Yeah, in story one that the other commenters are talking about, OP should be just fine legally. She used just enough force to stop an in progress assault on herself, qualifying what she did to her sister with the hair pulling and punch to the face as self-defense, and she would have been within her rights to charge the sister that started it with assault.
It also doesnt make sense. She says in the story her sisters husband said that her sister is the one who was pushing for it then later when she confronts her sister you find out that it is true and that her sister was trying to set her up with the brother. So then why attack the husband when the sister is responsible for all the shit happening?
Why does it seem like in A LOT of these stories the mother excuses horrible behavior on the part of one of her children towards their siblings. In a lot of these stories I feel like I keep hearing that in family disputes the mother often keeps making excuses for why one of her children is entitled to said behavior.
Bc it is usually the brat/spoiled child who does this, and guess who usually spoils them? And more, guess who in a household is more leaning towards perfect "masks”
Usually stems from their mothers having that older mentality of "What will the niehgbours think?" that is only really pressed onto women so that they fit the cookie cutter "perfect wife tm" for their husbands.
My mother agrees with me on my sisters crap, but does nothing. Even after her and my dad split. Let's just say that when they are out of this current situation, I'm not moving with them.
"Those brothers were either neglected or breastfed till they were teens"😅🤣🤣 "personality of and adidas sandle"😂😂😂💀💀 She is actually friggin hilarious😂😂
Story 2 at best his father saw his son was closer with his mother and tried to force that wound his mothers death made closed as fast as possible, and all the removal of her photos and stuff was to stop him remembering and being depressed about her death. That is all highly unlikely. A month and a half is way to fast, and does make cheating a very possible thing, plus the birthday announcement was out of line that is stealing a day from your son to put on yourselves. If his dad was slower it might have played out different, like 6 months then admit to dating. And not removing all his mothers things, let his son grieve then he might have seen his step mum as not a mum but a relative or someone his dad is dating that he can know and rely on to an extent. But he took the hammer approach and shattered any chance of knowing his son
@@gatoantonio4774 just rewatched it and another thought popped into my mind. A lot of single father will panic marry when their wife dies or leaves because they can't support a child alone, either they aren't capable of the emotional support for the child or they need to work and have few people to turn to and marriage would create a safey net if he die to so his son is not alone. But I doubt this as well
In that situation, family counseling could’ve helped. Have a therapist make it clear how the son views the relationship, get confirmation of the origin of the relationship, and explain why trying to force the son to replace his mother has caused resentment.
As i've gotten older I've gotten into just burning bridges for people that keep messing with me. And if stepmom that young kept doing that I would have immediately asked "how did she handle being a teenmom with my dad?" Because she would have been in 8th grade if she keeps insisting that she is the mom.
@@jamesalexander8193 "panic marry" sounds like a huge cop out. A dad who cant be the parent they need to be, who needs a wife to be the primary parent.... that's sad. That's sad and the dads like that shouldve reconsidered becoming a parent altogether. Dads should not only be responsible for income, that should not be an excuse they get to use for being poor parents. Dads who get stuck in that patriarchal mindtrap absolve themselves of parental responsibility bc "man makes money". Not saying dad has to quit job and become stay home parent, but to marry so quick after a death....is a such a low blow and a major sign of weakness But dad is definitely a poor parent and totally in the wrong. Not even 2 months, announce engagement less than a year AND on OP's birthday, with a woman who is 14 years younger than him.... all of it is gross red flags and dad deserves to have no kid or grandkid. "Panic marry" is oxymoron and supremely selfish.
The sister is gonna end up miserable and alone if she doesn't wise up with her crap. Then, the father and his wife are sorry senseless SOBs. You never force a relationship unless you don't want to have a future with the person.
I think there was a another mini update in story1 it stated that the BIL tried to commit suicide and now all of the sister's in laws are trying to reach OP
The second story had another update where they ended up moving to a fixer upper farmish land since dad and stepmom didn’t stop bugging them after the baby was born.
rule of weddings the bride and groom can ask whatever they want of their guests, but they push it too far and they'll be the only ones at the wedding and they'll have no one to blame but themselves.
