The 'Soft Boy' Epidemic
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- I'M ARTSY :(
Today, we look at the phenomenon known as "soft boys". The dudes who act like they're artsy and emotional for their own personal gain. With a little help from the @beam_me_up_softboi Instagram account, we take a closer look at these fellas, and try to stop...The Softboy Epidemic.
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UR ARTSY HUH????????
let me know if you want me to make a part 2!! thanks for watching!
Kurtis Conner make a part 2 please
Kurtis Conner love u king would love a part 2!!
Kurtis Conner do a soft girl version
Ye part 2 would be great
please :(
"They look like they would play the guitar but they probably can't"
That's it, that's the actual definition
"they look artsy, but probably don't do any"
But i do play the guitar, am I still a softboy?
The female version of this is those girls with mooshroom haircuts, glasses, that have and ukelele and plays “ somewhere over the rainbow”
@@natasha0599 nah, they can't do anything either
@@natasha0599 don't you mean "cant help falling in love with you"
"I'm not a softboy, I'm a hardboy"
*- Kurtis Conner 2019*
Jay K yaaaaaa
I understood heartboy :(
I´m disappointed
That energy carried into 2020
I too, am a hArdboy
I'm a non-boy. *because im female*
Rose: Draw me like one of your French girls.
Jack: hOw aBoUt I dRaW uR aURA.
Best comment ever hands down
I asked a boy if he went to the gym and he said, “I don’t work out my body. I work out my brain.”
They're telekinetic and go to the gun to lift weights with their brain.
@@Schnort i too go to the gun to work out my telepathy
And then you see him telekinetically lifting weights with an "I'm taking a dump" look on his face
I love to hear him explaining about how a "soft" boy looks like when he actually looks like a soft boy.
My thoughts exactly lmao
He mentioned that you dummie🙃
yeah he mentioned that lmaooo “i know what it looks like, but I AM NOT A SOFT BOY”
Ikr
Except I'm attracted to him and not to soft boys I mean what
“They look like they could play the guitar but probably can’t” the accuracy is astounding
560 likes and no comments lmao
@@IanKava ruined it aaaaaa
@@edwardharder3312 trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Nice pfp lmao
I don’t like that he made fun of me there
The soft boy and the “I’m not like other girls” girl are made for each other
If they only dated each other we’d be totally free of them. No more fb memes about chicken nuggets or dms filled with indie song lyrics sounds like paradise
@@taliesinfox5901 HAH
taliesin fox bro... I thought ur profile pick was dajjal XD
Yeah, it sounds good on paper, but you just described "100 Shades(Days) of Summer", and I think we can all agree, it didn't work out too well for them.
Yara is awesome aha it’s just some old artwork of mine
i met a lot of soft boys in uni, especially as a creative writing major with an emphasis on poetry. soft boys LOVE joining in classes thinking they'll impress the girls with their shitty off the cuff poetry, heres a hint: no one was impressed. and critiquing the work of a soft boy is hell and it never ends
am starting my masters in creative writing soon lmao should I be worried
Was starting to get scared until you mentioned poetry 🤣
Fr tho fuck poetry it's long novels based on bullshit adventures I make up in my head all the way
Are those the guys who write in aggressively purple prose? Because I’ve mostly been blessed as a CW major but I think I’ve workshopped some guys like that.
i know a couple of softboys in my uni, who think they're smarter and woke than everyone else. A couple of the other guys would make fun of how they would answer every single question that the lecturer would ask about the course, and i would chuckle along 😂
@@ijk9492I mean if youre doing it for yourself it's not really anything bad. The classes themselves arent the problem, its just the specific people they talk about here
"They look like they play the guitar but probably don't"
so simple, yet so true
ArChIkEnS
Ikr!
anyway here's wonderwall
I don't look like i play the guitar but i do, what am i supposed to be then?
Oh so when guys dress like that they’re softboys, but when i do it i’m a lesbian?
