Can you really tell if a kid is lying? | Kang Lee
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Are children poor liars? Do you think you can easily detect their lies? Developmental researcher Kang Lee studies what happens physiologically to children when they lie. They do it a lot, starting as young as two years old, and they're actually really good at it. Lee explains why we should celebrate when kids start to lie and presents new lie-detection technology that could someday reveal our hidden emotions.
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Anyone else start grinning uncontrollably when accused of telling a lie even though you are telling the truth and then they think you are lying because you are smiling?
Yo same i swear it happens all the time to me
Max Herman I have never related to somebody so much in my life
Yesss!!! !! ! It’s the worst!
Oh. My. GOD. Its like whenever there’s a serious situation my brain goes: 😐🙂😊😀😃😄😁😆
i do it on purpose
Don’t you hate when someone would say “you’re lying because you’re smiling!” Like what does that have to do with anything....
Nightcore Belles yeah
exactly, it annoys me owo
It's so stupid when I get accused of lying because I am smiling when they are making me laugh.
I felt that
Nightcore Belles It does have something, because people usually laugh or smile when they're lying, not always of course.
The worst is accidentally smiling while telling the truth,and then everyone thinks you're lying.
Yeah, it happened to me a few years ago
I hate myself when I do this, then the other person would continue saying "you're lying right? you're smiling, yaa you got caught" for some unknown reason I kept smiling and laughing while my face is red, really make it seems like I'm lying when I'm not, and I can't stop myself ;;
I also do this too, uncontrollable laugh, when I'm presenting in a group, I don't know why I can't stop laughing, there isn't even any reason to laugh, maybe I'm too nervous or embarrass or smtg (it frustrates me sm). aaaa (btw sorry for my english it's my 2nd language)
@TJ Buenzel ikr
@@lyselines damn I feel sad for u ,the same happens to me too :'(
tamanna 189 I know right
My natural reaction to being under pressure is to smile, or laugh, or tell a joke, anything to relive that pressure. It has lead to many people believing I am a liar, when I was telling the whole truth. I’ve tried so hard to stop it, but it just builds up and makes it worse.
My 2 cents: continue to be this way, it's a great personality. There will be a time when things will line up for good and ppl will realise you were being genuine all along👍
Same here. When whenever the mood is down, and something serious happens I always laugh, or tell a sarcastic joke. I don’t know why, I just can’t help it. It always makes me second guess myself when it happens, though. I don’t know what the reaction will be anymore. Whenever I try to lie, I just burst out in laughter uncontrollably. Whenever I’m telling the truth, I…burst out in laughter- quite a dilemma if I do say so myself.
The worst thing is being accused of lying when you're not.
And if they ever find out you were telling the truth, not care
Raw Paw I still get punished in the end
hockey legend50 ikr and when they find out you weren’t lying they just move on with their day and ignore you
Yeah i get stressed and moods change because i think they will think im lying, then i sweat, i get red, i wanna move my face so bad but i need to keep a straight face and i get uncomfortable
Ikr i told the truth a lot when I was younger and idk why but my dad ALWAYS said i was lying 😭🙄
It would be funny if he just says at the end "this all was actually a lie"
@@horizelux2212 very big
but even that was a lie
@@hwlrr BrUh.
@@memegamer1383 lol
bruh
When I was little I would be telling the truth and smiling but was always accused of lying because I was smiling so I've been using that to my advantage if I wanted them to think I was lying
same
that always happens to me
i liked to do that too
Yes that's my whole life!!!!! Literally
Meh to
I once babysat my nephew, he was 6 at the time, and we made his mother a craft to give on mother’s day. I told him we couldn’t tell his mom because it was a surprise, and that if she asked what we did during the day, not to say we made a craft. When his mom came home, she promptly asked what we did together and he said, “We didn’t make you a mother’s day craft” 😂😂😂
Dang, came out as expected🤣
So cute!
Dumb but honest kid
I consider myself a very good liar but I let people catch me in small lies. This way they think I'm a bad liar and I can get away with pretty big lies.
Anand Achh lowkey this is really scummy if your setting yourself up to lie successfully like that
Anand Achh
you are a genius i should use this technique
you lowkey remind me of Selena Gomez
AndrewNVEVO cool how
Anand Achh lol I do the same thing lol
“Did you eat the cookies, son?”
