I agree with your comment, but it goes deep than that, it is really, (rape),of everything that makes up the whole relationship, & the one who did the act of cheating, help in the sexual assault.
@@msturner7621 sexual assault is a sex (Act) that is (Forced) upon someone, & than the (Victim) of such & act is left to dealing with ( All) of the effects that can come with this type of act...........Now in (Committed Relationships), between (Boyfriends, Girlfriends) (Husbands & Wives), (Cheating) & in the case of husbands & wives (Adultery,) are sex (Acts) committed & forced by the (guilt) partner, into the life, & onto the the relationship get that the guilty partner has with the innocent one @ home, who will have to dealing with (All) of the effects that comes, with this (Forced Act).
@@veraaddoyobo8482 for me, it's not about forgiveness and forgetting. It's about self-care and protection. The cheater can't be trusted and it goes both ways. No double standard.
@@ASVENGusion nope. Still not a valid reason to cheat. There's only ONE reason to cheat and that's for a man who meets a certain criteria (women should never cheat under any circumstances). The criteria the guy must be in: 1) He's married 2) He's making more money than his wife 3) They have a child/children 4) Sex between him and his wife dried up 5) There's no medically diagnosed reason why she's not willing to have sex with him 6) He's been nothing but nice and loving to her (there isn't any domestic violence) He would cheat under such criteria because he's fk'd in any other option. He could divorce his wife but she'll be awarded the child/children so he'll see his kid/kids less compared to seeing them everyday under the same roof. And if she wanted to be extra spiteful the time he has to see them will be even less. Alimony is also on the table based on how much more he's making over her income. He's fk'd if he tried to do things the "right" way and he's already fk'd because, ironically, he's not getting fk'd by his wife lol. Honestly at that point him getting caught and her filling for divorce has the same end result as him filling for divorce.
^ to clarify if a guy doesn't hit ALL of the numbers criteria above, he shouldn't cheat. He should just leave. And women generally don't face any legal downsides to divorce (besides the ultra rare cases the women are working and the man is making less, or is a stay at home husband) so she has zero reason to cheat. She can leave easily and generally benefits from divorce (if that wasn't the case, it wouldn't be 80% of divorces filed by women. 90% if they're college educated).
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
After being cheated on, I forgave her. Knowing that forgiveness is Arguably the greatest expression of Love. Which I offered her...The fact of the matter is. I no longer desired her.
These comments in this thread is education 💯, I was cheated on and I lost all respect for her as woman, at that point it was a matter of time that she must go no matter how hard she tried.
This is 100% accurate. When I found out my ex wife cheated on me I never touched her again. Even when she propositioned me sexually to make up afterwards it wasn’t even tempting when I thought about the fact she spread her legs for another man. I filed for divorce immediately after I learned of the affair because I knew there was no going back for me despite her attempts to apologize and reconcile.
That's what I was thinking. What does it mean when the woman apologized and wants forgiveness. Does that mean who she cheated with didn't conqueror her or she realized she made a bad mistake?
As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .
@@LutherPittman I'm pretty sure the definition of conquering has nothing to do with sinning. I never said cheating was a good thing. And I agreed with the last part already
@@kele5036 not true at all. Most men cheat because they get horny and their girl isn't around and self satisfaction is not an option. No emotions other than a hard dick. Women emotionally leave the man and then start cheating which is so much worse.
If someone truly loves you, they wouldn't do something that they KNOW will break your heart. NOBODY should cheat on the person they claim to love, man or woman.
Should’ve would’ve could’ve. I agree it should not happen, but realistically, it’s pretty clear men are more prone to cheating given how many women chase certain men and because of testosterone in men. All it’s saying is that if a man does cheat it doesn’t have to mean he’s a bad person and the relationship is doomed. Whereas with a woman cheating, a man should recognize that 8/10 times, the relationship is over.
@@bigwash1752 have we not seen men being conquered by the woman they have cheated with and then leave the wife for her? I don’t take this bullshit. I’ve seen too much women suffering because of infidelity and disloyalty. You cheat, you leave.
I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.THANK YOU *BRIAN HACKS* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
Real talk because nine times out of 10 if you catch your significant other cheating that's not the first time they cheated like you said that's the first time that you caught them Ain't no telling how many times they done it before that and this is speaking from experience because when I caught my baby mama she couldn't say nothing because I had proof any other time she tried to deny it.
A lot of men/women feel that way. AND it’s a lot of older women that I know who taught me that. Granted I don’t feel that way now that I am a grown woman and have experienced life. Cheating is cheating. PERIOD 🗣🗣🗣💯
@@Abdullah-vg1uc This is what grown woman do. We cater to you. We will buy on you. Pay for trips to. So why would you think its OK to cheat on her when she's treating you like you treat her. And She's submitting to you. What makes you better than her. Neither one of us should be doing it
@@Abdullah-vg1uc and I pointed out women provide for some men too. So what are you talking about. And they will make a whole relationship on the side for yrs Smh. It's not right bottom line no matter who does it. And I wasn't taught that men hold more value than women. For me to believe it's worst when women does it.
A lot of people failed at what you accomplished, simply because they were busy finding problems while you were busy finding solutions *brian hacks online* . Every time you do a good job, you polish yourself one more time. Shine on mate, well done. Team Alex
If a woman cheats than there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 13 years and NEVER cheated and NEVER will.
This is so wrong 🙄 if all she want to do is lay back and let him do what he wants than fine , but I don’t agree with how’s she’s belittling how powerful women are in sex , a woman can rob a man for his soul and make him lose his mind if she wants to put the work in , but this is a Western World , y’all not ready for that conversation 😒
@@SamStar486 Once another man has her he has conquered her which is your woman, i set out to conquer a woman in the bedroom every time......so i couldn't see her the same anymore unless she was bringing back some money🤣🤣🤣
I disagree. A man can love and respect his woman and still have sex with another woman. It doesn't diminish his love and respect for her because men can and do separate our emotions from sex. It's totally the opposite for women. Unless they're emotionally damaged, they heavily attach their emotions to sex and can't have sex with and feelings for men they don't respect and when a woman cheats, it means she's lost all respect for her partner. If she stays afterwards it just means she's biding her time until she can monkey branch to the next relationship (usually with the guy she told her current guy not to worry about 😂).
It depends on one's culture and socializing. In the West for example, we are encouraged to have monogamous relationships and if one goes outside of that then you are considered a cheat resulting in broken relationships and divorce. In other cultures and societies a man having a relationship with more than one woman is considered normal. However, men attitude toward sex is different to that of a woman. Sex to men is like having a good meal after one's appetite has been open by a woman's sex appeal. For women sex can be more emotional and reserved for that special someone or can be used as a tool to exact leverage over men. In the Caribbean two generations ago, it was not uncommon for a man to have several households of families that he was responsible for. And as long as he fulfill his role as provider, then everyone is contented and there isn't no cheating But because of the standards set by the West, there's infiltration of these standards into other cultures and societies on the perception of cheating and everyone is now unhappy, especially men because the burden is on the man when a relationship fails; it's a sizeable deduction of your assets, alimony and maintenance.
If sex is about "conquering" then it works both ways, because plenty of men have destroyed or lost everything because a woman got the best of him. Governments will send female spies to take out enemy leads, because men think they are "conquering" something. Men's perception of sex has gotten a lot of men in trouble throughout history. In a lot of cases, it was their downfall.
@@Magnificent-qr4rn , laugh, but that's not the definition of "sex", that's the definition of "conquer", if you are overcoming and taking control of your partner (by force) each and every time, you have sex, you aren't having sex. It's interesting that you left out the "by force" part when you defined "conquer" proof that it's not the right word to define having sex, even you knew not to use it.
