THATS ME BUT INSTEAD OF CRUSHES AND KISSING ITS JUST : Me: peacefully sleeps Brain: finally shuts down Alarm clock: hello b1tch wake up. I just wanted to remind u that in *1 hour* you're going to have to wake up and take your math exam.
Me : Aight imma sleep Brain : yawns * I am gonna shut down too Meanwhile .... Me : Come over and have dinner at my house ! My crush : ok fine I guess ? Me : feeling holy molly at night Finishes eating together My crush : let's go outside somewhere people don't know I-I need to tell you something Me : tHiS goNnA bE hoLy My crush : I love y- Alarm clock : Buzes * Buzes * Buzes * Me : tf damn this alarm clock just ruined the most perfect dream of life YEETS ALARM CLOCK * Based on a true story 1 year ago
3 years ago I developed a crush on a girl I was so obsessed that I looked up her name on social media, tried looking up her address, and see where she hung out. I'm glad she didn't know I did any of these things. I unconsciously did all these things and it was terrifying when I snapped out of it, I had to end that crush. I'm glad that I snapped out of it and ended that crush because now I am more self-aware and in a better mental state in fact this is the best I have ever felt about myself since I was a cocky kid.
I crushed on someone who is 3 years older than me and he's already in a relationship but now I don't really care about him anymore and that's such a relief ahhh
i’m facing the same problem but he’s 4 years older then me and we actually have a few classes together so i see him everyday. how did you get over him because i really don’t want to feel this way.
I knew a girl that ended up having a crush on a boy. This boy was a introverted geek, but for some reason, she liked that he was "mysterious". I wouldn't call him a 'bad boy' , but, the boy wasn't reciprocating her feelings. And this continued on for her entire high school life. Maybe she saw something in him that I didn't, but she didn't end up moving on to try new people and was stuck in a loop. (Thankfully, this didn't stop her from having a good high-school life, but it sure felt like it was a thorn in her side)
I developed a crush on a girl, but then she started dating someone and I kind of got jealous, then they broke up. I'm getting over it though because she is out of my league.
I used to have a crush on a girl and we both knew it, back in 2018. They were lesbian and we're already with somebody else. Now though, the other person moved to Thailand and the girl I had a crush on told me she wasn't actually lesbian and wasn't really attracted to the other girl as much as for her personality. Now I am getting feelings for her again and I wonder if I should make a move. But last year I was extremely down for half a year because I found out she was lesbian and she couldn't date me. So I'm not sure what to do..
“If you find yourself following your crush around, creeping on their social media profiles and generally just worshipping them, then you’ve probably developed some unhealthy thought patterns” *Marinette Dupain Cheng this one’s for you*
2, 3 and 6 sadly happened to me. I had a crush on Ashton Kutcher. I remember dreaming about him and wanting to kiss him in the lips. Even though we had a 26 year difference, I still thought he was super hot in Just married. Now I feel embarrassed about it, and keep blaming myself on why I just can't like normal guya and not celebrities.
I’m terrified of developing obsessive feelings towards people bcs I have OCD and a past of obsessive behavior and this video definitely helped, thanks!
I think I have ocd according to this 😂, but I get obsess over anything I find interest in or had a info being crammed into my brain for it to replay the scenario or an imaginary one over and over again 🥲
You know what sucks? When people who are already in a relationship kinda hint towards the fact, that they would've chosen you, if they weren't in a relationship now. And those who aren't end up being the abusive type (number 4) or are completely obsessed with you, even though it doesn't fit at all. I really, REALLY got some mental breakdowns thanks to this, and it still goes on today. Sometimes, I'd like to know what the f I did in my life to deserve that kind of treatment. Love just happens, but in my (and probably some others) case, it goes wrong in every possible way *ever*
Am so sorry but in a way am envious u lowered ur standards and expectations from love cuz when that person that treats u like an absolute king/queen comes along and loves u unconditionally...hell the feeling is inexplicable fr so don't give up on the whole right love thing
@@thatonepinkdwarf Wish I could say things changed a lot, but the only thing that changed is that I don't have abusive people anymore. The rest is the same. Obsessed person, but is the most boring person ever. Like, REALLY boring omg. Got rejected by the most beautiful and pretty much perfect person I know and the desperate boring person is still after me. I can't do this anymore man, it's beyond ridiculous. It's so ridiculous, that my brain can't comprehend this shizz anymore. It's not that I really am desperate for love, but I also don't want people to crawl at me at the age of 30 and act like they always wanted me. If that happens, then I'll be very mad. I'm not a worthless POS who can be picked out of desperation, just because they didn't get what they wanted...