So be it
Yes
I mean it's lesbian culture
I do it too
I thought you were American
Equality matters, guys
A "soft boy" once made a move on my friend. She's definitely not into him, but being the soft boy that he is he send a pic of him crying and said some shit like "I'm crying for you" or something and let me tell you I have never cringe and laugh so hard
That happened to me too omg and istg i cringed so hard
So did he get the friend? 😂
@@anyakirana4906 I felt so bad for my friend for her to get through stuff like that
@@johndelorean7353 nope. dude tryna act like he's making shit right by telling her to reconcile w her dad and everything and literally playing victim all the goddamn time. Dude was so problematic lmao
Haha omg 😆
I’ve got a soft boy trying to hit me up rn and recently asked me if I’ve ever been in love. When I told him no (because I’m barely an adult and he’s in his 20’s) he told me how devastating that was for him to hear and just how utterly heartbroken he was for me. It was condescending, it was manipulative, and it was really, really annoying. 👻👻
lol what a creep ...he should be devastated about the state of his brain..
@@emic2590 HAHAHA
welcome to the life of an aromantic
They r such male manipulators
"911 what's your emergency?"
"I got shot in my house"
"Where do you live?"
"The moment."
UNDERRATED COMMENT ^^^^^
XD
getting closer!
PFFF-
Imagine getting shot in the m o m e n t . That's so deep. ✊🏻😔
nice guy: *tips fedora*
soft boy: *cuffs pant*
Hotel: Trivago
This triggered my fight or flight
fuck boy: *gels hair*
wait is this a coincidence!!!1!1!!
you said "tips fedora" and fall out boy is in this video and patrick stump wears a fedora oh my god!!!!!11!!1111111!!!!!
*i am forcibly removed from twitter*
Petition to make Kurtis the new softboi of twitter
he already is
sIgNeD
Soft boys always try to hit you with the “you’re not like other girls, you actually have a personality” and it always bugs me because I think it’s so wrong to open up something with someone why comparing them to other people. It’s also putting me on a pedestal I’m uncomfortable being on and the whole “relationship” I am trying to chase after this standard they’ve set for me. It’s sooo manipulative, they know you just want attention and validation and they like trick you into thinking they’re the source of it (as you can tell I’ve unfortunately fell for it).
"Attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines, that look like they haven't slept in *ever*" They also all have the same two to three haircuts.
And they sort of look like you Kurtis.
LEGIT
He's playing that anti- softboi but actually softboi no game game. Hidden in plain sight man. We gettin covert in here boiii!
but noah cents of nero is neither attractive nor does he have a jawline, a chin or neck ..
If you look like you’re one cigarette away from dying, you’re a verified soft boy
Olivia J my favorite comment lol
*takes a smoke*
*Cheeks start inverting*
Steve buscemi?
and/or, one cigarette away from appearing in an adaptation of a John Green book
I'm a female soft boy in that case.
the way they confidently abuse the english language is so special and so upsetting
bm 66 to be honest, I didn't really understand most of words that they used, and... I was kind of happy for it XD
just sayin tho, english isn't always someone's first language. but i know what you mean.
English isn't my first language but even I cringe at how they murder it with their grammatical errors and misspellings.
Why did u say they, he’s one person lmfao
it's the way that you just KNOW they used a thesaurus app to make themselves sound more intelligent and fake having a strong vocabulary, but didn't bother checking to make sure they're actually using the words correctly or correct any possible grammatical mistakes
Damn my definition of soft boy was completely wrong. I thought it meant like. A boy that’s more openly feminine. Like idk I imagine a boy wearing pastel pink clothing and a flower crown
That’s a soft boy to me.
That's a femboy you're thinking about
@@SunshowerWonderlab theres some overlap between the two but that was what a softboy was before it got hijacked like this
@@SunshowerWonderlab lmfao
--Why did I think of Basil.--
@@gasterthemaster6490clothes
Kurtis describing a soft boy was really just him roasting himself
No, he likes Shrek 😂
I was like ok white boy cheek bones jaw line looks tired. Isn’t that what I’m looking at
4:23
Who commented "here" where he asks if you have encountered one?
lonelywinterbooks lmao
Basically women want Kurtis Conner. He’s funny, he looks like a soft boy but is actually a good dude, and he’s got the best hair.
Gabrielle Is always singing
lmao jokes on you, I'm a lesbian
I agree
my life is a gay meme
lmao jokes on you, im gay
Yeah
That’s correct
Kurtis making it clear he’s not dissing the white boys of the month bc he knows he fits the curly haired skinny tired look perfectly
i know that this comment probably won’t be seen by most people but i kinda just want to say that i’m very very grateful to kurtis for making this video as when i first watched it, i was kind of a softboy. i watched it when i was 13 and i was super pretentious about both movies and music and some of my online behavior wasn’t quite as cringe as this in hindsight i was a massive asshole to people. this video kinda made me change myself for the better and i’m really thankful for kurtis for making his video
One Kurtis Connor video can change a life 💯
Good on Kurtis and good on you. Keep living a good life lad.
