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I love the video but I can’t stand the editing it’s too jumpy and robotic. Maybe just let it play without so much editing just to make a shorter video please and thank you ❤️🙏🏼
I don’t think people with kids/marriages should go back to cheaters. The one that cheated is the one that made that risk to jeopardize or break the family. Just split up and co parent for the kids and not play ex games for yourself
Girls use this quarantine to work on yourself and glowup. I promise you, you'll feel much happier and fullfilled rather than chasing a man that doesn't give you the respect you deserve. Period. Also the right man will come along when you'll be healthy, happy and confident.
Yup. I was heartbroken, I healed, I forgave him, and I now look back and LAUGH because I realize he was dusty, sad, and incapable of meeting my standards! 😂
@@misstrippy1147 so sorry for ur loss.... How lame of a person to bail on someone going thru such a thing as that...and to double that loss.... Id say his loss... He jus totally showed u where u stand to him and he def doesn't have ur back...Way to obliterate the foundation and trust
Yesss, and Ladies if they come back during quarantine... They're BORED! They did not have some revelation that you were supposed to be the one, They are just BORED!
someday, someone is going to look at you with a light in their eyes you’ve never seen, they will look at you like you’re everything they’ve looking for their entire lives. Wait for it ! (I saw this recently and now I had to leave it here and sorry for my English)
#1: a guy once told me, he purposely would message his exes after months of breaking up to see if they’re still interested in him. And not that he cared, but only testing their limits. 🙄🙄🙄
The main confusing is I gived him second chance within the month we breakup Nd he back agian like what Nd as usuall I blocked him on everything not him again adding me on snapchat 😭😂
The reality of it is you’re convenient and you allow him back everytime. Stop allowing Brandon to come back and go boss up with Conrad. Because Brandon does not make enough money to have two gfs.
All these points literally boil down to he does not want you. These are still accurate and very good points. I just wish we would simplify dudes. He either wants you or he doesn’t. If he leaves you, he does not want you. Put your ego to the side and move on. Men don’t leave the woman that they want.
Tell me how a guy I had a thing with like 6 years ago tried to add me on Facebook a while ago...as if he didn't cheat, lie, manipulate me...You really think I wanna be friends?? Men are on some next level bs.
My sisters kids dad tried adding me. It was weird I just ignored it. Before they broke up he was like a brother to me but they haven’t been together for like 12 years now,something like that.
Ladies...if an ex wants to get back with you and you’re tempted to take the ex back...watch this video. If you’re still tempted to take the ex back, watch this video again. Watch this video over and over until the knowledge is imprinted in your brain and you’re no longer tempted to take back the ex. The best way to live life is to look ahead, not go backwards.
If a man does not tell you where it's going after the first couple months forget it. Please try not to sleep with him it will confuse the situation ....and date other guys until you see the changes hes making in his life for you
Honestly I wish I knew this in my 20s. I was on and off with a guy for so long, I thought he was the one! But it kept on happening over and over and over again and I kept taking him back thinking he would change because I grew up watching romantic movies. But I’m 30 now and I fully understand the game. Thank you for your strength and power it’s like having a strong supportive bestie 💜
They always “come back”...and I just told them to love themselves. It’s true, they have a void or emotionally immature, they need to start learning self-love so they could grow. I want a man, not a boy. A man would know a “quality” woman will give one chance and he will be smart enough to make it right by her, not to risk his chance with a woman who knows her worth. A boy doesn’t know that. So either he ain’t a man yet or you are just not his “the one”, either way no reason to take him back.
@@hibiscushoney3759 Exactly, I’m just not interested to bring up a boy to a man...nope, that’s his mom’s job. I’ve seen way too many high quality women “grow” those boys into men, invested years on them, and those men left to find other women. I refuse to do that. 😂💕
That's exactly what I've been telling people. Guys do that to break women down to the point where they won't go after better and won't leave and will do anything for them
Had this happen to me with two people. One an ex, one somebody I used to crush on. Both came back, one sent mixed messages and the other is just bored. Ladies, your time is valuable. You do not need to entertain confused men. Work on yourselves. Know your worth.
He’s been saying he’s my great friend and talking about how he wants to be here for me and protect me. I swear it’s all talk. Dealing with him always gets me frustrated. Then today... He asked to move in with me in my new apartment I’ve been in since May. Saying that he’s moving out away from his roommate and looking for a new one to pay less and was saying how I need to focus on saving and could use the extra money he would bring. I almost said yes but then remembered I moved here to be alone and I remembered what it was like living together - total hell. I don’t think I’m over everything that happened so I finally said no and I can’t believe it. I’m so proud of myself.