@@Adeyum64 ngl ik it might feel impossible and a bit unrealistic with today's society pressure on relationships and craving affection and I don usually say this but have u tried takin time off like genuinely not evaluating everyone in ur life if they wud be good if they r compatible w u and stuff and just livin in ur own bubble sorta
I've been studying behavioral psychology for a bit now and I watch this stuff to give me a break from my constant studying with.. more studying? This video will inevitably help me help my friends with their crushes. Big cool
@Ella Bilge *Seriously? I'm not saying this to offend you. But- you're going to need a lot of therapy. And, guess what else, my friend? Nobody is perfect.*
Crushing or not crushing on someone is not in our hands really,however it IS in our control that is for sure! I have some tips/suggestions to stop crushing on ur crush!🙂... 1) Get urself really busy,take part in new activities,make ur daily routine so busy that the only time u get free is literally for dinner n then sleep! Also note even if u don't want to join new activities etc,u have to,even if u don't feel lyk it,this way na,ur mind will get so busy that eventually u WILL move on (cos u won't allow ur mind to think about ur crush)!😏 2) Be safe flirty with all girls/guys (safe flirty means for example compliment everyone but don't make it seem flirty to em,but FEEL flirtfull urself when u do so),for example u could say '' I'm in love with ur clothes WOW!😍" instead of saying "Hey I love ur clothes babe!😉" This is helpful because when u be safe flirting,u will start to feel alive, without feeling guilty,as u will feel that u don't need ur crush to outshine ur sweetness (many atimes we deep inside want our crush to know that we r amazing,sweet,kind)! Also by doing this,a time will come when u will feel that u could fall for someone else,if u allow ur self to do so! Make sure tho that ur safe flirtyness is honest, meaning compliment honestly when u feel lyk it,not cos u think u have to! Safe flirty is genuinely to be done if u find someone attractive in general but feel they r not ur cup of tea in someway or another either! Be careful not to mislead anybody's feelings,safe flirting should be done with super caution!😌 3) Love urself n focus on ur well being,when u love urself,true love finds u,n by true love I don't necessarily mean a partner,I mean u will for sure find out that the only person who deserves ur true love is u urself,n urself deserves ur love in return,once u realize this,u would become the cake with frosting that only needs to be decorated but ur yummy even without the decoration, meaning ur enough for u,n if someone comes into ur life,the person is only a bonus in ur life,n that the person maybe a part of ur life to add extra beauty,but the person is definitely not ur life,n ur just as good even if the person is not part of ur life,ur STILL a very yummy cake!😛❤️ 4) Allow ur heart to accept the fact that life doesn't only revolve around ur crush,for example instead of focusing on ur crush most/all of ur time,u may instead switch ur thought to that there r people who starve n r hungry,n all I'm thinking about is my crush?! This way u will feel a sense of shame that there r more deep important matters to think about n look at me,I'm letting my mind wonder about someone who I probably can not be with,n look at me I'm purposely wasting my time (this feeling of shame is good for u)!🙂 Thanku!❤️
wow, this really helped, i have someone in mind that is already in a relationship but it is long distance she has also been leading me on lately... yeah, love happens.
the one thing ive learned is the closer you get with them in your mind, the farther they get from you in real life. They wont be able to supply the expectations and fantasies youve made because love grows, and if it goes too far with one person, the other cant keep up.
I m really so glad to know that I don't have any signs of unhealthy crush and this also helped me clear somethings in my mind like even if I am too relaxed and not following my crush in any sort of condition , it doesn't mean that I don't like that person its just that I would like things to go pretty slowly and comfortably and maybe someday he might like me 💛
how to know if your crush is unhealthy: 1. they don't exercise 2. they don't bathe 3. they don't sleep 4. they don't eat 5. they lick the ground 6. their favorite food is laundry detergent 7. they have 1000+ hours on a game yep i'm not funny
There are a few exceptions to this! For example, in polyamory, if all people involved in a relationship consent to everyone dating everyone, jealousy or crushing on someone is more a thing that needs to be talked about or worked out with your partners, to see if there's a clear cause or solution or any objections to a new Integration into the relationship. For example, I have a boyfriend and another partner. We are all dating each other freely. I've just recently confessed to a crush of mine, and I'm hoping to make dating official soon. There's nothing wrong with this, because all parties consent and know about all parties.
ngl even in a monogamous relationship it might be sensible to tell your partner about you having another crush. Definitely depends on how you personally think they'd take just the fact you feel that way. But still imo better than working out that crush or jealously or anything with yourself. Communication is super important in any kind of relationship after all.
I can confirm that crushing badly on someone who lives very far away from you, doesn't love you back in the same way, loves another guy and tells it to you, AND has suicidal tendencies, is defintely torture. I have been through that myself... (And I get really obsessed which makes it a lot worse...)
i had a crush on a girl that was single when i met her and i told her how i felt , she said she wanted to just be friends , she got with one of my friends and it was hard and took almost 2 years to fully get over her which sucked and truly hurt
@@terkanovakova9531 it is legal, although each state has their own "age of consent". A 16yr old and 24 yr old could technically date, but if their state has an age of consent of 18, some activities between both individuals could not be done. I'm not sure of the whole country though, since I dont live there
Clythe I’m not 100% sure about this but there is a group of laws called the Romeo and Juliet laws. Basically as long as they’re at least three years apart and one is an adult it’s all good.
No, its only illegal if the age gap is big, if the age gap is like small, then thats fine. If its like a 30 yr old guy and an 18 yr old teenager, *Oh hell nah*
Types of unhealthy crushes: 1) Car crushes 2) Airplane crushes 3) Boat crushes 4) Elevator crushes 5) Train crushes 6) Bike crushes Edit: I'm adding any other unhealthy crush you put down here
Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship could also cause you to have hatred for the other person out of jealousy. It happened to me before. I hated this girl just because she was dating my crush. She’s actually really fun and nice.
