ANGELS MY BIRTHDAY IS AROUND THE CORNER !!! ITS APRIL 21ST !!! WHO ELSE IS MY BDAY TWIN?😊 CAN WE GET THIS VIDEO TO 1K LIKES AND SHARE SHARE SHARE !!!! I WANT TODO SOMETHING EXCITING FOR 50K SUBBIES!!!!! WE CAN DO IT !!!!!!
Stop trying when you see 0 effort or 0 responsibility from a man, it takes so much energy to keep thinking about someone who doesn't even care. It's never worth it, you can go on without him & truth is, you're better off & happier without him.
i let him go 2 days ago. but the relationship was not toxic. he was and still is a great person, we only had good memories. but he wasnt ready to commit.. he has other priorities, and i wasnt one of them. and i decided that even though i really like him and we have a great relationship foundation, i couldnt stay. it wasnt good anymore for me. i was getting frustrated every week waiting for him to take iniciative to see me or just say that he missed me. it hurt, it hurts me to think that he may commit to someone else and do to her what he didnt do for me, but i'll be okay. i'll cry and move on with a peaceful, happy heart.
You’re so strong babe ! I felt this :”). It’s sometimes just as hard to let go when someone is a good person but they just won’t commit but it’s easier than having to leave disheartened because of being played with. Luckily in this case you can be in peace and you understand that he cannot provide what you desire right now in terms of commitment and now you are aligning yourself for someone. Who will ♥️
Asha C. Hey, I’m going through the same thing. Do you recommend to keep in contact with them? My ex will be going to law school and doesn’t want me to be unhappy if he can’t provide me with his full attention. We ended on good terms but it still hurts. Would you also recommend to give another chance in a couple of years if we were both single and developed. Btw we’re both 21
And girl i feel the same. Im like it hurts to know that some other girl will catch his eye and he will be so much better to her than he ever was to me. I feel like a loser.
This is why I say marry a guy who loves you more than you love them!!! Women are naturally nurturing men have to love you more so the efforts will be equal. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Asha
@@laylacooper861 in order for that, we must first be likeable. I really doubt these women in abusive relationships love the men. They are just there because their ego keeps them stuck.
Shirley Islas-Landeros yo this open my eyes too and when I was with my ex my ass damn sure wasn’t winning either that was my L but the girl that was with my ex she seen what I went through with him cause they ain’t together no more for good
i came here just to hear her say this AGAIN. and what i learned from first hand experience that hes just the same. now she messed up by having a baby by a cheater less than 4 months being with him and shes dying inside. jokes on him. hes a bum
FUCK! It hurts so bad when you care about a guy so deeply and you realize he doesn’t feel the same. When you’re emotionally invested it’s so hard to detach...
I did yesterday after embarrassing myself and telling him that maybe we should try again and he was like no I’m done for good. And surprisingly I’m not even upset about breaking up. I honestly just want to work on me and get myself together
@@sharonhousden605 same. I've pretty much lost interest in being with anyone. Its not worth the hassle and grief. Being single sounds much more easier and peaceful.
Change ur attitude because its not every case that is true..hence why some men treat some women a certain way an then move on an treat another woman just the way she wants,because she didn't make it easy for him like u did..so when u move on just move on an stop "that's my attitude" yourself.
My man was too into me physically and I invested emotionally, he always slowed down when we were about to get serious. He claims he’s gonna take care of me i believe action not words. I’m putting this relationship on hault.
Yesss “I deserve the best” I watched a couple of you’re videos and I’ve lost 40 pounds so far Rebranding myself and becoming a new me. Now I’m picking up feminine ways you taught me being classy is more than liking the color pink! I’m going to obtain the life I deserve.
Duuuuude!! I was LITERALLY ....just on the phone about a new guy I met that already started acting crazy and when your notification pop up?! Come on !! Too many signs. ....5 mins later DELETE! I let him go !
ONLY HANNAH LEIGH do you mind posting his number below so I could play on his phone for acting crazy with you 😂all of us should start calling his number from different numbers and play on his phone. Make him go crazy. Lol
I’m a gay guy, and Asha. You have no idea how much you’ve opened my eyes and even touching my life in such a exponential way! Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart!
Between you and Paige u two are my guardian angels. Anytime when I’m going through something I can depend on you guys with the girl Talk to steer me in the right direction and I am so grateful to you for that. you need to have a meet and greet so that I can give you a hug because you are the best! I was just talking about this yesterday and it is so crystal-clear now as what I need to do. Continue to be authentic, honest, and unbothered!❤️❤️
Why am i finding it so difficult to block him? As if i am scared to miss out on his message that he will send me in the future. Why does that bother me so much. I want to know that he's thought of me and reached out, yet I dont wanna be back to square one. Aghh how do i convince myself to block him???
