Sister Tried to Sed*ce My Boyfriend a Week Before Her Wedding. So I Told Her Fiancé, Who Then...
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- Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024
- Sister Tried to Sed*ce My Boyfriend a Week Before Her Wedding. So I Told Her Fiancé, Who Then Left Her at the Altar. Now I'm Engaged, but My Parents Say I Ruined Everything Out of Jealousy.
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So the mom is saying exposing cheating is just as bad if not worse than cheating?
The parents are concerned with image only.
If it means exposing her precious golden baby, apparently yes.
I guess we know that mommy dearest is a cheater herself now.
I think there’s something mommy dearest needs to confess
The mom probably didn’t cheat, it would ruin her image if it got out. That said the favouritism is strong in this one.
The parents are the reason the sister is a demon. sister is the golden child.
I think this is more of a family facade than a “golden child” situation. OP clearly stated that she and her sister hate each other’s guts with no clear reason why. And her parents did nothing about it, not even family therapy I’m guessing. These folks would rather let their daughters’ mutual hatred grow and fake a happy family than deal with the underlying issue.
I always find the reasons for having a baby to give the sibling a playmate so bloody laughable and insane. but then, gonad donors slide their selfishness off onto their own children.
That girl is wrong the head why do think that cheating on someone and they told the truth that's not being evil
@@Michelle020892 That honestly sounds just as narcissistic as having a golden child.
I’m betting they just wanted to make their shitty daughter someone else’s problem
It’s funny how one of the first things Op says is “i don’t think my sister is the golden child” …then goes on to list MULTIPLE ways her parents have always favoured her brat sister and proved she was the golden child…
Sounds like op didn’t lose a family. Her sister was a lying cheater and the parents only cared for their golden child. I’m glad the guy left her at the altar, thats something that will be harder to hide from future guys.
It could also be that the parents focus too much on reputation. This is a fresher intake than the golden child theory but that theory still stands. I think the reason why the sister got away with her serial cheating is that she didn't do it with people close to their family. If this theory is true, then the moment it is the family members gossiping then she would be in trouble. Op never clarified her sister's reputation in the family, but if the parents only want good reputation, then the sister must have a decent enough reputation towards family. I wonder if the parents would have sided with her if she got exposed on her own (ex a pregnancy drama). Too bad we don't know if the sister is being berated as well since her reputation in the family is ruined now.
I hope Op was right about her parents just wanting to preserve their reputation because that means the parents have their own karma as well, being that the sister is now exposed, and their other child ran away from home shortly after. If it were the golden child scenario then they wouldn't feel it as much.
Okay, the sis was a creep the moment she made that kind of move. I mean, that's literally forcing herself on someone's partner, that's sick and depraved.
Isn't that sexual harassment
yeah, im pretty sure it is sexual harassment, since it wasnt reciprocated
@@braineatingamoba
if men do it it’s assault.
if women do it it’s seduction.
this is how society works in 2024, buddy
@@imanartiest and the poor man didn't even give any consent
Not to society the man is still to blame to women in real life
I have 2 theories on why the parents reacted the way they did to OP doing the right thing.
1. They were trying to uphold a public image of being "the perfect family" to their community and people finding out that one of their daughters is a serial cheater will tarnish their reputation, so when OP did what she did the parents saw that as instant betrayal because ppl's perception of them has been altered forever.
2. One if not both parents have cheated at one point in their lives and defend Melissa so much over it because cheaters look out for each other.
I think It's mainly the first reason. Op did mention that their parents force them to put up a happy face and be civil with everyone.
@@Yointrovert Yea, that reason alone is what makes me more inclined to believe theory 1 to be more accurate.
What if Melissa is a affair kid from one of the parents.
@@laquietagray9323 I don't think that's the case because both parents were still upset at Melissa for her promiscuity and infidelity, but acted more concerned about perserving the family reputation than anything else.
Not necessarily because in the past I have read several stories on Reddit about siblings who were in similar stories only to find out that they were a affair kid and the parents let the daughter or son's actions slide for whatever reason. Plus there was just stories where the guilty party was just simply the golden child who could do no wrong. I seen a bunch.
