Plan With Me: August 2020 + life update
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- Опубликовано: 28 июл 2020
- Reflect on July & plan for August! This is an interactive monthly planning series where we reflect on our growth and plan monthly goals, helping you take action and make progress towards your dream life.
Comment below with your answer to the bonus question! :)
Do you like the new order of this video? I decided to just put the pause + plan at the front, and share my responses afterward. I think it flows better. What do you think?
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→ day in the life vlog - WFH in quarantine | bit.ly/2CS5utP
→ plan with me: july | bit.ly/2BbFrxq
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August is going to be our month! Let's think positive!
Kind regards,
Starry Days
Yes! We're going to beat it with positive vibes~
ちゃんハルナ Yes!! 🌟
Yes!!!!
I make si gong videos would you mind checking them out? Thank you! 🥰
Yes, positivity!
@marshmallow That's cool 😄 Hi!!
Guys if you have been struggling, don't give up. August is going to be our month. Let's set our goals and get it!!! I believe in you all!
Thank u sm ❤️
Genuinely that was the best thing I could have read rn so much love xxx
Omg! I still remember how I watched Plan with me: June🥴🥴 time passing soo fast
It really is~ can’t believe it! 😆
Ikr🤧
same siszt 😩😩
I wish time would pass by slower
OMG same 😭
If you're looking for a sweet, loving, calm GOOD dog, I highly recommend considering adopting a rescue! There are SO MANY wonderful dogs out there looking for a home and someone to love and care for them, these dogs will reward you with love and loyalty every single day. You can also adopt rescue puppies if you are looking for a puppy. Thank you for the planning tips!
There are so many "non-problematic" dogs who are abandoned each year that end up in shelters; don't buy one, don't just stay on waiting lists, when you can just go to the actual shelter, look at the dogs and see how they interact with you and adopt the one you like the most. The problem with adopting dogs is that people think they have to buy dogs or own a specific breed and they don't even look at the dogs personality, they just adopt him because he is a husky or a golden retriever or whatever and then realize they can't put up with all of the dog's needs and end up abandoning him... Just save the life of a Puppie by retrieving him from the animal shelter.
So true. And many breeders are just in it for the money and discard the motherdogs when they cant breed anymore. it is really a nasty businees you never hear about.
THANK YOU, please DONT shop! Adopt! Stop supporting the animal trade.
I try even to do this kind of reflection everyday! This is the way to ensure i am progressinggg
Indeed !
Cool!!
My husband and I did a 'foster-to-adopt' program for a rescue dog that we had fallen in love with online. We knew we'd keep him within a couple of days of him being with us, but it was nice to have the test period to make sure he was the right fit for us. Definitely worth looking into! Also, thank you for the video, love going through the planning process with you, it helps with motivation. :)
I totally feel you about dogs! I worked in a shelter for 3 years and I helped so many dogs to find the right family. While it made me so happy for them, I couldn't stop thinking about finding the right dog too. And it happens when I least expect it. It was totally unplanned but definitely worth waiting for it.
August is resilience: I focus on turn our wounds into wisdom.
I read some books about Japanese feminism history with Paternalism to cut off some negative thoughts or behaviors which have been inherited from the last generations.
It worked very well as a healing way to love myself!
The way I was waiting for July to end so I can replan and do everything for the new month 😊
Haha
Definitely, I love planning the new months :P
@@yellowplanet2262 me too, this month has been okay, I only reached one goal so I can't wait to now reset the goals and archive them in August
Same~ I adore planning~!
i love how she ended with how she is grateful to simply be alive. love you so much aileen. i am super grateful for you ❤️❤️
It's already August we are halfway done with this crazy year guys!
Kind regards,
Starry Days
Whoo we can do it!!
Starry Days aww thanks
Yeah!! And it's crazy right? Like how time just flew so fast.
@@HeyImAedRianne Ikr
Don’t buy, adopt. Also all dogs can be difficult if you’re not willing to put in 110% effort, love and time :)
Your hair looks gorgeous when it's up!
You have thaught me that i don't need to wake up at 5am or do what everyone else is doing in order to be productive and to create my dream life. You've inspired me to speak my truth more and create a business plan for my blog/youtube that works for my day to day life! Thank you 💗
I love that you also reflect on the past and then plan!