This is actually very common. You want to leave that door open just Incase. But what ends up happening is sometimes you never ever even get that message and if you even do, it’s because he’s bored and circling back !!! If he wanted to hit you up what is stopping him right now !????? What wait around on someone who is clearly showing that he doesn’t care !!! He doesn’t care ! That hurt alone should propel you and fuel you to move on !!!! I know it soothes our ego to just know that they hit us up and it makes us feel good, but at the end of the day the reality is majority of the time they don’t miss us they’re just bored. The best revenge is moving on. Getting better looking and blocking his # but you don’t have to block him on social media if you want him to still see you glow up ! But I wouldn’t follow him at all.
L S how’s the breakup going? Have you gotten over him? We’re you ever able to block him? Don’t be like me and be trying to break up w someone for 4 years. Seeing statuses in my Facebook memories from 2017 posting quotes like “pay attention to who adores you not ignores you,” basically seeing that I’ve been in this same position for years... I’m not a dumbass I’m a very smart girl, but I have to admit I’ve been acting like one with this man. Just like us women can judge a man by his actions so can men, he knows I’m weak and he knows he can do whatever and I’ll still be there. I just decided finally as of Friday to leave it where it’s at. It’s like a boulder off my chest and shoulders! I was literally getting sick from every little thing due to my immune system being suppressed from not eating or even drinking water. Plz plz plz if you haven’t gotten out yet and you cannot see yourself marrying this man, get out! Don’t think it’s a game and that it’s only something you do when you’re bored! Hope you been strong. 🙏🏼💘
@@CONANCHICK thanks for writing that sis. I think you should work on childhood trauma sometimes it's our subconscious bringing us back but the pain we respond to is actually from childhood and not the current man. Have a dive deep into yourself and ask yourself who else hurt you the same way when you were a little girl. Research healing childhood wounds. Selfloveu on RUclips has some good vids on it. I am recovering now, I learned the hard way that blocking is best. I pray you leave him for good and make space for a healthy relationship. Lots of love x
Girl look in the mirror and tell yourself the truth about the relationship. Not your hopes and dreams and potential for the relationship, the reality of the relationship, bc truth is, men lay the foundation, we women multiply it. Dont multiply an illusion, its confusing. I had to finally tell myself the truth about my ex, and stop creating a fantasy world with all the empty space he left me in. I cried for like 3 hours about that reality, got really angry at God....vented to God then got a comforting peace bc I accepted the truth .
Peace.. I miss having male friends... You learn a lot.. And let a dude dig himself into a hole. And not to game play, you sometimes have to give them back what they gave you.. Ex. If they are busy, you also are busy.. If the guy really cares and is ready to be with you, he will improve. Just stick to your holster as planned before releasing to soon.. 😉 ALWAYS LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS vs HIS ACTIONS.
OMG I can relate SO MUCH to that part where he said 'sorry I fell asleep' when he was actually Neflix and Chilling with another girl... this guy blanked my texts which were important DMCs and replied two days later saying 'he was busy' but I saw him liking his ex's pics on Insta...
You just have me laughing too much! LOL! "If a liar tells you he's not lying, he's lying. That's what liars do!" LOL! Girlfriend, you tickle me! Stoppppppp!!! No, keep going! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
I always read the comments on most of these RUclips related videos and it is quite surprising how many women are going through relationship problems it an OMG ,but Ladies we have to stop wearing our heart on our sleeves and make rational decisions listen to videos like these that will motivate you ,trust god ,write a list and state what you want in a man and let god deliver him to you when the time is right, don't allow men to damage you Mentally be in control of your own life
My “brutally honest” ex told me that he “lied because I don’t want to hurt you”. Bullshit. He would flip the script that I’m too controlling, that I’m too insecure.. but at the same time he sent selfies to his ex, he wants to keep her to text regularly and disrespect me by lying. Disgusting. I deserve the best and I’m not going to take him back.
I dated a man for 5 months in LA who treated me like crap. He was emotionally abusive and manipulative. He never made me his gf then got mad at me for being on dating apps. He scapegoated me for the ending of the relationship, meanwhile he was dating the subletter in his apt while dumping me, OVER text. My heart is completely broken. Thank you for this video.
Never invest in a relationship that he did not put a ring on it! A lesson learned the hard way, I let my cheating ex go, and since I am thriving in relationships, not invested, just the bare minimum until I see the guy is really invested the right way, not just to impress and take what he wants...
When I feel like I can’t talk to anyone I watch your videos and it reassures me about everything. I also don’t feel alone. Thank you for making these videos! You deserve love deeper than the ocean itself💛
honestly, I wish I could have a convo on the phone with you and explain everything that has been happening in my relationship lol. but this video helped me to understand so much about myself and my worth thanks for the advice!
