You need to study your deen Islam. These imams were not taught about this topic by their parents but rather they studied their religion Al Islam.please take responsibility and stop shifting to others for the matter parents.
I took shahada 2 weeks ago, I'm a divorcee and single mother of 3 children... I'm so happy to have access to all this information,wisdom and guidance. May Allah bless you. I'm looking forward to hearing more from you. Many humble and happy thanks.
This is a HUGE problem in Pakistani and Indian Muslim couples. No one likes to talk about these important subjects which reaults in out of marriage relationships and unhappy lifes
Who told the elders about sex? They act all Innocent The men force the wife on the wedding night Complaining of the unplanned pregnancies if it’s a girl
That's actually to true. I feel like they try to keep u innocent minded but they don't understand that they are not educating us on our rights as woman . Same thing goes for menstruation. Everything needs to be a secret
If Prophet Muhammad SAWW talked and educated his companions about sexual life then why it’s so difficult for our Islamic scholars to talk about it… there’s so many problems in society bcz of sexual relationships between husband and wife. Scholars has the duty to teach what’s halal and haram and raised awareness about it specially in sceneries where people stuck in a marriage and fear to get divorced
True..! They're STILL Not Entirely comfortable talking about it... The other sheikh looked visibly defensive as soon as the host/ interviewer mentioned 'sexual...'. Why? What is this hypocrisy. Isn't this the biggest harm you've done to believing women?? Astagfirullaah.. You've Talked and preached about what women 'should be' and 'should not be', all these years... Openly neglecting their existence as human beings capable of having sexual experiences rightfully. Aren't you ALL responsible for the shame we carry??? You objectified us. You created this perception that we are just things that should be changed and adjusted to suit the husbands and fathers and brothers needs. What honour do we carry? Why give us the burden of carrying your honor?? Can't you carry your own Honor..?? All those women who have been abused sexually, (especially by immediate family, including me, even today), can never believe a word coming out of your mouths, we only believe in Allah. Not men. We don't need you explaining the Qur'an to us. We don't need you at all. Go to hell. Hypocrites, took them too long....
what is wrong with you people, the Prophet delivered the message, there his work was done, but as usual rather than seek the Creator you seek guidence from men, The Prophet was just a man who was blessed with the task of giving the message to the Ummah the message is the 'correction' and yet all you people do is act like the people of the past and look to the past as if Allah will ask you about what they did? you will be asked about what you did and what did you do? you wasted time following men who create rituals to make you think you can transact your way to Allah. doesnt matter how many times you prostrate.
You need to study your deen Islam. These imams were not taught about this topic by their parents but rather they studied their religion Al Islam.please take responsibility and stop shifting to others for the matter parents.
Asalam alaikom sister. A friendly caution - beware of the men who will surround you like piranahs, and their women who will introduce you, and the pressure to marry, change your name, wear hijab and more. Take at least a year to grow into your new identity.
I am not Muslim, I am a Christian from South Africa. I came across this video by the grace of God I guess because I love listening to Muslim Scholars It’s a very informative and eye opening video. Thank you Sirs
Mufti plz talk about girls who were ra*ed in childhood, about their trauma, healing, fear. I was 5, it still haunt me. Although I’m taking therapy now. Still I’m afraid of men. I am afraid of even my father and brothers. Plz don’t take me wrong I see all men as beast. No matter how hard I try. As i was abused by my Mahram my uncle. What Islam says about us. I want to get married now, I convinced myself after a long battle and struggles but still I’m afraid of men. How does it work in marriage, how my potential husband ll understand, that’s it’s not his fault, but I’m carrying scar from childhood. Plz plz talk more, you know there are many like us but nobody talk about us. Even our mothers wanted us to keep quiet so that we won’t bring shame to family. We suffer in silence whole our life. Only because suicide is haram I didn’t commit it. But there is no justice for us. Only crying in silence and hoping to die soon.
So sad being female maybe I can feel your pain, May Allah reward you alot for your patience....If I suggest you sth I didn't moved through this situation but I also have sort of phobia ,It decreased alot when someone in love approached me
Sorry to hear that ukhti....one of a young neighbourhood imam touched me in my private parts while teaching me quran when i was just 5 or 6....Eventhough that ,still haunt me to my adulthood,so i can imagine how serious your pain will be...But don't lose hope,not all men are the same and make plenty of duas to Allah to give u a righteous,loving spouse...May Allah give u all the strength and rewards for ur patience sis🥰🥰🫂🫂🫂
Assalamu Alaikum Sister, and to the other sisters in the replies. I am so sorry that such horrible things were done to you by men you were supposed to trust. Even those men who claimed to follow the Deen and then exploited an innocent child in this horrendous way. Lanatullah Alayhi on such predators lest they turn to Allah. This pain is unimaginable for me, I cannot even bear the thought of going through something like this. But I can assure you my beloved sisters, those men are few and far in between, and you will get your justice on the day of judgement InshaAllah. But you should not let this trauma drive you to hate and fear all men. It is irrational to expect that all men would wish such visceral harm on you, just like if one/few women caused you harm wouldn't mean all women are evil. There are countless, practicing, true Iman having Muslim men out there who outnumber such animals many times over. You have to have taqwah and tawakkul in Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and take this leap of faith, and trust that He will align you with a husband who will do right by you in the truest sense. Don't get me wrong, you will never find a perfect husband/wife because we humans are imperfect by design. It's very likely that the other person will not be 100% what you want. But that would not mean they would wish the same things on you like those lustful animals would. I sincerely wish that you all would receive the best partners fid dunya wal akhira. You have one of the hardest tests I've ever seen. And I can assure you, the reward to get through this life with full conviction in Allah, will grant you such grand rewards, you would have not imagined such a thing in a million years. May Allah guide us all to what is most beloved to him. Stay strong for his sake
I wish I had access to these types of videos, by these highly esteemed and educated scholars of Islam, back in my time. It’s too late for me, but I’m glad that the youth of today have easy access to videos like these. May ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ grant hidayah to every couple, and may ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ reward the Shaykhs for making this video. أمين
Truly, we the young couple have so much to learn. When we are getting married, the elders are giving the girls all the advice ( how to fulfill their duties as a wife, but nothing for the husband). We need our SHEIKS to talk to men to educate themselves. Salaam
This is a huge problem in Pakistan. A big one. Men can always find a second, third woman but Pakistani women are "sacrificing" in these marriages resulting in dissatisfaction and frustration and unhappy marriages. "I protected myself from Haram for what?" So accurate! Jazakallahukhair for covering this topic.