@@kishahelena5312 Wait a Dam minute , Who in the HELL said anything about FORCE ??? This isn't Rape...this is two ppl courting one another and it's usually the male with CONQUEST or CONQUERING on his mind, me personally im not about trying to Conquer anyone cuz I believe in Karma being that I'm a Scientologist guy for 20yrs, but the young lady is Correct in her analysis....and that's FACTUAL 💯
WHAT. Cheating is wrong period for both parties involved. If you truly in love with someone you won’t cheat. Just don’t be in a relationship if you want to entertain
You are absolutely right , when youre really love someone they’re all you want , cheating isn’t even an option , you’re naturally not interested in anyone else
When women cheat that means it's someone you truly wanted. One thing I know fosure women can't love two men she will always choose the one she wants the most. Most men that cheat pick there women an kids over the person that had sex with..women don't they go for that new person...hence women already pre-plotted the move to leave there boyfriend or husband!!!
Cheating all the way around is wrong...If a man wants more than one woman he should be honest upfront , just like if a woman wants a certain dynamic...
I agree. I don't think it is wrong to havr a polyamorous relationship, if everyone involved agrees to it. But, if you agree to be monogamous, male or female, you should stick too it. If your partner isn't giving you what you need, it's better to leave then cheat.
What if he wants 1 woman, but then she turns cold? Should he start begging or just dump because she's not feeling it. It's not that simple. The answer here however is he tells her how much time to open or to walk and never tolerate being controlled like that again. But that answer isn't what people want to hear or want to say. Saying be honest upfront is borderline worthless. More women more money. Who actually wants more of one without having the other, or will.
True still there's a difference between a cheating man versus a woman though. The latter play not to lose whereas the former play to win. Also if a man cheat, he's still can make a difference between a hoe and a wife...
Facts. I used to constantly cheat on my girlfriends in high school until I had to watch my mom go through that with my dad leaving her for a younger woman. Happy to say I haven’t cheated on a gf since and that was 18 years ago
@@dr.shakingmyhead4167 I see. Are you saying there is no chance that she contributed to him stepping out and his disinterest in his marriage was completely on him?
Hmm. To you modern women have supposedly masted being victims, yet people like you are trying to justify cheating as "men's rights" and not wanting to hold men accountable for something like because of "biological ergues". I thought that equal rights were about holding men and women to the same standards, yet men like you aren't doing that and seem to want us to go back to the dark ages because it benefited men most. Seems to me like modern women aren't the delusional ones here. 🤔
Agreed except in her case every man she encounters gets a pass for cheating on her dumbass. She deserves no respect with this backwards ass red pill logic.
This is stupid. Anyone who cheats will lie about it. Who the fuck in their right mind will be like “well gee golly I cheated on you multiple times.” Get real. I hate this stupid argument “it’s not that they cheated, it’s that they lied.” GTFOH
"Psychologists generally define forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness." That's the reason I forgave my ex and adhere to no contact. She didn't deserve a thing. I did it for me. I deserved to be psychologically free from the cheating, deceit, lying, and manipulation. I wasn't going to allow this woman to push me down a dark path.
your only faithful as your options. If you run a modeling agency for 18-24 year old women... it all depends on your life choices. I don't like cheating at all due to the std's and pair bonding chemical reaction but i get it.
You can forgive someone for cheating but you don’t have to stay with them. People have people messed up thinking that forgiveness means stay, it doesn’t, and there are no one set of rules for married people and one set of rules for murderers, etc. Remove yourself from the hurt and the pain, because as soon as they do something that reminds you of what happened you will become suspicious, distrusting, and angry, and then you will start to act out, and that person could be truly repented. Then they may feel like they have to watch everything that they say and can’t make eye contact with others, and walk around on egg shells just to prove that they are not cheating. Cheating DESTROYS Some people survive and go on to be happy, while others fall apart. If you know that you are a cheater don’t get into any relationships. Stay single and have FRIENDS that you hang with.
You can look, at it from a different perspective though.. When a man cheats, he is the one doing the pursuing the vast majority of the time. An attractive women is going to receive boat loads of attention naturally, and most of the time didn't start out doing the pursuing with man she cheats with..
infidelity equals DISLOYALTY, it doesn't matter which partner does it, the state of their relationship, etc... no sense in maintaining the relationship if only one person is being FAITHFUL to the other person.
It's not about being equal. It's not the same when a man does it. You can say it is all you want, ot never will be. Facts will always be facts, and the fact is, men are wire for polygamy. Woman is not.
You consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that *JohnsonSpy* . Thank you for making the corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you work for me. Great work as always.This is the beginning of many more good things to come. May you get everything, that you could demand. Best wishes in all you do and congrat to me as well, job well done!
Girl get a grip! Cheating is wtong no matter who does it. When a man cheats, he is disrespecting his woman and scratching an itch. Its not deeper, its a lack of self control.
@Michael Bonés men and women lack self control at times. A cheater is just a cheater. Actually man or woman i think cheating is just wrong and disrespectful.
What a wonderful world when women finally wake up. If your man cheating on you was OK....it wouldn't hurt you so bad. AND STOP FIGHTING OTHER WOMEN.....ITS EMBARASSING. How many women will you fight before you realise that your husband is common denominator
So being treated like shit is him paying all of your bills, loving on you when he is home, making sure he provides all your desires but because he fucked some bitch whose name he won't remember one time. You're treated like shit and must leave? I'm not talking about the guys who have you doing 50% 50% I'm talking about that provider.
I’m riding in your car , it’s all excuses , if either of them need to look outside of their relationship than it’s pointless to even be together , something is off balance … but don’t accept something that tears down your soul by excusing it as “conquering” 🙄 this is all pretty silly when you think about it
This was actually pathetic to watch. Neither should accept/forgive cheating. Men will rarely ever forgive that. What the hell do I look like disrespecting myself accepting a man that's just for anybody. The second you take him back you have told him how low you think of yourself...that you can't do better or you love "sooo" much that you'll accept anything. He knows he has you wrapped around his finger, you aren't going anywhere, and he WILL do it again but try to cover his tracks better next time.🤷🏾♀️
@@oblove1586 LOL you can save it sir. My patience for men that will lie, cheat, and steal for some pussy is nonexistent. If he can't even follow the simple BASIC 10 commandments (THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY!!!), the devil can have him quite frankly🤷🏾♀️. I'm not sticking around. "I'm going to have a lot of trouble dating if I don't let men cheat on me repeatedly while I stand there looking like a damn clown"??? Sir go feed this lie to your mom, sister, daughters, and nieces first before you try to instruct me. Come back and tell me what they say. 😄 I respect myself WAYYY too much to tolerate disrespect.
@@sheilaf.4872 American Society Has Ruined Common Sense... Because Y'all Believe In Things The Reality Of The Rest Of The World Never Even Consider 🤷🏿♂️
Your dedication, dedication, enthusiasm, and insight are shown in your work. Keep on doing great works like this, and there’s no looking back for you! The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you . *Brian Hacks* Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. Congrats and best wishes for a promising future.
No one should cheat 🤷♀️ it’s the most disrespectful thing you could do as a man OR a woman…it’s not just the act, it’s the potential aftermath. Contraception does not stop STDs and in the day and age we live in, you could be fking with someone’s HEALTH as well when you cheat. Don’t be in a relationship if you don’t want to be monogamous, regardless of your gender.
Not to mention that cheating is also beta male behavior. Your subconsciously telling yourself that you’re not good enough for this woman to accept you the way you are, so you need to live two lives: the one that keeps her happy, and the one that makes you happy. It’s very toxic and taxing to the peace of mind. Stay Focused!
The mentality people have. Cheating is betrayal that leads to a lack of trust and respect. No sex is excused from this. A woman is expected to forgive but a man should never? This alone simply proves that one sex views the other as weak. For it to be considered cheating, means you are in an exclusive relationship so if either partner cheats then it's the outsider that "conquered" you.
1 Peter 3:7 “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”
*misses the point of the video*🤦🏾♂️The point wasn’t that Women can’t cheat and Men can. It was that cheating is bad all around but its has a deeper meaning and can be considered more of a betrayal when coming from Women bc of how they’re more naturally attached to their emotions.
@@redxamurai7070 I get the "deeper" concept however sin is sin, betrayal is betrayal. As a woman, listen when I tell you. It doesn't hurt less because our partners are men. It breaks our heart just as much. Makes us feel less than. Makes us question why.