“No dad.”
“Okay lemme just get my Transdermal Optical Imaging device-“
lol
I can see smartphones being equipped with TOID.
LOL😂😂
Kid: I did eat them dad
@@emin86 Right?
"did you draw that on the wall?"
"no"
"but it looks so cool, did you draw that?"
"yes"
"In the wall"?
@@cubedude8690 yes he rip out the wall and drew inside of it
@@user-gummy makes sense
UnknownBrain.exe has stopped working..?
Its "on the wall" Great sir
**Doesn’t peek at card**
“Did you peek at the card?”
“Yes”
would have done that
Child: *I'm a liar but I'm not a cheater*
Kokichi Oma is that you?
Me
That's a pro move right here
“Are you sleeping, son?”
“Yes mom”
F
I see nothing wrong the kid is sleeping
I- lmfaooo
“Don’t worry Gary sleep talks sometimes honey”
Mom: **grabs belt**
Biggest lie during online school:
Message in the chat box: Hi, my mic does not work and my camera is broken.
Lol literally so many people do this at my school
I'm in class rn and I literally just said that to the teacher on the chatbox😂😂
@@laurentanner8876 ppl like me😂🌚
Lol when the teacher asks me a question I just type in the chat box "Is anyone speaking? I can't hear anyone" 😂
I had a friend who place glue on his cam, so all the teacher can see was stupid blurring. He got caught anyway. F
As a kid I remember that it was natural to start smiling, when accused for doing something wrong. And obviously, kinder garden teachers that don't know much at all would think that you were the one!
I’m a good liar but like an hour later I go:
“Hey you that thing I said to you an hour ago”
“Yeah”
“It was a lie”
Same but then i laugh at their face if it is not an adult
69 bruh
@@migsgaling5679 w0aH
Same
My conscious bugs me
Sorry for the bad spelling
@@bubbleteabeatboxx lol what you spelled that all right
Parent: did you eat that cake?
Kid: yes
Parent: are you sure?
Kid: no
can relate
does he have gucci glasses? Lmao
Parents:did you eat that cake
Me:no
Parents-:are you sure-????
Me:no
@@ugonnascorner3210 hahahah
NO IM PATRICK
I literally lied just now, came on youtube and this was my first recommendation
Are you lying!?
Oof
@@Q__22 Probably.
Haha same
Put aluminium foil cup!!!:-)but iff in real there is no magic. Your phone search data are opened book for analistic programms other use for marketing research.
Having grown up in an explosive and abusive household I learned how to read facial tells very early. I know when someone is lying, I can tell when someone is bored or distracted. It's a good thing and a bad thing to be skillful at.
Biggest lie in the universe:
*I have read and accept the terms and conditions*
lol
Lol
right on
facts
My mom has actually done that during quarantine, she’s gone crazy, help me-
Biggest lie ever:
"How was school son?"
"Fine."
Tru
lol sureeeeeee
Yess
So true
When they ask you how you are and you just have to say you’re fine but you’re not really fine......
My father always thought I was lieing, so I became unsure of reality. I decided, as a for year old girl, to always lie when my father asked me about something. This way I was able to save the truth and remember what really did happen.
your dad suck, i'm sorry that happened to you at a very young age, i hope you're doing better now
Even if I’m telling the truth about something I always start laughing for some reason and then people think I’m lying! 🤪
Esther Tainsh SAME
Same😂
For me I laugh after I get scolded and cry
same I can't control it 😂😂
SAME HERE BRUH HAHAHAHAHA
Me: *tells the truth*
Mom: "Stop lying" *gives death stare*
Me: *feels guilty and second-guesses myself*
Also me: "Maybe I am lying"
demn this is true.
that’s gaslighting, and speaking from experience, i hope you get out on your own and distance yourself from anyone who doesn’t 100% love or support you in every single way. 💖
This is so relatable 😭
This is me admitting things I didn't do just to make my dad's interrogation/punishment over quickly
Same ):
People these days:
Telling them the truth, but they won't believe.
