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1) Good deen and source of serenity. 2) When he looks at her she makes him happy and pleased, and when he makes a request she's obedient (meaning he has the last say and can be a leader.) 3) She's supportive like Khadija (r).
You should be a feminist, stop being hypnotized by these femalehating men who want us to be their slaves! Wake up sister, listen to what other women say about women not what men say about women. They are not going to be proud of us, they will keep looking down on us.
This channel was recommended to me by a sister, because I've been going around the internet looking for contents that talk about gender roles in marriage. Sadly, most Muslim speakers nowadays are very influenced by the feminists' movement. Brother Gabriel is bravely saying what is considered politically incorrect جزاكم الله خيراً يا أخي الكريم
Women can show their opposite opinions but men decide and he has more responsibilities. The beloved prophet Muhammad (PBUH) always asked opinions of wives and some times he followed their opinions and sometimes not. And no wives complained about it. That’s all. Subhanallah may Allah guide our husband in the right way.
"The beloved prophet Muhammad (PBUH) always asked opinions of wives and some times he followed their opinions and sometimes not. " be careful when you speak did the prophet ALWAYS seek the opinions of his wives? or are you assuming ? state the evidence. men are not obligated to obey or follow the opinions of an-nisa, ever. you have many traits of ignorance. dont speak for islam, as you know nothing. you are unworthy of any m.a.n.
"Subhanallah may Allah guide our husband in the right way." what do you see that men are doing wrong and how should they be guided? also what are the things that an-nisa are doing wrong ?
@@qt354 akhi offcourse the prophet saws never "Always" asked his wives for their opinion but it is in good conduct in doing so, ultimately decisions upto you. Be careful with your words towards your sister have good akhlaq brother.
Even if money, lineage, beauty don’t fade, those are just not enough in order to have a peaceful and happy marriage. How many people in this world come from rich families and dispose of access to cosmetic treatments, yet they are miserable?! The deen is why beautifies one’s character and guides them in this dunya.
The ideal Muslim wife is the one who is focused on her Akhira and is understanding that this world is temporary. Her life goal is to make it to Jannah first and foremost and she knows her worth, her roles and responsibilities as well as her rights as a Muslim woman and a Muslim wife. She is down to earth and not concerned with being flashy or materialistic. She is humble and modest but feminine at the same time. She is family oriented and puts her husband and children above everything else. She is smart (common sense smart) and is able to think critically, she has an open mind and is reasonable and loyal and kindhearted. She supports her husband emotionally, and psychologically. above all she has deen and when you have deen as a Muslim woman these qualities will flow naturally and graciously
She must be pious, sincere towards Allah. If she's not you will be unhappy. I know brothers who have divorced because of that even though the woman was beautiful. Bro if she fears Allah, if she wants to get closer to him, if she has hayaa, she is chaste, and attractive enough for you to have intimacy with her, Allah has given you a treasure. May Allah make us deserving of such women and bestow that blessing upon us and protect us from bad women.
You are right , may Allah bless you and protect you and help you and guide all Muslims brothers to be like the prophet Mohamad عليه أفضل الصلات و السلام , and all sisters to be like Khadija رضي الله عنها
This brother does have the correct understanding of the roles and responsibilities in a marriage. Sadly though, its been almost impossible to find qaanitatun today.
What about him? she can have all these qualities of goodness but they are wasted on someone who has tricked her into marriage. My husband does not pray, does not fast, does not lead, just takes takes takes over the years. I am a shadow of the person I used to be.
