Cheating Ex Wife Destroys Her Life.

Cheating Ex Wife Destroys Her Life.
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[@crowfather0249]

This story is confusing. So the guy literally acknowledges that she's cheating, yet he still just carries on with her while she's still seeing the other dude. What is up with these dudes in these stories?

[@nr1fan4all]

kids, he has kids and from the looks of it in the middle of the updates he kind of decided to leave them as well, the retire abroad thing once his youngest get to collage, sounds like the tipical american mentality of you are now 18 so you are an adult
not saying he will change numbers and disappear but distancing himself as far away as possible from his kids and in the future his kids families...
also, the thai GF thing, so cliche, such a red flag, man is ready to get heart broken again

[@SB0418]

I’m starting to believe that a lot of these guys have a secret cuck fetish ngl. No sane individual would stay with someone like that. He would probably use the excuse of “oh well it’s for the kids”. Honestly a bs excuse, I’d rather have a woman like that, not be influencing my kids 😂. She can fuck off out of the equation lmao.
She is lying to them which can trickle down to their way of going about things in life, basically implying lying all the time is okay. And you can’t even class someone like her who does those things to her own kids a mother, so he’s essentially raising them on his own even if he stays with her. Edit: tbf, custody is a thing, so if she took them then he wouldn’t be able to raise them the right way. So staying means he can be with them. That might be a reason but I still believe it’s called being a cowardly cuck.

[@mauberni]

@@nr1fan4all Yeah, Thai girlfriend sounds like a scam, and considering he said nothing in the last updates it probably didn't pan out.
Also I know how he feels but if she doesn't have a job isn't he gonna have to pay more child support and shit? He should probably tell her about the other job.

[@drjonesey5]

Not sure what you mean "What's up with these dudes" These are normal responses in bad relationships most of the time. I got stories myself. Never been cheating on but went through stuff, got stories from friends, families and associates too. I dated a girl who was in an 8 year abusive relationship. Why'd she stay? he also cheated on her. I think that's worst than this, yet that's common for many women. They didn't even have kids together. And matter of fact, she left me, no issues in the relationship at all, we were friends for 3 years to get back with him and told me I deserved better than her. My mother stayed with my dad for 14 years and they fought each other for like 12 of the 14 years. My dad refused to work, he got on crack, he was a petty thief in and out of jail for theft. My mom wanted to keep a 2 parent household but he refused to change and do right so she kicked him out, but it took 14 years, long time. He was physically abusive but she didn't just allow it, she hit him back, she cut him, she broke his nose once with a punch.
I've heard of and know of way more dysfunctional relationships than healthy good ones. For me, it took 4 gf's, and like 8 dates until I found my wife and I didn't marry her in hopes she was good, I told her Day 1 what I wanted, boundaries and all that and she accepted them and still solid 7 years later. I got family going through far worst than this right now. Both men and women do dumb things and don't do what they should when they are supposed to with the people they date. Many women I dated in the past I would not have dated at all with my mindset now. Only my wife passes the test in full of what I should have went for.

[@crowfather0249]

@@drjonesey5 Yeah, sorry to say dude, but that's not normal at all. Literally praying for a cheater to love and respect you WHILE they're in the process of cheating? That's not normal behavior.

[@Jinmeiko]

Damn even 19 years ain’t enough to escape the cheats 😂

[@AleV69692]

There's one case of an Italian man who found out his wife cheated at the age of 90. Love can hurt bro

[@ItsMe-lq5ns]

​@AleV69692 wow 😳. She was probably a thot before they married and cheated throughout the marriage. 90 years old and still getting them dusty cheeks clapped?! Wow lmao

[@Jinmeiko]

@@AleV69692 wooow that’s just….

[@Daimah]

16:44 "the children 13 meters, 14 meters..." Wow, those are some big children... About 42 and 45 feet😂

[@HippieInHeart]

Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's some sort of text-to-speech AI thing that's doing the reading and that's why such weird things often come up in their videos. I'm still enjoying the stories though, despite the obviously very low-effort production. I guess the vids are kinda like fast food. It's cheap and everyone knows that absolutely not a single high-quality ingredient was ever used, but it's still nice to eat occasionally. ^_^

[@Jerseybytes2]

lol, I had to pause the video cause I actually said the same thing out loud when I heard it.

