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I am 35 and I've only just figured out what I want to do with my life. I thought I had figured it out over a decade ago but apparently not. life is a process, don't be afraid to change things up.
The first year after I graduated was so painful! I got a job in my field and quickly realized (truthfully, I already knew) that I didn’t want to keep pursuing a career in biology. One yoga teacher training later, I decided to dive into content and social media. That led me to design which I now do full time on my own! It’s crazy to think I created a career where I’m my own boss and live on my own terms. You’ve reminded me to be proud of what I’ve accomplished! ☺️
Agreed!! I just created a RUclips video about this...or it was one of my tips. People will always pass judgements, or you feel like you have to prove yourself to others but you really don't! We always have to remember that
When she says “when I edit my videos and I look up and four hours has passed” really resonated with me. It’s so fun to anticipate the end result with what you enjoy creating
Last night i was just crying and praying because i don't know what career i will pursue after college, i feel like i am not good at the things i used to be good at, this pandemic really making me emotionally unstable , and here you are aileen 😭💗💗💗 Thank you srsly
I graduated 7 years ago, got several jobs and thought I found what I want to do in my life. I was wrong, I moved to a new country 3 years ago and that's where I got lost like completely lost. I keep asking what should I do to my life, I felt this pressure from my surroundings. But I'm glad I found your channel 💙. Thank you.
What puts me into flow state is just starting! Not waiting for the right moment but just starting what i need to do and then i will eventually fall into that flow state~ :)
Exactly what I needed. What puts me into flow state is writing (short stories, poems and content for youtube). I love writing so much. When I write, I forget about food, social media, and all.
I’m graduating in a month and I feel very lost right now so this is exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much, there has never been a person online that inspired and motivated me so much like you do 🥺👉🏼👈🏼❤️
i love art. anything about art, whether it's writing books, drawing digitally, canvas art, crochet, embroidery, sketching, music, makeup, etc. i just love to do art. the world needs a positive person to help people through hard times like right now. wow..already thinking through what i want in the very far away future
The Vivid Vision exercise (among the others in the workbook) is POWERFUL. I was feeling so lost, and ideas just started flowing into my head, things that I never would've thought about beforehand. A life that I wanted was coming into my head and I saw steps to start to take immediately to get there. I don't feel STUCK for the first time in a very long time. I'm inspired and motivated and EXCITED. Thank you!! Seriously, I can't express my gratitude, literally a life changing boundary-breaking moment for me.
This is so timely and helpful! I'm in the age in my life where people (including me!) expect me to achieve so much while the other half is telling me to slow down and let life lead me. And honestly, i like the option two better 💕 Thank you so much for this ❤️✨
Keep your head up! It's ok to feel lost but just take small little tasks to get you in the right direction every day. Then it will become easier over time. You got this!
I'm in my late 30's and barely realized what i want out of life, but its like you said I've had different jobs and now I'm doing something that I enjoy and has taken me to a different path same field but i have realized i enjoy helping kids and giving them advice about life and the importance of education, I realized that i love when kids come up to for advice that it made realize to pursue a career as a school counselor.
Honestly, I've watched MANY videos on "How to find your passion". This is the best I've found. It's clear you've actually looked this up. Good job and keep it going.
I've been feeling low about so many things, but then I saw this and its like universe telling me, everything will be okay. You and your videos uplift people. Thank you. Thank you so much ❤
Things that put me in flow: Cleaning Cooking Organizing Budgeting/paperwork Writing/journaling Helping people through personal issues/volunteering Research Being in nature North node in Scorpio = North Node Scorpios are meant to explore the most profound matters when it comes to psychology. During the present lifetime, they're all the time learning how to place value on how others' mind is working. First House = North Node in the first house brings the conflict between the need for self-development and the pursuit of harmony; mental balance and the ability to adapt in a relationship; tension between giving and receiving. These people need to develop the courage to step out of old relationship habits and create the right relationship with themselves. They need to do what they think is right. They should concentrate on developing their independence and self-confidence. They should be willing to deal with conflicts and accept losses in relationships. Beware of over-adaptability and inclination to help everyone, even if it is against their own needs.
for those who are reading comments before starting this video.......... sure you will get a solution from this for what you are searching for..... this video will sure uplift everyone's aura because she is talking directly to our heart..... she is not like exaggerating things ...... the way she expresses her views indicate that she reads a lot of books for the youtuber---->keep doing this........hatts off to you......
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Lately,ive become so low &lost on what im going to do in my life.then i remembered u..and comes to this video.thank you for your encouraging words&strategies ..truly i need them..
hi I just want to say, I love you. I can feel your vibe and energy. I feel like we somewhat experience the same thing in life. I recently discovered that I have a childhood wound because I kept on looking for answers before why I'm feeling like this, why is this happening to me and it's amazing that all the answers were really just within our inner core or soul. It was in my subconscious mind for years! I'm glad that I finally got aware of it. Once you get to fully understand yourself, healing comes along. It may never be easy and but it will always be worth it. I really do love watching your videos 'cause it brings me joy and more growth. it is really indeed a journey of finding your true self. I know that everything that you speak out, that Wisdom you have, came from all the struggles and pain you've conquered and you used it as a voice to inspire and bring others up. keep doing what you do. You're a conqueror. Thank you so much!!
