He is so gifted for this, more like his purpose, I find myself nodding all through the show in agreement and Joyce asking all the right questions, it feels like a remote therapy session where you don't participate but actually benefit.
I agree with Benjamin 100%...I once dated a guy n used to take loans 4 him but he changed to the worst after securing a good job. I ended up withdrawing myself...Am now happily married to a God fearing man, very loving n caring. Sometimes we just have to let pple go 4 better pple to come-in!
I have been listening to Benjamin and Joyce for quite some months now and can say I am gaining alot. Been listening to other relationship couches but for this it's close to home since he is familiar with our society and relationships challenges we face everyday thus we get relevant examples and solutions and advice..
What Zulu is saying is true ooh. I am 27 and I was very confused and lost before this year. I was impressed by money, made the wrong relationship choices and so on...I now earn my own and have learned a lot this past year so I agree that most ladies below 25 are not ready for relationship.
I agree. While we have been to believe women mature faster than men, women below 28 can still be very young. You won't know how you can make better decisions after 30. The older the better. Let's stop the age panic
I love Benjamin his advise n how he elaborate everything he looks stunning in that suit. What he's saying is actually very true. Joyce you look gorgeous.
Hahahaha, watching this in 2021. Proud to mention that my person loves me that HE bebead me a kipande cha kuku from a luncheon they had as colleagues siku moja. Hahahaha 😹, can NEVER forget that.
That's true Zulu you also don't feel pressured to do so much to impress the person. Thank you Zulu you also feel that playful, simple side of you come out when around the person. I used to constantly feel like I was in an interview everytime I had conversations with my ex so even when he tries to joke I'm not sure if to laugh or to pick out the wisdom in the joke.
OMG!.😯😮🤔 He's A Real Authentic Example Of What A Selfish Lying Male & Genuine Titus Is. Love Is Sincere & Genuine Actions Even The Smallest Thing Counts AM Not Talking About Money At All ..Even To Pick Some Blooming Flower By The Road Side & Present It To Me Now That's Sweet Showing Of Love.Wen A Woman Is Semi Independent With Her Own Money It Frees Ah Woman Mind From Looking & Watching A Mans Pocket Or Asking For Money..The Man Didnt Love You At All My Sistren.. Usually After Such Relationships All Done And Over You The Woman Always Looked Back & See All The Investments From Ur Resources That Wasz Wasted On A Using Destiny Blocking Time Waster..No Love Wasz There He Wasz There To Only Use Uuu..I Loath Males Who Invades A Sisters Life Who Knows Fully Well He's Only There With The Woman To Gain All She Have & Not To Be In Ah Loving Committed Relationship.🤔
@@BlackPanther-lt7wr If you were cognisant of what's happening out there you wouldn't call any female insecure or scared. This man speaks more than relationships he speaks life and sense. We're a mirror image of what we see in others who's insecure here? Mr black panther? Too coward to use his own name😂
Thts how i lost my marriage... He used to provide for us and every time he'll tell me to count how much he has spend buying food and paying rent for us.... And one day he told me atajua niko na akili nikitafuta job.... Luckly i got a job earning 45k and him 17k.....he staterd cheaching with my friends akasema tht najifanya nimefika..akasema. He won't be part of my money.. Should i stop working or wht?
Woooiiiye! I'm so sorry for what your going through. The writting is on the wall, he's given you all the reason to leave but you're still holding on, why? because you probably love someone who cares about destroying your life. Smh! One thing I'm sure of is the situation won't get any better and your love won't make him respect, care or love you. Leaving your Job is the most unfair thing you can ever do to yourself coz he'll eventually leave you after putting you through hell. I can't ask you to leave him (that's yours to decide) but I IT'S GETTING WORSE BY DAY Giiiiiiiiirl. Choose for yourself the life you want to live
Hwy guys incase you are dating and want to be celibate and work on your relationship with God and the guy refuses to respect your decision is that a red flag?
Ma'am that is definitely a red flag because you will feel pressured to comprise on your values. If that relationship is not meant to be long term it will not be broken because you didn't have sex
@@erustuscheruiyot7448 Thanks bro it happens and spoils your whole plan to have a family you have to start from zero those who are not strong commit suicide
It starts very well with eating sukuma wik,i one cloth ,2 inner wears,1 child 2 napkins wash and wear after God bless es the family you can now eat chicken drive a car then hell breaks lose and she tells you you are not her type it goes either way too don't get me wrong even some men do that but life has to continue.