I'm in love with my best friend who's in a happy and committed relationship with his childhood friend and they plan on getting married some day. They both even told me I'm more than welcome at the wedding as well. I'm happy for them I just wish I could always have my best friend in my life in a more intimate way.
My my heart melted when I figured out my crush had it a partner I figured to stop and found someone else that was ultimately into me too so that worked out other than the first crush 🙄🥰
Congrats if you and your new crush are a thing! But I just wanted to tell you about my crush, I don’t have a crush on him anymore, he sits next to me and someone who sits next to me ships us and I kinda developed a mega crush on him. One day I asked if we were friends and he said, “no, I hate you!” I literally was so heart broken and I said, “hate is a strong word..”. But it’s ok now, I found someone else to have a crush on that actually treated me with respect! Wish me luck and again congrats
People always tell me that long-distance relationships are not good. But it's been about two years and we're still going strong. I know how to keep our relationship going. It is frustrating that people doubt me just because I'm young. But there's nothing I can do except prove them wrong.
This is a very helpful video. I know it’s unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is too old or young for you. However is it unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is one year older than you?
No. One year is nothing unless one of those persons is still underage, for legal reasons, although mentally there isn't much difference either. Difficult age gaps depend on the moment of life each person is in. Normally 10+ years difference pose problems, although not so much after people get into their late 20s and early 30s.
for me is 4 but they don’t treat me that badly but sometimes ignore me what i do admire is they knew and tried to ignore to keep the normal day flowing
Cello Potter for real, like the girl I’m dating right now I started crushing on 5 years ago, like if they are married, they are out of the picture, but she was just dating and I was there to help her
XtaZz lmao I keep wishing for that to happen in my case but I keep telling myself, “no!! Don’t wish for that it’s just mean even though I really like him” T^T life can be cruel at times
Ikr?! When you have a crush but you didnt tell a friend and your friend and your crush start dating each other... I wonder if that's unhealthy, having a crush on a someone before someone else but you didnt make a move so someone else takes your crush and you start dying on the inside...
I have a crush on this dude that moved away a year ago, and when i think about him I start to wonder if he likes someone else or if he's in a relationship.I wish for him to come back all the time but i don't ever think that's gonna happen and i didn't even know that he moved until 2 months later my friend told me this messed me up and now i still like him.
I have a crush on a girl in my school who has a crush on one of my friends. I actually don't know how to react and it feels really messed up after one of my friends told them about my crush to her.
But tsunderes aren't that violent or just to say baka. THEY are maybe shy but they just say "shaddaaap ..." when someone says they're cute but then 'no i'm nottt Shush--" hope barely helps -3-
Do you have a crush on any musicians/idols? I have a crush on EXO #dontmessupmytempo. 😊❤️❤️
Psych2Go same✊🏻😣
Psych2Go Same :|
BTS, EXO, Nct & Stray Kids 🤧💗
*coughs* BTS
AAAAAA same
“Age is just a number”
...
court is just a room
is law justice or morality?
Prison is just a free home
Quoc Hung Tran inmates are just friends living amongst you.
Hello World. 911 is just a number but that’s pretty important
Jail is just a place
Video: "Don't be obsessed."
All the people here: **nervous sweating**
Me:shakes uncontrollably
I'm having Anxiety!
Same XDDD
Ho no
I just laughed😂😂
Me: Kisses crush
Crush: Kisses me
Alarm clock: *I’m gonna ruin this man’s whole dream*
THATS ME BUT INSTEAD OF CRUSHES AND KISSING ITS JUST :
Me: peacefully sleeps
Brain: finally shuts down
Alarm clock: hello b1tch wake up. I just wanted to remind u that in *1 hour* you're going to have to wake up and take your math exam.
I just had this dream last night.😭 now I can't stop thinking of her and I'm shy to see her again this weekend
Omg yes😭
Umm u stole this dude wtf
Me : Aight imma sleep
Brain : yawns * I am gonna shut down too
Meanwhile ....
Me : Come over and have dinner at my house !
My crush : ok fine I guess ?
Me : feeling holy molly at night
Finishes eating together
My crush : let's go outside somewhere people don't know I-I need to tell you something
Me : tHiS goNnA bE hoLy
My crush : I love y-
Alarm clock : Buzes * Buzes * Buzes *
Me : tf damn this alarm clock just ruined the most perfect dream of life
YEETS ALARM CLOCK *
Based on a true story 1 year ago
i feel like almost all of us started to chuckle nervously when they mention that crushing obsessively isn't good for you
true
Forreal
I mean you have a miraculous pfp and that show is kind of the pinnacle of that /lh /j
That's my friends if I show them this not me cause I'm living the life out here not liking anyone 😎
All crushes get obcessive
8. Having a crush on someone who doesn’t exist
Senpai ??