The universe introduced me to you. It took me only a year to learn to speak English and after two years of watching your video today I was able to understand 80%. Thank you for your help in finding my way.
I'm turning 29 this year and still working on it. I have the artist of life workbook, brought me to tears because it's so beautiful and I want to change but have trouble 'believing' I can change in time and that I won't be able to achieve it. But as long as I don't give up completely... I still keep coming back to your videos, hopefully this work sheet will help and I'll have a crack at it.
People that are able to make a living off of what they love to do are truly blessed! I hope everyone here is able to find that passion and turn it into a career! Thanks for the great video Lavendaire!
Ight Imma download those worksheets cause this girl is feeling overwhelmed due to graduation. I just sign up for for skillshare for I want to improve in my writing. The downside of being bilingual is that is that I am constantly translating in my mind and it show through my writing. Love this video and you have always been a good role model. 💕
I'm a highschool graduate (gonna be an Earth Science student this year) and I am so relieved after watching your video because sometimes i doubt my uni major (eventhough that's my choice) but now i feel grateful and i am no longer feel lost. Thanks for always inspiring me on my darkest days, Aileen
I am so lost these past few days, and I felt really anxious. I am pressured within my society, because I am an incoming college student but I haven't figured out yet what course to take and I can't see what future was ahead on me. I am really afraid that I might chose bad decisions in life/ wrong choice of course. And thank you for this, I hope this can help me find myself and what I really want to do :(( I love you Aileen
This might sound really depressing lol but what if I don’t love anything? Like I’m not necessarily passionate about specific things. I don’t even know what to major in for college.
Find your WHY ❤ your purpose What you really love to do and you're passionate about ! You came here to add value and light up this world Thank you for this beautiful video !!!
These past few months, I've been figuring out what I wanna do and which career path to choose. I have felt so lost and confused, even upset because other people around me are going to college/uni with a strong idea of what they want. So far, I have identified my passions like filmmaking, design & I'm having fun with coding in the last weeks. You need to be honest and put yourself out there to live with purpose
Things that put me into the flow: designing tiny houses, off-grid layouts and staying green, and travel. Late, but this video is really helpful. Thank you.
Need to figure out my actual 'flow state' but as of now it was 'watching your video' until I realised it at 13:00. Rarely any video of this length holds my attention strings. Content being known, it was your presentation and sheer enthusiasm in your voice which stayed throughout👍
this is such a super important topic! love love love it! EVERYONE goes though this in some stage of your life, but remmember: YOU ARE GANNA BE OK, its AAALLLLL ganna be ok all of these tips are so crazy!! so good!
i’m 15 and i’m very much confused about my life’s purpose i don’t know my passions or my hobbies i’m constantly worried bout my future and it’s such a scary thing to me i’m so grateful i found your channel it’s helping a lot thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I JUST GOOGLED MY NORTH NODE AND IT WAS SCARY ACCURATE ( I read all the other ones too and they didn't make sense for me) Thank you for telling me about this I literally didn't even know and now I feel confident that I'm on the right path
I love how practical your content is❤️ I needed this so badly, you inspired me to finally get to know myself and start my dreamed YT channel. I am so grateful for finding your channel. I’m staying here forever. Have a peaceful day ✨
For the most part I know what I’m doing with my life, but The Dream Life Series was EVERYTHING for me when I didn’t know! I’ll always love when you make videos like this!
After going through lot of things in life I came to know that I self love is so important but I didn't knew how to start or what to do .your channel is really helping me raise my vibrations .. Thanks and lots of love from Bangalore
Wow... I am shook... I looked up my North Node and I've never read anything more related to myself... I feel I understand myself so much more now. Thank you for this
painting puts me in flow, when i start a painting i can stay up all night bc i want to finish it in that moment but there are times when i say okay you are tired ged some rest and continue but i'm not sure if this is what i want to do in my life thats why i ended up watching this video :) thank you for the tips
You are so on fire in this video! And so right. I am 35 and still afraid to take the risk to invest in what I've always dreamt to be doing. But slowly getting there. Thanks for being a fanstastic motivation.
Oh my god, I can't thank you enough for this video, for your work, for your beautiful light and how it lifts us up when we need it most. I've felt lost my entire life. A year ago, I thought I'd finally found my path, a dream I could pursue. But recently, things fell apart. I felt like I was back to square one (even thought it wasn't because I learnt a lot with the experience). I didn't know how to go about finding my path again, and these exercises are finally igniting the spark to explore again. I feel my curiosity coming back to me. It's the energy and love that you put into the wisdom you share with us that makes it so magical and uplifting. You were definitely born for this! We are lucky to have you. I feel better just from watching the video, hearing your calm voice and calming words. And it made me absurdly happy that you mentioned astrology at the end!