Then, when you lie, they believe.
we live in a society
"dID YOU TAKE MY PEN"
"no i have like a billion pens why would i even bothe-"
"YOU'RE LYING I THOUGHT WE WERE FRIENDS WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS SHOW ME YOUR POUCH"
"fine but i seriously don't have your freaking pen"
People these days and all others before:
*Your comment*
I once actually had this conversation
“Are you going to change into your swimmers?”
“No”
“Tell the truth”
“ I’m actually not going to”
“Honesty is everything”
“ I’m just going to change into some dry clothes because you just sprayed me with a water gun”
“Stop lying “
And then she kept me in the bathroom until I managed to pry her fingers open and open the door.
I was literally screaming all the time.
No one suspected anything.
She would have kept me there all day.
🅣🅗🅐🅣'🅢 🅢🅞 🅣🅡🅤🅔 🅘 🅒🅐🅝 🅡🅔🅛🅐🅣🅔
My cousin is 2 and a half and she lies all the time. I think if something sounds too ridiculous to be true then it’s easier to tell, but sometimes she’s crafts lies that are impossible to distinguish from the truth. One of the main reasons is because she convincingly cries to her parents when telling a lie or uses a unhappy facial expression. She’s so easily able to pull herself into the fantasy that she tells others. For me, this is convincing evidence that children are not only very good liars but use lying in order to understand how the world works and how they can manipulate it.
Are you calling me a liar?!
WELL I AIN'T CALLIN YOU A TRUTHER
Very underrated comment ⬆⬆
@@p1.st3l so true
*TRUTHR*
Pearl ._. Yesss drake and josh
Pearl ._. Drake and Josh!
I was messing about in the corridor and my teacher was angry because I was late I panicked and told her I found a dead slug so I gave it a funeral. she gave me a detention
ThatGingerKid I have no words.
ThatGingerKid LMAO
ThatGingerKid rofl
Rip Slug
O.O
Kid: I am my father!
Adults: ...seems legit
Spoiler alert
Predestination
@@panda4247 Nice
I read somewhere that people lie because we have been taught that if you did something wrong and tell the truth you will be punished therefore people begin to avoid telling the truth.
It's pretty easy to tell if someone is lying when you're a pathological liar yourself
tru af
+love2drawanime+mlp true
liar
Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
very interesting
But this doesn’t help me figuring out who’s lying in among us
Blue is sus
Ha
AmOnG uS? ThIs ShOW AbOuT KiDs LYinG Or NoT!
Facts
It’s usually red.
My mom makes faces when she asks me questions, making me grin, even laugh sometimes, and then she's like, "YOU ARE GRINNING! THAT MEANS YOU ARE LYING!" when I'm telling the truth-
I've always acted like i was a bad liar on small stuff so my parents trusted me but on big stuff I'm an excellent liar
Same!
ikr but i admit im not proud of it
I just made a comment about this and then I see your comment xd
Chris! This is your parent speaking, you're an excellent liar! I don't know whether this comment is a lie or not. -_-
Me, all the time!!
"children are bad liars"
Me, a child that makes sure to lie badly about small things, that I don't care much about, so it's easier to get away with other things: you have underestimated my power
Lol, Im a master liar myself, hello another master of lying
@@Hiiva mayyyyybeeeee, no not really, iy depends on what "crimes" you think
@@AAAJWH well, yes, it floats on tp so its satisfying for me
Hee hee hee... you are on this council... but we do not grant you the rank of liar 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your not sopesed to be on this website Johnny
8:33 that will also be the child's expression when he sees the video
5:47 girl's straight faced stare and head shake for emphasis was a dead give-away.
I clocked that immediately and I did guess her
Ikr! It was simple to guess because of her head shake
That's what I was thinking. The boy just seemed shy and a little anxious but that doesn't automatically mean he's lying.
absolutely, lots of people (especially kids) over-do the straight face or like trying not to give it away
I thought the girl was behaving very self-disciplined while the boy was at ease. Either reactions come out respectively when you have something to hide, or when you don't.
Quite surprised the audience didn't get that the second child was the one that was lying. The strong shaking of the head in addition to the simple 'no' was what gave it away. Why go to the effort of seeming innocent when an innocent person would be confused why they were even asked the question?
I have one small thing to say, I think if adults trust children, they wouldn't lie as much. Because they would know that it's alright to tell the truth and that they're gonna believe you. Even if you say you trust your child, they know you don't, they also know just as much about you as you know about them.