I know it's easier said than done but divorce seems like the best way out because it's hard to go to couples therapy with someone who doesn't care and what's the point of being in a marriage with someone who doesn't fear Allah, he's wasting your time may Allah make it easy for you
My children are my world, I know exactly what would happen if I opened a discussion about our responsibilities. Life is test. May Allah guide us all. Thank you for your sentiments
@@SS-kp7hw you as a mother would get custody of the kids and you'd have more time to focus on them rather than being trapped but best of luck you seem like a great mother
@@SS-kp7hw Yh, why marry him? This is a tough pill to accept, but you should have avoided such a man from the beginning. You should have spotted the red flags before you married him. And even if you still married him, you should have divorced him, while you got to know him and saw he was up to no good. But you chose to stay with him. And even after getting to know him, you still chose to make kids with him. And now you're complaining... Sister, this is why being thoughtful in life and improving oneself (in character, self-esteem, self-love,...) is very important. I don't know what you're past is. Maybe you were abused and it has affected your ability to spot/recognize the red flags in the beginning or it made you afraid to make tough but important decisions. Allahu a3lam. You do have important lessons to teach your kids.
If the men are qauwam the women gladly submit. They have eyes, they can see safety and strength in a man. Men are the maintainer of women is a command first to men.
An obedient wife can enter any gate of Jannah , true indeed a wife can help protect her husband from desires from all temptations outside the house by keeping herself in good shape , and that's a fact ,
isn't it interesting how you only value a woman based on westren standards? that's so cheap to say that she should keep herself in shape, go to gym and workout, and look like all the haram wearing western women that you can't keep your eyes off? where's your taqwa?
then explain all the pretty women getting cheated on LMAOOOOOO not you saying adultery is the wifes fault, i hope people like you get their deserved punishment
Salaam...😊 Hope you are all doing well In'sha'Allah. 😊..I'm not trying to pass the buck, but I really do wish there were 'better' men. The man is the 'king' of his castle and he can rule it well with his 'queen'...however this depends mostly on the type of king she has in her home. If he respects his queen, she will RESPECT him..she will learn from him..she will follow him..she will ask for his advice and vice-versa...it is a two way thing... When the man begins to lose his way..becomes focussed on other things, then wife and children also lose their way. But, today I see many women trying to steer their ship without a navigator. And THAT is so hard. Men, we women need you just as you need us. And we urge you to look at our prophet Mohammed's (peace be upon him) character. Good women don't eak for much. No diamonds, gold or rubies because a good man is worth so much more.... Good women are for good men In'sha'Allah:)😊 Have a beautiful day...
"Hope you are all doing well In'sha'Allah. 😊..I'm not trying to pass the buck, but I really do wish there were 'better' men. The man is the 'king' of his castle and he can rule it well with his 'queen'...however this depends mostly on the type of king she has in her home.' an-nisa are not queens, the prophet described them as prisoners/slaves of m.e.n. so what type of "king" would a "queen" need before she decides to obey him ? are all females queens or only those who are worthy ?
JazakAllahu khayrun wa ahsanal jaza Allah hu ilayk dearest respected brother for always trying to help and advise and guide us to the best way may Allah subhaanahu ta aala always bless protect guide help reward and increase you in abundance with all forms of goodness Aameen thumma Aameen 🤲😭🤲😭🤲💝
There are times when women want a house of peace, men come home and best their wives and are cruel to them. Order your wive she obeys you, no…… It sounds like a wife is the servant. You have to realise men make mistakes, women have to pick up the pieces… Men, be supportive loving, kind, considerate and able to respect your wife points of view.
Br. Gabriel, you videos focus a lot on what women need to do to be good wives, but what about men to be good husbands? This video was several months ago. When is the follow up video for brothers?
@@hanzalaomar9915 Brother, salam. I didnt mean "equal". Its a quote from the video. Its the speaker's quote. I found it fascinating. So i commented the same. Some women claims the best for themselves, either in life partners and facilities. But never to willing to sacrifice. Correction of oneself is needed. Thats what i understood. Correct me if i misunderstood. Zazakallah for your concern.