Man have always had multiple women since the beginning of time and women never had a problem with it, in the bible God even tells a husband how he should act when he has multiple wives. Woman were fine with their husband's having more than 1 wife and even concubines.
Listen to The Woman! Men and Women are Different.We're not the same.Women are Monogamous.And Men are Polyganous.Men are specifically designed to Spread Themselves.Women are not.
@@heruapocalypse2021 majority of men lieeeee then. If you truly believe that, don’t submit yourself to one woman and CHEAT. It’s cheating because she doesn’t agree with it. Don’t know the definition!? Go be with multiple women then.
Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnsonspy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
But women forgive men for cheating everyday somewhere in the world. Women forgive cheating more than men do and i fuckin love it, YES. I really Love being a man, especially a money making man on top of that. Options are always there for a man as long as he got aome bread in his bank account.
A Woman shouldn't even be bothered.Because She's not a Man.Men are Polyganous by Nature.Therefore We spread Ourselves.Women however are Monogamous by Nature.This has always been understood since the beginning of Time.But some how Women Today act as though this is Something new.Men have always had plenty of Women.And always set out to have plenty Women.So Women Who think like You are Masculine.And often times find Themselves alone and lonely.
@@drknow1997 ----------- not necessarily true. I knew 2 different guys that cheated because their wives started having less sex with them over time and didn't want to spice things up so they got their needs met elsewhere until the wives started bustin it open a lot more for their hubby (at least for one those guys anyway, not sure about the other).
If you cheat that means your broken & have low self esteem,no self control,emotionally disconnected & your controlled by your emotions & don’t feel valuable so you seek validation from multiple partners for temporary validation or value. Get help you need help because good people don’t deserve to be hurt by the broken ones.
Typical DUSTY answer. Cheating isn’t worse with a specific gender. Cheating is a disgusting act of selfishness. NONE should be cheating. It’s so simple to just stay single.
@wingknight7132 It absolutely is not. Cheating is cheating regardless of your gender. Newsflash STDs, bringing home unwanted pregnancies or God forbid AIDS don't care about your gender so it's exactly the same.
Yeah but men usually are harsher when it comes to taking back a cheating partner, the only ones who do it are a) simps and b) guys who got married for a passport or money and probably cheat on their wife anyways.
And a woman should NEVER forgive a man. Yall really insane wit the bs 🤦🏽♀️ if I’m in a relationship and my man hates me so much that he even wishes to (concur) another woman, why wouldn’t I want to dismiss myself from the relationship? At that point go be with her 🤷🏽♀️
🤣 women think they're so special. Even tho y'all nag him and refuse to give your kitty on the regular, then get upset when he goes looking. He doesn't hate you by stepping out occasionally. Y'all mind is all messed up. Too much ego for ppl who provide no value except how much they talk
@@panama2468 it’s sad because y’all so used to treating a women like shit that y’all don’t know how to react when you see a woman who ain’t gone let that shit slide
@@corrinerobinson2524 I definitely see the truth in that. I wonder What advice would a cheating man give his daughter or little sister if her man was cheating. I’m sure it wouldn’t be to suck it up and stay with him. 🤦🏾♀️
@@panama2468 did a woman give birth to you or are you from another planet? Not every woman nags and not every woman withhold sex. Even the best woman get cheated on. No other excuse other than they want variety 🤣 Most men think like animals with absolutely no intelligent thinking 🤔
@@growingvibrationsmagazine you would be surprised. Black men aren’t putting their daughters or sisters on a pedestal anymore. They too busy concurring other women to even care how their female family members are being treated. I’m sure he would have no opinion at all.
Wow what a double standard. Cheating in a relationship is wrong on all levels. You are excusing a man when he cheats but condemning the woman. A man cheats on a woman many times throughout the relationship and the woman usually forgives and goes through this cycle over and over again. But when the woman cheats the first time the man leaves her in a split second. Men can’t take what they dish out. So ladies, if your man cheats the first time, leave him!!! Also, if you are not a monogamous person and you know in your heart you can’t be faithful to your partner then stay single and do you. Honesty and communication goes a long way.
It's the law of nature my spiritual daughter so if you are uninformed disgruntled female-born human being you need to take those egregious to Mother Earth💯❤️🩹 and the god
@@pixelbitg9386 y’all just gone keep saying that’s until one day y’all words “MAGICALLY” change a woman right 😂😂 what makes you think that calling a women trashy for cheating is going to stop women from cheating, especially when we know they gone be hurt by it ??🤔🤔😂😂😂 LMAOO WE GONE KEEP CHEATING, y’all think y’all can shame a woman into living like a 70s woman but unfortunately y’all can upon a generation that don’t give a fuck 💯💯💯
*Johnsonspy* , you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!
Exactly you know she must have been raised like this, and forced to think this way because idc what no body say the woman’s NATURAL BRAIN does not function off of what a man wants
What she is trying to say is that when a man is polygamous, it is ok. But for a woman being polygamous??! That goes against all laws of nature. In other words, when a man is asked if he's a virgin, there's an exclamation mark(!) at the end of that sentence but for a lady, there's a question mark(?). Ask yourself why??
Thank you girl! No woman who loves her man will sleep with another man👌🏿😘why be in a relationship 😘😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️i said this too a woman can’t claim she loves you when she’s sleeping with others people facts.👌🏿😘
A man cheats and you should be with a man who cheats??? Some man like to feeeeellll too.Men try to kill you if you cheat because the think they are above us,(women).
That goes both ways a man can't say he really loves you when he's sleeping around with other women especially when he bringing you sexually transmitted diseases home.
@@growingvibrationsmagazine Once again men and women are different. Hell dudes will sleep with women and barely know their names and never need to see them again. Women get emotionally invested, especially once you've submitted and Jodi is breaking your back just right.
She never said cheating wasn't cheating she said that cheating was different for men and women... and if a man cheats you shouldn't necessarily just leave the relationship, it probably can be fixed but if a woman cheats she is emotionally done with that man and doesn't respect him
Never trust anyone who tells you what you want to hear. She knows nobody should be cheating on anyone but here she go with that pick me BS. If you cheat on your woman, she will know and if she’s ok with it, she’s sleeping with someone else and you’ll never know.
I once thought my old lady was messing around with her ex so I decided to sleep with different women who’s name corresponded to the letters of his first and last name until I finished his whole name. I was on a sexually charged,jealous,angry rampage. I never found any hardcore evidence but I was at a very toxic point of my life back then…my little operation made me feel good inside and at peace knowing just in case I was right, that I had creatively evened the score. Thank goodness for change because that wreck less behavior could have landed me and my health in hot water.
It goes both ways period. And I learned from cheating myself. I didn't want another chance. But I learned that I will never put myself in a position to cheat on another man! I'll just walk away because that means that I'm not mentally in the relationship anymore. Just being honest. Her response pissed me off. It goes both ways. If you're committed, you're committed. Male or female.
No it doesn't, never has... A womans biological needs are met through financial and physical security by a Masculine Man. A mans biological needs are met by a Feminine Woman not fucking another man. It's been this way since civilization began Thing is most men are making 35-55k... Not allowing a woman to live comfortably in her femininity Men who have the most resources ( have done the work to build a future ) can enjoy that aspect of being a man Not the guys with average to below average income. When a man is in shape has a descent personality and is financially secure... He's the equivalent of powerful men over the centuries The dating world is all his because he is rare and physically attractive women are not. There is no reason he shouldn't enjoy these sexual options that he worked his ass off to get. Men have to work to have these sexual options Women are born with them Women can't tell us how to utilize options we had to work all our life to earn when they were born with theirs.
Period , doesn’t matter if you’re conquering or being conquered , it’s all spiritual and meditative , and unless both people are open to sharing than it’s wrong , doesn’t matter which one is worse
I would hate to hear these conversations with these men and their daughters or sisters if they were cheated on. “It’s ok baby girl. That man is a cheater but he loves you. See he’s still with you right?” Yeahhh, let that man be a man be a man lil sis. He cheated but it’s ok because it wasn’t emotional for him to put his penis in her. Your heart is broke Because of that? Oh naw it’s not that bad”😂
*Johnsonspy* , you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!