@ABUBAKAR-yi8eg The divorce wouldn't be necessary if the husband just satisfied their spouse. Secondly, getting remarried is difficult, and the new husband may be the same. The problem is a societal problem, not an individual problem. Getting a divorce does not fix it.
@@bz.t2742 its not that husband dont want to satisfy their spouses rather they cant.So just take a divorce if u cant be patient.Its better than being in haram relationships.
@@qtpie6263 speak for yourself lol. I’m so thankful the other scholar was also part of this conversation, he is very knowledgeable and seems experienced in teaching the religion.
@@Stargazing482I am not disputing the fact that the other scholar is also very educated and learnerd. I am acknowledging the fact that he just wants to take over the whole conversation and not give mufti menk an equal opportunity to speak.
MashaAllah, this is a much needed talk amongst all Muslims. I have been married for over 20 years and have dealt with some of the issues mentioned throughout my marriage. It is not easy. May Allah continue to guide us all. Ameen!
I'm a revert muslim Sheikh I’ve been waiting for this video from you and here it is. I highly appreciate you for covering the best info in this one video.The video is lengthy, but I’m glad that you covered the most part Alhamdulillah
As a single Muslimah, I must say it was a very helpful video to understand the basics of physical intimacy of spuoses in Islam, the rights and the wrongs under the shadows of the Quran, and Hadiths, both shiekhs explained the topic well, I'm curious what could be in its next episode. May Allah bless you all, and may Allah grant us righteous spouses and forgive us all. Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen!❤
He was cut off many times from the beginning right through to the end. It is disrespectful. Yet he remained so dignified, though he knew that he was silenced
Just wanted to give a feedback. Getting a right scholar who has time to sit for even an hour counseling or mediation is rare nowadays. The number of cases that needs help from a scholar or imam vs the number of available knowledgeable local imam or scholar are not proportional. Scholars are rare to find and their time to help people in need is also very very limited. There’s not much of Muslim scholar/counselor around also. It could be very difficult to get help nowadays. Please continue this unplugged episodes of various topics. We need more availability of imams and scholars in-person and online for guidance, advice and help in marital and other counseling. JazakAllahu Khairan!
I appreciate the sheikh so much that he talked about the pms point, i am a testimony as a girl that during periods /pms a girl needs the man emotionally much more than other days
"Haram Marriage"... Subhan Allah, I never knew about this concept until now. It makes perfect sense. I'm saving this video to share with my children, and looking forward to future episode(s) on this topic. Jazakum Allahu Khairan, gentlemen!
I thought my handset lost the battery power but it was a portion of video which was mute JazakAllah brother in Islam nothing can me more wonderful than this a great input i hope the people will and married couples will rush to you Alhamdulillah it's great to see you talking about looking forward for more videos
😢😢😢😢SUBANAALLAH MY 16YRS OF PRACTICE AS A FAMILY LIFE COACH I PRAYED FOR THIS DAY,I WAS ATTACKED BY TEACHING SUCH TO OUR MUSLIM COUPLES BUT I ALWAYS HAVE IMMAN THAT ONE DAY IT WILL COME TO LIGHT....PART 2 IS NEEDED MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU ALL SHEIKS.
Thank you Shayukh, please do a part 2 and another series for divorce. I’ve had so many questions for so long and Alhamdulillah, this video answered a lot of it. I am very content with this video and the religion of Allah. Thank you once more for making me fall more in love with the deen.
@@ShWaelIbrahim But here's my question. What do I do if my penis is small, 4 inches erect, and I'm impotent. I'm 22, ill, depressed, because I cannot get married due to this reason to the girl I love. I have hypogonadism, it's a sickness that messed up my puberty but I'm not sure if my size will increase by treatment as I've passed the age of puberty. People say size doesn't matter but it does, I'm not even average size, I'm below, and women desire a hard and strong penis for sexual intercourse to achieve satisfaction. I used to say I don't want to get married when I was small child but now what do I do? I want to get married, I want have a halal marriage and have halal sex but I'm only 22 and I'm suffering. What do I do? I want to die. I'm asking my lord to grow my private part and make me potent as no medication has helped me at all. Please Sheikh, Please anyone, help me. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life, I don't want to die alone. I want to kill myself but I can't because this is haram.
@ShWaelIbrahim please let Mufti Menk speak. He has been cut off many times during this conversation and has remained polite, though he had many valid points he wanted to make.
We request more episodes on this topic in more details and please let Mufti Menk talk more please. Highly appreciate for bringing up this topic. This is very much needed.
I am not muslim. Im not even in a relationship, just looking to learn more about other cultures and landed on this video, dont understand much but its interesting, not what i expected id be watching.
I think there is no video as such in internet. Learn so much about such important topic in such a beneficial and blessed and transparent way. May Allah SWT bless you. I love the joke of Sheikh at the end" if you feel offended don't watch it, watch Kiyam Alayl" ...really refreshing to listen and learn from each one of you😊. Looking forward to your event in Zanzibar with Sheikh Hammuda insha'Allah. Hope he will be joining your great discussions in the unplugged
I'm a teenage and this part of islam is discussed with such a good manner I really appreciate your efforts and it was also really informative may allah keep us safe from wrong thing's we want a second episode........
I am a secular Christian, which in a spiritual landscape, is somewhere between Christianity and secular human culture. Many of these things are familiar to me from my parents congregation. Actually, to be honest with you, these men reminded a lot about the wise men of The Christian congregation I went as a child. I can see that they have wisdom and patience in their hearts. But I am also in the world and I know that some of these words are very troubling from that perspective. May God forgive our sins and bless us all with his wisdom and love. ,🙏
24:00 Women are in most need during their ovulation not pms (premenstural syndrome, not periods btw). This is also the time she most likely is going to be pregnant. (That's why the body wants sexual intercourse, so she can reproduce). Ovulation phase happens after about 2 weeks of their periods/menstruation. Also during pms women easily feel irritated because their emotions are going crazy due to fluctuations in hormones. So she will need comforting and understanding even though she doesn't understand herself sometimes. PMS happens few days before their periods.
I have been through that mess and whenever I spoken about it to my parents all I'm replied with is " to be patient " The more patient I was the more children I had, we ended up divorced I haven't remarried since.
Salaam Gentlemen. A very imporyant long overdue topic. As someone had mentioned before, this is a topic that must be dealt with before marriage. It is difficult for a woman, who has never had any form of desire before marriage, to understand the urgent needs of a man. And as long as she doesn't, the marriage is destined for disaster. What i would like to know is if a husband calls his wife to bed at an awkward time time, e. G. The small children are around or there are other young adults around who can overhear the couple, or it is on waqtu time, is the wife still obliged to see to his needs immediately?
