Forreals! They need money, my time, support, care, love and company. I don't need it or ask them or try or expect it. I would like the same I put out back and if I don't get it its okay. But it's not okay. Damn I'm just seeing what I'm writing. Like I'm expecting nothing and it's ok. It's not okay. I want respect. I don't need it. It should be there for what I do.
@@urmomisms Exactly he doesn’t realise that he needs you🥺. Anyways whatever is yours will find you and stay with you. If he lost you, it’s his loss ! Stay strong , you got this 😀
@@FiorellaFio-sb9uc What do you find wrong in that? Do u even know her well? How she's helping millions of people out there If u wanna say shit like this stay out of this video No hatred here
Bumped into Liz a month ago while I was buying groceries, such an incredible woman. She naturally radiates such good energy. I used to avoid her videos at a point because of how upfront and aggresive she was, now I realize it was because I was afraid to admit my wrongs. I truly love what she does and I feel like I respect myself so much more.
Light clouds, halo, aura, sign, calm feeling surrounding etc appears around beings according to their Energy. Their opposite as well, dark clouds, shadow haze, mist, suffering, uncomfortable sign etc With ordinary eyes, it is a simple impression of good or bad with confusion most of times. With better eyes, it develops in refinement. Distinctiv clarity. With extraordinary eyes, it is fully detailed and have deepness that can be explored freely, like a karmic wikipedia access not restricted. Extraordinary eyes and progression cycle are reached by training mind in meditation state correctly for many many many years (life dedication). Seeking an answer to reduce suffering to self and others and bring causes of joy to all. But some, according to natural gifted spiritual power can see sometimes some breaches, not stabilized only spontaneously. Still great to look on light
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
You’re so right. I had a “friends” who were so disrespectful to me and they always made me feel left out and not worthy so I decided to cut them off - even tho they were literally my only friends - and I prayed and asked allah to help me and shows up to me people who really love me and respect me. And alhamdullah now I have friends who would do anything just to see me smile and never disrespected me or made me feel insecure abt myself
@originalShouq I have friends like that. I have friends who see me as a competition. I have survived in this toxic situation that I dont need the toxic people anymore. They need me.
I can relate to having “friends”..Especially, when they’re in my class and it got to a point where my grades have been affected by them well more specifically in a situation where the teacher has put us in a group for filming.. well you could guess what happened I’ve been to all the places to film with them but.. that’s it, I’m just there… But you know what they did? They left me out the script and the film vid all together. One of them used to be my best friend.. soo I can imagine this is gonna be one hell of a school year *sigh what’s even worse is there was recently a new seating arrangement assigned to us (i sit in the front) and you know who is right next to me…? My old best friend 😭😭 reeeeee I’m already dreading…. The next following quarters. I hope my grades never have to suffer again 😭 P.S. none of you guys are obligated to read me rambling on about my life 😂
I watched this during my relationship, and now that I’ve left I’m watching it again :) it hits better the second time I also just wanna share with everyone that the person doesn’t have to be traditionally toxic to be bad for you. In my case, the person i liked wasn’t nesscarily toxic, but stopped me from growing, and becoming a better person because of how obsessed I was with them.. don’t be afraid to leave for ANY reason
@@nihility_.I’m not gonna sugar coat it, leaving was really hard. I’ve never left a relationship before and I really liked this person a lot. And even though they weren’t nessacarily doing anything bad to me, I myself was just so mentally unwell, and felt myself being toxic to him because of my own insecurities. I knew deep down if I continued to stay in this relationship I was just gonna end up driving him crazy and I was only going to make myself feels worse, so I told him what was going on with me and how I was feeling and I would reach out to him when I was completely over him because I just couldn’t grow and I needed time to focus and o work on myself. The first few weeks I was very depressed because I was so used to to texting him all the time throughout the day, but eventually it got better and met more people and realize that other good people exist. Just do what feels right. Trust your gut.
I was literally crying two days ago asking God for help and direction. Timing of your video is INSANE. Your words are exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
She purchased this chanel that already came with subscribers. Look at the date of her videos she uploaded and look at how old this account is. Just because you have bought followers doesn’t mean your famous. She needs to buy followers so she can feel validated.
@@tennyt9039 i started following her when she wasn’t that famous, stop being so jealous of other women’s accomplishments girl, you’ll have your own time to shine
You're right about the part when you say, that you need to let go in order to open your doors for something better. It's been two years of me being in the endless loop of the same treatment from every human being I meet. It doesn't end because I let people treat me this way and I'm way to gratefull for bare minimum. I'm always let down If not by the choice of another person then of destiny and coincidence. On a yesterday walk I understood one thing. Universe is not letting me be to close to people right now, because I lean on them too much. I realized how much I actually deserve last night and how little I get. I'm too good for all of these people, I'm so thoughtfull of them, and I almost never even get the minimum. Universe is keeping me in that bubble not because I'm cursed, BUT BECAUSE I'M SUPPOSED TO LEARN MY OWN VALUE!!!
I just found her channel today and 2 days back i have experienced worst breakup with my ex... so i was so lost after that i was thinking to quit my life but today I came across to her channel literally she changed my mindset and now I'm so happy that it happened and now I get to know that I was in a toxic relationship... And also now i get to know the meaning of this quote that says: "God removes people from your life because he heard the conversation that you didn't" so now i am satisfied with my decision and happy also.. Note: please guys if u see this comment then u can console me with your heart warming words it would really helpful to me😌
I believe Liz is an angel sent to us. I'm at my lowest in life right now, I just got out of a relationship and am not taking the breakup well and watching these videos are already making me feel so much better
Hey I’m going through the same thing, but I’ve no friends or anyone to talk to ? Can please anyone help me with my mental health I’m dying inside and out please help me
I truly believe your videos popped up as a sign for me to listen to. My now ex partner told me he doesn’t see a future with me and we have 2 kids. But watching your videos has made me start to realise that I have to let him go even though I truly thought he would of been the one. Thank you Liz, I really appreciate your words❤
*TIMESTAMPS:* 1:47 - Realise when you are being manipulated 3:47 - What they can easily get and keep will never be valued 5:56 - Realise that time flies and your time is valuable 6:43 - Toxic people will make you feel like they are the best you can get 7:59 - Realise that those people are only powerful because of your energy 8:54 - Whatever you choose should always add to your life and not take away from it 11:34 - It's okay yo change your mind 13:23 - Plan your exit 14:14 - Once you close that door behind you, you don't open it again 16:09 - Faith over fear 17:37 - One the toxic is gone your purpose will show 18:31 - Age doesn't matter
In my eyes, She is the real queen bro.. She haven't idea how much lives are she saving! And how confident we got from her words!! I really realllyyyyy convey my gratitude to you wth my all heart! 🥺🦋🖤
She said, "don't judge a situation based on the amount of time or effort you have invested in it but rather on what outcome it brings for your future!" This is liberating❤. I have been questioning whether leaving a relationship that was hurting me was even the right decision because as much as it hurt, and I tried communicating my pain, he just never changed. So now I chose myself, yet i still and will probably love him forever. I have realised though, that the relationship served it's time and I can now reflect and work on my own stuff as well. It's time to free myself from the emotional heartache and trust that the decision i made was God. Thank you for teaching us the importance of letting go when it's time and trusting God for better. You also emphasized the fundamental principle of happiness which is to progress in life. May we never remain in situations that keep us stagnant. The world needs us to show up and we deserve that for ourselves!❤
"God ALWAYS provides." This is soooo true, I have experienced this soooo many times in my life that I fully believe every time I let go and let God, I know He will provide for me.
