Should I rush to marriage because my agemates are now married

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  • Опубликовано: 31 янв 2025

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  • @ireneakoth6696
    @ireneakoth6696 4 года назад +89

    I can listen to this kind of inspiration for a million times..This is so encouraging.Am glad av been part of this journey and I have so much grown . Am 23 but now am thinking like a 36 years old coz of this show.Blessings to Benjamin Zulu ,Joyce and the technical team

  • @phindilenene4622
    @phindilenene4622 4 года назад +31

    Never keep friends that you're not learning from!

  • @nasidlukwana6068
    @nasidlukwana6068 4 года назад +92

    I just discovered this channel and I must say I've been missing out. Watching all the way from South Africa

  • @friedashifotoka6556
    @friedashifotoka6556 4 года назад +51

    Benjamin Zulu is blessed with so much wisdom

  • @nwabisaphikwa9790
    @nwabisaphikwa9790 4 года назад +22

    I could watch Benjamin a thousand times! What a wise man! Thank you 🙏🏼

    • @violahnnn
      @violahnnn 3 года назад

      I watch his videos everyday

  • @pendoj5622
    @pendoj5622 4 года назад +64

    Reminds me when I met a friend in town and asked me why I am not driving yet I work for an NGO hehehe I smiled assured the person am okay with public transport.

    • @annenjoroge9695
      @annenjoroge9695 4 года назад +5

      When time comes, all things will be made beautiful..you wait and see and trust in God.

    • @beeyoutiful4086
      @beeyoutiful4086 4 года назад +1

      What a mean question😳

    • @Mindful_Mm
      @Mindful_Mm 4 года назад +1

      @@beeyoutiful4086 it's just people's mindset out here... As if having a car at the first occasion is such a big achievement... Even my phone is the most important than it.

  • @jainabajallow2098
    @jainabajallow2098 3 года назад +2

    A friend/sister sent this link to me, with the caption - let me introduce to you the guy you should be listening to for the first half of this year. Yes I got you a mentor. You don’t need to thank me, what are sisters for?
    She’s indeed one of the two friends I need. Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @RoseMary-fe2pu
    @RoseMary-fe2pu 4 года назад +30

    The man with full of wisdom...keep firebuning zulu👏👏👏👏

  • @kyampeiredoreen118
    @kyampeiredoreen118 4 года назад +14

    I can't stop watching this video, I even shared the link with my friends. I am 23 years living in Kampala Uganda , ofcourse I ain't able to catch the show live but am following the RUclips updates plus following Benjamin Zulu on social media. I derive alot of inspiration and motivation from these conversations.
    Thank you Joyce for these thoughtful conversations. The young African woman and man who gets to interact with this content will forever be grateful ♥️ and never be the same again

    • @linda-l9m5z
      @linda-l9m5z 4 года назад

      @Kyampeire Doreen
      True true..my thoughts exactly

  • @meggymwangi2438
    @meggymwangi2438 4 года назад +36

    When Benjamin talked about university students and their laziness it felt like i was being addressed ,,

    • @winniephena5353
      @winniephena5353 4 года назад

      Same here haha...

    • @semolematjila9662
      @semolematjila9662 4 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @emmanu1818
      @emmanu1818 3 года назад

      Lucky you you don't develop feelings when the truth is spoken,not like other peers

  • @teklamhagama8659
    @teklamhagama8659 4 года назад +9

    Oh wow!! This is Benjamin, I feel like God is speaking to me through this man...God bless you Benjamin and sister Joyce.

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 4 года назад +23

    Success is leaving a good legacy 👌🏿 not material possessions

  • @rhodahj7121
    @rhodahj7121 4 года назад +16

    True there is no comparison between me and others everyone has his/her own race thanks joyce for this topic very educative,,great message.

  • @norahnayebare5313
    @norahnayebare5313 4 года назад +12

    Thanks Benjamin, u have taught me a lot. I like the host too koz of her maturity, calmness and accent

    • @joypeacewisdom
      @joypeacewisdom 4 года назад +1

      Yes she is very well spoken and she carries the interview/conversation with perfect momentum.