The BIL is crazy! Its not even like it’s his sisters husband. It’s his WIFES sisters husband! Why would he care if you’ve got a relationship with your family! That’s crossing the line completely.
Gonna be a bad marriage. Sister finance is a narcissist manipulating the love of his woman if favor of his brothe who seems as if he needs another person to get him laid.
Story 2: "I'm going to get a better therapist." Lol, good for you OP, because yeah, I don't know what that one was smoking to think that you should try and connected with your delusional father and his replacement wife. Also, with how hard he was trying to get you to accept her as your replacement mother, I think you were right about him cheating on your real mother with her. He's trying to make it right in his head by just erasing his original wife.
I wonder if first OP bit the bullet and went without being glued to her man they'd try spreading rumors with (false) witnesses or 'evidence' that she cheated, so the boyfriend dump her and BIL be there all understanding, to 'console' and swear he had nothing to do with it.
Her wedding, her rules. But you don't have to go, that's also fine. In fact, I would say "I'm not interested in going if that's the case, sorry, I hope you enjoy your wedding."
nahh i think you misunderstood, what OP of story #1 meant was that dating the sibling of your own sibling's partner isn't incest (as in if she had gotten with her BIL's brother)
8:40 - it seems like the sister might have some weird fantasy about having her sister and herself marry a pair of brothers, that or the dude is just a pos and trying to throw his future wife under the bus, either way it’s a mess lol.
Thought so too, but she has more than one sister. Some are even single. Me thinks brothers were pressuring her and she was kind of on board for splitting OP and her bf up anyway
On 2nd story, the deal with step parents is never an easy one. Just because they are there or even if they do a lot for their step children doesn't mean they will replace that other parent by default. That decision is up to the children and only they can initiate the dialogue about calling their step parent 'mom or dad'. It ain't easy but it's the way.
In the second story th OP's father is an arse, what I dont think he gets is as the OP said is he basically tried to replace the OP's mother, yeah no that wasnt gonna work.
Just an fyi In most states you can get a stalking order for people who follow or harass you even if there is no violence. If you find yourself in a similar situation please get help and stay safe
Just say you won’t go until and unless she apologizes to you and formally invites your partner. Suddenly the ball is in her court and it’ll be her fault when she doesn’t want to play
About Story 2:I think the issue between him and his dad was that the dad was trying to move on (whether that be because he was cheating or to hide his pain) too fast ,which is fine , but instead of letting his son still process the death of his mother ,he instead decided to bring his recovery speed to every other aspect of his sons recovery which could have stressed him out since after a month and a half he ALREADY brought a new woman to the house (which is way too soon),not to mention the denying of his mums existence made it seem like his dad didn't care about his mum which also helps with why the son resents him Personally, I think the sad should have waited a lot longer before bringing his gf into the home (3 to 12 months after wifes death) and also he shouldn't have announced them getting married on his birthday as well as not forcing him to call her mum since he shouldn't have to force a relationship but this is just what I think
I can never understand people who marry someone with kids and insist the kids call them Mum/Dad, my stepmum come into my life when i was 5 (she was 19) yet her nor my dad ever made me call her mum (my bio mim left when i was 6months old and not seen her in 43 years), i do send her some cards/messages etc saying she is a great mum but i always call her by her name (she is Nanny to my daughter but thats cos she is the only nan my daughter has and tbh think that she deserves that name after she stayed with my dad for so long even when i was being a super brat lol)
Cool, i dont have to go to a wedding. Theres literally nothing to miss at them. Theyre some of the worst ceromonies ive ever had the displeasure to be a part of.