Samee
Who else wants a deep clean with me video? I really want but ofcourse Aileen should do that if it sparks joy for her. Thank you so much Aileen 💞💞. This series has been helping me stay so much accountable. Thank you !!!💟💟💟
I love how this community is very calm and inspirational.♥️
It's always so hard to put it into a comment how much these videos help, inspire and touch me. To see my progress, your progress and really just being grateful for past, present and future. Thank you Aileen✨🌷
I was struggling this month with consistency but now I did planning with you Aileen and planned a month in such a way with all the mini & weekly goals, that I can be consistent with all my works. hope this will help me to be consistent . Loads of love Aileen. SO grateful for you. :)
You inspired us luvi❤, nowadays many people really stuck in different ways. Struggle for something and it really helps to move forward, finding something that are worth things to do, need improvement in self and be greatful for many things. Small things counts, that's why we have to appreciate more for what we have than what we don't have.
I'm giving my current life: 7/10.
July also felt like things were shifting for me. During this pandemic, I decided to enroll and learn more about being a web developer and after 3 months I can seriously notice the difference. I am all crazy about self-care and personal growth yet this month taught me that it is important to pace yourself, to have balance. I'm still working on it but I finally have a grasp on how to do it. 😊
Continuously learning, reading, and reflecting totally opened my eyes to new things. The new perspective/s that I've gained not just changed how I see myself, but also the world (in a positive way). 😁Thank you for sharing your wisdom!! 🥰🙇🏻♀️
I’m trying to learn coding and switch to being a dev too! If you don’t mind me asking, did you enroll in a local or online course and if it’s online, which course are you doing? There’s a lot out there and it can be overwhelming. Thanks!
My July was awful ... I would give my July a 4/10? A lot went wrong, but nothing much went right.
@@loveanelle Hi! I'm currently taking the full stack nanodegree program from udacity. They offer some free courses if you want to learn/see a specific field and they sometimes offer scholarships. But, I totes get you! There are tons of info out there and it gets very confusing. You can also check out coursera or udemy, most of the people I know use them as well. Hope I was able to help! Anyways good luck!!! 😊
This reflection make me feel more grateful , thank you Aileen you are so inspiring everyone .Not focus to the big goal but appreciate every progress and make sure our self okay is so important.
Thank you for this video. I was procrastinating on doing my July review with you and I finally sat down to it today, all down in the dumps, because I just lost a job opportunity I was hoping to get for the past two months. Doing this with you today helped me a lot; I feel so much calmer and more mindful right now, I'm excited to get down to business this month! Thank you, Aileen!
I really love this series and the fact that Aileen is guiding us through it makes it perfect. Thank you for your hard work.
AILEEN, Thank u sooooo much. You have no idea how u brought me out of depression and gave a meaning n purpose to my life. Very happy to be planning each month with you.
Thank you Aileen for bringing so much presence to your work! May your wish be fulfilled soon. Stay blessed.
Aw Aileen, you're like the big sister I never had, always giving me good advice when I need it. I've been watching you (and listened to your podcasts) ever since my freshmen year of college and you've helped me through some tough times. I just graduated two months ago and have never felt so disorganized and unproductive in my entire life lol. Thank you for this video! I really needed it.
U are so inspiring. I really think u are motivating. U are so genuine person and a kind ,OMG there are not enough words to say about u.love ya❤❤
I need to do better about creating broader goals. I get caught up with everyday to do lists, so what a wake up call. What an inspiration!
I've been binge-watching your videos this quarantine and it really inspires me to find myself and create my dream life. I want to tell you (and I'm sure you know this already) but you've really helped a lot of lives. Thank you for existing Aileen and I pray for the success of your channel. Keep inspiring 💜
Listening to her is like reading that book that changed your life 🌠
yesss I'm early. I certainly needed a break from all these case studies. I'm here, I'm embracing and I'm praying for a better August! Let's all claim it ❤️
Dear, I've been watching your videos for years, it's amazing how far you've come. I am part of the Lavandaier community and it has a very positive effect on me. Greetings from Serbia, Belgrade.
Aileen, you were the first youtuber I ever got into and the one who actually introduced me to all this stuff, law of attraction, designing your dream life, etc, so you'll always be special for me💜
I can see that your videos lately do not have the same vibe as they used to and THAT'S OK. As you always say, life is all about change so please don't resist that and most of all don't try to control and blame yourself in any way. You are always capable of big, magical things and life will keep leading you to them and them to you.
Wishing you all the best💜💜💜
thank you :) i'm embracing the change & evolution!
Thank you so much for sharing this! Loving my planner! And thank you for inspiring people to have such gratitude for what they have. :) It's so refreshing!
I loved and related to Ankita as well. She was the only one authentic I felt..
