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  • Iyanla Vanzant heads to rural Minnesota to help a former nurse whose family refuses to forgive her after her headline-making mistake threatens to ruin the family's reputation. (Original Air Date: June 28, 2014) Watch more of Iyanla Fix My Life on the WatchOWN app and visit: www.oprah.com/...
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  • @parismonay_
    @parismonay_ 7 месяцев назад +237

    She made a mistake. But, her family is so self entitled. Everyone needs to work on themselves. They need to quit acting like they are better than Tess when they have their own issues.

    • @thabsmkhize2481
      @thabsmkhize2481 6 месяцев назад +19

      Yeah I was so confused, drinking, gambling and bullying and they thought TESS was the problem?! Not only that, the mom also had a drinking problem, a pills problem and was mean just like Gina. Soooo… why the finger pointing? 🤔🙃

    • @MrDaRiAn21
      @MrDaRiAn21 6 месяцев назад +5

      I believe that’s why Darcy wasn’t happy with the experience, because she was being in her mind, exposed

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ 4 месяца назад +1

      this is so true.. l think less was the most successful and educated of all the sisters.. so when she made a mistake, they jumped on it! and of course, her..
      this reminds me of a family l know and the baby of that family was the same..
      very sad.

  • @vanessashimoni6548
    @vanessashimoni6548 6 месяцев назад +46

    Tess got addicted to pain killers, what she did afterwards was wrong and she paid the price for it. Her relatives are so busy being angry at her for things that don’t really concern them and as it turns out, most of them have issues of addiction.

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 7 месяцев назад +65

    Wow. Tess was IN PAIN and made a mistake. Her family should be more concerned wirh her health and well being instead of focusing on how she "made the family look bad".

  • @htownstar1232
    @htownstar1232 7 месяцев назад +31

    GINA GUHHHHHH, STOP IT. YOU ONE OS THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS ACTING LIKE ITS EVERYONE BUT YOU¡

  • @giftedsun
    @giftedsun 6 месяцев назад +125

    I am marathon watching Queen Iyanla and these newer episodes! This Woman should always have a show!! It helps to heal us all.

    • @ElvinaLSmith
      @ElvinaLSmith 5 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. I take something from every show.

    • @jennicoop7998
      @jennicoop7998 5 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. I have learned better ways to communicate what I need to say and or how to approach the situation

    • @dianemakwela1335
      @dianemakwela1335 5 месяцев назад

      I fully agree, every story is like a good counselling session. THANK YOU Iyanla❤

    • @fanniemoore8079
      @fanniemoore8079 2 месяца назад

      what show?

    • @chanteandrews849
      @chanteandrews849 Месяц назад

      I’ve been binge watching for about 2 weeks now and I’m over here healing too🤣

  • @rashadbishop1465
    @rashadbishop1465 6 месяцев назад +67

    Iyanla knows how to use objects in her demonstration to break the barriers in the storms of life. People can say whatever they want to about her, we thank God for her🙌🏾.

    • @lelebrown0531
      @lelebrown0531 6 месяцев назад +4

      Yess I love her so much ❤because this how you get though your healing process

    • @rashadbishop1465
      @rashadbishop1465 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@lelebrown0531 amen to that 🙏🏾.

  • @Trenton.D
    @Trenton.D 7 месяцев назад +89

    We ALL have a past! You do not get to judge if you don’t know the whole story. Some people make disgusting mistakes but accept it, accept responsibility, learn from it; move forward, be a better person, and expend all their energy making sure they never make those mistakes again.

    • @MrDedvalson
      @MrDedvalson 7 месяцев назад +6

      So true.

    • @1Glamrys
      @1Glamrys 7 месяцев назад +2

      I LOVE that you wrote this! We are all imperfect but everyday we must work to be better. This world needs to embrace empathy and grace. Sending love and light!