“when you feel it ,you know it “ that part was enough for me honestly . My mother is a Taurus as well and she’s been the best person to show me how to move on I thank God for her 🤍🙏🏽✨ Great video Queen
I don't think anyone else on RUclips has managed to help me with my healing process as much as you've been doing for the past hours. Literally can't thank you enough
I feel like your an angellllll. LITERALLY EVERYTIME IN GOING THOUGH SOMETHING I COME ON RUclips THAT SAME DAY AND YOU MAKE A VIDEO LITERALLY SCREAMING REALITY IN MY HEAD. Thank youu. Keep making videos girl you are saving mee😭😭
The literal FIRST VIDEO in my feed once again😭😫😫 I swear just last night he was talking to me apologizing about “everything he did” and this.... THIS is a SIGN from God. Asha you are the best omg, I thank you for teaching me how to be a quality queen everyday!!! Happy early 25th birthday gorgeous ❤️
Dammit.. I need a bestfriend like you. Thankyou so much, im in a relationship with a narcissistic man.. and I always keep attracting them.. Im so tired of life :( may god bless us al!
I had a crush on him. We spoke a lot. He confused me a lot. He called me babe, answered back everytime, but now I find out he was just joking around. I'm tearing up. I'm so in love with him😭😭😭😭. My heart is in pieces right now. Now I've decided not to chase him.
@@AshaChristinaFoster Like the way you carry yourself..you have a lovely sence of self, you have a sassy smile, sweet and famine yet you stand your ground.. I love your sense of style and the way you keep up you keep it neat and simple...i just love your skin and how you glow and use love to do the same coz you represent! how do you keep Up girrrl😍😥😙😙😙
The part where you said “ she’s not winning “ I felt that lol from 2014-2017 I was with my “ex” and he cheated on me with another girl and she was believing all his lies she tried to fight me before over him and when they use to break up he always would coming running to me but I stopped that and now they’re not together cause he cheated and talked shit about her also so now she knows what I was dealing with and till this day he still tries to contact me but I got him blocked and changed my number
Sis.. you really are so wise! I love all your content because a lot of girls are really lost out here and are getting caught in the cycle of being continuously hurt, and it needs to stop! We are women of value and we have to hold ourselves to a higher esteem. Thanks girl, you always keep me motivated!
“If you can’t sit down and have a serious conversation with a grown man, we have a problem and it’s not in Houston.” 😂 🤣 😂 There are so many hilarious quotes in your videos!
I had to block him on everything because I feel like he was playing with my feelings this video hit different because all she is saying is exactly what he was doing to me
This video is great! Having strong women in your circle and family can go a longggg way. I thank my parents for having me up on “game” growing up. Completely agree and been saying these words for years lol. A must share to some of my girlfriends so they hear it from someone they don’t know.
Thanks so much...I needed to hear the last part you said....I will let him go from my heart. The only problem is i don't know what to do next with myself😔
I love this video😍 I just got out of a long relationship where I was not remembering my value and I dealt with a lot of crap and excuses. You reminded me that we as women really do deserve more than that. Thanks💖
Wow my birthday is April 21st too. I just called things off with my son's father less than 30 minutes ago. Maybe this is a sign I made the right decision 💕
I literally came back to This Video because I watched it yesterday lol apart of me felt maybe it’s a sign but I didn’t wanna believe it fast forward today , the guy I’m talking to all of a sudden says goodnight at 10:00 and then my messages stopped going through ( no delivered on multiple iMessages ) then when I call no ring straight to voicemail , that’s a obvious indication he’s clearly with someone and has to block me , I guess This Video was a sign to finally let him go .
OMG Asha please I need a "we have a problem and it's not in Houston" sleep tee/lounge wear. A little off the shoulder number. Did you get to see some of your tag lines I suggested?
@@AshaChristinaFoster 1. I literally remember 2. Don't throw that thing back at the table... I'm just saying 3. Ladies be mindful 4. Work the floor 5. "I love you and God loves you" with a signature sign off... XOXO 💋 Asha 6. No rusty or dusty *And just an idea the pic of your evidence he cheated with the caption "don't let this happen to you"* I'm sorry I just love your detective work and filing on that one LMAO...got him!!!
This came to me at a perfect timing! You have helped me to confirm what my gut was telling me! YOU ARE AN ANGEL HONEY! THANK YOU YOU SAVED MY SOUL DEAR!!!! Much love!
I’m 17 and I let go of my ex of 8 months today! I am so relieved and happy. He wasn’t putting any effort into the relationship anymore and I had to carry everything out for a bit. I grew tired of it and had to break up with him.
