My Grandmother used to say when a guy truly likes you. He will do any and everything for you. He will never tell you NO. Basically he will jump over the moon for you.Walk through piles of sht for you. The works! And that's why u wait. A loser or liar can't keep this fasad up for long. They break quick because they really don't like you.A man who genuinely likes you doesn't EVER stop trying to impress you. End of story!
Til' Jerusalem_I'mNobody why is there always a man who comments something hotep like this in order to be combative. Yes, you should be equally yolked but why can’t you just agree with the comment and move on.
It’s deleted ahah ! Only positivity my Angel 😇 you’re so right !!! We don’t argue with those people we just remove them 👸🏽🧡 not everyone will or can understand. Leave them where they are at 😘
Your mother should be so proud of you. As a mother to a young girl, I am saving this video and plan to show it to her. Never take it down. You are wise beyond your years.
You can get all the information but you’ve got to FEEL it to properly understand. So it’s good you went through what you did. Now you can apply these tactics accordingly and understand why you are doing it 💅🏽
I was genuinely such a nice person to this guy. I was very naive and stupid. And it ended horribly I desperately want to keep my integrity. I got so hurt and felt so manipulated by this dude. He definitely played with the fact that I was so naive. He’s a horrible person
ugh :'( when I tell you I get it babe, I get it trust and believe me!!!! It hurts!! but !!! only victims let things jade them! bounce back, best revenge is success and looking even better and genuinely doing better because , people can sense a genuine true change in you when that happens.time heals all babe ❤️
1. Mental stability 2. Express your needs & desires 3. Have a roster 4. Emotional insurance 5. Don't confuse commitment with companionship (get specific answers from these men)
Pulled it together amd got rid of him.last week after 3 years of thinking I was good enough, trying to please..not getting much in return..done.tired.moving on.
Things my mom has never taught me and it’s been a long, tiring, hurtful ride learning from making nothing but bad choices with men. Coming across ppl like you and Shera over the last 3wks has been extremely eye opening. A former pick me and bob the builder chick that has become a woman with high standards and investments from men and no longer accepts b.s. and sex in the first few dates. Thank you💄💄💄
Oh babe ! This comment touched my heart. I am SO PROUD of you !!!!! And so happy you discovered this channel as well!! We are all on this journey together !!!! 👸🏽🧡
Banks Banks lol even if you’re married your partner could act single 😂 The only difference is that it’s harder to get out of marriage plus there’s a 3rd party involved.
@@godlovesme8115 no it's not about "acting" a certain way, if your not married ya'll are nothing but just a label , if your married you get spiritually connected
I was talking to my little sister tonight and I found out that she knew all of this stuff (she has a long term bf who buys her expensive gifts even though they are both only 18). I am sad that I didn’t know all of this until now and that she knew more than me, but I am glad that she doesn’t have to go through everything I’ve been through.
I dont wanna sound arrogant or something but i knew all of this when i was 14-15 and i was really surprised when i see so mush people struggling with this cuz i thought this is how women normally behave towards men
Some people just have a bigger heart (in which they always think for others) and that’s not your fault ^^ you did good and that’s enough! Move one, if this one cannot give back to you what you have given them, OTHERS WILL!! And even BETTER!!
See I stay high so it doesn't phase me to smoke with them LOL but do not go home alone with them for sure always stay in a group with another girl and in public they always trying to trap you
Honestly being single is the best feeling ever. I don’t know about anybody else but when I was single I felt so free and happy not having to worry about anybody else. Coincidentally some dude came into my DM‘s and was claiming that he was trying to get to know me but I’m kind of over him now.
Girl same!!! I didnt even wanna be with him at first but after his pushing I gave in After a year of mistreatment and manipulation I asked him why he wanted to be in a relationship so badly and he said "girls usually don't wanna have sex when they're not in a relationship" I even stayed for 1,5 more years after that 🤦♀️
Yesss!! The phone call thing is sooo true! I don’t want a text relationship PERIOD. It’s so funny that I just told my ex the same thing. I DONT WANT A PENPAL 🙄 Never again.