[@ladyweasellou3367]

Reminds me of when the GPS maps and devices started out... SR = State Road... Nope!
Turn Left on: "in 100 yds turn Left on to SR Cattail Rd"
Not to the GPS:
"In 100 years turn Left on Senior Cattail Read"
🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Jerseybytes2]

@@ladyweasellou3367 My husband had what has to be a drunk GPS in his car. out of all the stupid directions it kept giving us the funniest was when we had to go to the VA. told us to, make a right turn to the street, followed by 2 more right turns. at that point we were back to our house. THEN make a left turn and continue.
Another time we were on route 80 going west. GPS told us to make a bunch of turns, go into small roads. 1 hour into this we bumped into a local cemetery. at that point we were told to, "in 1 mile make a legal U-turn". after that it sent us to the same stupid highway we had been in.
I wanted to grab a baseball bat and break the stupid GPS. but hubby said if I did that I'd break the radio too

[@realxeltos]

Came here to say this.

[@stopcensoringmen5044]

"so extra butter it is then"
That was cold 🥶❄🥶❄

[@LoudAngryJerk]

It's worth noting that yes, liars will keep things vague when confronted, but they have also generated lies with startling specificity in the moment. So the fact that they can't remember is not really reliable

[@needs_more_dakka5774]

Behold l, my child
*a 14 meter behemoth comes forth*

[@juanvilas5341]

HAH! My kids are 21 meters and 20 meters.

[@jestosebno666]

This guy is so weak, that it hurts..

[@madisondean1074]

The way the autistic kid figured out their mom was lying just goes to prove the people who have mental health issues aren't stupid. They sometimes even pick up on other things that most people tend to ignore. I love this kid already. I can even relate because I myself have Autism.
Also the dad: *casually plays Gangsta's Paradise in the background*

[@Theyreallyfooledyou]

I'm frustrated and confused. He jumped all over the place telling this story. What about a 23 yo son sharing as roomies? What happened the girl on tinder?

[@Shmeages]

19 years and OP wanted to try and save the marriage crazy how forgiving people are.

[@nicky-su4uo]

It's almost like this man had a f****** family with this woman and she was genuinely in love with him at one point in time so yeah I could definitely imagine that he would want to try to salvage that

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

Its kinda likes subconscious sunk cost fallacy

[@Mizuladin]

@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona Nothing subconscious about it. o.0

[@OfChoice]

a Thai girl is his new girl, hilarious how this guy avoids the fire to end up in the frying pan

[@crimecartelshorts]

I can't imagine the feeling of betrayal after all these years.. If you're unhappy with the relationship you're in just leave!

[@stopcensoringmen5044]

It's like these women have a book of excuses they all pass around.

[@Osamathegamer]

Not really, it's just the slop that comes naturally to anyone whose cheating man or woman.

[@albertszilveszter6718]

​@@Osamathegamerstatistically, men cheat more than women(20% and 13%) but on reddit, 10/1 men cheats and almost confesses instantly, and yet women use the book of excuses to its fullest

[@exemplary12]

"Cheating ex wife destroys her life"
This shit rhyms

[@NemNess1125]

This story just made me imagine one of those “self help” vids, breaking the fourth wall for a lengthy explanation

[@sababaratashvili8629]

Why do these western dudes always blame themselves...it's like nobody teaches them to have some expectations from a woman and having self-respect.

[@RepellentJeff]

Well, let’s see…Decades of society all but stating outright that men’s emotions and feelings are meaningless. That’s one reason.
The current wave of feminism constantly jamming the narrative of “women are never at fault and all men are evil, and if you’re a man, all the problems of the world are _your_ fault” down everyone’s throats. That’s another one.
I could go on, but that’s the gist of it.

