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Комментарии • 552

  • @jrhamilton4448
    @jrhamilton4448 2 года назад +303

    I like that saying, "The grass is always greener where you take care of it."

    • @derekww4844
      @derekww4844 2 года назад +12

      I believe the saying goes "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence untill you jump the fence then you see that the brown patches are just in different places.

    • @jamiegraham6525
      @jamiegraham6525 2 года назад +3

      That's good shit bro 💯✊🔥💣🎯

    • @JakeJDM
      @JakeJDM 2 года назад +3

      It’s “the grass is always greener where you water it”

    • @jrhamilton4448
      @jrhamilton4448 2 года назад

      @@JakeJDM Water, take care same thing.

    • @dappa311
      @dappa311 2 года назад +3

      It's true!
      Women wan't to do little to nothing in relationships and expect the world to be thrown at their feet and when it's not, they bail on you ; thinking the next man will come and create a wonderful life for them and their kids.
      It can happen , but the odds as we know are slim to none; and most of those women will never figure out that they are the problem .

  • @Hkfanboy
    @Hkfanboy 2 года назад +325

    Never under estimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability

    • @mr.noname3073
      @mr.noname3073 2 года назад +11

      Well said sir !!!

    • @iroc-z
      @iroc-z 2 года назад +12

      @@mr.noname3073 It was just an entanglement :)

    • @jillharrell3256
      @jillharrell3256 2 года назад +6

      So if she says something negative about her husband, she's lying or deluding herself LOL. Believe me, there ARE guys who sit around and do nothing but complain and she got sick of it.

    • @deedoodeedoo6382
      @deedoodeedoo6382 2 года назад +21

      @@jillharrell3256 If you trust what she said. Throughout my whole life I've never heard a woman tell a story, that painted her as a villain, it's always the victim role.

    • @christineplymouth3271
      @christineplymouth3271 2 года назад +2

      One thing led to another...........

  • @TechOutAdam
    @TechOutAdam 2 года назад +152

    One of my friends was with this guy for 7 years and he proposed. Her fiancé last minute changed careers and asked her to move out of state for his new job at Google. She refused. After they broke up she was so “heartbroken”. Two weeks later she found man after man then a new boyfriend two months later. That changed how I saw women forever. Men are completely obliviously to how fast women move on.

    • @28pbtkh23
      @28pbtkh23 2 года назад +13

      You have pretty good powers of observation. A great life lesson.

    • @melenico4512
      @melenico4512 2 года назад +7

      Technically she is the red flag now.

    • @HIRISK
      @HIRISK 2 года назад +26

      They’re wired differently. Emotional based doesn’t mean they’re emotional about others. It’s just about themselves. Narcissism

    • @villaespesa1
      @villaespesa1 2 года назад +17

      They only love their children unconditionally, the only times I see relationships working is when the woman chooses the man, in other words if you pursue the woman and sweep her off her feet you're kinda convincing her to choose you, when she shows very strong signals of interests it works better because even if you're not deeply in love in the beginning you will end up growing attached emotionally, men are the romantics.

    • @TT-nk5hi
      @TT-nk5hi 2 года назад +5

      Sounds like the relationship was shaky. Most people are nice and can’t initiate a split, they wait for a get out clause.

  • @Techjunkie51
    @Techjunkie51 2 года назад +231

    I was married, I moved out 8-7, maybe a week later she was seeing someone else. That lasted for a month or so, then she almost immediately started seeing someone after that. So this is absolutely correct that they don’t waste time finding someone else.

    • @renatosureal
      @renatosureal 2 года назад +18

      2 weeks after the breakdown and I saw her taking the guy to the same bed we shared for 5 years. When I met her, it took us about 3 months to start to get involved intimately.

    • @magsteel9891
      @magsteel9891 2 года назад +40

      @@renatosureal She was seeing him long before the split

    • @koolwis9413
      @koolwis9413 2 года назад +19

      @@renatosureal What @mag steel said is absolutely correct, but don't worry about it, most of these women end up alone w cats later in life.

    • @beatman9758
      @beatman9758 2 года назад +16

      @@renatosureal you should have dumped her before the 3rd month

    • @rjh6037
      @rjh6037 2 года назад +9

      Men shouldn't delude themselves. Other sausage is usually hitting the hole long before any split.

  • @jcstang8952
    @jcstang8952 2 года назад +52

    'I'm working on my red flags'. More like, learning better how to hide them.

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад +2

      exactly, working on my red flag mean dating an average Joe, having realistic expectations or being a helpmaid to the next guy I date. She is learning to hide her red flag better. How she is going to hide her age and 3 kids, I do not know lmao.

  • @richardpuckett8127
    @richardpuckett8127 2 года назад +102

    The only reason she isn't going after child support. Is because of her making more money. He could of asked for alimony, and half of her 401k/savings.

    • @kurtbecker9609
      @kurtbecker9609 2 года назад +3

      it does work that way... even if women wish it did not.

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 2 года назад +3

      I agree he should " Dew it!

    • @mshafer1021
      @mshafer1021 2 года назад

      I don’t think they’re divorced yet

    • @user-id7mx6fh3n
      @user-id7mx6fh3n 2 года назад +1

      Depending on a state, but likely he did get half of everything, including savings.

    • @helmutsecke3529
      @helmutsecke3529 Год назад

      ... could 'have' asked for alimony ...

  • @chad5617
    @chad5617 2 года назад +47

    Take notes, gentlemen. After 20 years of marriage; she went and got a hold of her FWB from high school within a few months of separating from her husband.

