7 Signs You're Not Ready To Be A Wife

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  • Опубликовано: 12 июл 2024
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  • @Ranellstyling
    @Ranellstyling 6 лет назад +141

    Great Video. But for me 1 thing in common is to have a relationship with God this is a MUST.

  • @joanedward3277
    @joanedward3277 6 лет назад +86

    1. You mismanage your money
    2. Nothing in common
    3. You are a liar
    4. Emotionally unstable
    5. You are rude often
    6. Dressing too sexy
    7. Too dependent on him

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Thanks for the break down!

    • @joanedward3277
      @joanedward3277 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis You are always welcome.

    • @Just_janee_
      @Just_janee_ 6 лет назад

      For number 4 are you taking Account people with Metal illness ?

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +1

      Living My Best life If I had a mental illness I would not get married. That’s me.

    • @evelynabena8449
      @evelynabena8449 5 лет назад +1

      Am no. 4😦😦.and trying so hard to stop it but its keeps popping every 3days in a week(i need help) but he still talks about marriage..he doesn't care but tells me i will change..i need an advice.

  • @lauraw3338
    @lauraw3338 6 лет назад +70

    I think you nailed this video. I agree with every dealbreaker you made. When I got married 16 years ago we were best friends and enjoyed working out together. We shared all types of interests together. Spending time with family was also very important at least once a week for dinner. I think before you get married you need to be on the same page as far as what your future goals are. For example, if you plan on having children one day will you want to stay home with your baby? How many children do you want? One of the major causes of divorce is MONEY! Very important to live a comfortable life but not live beyond your means. For men to fell comfortable bills have to be paid on time. When a man feels confident with his job, life and marriage everyone is happy. Another important factor for a successful marriage. When your husband comes home from work give him 30 minutes to himself to unwind before talking about your day. As women we are emotional creatures and tend to talk a lot because we want to share our day with our husband. Please give him 30 minutes when he gets home and you’ll both be a happier couple. God Bless✝️

  • @maiu.9366
    @maiu.9366 6 лет назад +43

    I see people saying that she's not married and should not be making any comments. Wow, and how do you know she didn't learn this from an elder, a personal situation, or just from observing her surroundings? What comes before marriage, air? There are steps leading to marriage and those are the steps she's covering. Not everyone has to be wrist deep in shit to know something, excuse my French. She addressed them all properly and with tact, this is a great start for anyone that is considering marriage. I'm not saying not to ask people that are married but, let's be honest, don't you think their opinion could possibly be biased depending on how they connected with their partner? You have to think about these things... Fools are judgmental but the wise wait and see.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +9

      Imani Wilder This is true. You can learn from everyone. Also, I was married 8 years. I learned a few things over the years.

    • @maiu.9366
      @maiu.9366 6 лет назад +6

      Tynisha Lewis I would've never known that just by watching a video. I wish people asked questions before they let poison spew from their tongues. Keep doing what you're doing because this video helped me make a decision that would've possibly changed my life for the worst. Thank you 😊

    • @isanaallday9744
      @isanaallday9744 6 лет назад +1

      I absolutely agree

    • @pipingify
      @pipingify 6 лет назад +1

      Mai U. 👍🏾
      This is why I tell people I don’t need to be in a relationship to give you relationship advice so many people have been through things we learn from them

  • @prettypooh2934
    @prettypooh2934 6 лет назад +5

    I LOVE the fact that you got straight to the point of the video!!! OMG so many youtubes do SO MUCH RAMBLING and take to long getting to the point!

  • @balancebalance91
    @balancebalance91 6 лет назад +18

    Definitely agree on not showing much skin aThank you for bringing that us!

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      You are welcome! I appreciate you for coming by...

  • @MercyMysteryMusic
    @MercyMysteryMusic 6 лет назад +24

    you had me at " by all means secure as much dental floss as possible" lol

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +2

      Girllll if that is what he want's for her life...and she is ok with it...then 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ LOLOLOL

    • @dreys01
      @dreys01 5 лет назад

      Girl 4 real DENTAL FLOSS😂😂😂

  • @tammybradshaw7175
    @tammybradshaw7175 6 лет назад +6

    Thank you for your transparency my sister!😌🙏

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Tammy Bradshaw you are welcome beautiful!