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 4 года назад

      You really understand it

  • @aloyovicky5148
    @aloyovicky5148 4 года назад +9

    I can never get tired of learning from your program

  • @judykananu9955
    @judykananu9955 4 года назад +17

    i totally agree gosh benjamin 35 was my target and everyone thought I was crazy

  • @dee1nesh738
    @dee1nesh738 4 года назад +8

    Oh my I love this guy's energy. I just discovered this channel today and I love it

  • @estherkingori8760
    @estherkingori8760 4 года назад +4

    Wow just came across this show with Joyce and am so addicted to it. Av watched all the past shows. Very informative and educative, thank you , keep it coming.

  • @hilenimoshana5455
    @hilenimoshana5455 3 года назад +1

    I started watching this show last year it really helped me alot. Thank you very much Mr Zulu my God continue blessing you with more wisdom. You are really changing life all over Africa. Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @gilliethelele8921
    @gilliethelele8921 4 года назад +11

    I LOVE the Inspirations ...... 🙏🙏🙏🙏From South Africa🇿🇦 !!! Zulu Man In the Studio is Inspiring.

  • @timewithruth
    @timewithruth 4 года назад +5

    Wow, these videos are changing my life! *Full of wisdom*

  • @altheadickerson4771
    @altheadickerson4771 9 месяцев назад

    You never stop learning ; I consider myself a ' life- time ' student. I'm appreciative that @ 60+ , I am learning here.‼️😊📚🙏🏾

  • @erikaamwaama551
    @erikaamwaama551 4 года назад +12

    You not defined by being in a relationship, you can have love even if you are not in a relationship

  • @kudzieCPV
    @kudzieCPV 4 года назад +1

    Watching from Zimbabwe, I'm happy the way you express timeless true Benjamin n Joyce, what a great combination.

  • @kizibellaauma209
    @kizibellaauma209 4 года назад +5

    I just lov this man full of wisdom. Learning alot from ur topics.

  • @mazikode6697
    @mazikode6697 4 года назад +1

    Guys. I am watching from South Africa. Listen. This show is Gold. Thank you for bringing us this wholesome content. We need to talk more about this. People are going through the most trying to achieve things for others.

  • @sanggideon6937
    @sanggideon6937 4 года назад +12

    So educative, I really thank God for tuning in.

  • @estherannemacharia8282
    @estherannemacharia8282 4 года назад +2

    I'm getting inspired! I'm glad I discovered this show recently....Thank you Joyce and Benjamin!

  • @jedidahwangare6724
    @jedidahwangare6724 4 года назад +5

    Whatever you want in life try the wisdom first and faith I love your show.

  • @caramel9244
    @caramel9244 4 года назад +3

    I’m extremely inspired by u Benjamin..great great content always! 👌🏾 My nephew & niece of 15 & 17 yrs were really inspired as well! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @allenvicky3808
    @allenvicky3808 4 года назад +3

    Am so greatiful, I can't stop looking for all your vidios, I have just subscribed, this is really mine, I thought I was lost but am not really because I had few friends than my mates. This is really teaching.
    Watching in Uganda.

  • @michaelonyechefuna1227
    @michaelonyechefuna1227 3 года назад

    Greatness is about faithfulness to your Mission. This is great. Move in Target 💯💯💯.

  • @faithchikati8599
    @faithchikati8599 4 года назад +1

    This....This is precious. Pure gold.

  • @tshepi6312
    @tshepi6312 4 года назад +2

    I'm so inspired by your wisdom Mr Zulu and your motivational talks changed my way of thinking

  • @emmakaruri9267
    @emmakaruri9267 4 года назад +2

    Hi Benjamin & Joyce, you've helped me a lot in the situation am in right now.

  • @angelanakiganda
    @angelanakiganda 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Benjamin Zulu🙌🏾. Just found this but you’ve answered questions people claim I’m too young to ask . Thank you

  • @jacklinekaranja5613
    @jacklinekaranja5613 4 года назад +2

    Trusting the process. thank you benjamin zulu for your wisdom you are always inspiring and to joyce the show is always uplifting. God bless you all

  • @yolandagoniwe1637
    @yolandagoniwe1637 4 года назад +1

    Am listener from South Africa all I can say where have you been all my life...love you guys👌