[@igotmyapplejuice7094]

We don't, alot of us are raised in single parent households, one of the first lessons we have becoming men is that "men are evil so don't become another burden".
Edit: spelling

[@mr-shadi]

from the style of writing and the decisions made i honestly think this man is quite intelligent and the fact that i actually learned something from this story is very intriguing. If there are any more stories like this, that are informative and the advice i would definitely watch them. They give insight on relationships and also some fun facts, for example in this story there were police interrogation tactics. Some things were confusing sure but i think he just left out a couple of keyish facts or moments.

[@Vikashar]

16:42 Dude's got some tall offspring

[@blaqstar]

every cheaters got the same behaviour. they think they're different but they all follow the same script. one thing i learned is never, not once do you all considering the big R. just start the ball rolling, gray rocking to oblivion, just be indifferent. all of it is for the sake of you sanity, never ask the why, who, when, where none of it matter. when all is done, get a long vacation and just KEEP MOVING FORWARD

[@austinflores2139]

The big R?

[@blaqstar]

@@austinflores2139 reconciliation

[@nomirakuru]

​@@austinflores2139 Probably reconciliation

[@fabianafagundezmuniz8119]

I really like the fact that this story is human and sad, I really understand OP, having anger issues isn't easy specially when you realize you are hurting people you love. I think OP needs to gain self confidence again and move on, that's the right thing to do.
We will never know why she decided to cheat instead of guetting a divorce, but OP is rught, neither of them tried it knowing their marriage was unhappy lr tried to work on the relationship, anyways, her lies not only hurtwd OP but her kids and they are old enough to understand how bad the situation is, I hope they can manage to have a healthy co-parent relationship for the kids.

[@pizza8050]

Nope i hope the kids disown her. She’s not worthy of being their mother.

[@dre3425]

Karma is real and a bitch when it comes knocking.

[@jerfle7787]

The different work shifts causes distancing. No relationship can survive that.

[@soloknife]

Dude is an idiot for still hoping love from a cheater

[@WhiteVastNinja]

That last statement so extra butter it is then....savage

[@heffa3821]

THE END HAD ME CRACKING THE HELL UP YESSSSSSSS GET THAT EXTRA BUTTER!!! LMAO

[@sam-ey7qk]

I don't condone cheating but he openly admits that he has walked out on her and the kids multiple times

[@hypnotherapy69]

NEVER stay together "for the kids",all you will do is end up with your kids blood on your hands..

[@k.a.89]

Let's get something straight.
Unless you're cheating, or forcing somebody to stay in a relationship with you, you are never asking to be cheated on. Because they can leave anytime they want. They don't have to sneak around behind your back.
And if they don't want to leave, then they have to make a choice.

[@thelittlelady1679]

That’s some tall children. 15 meters!

[@Rikkity]

No. G-d did answer. She just didn't comply. Then G-d stacked the odds in your favor.

[@kilianfirebolt]

his 13 meters and 14 meters children are really tall

[@SketchbookGuitar]

13~14 meters kids. Man the kids are tall

[@danacarter9147]

My heart seriously hurts for OP's kids, especially, the oldest; I predict that when the oldest son hits 16, he'll disappear on his mother and her boyfriend/AP to couch-surf at friends' houses, next, at 18, he'll stay with a girl who's being used as a free babysitter for her younger siblings from different fathers, have a kid with her, and end up caring for their kid alone, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to another state to keep her away from his mother and her AP, stay temporarily with roommates, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, take online college courses to pursue a career in medical billing/coding, work one or two jobs to provide for his one-parent household, rely on neighbors as his support system, because he won't have OP or other relatives in his new state to help out; all the oldest son and his kid will have is each other, and instead of ever making plans to find new love, just like OP's doing, he'll need to stay away from the dating scene, concentrate on raising his kid, and creating a stable home environment for her, as a single father.⚠️

[@SteveMichael]

Did anyone else wonder why their children are so tall. I mean two boys, one is 13 METERS tall and the other is 14 METERS tall! My god that family must be giants!