WOW WTF ASHAAAAA literally less than 10hrs ago, this guy who ghosted me last year abruptly sent me a text last night, and here you are with a video READY about my EXACT situation 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ Look at God looking out for me
After 5 months disappear and his regretted for doing vanishing, keep saying apologize and he wants to married me soon. Ohh..! Sorry boy i already move on. Absolutely ignore you and block. I value myself. Treat me like a queen and I absolutely treat you like a king👑.
Its sad that things just dont work out and you want to give them the benefit of the doubt, but like asha said if you missed the train 👏🏻 YOU 👏🏻 MISSED 👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 TRAIN 👏🏻. What's yours, wont pass you.
I love this. They do come back and sis don't think his that into you just cause he came back...don't get gassed thinking he cares cause the sad truth is , he doenst
Every single one! Even the ones who I thought never would. It’s so confusing, they act so heartless when you guys break up and then later on there goes a text from them.
@@ny__bandz5396 Don't move backwards. Always move Forward. Only way I go back is if I still love him and he has a diamond engagement ring in his hand. Then I know he Really wants me back!!
You don't discourage me at all! You put me on game and I feel like I can protect myself and play the game to win! I love the straight talk, no chaser. Love you girl!
I’m recently single after leaving my ex and being single is hard during quarantine ! Nowhere to freestyle ! Better to just heal and focus on myself right now . He is blocked on social media so I don’t have to worry about what he’s doing
I can tell that you are own your A-game because your editing has gotten better, marketing has gotten better (comment of the day, email list, etc.) and you coming up with a freaking podcast!!! SO exciting
This means SO MUCH TO ME! I finally feel like I’m producing my content how I want and it feels amazing to have such incredible feed back and support ! Thank you for noticing the changes and effort! It really means the world to me ☺️♥️
Thank you so much Asha for your ministry to women who struggle with "knowing their worth." I believe that this is the enemy's number one strategy in undermining the Glory of God's creation in women. STOP SETTLING FOR LESS THAN GOD WANTS FOR YOU!!!
One thing I've learned in these games is to detach as quickly as they do. Anything new gets old eventually. Sad to kno some people are stuck in these games. But not me. So bye felicia 👋. Its a narcissistic warfare outthere with individuals. And it's coming from ppl who know better🤦
My friend recommended you since I got out of a 5 year relationship and you have really helped out! thank you for all the tips! ❤️ could you do a video on rebound relationships? My ex got in one right after we broke up.
He texted me after months of ghosting me asking me to meet up, I rejected it and finally oh god finally got my revenge 😈 I can rest nooow and I am already feeling my skin glowing hahahaha
This resonates with me. I recently been going through this. I had to let go of a toxic relationship. He was sorry and told me he regret blocking and ghosting me. After healing I found someone who is really into to me and treating me like a queen. The scary part is my new person said he love me and that same day my old love sent me a apology telling how much he miss me n regret losing me. Smh
Right! I always say...you missed the window and it's ok. Plus, I don't want anyone in my life that can't recognize a good opportunity when it's in their face. That's a problem in itself.
"Don't define anything Devin" wow. That was my exes name and that is exactly what he refused to do, but wanted all the benefits AND wanted to come and go. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This pops up in my newsfeed at the very moment my ex hubby is trying to reenter my life after 5 years & his failed relationship. Thnx Universe & RUclips for the gentle reminder of what I already know! 😉
He came back to tell me he saw the difference how great i treated him and how others did. Then months later he loves his co worker. I tough he wanted to get back but he just came back for validation. I feel used and broken.7 years and he tossed me away because he stoped loving me and treated me like i was nothing. And he never apologized what he did to me and how he treated me😒
You're literally my best friend is my head lmao, I just broke up with my cheating ex & he won't stop texting me even though I'm ignoring him .. I will let him regret his decision in peace, better is coming my way, thank you!! 🧡🧡
It does soothe our ego. We do get in fix him mode. Interest in someone new. So true. Not as contagious as Corona 🤣 They do ghost 👻 you for no reason. Not men keep their dog bones 🦴 and come back. Dying 😅 Men sleep with who they can, women sleep with who they want. They do that in a more altered way. I can’t! 😅 I love when you imitate a man’s voice! Lol You don’t wanna be the the girl on the back burner. Literally just happened to me. Still did not choose me. Girl! I will not allow you access in my life any longer. How many times can you put fragments together of something that is already broken? 💔 Transformation & Self Realization. Don’t allow someone back in your life who left for a reason.