Mhm xD
Oof
Lmao ME TOO
QwQ this makes me sad ;-;
“Crushing on an ex” bold of you to assume I’ve ever dated anyone
I love your profile picture
I am a trans man myself 🏳️🌈
Same girl
•Andrea _ Rogers•
I’m a boy
Ashton Everett saaaaameee!
i was gonna comment that lmao
3 years ago I developed a crush on a girl I was so obsessed that I looked up her name on social media, tried looking up her address, and see where she hung out. I'm glad she didn't know I did any of these things. I unconsciously did all these things and it was terrifying when I snapped out of it, I had to end that crush. I'm glad that I snapped out of it and ended that crush because now I am more self-aware and in a better mental state in fact this is the best I have ever felt about myself since I was a cocky kid.
what if they have snapchat and it shows all of that to you? thats not bad right 😥
I crushed on someone who is 3 years older than me and he's already in a relationship but now I don't really care about him anymore and that's such a relief ahhh
If I ever had a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship I would immediately try to get over it, and I’m pretty good at it
@@inkfernado9114 yeah I'm so over him rn ig I'm pretty good at it too
@@thevatharshinitiruchellven8902 that’s nice
I am in the same exact situation but the verb “crushed” is in present tense and the word “don’t” is erased 🥺
i’m facing the same problem but he’s 4 years older then me and we actually have a few classes together so i see him everyday. how did you get over him because i really don’t want to feel this way.
all my crushes are unhealthy lmao
nicolle,
this is nothing to laugh about. :( i’m sorry for you
All of mine are band members so same lmao 😂
Nightmare realized
Do you like fat asses or something
aaaa same. I broke up with my bf for one of my crushes cause I couldn't control my feelings....I don't know why I did that, he has a gf
Age is just a number.
*And jail is just a bad hotel*
Κώστας Ξενοφοβικός oof
And the inmates are "rougth neighbours"
Lollllll
Hell is just a sauna
@@dontperceiveme3025 true.
I knew a girl that ended up having a crush on a boy. This boy was a introverted geek, but for some reason, she liked that he was "mysterious". I wouldn't call him a 'bad boy' , but, the boy wasn't reciprocating her feelings. And this continued on for her entire high school life.
Maybe she saw something in him that I didn't, but she didn't end up moving on to try new people and was stuck in a loop. (Thankfully, this didn't stop her from having a good high-school life, but it sure felt like it was a thorn in her side)
lmao that girl sounds like me with all my crushes
so u telling me its unhealthy to be in love with my english teacher?
lesbians: **sweating**
1. Crushing on someone who’s already in a relationship
Me: oof
Literally me
I developed a crush on a girl, but then she started dating someone and I kind of got jealous, then they broke up. I'm getting over it though because she is out of my league.
@@leafychild5179 Duuuude me to. Except the guy that I like is still dating his girlfriend
@@madisynjeansonne2653
Oof.
I used to have a crush on a girl and we both knew it, back in 2018. They were lesbian and we're already with somebody else. Now though, the other person moved to Thailand and the girl I had a crush on told me she wasn't actually lesbian and wasn't really attracted to the other girl as much as for her personality. Now I am getting feelings for her again and I wonder if I should make a move. But last year I was extremely down for half a year because I found out she was lesbian and she couldn't date me. So I'm not sure what to do..
“If you find yourself following your crush around, creeping on their social media profiles and generally just worshipping them, then you’ve probably developed some unhealthy thought patterns”
*Marinette Dupain Cheng this one’s for you*
"When a crush becomes an obsession"
Ayano Aishi: “Y'all heard something?”
*Heyyyy, what about Ryoba????*
Age is just a number
and jail is just a room
Fbi wants to know your location
Flamebro13 you’ll never take me alive!!!
LOL
Rem! Rem! Rem!
lmao
*when a crush becomes an obsession*
Me: *deletes entire gallery*
Same XD
Yess😂😂
Thats so me
Same
OMG ME
drinking game: take a shot every time they say “attracted” or “unhealthy”
2, 3 and 6 sadly happened to me. I had a crush on Ashton Kutcher. I remember dreaming about him and wanting to kiss him in the lips. Even though we had a 26 year difference, I still thought he was super hot in Just married. Now I feel embarrassed about it, and keep blaming myself on why I just can't like normal guya and not celebrities.
*realizes I know have an unhealthy crush on psych2go*
We have a crush on you too $:
👉👌
✔
Careful
*considering that multiple people work on this*
Oh no
*Many people are typing*
*3) When a crush becomes an obsession*
Yandere-Chan:
I WAS WONDERING WHEN SOMEONE WOULD REFERENCE THAT! 😂😂😂👏👏👏
XD
True very true XD
Yan Chan: what do you mean *Continues to murder her crushes friends*
Starlig 11 yea..I think I might be obsessive with my crush but I’m not a crazy psychopath
I’m terrified of developing obsessive feelings towards people bcs I have OCD and a past of obsessive behavior and this video definitely helped, thanks!
I think I have ocd according to this 😂, but I get obsess over anything I find interest in or had a info being crammed into my brain for it to replay the scenario or an imaginary one over and over again 🥲
You know what sucks? When people who are already in a relationship kinda hint towards the fact, that they would've chosen you, if they weren't in a relationship now. And those who aren't end up being the abusive type (number 4) or are completely obsessed with you, even though it doesn't fit at all.
