In healthy couples, it’s just a natural transition. But when you marry someone that’s a “run to Mommy anytime I _____” man, your rude awakening comes in short-order.

    • @shereent3121
      @shereent3121 Год назад +3

      Agreed. Drama if you do wrong, or right. My Son's, it will be 100% on them, and if my Son comes to me with relationship issues, I will tell him he did something wrong, not her. No one has a right to speak on someone, when they haven't seen both sides of the story. My Daughter, lol, will be an opposite scenario, she can come stay with Mommy when she is not being treated in the perfect of Princess care.

  • @hadassahmutuku8458
    @hadassahmutuku8458 4 года назад +19

    Mamas boy is a red flag itself......a no go zone manze😂😂

  • @eunicewavinya244
    @eunicewavinya244 4 года назад +23

    Mamas boys are very dangerous..... Cheiii...don't even look back,ruuuuuuuuun for ua dear life

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад +9

    My then boyfriends Mom use to call him everyday,and even when we got married and living with her she desroyed our marriage and knew she knew she couldn't control the daughter in law,Than she would allow him to tell her every part of our marriage and it broke us...and our bond

  • @Star-e3n
    @Star-e3n 3 года назад +19

    I’ve noticed about the mamas boy, It seems it’s always the most attractive or one of the youngest sons they favor the most. It’s sickening! They need to spend all that obsessive energy on finding a man for themselves.

  • @Barr.JoyO.
    @Barr.JoyO. 3 года назад +3

    🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️ Benji is making more sense than he may realize

  • @AmicahSkinS3crets
    @AmicahSkinS3crets 3 года назад +8

    Hahaha, I had this experience with someone I was in a relationship with, I was never cool with his mum calling me all the time even though I thought she was soo loving, now I know why, Thank God for His grace I got out of that.

  • @sly6248
    @sly6248 2 года назад +8

    This happened to me and I bolted, it was too much. The mother, the sister eh!! Phone calls, messages, questions...at some point I was talking to the mother more than I did the son....twas like I was dating the mother!!

    • @christianmaterial2417
      @christianmaterial2417 Год назад +1

      I have a child with a mama's boy. Yesterday he told me that I should communicate with the mother anything relating the child. Every conversation involves her. And the mother is always a call away. I won't take away the fact that she is really nice and loving but NOOOo.

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад +6

    True never love the point where he can't protect you...against toxic family

  • @phindievicky1606
    @phindievicky1606 4 года назад +6

    Yah🤔, S.Africa watching....what Benjamin is saying it's true. Am in this type of marathon 😀 and the mother died 3 yrs ago and it has been worse because the man is unprotective. He got me for kids dats all . 'Deal with you man'😂😂. I need my own space.

  • @zanne9124
    @zanne9124 4 года назад +11

    May you please put English subtitles when your speaking in your language because I don't understand it please. Thank you in advance. Love all the way from South Africa.🇿🇦

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers
    @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers 3 года назад +4

    You are talking the whole truth.

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад +2

    They checked of they could control me but when they couldn't control me they started hating me and started trying to remove me,his in his Mother pockets so they got angry when I only gave one grandchild

  • @akhonamakeleni2051
    @akhonamakeleni2051 3 года назад +2

    Well I am from South Africa where where Xhosa women are viewed as gold diggers and not submissive. I dated a guy from a different tribe and I still remember when he told me that his parents want him to get married. To cut the long story short he is now married not to me, he is the only boy in the family.

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад +1

    My in-laws became so bad,That my partner would take his Mom side rather than his wifes

  • @lydiahmwaura2160
    @lydiahmwaura2160 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for these very educative talks,,,pls benjamin can you talk about rejection one day

  • @quiniesha1
    @quiniesha1 Год назад

    No need to waste my future in this scenario. Thank you

  • @christianmaterial2417
    @christianmaterial2417 Год назад

    Heeeeh, this comment section is a venting for some of us, because 1, i have a child with a Mamas boy and yesterday he told me to consult the mother about anything relating with the child, 2. My Daughter can not say with a nanny or go to cresh because Granma is there. 3. To him marriege is ONLY about getting a Daughter in Law for his Mom's. 4. If you ask him for anything he will say he has responsibilities. And those responsibilities included building a house for him Mother. Hes a youngest child.

  • @teclamumbi1579
    @teclamumbi1579 4 года назад +1

    Mpee huyu jamaa show yake banaa ama muekee full circle with Joyce and Zulu

  • @newlookzone6902
    @newlookzone6902 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for this segment. Enligting

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @kenyatv8574
    @kenyatv8574 4 года назад +2

    I think Benjamin fits so much advising rich people than poor people on relationship issues I write this in reference to his latest advices on citizen Tv. He always forget that majority of Kenyan citizens are struggling to put food on the mouth.

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

    • @kenyatv8574
      @kenyatv8574 3 года назад +2

      @@favoursenfuma1500 I know you are not the person you depict to be but just a mere Nigerian conman. You're tarnishing Nigerian name and you are making almost everyone from other countries to think that every Nigerian is a conman

    • @sandrass560
      @sandrass560 3 года назад +3

      @@kenyatv8574 I can see why you say what you say, but you know what: a lot of poverty (especially in women) is really really caused and enhanced by bad relationships. People who waste time and break their hearts and get bad boyfriends lose so so much time and money. And the children born into that are usually born into struggle and poverty!! Imagine if many people waited before having sex, built themselves first even if it is a small business and chose a partner well. Would the poverty be the same? I believe not. Let us not be of the mindset that poverty is forever and that we must sit in pity instead of standing up and fighting together against this curse. Watch the other videos that he has about poverty mentality and how people really feel that they can't get out. Being poor does not mean that you cannot listen to wisdom about life and relationships. I'm of the opinion that it may be the ticket OUT of poverty for some... At least for their potential children.

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад +3

    You marry into a family not the family

  • @sheilarono395
    @sheilarono395 4 года назад

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 ghai and my fev is mama best baby the best part is he is wild no one can control him so they cal me

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @kipj9900
    @kipj9900 3 года назад

    So helpful!

  • @puritymurithi3785
    @puritymurithi3785 4 года назад +1

    diamond life a beg!

  • @PriscahAndisi-hw5gs
    @PriscahAndisi-hw5gs Месяц назад

    Facts me once upon a tym bt l was clever to such nonsense wen they used to trap me with calls wen am beaz

  • @ABY-GAYLE
    @ABY-GAYLE 4 года назад +2

    Waaah true

  • @divinegirl5670
    @divinegirl5670 4 года назад

    I love this guys advise. How can we reach him Joyce ??

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @atheatango3765
    @atheatango3765 2 года назад

    Yes mine was a shewolf...

  • @risperwambui8369
    @risperwambui8369 4 года назад +1

    Flee!!!

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @millicentsonia4955
    @millicentsonia4955 4 года назад

    I was one in this trap

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @dianahvuyanzi1600
    @dianahvuyanzi1600 4 года назад

    Second to view

    • @favoursenfuma1500
      @favoursenfuma1500 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @suzyezette6597
    @suzyezette6597 5 месяцев назад

    Pi mampuihhh