WEEZER AVATAR BASED
soft boys are always looking for a manic pixie dream girl and when they realize she has actual mental health issues and isn't just quirky, they leave
100% true. And the fact that people are surprised that mental health is a real issue is just so sad. They’re almost always the same people fabricating their reputation using self-diagnosed illnesses but go speechless when they learn that mental health isn’t something for show
God damn right
PERIOD!!
Oof 😅 the accuracy 🥲
What also sucks is when the soft boy thing got around my school, a lot of boys never showed emotion because they didn’t wanna look like a soft boy which fucked up their mental health. If there was a list on hurtful trends, soft boys would be in the top 3.
in case you haven't noticed:
i'm weird,
i'm a weirdo.
i don't fit in
and i don't... wanna fit in.
have you ever seen me without this stupid hat on?
that's _w e i r d_
w e i r d
Riverdale oh no
i hate how i know where this is from.
I hadn't changed my clothes/diaper in the last 2 years, I'm...
I'm a weirdo, a quirky, different girl, nobody understands me...
Who are you talking to?
soft boys talk like they're trying to meet the minimum word requirement for an essay
Oh damn, apply cold water to the burned area
hahaha true
Get ready to read paragraphs in your dm:))
LMFAO
Don't women with any intelligence sniff them out?
Kurtis's little speech at the end about being genuine and attracting the right kid of people is FACTS and I love it so much.
“Yeah I’m into indie music, ever heard of Harry styles”
This particular comment got me actually wheezing for some reason.
"I only appreciate true arthouse cinema... ever see Saw?"
he literally made the video bruh come on
@@dumbass9049 lol what
LMFAOOOO
"Oh god, am I a soft boy?"
*Sees the first text.*
"Yeah, no."
Stick-It Productions. Hahahahaha tight
Fr
Related
LMAO
Soft boys is just the male version of "I'm not like the most girls"
I've never heard anything more accurate
This will be used for research purposes, bless your soul.
Yeah. But I'm not like other girls, so soft boys are, like, alpha males to me.. so...
I'm getting jerm not vibes
less garbage (slightly)
i love how Kurtis’ description of a soft boy is just the same as describing a stereotypical bisexual
This is late, but it was the cuffed jeans and Doc Martens XD
@@TheYoungKilljoyvery fucking late man
Also, your profile picture is- wilbur soot- you should know everything about soft boys
@@iexist6677 i do, at least i know that they get turned on by their reflections in passing cars /ref
@@TheYoungKilljoy you have the same last name as my friend
“Attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines...” boi thats u
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im knew here and i swear hes talking bout himself
Apple Lynch he is legit just looking in the mirror and describing himself
that looks like he hasn't slept in...ever
Maya Bergersen don’t forget the curly brown hair. he was literally describing himself lmao
The biggest irony is Kurtis looking exactly like a soft boy making this
kittysrock16 LMAO EXACTLY EHDJEND
kittysrock16 He IS a soft bOI
kittysrock16 he’s a hard boi
kittysrock16 trueeee
the softest soft boi
i love kurtis describing twitter boyes and just completely glossing over the fact that he's describing himself
I know 😭💜
i was just thinking the same :D
Asher R. Except he has a better personality
Actually he mentioned it at 4:25 you must’ve glossed over that.
Kiana Alexis BOOM
"arty" is military jargon word for "artillery"...so that still works here. IE, these guys are aiming from far away, firing repeatedly, and then once they hit they move on to the next target.
this does not have enough likes 😭😭thats fucking funny
"Yeah I listen to really unknown music, you ever hear of Bohemian Rhapsody?"
I don't even know what music is, bruh.
The first time I tried online dating, a guy I chatted with hadn't heard of it before. So I sent him a link to the song and he said he didn't like it at all. Basically, a guy lost interest in in me because of Bohemian Rhapsody. It was weird.
@@ninawth my girlfriend thought that the song Bohemian Rhapsody was written for the the movie, until I told her it's more than 40 years old
Oh god, that was me when I was 13. I thought I was soOoOo unIqUe and Not LiKe oThEr gIrlS for liking Queen...