  • @lr4439
    @lr4439 6 лет назад

    Excellent video. Thank you for sharing these provoking thoughts

  • @ms.fortune2957
    @ms.fortune2957 6 лет назад +2

    GREAT JOB DOLL🌸 Very TRUE

  • @reenamarie8038
    @reenamarie8038 7 лет назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your truth. OMG it really helped me. Be Blessed my Sista.

  • @TK-vu5ny
    @TK-vu5ny 6 лет назад +3

    Great video! Another tip : Your not ready to be married if your still holding on to your past relationships with exes. A lot of people don't know how to let there past go completely to have a better future situations like this hinders people from moving forward because their ex is still popping up at places he knows you will be, showing up your house, still hanging out, and still calling. If you want better you have to do better. Stop entertaining the past and focus on entertaining your present and future because if you don't you will miss your blessing.

  • @safandfranckkodiaelwin4758
    @safandfranckkodiaelwin4758 6 лет назад +5

    love your frankness.

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 6 лет назад +1

    Great Video,thank you!!

  • @chellebelle3686
    @chellebelle3686 5 лет назад +1

    Good stuff sis!!! Loved it!

  • @anitrajohnson7789
    @anitrajohnson7789 6 лет назад +5

    Valid points. Explain why arranged marriages work better than relationships. that people are supposedly compatible.

  • @dearcharlotte3548
    @dearcharlotte3548 6 лет назад +1

    That's true. Its tough when you don't. know this information!! Good job..

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Thank you. I appreciate the feedback! Knowing is half the battle.

  • @MsAlexis
    @MsAlexis 6 лет назад +1

    Thanks for sharing I may fall short on One of those lol

  • @gabriellakyroacou7494
    @gabriellakyroacou7494 7 лет назад

    You are awesome and what you said is absolute truth. Greetings from Cyprus

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад

      Gabriella Kyroacou thank you hun! Greetings from Atlanta Georgia!

  • @genesisgale4013
    @genesisgale4013 6 лет назад +2

    Im on my boyfriends page but this was very on point & specific . That last part tho got me ! I need my own vehicle. I depend on him most times for transportation to & from work

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Yea I would look into getting my own. It's about 2 whole people coming together.

  • @cali4320
    @cali4320 6 лет назад +3

    This video is so insightful, had to subscribe 😘

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +1

      Authentic Scorpio39 I appreciate you...Welcome!

  • @the_light_writer
    @the_light_writer 7 лет назад

    I really appreciate your humor in this. I laughed out loud sooo many times! You are awesome!!

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад

      Sweet Heart No problem Hun...I'm kinda silly...

  • @VONALEXANDRIA
    @VONALEXANDRIA 5 лет назад +1

    I am working on #1 and #4. You are a blessing. I WILL GET THIS UNDER CONTROL AND I WILL MEET MY HUSBAND TO BE THIS YEAR IN JESUS NAME AMEN. I'm going to get these issues right. I can do it. Already working on both now! THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS WAS PERFECT!

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      You are welcome Sis! Be your best self in 2019!

  • @christinamitrovich7554
    @christinamitrovich7554 4 года назад

    Thank you for this video. You are spot on. I am not aiming to be perfect and I don’t think these are serious issues for me but I really want to keep working on this and keep finding new and better strategies.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  4 года назад +1

      When we look at ourselves and actively seek how to become better we are bound to reach the goal!

    • @christinamitrovich7554
      @christinamitrovich7554 4 года назад

      Tynisha Lewis thank you, yes this is true. This is all we can do really.

  • @17Sharu
    @17Sharu 7 лет назад +10

    Seriously helpful even though i am from different culture and different continent .