Asha, I must say, I wish I'd had your videos 30 years ago! I'm 56. Would've saved me a lot of heartache, tears and aggravation! Ok, you were probably not born yet, but you are ON POINT, Mamita! (little Mama!) Much Grace, Love and Appreciation for spreading the Queen Mentality & Vibe! Lots of continued success! :D
Also the bonds they try to get women in are soul ties, which are demonic ties where this person will stay in the womans mind until she breaks it. It can be years down the line but if she doesn’t break that tie and reminded of that person it takes her all the way back. Also narcissist play that ghosting and the. Coming back to see how far they can push you, that’s why a lot of guys do that, they are narcissist. If anyone is dealing with that run!!!! That person is not capable of loving you and will bring you down a road of destruction
this video was much needed & spot on. thank you asha for your words. thank you for your advice. thank you for keeping us ladies in check & reminding us who tf we are. we ain’t tolerating bullshit anymore. done w the dusty behavior & inconsistency 👏🏾
Ugh Asha what would I do without you!!😩🤧 I recently caught myself up in a situationship. It really took me by surprise, I usually never allow it to happen but I ended up tangled in some undeserving man’s sheets. Anyways, I watched a couple of your videos and you guided me to the right path. I cut that man off and I know I did the right thing. You are saving us all!!😩
Wow, so spot on 👏🏾👏🏾. I gave a second chance, something I never do and was literally humiliated with a text that said he would never again call or talk to me. Taking it for what it's worth but I'm mad at myself for breaking my own rule and sadly hoping he resurfaces because I never got to say my part.
Your videos are so eye opening ❤️ In the book "ho tactics" G Lambert says that when an ex comes back to you, you should act like you didn't hurt that much after he left you. And even go further and make some false memories to show that you really have moved on and you can't even distinguish his memories from your other guy friends'. So how should we react when an ex comes back?
you can be friendly or ignore but its too easy to get wrapped in our feelings and sometimes we aren't strong enough to understand the outcome won't change no matter what. So its very difficult to be neutral when you came out of situation with someone that things didn't work with or things ended abruptly with.
I never comment about anything on anyone's Channel but I just LOVE how you explain this in a BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, FRR emotional and relatable experience that helps me understand it more
I found your videos at the beginning of my divorce and they were very helpful. I agree with everything you've mentioned. Even though I've went back and forth with my ex for 6 years. I just recently released him and it feels good.
All ladies stop entertaining these Misterella’s , they are totally wasted. Please know your worth and move on with dignity.The high quality men are keepers.He will do right by you. Love you all, 💗
out of all the videos on you tube I've EVER watched, THISSSS told me everything I needed to hear outloud, told my story to a T. And really made me take a step back and realize, my relationship isn't "special" like I was hoping, imagining, actually seeing my relationship as different from everyone else's and "my guy" wasn't like the others, I know he really does still love me and miss me. I actually really do lie to myself , but believing I'm right about it. He ghosted me, literally listened to me break down and cry my eyes out, begging him not to do this to us. Even telling him I understood he needed time to see if I was the one. Believing hed return and say he realized that he couldn't stop thinking about me and finally knew he was in love with me. .Am I crazy? Is my self esteem that low , I except the worst if the worst behaviour and took emotional and mental abuse ? honestly telling myself he is such a good guy other than all this horrible shit hes done to me., and if he only knew how much it crushed me, he would never do this. Blaming myself for how he treated me because I allowed it so it wasn't his fault, and even blaming how he was raised and didn't kniw what true love really was , and if I stayed and didnt walk away , hed have some sort if awakening and come back and never hurt me again? AM I REALLYVTHIS STUPID?. THE ANSWER IS YES. because I really believed this. and I do still love him and willing to forgive him cheating on me with more than one girl, being in a whole new relationship, choosing a girl who didntblove him near as much as I did and was actually mean to him and physically hits him and flattens his tires and has 7 kids which none are his, and she cheats on him and it's inevitable she will again. but I sit home still faithful crying and wishing he'd just come home praying shed cheat on him and hed get fed up. she treats him , like he treats me. and he lives her , and I love him. not interested in the person who treats me great, and he's the same way with me. I'm not a challenge, I'm easy to manipulate and ive always taken him back.its been a month now that i haven't text called and ive blocked him on social media. only because he blocked me. he blocked me to keep her from seeing I was still around. but he called me and laid the ground work making sure i still loved him before he blocked me . I am slowly gettong back to being ok without him and working on myself. and have a plan for glowing up to get my revenge . hoping I will loose feelings and able to say i dont want you back, when he finally resurfaces...and he will resurface. The more self esteem i have the less of a chance he has. I love who he used to be. But who he is lately disgusts me. LORD HELP ME GLOW UP TO THE FULLEST AND GET THE SWEETEST REVENGE. And become the mouse and not the cat. #GOALS
I really love how you explained it. Im in a situation, blocked several times with my ex and keep coming back... same lines,, he will say sorry, he feel guilty but after giving him a chance all over again... he is still same bullshit.. now after 5 months.. he texted me using fake account(bcoz i decided to block him)same old lines.. yeah im curious again but im not happy he comes back..i feel my peace will be ruin again...
