heard this story a million times in China. there's even a woman who married 5 times before authorities discovered she killed all of her husbands for insurance money 😂😂😂 the most common is just to divorce the husband and then get half of the apartment. But now the government decided to abolish the wife getting half of the husband's assets before marriage ... even without a pre-nup
Dear Pete, It was a pleasure to meet up with you and be given the opportunity to speak my mind out freely. Thank you so much for the trust, the time & the token of kindness to be part of your RUclips Channel. I absolutely enjoyed my experience with you. Loy Machedo
Just my opinion... Giving someone full access may not be secured. What if the access could be 'hacked', shared, etc? As u said, everyone change with times.
Loy you are truly married as you've given it your all you have hidden nothing you have given your Wife total control and access to all you owned there's not many men in da west who would do this as most of us are cynical and have gone through da sauggage machine you have a new subscriber here
A fool and his money are soon parted. How can you be an advisor and make such a teenage mistake. That woman targeted him on Thai Cupid and noticing that he is a gullible sheep made a move on him to defraud him. Now this guy has so much wisdom that he charges others for it. LOL
@@shinedg168 Yea mate I have been going To Thailand for 30 years :) Every trip I always find a new idiot that lost all his cash to a young lady ? This guy is just another fool to the list Punching above his weight ! Thinking he is smarter ? Thinking his money will buy him love ? Treating a woman like an object you own ? Thinking a bar girl has a heart for love ?
I'm no expert...I lived in Thailand from 1978-89, then moved back in 94 until 2014 when my mother passed away. I never married but had several steady gals and 100s of overnighters. Whether you want to believe it or not, 90% of the foreigner/Thai relationships come down to money. When you tattoo your body like this, it's usually a cry for attention. I feel sorry for his daughter.
Yep! No Money no Honey! Unfortunately dating in the west is basically the same. See how long a western girl will stay with you if you have any financial problems.
@@nikkimclay5474 But it is! I’ve dated several western women in the past, all of them had their own incomes, and paid their own bills. In SE-Asia, if you meet a girl (usually a bar girl), and start dating them, soon you find yourself feeding them AND their families. Most cases they don’t even have to be bargirls. Many rich local people here as well, but usually they’re from the Chinese heritage, and very rarely date farangs.
I lived in Bangkok from 2005-2010 and let me tell you, appearance is everything in Bangkok. Whether you like it or not, foreigners are judged in BKK on how they look, dress and act. Being seen with a bar girl in BKK in places likes Siam Paragon is a big NO NO. He seems like a nice guy in the video, but with all his face tattoos etc, he belongs in Pattaya.
He said himself he does sound like a narcissist. He may be providing for his wife and child, but a part of me feels sorry for his wife. Great interview Pete!
Would you feel more sorry for her if she had a Thai boyfriend who normally leave their partners during pregnancy and have multiple girlfriends and provide no financial support and often beat them? How do you know what she thinks? She may be perfectly happy and you are just just using your bias to judge others.
He never said that he was a narcissist.....he said that he does not care whether people think that he is a narcissist....people may think as they wish and he does not care one shit what people think about him!!
@@johnspartan4617 Thai men provide for their families. Usually normal Thai men gave all his income to their wives and give utmost respect to the in laws. They even paid “dowry”. So, please RESEARCH before giving biased comment.
@@jomontanee I am Thai and I have to say there´s something about unfaithful Thai men and them leaving their wives and families, my father also did and all of my aunts had a men that beated them, it is a very common thing, especially on the countryside or people in lower classes living in slums that r alcohol addicts and desperate because of financial issues etc. and many are in debt because of gambling. Thai people talk about it very often and it is known.
This guy is such a compulsive liar… as soon as he opens his mouth,lies come out. He was not born in dubai, he himself has said that he was born in india. He did NOT decide leave fast life in Dubai, he was forced to leave because he couldn’t get a job and he was out of status.
He may not be everyone's cup of tea, but he's honest. Have to respect a man that wears his heart on his sleeve & is confident about it. Nearly finished this video, then will move onto part 2 !
I really felt when he said you can be with someone 20 years and not know them. My estranged wife and I separated over 10 years ago after being together for 15 years and 4 kids together. People change over time and that's ok but be real and truthful or you have had nothing together.
Another enjoyable interview. There’s a lot of good in this guy and a few faults too. He comes across as controlling as a result of his insecurities/history yet he’s intelligent, has some solid values and no doubt has worked hard to pull himself up in life. Cheers Pete and Loy
This bloke is a narcissist. The way he talks about his wife like he owns her. Just awful. Imagine being married to Darth Maul and having to obey his every rule. Urgh.
This man has clearly suffered a great deal of trauma. I really feel for him. He must have been through some very terrible experiences. I hope that he can find peace.
You have to respect what this man says . He has seen heaven and hell and knows that the straight middle road is where he can only find the peace and security he needs for himself and his family Respect
This guy can’t be taken seriously. he himself has said he says things to get attention and he defaced his face to get attention. Very shallow and obnoxious creature. He treats his wife and kid like POS.