I saw this story on TikTok. The son was 100% a jerk for the way he treated his dad and his new wife but they also were being too pushy. I feel like the son was jumping to conclusions, assuming that 1.5 months is extremely too soon for the father. I’m not ruling out cheating but it feels more likely that a new woman helped him heal from the loss of his wife. Not only that, he likely removed the photos for 3 reasons. 1. For his own pain. 2. For his son’s pain. 3. To make his new lady/wife comfortable. Regardless, the dad, as previously stated, was too pushy and forced change on the son too soon and didn’t give the son a chance to grow to like/love the new wife. The son basically feels like his father remarrying was a betrayal. Assuming no infidelity happened, the dad was just pushy and trying to suppress the feelings of sadness and moved on. The son stayed stuck in the past, even when his father was fading away.
In the first story sounds like op’s mother is trying to ‘keep the peace.’ And enabling the sister… the parents… holy sh!t op double down go no contact with the ones that are trying to enable the crazy sister…
That sister sounds a lot like she's suffering from a mental illness around unregulated emotions such as BPD, PTSD, major depressive disorder, or a variety of other anxiety disorders: 1. Extreme emotional reactions (that's a neurological thing, these people do *actually* have such strong emotions and cannot regulate them, which is why it is a medical disorder. Some people discover superficial self-harm as an extreme (and extremely unhealthy) form of focus-meditation, but a lot of the affected simply never find any coping mechanisms at all), 2. Impulsivity born from an equally extreme need for an anchor combined with that extreme emotional need (any time they fall in love is "the fantasy", because the emotions are *GENUINELY* so insanely powerful - they can't see reality for what it is because their brain doesn't work that way), 3. And then constant paranoia of being abandoned, of having her partner leave her and break things off, leading her to doing *anything* to satisfy her current anchor, even if that means selling her sister to her anchor's brother. OP, your sister is mentally ill. She needs a diagnosis. Her behavior...well. That's what happens if one such illness goes untreated and she doesn't learn to recognize the early signs of an emotional episode and doesn't learn coping tactics as a result. Her behavior is as much her own fault as it is your parents'. They, too, should have recognized that something was wrong YEARS ago (during puberty) and made sure she got the medical attention she needs. They left her without that support, so now you're the one paying for it. No way does her now-husband have any clue what to do either. Disappointing all around.
Her "it's all I've ever wanted to get my sister accosted by some creep cause he's family" speaking of which what sweet home Alabama shit is she on that they think that would work even if she was single like there children could have cousins closer in DNA than actual siblings
OP is a savage with those sick burns she keeps dropping 😂. “Personality of an adidas sandal” had me in stitches 😂
I was listening to this half asleep, then that burn woke me right up😂
Yeah, in story one that the other commenters are talking about, OP should be just fine legally. She used just enough force to stop an in progress assault on herself, qualifying what she did to her sister with the hair pulling and punch to the face as self-defense, and she would have been within her rights to charge the sister that started it with assault.
It also doesnt make sense. She says in the story her sisters husband said that her sister is the one who was pushing for it then later when she confronts her sister you find out that it is true and that her sister was trying to set her up with the brother. So then why attack the husband when the sister is responsible for all the shit happening?
@@kioeclipse Maybe he just naturally has a dull personality, and she was making an observation
Real
Why does it seem like in A LOT of these stories the mother excuses horrible behavior on the part of one of her children towards their siblings. In a lot of these stories I feel like I keep hearing that in family disputes the mother often keeps making excuses for why one of her children is entitled to said behavior.
Bc it is usually the brat/spoiled child who does this, and guess who usually spoils them?
And more, guess who in a household is more leaning towards perfect "masks”
Usually stems from their mothers having that older mentality of "What will the niehgbours think?" that is only really pressed onto women so that they fit the cookie cutter "perfect wife tm" for their husbands.
My mother agrees with me on my sisters crap, but does nothing. Even after her and my dad split. Let's just say that when they are out of this current situation, I'm not moving with them.
that's why you need both mama and papa
papa always stands with the right mama always stands with her child
hahaha seems like the average life of every family where I live
The sister is jealous that's the reason why she had a mental breakdown and attacked her. She's insane.