  • @DarlingWheresthecoffee
    @DarlingWheresthecoffee 7 месяцев назад +98

    Addiction runs in the family

    • @dwlsn93
      @dwlsn93 7 дней назад

      Addiction is a demon. Demons enter through trauma. Trauma enters into families. 😢 But Jesus can set them all free ❤

  • @Sweettricey
    @Sweettricey 7 месяцев назад +66

    Maybe Darcy felt too exposed. I feel like she learned something from this experience but doesn’t like how it makes her look on tv for some reason.

    • @NicciBart
      @NicciBart 6 месяцев назад +3

      I agree. I figured Gina would’ve said that since she didn’t really open up.

  • @noluthandomaseti3257
    @noluthandomaseti3257 6 месяцев назад +43

    I love how Mama Iyanla has taught me to tell the hard truth to myself and to be accountable for my actions.

  • @harrietmuchu5434
    @harrietmuchu5434 7 месяцев назад +101

    Iyanla is a GIFT to the world!

  • @InspireFreedomForever
    @InspireFreedomForever 7 месяцев назад +64

    At least these families care enough to try. Some families wouldn't even agree to try and be helped.

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ 4 месяца назад

      they wanted to be on tv..

    • @soradanam8160
      @soradanam8160 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@BEAUTYnIQ How did you figure that? Maybe they actually wanted help on their family.

  • @Daniellehiu
    @Daniellehiu 7 месяцев назад +94

    Why would she apologize to the mom? She didn't do anything to her. Apologize to the patients, hospital, whatever, but the mom?

    • @BreeMooreProductions
      @BreeMooreProductions 6 месяцев назад +7

      I said the same thing!

    • @BreeMooreProductions
      @BreeMooreProductions 6 месяцев назад +6

      I’ve figured it out after watching. Her mom was jealous of her and the nursing opportunity. I believe her mom was living through her and when the opportunity failed. Her moma felt a host of emotions. It’s deep. Overall it had nothing to do with Tess

    • @unicoh972
      @unicoh972 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@BreeMooreProductionsI disagree, I think the mom was proud of her for being better then she was and then hurt and embarrassed by her daughter not only failing herself but also being on the news letting the world know that she had stolen her patients meds

    • @JulieLambert-b1l
      @JulieLambert-b1l 6 месяцев назад +4

      Wow, her family is ridiculous!!! Her issues go back to that family FOR SURE!!!

    • @yvettekinchking8838
      @yvettekinchking8838 6 месяцев назад +2

      I feel for the mother as well. 😢

  • @coreycalloway3268
    @coreycalloway3268 7 месяцев назад +69

    Why would she apologize to mom, when she herself was the one with the issue, not mom. I'm confused

    • @DarlingWheresthecoffee
      @DarlingWheresthecoffee 7 месяцев назад +10

      Mom is being weird

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ 4 месяца назад

      the mom is jealous.. so are the sisters..
      so sad.
      why can't they just support her..

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ 4 месяца назад

      and love her..

  • @michellemargagliotti8035
    @michellemargagliotti8035 6 месяцев назад +46

    Lots of individual pain in this episode. The sister that wouldn’t self reflect and played victim all the time has serious issues.

    • @noluthandomaseti3257
      @noluthandomaseti3257 6 месяцев назад +4

      So true. She's concerning.

    • @christinelitvak6427
      @christinelitvak6427 3 месяца назад +1

      I think that the body language of the sister that would not share has some abuse issues with a family member, and/or, she might have gender conflicts and feels that sharing those things openly would be too intense for her to face at this time. Hopefully, she gets some outside counseling and eventually feels that the family would accept her.

  • @IAMBRITTNEYLASHA
    @IAMBRITTNEYLASHA 7 месяцев назад +110

    The Universe heard me! Keep them coming! I hope we can get Iya back on tv in some capacity too!
    Sending you love and gratitude Iya! 😘

    • @IAMBRITTNEYLASHA
      @IAMBRITTNEYLASHA 7 месяцев назад

      @@nubeing8381 she has a RUclips channel, where she uploads regularly.

