THATS ME BUT INSTEAD OF CRUSHES AND KISSING ITS JUST : Me: peacefully sleeps Brain: finally shuts down Alarm clock: hello b1tch wake up. I just wanted to remind u that in *1 hour* you're going to have to wake up and take your math exam.
Me : Aight imma sleep Brain : yawns * I am gonna shut down too Meanwhile .... Me : Come over and have dinner at my house ! My crush : ok fine I guess ? Me : feeling holy molly at night Finishes eating together My crush : let's go outside somewhere people don't know I-I need to tell you something Me : tHiS goNnA bE hoLy My crush : I love y- Alarm clock : Buzes * Buzes * Buzes * Me : tf damn this alarm clock just ruined the most perfect dream of life YEETS ALARM CLOCK * Based on a true story 1 year ago
3 years ago I developed a crush on a girl I was so obsessed that I looked up her name on social media, tried looking up her address, and see where she hung out. I'm glad she didn't know I did any of these things. I unconsciously did all these things and it was terrifying when I snapped out of it, I had to end that crush. I'm glad that I snapped out of it and ended that crush because now I am more self-aware and in a better mental state in fact this is the best I have ever felt about myself since I was a cocky kid.
how to know if your crush is unhealthy: 1. they don't exercise 2. they don't bathe 3. they don't sleep 4. they don't eat 5. they lick the ground 6. their favorite food is laundry detergent 7. they have 1000+ hours on a game yep i'm not funny
I developed a crush on a girl, but then she started dating someone and I kind of got jealous, then they broke up. I'm getting over it though because she is out of my league.
I used to have a crush on a girl and we both knew it, back in 2018. They were lesbian and we're already with somebody else. Now though, the other person moved to Thailand and the girl I had a crush on told me she wasn't actually lesbian and wasn't really attracted to the other girl as much as for her personality. Now I am getting feelings for her again and I wonder if I should make a move. But last year I was extremely down for half a year because I found out she was lesbian and she couldn't date me. So I'm not sure what to do..
I crushed on someone who is 3 years older than me and he's already in a relationship but now I don't really care about him anymore and that's such a relief ahhh
i’m facing the same problem but he’s 4 years older then me and we actually have a few classes together so i see him everyday. how did you get over him because i really don’t want to feel this way.
I knew a girl that ended up having a crush on a boy. This boy was a introverted geek, but for some reason, she liked that he was "mysterious". I wouldn't call him a 'bad boy' , but, the boy wasn't reciprocating her feelings. And this continued on for her entire high school life. Maybe she saw something in him that I didn't, but she didn't end up moving on to try new people and was stuck in a loop. (Thankfully, this didn't stop her from having a good high-school life, but it sure felt like it was a thorn in her side)
Tam_0146 I wish I could but I am a wimpy person who refuses to even walk up and just say hi to him ;-; I see him in multiple places I go to on a regular basis and I see his name because many people I know have other people with his name and now I am depressed. ;-; although I was kinda depressed before so whatever
“If you find yourself following your crush around, creeping on their social media profiles and generally just worshipping them, then you’ve probably developed some unhealthy thought patterns” *Marinette Dupain Cheng this one’s for you*
I've been watching NCT 127 - Regular nonstop, and I wonder if I have an unhealthy crush on NCT. Do you have a crush right now that you want to ~secretly~ tell us about in the comments? ;)
@Ella Bilge *Seriously? I'm not saying this to offend you. But- you're going to need a lot of therapy. And, guess what else, my friend? Nobody is perfect.*
Crushing or not crushing on someone is not in our hands really,however it IS in our control that is for sure! I have some tips/suggestions to stop crushing on ur crush!🙂... 1) Get urself really busy,take part in new activities,make ur daily routine so busy that the only time u get free is literally for dinner n then sleep! Also note even if u don't want to join new activities etc,u have to,even if u don't feel lyk it,this way na,ur mind will get so busy that eventually u WILL move on (cos u won't allow ur mind to think about ur crush)!😏 2) Be safe flirty with all girls/guys (safe flirty means for example compliment everyone but don't make it seem flirty to em,but FEEL flirtfull urself when u do so),for example u could say '' I'm in love with ur clothes WOW!😍" instead of saying "Hey I love ur clothes babe!😉" This is helpful because when u be safe flirting,u will start to feel alive, without feeling guilty,as u will feel that u don't need ur crush to outshine ur sweetness (many atimes we deep inside want our crush to know that we r amazing,sweet,kind)! Also by doing this,a time will come when u will feel that u could fall for someone else,if u allow ur self to do so! Make sure tho that ur safe flirtyness is honest, meaning compliment honestly when u feel lyk it,not cos u think u have to! Safe flirty is genuinely to be done if u find someone attractive in general but feel they r not ur cup of tea in someway or another either! Be careful not to mislead anybody's feelings,safe flirting should be done with super caution!😌 3) Love urself n focus on ur well being,when u love urself,true love finds u,n by true love I don't necessarily mean a partner,I mean u will for sure find out that the only person who deserves ur true love is u urself,n urself deserves ur love in return,once u realize this,u would become the cake with frosting that only needs to be decorated but ur yummy even without the decoration, meaning ur enough for u,n if someone comes into ur life,the person is only a bonus in ur life,n that the person maybe a part of ur life to add extra beauty,but the person is definitely not ur life,n ur just as good even if the person is not part of ur life,ur STILL a very yummy cake!😛❤️ 4) Allow ur heart to accept the fact that life doesn't only revolve around ur crush,for example instead of focusing on ur crush most/all of ur time,u may instead switch ur thought to that there r people who starve n r hungry,n all I'm thinking about is my crush?! This way u will feel a sense of shame that there r more deep important matters to think about n look at me,I'm letting my mind wonder about someone who I probably can not be with,n look at me I'm purposely wasting my time (this feeling of shame is good for u)!🙂 Thanku!❤️
Same. I had a crush on this girl and she started dating someone and then the crush went away. I just.... I can’t interfere with that. I think my brain is too nice for that lmao
I’m terrified of developing obsessive feelings towards people bcs I have OCD and a past of obsessive behavior and this video definitely helped, thanks!