Love this comment so much. I think parents should make it easier on themselves by just teaching their kids about the perks of being honest and let them decide for themselves what they're going to do. Personally I don't think being honest is what gets kids in trouble, how the parents REACT to their kid lying is how the kid would get in trouble.
@@youtubecommentator6023 agreed.
😌👍😎
So basically here is the lesson for the parents: don't live through you child, trust your child and let them grow and change. Treat them with respect and they will treat you with respect.
I mean, doesn’t matter how much you trust your mum, when she asks if you’ve brushed your teeth you say yes. It’s just what kids do
Also believe them. When a child is accused of lying when telling the truth, they will start lying more.
Last time I told my mom when I was little, that my brother whack me with a stick, her response? "I think it's you're fault that your lying", parents should sometimes trust kids cause we don't know what they'll do next?
(Time to get the, you have a unhealthy mom) she was fine, she's kind, great mother, but sometimes doesn't listen to me.
We had a fine
MY MAN JUST SAID "She is being nice and she don't like you" POOR GUY, RIP BRUVSKI🤘
“I am my father”
Speech 100
Hold up
I am my daughter.
I am my sperm
I. Am my mother
This comment sections is Alabama 100
Plot twist: He was lying the whole time
Sebastian Ignacio
LOL DUN DUN DUNNNNN
josh dun
Isha Kumar Omg
lol
Another way, it doesn't imply you lie when you're blushing. The fear about not being believed can make you blushing and hence, it looks like you're lying right now, so it can have like a snowball effect empiring the situation. Anycase, this conference was very interesting in !
Me : Tells the truth to others
My brain : Smile awkwardly
Me : Why
My brain : Idk because this is too serious
Me : *Smiles awkwardly*
The person I was talking to : You lie!
I do that too! I thought I was the only one!
@@annamauer5011 well your certainly not alone
@@annamauer5011 i even laughed maniacally
T w i n .
Totally me :""
These are my favorite type of TedTalks. Charismatic speaker, simple topic that gets expanded on quickly with science and technology, and applicable uses for social interaction and communication. There isn't much else you coukd want!
The only thing left is correct grammer
+PixelKnighty I agree, GRAMMAR is _very_ important!
Not even a single L?
My Korean grammar is non-existent, so I certainly have no right to comment on his English.
Who doesn't love invasion of privacy?
Elementary School Principal: Who am I listening to?
Caller: I am my father.
10/10 would lie again
Dank Memelord lol
Dank Memelord hello cute heavy
Dank Memelord No SUPERINTENDENT
... 👆😌👆
Dank Memelord Luke, I am my father.
XD
Sorry I just had to.
I swear someone made a sci fi about this and how the government recorded peoples emotions and such this would be a nerfed version of that since the chips used in the sci fi arent invented yet but we are getting closer everyday. It is scary on how close people are to doing this.
Guy: Ok so raise your hand if you have lied as a child
Everyone: *raised hand*
ACZ Rigiids 69 likes
This isn't hate but why does an original, funny comment get 3 likes but someone copy and pasting the captions gets 200?
@F R I E N D S! That doesn't make sense. Can u please rephrase that?
@F R I E N D S! sorry,I didn't mean to offend u. ACZ just copied a quote from the text and got more likes than original comments I've seen
Lies.....
When I was little I hated the theory that if you were smiling you were lying. This annoyed me so much! What if it was funny? Imagine this:
Mom: "Honey, did you stuff your little sisters pet ants down the toilet?"
Me: "No." (I was telling the truth)
Little sister: "She is smiling mommy! She did it!"
Mom: "How could you? Go to your room!"
Me: "What!!!"
I mean, this specific situation has never happened to me but you know what I mean
ikr...
true
omg true when i was in 6th grade i made a resolution to never lie and i got in trouble so much for lying and other things. then i decided to lie constantly and people would believe me. Telling the truth never works because i look like I am lying when i am honest
This has happened to me so many times when I was a kid.
Falconsite same except I'm still a kid
I was correct on which kid I thought lied every time because I knew it wouldn’t be the one who everyone though it would.
*The innocent one is always the guilty one*
This comment is still gonna be getting replies in like 3 years isn’t it?