It’s true spouses should please each other but like the sheikhs said if the wife is exhausted from childcare, working (whether external or domestic) all day etc she can refuse provided it’s not a deliberate habit Men should take note from that and help their wives out with cooking, childcare , work etc so she’s not exhausted
He never said she can refuse cause she is exhausted but the husband should be more understanding. You have to listen carefully and be careful to spread misinformation. She can politely say she can’t if she feeling sick there is an extreme situation not just ohh i went to work so I’m not able to today, she is not even required to work so that’s not an excuse. But like i said the husband can be understanding as well and let it go certified times so both should compromise.
AssalamuAlaikum Mashallah! I was born and raise as a Christian but when Allah guide me I embraced my Islamic Faith dig more the beauty of Sunnah of our Phrophet Muhammad (PBUH) Internalised the beauty of our Quran now I really understand the beauty of holisticly what is the meaning of Life the reason of being. May Allah grant us all in Jannatul Firdaus. Forgive us short coming. Jazakallah Khairun Shiek Mufti, Shiek Wael and Shiek Salah for helping the Ummah. Allahuma Ameen
The video is mute may be due to some reason but i got answer of so many questions in my head and so some reason i was not able to ask the local imaam i reverted to Islam long ago but believe me brother Wael Ibhrahim this video is absolutely amazing and answer to all my questions please keep it up
I was shared a story of a couple who are in their 70s now but when they married a long time ago the night of their honeymoon she denied him and never had intamacy with hime ever again.. i was in shock like how on earth can someone be so cruel..they are still married but he cheated a couple of times and i can attest they have both lost their minds in every way possible..such a sad devestating story.
I'm guessing it wasn't just the couple in the question who are responsible for this tragedy, but the overall societal structure that made solving the issue difficult if not impossible.
Asoa sheikh. Firstly JazakAllah for shedding light on such an important topic. I wanted to request an unplugged video series on the topic of; if a person is willing to quit the porn addiction, how can he do that and regain a healthy life(discuss the methods and ways). Because you told to get help from counsellor but not everyone has an easy access to a good one. If you also suggest a good diet for that, it’ll be also a great help. May Allah be pleased with us all and guide us all to the right path and bless us with health, iman and barakah in all aspects of life.
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu. I am not a professional yet, but if you don't mind, I advise you to look online and research things such as articles. Media is free, alhamdulillah, and there is a lot of advice and information out there that can help you. I believe that, at the end of the day, it all comes down to self-control and discipline. You must accept responsibility for your actions and not COMPLETELY put the blame on external sources (such as social media, the normalisation of porn etc). If you do not hold yourself accountable and admit your wrongs, it will be easy for you to keep finding excuses for your behaviour, making it harder to quit. Also, depending on where you live, some countries offer free counselling/medical advice. Try to seek that if possible inshaAllah. May Allah forgive you and make it easy for you, Ameen.
As an unmarried girl watching this, i would say that it made me feel so attached with halal tariqa mindset. Allah has made us do everything we desire in a halal way. Why then jump in haram for this. I appreciate all 3 scholars for opening up about this.
Salaams, maybe next time they can talk about young couples getting married who don’t know anything, maybe young men who are too hasty and harsh with their new spouses and young ladies who are afraid and aren’t ready. And also talking about this stuff with perspective spouses.
Assalamualaikum Am from Nigeria. And I will like to thank you Soo much for these effort. Among The issues here in my area is cleanliness of the body, miswak. If they always emphasize that the woman should be clean then why not also the men also. There's a lot that need to be addressed,. I only hope that these goes to those who really need it. Jazakumullahu bikhair. Alhamdulillah
Alhamdulillah. Extremely important topic. Sheiks, this is a service to Islam. Our beautiful religion does not shy away from taboo topics. Halal and haram are clearly defined, and every halal act with pure intention is an act of ibadah. Allahu Akbar.
Amazing talk ما شاء الله 🤲🏻...I have been following Mufti Menk for a while,such beautiful soul. Just finished his "stories of the prophets" highly recommend, very grateful for that. My only comment is Shiekh wael, easy on the mic. Plz. Give others the chance to speak or take turns or something. Lots of love to all of you brothers ❤
Thank you for this session. I am non a muslim and came along by learning Arabic. All the things about mutual relation should apply to all. Not only muslims.
Very informative and well explained, so grateful to all you three brothers for actually discuss and and explain everything simply and beautifully. Alhumdulilah bless you all. Aameen ❤️
Yes YES YES, please do more about this topic, I feel like there are more things that can be talked about. And can you please go in details with more of the rulings
Thankyou for the best episode Leaned alot of things We need more such episodes to educate all the people Very informative and educational episode Jazakallah. ❤️
Mash Allah thank you all for this video ❤️ Also can we please stop cutting off Mufti Menk. Habibi we want to hear his opinion as well. Allahumma Barik to you all❤️
Masha'Allah very informative. We need more discussions on this topic so i recommend some more episodes to educate our young generation who has no knowledge what is allowed and what is not in Islam, since there is no discussions by aur scholars on this topic so they watch and learning from nonbelievers.
This type of Video is so needed by Muslims we can finally learn in a modest way but still stating things clearly. May Allah swt reward you dear mashaeikhs.
Ya Akkhi that's a generous giveaway, especially at these times when nowhere to go and seek help this is great help to brothers and sisters how to thank you guys finally some one has gather a courage to talk about it openly this is the biggest contribution and only Allah can reward you for this
Yes there is a dire need and demand of part 2... Kindly do one more episode on the same topic... And kindly allow Mufti Menk to state his Ideas and recommendations properly.... Because the "mood" part has been missed in this video
I agree. I have been pondering with this question for a while and I have been depressed about it as well. Most scholars say it's haram to say no if she's simply not in the mood. But doesn't the hadiths say that she has to get equal pleasure as him? So if she's not in the mood, then how will she feel the pleasure? And sometimes the husband wants to do it way too often and it doesn't make her feel good
Man you have shaken me there is so much to learn and understand May Allah forgive my sins and this is eye opening reminder brother i request you please don't forget to upload more videos
this was AWESOME!!! May Allah preserve all of you and reward you for your good work and then multiply it. The ummah needed this video. Thank you barakAllahufeekum
JazakAllah Khair for covering this topic in a Beautiful Way, Very Educative & Enlightening video on Husband and Wife Intimacy Rights in Islam. Made me fall in Love with Islam even more. May Allah continually Guide us and keep us Muslims on a Straight Path, Ameen.
Salam to you all... May ALLAH unite you all in paradise like this. i"ve learn lots from this conversation. lots off issues are in married becz we not educated on it..... i hope you sheiks can endevaour and continue educating us.
