My ex said: "You don't need anyone". Actually I needed her but she didn't see that. She couldn't read me. It was hard to leave the one I used to see with me for a long time. Finally I used to be alone again and not sure if I want to dive in relationships again. That's not nice
It is okay bro. My ex left me as well due to long distance, I met another one after 9 months. Instead of overthinking , maybe go to the gym to worn out physically. Try dating online , leave those who sound extremely stupid would help you find better partner.
shes not wrong. she could see and sense that you dont need her. meaning you can still function properly without her presence. but what she doesnt know that intjs are committed and loyal but have problems expressing our emotions. They then think we "dont need anyone" without knowing how important they are in our lives. We express our love thru actions more than words. Avoid these mistakes we made so we can better treat our partner the correct way...if we do meet another. But even if we dont, we are capable to live alone. im quite sure of it.
I over analyze until it's impossible to actually start most of my ideas. I analyze my way into the idea, through the process, to solving all the problems, into how it will succeed, then analyzing all of the pitfalls.... until I've analyzed my way right back out of the idea. Considering the ideas never stop coming- ever- it's a maddening never ending circle.
I can relate. I initially thought that carefully analyzing ideas was just a normal part of life, and that it was totally healthy to do it, that it ensured that I could take the best actions related to those ideas and plans. But in reality, I just spend all my time in my head, and very little time to actually do something. I am getting older (42), and I am a little concerned because I still have ideas and projects that I have been postponing for years, because "hmm maybe I should not do it because of that risk", "hmm maybe I should do it because I want to", "hmmm maybe I should think more and prepare for this eventual issue"
I realized very recently that I am suffering from something called "touch starvation". That means I am not experiencing enough human physical contact, and so I am feeling depressed or anxious sometimes, because of it. I know I have been feeling like this for a long time but I always pushed it to the side telling myself human physical contact is overrated. Turns out it is more beneficial that I was anticipated. I wonder if it is a frequent occurence in INTJs? We like being alone, but how much is "too much" ?
I can relate. As an INTJ, I find myself delving into my ambitions and topics of my interests to distract myself from feeling touch starved, leading me to think of human contact as needy and simply bothersome. Isolating myself from others left me with minimal connection with others, which eventually made me feel lonely.
As long as you meet someone really special. Most people like to have fun in social groups and, you know, laugh and tell silly things. But it's not possible to have a real fun when you're just sit and chat with someone. It would be more interesting if you launch rockets, make a hydrogen and then explode it or at least watch science fiction together.
I'm an INTJ and my best friend is an INFP and she is the only one who can read me. I go to her whenever I need to find the right emotion for a situation.
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My ex said: "You don't need anyone". Actually I needed her but she didn't see that. She couldn't read me. It was hard to leave the one I used to see with me for a long time. Finally I used to be alone again and not sure if I want to dive in relationships again. That's not nice
It sounds like you've been through a lot. Take your time to heal and focus on yourself for now.
It is okay bro. My ex left me as well due to long distance, I met another one after 9 months.
Instead of overthinking , maybe go to the gym to worn out physically. Try dating online , leave those who sound extremely stupid would help you find better partner.
shes not wrong. she could see and sense that you dont need her. meaning you can still function properly without her presence. but what she doesnt know that intjs are committed and loyal but have problems expressing our emotions. They then think we "dont need anyone" without knowing how important they are in our lives. We express our love thru actions more than words. Avoid these mistakes we made so we can better treat our partner the correct way...if we do meet another. But even if we dont, we are capable to live alone. im quite sure of it.
@@usersss100 well, it looks like a solitude is the only option for one who can't deal with organic life
I thinkmwe do not deliberately strive to be single, we just tolerate it better. I'd be more than happy to share my life with a compatible partner.
I over analyze until it's impossible to actually start most of my ideas. I analyze my way into the idea, through the process, to solving all the problems, into how it will succeed, then analyzing all of the pitfalls.... until I've analyzed my way right back out of the idea.
Considering the ideas never stop coming- ever- it's a maddening never ending circle.
Hey fellow INTJ want to be friends ?
I can relate.
I initially thought that carefully analyzing ideas was just a normal part of life, and that it was totally healthy to do it, that it ensured that I could take the best actions related to those ideas and plans.
But in reality, I just spend all my time in my head, and very little time to actually do something.
I am getting older (42), and I am a little concerned because I still have ideas and projects that I have been postponing for years, because "hmm maybe I should not do it because of that risk", "hmm maybe I should do it because I want to", "hmmm maybe I should think more and prepare for this eventual issue"
Overthinking? I assure you no simulation run is wasteful and every one very much contributes to optimal convergence.
As an INTJ I can confirm I'm single because of 1, 3 and 4
I thought #2 was normal. 😅😂 I always plan out my social interactions’ potential scenarios ahead of time, even going to the grocery store
That’s why almost all dismissive avoidants are INTJ
I realized very recently that I am suffering from something called "touch starvation". That means I am not experiencing enough human physical contact, and so I am feeling depressed or anxious sometimes, because of it.
I know I have been feeling like this for a long time but I always pushed it to the side telling myself human physical contact is overrated. Turns out it is more beneficial that I was anticipated.
I wonder if it is a frequent occurence in INTJs? We like being alone, but how much is "too much" ?
I can relate. As an INTJ, I find myself delving into my ambitions and topics of my interests to distract myself from feeling touch starved, leading me to think of human contact as needy and simply bothersome. Isolating myself from others left me with minimal connection with others, which eventually made me feel lonely.
As long as you meet someone really special. Most people like to have fun in social groups and, you know, laugh and tell silly things. But it's not possible to have a real fun when you're just sit and chat with someone. It would be more interesting if you launch rockets, make a hydrogen and then explode it or at least watch science fiction together.
Getting a pet, preferably a larger mammal, e.g. a cat or a dog, might alleviate that. It's a surrogate, not a replacement, I know, but it helps.
I'm an INTJ and my best friend is an INFP and she is the only one who can read me. I go to her whenever I need to find the right emotion for a situation.
Be careful, people can betray
1,2,4,5...yep. I gave up on finding my one already
As one of the INTJs, I strongly empathize with 3 and 4.
Ended a relationship because of 1, 2 and 3
I let her go. She's never coming back.
Guess what we never overthink
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The presentation is good and the information is helpful, but the video is distracting and not in a good way.
I feel so called. Haha.
2 and 3
INTJs will open up around the right people, but not always.
Usually?
The reason I'm single is because I'm aroace💚🖤🤍💜
2 and 4