The kid in the NASA shirt did a stereotypical lying tell (looking away when starting to answer). It was way too obvious to be true
@@chroni3659 No. The other girl had her back slightly back, I could see a bit of tension in her eyes.
@@ishandey6061 You saw a lying tell that’s deeper than the stereotypical level. Good for you. I don’t know why you started your comment with “no” though, because we’re making two different, noncontradictory points.
@@chroni3659 I was just saying no because of how we disagreed with who lied at the first place
*are you pointing me out*
Children watching this so they can lie better: 😼
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Joe mom
Im a child
that's me JAJSKAK
I am a kid and I find that
...true
You know what I always get accused of lying because of smiling uncontrollably for no reason idk Im always just really nervous when someone thinks im lying then i start grinning and laughing I really hats myself for doing that
“Children are awful liars”
Me: Hiding all of my social media and hacking into screen time for 4 years without getting caught
Facts man
HAHA SCREEN TIME 💀 teach me
Secret exposed..
true bro...
Same..
My problem is I’m OCD about NOT lying, because it’s more trouble for me to manage my anxiety if I have a lie-taint in me. It’s much easier for me to tell the truth and let the chips fall. And in doing so, it’s easier to avoid being in a position where I would be accused of lying. But I also turn red and fidgety if I so much as suspect someone THINKS I’m lying. When I was a child, I would smirk uncontrollably if I thought someone was accusing me of lying when I wasn’t. I will never know why I had that reaction, and it occasionally happens now as an adult. These reactions results in people thinking I AM lying. I’ve been accused of stealing, cheating on tests, cheating at games, breaking or damaging things...when, in fact, I go out of my way to avoid doing things I might later be accused of lying about. Yes...I lead a very boring life. 🙂 So I highly doubt this new gizmo would work on me. I would only be accused, once again, of lying.
And what about psychopaths? They have little fear, so they could care less if someone was challenging their lying about lying. I can see a few occasions where this new contraption wouldn’t work.
But if it did work 100%, it would be interesting to use in court...or at a poker game.
Kids watching this: *write that down! write that down!!!*
so true dude
Lol that’s me
Meee
LMFAOOO
Lol that's me
4 years ago: how to tell if a kid is lying
2020: how to tell if an among us player is lying
ikr
But you can’t really use a Transdermal optical imaging device on them through the computer though, we need something else. 🤔
Play with your friends on cam
I usually know by how they talk
“Where”
i don't know why but i always smile when i am lying AND when i am telling the truth so everyone thinks i'm lying when sometimes i'm not.
A person: smile sometimes while telling the truth
Everybody else: he’s lying
Stop the cap
When I was a child, as an autistic person I never lied to my parents, but my mother accused me of lying anytime I was happy for any reason. She literally just thought seeing me happy and smiling must mean I'm lying and she would aggressively make fun of me for it... for being happy. It just made me never want to do any fun activities with her because she was pretty much just bullying me for being happy.
@@marisu9765 that brings a tear to the eye...
@@marisu9765 Kinda messed up. Sorry.
@@marisu9765 I am sorry for what happened to you.
Teacher: Why are you late?
Me: My dad is in the hospital
Teacher: Oh ok
>A few days later<
Teacher: Is your dad still in the hospital?
Me: Yeah he is a doctor.
🤣🤣
this needs to be top comment!
this was stolen
@ohoh930
I could tell, but it's underrated so I'm giving it a like anyway
this was stolen
I really do appreciate all the work put into this put its too much invading privacy and as everything in this life not all people will use it for good im completely against it
I was thinking the same thing. This technology if used for evil, can come off as very intrusive in society.
Everyone gangsta till a professional gambler with the perfect poker face comes in
Kakegurui be like
@@arprodigy7947 Lesbian gamblers
are you hinting celestia ludenberg or am i just overthinking
Time to pull out Yumeko
damn im gettin celestia ludenberg vibes with yumeko as well
asian parent :
"stop guessing, spank them anyways"
"if they were lying, they would feel physical pain"
"if they werent, they would feel emotional pain in addition to physical pain."
"its only extra damage."