I really, REALLY got some mental breakdowns thanks to this, and it still goes on today. Sometimes, I'd like to know what the f I did in my life to deserve that kind of treatment. Love just happens, but in my (and probably some others) case, it goes wrong in every possible way *ever*
Am so sorry but in a way am envious u lowered ur standards and expectations from love cuz when that person that treats u like an absolute king/queen comes along and loves u unconditionally...hell the feeling is inexplicable fr so don't give up on the whole right love thing
@@thatonepinkdwarf Wish I could say things changed a lot, but the only thing that changed is that I don't have abusive people anymore. The rest is the same. Obsessed person, but is the most boring person ever. Like, REALLY boring omg. Got rejected by the most beautiful and pretty much perfect person I know and the desperate boring person is still after me. I can't do this anymore man, it's beyond ridiculous. It's so ridiculous, that my brain can't comprehend this shizz anymore. It's not that I really am desperate for love, but I also don't want people to crawl at me at the age of 30 and act like they always wanted me. If that happens, then I'll be very mad. I'm not a worthless POS who can be picked out of desperation, just because they didn't get what they wanted...
@@Adeyum64 ngl ik it might feel impossible and a bit unrealistic with today's society pressure on relationships and craving affection and I don usually say this but have u tried takin time off like genuinely not evaluating everyone in ur life if they wud be good if they r compatible w u and stuff and just livin in ur own bubble sorta
"Age is Just a number"
*and a jail cell is Just a room*
With no escape
Stolen comment
@@bruhmomenter3764
BRUH so Who did i steal this comment from?!
@@clowngroup8255 from a comment underneath you.
@@KristalRain1111 oOf
me: hmm... are my crushes unhealthy?
*remembers that i'm really only into fictional characters*
me: no i'm just pathetic
ThisIsFrog RELATA-FRIGGIN-BLE
SAME
ThisIsFrog same
ThisIsFrog its ok
Ur not the only one
ThisIsFrog epy boys hmmm
The way that I just got rejected by my crush makes this recommendation feel like a personal attack
I've been studying behavioral psychology for a bit now and I watch this stuff to give me a break from my constant studying with.. more studying? This video will inevitably help me help my friends with their crushes. Big cool
I KNOW ITS UNHEALTHY BUT THE REAL QUESTION IS HOW TO *STOP CRUSHING*
@Ella Bilge
*Seriously? I'm not saying this to offend you. But- you're going to need a lot of therapy. And, guess what else, my friend? Nobody is perfect.*
Crushing or not crushing on someone is not in our hands really,however it IS in our control that is for sure!
I have some tips/suggestions to stop crushing on ur crush!🙂...
1) Get urself really busy,take part in new activities,make ur daily routine so busy that the only time u get free is literally for dinner n then sleep!
Also note even if u don't want to join new activities etc,u have to,even if u don't feel lyk it,this way na,ur mind will get so busy that eventually u WILL move on (cos u won't allow ur mind to think about ur crush)!😏
2) Be safe flirty with all girls/guys (safe flirty means for example compliment everyone but don't make it seem flirty to em,but FEEL flirtfull urself when u do so),for example u could say '' I'm in love with ur clothes WOW!😍" instead of saying "Hey I love ur clothes babe!😉"
This is helpful because when u be safe flirting,u will start to feel alive, without feeling guilty,as u will feel that u don't need ur crush to outshine ur sweetness (many atimes we deep inside want our crush to know that we r amazing,sweet,kind)!
Also by doing this,a time will come when u will feel that u could fall for someone else,if u allow ur self to do so!
Make sure tho that ur safe flirtyness is honest, meaning compliment honestly when u feel lyk it,not cos u think u have to! Safe flirty is genuinely to be done if u find someone attractive in general but feel they r not ur cup of tea in someway or another either! Be careful not to mislead anybody's feelings,safe flirting should be done with super caution!😌
3) Love urself n focus on ur well being,when u love urself,true love finds u,n by true love I don't necessarily mean a partner,I mean u will for sure find out that the only person who deserves ur true love is u urself,n urself deserves ur love in return,once u realize this,u would become the cake with frosting that only needs to be decorated but ur yummy even without the decoration, meaning ur enough for u,n if someone comes into ur life,the person is only a bonus in ur life,n that the person maybe a part of ur life to add extra beauty,but the person is definitely not ur life,n ur just as good even if the person is not part of ur life,ur STILL a very yummy cake!😛❤️
4) Allow ur heart to accept the fact that life doesn't only revolve around ur crush,for example instead of focusing on ur crush most/all of ur time,u may instead switch ur thought to that there r people who starve n r hungry,n all I'm thinking about is my crush?! This way u will feel a sense of shame that there r more deep important matters to think about n look at me,I'm letting my mind wonder about someone who I probably can not be with,n look at me I'm purposely wasting my time (this feeling of shame is good for u)!🙂
Thanku!❤️
@@mehreenfatima7503 thanks
@@annamarie5994 mention not❤️
mehreen fatima ok actually thank you so much for that, I really appreciate you taking the time to write it :)
Jokes on u my crushes can’t hurt me bc they’re all fictional.
TRUEEEE
So true
So true lmao xD
XD
eyyyy lmao x'D
I find it very convenient how this video comes up to my recommendation at the right time 😀
wow, this really helped, i have someone in mind that is already in a relationship but it is long distance she has also been leading me on lately... yeah, love happens.