Great interview, thanks to both of you. The more I listened to Loy the more I learned. He definitely has an interesting perspective and something to share.
He's a con artist using social media,as a hustle. He's after the almighty dollar. He's nothing special, or unique. He even copied Mike Tyson face tattoo.
I think you’re a smart good looking bloke man. Rough go, happens to the best of us at times. Absolutely gut wrenching at the time and it’s never forgotten. Life was never meant to be easy. Happens to the best of us.
This guy comes from a world of arranged marriages and different dating procedures to the western culture.......so it is no surprise that his methods of finding a partner aren't quite the same as the most of us. That said, he knows what he want's.........it seems that he found it......I wish that his family enjoy some beautiful years together. Can't wait for part two.....I think we are in for a treat!
From that so called super dating culture of western world r having so many jaw dropping stats in USA n Europe, except italy. In India we believe in arranged marriage mostly, but we believ in both love marriage (max these days) n arranged marriage. U missed Loy's statement that he never ever been in India, he is born n brought up in UAE. What he went n how he survived in his life is his problem and his idea. His present wife is happy with him or not that is also their headache. But i know its better to have ur parents together and share their responsibitues, rather than not having one of them with u and struggle with everything in ur life. Loy is not touching drinks, smoke n he is loyal to his wife. It is hia life. Now if u have data please let me know about the stats of single mom in usa n europe n condition n struggle of those children. Please.
He isn't hindu he is a Christian so no arrange marriage .. As per his Chanel he dated over 300 + woman and had sex .. And at the time he was independent too.. He made this decision bcz he was insecure of his age plus tattoos
He is not the first guy who’s lost 100k to an issan beauty. I’ve heard about 4 times over 8 years this same kind of story. This guy is radical and has the gift of the gab. If l am walking down the street and see this guy I would cross the road
I'm about half way through and I totally respect his stance of just being brutally upfront about what he's looking for. He isn't asking for the stars, just commitment to a goal of having a family. Effectively arranged his own marriage it sounds like.
His wife tolerates him, because it is a sacrifice of being cared for. He is a special case though, but correct about what he said, you never really know someone, even if you been acquainted for years. People show you who they want you to see. I think he just wants to feel wanted or needed.
Am Asian and can't act for shit!! If anything I can straight up tell you the truth to your face. You, my dear, have met the wrong Asian women...says more about you than us.
I’m glad he found a good , faithful, honest woman. I found dating on line for me was a nightmare. 3 out of the 4 men didn’t look anything like their pictures, a totally different person. The 4th was married, everyone lies on line. I respect his honestly and being so straight forward. His wife is beautiful. I found Thai people, non judgmental much more tolerant than in the US
3 out of 4 women do not look like their photos (even my daughters use filters)-50 50 for both that is why online dating is difficult-most women have filters built in-I don’t know any men who use filter-we use poses to make us look 💪-make up is ok but filters or those that only show their face can be problematic
@@BarnabyBarry I am so honest, really , I wouldn’t think of conning someone, since I don’t date women, that’s probably true, what the hell are filters. It’s been around 12 years since I was on online dating
Glad I got to watch this. Another excellent interview, Pete. I really like your style. Thank you for sharing, Loy. Really interesting. Definitely want to watch your video about turning your life around after being homeless.
Pete great inviting Loy,saw some of the negative comments here,people are people after all.But like the fact that you were able to share his experiences with us.We got to see a guy who was on the verge of suicide but didn't give up and instead built his life from 0.Gotta give it to him.Most guys who look like him would be still partying but life taught him plenty and he is living it wisely.Big shout of to Loy and to you Pete for inviting him.Looking forward to part 2 with Loy!👍
This isn't just a Thai issue. In western countries women are ruthless snakes as well, from aristocracy to poor women. Just because your Thai wife isn't fat doesn't mean she isn't going to pull your life apart.
I disagree with this man's actions. To demand your girlfriend tattoos her body with your name before paying a dowry to her parents is beyond belief. You brand a steer or horse to prove ownership not a fellow human being. I have heard of controlling your partner but this goes beyond the norm.
No mention of the womans actions?? She stole his money, why don't you mention that? He didn't force her to do anything, she chose to get the tattoo because she knew she was going to steal from him.
Yea like "women r victim" culture??? He did not force her to do that. She could have denied n leave. She took a good anount of money in the name of dowry ( her parents did not a baht) again she did a drama to get more money n flew away. And with that tattoo also she is doing same scam with people on a regular basis. Please comment on that too...
@@PB22559 Come on now, Steven Hull probably doesn't agree with her behaviour either but what he did was crazy too. I definitely feel the same way, what he did was wrong and what she did was wrong.
@@m.g.3913 The difference between their behaviour is he DIDN'T steal from anyone. He made a request and she accepted. He didn't force anyone to get a tat.
How is that asking someone to get a tattoo any different from asking your would-be spouse for a prenup? For me, it's the same. That woman can get the tattoo removed but I'm sure she used that to lure the European guy. LOL
Thanks Pete, for conducting this interview. I greatly enjoyed the story. I have subscribed to your channel. Time to now sit down and watch your other videos. Cheers!