ANGELS MY BIRTHDAY IS AROUND THE CORNER !!! ITS APRIL 21ST !!! WHO ELSE IS MY BDAY TWIN?😊 CAN WE GET THIS VIDEO TO 1K LIKES AND SHARE SHARE SHARE !!!! I WANT TODO SOMETHING EXCITING FOR 50K SUBBIES!!!!! WE CAN DO IT !!!!!!
Asha C. Wow we’re birthday twins! 💖 Aries/Taurus cusp, but def. Taurus ♉️
Happy birthday angel we all love u sm
Asha C. OMG WE HAVE THE SAME BIRTHDAY !
vanessa k hbd to u as well
Asha C. April 27th
Stop trying when you see 0 effort or 0 responsibility from a man, it takes so much energy to keep thinking about someone who doesn't even care. It's never worth it, you can go on without him & truth is, you're better off & happier without him.
Reema Amar AMEN!!!
Preach 🙏🏼
Exactly! Amen to this!
_amen! I know God has something better planned_
❤️
"The person who broke you, can't heal you." Preach girlfriend!! Very good message as always.👏👏
Denise Jones so true babe !!!!!
So true!!
That hit me a lot
Every woman who watches this vid ‘YOU DESERVE THE BEST, DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS’
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i let him go 2 days ago. but the relationship was not toxic. he was and still is a great person, we only had good memories. but he wasnt ready to commit.. he has other priorities, and i wasnt one of them. and i decided that even though i really like him and we have a great relationship foundation, i couldnt stay. it wasnt good anymore for me. i was getting frustrated every week waiting for him to take iniciative to see me or just say that he missed me. it hurt, it hurts me to think that he may commit to someone else and do to her what he didnt do for me, but i'll be okay. i'll cry and move on with a peaceful, happy heart.
B Hive I feel the same honestly my ex bf said that we were not meant to be when he acts different
You are going to be o.k trust the process
You’re so strong babe ! I felt this :”). It’s sometimes just as hard to let go when someone is a good person but they just won’t commit but it’s easier than having to leave disheartened because of being played with. Luckily in this case you can be in peace and you understand that he cannot provide what you desire right now in terms of commitment and now you are aligning yourself for someone. Who will ♥️
Asha C. Hey, I’m going through the same thing. Do you recommend to keep in contact with them? My ex will be going to law school and doesn’t want me to be unhappy if he can’t provide me with his full attention. We ended on good terms but it still hurts. Would you also recommend to give another chance in a couple of years if we were both single and developed. Btw we’re both 21
And girl i feel the same. Im like it hurts to know that some other girl will catch his eye and he will be so much better to her than he ever was to me. I feel like a loser.
LET HIM GO SISSSS , here’s a WHOLE TRASH BAG 🗑🧳💁🏽♀️
And that’s a fact !
Nah dude, here's an entire landfill. No reason to not dump him, there's too much space.
Yeah, he sure The is Shoot I met him by a dumpster God was showing me a sign from the start 🙄😒
Let the assho* go baby🙄😂
Girl I love what you just said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is why I say marry a guy who loves you more than you love them!!! Women are naturally nurturing men have to love you more so the efforts will be equal. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Asha
Wine and Wisdom so true
Thank you 💖
You just spoke the truth, sis.
My father always says this. Find someone who likes you more than you like them.
@@laylacooper861 in order for that, we must first be likeable. I really doubt these women in abusive relationships love the men. They are just there because their ego keeps them stuck.
"If a liar tells you he's not lying, he's lying." SIS PREACH
yasssss. a liar physically can’t do anything but lie
“He is that way with her too, she’s not winning baby!” This opened my eyes girrrl so much. I felt I could change him. 😫😒
Shirley Islas-Landeros yo this open my eyes too and when I was with my ex my ass damn sure wasn’t winning either that was my L but the girl that was with my ex she seen what I went through with him cause they ain’t together no more for good
You can't change anyone. Ever.
i came here just to hear her say this AGAIN. and what i learned from first hand experience that hes just the same. now she messed up by having a baby by a cheater less than 4 months being with him and shes dying inside. jokes on him. hes a bum
Never be a “pick me” !!! 👏🏼 I missed you!!!
Never ever !!!! I missed you guys toooo♥️🤗
Not only men.get rid of any toxic relationships.if it doesn't work,out it goes.
Period !!!!♥️
rochelle thundercloud even friends too
@@shutit4024 yes Jesus..
Most definitely!!
FUCK! It hurts so bad when you care about a guy so deeply and you realize he doesn’t feel the same. When you’re emotionally invested it’s so hard to detach...
Going through it right now
Especially when he dragged you in to it...
Yes it's very hurtful, I'm tired of crying 😢
Prettiest teeth I’ve ever seen
I was about the say the same thing...
Thank you ☺️
I thought it was just me. She's gorgeous too!