I think I have ocd according to this 😂, but I get obsess over anything I find interest in or had a info being crammed into my brain for it to replay the scenario or an imaginary one over and over again 🥲
I'm 15, I remember what my mom told me when I was 11, "Don't get into a relationship unless your 18+ because it probably won't last long since your at a young age and don't fully understand the concept of love" Of course that's not exactly how she said it, but I'm still using that advice
I wouldnt agree. You want NON SEXUAL relationships even if they dont last. Your first relationship is always clingy and hurts. You need to have relationship experiance before settling into a serious one when your older, otherwise you could get clingy with a controlling person and just stick it out. I seen that happen. Just remember the important thing is dont have a sexual partner till you are 1. Of age.... 2. Find a person that deserves it and you are ready!
Remember lifes not a fairytale. There is no princesses or prince charming. And story book 1s love dosent exist unless your the 1 in 1billion that truely gets lucky.
4. When you have a crush on someone who treats you poorly this!!! most kdramas have these stupid plot and the second male leads usually are more deserving
You know what sucks? When people who are already in a relationship kinda hint towards the fact, that they would've chosen you, if they weren't in a relationship now. And those who aren't end up being the abusive type (number 4) or are completely obsessed with you, even though it doesn't fit at all. I really, REALLY got some mental breakdowns thanks to this, and it still goes on today. Sometimes, I'd like to know what the f I did in my life to deserve that kind of treatment. Love just happens, but in my (and probably some others) case, it goes wrong in every possible way *ever*
Am so sorry but in a way am envious u lowered ur standards and expectations from love cuz when that person that treats u like an absolute king/queen comes along and loves u unconditionally...hell the feeling is inexplicable fr so don't give up on the whole right love thing
@@thatonepinkdwarf Wish I could say things changed a lot, but the only thing that changed is that I don't have abusive people anymore. The rest is the same. Obsessed person, but is the most boring person ever. Like, REALLY boring omg. Got rejected by the most beautiful and pretty much perfect person I know and the desperate boring person is still after me. I can't do this anymore man, it's beyond ridiculous. It's so ridiculous, that my brain can't comprehend this shizz anymore. It's not that I really am desperate for love, but I also don't want people to crawl at me at the age of 30 and act like they always wanted me. If that happens, then I'll be very mad. I'm not a worthless POS who can be picked out of desperation, just because they didn't get what they wanted...
@@Adeyum64 ngl ik it might feel impossible and a bit unrealistic with today's society pressure on relationships and craving affection and I don usually say this but have u tried takin time off like genuinely not evaluating everyone in ur life if they wud be good if they r compatible w u and stuff and just livin in ur own bubble sorta
Types of unhealthy crushes: 1) Car crushes 2) Airplane crushes 3) Boat crushes 4) Elevator crushes 5) Train crushes 6) Bike crushes Edit: I'm adding any other unhealthy crush you put down here
the one thing ive learned is the closer you get with them in your mind, the farther they get from you in real life. They wont be able to supply the expectations and fantasies youve made because love grows, and if it goes too far with one person, the other cant keep up.
1. Crushing on someone who's already in a relationship. 2. Crushing with someone who's way too young or old for you. 3. When a crush becomes an obsession. 4. When you develop a crush on someone who treats you poorly. 5. Crushing on an EX 6. Crushing on someone in a long distance relationship when you're not used to it. 7. Crushing on someone when you're already in a relationship.
2, 3 and 6 sadly happened to me. I had a crush on Ashton Kutcher. I remember dreaming about him and wanting to kiss him in the lips. Even though we had a 26 year difference, I still thought he was super hot in Just married. Now I feel embarrassed about it, and keep blaming myself on why I just can't like normal guya and not celebrities.
@cooler than u umm that type of stuff exist irl, and is what inspied manga and anime writers. most grade school crushes where ppl teasing each other because they liked the person.
Having a crush on someone who is 12 years younger and lives on the opposite side of the world. No idea if the person is in a relationship or not. Life is complicated.
Cello Potter for real, like the girl I’m dating right now I started crushing on 5 years ago, like if they are married, they are out of the picture, but she was just dating and I was there to help her
XtaZz lmao I keep wishing for that to happen in my case but I keep telling myself, “no!! Don’t wish for that it’s just mean even though I really like him” T^T life can be cruel at times
@@terkanovakova9531 it is legal, although each state has their own "age of consent". A 16yr old and 24 yr old could technically date, but if their state has an age of consent of 18, some activities between both individuals could not be done. I'm not sure of the whole country though, since I dont live there
Clythe I’m not 100% sure about this but there is a group of laws called the Romeo and Juliet laws. Basically as long as they’re at least three years apart and one is an adult it’s all good.
No, its only illegal if the age gap is big, if the age gap is like small, then thats fine. If its like a 30 yr old guy and an 18 yr old teenager, *Oh hell nah*
I had a crush on a boy. He was sweet and caring, but when he found out I had a crush on him, he turned 180 degrees and became a mean jerk. And also my friend informed me that he got a new girlfriend. I think that was pretty unhealthy. 🙃
@@quixotic3377 thanks! will do keep that in mind!!!! The present guy whom I have crush on seems like God to me!! Wth!!! And I don't know how to stop feeling like that 🤣🤣
@@sushpatil3115 well thx for answering... and np. My history teacher told us this, so shoutout to him lol. Oh and btw sorry if i made any mistakes... english is not the language i was grown with.
I had a friend who I guess I just annoyed... He is in one of my classes and has the same lunch as me but... I got kicked out of my honors class and had to rearrange my schedule, now I think he's in more of my classes. Awkward AF I'ma go die now.
I can confirm that crushing badly on someone who lives very far away from you, doesn't love you back in the same way, loves another guy and tells it to you, AND has suicidal tendencies, is defintely torture. I have been through that myself... (And I get really obsessed which makes it a lot worse...)