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +15

      In reality she was in bed with him for two or three months before she asked for the divorce. Women don’t leave until they have options.

    • @JJ-ps9xe
      @JJ-ps9xe 2 года назад +1

      How did she know how to contact the old flame?

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +4

      @@JJ-ps9xe I guess the old flame blew smoke signals.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 года назад +1

      @@JJ-ps9xe the internet exists dude, its not hard to track most people down

  • @pp-bb6jj
    @pp-bb6jj 2 года назад +101

    You are 1% of the top men and you have to choose:
    1. 24 year old hot woman without kids
    2. 36 year old divorced mom with 3 kids
    The choice is a tough one.

    • @reginasemenenko148
      @reginasemenenko148 2 года назад +9

      Too funny. I decided not to date until age 36. I had a date maybe 2xs a year when I had to go to a wedding or something. I graduated college and began working on the career. The career gave me $ that I needed to pay for the house I needed to live in and the car I needed to get to and from work. Be glad that you are not in an awful marriage or relationship. Get a dog. He/she is the only creature offering unconditional love. Another tip....Read and adopt a stoic mentality. Marcus Areluius, Epictetus and others.

    • @berttrombetta4953
      @berttrombetta4953 2 года назад +4

      Ah...unless you're Jeff Bezos

    • @outsider8683
      @outsider8683 2 года назад +1

      @@reginasemenenko148 Your comment is on point, bruh.🐈‍⬛

    • @llgoulet74
      @llgoulet74 2 года назад

      Female here. So afraid to have children.

    • @povang
      @povang 2 года назад +4

      @@berttrombetta4953 If Elon Musk and Bezos didnt have money, they would be considered nerdy incels.

  • @sanosuke2999
    @sanosuke2999 2 года назад +42

    Might I suggest that men looking for Unplugged Wimmen, are showing that they aren't willing to do the work and are looking for a woman to pick up their slack.

  • @scottstaritzky7956
    @scottstaritzky7956 2 года назад +30

    Yesterday I catered an all women event for about 100 women ages 50 and up. Most of these women were bitter, mean, inconsiderate, angry, intitled, opinionated, out spoken, and unattractive. Less than 5% were nice, upbeat, and appreciative.
    I have experienced this in several situations with female events for women over the last 40 years. Previously I would say about 20% of the women were happy. Now I would say less than 5% are happy. It's very sad and discouraging doing these female events. I am always thankful I do not have women like this in my personal life.
    Whenever I see a woman over 40 that is happy I go out of my way to tell her that I appreciate her positive attitude.

    • @reginasemenenko148
      @reginasemenenko148 2 года назад +1

      I know both men and women who are awful. It's all about mindset. People who don't like themselves usually don't like other people.

    • @scottstaritzky7956
      @scottstaritzky7956 2 года назад +1

      @@reginasemenenko148 There was 5 of us working this event. 3 extremely nice women and 1 really nice guy. We all agreed how difficult, mean,, and unhappy these women were. I always go out of my way to tell women over 40 that are haopy. How much I appreciate their upbeat attitude because, I have not experienced it to be the norm. It has been my experience that the majority of women under 40 are happy.

    • @dongibbs3908
      @dongibbs3908 2 года назад +2

      True words here, I worked a retail job for a short time and I was shocked at what I was seeing having never worked retail before I was in for a education. I found that most white 40+ women where very angry I seen things that left me speechless and in this group 75% where this way. Hispanic of the same about 50% black women where the best hands down especially the 50+ ones very sweet ladies and it was a joy to help them. I'm a 65 year old white man btw, I worked blue collar my whole life so I was only working with men and I'm glad I did I had no idea and I only seeing it getting worse. I'm single and am not even considering another female in my life ever except for my daughter.

    • @jaxxbohol6475
      @jaxxbohol6475 2 года назад +3

      The problem is that after 40 no one cares about a woman's happiness if she didn't marry and cash out !

    • @reginasemenenko148
      @reginasemenenko148 2 года назад +1

      @@scottstaritzky7956 I don't know that age is the problem. I was raised to be good to everyone and unfortunately some people have never been taught or are just too selfish to even think about anyone but themselves.

  • @proper_noun436
    @proper_noun436 2 года назад +25

    she was with this husband since the age of 14 but also had a fwb in high school. oh man.

    • @mr.noname3073
      @mr.noname3073 2 года назад +9

      A woman being a woman

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +4

      She was cheating on him even in high school. Of course.

    • @bhwillis1048
      @bhwillis1048 2 года назад +1

      You guys don't listen very well and then rush to judgement. Typical of many trolling the manosphere these days.
      She had a crush on the guy in HS but nothing became of it. She ran him down and became fwb 6 months after leaving her husband.

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад

      @@bhwillis1048 So emotional cheating isn’t cheating. That’s something new.

    • @bhwillis1048
      @bhwillis1048 2 года назад

      @@map3384 Testosterone levels seem to be getting dangerously low.

  • @Colyers
    @Colyers 2 года назад +38

    I bet her high school sweet heart she fwb with was a natural alpha and left an impression on her. Notice how he broke it off with her after he had his fun.

    • @kevinmanning4880
      @kevinmanning4880 2 года назад +6

      Coylers, she is not unplugged or she would realize that. She's just chasing the dragon now that she had a taste.