When your boy says : I just felt asleep and woke up after 17h lmaoo
This is SO COMMON !!!! Lies lies lies !
Weronika Gumuła Exactly lmao
Story of my life 😂
If he slept for 17 hours someone else put him to sleep.
Weronika Gumuła 😂😂😂😂
Follow your intuition ladies 🤞🏽💯 it NEVER fails
I did yesterday after embarrassing myself and telling him that maybe we should try again and he was like no I’m done for good. And surprisingly I’m not even upset about breaking up. I honestly just want to work on me and get myself together
And do just that and let me tell you something they always come crawling back around !!! Only when they do that’s when you just continue on ! ♥️
“We have a problem and it’s not in Houston” LMFAO that was cute
She dead speaking facts every single thing is soo true and its sad
It is really sad. Why do people play games? Why can't people just be decent to each other? 😔
@@sharonhousden605 same. I've pretty much lost interest in being with anyone. Its not worth the hassle and grief. Being single sounds much more easier and peaceful.
“Don’t worry about it, he’s doing the same thing to her”.. my attitude always 😂😂
Facts
I always say this too and it’s always right
Change ur attitude because its not every case that is true..hence why some men treat some women a certain way an then move on an treat another woman just the way she wants,because she didn't make it easy for him like u did..so when u move on just move on an stop "that's my attitude" yourself.
@@buffybanks9853 lmao whatttt? You good? All of your assumptions of me “making it easy” are so inaccurate. 😂
@@TALENTSGlamSquad you're simply in denial but whatever makes u feel better.common sense sometimes isn't so common
“The person that broke you, can not heal you” that statement is golden! 💯 on point
Damn sis.. THIS IS MY STORY RIGHT NOW WITH MY EX HUSBAND 🤬😩😭 even his MOTHER had to tell me to move on and just concentrate on our son.
Sharah Quinonez same! 😩
Same
Sharah Quinonez girl it has to take his mother to tell you that? Smh
If his mother had to tell you then you know he’s a whole damn trash.
My man was too into me physically and I invested emotionally, he always slowed down when we were about to get serious. He claims he’s gonna take care of me i believe action not words. I’m putting this relationship on hault.
Asha have you ever considered starting your own podcast? I feel like you would be perfect for that!
Mira Busera omg I was just thinking that as I was watching the video
Yes! Her voice suits it as well
Ava Marie haha great minds think alike!! :)
I need to look into how to go about making this !!!! I will look into it my loves! ♥️
Listen...I just said I wish she had a podcast
Yesss “I deserve the best” I watched a couple of you’re videos and I’ve lost 40 pounds so far Rebranding myself and becoming a new me. Now I’m picking up feminine ways you taught me being classy is more than liking the color pink! I’m going to obtain the life I deserve.
My angels are WINNING YESSSSSSSS BAAAABEEEEE THIS IS INCREDIBLE ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I let go alot of people this year. It's hard at first but I realized they make me miserable. I dont need misery in my life
i'm letting go as we SPEAK hahaha but seriously in letting him go i've gained so much peace that i didn't know he was disturbing
how did you let him go girl?
Stop talking to them completely. Block them if needed. Focus on yourself and leveling up. This will take the focus off the purpose and on to you...
Trueeee
Why she post this when he is like come on let's try again. Girrlllllllll stop stalking my life. Lol
😉😇 I read your mind babe !!!!!
Same 😞
Duuuuude!! I was LITERALLY ....just on the phone about a new guy I met that already started acting crazy and when your notification pop up?! Come on !! Too many signs. ....5 mins later DELETE! I let him go !
ONLY HANNAH LEIGH same just blocked a dude today
I am so proud !!!!☺️
Good for you!
Hannah I am on the same stuff. Men these days are starting to show their ass in 24 hours or less now n dayyyyyzzzz
ONLY HANNAH LEIGH do you mind posting his number below so I could play on his phone for acting crazy with you 😂all of us should start calling his number from different numbers and play on his phone. Make him go crazy. Lol
I’m a gay guy, and Asha. You have no idea how much you’ve opened my eyes and even touching my life in such a exponential way! Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart!
MultiJasonic Awww Angel !!!!! This makes me so happyyyyy 🥰🥰🥰🥰 you’re so welcome !!!!! ♥️
I was shedding a tear 2 seconds before you said "you are probably shedding a tear right now" thank you for this video
You’re so welcome babe ♥️
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Ugh same
I know this about to hit right timing 🙌🏻
😘😊
Between you and Paige u two are my guardian angels. Anytime when I’m going through something I can depend on you guys with the girl Talk to steer me in the right direction and I am so grateful to you for that. you need to have a meet and greet so that I can give you a hug because you are the best! I was just talking about this yesterday and it is so crystal-clear now as what I need to do. Continue to be authentic, honest, and unbothered!❤️❤️
Natasha Patterson hi, please who is Paige ?