Ikr?! When you have a crush but you didnt tell a friend and your friend and your crush start dating each other... I wonder if that's unhealthy, having a crush on a someone before someone else but you didnt make a move so someone else takes your crush and you start dying on the inside...
As someone who had a partner who started crushing on someone else, fucking TELL THEM IF YOURE NOW UNINTERESTED. IT FUCKING HURTS SO MUCH TO KNOW THAT YOURE BEING LED ON. THEY BECOME COLD TOWARDS YOU AND PUSH YOU AWAY AND IT HURTS SO JUST FUCKING SAY SOMETHING. please. you’ll do them a favor.
There are a few exceptions to this! For example, in polyamory, if all people involved in a relationship consent to everyone dating everyone, jealousy or crushing on someone is more a thing that needs to be talked about or worked out with your partners, to see if there's a clear cause or solution or any objections to a new Integration into the relationship. For example, I have a boyfriend and another partner. We are all dating each other freely. I've just recently confessed to a crush of mine, and I'm hoping to make dating official soon. There's nothing wrong with this, because all parties consent and know about all parties.
ngl even in a monogamous relationship it might be sensible to tell your partner about you having another crush. Definitely depends on how you personally think they'd take just the fact you feel that way. But still imo better than working out that crush or jealously or anything with yourself. Communication is super important in any kind of relationship after all.
Why I like my crush: He hates me He reminds me he hates me every day He barely shows any interest in me Lives 9478272938383874 miles away Has a girlfriend
Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship could also cause you to have hatred for the other person out of jealousy. It happened to me before. I hated this girl just because she was dating my crush. She’s actually really fun and nice.
I've been studying behavioral psychology for a bit now and I watch this stuff to give me a break from my constant studying with.. more studying? This video will inevitably help me help my friends with their crushes. Big cool
Glad you love it! What did you like most about this style and have you seen our other video on types of healthy crushes? ruclips.net/video/3sg38cbvxQI/видео.html
Do you have a crush on any musicians/idols? I have a crush on EXO #dontmessupmytempo. 😊❤️❤️
Psych2Go same✊🏻😣
Psych2Go Same :|
BTS, EXO, Nct & Stray Kids 🤧💗
*coughs* BTS
AAAAAA same
“Age is just a number”
...
court is just a room
is law justice or morality?
Prison is just a free home
Quoc Hung Tran inmates are just friends living amongst you.
Hello World. 911 is just a number but that’s pretty important
Jail is just a place
Video: "Don't be obsessed."
All the people here: **nervous sweating**
Me:shakes uncontrollably
I'm having Anxiety!
Same XDDD
Ho no
I just laughed😂😂
“Crushing on an ex” bold of you to assume I’ve ever dated anyone
I love your profile picture
I am a trans man myself 🏳️🌈
Same girl
•Andrea _ Rogers•
I’m a boy
Ashton Everett saaaaameee!
i was gonna comment that lmao
Me: Kisses crush
Crush: Kisses me
Alarm clock: *I’m gonna ruin this man’s whole dream*
THATS ME BUT INSTEAD OF CRUSHES AND KISSING ITS JUST :
Me: peacefully sleeps
Brain: finally shuts down
Alarm clock: hello b1tch wake up. I just wanted to remind u that in *1 hour* you're going to have to wake up and take your math exam.
I just had this dream last night.😭 now I can't stop thinking of her and I'm shy to see her again this weekend
Omg yes😭
Umm u stole this dude wtf
Me : Aight imma sleep
Brain : yawns * I am gonna shut down too
Meanwhile ....
Me : Come over and have dinner at my house !
My crush : ok fine I guess ?
Me : feeling holy molly at night
Finishes eating together
My crush : let's go outside somewhere people don't know I-I need to tell you something
Me : tHiS goNnA bE hoLy
My crush : I love y-
Alarm clock : Buzes * Buzes * Buzes *
Me : tf damn this alarm clock just ruined the most perfect dream of life
YEETS ALARM CLOCK *
Based on a true story 1 year ago
8. Having a crush on someone who doesn’t exist
Senpai ??
Mhm xD
Oof
Lmao ME TOO
QwQ this makes me sad ;-;
me: hmm... are my crushes unhealthy?
*remembers that i'm really only into fictional characters*
me: no i'm just pathetic
ThisIsFrog RELATA-FRIGGIN-BLE
SAME
ThisIsFrog same
ThisIsFrog its ok
Ur not the only one
ThisIsFrog epy boys hmmm
"when a crush becomes an obsession"
Me: *I'm gonna pretend I didn't hear that*
@Music Addict me and stephen Amell
Me and Rouxls Kaard
Me and Rosé from South Korean Kpop girl group BLACKPINK 😅
I used to had a crush on a boy, until when I fall in love with him, I realized he had a girlfriend so I knew it was unhealthy and hurtful😢
Me and my uncle
i feel like almost all of us started to chuckle nervously when they mention that crushing obsessively isn't good for you
true
Forreal
I mean you have a miraculous pfp and that show is kind of the pinnacle of that /lh /j
That's my friends if I show them this not me cause I'm living the life out here not liking anyone 😎
All crushes get obcessive
"Can you think of a time when you've had an unhealthy crush?"
*ALL THE TIME* .-.
도도야 ARMY
Ikr same
There is no such thing as a healthy one.
Crushes don't ask permission from the crusher or crushee.