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад

      Predictable

    • @mshafer1021
      @mshafer1021 2 года назад

      He wasn’t, according to her. She left him too

    • @gordonjay2461
      @gordonjay2461 Год назад

      Not before water boarding her with baby juice

  • @oneronin6186
    @oneronin6186 2 года назад +184

    So 3 Kids later and some passage of time she realizes she chose the wrong guy? Funny I hear and see this a lot, often they push the blame to someone or something else. Lack of accountability is outstanding, and it comes at a price most suffer to pay later.

    • @mr.noname3073
      @mr.noname3073 2 года назад +7

      That's where the guy got it all wrong from the beginning letting her feel like she chose him when really the man should be the one choosing the woman to be with him and compliment his life and his frame

    • @Crayfish
      @Crayfish 2 года назад +5

      Guy here: if you didnt pick up on her being unhapoy by kid three, you never knew her either. You just thought you did, and that is equally your fault

    • @jillharrell3256
      @jillharrell3256 2 года назад +3

      Yes, as people age and grow, they can realize they made a choice as a teenager that no longer serves them. She's not blaming anyone for it, she is saying he never grew into something other than a complainer so she wants to leave that .

    • @doyourbest7655
      @doyourbest7655 2 года назад

      @@jillharrell3256 Thanks for commenting, yeah you are right, if life is not what you wanted and you are willing to risk everything then that is what you should do. And for men that is what they should do as well, and stop agreeing to just take what you are given. This group is trying to wake up the dufis who cannot understand indirect women speak. Be happy

    • @kyleavante4716
      @kyleavante4716 2 года назад

      @@doyourbest7655 great

  • @moolis
    @moolis 2 года назад +115

    Older women often have unrealistic expectations when they no longer have the leverage in dating anymore. Women don’t realize this until it’s already too late. This is why KS has blown up so much.

    • @vNill
      @vNill 2 года назад +1

      whos KS

    • @vikingsoftpaw
      @vikingsoftpaw 2 года назад +2

      Kevin Samuals.

    • @TheFairKnight
      @TheFairKnight 2 года назад +2

      @@vikingsoftpaw Is this Kevin any good? never heard of him

    • @chilipepper9938
      @chilipepper9938 2 года назад +19

      Ancap2112 very entertaining. He confronts voman with the truth directly, and they hate him. He is like a million plus subs. Exploded after he told a voman that she is just average when she was expecting the highest status guys

    • @projectmasculinity
      @projectmasculinity 2 года назад +3

      @@TheFairKnight he's amazing.

  • @Andrew--S
    @Andrew--S 2 года назад +131

    Guys that make $200,000 are NOT going to date a ~35 year old with 3 kids in tow
    Guys that make $200,000 will date ~24 year old with no kids

    • @olympusentertainment2638
      @olympusentertainment2638 2 года назад +11

      No men '' dates '' these '' things '', it's just a pass time.

    • @keylanoslokj1806
      @keylanoslokj1806 2 года назад +6

      Based and redpilled. But let the single momma grannies dream... .

    • @jcstang8952
      @jcstang8952 2 года назад +4

      The 24 year old don't want children though. Goodbye human race.

    • @SoBlissedOut
      @SoBlissedOut 2 года назад

      But they do, and I chalk it up to them not understanding their value or their options.

    • @coloradomark2159
      @coloradomark2159 2 года назад +6

      @@SoBlissedOut only because they do understand they don't really want the complexities of a woman with kids will they look elsewhere. A single man myself that makes far less would not remotely consider a woman with kids. No offense if that pertains to you Lexa.

  • @rachelparradelong
    @rachelparradelong 2 года назад +94

    As a female viewer I have found benefits from your content as well. I am however happily married but have still found your advice applicable 🙏

    • @RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq
      @RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq 2 года назад +14

      Smart women are rare on these days. Feminism has fool them all. Appreciate your man and he will be at your side till he die.

    • @Sulaymaniyah21
      @Sulaymaniyah21 2 года назад

      @@RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq facts

    • @rachelparradelong
      @rachelparradelong 2 года назад +10

      @mike smith we are both blessed is how I see it but yes I am lucky. I see the dating world now and I am very happy I married young. At almost thirty I have 2 kids, a good marriage and almost done with my degree and co own a home. I see so many woman at 30 honestly who are so lonely and pretending they are not.

    • @rachelparradelong
      @rachelparradelong 2 года назад +12

      @@RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq I really hate feminism, it’s really hurt men and women. My sister in law said to me the other day “ if I knew that legalizing women’s right to vote would lead to this I would sacrifice my right to vote.”

    • @RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq
      @RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq 2 года назад

      @@rachelparradelong unfortunate is too late, damage has been done and our hearts are blacked. red pill has no turning back. keep your marriage safe by being femenine we love by nature a women who need us.

  • @camels9654
    @camels9654 2 года назад +91

    I'd love to see a video going over the psychology of why women can move on so fast. Also, this would beautifully go along with why you shouldn't feel bad about dumping a woman, they might be angry but they'll move on the next day. Men seem to dwell on loss more than women, women just slide on to the next dude, and there is always a dude willing to wife her up.

    • @roodypazoo5216
      @roodypazoo5216 2 года назад +24

      Rollo did one ….War Brides

    • @ericmittens
      @ericmittens 2 года назад +29

      TLDR: It's an evolved survival response. During caveman days tribes would be at war all the time and women would get shuffled around to various men as the spoils of war. It was important for them to adapt to that, and be able to emotionally and physically switch from man to man quickly.