Ok but seriously, the fact that I was so engaged in this video that I hadn’t even realized it was nearly 50 minutes long says a lot, love it ❤️ Your videos are so refreshing
I am saving myself for marriage all over again. I've been happily divorced for 10 years. I can definitely be without sex. I want stability and after I sleep with the man knowing he is my husband. I also want to make sure my man is coming home to me every night.
Me too! I've been celibate for over a year. Saving my emotions and physical pleasure for someone who loves me and respects me as much as I love myself.
This video is such a blessing!!! I was liking a guy hard until I saw this video!!! The standards are raised!!! No textship. No more sex until an emotional investment is set. No more situationships!!! Dates and gifts!!! No more buidling someone up to be disappointed!!! High value behavior!!!
You are absolutely right. I have been nice to guys and try not to make them spend too much money on me, was really nice to them and none of them appreciated me. But I didn't take any crap, when I saw that I wasn't been appreciated I left. From now on I will only date guys that treat me the way I deserve and spend money on me and appreciate me. Otherwise they can go to hell. You are very wise and knowledgeable,. You are amazing! keep it up!
I’m 21 and I just got played after investing so much for the first time. I’m here to deal with it all, not be jaded and to stay classy always. Thank you Asha. You are the kind of level up I needed.
I had to comment again lol, So when I date someone new I've been doing exactly what you said, telling the guy that I like when a man provides for a woman. I've been going out with guys who are too young, so most have been saying something like, "Oh I'm too broke for that, she has to be a career woman for me." Most are open about it so they don't get any calls back from me. SO TRUE that you should say what you want in the beginning and look at the response. I've wasted so much time in the past by not doing that!! It's a great way to move on quickly.
Guys are hip now, they're trying to rush a title within a week, (but not social media update) which is laughable all the way around. He then said, "what do u have to loose? "If it doesn't work out we'll break up." Trying to sleep w me after a week. Lord jesus. When I said no, he said "I'll never bother you again."
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR PATIENCE ANGELS!!!! EAT SOME DINNER, GRAB A SNACK, AND ENJOYYY!!!😉. I NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET A FASTER UPLOAD haha. BE SURE TO GIVE THIS VIDEO A THUMBS UP!!!!!! I hope you guys enjoy !!! TURN ON YOUR POST NOTIFICATIONS !!!! I LOVE YOU A TEAM!!!!👸🏽😘❤️
After 2 1/2 years I can finally take a deep breathe and say it loud “ he doesn’t love me or care for me, let him go”. I clicked on this video not expecting to get the clarity I needed.Our relationship or whatever we had started off bad from the get go I realize just now I can’t keep outweighing that one beautiful memory over all the bad memories and comments I have from him. Thank you for uplifting my spirit and empowering me to be the beautiful rose I know I am. We are the treasure the prized possession and I need to start acting like I am a catch .💄💄💄💄
Wow I felt this so much babe :/ I think that so important to heal!!! I am the same way where I will say something out loud even if ur hurts but it’s the truth to help me In whatever the situation is ♥️♥️♥️
Wow I felt this so much babe :/ I think that so important to heal!!! I am the same way where I will say something out loud even if ur hurts but it’s the truth to help me In whatever the situation is ♥️♥️♥️
Asha C. Thank you for responding you are so beautiful and humble! I am telling every women I know about you! Thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us! Positive energy and god bless you always! ✨
I most definitely agree with number one I’m texting this guy and he was trying to say we’re gonna do sexual things and I told him no we’re not then he brought it up again and I basically told him don’t talk to me in that type of way, u gotta let guys know their gonna respect u if not then bye. So when dating I shouldn’t kiss the guy either ? 💄💄
I hear you sis .. just as long as you aren't being pretentious .. keep in mind that while you can have that respect, try not 2 get sidetracked and in your feelings , if and when you find out that , you aren't the only date/"hangout" partner ... everything is everything or it is nothing .