Literally last night my boyfriend of 2 years and I had a conversation that made me realize that we have such different morals. He’s not a horrible guy but he never changes, doesn’t improve, doesn’t feel a desire to. He doesn’t have any faith in God or any higher power, and doesn’t seem to value me like a diamond. I’ve done everything I could to be the best girlfriend, heal my trauma, keep my health up, and learn to have a healthy relationship. For months the thought of wanting to end things with him keep crossing my mind. But of course, he has good moments but it’s genuinely just never enough for me. After our conversation last night, all day I’ve been pondering whether I should let him go or not. And after some praying, of course Liz posts this video and I swear it’s like you’re speaking to me directly. I’m starting to really realize what I should do now for not only myself but for him too. Big and final update: he pretty much said “fine, find someone better than me. You deserve it, I can never be enough for you.” So I guess that’s that, I’m just trying to process it and pray about it.
If you already have these thoughts, they’re never going to go. Trust me, I’ve been there too. Always trust your gut because there’s a reason why you’re having thoughts about your relationship, the gut is never wrong!
Stop believing people on words 😢, that's the reason behind the war of our heart and mind. Now this video will help me to get over the emotional obstacles. Really need this❤
You are sent by GOD honestly. I'm going through a very tough time and everytime I start to feel anxious I watch your video and I feel calm and my faith is renewed. 💗
1:47 realize when you’re being manipulated 3:48 what they can easily get and keep will never be valued 5:57 realize time flies and your time is valuable ⭐️6:23 y’all really need to hear this 8:00 realize that those people are only powerful because of your energy ⭐️8:56 whatever you choose should always add to your life and not take away from it 11:34 it’s okay to change your mind ⭐️11:58 she said this so well 13:24 plan your exit 14:15 close that door and don’t open it again 16:09 faith over fear 17:39 once the toxic is gone your purpose will show 18:30 age doesn’t matter
i think we all can agree that she is someone we all want in our life. as a big sister, mother or as a friend. love you liz u have literally changed my life from past two years.
Literally she is your well wisher..You women have gone completely mad.liz definitely knows how to manipulate emotionally weak women and make money out from it.
This is so insane, I’m not even kidding you but EVERY TIME I’m going through a confusing/ difficult time, Liz you always come out w the videos I needed to hear in that moment. Just wanted to thank you for being a big sister model I never had 💜 keep being you
A great tip for people who feel so sad and finds it impossible to leave a relationship. Stop attaching stories to your emotions. Emotions are like a wave it has a start, a peak and an end. So it will peak and and then end. But if you keep imagining what’s gonna happen after you are broke up or keep imagining scenarios without your partner, it becomes way too difficult for you to get out. So sit with your emotions. Let it peak and come to an end. There will be multiple waves. Not attaching stories will help face the waves smoothly. Your healing time will be much lesser.
I watched this video every time I think about my ex and getting back and it helps understand that I deserve better than what I received! Thank you for making these videos especially for people that don’t have any source of help ❤
You speak facts 💯 I needed to hear this and this come at the exactly the right time! If someone tells you that you can’t do better than them or find better they slowly manipulate you into believing this. It’s not true they need you not the other way round
this came at the perfect time. i was led on by a guy for half a year. he kept promising me we’d make it official and i was silly enough to believe him. i gave away my time, energy, money, and body to him. i supported him through his surgery and when his family member passed and he kept promising we’d make it official soon. i also ignored countless red flags. he told me he loved me and then a month later broke things off with me because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship.” now he wants to only keep in contact to hook up with me. i felt conflicted because it’s hard for me to accept he’s not meant for me, but his actions spoke louder than his words and it’s like you said, you don’t stay where your respect is not served.
I can totally relate to you. I was also in a relationship with a guy for like two months and then out of nowhere he came and said he wants us to take a break from this relationship thing and that's when i realised I'm with the wrong guy. I hope you'll find a great guy and you're an amazing person as well ❤
while watching this I feel like I just had the advice that I was looking for. For me to wake up in this nightmare every day and every word and line is just healing every part of me. This is actually my first time watching a video from your channel and my ghad it was what I was longing to hear for a long time. Thank you, Liz! I hope I can step up and plan my exit well as I am about to do it this week with a toddler with me. Hopefully, everything goes well.
When I was younger I had an older brother who developed mental health issues... I remember I would go into these long, long inspirational monologues, giving him all the best information I had, trying everything I could to inspire him... Your videos reminds me of those days, that time... I'm glad you are giving to the right audience, an audience who listens! Lord knows he didn't (or couldn't, who knows). And yes, I know this is mainly intended for women, but self esteem is without gender... and it really means something to hear somebody speak the inspirational way I used to speak... I used to feel like a crazy fool when I would try and tell him stuff but I loved him so much I would've done anything... So thank you, for reminding me of the spark I used to have... I hope to remember this part of me again. I hope I remember the part of me that feels like he deserves the world... Because I feel like I have forgotten him somehow, somewhere along the way...
Hey Liz, I just wanted to say that your videos have been extremely therapeutic to me. I love how honest and real you are, and I’m going through a hard relationship right now. Thank you
I have these "friends" who constantly disrespect me, they say it's a joke or that we treat each other like this, but lately this situation is starting to tire me, today I put a stop to it and I didn't sit at lunch with them, but in reality I felt good doing it even if they are now mad at me. And I understood that they literally do not add anything to me, on the contrary I am constantly giving for them, even so I am fond of them but I have to give myself my own value. Thanks Liz for literraly open my eyes love you 💕
hi girl can u help me plz. i had a friend from childhood and i really love her and her mum loves me and stuff but now in middle school she met a new friend and her new friend is so nice and cute and i love her but i really feel left out and when her friend leave from school or smth she talks with me alot and mae me feel hapyy but i feel like im the second obtion she also fight for really small and stupid things always even tho im not wrong like there is two ways to go home when i wanna take the other road that i feel like is closer to my house she gets mad at me and say very mean words to me even tho i take injection every month for my legs beacuse i cant walk alot and my legs are really tired and sometimes i cant even stand on my legs. i cant say how many times she gor mad at me for stupis things but i always end up texting her and apologizing alot and then she finnaly forgige me even i did nothing wrong i can even remmber every mean word she said to me and it hurts me alot. i dont know if i should stay in the relationship or what i feel something heavy on my heart even if she is not mad at me im scared if she gets mad at me all the time even when i go to sleep. and she has a brother and my brother is best friend with her brother so i feel like if i dont talk to her any more i will ruin my brother relationship of his only real friend.im really lost and i feel like i really love her and im scared if i choose to end it i will regret it and her family will hate me and she always tell me her family loves me so much beacuse alot of her friends betrayed her exept me im lost please help me and sorry for that long comment
@@windrainsg look, you have a smart friend, she has her own friendships and she only comes back to you when she needs someone to be with. She doesn't make an effort to try to be a good friend because she knows that every time something bothers her, you're going to run after her. I recommend you make her see that you have other options, being with you is not a duty, it's a privilege that she possesses and you have to gradually take it away from her. I understand that it is difficult to let go of a friend when you are very fond of her, I recommend that you start to change the rules of the game, not always be available to her, even go out with other people, show her that she is not the only option. When things start to change and your attitude also makes it clear to the person that they can no longer control you, and that if they want to continue having a friendship with you, they must adapt to you, not the other way around, and if they don't adapt to your conditions, just put it away I don't know you and you don't know me, but I know that you have an important value and many people will be able to see it too, so anyone would be delighted to be your friend. I hope it works for you and I personally recommend that you listen to more videos of Liz, she made me change many aspects of my life and improved my confidence.