    • @MK-sj9mo
      @MK-sj9mo 2 года назад +3

      @@roodypazoo5216 yes that's what I was thinking. Very good post

    • @dinosaurd7295
      @dinosaurd7295 2 года назад +22

      The answer is simple. Women have an abundance of choice. She walks away she knows there’s orbiters in the waiting, most dudes don’t have a plan B, so you know you’ll have to put in the work to the next chick. It will take you months to get it done. Hence you mourn your circumstances and hate the fact you let yourself become complacent with her as she lured you into a false sense of security.

    • @driftlesswindsfarm2129
      @driftlesswindsfarm2129 2 года назад

      FWIW this has not been my experience with women. With the exception of my ex wife, the women I've been with have struggled for quite a while when I ended things.

  • @greatredshrike1234
    @greatredshrike1234 2 года назад +19

    Magically, they "get it" at 30+ years old 😂. It's like confessing to a crime after the police caught ya red-handed, it doesn't count.

  • @bens3117
    @bens3117 2 года назад +39

    That's right Rich, all they want to know is are you the winner at the finish line, are you the best that she can do? If not, they will drop you like a hot rock unless they have other issues they need to work out. In any case, Men must learn to read the signs, see the yellow and red flags, and chase excellence.

    • @cbxxb4841
      @cbxxb4841 2 года назад +13

      Men must also learn that "are you the best she can do" is not the question at all. The question is: Is she the best YOU can do.

    • @reginasemenenko148
      @reginasemenenko148 2 года назад

      Men think like this as well. Men got really upset when they figured out that being unfaithful and angry about everything would cause a divorce. O my!

  • @rachelparradelong
    @rachelparradelong 2 года назад +18

    I think women are told to constantly never settle in all things and I think this hurts women a lot, woman need to realize that being happy with what you have is fulfilling, climbing for the what’s better is very overrated

    • @rachelparradelong
      @rachelparradelong 2 года назад +3

      @Anonym Staye of course it hurts men and children too, but it hurt women because if they keep playing the never settle game they will end alone.

    • @basicboomer519
      @basicboomer519 2 года назад +2

      Funny how it is that it’s politically correct to say that anything random which hurts women then it is for someone to say that it hurts men.
      If you were to say we need to get rid of some(and of course I generally agree with equality) of the some feminist/sexual ideas in our society and stuff because it’s hurting men, people would look at you like you’re a weirdo and if you said the same thing but because it’s hurting women they would think you are the team and you’d be more likely to be agreed with.
      Like Rich said, women and society(blue pilled) don’t care about men(you) etc. They just want men to get with the program.

  • @mikechance3138
    @mikechance3138 2 года назад +15

    Her hubby was an unmotivated beta when she met, married and procreated with him. There's a reason she chose that. I suspect it's because she liked being the boss and shotcaller in the relationship and that he dutifully fell in line with her plans. Now she's a little older and thinks she wants an alpha. But I question whether she can handle an alpha. He's not going to lay down like her hubby did.

    • @TheDoctornaut
      @TheDoctornaut 2 года назад +1

      Her ego hates it and loves it at the same time

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +1

      Some of what she says I’d take with a grain of salt. Never have I met a woman who didn’t cleverly lie to gain support of others.

    • @VPortho
      @VPortho 2 года назад +1

      According to what JP has said - she chose him so she can master him and keep him under control. That's because she was intimidated by more competent guys.
      Then she hit the wall, realized that she doesn't want to be with this loser forever and bounced to find a guy that fits her delusional standards.

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +5

      @@VPortho How do we know he was a loser? Because she said so? I’ve seen women cheat on their husband for all sorts of reasons including because she claimed he was a loser. They will justify any reason no matter how ridiculous.

    • @VPortho
      @VPortho 2 года назад +1

      @@map3384 That's a good point. You're right, she could be lying about that too... I guess we'll never know

  • @heatison11
    @heatison11 2 года назад +8

    Currently changed jobs and started working with a single mother of 2, she's 36 years old, she's VERY open about her relationships when we're at work, she has no shame talking about her bumble account and her dates, I just sit quietly and listen to her talk about how she's having trouble choosing between a pilot or a doctor, I laugh quietly to myself knowing how it's going to end up, wish I could find these guys and tell them about the ticking time bomb they're dealing with

  • @MrHydevsDrJekyll
    @MrHydevsDrJekyll 2 года назад +34

    I’d like a women on the same playing field. If I’m going to lead all the time, I’m going to do what I want and keep blowing through women. If a partner or woman can’t contribute or offer anything to my life/relationship I’ll be happier hanging out and hooking up focusing on my life

  • @muhdiversity7409
    @muhdiversity7409 2 года назад +33

    Wait, but she chose him? I guess she has not responsibility in this arc of a story? typical
    She sounds like the last person I'd be taking advice from. That said I wish her all the best. [edit] as a "high quality dude," as she puts it, that has never been married and has no kids I definitely won't be picking a 34 yro single mum with 3 kids. Just saying. I like to keep life simple.

  • @mattgreyson6950
    @mattgreyson6950 2 года назад +6

    Thank you for these golden nuggets of wisdom, much love and appreciation for the content that you put out. I also started to follow your other channel that you have with your brother about both personal and business finances and giving an insight into how the debt/finance/banking industry works from your lens and experience in said industry . Thank you for it all.

  • @johnkochen7264
    @johnkochen7264 2 года назад +8

    I will freely admit that I am not an alpha male. Having said that, I am not a beta man either. I do not lead nor do I follow. I am the “leave me the fuck alone” kind of guy.

    • @searchrankoptimize
      @searchrankoptimize 2 года назад

      Sigma!

    • @searchrankoptimize
      @searchrankoptimize 2 года назад

      Omega? or Sigma! Thats wicked!