Plot twist:He was lying.......
anhemnhaoc 😂😂🤣
DUN DUN DUNN
that seems very plausible
ItzAllyHere JOSH DUN DUN DUN! Sorry. Had to. You probs wont unserstand but my username has something to do with it lol
Luke Hanson BUT IS IT POSSIBLE? Ugh i need to stop with all these referances
Their own parents can't tell if a kid is lying, huh?
Asian Parents: "Hold my broomstick"
my asian dad uses belt
My Asian dad uses rotan
my asian mom uses metal ruler, but uses edge instead of flat side
my mom uses balloon sticks
my asian dad uses knife
when your telling the truth and your friends say "Your lying because your smiling."
I always tell the truth, even when I lie
what?
This is gold
Dolphin Gaming he believes in his own lie
+Savage Expert hehe xD I get it now ☺
I don't get it
That's great, but what about the kids that didn't peek? Doesn't it take more self control to resist that temptation?
Maybe but that sort of self-control seems to be limited to the initial decision of peeking or not, then dies out once you've made your decision.
However once you lie the need to control yourself continues to come back when you're faced with that question or anything related to it.
(so as to maintain the lie)
I bring the ones that didn't peek up because I was subjected to this sort of experiment once upon a time. I didn't eat the candy bar left in front of me. They left me there for a hour, and I just sat there. I wanted it, but I wanted the two candy bars promised when the tester returned. I never got that second candy bar.
no because being afraid isn't self control
+Belias Phyre Haha that's a shame.
Well with hindsight what do you feel you should have done?
+SimonGraber is it fear though?
These symptoms are not always lying, but often from deception. The difference is that one can be deceptive, if just telling the truth does not feel sufficient for the other to trust you are telling the truth
I know when my brother is lying because he lies exactly like me lol
Twisted lol
Twisted lol
Twisted lel
SparkH3X I can tell when my little cousin is lying cause his face and the way he says it and the way his eyes are
SparkH3X my brothet will get pissed off when I know hes lying
Instructions unclear i am now using eggs and flour as major lying ingredients
Plot Twist: He was lying the whole time.
Plot twist: Tanzina copied this.
@@mikgriffen lol someone said it
Lmao! The original comment was next to this
@@rollingrocky3608 ikr
Plot Twist: They were lying about him lying and just said that he said the truth to see if we would catch his lie
Great talk! I just had a 40 yo housemate who lied in order to rent from me. In interview, I asked “what do u do for breakfast?” He said he eats oatmeal every day & prepares it in Microwave. So IMMEDIATELY after moving in he’s making HUGE breakfasts, & filling the house w/ hot olive oil odors, all at 6 am. Then, when moving out I asked if he vacuumed his carpet, he said of course, many times, which I was shocked to hear, since I’d never seen a vacuum near his room. So that day, I vacuumed & got a canister full of dirt & I realized the carpet had NEVER been vacuumed over 2 years. LOL. So he lied coming in & lied going out. How appropriate. I’ve a new nice guy as a housemate & he lied as well about his work schedule & more. I’ve concluded that people learn to lie when young & it’s habitual. They believe, Why not lie? It’s easy & convenient & rarely will u get called out on it. Plus, I definitely can’t tell when people are lying & It seems 99.5% of people I meet are outright, unapologetic liars.
Luke...
I am my father
Obi Wan never told me
Tae? Is that you?
AM Fr, yesss
copied
@@lana-ol3lw Woah (~^O°)~♥
I laughed so so SO hard on the first one when it said "I'm my father" 🤣😭🤣
Nah its just the begining wait till they discuss about politicians lying
@@alphaknight9877 bruh I'm talking about how funny it was when it said "I'm my father"
Yea me too🤣
You spot everything 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙂
@@suyashmohite9854 wym??
"for the last 20 years I've been studying how children learn to lie"
sounds like a government job.