  • @Xzaany
    @Xzaany 7 месяцев назад +34

    Why do she need to apologize to her mom I mean yea she made a mistake but she has to live with it not the mom

    • @SweetLivingByGrace
      @SweetLivingByGrace 4 месяца назад +1

      Because some people believe in honoring their parents by not bringing shame to their parents. Some people believe that when their parents release them into the world, that they are a reflection of the upbringing, teachings, values, morals, etc. I've always kept that in mind through ought my adulthood even if my parents were flawed, I still wanted to be better than who they raised. I never wanted to disappoint.

  • @fbasha9270
    @fbasha9270 7 месяцев назад +25

    I can't believe how her family is kicking her at her worst. She did something wrong and big mistake but family is about rallying and supporting your family at their lowest. Not making excuses for her but still having her back

  • @BassDean
    @BassDean 6 месяцев назад +19

    Parents think children don't see/hear stuff. You'd be surprised how much kids know about you that you thought they didn't know. I like how Iyanla told the mom to go and hug her weeping daughter. She looks like she's not used to showing up that way for them.

  • @joycesolomon9894
    @joycesolomon9894 7 месяцев назад +43

    Tess has an unsupportive extended family.

    • @daniyale2848
      @daniyale2848 7 месяцев назад +13

      I find it funny how they all have an addiction to something. They're all pointing fingers at Tess and it's 3 more pointing back at them.

  • @brittneybrayboy4840
    @brittneybrayboy4840 7 месяцев назад +30

    When she broke down from the slight physical touch of her mother, so did I. 😢😢

  • @lupeachradavis6893
    @lupeachradavis6893 7 месяцев назад +26

    The whining is annoying

    • @BrittanyHunter-f6w
      @BrittanyHunter-f6w 7 месяцев назад

      So annoying! She’s a child in a woman’s body

  • @bugsybrown1745
    @bugsybrown1745 5 месяцев назад +11

    Tess was a scapegoat presented on a golden platter for them

  • @marpace8837
    @marpace8837 6 месяцев назад +20

    They are using her public embarrassment and choice to abuse her.😢

  • @BrittanyHunter-f6w
    @BrittanyHunter-f6w 7 месяцев назад +25

    Why do they continue to chase the goofy one when she has a tantrum? She doesn’t have anywhere else to go because she’s so miserable-she’ll be back lol

  • @ayandakhumalo8692
    @ayandakhumalo8692 7 месяцев назад +60

    Thank you for uploading. Watching from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @RecklessInspirer
    @RecklessInspirer 6 месяцев назад +9

    Gina is forever a victim in her own eyes. Everything is everyone’s fault.

  • @karyndutton8154
    @karyndutton8154 6 месяцев назад +18

    Oh this episode is so heartbreaking. A mom looking at her girls and jealous because she felt she couldn’t accomplish what they did.

    • @BEAUTYnIQ
      @BEAUTYnIQ 4 месяца назад +1

      you nailed it.. jealousy.

  • @az1infin268
    @az1infin268 7 месяцев назад +75

    If the "criminal justice system" was sincere and successful it would look a lot more like this episode of the Iyanla show. Therapy should be mandatory for people embarrassed and damaged by such an unjust, racist system.

    • @moringaottawa
      @moringaottawa 7 месяцев назад

      Unfortunately abuse runs rampant in the arena of clinical psychiatry and therapy and it goes without saying that vulnerable people bear the brunt and burden of those abuses.