You forgot crushing on a fictional character.
I'm guilty.
serendipity ;; aren’t we all
Or a different sexual orientation.
...how did you know....
danm weebs
8. Having a crush on someone who just doesn’t like you back
MeIRL
That's pretty normal
M.E.
That would be 95% of all crushes
IRK I FUCKING HATE LIFE😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
the one thing ive learned is the closer you get with them in your mind, the farther they get from you in real life. They wont be able to supply the expectations and fantasies youve made because love grows, and if it goes too far with one person, the other cant keep up.
I m really so glad to know that I don't have any signs of unhealthy crush and this also helped me clear somethings in my mind like even if I am too relaxed and not following my crush in any sort of condition , it doesn't mean that I don't like that person its just that I would like things to go pretty slowly and comfortably and maybe someday he might like me 💛
“When a crush becomes a obsession”
7 year old me: laughs nervously and tucks away picture of Raven from Teen Titans
What lol
Ha ha!!!
lol
FELT 💀💀
Pfft-
What did the blanket say when it fell of the bed?
*oh sheet*
YouDon’tKnowMe so don’t judge me bruh nice joke
I have my jams Back yeah lol
Your joke made my day thanks hahahaahahahaha
aishah nabilah YOUR WELCOME lol
When You Realize You Cant Take A Shit
"Oh Shit"
i luv ur vids and animations! they help me alot :D
"It's easy to cross the line into some very weird territories"
Marinette: *Sweats nervously*
Is RUclips trying to tell me something
Maybe
Yes
I KNOW RIGHT
Its a warning
RUclips is trying to tell me I'm abused, depressed and over all just a lone wolf who has no crush and is horny because I couldn't experience love
how to know if your crush is unhealthy:
1. they don't exercise
2. they don't bathe
3. they don't sleep
4. they don't eat
5. they lick the ground
6. their favorite food is laundry detergent
7. they have 1000+ hours on a game
yep i'm not funny
ThisIsFrog this actually made me laugh
That's actually funny I get it...
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well, I have 4000+ hours on a game! hah!
):
I agree with all of them... except the last one. Gaming is life. X3
There are a few exceptions to this! For example, in polyamory, if all people involved in a relationship consent to everyone dating everyone, jealousy or crushing on someone is more a thing that needs to be talked about or worked out with your partners, to see if there's a clear cause or solution or any objections to a new Integration into the relationship.
For example, I have a boyfriend and another partner. We are all dating each other freely. I've just recently confessed to a crush of mine, and I'm hoping to make dating official soon. There's nothing wrong with this, because all parties consent and know about all parties.
Um-
Lack of consent makes a relationship unhealthy but consent doesn’t automatically make a relationship healthy.
ngl even in a monogamous relationship it might be sensible to tell your partner about you having another crush. Definitely depends on how you personally think they'd take just the fact you feel that way. But still imo better than working out that crush or jealously or anything with yourself. Communication is super important in any kind of relationship after all.
I can confirm that crushing badly on someone who lives very far away from you, doesn't love you back in the same way, loves another guy and tells it to you, AND has suicidal tendencies, is defintely torture. I have been through that myself... (And I get really obsessed which makes it a lot worse...)
"Crushing on someone too old or too young for you"
*FBI has entered the chat*
Lol
FBI:I'm Interested
Pysh2go: I know sometimes these work
FBI: OPEN UP
XD
aGE is jUSt a NumbEr
“it’s better to not like someone way older or younger than you”
my celebrity crushes:.......
Omg Billie Eilish
And a friend of mine is now obsessed with Timothēē Chalamet and tried making a rap about him tf lol
Colby brock tho 👌
@@idkutellme-rp9qe bald guy
Green Cappy ?? U mean bad guy
Me instastalking my crush and likes 2011 photo: "HOLY SH-- *explodes*
8. Crushing on someone who doesn't have that kind of feelings for you because they "know what they want" and they want someone different than you.
Another type: Crushing on someone that you'll never have.
Abir 13 big facts
That's not unhealthy in of itself, even if it does hurt.
@@voltron-eb6sx but it...hurts!
So... everyone?
Abir 13 THATS LIKE ALL OF MY THREE CRUSHES!!! 😭😔
"Some crushes can be unhealthy"
*mY cRuSh HaS eBoLa*
Do you know the way.... EBOLA
Umm ok
*Do u no de wae?*
@@cosmicmemelord dead meme
@@BlaiyND if it's dead why is KINDOFSTEAK using it and why am I using it?
i had a crush on a girl that was single when i met her and i told her how i felt , she said she wanted to just be friends , she got with one of my friends and it was hard and took almost 2 years to fully get over her which sucked and truly hurt
“don’t be obsessive”
me: *slowly rethinks decisions*
*2) Crushing on someone who’s way too young or old for you.*
Danielle Corn:
Its cohn btw
dAnieLLe cOrn
r/woooosh to a bunch of people
@Miles Upshur same
its okay she pregnant now
* Texts crush *
* 1 minute later this video pops up *
O-O
I hope they text you back!
same
That's weird I didnt receive any texts
Donovan Smith OH
Bubble Double whoa that’s a little much
I'm guilty of no. 5... Even so, she helped me snap out of it and we are really good friends rights now
Thank gosh, i have a healthy crush.
but also separation anxiety, social anxiety, and overall awkwardness when i’m around her so
“Age Is Just A Number”
Wrong
*Age Is A Word*
I edited it back
Nice joke lol
*nice*
110th like
*YEAH, THIS IS BIG BRAIN TIME*
493
“Age is just a number”
Jail is just a room
Age a number, jail is a building
I am just gonna think that you dont have a life and you copy these shit jokes to make yourself funnier
911 is also just a number
Lmaoo
I shall slay you and relinquish my honour as you have plagiarized my comment.