Narcissist or no, I think Loy is living his life by a viable plan. He seems honest, wholesome and moral. If his wife is contented and they are happy, then what is the issue? His looks or his aggressive attitude? Judgement is exactly what he does not deal with. I think he's good.
@@BBJoe007 he’s no wholesome. He’s sociopath. His wife can’t contended. He kicked her and daughter out just because wife lent 15$ to her friend. This shows what kind of sadistic thing this person is.
Pete, you deliver as always. That photo looked nothing like him, I think he actually looked younger with the tattoos. Eccentric guy, but I grew to like him during the interview. It just shows you should not judge a book by its cover. Look forward to the 2nd interview!
This is my 1st video, it's just started I have no idea what I'm about to watch. I subscribed, liked & commented bc that doesn't take anything & helps this guy get to 25k. Also I love that he's been there 11yrs & apparently he's thriving.
Interesting confident fellow with a strong personality but seems to know who he is. I hope there is a sense of love… warmth …admiration between Loy and his wife- not just two individuals living together as “roommates”. A word of caution to Loy: Be sure to help raise your child. Don’t think it is only your wife’s job. Since you came from a broken home you may not be aware that spending time with your child ( especially the first ten years) is a very important responsibility of the mother and father.
What I liked about this guy is he knows the word "Narcissist" is meaningless in today's name calling culture. While pretending to be a psychological phenomena, saying "Narcissism" is nothing more than a slick way to insult someone you don't like.
"Narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths do not have a sense of empathy, they do not and will not develop a sense of empathy, so they can never really love anyone." There's much more behind this guy than most people can see... from this interview and looking at his vlogs red flags are flying
Well done Pete soon you'll be number 1 on the Thailand RUclips vids, tbh you tick outside the box with your channel and bring different content to your subscribers. Well done 50,000 subs next !
Pedro this guy Loy is a blast refreshing in his views of self .... and yes his seemingly impulsive nature has also brought him this insight along with fulfillment with his bride and child fair play....... thankyou both for bringing him through my 'Tat ' prejudice to enjoy and respect him ....... well done both of you
This is your best one yet Pete. Loy is not only challenging himself each and every day but he challenges those that follow his work here on YT. I have always thought he would make a good subject for you to interview. Can't wait for the second interview. Great work again!!!!!!!!!!!
is it love?! rotflmao.... Can you include his 'wife' in the next interview? Certain it would be interesting to hear her story and how she copes with being his "mediocre looking, simple village girl," er I mean wife.. Sorry to say, but he has admitted traits and behaviors that are, manipulative, antisocial, and narcissistic.
Pete....I always enjoy your videos.....but this one is another boring Thai subject, sorry! Thai Mint and her adventure stories are more fascinating on older video of yours. Pity I do not have taent to make videos but am story teller/artist....had a stoty of hunting German fugatives in the Kerry Mountains your home turf Await your next video story. Take care.
Pete and Loy what a fantastic interview ! So enjoyable ! I have just finished viewing and now have part 2 to watch next. It was a easy decision to subscribe to both your channel Pete and also to Loy's channel. Best wishes to you both . Terry.
Great interview pete.loy says he knows what he wants in life.but still is loss in his life.talks a big game.hope he finds what he wants.good luck with his family.keep it rollin
I love the fact that that little con artist has your name all across her chest.this will be a big problem for her when trying to get a new man and run her con again
Very interesting story! Love these interviews. His relationship doesn’t sound too fulfilling to me, sounds like he has some deep rooted issues to sort out. But don’t we all. Hope the best for him and his family!
Yes but you must know his relationship is called a marriage. They say in their vows, till death do us part, think about that. Vows don't say till love do us part although our society does acknowledge when two people don't get along they may come to an understanding known as divorce. I see marriage as a business like arrangement that compliments procreation. Marriage is the logic component of creating a family. Once the honeymoon period and hopefully there is one is over, even if love is lost whether or not true love ever existed there can still be trust and faith in each other. Trust and faith can be more powerful than love. Remember, till death do us part.
Most intriguing interview. Waiting for Part 2. While many things in this interview had me shaking my head, it's not like we don't have the same elsewhere. Men buying mail order brides? Hello? At least Loy showed all his cards and the ladies could take it or leave it.
Especially when he gets to "I spent over half a million dollars on books and videos to improve myself". Some of the things he says don't add up (particularly comparing that to his other statements about money)
He certainly seems a bit shady, but what is so hard to believe? Failed marriages, failed business career, got the tattoos for attention, moved to a low cost country and married a local village girl with low expectations. What is so hard to believe or manipulative about any of that? I only clicked on this because I was curious about the tattoos, turns out he got them for the same reason most people get them and they help him stand out for online content, no surprise about that, is there? I don't see how this involved manipulation, I now know his story and have no desire to hear more. Even the second video about how he makes money, I am pretty sure I already know, and I wish him well but have no desire to know more. I do agree regarding how he married this time, not that long ago that was how most marriages were arranged. It is only recent that we have this idea it should be about "love" and look how the institution is collapsing in this brave new world.