    • @helmutsecke3529
      @helmutsecke3529 Год назад

      Lieber Herr Kochen, you are intelligent und well spoken. Have you noticed the appalling grammar and spelling of 99% of the illiterate commenters here? Macht's gut mein Lieber Herr.

  • @kevinmanning4880
    @kevinmanning4880 2 года назад

    Fantastic video, Rich! Keep up the great work!

  • @bee44bee44bee44
    @bee44bee44bee44 2 года назад +2

    I love your show . The way you talk reminds me of my gradma and her advice about men .

  • @josephsorber5920
    @josephsorber5920 2 года назад

    Excellent video Rich!! This one definitely gives me clarity on how to react around women being that I’m a very young and still new to this whole unplugged/red pilled stuff. Thank you Rich.

  • @gerryvandepol7630
    @gerryvandepol7630 2 года назад +7

    She is late thirties with 3 kids and she thinks she can get a alpha male?… delusional

  • @kevinijelekhai3339
    @kevinijelekhai3339 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for this brother.

  • @michaelgrayrn4579
    @michaelgrayrn4579 2 года назад

    Love your videos... Excellent as usual. Putting in work, seeking excellence and fertilizing my front AND back yard.

  • @handsomebarber424
    @handsomebarber424 2 года назад +2

    They all say “6 months” it’s like chick code

  • @JasonPatrick-tj4xj
    @JasonPatrick-tj4xj 2 года назад

    Keep up the great work. Hello from Toronto

  • @coolvania
    @coolvania 2 года назад +8

    Track suit Rich always drops the biggest truth bombs 👌

  • @dieterich6533
    @dieterich6533 2 года назад

    Thx Richard, one of your best videos so far.

  • @TM-tw1py
    @TM-tw1py 2 года назад

    Excellent video - very insightful!

  • @agirlyman
    @agirlyman 2 года назад

    Great video Rich thanks!

  • @douglassmith2055
    @douglassmith2055 2 года назад +1

    Another great video, thank you.

  • @S6OOL
    @S6OOL 2 года назад

    Wow, great content!

  • @pp-bb6jj
    @pp-bb6jj 2 года назад +3

    Women have Olympic level requirements for men but have local yoga class of soccer moms for themselves.

  • @cyberzeon1
    @cyberzeon1 2 года назад +14

    The guy was depressed because deep inside, he knew she didn't love him. After she lied to him and decided to have children, knowing she would eventually leave. Blaming him for her lack of interest, even when it was never there.

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +2

      I’m sure she cheated on him several times in the marriage. The more they don’t regard their marriages the easier it is for her to cheat. The husband becomes like a piece of furniture.

  • @anthonysilva5312
    @anthonysilva5312 2 года назад +2

    She was “with her ex since she was 14” but had a FWB in high school?…?!

  • @johnholmes6741
    @johnholmes6741 2 года назад +4

    She’s worried about her notch count at 34 with a divorce? I’m 47 I would never even entertain the thought of a woman over 26 that didn’t have a trust fund

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink 2 года назад

      right - gotta play 5d chess

  • @tadasj.8561
    @tadasj.8561 2 года назад

    The grass i greener where you watering it.. I need to write it down on the wall :)

  • @enternalsession
    @enternalsession 2 года назад

    Great video, brother. Rollo also said it best; telling women about game isn't game. At the end of the day, continue to work on yourself and have her see you as the best option.

  • @ChaosWolfNinja
    @ChaosWolfNinja 2 года назад +17

    Thank you RIch!!!!! Guys!!! For frick sakes! STOP!!! Showing women these books. They do not care one bit. RP is for us to learn wtf is really going.

  • @keithheller7775
    @keithheller7775 2 года назад +6

    Just my opinion from what happened to me I think Kevin from high school is a spouse poacher got the high from his hunt because she is no longer seeing "Kevin from high school". He got her separated and now the hunt is over. He made her husband to be completely worthless.and she can do better come to find out he was more worthless than her husband!

    • @albertgunter640
      @albertgunter640 2 года назад

      I'm thinking this is what happened to me also...some cocksucking neighbor started shit talking me to my wife when I was at work...destroyed a 48 year relationship/marriage...it's hard shaking it..being lied to for about 3+ years...she still thinks she can do better...she's 65 yrs old and still looking for Mr. Goodbar

  • @josephstevens9888
    @josephstevens9888 2 года назад +1

    Rich - more women SHOULD be watching your channel!

  • @ruelfunelas9389
    @ruelfunelas9389 2 года назад

    Rich is always cool, calm and pragmatic!
    Love your content, thanks brotha!!

  • @uaetub
    @uaetub 2 года назад +1

    Once again, your best work is behind the steering wheel. Thanks Rich.

  • @cindybrown7527
    @cindybrown7527 Год назад +1

    As a widow who was married 45 years I think everything Rich says is 100% right! I wish he had a book for my teenage granddaughters because they are so off track already. I think it would mean more coming from rich than their old fashioned grandma.

  • @ajb3858
    @ajb3858 2 года назад

    Thanks Rich!

  • @Flitalidapouet
    @Flitalidapouet 2 года назад

    Perfect !!!! LOVE THE CARS VIDEO RICH !!!!!

  • @johnsmith-kt7ef
    @johnsmith-kt7ef 2 года назад +21

    sounds like she seems reasonable, unfortunately she is now a single mom with 3 kids, and alphas will not be committing to that... unless maybe she is lucky enough to find 1 that is divorced or widowed with children and most likely 10+ years older than her. Chances of that happening are like winning the lottery though...