“When a crush becomes a obsession”
7 year old me: laughs nervously and tucks away picture of Raven from Teen Titans
What lol
Ha ha!!!
lol
FELT 💀💀
Pfft-
*realizes I know have an unhealthy crush on psych2go*
We have a crush on you too $:
👉👌
✔
Careful
*considering that multiple people work on this*
Oh no
*Many people are typing*
3 years ago I developed a crush on a girl I was so obsessed that I looked up her name on social media, tried looking up her address, and see where she hung out. I'm glad she didn't know I did any of these things. I unconsciously did all these things and it was terrifying when I snapped out of it, I had to end that crush. I'm glad that I snapped out of it and ended that crush because now I am more self-aware and in a better mental state in fact this is the best I have ever felt about myself since I was a cocky kid.
what if they have snapchat and it shows all of that to you? thats not bad right 😥
how to know if your crush is unhealthy:
1. they don't exercise
2. they don't bathe
3. they don't sleep
4. they don't eat
5. they lick the ground
6. their favorite food is laundry detergent
7. they have 1000+ hours on a game
yep i'm not funny
ThisIsFrog this actually made me laugh
That's actually funny I get it...
100th like
well, I have 4000+ hours on a game! hah!
):
I agree with all of them... except the last one. Gaming is life. X3
Is RUclips trying to tell me something
Maybe
Yes
I KNOW RIGHT
Its a warning
RUclips is trying to tell me I'm abused, depressed and over all just a lone wolf who has no crush and is horny because I couldn't experience love
1. Crushing on someone who’s already in a relationship
Me: oof
Literally me
I developed a crush on a girl, but then she started dating someone and I kind of got jealous, then they broke up. I'm getting over it though because she is out of my league.
@@leafychild5179 Duuuude me to. Except the guy that I like is still dating his girlfriend
@@madisynjeansonne2653
Oof.
I used to have a crush on a girl and we both knew it, back in 2018. They were lesbian and we're already with somebody else. Now though, the other person moved to Thailand and the girl I had a crush on told me she wasn't actually lesbian and wasn't really attracted to the other girl as much as for her personality. Now I am getting feelings for her again and I wonder if I should make a move. But last year I was extremely down for half a year because I found out she was lesbian and she couldn't date me. So I'm not sure what to do..
I crushed on someone who is 3 years older than me and he's already in a relationship but now I don't really care about him anymore and that's such a relief ahhh
If I ever had a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship I would immediately try to get over it, and I’m pretty good at it
@@inkfernado9114 yeah I'm so over him rn ig I'm pretty good at it too
@@thevatharshinitiruchellven8902 that’s nice
I am in the same exact situation but the verb “crushed” is in present tense and the word “don’t” is erased 🥺
i’m facing the same problem but he’s 4 years older then me and we actually have a few classes together so i see him everyday. how did you get over him because i really don’t want to feel this way.
*when a crush becomes an obsession*
Me: *deletes entire gallery*
Same XD
Yess😂😂
Thats so me
Same
OMG ME
Age is just a number
and jail is just a room
Fbi wants to know your location
Flamebro13 you’ll never take me alive!!!
LOL
Rem! Rem! Rem!
lmao
Age is just a number.
*And jail is just a bad hotel*
Κώστας Ξενοφοβικός oof
And the inmates are "rougth neighbours"
Lollllll
Hell is just a sauna
@@dontperceiveme3025 true.
I knew a girl that ended up having a crush on a boy. This boy was a introverted geek, but for some reason, she liked that he was "mysterious". I wouldn't call him a 'bad boy' , but, the boy wasn't reciprocating her feelings. And this continued on for her entire high school life.
Maybe she saw something in him that I didn't, but she didn't end up moving on to try new people and was stuck in a loop. (Thankfully, this didn't stop her from having a good high-school life, but it sure felt like it was a thorn in her side)
lmao that girl sounds like me with all my crushes
"Crushing on someone who treats you poorly"
Literally every "Falling in love with my bully" on wattpad and gacha life says hi-
And literally every Tsundere ever
Lmao, those belong on
r/nothowtheworldworks
velxourvivi oh my god so trueeee XD
And yea thats the truth
Lol
"Crushing on someone too old or too young for you"
*FBI has entered the chat*
Lol
FBI:I'm Interested
Pysh2go: I know sometimes these work
FBI: OPEN UP
XD
aGE is jUSt a NumbEr
Maybe someone's crush Is here watching this video.
If you've thought this, maybe it's time you talk to them.
Tam_0146 I wish I could but I am a wimpy person who refuses to even walk up and just say hi to him ;-; I see him in multiple places I go to on a regular basis and I see his name because many people I know have other people with his name and now I am depressed. ;-; although I was kinda depressed before so whatever
Nah, he's at work.
Tam_0146 nooooo nooooo noooo nooo no! I’m not saying anything to my unhealthy crush besides i only thought it because you said it
@@charbychu6113 keep your head up!
Tam_0146 no im not that brave lmao
so u telling me its unhealthy to be in love with my english teacher?
lesbians: **sweating**
"Age is just a number"
Actually age is a word
Edit: I think some of y'all are taking this comment too seriously.
It's just a joke
Word is just a word?
The documentary
@@lose_somebraincells2578
Yes
Word is a word
@@Megamorg07 the worlds mystery has been solved
That’s like saying the floor is just a floor
@@lose_somebraincells2578 i told my brother the same thing 😃🔫 we almost died
“it’s better to not like someone way older or younger than you”
my celebrity crushes:.......
Omg Billie Eilish
And a friend of mine is now obsessed with Timothēē Chalamet and tried making a rap about him tf lol
Colby brock tho 👌
@@idkutellme-rp9qe bald guy
Green Cappy ?? U mean bad guy
Jokes on u my crushes can’t hurt me bc they’re all fictional.
TRUEEEE
So true
So true lmao xD
XD
eyyyy lmao x'D
“If you find yourself following your crush around, creeping on their social media profiles and generally just worshipping them, then you’ve probably developed some unhealthy thought patterns”
*Marinette Dupain Cheng this one’s for you*
I've been watching NCT 127 - Regular nonstop, and I wonder if I have an unhealthy crush on NCT. Do you have a crush right now that you want to ~secretly~ tell us about in the comments? ;)
Psych2Go I love NCT 💜💜💜
Myself
I've never had a crush.
hi i have a crush on like 20 fictional characters
Jaehyun is making me, a proud Mark biased, feel confused. That's the power of Regular.