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад +1

      Sharu Smith I understand...but we can all help one another...despite differences

  • @wellthatsinteresting1
    @wellthatsinteresting1 6 лет назад

    I ain't gonna lie when I first clicked on your video I was waiting to hear your credentials how long you been married so forth and so on but after watching the whole video you made some extremely good points that people that have been married for a while probably needed to hear so thanks for the info blessings

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +2

      LOL...life is my only experience....and common sense..and you are right so many don't use that... Love ya!

  • @rachelrodrigues691
    @rachelrodrigues691 7 лет назад +13

    then I'm ready to get marryed

  • @livelaughForte
    @livelaughForte 7 лет назад +1

    I would love an engagement version of this. My boyfriend is talking about it and we would have a 2 year engagement. Something along that sorts, not a short engagement just for wedding planning.

  • @divinegodesslife8816
    @divinegodesslife8816 6 лет назад +5

    You don’t have to have the same interests. Opposites attract and sometimes balance the relationship out

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +4

      Traci Love you don't have to do any of the things I suggested. But studies show that couples who share the same interests typically have greater longevity and their relationships.

    • @divinegodesslife8816
      @divinegodesslife8816 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis yes but this is an opinion not a fact.

    • @stephlon6757
      @stephlon6757 6 лет назад +2

      True , i was just about to say that.

  • @modnys6842
    @modnys6842 4 года назад

    Mmmh gud advice girl. Thnx 4 dat

  • @Mrskaseymunzer
    @Mrskaseymunzer 5 лет назад

    I loved this!!!! You make so much sense and you are so hilarious!!! 😂 love it!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️👍🏻🙏🏻

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      Awww thank you....that means a lot

  • @mercymallari3871
    @mercymallari3871 6 лет назад

    Many thanks for sharing nd agreed with my dear..

  • @brendafontem2301
    @brendafontem2301 7 лет назад +14

    I like ur makeup

  • @greenfairy549
    @greenfairy549 7 лет назад +7

    I fail. I'm not ready to be a wife. I only pass the rude part. I'm polite and nice.

    • @jwesson30
      @jwesson30 7 лет назад

      Catherine Flores
      Research the word "nice".. And you will realize that your not that either..

    • @greenfairy549
      @greenfairy549 7 лет назад +7

      jwesson30 and how do know that? Do you even know me?

    • @alilrazzledazzle992
      @alilrazzledazzle992 5 лет назад

      @@greenfairy549 The word nice schematically means stupid or foolish. That's probably why the commentator said that. 😊

  • @keyonpatterson78
    @keyonpatterson78 6 лет назад

    Well done!

  • @gambacherkalbenstein
    @gambacherkalbenstein 3 года назад

    "seven signs you're NOT ready for marriage...
    ...READY...?!?!"
    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @peaceblessings7008
    @peaceblessings7008 5 лет назад +1

    Finding true love begins with Loving yourself. You must know that you are whole, complete and do not need another human being to complete you.
    Then you will recognize and attract people who are vibrating at the same frequency.
    Your life is a mirror. You will only attract that which you are on the inside.
    Love attracts love.
    Two halves will never make a whole.
    You attract your soulmate by becoming your soulmate.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      This sounds really good. Like out of a book. But in the real world, TRUE LOVE comes in several forms and there is no formula to it.

  • @ZahraaSawan
    @ZahraaSawan 6 лет назад +1

    spot on. I know this is an old video but I agree with everything you said in this video. especially the “dressing like a stripper” part. A man who ACTUALLY loves his wife, won’t want her entire body out. unfortunately people don’t like hearing that though😹😹

  • @samarawilliams9060
    @samarawilliams9060 6 лет назад +2

    I love you xx keeping it real girl

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Samara Williams Thx Sis...I appreciate you..