    • @mshafer1021
      @mshafer1021 2 года назад

      She’s NOT reasonable, she’s kidding herself. She looked at Rich’s material and thought it was going to improve HER situation, not realizing that when a man takes what Rich says to heart, he’s not messing around with broads like her (older with kids in tow).

  • @vancouver4sure
    @vancouver4sure 2 года назад +3

    In Canada divorce reasons for judgements are free online. They should be compulsory reading for grade 10 boys. By grade 11 they would have a chance.

  • @rohithnarra9026
    @rohithnarra9026 2 года назад

    Hey Rich, I’m getting “The Unplugged Alpha” and “The Rational Male” for Christmas. Looking forward to reading both and implementing the gems contained in them !

  • @dennisnealon6166
    @dennisnealon6166 2 года назад

    You are on point as always

  • @nicholashenderson6941
    @nicholashenderson6941 2 года назад +7

    Funny how the older woman thinks she has a shot at a high quality man. Lol by the time she get ready she will be well in her 40s.

    • @keylanoslokj1806
      @keylanoslokj1806 2 года назад +1

      Yeah she thinks 40 year olds equal two 20 year olds

    • @rudy1999
      @rudy1999 2 года назад

      Yep, should have went for the best men when she was young and hot.

  • @Stonelandscaping_pools
    @Stonelandscaping_pools 2 года назад

    Coming home from the cottage? Recognized Royal Distributers lmao Appreciate the book on my second read. You and Rollo have helped me more than you can imagine. thank you for putting your chin out there.

  • @stevencruise5516
    @stevencruise5516 2 года назад +2

    I thank you immensely for guidance away from being Had by feminist girls since my separation from an insane lady who gave me 2 great kids but drove me to a suicide attempt at age 55. 4 ladies later plus your wisdom, your book and the manisphere helped me to see red flags. And find a wonderful woman from an Asian country who wasnt ruined by feminism. Enjoying retirement at 59 thanks to you. I learned just in time from you, from being driven nuts by 3 women during which i was forced to learn lessons. Kudos also to David Dieda’s books.
    Hoping you, Mr Cooper , find peace in a country embracing freedom. Nice car. Respect.🙏🏽

  • @jovantheaccountant4928
    @jovantheaccountant4928 2 года назад

    Uncle Rich saving lives out here 🙌

  • @mashleyred2180
    @mashleyred2180 2 года назад

    Love the car Rich and admire people like you who have made it and help others.

  • @muskokamike127
    @muskokamike127 2 года назад +8

    2:55 "I am tied of leading I want a man to lead for a change" well, not hearing her husband's side, and not knowing if everything she says is true, (people lie) having been around dominant women, if you are NOW tired of being a dominant woman, then that's on you. Just don't.
    From hearing about and seeing first hand, I suspect that her husband might thrive now she's out of his life. Maybe the reason he is "down" is because you BEAT him down after years of pounding on him. I've seen it first hand. A woman beats down a man until he can't take it any more and simply gives up (not everyone can handle it). A particular one was telling me about how her father would get so angry he'd just storm out of the house.....he was a TERRIBLE father...she said. Then I started to notice she was a narcissist. She used all the usual narc tactics to drive people around her insane. She was doing things that her mother did to her husband and driving her partner nuts.
    To me, this sounds like a classic case: she beat the guy down for 20 years and now he's broken, she's moving on.
    Yes, the husband is partially to blame but at 14, when this probably started, there was no red pill or anyone to guide him. Hopefully he can move on and get help to better himself.

    • @direwolf6234
      @direwolf6234 2 года назад +2

      yes,,,after awhile you just give up ... conflict avoidance mode ..

  • @izzyizzm8761
    @izzyizzm8761 2 года назад +3

    Jack n Jill went up the hill they each had a quarter. Jill came down with 50 cents,then she said he forced her..

  • @jarroddavid8352
    @jarroddavid8352 2 года назад +1

    "The grass is always greener where you water, fertilize it and take care of it." Saving that one.

  • @DiarioCarnivoro
    @DiarioCarnivoro 2 года назад +2

    "PS: I also bought the book for my ex, but he didn't appreciate it as much as I did" 🤣🤣
    This is gold. I guess it might have literally destroyed the guy's self esteem since most seem to think they have absolutely nothing to understand and to improve with women.

  • @redpilldownunder4845
    @redpilldownunder4845 2 года назад +3

    So now she's a single mummy. NEXT!

    • @dustsky
      @dustsky 2 года назад +2

      Yep, but all hope is not lost; she's actively looking for an alfa.

    • @rudy1999
      @rudy1999 2 года назад

      Depends how old her kids are.

  • @grahamashe9715
    @grahamashe9715 2 года назад +5

    I’d surely buy your book, Rich, but after two kids and a divorce, I’m done with relationships. Life is just too short (and uncertain).

    • @basicboomer519
      @basicboomer519 2 года назад +4

      You lose either way. But, you have 2 kids so you’ve fulfilled your biological imperatives.

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад

      nothing wrong with short term fun

  • @FatherAndTeacherTV
    @FatherAndTeacherTV 2 года назад +4

    Really appreciate this content! Although I wasn't depressed, I definitely allowed my ex-wife to be the leader and she made more money than me.