Have been binge watching your videos from a couple of days 😊
Happy August 💖
Love you So much! You are such an inspiration to me and my own channel and life! Keep on doing all the awesome things you’re doing!
I cant wait for the 2021 planner/workbook, I'm so excited
Today is soo amazing and beautiful😍. Aileen uploded today as well as today was my result and I am first in my school. I got 95.80% ☺. I was so scared for my result but everything went well and there were so much happy moments today and your video added up another happy moment. Thanks for uploading Aileen❤. You're always my motivation and my ideal person so thanks to add another fabulous moment today. Love you as always 💖.
@directioner also armyy Thank you so much🥰
I love your channel so much. Everytime I watch it I feel so motivated and feel like I make my life together.
Sameee, she's just so inspiring and lovely~ ^^
I feel like July was a big "maturity" month for me. I felt more at peace than I have in a long time. I felt focused and clear (as opposed to June when I felt low on energy and motivation). Feeling energised for August!
Im nervous about living on my own and doing online school, but planning for the month with you always calms my nerves. You inspire me so much thank you!
I'm so glad this came out during my lunch break! Thank you. I will definitely watch again to complete the review and planning. A puppy, how exciting! Sending you love and light 💜🌻🌈
Living my dreammm life! Everything's going perfect. I believe this will continue to everything i want in future. Thanks to you. My first guide for helping me understand and plan my dream life.
I just got a puppy in March and my life has changed so much. It means so much to provide care for an animal completely . Hope you find your puppy soon 💕
I was waiting for your video !! I'm glad it's here. I'm really pumped up for August.
This year has been a slow ride for me.
Your channel has kept me going.
I was feeling very low in my life and your podcast and youtube videos have been my saviour. I've started posting on my youtube channel again. And I really hope August will be amazing. Thanks for creating such amazing content.
@Isabelle W. Thank you
My rating: 8/10. 🌞🌞🌞🌞 //// It is a mix of ‘faith x fate’ for me... I would not be here without either. I feel aligned to my dream life in small, sweetly joyous and glorious ways. //// While reflecting on this question, it made me think that I feel backed by the EIGHT OF PENTACLES and EIGHT OF CUPS energies... Working hard at my craft with or without an audience, the accolades or benefits. Making my way. : ) Doing what I can or know to, with what I have. Believing in myself and the universe. Trusting I know without really knowing. Learning to walk away from what no longer serves me. Learning to say yes to myself... Hearing that call. Soul-song! Thank you, Aileen. 🌻✨
7 for how aligned my life is to my dream life! July was very expensive (that was my one word) as I was investing in getting all of the things needed to create. I hated seeing how fast my money was being spent, but it felt good to have the provision to invest in the things I needed to really do what needs to get done. I'm learning to revel in thriving mode and am breaking free from survival mode. Now that I have all of the things, it's time to generate income to replenish everything I spent. I hope to recoup that and more this month in August!
You are really good with keeping people engaged in your videos. Thank you for being so dedicated .
Love all your ideas especially JOURNALLING...........
This month i was really productive, good and with new stuffs. I can say that i´m so proud of myself for get started a new routine , making progress. That´s amazing for me and i hope that august month be like that. Hugs for u, i enjoy so much your videos
I love checking in every month on these Plan with Me vids- it's helped me to focus on what's important to me. Thank you Aileen!
I looove these video's. It's such a nice way to get to know some more about you as well. It's just nice to have someone in life who is supportive and inspiring, even if you don't feel like that Aileen. Thanks for making this video :))
Rating my life on a scale of 1-10 for how close it is to the dream life I want, I think if I'm being honest it's like a 3-5. I know I'm on my way. My one older sister was already settled down and had kids by the time she was my age (28), my other sister has a on again off again boyfriend from 28 and also a mom, and I'm just nowhere near that. If I have maternal instincts, I borrow my niece for the weekend, a week, a day, and then I see how much work it is and I'm like thank you good bye. Or I play with my sister's dogs.
I'm applying for grad school, which I would have started in March 2021 if the pandemic didn't happen but because it did the process is now much longer and I won't be starting until October 2021. Because it's abroad, they have precautions to take. During March I finally got clear with myself on what my dream life is and basically my outlook for 10 years from now. It's going to take me 5 years to finish my doctorate, so that's why I don't see everything I want in my dream life happening 5 years from now. I know a lot will, and I'll feel probably a 5-7 then. I'm also working on calculating my dream life, so I know it is within reach. But I have my vision boards hanging by my bed. One of which is also my ipad wallpaper and phone wallpaper, I'd say that one will be relevant for the next year. I made it for this year, but with how things went I feel like I want it still in 2021.