  • @koffe323
    @koffe323 5 лет назад +1

    Proverbs 31 says clearly what a earthly wife should be

  • @thisllamadontwantyourdrama6241
    @thisllamadontwantyourdrama6241 6 лет назад

    Your amazing, my typa girl

  • @buttercup5920
    @buttercup5920 6 лет назад +1

    GREAT VIDEO.. IF YALL LOOK UP THE VIDEO "MISS HIGH STANDARDS" by ITSREAL85... he is describing how this woman so called high maintenance but living in the dark... ITS REALLY FUNNY😂😂

  • @normabarros3124
    @normabarros3124 6 лет назад

    Ooh this is good amen

  • @lovelydove99
    @lovelydove99 6 лет назад +8

    Y’all this is just her opinions. She’s stating how SHE THINKS a woman should act if they’re ready to get married or not. Only person who knows if they’re ready to get married is yourself & your partner.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Right! My opinion based on my own marriage and the hundreds of makeup and hair clients I have had over the last 14 years. This is wisdom speaking but at the end of the day...people have to decide what THEY want..

  • @sabrinapisa5324
    @sabrinapisa5324 6 лет назад

    I like the way u said it

  • @XAudreyS
    @XAudreyS 6 лет назад

    Great video.. I think some of these are more opinion based than science based.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      XAudreyS The whole video is opinion. Lol...

  • @kendraforrest8845
    @kendraforrest8845 7 лет назад +1

    I love your video

  • @laurenlocd3180
    @laurenlocd3180 6 лет назад

    Damn she canceled me out with the money lmao only thing is I pay all my bills but I spend up what’s left til I’m broke smh

  • @lindabitwayiki2474
    @lindabitwayiki2474 6 лет назад +4

    Great video, but she mentioned about emotions I agree with her, 50 50 and disagree cos at end of the day we are all humans, we can't be happy all the time, am not saying, it good to sad. But they are gonna be good days and bad days soo it part life, his got expert the girl, how she is simple so

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      I am not speaking about daily changes of emotion. I am more so speaking about people who have very little emotionally stability.

    • @lindabitwayiki2474
      @lindabitwayiki2474 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis yeah I get where you're coming from regarding emotionally unstable, but at same the time, sometimes, it difficult to control it, cos for example if things are not well in a relationship your not gonna pretend all time, you got tell him how u feel sometimes

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +1

      People who have difficulty controlling their own emotions will find it hard to have a meaningful relationships because as we know emotions move daily (hence the word e-motions) We have to just be aware of where we let them go...

    • @cspann33
      @cspann33 6 лет назад

      Linda Bitwayiki: In cases like this, it’s important to then seek a professional, a therapist to assist you with managing your emotions. Managing your emotions is for your wellbeing and peace. If the relationship disrupts that then it’s time to examine if marriage counseling will work or an exist plan is necessary.

  • @gcervantes1985
    @gcervantes1985 5 лет назад

    Excellent video. You're hilarious! Vagina..dental floss!! Lmao🤣

  • @vhunter500ify
    @vhunter500ify 3 года назад +1

    This video showed up in my recommendations I didn’t even watch the video yet and I already know I’m not ready to be a wife I want to be financially stable and not living with my mom before I jump into a relationship 😂😂😂

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  3 года назад

      At least you are honest with yourself.

  • @saiyongdawn7756
    @saiyongdawn7756 6 лет назад +2

    READY
    NOW GOTTA FIND HIM. LOL
    Oh wait, dang it. A lil bit in debt but I got that covered.......soon.

  • @mercymallari3871
    @mercymallari3871 6 лет назад

    This topic was always been neglected to ask by ourselves nd we need to accept it bcoz we dont know nd it doesnt matter to us instead we follow our hearts ..thats the big difference between using our hearts over our mind only instead of planning before mking decisions nd needs to evaluate ourselves b4 we get marry

  • @chinlatabafaras1752
    @chinlatabafaras1752 6 лет назад

    Tanx. I am so ready

    • @chinlatabafaras1752
      @chinlatabafaras1752 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis lol I will ensure u are invited Wen the time comes

  • @cloudstudents2196
    @cloudstudents2196 3 года назад

    A lot of people are carrying : offence , selfishness , hurt and manipulation..
    They are just NOT genuinely saved or born again!

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  3 года назад +1

      I think they are saved and born again, but many times even after getting saved and born again we still have residue of sin. It is a process to get delivered from all the mess we accumulate before salvation.