YoshiThe1st it’s that old already? wow-
"Hes got cheekbones and looks like he hasn't slept, dishelved hair"
...kurtis that's you
EX FUCKING ACTLY
RIGHTTTT
but hes not a soft boy, hes a hard boi
I actually think that’s cute oof I guess I’m part of the problem
sAme ^
boy: soft
pants: cuffed
arctic: monkied
docs: martened
emotions: played
Hotel: trivago
birds: boxed
hair: greasy
me: depressed
Yee: haw
since there was the one that said "you look like a sociopathic mess and i love it", i kinda wanna rant.
i hate that people are glorifying mental illnesses, like some people saying "I'm such a phychoooo" like ok, even if thats a personality type and not an illness, its not just criminals that kill people and love blood. It's a personality disorder and its not cute.
its good to talk about any mental illness, lets say depression, its okay to talk about it, but not glorify it and talk about it like "i love people who have it, thats so cool", its something you need to try to solve and get rid of
I totally agree with you.
I don't know why people think thats cool 🤧
you can love someone who HAS it but loving someone only because they have it is super weird and romanticizing something that is a struggle for most, totally agree with you Thine
That last part is just flat out wrong by the way, don’t ever say that to anyone
I was with you until the end. You can't get rid of mental illness there's no cure for them just types of treatments that help you deal with them.
Psychopathy/Sociopathy actually rarely have anything to do with murdering people.
The vast majority of people with those disorders (which make up 1-2% of the population) are very normal seeming people who live pretty ordinary lives.
The whole psycho killer stereotype is pretty much only a movie trope.
kurtis: i can’t stand people who say yesteryear
also kurtis: says “court”
Lets be real: Kurtis cant really talk shit about any of the things people say when he makes as many awful puns as he does.
"attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines and look like they haven't slept in forever.."
Kurtis honey...
who gon tell him...
@@sleepysnjomen1707 :(
LITTERALY
Who's gonna tell him.
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING LMAO PLEASE
Soft boys: I use big words to make myself sound more photosynthesis
Shushhh MITCHONDRIA IS THE PWORHOUSE OF THE CELL
Yes and u know my face is very germinating
Why did this kill me
This made me funny
I feel very pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis right now
I've never encountered a soft boy but in my youth I dated a pedophile and an emo boy. Then recently a country boy and I've realized dating is just not for me
oof massive yikes, hope ur doing well these days
a soft boy once corrected my pronunciation of my own name
prema reyes I would kick him in the shins....like I do when people correct me on my last name.
@@wittyblonde6728 people do this to me and it's ridiculous
LOL WTF
prema reyes dude I hate it when people do that, once in like 7th grade my teacher corrected me in pronouncing my name and I wanted to punch him right then and there.
Mansplaining
bold of you to assume you won’t still be bullied
em AHAHA
HAHAHAHA
LMAO
DUM DUM DUM lmao
*"I'm not an e-boy, I'm a skater boy. See, e-boys get girls. I get bullied at school."*
i love that video
what is that video?! i need to watch it
we all know that sk8r boys get the most girls
g r a c e kNOws WhaT yoU dID ...i wish man
did she say see you later boy?
so im transmasc and I pass quite well as a cis man and for the LONGEST time I'd act just like this because in my head I thought ''if I got a straight woman to have a thing for me then wow I would feel really euphoric" so I made my whole personality like the romance side character in a teen Disney movie and it was a huge burden on me, eventually I cracked and became emo so idk which is worse honestly
soft boy is worse definitely
emos are cool!!
"Attractive white boys with cheek bones and jawlines that look like they haven't slept in like. . . Ever." Do you guys wanna tell him or shall I?
Zelda o you can I don’t want to upset him
lol
Zelda o I don’t understand
Tommy Phelan kurtis basically described himself without realizing
shit
i just realized how old this video is, almost 2 years old. it's yesteryesteryear
Yesteryearyear
Year before yesteryear
yesteryear once removed
It'd have to be ereyesteryear lol. Fun fact, ereyesterday is the official English term for the day before yesterday.
Its already learning to walk 🤧
"I listen to only underground, ever heard of gangnam style?"
Yeah but have you heard of this is the best burrito ive ever eaten?💔🥀😣✊
GANGAM STYLE-
OMG!
That was a kpop reset lol!
@Tegan Louise ,BTS was the way for me to know that PSY was a Kpop artist-
@@lejindaryarmy948 SAME- Idk why but I thought he was speaking English when I first heard it- I legit had no idea what kpop was.