Also, It isn't to say I'm unhappy or miserable, not at all. I know what I want and am willing to work on myself, for it, to get to it. But I still live with my parents and it's just hard because they're traditional old school immigrants they don't understand what I'm doing. They don't speak English either. And I'm an emotional punching bag to my one older sister for as long as I've lived, she doesn't live with us but she's here every day. She's blamed me for so much as existing. It is draining to deal with, but I've learned to take it with a grain of salt and just focus on myself and my goals.
But to my parents it doesn't matter how well I'm doing on my own, or that I'm saving money by living at home my parents still see it as "wtf are you doing?" No matter what I say or don't say, explain it a million times, they don't believe me. So my dream life is still about doing what's best for me, following my heart and inner voice, what I've been doing since I was 17 and I was able to find my identity and come into confidence etc. But I want to grow, I want to evolve, but also I don't want to be in this situation. I want to be living on my own away from this backwards thinking. Being much more successful than I am. And just be able to live comfortably without stress, fears, or worries and be passionate for what sets my soul on fire. It's a long ten years, but I don't want to waste my journey on getting there either.
I guess to some people I'd be considered a late bloomer, but I find that considering majority of the world is checking off societal norm checklist, I don't feel late at all. I feel right on time. But 38 is freaking my out.
I read everything ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes! You are no late bloomer.you’re right on time!!!!
This is amazing! I can remember planning for July, and now it's August! I can't wait to plan
Only 29 and so much wisdom. You are truly blessed.
I’m finishing up my Saturn return too and this year has definitely been challenging. Thank you for keeping things going and helping us stay positive ☺️
Thank you for your honesty, showing others how you handle real life things : )
Love u sooo much thank you for talking to the core m heart as always. I’ve been a fan of u for 4 years now and every time I feel low I watch your video and listen to your voice. You’re a true inspiration in my life and wish I could talk to u in person 🙈 sending u lots of love from Sri Lanka 💕💕💕
Seeing you is just like seeing an old friend, a great feeling
Thank you for helping me plan for August! You are very inspirational and are truly my example; thank you so much for being a positive influence on this crazy world we live in.
beautiful! Your lighting, background, makeup, hair, and message- just love it all
Thank you for everything you share with us Aileen, I assure you it really helps !
such an inspiration since the beginning of the channel! thank you for this video lavendaire!
you make me more aware of my mental health and inspire my videos✨✨
I love listening to audiobooks and podcasts while working out or doing chores.
Hi! I did the exercise today, and so glad i did. It is so funny and cool that i have done this for three months now: May, June, July. Loving! They’re definitely an important tool for me to see how far i’ve come and what i have done... Love the lessons and reflections. Thanks Aileen! 🐕✨ //// Enjoyed your anecdotes and life snippets too. Totally feel you on the whole " i’m on the way there " & " shifting into the new " thing. I am also with you on this. Staying alive or being here in this moment has been such a thing for me! It is big. And beautiful. So kinda lovely you thought it too and shared it here. “I’m here! 2020.” #whowouldvethunk //// grateful to the Divine forces. //// sending u warm wishes for August! ♌✨
We are so grateful for having you too. 💕💕💕
This is the most inspiring video and so real, thanks so much Aileen!! I feel so at comfort whenever i come across your videos :)
i just finished planning and it felt so good :D i want my August to be calm, peaceful & more fun !
thank you Aileen for the inspiration & the positive energy
Your videos are relaxing and they inspire me to thank you for making them.
I'm grateful that i founded this RUclips channel. You're such an inspiring person and your content makes me grow as a human being. Thank you so much for sharing all the content! Love from Indonesia❤️
I would rate my life being in alignment with my dream life a 7/10✨ I’ve definitely had some great successes and moments this month! I’ve grew a lot and am really content where I am, however I still have some work to do💖 Thank you so much for this Aileen! This really helps me each month🌸
Lavendaire: *uploads video*
Me: *is here right away*
Ilysm Aileen! You've helped so many people, including me~
so grateful for you!
Yay I'm early!! Hii!! I love your videos Lavendaire, they're so aesthetic and remind me to be a better person, thank you! :))
Listening to Taylor Swift's track august while doing this is probably the best thing.
Please don't buy a dog. Consider rescuing and adopting one even though it takes time!
This.
I hope Aileen can read this.