Brenda iriah love your natural. She also goes by Bella Barz. They’re best friends.
I was thirsty to see that notification 🤣 we missed you ‼️
I missed you angels soooo much !!!!
Thank you for helping me break up with my boyfriend. I had to let him go, sis. 🚮
Off topic but your lashes are bomb asf 🔥. And happy early birthday 💕💕
thank you babe!!!!! I love them !!! my friend Ashia did them !!!
Asha can you please do a video on getting over a guy even after blocking and throwing him out of your life?
Salsa_baby I SECOND THIS ☝🏼
Salsa_baby Bruhh I need this
Same !!!!
Also me 🤔😥
Get busy
I made it in 10 minutes and ironically, this video title was meant for me. Talk about good timing!!!!!!
☺️😉❤️
YOU LOOK LIKE A PRINCESS SO HAPPY TO SEE THIS NOTIF
awwww thank youuu my loveeee😘
Why am i finding it so difficult to block him? As if i am scared to miss out on his message that he will send me in the future. Why does that bother me so much. I want to know that he's thought of me and reached out, yet I dont wanna be back to square one. Aghh how do i convince myself to block him???
This is actually very common. You want to leave that door open just Incase. But what ends up happening is sometimes you never ever even get that message and if you even do, it’s because he’s bored and circling back !!! If he wanted to hit you up what is stopping him right now !????? What wait around on someone who is clearly showing that he doesn’t care !!! He doesn’t care ! That hurt alone should propel you and fuel you to move on !!!! I know it soothes our ego to just know that they hit us up and it makes us feel good, but at the end of the day the reality is majority of the time they don’t miss us they’re just bored. The best revenge is moving on. Getting better looking and blocking his # but you don’t have to block him on social media if you want him to still see you glow up ! But I wouldn’t follow him at all.
Nearly a year has went by and I'm still supporting you sis. Thanks for the response you gave me that day it helped. Truly an angel 😘
L S how’s the breakup going? Have you gotten over him? We’re you ever able to block him? Don’t be like me and be trying to break up w someone for 4 years. Seeing statuses in my Facebook memories from 2017 posting quotes like “pay attention to who adores you not ignores you,” basically seeing that I’ve been in this same position for years... I’m not a dumbass I’m a very smart girl, but I have to admit I’ve been acting like one with this man. Just like us women can judge a man by his actions so can men, he knows I’m weak and he knows he can do whatever and I’ll still be there. I just decided finally as of Friday to leave it where it’s at. It’s like a boulder off my chest and shoulders! I was literally getting sick from every little thing due to my immune system being suppressed from not eating or even drinking water. Plz plz plz if you haven’t gotten out yet and you cannot see yourself marrying this man, get out! Don’t think it’s a game and that it’s only something you do when you’re bored! Hope you been strong. 🙏🏼💘
@@CONANCHICK thanks for writing that sis. I think you should work on childhood trauma sometimes it's our subconscious bringing us back but the pain we respond to is actually from childhood and not the current man. Have a dive deep into yourself and ask yourself who else hurt you the same way when you were a little girl. Research healing childhood wounds. Selfloveu on RUclips has some good vids on it. I am recovering now, I learned the hard way that blocking is best. I pray you leave him for good and make space for a healthy relationship. Lots of love x
Girl look in the mirror and tell yourself the truth about the relationship. Not your hopes and dreams and potential for the relationship, the reality of the relationship, bc truth is, men lay the foundation, we women multiply it. Dont multiply an illusion, its confusing.
I had to finally tell myself the truth about my ex, and stop creating a fantasy world with all the empty space he left me in. I cried for like 3 hours about that reality, got really angry at God....vented to God then got a comforting peace bc I accepted the truth .
Peace.. I miss having male friends... You learn a lot.. And let a dude dig himself into a hole. And not to game play, you sometimes have to give them back what they gave you.. Ex. If they are busy, you also are busy.. If the guy really cares and is ready to be with you, he will improve. Just stick to your holster as planned before releasing to soon.. 😉 ALWAYS LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS vs HIS ACTIONS.
OMG I can relate SO MUCH to that part where he said 'sorry I fell asleep' when he was actually Neflix and Chilling with another girl... this guy blanked my texts which were important DMCs and replied two days later saying 'he was busy' but I saw him liking his ex's pics on Insta...
I’m a Taurus tooo ayeee Taurus gang♉️
LINA SIMPSON taurus gang!!!