Dear Aileen, How do you know what I really need at the moment? It's just so fantastic that you uploaded this video. I was so stuck in my life and I really want to figure out my purpose in my life and coincidencly I was recently watching your other soul search videos. So, Thank You so much for another GEM video that you added in your list. Sending you lots of love. 🥰😍
I find myself needing and finding myself again. Your videos help me a lot growing on my journey as person, my life and my dreams ✨ so thank you for being an inspiration and wonderful videos 🌸
Omggg yes! Same. Indecisive Libra! But this is SO relatable. Definitely done all of this and I’m just now getting closer to discovering and finding my purpose. It’s such a beautiful journey (I’m realizing now haha) but you’re absolutely right - we are going to be ok!!! Have patience and be gentle with ourselves
Iam 14 and lost already. This is what I wanted . I am trying to figure out what to do with my life. Lavendaire is my best partner in my process of finding my own life.
glad to see that i'm not the only one person that feeling insecure, less confident, still figure out what exactly the purpose of my life. Thanks for sharing this, hope your day blessed with love :)
Thank you Aileen! Honestly, I felt so overwhelmed and just watching this made me feel like I can totally handle anything! I really appreciate all your hard work and you are an inspiration! 💖
I just want to say 'THANK YOU'! I had never heard of North nodes before this video and in looking for my north node - I had a wonderful revelation! And, that's all thanks to you!
I think visualizing life was an eye opener for me. I couldn't imagine anything, no matter how hard i tried. Though I know I want more out of life than I'm currently at.
Thank you so much! I have never watched your videos or come across your page. On the other hand, you have got another subscriber. Thank you for your positive words and exercises.
I really needed this. I just graduated this April. (interior design) I still haven't received my certificate due to COVID. I've been working for almost 2years now. I really need a change in my life. A lifestyle that's created by me. 🙁One where I don't have to work for someone else. Thank you so much it's like you read my mind. 😢🙏
Thank you, Aileen! You are my main vlogger. Because of you I discovered muchelleb and girl & the word. I will forever support you and recommend you to my friends. 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 Pls visit manila, Philippines
Wow Just watching your video I discovered my flow. I read "designing your life" in the past and I couldn't figure out what was my real flow. Hearing about your boyfriend it let me understand that I crave competition too! It's not a case that my fav show is based on challenges and competition!
My flow state is the same with yours..What a coincidence..Maybe because I am also an Aquarius..You are such a light leading those who are on the dim path of life.. Thank you so much once again for sharing your knowledge with us..You are so admirable!💖🌻
Thank You so much for your being! You are so natural and warm person. I used to listen to your podcast so that I’m here. I love all topic ideas and how you make it.
This is exactly what I needed right now! I know I want to do something in the writing industry but I'm still not sure about it more because I have to find my 100% confidence and believe in my abilities. I'm sure these exercises will help me show myself that If this is the right path for me, I will feel it no matter the costs of it. Sending you so much love, thank you for always enlightening us ✧
Whoa I'm a UX Designer, musician and all around creative that was lost (still kinda lost sometimes) for so long. I think ultra creative people just have a harder time fitting in. You're like my spirit animal haha
Thanks dear. Love you. I actually found out my ikigai a few months ago and I am doing what I love now. Yes I am teaching, training kids, making video and taking online classes too.
I actually watched this video already knowing what I want to do with my life, but I’m still really glad I watched this. It helped me confirm that I really want to pursue acting as a career!
I am literally right now thinking about my future, where to go and stuff. Your video helped me so much, I am doing the things I love, but at the moment a haven't found a way to make a living out of it. Making music, doing videos - all these things put me into the flow-state. I hope, I will make a living out of it someday 😊🍀
Thank you so much for this upload! I absolutely love your channel! You have inspired me to go all in on my RUclips channel and media business this year! Keep rocking the YT airwaves and blessings to you from this new RUclipsr!💕
I want to really thank you Lavendaire, for what you do. You've been really helpful during this quarantine time, and you made me discover a lot of things that I've started doing following your suggestions and I won't let go, cause they made me feel so good. Last thing, Skillshare, that is really something special, thanks for these 2 months free! Another BIG thank you from my heart. Happy Sunday! Chiara
I am soooooo amazed upon checking my astrology. It somewhat approved my thought on pursuing my life long dream career. Thank you so much Aileen. Continue to shine brightly😘😘😘😘
so thankful to have found your page! some things that put me into my flow state is astrology, tarot, all things metaphysical... problem is (I know I shouldn't let this burden me so much so any encouraging words would be appreciated!!! ) is that I come from a family where some people who I am close with are very religious when it comes to God, Jesus and living thru the Bible..their ways are not for me - the way they have committed to the beliefs of God and Jesus. I hate the backlash I would have to deal with if I came forth fully with my desires ad beliefs (they would make me feel like I knew better than to do whatever it was )...its so sad for me to even type this but its a hugeee...HUGE thing for me..im not sure what to do but it has 100% affected my ability to hone in on what makes me happy because of the fear of judgement from them and wanting to just be accepted :( I KNOW they will equate it to me worshiping the DEVIL and go to GREAT lengths to prove to me in the Bible they are right..