[@lifeisamess8100]

Tellates are u ok? Lately u are not uploading regularly as u used to, U good my guy? Feel free to share😊

[@crowfather0249]

? He just uploaded 3 videos yesterday like he does everyday.

[@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibus]

stop gaslighting

[@lifeisamess8100]

@@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibus Who? Me?

[@lifeisamess8100]

​@@crowfather0249He used to upload more frequently

[@zomilkyz5963]

​@@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibusgaslighting isn't real, you're just crazy!!!!!!!!!

[@user-de3yb5vu6m]

I keep saying these guys in these stories are getting more and more spineless.

[@skeetskeet7041]

Yeah no at this point there really isn’t much sympathy to spare since he acknowledges he’s walked out on all of them and has severe anger issues as well and while he’s getting better, it’s too late for a lot of people after ALL that. His wife is also really pretty shitty for cheating flagrantly and being manipulative instead of leaving when she got the chance to but she stooped. Kids are the only victims here

[@jdavis7613]

When does it say severe anger issues? Pushed to cheat? Anger issues after finding out your partner cheating? Understandable. You can't be pushed to cheat; ask for a divorce. Left the home. Went to a hotel or family member or friends house. Thats what you do when you don't want to fight or go to a bar.

[@Chuckakhan]

Ngl OP seems like a passport bro which is absolutely horrific.

[@saulohm911]

You’re a fooI

[@MrLukejstephens]

Sue your therapist

[@KaitenKenbu]

"She's" a diesel mechanic? This is how you know it's a fake story.

[@hottanqueray]

I know these things happen for real in real life but this does not even feel like a real story. It feels like an excerpt from a Danielle Steele novel.

[@_orangutan]

This is not real but a drama with too many cliches. Do people really gobble this story up?

[@lemonz0880]

exactly all that yapping

[@Killahbee168]

I really have no sympathy for both parties but but she shot herself in the foot moving a marry man in her house and secondly doesn't anybody ever understand sleeping with married people will end badly

[@iamhector24]

This dude needs help.

[@drjonesey5]

1-Nothing wrong with building since young with someone and that's ideal, issue is, when young, since parents are not teaching us, vetting a partner is much harder at 17-18 than 25-30 years old for example. Both men and women go into adulthood failing to vet, screen, sit, wait, watch, place boundaries and see if the person violates them. Example: "Wife been hanging out a lot with the girls often coming home late or not at all" And there's no boundary on that? you just let her do it? One time is enough for a talk. Wives are quick to tell their men they need time and he's hanging with the boys a little too much, yet Men, the leaders of the relationship, say nothing UNTIL a major issue occurs. No no, before marriage, while dating, let her know the boundaries involved with that and see if she accepts it, if she does not, move on to next woman. I personally never dated late night, party girls, drunks, and people too invested in friends. Having friends is fine, but there's a no male friends boundary in my dating and there will be no late night or overnight business and partying. And if the friends are bad influences, well, it's obvious she's either no longer going out with them, or getting dumped well before marriage is a thing. Simple. OP says he's not highly concerned after multiple late night outings, some overnight drunk spree's where she stayed with friends until morning and she's acting out of character. At this point, Op is dumb and he's 40+, ridiculous. "My brain works a bit different" Nah judging by this story and others I've heard online and in real life, it's the typical male brain not yet ready to demand things and establish rules for women you date.
2-Having an anger issue is not the same as being abusive. Also also, sometimes people call "Anger issues" that because they don't like the response of a partner who does not tolerate bs. Many times people have a right to be upset and the other person thinks they have a right to tailor how upset or how it's expressed in full. Walking out on her and the kids before is wrong, yes, but as OP said, he's been making progress and the both of you took vows to work through issues for better OR worst, not just for better, so both of them need to stop being bad spouses here, Op is just way less wrong because OP didn't cheat.
3-Don't ever use God as an excuse for your wrong doing. God gave us free will, Op ex wife cannot be forced to love OP and care. OP ex wife would have to care herself and maybe wish to get things right too even though she was committing adultery, something that use to be illegal and in the days of Biblical times you'd get capital punishment for. Also also, God would not give you another woman to fool around with while you're still married folks. God is not pro divorce, again, OP and ex wife sat there and promised to not leave each other till death to each other and God, and goofball Op thinks it's ok to go Tinder search and kiss another woman just because he's hurting while still with his wife. Work on yourself and be the best man you can be and grow from there and then choose the best woman to marry that you vetted. She must share your core values, MUST.