"Look for a person who has humility enough to acknowledge God" hallelujah to that
He is so gifted for this, more like his purpose, I find myself nodding all through the show in agreement and Joyce asking all the right questions, it feels like a remote therapy session where you don't participate but actually benefit.
Yaas! You couldn't have said it any better
Yes it does!!!
I see you 👌
True siz
@@lilianmidigo6600 LOL!, I see you too
Looks like SA audience will take over full circle. Mr Zulu looking dapper as always and speaking wisdom all the time. Love from SA
My observation as well ..watching from Eswatini
Yeah sure
Very true
Molweni/Sanibonani our southern African friends. Karibuni sana sifunde
We are here for Benjamin Zulu
I agree with Benjamin 100%...I once dated a guy n used to take loans 4 him but he changed to the worst after securing a good job. I ended up withdrawing myself...Am now happily married to a God fearing man, very loving n caring. Sometimes we just have to let pple go 4 better pple to come-in!
Benjamin is officially an African treasure
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I feel like listening to him the whole day
I wish unmarried can take notes on this,,Benjamin is on fire today,,
I felt like this was a sermon. Truly Zulu is full of wisdom.
Showing love all the way from SA. 🇿🇦 I love Mr Zulu's pov on these topics
Oh how I wish to catch them live so I can send questions too. Love from SA🇿🇦
@@kabelomashile192 same Kabelo, same. 😩
🇿🇦♥️
This son of ours put us always forward when he talk..God bless you Zulu..
I have been listening to Benjamin and Joyce for quite some months now and can say I am gaining alot. Been listening to other relationship couches but for this it's close to home since he is familiar with our society and relationships challenges we face everyday thus we get relevant examples and solutions and advice..
I had to pause and comment. If only we both men and women can listen and adhere to what Mr. Zulu says. Very profound advise.
Benjamin uri muhombe pauchenjeri... Ndasimudza maoko kwauri... watching from Zimbabwe!
Taura zvako Harmony! 🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼🇿🇼
Zvokwadi 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m always looking forward to Benjamin Zulu’s wisdom..you are a blessing to my generation🙏..and Joyce you are a gem,i love how you do this💕🇬🇧
You are faithful if you had a chance to be unfaithful but you chose to be faithful
Watching from Doha Qatar Mr Benjamin I must say that your my mentor .
Joyce and her natural hair... 😍 😍 😍 😍
I truelly don't know y I didn't know him b4. He is truelly an inspiration, thumps up man keep up the gudwork.
I could listen to Benjamin Zulu speak all day.
Watching from Kampala Uganda, I am a huge fan of the show. Asanteni.
Jebaleko
Zulu I'm learning more n more, from Uganda
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Joyce n Benjamin shows always 🔥 👏
My favourite Inspiration joyce nd mr zulu🙏🙏🎉🔥🔥🔥
You can tell how much Joyce loves God just by how she speaks and behaves.
Am always here to learn and thank you for free counseling.
What Zulu is saying is true ooh. I am 27 and I was very confused and lost before this year. I was impressed by money, made the wrong relationship choices and so on...I now earn my own and have learned a lot this past year so I agree that most ladies below 25 are not ready for relationship.
I agree with you
I agree. While we have been to believe women mature faster than men, women below 28 can still be very young. You won't know how you can make better decisions after 30. The older the better. Let's stop the age panic
Agree
Age is a very important factor in maturity. We must teach our children to be patient as learn to make smart decisions.
True
Joyce is very smart and beautiful too. Such a graceful lady😍😘
I KNOW SHES BLESSED❤️
Always a pleasure watching this show, learning a lot
This is pure knowledge being shared by the legend zulu.Keep up the good work brother.
I love Benjamin his advise n how he elaborate everything he looks stunning in that suit. What he's saying is actually very true. Joyce you look gorgeous.
True love is challenging when the man is always broke
🤣🤣🤣🤣
True
Weh, Benjamin is preaching today!
The best free counselling I have ever heard ... Thank you Mr.Zulu
I love the show, advice is always on point. Thank you Mr Zulu an Joyce.