  • @sidneysmith3426
    @sidneysmith3426 6 лет назад

    Awesome video

  • @keishakoldbraidsz
    @keishakoldbraidsz 4 года назад

    On point

  • @chandlerjones6335
    @chandlerjones6335 7 лет назад +6

    I'm bipolar i know I'm not ready to be a wife I'm only 18 but I will always have bipolar disorder also what about all the stay at home mothers ? I've raised my brothers and sisters and also babysit a lot (taken care of a lot of kids) and it's not easy I don't want to come off as rude I'm just curious as to what you think about these things considering some of the things mentioned in your video......

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад +5

      Is your bipolarism under control? If not, start there first.

    • @TheKendra1423
      @TheKendra1423 6 лет назад +6

      Chandler Jones. You just need some deliverance from that bipolar Demon

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 6 лет назад +4

      kendra w Exactly. She needs deliverance. Jesus came to set the captives free and bipolar disorder is not your portion.

    • @fazyt86
      @fazyt86 6 лет назад

      LostTheRemote thank you for saying this so well! People need to be educated on mental health, the world (especially America) needs to focus on mental wellness, before making statements like that.

    • @francieodendahl9351
      @francieodendahl9351 5 лет назад

      @@TheKendra1423 yep find a good and godly love.

  • @TiffanyTooFlyy
    @TiffanyTooFlyy 6 лет назад

    “If you would rather spend money on a weave rather than pay your bills” ... I feel targeted🤣😂

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Champagne Mami Sorry Sis. Not my intention.

    • @NODE1975
      @NODE1975 5 лет назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ConnorsHike
    @ConnorsHike 6 лет назад

    Love you!

  • @michels98
    @michels98 6 лет назад +2

    Subscribed

  • @wendkonta3673
    @wendkonta3673 6 лет назад

    Hello Ma’am! May I please speak to you in private? I would like to ask for some advice. Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @2881coco
    @2881coco 6 лет назад +2

    Good points but how do you know if you're just a girlfriend? No shade just asking...I say that to say those are the basics but marrage is deep and tough knowing what people don't usually talk about is just deeper for a wife or long term "live with" relationship. Either way good video.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +2

      Stacy Ann Fraser I guess these are some things I learned during my 8-year marriage. And also what I learned prior to marriage.

  • @user-vg9ns9fz6u
    @user-vg9ns9fz6u 6 лет назад +3

    1:15 - 1:21
    wise + funny at the same time.

  • @mylishahurt9717
    @mylishahurt9717 6 лет назад +3

    Ready! lol

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Mylisha Hurt Yaaaaayyyy....invite me to the wedding....lol

  • @tynishabrown2806
    @tynishabrown2806 7 лет назад

    Good video and we have the same first name.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад +1

      tynisha johnson Thanks Sis! Yes we rock!

  • @MultiPretty1989
    @MultiPretty1989 6 лет назад

    God first overall but U told the truth 100 💯

  • @filafresh9572
    @filafresh9572 5 лет назад

    I know some don't want to hear this but #1 is a reason why some men cheat bc although u LOVE ya woman but if she becomes more like a daughter than a wife/partner you will seek the attention of a WOMAN. I know some will say just leave but how do you leave a person that is totally dependant on you especially if there's kids involved.

  • @LeilaniAlua
    @LeilaniAlua 6 лет назад

    I agree!!

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +1

      Thanks Sis!

    • @LeilaniAlua
      @LeilaniAlua 6 лет назад +1

      You are welcome :) you should rush marriage which I feel like a lot of young people do.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Soooo true

    • @LeilaniAlua
      @LeilaniAlua 6 лет назад

      Should'nt*

  • @fea8003
    @fea8003 7 лет назад

    How about a woman or wife who likes happy go lucky a lot and leave her baby to her husband just to go shopping and partying with her friends? I met a lot of women like this. Another wife likes wearing clothes that almost see her boobs? But her husband is proud of it?
    Geez, I have some friends who are like these. In my case, I mostly stay at home reading books, and taking care of the house and pets while my husband is working. He didn't like me to work and we argue a lot every time I ask his permission to work. I want to work because I want to help my husband for the bills. Instead, he sends me to school but I'm tired going to school at my age 30s. Any advice? Thanks Tynisha.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад

      Maldita Babae I think that even though you are married you still should have some kind of life. So going out with your friends and shopping is okay as long as it's not excessive. If her husband likes to see her boobs then I don't see anything wrong with it as long as she is pleasing him. If you would like to work but your husband does not want you to work then you kind of got to go along with what he says. But you all should have discussed this prior to you getting married to him.