I just got married last month and also still learning slowly about marriage life according to islam, each others duty, husband and wife rights and so on. Thankyou for the video, i have learnt new knowledge. I wish to see more of the videos like this so can we have better understanding in terms of marriage life and sexual life according to Islam.
Salaams, brief feedback. Really great episode. Important topic, and one that ought to be discussed without shame. As it's part of the fabric of being with each other. Great points raised, appreciate the wisdom of all three speakers. It's a tad annoying that RUclips seems to be cutting out small sections, so a note for you to be aware of. You have not been confrontational at all, rather with respect and gentleness approached an important topic being respectful of both parties. Especially loved the emphasis on how both sexes are wired differently, so key. The mention of balance and fulfilling base desires and the importance and point of marriage from this perspective, the right of each person to this in a halal way. All wonderful and beautiful important matters of discussion. May Allah bless you all for your good intentions and may this learning be of benefit to all those who need it. I look forward to the next episode.
JazakAllah khairan brother Wael to discuss with two big Sheikhs for discussing this very important topic which is the need of the hour. As alot of relationships are in deep waters and finishing cause of this reason. May Allah bless you all and us all to be on the right path and eases these issues. Aameen
Thanks Alot Brothers And keep it coming in the next episodes… We need it more than ever and May Allah guide us All and May Allah bless all three of you and the crew behind and the listeners Ameen♥️
Allahumabarik excellent video. Alhamduilah its good to hear such respectable beautiful Mahshaiek discuss these matters in a respectable manner especially with all these youtuber influencer brothers who speak in such fitly ways joking and laughing about these topics in such an un-Islamic manner. BarakAllahufekum looking forward to a part 2 :) In sha Allah!
Thank you for this. Can you please talk more about ways to protect one’s self when single? Esp for women, since just deciding to get married isn’t realisiticlly in our hands. Asking for a friend 👀
@@shaylamariahunfortunately this is the problem.. unmarried people still have desires and needs. We cannot pretend otherwise. Given this is part of human nature, my question how can we manage those needs appropriately without committing sin? And saying ‘go get married’ to a women isn’t an a practical answer because this is not how most cultures works. I know patience and Istighfar is part of the answer, but would still be helpful if they address this directly. Perhaps there are greater promises from Allah to people in these situations that we’re not aware of, and knowing them would help keep us more grounded.
@@rtu8054okay i see. it’s known that when you give up haram for halal, allah blesses you in ways beyond our imaginations so for now maybe just keep this in mind until you’re able to find an answer that better suits what you’re asking inshallah
@@rtu8054 but honestly, if you’re looking for ways to manage your needs find a halal outlet to take your mind off of it. it you sit on the idea for too long, jinn can easily enter the body
As a young muslimah, this topic needs to be discussed and to be made aware about. Thank you
for sure woman especially need it the most
@@ashdumpss3781aah… propably both of us need it the same but marriage isnt a competition or a battle there should be sakinah in the house
You need to study your deen Islam. These imams were not taught about this topic by their parents but rather they studied their religion Al Islam.please take responsibility and stop shifting to others for the matter parents.
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I took shahada 2 weeks ago, I'm a divorcee and single mother of 3 children... I'm so happy to have access to all this information,wisdom and guidance. May Allah bless you. I'm looking forward to hearing more from you. Many humble and happy thanks.
May Allah help and guide you even more❤❤Amin
Welcome sister and many many congratulations....may Allah guide you and help you further
Welcome to your Real life ❤
Welcome sister, may Allah bless you and bless you with a husband whose Iman will strengthen your belief and your children 🤲🏾
This is a HUGE problem in Pakistani and Indian Muslim couples. No one likes to talk about these important subjects which reaults in out of marriage relationships and unhappy lifes
Who told the elders about sex? They act all Innocent The men force the wife on the wedding night
Complaining of the unplanned pregnancies if it’s a girl
Bro, Indian and Pakistani cultures make no sense about anything. Let alone religion. 😂
Its just a modified form of feudalism
@@piqueny8872It's one of fear, the men should give some time to newly married bride to be comfortable
an good percentage amount of pak marriages are fasikh if I said it right, that they have lived 5+ years yet in islam the pact is not valid
That's actually to true. I feel like they try to keep u innocent minded but they don't understand that they are not educating us on our rights as woman . Same thing goes for menstruation. Everything needs to be a secret
If Prophet Muhammad SAWW talked and educated his companions about sexual life then why it’s so difficult for our Islamic scholars to talk about it… there’s so many problems in society bcz of sexual relationships between husband and wife. Scholars has the duty to teach what’s halal and haram and raised awareness about it specially in sceneries where people stuck in a marriage and fear to get divorced
True..! They're STILL Not Entirely comfortable talking about it... The other sheikh looked visibly defensive as soon as the host/ interviewer mentioned 'sexual...'.
Why?
What is this hypocrisy. Isn't this the biggest harm you've done to believing women??
Astagfirullaah..
You've Talked and preached about what women 'should be' and 'should not be', all these years...
Openly neglecting their existence as human beings capable of having sexual experiences rightfully.
Aren't you ALL responsible for the shame we carry???
You objectified us.
You created this perception that we are just things that should be changed and adjusted to suit the husbands and fathers and brothers needs.
What honour do we carry?
Why give us the burden of carrying your honor??
Can't you carry your own Honor..??
All those women who have been abused sexually, (especially by immediate family, including me, even today), can never believe a word coming out of your mouths,
we only believe in Allah. Not men.
We don't need you explaining the Qur'an to us. We don't need you at all.
Go to hell.
Hypocrites, took them too long....
please write peace and blessings be upon him fully
@jamila-y7o But she write it
what is wrong with you people, the Prophet delivered the message, there his work was done, but as usual rather than seek the Creator you seek guidence from men, The Prophet was just a man who was blessed with the task of giving the message to the Ummah the message is the 'correction' and yet all you people do is act like the people of the past and look to the past as if Allah will ask you about what they did? you will be asked about what you did and what did you do? you wasted time following men who create rituals to make you think you can transact your way to Allah. doesnt matter how many times you prostrate.
You need to study your deen Islam. These imams were not taught about this topic by their parents but rather they studied their religion Al Islam.please take responsibility and stop shifting to others for the matter parents.
Please!!!!! We need a part 2!!I’m a revert. I’ve been Muslim for 4 months. I’m still learning and I loved that this was very informative.
What you want to know??
Part 2 will be coming up around October Insh a Allah. Keep following this page Insh a Allah and other Mashayekhs too
Mashallah
with whole family or just u
Asalam alaikom sister. A friendly caution - beware of the men who will surround you like piranahs, and their women who will introduce you, and the pressure to marry, change your name, wear hijab and more. Take at least a year to grow into your new identity.