New subscriber🙋🏾♀️ 4 months late😅 but I really feel great with my decision a few days ago.... then to hear you mention being ghosted then a yr. later it’s the return of the Mack! 🤦🏾♀️Yeah 28yr old needs to figure himself out. Even if sex wasn’t involved there was still physical affection shown & if it kept happening sex could’ve became a possibility...he even went as far to say “I love you”... for me it’s still pulling strings, my positivity, being a comfort for him & that love def. no action. Allowed myself to be used in that way glad it dawned on me before allowing this treacherous heart (Jeremiah 17:9) to take over. *stay safe everyone*💞
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I love the video but I can’t stand the editing it’s too jumpy and robotic. Maybe just let it play without so much editing just to make a shorter video please and thank you ❤️🙏🏼
Dammit I love you, you're so wise ❤
I don’t think people with kids/marriages should go back to cheaters. The one that cheated is the one that made that risk to jeopardize or break the family. Just split up and co parent for the kids and not play ex games for yourself
Girls use this quarantine to work on yourself and glowup. I promise you, you'll feel much happier and fullfilled rather than chasing a man that doesn't give you the respect you deserve. Period.
Also the right man will come along when you'll be healthy, happy and confident.
Allegra’s Dreams love it! That’s what I’m doing
Allegra’s Dreams thank you I needed these words of encouragement 🙏🏾
Yes! So true
yesss queeeen!!
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yup. I was heartbroken, I healed, I forgave him, and I now look back and LAUGH because I realize he was dusty, sad, and incapable of meeting my standards! 😂
Don't go backwards... Move forwards.
He realized that, too...
I pray that I get to that stage. It's been two months since my mom died and he "needed some space".
Periodt!! This is the best feeling ever, it's crazy that at one point I was crying over him for 2 months
@@misstrippy1147 so sorry for ur loss.... How lame of a person to bail on someone going thru such a thing as that...and to double that loss.... Id say his loss... He jus totally showed u where u stand to him and he def doesn't have ur back...Way to obliterate the foundation and trust
My mum always said: Treat him like the ugliest shoes you have and he will chase you.. (in arabic it's sounds better^^)
Am arabic tell me how its said please hahahah
girl this sounds great in english! Yo mama knows what she's talking bout!
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Lol yes girl so true!!!!
Girls are too soft when it comes to guys. Toughen tf up!
PERIOD
I needed this 🤣
@@vd1657 😄
Seriously a lot of them come off as desperate and at such a young age it baffles me
YESSSS
quarantine is bringing all the dusties back..
exactlyyyyyy
Facts
ade's corner word!
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Yesss, and Ladies if they come back during quarantine... They're BORED! They did not have some revelation that you were supposed to be the one, They are just BORED!
FACTS!!!! They definitely weren't thinking about you before the quarantine, so why now?!🤷🏾♀️
The Danielle Denise yessss🗣️
There is nothing called " revelation" , there is "action"
Click fingers yesssss
True !
6th reason: cause we let them return without any effort submitted smh. Let’s do better ladies 👏🏽
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Or just say no period no need for second chances
Exactly!!!
We're addicted to the rush. I swear that's what it is
Ashley A Yup, for both individuals; men and women.
@@UnearthedPerspective girl big facts
Amen sis
Fact, a toxic cocktail that needs to discontinued
Yup lust ... not love. Sometime we women forget this ain't Hollywood 😅
someday, someone is going to look at you with a light in their eyes you’ve never seen, they will look at you like you’re everything they’ve looking for their entire lives.
Wait for it !
(I saw this recently and now I had to leave it here and sorry for my English)
I felt dis and pray for it
I believe in it! I'm letting it to the universe
Wow... I was thinking about this earlier, that someone would look at me and just see me and be everything they ever wanted.
I agree on this!!!
thissss, i literally continue to have hope for this. I can’t wait for that look!!!
#1: a guy once told me, he purposely would message his exes after months of breaking up to see if they’re still interested in him. And not that he cared, but only testing their limits. 🙄🙄🙄
Why thooo? For what?
It's an ego thing..and unfortunately some women ARE DESPERATE!!!
Narc.. seeing if she will be an emergency supply
The main confusing is I gived him second chance within the month we breakup Nd he back agian like what Nd as usuall I blocked him on everything not him again adding me on snapchat 😭😂
"He is priming you for the nightmare of your life " 🤣🤣 subscribed
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yass lmao
Wise words.
The reality of it is you’re convenient and you allow him back everytime. Stop allowing Brandon to come back and go boss up with Conrad. Because Brandon does not make enough money to have two gfs.
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Facts 😂😭
It’s trauma bonding, our brain is playing tricks on us. The combination of neglect and attention is addictive. Stay strong ladies ❤️
Yep yep yep
All these points literally boil down to he does not want you. These are still accurate and very good points. I just wish we would simplify dudes. He either wants you or he doesn’t. If he leaves you, he does not want you. Put your ego to the side and move on. Men don’t leave the woman that they want.