[@graemebass2391]

Do people not realize that most texting/messaging apps have a trash that no one thinks to empty?

[@moustafaabousalem1411]

This feels fake. The reason I think this is because not a lot of guys and girls who have been cheated on would write with emotion and say how badly they hurt them and how much it hurts. This feels too detailed and too by the number to feel real. It could be real but most of the time if someone goes way into details about something and explain every little thing, it is most likely fail. That's also a good way to catch liars. They would usually go into too many details and explain every little thing to make theirs story believable. But hey it could be real

[@Top-G35]

He is on the spectrum it’s highly likely it’s real

[@nitebreak]

@@Top-G35i’m also autistic and have forgave people who have betrayed me like tons of times. We get attached

[@M1ch43l33]

Lil bro is coping so hard 😅

[@susiefarah]

why are so many of the videos you make about cheating wives?

[@mattiac9167]

Reddit is owned by man l, and maiby even hes viewers

[@eskil5306]

cuz most consumers of youtube videos are men. as women usually stick to tiktok. and based on what sells(presumably the viewer count telltales has) i presume the stats are 97% male to 3% female ratio

[@Telltales.]

Directly copy pasted here -
Female
22.6%
Male
75.6%
User-specified
1.8%

[@Telltales.]

Not necessarily i do all the cheating stories but most are from men as far as i can find!

[@Ueiwbwowheoeho]

Men relate more to men.

[@VibesMentally]

i watch so many of these that the music messes me up

[@moocow4u2]

Daaaaaaang you have some tall kids. 13 meters and 14 meters.

[@blast_processing6577]

...13 meters, 14 meters... 😂

[@decazuliekajuen7579]

This is what happens when the OP is lazy to write. Instead the narrator reading it as "male", it wss read as "meters". 🤦🤦🤦

[@amirilan4435]

Dam these are tall kids

[@menosscott]

Wait.. Wasn't he moving in with this 23yo son after the divorce? And that they have an adult daughter? And a highly functioning autistic child? And now 12m and 13m and married for 19 years? I'm lost

[@ChristinaQueenHeart]

Her cheating is bad but we are not going to pass over him saying he has anger issues and has left her and the kids multiple times. I have a feeling he wasn't a great husband for a long time and she got pushed to cheat. Doesn't make it right but it does add clarity to the scenario. Him going to Thailand likely won't end well either. Passport bro vibes. If he thinks his wife was using him, I'm interested to see what Ms. Thailand expects of him financially. Going to be interestinnnnng.

[@ebiitek]

Not full clarity but it has some sense to it. Yes it isn’t right and it definitely isn’t justified because there must be reasons he’s walked out on her, she could be triggering him and not trying to communicate about any solutions. Idk

[@TheGamingShogun]

cheating is never the answer no matter what. its a disgusting act and immoral in every way possible. at that point get a divorce but cheating is never justified

[@ladyweasellou3367]

I'll be honest....
...I'm incredibly curious what this woman looks like, him too kinda.
I also work in a male dominated environment. I'm the Medical Officer for multiple teams (12 ppl per team working in pairs) specializing in Rough Terrain/inhospitable climate Search and Rescue/Recovery and Rapid Disaster Response, occasionally we help Wildland Fire or as well. I'm the only female working in the field (in any capacity outside of answering phones and filling) in the entire agency. I'm also the youngest person on those teams by a pretty decent range.
While i do have a preference for older men (my husband and i have a significant age difference but happily married for a long time now) i could never imagine having an affair with any of them. These men have been mentors, uncles, to me for a long while now. They all get along with my husband and father both.
It always grossed me out when women have affairs with much younger men.... Seriously?! Who wants a bit when you can have a man!? WTF ladies?!