“My parents treat me well”
Mmm no they don’t
Huh
At first I thought this story was fake, especially with the old "accidentally hit record" trope, but going on a 5 minute tangent to rant against commenters insisting OP had a crush on Theo absolutely sounds like authentic reddit content.
For real lmaoo
Melissa had everything. She had a loving fiancé whom she was gonna marry, but decided to throw it all away because she was depraved and wanted to one up her sister.
Parents have shown OP who’s their favorite and it’s clearly not her.
People who defend Melissa or try to make up look like the bad guy are cheaters themselves. Always tell the truth when needed and do the right thing when times are serious. Op saved Theo from a marriage that was going to fall apart anyway and like most cheaters Melissa would drag it out and make herself look like the victim and ask for alimony payments to fund her lifestyle.
Makes you wonder if the parents are cheaters as well. If I was the oop I would be questioning how my parents got together in the first place.
Seduction can lead to regrettable actions. They sure know how to evade people trying to interfere with their so called relationship.
*consequences*
That's not seduction, that's sexual harassment. The sister is a creep.
Her sister was literally about to get married, but was hitting on her boyfriend. What other motive did she need?
I would have sent parents an email
"She treated me so badly and I never attempted to influence her relationship. Several people have reached out to me with evidence of her cheating and I stayed out of it. Now she attempted to seduce my boyfriend and you are still asking me to protect her. I told her fiance 1 on 1 what I knew and never gossiped about her to anyone else. You go out of your way to protect her at every turn, but you are happy to throw me away. You have had weeks to reflect on your behavior and you didnt even congratulate me on my engagement. I am truly disappointed to learn my parents have such low morals. Is my relationship with my future husband so unimportant that you dont want to be involved in my wedding?"
Now that op is gonna marry,she should plan everything and lock everything with a password,also hire a sort of a bouncer for the wedding,since the sister definitely will try something,I'm sure of it.
Sounds like the mom might have cheated.
Op did the right thing and save that poor man a lot of trouble. Thank God that phone recorded and made everything possible. Hope she and her future husband have an amazing life.
theo is a smart guy. he went and investigate and ask people, some with pictures as proof. He did not blindly believe one email. He's a good man. I sincerely hope he find someone deserving of him.
The saying, "Birds of a feather, flock together," gets proven right with this one.
Momma Bear likely has something to tell Papa Bear...
Her parents have no integrity. She was right to cut contact.
What is with parents defended op sister she literally try to get with op boyfriend
From my point of view, I think the parents only cared about appearance and reputation.
Golden child ovs
I very much hate hate hate these parents who thinks their golden baby does not make mistakes and believes their lies
I would have just told the parents I'm never letting them know if they're cheating on each other since they seem so ok with idea that their youngest doing just that. Anybody who defends that shit i have no problem immediately calling them out for allowing the behavior of a cheater.
Sis fucked around and found out. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes, as they say
NTA. The dude needed to know what his nearly wife was doing behind his back
You did her fiance a huge favor. You saved him a life of misery with a cheater.
If op didn't do anything and her sister continued to cheat she could have gotten pregnant with someone else's child
It’s obvious the sister is the golden child that can do no wrong, even when she’s blatantly wrong.
Her parents let her sister cheated on her boyfriend, and want to forced the two be happy family bruh.
Melissa got a flak from the parents that's it? Probably getting an earful of scolding, do op sure the sister ain't a golden child?
The sister is definitely a golden child.
I think i know why OP sister is such a piece of work.
Tbh, watching this and hearing how the parents was upset with op screams to me that not only they care a lot about their reputation, but it seems like they both may have cheated in their relationship. And that's why they are defending their golden child, cheaters will always have each other's back.
Glad OP lost the GC and the parents that make the term "spine of a jellyfish" sound like a compliment.
seems like OP's sister is the golden child.