    • @FreedomofSpeech865
      @FreedomofSpeech865 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@moringaottawaabuse does not run rampant in the mental health field. They are a code of ethics that must be adhered to or a complaint can be lodged thru the licensing board . You are confusing mental health with law enforcement

    • @unicoh972
      @unicoh972 6 месяцев назад +2

      Please explain elaborate a little further because I know you’re not saying that because of her skin color she was treated unjust when in fact had she been a person with melanated skin , that person would’ve been thrown in prison

    • @unicoh972
      @unicoh972 6 месяцев назад

      She knew exactly what she was doing and didn’t care until she got caught and now she wants sympathy and to be the victim, Bs !!

    • @unicoh972
      @unicoh972 6 месяцев назад +1

      She refuses to take responsibility for her actions , including the many people whose meds she stole for her addiction and caused them pain but also she wants to play the victim and doesn’t have any remorse because she doesn’t want her family to tell her the truth! As a nurse she claims she didn’t know how to say she needed help but yet nurses are trained to give addicted patients pamphlets and information to get help. She’s only ashamed because she got caught!!

  • @discolissa666
    @discolissa666 7 месяцев назад +21

    This family is messed up

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 6 месяцев назад +15

    I've worked in healthcare for decades. There are millions of " Tess's". Nurses, Drs. What is clear is the Nurse addict, and the other addict, are two different people in the justice system.

  • @kay8322
    @kay8322 5 месяцев назад +5

    Ppl think we who have 2 parents growing up is so peachy. Its not talked about enough how some of us were still abandoned. Our mothers neglected eveeyone around them but never their men. The my were married oick me's

  • @keneilwenooi1571
    @keneilwenooi1571 6 месяцев назад +8

    I agree with the You Tubers on Iyanla's Gift 🤜🏾🤛🏾 We need to Forgive One Another especially as Family. We Thank God for You Iyanla, Continue Healing the World 🙌🏾...from SA with Love... ❤🇿🇦🙏🏾😇

  • @visualsofthestorm
    @visualsofthestorm 7 месяцев назад +15

    Wow Iyanna is really good this entire family was hurting and in pain hopefully they all healed and much closer now

  • @tashahall9066
    @tashahall9066 7 месяцев назад +33

    Love you, Iyanla you are such a powerful spirit and healer.

  • @LaV593
    @LaV593 7 месяцев назад +19

    The mother is a piece of work!!!!!

  • @rebeccareplies
    @rebeccareplies 6 месяцев назад +19

    Your such a great Black Woman, You Helped So Many People.

    • @grietjedraijer6692
      @grietjedraijer6692 4 месяца назад

      She is a woman , colour and race is not relevant

  • @AquariusGoddess-sg9yk
    @AquariusGoddess-sg9yk 7 месяцев назад +10

    I couldn't even watch all of this because they are sitting up there making it about THEM and not Tess.

  • @CC-nd7oe
    @CC-nd7oe 7 месяцев назад +17

    Mom wanted attention so she didn’t have much of it to give to her children. What a cycle

  • @blackcosmos
    @blackcosmos 6 месяцев назад +6

    "Is that water proof mascara if not this is gonna be a hot mess at the end of it" 😂🤣
    "I am a minister & this work is my ministry & I'm a life coach. I'm here cause your not winning at your game I'm here to interrupt your pattern"
    -Iyanla Vanzant 💕

  • @QueenAthena0903
    @QueenAthena0903 6 месяцев назад +7

    I love Iyanla so much. She cares so much for others ❤️

  • @goddesslr4692
    @goddesslr4692 5 месяцев назад +6

    35 min in...
    Kayla-forgotten child
    Darcy-forgotten child
    Gina-golden child
    Tess-scapegoat child
    In families as such, the scapegoat children have the most potential in family units...they're reasonable...ppl in the family use them to feel better about themselves...Scapegoats are the strongest in these families...
    Just wow, the revelations of what the other sisters and what mom do/did to numb their own pain has me speechless....the audacity of pointing fingers, demanding apologies etc ....look in the mirror and WORK ON SELF!

    • @christinelitvak6427
      @christinelitvak6427 3 месяца назад

      Gina, the golden child had some closed-lip, tight shoulder, run away in a bind, body language that says what she can't open up about might be some abuse by a close family member or a gender identity conflict that the others are shunning her for.