@@lejindaryarmy948 same😂😂
I know this video is 3 years old but I simply must weigh in as 34 y old woman ,,, this was just art school boys in 2010s …every tactic . How many times someone asked me “ do you wanna paint together “ or something like that and they just wanna f*** 😮😊
‘you could come and read at my place’ sure man im on my way 🙄
@@countesscrows 😂😂😂
4 years ago now 😭😭
my parents live in kurtistown
but i live in the moment
My parents live in the moment
But I live in Kurtistown
What an icon omg
so who's gonna tell him
guccistylinson lol you go first
Not me
we should have an intervention
honestly
“kurtis uhm-“
White ✔
Boy ✔
Skinny ✔
Curly hair ✔
Looks sleep deprived ✔
Tattoos ✔
You boutta be the next white boy of the month, Kurtis.
You forgot tats!
espressodepresso HDBDBBD FUCJ
@@madisonhall3052 oh shit added it thanks
And he has a checkered phone case, busted.
espressodepresso also the nose piercing
I feel called out, man. I'm an artist. I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I like to talk about my emotions. I wear vans and doc martins and I cuff my jeans. But that's because I'm *_bisexual_* okay? I'd never try to manipulate anyone by pretending to care about their emotions or using flowery language to impress them. If I'm into you it's because I genuinely like you and want to know how you're doing.
Same
cool, nice, ok
...uh, so, you're saying that you have all of that characteristics just because you're bisexual? That sounds really, uh, superficial, like someone not bisexual can't be like that.
@@kittypeanut4102 you said what i wanted to say but i didn't know how yea the way they put it doese sound superficial almost stereotyping
@@kittypeanut4102 The cuffing your jeans thing is what they mean, it's sort of a meme that all bi people cuff their jeans
can’t believe you got birkenstocks and doc martens confused that’s so funny
mckenna k birkensdocs
BIRKENDOCS
AHAHA
"I'm not like most girls" epidemic is dying out. Now the "I'm not like most guys" epidemic is rising.
Unfortunately nah. They rise and fall together, and feed off of each other.
LOL no its not it's still going strong on r/notlikeothergirls.
Finally
Societies are changing!
What has our society become?
A soft boy messaged me on instagram and said, "you look like someone who I could be sad with"
McKenna Jarrell You’re not THAT ugly
Damn, it does sound poetic, though
KränktOLedsen Morot that’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever said
McKenna Jarrell Congrats
kikiTHEalien I’m pretty sure I said something like that when I was twelve on my Facebook
the name for these types of boys has got so literal, it’s just male manipulators 😭😭
“brown curly haired skinny white boy who looks like he hasn’t slept in days.” sounds a little familiar kurtis...
Ikr the irony.... Hmmm
You forgot the tattoos
MISSION FAILED WE’LL GET EM BACK NEXT TIME. Would probably be his reaction to this comment
@floofy buttercup lmao what
@floofy buttercup actually, you were the pick me all along
Kurtis: “they’re attractive white boys who look like they never sleep”
Also Kurtis: is an attractive white boy who looks like he never sleeps
Omg i was thinking exactly this
literally lmao
lol oh no awh
IshmaelDoesStuff my thought exactly
IshmaelDoesStuff i mean tbh the white boys of twitter are pretty average and thats what makes him eligible
Attractive, white, cheekbones, jaw lines, haven't slept... Kurtis I love you but I think you're describing yourself
Don't forget the curly hair too lmao
@@otterhaus *curly brown hair
Curly hair is for fuck boys 😂
judi cjudie curly hair is for people who have curly hair what stop curl shaming 😤
@@judi7548 no u :( *sobs in short curly brown hair*
I'm in art school... that's like their natural habitat. Fascinating type of person really. In my experience they all wear earrings and worship Quentin Tarantino.
Pants: Cuffed
beanie: on
Me: a weirdo
Hotel: trivago
harry: louis
zayn: liam
niall: horan
sorry i‘m weird
Soft boys are emo but like
yellow
Why does this make perfect sense tho
^agreed
i hate how much sense this makes
Perfect description
why do understand this perfectly
Kurtis having “beef” with Noah centineo gets me every time.
666 likes rn
1,000th like
2.6k likes. Nice.