@@celzswr3940thank u so much u dont know how much this made my hart warm thank you so much girl and i hope u do the best with your life and meet the best people ever thank u so much i will start to think about my self more and not beg people to stay with me thank you so much💗💗
@@windrainsg Hey there! Sorry for all these things happening to you. Let me tell you my side of story. 8 months ago, I got into college. I am very unlucky with friendship. I never really had true friends. So I never wished to make true friends there too. But 1 day into it, I instantly clicked with a girl. And the next day, we had a trio. We had the same kind of vibe. Things were going on so smooth, we then had a larger friend circle but we as a trio were the closest. We had so much fun and all. But then 2 months ago, 1 of them started getting close to another girl and I was hurt. I talked to her several times about it but she didn't change it. Then the other friend, in midst of something said she doesn't care about me. I was really really hurt and cried. I waited for her to come and console but she didn't. Day after that, I made a mistake and even though I was hurt I still apologized. After that day, she didn't talk to me and my other friend didn't even try to set things right. She was too much caught up with that new friend of hers. So now, I am replaced with that girl. Now they have the trio. I apologised a lot of times but no one responded. I don't know how people can move on so quickly. Like I was so emotionally attached to them, how can they leave me suffer alone. I cried myself everyday to sleep seeing them having fun with that girl. That girl for me is a bitch because I don't why, for what reason she behaves rude towards me. But now I know it was me, who created fantasies about them being with me forever. It's my fault to give someone this much power over me. Cause I don't owe them anything. They don't complete me. They are just garnishing but I can still do my best without them. So don't sacrifice yourself for the sake of others. You should know that you don't owe anyone anything. It's only your body and mind to who owe peace and happiness. If that friendship doesn't give you happiness, that is not a friendship. Friends are supposed to uplift and respect you. If that doesn't happen, then you don't need them. And about her family, who gives a fuck. You are not going to burn yourself for the sake of others. It's only you and your world. *You are going to be with you for the entire time*. Don't hurt someone who will be always there with you. And that's you. P.S. I hope we get this difficult phase. Stay blessed ❤️
I struggled with being a people pleaser, self-pity, self-sabotage, acting toxic without realizing it, and having low self-esteem. You have changed my life and perspective, and I started valuing myself more. I started not giving a damn to useless criticisms, and not easily giving in, I don't get attached so much anymore, I am slowly loving myself, and I used the power and control over myself rather than my emotions getting ahead THANK YOU!
Idk if you guys like Lana Del Rey, but what Liz said here: 14:15 really reminded me of something Lana said that really got into me. Quote: "I'm a big believer that you have to close the door, lock it, throw away the key and that's when the good stuff comes in. I feel like sometimes I'm reaching for one thing, but I'm still all the way in this other place and it doesn't really work like that." Since I've heard she saying it really got me thiking, and now that Liz said I belive it even more. Maybe we have to risk it all in order to get it all; but risking is scary, mainly when you risk everything, but, like Liz said: "instead of having fear, have faith". That's what I'm gonna do. Thanks, Liz! Love you.
You don’t know how much I appreciate this video. I’ve been stuck in a toxic apprenticeship and I know I really want to succeed but my mentor is such a terrible person. I know now that if I leave, I will find better elsewhere ❤ thank you for all of your supportive videos they help a lot.
Girl please do a video especially on abusive relationship emotionally I’m almost at the point where I can leave but I feel like I can’t get over it and your videos really help me to think more clearly
I am obsessed with liz’s videos but whenever she says don’t do this or that I feel a little embarrassed because I’ve done some of that stuff in the past but hey at least I realized my wrongs and I’m here to better myself and know that I’ll never allow myself to do those things again. Finally knowing your worth is a whole superpower.
well she isn’t perfect too and she’s admitted to being toxic before in some videos, should just remember that not everyone is perfect no matter if they’re the ones preaching morality
@@YungTsundere I know. It’s obvious she knows what she’s saying because she’s made those mistakes and is using them to teach people after all you learn from your mistakes and she’s the strong woman she is today thanks to it and I’m just tryna do the same for myself
I understand how you feel, but don't worry too much about it. I think thar that Liz talks with us the same way she had to talk with herself when she had to stop doing something, or just leave. If we are embarrassed is because we already went throught something where we thought: shit that was horrible! but I'm stronger now and it will never happen again. And that is when we learn and move on.
I'm leaving my father's house tomorrow. I've been stuck here, manipulated and abused for years, and you made me see the reality. Thank you for giving me the courage to see my future and to act to achieve it❤
Love it! Thank you! I find your messages valuable for myself. Thank you for being strong and brave to talk about those sensitive topics! Your messages heal. I appreciate your wisdom and thanking God for you! Bless you!❤
As a guy watching this.. holy shit Liz is spittin nothing but FACTS, I know this channel is for women but I feel grateful to have found it at this point in my life, new sub 🙏
Liz you actually helped me more than my parents did, you're like an older sister which i've never had. Thank u, thank u for helping me and others, we love u❤❤
Hi Calina. Yes she helped us, BUT never say more than your parents. You have no idea even tho it looks like that your parents did everything to raise you!
@@zelik654 I know that my parents are the ones who care for me the most, for sure. But what i mean was my parents are kinda manupilative ppl that they actually disturbed me and spoiled my life more than help me. And sometimes, i feel like i need to move far from my parents so i can relaxed. Most of the time i even cry in my room just bc of my parents (russian parents problems😪). At the end of the day i love my parents more than anyone tho but Liz knows how to do it, giving advise and making u more confident. That's her thing and i feel better whenever i listen to her like many ppl in here.
This was such a beautiful blessing for me to come across Liz and listen her saying things that I wanted to hear at this crucial time , I feel alot better maybe this was the direction I needed! I feel so relieved so good!!! Thankyou very much Liz !❤ May god bless you 🤍🤝
Thank you so much. This is just want I needed to know. All my past experiences made me couldn't trust myself of feeling disrespected and mistreated. My current relationship matches all red flags in this video, and you are literally reading my mind of me doing so many dumb things to myself. You have my endless thanks.
Omg me too I’m turning 15 soon and I have learned so much from her like I feel that I have always known a lot but she has helped me reach my full potential and I am so grateful
I feel you, you definitely aren't alone in that shit. Thats been my life because I wanted to be a victim instead of taking my power back and asking for benefits or I'm out. Nobody deserves that shit until proven otherwise.
You help me so much thank you!! And to the people out there going through a rough time I hope you get through this and realize your worth, just like she said “I deserve much better and I’m capable of much better.”
I cried while watching this. Most of my life I dealt with my problems alone. Never thought someone around the globe would understand my pain so accurately and deliver exactly what I needed to hear.
I have watched all of your videos as soon you upload them. Came back looking for something that I could re-watch and came across with this one that I missed and turns out was what I needed right now. Thanks you so much for your words and blessing, love you so much and hope you the best ♥️ beautiful soul journey
To anyone who's in a really toxic relationship you need to get Outta that asap . Ik it's not easy because of closeness but u need to start detaching yourself from toxicity . It's in your hands if you wanna make it a routine or make it a lesson . I just came outta my toxic relationship . I was disrespected by getting cheated on twice . Valuing yourself should be your top priority . You'll get over it ❤
I've never commented on her videos, but I have to say this. She's an amazing soul and her words really do make an impact. Sometimes we may think it's common sense, but hearing it from Liz with her delivery is just what we need for us to absorb what she says. Just my most favorite youtuber ever, and if I may say, hope to meet her one day. ❤
@@AL-qj9yh with the help of her experience. Maybe start thinking from a rational pov and stop projecting your hatred. In the end of the day if its not her it'd be another person who says this stuff and helps the person who commented.
you are seriously a life saver, liz. i never knew how to properly love myself or make myself understand that there are certain places and times where i am not wanted or needed, and that's okay. you make me realize that there's so much more to learn! thank you
I just had a lot of toxic people exit my life and for some reason I was still feeling bad and lonely but now I know my life purpose and what I should be doing.. This literally helped me so much I can't even exaplain. . Thanks a lot Liz😘
I just literally woke up , brushed my teeth, turned on youtube, saw this video title, I am almost finished watching your video, i neeeeeeded to here this!! oh my god I needed this. You made so many good points . Thank you. Currently trying to keep my narcissist ex blocked & I get really sad late at night & feel the urge to contact him even though I cannot do it anymore. He's such a cruel person. I have to get him out of my life though to allow the opportunity for someone who treats me better.