Salaam I have been watching ur videos recently And I am very delighted to have u as part of our ummah mashallah Me and my husband have been married 23yrs Have 2 boys I continue to get alot of abuse from.my in laws I have tried many times to come forward and interact with them But they still refuse to accept me My husband is a good man But this has caused him to lose his family And I cant bear to c him like this I feel more pain for him as i can c on his face he misses them What is the solution
Sister, no one can change another human being, one can only improve oneself. There are many people who are reverts and have non muslim family, and the main point is that you should constantly be kind to your family, But don't let them walk over you or accept any kind of abuse from them, and definitely don't obey them in things against what Allah and his messenger have brought. This is a test from Allah. Some people have even worse tests like Aasiyah RA who was the best woman married to the worst man, Firaun. But keep a good connection with Allah and do your best to improve yourself and be constantly kind to family but with a clear boundary against abuse.
Ameen Assalamalaikum due to hurry and laziness in internet revolution, we dont pay much attention to english rules. but atleast we should be cautious about Islamic principles. So please write, Allah - not allah Qur'an - not quran Muhammad - not muhammed peace be upon him/SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam - not pbuh/saws Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala- not swt Its not about sin and haram but about respect towards our Rabb!
Thank you brother for the advice. And sisters in the light of these advice it’s so important to choose an upright man who is strong in Deen and character. He is going to be your iman, the leader. Be careful who are you giving this position to.
Let's be honest..both men&women will not find a good spouse if you yourself are not good. You can only recognise goodness when you practice goodness and have guidance..
1. Marry a women for 4 things - deen - lineage - wealth - money 2. Look pretty in front of your husband - prioritize looking good at home as well than looking good outside 3. Husband has the final say - even if he makes mistakes, speak in private but he is the leader
Jazaka Allahu khayran bro . But the translation of the beginning of the hadeeth isn't we should marry woman for ...... . In arabic language the haddeth begins with the word "tunkah" and this is passive form . So the translation is "women are getting married because of 4 things " meaning usually men marry wimen for 4 reasons ... not they should marry them for 4 things ! Prophet myhammad wouldnt advice men to marry women for their money or their high rank family ! So what kind of marriage will be that one in which a man intend to marry a wiman just because he is after her money for example !
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..? Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it. This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way. I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram! True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women. The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues. There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings. The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view. We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days. Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife. So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
@@JahannamHellfire Allah gave men the permission. Does it require any other any explanation? If men think about a second wife, he has to fulfil all the rights of every wife. What makes you so defensive comparing muslims to western men?
Did our Prophet pbuh specifically mention that is it haram to marry more than one? Or that one must only marry older women, widows or divorcees? Yes it is a great deed indeed no doubt, but what makes you so defensive about this subject?
Some righteous women lack in her obligation towards her husband because he’s not practicing. She feels how can she obey someone who does not love or obey Allaah and it makes her angry and makes her fall short in obeying him because he does care to obey the One who created him and gave him everything
Assalamualaikum. I don't understand something about most women. They got married, few years then they complained about their husbands. While we, still searching for good husbands think they are ungrateful. Why? They should be grateful.
I disagree with some the things you said. What if one would rather have a hotheaded girl who has a fiery temper as opposed to someone who’s like no questions asked?
Oh bro try to Reconsider your harsh ways😳Why are yr teachings so cultural so Saudi type so Wahaby or Azhary🙄not moderate😭very uneasy on women and kids 🕋BUT PBUH used to choose the easiest, the smoothest ways, when he PBUH came to choose between anything, PleeezZ Re think اللهم صلي علي حبيبك وحبيبنا محمد رسول الله 🕋 سيدنا محمد جماله في أخلاقه الحميدة وكمان بوجهه المضيئة وجماله في لياقته البدنية وجسمه الشريفة وجماله في بشاشة وجهه وسماحة طبعه ورحمته على الضعيف والفقير والطفل والمرأة، كان ومازال جمال رسول الله في صمعته الي يوم القيامة وايضا جماله في لسانه وجوامع الكلم وصلاته وصيامه وقيامه وولآئه يا حبيبي يا رسول الله
'No ideal, only that which remain's' -Appraiser ambassador of that which remain's 'No ideal, only Allah' - Muhammad ambassador of Allah 'لا الله إلا الله' -محمد رسول الله
@Dyana Sherzada that is a pretty broad statement to make. If you have four childeren can you not love them equally? Can you not treat them equally and give them the love. Why would it be different when it comes to wife’s.