“Harm should not be inflicted nor reciprocated”
110% keep doing this type of video where it is in-depth and providing examples. As a revert, it is wonderful to see.
I am not Muslim, I am a Christian from South Africa. I came across this video by the grace of God I guess because I love listening to Muslim Scholars
It’s a very informative and eye opening video. Thank you Sirs
allahuma barik 🥰
MAy Allah guide you to The right path and being muslim
Im from south africa too my algortithm brought me here 😂
@@meygya9977You should still respect someone if they don't want to convert to Islam. Just saying
@@retroman5432yes we do respect… there is no one forcing anybody to revert towards Islam…
Mufti plz talk about girls who were ra*ed in childhood, about their trauma, healing, fear.
I was 5, it still haunt me. Although I’m taking therapy now. Still I’m afraid of men.
I am afraid of even my father and brothers. Plz don’t take me wrong I see all men as beast. No matter how hard I try. As i was abused by my Mahram my uncle.
What Islam says about us.
I want to get married now, I convinced myself after a long battle and struggles but still I’m afraid of men. How does it work in marriage, how my potential husband ll understand, that’s it’s not his fault, but I’m carrying scar from childhood.
Plz plz talk more, you know there are many like us but nobody talk about us. Even our mothers wanted us to keep quiet so that we won’t bring shame to family.
We suffer in silence whole our life. Only because suicide is haram I didn’t commit it. But there is no justice for us.
Only crying in silence and hoping to die soon.
@@Sara-nl6es InshaAllah we will address this next video.
So sad being female maybe I can feel your pain, May Allah reward you alot for your patience....If I suggest you sth I didn't moved through this situation but I also have sort of phobia ,It decreased alot when someone in love approached me
May allah make it easier for you sister the hardship you are going through...
Sorry to hear that ukhti....one of a young neighbourhood imam touched me in my private parts while teaching me quran when i was just 5 or 6....Eventhough that ,still haunt me to my adulthood,so i can imagine how serious your pain will be...But don't lose hope,not all men are the same and make plenty of duas to Allah to give u a righteous,loving spouse...May Allah give u all the strength and rewards for ur patience sis🥰🥰🫂🫂🫂
Assalamu Alaikum Sister, and to the other sisters in the replies. I am so sorry that such horrible things were done to you by men you were supposed to trust. Even those men who claimed to follow the Deen and then exploited an innocent child in this horrendous way. Lanatullah Alayhi on such predators lest they turn to Allah.
This pain is unimaginable for me, I cannot even bear the thought of going through something like this. But I can assure you my beloved sisters, those men are few and far in between, and you will get your justice on the day of judgement InshaAllah. But you should not let this trauma drive you to hate and fear all men. It is irrational to expect that all men would wish such visceral harm on you, just like if one/few women caused you harm wouldn't mean all women are evil.
There are countless, practicing, true Iman having Muslim men out there who outnumber such animals many times over. You have to have taqwah and tawakkul in Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala and take this leap of faith, and trust that He will align you with a husband who will do right by you in the truest sense.
Don't get me wrong, you will never find a perfect husband/wife because we humans are imperfect by design. It's very likely that the other person will not be 100% what you want. But that would not mean they would wish the same things on you like those lustful animals would. I sincerely wish that you all would receive the best partners fid dunya wal akhira.
You have one of the hardest tests I've ever seen. And I can assure you, the reward to get through this life with full conviction in Allah, will grant you such grand rewards, you would have not imagined such a thing in a million years. May Allah guide us all to what is most beloved to him. Stay strong for his sake
I wish I had access to these types of videos, by these highly esteemed and educated scholars of Islam, back in my time. It’s too late for me, but I’m glad that the youth of today have easy access to videos like these. May ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ grant hidayah to every couple, and may ٱللَّٰهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ reward the Shaykhs for making this video. أمين
Aameen Ya Allah
It's never too late !!!
Alhamdulilah
Aamiiin
Aameen
Please let mufti menk make his points barakallahu feek😊
The other person kept interrupting
Truly, we the young couple have so much to learn. When we are getting married, the elders are giving the girls all the advice ( how to fulfill their duties as a wife, but nothing for the husband). We need our SHEIKS to talk to men to educate themselves. Salaam
This video is highly needed in this time.
There must . . . A must. . . Seminars like this before marriage. It must be a requirement.
This is a huge problem in Pakistan. A big one. Men can always find a second, third woman but Pakistani women are "sacrificing" in these marriages resulting in dissatisfaction and frustration and unhappy marriages.
"I protected myself from Haram for what?" So accurate!
Jazakallahukhair for covering this topic.
u also have a right of divorce and if not than khula.Just ask ur parents if u dont want to live with ur husband.
@ABUBAKAR-yi8eg The divorce wouldn't be necessary if the husband just satisfied their spouse. Secondly, getting remarried is difficult, and the new husband may be the same. The problem is a societal problem, not an individual problem. Getting a divorce does not fix it.
@@bz.t2742 what u gonna do if he dosent satisfy uu?
@@bz.t2742 its not that husband dont want to satisfy their spouses rather they cant.So just take a divorce if u cant be patient.Its better than being in haram relationships.
@@bz.t2742 if new husband maybe the same,it means u are a turnoff.
Please stop cutting off mufti menk. We actually want to hear him the most
YES! , people arent noticing this
So true 😣👍
Lol Mashallah he is so gracious, polite, and in control of his emotions to let the others talk.
@@qtpie6263 speak for yourself lol. I’m so thankful the other scholar was also part of this conversation, he is very knowledgeable and seems experienced in teaching the religion.
@@Stargazing482I am not disputing the fact that the other scholar is also very educated and learnerd. I am acknowledging the fact that he just wants to take over the whole conversation and not give mufti menk an equal opportunity to speak.
Would love to hear more from mufti Menk. I feel like on some moments, he was spoken ontop of. He articulates things so well tabarakallah
I felt that too
MashaAllah, this is a much needed talk amongst all Muslims. I have been married for over 20 years and have dealt with some of the issues mentioned throughout my marriage. It is not easy. May Allah continue to guide us all. Ameen!