Yep. They don't treat her like trash either.
@@heatherstacy2976 Sometimes they do because the ladies like it.
Amen! 100% agree!
@@bobbybero7452 girls maybe but women absolutely not
Tell me how a guy I had a thing with like 6 years ago tried to add me on Facebook a while ago...as if he didn't cheat, lie, manipulate me...You really think I wanna be friends?? Men are on some next level bs.
omg wow ....the delusion !
Sis same...
My sisters kids dad tried adding me. It was weird I just ignored it.
Before they broke up he was like a brother to me but they haven’t been together for like 12 years now,something like that.
Lesson learned!!
Yes Asha , “ Let that guy regret his decision in peace “😬
Ghosters,can't be trusted ,if you had the nerve to leave,be like Casper and stay gone...Life is too short to play games.....
Ladies...if an ex wants to get back with you and you’re tempted to take the ex back...watch this video. If you’re still tempted to take the ex back, watch this video again. Watch this video over and over until the knowledge is imprinted in your brain and you’re no longer tempted to take back the ex.
The best way to live life is to look ahead, not go backwards.
**discussing men’s stupidity** : “maybe it’s as contagious as Corona” 😂😂😂💅
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If a man does not tell you where it's going after the first couple months forget it. Please try not to sleep with him it will confuse the situation ....and date other guys until you see the changes hes making in his life for you
For me, if he doesn't make stuff clear the first day he's not even on the list :)
Tell that person: You no longer have access into my life. A whole 2020 mood.
Just got out of a toxic relationship and now my toxic ex is trying to come back. Boy byeee
Honestly I wish I knew this in my 20s. I was on and off with a guy for so long, I thought he was the one! But it kept on happening over and over and over again and I kept taking him back thinking he would change because I grew up watching romantic movies. But I’m 30 now and I fully understand the game. Thank you for your strength and power it’s like having a strong supportive bestie 💜
Sameee😑
They always “come back”...and I just told them to love themselves. It’s true, they have a void or emotionally immature, they need to start learning self-love so they could grow. I want a man, not a boy. A man would know a “quality” woman will give one chance and he will be smart enough to make it right by her, not to risk his chance with a woman who knows her worth. A boy doesn’t know that. So either he ain’t a man yet or you are just not his “the one”, either way no reason to take him back.
Very true. Those 2 key points you mentioned are exact. I had come down to that same conclusion. Had to move on.
@@hibiscushoney3759 Exactly, I’m just not interested to bring up a boy to a man...nope, that’s his mom’s job. I’ve seen way too many high quality women “grow” those boys into men, invested years on them, and those men left to find other women. I refuse to do that. 😂💕
That's exactly what I've been telling people. Guys do that to break women down to the point where they won't go after better and won't leave and will do anything for them
Don't take him back! Tried it. Don't work! He had his chance. Move Forward not backwards!
Who’s here becuz a Ex jus hit them up with a “I miss you” text 🤣❓
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Lol my ex hit me up asking for a massage 😒
Had this happen to me with two people. One an ex, one somebody I used to crush on. Both came back, one sent mixed messages and the other is just bored.
Ladies, your time is valuable. You do not need to entertain confused men.
Work on yourselves. Know your worth.
He’s been saying he’s my great friend and talking about how he wants to be here for me and protect me. I swear it’s all talk. Dealing with him always gets me frustrated. Then today... He asked to move in with me in my new apartment I’ve been in since May. Saying that he’s moving out away from his roommate and looking for a new one to pay less and was saying how I need to focus on saving and could use the extra money he would bring. I almost said yes but then remembered I moved here to be alone and I remembered what it was like living together - total hell. I don’t think I’m over everything that happened so I finally said no and I can’t believe it. I’m so proud of myself.
Stay strong girl!!! Forget that dusty!!
No more hobosexuals! Proud of you! It's not your job to save him, and he ain't saving you by moving in with you, no ma'am
WOW WTF ASHAAAAA literally less than 10hrs ago, this guy who ghosted me last year abruptly sent me a text last night, and here you are with a video READY about my EXACT situation 🙆🏾♀️🙆🏾♀️ Look at God looking out for me
its a sign babe!!!
Respond and write. Nice hearing from you. Meeting some friends. Text you later. Of course you don't text. Now it's your turn to Ghost him.
After 5 months disappear and his regretted for doing vanishing, keep saying apologize and he wants to married me soon.
Ohh..! Sorry boy i already move on. Absolutely ignore you and block.
I value myself.
Treat me like a queen and I absolutely treat you like a king👑.
Yeh girl we just have to focus on God first then everything will fall into place :)
Its sad that things just dont work out and you want to give them the benefit of the doubt, but like asha said if you missed the train 👏🏻 YOU 👏🏻 MISSED 👏🏻 THE 👏🏻 TRAIN 👏🏻. What's yours, wont pass you.