I KNOW ITS UNHEALTHY BUT THE REAL QUESTION IS HOW TO *STOP CRUSHING*
@Ella Bilge
*Seriously? I'm not saying this to offend you. But- you're going to need a lot of therapy. And, guess what else, my friend? Nobody is perfect.*
Crushing or not crushing on someone is not in our hands really,however it IS in our control that is for sure!
I have some tips/suggestions to stop crushing on ur crush!🙂...
1) Get urself really busy,take part in new activities,make ur daily routine so busy that the only time u get free is literally for dinner n then sleep!
Also note even if u don't want to join new activities etc,u have to,even if u don't feel lyk it,this way na,ur mind will get so busy that eventually u WILL move on (cos u won't allow ur mind to think about ur crush)!😏
2) Be safe flirty with all girls/guys (safe flirty means for example compliment everyone but don't make it seem flirty to em,but FEEL flirtfull urself when u do so),for example u could say '' I'm in love with ur clothes WOW!😍" instead of saying "Hey I love ur clothes babe!😉"
This is helpful because when u be safe flirting,u will start to feel alive, without feeling guilty,as u will feel that u don't need ur crush to outshine ur sweetness (many atimes we deep inside want our crush to know that we r amazing,sweet,kind)!
Also by doing this,a time will come when u will feel that u could fall for someone else,if u allow ur self to do so!
Make sure tho that ur safe flirtyness is honest, meaning compliment honestly when u feel lyk it,not cos u think u have to! Safe flirty is genuinely to be done if u find someone attractive in general but feel they r not ur cup of tea in someway or another either! Be careful not to mislead anybody's feelings,safe flirting should be done with super caution!😌
3) Love urself n focus on ur well being,when u love urself,true love finds u,n by true love I don't necessarily mean a partner,I mean u will for sure find out that the only person who deserves ur true love is u urself,n urself deserves ur love in return,once u realize this,u would become the cake with frosting that only needs to be decorated but ur yummy even without the decoration, meaning ur enough for u,n if someone comes into ur life,the person is only a bonus in ur life,n that the person maybe a part of ur life to add extra beauty,but the person is definitely not ur life,n ur just as good even if the person is not part of ur life,ur STILL a very yummy cake!😛❤️
4) Allow ur heart to accept the fact that life doesn't only revolve around ur crush,for example instead of focusing on ur crush most/all of ur time,u may instead switch ur thought to that there r people who starve n r hungry,n all I'm thinking about is my crush?! This way u will feel a sense of shame that there r more deep important matters to think about n look at me,I'm letting my mind wonder about someone who I probably can not be with,n look at me I'm purposely wasting my time (this feeling of shame is good for u)!🙂
Thanku!❤️
@@mehreenfatima7503 thanks
@@annamarie5994 mention not❤️
mehreen fatima ok actually thank you so much for that, I really appreciate you taking the time to write it :)
8. Having a crush on someone who just doesn’t like you back
MeIRL
That's pretty normal
M.E.
That would be 95% of all crushes
IRK I FUCKING HATE LIFE😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
drinking game: take a shot every time they say “attracted” or “unhealthy”
"Age is Just a number"
*and a jail cell is Just a room*
With no escape
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BRUH so Who did i steal this comment from?!
@@clowngroup8255 from a comment underneath you.
@@KristalRain1111 oOf
Tbh, if im crushing on someone and i find out they're in a relationship, I immediately get turned off
One Girl You have no idea how blessed you are.
One Girl Same. I don’t wanna ruin what they already have.
Same
Same. I had a crush on this girl and she started dating someone and then the crush went away. I just.... I can’t interfere with that. I think my brain is too nice for that lmao
One Girl same
*2) Crushing on someone who’s way too young or old for you.*
Danielle Corn:
Its cohn btw
dAnieLLe cOrn
r/woooosh to a bunch of people
@Miles Upshur same
its okay she pregnant now
"When a crush becomes an obsession"
Ayano Aishi: “Y'all heard something?”
*Heyyyy, what about Ryoba????*
#5: Crushing On An Ex
me: can't have a crush on your ex if you never had an ex
* insert the more you know image *
Hannah Ivins underrated comment
So same😂
Same😂😂😂😂single pringles here
*sparkle
AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
You forgot crushing on a fictional character.
I'm guilty.
serendipity ;; aren’t we all
Or a different sexual orientation.
...how did you know....
danm weebs
"1. Crushing on someone who's already in a relationship"
Me: .......
Same
Same..
Same
Same
Same
I’m terrified of developing obsessive feelings towards people bcs I have OCD and a past of obsessive behavior and this video definitely helped, thanks!
I think I have ocd according to this 😂, but I get obsess over anything I find interest in or had a info being crammed into my brain for it to replay the scenario or an imaginary one over and over again 🥲
“When a crush becomes an obsession”
Tell that to Snape
Yass! I didn't even think of that 😅
Lol yeet!!!
PFFT
snamione!
Sebastien Lee No thanks.
all my crushes are unhealthy lmao
nicolle,
this is nothing to laugh about. :( i’m sorry for you
All of mine are band members so same lmao 😂
Nightmare realized
Do you like fat asses or something
aaaa same. I broke up with my bf for one of my crushes cause I couldn't control my feelings....I don't know why I did that, he has a gf
"Some crushes can be unhealthy"
*mY cRuSh HaS eBoLa*
Do you know the way.... EBOLA
Umm ok
*Do u no de wae?*
@@cosmicmemelord dead meme
@@BlaiyND if it's dead why is KINDOFSTEAK using it and why am I using it?
The way that I just got rejected by my crush makes this recommendation feel like a personal attack
I'm 15, I remember what my mom told me when I was 11, "Don't get into a relationship unless your 18+ because it probably won't last long since your at a young age and don't fully understand the concept of love" Of course that's not exactly how she said it, but I'm still using that advice
That's some good advice, but maybe not always true : P
I wouldnt agree. You want NON SEXUAL relationships even if they dont last. Your first relationship is always clingy and hurts. You need to have relationship experiance before settling into a serious one when your older, otherwise you could get clingy with a controlling person and just stick it out. I seen that happen.