I knew I was going to love this video as soon as she said "you are going to be okay" and just like that without watching the whole thing I liked the vid. Thank you Aileen 😇
I get into flow state whenever I’m outside and around people. Like I just enjoy being outdoors.Also when I am working on something for like school and I’m really passionate about it.
Omg had to come back! The flow state is REAL with me. Whenever I’m writing on my blog or editing videos for RUclips I get so into it and look up and it’s been like hours passed. Which has shown me I’m clearly on the right path. Wow we are so similar!!!
As a teen, this is really helpful. A lot of teens suffer through depression and just don't know what to do in life anymore. But with this video they can see the bigger picture of the future and the present. Sorry if I didn't make sense xD and Thank You.
I've been rewatching your previous videos about finding my purpose and the ikigai and now you uploaded this omg bless u. I hope I figure it out while on quarantine ;; I'm about to graduate and I've been unconsciously delaying it bc I'm too scared of going to the "real" world ;;
Yess!! YOU [WE] ARE GOING TO BE OKAY! Life it’s about discovering yourself and REdiscovering yourself time and time again! Life is about growth and change! Find yourself and do what makes you happy! ❤️ From a self love content creator to another- Great video Aileen. I really enjoyed it! 🤗💗
I am so grateful for an amazing opportunity to listen these beautiful tips💖Thank you Aileen 🙏. I am so lost at the moment. I really don't know what to do with my career. The good news are I am searching for it and I believe I will find it. 🙂. Good luck everyone with self discovery. 🏆
This came at such a perfect time. I'm 30 and still have no clue what my true passions are besides my two children. I'm definitely gonna take a look at the more in depth course you've created! I already love the tips in this video. I was already trying to do something similar to your tips and trying to map out figuring what im good at etc....but this video was just soo much easier! It brought all my jumbled thoughts and ideas to a perfect simple explanation. Thank you soo much & Aloha from Hawaii!
This is so good, it really helped, especially because I'm a person who is interested in so many things and I'm skilled in so many things, it's hard to decide what to make a career. And what I will be best at.
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To whoever is reading this... You WILL find your purpose. You are amaIng and worth it. I believe in you.
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Love the positivity! We need more of it in this world!
you too,, ly 🥺🥰💕
I am 35 and I've only just figured out what I want to do with my life. I thought I had figured it out over a decade ago but apparently not. life is a process, don't be afraid to change things up.
thank you for making this video, aileen! I'm going through this exact struggle right now
aww jen! happy to help ❤️ you're doing amazing already
The first year after I graduated was so painful! I got a job in my field and quickly realized (truthfully, I already knew) that I didn’t want to keep pursuing a career in biology. One yoga teacher training later, I decided to dive into content and social media. That led me to design which I now do full time on my own! It’s crazy to think I created a career where I’m my own boss and live on my own terms. You’ve reminded me to be proud of what I’ve accomplished! ☺️
you go girl ❤️❤️
Follow what makes you happy in the end! Life is short!
The worst thing one can do is to live by others expectations of what you should be.
They don't know how it is to be you.
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me that’s when I began living my life and feeling happy
100% agree!
O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me you always win the best comment
Agreed!! I just created a RUclips video about this...or it was one of my tips. People will always pass judgements, or you feel like you have to prove yourself to others but you really don't! We always have to remember that
yess!!
This is exactly what I need!! I’m just starting to figure out what I want to do in my life.
good luck dear!
Same 💕
Great info!
Agree 100 %
Have your fingered it out what you want to do ?
Always beautiful! Congrats on the workbook 🌈🙂
Love your videos !
When she says “when I edit my videos and I look up and four hours has passed” really resonated with me. It’s so fun to anticipate the end result with what you enjoy creating
Last night i was just crying and praying because i don't know what career i will pursue after college, i feel like i am not good at the things i used to be good at, this pandemic really making me emotionally unstable , and here you are aileen 😭💗💗💗 Thank you srsly
I graduated 7 years ago, got several jobs and thought I found what I want to do in my life. I was wrong, I moved to a new country 3 years ago and that's where I got lost like completely lost. I keep asking what should I do to my life, I felt this pressure from my surroundings. But I'm glad I found your channel 💙. Thank you.
What puts me into flow state is just starting! Not waiting for the right moment but just starting what i need to do and then i will eventually fall into that flow state~ :)
love that!
Thank you, I was wondering how to start it but you could be right.