I love this. They do come back and sis don't think his that into you just cause he came back...don't get gassed thinking he cares cause the sad truth is , he doenst
The worst part is when you want to give them a chance, even when they’re not asking for a chance 🙄🙄🙄. UGH I needed this video!!❤️
I would love for this to be a series because every guy I’ve talked to has ALWAYS came back months down the line and I never knew why.
Lela Mahone I hope you blocked them 🤨 Keep moving forward and leave the past behind cuz these men don’t deserve to be in your future 💯
They ALL come back. It's lonely out their. But they don't miss you. They miss just have someone be with Intimately. Then...their gone Again.
Every single one! Even the ones who I thought never would. It’s so confusing, they act so heartless when you guys break up and then later on there goes a text from them.
@@ny__bandz5396 Don't move backwards. Always move Forward. Only way I go back is if I still love him and he has a diamond engagement ring in his hand. Then I know he Really wants me back!!
@@CrystalSicily period
You don't discourage me at all! You put me on game and I feel like I can protect myself and play the game to win! I love the straight talk, no chaser. Love you girl!
awww thank you angel !!!
Asha has our back during this quarantine 🎉🎉
I sure do !!!
I’m recently single after leaving my ex and being single is hard during quarantine ! Nowhere to freestyle ! Better to just heal and focus on myself right now . He is blocked on social media so I don’t have to worry about what he’s doing
Girl yaas
This resonated. My ex tried to come back recently. He had a whole entire baby on me with another woman.
How shameless
Was he your husband ? 😞
I can tell that you are own your A-game because your editing has gotten better, marketing has gotten better (comment of the day, email list, etc.) and you coming up with a freaking podcast!!! SO exciting
This means SO MUCH TO ME! I finally feel like I’m producing my content how I want and it feels amazing to have such incredible feed back and support ! Thank you for noticing the changes and effort! It really means the world to me ☺️♥️
@@AshaChristinaFoster we love uuu
Snap Snap Snap Hunni!!!
I love her and all the women that come with the additional receipts.💋
Thank you so much Asha for your ministry to women who struggle with "knowing their worth." I believe that this is the enemy's number one strategy in undermining the Glory of God's creation in women. STOP SETTLING FOR LESS THAN GOD WANTS FOR YOU!!!
"People make mistake and that's their lesson to learn."
One thing I've learned in these games is to detach as quickly as they do.
Anything new gets old eventually.
Sad to kno some people are stuck in these games. But not me.
So bye felicia 👋.
Its a narcissistic warfare outthere with individuals. And it's coming from ppl who know better🤦
You are in tune with the collective feminine consciousness! The timing of this video omg ❤️💕💗✨✨✨
awwww thank youuuu
So true, 'your in the realisation and transformation mode' and that alone require a lot of work. Can't deal with Dusties again✈️🤝
ameeeeen Asha you're really out here saving lives!
thank you so much angel !!!!
My friend recommended you since I got out of a 5 year relationship and you have really helped out! thank you for all the tips! ❤️ could you do a video on rebound relationships? My ex got in one right after we broke up.
Awww Omgosh this is a great topic ❤️❤️❤️
Asha Christina Yay!! I’m so glad you seen my comment. Can’t wait for the future video! ❤️
Same thing happened to me 6 years and got married to side piece in 3 months 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏾
Same as mine ...definitely need a video on this
Why are you worrying about your EX?? Move on...Like he did.
See men need to kno they don't click wit everybody an wen u DO..U better cherish IT period
You totally called me out on this one.. Thank you 💓
He texted me after months of ghosting me asking me to meet up, I rejected it and finally oh god finally got my revenge 😈 I can rest nooow and I am already feeling my skin glowing hahahaha
This resonates with me. I recently been going through this. I had to let go of a toxic relationship. He was sorry and told me he regret blocking and ghosting me. After healing I found someone who is really into to me and treating me like a queen. The scary part is my new person said he love me and that same day my old love sent me a apology telling how much he miss me n regret losing me. Smh
She hit everything Spot On💯
Right! I always say...you missed the window and it's ok. Plus, I don't want anyone in my life that can't recognize a good opportunity when it's in their face. That's a problem in itself.
"Don't define anything Devin" wow. That was my exes name and that is exactly what he refused to do, but wanted all the benefits AND wanted to come and go. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol my ex’s name was Tevin and never explained himself. Ridiculous.
This pops up in my newsfeed at the very moment my ex hubby is trying to reenter my life after 5 years & his failed relationship. Thnx Universe & RUclips for the gentle reminder of what I already know! 😉
He came back to tell me he saw the difference how great i treated him and how others did. Then months later he loves his co worker. I tough he wanted to get back but he just came back for validation. I feel used and broken.7 years and he tossed me away because he stoped loving me and treated me like i was nothing. And he never apologized what he did to me and how he treated me😒
Asha!😂😂😂😂 She just took me out on "I don't wanna leave but I gotta go right now"! Damn!!