  • @dolled-upjen3606
    @dolled-upjen3606 7 месяцев назад +23

    We all make mistakes

  • @faithgift
    @faithgift 6 месяцев назад +8

    I salute Iyanla ❤👌🏼

  • @jessicamaclean5767
    @jessicamaclean5767 5 месяцев назад +3

    Wow… so the family doesn’t understand addiction AT ALL

  • @stars-are-us
    @stars-are-us 6 месяцев назад +3

    Classic. Women in the past were stressed trying to please men. Their dad and her husband cheated, beat, and disrespected the women. NOW, the plot is thick. Women, get out of YOUR OWN way‼️ Sometimes it's hard to get out and stay out the way of our hurts and wants.

  • @Stayput1208
    @Stayput1208 7 месяцев назад +12

    And yet many here is watching but not seeing anything or listening.
    STOP THE JUDGEMENT NONE OF US ARE PERFECT. Stop the finger pointing .

  • @beej6658
    @beej6658 6 месяцев назад +6

    They all need to get lives of their own

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 7 месяцев назад +7

    Gina is quite entitled

  • @george4u1960
    @george4u1960 6 месяцев назад +4

    Darcy said she was done with that family. I know how she feels.

  • @meghanferrari6501
    @meghanferrari6501 5 месяцев назад +3

    Addiction is an unhealthy coping mechanism. Its what happens when one can't control their emotions and the things happening around them.

  • @isisramirez4088
    @isisramirez4088 5 месяцев назад +2

    They ALLL had struggles with addiction WHY are they throwing her business in her face. I would struggle to be accountable for my actions too. Also.. Tess is the wrong sister to be worried about it's the red head that needs the exorcism.

  • @SweetLivingByGrace
    @SweetLivingByGrace 4 месяца назад +3

    Oh, I see now! The daughters are the mother's fruit.

  • @katelaloba8243
    @katelaloba8243 7 месяцев назад +7

    I learn so much from her

  • @Inputdonutz
    @Inputdonutz 5 месяцев назад +2

    They all were addicted to something

  • @nixonightxy585
    @nixonightxy585 7 месяцев назад +7

    Yes, I’m thankful for the upload as well. Watching from California ❤

  • @theodorecoleman2063
    @theodorecoleman2063 3 месяца назад +2

    Iyalana is doing Gods work 👍🏽👏🏾❤️🙏🏽😁

  • @sandralang9289
    @sandralang9289 7 месяцев назад +11

    LEGENDARY ❤️‍🩹

  • @PiscesPower1994
    @PiscesPower1994 5 месяцев назад +3

    I am so thankful for these episodes! Im going through some family things right now, and Iyanla is giving me the tools to get through it!! Thank you Iyanla!!!!

  • @Bklynpimpstress
    @Bklynpimpstress 6 месяцев назад +3

    Her family apparently dont under what an addiction is and they are more worried about what ppl think of them instead of what their sister and daughter is going through

  • @queenmelissalehman3490
    @queenmelissalehman3490 6 месяцев назад +2

    She just told the toxic one look at u talk about your bad no she cant she to good she perfect
    Look u miss standing up making yourself look stupid its sick she needs help

  • @DuduMemela-y5w
    @DuduMemela-y5w 6 месяцев назад +2

    Iyanla>Miss got so much to say😅😅😅

  • @kj1443
    @kj1443 6 месяцев назад +3

    Always learning from these episodes.

  • @motherofthreeb6337
    @motherofthreeb6337 7 месяцев назад +13

    Mom is sitting there looking sad. The world she grew up in was a different era. 😢 Poor mom!

  • @Shee_Stays
    @Shee_Stays 7 месяцев назад +6

    Love from Kenya

  • @blurocobama1310
    @blurocobama1310 6 месяцев назад +2

    I appreciate how this is one of those episodes where Iyanla admits she doesn't know how to fix the family. It goes to show that though reality TV may be edited, it's not always fake.