The work he does is so vital the world needs more people like vou lust love the podcast so you put up I love hearing these cheaters squirm keep up the good work, it takes good hearted individuals the gutts to do this instead. There should be whole government department buildings filled with *Brian hacks online* on the internet doing stuff like this to protect and catch cheaters civilians. That would be tax money well spent.
Don't cheat. If you are leaning toward doing it, then you need to ask yourself, why are you in a relationship to begin with. But overall...don't cheat.
A lot of times it’s lust, insecurity, emotional affair first….people need to stop and think because actually sleeping with someone else takes many steps before it even happens… selfishness 😢
You can tell the most high is no where in the conversation..no one should be cheating period..that's the problem..there's no respect in people's relationship when cheating is involved 💯
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Nobody should cheat , it’s an ultimate disrespect and disgrace.
I agree with your comment, but it goes deep than that, it is really, (rape),of everything that makes up the whole relationship, & the one who did the act of cheating, help in the sexual assault.
Wtf are you even saying right now ?☠ @@eugeneroberts1468
@ PAULA PALACZ... 100% AGREED, THERE IS NO CLARIFICATION OR ACCEPTANCE IN NO WAY, SHAPE, FORM, OR FASHION...
@@msturner7621 sexual assault is a sex (Act) that is (Forced) upon someone, & than the (Victim) of such & act is left to dealing with ( All) of the effects that can come with this type of act...........Now in (Committed Relationships), between (Boyfriends, Girlfriends) (Husbands & Wives), (Cheating) & in the case of husbands & wives (Adultery,) are sex (Acts) committed & forced by the (guilt) partner, into the life, & onto the the relationship get that the guilty partner has with the innocent one @ home, who will have to dealing with (All) of the effects that comes, with this (Forced Act).
Cali in the Building, Especially Women💯💯🍻
Once trust is broken in a relationship things will never be the same.. The feeling of betrayal sticks to your soul ..
PREACH!
4 sho💯
It's hard for some men to forgive and forget
Amen!
@@veraaddoyobo8482 for me, it's not about forgiveness and forgetting. It's about self-care and protection. The cheater can't be trusted and it goes both ways. No double standard.
Man, woman, non-binary, cow, lion, llama, etc
Nobody has a valid reason for cheating.
there is.if the other one cheat first
Lmao I died when I read cow, lion, llama 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ASVENGusion nope. Still not a valid reason to cheat.
There's only ONE reason to cheat and that's for a man who meets a certain criteria (women should never cheat under any circumstances).
The criteria the guy must be in:
1) He's married
2) He's making more money than his wife
3) They have a child/children
4) Sex between him and his wife dried up
5) There's no medically diagnosed reason why she's not willing to have sex with him
6) He's been nothing but nice and loving to her (there isn't any domestic violence)
He would cheat under such criteria because he's fk'd in any other option. He could divorce his wife but she'll be awarded the child/children so he'll see his kid/kids less compared to seeing them everyday under the same roof. And if she wanted to be extra spiteful the time he has to see them will be even less. Alimony is also on the table based on how much more he's making over her income.
He's fk'd if he tried to do things the "right" way and he's already fk'd because, ironically, he's not getting fk'd by his wife lol. Honestly at that point him getting caught and her filling for divorce has the same end result as him filling for divorce.
^ to clarify if a guy doesn't hit ALL of the numbers criteria above, he shouldn't cheat. He should just leave. And women generally don't face any legal downsides to divorce (besides the ultra rare cases the women are working and the man is making less, or is a stay at home husband) so she has zero reason to cheat. She can leave easily and generally benefits from divorce (if that wasn't the case, it wouldn't be 80% of divorces filed by women. 90% if they're college educated).
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Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
After being cheated on, I forgave her. Knowing that forgiveness is Arguably the greatest expression of Love. Which I offered her...The fact of the matter is. I no longer desired her.
You took the ultimate L. Women cheat on men they don’t respect. If your girl is cheating, it means she no longer respects you.
So she cheated because you stopped sexing her?
Damn bro when I tell you that's exactly how I felt when that shit happened to me. And she couldn't understand why my personality changed towards her.
These comments in this thread is education 💯, I was cheated on and I lost all respect for her as woman, at that point it was a matter of time that she must go no matter how hard she tried.
You can’t even eat her 😸 knowing someone’s been all up in that. I don’t blame guys for not being able to move past that.
This is 100% accurate. When I found out my ex wife cheated on me I never touched her again. Even when she propositioned me sexually to make up afterwards it wasn’t even tempting when I thought about the fact she spread her legs for another man. I filed for divorce immediately after I learned of the affair because I knew there was no going back for me despite her attempts to apologize and reconcile.
How is it accurate🤔nah bruh thats your experience.
Did the same, had to let her go...🤔🤔
That's what I was thinking. What does it mean when the woman apologized and wants forgiveness. Does that mean who she cheated with didn't conqueror her or she realized she made a bad mistake?
Good job bro 👏
It’s disgusting you can never respect them the same.
As a Retired combat Marine I want to tell you that as what you are doing is just as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging warfare against cheater on the digital battlefield. You are defending and protecting the most vulnerable of our society against these predators and cheaters. Keep up the good work *Johnsonspy* .
Good thing I never heard of her!
I just seen this exact same comment on the video i watched before this totally different channel and name that commented copy and paste ass bombs
You're not conquering anything man or woman cheating. That's no self control.
You do realize two things can be true
@@RIPToriyamaDBZ two things can be wrong, but there is only truth.
@@LutherPittman yes and the truth is that a man is conquering another woman when he's cheating and has no self control
@@RIPToriyamaDBZ you cant conquer anything when you're sinning. Cheating isn't a good thing. No self control.
@@LutherPittman I'm pretty sure the definition of conquering has nothing to do with sinning. I never said cheating was a good thing. And I agreed with the last part already
When a woman cheats, it’s over. She’s no longer emotionally vested enough to take serious 👍🏾
If a man values his woman, he wouldnt cheat on her and risk losing her. So there is also an emotional disconnect from him.
She could’ve just told the man, and left 🤷🏾♂️
@@kele5036 not true at all. Most men cheat because they get horny and their girl isn't around and self satisfaction is not an option. No emotions other than a hard dick.
Women emotionally leave the man and then start cheating which is so much worse.
And same for a man.
@@prettykitty5416 no it is not
NEVER GIVE HER A SECOND CHANCE U WILL REGRET IT….
vice versa then take all his money (if you married him) at the end ☻
Factz.. leave dat hoe in tha rear view mirror. Never in the passenger seat again. You free my nicca when you catch her. Move around 💯
@@nataliesparks4829 if a man is dumb enough to marry, by all means
I agree too never give a man a second chance
Think you call it Doubt/looking back/ not going forward.
If someone truly loves you, they wouldn't do something that they KNOW will break your heart. NOBODY should cheat on the person they claim to love, man or woman.
Should’ve would’ve could’ve. I agree it should not happen, but realistically, it’s pretty clear men are more prone to cheating given how many women chase certain men and because of testosterone in men. All it’s saying is that if a man does cheat it doesn’t have to mean he’s a bad person and the relationship is doomed. Whereas with a woman cheating, a man should recognize that 8/10 times, the relationship is over.
Agree wit your statement. But do you get her point about the conquering part?
It's no such thing as cheating for us. Men are conquerors. Plain and simple
@@bigwash1752 have we not seen men being conquered by the woman they have cheated with and then leave the wife for her? I don’t take this bullshit. I’ve seen too much women suffering because of infidelity and disloyalty. You cheat, you leave.
@@bigwash1752 I'm looking for people to comment on that part because that's the most important part of her point.
I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.THANK YOU *BRIAN HACKS* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
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It's not the first time they cheated, it's the first time you've caught them
This comment should have honorable mention
This comment right here...this is a man thats been there...he gets it.