Couldn't fucking believe my ears when that happened
@@thisisntsergio1352 yeah the sister in not only insane but also delusional.
"He has the personality of an adidas sandal"
Hey man that's way too mean.
Adidas sandals don't desrve that disrespect.
"Those brothers were either neglected or breastfed till they were teens"😅🤣🤣 "personality of and adidas sandle"😂😂😂💀💀
She is actually friggin hilarious😂😂
😂😂😂
"He has the personality of an Adidas sandal" is a crazy line💀
"breastfed until their teens" LMFAO
If you punched her because she was attacking you that’s called self-defence.
And there was a bunch of eyewitnesses who would most likely be more then happy to confirm that as well
I'm guessing OP is nervous because she is probably unscathed while her sisters hair is f*cked and might has a black eye from the punch.
Story 2 at best his father saw his son was closer with his mother and tried to force that wound his mothers death made closed as fast as possible, and all the removal of her photos and stuff was to stop him remembering and being depressed about her death. That is all highly unlikely.
A month and a half is way to fast, and does make cheating a very possible thing, plus the birthday announcement was out of line that is stealing a day from your son to put on yourselves.
If his dad was slower it might have played out different, like 6 months then admit to dating. And not removing all his mothers things, let his son grieve then he might have seen his step mum as not a mum but a relative or someone his dad is dating that he can know and rely on to an extent. But he took the hammer approach and shattered any chance of knowing his son
Thanks for thing man.your the goat.
@@gatoantonio4774 just rewatched it and another thought popped into my mind. A lot of single father will panic marry when their wife dies or leaves because they can't support a child alone, either they aren't capable of the emotional support for the child or they need to work and have few people to turn to and marriage would create a safey net if he die to so his son is not alone. But I doubt this as well
In that situation, family counseling could’ve helped. Have a therapist make it clear how the son views the relationship, get confirmation of the origin of the relationship, and explain why trying to force the son to replace his mother has caused resentment.
As i've gotten older I've gotten into just burning bridges for people that keep messing with me. And if stepmom that young kept doing that I would have immediately asked "how did she handle being a teenmom with my dad?" Because she would have been in 8th grade if she keeps insisting that she is the mom.
@@jamesalexander8193 "panic marry" sounds like a huge cop out. A dad who cant be the parent they need to be, who needs a wife to be the primary parent.... that's sad. That's sad and the dads like that shouldve reconsidered becoming a parent altogether. Dads should not only be responsible for income, that should not be an excuse they get to use for being poor parents. Dads who get stuck in that patriarchal mindtrap absolve themselves of parental responsibility bc "man makes money". Not saying dad has to quit job and become stay home parent, but to marry so quick after a death....is a such a low blow and a major sign of weakness
But dad is definitely a poor parent and totally in the wrong. Not even 2 months, announce engagement less than a year AND on OP's birthday, with a woman who is 14 years younger than him.... all of it is gross red flags and dad deserves to have no kid or grandkid. "Panic marry" is oxymoron and supremely selfish.
The sister is gonna end up miserable and alone if she doesn't wise up with her crap. Then, the father and his wife are sorry senseless SOBs. You never force a relationship unless you don't want to have a future with the person.
Jesus idc if that guy is infatuated with her or not she’s committed and made it clear he needs to take a hint and move on
I think there was a another mini update in story1 it stated that the BIL tried to commit suicide and now all of the sister's in laws are trying to reach OP
It was an interesting story, I actually hope he updates it. Shame the BIL attempted that but that situation was forceful and toxic
@@dravenocklost4253 yeah 😢
What a delusional pansy. That's on the sister and his brother for encouraging his idiocy.
Do you have a link to the post?
I don't think it's true... I looked at the post, and there was no update about the BIL committing suicide at all.