I'm a revert muslim Sheikh I’ve been waiting for this video from you and here it is. I highly appreciate you for covering the best info in this one video.The video is lengthy, but I’m glad that you covered the most part Alhamdulillah
Assalamualaikum Fatima
As a single Muslimah, I must say it was a very helpful video to understand the basics of physical intimacy of spuoses in Islam, the rights and the wrongs under the shadows of the Quran, and Hadiths, both shiekhs explained the topic well, I'm curious what could be in its next episode. May Allah bless you all, and may Allah grant us righteous spouses and forgive us all. Ameen Ya Rabbal Alameen!❤
Aaaaaaamine
I would still like to know what sheykh mufti menk wanted to say at the beginning when he was cut off 😅 but masha Allah for adressing these topics
Me too
Yea that annoyed me how he was cut off in the middle of his thought
He was cut off many times from the beginning right through to the end. It is disrespectful. Yet he remained so dignified, though he knew that he was silenced
We want to hear more from mufti menk too x
Please let mufti menk also speak 🗣️ ....we want to hear him more...or just organise questions for both of them differently
Yes, you're right.
Your are right
hehe yes
2 sheiks and scholars everyone will speak,, get not emotional open your mind
Just wanted to give a feedback. Getting a right scholar who has time to sit for even an hour counseling or mediation is rare nowadays. The number of cases that needs help from a scholar or imam vs the number of available knowledgeable local imam or scholar are not proportional. Scholars are rare to find and their time to help people in need is also very very limited. There’s not much of Muslim scholar/counselor around also. It could be very difficult to get help nowadays. Please continue this unplugged episodes of various topics. We need more availability of imams and scholars in-person and online for guidance, advice and help in marital and other counseling. JazakAllahu Khairan!
I appreciate the sheikh so much that he talked about the pms point, i am a testimony as a girl that during periods /pms a girl needs the man emotionally much more than other days
"Haram Marriage"... Subhan Allah, I never knew about this concept until now. It makes perfect sense. I'm saving this video to share with my children, and looking forward to future episode(s) on this topic.
Jazakum Allahu Khairan, gentlemen!
I thought my handset lost the battery power but it was a portion of video which was mute JazakAllah brother in Islam nothing can me more wonderful than this a great input i hope the people will and married couples will rush to you Alhamdulillah it's great to see you talking about looking forward for more videos
Lol! I was thinking the same thing. The voice is missing for some reason.
@@mdarifRRT i changed my headset twice but found the video was muted for some reason
They muted this so the world don't hear the primitivism of muslim men...
😢😢😢😢SUBANAALLAH MY 16YRS OF PRACTICE AS A FAMILY LIFE COACH I PRAYED FOR THIS DAY,I WAS ATTACKED BY TEACHING SUCH TO OUR MUSLIM COUPLES BUT I ALWAYS HAVE IMMAN THAT ONE DAY IT WILL COME TO LIGHT....PART 2 IS NEEDED MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU ALL SHEIKS.
You did an amazing job and you will be rewarded for that immensely. You have no idea how important these discussions are!
Thank you Shayukh, please do a part 2 and another series for divorce. I’ve had so many questions for so long and Alhamdulillah, this video answered a lot of it. I am very content with this video and the religion of Allah. Thank you once more for making me fall more in love with the deen.
Insh a Allah we will. Probably in October when we meet again Insh a Allah. So, stay tuned Insh a Allah.
@@ShWaelIbrahim
But here's my question. What do I do if my penis is small, 4 inches erect, and I'm impotent. I'm 22, ill, depressed, because I cannot get married due to this reason to the girl I love. I have hypogonadism, it's a sickness that messed up my puberty but I'm not sure if my size will increase by treatment as I've passed the age of puberty. People say size doesn't matter but it does, I'm not even average size, I'm below, and women desire a hard and strong penis for sexual intercourse to achieve satisfaction. I used to say I don't want to get married when I was small child but now what do I do? I want to get married, I want have a halal marriage and have halal sex but I'm only 22 and I'm suffering. What do I do? I want to die. I'm asking my lord to grow my private part and make me potent as no medication has helped me at all. Please Sheikh, Please anyone, help me. I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life, I don't want to die alone. I want to kill myself but I can't because this is haram.
@ShWaelIbrahim please let Mufti Menk speak. He has been cut off many times during this conversation and has remained polite, though he had many valid points he wanted to make.
We request more episodes on this topic in more details and please let Mufti Menk talk more please.
Highly appreciate for bringing up this topic. This is very much needed.
I am not muslim. Im not even in a relationship, just looking to learn more about other cultures and landed on this video, dont understand much but its interesting, not what i expected id be watching.
^-^ i invite you to read the quran. Give it a chance. Maybe Allah lead you here to give you hidayah
I think there is no video as such in internet. Learn so much about such important topic in such a beneficial and blessed and transparent way. May Allah SWT bless you. I love the joke of Sheikh at the end" if you feel offended don't watch it, watch Kiyam Alayl" ...really refreshing to listen and learn from each one of you😊. Looking forward to your event in Zanzibar with Sheikh Hammuda insha'Allah. Hope he will be joining your great discussions in the unplugged
I'm a teenage and this part of islam is discussed with such a good manner I really appreciate your efforts and it was also really informative may allah keep us safe from wrong thing's we want a second episode........
The PMS point that sheikh pointed out is legit, JazakAllah for sharing sunnah regarding it.
Alhamdulillah
Learned so many things.
May Allah give us barakha.
I am a secular Christian, which in a spiritual landscape, is somewhere between Christianity and secular human culture. Many of these things are familiar to me from my parents congregation.
Actually, to be honest with you, these men reminded a lot about the wise men of The Christian congregation I went as a child. I can see that they have wisdom and patience in their hearts.
But I am also in the world and I know that some of these words are very troubling from that perspective. May God forgive our sins and bless us all with his wisdom and love. ,🙏
Plz we need more of these unplugged sessions. It's very important and needed.
24:00 Women are in most need during their ovulation not pms (premenstural syndrome, not periods btw). This is also the time she most likely is going to be pregnant. (That's why the body wants sexual intercourse, so she can reproduce). Ovulation phase happens after about 2 weeks of their periods/menstruation. Also during pms women easily feel irritated because their emotions are going crazy due to fluctuations in hormones. So she will need comforting and understanding even though she doesn't understand herself sometimes. PMS happens few days before their periods.
But that's not the same for every woman
Some also find themselves in need during periods, too
They aroused more during menstruation
"They" "their", so you are not females? How can you say what a woman feels during her menstrual cycle?
100%. They got it completely backwards
They definitely need during pms emotional attachment is all girl wants mainly
46:03 I hope no one stays for the sake of the kids in a toxic/abusive relationship, pack your kids and go, Allah will help you raise them inshaAllah
I have been through that mess and whenever I spoken about it to my parents all I'm replied with is " to be patient "
The more patient I was the more children I had,
we ended up divorced I haven't remarried since.
Salaam Gentlemen. A very imporyant long overdue topic. As someone had mentioned before, this is a topic that must be dealt with before marriage. It is difficult for a woman, who has never had any form of desire before marriage, to understand the urgent needs of a man. And as long as she doesn't, the marriage is destined for disaster.