Fax
It’s actually not important if it’s the first time or not. Cheating once is already one time too many.
Real talk because nine times out of 10 if you catch your significant other cheating that's not the first time they cheated like you said that's the first time that you caught them Ain't no telling how many times they done it before that and this is speaking from experience because when I caught my baby mama she couldn't say nothing because I had proof any other time she tried to deny it.
No one should be forgiven for cheating. Nor should there be any apologetics for them either.
If u have bn cheated on u will neva forget it and it will destroy u.
LMAO
You babies need to get a grip. People cheat: it’s not the end of the world unless you make it the end. Pull yourself together for Fs sake
A lot of men/women feel that way. AND it’s a lot of older women that I know who taught me that. Granted I don’t feel that way now that I am a grown woman and have experienced life. Cheating is cheating. PERIOD 🗣🗣🗣💯
Yes but cheating on somebody that's providing for you is not the same as cheating on somebody you providing for
WOMAN CHEATING IS WORSER
@@Abdullah-vg1uc This is what grown woman do. We cater to you. We will buy on you. Pay for trips to. So why would you think its OK to cheat on her when she's treating you like you treat her. And She's submitting to you. What makes you better than her. Neither one of us should be doing it
@@shanicbrown2834 I never said that cheating is okay. I just pointed out why it's worse when women do it .
@@Abdullah-vg1uc and I pointed out women provide for some men too. So what are you talking about. And they will make a whole relationship on the side for yrs Smh. It's not right bottom line no matter who does it. And I wasn't taught that men hold more value than women. For me to believe it's worst when women does it.
A lot of people failed at what you accomplished, simply because they were busy finding problems while you were busy finding solutions *brian hacks online* . Every time you do a good job, you polish yourself one more time. Shine on mate, well done. Team Alex
If I ever feel the urge to cheat I would divorce my wife first. No reason to stay.
36 years one love one wife. It's my treasure. Don't get married if your gonna stray.
Excellent.
Wishing you both many more years of happiness together.
May God keep blessing your marriage
@Rick Baier...God has blessed You & Your Young Bride...You & Your relationship, are both an inspiration, to those of Us, who appreciate commitment...
If ppl were perfect God wouldn't have died on the cross.
Unicorn scenario.... that's not the norm. Marriage is definitely overrated
If a woman cheats than there is something seriously wrong in the relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for 13 years and NEVER cheated and NEVER will.
Man you are a blessing. I wish more women were like you. 👍🏻
This is bullshit.
Thats what they all say....as they are leaving the other guys bed.
A woman should never forgive a man for cheating.
The conquer part it’s accurate as hell
Can’t take her back after she been getting ghetto gagged😂😂😂
Lmao 😂🤣 Big Facts
Getting tagged up long before the relationship each time the smash hits. That's the problem. People are way over sexed
Ghetto gaggers
This is so wrong 🙄 if all she want to do is lay back and let him do what he wants than fine , but I don’t agree with how’s she’s belittling how powerful women are in sex , a woman can rob a man for his soul and make him lose his mind if she wants to put the work in , but this is a Western World , y’all not ready for that conversation 😒
@@SamStar486 Once another man has her he has conquered her which is your woman, i set out to conquer a woman in the bedroom every time......so i couldn't see her the same anymore unless she was bringing back some money🤣🤣🤣
Neither man or woman should stay with a cheating partner. They have no respect for each other.
Exactly. Thank u.
She actually gave decent dating advice at the end..."then dont get in a relationship" lol!
I disagree. A man can love and respect his woman and still have sex with another woman. It doesn't diminish his love and respect for her because men can and do separate our emotions from sex. It's totally the opposite for women. Unless they're emotionally damaged, they heavily attach their emotions to sex and can't have sex with and feelings for men they don't respect and when a woman cheats, it means she's lost all respect for her partner. If she stays afterwards it just means she's biding her time until she can monkey branch to the next relationship (usually with the guy she told her current guy not to worry about 😂).
@@cw5971 Facts 💯
It depends on one's culture and socializing.
In the West for example, we are encouraged to have monogamous relationships and if one goes outside of that then you are considered a cheat resulting in broken relationships and divorce.
In other cultures and societies a man having a relationship with more than one woman is considered normal.
However, men attitude toward sex is different to that of a woman.
Sex to men is like having a good meal after one's appetite has been open by a woman's sex appeal.
For women sex can be more emotional and reserved for that special someone or can be used as a tool to exact leverage over men.
In the Caribbean two generations ago, it was not uncommon for a man to have several households of families that he was responsible for. And as long as he fulfill his role as provider, then everyone is contented and there isn't no cheating
But because of the standards set by the West, there's infiltration of these standards into other cultures and societies on the perception of cheating and everyone is now unhappy, especially men because the burden is on the man when a relationship fails; it's a sizeable deduction of your assets, alimony and maintenance.
I'm not forgiving you for that silly woman. Gtfoh. It's wrong on both sides if y'all trying to be in a relationship.
Men don't forgive they keep it to heart if they say they forgive you they're holding on until they find someone else
No, we really do forgive and then simply just do not desire you anymore….. we don’t hold onto anything that’s a female trait.
@@King-oj8hr Women may forgive but they will never forget. And I personally wouldn't do both.
@@sabrinahaqueshoily3453 you live a miserable life most likely
My situation now...there will be consequences I promise 😂😂
@@sabrinahaqueshoily3453women never forgive...its impossible, they are all daughters of Eve....the first deciever / liar in all of history.
The Bible even says that you can't take her back. She has been defiled.
She's is 100% Correct!! I like how she used the word "Conquer".....FACTS 💯
If sex is about "conquering" then it works both ways, because plenty of men have destroyed or lost everything because a woman got the best of him.
Governments will send female spies to take out enemy leads, because men think they are "conquering" something. Men's perception of sex has gotten a lot of men in trouble throughout history. In a lot of cases, it was their downfall.
@@kishahelena5312 and did you know, that ppl that have sex alot have low I.Q and that's FACTUAL💯
@@kishahelena5312 to conquer; to overcome and take control....that's the definition...She's right on point....FACTS 💯
@@Magnificent-qr4rn , laugh, but that's not the definition of "sex", that's the definition of "conquer", if you are overcoming and taking control of your partner (by force) each and every time, you have sex, you aren't having sex. It's interesting that you left out the "by force" part when you defined "conquer" proof that it's not the right word to define having sex, even you knew not to use it.
@@kishahelena5312 Wait a Dam minute , Who in the HELL said anything about FORCE ??? This isn't Rape...this is two ppl courting one another and it's usually the male with CONQUEST or CONQUERING on his mind, me personally im not about trying to Conquer anyone cuz I believe in Karma being that I'm a Scientologist guy for 20yrs, but the young lady is Correct in her analysis....and that's FACTUAL 💯
WHAT. Cheating is wrong period for both parties involved. If you truly in love with someone you won’t cheat. Just don’t be in a relationship if you want to entertain
You are absolutely right , when youre really love someone they’re all you want , cheating isn’t even an option , you’re naturally not interested in anyone else
Totally agree
I mussy need glasses, cause I see no lies
When women cheat that means it's someone you truly wanted. One thing I know fosure women can't love two men she will always choose the one she wants the most. Most men that cheat pick there women an kids over the person that had sex with..women don't they go for that new person...hence women already pre-plotted the move to leave there boyfriend or husband!!!
I get what you are saying but I 100% can be deep in love and still bust a nut somewhere else. Unfortunate reality of biology
Cheating is cheating ! Sin is Sin . No difference at all😳😳😳😳😳
Cheating all the way around is wrong...If a man wants more than one woman he should be honest upfront , just like if a woman wants a certain dynamic...
Exactly
Agrreed just be honest and say that.
I agree. I don't think it is wrong to havr a polyamorous relationship, if everyone involved agrees to it. But, if you agree to be monogamous, male or female, you should stick too it. If your partner isn't giving you what you need, it's better to leave then cheat.
What if he wants 1 woman, but then she turns cold? Should he start begging or just dump because she's not feeling it. It's not that simple.