Just remember the important thing is dont have a sexual partner till you are 1. Of age.... 2. Find a person that deserves it and you are ready!
Remember lifes not a fairytale. There is no princesses or prince charming. And story book 1s love dosent exist unless your the 1 in 1billion that truely gets lucky.
@@shubhangisorate7422 I thought I used a lot of emojis 😂 anyways, good Luck telling him! Hope je believes it!
I'd suggest waiting till 20+.
4. When you have a crush on someone who treats you poorly
this!!! most kdramas have these stupid plot and the second male leads usually are more deserving
This is why I watch kdramas where they actually treat each other decently-
*Insert Name Here* could you recommend some where the guy is actually nice?
Avocado Juice it’s still hot tho
“When crushing becomes an obsession”
Kpop sasaengs: *sweats nervously*
YES
Omgwash yes
Copied
@miningmonkey1
What?
This was copied and not even funny lmfao
You know what sucks? When people who are already in a relationship kinda hint towards the fact, that they would've chosen you, if they weren't in a relationship now. And those who aren't end up being the abusive type (number 4) or are completely obsessed with you, even though it doesn't fit at all.
I really, REALLY got some mental breakdowns thanks to this, and it still goes on today. Sometimes, I'd like to know what the f I did in my life to deserve that kind of treatment. Love just happens, but in my (and probably some others) case, it goes wrong in every possible way *ever*
Am so sorry but in a way am envious u lowered ur standards and expectations from love cuz when that person that treats u like an absolute king/queen comes along and loves u unconditionally...hell the feeling is inexplicable fr so don't give up on the whole right love thing
@@thatonepinkdwarf Wish I could say things changed a lot, but the only thing that changed is that I don't have abusive people anymore. The rest is the same. Obsessed person, but is the most boring person ever. Like, REALLY boring omg. Got rejected by the most beautiful and pretty much perfect person I know and the desperate boring person is still after me. I can't do this anymore man, it's beyond ridiculous. It's so ridiculous, that my brain can't comprehend this shizz anymore. It's not that I really am desperate for love, but I also don't want people to crawl at me at the age of 30 and act like they always wanted me. If that happens, then I'll be very mad. I'm not a worthless POS who can be picked out of desperation, just because they didn't get what they wanted...
@@Adeyum64 ngl ik it might feel impossible and a bit unrealistic with today's society pressure on relationships and craving affection and I don usually say this but have u tried takin time off like genuinely not evaluating everyone in ur life if they wud be good if they r compatible w u and stuff and just livin in ur own bubble sorta
I have a crush and youtube keeps recommeding me "Sighs your crush doesnt like you" Or "Unhealthy crushes." Like this, I think I get the message.
Me too 😪
LOVE IS LAME
Types of unhealthy crushes:
1) Car crushes
2) Airplane crushes
3) Boat crushes
4) Elevator crushes
5) Train crushes
6) Bike crushes
Edit: I'm adding any other unhealthy crush you put down here
I’m assuming you’re referring to Cars and Planes.
Wtf
Lmao
*cue cars and planes movie from disney* but-
@@moon-do1go lmao
* Texts crush *
* 1 minute later this video pops up *
O-O
I hope they text you back!
same
That's weird I didnt receive any texts
Donovan Smith OH
Bubble Double whoa that’s a little much
the one thing ive learned is the closer you get with them in your mind, the farther they get from you in real life. They wont be able to supply the expectations and fantasies youve made because love grows, and if it goes too far with one person, the other cant keep up.
*3) When a crush becomes an obsession*
Yandere-Chan:
I WAS WONDERING WHEN SOMEONE WOULD REFERENCE THAT! 😂😂😂👏👏👏
XD
True very true XD
Yan Chan: what do you mean *Continues to murder her crushes friends*
Starlig 11 yea..I think I might be obsessive with my crush but I’m not a crazy psychopath
That's why it's called a Crush...
Because that's what happens to your heart when they reject you...
:(
Damn
Completely true half the people whom they have a crush on heart's get crushed into small pieces
Edit:I have been through it the feeling is even worse
u have no idea
Can't get rejected if you already know they'll say no!
Intelligence: 100
Lone wanderer perk: Lvl. 3
Damn. Dat be deep
1. Crushing on someone who's already in a relationship.
2. Crushing with someone who's way too young or old for you.
3. When a crush becomes an obsession.
4. When you develop a crush on someone who treats you poorly.
5. Crushing on an EX
6. Crushing on someone in a long distance relationship when you're not used to it.
7. Crushing on someone when you're already in a relationship.
1. Thank you
2. Okay great my crush isn’t unhealthy
how do i know if it's an obsession???
Sadly I'm on number 4. We dont have any communication or were not friends. Or he ignores me.
2, 3 and 6 sadly happened to me. I had a crush on Ashton Kutcher. I remember dreaming about him and wanting to kiss him in the lips. Even though we had a 26 year difference, I still thought he was super hot in Just married. Now I feel embarrassed about it, and keep blaming myself on why I just can't like normal guya and not celebrities.
“When a crush becomes an obsession”
*Joe Goldberg has left the chat
OMG I LOVE YOU
wait that’s a hella good way of telling your crush you like them
if they reject u u just go i was talking about the show lol
Yandere chan killed the chat
this comment needs more likes😂😂
Deborah Araya haha yes and ty!
LM F A O
What did the blanket say when it fell of the bed?
*oh sheet*
YouDon’tKnowMe so don’t judge me bruh nice joke
I have my jams Back yeah lol
Your joke made my day thanks hahahaahahahaha
aishah nabilah YOUR WELCOME lol
When You Realize You Cant Take A Shit
"Oh Shit"
youtube keeps recommending me this video and im kind of worried
gmd fwax same.