Yeahh
I love the channel so much!! I watch it not only for inspiration but also to pick up some new vocab (I'm Russian) Thank you for your work! Can't wait to watch a new video from you already)))
I’m at a 7 when it comes to being align to my dream life. I give myself a 7 because I am FINALLY going in the direction for my dream life. I had to educate myself and learn what I need for myself first. Now, I am in the journey, but I’m at the beginning of it. It’s kind of reminds me of the beginning of a video game where you don’t have much but you’re determine to do the missions and win the game!
that's amazing!!
I've never said this to anyone before... But trust me you are my role model... I want to become a Psychologist by profession but i myself sometimes feel vulnerable... And you always know how to make me feel wanted and feel beautiful... So i just want to thank you... Thank you for being here you don't know how much you are helping me...
sending you so much love 🙏🏼❤️
I was in a really bad place in my life back then.I was not confident in myself, how I looked nothing was going well.I had that whole negative mindset then I decided to really glow up and now I have improved a lot now I love myself.I love all of me.But I will rate 4/10 on how aligned with my dream life because lately I have become a huge procrastinator.I am not doing exercise,I have all my homeworks pending,I don't have a good,fixed sleep routine.
Agust is going to be a month to get my life together.It is going to be a organising session for me.
Everyone can be better,do better no matter where you are in your life right now.Sending you so much love and positivity❤
I LOOOVE these. You are positively glowing!
I really do love your channel, you are such an inspiration and so encouraging. May God continue to bless you in all things. Can't wait for the next video!
I wait for these videos all the tym... Love your videos and challenges ❤️
This is my first time doing this and it felt great! I would rate where I am compared to Dream life right now as a 3. However, it won’t be for long! I constantly dwelled in the negative with my thoughts and emotions, and the perspective I had in life was solely on ego. This week I started the “mental diet” and working through some manifestation exercises, and I feel the change happening already. I am sure I will soon be at an 8 for how aligned I am to my dream life. ✨
10 out of 10 for alignment, because I have been doing my best, constantly learning and rediscovered my creativeness with art. Oh it feels soooo good to say that! Thank you Aileen!
Amazing ❤️
Thank you for being an inspiration. You make me think more outside 💕
I'm glad that I could accomplish almost all my July goals and habits🙏🏻
thank you so much for this amazing video. every month I look forward to plan with you, it has helped me so much to find direction and to manifest my goals.
also, congrats on your saturn return :)
Till July I had to hustle alone to plan the forthcoming month.. But nowww I got u... Thisssss is soooooo very helpful... No more banging head struggling hard to plan the coming month...love you Aileen 😘😘😘😘
This month for me was like a turn off of everything, I took things slow and I didn't pushed myself hard ... " Do what is ought to be done " so there's daily missions to complete , I practiced gratitude everynight and I took control of my negative sel talk... And finally I took back my self-love 😍😍😍 the beginning of the new journey in August 😘
Awe this is so sweet~ I’m proud of you! Keep loving yourself and don’t push yourself too hard! You’re more than enough~ 😘
@@diellalala you're more than what you see in the mirror 💜💜💜
Douae batoul thank youuu! 💜
Thankyou for making these videos and helping us by inspiring us and helping us to be productive 💘🥰
Today from morning I was eagerly waiting video and suddenly the notification came......
Oh my god ... I am so happy😅☺☺ love from india....may god bless you and always keep you happy
Thank you for always motivating us ! I’m personally so grateful for you because I literally don’t know what to do with my life right. 😅This is an amazing reflection. I started morning pages because of you 💕
Thank you for this video🧡 it feels amazing to have for reflections and planning.
You are insanely inspiring and motivating. Just so focused. Truly my forever goal✨✨ I can truly say that I am also on the same path.
This is my first time planning with you, actually pausing the video and answer the questions. WOW, that was enlightening and inspiring ... Thank you :)
Aileen
My all habits changed, my inspiration, my plans. Because of you. Thank you Aileen 😘 I love you Aileen very much ❤️ you are like my sister 😍 you teaches many things 😘 I saw this channel and I started watching vedios from this channel. And now I know how to time manage.
And this channel is the best channel for every women
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For me July was self-love..I have begun taking care of my body doing gym exercises and swimming at the swimming pool in my boyfriend's house in this summer ❤ I have begun leaving my insecurities and fears and try not to be hard with myself..I have begun to be positive about finding a job in a new country ..
guess my number is 7: i feel like i'm on the right path with the university i chose, friends & family, travel and experiences etc., but i want to work more on my self, my mental approach to things and my body too, so i'm not completely satisfied yet..!
but planning for august allowed me to set mini goals and i feel like working hard to reach them!