And Allah told you to obey the Prophet saw, and the Prophet saw told you to obey your husband! Therefore obeying your husband is obeying Allah, and disobeying your husband is disobeying Allah. Its connected
Good video. Deen says that women have to obey their husbands, therefore I think women should marry men who are worthy of being obeyed.
Sisters please humble yourself first
Yes sister lol...... it's a struggle
@@EngineeringUnlockedAu wym?
Even if they have a husband who's bad but instructs them to do something that doesnt contradict islam, they still have to obey him.
_"Women should marry Men who are worthy of being obeyed"_ that is the key علم من علم وجهل من جهل
1) Good deen and source of serenity.
2) When he looks at her she makes him happy and pleased, and when he makes a request she's obedient (meaning he has the last say and can be a leader.)
3) She's supportive like Khadija (r).
I don't know if this exists. If it does I ask Allah to make me deserving of one and make her my wife
@@copainspammeur404 Allah is the most gracious
Alhamdililah i’m not a feminist. Islam is the complete way of life for men and women 💖
You should be a feminist, stop being hypnotized by these femalehating men who want us to be their slaves! Wake up sister, listen to what other women say about women not what men say about women. They are not going to be proud of us, they will keep looking down on us.
Follow the Sunnah of prophet Mohammed PBUH and you will have a healthy and happy marriage.
This channel was recommended to me by a sister, because I've been going around the internet looking for contents that talk about gender roles in marriage. Sadly, most Muslim speakers nowadays are very influenced by the feminists' movement. Brother Gabriel is bravely saying what is considered politically incorrect جزاكم الله خيراً يا أخي الكريم
Women can show their opposite opinions but men decide and he has more responsibilities. The beloved prophet Muhammad (PBUH) always asked opinions of wives and some times he followed their opinions and sometimes not. And no wives complained about it. That’s all. Subhanallah may Allah guide our husband in the right way.
If you watch the video, you will see that he already mentioned that.
"The beloved prophet Muhammad (PBUH) always asked opinions of wives and some times he followed their opinions and sometimes not. "
be careful when you speak
did the prophet ALWAYS seek the opinions of his wives? or are you assuming ? state the evidence.
men are not obligated to obey or follow the opinions of an-nisa, ever. you have many traits of ignorance. dont speak for islam, as you know nothing.
you are unworthy of any m.a.n.
"Subhanallah may Allah guide our husband in the right way."
what do you see that men are doing wrong and how should they be guided?
also what are the things that an-nisa are doing wrong ?
"The beloved Prophet Muhammad pbuh ways asked opinion of wives"
You need to show evidence that he "always" did that??
@@qt354 akhi offcourse the prophet saws never "Always" asked his wives for their opinion but it is in good conduct in doing so, ultimately decisions upto you. Be careful with your words towards your sister have good akhlaq brother.
Very beneficial reminder, Jazakallahu Khairan ustadh Jibreel.
Even if money, lineage, beauty don’t fade, those are just not enough in order to have a peaceful and happy marriage. How many people in this world come from rich families and dispose of access to cosmetic treatments, yet they are miserable?!
The deen is why beautifies one’s character and guides them in this dunya.
The ideal Muslim wife is the one who is focused on her Akhira and is understanding that this world is temporary. Her life goal is to make it to Jannah first and foremost and she knows her worth, her roles and responsibilities as well as her rights as a Muslim woman and a Muslim wife. She is down to earth and not concerned with being flashy or materialistic. She is humble and modest but feminine at the same time. She is family oriented and puts her husband and children above everything else. She is smart (common sense smart) and is able to think critically, she has an open mind and is reasonable and loyal and kindhearted. She supports her husband emotionally, and psychologically. above all she has deen and when you have deen as a Muslim woman these qualities will flow naturally and graciously
U r talks are really helpful n I take mental notes everytime I purpousefully hear 🎉
She must be pious, sincere towards Allah. If she's not you will be unhappy.