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 4 года назад +3

    I agree about having 2-3 good friends. I always wonder about these ladies who have like 25 friends, what do they discuss in such a huge crowd? And they always seem to be having get togethers 🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 года назад

      @paulettie mwami 🤣🤣🤣correct

  • @bosslady2973
    @bosslady2973 4 года назад +10

    Woow....you are really inspiring me..this is sth that happens in our daily lives..Zulu...!!👏🏻👏🏻

  • @ms.kayzondwa3176
    @ms.kayzondwa3176 4 года назад +10

    Greetings to both of you, you are so amazing. It's been three days now since stumbling on this RUclips page and have been binging on your episodes. Wow....I'm lost for words, learning a lot, love your presentation of the show, the topics are so educational and quite inspiring. Sending you love from South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦❤️❤️

  • @bethelrutschmann3737
    @bethelrutschmann3737 3 года назад

    New to the show watching from Switzerland 25 learning a lot Thank you all for the good work

  • @asandamatolweni7081
    @asandamatolweni7081 4 года назад +4

    Zulu yout a wiseman, listening from South Africa. I also laugh when u speak in vernacular even thought i cannot fully understand shona. Thankyou for all this wisdom sharing

    • @chiku4082
      @chiku4082 4 года назад +3

      He's speaking Swahili though not Shona

    • @zimflame2368
      @zimflame2368 4 года назад

      It's not Shona dear

  • @aloyovicky5148
    @aloyovicky5148 4 года назад +2

    Mr Zulu your so wise beyond reasonable doubt. You're both looking so neat.

  • @angelanakiganda
    @angelanakiganda 3 года назад

    Be faithful to your assignment 🔥❤️
    Your purpose in life is key

  • @murendierendie9710
    @murendierendie9710 4 года назад

    I just discovered this channel.... So much wisdom.. I'm blessed every time i listen to Benjamin zulu

  • @lilianmidigo6600
    @lilianmidigo6600 4 года назад +6

    This guy speaks a lot of sense.

  • @peninahkamau895
    @peninahkamau895 4 года назад +5

    Good conversation here,its good to be urself for real

  • @سلفيازيزو
    @سلفيازيزو 4 года назад +10

    A school is just a laboratory of life. I like that,Reminds me my dad once told me l was just escorting others in school in short l was good for nothing added on by my step mum. The pain l had l never show them l just appreciate and match aut after. Am now in Soudi Arabia ,24yrs now. But l left them with one word God has the plans for everyone it's not all about education. Thanks so much for all this inspiration s🙏

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 4 года назад

      Don't worry my sis even my dad had such language but since we had our own mother she could sometimes tell him to let us but really I wonder how a father abuses his own child like that

  • @kagyezisandra361
    @kagyezisandra361 4 года назад

    Benjamin Zulu you bless me a lot. Thank you Joyce this show is changing my mind on life. I follow you straight from Uganda

  • @Mindful_Mm
    @Mindful_Mm 4 года назад +6

    Actually the video title for my understanding would have been : "should i buy a car because my workmates have already theirs...?? Peer pressure out here is terrible...

  • @edwardnyakundi4630
    @edwardnyakundi4630 4 года назад +3

    I've been really inspired by this show. Especially with this 'feeling late in life' no job

  • @sheemwaniki579
    @sheemwaniki579 4 года назад +1

    Wow I'm so inspired,, not to lose faith in me and in God,,I love the show

  • @brendakimathi6965
    @brendakimathi6965 4 года назад +2

    Thanks so much, Benjamin Zulu I started following this show recently. I feel motivated. We ladies face a lot of negativity, I am working on me. My mental health, we have to quit a lot of things to succeed. Toxic friends etc.

  • @sarahwanyonyi2711
    @sarahwanyonyi2711 4 года назад +1

    I love this show,thanks Benjamin and Joyce .