@@Imscaredofeverything *growl*🐺🥀🌕
F Noah Centineo he knows what he did
“Things I don’t care about: *Palestine* “
😬 Yikeroonie
right lmao like how are you a zionist and a self proclaimed soft boy, pick a struggle
i was looking for this comment 😭 especially in what, 2019??? whenever this video was made?? what edgy points were they expecting to get for that 💀
“attractive white dudes with cheek bones, jaw lines, and look like that haven’t slept in like... ever” ...so like- you? cuz..-
trve
I was reading this as he was saying it
@@enderdude13 I'd have him
Fetus deletus abortion completus I need to make 30 new accounts to like this reply
Kurtis is actually really really hot. Granted no under eye circles, which isn’t a must lol. His nose ring is cute too.
”did your dog afterbirth on your head” is such a strange way to roast someone's hair but it was certainly effective
Certainly
Certainly
Certainly
Certainly
Certainly
kurtis roasting himself for 15 minutes
no one's arguing
Agreed
Kurtis: “the extra greeting is a kurtis guarantee
Also kurtis: *forgets greeting*
noah scented mayo is just another breed
scented mayo. never heard that one before
I skimmed over this really fast and read “mayo” and breed and my brain thought “Oh, Noah is bread?” So yeah. Noah Centimeter is another type of bread.
Noah Scent of a Woman
@@superstellarhere I read your reply and somehow forgot breed was a word I thought you were trying to spell bread it took me a sec I’m so done
@@hannahtimmons4097 Me too bud, me too
Kurtis you meet literally every standard of a Twitter soft boy
i thought the guy in your pfp was completely bald since his bangs are the same color as his skin
Pucci’s Skin Care Routine I’m CACKLING
@@chaennibal7108 about to be with the amount of hair dye put into his hair every month
@@chaennibal7108 please tell my Pucci's skin care routine I need to look my best when I reset the universe
Pray to the lord!
I don’t know why this was recommended to me but, I like this young man.
“Fall out boy-s” 😂💀
Griffy!! Appreciate your content man, keep going 👌
LongBeachGriffy love you Griffy!
Love you griffy. No homo tho
SMASH
My dude
This video helped a lot of people not be a bad person. I don't know if Kurtis realizes that, but it helped me be a decent kid. Good job Kurtis, you saved a lot of teenage girls from a lot of discomfort.
police:911 what’s your emergency?
you:someone is in my house
police:ok,where do you live?
you:i live in the moment
HAHAHAH 😂
999nth like 😏
911: sir- that’s deep, how old are you?
You: fourteen
Chris Hansen: why don’t you take a seat?
Police: well, what address is that?
You: in my feelings lane
95% of those softboy texts:
Someone found a thesaurus and it shows
When Joey found the thesaurus feature and wrote Chandler and Monicas adoption recommendation letter
@@jessicahoward9046 baby kangaroo tribbiani
Like 949😎
Yeah,
I use extravagant words
From time to time
And have random enters
In everything I type out,
But at least I know
How and when
To use them.
Haha, the only thing that shows is their lack
of the ability to apply those words properly.
"attractive white dudes with cheek bones and jawlines that looked like they havent slept in ever"
hmm... sounds kinda like yourself kurtis...
I was thinking that asdfsgdhfj, I like the soft boy aesthetic but if their personality is fake then they dont deserve attention asdfsdgdhfjgjk
Hcgsfushkdfusgks
he trying to be the alpha soft boy smh >.>
Curly hair?
Cheek bones?
Jawline?
Haven't slept?
That's you bby
Hotel? Trivago
Im sorry I had to
My exact same thought 🙏😄
He's not a soft boy he's a hard boi
@@soha5538 God, it's not even funny anymore. So overused
curtis really created this video KNOWING DAMN WELL HE IS A SOFT BOI
he's literally saying the descriptions and i'm waiting for him to make some witty joke like--HEYYYY but it's not happening. where is it??? i'm scared.
jk. literally played the video and there it was. we good.
I watch weird indie shows, like you ever heard of the office
Edit: thanks for the likes, I’m also into this indie band called AC/DC, there really underground
Have you heard of adventure time it’s so underrated and weird
I was a weird kid i watched this unpopular show Hannah Montana
regular show was so quirky and odd I doubt you’ve seen it
I started to watch this quicky underrated show, have you heard of the spongbob square pants?