You're literally my best friend is my head lmao, I just broke up with my cheating ex & he won't stop texting me even though I'm ignoring him .. I will let him regret his decision in peace, better is coming my way, thank you!! 🧡🧡
I wonder ... are there any men who look up videos on how to NOT be like this????
I don't think they do
Nope!
I am a man I am watching to see how brainwashed women are today
MSN W 🤣🤣 what
ijeBeauty 😂😂
I need to move on. I already know how you move. Someone who ruined the Dynamic doesn’t need another chance.
YESS Asha speak YO FACTS i watch divorce court alot and I feel so many woman on that show need to subscribe to your channel to know their self worth.
awww thank you so much !!!!!!
My ex crush turned out to be a narcissist now m moving on 🤦♀️ n not gonna reply him.💯💕
It does soothe our ego. We do get in fix him mode. Interest in someone new. So true.
Not as contagious as Corona 🤣
They do ghost 👻 you for no reason.
Not men keep their dog bones 🦴 and come back. Dying 😅
Men sleep with who they can, women sleep with who they want.
They do that in a more altered way. I can’t! 😅
I love when you imitate a man’s voice! Lol
You don’t wanna be the the girl on the back burner.
Literally just happened to me. Still did not choose me. Girl!
I will not allow you access in my life any longer.
How many times can you put fragments together of something that is already broken? 💔
Transformation & Self Realization.
Don’t allow someone back in your life who left for a reason.
Asha, I must say, I wish I'd had your videos 30 years ago! I'm 56. Would've saved me a lot of heartache, tears and aggravation! Ok, you were probably not born yet, but you are ON POINT, Mamita! (little Mama!) Much Grace, Love and Appreciation for spreading the Queen Mentality & Vibe! Lots of continued success! :D
love when you post consistently, cant live without ur videos
Also the bonds they try to get women in are soul ties, which are demonic ties where this person will stay in the womans mind until she breaks it. It can be years down the line but if she doesn’t break that tie and reminded of that person it takes her all the way back. Also narcissist play that ghosting and the. Coming back to see how far they can push you, that’s why a lot of guys do that, they are narcissist. If anyone is dealing with that run!!!! That person is not capable of loving you and will bring you down a road of destruction
Yesterday, I was set free off a soul tie
And all I can say is "Thank you Jesus"
😭😭
Yes gurl! These losers from my past are coming back smh & I blocked them all cuz I know their bored! & best believe I’m NOT having it!! 💯👏🏽👏🏽
Imma date myself because I'm awesome 💅
How does this video not have that many views. I can't wrap my head around this. More ladies need to see this. Thank you Asha. You're a blessing.
THEY 👏🏾ALWAYS👏🏾COME👏🏾BACK👏🏾
this video was much needed & spot on. thank you asha for your words. thank you for your advice. thank you for keeping us ladies in check & reminding us who tf we are. we ain’t tolerating bullshit anymore. done w the dusty behavior & inconsistency 👏🏾
Ugh Asha what would I do without you!!😩🤧 I recently caught myself up in a situationship. It really took me by surprise, I usually never allow it to happen but I ended up tangled in some undeserving man’s sheets. Anyways, I watched a couple of your videos and you guided me to the right path. I cut that man off and I know I did the right thing. You are saving us all!!😩
Wow, so spot on 👏🏾👏🏾. I gave a second chance, something I never do and was literally humiliated with a text that said he would never again call or talk to me. Taking it for what it's worth but I'm mad at myself for breaking my own rule and sadly hoping he resurfaces because I never got to say my part.
Thankkkk you! It’s crazy cause these are things we already know men are doing but we convince ourselves otherwise.
my DMs have become a dumpster fire of zombies, quarantine really trying us
Asha is really looking out to protect women from manipulative men - Amen!
When a guy abruptly leaves you out of nowhere, it's more than likely that he found interest in someone new 😄
Perfect timing yet again ugh obsessed w you
Your videos are so eye opening ❤️ In the book "ho tactics" G Lambert says that when an ex comes back to you, you should act like you didn't hurt that much after he left you. And even go further and make some false memories to show that you really have moved on and you can't even distinguish his memories from your other guy friends'. So how should we react when an ex comes back?
you can be friendly or ignore but its too easy to get wrapped in our feelings and sometimes we aren't strong enough to understand the outcome won't change no matter what. So its very difficult to be neutral when you came out of situation with someone that things didn't work with or things ended abruptly with.
I never comment about anything on anyone's Channel but I just LOVE how you explain this in a BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, FRR emotional and relatable experience that helps me understand it more
Awww thank you!☺️
He texted I hope you had a nice Valentine's day,3 months after we decided not to date.I told him I wasn't interested and I don't need anymore friends.