I was literally having a crisis thinking about my future and my purpose a little d then this notification pops up
same.. like yesterday evening i just laid on my bed thinking about what to do and had a small existencial crisis because i have no idea
Luna A. This is big facts
OMG yes. The same for me. :)
Its always great when something like that happens
Exactly what I needed. What puts me into flow state is writing (short stories, poems and content for youtube). I love writing so much. When I write, I forget about food, social media, and all.
I’m graduating in a month and I feel very lost right now so this is exactly what I need right now. Thank you so much, there has never been a person online that inspired and motivated me so much like you do 🥺👉🏼👈🏼❤️
sending you lots of love! ❤️
i love art. anything about art, whether it's writing books, drawing digitally, canvas art, crochet, embroidery, sketching, music, makeup, etc. i just love to do art. the world needs a positive person to help people through hard times like right now. wow..already thinking through what i want in the very far away future
Your videos are so aesthetic! They seriously give me the warm fuzzies. I aspire to get to your level of artistry.
Well get over 1 million subscribers like her and you can make over 60k a month...not a yr ..a month just like her....check it out
thank you ❤️
The Vivid Vision exercise (among the others in the workbook) is POWERFUL. I was feeling so lost, and ideas just started flowing into my head, things that I never would've thought about beforehand. A life that I wanted was coming into my head and I saw steps to start to take immediately to get there. I don't feel STUCK for the first time in a very long time. I'm inspired and motivated and EXCITED. Thank you!! Seriously, I can't express my gratitude, literally a life changing boundary-breaking moment for me.
This is so timely and helpful! I'm in the age in my life where people (including me!) expect me to achieve so much while the other half is telling me to slow down and let life lead me. And honestly, i like the option two better 💕 Thank you so much for this ❤️✨
Badly need this! I feel lost and I'm crying because I don't know what to do. Thank you so much, Aileen! I really love your videos.
Keep your head up! It's ok to feel lost but just take small little tasks to get you in the right direction every day. Then it will become easier over time. You got this!
great video!
I'm in my late 30's and barely realized what i want out of life, but its like you said I've had different jobs and now I'm doing something that I enjoy and has taken me to a different path same field but i have realized i enjoy helping kids and giving them advice about life and the importance of education, I realized that i love when kids come up to for advice that it made realize to pursue a career as a school counselor.
Honestly, I've watched MANY videos on "How to find your passion". This is the best I've found. It's clear you've actually looked this up. Good job and keep it going.
I've been feeling low about so many things, but then I saw this and its like universe telling me, everything will be okay.
You and your videos uplift people. Thank you. Thank you so much ❤
Things that put me in flow:
Cleaning
Cooking
Organizing
Budgeting/paperwork
Writing/journaling
Helping people through personal issues/volunteering
Research
Being in nature
North node in Scorpio = North Node Scorpios are meant to explore the most profound matters when it comes to psychology. During the present lifetime, they're all the time learning how to place value on how others' mind is working.
First House = North Node in the first house brings the conflict between the need for self-development and the pursuit of harmony; mental balance and the ability to adapt in a relationship; tension between giving and receiving.
These people need to develop the courage to step out of old relationship habits and create the right relationship with themselves. They need to do what they think is right. They should concentrate on developing their independence and self-confidence. They should be willing to deal with conflicts and accept losses in relationships.
Beware of over-adaptability and inclination to help everyone, even if it is against their own needs.
for those who are reading comments before starting this video..........
sure you will get a solution from this for what you are searching for.....
this video will sure uplift everyone's aura because she is talking directly to our heart.....
she is not like exaggerating things ......
the way she expresses her views indicate that she reads a lot of books
for the youtuber---->keep doing this........hatts off to you......
French, Japanese, Portuguese & Spanish subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕
Hi Aileen. I’m your RUclips fan from Thailand. I’m happy to help with translate into Thai in case there's someone needed.
Thank you so much for your kind words. They are really caring, and I seriously need that. :) Really good video.
Lately,ive become so low &lost on what im going to do in my life.then i remembered u..and comes to this video.thank you for your encouraging words&strategies ..truly i need them..
hi I just want to say, I love you. I can feel your vibe and energy. I feel like we somewhat experience the same thing in life. I recently discovered that I have a childhood wound because I kept on looking for answers before why I'm feeling like this, why is this happening to me and it's amazing that all the answers were really just within our inner core or soul. It was in my subconscious mind for years! I'm glad that I finally got aware of it. Once you get to fully understand yourself, healing comes along. It may never be easy and but it will always be worth it. I really do love watching your videos 'cause it brings me joy and more growth. it is really indeed a journey of finding your true self. I know that everything that you speak out, that Wisdom you have, came from all the struggles and pain you've conquered and you used it as a voice to inspire and bring others up. keep doing what you do. You're a conqueror. Thank you so much!!