@@samgreen9752 Yea we know, my wife's gay hairdresser has his entire torso and neck tattooed for the same reason. These days tattoos are for sad women and fashion victims, it is the ones with no easily identifiable marks that you need to watch out for. 😉
Mr Loy has lived a very non-conventional, interesting and dynamic life. He shares the lessons he's learnt from his life experiences with his viewers so that they may benefit from his learnings..
I know a few Indian's here in IRE and I've been to that wonderful country a few times. Even though they are smart people, most are naive when it comes to matters of the heart outside of their own culture. Jaysus.
I dig this guy, I too believe in 100% commitment from my friends, maybe that’s why I only have two guy friends that really have my back as I do theirs. He said people change, so true, after 27 years of marriage, my wife divorced me, met a Filipino American girl, we were in a relationship for 3 years until her true colors showed. I’m happily single now.
Part 2 is here!! ruclips.net/video/N9u3l7cdQvc/видео.html
heard this story a million times in China.
there's even a woman who married 5 times before authorities discovered she killed all of her husbands for insurance money 😂😂😂
the most common is just to divorce the husband and then get half of the apartment.
But now the government decided to abolish the wife getting half of the husband's assets before marriage ... even without a pre-nup
You should’ve asked him if any of his ex-wives were Indian.
You sure find some interesting people to interview. They are all entertaining. Thx
Dear Pete, It was a pleasure to meet up with you and be given the opportunity to speak my mind out freely. Thank you so much for the trust, the time & the token of kindness to be part of your RUclips Channel. I absolutely enjoyed my experience with you.
Loy Machedo
👍👍👍
Just my opinion...
Giving someone full access may not be secured.
What if the access could be 'hacked', shared, etc?
As u said, everyone change with times.
like how you slipped in the Private Dancer book, i read it 1998 before i went to bangkok and voodoo bar, thankfully the wheels stayed on hahaha
Loy you are truly married as you've given it your all you have hidden nothing you have given your Wife total control and access to all you owned there's not many men in da west who would do this as most of us are cynical and have gone through da sauggage machine you have a new subscriber here
Mr. Loy we really appreciate your content
Thank you for everything.
"his Thai girlfriend made off with his money" a story as old as time itself.
Yea but he tramp stamped her first :) lol
A fool and his money are soon parted. How can you be an advisor and make such a teenage mistake. That woman targeted him on Thai Cupid and noticing that he is a gullible sheep made a move on him to defraud him. Now this guy has so much wisdom that he charges others for it. LOL
@@shinedg168 Yea mate I have been going To Thailand for 30 years :) Every trip I always find a new idiot that lost all his cash to a young lady ?
This guy is just another fool to the list
Punching above his weight ! Thinking he is smarter ?
Thinking his money will buy him love ?
Treating a woman like an object you own ?
Thinking a bar girl has a heart for love ?
Yeah never let them have access is a simple rule but a basic one 😆
@@shinedg168 the reason he advises is because he learned from his mistake
I like Loy, he is brutally honest and straight to what matters.
@@joemann2178 he’s anything but honest.
He is a walking red flag.
I'm no expert...I lived in Thailand from 1978-89, then moved back in 94 until 2014 when my mother passed away. I never married but had several steady gals and 100s of overnighters. Whether you want to believe it or not, 90% of the foreigner/Thai relationships come down to money. When you tattoo your body like this, it's usually a cry for attention. I feel sorry for his daughter.
Yep! No Money no Honey! Unfortunately dating in the west is basically the same. See how long a western girl will stay with you if you have any financial problems.
@@jw841
Yeah, but at least they fvckin’ earn their
own money, and don’t have 5 extra mouths
to feed. ✌️
@@kiekko673 not a fair stereotype
@@nikkimclay5474
But it is! I’ve dated several western women
in the past, all of them had their own incomes,
and paid their own bills.
In SE-Asia, if you meet a girl (usually a bar girl),
and start dating them, soon you find yourself
feeding them AND their families. Most cases
they don’t even have to be bargirls.
Many rich local people here as well, but usually
they’re from the Chinese heritage, and very
rarely date farangs.
I lived in Bangkok from 2005-2010 and let me tell you, appearance is everything in Bangkok. Whether you like it or not, foreigners are judged in BKK on how they look, dress and act. Being seen with a bar girl in BKK in places likes Siam Paragon is a big NO NO. He seems like a nice guy in the video, but with all his face tattoos etc, he belongs in Pattaya.
The intro where it just cuts to “why did you tattoo your face” - was gold. Great edit.
Thanks!
Every time this dude is on a podcast you know it's going to be a wild ride
He said himself he does sound like a narcissist. He may be providing for his wife and child, but a part of me feels sorry for his wife. Great interview Pete!
Would you feel more sorry for her if she had a Thai boyfriend who normally leave their partners during pregnancy and have multiple girlfriends and provide no financial support and often beat them? How do you know what she thinks? She may be perfectly happy and you are just just using your bias to judge others.