I know brothers who have divorced because of that even though the woman was beautiful.
Bro if she fears Allah, if she wants to get closer to him, if she has hayaa, she is chaste, and attractive enough for you to have intimacy with her, Allah has given you a treasure.
May Allah make us deserving of such women and bestow that blessing upon us and protect us from bad women.
Thank you for the motivation brother...👍🏼
You are right , may Allah bless you and protect you and help you and guide all Muslims brothers to be like the prophet Mohamad عليه أفضل الصلات و السلام , and all sisters to be like Khadija رضي الله عنها
You'll never be good enough to a narcicist you still be discarded and blamed .
Masha Allah may Allah SW bless your work
This brother does have the correct understanding of the roles and responsibilities in a marriage.
Sadly though, its been almost impossible to find qaanitatun today.
This isn't true. It is not impossible.
That’s why educating ourselves is ultimately very important, educate others and educate people around you and eventually educate your children.
@Dark Horse i hope u treat her like a queen.
What about him? she can have all these qualities of goodness but they are wasted on someone who has tricked her into marriage. My husband does not pray, does not fast, does not lead, just takes takes takes over the years. I am a shadow of the person I used to be.
I know it's easier said than done but divorce seems like the best way out because it's hard to go to couples therapy with someone who doesn't care and what's the point of being in a marriage with someone who doesn't fear Allah, he's wasting your time may Allah make it easy for you
My children are my world, I know exactly what would happen if I opened a discussion about our responsibilities. Life is test. May Allah guide us all. Thank you for your sentiments
@@SS-kp7hw you as a mother would get custody of the kids and you'd have more time to focus on them rather than being trapped but best of luck you seem like a great mother
@@SS-kp7hw I understand what you mean dude but she said she he doesn't pray what type of man is that
@@SS-kp7hw Yh, why marry him? This is a tough pill to accept, but you should have avoided such a man from the beginning. You should have spotted the red flags before you married him. And even if you still married him, you should have divorced him, while you got to know him and saw he was up to no good. But you chose to stay with him. And even after getting to know him, you still chose to make kids with him. And now you're complaining...
Sister, this is why being thoughtful in life and improving oneself (in character, self-esteem, self-love,...) is very important. I don't know what you're past is. Maybe you were abused and it has affected your ability to spot/recognize the red flags in the beginning or it made you afraid to make tough but important decisions. Allahu a3lam.
You do have important lessons to teach your kids.
If the men are qauwam the women gladly submit. They have eyes, they can see safety and strength in a man. Men are the maintainer of women is a command first to men.
An obedient wife can enter any gate of Jannah , true indeed a wife can help protect her husband from desires from all temptations outside the house by keeping herself in good shape , and that's a fact ,
@Sammy You're the "obnoxious" one. You sound rebellious too..
isn't it interesting how you only value a woman based on westren standards? that's so cheap to say that she should keep herself in shape, go to gym and workout, and look like all the haram wearing western women that you can't keep your eyes off? where's your taqwa?
then explain all the pretty women getting cheated on LMAOOOOOO not you saying adultery is the wifes fault, i hope people like you get their deserved punishment
@@Jorjina.hayatt what are you even saying?? a man wanting a woman to be fit/healthy is a western standard? loooool ok
Brother You’re making Yourself look bad lol
Salaam...😊
Hope you are all doing well In'sha'Allah. 😊..I'm not trying to pass the buck, but I really do wish there were 'better' men.
The man is the 'king' of his castle and he can rule it well with his 'queen'...however this depends mostly on the type of king she has in her home. If he respects his queen, she will RESPECT him..she will learn from him..she will follow him..she will ask for his advice and vice-versa...it is a two way thing...
When the man begins to lose his way..becomes focussed on other things, then wife and children also lose their way. But, today I see many women trying to steer their ship without a navigator. And THAT is so hard.