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Watching from South Africa , listening to the show several times. One i want to log in my facebook and talk to Benjamin to seek help.
....one day ...
LONG LIVE SHAKA ZULU......MAY GOD BE WITH YOU.MAY HE LIGHT YOUR PATH.....
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆Benjamin is just great & Joyce I like your questions, Benjamin almost just off the camera 3 years no future, me too can't stay even a yr.
😂😂😂😂wow...had to laugh though
Benjamin Zulu is extremely wise!!! He must have studied philosophy 👏👏
He's a psychologist..
A lawyer too😀😃.
The SA pipo 💓💓💓is burning you up Mr Zuluuuuuu,am here frm🇹🇿🇹🇿😆😆😆😆
*Mr Zulu and AlvanLove look like twins. Who else see this resemblance?*
N+u+&h hhhuhu
Truuuuu
All the way from Uganda.....I love Benjamin.powerful information
Mwana I also love this man I wish our ugandans could also listen to him
Zulu for presindent🤗...hello from SA
SA is taking over, the language skips me at times but i love the content
Me too🇬🇭
I love this altogether.....a thoughtful gift. I feel this deeply. Kuna watu hawapendi kuspend....no names 😛
No mentioning names 😎
You spend on a lady she disrespects you. From experience
My best show ever with Benjamin and Joyce.
This was so awesome!! Wish I had this insight years ago. This is powerful info💪!! Love Joyce & Benjamin!👍
Hahahaha, watching this in 2021. Proud to mention that my person loves me that HE bebead me a kipande cha kuku from a luncheon they had as colleagues siku moja. Hahahaha 😹, can NEVER forget that.
Thank you, Zulu.God blessings
Wow! You are helping my relationship! God bless you both
Benjamin is quite the gift we need ...though i wish you guys would consider deaf people and try to introduce a sign-language interpreter .
That's true Zulu you also don't feel pressured to do so much to impress the person. Thank you Zulu you also feel that playful, simple side of you come out when around the person. I used to constantly feel like I was in an interview everytime I had conversations with my ex so even when he tries to joke I'm not sure if to laugh or to pick out the wisdom in the joke.
Wow
Nothing but love for this great show! 🇪🇹
You need someone who can pray for you. wow!
I tell you
Absolutely true.
Benjamin zulu, you are always a blessing ❤️🙏
I dated a guy for 4 years and never bought me even an handkerchief despite him saying how he loves me over and over.
OMG!.😯😮🤔 He's A Real Authentic Example Of What A Selfish Lying Male & Genuine Titus Is. Love Is Sincere & Genuine Actions Even The Smallest Thing Counts AM Not Talking About Money At All ..Even To Pick Some Blooming Flower By The Road Side & Present It To Me Now That's Sweet Showing Of Love.Wen A Woman Is Semi Independent With Her Own Money It Frees Ah Woman Mind From Looking & Watching A Mans Pocket Or Asking For Money..The Man Didnt Love You At All My Sistren..
Usually After Such Relationships All Done And Over You The Woman Always Looked Back & See All The Investments From Ur Resources That Wasz Wasted On A Using Destiny Blocking Time Waster..No Love Wasz There He Wasz There To Only Use Uuu..I Loath Males Who Invades A Sisters Life Who Knows Fully Well He's Only There With The Woman To Gain All She Have & Not To Be In Ah Loving Committed Relationship.🤔
Pole mrembo
Personally i don't buy because they will disrespects you, thinking you're desperate
Spoiling her once in a while it's okay😂@mbithikimanzi715
Just love this convo is an eye opener ..👏😌
Benjamin is amazing ! Advice always on point.
Red Duvets!! Red Carpets!! Good Lord. Pls have mercy on your girls🤣🤣🤣😂😂
😂😂😂he killed it 😅😅
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Zulu, practical and very insightful 👌🏾
This is the greatest show of all times ❤️❤️❤️
Blessings! All the way from Nigeria
Thankyou Joyce and Benjamin both of you are very wise so educating be blessed
I love you two, your show is a blessing as always
How to tell wether is deal or no deal, Benjamin u r a blessing to many souls
A good person does not mean a perfect match.