The answer here however is he tells her how much time to open or to walk and never tolerate being controlled like that again. But that answer isn't what people want to hear or want to say. Saying be honest upfront is borderline worthless. More women more money. Who actually wants more of one without having the other, or will.
True still there's a difference between a cheating man versus a woman though. The latter play not to lose whereas the former play to win. Also if a man cheat, he's still can make a difference between a hoe and a wife...
As a man and the son of a women who was cheated on, never give a cheater a second chance no matter the gender. Simple as that
Facts. I used to constantly cheat on my girlfriends in high school until I had to watch my mom go through that with my dad leaving her for a younger woman. Happy to say I haven’t cheated on a gf since and that was 18 years ago
@@charliemancuso6980 I wonder what their relationship was like, for him to have done that. Did you ever ask him why he did it?
@@taloutezero
A dog going to be a dog untill his barker stop barking
@@dr.shakingmyhead4167 I see. Are you saying there is no chance that she contributed to him stepping out and his disinterest in his marriage was completely on him?
True
Anyone cheating whether man or woman is intolerable
I was Married for 40 years and NOT once did I think to Cheat on my Wife.
"I think It's alil deeper!" _that's what she said._
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣! SAVAGE
LMFAO THATS WHAT I WANTED POINT OUT OH IT DEF DEEPER 😭😭😭😭
Very classy my good sir🧐
Cheating is Cheating
😢 I don’t think it’s deeper than what I did…
Modern women have mastered being a “victim” and getting ahead.
Yep the victim complex is fucking ridiculous…
Jezebells everywhere
هوَ انتَ رجال شكو تنطي رأيك
Hmm. To you modern women have supposedly masted being victims, yet people like you are trying to justify cheating as "men's rights" and not wanting to hold men accountable for something like because of "biological ergues". I thought that equal rights were about holding men and women to the same standards, yet men like you aren't doing that and seem to want us to go back to the dark ages because it benefited men most. Seems to me like modern women aren't the delusional ones here. 🤔
😂😂 but everytime they are getting a dose of their own medicine😂
“A man should never forgive a woman for cheating on him”
I agree. And a woman should never forgive a man for cheating on her.
Agreed except in her case every man she encounters gets a pass for cheating on her dumbass. She deserves no respect with this backwards ass red pill logic.
But the next man will probably cheat and he doesn’t give af about you.
That’s wack whether you are a man or a woman -if you cheat , you are also a liar and you can’t mess with liars
This is stupid. Anyone who cheats will lie about it. Who the fuck in their right mind will be like “well gee golly I cheated on you multiple times.” Get real. I hate this stupid argument “it’s not that they cheated, it’s that they lied.” GTFOH
Wow, she knows how to talk out her butt. I see she's got talent smh
I think what she meant was when a woman cheats she has some kind of emotional attachment when most men cheat is for the physicality of it
She is spitting facts!!! 💯
What?🤔 if she cheated is ain't concur shit but dick so how does so make sense
1st time hearing this from a woman.
She is spitting mucous!
Lol, you would say that. You both sound ridiculous.
@@BajanBrit you can’t think like a man like she does
"If you dont like it, dont be in a relationship then"
Summed it up best.
She DOES NOTTTT speak for ALLL of US" women that love ourselves and demand loyalty and respect 😊
"Psychologists generally define forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness."
That's the reason I forgave my ex and adhere to no contact. She didn't deserve a thing. I did it for me. I deserved to be psychologically free from the cheating, deceit, lying, and manipulation. I wasn't going to allow this woman to push me down a dark path.
I don’t understand why it’s so hard to stay loyal. I never cheated in my life.
your only faithful as your options. If you run a modeling agency for 18-24 year old women... it all depends on your life choices. I don't like cheating at all due to the std's and pair bonding chemical reaction but i get it.
That's cause cheating is selfish act , that person is thinking of them self and there wants, selfish people shouldn't be in relationships
did you watch porn when in relationship?
You can forgive someone for cheating but you don’t have to stay with them.
People have people messed up thinking that forgiveness means stay, it doesn’t, and there are no one set of rules for married people and one set of rules for murderers, etc.
Remove yourself from the hurt and the pain, because as soon as they do something that reminds you of what happened you will become suspicious, distrusting, and angry, and then you will start to act out, and that person could be truly repented.
Then they may feel like they have to watch everything that they say and can’t make eye contact with others, and walk around on egg shells just to prove that they are not cheating.
Cheating DESTROYS
Some people survive and go on to be happy, while others fall apart.
If you know that you are a cheater don’t get into any relationships.
Stay single and have FRIENDS that you hang with.
Cheating is a huge disrespect to your spouse.
It's a serious character flaw.
She probably one of the few females I've seen on this channel that have moments where I can roll with her 💯
That’s called a pick me chick. She’s simping on all y’all.
@@melissafradette479 Most men will take a fit feminine pick me, over a boss b****, or miss independent.
@@melissafradette479 lol you might be right.... But there are other clips where she's on some other shit, so idk....
Y’all are so dumb. Smh. You “can roll with her” off some ill-reasoned circular logic only because it gives men license and not women. Weak af.
@@baconthegatewaymeat9131 Because you can disrespect her, but you know a boss aint going for that and will put you out like the trash you are.
You can look, at it from a different perspective though.. When a man cheats, he is the one doing the pursuing the vast majority of the time. An attractive women is going to receive boat loads of attention naturally, and most of the time didn't start out doing the pursuing with man she cheats with..
infidelity equals DISLOYALTY, it doesn't matter which partner does it, the state of their relationship, etc... no sense in maintaining the relationship if only one person is being FAITHFUL to the other person.
It's not about being equal. It's not the same when a man does it. You can say it is all you want, ot never will be. Facts will always be facts, and the fact is, men are wire for polygamy. Woman is not.
You consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that *JohnsonSpy* . Thank you for making the corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you work for me. Great work as always.This is the beginning of many more good things to come. May you get everything, that you could demand. Best wishes in all you do and congrat to me as well, job well done!
Girl get a grip! Cheating is wtong no matter who does it. When a man cheats, he is disrespecting his woman and scratching an itch. Its not deeper, its a lack of self control.
Women don’t have that itch so you can’t judge. You’re pets. Not leaders.
@Michael Bonés men and women lack self control at times. A cheater is just a cheater. Actually man or woman i think cheating is just wrong and disrespectful.
@@michaelbones8322u lack self control too 🤭
Y’all love making excuses for bs. It’s sad asl how y’all have to justify being treated like shit just to sleep at night💯
What a wonderful world when women finally wake up. If your man cheating on you was OK....it wouldn't hurt you so bad. AND STOP FIGHTING OTHER WOMEN.....ITS EMBARASSING. How many women will you fight before you realise that your husband is common denominator
So being treated like shit is him paying all of your bills, loving on you when he is home, making sure he provides all your desires but because he fucked some bitch whose name he won't remember one time. You're treated like shit and must leave? I'm not talking about the guys who have you doing 50% 50% I'm talking about that provider.
This is what’s i was looking for
The tables are turning and men are now getting a taste of their own medicine. What a time to be alive.
I’m riding in your car , it’s all excuses , if either of them need to look outside of their relationship than it’s pointless to even be together , something is off balance … but don’t accept something that tears down your soul by excusing it as “conquering” 🙄 this is all pretty silly when you think about it
Thank you for acknowledging our differences… double standards exist everywhere.
Doesn't change it's wrong and no second chances should be given to matter the gender
@@downbad2874 Speak for Yourself
@@heruapocalypse2021 but they are speaking the truth.
BS
All cheaters should prepare to be cheated on.
It's just a simple master key and sham lock scenario. No man should forgive a cheating wife!!
This was actually pathetic to watch. Neither should accept/forgive cheating. Men will rarely ever forgive that. What the hell do I look like disrespecting myself accepting a man that's just for anybody. The second you take him back you have told him how low you think of yourself...that you can't do better or you love "sooo" much that you'll accept anything. He knows he has you wrapped around his finger, you aren't going anywhere, and he WILL do it again but try to cover his tracks better next time.🤷🏾♀️
I mean women are pretty easy to hit nowadays can you blame him
You're Gonna Struggle With Dating If That's What You Truly Believe 😏😏😏
@@oblove1586 LOL you can save it sir. My patience for men that will lie, cheat, and steal for some pussy is nonexistent.