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Those advices are really worth. You’re like older sister which I don’t have but always wanted. Thank you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You just have me laughing too much! LOL! "If a liar tells you he's not lying, he's lying. That's what liars do!" LOL! Girlfriend, you tickle me! Stoppppppp!!! No, keep going! 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
“We have a problem and it’s not in Houston” 😂
I always read the comments on most of these RUclips related videos and it is quite surprising how many women are going through relationship problems it an OMG ,but Ladies we have to stop wearing our heart on our sleeves and make rational decisions listen to videos like these that will motivate you ,trust god ,write a list and state what you want in a man and let god deliver him to you when the time is right, don't allow men to damage you Mentally be in control of your own life
My “brutally honest” ex told me that he “lied because I don’t want to hurt you”. Bullshit. He would flip the script that I’m too controlling, that I’m too insecure.. but at the same time he sent selfies to his ex, he wants to keep her to text regularly and disrespect me by lying. Disgusting. I deserve the best and I’m not going to take him back.
Omg can we talk about how breathtakingly stunning you look 😍!! I live for your videos but you neeeeeed to share your beauty secrets 😉 LOVE YOU
Awww thank you my love !!!!!! Oh gosh I don’t feel like I have any but i do eat plant based !!!!
You are so underrated, like you literally know everything this helps so much
Awww thank you so much babe !!!!!
You are definitely a Taurus.
Brijah Yole what gives it away?
I dated a man for 5 months in LA who treated me like crap. He was emotionally abusive and manipulative. He never made me his gf then got mad at me for being on dating apps. He scapegoated me for the ending of the relationship, meanwhile he was dating the subletter in his apt while dumping me, OVER text. My heart is completely broken. Thank you for this video.
This is the advice I wish my friends gave me so straight forward
girl you make me feel so much stronger
So true, its Hard to let go when you feel like you’ve invested so much
Not advisable. Would you stay and invest more?
Never invest in a relationship that he did not put a ring on it! A lesson learned the hard way, I let my cheating ex go, and since I am thriving in relationships, not invested, just the bare minimum until I see the guy is really invested the right way, not just to impress and take what he wants...
When I feel like I can’t talk to anyone I watch your videos and it reassures me about everything. I also don’t feel alone. Thank you for making these videos! You deserve love deeper than the ocean itself💛
honestly, I wish I could have a convo on the phone with you and explain everything that has been happening in my relationship lol. but this video helped me to understand so much about myself and my worth thanks for the advice!
“when you feel it ,you know it “ that part was enough for me honestly . My mother is a Taurus as well and she’s been the best person to show me how to move on I thank God for her 🤍🙏🏽✨ Great video Queen
She seems like the type to laugh at you during an argument lol
Love this video!!
This may or may not be true 🤔 😂😂😂😂
I don't think anyone else on RUclips has managed to help me with my healing process as much as you've been doing for the past hours. Literally can't thank you enough
I feel like your an angellllll. LITERALLY EVERYTIME IN GOING THOUGH SOMETHING I COME ON RUclips THAT SAME DAY AND YOU MAKE A VIDEO LITERALLY SCREAMING REALITY IN MY HEAD. Thank youu. Keep making videos girl you are saving mee😭😭
Awwww 🥰 thank you babe !!!!!
“The person that he is with you, he’s that way with her too” ‼️
The literal FIRST VIDEO in my feed once again😭😫😫 I swear just last night he was talking to me apologizing about “everything he did” and this.... THIS is a SIGN from God. Asha you are the best omg, I thank you for teaching me how to be a quality queen everyday!!! Happy early 25th birthday gorgeous ❤️
And dont even think about going back to the person either
You’re so welcome babe!!!♥️
Best thing I could see on my subscription page. Missed you so much! 🙌🏼
Love you Ginaaaa♥️
Dammit.. I need a bestfriend like you. Thankyou so much, im in a relationship with a narcissistic man.. and I always keep attracting them.. Im so tired of life :( may god bless us al!
I love your content ❤️! You’re the wise sister who teaches useful things ❤️
Awwww thank you so much!!!!!
you have no idea how much i needed this right now
“the person who hurt you can not heal you! “
AND THATS A WORD!!!
Ughh I definitely needed this; you’re a God-sent! ❤️❤️
agree don’t listen to a guy who just compliments you he is trying to control and abuse you in the future
I had a crush on him. We spoke a lot. He confused me a lot. He called me babe, answered back everytime, but now I find out he was just joking around. I'm tearing up. I'm so in love with him😭😭😭😭. My heart is in pieces right now. Now I've decided not to chase him.
I love your persona its so intoxicating😍
Why thank youuuuu 🥰☺️💋
@@AshaChristinaFoster Like the way you carry yourself..you have a lovely sence of self, you have a sassy smile, sweet and famine yet you stand your ground.. I love your sense of style and the way you keep up you keep it neat and simple...i just love your skin and how you glow and use love to do the same coz you represent! how do you keep Up girrrl😍😥😙😙😙
Feminine *
Eventually she’ll get sick of his BS too.