Great question babe, it honestly depends on you, I personally do not kiss on first couple of dates I just simply don’t want to nor do I feel comfortable, but that’s just me! I think in general kissing it ok but still keep it classy never just tongue it down so soon ! Be tasteful ! 😉🧡
You don’t sound to sure & that isn’t a good sign.. GAGE YOURRRR STANDARDS!!! Really think about what you want & when you want. Always be intentional. If you know you don’t want to have sex right away, then don’t kiss because we all know what that leads to. It all starts with you! Don’t let him or anyone else sway your focus. Best of luck 💜
Thank you Asha! And I love are_you_a_basic_chick IG page too. I've been celibate for 5 years now and I just cant give my body away like I did in my past. I love myself and my😺to much to do that.
This definitely hit home as soon as I heard emotional insurance.. I just thank you for your wisdom & honesty. I didn’t have my mom to tell me the game nor did I have my father in my life. I’m basically winging it on my own & being a complete failure at it. So, I appreciate channels like this to help nurture women & help us out. Thank you soo much Asha! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 new subbie! 💄💄
I could see your tears in your eyes from the start till the end of the video... I could understand your pain while you teach to others... Its really a great video.. for one and all woman out there... !!! Bless you dear for an eyeopening video posts like this !!! I am a continuous watcher for your videos. !!!
This gave me the clarity I needed I have been in a "situationship" for 3 years now and after this video I'm focusing on myself and putting myself first. Your such an inspiration to me❤️ 💄
I wish I would have discovered your page years ago. You're so smart, and what you teach is basically common sense. Women just tend to look over, due to thinking with their bodies, and emotions. I always felt that I had to prove myself, to unworthy men in the past, but now my self esteem has risen so much. You can't keep doing the same old same negative behavior, and expect positive results. Thx so much and Please, keep these videos coming. Much❤
ASHA JUST DEBUNKED and explain to me everything i needed to hear thanks so muchhhhh I wish I had someone to explain this to me before I made stupid mistakes and got hurt ..... ThANKKKKK YOUUU SO MUCHHHHHHHHH💝😇
Thank you SO much, I almost cried at the end when you looked at the camera and said that we are all quality queens....we need more women like this, spreading this message of value... self-worth...we are the PRIZE and we run the game how WE want. Stop letting these men dictate to you the terms and conditions of your life, stop bending over backwards to get their approval and beg them to finally see that you are worth it...you ARE worth it because you ARE the prize...just by being alive and existing. You don't owe anybody anything, make these men WORK for you and CHASE you...with a sly smile as you stay winning no matter the outcome.
i'm in fucking loveeee sis. This advice is so needed for even the smartest women cause our emotions and impulses be running us wild. Breaking down the science and steps to keep in mind make it that much easier to stay focused. Thank you so much Asha!!
💄 I'm 16 years old and a lot of these tips are really helpful I wish I would have stumbled across your videos a lot sooner. I've sent this multiple of my friends and family members
Please never stop with the videos, ive been binge watching your videos and all of them are the best advice every girl needs to hear! You're so intelligent and beautiful, cant wait to see where you go!
You havn't reached 500,000 subs yet? Girl you're so smart and high value. I love your mindset and I always think like you do about how to position and value myself. I don't settle for less even I'm lonely. A guy cannot play you unless you let him so! Air hug from Thailand
Thank you so much for this video. I grew up in a strict Christian home where my parents taught me to be modest and wait until marriage. I didn’t date in high school so I came into college naive, and I made a lot of mistakes. I hate how I am watching this video at age twenty after two and a half years of college, learning what I should’ve known a long time ago. I know it’s better late than never, and I am glad that I found out now instead of later. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, this will change my life forever.
I find myself actually nodding my head in agreement with everything she's saying.like I feel she was directly talking to me. so happy I found this video
I am so happy that women and men today are spreading messages like this out to women. It’s lightworker’s work, that gradually reforms a new and better world.