If he can't even follow the simple BASIC 10 commandments (THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY!!!), the devil can have him quite frankly🤷🏾♀️. I'm not sticking around. "I'm going to have a lot of trouble dating if I don't let men cheat on me repeatedly while I stand there looking like a damn clown"??? Sir go feed this lie to your mom, sister, daughters, and nieces first before you try to instruct me. Come back and tell me what they say. 😄 I respect myself WAYYY too much to tolerate disrespect.
@@oblove1586 No she will be just fine. The cheater on the other hand won't.
@@sheilaf.4872 American Society Has Ruined Common Sense... Because Y'all Believe In Things The Reality Of The Rest Of The World Never Even Consider 🤷🏿♂️
Your dedication, dedication, enthusiasm, and insight are shown in your work. Keep on doing great works like this, and there’s no looking back for you! The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you . *Brian Hacks* Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. Congrats and best wishes for a promising future.
No one should cheat 🤷♀️ it’s the most disrespectful thing you could do as a man OR a woman…it’s not just the act, it’s the potential aftermath. Contraception does not stop STDs and in the day and age we live in, you could be fking with someone’s HEALTH as well when you cheat. Don’t be in a relationship if you don’t want to be monogamous, regardless of your gender.
Not to mention that cheating is also beta male behavior. Your subconsciously telling yourself that you’re not good enough for this woman to accept you the way you are, so you need to live two lives: the one that keeps her happy, and the one that makes you happy. It’s very toxic and taxing to the peace of mind. Stay Focused!
THANKK YOU.
Men and Women aren't the same
@@focusedallday5620 Men ND Women aren't the Same
@@jennyoyster5054 Men and Women are not The same.It's The Women Who are Cheaters.Where as Men are Conquerers.
No because a man would cheat on her wife and get another woman pregnant That Hurts💯🥺
SHE'S ON POINT!!!!!!!!
What’s her name???
Goofy as hell... cheating is cheating rather being man or woman
No is not is different bozo
False
@@guestphone3345 no its exactly the same. Smh. Yall are deluded as F cuz of these youtubers. Come back to reality tho.
@@dvb8637 shuuuuuuuutttt uuuuuuupppp!
A woman should never forgive a man when he cheats!! Tf. This double standard bs. Cheaters deserve to get left whether they’re a man or woman
Somebody tell me what the heck she's talking about?? Doesn't matter who's cheating... Cheating is disrespectful and cowardice.
The mentality people have. Cheating is betrayal that leads to a lack of trust and respect. No sex is excused from this. A woman is expected to forgive but a man should never? This alone simply proves that one sex views the other as weak. For it to be considered cheating, means you are in an exclusive relationship so if either partner cheats then it's the outsider that "conquered" you.
They don't want to hear that though
1 Peter 3:7
“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”
*misses the point of the video*🤦🏾♂️The point wasn’t that Women can’t cheat and Men can. It was that cheating is bad all around but its has a deeper meaning and can be considered more of a betrayal when coming from Women bc of how they’re more naturally attached to their emotions.
@@redxamurai7070 I get the "deeper" concept however sin is sin, betrayal is betrayal. As a woman, listen when I tell you. It doesn't hurt less because our partners are men. It breaks our heart just as much. Makes us feel less than. Makes us question why.
Man have always had multiple women since the beginning of time and women never had a problem with it, in the bible God even tells a husband how he should act when he has multiple wives.
Woman were fine with their husband's having more than 1 wife and even concubines.
Bro, it’s not deeper. It’s the same. Both folks lied, both disrespected their partner, and both are liars. It’s the same level.
Bro it's just different. She's speaking reality.
There's a difference between conquering and submitting to being conquered.
Listen to The Woman! Men and Women are Different.We're not the same.Women are Monogamous.And Men are Polyganous.Men are specifically designed to Spread Themselves.Women are not.
@@heruapocalypse2021 and be broke as hell, thinking tbey have the right to multiple women.
@@DirtyJamesUK bro, it’s not….
@@heruapocalypse2021 majority of men lieeeee then. If you truly believe that, don’t submit yourself to one woman and CHEAT. It’s cheating because she doesn’t agree with it. Don’t know the definition!? Go be with multiple women then.
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That has to be the biggest load of BS I have ever heard.
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A women should never forgive a man for cheating.
But women forgive men for cheating everyday somewhere in the world. Women forgive cheating more than men do and i fuckin love it, YES. I really Love being a man, especially a money making man on top of that. Options are always there for a man as long as he got aome bread in his bank account.
A Woman shouldn't even be bothered.Because She's not a Man.Men are Polyganous by Nature.Therefore We spread Ourselves.Women however are Monogamous by Nature.This has always been understood since the beginning of Time.But some how Women Today act as though this is Something new.Men have always had plenty of Women.And always set out to have plenty Women.So Women Who think like You are Masculine.And often times find Themselves alone and lonely.
Anytime a woman forgives that shit, she gets cheated on AGAIN! So stupid
@@drknow1997 ----------- not necessarily true. I knew 2 different guys that cheated because their wives started having less sex with them over time and didn't want to spice things up so they got their needs met elsewhere until the wives started bustin it open a lot more for their hubby (at least for one those guys anyway, not sure about the other).
@@garymoore3384 they should just divorced their wives instead of risking their health
Wow I wasn’t expecting her to say anything she jus said. Hold on
You heard Her right! She told The Truth!
Yeah it's always surprising when a woman understands the point of view of men. They are usually encouraged to ignore the male point of view.
Never, history repeats its self!
Right she definitely went off script with that one
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It's definitely "deeper" got that right.
If you cheat that means your broken & have low self esteem,no self control,emotionally disconnected & your controlled by your emotions & don’t feel valuable so you seek validation from multiple partners for temporary validation or value. Get help you need help because good people don’t deserve to be hurt by the broken ones.
Agreed 💯 Well said 👏
Typical DUSTY answer. Cheating isn’t worse with a specific gender. Cheating is a disgusting act of selfishness. NONE should be cheating. It’s so simple to just stay single.
Its absolutely worse when women does it
@wingknight7132 It absolutely is not. Cheating is cheating regardless of your gender. Newsflash STDs, bringing home unwanted pregnancies or God forbid AIDS don't care about your gender so it's exactly the same.
It is worse to you as a man, but you can’t say how a woman views it. “Worse” is relative.
@@melstarr1864Women wouldn’t forgive if it was the same.
Yeah but men usually are harsher when it comes to taking back a cheating partner, the only ones who do it are a) simps and b) guys who got married for a passport or money and probably cheat on their wife anyways.
And a woman should NEVER forgive a man. Yall really insane wit the bs 🤦🏽♀️ if I’m in a relationship and my man hates me so much that he even wishes to (concur) another woman, why wouldn’t I want to dismiss myself from the relationship? At that point go be with her 🤷🏽♀️
🤣 women think they're so special. Even tho y'all nag him and refuse to give your kitty on the regular, then get upset when he goes looking. He doesn't hate you by stepping out occasionally. Y'all mind is all messed up. Too much ego for ppl who provide no value except how much they talk
@@panama2468 it’s sad because y’all so used to treating a women like shit that y’all don’t know how to react when you see a woman who ain’t gone let that shit slide
@@corrinerobinson2524 I definitely see the truth in that. I wonder What advice would a cheating man give his daughter or little sister if her man was cheating. I’m sure it wouldn’t be to suck it up and stay with him. 🤦🏾♀️
@@panama2468 did a woman give birth to you or are you from another planet? Not every woman nags and not every woman withhold sex. Even the best woman get cheated on. No other excuse other than they want variety 🤣 Most men think like animals with absolutely no intelligent thinking 🤔
@@growingvibrationsmagazine you would be surprised. Black men aren’t putting their daughters or sisters on a pedestal anymore. They too busy concurring other women to even care how their female family members are being treated. I’m sure he would have no opinion at all.