FEEAAARREE MEEEE!!!!
WHERE WAS THIS VIDEO WHEN I NEEDED IT 2 MONTHS AGO?!
i think im obsessed, i check on his social media a lot and ill follow him around if i spot him in public. i wish it was that easy to fall out of love
"1. Crushing on someone who's already in a relationship"
Me: .......
Same
Same..
Same
Same
Same
“When crushing becomes an obsession”
Kpop sasaengs: *sweats nervously*
YES
Omgwash yes
Copied
@miningmonkey1
What?
This was copied and not even funny lmfao
Crushing on your best friend 🙂✌️
Who loves someone else..
,🙂✌️Most unhealthy crush
Good thing my crush has a crush on someone but the girl doesn’t like him back
When your 17 and she's 18
*Confused FBI Screaming*
They are a year apart-- But, but, but one is a minor and the other is a legal adult-- And having a relationship with a minor is--
*_AAAAAAAAAAA_*
@@terkanovakova9531 it is legal, although each state has their own "age of consent". A 16yr old and 24 yr old could technically date, but if their state has an age of consent of 18, some activities between both individuals could not be done. I'm not sure of the whole country though, since I dont live there
Clythe I’m not 100% sure about this but there is a group of laws called the Romeo and Juliet laws. Basically as long as they’re at least three years apart and one is an adult it’s all good.
No, its only illegal if the age gap is big, if the age gap is like small, then thats fine. If its like a 30 yr old guy and an 18 yr old teenager, *Oh hell nah*
In many states that’s legal
Yeah, a crush is pretty unhealthy
That’s why I don’t drink soda
A Vsaucy Boi OOF
Good pun
LOL
Bruh
Damn beat me to it
1:14
"We all know that age is just a number"
Me:"And jail is just a place"
Im happy that they didn’t say that crushing on someone you haven’t seen in 2 years cuz they were the only crush in your whole life is toxic…
Types of unhealthy crushes:
1) Car crushes
2) Airplane crushes
3) Boat crushes
4) Elevator crushes
5) Train crushes
6) Bike crushes
Edit: I'm adding any other unhealthy crush you put down here
I’m assuming you’re referring to Cars and Planes.
Wtf
Lmao
*cue cars and planes movie from disney* but-
@@moon-do1go lmao
"Age is just a number"
Actually age is a word
Edit: I think some of y'all are taking this comment too seriously.
It's just a joke
Word is just a word?
The documentary
@@lose_somebraincells2578
Yes
Word is a word
@@Megamorg07 the worlds mystery has been solved
That’s like saying the floor is just a floor
@@lose_somebraincells2578 i told my brother the same thing 😃🔫 we almost died
So glad to know this also I also know more what to look for so I won’t be too obsessed
crushing on someone when you are in a realship is sometime a sign that the realship isn't fullfill or there is problems.
#5: Crushing On An Ex
me: can't have a crush on your ex if you never had an ex
* insert the more you know image *
Hannah Ivins underrated comment
So same😂
Same😂😂😂😂single pringles here
*sparkle
AHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
" Crushing on someone way to older than you"
Kpop stans like :😅----🙂----🤔----😲-----😬----🤷----🏃🏽♀️
Relatiable tho😂
🏃🏾♀️she’s a runner she’s a track star🏃🏾♀️
Sana of twice is 24 im only 16
I can relate
HYUNJIN 🛐
Having a crush on someone who’s already in a relationship could also cause you to have hatred for the other person out of jealousy. It happened to me before. I hated this girl just because she was dating my crush. She’s actually really fun and nice.
I'm in love with my best friend who's in a happy and committed relationship with his childhood friend and they plan on getting married some day. They both even told me I'm more than welcome at the wedding as well. I'm happy for them I just wish I could always have my best friend in my life in a more intimate way.
“when a crush becomes an obsession”
*cough* marinette *cough*
omg ikr 😂😂
Lmaoo sigh poor thing 😞
aww lolllll
That’s what I thought
Yea!
"don't crush on someone who is mean and rude"
My friend : (gets mistreated) oh, he's playing hard-to-get! 😏😏
“Don’t be obsessed “
Me: *screaming over a hot edit of Tamaki amajiki*
jokes on you all of my crushes are anime characters
This is the best and most relatable comment I’ve ever seen
Actual Trash ree
Hm
B T S lol ur name is literally bts 😂😂😂🤣😂
I wish my fictional crushes were real
"When a crush becomes an obsession"
me: *looks the other way nervously*
Same here
Ikr.
I
Know
Every
Single
Detail
About
Them
.