  • @ericsimmons9166
    @ericsimmons9166 6 лет назад

    Facts

  • @andreafoxx7722
    @andreafoxx7722 5 лет назад +1

    I AM READY FOR MARRIAGE AND KNOW MY PARTNER IS TOO

  • @geremya1143
    @geremya1143 6 лет назад

    nice.

  • @skyek.1787
    @skyek.1787 5 лет назад

    If you can't be comfortably financially dependent on your husband, you shouldn't be having babies with that person. A marriage is about trust and working together. Nothing wrong with a woman cooking, cleaning, and rearing the kids without throwing a job into the mix. That's honest work already, and any decent man knows and respects that. Hope you become ready to get married one day, girl.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      I get your point but cooking, cleaning, and raising kids is not a 24hr/day job. A smart woman is not fully depending on a man’s income in today’s society. I was married 8 years, so I guess that day has come and gone.🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @cherishdeb
    @cherishdeb 6 лет назад

    If I was a waiter and somebody called me stupid, I would insult them right back because people think just because you're at work disrespecting you is okay because you can't retaliate. Not this one! But somebody who insults their waiter is just ignorant. You're asking for the quality of your food to be compromised!!!!

  • @footballriders4480
    @footballriders4480 5 лет назад

    Sign 1: I said I'm outta here

  • @goldennxtae5954
    @goldennxtae5954 5 лет назад

    you look so beautiful mam💗💗💗

  • @mindyourbusiness4369
    @mindyourbusiness4369 4 года назад

    If a woman can’t cook and clean. You are not ready to get married.

  • @jenniferbarnwell4109
    @jenniferbarnwell4109 4 года назад

    That’s me but I still living at home 🏡 even if I did have my own crib still I don’t need rush into marriage then I like soap operas but if I meet that guy he not gonna watch soap operas guys are not interested in that.

  • @PrettyOmnificent333
    @PrettyOmnificent333 6 лет назад +4

    Iv seen so many people with all those bad characteristics and thier married lols .

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      African Barbie being happily married is TOTALLY different that being miserable and married. Goal of this video is to prevent being miserable. So you're friends may be married AND miserable which no one wants...

  • @koffe323
    @koffe323 5 лет назад

    Ephesians 5 clearly states a earthly husband

  • @rogandajoekoe-pinas4905
    @rogandajoekoe-pinas4905 6 лет назад

    This rules are for not being able to be in a relationship in general.

  • @freakinusername
    @freakinusername 6 лет назад

    then i think i might be ready. i hope that God send me a good husband one day ❤

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +1

      Freakin username position yourself to be found. Go out and enjoy life.. he’s out there..

    • @freakinusername
      @freakinusername 5 лет назад

      thank you ! :)

  • @boongaa_nad
    @boongaa_nad 5 лет назад

    Another reason that i think i not ready to marry is becouse i am independent person and not rely to any body include him in my life..

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      That could be true. But you have to give him a chance to prove you can rely on him. If he keeps failing then you know what to do...

  • @dmmurphy4629
    @dmmurphy4629 6 лет назад

    💍

  • @koffe323
    @koffe323 5 лет назад

    living together before marriage is not a good look

  • @thequeen4140
    @thequeen4140 6 лет назад +3

    Idk why im here, im 14 xd

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад +2

      You'll be prepared when the time comes..

  • @adelineproverbs3139
    @adelineproverbs3139 5 лет назад

    Meagan good is always sexy, she's married. And many women I know who dress sexy are married.