Dude, ever heard of like.. Peppa Pig?
these are the kind of people who probably make/share ✨ aesthetic depression moodboards✨
“i'm into indie music, ever heard of Ludwig van Beethoven?“
omg no way! my fave musician is Ling Ling (if you know this reference i’ll cri 😂)
Ik that reference but I’m not Natálie
@@iman1246 yooo ling ling wannabes unite (tho i'm not a musician lol)
Oh I am but I haven’t done my practise yet 😯
@@sarahanditakarina1726 LING LING WANNABE AYYYE
Softbois are just F Bois that figured out what emo and manipulation means.
Azriel fuck boys know how to manipulate soft bois just know how to spell the word
THEY'RE EVOLVING
Wow. I actually didnt know im that until i read your comment. I go for the emotions, not the body, and most women actually fall for me. Then we would have sex, then I would just leave.
Soft Bois is being used wrong it's mostly used by fandoms to describe members of certain groups or soloists. These American guys are f*** boys that are acting out cute guys in films that girls like or fangirl over e.g. Cole Sprouse/ any model/ 90s celebs etc
yo this dude fucks
“Any kind of boy, you can find them on the internet”
Me, an intellectual: Except Amish boys
Underappreciated comment omg A+
Beg pardon sir?
yee yee
this is my favourite comment hahahaha
Me, a soft boi: North Korean boys
kurtis trying to describe soft boys while trying to deny he is one; best video on the internet.
“yOu kNoW tHiS bAnD caLLeD tAmE imPalLa”
@@whitetailmilitia ok that was good
@@whitetailmilitia nice!!!!
YOU KNOW THIS BANG CALLED *GRANDSON* ?
eVeR hEaRd Of ThE sTrOkEs?
@Some annoying person they’re a pretty popular band, I don’t listen to them though
sorry cant talk im watching scott pilgrim, smoking mid, and soul searching
STOPP LDDKKDKDKD
dont @ me like this
@@TayLor-Aloe yes she did
Dead
kurtis: *gets a damn haircut*
Everyone: *Stops the bullying and starts calling him a s0ft boi/calling him cute*
You know the EXACT reason I clicked on this video was to find a person with a BTS pfp. Jackpot for me because it's Chim Chim.
@@rabbiqaAyyyyy, welp you found me lol
Uhh kpop fans in kurtis conner vids is the best thing ever!
@j 3 i know bts fans are getting cringer by the minute
@@jelkalamawy8563 ikr
When he mentioned the Birkenstocks I started crying from laughing so hard cause my dad owns a pair 😭
soft boys are basically the character that timothee chalamet played in lady bird
-kggo ........ ummmmm loud
YES
he hadnt lied in 2 years abdhasbdkj
he nutted so damn fast in that movie lmaoooo
Jillian P fr poor ladybird 🤣
“Yeah I’m into indie bands, ever heard of Gorillaz?”
Have you heard of blur. It's such an underrated indie band. Doubt you've heard of it.
ever heard of the neighbourhood? yeah I thought so
Yeah, duh. Nah I'm like *really* underground stuff dude. Please tell me you know the Beatles? You probably don't they're pretty low-key
@@ethanhogan2463 Legit had someone actually tell me that. Said I probably haven't heard it and played Hey Jude, one of the Beatles' most popular songs. Then proceeded to rant about how music isn't as good as it was back then while having a Panic at the disco and Hamilton poster.
@@raspberrycrowns9494 Holy shit that's hilarious
Kurtis looks like he has a british accent
bruh-
see where ur coming from
that's an insult
@@kestalami how
@@misnomer6345 British "people" are not something you should aspire to be
kurtis this is an old ass video and this is an insane comment but i suffer with really horrible intrusive thoughts so your videos really help me distract myself from them!! thabk you
I feel like this is an invitation to make Kurtis the White boy of the month
he already is, for me
He could be
Sameera Beidas White boy of the year
Yes pleaseeeee
“Yeah I like indie bands, ever heard of Twenty One Pilots?”
Dude, check out a little band who go by the name of The Killers. They're indie music's best kept secret. Thank me later...
@@tintomara6209 wait are you being sarcastic or fr😭?
@@wiseweirdo9254 I have absolutely no sense of irony...
No but have you heard of BTS
Dude have you heard of We The Kings?
"im not a soft boy,, im a HARD BOY" - kurtis conner, 2019
One of my headmates uses the term softboy in a completely different context for himself. He's just super gay and a little femme, but he's one of our anger holders dude. He just uses the term to refer to how he dresses. **Shrug** but nah weve never actually encountered someone like the way youre describing before. this just sounds like niceguy hipsters lol.
Plural pride!