Teachers: Tell me the truth
Me: *tells truth*
Teachers: That is not truth
Me: But it is
Teachers: I know better now shut up
sometimes you just wanna slap the teacher
@@TheRealWaffles1 But then you're afraid of detention and expulsion
@@waynelu8863 but then I murder everyone in the school and hang everyone’s heads in front of the school petrifying every little preschooler walking by causing their parents extreme debt because that’s the only school in town so everyone has to move the mayor has a mental crisis and the assassin I hired kills the mayor I take over the town leading one step further to my world domination
@@TheRealWaffles1
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@@waynelu8863 after the domination of the town the USA sends many soldiers which I murder with knives and their own weapons and I take their minds into mind control and I take over the USA and I hack the National broadcast system and show my penis having an erection and with the power of the USA I nuke japan starting a war and in the mists of the war I hook up with Michelle Obama and we marry and take it 40 steps further to world domination I have now petrified thousands that I will gladly murder for the simple reason cuz I can
This turned into how to lie
Alcala09 Gaining useful skills
Certified BM trash
Gaining
You cant game useful skills
Tiffany Pink lmao I thought I typed gaining. autocorrect 😒,
Jaybir-AH y? KARD 😂😂 y u here?
Kimchii Bibi
ARMY
The problem is that this technology could be very easily abused. There are also huge ethical issues with the entire concept of invading someone's innermost privacy.
Yeah. Soon they'll read our minds... Like you can't even THINK anymore
True, consumer abuse is the first thing that came to my mind after watching this video.
lol
Yea I know it's such a bummer when companies try to sell me the stuff I want most instead of randomly bombarding me with ads hoping something will stick.
Thought crime
Anyways, it doesn't imply you're lying when you're blushing. The fear of not being believed can make you blush and hence, it looks like you're lying right now ! So it can have like a snowball effect worsting the situation. Anycase, this conference was very interesting, thank you!
I'd be interested in knowing if children and teenagers have a higher success rate of detecting children's lies. They're probably more likely to remember what it was like to lie at a young age, and therefore be able to use that remembrance to their advantage.
im 15 and i can tell when a kid lies you just have to look into thier eyes. Liers eye movement is rapid as they make lies on the spot whereas none liers eye movement is less rapid.
emily blackmore
I'm a teenager and I can tell when a kid is lying quite easily as well; that's part of the reason I'm interested in finding out why adults seemingly aren't as good at it. Thanks for your input!
your welcome!
I think that catching people of any age in lies is mainly a factor of how well you know them, and how much attention you're paying. There are no simple tricks or rules, you get out what you put in, and even then you're best off knowing that you're not going to be very good at it.
I recall being a teenager, and that experience was mainly defined by being very sure I knew things that I didn't actually know. Just sayin.
Does that mean you got the kid right in this video?
Because the boy looked down, broke eye contact and said no.
The girl on the other hand kept eye contact and said no.
That means the eye movement of the liar was not even close to be rapid, while the one who said the truth had rapid eye movement.
I was aways a great liar, and never felt blamed for it. On my word, I never lied to prejudice someone, just lies to get things faster, easier, or help someone else. Like "no I'm not busy" -proceeds to do 7 things in a row which I managed to be perfectly timed and done.-
i have strict parents so i'm really good at lying
they trained me well
always the case.
Exactly how not to raise your child
I feel called out
@@themrcrow2901 I suspect you are telling the truth but perhaps lying to yourself. No one whose parent's donned him with the moniker of Crow could be so naively caucasian in their parenting.
Same. Im a good liar and just a few mins ago they believed my lie lol
The biggest reason why children lie is because of fearing punishment from parents
Smiling is a sign of the truth, *sometimes,* so I'm glad I picked the straight face kid.
i cant control myself, so that’s why sometimes when i tell a truth, sometimes i smile I CANT HANDLE IT ITS SO COMMON
Correct. Children who smile when asked whether they are lying tend to be telling the truth, because they are usually proud of themselves in that moment. It is a small sense of accomplishment or achievement to have the opportunity to lie but tell the truth instead. Generally children will lean towards lying if there is a punishment. When asking my own children whether they are lying I will get the truth if I include "you will not get in trouble if you tell the truth", or "I already know the answer, so please be honest with me right now and you won't be in trouble". Then to reinstall the idea of honesty I remind them that they will always get in more trouble for lying, as well as dealing with the consequences of the reason for the lie.
@@Erklzanderz Good parenting. :)
@@Erklzanderz I grew up like that. Then I didn't even lie and got accused of it notoriously. I don't even tell white lies because of it.
@@xxpaigejj sometimes parents raise their children with the best tools they have, and don't realize they are making mistakes. Other times, they genuinely feel that they are doing the best thing for their children while not being aware they could be harming them. When it all boils down, showing your children that they are loved and safe are the 2 most important things for healthy growth into adulthood. Showing you that they care is on the top of the list too!