  • @nubianbeauty513
    @nubianbeauty513 6 лет назад +1

    Was.... O ok

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Sapphire Evans Right...so unlike others who can only teach you how to be a "boo" or "bae" or "bust down" which clearly you are currently... I can teach you a little more... #StillTryingIt #StillFailing #FlipsHair

  • @anitrajohnson7789
    @anitrajohnson7789 6 лет назад +1

    A great deal of rude people are rude. I disagree with you. You have valid points.

    • @anitrajohnson7789
      @anitrajohnson7789 6 лет назад

      Rude people are married.

    • @anitrajohnson7789
      @anitrajohnson7789 6 лет назад

      Most women are really independent. Marriage would be the next step in the development stage.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Anitra Johnson a lot of those rude people are getting divorced. They call it irreconcilable differences.

    • @blessingsjoylove8723
      @blessingsjoylove8723 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis 🙌🙌🙌

  • @koffe323
    @koffe323 5 лет назад

    having is sex before marriage is not withing Gods convent

  • @cocoleche149
    @cocoleche149 6 лет назад

    I have borderline... so im never ready for marriage?

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Rox Nadaa borderline what? Schizophrenia?

    • @cocoleche149
      @cocoleche149 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis no, mood swings constantly change of thinking..its absolute torture and im feeling extreme unhappy, its the enemy. Im damaged because of what happend in my childhood. Sometimes i feel im being controlled its so powerfull no dokters can help me. I pray to God than the devil will let me go

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      Rox Nadaa I pray God give you relief and a sound mind.

    • @cocoleche149
      @cocoleche149 6 лет назад

      Tynisha Lewis thank you i appreciate it ♡

  • @stephencoleman4424
    @stephencoleman4424 6 лет назад

    Man In the Mirror

  • @stephanieredding8483
    @stephanieredding8483 7 лет назад +4

    I'm​ so ready to get married , I have 15 kids by him the last child is 11yrs.old , We been together for 32years now . we have made plans off an on still nothing happens. I want to show the world how much I love this man , time is passing by so fast . so I'm asking the most high to make things right so we can be come Mr.Misses Redding in GOD HANDS . I love you Calvin Redding

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  7 лет назад +3

      Stephanie Redding I wish you the best...

    • @jwesson30
      @jwesson30 7 лет назад +15

      Stephanie Redding
      You're past stupid. You've graduated to dumb..

    • @CurtisReese-tl7ip
      @CurtisReese-tl7ip 6 лет назад +16

      You're joking right? 15 damn kids and he hasn't married you yet? He isn't going to. He knows you aren't going anywhere because nobody wants a woman with that many damn kids. This is your life.

    • @andreaj5067
      @andreaj5067 6 лет назад +2

      Stephanie Redding prayers up

    • @CurtisReese-tl7ip
      @CurtisReese-tl7ip 6 лет назад +2

      Why are you calling yourself Mrs Redding?

  • @ohvee8515
    @ohvee8515 6 лет назад

    Sorry sis but you saying that no common ground on saying you go to church and he don't...i do not agree with you....If you are a christian person number one priority is to pray for a Godly husband with a pationate heart of God as you are.Thank you anyways...i learnt a lot.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  6 лет назад

      vimbai more I'm saying what the Word says which is that Christians should not be unequally yoked with non-christians. That is a setup for confusion and dissension.

  • @adelineproverbs3139
    @adelineproverbs3139 5 лет назад

    You don't need to have things in common. Except when it comes to christianity, you both have to be christians.

    • @Tynishalewis
      @Tynishalewis  5 лет назад

      Yes you do. Some common interests helps build relationship. Try dating someone who has NO common interests and then tell me how it goes.

  • @charmaineberry7701
    @charmaineberry7701 6 лет назад

    Yes this good video

  • @mariepierremont3233
    @mariepierremont3233 6 лет назад +3

    Funnnnnn---------yyyyyyyyyyy

  • @sugarraynay4153
    @sugarraynay4153 5 лет назад

    Like like like

  • @pauriansuliman949
    @pauriansuliman949 6 лет назад +3

    I disagree you dont necessarily have to have the same interests