  • @GeorgeDelgado-gq7sm
    @GeorgeDelgado-gq7sm 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love Iyanla

  • @thefavoredone1217
    @thefavoredone1217 7 месяцев назад +7

    Imagine being in the hospital in pain and the nurse stealing your meds.
    This seems to be a common thing for nurses that form an addiction . I read another nurse story like this.

  • @TheChrissybabe92
    @TheChrissybabe92 6 месяцев назад +2

    Oh that walk of shame was ITTTTTTT

  • @christinelitvak6427
    @christinelitvak6427 3 месяца назад

    I like the mirror and the shame walk carpet. I wish I could share some things with my family, but, they would have to be willing to share their things as well, so I know they would be open to forgive me.

  • @lattobaby45
    @lattobaby45 5 месяцев назад +1

    Why tf does she need to apologize to yall 1000 times for a mistake that has HER on house arrest you mfs are freeee 😳😮‍💨

  • @justmeohmy7915
    @justmeohmy7915 6 месяцев назад +2

    This is the work that humanity needs! Thank you Iyanla ❤

  • @usereEyez8890
    @usereEyez8890 Месяц назад

    Her sisters all sound so self righteous,like they don’t do dumb stuff.

  • @ChristopherWilliamsjr31
    @ChristopherWilliamsjr31 7 месяцев назад +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @dollskull86
    @dollskull86 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for the upload ❤❤❤

  • @wendyjohnsonb
    @wendyjohnsonb 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great job Iyanla 👍

  • @Koalatronic
    @Koalatronic 4 месяца назад

    At the start, I wonder ehat drug she became addicted to as we've seen now how some American painkiller manufacturers have purposely been making their drugs highly addictive. She may have legal recourse here as have countless others.

  • @rgomoffat
    @rgomoffat 4 месяца назад

    Nurses have incredibly intense, important, critical, stressful jobs. Addiction is in the nursing profession and many others.

  • @meghanferrari6501
    @meghanferrari6501 5 месяцев назад

    Nurses taking their patients meds happens ALOT. I know of two personally eventually they got caught but the one went on for years. My mom was a nurse her whole life but this new generation whew....we are in trouble!😢

  • @KrishaClose-kh9rx
    @KrishaClose-kh9rx 3 месяца назад

    Today date 6-22-2024

  • @fire12731
    @fire12731 7 месяцев назад +1

    These gals are 😮😮😮😮

  • @BluLover75
    @BluLover75 5 месяцев назад

    Why her mom feel like Tess need to apologize to her??? The nerve of her!!

  • @nixonightxy585
    @nixonightxy585 7 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tracylowe9994
    @tracylowe9994 5 месяцев назад

    She made a mistake. No one is perfect. Poor women

  • @stayingsuckafreejustbyou2301
    @stayingsuckafreejustbyou2301 7 месяцев назад +22

    Wow I felt overwhelmed watching this but I see my family 😢

    • @LugeniaWashington
      @LugeniaWashington 7 месяцев назад

      Me 2😮

    • @AnnaLexi
      @AnnaLexi 7 месяцев назад +2

      *_Me 3!! I’m feeling anger too.._* 😔

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 6 месяцев назад

      I see my mom, her sister, and my grandmother. For sure. And those three together....the shame and judgment on me was palpable. Smh

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 6 месяцев назад +1

      And no affection. No sincere affection.

    • @prizvinyam8356
      @prizvinyam8356 5 месяцев назад

      Same here 😢😢. My sisters have done this to me. I can relate

  • @brvndxxxn
    @brvndxxxn 7 месяцев назад +19

    Great episode! Maybe Darcy felt left out or something or just maybe didn’t wanna be apart of it. She’s probably actually the mean one lol jk