We know your secrets
VOICES and COLORS chill bro
Bruh same
Same, finally I saw it and I realised why I had to watch it 😂 omg
"It's easy to cross the line into some very weird territories"
Marinette: *Sweats nervously*
“When your crush becomes an obsession”
*Jokes on you, my crush isn’t real.*
Me too
My crush is an anime character
Edit: which is your favorite anime character or crush 🥰❤
Were same dude.. I had a crush on a fictional character and I belong to the 20% of the people who doesnt have a crush on school :3
Number 9
Same XD
“Having a crush to someone who treats you poorly”
Tsunderes:
@cooler than u
umm that type of stuff exist irl, and is what inspied manga and anime writers. most grade school crushes where ppl teasing each other because they liked the person.
Being a tsundere I think it's true.
4. Loving those who treat you poorly
TSUNDERES: Wait!
@@zeineb2910 yup
My crush treats me poorly and he has a gf .. :(
@@gatitoslomejor5820 yikes
Tbh rather than tsundere I immediately thought of Killing Stalking 😂😂😂
@@ChocoParfaitFra same-
Having a crush on someone who is 12 years younger and lives on the opposite side of the world. No idea if the person is in a relationship or not. Life is complicated.
Crushes are guys/girls you like that will never like you back. That's why they're called crushed because they crush your heart
Well gotdamnzo that's pretty sad, I don't want a crush...
It can work out..I had a huge crush on my partner
true
True
Omg so true.
1: Having a crush on somebody who’s already in a relationship
Me: *oops*
Well damn. My crappy situation rn lol
Cello Potter for real, like the girl I’m dating right now I started crushing on 5 years ago, like if they are married, they are out of the picture, but she was just dating and I was there to help her
Same for me but like the most tricky part about this situation is that I don’t know how much time I will wait until they break up
annika _xoxo yeah my friend that I have a crush on is in a relationship and is having issues as well and so I’m trying to help TwT
XtaZz lmao I keep wishing for that to happen in my case but I keep telling myself, “no!! Don’t wish for that it’s just mean even though I really like him” T^T life can be cruel at times
When your 17 and she's 18
*Confused FBI Screaming*
They are a year apart-- But, but, but one is a minor and the other is a legal adult-- And having a relationship with a minor is--
*_AAAAAAAAAAA_*
@@terkanovakova9531 it is legal, although each state has their own "age of consent". A 16yr old and 24 yr old could technically date, but if their state has an age of consent of 18, some activities between both individuals could not be done. I'm not sure of the whole country though, since I dont live there
Clythe I’m not 100% sure about this but there is a group of laws called the Romeo and Juliet laws. Basically as long as they’re at least three years apart and one is an adult it’s all good.
No, its only illegal if the age gap is big, if the age gap is like small, then thats fine. If its like a 30 yr old guy and an 18 yr old teenager, *Oh hell nah*
In many states that’s legal
8. Crushing on someone who doesn't have that kind of feelings for you because they "know what they want" and they want someone different than you.
Another type: Crushing on someone that you'll never have.
Abir 13 big facts
That's not unhealthy in of itself, even if it does hurt.
@@voltron-eb6sx but it...hurts!
So... everyone?
Abir 13 THATS LIKE ALL OF MY THREE CRUSHES!!! 😭😔
I had a crush on a boy. He was sweet and caring, but when he found out I had a crush on him, he turned 180 degrees and became a mean jerk. And also my friend informed me that he got a new girlfriend.
I think that was pretty unhealthy. 🙃
Such a loser!
Hmm... you said that he was sweet and caring. The human mind makes our crushes look perfect, so keep that in mind!
@@quixotic3377 thanks! will do keep that in mind!!!! The present guy whom I have crush on seems like God to me!! Wth!!! And I don't know how to stop feeling like that 🤣🤣
@@sushpatil3115 well thx for answering... and np. My history teacher told us this, so shoutout to him lol. Oh and btw sorry if i made any mistakes... english is not the language i was grown with.
I had a friend who I guess I just annoyed... He is in one of my classes and has the same lunch as me but... I got kicked out of my honors class and had to rearrange my schedule, now I think he's in more of my classes. Awkward AF I'ma go die now.
The worst type, crushing on a fictional character you know will never exist and you cry everytime :’).
Than they die...
So true 😭😭😭
Me with every episode story I ever watched
Kitten Kat the plot man it's sometimes horrible
High five I have like three fictional character crushes and one in real life one
Our lives are so messed ip
I can confirm that crushing badly on someone who lives very far away from you, doesn't love you back in the same way, loves another guy and tells it to you, AND has suicidal tendencies, is defintely torture. I have been through that myself... (And I get really obsessed which makes it a lot worse...)
Yeah, a crush is pretty unhealthy
That’s why I don’t drink soda
A Vsaucy Boi OOF
Good pun
LOL
Bruh
Damn beat me to it
When crush becomes an obsession..
*Marinette:*
Ikr!
l o l
「 Evįl Cøøkie 」 adrien also has an obsession for lb he just doesnt know much about her details like mari do XD
VERY TRUE
「 Evįl Cøøkie 」 I was waiting for this comment 😂
When your best friend is dating your crush and you HAVE to be supportive.
Life SUCKS
Yea it does suck
Yup
Ikr?! When you have a crush but you didnt tell a friend and your friend and your crush start dating each other... I wonder if that's unhealthy, having a crush on a someone before someone else but you didnt make a move so someone else takes your crush and you start dying on the inside...
Its just bitchy of you if you got a crush on him after. Like no. No, no, no, no.
Yup...
As someone who had a partner who started crushing on someone else, fucking TELL THEM IF YOURE NOW UNINTERESTED. IT FUCKING HURTS SO MUCH TO KNOW THAT YOURE BEING LED ON. THEY BECOME COLD TOWARDS YOU AND PUSH YOU AWAY AND IT HURTS SO JUST FUCKING SAY SOMETHING. please. you’ll do them a favor.