  • @irenemueni2187
    @irenemueni2187 4 года назад +13

    Kwanza hapo kwa sign for me 😂😂😂

    • @ianandanje
      @ianandanje 4 года назад

      🤣😂🤣🏃🏃

  • @victorinenkwenti1690
    @victorinenkwenti1690 4 года назад

    Thank y’all for your wisdom and encouragement 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @milnerkaisa642
    @milnerkaisa642 4 года назад

    Wow ,this is amazing and educational ,you really give me insights of how life is . you're telling the truth this year l started to learn English to boost my skills because l realised that its important to have skills than to have plenty of degrees without competency

  • @florencemwiinga524
    @florencemwiinga524 3 года назад

    You are a blessing. I wish i knew about this knowledge long ago. thank you Mr Zulu

  • @paulajaymie6935
    @paulajaymie6935 4 года назад

    Thanks Zulu for bringing "purpose" in the success discussion

  • @nomusagumbi6411
    @nomusagumbi6411 3 года назад

    I am watching all the way from eswatini and thank you
    I am leàrning a lot please do more
    As a recent graduate I feēl pressure to make something of myself

  • @jameskiiya7426
    @jameskiiya7426 4 года назад +2

    I am 17 but still watching the show which is amazing

  • @Beauty_andmore
    @Beauty_andmore 4 года назад

    Am new here, am glad to hear this before it's too late!!

  • @aliceanyango770
    @aliceanyango770 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for sharing this powerful inspiration

  • @easterndakondja4328
    @easterndakondja4328 3 года назад

    Benjamin so much wisdom 😀

  • @derrickdeeper2923
    @derrickdeeper2923 4 года назад +12

    I want to find a Kenyan woman so we can have life together. Am Ugandan!
    I love Jesus.

    • @kasisoczon669
      @kasisoczon669 4 года назад +1

      @Derrick Deeper Truly?Thank you for liking Kenyan women🇰🇪we appreciate Uganda too.

    • @derrickdeeper2923
      @derrickdeeper2923 4 года назад

      @@kasisoczon669 can you cannot me to one..

    • @therealone8628
      @therealone8628 4 года назад

      @@derrickdeeper2923 huh???

    • @derrickdeeper2923
      @derrickdeeper2923 4 года назад +1

      Guys am still waiting for my Kenyan wife to be... I've feeling my wife has to be a Kenyan

    • @puritynjoki5068
      @puritynjoki5068 4 года назад +1

      @@derrickdeeper2923 good luck

  • @assmanhadi3907
    @assmanhadi3907 4 года назад

    A healthy man first defines himself before he gets into a serious relationship 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘👌👌👌👌

  • @periskabura1591
    @periskabura1591 4 года назад +3

    Powerful inspiration..thank you

  • @vorsterouma7175
    @vorsterouma7175 4 года назад +1

    Always on motion .this is great

  • @rosemuleso6640
    @rosemuleso6640 4 года назад

    I always love watching this show... learning alot.... cheers💞💞

  • @asolmango1574
    @asolmango1574 4 года назад +5

    Zulu you are really inspiring women & men outside here, but let me speak with Mrs waihiga about the hairstyle. .....I can do it more than that

    • @michelleakinyi987
      @michelleakinyi987 4 года назад +1

      Lol its a wig and she looks good with it wigs can only be put on

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 года назад

      By the way she has beautiful natural hair

  • @truemindstv142
    @truemindstv142 4 года назад +4

    Jst got to know home today, but for the whole 10hours work shift i have been lestening to him.
    This guy, from my analysis, he deserved MORE AND TO MORE PLACES . He need to replace MONROE MYLES we lost in 2008 in aplane crash accident with his wife.
    There intelligence and passion as well as POURPOSE is totally matching and GOVERNMENTS, corporations Church ministries FEEL HIS ABSENCE, although now we have got you ...the replacer.
    Lestening from Chicago Br.Pol.scie Sr.
    Love u and her

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 года назад

    If they intimidate you, let them go!Look for friends who inspire you instead and hang on to them.

  • @pfanomukhodobwane1666
    @pfanomukhodobwane1666 4 года назад +3

    Watching from South Africa

  • @eileenkaren8515
    @eileenkaren8515 4 года назад +2

    Very educative ,i learned a lot.

  • @neveragain-z6h
    @neveragain-z6h 4 года назад +2

    Few days ago İ started watching Benjamin Zulu, he is just amazing, full of wisdom.