[@BeholdMyStrength]

"I've constantly walked out on her and the kids".
I'm presently at 9:50 in the video. Ya'know. No excuse to his wife for cheating, but that raises a BIG ass red flag for me. Walk out on her if she's pulling some nonsense sure. But to walk out on your children? That's pretty messed up dude. If something comes to light later in the video that clarifies this in an understandable way, I'll edit and update this comment, but as it stands now, that's a pretty shitty thing to do to the children. Feel sorry for them.

[@samw6930]

Op is a great simp 😂😂

[@charliegone1652]

Stop believing in the disney romantic garbage. That will get you nowhere but more heartache. If he does decide to get into another relationship, he should do his due diligence and get to know his partner better, get to know their parents, what she is like in public, her credit history, if she has kids (I don't suggest you get with a woman with kids..but whatever) how is she with them, with their father, etc..too many people nowadays especially men jump into marriage and get screwed over by women who just marry for superficial reasons.

[@danieldehoop6188]

ik as soon as he started rambling about the cop and how that related its a fake story

[@lemonz0880]

all that yapping.

[@wiresculptor5951]

Anger issues?? Um no! Cheating is cheating is cheating and cheating is for sub human garbage😂

[@JBrandonMercer123]

Anybody else watch these videos for the sick gameplay?

[@noodlecompany8123]

The moral of the story is for all of you young man out there. There is not a woman on this planet worth taking this risk for. I'm not some incel that hates women. I am an older man with lots of experience with women, I've been the betrayer, the betrayed and the other man a number of times what I say comes from experience and observation. NEVER give a woman all of your love or trust NEVER prioritize her happiness or desires over your own and NEVER NEVER NEVER ALLOW HER TO MOVE IN AND NEVER NEVER NEVER GET MARRIED . This is not red pill s***, this is an experienced man that don't want to see younger man continue to make this mistake. Trust me it's not worth it

[@dexdarapper4207]

This story went on way too long. He should have been left

[@davidmccollum447]

God answered you hoss, it was the best answer but not the one you wanted 😊

[@juanhaines7295]

Good day to everyone

[@Kalaforlife7]

13 meters, 14 meters💀

[@JannyPwns]

Protip: skip this one.

[@Ohsnhapitsdenus]

It cuts off at the end

[@naiasiafussell1995]

20:32 💀

[@Alwindar1]

part 2 please

[@Vinn_Tree]

Sound like jaka pinkett she had an entanglement.

[@Seypenni]

I am suddenly more grateful to the OPs that try to be balanced. This guy was one red flag after another. Anger issues. Walked out on family. Could have told Ex about a job. He has very little care for his kids. They were living with her in the house, and now she's losing that. On top of the entire marriage imploding, their world is going to get so fucked up over and over. If you hate your Ex, that's reasonable. You still should act like a parent and make sure that their situation is okay. The whole thing comes off as entitled and gross af. Going to Thailand for a month to meet a girl. Cheating is never acceptable, but this guy sounds like a piece of work. They were already on the rocks too.

[@travisbeale1424]

There is no way she destroyed her life...as a matter of fact the title is a sham

[@allieisms]

Yo I was totally with this dude and his sweet, satisfying restart, but at the end when he found out about ex’s breast lumps and says SHE DESERVES IT FOR LETTING SOMEONE ELSE FONDLE THEM. like bro the actual fuck????

[@J.smith19901]

It’s always when women start working.

[@morijin8443]

Eww brother eww

[@arcian2519]

Bs story, loss of time big dislike

[@Mike.Erman.Trout.]

Bro thinks he's writing a movie

[@putent9623]

😞

[@kora9591]

Zzzzzzzz

[@yenisketches6047]

Thai girl will scam him so bad

[@ilykevin81809]

😂🤌🏽👏🏽👏🏽