This arrived to me at an impressively perfect time. Tell you what, i’ve been manifesting since some months ago a big positive change in my life. To be more specific, I wanna leave the city i’m currently in and start a complete new life, but for doing so, i’m completely aware I need to de-attach from everyone and everything here. Because if I don’t do that, then I know the universe won’t give me better things. This was inspiring and a signal for me, because I know that day is arriving sooner than I expect. Thank you liz 💕
I’m going to be taking this as a sign from the Universe. For years I have been at a very toxic training academy where I always feel comfortable since it’s nothing new. Recently, I’ve been considering leaving as they’re not holding anything for me, they’re only using me as power and taking everything from me. I now feel ready to leave after watching this video, because everything will align with what is destined for me. Thank you Liz, have an amazing day 💗
@@romanaquaiyum3801 Thank you, I'm quite nervous and a little apprehensive at the moment, but I know that it may lead to better things for me. I just have to have faith :) May you have an amazing day
thank you Liz! You couldn't have posted it at a more perfect time than today. I needed this very badly. I feel like I'm at the lowest of my life where nothing's working out for me and everything, everyone who are dear to me are drifting apart more than ever and I'm just not able to let go of them.... really, very grateful for you Liz! Thank you the most :D
Thank you I really needed to hear this, you remind me a lot of a person that is very close to me & would not want to tell me this again ;,( It’s the truth. & really appreciate this kind of reminder & assurance. Very valid & valuable
*As a teen boy I find incredible value in Liz’s content as she helped so so much to channel my authenticity and become SUCH a better and more enthusiastic person. Especially as a youtuber myself authenticity is 🔑*
The fact I was crying and literally begging for him to stay. This video appeared 9 days after and I’m astonished by your words my tears left and I started to think on your wise words Liz Thankyou for your positive energy 🥺❤️when I needed it
Nothing more painful than begging for someone to stay and they turn their back on you. Or make you feel pathetic for doing so. No one is worth that and they have shown they don’t deserve you. Please stay strong and realize you are worth more. Sending love ❤️❤️
I started to treat myself better...I stopped with "what if" or feeling bad for saying No. It's been a month now and it feels great really. Thank you liz for posting this! Let's Value ourselves ❤
I want to say thank you so much you are like a big sister for me. I used to be very people pleaser and sensitive person and peoples literally use me so many time but now Just because of you I start changing my self.💗
Liz please make a video on how can you become smart and clever enough to deal with any kind of people, how can you become intelligent especially socially and in life as well. Please guys like this comment if you agree cuz i really need help from her and you guys, if you have any advices and suggestions I'd love to listen ❤.
@@lost__soul.42 right, after years of overthinking, I was just thinking "So dumb, it has served me of nothing, it is dumb, it is completely gone by now, I need to let go " 😂😂😂 and then this about letting go appears
I am 15 and actually I was going through a lot and she was my life saver . She helped me to overcome my fear , to bring my confidence back she was a soul reason for me to keep believing in myself and loving myself . Thank you for everything Ma'am Thank you ....
Liz, you found the self image that i had lost so so long ago. You gave me the power to realize a life I didn’t think I could have. I love you queen. It’s giving Selena 💕👑
i love how aggressive she is in order to make us respect ourselves
Yes I was thinking the same thing 🤣♥️
Liz is bringing us with her by force and I love it
@@avamaria9606 me too!
I'm so grateful for Liz
I Know! She's clapping at me like a passionate black lady and I feel it in my soul! 🤣
"That toxic person need you, you don't need them" hits me personnally, thank you Liz
When
Facts 💯
it's true. They are a succubus( vampire ).
Forreals! They need money, my time, support, care, love and company. I don't need it or ask them or try or expect it. I would like the same I put out back and if I don't get it its okay. But it's not okay. Damn I'm just seeing what I'm writing. Like I'm expecting nothing and it's ok. It's not okay. I want respect. I don't need it. It should be there for what I do.
Yes Liz totally true I will not be afraid I believe God is good to me thank you thank you liz
"Don't do a dishonour to yourself by staying where you are not welcome." u are so real for that. I needed to hear that.
"Don't stay where respect is not served" 🔥🔥
The way she said it so loud, “ You don’t need them, They need you and you dont realise it “ I teared up ❤
Men do not need women at all.Women are all awful.
If he needed me why did he leave me for her
@@urmomisms Exactly he doesn’t realise that he needs you🥺. Anyways whatever is yours will find you and stay with you. If he lost you, it’s his loss ! Stay strong , you got this 😀
@@urmomisms why????
@@Tom-px9hd wym why who even r u
Don't apologise for not being dressed up, you always look amazing for us
100% SHES ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL
Literally she looks like a model in whatever
the queen don needa look professional to maintain professionalism
This is such a nice comment 😊
I'm really not sure why she's apologising, there's been other videos before this where she hasn't been dressed up!
"It's doesn't matter, your age, doesn't matter. See age is just a number. We are a soul".
Exactly. Thanks Liz so much
“Fear stops everything” you don’t know how much I needed to hear that Liz. Thank you ❤
When she said that it was like a wake up call
This girl doesn't know how many lives she is saving....❤
But shes full of bs herself, how then?
@@FiorellaFio-sb9uc You must’ve watched a lot of her vids to get to that conclusion huh?
@@FiorellaFio-sb9uc how
I am so grateful for Liz 🩷🙏
@@FiorellaFio-sb9uc What do you find wrong in that? Do u even know her well? How she's helping millions of people out there
If u wanna say shit like this stay out of this video
No hatred here
Bumped into Liz a month ago while I was buying groceries, such an incredible woman. She naturally radiates such good energy. I used to avoid her videos at a point because of how upfront and aggresive she was, now I realize it was because I was afraid to admit my wrongs. I truly love what she does and I feel like I respect myself so much more.
lucky duck. i want to meet Liz one day she's the best
this is so honest, it really is scary confronting our most shallow parts but its definitely necessary
What city was it
Which city? Country?
Light clouds, halo, aura, sign, calm feeling surrounding etc
appears around beings according to their Energy.
Their opposite as well, dark clouds, shadow haze, mist, suffering, uncomfortable sign etc
With ordinary eyes, it is a simple impression of good or bad with confusion most of times.
With better eyes, it develops in refinement. Distinctiv clarity.
With extraordinary eyes, it is fully detailed and have deepness that can be explored freely, like a karmic wikipedia access not restricted.
Extraordinary eyes and progression cycle are reached by training mind in meditation state correctly for many many many years (life dedication). Seeking an answer to reduce suffering to self and others and bring causes of joy to all.
But some, according to natural gifted spiritual power can see sometimes some breaches, not stabilized only spontaneously.
Still great to look on light
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.porassss. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this
Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes, he is dr.porassss.
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Claudia Vecchi Nese .
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
Great to see you guys talking about her, she changed the game for me.
fun fact : we love it more when u're not dressed up or not scripted cause it feels like u're really talking to us directly thanks
I love all her videos she's so inspiring but I love this too
Don't believe in this prize coz that's fake
Yes, it feels geniune
Wake up the Queen posted 🗣️🗣️
I did, now let's call for other girlies ✨
Frrr I had to remind my friends she posted 😭😭
I am about to sleep but I get up quickly back from lying down. Our queen posted noti
Factsss!!!
I just woke up and saw this comment 😂
You’re so right. I had a “friends” who were so disrespectful to me and they always made me feel left out and not worthy so I decided to cut them off - even tho they were literally my only friends - and I prayed and asked allah to help me and shows up to me people who really love me and respect me. And alhamdullah now I have friends who would do anything just to see me smile and never disrespected me or made me feel insecure abt myself
@originalShouq
I have friends like that. I have friends who see me as a competition. I have survived in this toxic situation that I dont need the toxic people anymore. They need me.