He never said that he was a narcissist.....he said that he does not care whether people think that he is a narcissist....people may think as they wish and he does not care one shit what people think about him!!
@@johnspartan4617 WOW you seem to know alot about Thai men ?
So you really think foreign men are better husband's ? Who is showing bias ?
@@johnspartan4617 Thai men provide for their families. Usually normal Thai men gave all his income to their wives and give utmost respect to the in laws. They even paid “dowry”.
So, please RESEARCH before giving biased comment.
@@jomontanee I am Thai and I have to say there´s something about unfaithful Thai men and them leaving their wives and families, my father also did and all of my aunts had a men that beated them, it is a very common thing, especially on the countryside or people in lower classes living in slums that r alcohol addicts and desperate because of financial issues etc. and many are in debt because of gambling. Thai people talk about it very often and it is known.
This guy is such a compulsive liar… as soon as he opens his mouth,lies come out. He was not born in dubai, he himself has said that he was born in india. He did NOT decide leave fast life in Dubai, he was forced to leave because he couldn’t get a job and he was out of status.
But hes a good story teller! Lmao
He may not be everyone's cup of tea, but he's honest. Have to respect a man that wears his heart on his sleeve & is confident about it. Nearly finished this video, then will move onto part 2 !
He is anything but honest. His stories have more holes than Swiss cheese. Whole day he concocts stupid stories and post on RUclips.
I really felt when he said you can be with someone 20 years and not know them. My estranged wife and I separated over 10 years ago after being together for 15 years and 4 kids together. People change over time and that's ok but be real and truthful or you have had nothing together.
It's been over 10 years....time to move on.
Another enjoyable interview. There’s a lot of good in this guy and a few faults too. He comes across as controlling as a result of his insecurities/history yet he’s intelligent, has some solid values and no doubt has worked hard to pull himself up in life. Cheers Pete and Loy
glad you enjoyed it mate
You are class at interviewing people you know when to stay quiet and Listen Kudos !!!!
Thanks mate
This bloke is a narcissist. The way he talks about his wife like he owns her. Just awful.
Imagine being married to Darth Maul and having to obey his every rule. Urgh.
This man has clearly suffered a great deal of trauma. I really feel for him. He must have been through some very terrible experiences. I hope that he can find peace.
Must have been a terrible experience getting those tattoos too 😜
Must have been a terrible experience getting those tattoos too 😜
Well that’s no excuse to treat people like trash. He keeps playing victim and goes around bullying people.
@@jamieparker6402 I don’t know how much he has suffered but he makes people around him suffer in great deal.
You have to respect what this man says . He has seen heaven and hell and knows that the straight middle road is where he can only find the peace and security he needs for himself and his family
Respect
This guy can’t be taken seriously. he himself has said he says things to get attention and he defaced his face to get attention. Very shallow and obnoxious creature. He treats his wife and kid like POS.
One must admire the strength of his conviction.
Great interview, thanks to both of you. The more I listened to Loy the more I learned. He definitely has an interesting perspective and something to share.
I actually feel sorry for this man, he's obviously not well
Me too. There is something very strange going on...
Anyone with tattoos like that clearly has mental illness. Ridiculous.
@@rhizomorph-music then you don't know middle Eastern men
He's a con artist using social media,as a hustle. He's after the almighty dollar. He's nothing special, or unique. He even copied Mike Tyson face tattoo.
How do these tattoo artists live with themselves creating these man-made freaks?
I think you’re a smart good looking bloke man. Rough go, happens to the best of us at times. Absolutely gut wrenching at the time and it’s never forgotten.
Life was never meant to be easy. Happens to the best of us.
Well... That WAS bizarre. As the interview went on, my eyes bulbed more and more.
Have a great day🖖
Thanks Heidi, wait until you see part 2!!! It was another wild one
This guy comes from a world of arranged marriages and different dating procedures to the western culture.......so it is no surprise that his methods of finding a partner aren't quite the same as the most of us.
That said, he knows what he want's.........it seems that he found it......I wish that his family enjoy some beautiful years together.
Can't wait for part two.....I think we are in for a treat!
From that so called super dating culture of western world r having so many jaw dropping stats in USA n Europe, except italy.
In India we believe in arranged marriage mostly, but we believ in both love marriage (max these days) n arranged marriage. U missed Loy's statement that he never ever been in India, he is born n brought up in UAE.
What he went n how he survived in his life is his problem and his idea. His present wife is happy with him or not that is also their headache.
But i know its better to have ur parents together and share their responsibitues, rather than not having one of them with u and struggle with everything in ur life.
Loy is not touching drinks, smoke n he is loyal to his wife. It is hia life.
Now if u have data please let me know about the stats of single mom in usa n europe n condition n struggle of those children. Please.
Interesting points made here. Part 2 is another wild ride for sure
He isn't hindu he is a Christian so no arrange marriage ..
As per his Chanel he dated over 300 + woman and had sex ..
And at the time he was independent too..