"personality of an adidas sandal" i'm gonna have to keep that one
First time I’ve listened to one of these where I felt both OP’s did everything right
The second story had another update where they ended up moving to a fixer upper farmish land since dad and stepmom didn’t stop bugging them after the baby was born.
2nd story, homie needs a restraining order
rule of weddings the bride and groom can ask whatever they want of their guests, but they push it too far and they'll be the only ones at the wedding and they'll have no one to blame but themselves.
“He has the personality of an adidas sandal”
Me: *Ron Swanson giggle*
17:32 That therapist really sucks. He clearly didn’t want anything to do with them and he was like let them in.
Edit:I’m glad he got a new one
“Personality of an adidas sandal” I'm keeping this one for personal use xD
17:33 lol "I'm going to find a better therapist"😂
This FOV is so claustrophobic, who tf plays like that.
Cool stories thigh.
Glad it wasn’t just me, was getting sick the more I watched
The BIL is crazy! Its not even like it’s his sisters husband. It’s his WIFES sisters husband! Why would he care if you’ve got a relationship with your family! That’s crossing the line completely.
Gonna be a bad marriage. Sister finance is a narcissist manipulating the love of his woman if favor of his brothe who seems as if he needs another person to get him laid.
Seems like the marriage is perfect for the two of them, they suit each other
Story 2: "I'm going to get a better therapist." Lol, good for you OP, because yeah, I don't know what that one was smoking to think that you should try and connected with your delusional father and his replacement wife. Also, with how hard he was trying to get you to accept her as your replacement mother, I think you were right about him cheating on your real mother with her. He's trying to make it right in his head by just erasing his original wife.
These are such great stories, love your videos ❤
Some people really can’t stand “disappointing” a family member that honestly hates them. Blows my mind.
I wonder if first OP bit the bullet and went without being glued to her man they'd try spreading rumors with (false) witnesses or 'evidence' that she cheated, so the boyfriend dump her and BIL be there all understanding, to 'console' and swear he had nothing to do with it.
"Personality of an adidas sandal" had me dying
I don't blame Op for getting mad at her sister, she;s deliberately trying to break up a relationship because she's jealous.
“ Adidas sandal” I am deceased 😂😂😂
Her wedding, her rules. But you don't have to go, that's also fine. In fact, I would say "I'm not interested in going if that's the case, sorry, I hope you enjoy your wedding."
Op sis: HoW dArE yOu DeFEnD yOuRsElF
What was that about dating between sister and cousin not being incest huh
nahh i think you misunderstood, what OP of story #1 meant was that dating the sibling of your own sibling's partner isn't incest (as in if she had gotten with her BIL's brother)
@@IceFireHeartlove oh chur fair enough
@@IceFireHeartlove thanks for this I was thinking op was saying marrying your siblings isn't incest lol
3rd cousin is not incest in some countries & culture
The voice change was hilarious 😂😂
Story 1: OP handled that like a boss!
Story 2: can’t understand parents like that. Erasing the other passed away parent.
I love your stories!!!
Me to bro
My girl in the 1st story were roasting some of those people dry😂
4:30 even the ai reads the story can't hold his laugh :D
Story #2… he better then me cuz I’m putting hands on people
2:46 hits hard
“He has a personality of an adidas sandal”
LMAOOO THE WAY I WAS ZONED OUT UNTIL THAT PART😭😭😭
8:40 - it seems like the sister might have some weird fantasy about having her sister and herself marry a pair of brothers, that or the dude is just a pos and trying to throw his future wife under the bus, either way it’s a mess lol.
Thought so too, but she has more than one sister. Some are even single. Me thinks brothers were pressuring her and she was kind of on board for splitting OP and her bf up anyway
I got caught off guard when she said is it incest if sister's date brothers and yes yes it is it actually yes it is😢
Neglected or breastfeed until they were teens. 😂😂😂 Love this woman..blackeye for the bachelorette party. Thats gold
"Not rich just middle class"
Thats rich bro
Okay the adidas sandal was a damn burn in the ass xD
"8-month pregnant queen that I have the privilege to call my wife" Love that❤
Story 2: BIL really crossed the line. It wasn’t his business and if anything it isn’t up to him it’s up to OP
I know it shouldn't be funny but when he said my therapist said I should talk to them..... so I need a new therapist. Had to laugh.