I can relate to having “friends”..Especially, when they’re in my class and it got to a point where my grades have been affected by them well more specifically in a situation where the teacher has put us in a group for filming.. well you could guess what happened I’ve been to all the places to film with them but.. that’s it, I’m just there… But you know what they did? They left me out the script and the film vid all together. One of them used to be my best friend.. soo I can imagine this is gonna be one hell of a school year *sigh what’s even worse is there was recently a new seating arrangement assigned to us (i sit in the front) and you know who is right next to me…? My old best friend 😭😭 reeeeee I’m already dreading…. The next following quarters. I hope my grades never have to suffer again 😭
P.S. none of you guys are obligated to read me rambling on about my life 😂
I watched this during my relationship, and now that I’ve left I’m watching it again :) it hits better the second time I also just wanna share with everyone that the person doesn’t have to be traditionally toxic to be bad for you. In my case, the person i liked wasn’t nesscarily toxic, but stopped me from growing, and becoming a better person because of how obsessed I was with them.. don’t be afraid to leave for ANY reason
Can we talk please. Actually I don’t have anyone to talk to.
@@LilyyPierceof course ! Sorry I might be a little late, but yes :)
@@LilyyPierceare you still there ??
how did u leave? i’ve been thinking abt it alot recently i jus dont know how
@@nihility_.I’m not gonna sugar coat it, leaving was really hard. I’ve never left a relationship before and I really liked this person a lot. And even though they weren’t nessacarily doing anything bad to me, I myself was just so mentally unwell, and felt myself being toxic to him because of my own insecurities. I knew deep down if I continued to stay in this relationship I was just gonna end up driving him crazy and I was only going to make myself feels worse, so I told him what was going on with me and how I was feeling and I would reach out to him when I was completely over him because I just couldn’t grow and I needed time to focus and o work on myself. The first few weeks I was very depressed because I was so used to to texting him all the time throughout the day, but eventually it got better and met more people and realize that other good people exist. Just do what feels right. Trust your gut.
I was literally crying two days ago asking God for help and direction. Timing of your video is INSANE. Your words are exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you.
this.
God helps those who help themselves
😂
i dont think we realize that she’s more famous than people in hollywood rn
Deserved...
She purchased this chanel that already came with subscribers. Look at the date of her videos she uploaded and look at how old this account is. Just because you have bought followers doesn’t mean your famous. She needs to buy followers so she can feel validated.
@@tennyt9039 i started following her when she wasn’t that famous, stop being so jealous of other women’s accomplishments girl, you’ll have your own time to shine
@@tennyt9039yo,when i followed her ,she had 50k
@@sparklesoulsubliminals bro fr she literally built it for herself what the hell is she talking about💀
You're right about the part when you say, that you need to let go in order to open your doors for something better. It's been two years of me being in the endless loop of the same treatment from every human being I meet. It doesn't end because I let people treat me this way and I'm way to gratefull for bare minimum. I'm always let down If not by the choice of another person then of destiny and coincidence. On a yesterday walk I understood one thing. Universe is not letting me be to close to people right now, because I lean on them too much. I realized how much I actually deserve last night and how little I get. I'm too good for all of these people, I'm so thoughtfull of them, and I almost never even get the minimum. Universe is keeping me in that bubble not because I'm cursed, BUT BECAUSE I'M SUPPOSED TO LEARN MY OWN VALUE!!!
I just found her channel today and 2 days back i have experienced worst breakup with my ex... so i was so lost after that i was thinking to quit my life but today I came across to her channel literally she changed my mindset and now I'm so happy that it happened and now I get to know that I was in a toxic relationship...
And also now i get to know the meaning of this quote that says:
"God removes people from your life because he heard the conversation that you didn't" so now i am satisfied with my decision and happy also..
Note: please guys if u see this comment then u can console me with your heart warming words it would really helpful to me😌
Time heals all wounds. You will be okay ❤
You do not stay where respect is not served. Damn, best sentence ever.
I believe Liz is an angel sent to us. I'm at my lowest in life right now, I just got out of a relationship and am not taking the breakup well and watching these videos are already making me feel so much better
sending love to you 💕
It gets better with time. Be good to yourself….don’t beat up yourself. Do nice things for you.
You will get stronger with each day 💕
how are you feeling now?
Same
Hey I’m going through the same thing, but I’ve no friends or anyone to talk to ? Can please anyone help me with my mental health I’m dying inside and out please help me
I truly believe your videos popped up as a sign for me to listen to. My now ex partner told me he doesn’t see a future with me and we have 2 kids. But watching your videos has made me start to realise that I have to let him go even though I truly thought he would of been the one. Thank you Liz, I really appreciate your words❤
just got told the same thing an hour ago by my long term bf and i’m devastated. her videos help so much though. you’ll get through this
Yesterday I got out of a toxic relationship, and this is a message from God that the best is yet to come❤
Yes I'm glad you realized your worth👏
same here my friend❤
True
Go girl
We believe in you
Congratulations! You deserve better ❤
*TIMESTAMPS:*
1:47 - Realise when you are being manipulated
3:47 - What they can easily get and keep will never be valued
5:56 - Realise that time flies and your time is valuable
6:43 - Toxic people will make you feel like they are the best you can get
7:59 - Realise that those people are only powerful because of your energy
8:54 - Whatever you choose should always add to your life and not take away from it
11:34 - It's okay yo change your mind
13:23 - Plan your exit
14:14 - Once you close that door behind you, you don't open it again
16:09 - Faith over fear
17:37 - One the toxic is gone your purpose will show
18:31 - Age doesn't matter
ah thanks
@@emaanfatima8118 you’re welcome
@ThewizardIiz 🅥 i thought u were the real wizardliz 😂
Thank u sm
Awww! Thanks
In my eyes, She is the real queen bro.. She haven't idea how much lives are she saving! And how confident we got from her words!! I really realllyyyyy convey my gratitude to you wth my all heart! 🥺🦋🖤
Right
She said, "don't judge a situation based on the amount of time or effort you have invested in it but rather on what outcome it brings for your future!"
This is liberating❤.
I have been questioning whether leaving a relationship that was hurting me was even the right decision because as much as it hurt, and I tried communicating my pain, he just never changed. So now I chose myself, yet i still and will probably love him forever. I have realised though, that the relationship served it's time and I can now reflect and work on my own stuff as well. It's time to free myself from the emotional heartache and trust that the decision i made was God. Thank you for teaching us the importance of letting go when it's time and trusting God for better. You also emphasized the fundamental principle of happiness which is to progress in life. May we never remain in situations that keep us stagnant. The world needs us to show up and we deserve that for ourselves!❤
"God ALWAYS provides." This is soooo true, I have experienced this soooo many times in my life that I fully believe every time I let go and let God, I know He will provide for me.
❤❤❤
Amen!!! 🙏💕
Literally last night my boyfriend of 2 years and I had a conversation that made me realize that we have such different morals. He’s not a horrible guy but he never changes, doesn’t improve, doesn’t feel a desire to. He doesn’t have any faith in God or any higher power, and doesn’t seem to value me like a diamond. I’ve done everything I could to be the best girlfriend, heal my trauma, keep my health up, and learn to have a healthy relationship. For months the thought of wanting to end things with him keep crossing my mind. But of course, he has good moments but it’s genuinely just never enough for me. After our conversation last night, all day I’ve been pondering whether I should let him go or not. And after some praying, of course Liz posts this video and I swear it’s like you’re speaking to me directly. I’m starting to really realize what I should do now for not only myself but for him too.
Big and final update: he pretty much said “fine, find someone better than me. You deserve it, I can never be enough for you.” So I guess that’s that, I’m just trying to process it and pray about it.
did you do it?
@@olgaz4927 I literally about to go over to see him, I’m probably going to
You shouldn’t even have to ask, if he isn’t treating you like a queen dump him!!!
If you already have these thoughts, they’re never going to go. Trust me, I’ve been there too. Always trust your gut because there’s a reason why you’re having thoughts about your relationship, the gut is never wrong!
@@nina-go2vi u can do it baby girl !!
Stop believing people on words 😢, that's the reason behind the war of our heart and mind.
Now this video will help me to get over the emotional obstacles.