What i would like to know is if a husband calls his wife to bed at an awkward time time, e. G. The small children are around or there are other young adults around who can overhear the couple, or it is on waqtu time, is the wife still obliged to see to his needs immediately?
@@Luluu516so choose now to your experience which one is better the marriage or being single now
It’s true spouses should please each other but like the sheikhs said if the wife is exhausted from childcare, working (whether external or domestic) all day etc she can refuse provided it’s not a deliberate habit
Men should take note from that and help their wives out with cooking, childcare , work etc so she’s not exhausted
He never said she can refuse cause she is exhausted but the husband should be more understanding. You have to listen carefully and be careful to spread misinformation. She can politely say she can’t if she feeling sick there is an extreme situation not just ohh i went to work so I’m not able to today, she is not even required to work so that’s not an excuse. But like i said the husband can be understanding as well and let it go certified times so both should compromise.
We need to understand what is said and dont speak misinformation about islam
If the husband actually love and respect his wife, he would consider her needs as well as his own.
That’s true and man also should get another sister to help her
@@abdirahmanali2082you ment another wife ?
Since the video was longer than 10 mins, I suggest you create chapters, so people can skip or jump back to a topic. It'll be very helpful, Thank you.
Longer is better it
Means more information.
Yes! Insha’Allah they add timestamps so we can navigate the video better
Thank you. Islam is soo good. My Allah is so merciful and great.
ALLAHOUMA AMEEEN YAH RAHBI ALAHMIN
AssalamuAlaikum Mashallah!
I was born and raise as a Christian but when Allah guide me I embraced my Islamic Faith dig more the beauty of Sunnah of our Phrophet Muhammad (PBUH) Internalised the beauty of our Quran now I really understand the beauty of holisticly what is the meaning of Life the reason of being.
May Allah grant us all in Jannatul Firdaus.
Forgive us short coming. Jazakallah Khairun Shiek Mufti, Shiek Wael and Shiek Salah for helping the Ummah. Allahuma Ameen
The video is mute may be due to some reason but i got answer of so many questions in my head and so some reason i was not able to ask the local imaam i reverted to Islam long ago but believe me brother Wael Ibhrahim this video is absolutely amazing and answer to all my questions please keep it up
I was shared a story of a couple who are in their 70s now but when they married a long time ago the night of their honeymoon she denied him and never had intamacy with hime ever again.. i was in shock like how on earth can someone be so cruel..they are still married but he cheated a couple of times and i can attest they have both lost their minds in every way possible..such a sad devestating story.
They should have divorced each other
I'm guessing it wasn't just the couple in the question who are responsible for this tragedy, but the overall societal structure that made solving the issue difficult if not impossible.
Asoa sheikh. Firstly JazakAllah for shedding light on such an important topic.
I wanted to request an unplugged video series on the topic of; if a person is willing to quit the porn addiction, how can he do that and regain a healthy life(discuss the methods and ways). Because you told to get help from counsellor but not everyone has an easy access to a good one. If you also suggest a good diet for that, it’ll be also a great help. May Allah be pleased with us all and guide us all to the right path and bless us with health, iman and barakah in all aspects of life.
Check subliminals for that
You’re not serious you’re kidding.
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu. I am not a professional yet, but if you don't mind, I advise you to look online and research things such as articles. Media is free, alhamdulillah, and there is a lot of advice and information out there that can help you. I believe that, at the end of the day, it all comes down to self-control and discipline. You must accept responsibility for your actions and not COMPLETELY put the blame on external sources (such as social media, the normalisation of porn etc). If you do not hold yourself accountable and admit your wrongs, it will be easy for you to keep finding excuses for your behaviour, making it harder to quit. Also, depending on where you live, some countries offer free counselling/medical advice. Try to seek that if possible inshaAllah. May Allah forgive you and make it easy for you, Ameen.
Dschazakum Allahu khairan! Very beneficial balanced, needed talk and education! Please continue
JazakAllah Khayr Brothers Alhamdulillah, this is lots of wisdom. Purely Quran and Hadith(Sunnah)... Ma'sha Allah ❤
Great video well said
May Allah bless the muftis
Please make part 2
Alhamdulilah I commend the brothers for speaking on topics like these including Hadith disciple. They are giving needed information.
ماشاء اللہ
So good and nice way to say all these things wisely, look at the noor on their faces ماشاء اللہ ❤
Rare video we need more discussion like this 🙏
As an unmarried girl watching this, i would say that it made me feel so attached with halal tariqa mindset. Allah has made us do everything we desire in a halal way. Why then jump in haram for this. I appreciate all 3 scholars for opening up about this.
Salaams, maybe next time they can talk about young couples getting married who don’t know anything, maybe young men who are too hasty and harsh with their new spouses and young ladies who are afraid and aren’t ready.
And also talking about this stuff with perspective spouses.
Please talk about specifics of what we can do and what we can’t do with our spouse and vice versa.
As far as I know anything except for anal sex or sex during menstruation
Assalamualaikum
Am from Nigeria. And I will like to thank you Soo much for these effort. Among The issues here in my area is cleanliness of the body, miswak. If they always emphasize that the woman should be clean then why not also the men also. There's a lot that need to be addressed,. I only hope that these goes to those who really need it.
Jazakumullahu bikhair. Alhamdulillah
Thank you for mentioning it because society focuses on the hygiene of women but they rarely mention to men how to take care of their hygiene
May Allah protects us all from all harams and evil eyes. And keep us all on the right path. Aameen
Alhamdulillah. Extremely important topic. Sheiks, this is a service to Islam. Our beautiful religion does not shy away from taboo topics. Halal and haram are clearly defined, and every halal act with pure intention is an act of ibadah. Allahu Akbar.
Amazing talk ما شاء الله 🤲🏻...I have been following Mufti Menk for a while,such beautiful soul. Just finished his "stories of the prophets" highly recommend, very grateful for that. My only comment is Shiekh wael, easy on the mic. Plz. Give others the chance to speak or take turns or something. Lots of love to all of you brothers ❤
Very important topic but please allow each one to finish his comments because you were cutting off each other too much. may Allah bless you.
Thank you for this session. I am non a muslim and came along by learning Arabic.
All the things about mutual relation should apply to all. Not only muslims.
JazakAllah for this. But i wish Mufti Menk wasnt interupted so much 😕
Indeed I need this video for long time don’t know finally got it may reward you all thanks lots
Sheikh you solve 50 percent of my questions
Very beneficial video please make part 2
Very informative and well explained, so grateful to all you three brothers for actually discuss and and explain everything simply and beautifully. Alhumdulilah bless you all. Aameen ❤️
Shiekh your channel helped me alot, in overcoming so many things in my life. I love you for the sake of Allah swt. 🫶🏻
Jazakumu Allahu khairan, we're anticipating more from you sirs.