.
.
BlueBottle Milk ME TOO. EVER SINCE PRESCHOOL 😈
Same omg
sameee ughhh
Video: “when you crush on someone who treats you poorly”
Me: *looks at spongebob and squidward*
My my heart melted when I figured out my crush had it a partner I figured to stop and found someone else that was ultimately into me too so that worked out other than the first crush 🙄🥰
Congrats if you and your new crush are a thing! But I just wanted to tell you about my crush, I don’t have a crush on him anymore, he sits next to me and someone who sits next to me ships us and I kinda developed a mega crush on him. One day I asked if we were friends and he said, “no, I hate you!” I literally was so heart broken and I said, “hate is a strong word..”. But it’s ok now, I found someone else to have a crush on that actually treated me with respect! Wish me luck and again congrats
“When your crush becomes an obsession”
*Jokes on you, my crush isn’t real.*
Me too
My crush is an anime character
Edit: which is your favorite anime character or crush 🥰❤
Were same dude.. I had a crush on a fictional character and I belong to the 20% of the people who doesnt have a crush on school :3
Number 9
Same XD
Ok come on, who doesn’t stalk their crush on social media?
fckvwlz people without social media 😂
me.. My crush doesn't have social media
I still haven't given up on trying to find out her adress, and worshipping her.
Me i dont use social media
fckvwlz *_J O H N S V I D E O S_*
People always tell me that long-distance relationships are not good. But it's been about two years and we're still going strong. I know how to keep our relationship going. It is frustrating that people doubt me just because I'm young. But there's nothing I can do except prove them wrong.
This is a very helpful video. I know it’s unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is too old or young for you. However is it unhealthy to have a crush on someone who is one year older than you?
No. One year is nothing unless one of those persons is still underage, for legal reasons, although mentally there isn't much difference either. Difficult age gaps depend on the moment of life each person is in. Normally 10+ years difference pose problems, although not so much after people get into their late 20s and early 30s.
@@yos.5684 Oh ok thank you for the information
“Age is just a number” yea so is a prison sentence
And a jail is just a cell.
@@metaluigi423 And soap is just an object
You know what else is a number?
*911 bi-*
I was kind of about to murder someone when i heard that
Justin bieber fans are still free
When crush becomes an obsession..
*Marinette:*
Ikr!
l o l
「 Evįl Cøøkie 」 adrien also has an obsession for lb he just doesnt know much about her details like mari do XD
VERY TRUE
「 Evįl Cøøkie 」 I was waiting for this comment 😂
Depends on the situation entirely detailed.
for me is 4 but they don’t treat me that badly but sometimes ignore me
what i do admire is they knew and tried to ignore to keep the normal
day flowing
1: Having a crush on somebody who’s already in a relationship
Me: *oops*
Well damn. My crappy situation rn lol
Cello Potter for real, like the girl I’m dating right now I started crushing on 5 years ago, like if they are married, they are out of the picture, but she was just dating and I was there to help her
Same for me but like the most tricky part about this situation is that I don’t know how much time I will wait until they break up
annika _xoxo yeah my friend that I have a crush on is in a relationship and is having issues as well and so I’m trying to help TwT
XtaZz lmao I keep wishing for that to happen in my case but I keep telling myself, “no!! Don’t wish for that it’s just mean even though I really like him” T^T life can be cruel at times
When your best friend is dating your crush and you HAVE to be supportive.
Life SUCKS
Yea it does suck
Yup
Ikr?! When you have a crush but you didnt tell a friend and your friend and your crush start dating each other... I wonder if that's unhealthy, having a crush on a someone before someone else but you didnt make a move so someone else takes your crush and you start dying on the inside...
Its just bitchy of you if you got a crush on him after. Like no. No, no, no, no.
Yup...
I have a crush on this dude that moved away a year ago, and when i think about him I start to wonder if he likes someone else or if he's in a relationship.I wish for him to come back all the time but i don't ever think that's gonna happen and i didn't even know that he moved until 2 months later my friend told me this messed me up and now i still like him.
Number 6 hit me hard back in 2021, I have a feeling it’s coming back like signs. Oh boy, time to update this comment constantly
"age is just a number"
yeah, and prison is just a place
Age is a sentence?
Age is a *word*
ʟιndѕey вaʟʟaтo
Copied comment.
@@pigeongods273 no but marriage is
😂
*"Age is just a number."*
You know what else is?
*911*
And-
Hell is just a place-
_Lmao_
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I read september 11 😐
9/11
I saw that meme xD
"long distance relationship can't work"
Me being in a 6years distance relationship: mkay
I have a crush on a girl in my school who has a crush on one of my friends. I actually don't know how to react and it feels really messed up after one of my friends told them about my crush to her.
types of unhealthy crushes
1. yandere
2. tsundere
YOU STALK MY NAME mhm
YOU STALK MY NAME I’m a tsundere and I found that out on the last day of school. I wish I wasn’t mean😅
But tsunderes aren't that violent or just to say baka. THEY are maybe shy but they just say "shaddaaap ..." when someone says they're cute but then 'no i'm nottt
Shush--" hope barely helps -3-
let's play spot the weaboo
*found it*
Don’t offend my Yandere she is my waifu