Really need this❤
You are sent by GOD honestly. I'm going through a very tough time and everytime I start to feel anxious I watch your video and I feel calm and my faith is renewed. 💗
1:47 realize when you’re being manipulated
3:48 what they can easily get and keep will never be valued
5:57 realize time flies and your time is valuable
⭐️6:23 y’all really need to hear this
8:00 realize that those people are only powerful because of your energy
⭐️8:56 whatever you choose should always add to your life and not take away from it
11:34 it’s okay to change your mind
⭐️11:58 she said this so well
13:24 plan your exit
14:15 close that door and don’t open it again
16:09 faith over fear
17:39 once the toxic is gone your purpose will show
18:30 age doesn’t matter
May God bless you.
Thank you 🙏🩷
thank you so much
Thankyou so muchhh
this is some basic common sense shit lol, dont tell me you ladies need to be taught common sense lol
i think we all can agree that she is someone we all want in our life. as a big sister, mother or as a friend. love you liz u have literally changed my life from past two years.
I dont
@@AdsThatSell okay? 😱🥱🤭
So true
@@AdsThatSell good for you
Literally she is your well wisher..You women have gone completely mad.liz definitely knows how to manipulate emotionally weak women and make money out from it.
this is amazing because i've been beginning to let go of so many toxic things in my life, and everything resonates w/ me, i'm so proud of myself
binging her vids 🙇♀️
@@gcldenhcurliterally same, n good job I feel the same way
Liz, I love your talks! How you say everything with so much passion and urgency motivates me so much.
This is so insane, I’m not even kidding you but EVERY TIME I’m going through a confusing/ difficult time, Liz you always come out w the videos I needed to hear in that moment. Just wanted to thank you for being a big sister model I never had 💜 keep being you
Same. I just transfered but perhaps I should plan my exit b4 they ha e this bidding system to ship us around at the airport
Same
So true ! 😭😭
Same it’s crazy but i’m thankful🙏🫶🏻
RIGHT LIKE WE REALLY GROWIN TOGETHER
A great tip for people who feel so sad and finds it impossible to leave a relationship. Stop attaching stories to your emotions. Emotions are like a wave it has a start, a peak and an end. So it will peak and and then end. But if you keep imagining what’s gonna happen after you are broke up or keep imagining scenarios without your partner, it becomes way too difficult for you to get out.
So sit with your emotions. Let it peak and come to an end. There will be multiple waves. Not attaching stories will help face the waves smoothly. Your healing time will be much lesser.
Aka ruminating, a bad habit that keeps you stuck ! Stay learning ❤❤
I used to imagining about my broken realationship
but it’s hard if i wanted it to be them
Thank you
Thank you
I watched this video every time I think about my ex and getting back and it helps understand that I deserve better than what I received! Thank you for making these videos especially for people that don’t have any source of help ❤
You speak facts 💯 I needed to hear this and this come at the exactly the right time! If someone tells you that you can’t do better than them or find better they slowly manipulate you into believing this. It’s not true they need you not the other way round
''when the words doesn’t match the actions, leave''
well, said..
this came at the perfect time. i was led on by a guy for half a year. he kept promising me we’d make it official and i was silly enough to believe him. i gave away my time, energy, money, and body to him. i supported him through his surgery and when his family member passed and he kept promising we’d make it official soon. i also ignored countless red flags. he told me he loved me and then a month later broke things off with me because he “wasn’t ready for a relationship.” now he wants to only keep in contact to hook up with me. i felt conflicted because it’s hard for me to accept he’s not meant for me, but his actions spoke louder than his words and it’s like you said, you don’t stay where your respect is not served.
I can totally relate to you. I was also in a relationship with a guy for like two months and then out of nowhere he came and said he wants us to take a break from this relationship thing and that's when i realised I'm with the wrong guy. I hope you'll find a great guy and you're an amazing person as well ❤
At least you are lucky don’t have to waste more time and energy with those people anymore ❤ I the same 1 years
while watching this I feel like I just had the advice that I was looking for.
For me to wake up in this nightmare every day and every word and line is just healing every part of me.
This is actually my first time watching a video from your channel and my ghad it was what I was longing to hear for a long time.
Thank you, Liz!
I hope I can step up and plan my exit well as I am about to do it this week with a toddler with me. Hopefully, everything goes well.
When I was younger I had an older brother who developed mental health issues... I remember I would go into these long, long inspirational monologues, giving him all the best information I had, trying everything I could to inspire him... Your videos reminds me of those days, that time... I'm glad you are giving to the right audience, an audience who listens! Lord knows he didn't (or couldn't, who knows).
And yes, I know this is mainly intended for women, but self esteem is without gender... and it really means something to hear somebody speak the inspirational way I used to speak... I used to feel like a crazy fool when I would try and tell him stuff but I loved him so much I would've done anything... So thank you, for reminding me of the spark I used to have... I hope to remember this part of me again. I hope I remember the part of me that feels like he deserves the world... Because I feel like I have forgotten him somehow, somewhere along the way...
😂its always the unplanned vids that turn out to be the best. Can't wait to watch this. Thanks for letting us be part of ur healing journey❤❤❤
Hey Liz, I just wanted to say that your videos have been extremely therapeutic to me. I love how honest and real you are, and I’m going through a hard relationship right now. Thank you
I have these "friends" who constantly disrespect me, they say it's a joke or that we treat each other like this, but lately this situation is starting to tire me, today I put a stop to it and I didn't sit at lunch with them, but in reality I felt good doing it even if they are now mad at me. And I understood that they literally do not add anything to me, on the contrary I am constantly giving for them, even so I am fond of them but I have to give myself my own value. Thanks Liz for literraly open my eyes love you 💕
hi girl can u help me plz. i had a friend from childhood and i really love her and her mum loves me and stuff but now in middle school she met a new friend and her new friend is so nice and cute and i love her but i really feel left out and when her friend leave from school or smth she talks with me alot and mae me feel hapyy but i feel like im the second obtion she also fight for really small and stupid things always even tho im not wrong like there is two ways to go home when i wanna take the other road that i feel like is closer to my house she gets mad at me and say very mean words to me even tho i take injection every month for my legs beacuse i cant walk alot and my legs are really tired and sometimes i cant even stand on my legs. i cant say how many times she gor mad at me for stupis things but i always end up texting her and apologizing alot and then she finnaly forgige me even i did nothing wrong i can even remmber every mean word she said to me and it hurts me alot. i dont know if i should stay in the relationship or what i feel something heavy on my heart even if she is not mad at me im scared if she gets mad at me all the time even when i go to sleep. and she has a brother and my brother is best friend with her brother so i feel like if i dont talk to her any more i will ruin my brother relationship of his only real friend.im really lost and i feel like i really love her and im scared if i choose to end it i will regret it and her family will hate me and she always tell me her family loves me so much beacuse alot of her friends betrayed her exept me im lost please help me and sorry for that long comment
@@windrainsg look, you have a smart friend, she has her own friendships and she only comes back to you when she needs someone to be with. She doesn't make an effort to try to be a good friend because she knows that every time something bothers her, you're going to run after her. I recommend you make her see that you have other options, being with you is not a duty, it's a privilege that she possesses and you have to gradually take it away from her. I understand that it is difficult to let go of a friend when you are very fond of her, I recommend that you start to change the rules of the game, not always be available to her, even go out with other people, show her that she is not the only option. When things start to change and your attitude also makes it clear to the person that they can no longer control you, and that if they want to continue having a friendship with you, they must adapt to you, not the other way around, and if they don't adapt to your conditions, just put it away I don't know you and you don't know me, but I know that you have an important value and many people will be able to see it too, so anyone would be delighted to be your friend. I hope it works for you and I personally recommend that you listen to more videos of Liz, she made me change many aspects of my life and improved my confidence.