Masha Allah, what a beautiful and respectable discussion on marriage and intimacy. JazakAllah respected Shuyookh
Thanks for making a video like this, I have had no information and no one even talked about it
Yes YES YES, please do more about this topic, I feel like there are more things that can be talked about. And can you please go in details with more of the rulings
Thankyou for the best episode Leaned alot of things We need more such episodes to educate all the people
Very informative and educational episode Jazakallah. ❤️
Mash Allah thank you all for this video ❤️ Also can we please stop cutting off Mufti Menk. Habibi we want to hear his opinion as well. Allahumma Barik to you all❤️
Masha'Allah very informative. We need more discussions on this topic so i recommend some more episodes to educate our young generation who has no knowledge what is allowed and what is not in Islam, since there is no discussions by aur scholars on this topic so they watch and learning from nonbelievers.
This type of Video is so needed by Muslims we can finally learn in a modest way but still stating things clearly. May Allah swt reward you dear mashaeikhs.
Thanks
Ya Akkhi that's a generous giveaway, especially at these times when nowhere to go and seek help this is great help to brothers and sisters how to thank you guys finally some one has gather a courage to talk about it openly this is the biggest contribution and only Allah can reward you for this
This video was necessary for us muslims to learn islamic rulings regarding intimacy between spouses in islam instead of falling into wrong things.
Yes there is a dire need and demand of part 2... Kindly do one more episode on the same topic... And kindly allow Mufti Menk to state his Ideas and recommendations properly.... Because the "mood" part has been missed in this video
I agree. I have been pondering with this question for a while and I have been depressed about it as well. Most scholars say it's haram to say no if she's simply not in the mood. But doesn't the hadiths say that she has to get equal pleasure as him? So if she's not in the mood, then how will she feel the pleasure? And sometimes the husband wants to do it way too often and it doesn't make her feel good
Such a beautiful talk... not graphical at all. May Allah reward all of you.
Man you have shaken me there is so much to learn and understand May Allah forgive my sins and this is eye opening reminder brother i request you please don't forget to upload more videos
this was AWESOME!!! May Allah preserve all of you and reward you for your good work and then multiply it. The ummah needed this video. Thank you barakAllahufeekum
The most important topic to talk about.We are waiting for the next episode.really appreciated.JAZAK’ALLAH
JazakAllah Khair for covering this topic in a Beautiful Way, Very Educative & Enlightening video on Husband and Wife Intimacy Rights in Islam. Made me fall in Love with Islam even more.
May Allah continually Guide us and keep us Muslims on a Straight Path, Ameen.
Salam to you all... May ALLAH unite you all in paradise like this.
i"ve learn lots from this conversation. lots off issues are in married becz we not educated on it..... i hope you sheiks can endevaour and continue educating us.
Please make episode 2 it was sooo good, jazakallah kayar
Jazakumullahu khairan for this video.
I just got married last month and also still learning slowly about marriage life according to islam, each others duty, husband and wife rights and so on. Thankyou for the video, i have learnt new knowledge. I wish to see more of the videos like this so can we have better understanding in terms of marriage life and sexual life according to Islam.
Please kindly watch this video entitled nikkah khutbah by imam Abdul .n.Aziz shafi
جزاکم اللہ خیرا
Salaams, brief feedback. Really great episode. Important topic, and one that ought to be discussed without shame. As it's part of the fabric of being with each other. Great points raised, appreciate the wisdom of all three speakers. It's a tad annoying that RUclips seems to be cutting out small sections, so a note for you to be aware of. You have not been confrontational at all, rather with respect and gentleness approached an important topic being respectful of both parties. Especially loved the emphasis on how both sexes are wired differently, so key. The mention of balance and fulfilling base desires and the importance and point of marriage from this perspective, the right of each person to this in a halal way. All wonderful and beautiful important matters of discussion. May Allah bless you all for your good intentions and may this learning be of benefit to all those who need it. I look forward to the next episode.
Thank you very much who help a lot of people,Can you do part 2 about family planning in islam
JazakAllah khairan brother Wael to discuss with two big Sheikhs for discussing this very important topic which is the need of the hour. As alot of relationships are in deep waters and finishing cause of this reason. May Allah bless you all and us all to be on the right path and eases these issues. Aameen
Mashallah sheikh. Really appreciate it. I just got married and this was really helpful
THANKS, for enlightening us... and i want to have as much information as can
34:00 no sound
Thanks Alot Brothers And keep it coming in the next episodes… We need it more than ever and May Allah guide us All and May Allah bless all three of you and the crew behind and the listeners Ameen♥️
Need more episodes on this subject. Jazakallahu Khiran Allah Bless you all, Aameen
Masha Allah very educative may Allah reward you with the highest of jannah
Allahumabarik excellent video. Alhamduilah its good to hear such respectable beautiful Mahshaiek discuss these matters in a respectable manner especially with all these youtuber influencer brothers who speak in such fitly ways joking and laughing about these topics in such an un-Islamic manner. BarakAllahufekum looking forward to a part 2 :) In sha Allah!
jazak'Allah kheir for such an important topic usually not taught by parents. May Allah give us tighyous spouses and the coolness of our eyes. Ameen!
This was such a needed discussion,very informative. Especially coming from scholars; couples will understand their is no shame in these topics.
Thank you for this. Can you please talk more about ways to protect one’s self when single? Esp for women, since just deciding to get married isn’t realisiticlly in our hands. Asking for a friend 👀
protect one’s self in what way? if you’re not married this topic doesn’t really apply sister
@@shaylamariahunfortunately this is the problem.. unmarried people still have desires and needs. We cannot pretend otherwise. Given this is part of human nature, my question how can we manage those needs appropriately without committing sin? And saying ‘go get married’ to a women isn’t an a practical answer because this is not how most cultures works. I know patience and Istighfar is part of the answer, but would still be helpful if they address this directly. Perhaps there are greater promises from Allah to people in these situations that we’re not aware of, and knowing them would help keep us more grounded.
@@rtu8054okay i see. it’s known that when you give up haram for halal, allah blesses you in ways beyond our imaginations so for now maybe just keep this in mind until you’re able to find an answer that better suits what you’re asking inshallah
@@rtu8054 but honestly, if you’re looking for ways to manage your needs find a halal outlet to take your mind off of it. it you sit on the idea for too long, jinn can easily enter the body
@@rtu8054 fasting