The universe introduced me to you. It took me only a year to learn to speak English and after two years of watching your video today I was able to understand 80%. Thank you for your help in finding my way.
I'm turning 29 this year and still working on it. I have the artist of life workbook, brought me to tears because it's so beautiful and I want to change but have trouble 'believing' I can change in time and that I won't be able to achieve it. But as long as I don't give up completely... I still keep coming back to your videos, hopefully this work sheet will help and I'll have a crack at it.
People that are able to make a living off of what they love to do are truly blessed! I hope everyone here is able to find that passion and turn it into a career! Thanks for the great video Lavendaire!
Ight Imma download those worksheets cause this girl is feeling overwhelmed due to graduation. I just sign up for for skillshare for I want to improve in my writing. The downside of being bilingual is that is that I am constantly translating in my mind and it show through my writing. Love this video and you have always been a good role model. 💕
Making art, editing videos, creating prototypes, writing, and exercise brings me into a flow. Never realized it until you asked in this video. ☺️
two things put me on flow: reading fiction and studying Japanese
beautiful
Same, except that I love to study English as a second language!
Same except I study korean
Misaki nishimya I love Japanese too 💕 and reading self enrichment book
@@minyoonjistoenail2276 yes army you got this! 💜
I'm a highschool graduate (gonna be an Earth Science student this year) and I am so relieved after watching your video because sometimes i doubt my uni major (eventhough that's my choice) but now i feel grateful and i am no longer feel lost. Thanks for always inspiring me on my darkest days, Aileen
Puts me in the flow: cleaning & organising ❤
I thought I was the only one. 😊
Same
Me too!
Aileen, this is exactly the type of video I needed today. Thank you so much!
I recently started my own business. Do I know everything? Nope. But I’m open to developing my skills along the way. Love being my own boss!!
0:52 the relief I had when you said this is on another level ❤️
I am so lost these past few days, and I felt really anxious. I am pressured within my society, because I am an incoming college student but I haven't figured out yet what course to take and I can't see what future was ahead on me. I am really afraid that I might chose bad decisions in life/ wrong choice of course. And thank you for this, I hope this can help me find myself and what I really want to do :(( I love you Aileen
This might sound really depressing lol but what if I don’t love anything? Like I’m not necessarily passionate about specific things. I don’t even know what to major in for college.
Tulip Tulip you’re not alone
I feel exactly the same way
Same here... but I think it's alright if we still don't know our purpose in life. It's not like it's the only thing we should be worried about anyway.
that's me~ I do love things but to be paid for it? nah fam, I hope watching Netflix gets me paid but oops
Same here! Idk what major to choose too. People say TRY DIFFERENT THINGS. But idk WHAT to try. Pls help out anyone
Find your WHY ❤ your purpose
What you really love to do and you're passionate about !
You came here to add value and light up this world
Thank you for this beautiful video !!!
Erika K “You came here to add value and light up this world” ✨ Quote of the day for me 😌😌😌
Love this and its so true! Everyone is special and unique and has so much to offer to this world! We cant forget to shed our own light on others :)
These past few months, I've been figuring out what I wanna do and which career path to choose. I have felt so lost and confused, even upset because other people around me are going to college/uni with a strong idea of what they want. So far, I have identified my passions like filmmaking, design & I'm having fun with coding in the last weeks. You need to be honest and put yourself out there to live with purpose
I absolutely love your channel and spirit 💕
Things that put me into the flow: designing tiny houses, off-grid layouts and staying green, and travel. Late, but this video is really helpful. Thank you.
Need to figure out my actual 'flow state' but as of now it was 'watching your video' until I realised it at 13:00. Rarely any video of this length holds my attention strings. Content being known, it was your presentation and sheer enthusiasm in your voice which stayed throughout👍
this is such a super important topic! love love love it! EVERYONE goes though this in some stage of your life, but remmember: YOU ARE GANNA BE OK, its AAALLLLL ganna be ok
all of these tips are so crazy!! so good!
i’m 15 and i’m very much confused about my life’s purpose i don’t know my passions or my hobbies i’m constantly worried bout my future and it’s such a scary thing to me i’m so grateful i found your channel it’s helping a lot thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I JUST GOOGLED MY NORTH NODE AND IT WAS SCARY ACCURATE ( I read all the other ones too and they didn't make sense for me) Thank you for telling me about this I literally didn't even know and now I feel confident that I'm on the right path
I love how practical your content is❤️
I needed this so badly, you inspired me to finally get to know myself and start my dreamed YT channel. I am so grateful for finding your channel. I’m staying here forever.