  • @SAS-fn9ce
    @SAS-fn9ce 2 года назад +5

    I’m female and watch your channel from time to time. I was raised with brothers so sometimes I relate more to men. But I also have close female friends. Was married for 20 years and we remain friends. Our kids our grown, they live with me to attend school, etc. Our divorce was amicable. We both had good times and then some bad times. We all have our roles. And it’s OK! We both agreed it was time to end things.
    It’s not a failure. We have three great kids.
    But it seems on social media, each gender has the same complaints. Everyone is a victim.
    I’m trying to understand the dating world but some seem to be stuck in the past and that everyone is out to get them. So much talking..not enough living and loving.
    These labels - alpha - beta - are useless nomenclature. I realize you’re helping young men not get into a bad place by being overly accommodating. Respect.
    I have two boys and don’t want them getting into something toxic. My daughter - the same. Just want good things for them.

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад

      Most men just don't want to date single mother's. It's just too much hassle. I don't think you would want your boyfriend to discipline your kids, if he is not the father. It's a job not appreciated. On social media, we just say how we feel. You get to learn the truth and connect the dots, even from a woman's prosepective. The internet has change things, men are sharing there experience's, so there is a shift in mindset. We hear news of divorced women, trying to take as much child support as she can, even though she doesn't need that much. I'm still dating but would not consider a single mother. If your children are all grown and moved out of the house, then maybe. I think men and women want to get the best they can. A man who has money also wants to get the best woman he can get.
      I'm not sure if what I wrote will help you understand better. Please don't take this as an attack, I hope you understand the dating market better. Some men are bitter and some men are not. They can be nasty on forums but nice in person. Some are just here to learn. If I'm out on a date with a woman, most women wouldn't know, I have this mindset. It helped me because I can screen for red flags. At the end of the day, I believe men can not live without women. We need women but doesn't mean it has to be the same woman, you can change the woman, you are with. Obviously same goes for a woman, she can change to a different man of she wants. The divorce law is not on the man's side, there are risks involved in dating the wrong woman.
      If you don't want your boys to get into something toxic, they have to learn red pill. The daughter, if she is 23, should go for a high value man. She need to learn to be a helpmaid to her man, in return he needs to respect her but she must serve him, he is the leader and she must get with his program ( obviously if he is abusive verbally and physically, she needs to leave) If daughter is not married by 35, she needs to settle for an average Joe.

    • @searchrankoptimize
      @searchrankoptimize 2 года назад

      @@fearless6947 If what you and other say is true then what do you and others have to say about adoption? Adoption should be a out of fashion by now

    • @fearless6947
      @fearless6947 2 года назад

      @@searchrankoptimize I mean it's possible a man, would date a single mother but with the internet, it's highly unlikely. Most women will not allow her boyfriend to discipline the children, this is fact, I'm talking about 90 percent of women. Most men and women would rather have there own children, only a very small number adopt. Obviously it's not impossible but highly unlikely, that's all.

    • @searchrankoptimize
      @searchrankoptimize 2 года назад

      @@fearless6947 adoption laws are strict and hence fewer people adopt. You still need to answer the Q of adoption. In this case the genetics are of two different persons altogether.... And the kid is raised by a different pair. By the logic given here, why would anyone want to adopt?

    • @slayer7682
      @slayer7682 2 года назад +1

      @@fearless6947 this is why male lions kill the cubs of the other male after they take the pride over. They only want their bloodline.
      maybe I got a little morbid with this comment

  • @BartMiko
    @BartMiko 2 года назад +5

    Just remember this quote: ''procreation doesn't have morality'' and you'll be good.

  • @ivanmontoya5441
    @ivanmontoya5441 2 года назад +4

    Smart move by the FWB dropping her. He kept her at arms distance and had no long term plans for her.

  • @scagooch
    @scagooch 2 года назад

    Good video.

  • @casper8662
    @casper8662 2 года назад +1

    Nah. The night she separated she was on the CC. Wasn't till six months later she decided to actually date.

  • @tylerphillips4083
    @tylerphillips4083 2 года назад +5

    I don’t think they married at 14. I’m pretty sure they met at 14yo lmao

  • @unknown-qz6lp
    @unknown-qz6lp 2 года назад +1

    every single mom looking for jonny kim(navySeal/sniper/astronaut/doctor) but he's only one.

  • @Temporalplace
    @Temporalplace 2 года назад +1

    She did not udnerstand anything, instead of helping her man become more masculine through changing herself and her behaviour towards her family and save the family, she chosen the easiest way...find a get-go ready alpha man. She wants already green grass instead of watering her own grass. Women always search for a new working device instead of repairing what she has. Its an easy way...not really but she thinks so.
    Women, until you ask yourself, where i was wrong, what i did wrong , how can i change myself and how to repair the situation, nothing will change.

  • @davescott9062
    @davescott9062 2 года назад +7

    Nope it wasn't 6 months before she decided to date, she was no doubt in communication with the guy before she left her babies daddy.
    And what"high value man" wants a 34 year old with 3 kids? Keep dreaming girl

    • @map3384
      @map3384 2 года назад +1

      She was screwing the dude long before she asked for a divorce. That’s how it happens.

    • @davescott9062
      @davescott9062 2 года назад +1

      @@map3384 yup, just another monkey bar treatment, we've all been there.

  • @proudamericantrucker1559
    @proudamericantrucker1559 2 года назад

    amen as a woman in learning a lot from your content. thanks for what you do. and yes I have a alpha type name I suppose. but when I'm in RUclips I don't generally want people to know in a woman. I feel like since I changed be name and picture people engage and take me more serious assuming I'm a man. 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @RG-ls2db
    @RG-ls2db 2 года назад +3

    I hope her ex gets off the couch and out of his slump.