@@celzswr3940thank u so much u dont know how much this made my hart warm thank you so much girl and i hope u do the best with your life and meet the best people ever thank u so much i will start to think about my self more and not beg people to stay with me thank you so much💗💗
@@windrainsg Hey there! Sorry for all these things happening to you. Let me tell you my side of story. 8 months ago, I got into college. I am very unlucky with friendship. I never really had true friends. So I never wished to make true friends there too. But 1 day into it, I instantly clicked with a girl. And the next day, we had a trio. We had the same kind of vibe. Things were going on so smooth, we then had a larger friend circle but we as a trio were the closest. We had so much fun and all. But then 2 months ago, 1 of them started getting close to another girl and I was hurt. I talked to her several times about it but she didn't change it. Then the other friend, in midst of something said she doesn't care about me. I was really really hurt and cried. I waited for her to come and console but she didn't. Day after that, I made a mistake and even though I was hurt I still apologized. After that day, she didn't talk to me and my other friend didn't even try to set things right. She was too much caught up with that new friend of hers. So now, I am replaced with that girl. Now they have the trio. I apologised a lot of times but no one responded. I don't know how people can move on so quickly. Like I was so emotionally attached to them, how can they leave me suffer alone. I cried myself everyday to sleep seeing them having fun with that girl. That girl for me is a bitch because I don't why, for what reason she behaves rude towards me. But now I know it was me, who created fantasies about them being with me forever. It's my fault to give someone this much power over me. Cause I don't owe them anything. They don't complete me. They are just garnishing but I can still do my best without them.
So don't sacrifice yourself for the sake of others. You should know that you don't owe anyone anything. It's only your body and mind to who owe peace and happiness. If that friendship doesn't give you happiness, that is not a friendship. Friends are supposed to uplift and respect you. If that doesn't happen, then you don't need them. And about her family, who gives a fuck. You are not going to burn yourself for the sake of others. It's only you and your world. *You are going to be with you for the entire time*. Don't hurt someone who will be always there with you. And that's you.
P.S. I hope we get this difficult phase. Stay blessed ❤️
I struggled with being a people pleaser, self-pity, self-sabotage, acting toxic without realizing it, and having low self-esteem. You have changed my life and perspective, and I started valuing myself more. I started not giving a damn to useless criticisms, and not easily giving in, I don't get attached so much anymore, I am slowly loving myself, and I used the power and control over myself rather than my emotions getting ahead THANK YOU!
Thank yourself as well, from stranger to stranger i’m proud of you.
Thank you for explaining how I feel I’m hope you can grow and live in your best self where your happy
Idk if you guys like Lana Del Rey, but what Liz said here: 14:15 really reminded me of something Lana said that really got into me. Quote: "I'm a big believer that you have to close the door, lock it, throw away the key and that's when the good stuff comes in. I feel like sometimes I'm reaching for one thing, but I'm still all the way in this other place and it doesn't really work like that." Since I've heard she saying it really got me thiking, and now that Liz said I belive it even more.
Maybe we have to risk it all in order to get it all; but risking is scary, mainly when you risk everything, but, like Liz said: "instead of having fear, have faith". That's what I'm gonna do. Thanks, Liz! Love you.
i love them both sm
I love her
love them both smmmm.
@@kristarachenae3204 Me tooo
Could you please share more info i am also her fan :)
You don’t know how much I appreciate this video. I’ve been stuck in a toxic apprenticeship and I know I really want to succeed but my mentor is such a terrible person. I know now that if I leave, I will find better elsewhere ❤ thank you for all of your supportive videos they help a lot.
Girl please do a video especially on abusive relationship emotionally I’m almost at the point where I can leave but I feel like I can’t get over it and your videos really help me to think more clearly
Can we talk I’m going through the same thing.
I am obsessed with liz’s videos but whenever she says don’t do this or that I feel a little embarrassed because I’ve done some of that stuff in the past but hey at least I realized my wrongs and I’m here to better myself and know that I’ll never allow myself to do those things again. Finally knowing your worth is a whole superpower.
In his first video he already mentioned that the first thing you have to do is forget about the past
well she isn’t perfect too and she’s admitted to being toxic before in some videos, should just remember that not everyone is perfect no matter if they’re the ones preaching morality
@@YungTsundere I know. It’s obvious she knows what she’s saying because she’s made those mistakes and is using them to teach people after all you learn from your mistakes and she’s the strong woman she is today thanks to it and I’m just tryna do the same for myself
I understand how you feel, but don't worry too much about it. I think thar that Liz talks with us the same way she had to talk with herself when she had to stop doing something, or just leave. If we are embarrassed is because we already went throught something where we thought: shit that was horrible! but I'm stronger now and it will never happen again. And that is when we learn and move on.
We all have, it's ok, we learn and things are better next time x
I'm leaving my father's house tomorrow. I've been stuck here, manipulated and abused for years, and you made me see the reality. Thank you for giving me the courage to see my future and to act to achieve it❤
Hey that's tough :(.. how are u doing now ?
How are you doing?
Hi I hope u r good and well and happy, stay strong ❤
So sorry for what happened to you. Congratulations for finally moving out. Wishing you all the best❤
sae story with my mother besides m working hard I wanna leave in a year as well
Love it! Thank you! I find your messages valuable for myself. Thank you for being strong and brave to talk about those sensitive topics! Your messages heal. I appreciate your wisdom and thanking God for you! Bless you!❤
She has earned my huge respect. Whatever she said is 100%true. Thank you for the motivation!
As a guy watching this.. holy shit Liz is spittin nothing but FACTS, I know this channel is for women but I feel grateful to have found it at this point in my life, new sub 🙏
It's not for women necessarily
@@justgoing_her true this advice can be applied regardless of your gender
Liz you actually helped me more than my parents did, you're like an older sister which i've never had. Thank u, thank u for helping me and others, we love u❤❤
Hi Calina. Yes she helped us, BUT never say more than your parents. You have no idea even tho it looks like that your parents did everything to raise you!
@@zelik654 I know that my parents are the ones who care for me the most, for sure. But what i mean was my parents are kinda manupilative ppl that they actually disturbed me and spoiled my life more than help me. And sometimes, i feel like i need to move far from my parents so i can relaxed. Most of the time i even cry in my room just bc of my parents (russian parents problems😪). At the end of the day i love my parents more than anyone tho but Liz knows how to do it, giving advise and making u more confident. That's her thing and i feel better whenever i listen to her like many ppl in here.
@@zelik654 ur right but don't judge someone without knowing their parents, not every parents are good to their kids remember;)
@@Health-care967 thanks for your understanding🙏❤️
@@repum0re13 you're not russian cause there are no name like yours and there are a lot russiophob and you are distinctly one of them
This was such a beautiful blessing for me to come across Liz and listen her saying things that I wanted to hear at this crucial time , I feel alot better maybe this was the direction I needed! I feel so relieved so good!!! Thankyou very much Liz !❤
May god bless you 🤍🤝
Thank you so much. This is just want I needed to know. All my past experiences made me couldn't trust myself of feeling disrespected and mistreated. My current relationship matches all red flags in this video, and you are literally reading my mind of me doing so many dumb things to myself. You have my endless thanks.
I'm 14, and lemme just say YOU LITERALLY CHANGED MY LIFE. I LOVE YOU, LIZ!!
Love seeing young ppl learning. Go GURL💓
Glad you are learning early!!! You are so lucky.
Yeah,I’m fifteen and I’m so happy and she literally change my life too,I love her !!!
Omg me too I’m turning 15 soon and I have learned so much from her like I feel that I have always known a lot but she has helped me reach my full potential and I am so grateful
same!!
loyalty without benefits is self destruction
I feel you, you definitely aren't alone in that shit. Thats been my life because I wanted to be a victim instead of taking my power back and asking for benefits or I'm out. Nobody deserves that shit until proven otherwise.
You help me so much thank you!! And to the people out there going through a rough time I hope you get through this and realize your worth, just like she said “I deserve much better and I’m capable of much better.”
i was all in tears after hearing these. it was like finally someone could understand what i went through and now can help me to get over :)
I cried while watching this. Most of my life I dealt with my problems alone. Never thought someone around the globe would understand my pain so accurately and deliver exactly what I needed to hear.