Me: lies about basically everything
Everyone: you're so nice, you'd never lie
Me: Of course I wouldn't.
In my head: That was a lie.
kokichi much
Lol
So that was a fucking lie.
not a flex
@@sweetart256 💀
How is this technology for individuals who experience high levels of stress just by being questioned?
Some individuals have endured terrible trauma and were either punished or not believed when they told the truth. For some, just having an authority figure ask questions trips all kinds of traumatic memories.
The biggest lie in the universe that everyone's heard:
Me: **does something bad**
Mom: "I won't get mad if you tell me"
Mom: **gets mad when I tell her**
Exactly.....the most honest comment in this video that relates to my life......🤣🤣🤣
SO TRUE
oml so true tho xD
FACTS!
Yass that's reallly true
I hate it when people act like only bad people lie or lying is not good. Its a completely normal thing that we do daily
He is just helping the kids who are watching this video to lie better
Heh. That’s why I’m here, so I can learn how to lie better.
Laith Bruh this is true yes
Yes
Laith Bruh Hehe 🙃 Im a kid time to learn how to lie yo
Laith Bruh lol I'm a kid... thanks!
when i was younger, parents often said im lying...and i hated lying so i almost never lied, but since they often said: you are lying, this is not the truth..i just stopped caring and started lying often.
Luke: Obi wan said you killed my father..
Darth Vader: No..
Kid: I am my father...
What it is
Mustache Productions 2 I am my father
John Smith v
Mustache Productions 2 father is my city
Yes
What about people with social insecurities, easily blushing like me? I was labeled a lier too many times just because I was blushing each time when accused- always innocent and always labeled guilty.
I rarely ever lie, only when I'm joking, but when ever I tell the truth everyone keeps thinking I lie..
EmeraldPenguin same
EmeraldPenguin maybe that's a lie? DUN DUN DUNNNN
Telling a joke is technically not lying, as it is meant for someone to laugh.
But my life is a joke, so I'm not lying. Right?
EmeraldPenguin so you truly never say things like "what a cute baby" or "no I've not been waiting long" we all lie.
everybody lies at some point in their lives
He’s literally teaching us how to lie perfectly 😆
Edit: I’m just joking cuz some of the replies don’t seem to get that I’m joking joke 😀
@”Bugaboo" yeah WATCH OUT... 🐱👤
@@ariana.r6648 ?
@@Zizos well people dont always know your blood flow when you lie
@@look4thestarss Have you watched the entire thing? THE ENTIRE THING IS THERE TO TELL YOU THAT THERE IS A POSSIBLE METHOD OF VISUALIZING BLOOD FLOW
@@notSwiftie ik I hv but a lot of people prolly can’t tell cuz NOT EVERYONE KNOWS THIS STUFFFFFF 😑
Kind of scary that you may not be able to protect yourself by hiding information when needed, and that your privacy of feelings might be invaded unknown and without permission from a distance. Implementing technology is not always good. This could give those entities with tyrannical tendencies too much power.
When Darth Vader is lonely:
"I am my father."
The little girl who lied had her voice very smooth and clear, as if she'd already mentally prepared the dialogue she was going to say before the question was even asked because she knew she was guilty.
While the boy, who had been struggling to control his features knew he was appearing extremely guilty since that's what people assume when you smile, hadn't been prepared and didn't know how to prove his innocence since he was, afterall, innocent and didnt think he needed to prepare.
6:16 this is proof that NASA doesn't lie
you listening flat earthers?
We can debunk the flatearthers by learning from the man in this video XD
@@venedixkt9561 Nah, all the blood would need to go to their brain to supply atleast an iq of 1.
That is correct the Earth is not flat it is in fact a pyramid. Why else would the Egyptians build pyramids! Duh.
@@anarchyghost704 It's a *cube* you sheeple
U r a GENIUS
I'm watching this video just about lying.... Mom: Are you still on your Ipad? Me: NO!
The Shnoogles omg my dad just came in and almost saw me hah
What were you guys watching? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
it is fake
Dark Shadow
This video
Depresticles omg your profile pic tricked me
"Whether or not the politicians are lying to us..."
Yes