Number 8
Killing all your friends to be with your crush
Yandere simulator in a shell nut
Exactly!
Oh I do that
Sounds fun
My friends keep thinking that I’ll choose my crush over them 😔
A sentence that triggers kpop fans:
"*crushing on someone way too old or young*"
Classic rock fandoms are guilty too. A lot of rockstars are old enough to be grandparents to some of us...
Me as rock band fan too
Some of members are same with my parents
XD
Many directioners too🤫😔
Ngl I felt it on another level
In number 3, i don't follow my crush around.
*It's my friend who's pulling me to him*
Dyandra Animations mood
Dyandra Animations big fat mood
OMG SAME
Lmao sameee
meh too
Me instastalking my crush and likes 2011 photo: "HOLY SH-- *explodes*
well, the real question is : “how do I get rid of the crush now ?”
I totally agree though it has been 1 year since I got rejected but how do I get rid of him I just can't stop it
this is for music you fool
I've been asking myself the same thing for years...
@@michellerabey6637 maybe almost everyone who has been rejected are trying this asking as to how to forget your crush
@@mariyamriyasha1014
I feel your pain sista/bro...
(Don't wanna assume anything here)
Right
“Age is just a number” yea so is a prison sentence
And a jail is just a cell.
@@metaluigi423 And soap is just an object
You know what else is a number?
*911 bi-*
I was kind of about to murder someone when i heard that
Justin bieber fans are still free
"delevoping a crush on someone who treats you poorly."
bakugo fangirls\fanboys: *sweating*
I FEEL CALLED OUT-
@@marcelinemavis3375 mmmmm sweetie that aint good 😒
That’s me 😔
@@jadesunset9120 wow
That's my bff :D
There are a few exceptions to this! For example, in polyamory, if all people involved in a relationship consent to everyone dating everyone, jealousy or crushing on someone is more a thing that needs to be talked about or worked out with your partners, to see if there's a clear cause or solution or any objections to a new Integration into the relationship.
For example, I have a boyfriend and another partner. We are all dating each other freely. I've just recently confessed to a crush of mine, and I'm hoping to make dating official soon. There's nothing wrong with this, because all parties consent and know about all parties.
Um-
Lack of consent makes a relationship unhealthy but consent doesn’t automatically make a relationship healthy.
ngl even in a monogamous relationship it might be sensible to tell your partner about you having another crush. Definitely depends on how you personally think they'd take just the fact you feel that way. But still imo better than working out that crush or jealously or anything with yourself. Communication is super important in any kind of relationship after all.
Why I like my crush:
He hates me
He reminds me he hates me every day
He barely shows any interest in me
Lives 9478272938383874 miles away
Has a girlfriend
Lmfao same and i still crush him
Cognitive Dissonance 100
He is my best friend
He cares for me
And his girlfriend hates me 😊
I just think of my crush as an admiration of someone, i am aware that (probably) my crush has already a bf but i can't be too sure
Why does your crush live at an astronomical distance?
And me here... Having a crush on cartoon characters. How impressive
*raises hand* I also have crush on cartoon characters and video game characters
Michael Ward more video game characters, but yeah
Fictional people, duuuude
"When a crush becomes an obsession"
Yanderes: Y'all hear something
Jīzeru_KabureraChan lol
Swap: no *hides knife*
IKR- that’s me thi
And I oop-💀💀😂
I- honestly this is me, I ACTUALLY got so mad at my cousin for liking my senpai that I made her bleed without realising until I had done it-
Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship could also cause you to have hatred for the other person out of jealousy. It happened to me before. I hated this girl just because she was dating my crush. She’s actually really fun and nice.
"When a crush becomes an obsession"
*Snape has left the chat*
I love Billie and Harry Potter...... and I play the ukulele..... and am making a RUclips channel.....
Lmao
*Ginny has left the chat*
@@dannicoombe5466 you right. But I still like Ginny so much better
@@dannicoombe5466 Ginny isn't unhealthy and isn't an obsession
Erin Rideout *TheBakeey enters chat*
I accidentally crushed my car with a boulder. Is that unhealthy?
What???😂😐
XD
I can’t find it on the list so I guess not
XD
There's two things need to be fixed. Your unhealthy crush. And your car.
“when a crush becomes an obsession”
*cough* marinette *cough*
omg ikr 😂😂
Lmaoo sigh poor thing 😞
aww lolllll
That’s what I thought
Yea!
I love how there are so many miraculous references in the comments. That show is the definition of unhealthy relationships.
“Age Is Just A Number”
Wrong
*Age Is A Word*
I edited it back
Nice joke lol
*nice*
110th like
*YEAH, THIS IS BIG BRAIN TIME*
493
“Stalking their social media”
Aight imma head out
Lol same....😂😂😂😂
Jelly Lemon Juice me lmao
Same I'm coming with you
I don’t have my crushes number and don’t know his social media but I would if I could
Totally me
I've been studying behavioral psychology for a bit now and I watch this stuff to give me a break from my constant studying with.. more studying? This video will inevitably help me help my friends with their crushes. Big cool
*I love this drawing styleeee!*
Me too i loved it
Glad you love it! What did you like most about this style and have you seen our other video on types of healthy crushes? ruclips.net/video/3sg38cbvxQI/видео.html
*animeeee*
K
@@Psych2go I really like the way the people are drawn, and the pops of color ❤❤❤
8: *Having a crush who doesn't exist in the real world*
Edit: Holly shit wtf I got 2.8K likes I didn't even expect to get 10 tysm guys.
That's every girl. You like the idea if her not her
*cough* Jack Frost *cough*
I can confirm
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH
Anime characters lol
waifu
“don’t be obsessed”
all the anime characters simps: “ya’ll hear something??”
I don't think I hear anything
Nah just sang woo breaking more ankles
wut? i can only hear sukuna humiliating me
@@alyjsj lol
@@alyjsj hahahha woop
"don't crush on someone who is mean and rude"
My friend : (gets mistreated) oh, he's playing hard-to-get! 😏😏