Have a peaceful day ✨
You don’t realize how much I needed this! Thank you for your content! 💞
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For the most part I know what I’m doing with my life, but The Dream Life Series was EVERYTHING for me when I didn’t know! I’ll always love when you make videos like this!
aw thank you! ❤️
After going through lot of things in life I came to know that I self love is so important but I didn't knew how to start or what to do .your channel is really helping me raise my vibrations .. Thanks and lots of love from Bangalore
Wow... I am shook... I looked up my North Node and I've never read anything more related to myself... I feel I understand myself so much more now. Thank you for this
painting puts me in flow, when i start a painting i can stay up all night bc i want to finish it in that moment but there are times when i say okay you are tired ged some rest and continue but i'm not sure if this is what i want to do in my life thats why i ended up watching this video :) thank you for the tips
You are so on fire in this video! And so right. I am 35 and still afraid to take the risk to invest in what I've always dreamt to be doing. But slowly getting there. Thanks for being a fanstastic motivation.
best of luck Marta 🩷
Oh my god, I can't thank you enough for this video, for your work, for your beautiful light and how it lifts us up when we need it most. I've felt lost my entire life. A year ago, I thought I'd finally found my path, a dream I could pursue. But recently, things fell apart. I felt like I was back to square one (even thought it wasn't because I learnt a lot with the experience). I didn't know how to go about finding my path again, and these exercises are finally igniting the spark to explore again. I feel my curiosity coming back to me. It's the energy and love that you put into the wisdom you share with us that makes it so magical and uplifting. You were definitely born for this! We are lucky to have you. I feel better just from watching the video, hearing your calm voice and calming words. And it made me absurdly happy that you mentioned astrology at the end!
Dear Aileen, How do you know what I really need at the moment? It's just so fantastic that you uploaded this video. I was so stuck in my life and I really want to figure out my purpose in my life and coincidencly I was recently watching your other soul search videos. So, Thank You so much for another GEM video that you added in your list. Sending you lots of love. 🥰😍
I don't know why I always felt at ease every time she says "It's okay, everything will be okay". This really hit me hard, reminded me to feel okay
I find myself needing and finding myself again. Your videos help me a lot growing on my journey as person, my life and my dreams ✨ so thank you for being an inspiration and wonderful videos 🌸
Omggg yes! Same. Indecisive Libra! But this is SO relatable. Definitely done all of this and I’m just now getting closer to discovering and finding my purpose. It’s such a beautiful journey (I’m realizing now haha) but you’re absolutely right - we are going to be ok!!! Have patience and be gentle with ourselves
libra sisters! ❤️ yes we're gonna be okay
Libra sister too 😃
Libra sister too!
Iam 14 and lost already. This is what I wanted . I am trying to figure out what to do with my life. Lavendaire is my best partner in my process of finding my own life.
glad to see that i'm not the only one person that feeling insecure, less confident, still figure out what exactly the purpose of my life. Thanks for sharing this, hope your day blessed with love :)
Anytime you discuss this topic, you light up! Your previous video on ikigai totally changed my life! This video was amazing! Thanks for this!
Thank you Aileen! Honestly, I felt so overwhelmed and just watching this made me feel like I can totally handle anything! I really appreciate all your hard work and you are an inspiration! 💖
Wow, that piece about flow state may have just changed my life … thank you
I just want to say 'THANK YOU'! I had never heard of North nodes before this video and in looking for my north node - I had a wonderful revelation! And, that's all thanks to you!
I think visualizing life was an eye opener for me. I couldn't imagine anything, no matter how hard i tried. Though I know I want more out of life than I'm currently at.
Thank you so much! I have never watched your videos or come across your page. On the other hand, you have got another subscriber. Thank you for your positive words and exercises.
I am actually loving my artist of life workbook and I just ordered two blank notebooks earlier today. I love this vibe I'm on!!!
ahh that makes me so happy! ❤️
I really needed this. I just graduated this April. (interior design) I still haven't received my certificate due to COVID. I've been working for almost 2years now. I really need a change in my life. A lifestyle that's created by me. 🙁One where I don't have to work for someone else. Thank you so much it's like you read my mind. 😢🙏
Congrats on graduating with interior design! That's a great career path.
Thank you, Aileen! You are my main vlogger. Because of you I discovered muchelleb and girl & the word. I will forever support you and recommend you to my friends. 🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭 Pls visit manila, Philippines
I really like your voice! I usually listen to your video before I go to bed. It helps me feel relax 😌
Wow Just watching your video I discovered my flow. I read "designing your life" in the past and I couldn't figure out what was my real flow. Hearing about your boyfriend it let me understand that I crave competition too! It's not a case that my fav show is based on challenges and competition!
My flow state is the same with yours..What a coincidence..Maybe because I am also an Aquarius..You are such a light leading those who are on the dim path of life..
Thank you so much once again for sharing your knowledge with us..You are so admirable!💖🌻
Thank You so much for your being! You are so natural and warm person. I used to listen to your podcast so that I’m here. I love all topic ideas and how you make it.