Men, we women need you just as you need us. And we urge you to look at our prophet Mohammed's (peace be upon him) character. Good women don't eak for much. No diamonds, gold or rubies because a good man is worth so much more....
Good women are for good men In'sha'Allah:)😊
Have a beautiful day...
"Hope you are all doing well In'sha'Allah. 😊..I'm not trying to pass the buck, but I really do wish there were 'better' men.
The man is the 'king' of his castle and he can rule it well with his 'queen'...however this depends mostly on the type of king she has in her home.'
an-nisa are not queens, the prophet described them as prisoners/slaves of m.e.n.
so what type of "king" would a "queen" need before she decides to obey him ?
are all females queens or only those who are worthy ?
@@qt354
Two words
Shut up. 😊
Hahaha wtf
@@qt354 You got a terrible problem in Ur brain.
@@user-qb2lv8uo4x 🤣🤣 That's a good way of saying that.
JazakAllahu khayrun wa ahsanal jaza Allah hu ilayk dearest respected brother for always trying to help and advise and guide us to the best way may Allah subhaanahu ta aala always bless protect guide help reward and increase you in abundance with all forms of goodness Aameen thumma Aameen 🤲😭🤲😭🤲💝
More videos on this topic please!
No one wants to take responsibility for their own actions. They get offended when you point out their true face
There are times when women want a house of peace, men come home and best their wives and are cruel to them.
Order your wive she obeys you, no……
It sounds like a wife is the servant.
You have to realise men make mistakes, women have to pick up the pieces…
Men, be supportive loving, kind, considerate and able to respect your wife points of view.
Br. Gabriel, you videos focus a lot on what women need to do to be good wives, but what about men to be good husbands? This video was several months ago. When is the follow up video for brothers?
He mostly talks about men though, just look at his other videos
Mashallah so beautiful!
Women has their roles
And man has their roles.
You get Khadiza when you become Muhammad.
Mashallah tabarakallah!
You cannot be either. And Khadija RA is not at an equal footing with the Noble Prophet Pbuh. So, fear Allah SWT for what you just said.
@@hanzalaomar9915 Brother, salam. I didnt mean "equal".
Its a quote from the video. Its the speaker's quote.
I found it fascinating. So i commented the same.
Some women claims the best for themselves, either in life partners and facilities. But never to willing to sacrifice. Correction of oneself is needed. Thats what i understood.
Correct me if i misunderstood.
Zazakallah for your concern.
Salaam
I have been watching ur videos recently
And I am very delighted to have u as part of our ummah mashallah
Me and my husband have been married 23yrs
Have 2 boys
I continue to get alot of abuse from.my in laws
I have tried many times to come forward and interact with them
But they still refuse to accept me
My husband is a good man
But this has caused him to lose his family
And I cant bear to c him like this
I feel more pain for him as i can c on his face he misses them
What is the solution
Sister, no one can change another human being, one can only improve oneself. There are many people who are reverts and have non muslim family, and the main point is that you should constantly be kind to your family,
But don't let them walk over you or accept any kind of abuse from them, and definitely don't obey them in things against what Allah and his messenger have brought. This is a test from Allah. Some people have even worse tests like Aasiyah RA who was the best woman married to the worst man, Firaun.
But keep a good connection with Allah and do your best to improve yourself and be constantly kind to family but with a clear boundary against abuse.
SubhanAllah very true👌
If sisters in Islam contemplate on the Qur'an and Sunnah.There are no questions asked as Why?
My allah reward you with janah 🙏
Ameen
Assalamalaikum due to hurry and laziness in internet revolution, we dont pay much attention to english rules.
but atleast we should be cautious about Islamic principles.
So please write,
Allah - not allah
Qur'an - not quran
Muhammad - not muhammed
peace be upon him/SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam - not pbuh/saws
Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala- not swt
Its not about sin and haram but about respect towards our Rabb!