If I could like this 10 times over.......seriously, this sister is excellent advice. I hope women are listening.
awwww thank youuuuu❤️
girl your heart is so big to give us fellow girls these tips.
I found your videos at the beginning of my divorce and they were very helpful. I agree with everything you've mentioned. Even though I've went back and forth with my ex for 6 years. I just recently released him and it feels good.
100%. Dump the duties!✊
Yep and they get blessed with "pease leave a message after the tone"...they were blocked 😊
All ladies stop entertaining these Misterella’s , they are totally wasted. Please know your worth and move on with dignity.The high quality men are keepers.He will do right by you.
Love you all,
💗
out of all the videos on you tube I've EVER watched, THISSSS told me everything I needed to hear outloud, told my story to a T. And really made me take a step back and realize, my relationship isn't "special" like I was hoping, imagining, actually seeing my relationship as different from everyone else's and "my guy" wasn't like the others, I know he really does still love me and miss me. I actually really do lie to myself , but believing I'm right about it. He ghosted me, literally listened to me break down and cry my eyes out, begging him not to do this to us. Even telling him I understood he needed time to see if I was the one. Believing hed return and say he realized that he couldn't stop thinking about me and finally knew he was in love with me. .Am I crazy? Is my self esteem that low , I except the worst if the worst behaviour and took emotional and mental abuse ? honestly telling myself he is such a good guy other than all this horrible shit hes done to me., and if he only knew how much it crushed me, he would never do this. Blaming myself for how he treated me because I allowed it so it wasn't his fault, and even blaming how he was raised and didn't kniw what true love really was , and if I stayed and didnt walk away , hed have some sort if awakening and come back and never hurt me again? AM I REALLYVTHIS STUPID?. THE ANSWER IS YES. because I really believed this. and I do still love him and willing to forgive him cheating on me with more than one girl, being in a whole new relationship, choosing a girl who didntblove him near as much as I did and was actually mean to him and physically hits him and flattens his tires and has 7 kids which none are his, and she cheats on him and it's inevitable she will again. but I sit home still faithful crying and wishing he'd just come home praying shed cheat on him and hed get fed up. she treats him , like he treats me. and he lives her , and I love him. not interested in the person who treats me great, and he's the same way with me.
I'm not a challenge, I'm easy to manipulate and ive always taken him back.its been a month now that i haven't text called and ive blocked him on social media. only because he blocked me. he blocked me to keep her from seeing I was still around. but he called me and laid the ground work making sure i still loved him before he blocked me . I am slowly gettong back to being ok without him and working on myself. and have a plan for glowing up to get my revenge . hoping I will loose feelings and able to say i dont want you back, when he finally resurfaces...and he will resurface. The more self esteem i have the less of a chance he has. I love who he used to be. But who he is lately disgusts me. LORD HELP ME GLOW UP TO THE FULLEST AND GET THE SWEETEST REVENGE. And become the mouse and not the cat. #GOALS
yesss baby sis because im like I want to start getting into podcast and didnt know any to listen to but im glad you will be making one
omgosh I am SO excited for you guys to hear it !!!!
How many times you gonna deal with fragments of something that is already broken?! (Not funny but the look on her face)! 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Girl you are the truth! It hurt to hear because I am going through this but I respect it and it’s time to put the shit to bed!! Thanks beautiful 😍
You helped me get over my dusty 💗 thanks babe
you're so welcome 😘
Asha, you're spoiling us
you guys deserve it !!!! I love and missed you guys so much !!!!
I really love how you explained it. Im in a situation, blocked several times with my ex and keep coming back... same lines,, he will say sorry, he feel guilty but after giving him a chance all over again... he is still same bullshit.. now after 5 months.. he texted me using fake account(bcoz i decided to block him)same old lines.. yeah im curious again but im not happy he comes back..i feel my peace will be ruin again...
Yes amen sis... trying to get off the roller coaster
New subscriber🙋🏾♀️ 4 months late😅 but I really feel great with my decision a few days ago.... then to hear you mention being ghosted then a yr. later it’s the return of the Mack! 🤦🏾♀️Yeah 28yr old needs to figure himself out. Even if sex wasn’t involved there was still physical affection shown & if it kept happening sex could’ve became a possibility...he even went as far to say “I love you”... for me it’s still pulling strings, my positivity, being a comfort for him & that love def. no action. Allowed myself to be used in that way glad it dawned on me before allowing this treacherous heart (Jeremiah 17:9) to take over. *stay safe everyone*💞
7:20 done! 😂😂🤣🤣 @your facial expression when you said, "whenever they're ready to play" lmfaoo
All of your points are FACTS!!! You are a blessing!!
Thank youuuu angel 😇