I’ve been going through a hard time with a situation and you’ve answered so many of my questions. I truly believe God brought me to your channel. New subscriber here and I’ll be stopping by on a regular basis. Thank you girl! God bless you! 💄💄❤️
I turn 32 next month and I decided that I was done with the caliber of men that I have been attracting and that I deserve so much more. I have been working on myself for a few years now, and I happened to find your channel. I feel like it was a sign from the universe, bc I was feeling very lost on the how, even though I know what type of man I want to be in a relationship with. After I watched a couple of your other vids, I felt so empowered and loved by your advice. I wish my mother would have had these discussions with me, but I will chop it up as lessons learned and now I not only know better, but I feel confident to do better also. Thank you so much and keep up the amazing message.
#3, I always believed in this. I agree with this one especially not being physically intimate. I agree speaking to more than one or having your OPTIONS open until you get engaged and that man shows you your the only one. Your correct about them speaking or dating more than one woman.
Love you. Trying to level up myself. Have made a lot of mistakes and working through shame. But us women are powerful, resilient, and pressure makes diamonds. Thank you 💄
I just want to say I've been feeling uncomfortably obsessive lately, and I've been trying to relax but for the life of me I just could not get a hold of myself. Thank you for the information you share. It clears things up, it eases the pain of letting go.
I love the advice u give these girls. I’m 30 and I could have used this advice earlier.. instead I learned through trial and error. Anyway, you’re lovely babe ❤️
Can you do a video educating us young ladies about sex? I think you would do good with a Sex ed video cause so many girls give themselves up to the wrong guys. It would be helpful especially to virgins!
Wait till you're at least 18! You will not enjoy it if you do it early (cos guys are not experienced, pushy, you're not mentally ready, it will be disappointing, bad associations with sex will be stuck with you for long and influence your future intimate life in a negative way, the earlier you loose virginity the more painful it will be, etc.). That's number one advice for younger girls. Every sexologist would suggest waiting till 18.
O Love please wait. I am very proud of you. I saved myself for my 1st marriage when I was 19.5 years of age. We didn't work out as we divorced 5 years later. The best thing has came out is our son. I've been happily divorced for almost 10 full years and saving myself for marriage since a lot of men these days BULL Shit to get into your pants. So please wait for marriage you will feel better waking up next to your husband and knowing your man will come home at end of the day. Save your health and beauty for a good future hubby!!!
I agree you do become more vulnerable when you’re not at a strong mental state. I’ve experienced that numerous of times jumping into situations knowing I mentally and emotionally wasn’t strong enough for it. Word of advice NEVER jump into ANYTHING until you are strong enough! If not you’ll get the short end of the stick every time
Love this channel!! This should be a class Freshman year at college!! I feel so ugh that I’m just learning all this so late in life as my mom didn’t tell me anything. She just kinda checked out on this whole game. So I knew nothing!! Lol. But I hope that now that I know... I can reprogram myself and level up. 💄💄💄
That man who congratulated you thinks in black and white only, I've know some people like that and it's sad they're not open minded. You're so right that some people are incapable of seeing themselves. Thank you for this, these videos are just incredible.
Omgosh you are so sweet and honestly you’re right he is so ridiculous I’m laughing at the fact I ever gave him the time of day! Ugh I can’t wait for you guys to see my story time video ! It’s about him !
I grew up not having a good relationship with my mother. I never learnt these things. I had standards, but believe me I wish I knew all this advice from back then. It would have saved me a lot of hurt and heartbreak. 💄💄💄
💄I enjoyed this and it really opened my eyes a about my situation and I realised that I need to place myself on a certain pedestal and wait and see who is able to meet me there. No more settling
I'm honestly so thankful I have the father that I did, because he told and showed me how to be treated when interacting with my mom. I've never allowed myself to get played because of this, and dodged so many bullets. This video is crucial for women to learn, especially when they don't have a close and open relationship with a responsible father.
My Grandmother used to say when a guy truly likes you. He will do any and everything for you. He will never tell you NO. Basically he will jump over the moon for you.Walk through piles of sht for you. The works! And that's why u wait. A loser or liar can't keep this fasad up for long. They break quick because they really don't like you.A man who genuinely likes you doesn't EVER stop trying to impress you. End of story!
Raquel The One and Only and your grandmother is 100% correct. I stand by that.