  • @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp
    @EstherFaithAmoding21-xj7cp 5 дней назад

    Waaau
    I have learnt a lot today

  • @suzandumba1592
    @suzandumba1592 4 года назад +4

    Love from 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬 Uganda

  • @ambengwa5723
    @ambengwa5723 4 года назад

    Am 29yrs old and single,I'm not rushing into marriage but I want kids and it becomes difficult to have kids as women get older.so am rushing to have kids

  • @akohyvettetv
    @akohyvettetv 3 года назад

    Wooooooooo. Am so enjoying this video

  • @bonfacemacharia8712
    @bonfacemacharia8712 4 года назад +2

    I'm a 23 yr old just cleared school I'm trying to get a job

  • @nkunzemnyama
    @nkunzemnyama 4 года назад

    Mageba Ndabezitha 👌👌

  • @happynethmochere734
    @happynethmochere734 4 года назад +3

    Ooh wow what a great talk

  • @ruthkibu2137
    @ruthkibu2137 4 года назад +1

    Wow, 👏👏 very educative. A

  • @nomoremungana4550
    @nomoremungana4550 4 года назад

    Thank you guys your show is very helpful to many

  • @aggymaka9628
    @aggymaka9628 4 года назад

    glad found this channel 🔥🔥🔥

  • @El_Finesse
    @El_Finesse 4 года назад

    Hawa ndio motivational speakers who talk soap operas lakini kwa ground vitu ni different

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 года назад +2

      He is a lawyer and also a psychologist, not a motivational speaker. Get the difference

    • @El_Finesse
      @El_Finesse 4 года назад

      @@bellaolum9768 that’s how I see him and that’s why women are confused taking relationships advice for these kind I see him as a motivational speaker and doctor love kind of guy even though he all that even Bonnie khalwale is a Doctor but he is a professional noise make a politician

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 4 года назад +1

      @@El_Finesse i recommend you stop watching him.

    • @El_Finesse
      @El_Finesse 4 года назад

      @@bellaolum9768 take your recommendation to parliament they need it for leadership not me for watching

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 4 года назад

      @@El_Finesse child of God where is anger coming from??

  • @TINAMWIKALI
    @TINAMWIKALI 4 года назад +3

    I love this shoow so much very inspiring

  • @PatriciaNakabonge
    @PatriciaNakabonge 4 года назад +1

    Wowwww🖤🖤🖤 Thank youuu

  • @tashalindqvist7455
    @tashalindqvist7455 4 года назад +3

    My agemates hve got married and run to me to cool their heads or get own space which has made me double postpone my marriage arrangements......AM SO SCARED😱😱.....my guy wants to get married soon but I keep telling him to wait coz am not ready....he has started to get frustrated and ready to leave........Gosh i can't stand stress......Huh!😰😰😰😰😰 stress is killing me......O.M.G ...he can leave coz i can't breathe. Dating was perfect for me!🙈🙈🤦‍♀️😭😭😭 i can't handle the pressure i swear!🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @nakamijunic5844
      @nakamijunic5844 4 года назад

      God will give you the grace sis try your luck

    • @tashalindqvist7455
      @tashalindqvist7455 4 года назад

      @@nakamijunic5844 - Thanks for ur kindness swhrt. 💐 I ended everythg and single and calm now. I guess marriage isn't for everyone.😅

  • @davina023
    @davina023 4 года назад

    Have been totally missing out😯

  • @lifecoachwithlina1879
    @lifecoachwithlina1879 4 года назад +1

    Benjamin Zulu you're blessed

  • @annenjoroge9695
    @annenjoroge9695 4 года назад +5

    Run your own race, in your own lane

  • @Vanessa2024-y5c
    @Vanessa2024-y5c 4 года назад

    Someone please please please tell me when and at which time Benjamin zulu is hosted on switch TV

  • @MukalaziArnold42348901568963
    @MukalaziArnold42348901568963 4 года назад

    This was a real one

  • @sharongicheru41
    @sharongicheru41 4 года назад +1

    Wow! wow! wow! This is wonderful

  • @amblessed5034
    @amblessed5034 4 года назад

    Waoo very nice this was mine

  • @lshiglobal
    @lshiglobal 4 года назад +1

    You just encouraged me

  • @KaydeeErryern
    @KaydeeErryern 4 года назад +2

    Anyone know what day and time he is on Switch Tv?

  • @azariasmercyline9362
    @azariasmercyline9362 4 года назад

    Thanks Zulu u r so amazing