He made this decision bcz he was insecure of his age plus tattoos
Man! You do such a good job on finding those interesting people! 🏆 you’re a champ 1️⃣
Thanks champ👍🏼
You’ve done lots of great interviews Pete but this one is next level absolutely fascinating 👏👏👏🇹🇭🇮🇪
Thanks Steven 🙏🙏🙏 it was a rollercoaster
Great interview. Intriguing! Looking forward to Pt 2
Thanks Mark, part 2 is going to be epic
Very interesting guy….great interview. I’ve found throughout SE Asia the term “good heart” purely refers to your financial generosity. Money No 1
Wow. As with Paul before, another great interview with a colorful personality. Good stuff, looking forward to the next one!
He is not the first guy who’s lost 100k to an issan beauty. I’ve heard about 4 times over 8 years this same kind of story. This guy is radical and has the gift of the gab. If l am walking down the street and see this guy I would cross the road
Men are men
I see guys like this DAILY!!! They have kids too. 🫢
I'm about half way through and I totally respect his stance of just being brutally upfront about what he's looking for. He isn't asking for the stars, just commitment to a goal of having a family. Effectively arranged his own marriage it sounds like.
Love this interview....straight to the point.💕💕
This fella moves relationships way to fast. Big red flag 🚩
And definitely a cluster B.
His wife tolerates him, because it is a sacrifice of being cared for. He is a special case though, but correct about what he said, you never really know someone, even if you been acquainted for years. People show you who they want you to see.
I think he just wants to feel wanted or needed.
People show you EXACTLY who they are. You just need to believe them the first time.
many Thai (Asian) women
are great actress. Amber Heard should
take acting lessons in Thailand
Miss Amber taught the Thai girls😉
Am Asian and can't act for shit!! If anything I can straight up tell you the truth to your face. You, my dear, have met the wrong Asian women...says more about you than us.
😁
agree,,
Thai women are the best actresses, and this is what makes them so dangerous!
seems like a good guy. thanks for the story and life lesson, also had a few chuckles :D
My favorite interview!!! Keep 'em coming!!! :-D
I’m glad he found a good , faithful, honest woman. I found dating on line for me was a nightmare. 3 out of the 4 men didn’t look anything like their pictures, a totally different person. The 4th was married, everyone lies on line. I respect his honestly and being so straight forward. His wife is beautiful. I found Thai people, non judgmental much more tolerant than in the US
I also find Thai people much less judgemental and more accepting of others
3 out of 4 women do not look like their photos (even my daughters use filters)-50 50 for both that is why online dating is difficult-most women have filters built in-I don’t know any men who use filter-we use poses to make us look 💪-make up is ok but filters or those that only show their face can be problematic
@@BarnabyBarry I am so honest, really , I wouldn’t think of conning someone, since I don’t date women, that’s probably true, what the hell are filters. It’s been around 12 years since I was on online dating
Good to see someone else interviewing Loy.
I respect this man for his honesty
Glad I got to watch this. Another excellent interview, Pete. I really like your style.
Thank you for sharing, Loy. Really interesting. Definitely want to watch your video about turning your life around after being homeless.
Thanks, glad you enjoyed it
Pete great inviting Loy,saw some of the negative comments here,people are people after all.But like the fact that you were able to share his experiences with us.We got to see a guy who was on the verge of suicide but didn't give up and instead built his life from 0.Gotta give it to him.Most guys who look like him would be still partying but life taught him plenty and he is living it wisely.Big shout of to Loy and to you Pete for inviting him.Looking forward to part 2 with Loy!👍
Thanks, part 2 is going to be epic!!
straightforward..
salute to this man.
My absolute respect for your story.
This isn't just a Thai issue. In western countries women are ruthless snakes as well, from aristocracy to poor women.
Just because your Thai wife isn't fat doesn't mean she isn't going to pull your life apart.
At least she looks good! 😅 She making the effort to be physically appealing.
I disagree with this man's actions. To demand your girlfriend tattoos her body with your name before paying a dowry to her parents is beyond belief. You brand a steer or horse to prove ownership not a fellow human being. I have heard of controlling your partner but this goes beyond the norm.
No mention of the womans actions??
She stole his money, why don't you mention that? He didn't force her to do anything, she chose to get the tattoo because she knew she was going to steal from him.
Yea like "women r victim" culture???
He did not force her to do that. She could have denied n leave. She took a good anount of money in the name of dowry ( her parents did not a baht) again she did a drama to get more money n flew away.
And with that tattoo also she is doing same scam with people on a regular basis.
Please comment on that too...
@@PB22559 Come on now, Steven Hull probably doesn't agree with her behaviour either but what he did was crazy too.
I definitely feel the same way, what he did was wrong and what she did was wrong.
@@m.g.3913 The difference between their behaviour is he DIDN'T steal from anyone. He made a request and she accepted. He didn't force anyone to get a tat.
How is that asking someone to get a tattoo any different from asking your would-be spouse for a prenup? For me, it's the same. That woman can get the tattoo removed but I'm sure she used that to lure the European guy. LOL
Great story Here & looking forward to Part 2 ,Thanks I Enjoy Your Chanel Pete
ruclips.net/video/N9u3l7cdQvc/видео.html here's part 2 mate
The Guy you are interviewing is strong minded to what he wants in life. Therefore, he is living his own life with proud.