Wallahi good character beautifies a person. If woman has good character then she is beautiful. Same for the men
Mutual respect should flow naturelly Masha'Allah.
Thank you brother for the advice. And sisters in the light of these advice it’s so important to choose an upright man who is strong in Deen and character. He is going to be your iman, the leader. Be careful who are you giving this position to.
جزاك الله خير و بارك فيك
اني احبك في الله ❤
Let's be honest..both men&women will not find a good spouse if you yourself are not good. You can only recognise goodness when you practice goodness and have guidance..
Their will always be someone better and always someone worse. And always someone who does not want us to succeed. Love Allah and ourselves first. 🍐💝🍐
Many women are far more intelligent and have more common sense than their husbands. So, they have every right to lead the family in important issues.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته....بارك الله فيك شيخنا...هل يمكن لك ان تتزوج اكثر من زوجة واحدة؟
Can someone give a recommendation for a book to give a girl for a role of a good wives in marriage?
1. Marry a women for 4 things
- deen
- lineage
- wealth
- money
2. Look pretty in front of your husband
- prioritize looking good at home as well than looking good outside
3. Husband has the final say
- even if he makes mistakes, speak in private but he is the leader
Jazaka Allahu khayran bro . But the translation of the beginning of the hadeeth isn't we should marry woman for ...... . In arabic language the haddeth begins with the word "tunkah" and this is passive form . So the translation is "women are getting married because of 4 things " meaning usually men marry wimen for 4 reasons ... not they should marry them for 4 things ! Prophet myhammad wouldnt advice men to marry women for their money or their high rank family ! So what kind of marriage will be that one in which a man intend to marry a wiman just because he is after her money for example !
He included the Deen all 4
Just so you know, nobody adviced to marry women for other things here.
Saying "Men are Polygamous by Nature" is against Islam..?
Why do almost all Scholars claim that men are polygamous by nature with no Islamic claim? This makes men think it's okay to open doors and feel for multiple women, when in the west, where everyone is treated "equally" women are equally polygamous, cheating on their husbands, for "fun" not for "love or emotional" reasons as many put it.
This means that both sexes are vulnerable in the same way.
I think the society allows men to behave this way or think this way, because it's a male dominated world, and they supressed women since the beginning of time, when in the end, both men and women are the same, committing the same sins. However, the world makes it okay for men to be this way, claiming its their nature. Ever wonder why Muslim parents will abandon their daughters forever if they caught them speaking to a guy but will not do anything if their son goes out and sleeps around with women? Why is that? In the Shariah, both is a sin, both are haram!
True women may be of more fitnah towards men, because women have more awrah to cover, yet they fail to, but most men are naturally in hijab, hence the reason for lesser fitnah for women.
The Polygamy allowed also speaks about helping widows or orphans, anyone who can clearly study the Quran can understand that. The Sahabah and Prophets mostly married older women who had children from other men who had died. If men want to follow the example of the Prophet, they should follow it in the way he practiced it. Wars were common, many women were left without homes or men to take care of them. Had Allah disapproved, we would suffer social issues.
There are many many many men who are happy with one wife, who dare not think about other women. Even having a thought of a non-mahram while married is a huge sin, how can one approach the thought of Polygamy knowing this is wrong? We see here the clear reasons for Polygamy. Some claim their wife is too fat or too old so they want to get another wife? It's because women are too busy with children they don't have time to even think of getting another man. Though the arab world makes it look like women have no physical desires or feelings.
The fact that society has suppressed this, is proof why they claim "Men are Polygamous by nature" I would like to see any type of proof from Islam that this is true? Men were more free to do whatever they pleased, this is the real reason, before Islam and after Islam. It's not a religious view, its a social view.
We Muslims are taught to follow the Quran and refer to sunnah and hadeeth, if men want to remarry, then why dont they read the verse on polygamy and refer to the sunnah and hadeeth? There are clear hadeeths that our Prophet pbuh the sahabah remarried older women to help them and be noble men for the sake of allah subhanwaltala, not for sexual reasons as Scholars put it these days.