There's God in you !that's y I feel something is different! Oh how I love you.stay blessed! !
Confidence is so inspiring it’s not fake or over the top.
Your timing is perfect, this was so needed!😂😩
The part where you said “ she’s not winning “ I felt that lol from 2014-2017 I was with my “ex” and he cheated on me with another girl and she was believing all his lies she tried to fight me before over him and when they use to break up he always would coming running to me but I stopped that and now they’re not together cause he cheated and talked shit about her also so now she knows what I was dealing with and till this day he still tries to contact me but I got him blocked and changed my number
Good for you babe that you moved on ! That sounds incredibly toxic !
Sis.. you really are so wise! I love all your content because a lot of girls are really lost out here and are getting caught in the cycle of being continuously hurt, and it needs to stop! We are women of value and we have to hold ourselves to a higher esteem. Thanks girl, you always keep me motivated!
12yrs wasted and I’m taking baby step moving forward! Thank you for this video
Honestly needed this video so much right now, you’re honestly a gift 💕💕
“If you can’t sit down and have a serious conversation with a grown man, we have a problem and it’s not in Houston.” 😂 🤣 😂 There are so many hilarious quotes in your videos!
Perfect timing!!! Thank you Asha ❤️
It's the only channel where i won't skip even 5 seconds.
I had to block him on everything because I feel like he was playing with my feelings this video hit different because all she is saying is exactly what he was doing to me
This video is great! Having strong women in your circle and family can go a longggg way. I thank my parents for having me up on “game” growing up. Completely agree and been saying these words for years lol. A must share to some of my girlfriends so they hear it from someone they don’t know.
Accept him and move forward with YOUR LIFE!! Yes.
When I tell you I NEEDED to hear this right now lol allllll of this
This was the best 21:53 minutes of my life!
I just need to throw the whole man away!
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👏👏👏👏👏😂😂😂😂😂girrrrrlllll..I know the feeling!
@@crystalswirlzreloaded9350 Yesssss!°❤❤
Thanks so much...I needed to hear the last part you said....I will let him go from my heart. The only problem is i don't know what to do next with myself😔
Your personality is so precious and you're so pretty. ❤
I let him go after today no more ex i,m done 🤷♀️🤷♀️🗑🗑🗑
Good for you babe !!’👸🏽
I love this video😍 I just got out of a long relationship where I was not remembering my value and I dealt with a lot of crap and excuses. You reminded me that we as women really do deserve more than that. Thanks💖
because I've seen your older videos, I've learnt from you and already let him go BUT I'm still watching cos I love your videos ❤
Wow my birthday is April 21st too. I just called things off with my son's father less than 30 minutes ago. Maybe this is a sign I made the right decision 💕
I literally came back to This Video because I watched it yesterday lol apart of me felt maybe it’s a sign but I didn’t wanna believe it fast forward today , the guy I’m talking to all of a sudden says goodnight at 10:00 and then my messages stopped going through ( no delivered on multiple iMessages ) then when I call no ring straight to voicemail , that’s a obvious indication he’s clearly with someone and has to block me , I guess This Video was a sign to finally let him go .
Omgosh .... woah yes this was definitely a sign wow !!!
The big sister type advice I always needed!! thank you!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You’re so welcome!
OMG Asha please I need a "we have a problem and it's not in Houston" sleep tee/lounge wear. A little off the shoulder number. Did you get to see some of your tag lines I suggested?
Ugh no babe, I didn’t can you write them here so I can screen shot them ???
@@AshaChristinaFoster
1. I literally remember
2. Don't throw that thing back at the table... I'm just saying
3. Ladies be mindful
4. Work the floor
5. "I love you and God loves you" with a signature sign off... XOXO 💋 Asha
6. No rusty or dusty
*And just an idea the pic of your evidence he cheated with the caption "don't let this happen to you"* I'm sorry I just love your detective work and filing on that one LMAO...got him!!!
Ugh Jess, you’re the best ok I screen shortted this thank you babe !!!♥️
@@AshaChristinaFoster thanks beautiful 😘
This helped me so much. I’m 16 and I needed to hear this.
Cillabxx Daisy same here girl..
This came to me at a perfect timing!
You have helped me to confirm what my gut was telling me!
YOU ARE AN ANGEL HONEY! THANK YOU
YOU SAVED MY SOUL DEAR!!!!
Much love!
I’m 17 and I let go of my ex of 8 months today! I am so relieved and happy. He wasn’t putting any effort into the relationship anymore and I had to carry everything out for a bit. I grew tired of it and had to break up with him.
Your teeth so nice and bright it’s distracting 🤣🤣♥️♥️
I'm too much in my emotions and you help me to come out of it 😩
Awwwww🥰🥰🥰