He’s actually a coward. If you reason with him on his channel, he will immediately block you. He can only bully weak.
Thanks Pete, for conducting this interview. I greatly enjoyed the story. I have subscribed to your channel. Time to now sit down and watch your other videos. Cheers!
Thanks Gautam much appreciated
Narcissist or no, I think Loy is living his life by a viable plan. He seems honest, wholesome and moral. If his wife is contented and they are happy, then what is the issue? His looks or his aggressive attitude? Judgement is exactly what he does not deal with. I think he's good.
@@BBJoe007 he’s no wholesome. He’s sociopath. His wife can’t contended. He kicked her and daughter out just because wife lent 15$ to her friend. This shows what kind of sadistic thing this person is.
...solid stuffs,mate.part 2 day,l will be Hatyai watching...cheers.
Pete, you deliver as always. That photo looked nothing like him, I think he actually looked younger with the tattoos. Eccentric guy, but I grew to like him during the interview. It just shows you should not judge a book by its cover. Look forward to the 2nd interview!
The photo really did shock me. He looks nothing like that photo!! part 2 is going to be epic
best interview so far Pete! this cat is fascinating and brilliant!
Great story on the interview as always. Personally I won’t judge anybody, just listen to the stories they tell. 💖
The more I watch your channel the more I like you and your style. This was very good.
Thank you very much Phil
One of the best interviews of yours! Ignore the comments of haters and critics!
This is my 1st video, it's just started I have no idea what I'm about to watch. I subscribed, liked & commented bc that doesn't take anything & helps this guy get to 25k. Also I love that he's been there 11yrs & apparently he's thriving.
Thank you very much 🙏🙏🙏
this was unexpectedly very good.
Great interview Pete.And what a character Loy is!
Cheers Jake
Interesting confident fellow with a strong personality but seems to know who he is. I hope there is a sense of love… warmth …admiration between Loy and his wife- not just two individuals living together as “roommates”.
A word of caution to Loy: Be sure to help raise your child. Don’t think it is only your wife’s job. Since you came from a broken home you may not be aware that spending time with your child ( especially the first ten years) is a very important responsibility of the mother and father.
very well said and I agree
I'm anxiously waiting for part 2.
What I liked about this guy is he knows the word "Narcissist" is meaningless in today's name calling culture. While pretending to be a psychological phenomena, saying "Narcissism" is nothing more than a slick way to insult someone you don't like.
"Narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths do not have a sense of empathy, they do not and will not develop a sense of empathy, so they can never really love anyone."
There's much more behind this guy than most people can see... from this interview and looking at his vlogs red flags are flying
Narcissistic people and sociopathic people exist. I feel sorry for his wife and kid.
Agreed
Well done Pete soon you'll be number 1 on the Thailand RUclips vids, tbh you tick outside the box with your channel and bring different content to your subscribers. Well done 50,000 subs next !
Na the way he's going 10000
Cheers Peter thanks mate
@@seamusegan1311 let's do it!!
Pedro this guy Loy is a blast refreshing in his views of self .... and yes his seemingly impulsive nature has also brought him this insight along with fulfillment with his bride and child fair play....... thankyou both for bringing him through my 'Tat ' prejudice to enjoy and respect him ....... well done both of you
Thanks mate, glad you enjoyed this one 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Thank you Pete again, for this story. I look forward to Part 2
Thanks Kevin, coming this wednesday buddy
Love the interview , waiting for part 2
Thanks!
This is your best one yet Pete. Loy is not only challenging himself each and every day but he challenges those that follow his work here on YT. I have always thought he would make a good subject for you to interview. Can't wait for the second interview. Great work again!!!!!!!!!!!
Glad you enjoyed it mate. Part 2 is a rollercoaster
Update: She did take money out of his account! He left he but slowly took her back.
Very candid guy, I like him, I will follow his RUclips channel
Married 4 times now. Let’s see where he is in another 5 years’ time.
Great to see you interviewing Loy...watched many of his youtube vids
glad you enjoyed it Mark
this guy's story is mind blowing.. never met someone like him before!
Great lighting on Loy and an interesting guest. Well done.
Thanks!!
is it love?! rotflmao.... Can you include his 'wife' in the next interview? Certain it would be interesting to hear her story and how she copes with being his "mediocre looking, simple village girl," er I mean wife..
Sorry to say, but he has admitted traits and behaviors that are, manipulative, antisocial, and narcissistic.
I like him he's original, self made. He stands alone, it takes a lot to stand alone.
Loy is an interesting guy., looking forward to the next video.
Pete....I always enjoy your videos.....but this one is another boring Thai subject, sorry! Thai Mint and her adventure stories are more fascinating on older video of yours. Pity I do not have taent to make videos but am story teller/artist....had a stoty of hunting German fugatives in the Kerry Mountains your home turf Await your next video story. Take care.