I have watched all of your videos as soon you upload them. Came back looking for something that I could re-watch and came across with this one that I missed and turns out was what I needed right now. Thanks you so much for your words and blessing, love you so much and hope you the best ♥️ beautiful soul journey
I literally went throught so much of what you said! Thank you! God bless you! 🙏🏻🌸
Let’s have a chat…
“once we stop learning and evolving, we stop living.” 🙏🏽
To anyone who's in a really toxic relationship you need to get Outta that asap . Ik it's not easy because of closeness but u need to start detaching yourself from toxicity . It's in your hands if you wanna make it a routine or make it a lesson . I just came outta my toxic relationship . I was disrespected by getting cheated on twice . Valuing yourself should be your top priority . You'll get over it ❤
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Thank you for your words and being real in your advice. ❣️
I've never commented on her videos, but I have to say this. She's an amazing soul and her words really do make an impact. Sometimes we may think it's common sense, but hearing it from Liz with her delivery is just what we need for us to absorb what she says. Just my most favorite youtuber ever, and if I may say, hope to meet her one day. ❤
🙏🙏🙏
at this point i'm convinced she is a psychic 💀 the timing of this video is immaculate.
Swear!!!!!
"wizard Liz"
She is goddess i can feel her aura
Liz you've saved me literally so many times, thank you so much I'm finally healing all thanks to you❤
@@AL-qj9yh Okay and? It literally doesn't matter even if they are empty words, they helped her and that's what matters
@@AL-qj9yh with the help of her experience. Maybe start thinking from a rational pov and stop projecting your hatred. In the end of the day if its not her it'd be another person who says this stuff and helps the person who commented.
Your passion to help others understand how to become the best version of themselves speaks VOLUMES and is so insanely impactful.
Liz, you’re really speaking to me in this video. I needed this reality slap ❤
Im literally on verge of tears cause it’s literally what I had to hear and I’m so thankful for it liz
you are seriously a life saver, liz. i never knew how to properly love myself or make myself understand that there are certain places and times where i am not wanted or needed, and that's okay. you make me realize that there's so much more to learn! thank you
girl never apologize for how you look , you always look so beautiful, elegant and clean ppl would kill to look like you “not dressed up”
I just had a lot of toxic people exit my life and for some reason I was still feeling bad and lonely but now I know my life purpose and what I should be doing.. This literally helped me so much I can't even exaplain.
. Thanks a lot Liz😘
I just literally woke up , brushed my teeth, turned on youtube, saw this video title, I am almost finished watching your video, i neeeeeeded to here this!! oh my god I needed this. You made so many good points . Thank you. Currently trying to keep my narcissist ex blocked & I get really sad late at night & feel the urge to contact him even though I cannot do it anymore. He's such a cruel person. I have to get him out of my life though to allow the opportunity for someone who treats me better.
I’m with you! Letting go of toxic people
This arrived to me at an impressively perfect time. Tell you what, i’ve been manifesting since some months ago a big positive change in my life. To be more specific, I wanna leave the city i’m currently in and start a complete new life, but for doing so, i’m completely aware I need to de-attach from everyone and everything here. Because if I don’t do that, then I know the universe won’t give me better things.
This was inspiring and a signal for me, because I know that day is arriving sooner than I expect. Thank you liz 💕
I said the same omg❤❤❤
I literally am going through the same thing!!!!!❤
Thank you Liz, thank you so much. I have evolved for the past 3 years watching your videos. You will see me evolve more. Lysm
I’m going to be taking this as a sign from the Universe. For years I have been at a very toxic training academy where I always feel comfortable since it’s nothing new. Recently, I’ve been considering leaving as they’re not holding anything for me, they’re only using me as power and taking everything from me. I now feel ready to leave after watching this video, because everything will align with what is destined for me. Thank you Liz, have an amazing day 💗
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Wish u the best luck in your new beginning 🤍
@@romanaquaiyum3801 Thank you, I'm quite nervous and a little apprehensive at the moment, but I know that it may lead to better things for me. I just have to have faith :) May you have an amazing day
thank you Liz! You couldn't have posted it at a more perfect time than today. I needed this very badly. I feel like I'm at the lowest of my life where nothing's working out for me and everything, everyone who are dear to me are drifting apart more than ever and I'm just not able to let go of them....
really, very grateful for you Liz! Thank you the most :D
I hope you will get out of it👍
I really like your pfp felix>>>> ❤
Saaame!
i can see the pure healer energy in her eyes God bless
Thank you I really needed to hear this, you remind me a lot of a person that is very close to me & would not want to tell me this again ;,(
It’s the truth.
& really appreciate this kind of reminder & assurance.
Very valid & valuable
*As a teen boy I find incredible value in Liz’s content as she helped so so much to channel my authenticity and become SUCH a better and more enthusiastic person. Especially as a youtuber myself authenticity is 🔑*
The fact I was crying and literally begging for him to stay. This video appeared 9 days after and I’m astonished by your words my tears left and I started to think on your wise words Liz Thankyou for your positive energy 🥺❤️when I needed it
Nothing more painful than begging for someone to stay and they turn their back on you. Or make you feel pathetic for doing so. No one is worth that and they have shown they don’t deserve you. Please stay strong and realize you are worth more. Sending love ❤️❤️
Same pain here, im begging him to cameback but now i needed this video to be heard
Hey ! How are you feeling now ? Sending lots of hugs ❤stay strong xx
Sending alot of love I know this feeling noone deserve to beg for bare minimum 😢
@@JustABoy98 seriously 😭 especially if that person has made it clear that they can’t even do that
thank you so much for talking this situation. its help me to values myself more than keep thinking to the toxic relationship..
I love this video, and her energy!! Truly appreciated. ❤️❤️❤️
I started to treat myself better...I stopped with "what if" or feeling bad for saying No.
It's been a month now and it feels great really.
Thank you liz for posting this!
Let's Value ourselves ❤
'Those peoople are NOT powerful without YOUR energy you gave to them' WISE WISE WORDS!
Thank you so much for all of what you tried to make us understand, the way you were talking shows the importance of letting go 🌸
Let’s have a chat…
Liz really gives these very valuable advices that could really one day change someone's life as how it did to mine today.
thank you so much, you encourage me to be a better version of myself and value myself ❤️
@@AL-qj9yhwhat do you mean
@@jjbaenthusiast That's just a toxic man trying to stop us from growing, just ignore him
I want to say thank you so much you are like a big sister for me. I used to be very people pleaser and sensitive person and peoples literally use me so many time but now Just because of you I start changing my self.💗
@@AL-qj9yh I prefer this liar than the other liars I have had in my life then😂 at least this liar helps me and doesn't drown me 😂
@@AL-qj9yh okay then tell me something about she lie? And I will be agree with you.
She's incredible. Thank you 🙏🏼
Those people are not powerful without your energy that you gave to them"" Wow!! that statement hit home. am definitely taking my power back.
Liz please make a video on how can you become smart and clever enough to deal with any kind of people, how can you become intelligent especially socially and in life as well. Please guys like this comment if you agree cuz i really need help from her and you guys, if you have any advices and suggestions I'd love to listen ❤.
I just wanna know how did she know that I need this right now 😭😭
FRRRRR she has cameras watching us Istg 😭
I was feeling so down about letting go until I see this notification ,I really started crying 😭😭😭
me too
@@lost__soul.42 right, after years of overthinking, I was just thinking "So dumb, it has served me of nothing, it is dumb, it is completely gone by now, I need to let go " 😂😂😂 and then this about letting go appears
Idk either 😭😭😭😭😭
I am 15 and actually I was going through a lot and she was my life saver . She helped me to overcome my fear , to bring my confidence back she was a soul reason for me to keep believing in myself and loving myself .
Thank you for everything Ma'am
Thank you ....
Liz, you found the self image that i had lost so so long ago. You gave me the power to realize a life I didn’t think I could have. I love you queen. It’s giving Selena 💕👑