Also when Hazrat Ali wanted to take a second wife for the reasons I put above, it made Hzt Fatima upset and Prophet pbuh forbade Hazrat Ali remarrying a second wife.
So if anyone can show a claim from ISLAM that men are polygamous, I would like to see. Please don't bring sciencists' claims into this, because even they claim things that go against Islam.
@@JahannamHellfire Allah gave men the permission. Does it require any other any explanation? If men think about a second wife, he has to fulfil all the rights of every wife. What makes you so defensive comparing muslims to western men?
Did our Prophet pbuh specifically mention that is it haram to marry more than one? Or that one must only marry older women, widows or divorcees? Yes it is a great deed indeed no doubt, but what makes you so defensive about this subject?
Modern sisters are losing their souls and morals because of " Social media" Traditions are best; Thank You for sharing the video🇧🇻🐺
Mashaallah ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well said.
0 woman were hurt in the process 😅
Some righteous women lack in her obligation towards her husband because he’s not practicing. She feels how can she obey someone who does not love or obey Allaah and it makes her angry and makes her fall short in obeying him because he does care to obey the One who created him and gave him everything
How do you know if your wife will obedient or not ? Surely, someone will only reveal their full true nature after marriage ?
MashaALLAH TabarakaALLAH Beautiful Reminder and advice May we act upon the advice and guidance. Ustadh JazakaAllah Qayr
Assalamualaikum.
I don't understand something about most women. They got married, few years then they complained about their husbands.
While we, still searching for good husbands think they are ungrateful. Why?
They should be grateful.
Smanaa Watanna insha Allah.
Indeedd!!
I disagree with some the things you said. What if one would rather have a hotheaded girl who has a fiery temper as opposed to someone who’s like no questions asked?
Kid buy
Go ahead 🤡
How do we send this brother a question? Its important
Oh bro try to Reconsider your harsh ways😳Why are yr teachings so cultural so Saudi type so Wahaby or Azhary🙄not moderate😭very uneasy on women and kids 🕋BUT PBUH used to choose the easiest, the smoothest ways, when he PBUH came to choose between anything, PleeezZ Re think
اللهم صلي علي حبيبك وحبيبنا محمد رسول الله 🕋 سيدنا محمد جماله في أخلاقه الحميدة وكمان بوجهه المضيئة وجماله في لياقته البدنية وجسمه الشريفة وجماله في بشاشة وجهه وسماحة طبعه ورحمته على الضعيف والفقير والطفل والمرأة، كان ومازال جمال رسول الله في صمعته الي يوم القيامة وايضا جماله في لسانه وجوامع الكلم وصلاته وصيامه وقيامه وولآئه يا حبيبي يا رسول الله
'No ideal, only that which remain's' -Appraiser ambassador of that which remain's
'No ideal, only Allah' - Muhammad ambassador of Allah
'لا الله إلا الله' -محمد رسول الله
I hate this guy something seems very scary and strange about him
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Why Do. You. Speak so Slowly
Four reasons to marry women: polygamy 1. Wife 2 wife 3 wife 4 wife
Your point? Don't talk gibberish.. 🤣😂
@Dyana Sherzada then you r at wrong channel. what source? Polygamy as always been permitted
@@EngineeringUnlockedAu you don’t get the joke bro? 4 reasons to marry, 4 wifes
@Dyana Sherzada yeah like when I lawyer states, what source? The law ofcourse (dumb voice). I mean specifically what verse?
@Dyana Sherzada that is a pretty broad statement to make. If you have four childeren can you not love them equally? Can you not treat them equally and give them the love. Why would it be different when it comes to wife’s.
Jzk
WOW the men is so women supresor
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Im disgusted, obey this obey that, we women only have to obey allah not our husbands!
And Allah told you to obey the Prophet saw, and the Prophet saw told you to obey your husband! Therefore obeying your husband is obeying Allah, and disobeying your husband is disobeying Allah. Its connected