41 and never cared to marry as I didn't find a compatible partner throughout my dating life. Usually the attraction wears off overtime and I don't want to continue or I'm too intense for some people and they back off. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm not cut out for a committed relationship.
Im 35 and I relate to everything except for your last sentence. I mean maybe though...I'm not sure if I can handle a committed relationship but I dream of having one. But if it's to be a source of torment then I prefer to be alone
You’re wrong. Being alone is our nature. You need to research more of other types that’s actually fits this view. Remember infj are rare & it’s almost impossible to know even those who thinks they’re 1 or got a result as infj.
@@graceabounds183 Maybe I'm wrong. I know they need alone time and I hear it from them, but they are always in a relationship. I've had 4 infjs in my life.
I've been in 3 ltr in my life as infj. I felt alone when with them kind of though......they all kind of crazy tho and not honest. I'm very happy alone the last 5 years. Was a period of about 2 to 3 Years alone in-between each of those relationships. I can't say that id never get into another relationship but compatibility would have to be high. I didn't realize I was infj tho until shortly after my last divorce. Was 42 when I found out I was one. Sure would been very helpful to know about all that in my youth. All 3 relationships were good in the beginning when I was decieved then at the end the real truth always came out. Knew something was off all along but gave benefit of the doubt. No relationship can stand the test of time built on lies. I'm actually kind of scared to try again ....hard to find people that fear God and are honest. Could just be due to my own experiences in life. Have more biblical standards now to follow tho and red flags to pay attention to according to my own convictions. 5 Years tho and the ones I have come across don't fit the standards. Plus I work alot anyways and in spare time have projects and chores and prepping to do before going back to work again. Not the most available anyways.
I’m single aswel, but I don’t feel the need to go into a committed relationship again. I never had a true successful one. I tried, but mostly the feelings didn’t develop enough, so I had to break someone’s heart in the end. I don’t like to do that anymore. I also can’t imagine to plan each weekend together or see a partner daily, because I’m used to my freedom and time for myself in my own bubble. With a partner that’s difficult and more limited. Perhaps my view on this is wrong? What are experiences of other INFJ’s? Maybe it’s just not for me and maybe it has to do with this personality type.
How? Astrology takes nothing about your personality into account at all and asks you know questions other than your date of birth. Astrology makes no logical sense in any way shape or form. I really can't see the connection.
@@thorts - When you pay attention to people as much as I do, you'll see what I mean. It's not the tests and psychology that worries me; it's how PEOPLE use the results.
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41 and never cared to marry as I didn't find a compatible partner throughout my dating life. Usually the attraction wears off overtime and I don't want to continue or I'm too intense for some people and they back off. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm not cut out for a committed relationship.
Im 35 and I relate to everything except for your last sentence. I mean maybe though...I'm not sure if I can handle a committed relationship but I dream of having one. But if it's to be a source of torment then I prefer to be alone
Our values are more important than having to have a partner. We will not compromise those values to meet societal standards or expectations.
Very true.
being single is more INTJ thing. every infj I've seen in my life was married or in a relationship. most of them are afraid of being alone.
You’re wrong. Being alone is our nature. You need to research more of other types that’s actually fits this view. Remember infj are rare & it’s almost impossible to know even those who thinks they’re 1 or got a result as infj.
@@graceabounds183 Maybe I'm wrong. I know they need alone time and I hear it from them, but they are always in a relationship. I've had 4 infjs in my life.
I've been in 3 ltr in my life as infj. I felt alone when with them kind of though......they all kind of crazy tho and not honest. I'm very happy alone the last 5 years. Was a period of about 2 to 3 Years alone in-between each of those relationships. I can't say that id never get into another relationship but compatibility would have to be high. I didn't realize I was infj tho until shortly after my last divorce. Was 42 when I found out I was one. Sure would been very helpful to know about all that in my youth. All 3 relationships were good in the beginning when I was decieved then at the end the real truth always came out. Knew something was off all along but gave benefit of the doubt. No relationship can stand the test of time built on lies. I'm actually kind of scared to try again ....hard to find people that fear God and are honest. Could just be due to my own experiences in life. Have more biblical standards now to follow tho and red flags to pay attention to according to my own convictions. 5 Years tho and the ones I have come across don't fit the standards. Plus I work alot anyways and in spare time have projects and chores and prepping to do before going back to work again. Not the most available anyways.
Single for 32 years now, male INFJ here , I don't know others Infj in person just in RUclips but they seem to have relationships usually mmm...
@@hectorpikipiki I don't know about Infj males, but females that I know are married or engaged.
INTJ & INFJ again again
I’m single aswel, but I don’t feel the need to go into a committed relationship again. I never had a true successful one. I tried, but mostly the feelings didn’t develop enough, so I had to break someone’s heart in the end. I don’t like to do that anymore. I also can’t imagine to plan each weekend together or see a partner daily, because I’m used to my freedom and time for myself in my own bubble. With a partner that’s difficult and more limited.
Perhaps my view on this is wrong? What are experiences of other INFJ’s?
Maybe it’s just not for me and maybe it has to do with this personality type.
Thank you for sharing this.
@@PsychologyRefresh No, thank you for making great content! 😉
Hi I am from Indonesia
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ong, they only do infj and intj🤦♂️
:(: am i crossed? Hah
🧐 Hmm. I’m starting to think this whole INFJ/INTJ/etc. stuff is just another form of high-fallutin astrology.
How? Astrology takes nothing about your personality into account at all and asks you know questions other than your date of birth. Astrology makes no logical sense in any way shape or form. I really can't see the connection.
@@thorts - When you pay attention to people as much as I do, you'll see what I mean. It's not the tests and psychology that worries me; it's how PEOPLE use the results.
In terms of romantic relationships, every woman basically is an INFJ.
10 years going on strong single 💪