And never tell strangers your personal business because you will get more a holes giving you bad advice
On 2nd story, the deal with step parents is never an easy one. Just because they are there or even if they do a lot for their step children doesn't mean they will replace that other parent by default. That decision is up to the children and only they can initiate the dialogue about calling their step parent 'mom or dad'. It ain't easy but it's the way.
The first therapist was right though. Just talk to them ina none hostile way. Although, personally i DO think no contact is a better option
If it was me, I'd just say "it's not like this will be her only wedding" cuz Groom sounds like a creep who is clearly taking advantage of the bride.
We as society need to get over the idea of "my wedding and I rule the world *insert evil laugh*"
I'm gonna be honest no matter how down bad i am, I'm never gonna be like the brother in law
Wait there is people THAT tall? Holy fuck 52 meters thats a fucking giant!
Story 2 is wild like bro why are you doing all that?
Lolol OP like “I accidentally punched her… gut reaction. Now she has a black eye, scratched face, torn scalp…” right, it was an accidental “punch” 😂😂
Wedding ≠ marriage!
Why is this so hard for weirdos in Reddit stories to understand? A “ruined” wedding does not automatically ruin your marriage!!!
She cannot press charges because she started it and it was technically in self defense
In the second story th OP's father is an arse, what I dont think he gets is as the OP said is he basically tried to replace the OP's mother, yeah no that wasnt gonna work.
If story 2's step mom is he's actual mom then the dad will be in jail🤣🤣🤣
Wtf is the insect comments in story 1
"People will talk". Oh shit, she's that mom
Thought something different when she said I have cousins that married sisters😅😅😅
She can't press charges cause there are eye witnesses that day she attacked first
“Try to resolve it” always means bend over backwards for someone 🙄
Imagine being 24 and being in a relationship with a 14 year old
Just an fyi
In most states you can get a stalking order for people who follow or harass you even if there is no violence.
If you find yourself in a similar situation please get help and stay safe
You forgot to mention there were 2 stories at the beginning
Just say you won’t go until and unless she apologizes to you and formally invites your partner. Suddenly the ball is in her court and it’ll be her fault when she doesn’t want to play
Story 2:
"She is not my mother." ❌
"He knocked her up when she was 14."✅
11:29 agree to disagree. In certain States they don't really care but in most other states its incest regardless.
She attacked you first, and there were witnesses. Her pressing charges won't go anywhere
About Story 2:I think the issue between him and his dad was that the dad was trying to move on (whether that be because he was cheating or to hide his pain) too fast ,which is fine , but instead of letting his son still process the death of his mother ,he instead decided to bring his recovery speed to every other aspect of his sons recovery which could have stressed him out since after a month and a half he ALREADY brought a new woman to the house (which is way too soon),not to mention the denying of his mums existence made it seem like his dad didn't care about his mum which also helps with why the son resents him
Personally, I think the sad should have waited a lot longer before bringing his gf into the home (3 to 12 months after wifes death) and also he shouldn't have announced them getting married on his birthday as well as not forcing him to call her mum since he shouldn't have to force a relationship but this is just what I think
Sadge, i feel the pain in story 2 where the OP is 24 meters and his dad 52 meters long. Pain life
I can never understand people who marry someone with kids and insist the kids call them Mum/Dad, my stepmum come into my life when i was 5 (she was 19) yet her nor my dad ever made me call her mum (my bio mim left when i was 6months old and not seen her in 43 years), i do send her some cards/messages etc saying she is a great mum but i always call her by her name (she is Nanny to my daughter but thats cos she is the only nan my daughter has and tbh think that she deserves that name after she stayed with my dad for so long even when i was being a super brat lol)
If I recall correctly about the brother the bride tried to set OP up with, he took his own life.