Theo shanobe ghosted her at the alter 😂😂
As so you shouldn't feel bad. And your mom is no better than your sister. They wanted heartache and a bad marriage for poor Theo. Shame on your lousy family. Stay away from them for your own piece of mind.😊
Sheesh, I thought OP’s sibling relationship would be similar to mine later on. I live my life how I want, my siblings live their lives how they want, and we leave each other the f**k alone.
I don't think Op knows what an age gap is? One year age gap is not a big deal.
That serial cheater got me😂😂😂
OP has feelings for Theo, it's called emphaty.
I find it ridiculous that ppl think OP had a thing for Theo. Like we really as a society can’t fathom ppl doing stuff from the kindness of their hearts w/o thinking there’s a motive. I love my family but I sure as hell will tell their partner if they’re on some BS. Why watch an innocent person suffer for the sake of public image? Like that makes you a giant butthole the longer it goes on
I know, it’s so stupid
"Weither the wedding would happen or not". Bro
Saying that OP has something for Theo is so stupid. It looks like the cheaters outed themselves with that one.
NTA. You did the right thing and saved a man from more heartbreak and a one sided love
The fact that the parents enable her cheating behaviour and blame the one who do the right thing disgust me
I am sure that Melissa would try to pull some stun at OP'S wedding.
This is karma. She deserves this. She ruined ur life and she would have ruined Theo's life. Just because she saved Theo doesn't mean she has feelings.
"Accidentally started recording"
I guess he has his earbuds in his. Hand or something 😂😂
it happens my phone opens the video recorder when I press press the switch off button twice and records when I press the lowering sound button
so with the frustration it actually might have happened
OP definitely not the ah, cheaters deserve every ounce of shame they get
Her mom us delusional 😂
I like how OPs will say “they’re good people except the huge personality flaw 🤪”.
Some sibling rivalries just never go away.
My sister and I are only 19 months apart. It wasn't until I was 17, almost 18 when my sister and I stopped having a sibling rivalry. Meanwhile all of our classmates got along perfectly fine with their siblings. Although it wasn't really competing for anything as we got older. It was just that we couldn't stand each other. 😂
stop saying first/second/third and actually watch the video its good
it broke your heart? your mother and fathers have no morals. don't keep those people in your life
Nope she (Melissa) made her bed so now she can lay in it
His name is Patrick Bet David. It took a lot of research for me to find him. But he shared his testimony, and it's inspiring.
If your sister tries to seduce your boyfriend *at a family get together* one week before her wedding and you tell her fiancee, you are not... ever... the AH.
Kinda sounds like the younger sister is the golden child
She definitely did this as a “f you” to the sister but that’s what she gets
Mom is a cheater obviously
I would ask the parents how long they have been cheating on eachother, since they think infidelity in marage is ok.
The mom, and the dad if he did support that stance after the wedding, are disgusting
U don't have to see any of them. Blood doesn't mean family.
The sis is crazy she is a secret golden child but was their another way to break the news
She blames everything on the sister, from the very beginning. Which is normal in situations like this. But as a society we need to learn that in at least 90% of the times a kid behaves that badly, it's either some trauma or the parents fault.
The fault may not be intentional, most parents try to do good. But then unintentionally favor one kid over the other, creating a toxic dynamic in the proces. Again, while meaning well, maybe even starting small, but spiraling out of control. And then, when shit hits the fan, they usually blatantly pick the favored kid. Sometimes out of obligation due to their mistakes, sometimes to ignore their mistakes.
My sister and I are two years apart, that might mean something but it's not a big deal, so the sister is just straight up insane
Does anybody know the OPs reddit name
Such useless parents
Lmao nta
I think the ones saying SITAH. I can only assume its to stir the pot. "be trolls" so to say. Like, how can anyone justify not telling the truth? Not saving an innocent man from extreme heartbreak and deception? How could a relationship transform into a marriage based on a lie and expect it to work out fine? Trust was blindsided by betrayal from the start. and ex-groom got lucky op was courteous enough to do the right thing, even knowing that she would be ostracized by her parents thinking family image is more important then punishing evil deeds and doing the right thing.