  • @Lunaeus
    @Lunaeus 2 года назад +3

    Being a solid and profound voice on social media (i.e. youtube, etc) can expose the focus group and all content related peeps to being exposed to those that are looking for weaknesses.
    For example...a male oriented, content driven youtube channel can be infiltrated by others that look at Resouce material to use against the said focus group.
    A "male oriented" source can be infiltrated by certain "non male" oriented groups to gather "information" on the source group, to use against such group.
    Never relax when it comes to certain female types that need what info they can get, to further their personal agenda's...against the men.
    There is never a safe zone...when it comes to "men bettering themselves" with the females.
    Its a constant battle. There are females that crave to control men...even finding the men's place to go for "coaching and guidance"
    It only takes a hole in the wall, for the house to come down.
    Be strong and persevere.

  • @thelifecoachmedicalmodel6648
    @thelifecoachmedicalmodel6648 2 года назад +15

    Can she get an alpha if she wants to control the frame? I absolutely do not think that’s possible, she has to want to ride shotgun on life- IMO

    • @jamesdjl4359
      @jamesdjl4359 2 года назад +9

      Agreed. It will also be difficult given her age and single mother of several kids. If she's making significant income(as she implies) her dating pool is already top 10-15%. She's in a tough spot. But, I wish her well.

    • @mr.noname3073
      @mr.noname3073 2 года назад +1

      No lies there , a good women wants to ride shotgun

    • @kevinmanning4880
      @kevinmanning4880 2 года назад +2

      Autumn Frisco, she will never be happy. Always looking for the next big thing. She's unplugged and chasing the dragon. Unplugged for her took on a different meaning and purpose in life.

    • @gregshuttleworth4465
      @gregshuttleworth4465 2 года назад

      Yep. One divorce and watching how women conduct themselves no way. I’m leading or get outta my life

  • @qhew
    @qhew 2 года назад

    good video. liked it. the lady seemed reasonable too.

  • @Trizzer89
    @Trizzer89 2 года назад +2

    How do I find women willing to be a support for a beta? I can't find one willing to talk to a guy who isnt gigachad

  • @ForeignStrategies
    @ForeignStrategies 2 года назад

    Do you do collaborations? Great channel!

  • @whiteyyt
    @whiteyyt 2 года назад

    just listened to the book on audible. Worth every dime. I suspected alot of this and thought I was alone in seeing women this way. Thanks for putting it into words and solid advice. Men need to know how women see us. Yes there are great women out there but they some of what they say is just not true....Such as what I was always told by them "I just want a guy who makes me laugh".... I worked on being funny and even became a comedian for years....women still picked alphas. What happened to just wanting a guy who makes her laugh?

  • @sniperammow4865
    @sniperammow4865 2 года назад

    Tbh I avoided your advice about women because it does not apply to my life style, but alot of what you say is very True.

  • @robertwhite952
    @robertwhite952 2 года назад +5

    So in a womens mind love doesn't come into it? No one seems to mention it anymore. It's all about resources.

  • @mooinabc1
    @mooinabc1 2 года назад

    Amazing for to read your book.

  • @iddicted
    @iddicted 2 года назад +3

    How was she still connected with a fwb from high school after 20 years of marriage. Thats fucking crazy

  • @keylanoslokj1806
    @keylanoslokj1806 2 года назад +3

    You know things can't be hidden in plain sight anymore if even women openly admit the red pills of human dating... .

  • @arreng2364
    @arreng2364 2 года назад +4

    the book was too good it made the womam more masculine 🤣

  • @SONORSQ2guy
    @SONORSQ2guy 2 года назад +7

    Excellent video! All men and their hypergamy especially Alpha’s is to have a wide variety of beautiful young women. Single moms and anyone over 30 is unacceptable. Sorry ladies it’s in our DNA we can’t help it. 👍🤟

  • @neilintherapy4865
    @neilintherapy4865 2 года назад +1

    Did Kevin from high school grow up to be Kevin from sales?

  • @deltafox1
    @deltafox1 2 года назад +17

    Female here, I loved the book also. I follow you and other manosphere content creators because I date women too.
    My dating pool is really small also

    • @robert1669
      @robert1669 2 года назад +6

      If you don't mind me asking, do you encounter issues with women the manosphere doesn't really address? Or is the advice still pretty applicable to you?

    • @deltafox1
      @deltafox1 2 года назад +2

      @@robert1669 They're about the same...my issue with lesbian dating is that every girl I've dated expects me to lead them all the time.
      I would like to be led too by a partner, that's hypergamy for you 🤷🏿‍♀️.

    • @albsureinc23
      @albsureinc23 2 года назад

      @@deltafox1 so the male dominant roles still apply in same sex relationships...correct me if I'm wrong... alwsys willing listen different point if view

    • @deltafox1
      @deltafox1 2 года назад +2

      @@albsureinc23 yea they do apply.
      Not in terms of looks, but showing leadership, mental and financial stability go a long way when dating women. Specially...since most of the women in my dating don't have their lives together, I found one who has it together and I don't have to worry about her.

  • @Feraluce
    @Feraluce 2 года назад

    Dang thats a nice looking jacket Rich, where did you get that?

  • @mr.nobody6457
    @mr.nobody6457 2 года назад

    Thumbs up!

  • @mshafer1021
    @mshafer1021 2 года назад +2

    This woman is kidding herself. There is no way the information could have helped her; all it did was get her dreaming pipe dreams

  • @richardestigene1683
    @richardestigene1683 2 года назад

    We together since I was 14. We married & 3kids. I divorced him and met myFWB from high school. She basically admitting that she cheated on him.