Talk about double standards...absolutely nonsense
Wow what a double standard. Cheating in a relationship is wrong on all levels. You are excusing a man when he cheats but condemning the woman. A man cheats on a woman many times throughout the relationship and the woman usually forgives and goes through this cycle over and over again. But when the woman cheats the first time the man leaves her in a split second. Men can’t take what they dish out. So ladies, if your man cheats the first time, leave him!!! Also, if you are not a monogamous person and you know in your heart you can’t be faithful to your partner then stay single and do you. Honesty and communication goes a long way.
It's the law of nature my spiritual daughter so if you are uninformed disgruntled female-born human being you need to take those egregious to Mother Earth💯❤️🩹 and the god
Yes so sorry. It's bad either way, but it's worse when you do it. Extra trashy
@@pixelbitg9386 y’all just gone keep saying that’s until one day y’all words “MAGICALLY” change a woman right 😂😂 what makes you think that calling a women trashy for cheating is going to stop women from cheating, especially when we know they gone be hurt by it ??🤔🤔😂😂😂 LMAOO WE GONE KEEP CHEATING, y’all think y’all can shame a woman into living like a 70s woman but unfortunately y’all can upon a generation that don’t give a fuck 💯💯💯
As he should, women cheat more
Theres something about the whole, sticking it in compared to havin it stuck in, that makes something about the two somehow different.......
She speaking on a deeper level that will blow over ppl head ears to dull an she didn't say to much at all but Truth!
It don't matter. Cheating is still wrong on both parts period.
It’s a double standard when a man steps out he’s just having sex but when a woman steps out she no longer loves or respects her man.
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“I saw this on a podcast” 😂
It probably was a man that said that shit
Exactly you know she must have been raised like this, and forced to think this way because idc what no body say the woman’s NATURAL BRAIN does not function off of what a man wants
Of course!🤣
Nah, cheating should be a non negotiable across the board male or female.
What she is trying to say is that when a man is polygamous, it is ok. But for a woman being polygamous??! That goes against all laws of nature. In other words, when a man is asked if he's a virgin, there's an exclamation mark(!) at the end of that sentence but for a lady, there's a question mark(?). Ask yourself why??
Polygamy is not natural at all. We were made separate from the Animals
@@lionbolt2136 Go tell that to the likes of David and Solomon. Yet God never spoke against it.
Thank you girl! No woman who loves her man will sleep with another man👌🏿😘why be in a relationship 😘😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️i said this too a woman can’t claim she loves you when she’s sleeping with others people facts.👌🏿😘
A man cheats and you should be with a man who cheats??? Some man like to feeeeellll too.Men try to kill you if you cheat because the think they are above us,(women).
That goes both ways a man can't say he really loves you when he's sleeping around with other women especially when he bringing you sexually transmitted diseases home.
@@tanzaniawilliams4379 Some way somehow they seem to miss that part😂
@@growingvibrationsmagazine True, true and not to mention how many children do women find out about years down the road he has fathered.
@@growingvibrationsmagazine Once again men and women are different. Hell dudes will sleep with women and barely know their names and never need to see them again. Women get emotionally invested, especially once you've submitted and Jodi is breaking your back just right.
it's bad for both to cheat period. if you claim to love only one person, you can't go make love to another, and expect a gealthy relationship.
You make love with every woman you lay with ??? “Make love”?
Should never give someone a second chance to cheat
Whats up with this dude!🤨She got more man in her than his simpy self…
Ms go sit down......it is a double standard....cheating is cheating 🙄
Are you trying to imply there are no double standards that benefit woman?
She never said cheating wasn't cheating she said that cheating was different for men and women... and if a man cheats you shouldn't necessarily just leave the relationship, it probably can be fixed but if a woman cheats she is emotionally done with that man and doesn't respect him
@@brandonjohnson3881 🙄I said what I said..comment cop.
@@benjohnson8231 she ain't tryna discuss that. As long as it benefits THEM it ain't up for discussion
@@IBO85 exactly
Never trust anyone who tells you what you want to hear. She knows nobody should be cheating on anyone but here she go with that pick me BS. If you cheat on your woman, she will know and if she’s ok with it, she’s sleeping with someone else and you’ll never know.
I once thought my old lady was messing around with her ex so I decided to sleep with different women who’s name corresponded to the letters of his first and last name until I finished his whole name. I was on a sexually charged,jealous,angry rampage. I never found any hardcore evidence but I was at a very toxic point of my life back then…my little operation made me feel good inside and at peace knowing just in case I was right, that I had creatively evened the score. Thank goodness for change because that wreck less behavior could have landed me and my health in hot water.
It goes both ways period. And I learned from cheating myself. I didn't want another chance. But I learned that I will never put myself in a position to cheat on another man! I'll just walk away because that means that I'm not mentally in the relationship anymore. Just being honest.
Her response pissed me off. It goes both ways. If you're committed, you're committed. Male or female.
No it doesn't, never has...
A womans biological needs are met through financial and physical security by a Masculine Man.
A mans biological needs are met by a Feminine Woman not fucking another man.
It's been this way since civilization began
Thing is most men are making 35-55k...
Not allowing a woman to live comfortably in her femininity
Men who have the most resources
( have done the work to build a future )
can enjoy that aspect of being a man
Not the guys with average to below average income.
When a man is in shape has a descent personality and is financially secure...
He's the equivalent of powerful men over the centuries
The dating world is all his because he is rare and physically attractive women are not.
There is no reason he shouldn't enjoy these sexual options that he worked his ass off to get.
Men have to work to have these sexual options
Women are born with them
Women can't tell us how to utilize options we had to work all our life to earn when they were born with theirs.
When you give your self to another your souls intertwined.
Period , doesn’t matter if you’re conquering or being conquered , it’s all spiritual and meditative , and unless both people are open to sharing than it’s wrong , doesn’t matter which one is worse
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Never give them another chance. They'll just do it again.
Its beautiful to see a woman tell the truth
Tell the truth u only like it because she is saying give men a pass fohb
@@downbad2874 naw not even that she knows the difference between men cheating an females cheating. She knows it's worse when a woman does it
@@downbad2874 It ain't no Damn Pass it's The Absolute Truth.And been that since The Beginning of Time.You must be new to life.
I would hate to hear these conversations with these men and their daughters or sisters if they were cheated on. “It’s ok baby girl. That man is a cheater but he loves you. See he’s still with you right?”
Yeahhh, let that man be a man be a man lil sis. He cheated but it’s ok because it wasn’t emotional for him to put his penis in her. Your heart is broke Because of that? Oh naw it’s not that bad”😂
All cap and for the show. Only a fool can't see that.
she understands 🙌🏽another woman free from the modern blue pill
No. She's blue. She agrees on this point, but she's definitely blue
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An adulterer risks going to hell unless they repent and reconcile100%
The work he does is so vital the world needs more people like vou lust love the podcast so you put up I love hearing these cheaters squirm keep up the good work, it takes good hearted individuals the gutts to do this instead. There should be whole government department buildings filled with *Brian hacks online* on the internet doing stuff like this to protect and catch cheaters civilians. That would be tax money well spent.
Don't cheat. If you are leaning toward doing it, then you need to ask yourself, why are you in a relationship to begin with. But overall...don't cheat.
A lot of times it’s lust, insecurity, emotional affair first….people need to stop and think because actually sleeping with someone else takes many steps before it even happens… selfishness 😢
Just got cheated on by the mother of my kids… how do I heal? How do I stop loving her? I’m tired of wanting someone that doesn’t nothing but hurt me…
You can tell the most high is no where in the conversation..no one should be cheating period..that's the problem..there's no respect in people's relationship when cheating is involved 💯
Y’all keep thinking it’s different.A man does it over and over and women keep taking them back.Why is it so different?
*KeKe* The eggs... It's not. But, the eggs...
She'll never have a good man 🤣🤣🤣
You a good man? 😂 Ight bruh