Ive only just started watching this, I am only a minute in but I wouldn't say the age gap is an issue as my older sister and I are only a year, 2 weeks and a day apart and we never competed over friends, and family affections because we both had someone that we gravitated towards in our family, I gravitated towards our mum who did her best despite not having a lot of money and my sister gravitated towards our Nan who spoiled her rotten. My sister and I did fight sure, and they were pretty rough, I kicked her in the nose and she tried pushing me down the stairs but we both calmed down by time we hit puberty and would only have shouting matches occasionally, but even then it got rarer as we got older, and now my sister and I are really close
Hope OP gets therapy to heal 🙏
100% not the problem
Entitled parents and sister
... why were people blaming her on the og post
Of course, some of the Reddittors comes to the conclusion that exposing someone for cheating means you're madly in love with the person being cheated on 🤦 The land of basement dwelling neck beards with overactive imagination strike again I've also noticed that on that sub on Reddit people flip their mind over a dude cheating but minimize it when it's a woman doing it and no, let's not be being some sort of sexist woman hater that was literally pointed out to me by a woman and I literally can't unnotice it because it's true
POV op between her sister:
I'm the biggest hater
I hate the way that you walk, the way that you talk, I hate the way that you dress...
The mother's rant was ridiculous.
The op wasn't just jealous of her sister, they were jealous of each other. They were locked in a vicious rivalry their entire lives, and it left them with a lot of bad blood. But to give op her credit, she actually tried to reach out. Her sister, on the other hand, did not. She didn’t want to make peace, she didn’t want to be a family, she wanted to be the best.
And maybe what the op did WAS out of spite, and honestly, I believe it. But at this point, who cares? What does it matter?
You tried to slither your way into her boyfriend's pants (Again!) days before you were meant to get married and just expected everything to be okay?
She should've known that being "The other woman" or even attempting to would make a lot of enemies. Enemies who want to get back at you.
No matter her motive, she did the right thing.
Neither she, nor Alex, nor Melissa's boyfriend deserved to be treated that way, and somebody had to tell her.
Cant help but feel that she is keeping silent about her own "competing" with her sister for a reason. Obviously the sister is trash but without the full context of how op treated her sister im keeping away from a verdict
This woman is WEAK. Her sister tried to steal her man, was cheating on her fiancé, and has been a serial cheater her whole life, and she has DOUBTS as to who is in the right here?
Yhe mom was trying unload the sister off on the other family
Hun she's a good lay... Most guys don't want more 😂😂😂
She did the right thing for the wrong reason, but it was still the right thing. But she did it to hurt her sister, not help the guy. I mean, the right thing done for the wrong reason is still the right thing, but this chick might need to go to therapy to deal with the hatred and jealousy she has for her sister.
You don't need to censor seduce
Bg music?
Your not bad guy
Remember when reddit was tolerable? OP is no better than her sister. Perhaps worse because she's only interested in getting attention from strangers.
a little thing i cant stand is OP's doing something like exposing somebody justifiably but then saying shit like "i didnt do anything" yes you did, you did the right thing but yes you are definitely one of the reasons why x y or z happened
op did the right thing but for the wrong reason, Melissa got what she deserved, but what her mom said on their phone call after the wedding had some truth in it, op is trying to convince herself and others that she did it because she felt bad for her sister's ex-fiancé, but no, she mostly did it to take revenge on her sister and show everyone that she was better than her cheating sister, and it seems like the parents are just tired of their daughters bs.
14:33
your not a ah ❤😊😅😢
Melissa again...? Dude you need to stop being so lazy with these fake stories.
Skibidi
35 mins ago
Fake story.
I am first here
Damn you
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fake..
Second!!!
YTA
How- Is this opposite day now?
How the hell is op the asshole for exposing a cheater please do explain.
Thus dude is just a troll ignore him
@@beanman_1912 I can start trolling if you want🙂
@@iwtbrnk Get back in the basement
Melissa again...? Dude you need to stop being so lazy with these fake stories.
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