20:04 That's why you don't throw your address around.
I mean if this story is in the US, just say they're tresspassers and pull out the ol' boom stick.
Is nobody taking abt how the voice change voice and then change back
Story 2: Ops first therapist sucks. Them getting mad about cancelling future sessions shows they are struggling to get sessions in the first place lol
Cool, i dont have to go to a wedding. Theres literally nothing to miss at them. Theyre some of the worst ceromonies ive ever had the displeasure to be a part of.
It’s okay OP you can be at your sisters next wedding
The first story was a good sane ending!! Just remove yourself from the drama!!
Dammmnn....
Personality of adidas sandal....
"Race is not an issue"
"Bil is just white idk."
Story 2:
That's some tall f*** family you got there
I saw this story on TikTok. The son was 100% a jerk for the way he treated his dad and his new wife but they also were being too pushy. I feel like the son was jumping to conclusions, assuming that 1.5 months is extremely too soon for the father. I’m not ruling out cheating but it feels more likely that a new woman helped him heal from the loss of his wife. Not only that, he likely removed the photos for 3 reasons. 1. For his own pain. 2. For his son’s pain. 3. To make his new lady/wife comfortable. Regardless, the dad, as previously stated, was too pushy and forced change on the son too soon and didn’t give the son a chance to grow to like/love the new wife. The son basically feels like his father remarrying was a betrayal. Assuming no infidelity happened, the dad was just pushy and trying to suppress the feelings of sadness and moved on. The son stayed stuck in the past, even when his father was fading away.
In the first story sounds like op’s mother is trying to ‘keep the peace.’ And enabling the sister… the parents… holy sh!t op double down go no contact with the ones that are trying to enable the crazy sister…
24 meters and 52 metres is crazy 💀
How is incest if she dates the sisters brother in law
I’m sorry did no one hear cousins married to sisters…
It's not incest, but he would still be her brother in law after the wedding, and that's still hella weird.
Don't attend.
Prignant gueen had my ❤ daying out of cuteness❤❤❤❤❤
That sister sounds a lot like she's suffering from a mental illness around unregulated emotions such as BPD, PTSD, major depressive disorder, or a variety of other anxiety disorders:
1. Extreme emotional reactions (that's a neurological thing, these people do *actually* have such strong emotions and cannot regulate them, which is why it is a medical disorder. Some people discover superficial self-harm as an extreme (and extremely unhealthy) form of focus-meditation, but a lot of the affected simply never find any coping mechanisms at all),
2. Impulsivity born from an equally extreme need for an anchor combined with that extreme emotional need (any time they fall in love is "the fantasy", because the emotions are *GENUINELY* so insanely powerful - they can't see reality for what it is because their brain doesn't work that way),
3. And then constant paranoia of being abandoned, of having her partner leave her and break things off, leading her to doing *anything* to satisfy her current anchor, even if that means selling her sister to her anchor's brother.
OP, your sister is mentally ill. She needs a diagnosis. Her behavior...well. That's what happens if one such illness goes untreated and she doesn't learn to recognize the early signs of an emotional episode and doesn't learn coping tactics as a result. Her behavior is as much her own fault as it is your parents'. They, too, should have recognized that something was wrong YEARS ago (during puberty) and made sure she got the medical attention she needs. They left her without that support, so now you're the one paying for it.
No way does her now-husband have any clue what to do either. Disappointing all around.
Her "it's all I've ever wanted to get my sister accosted by some creep cause he's family" speaking of which what sweet home Alabama shit is she on that they think that would work even if she was single like there children could have cousins closer in DNA than actual siblings
Too bad that shiner didn't last until the wedding 😮💨
HOLD UP. "Brothers and sisters together is not incest" girl wtf are you on?