@@nickolasmallcott4399 Hi Nickolas this is a channel based in Thailand so most of the subjects will be Thailand related
Pete and Loy what a fantastic interview ! So enjoyable ! I have just finished viewing and now have part 2 to watch next. It was a easy decision to subscribe to both your channel Pete and also to Loy's channel. Best wishes to you both . Terry.
Thanks Terry glad you enjoyed it 🙏
He may have covered himself with tattoos, but underneath he is just another tightfisted Indian man with some strange beliefs.
Wow Pete , you got a live one there. It’s fascinating how life moulds people into who they are . Loy is a work in progress , I wish him all the best.
Great interview pete.loy says he knows what he wants in life.but still is loss in his life.talks a big game.hope he finds what he wants.good luck with his family.keep it rollin
Glad you liked it Tony. Love your RUclips name too btw
@@TheNicholaas Thanks Nicky we are gonna keep this train rolling! part 2 coming up
I love the fact that that little con artist has your name all across her chest.this will be a big problem for her when trying to get a new man and run her con again
Wow, what a wonderful interview. I like his honesty.
Each on their own!!! Interesting vlog as usual. 🙏
Thanks Oy
VERY Interesting dude!!! Thank you!
Very interesting story! Love these interviews. His relationship doesn’t sound too fulfilling to me, sounds like he has some deep rooted issues to sort out. But don’t we all. Hope the best for him and his family!
Yes but you must know his relationship is called a marriage. They say in their vows, till death do us part, think about that. Vows don't say till love do us part although our society does acknowledge when two people don't get along they may come to an understanding known as divorce. I see marriage as a business like arrangement that compliments procreation. Marriage is the logic component of creating a family. Once the honeymoon period and hopefully there is one is over, even if love is lost whether or not true love ever existed there can still be trust and faith in each other. Trust and faith can be more powerful than love. Remember, till death do us part.
exactly what i think of him.. but sometime i watch his video ,i feel those interesting..
Interesting guy for sure wish this man and his family all the luck and happiness in the world
He is so full of himself. Yet doesn’t make sense at all. Can’t even answer questions.
The guy is a good human being, with a good heart.
Most intriguing interview. Waiting for Part 2. While many things in this interview had me shaking my head, it's not like we don't have the same elsewhere. Men buying mail order brides? Hello? At least Loy showed all his cards and the ladies could take it or leave it.
It's always a pleasure listening to Loy sir. Everyone should see this video very good conversation, Thank you Thairish times to invite loy sir🙏
At least he knows what he wants , and this thai gal is his GOLD standard, i like that he just says what works for him,
I can relate to this dude. Coodos to his firm standing in the world. I also value my life like he is living.
He sounds like a classic manipulative narcissist. Struggling to believe anything he's saying to be honest.
Especially when he gets to "I spent over half a million dollars on books and videos to improve myself". Some of the things he says don't add up (particularly comparing that to his other statements about money)
He certainly seems a bit shady, but what is so hard to believe? Failed marriages, failed business career, got the tattoos for attention, moved to a low cost country and married a local village girl with low expectations. What is so hard to believe or manipulative about any of that?
I only clicked on this because I was curious about the tattoos, turns out he got them for the same reason most people get them and they help him stand out for online content, no surprise about that, is there? I don't see how this involved manipulation, I now know his story and have no desire to hear more. Even the second video about how he makes money, I am pretty sure I already know, and I wish him well but have no desire to know more.
I do agree regarding how he married this time, not that long ago that was how most marriages were arranged. It is only recent that we have this idea it should be about "love" and look how the institution is collapsing in this brave new world.
I think he would make a good used car salesman.
@@ericmichel3857 yep Tattooed my WHOLE back to be cool 😎 🤣🤣🤣 You better know a real one
@@samgreen9752 Yea we know, my wife's gay hairdresser has his entire torso and neck tattooed for the same reason. These days tattoos are for sad women and fashion victims, it is the ones with no easily identifiable marks that you need to watch out for. 😉
Great interview.
Mr Loy has lived a very non-conventional, interesting and dynamic life.
He shares the lessons he's learnt from his life experiences with his viewers so that they may benefit from his learnings..
Good story I’m asking a few questions to myself here thank you both guys for the video
Glad you enjoyed it Margaret
I know a few Indian's here in IRE and I've been to that wonderful country a few times. Even though they are smart people, most are naive when it comes to matters of the heart outside of their own culture. Jaysus.
Another Great Interview!
Thanks mate
This was a great interview.
He knows what he wants and how to get it. Good for him.
I dig this guy, I too believe in 100% commitment from my friends, maybe that’s why I only have two guy friends that really have my back as I do theirs. He said people change, so true, after 27 years of marriage, my wife divorced me, met a Filipino American girl, we were in a relationship for 3 years until her true colors showed. I’m happily single now.
This man has got another personality for sure ! 4 marriages ? And he’s still blaming all the women 😆
So he put up a profile on Thai Cupid and there were 3000 Thai ladies falling all over the place to meet him...with that face - yeah right?
I loved his answer on tattoos and why he did it best of luck to you Loy