This is exactly what I needed right now! I know I want to do something in the writing industry but I'm still not sure about it more because I have to find my 100% confidence and believe in my abilities. I'm sure these exercises will help me show myself that If this is the right path for me, I will feel it no matter the costs of it. Sending you so much love, thank you for always enlightening us ✧
My favourite RUclipsr eveeerr
I noticed with ur lasts vedios ur filming and ur seen r more clear and its just so much better. Sorry bad English
Whoa I'm a UX Designer, musician and all around creative that was lost (still kinda lost sometimes) for so long. I think ultra creative people just have a harder time fitting in. You're like my spirit animal haha
Thanks dear. Love you. I actually found out my ikigai a few months ago and I am doing what I love now. Yes I am teaching, training kids, making video and taking online classes too.
I actually watched this video already knowing what I want to do with my life, but I’m still really glad I watched this. It helped me confirm that I really want to pursue acting as a career!
I am literally right now thinking about my future, where to go and stuff. Your video helped me so much, I am doing the things I love, but at the moment a haven't found a way to make a living out of it. Making music, doing videos - all these things put me into the flow-state. I hope, I will make a living out of it someday 😊🍀
You are amazing! I have watching your videos over the last two years and always finding meaning and inspiration in your content.
Thank you so much for this upload! I absolutely love your channel! You have inspired me to go all in on my RUclips channel and media business this year! Keep rocking the YT airwaves and blessings to you from this new RUclipsr!💕
I am a 17 year- old girl. i really like your viedo, especially this one. thank you so much for sharing
creating music/ songwriting puts me into flow state !!
I want to really thank you Lavendaire, for what you do. You've been really helpful during this quarantine time, and you made me discover a lot of things that I've started doing following your suggestions and I won't let go, cause they made me feel so good. Last thing, Skillshare, that is really something special, thanks for these 2 months free!
Another BIG thank you from my heart.
Happy Sunday!
Chiara
I am soooooo amazed upon checking my astrology. It somewhat approved my thought on pursuing my life long dream career. Thank you so much Aileen. Continue to shine brightly😘😘😘😘
so thankful to have found your page!
some things that put me into my flow state is astrology, tarot, all things metaphysical... problem is (I know I shouldn't let this burden me so much so any encouraging words would be appreciated!!! ) is that I come from a family where some people who I am close with are very religious when it comes to God, Jesus and living thru the Bible..their ways are not for me - the way they have committed to the beliefs of God and Jesus. I hate the backlash I would have to deal with if I came forth fully with my desires ad beliefs (they would make me feel like I knew better than to do whatever it was )...its so sad for me to even type this but its a hugeee...HUGE thing for me..im not sure what to do but it has 100% affected my ability to hone in on what makes me happy because of the fear of judgement from them and wanting to just be accepted :( I KNOW they will equate it to me worshiping the DEVIL and go to GREAT lengths to prove to me in the Bible they are right..
I knew I was going to love this video as soon as she said "you are going to be okay" and just like that without watching the whole thing I liked the vid.
Thank you Aileen 😇
I get into flow state whenever I’m outside and around people. Like I just enjoy being outdoors.Also when I am working on something for like school and I’m really passionate about it.
Omg had to come back! The flow state is REAL with me. Whenever I’m writing on my blog or editing videos for RUclips I get so into it and look up and it’s been like hours passed. Which has shown me I’m clearly on the right path. Wow we are so similar!!!
love it!!
As a teen, this is really helpful. A lot of teens suffer through depression and just don't know what to do in life anymore. But with this video they can see the bigger picture of the future and the present. Sorry if I didn't make sense xD and Thank You.
I've been rewatching your previous videos about finding my purpose and the ikigai and now you uploaded this omg bless u. I hope I figure it out while on quarantine ;; I'm about to graduate and I've been unconsciously delaying it bc I'm too scared of going to the "real" world ;;
Yess!! YOU [WE] ARE GOING TO BE OKAY! Life it’s about discovering yourself and REdiscovering yourself time and time again! Life is about growth and change! Find yourself and do what makes you happy! ❤️
From a self love content creator to another- Great video Aileen. I really enjoyed it! 🤗💗
D.E.Y.A thank you girl you are too
Joy Mae Thank you!! 🤗
yes girl! happy we're here growing together ❤️
Im in love with this kind of videos. So much light from them. Thank u.
I am so grateful for an amazing opportunity to listen these beautiful tips💖Thank you Aileen 🙏. I am so lost at the moment. I really don't know what to do with my career. The good news are I am searching for it and I believe I will find it. 🙂. Good luck everyone with self discovery. 🏆
This came at such a perfect time. I'm 30 and still have no clue what my true passions are besides my two children. I'm definitely gonna take a look at the more in depth course you've created! I already love the tips in this video. I was already trying to do something similar to your tips and trying to map out figuring what im good at etc....but this video was just soo much easier! It brought all my jumbled thoughts and ideas to a perfect simple explanation. Thank you soo much & Aloha from Hawaii!
This is so good, it really helped, especially because I'm a person who is interested in so many things and I'm skilled in so many things, it's hard to decide what to make a career. And what I will be best at.