I wish l had listened to this before but still room for changes
Benjamin I just love you ,more especially I feel confident listen as you talk . Nice 1 guy
Benjamin and Joyce you make my days 😂😂😂😂😍😍😍😍
Those guys wa njugu 😂😂😂I yam tayad...aoooll😂😂🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️💯💯💯🔥
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mwenyewe sikulagi njugu poh 🤪
No one is an introvert around their partner.
Benjamin🙌🙌🙌
I'm always blessed by benjamin's insights. Thank you sir
I need to be watching this with the woman I want to work the aisles with so that the assessment so be complete.
Hio feeling Joyce is talking about inaitwa thithi🙃 I don't know where it goes with time 🤪😌
My power duo.....
Woooow.....very powerful Benjamin🙏🙏
Thanks Benjamin 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Lets see the true love of each other in the eyes of Jesus christ!
This guy is a God sent. Weuh!!! 😍
The kind of Leader men need to take to their imaginary men's conference.
Imaginary what? 😃😄
😂😂😂 So true, in fact they need to actually hold these imaginary men’s conferences and learn & do better....
Imaginary 😂😂😂 they come out more insecure than they were before they walked in
@@BlackPanther-lt7wr LOL
@@BlackPanther-lt7wr If you were cognisant of what's happening out there you wouldn't call any female insecure or scared. This man speaks more than relationships he speaks life and sense. We're a mirror image of what we see in others who's insecure here? Mr black panther? Too coward to use his own name😂
I read somewhere it's said 'if you fear loosing your spouse that's not LOVE its FEAR'
Thts how i lost my marriage... He used to provide for us and every time he'll tell me to count how much he has spend buying food and paying rent for us.... And one day he told me atajua niko na akili nikitafuta job.... Luckly i got a job earning 45k and him 17k.....he staterd cheaching with my friends akasema tht najifanya nimefika..akasema. He won't be part of my money.. Should i stop working or wht?
Woooiiiye! I'm so sorry for what your going through. The writting is on the wall, he's given you all the reason to leave but you're still holding on, why? because you probably love someone who cares about destroying your life. Smh!
One thing I'm sure of is the situation won't get any better and your love won't make him respect, care or love you.
Leaving your Job is the most unfair thing you can ever do to yourself coz he'll eventually leave you after putting you through hell.
I can't ask you to leave him (that's yours to decide) but I IT'S GETTING WORSE BY DAY Giiiiiiiiirl.
Choose for yourself the life you want to live
Dump the guy...he is cheating and dont benefit you
Usijaribu kuacha job if he fill offeded just leave him
@@nimoras thnx Nimo..
@@rodahmuriu782.. Thnx. we have to kids...
Benjamin was on fire today 😂
Weehh🔥🔥🔥
This is good.
That's a red douvet😂😂killed it
I feel empowered by this show...🔥wisdom galore
SA is always here🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Thank you Benjamin 🥂
My favourite show i love it
does chemistry die when people love each other?
Noooooo way , love actually is often a result of chemistry
True love yes yes yes
Fantastic for world
Now in forever more
💚🌏❤️🌏🌟😁✔️👍👌✔️
I love this show
Ati red duvet 😄😄😄 akiiaooo
Hwy guys incase you are dating and want to be celibate and work on your relationship with God and the guy refuses to respect your decision is that a red flag?
It is a red duvet!!! You dont have the same values therefore its better to move on!!!
Ma'am that is definitely a red flag because you will feel pressured to comprise on your values. If that relationship is not meant to be long term it will not be broken because you didn't have sex
Wow so much wisdom
Cuffie this is for you!!!!!
We love you South Africans😘
True I married a 19year old girl took up to the university after that got a good job with big money till unfortunately the money took her to the grave
Sad but
Got to be
Strong...
@@erustuscheruiyot7448 Thanks bro it happens and spoils your whole plan to have a family you have to start from zero those who are not strong commit suicide
It starts very well with eating sukuma wik,i one cloth ,2 inner wears,1 child 2 napkins wash and wear after God bless es the family you can now eat chicken drive a car then hell breaks lose and she tells you you are not her type it goes either way too don't get me wrong even some men do that but life has to continue.
Wah pole. Take Heart my brother. This is life. Katika kila jambo unafaa umshukuru Mungu.
@@florahangel1718 Thanks
😂😂😂😂😂very true but funny at the same time
I love the wisdom
Im coming back here everytime me knowing kenyan language or not....its fine