Til' Jerusalem_I'mNobody why is there always a man who comments something hotep like this in order to be combative. Yes, you should be equally yolked but why can’t you just agree with the comment and move on.
It’s deleted ahah ! Only positivity my Angel 😇 you’re so right !!! We don’t argue with those people we just remove them 👸🏽🧡 not everyone will or can understand. Leave them where they are at 😘
Oh babe you are SO on point with this comment !!! And grandma is sooo wise 🧡☺️👸🏽
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5. Do not confuse COMMITMENT with COMPANIONSHIP! 👍👍👍
Your mother should be so proud of you. As a mother to a young girl, I am saving this video and plan to show it to her. Never take it down. You are wise beyond your years.
OrganicallyNique yes! I watch this almost every other week
Same here my daughter is a baby rn, but I wanna share to her when she's a teenager.
Or you can download/save the video.
Yes she is!
She's so cut throat and blatantly honest. Goalssssss
I WISH I seen this video as an 18 year old girl. I could've saved myself years of heartache. Amazing advice. 👌
Thank you babe !!!!!☺️🧡
You can get all the information but you’ve got to FEEL it to properly understand. So it’s good you went through what you did. Now you can apply these tactics accordingly and understand why you are doing it 💅🏽
BeautifullyMade 0627 🙌🙌🙌🙌 I knooooow right!
BeautifullyMade 0627 girl SAMEEEE!!!!
But those years of heartache taught you valuable lessons as well. They suck and hurt, but be grateful that you grew from that pain.
I was genuinely such a nice person to this guy. I was very naive and stupid. And it ended horribly I desperately want to keep my integrity. I got so hurt and felt so manipulated by this dude. He definitely played with the fact that I was so naive. He’s a horrible person
ugh :'( when I tell you I get it babe, I get it trust and believe me!!!! It hurts!! but !!! only victims let things jade them! bounce back, best revenge is success and looking even better and genuinely doing better because , people can sense a genuine true change in you when that happens.time heals all babe ❤️
I hear ya it is awful believe me I know. You come out stronger and learn to value yourself. Also recognize those men sooner and avoid em.
1. Mental stability 2. Express your needs & desires 3. Have a roster 4. Emotional insurance 5. Don't confuse commitment with companionship (get specific answers from these men)
Pulled it together amd got rid of him.last week after 3 years of thinking I was good enough, trying to please..not getting much in return..done.tired.moving on.
Good for you babe !
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@ ladyluck... I’m glad you decided that YOU. Really are a queen and deserve the best ...
You are so brave, strong and deserve to be treated like the queen you are! Never forget that! ❤️
Things my mom has never taught me and it’s been a long, tiring, hurtful ride learning from making nothing but bad choices with men. Coming across ppl like you and Shera over the last 3wks has been extremely eye opening. A former pick me and bob the builder chick that has become a woman with high standards and investments from men and no longer accepts b.s. and sex in the first few dates. Thank you💄💄💄
Oh babe ! This comment touched my heart. I am SO PROUD of you !!!!! And so happy you discovered this channel as well!! We are all on this journey together !!!! 👸🏽🧡
Christina Walthall Me toooo shera and Asha really got me changing. No more pick me and bob the builder mindset for me 💯💯
Christina Walthall same I went through hell from 15-19 I’m still 19 now
Same. I am 20. Never again.
Same here
Be better. Never bitter. 💖
Always !!!!😉😇👸🏽
Lol Pauly D
Mental stability is KEY!
Your single until u married actually
I have heard this before ! Interesting concept !
Banks Banks token motto💓
Banks Banks lol even if you’re married your partner could act single 😂
The only difference is that it’s harder to get out of marriage plus there’s a 3rd party involved.
@@godlovesme8115 no it's not about "acting" a certain way, if your not married ya'll are nothing but just a label , if your married you get spiritually connected
MelaninBarrGoodness exactly!Nothing to do with acting or not
I was talking to my little sister tonight and I found out that she knew all of this stuff (she has a long term bf who buys her expensive gifts even though they are both only 18). I am sad that I didn’t know all of this until now and that she knew more than me, but I am glad that she doesn’t have to go through everything I’ve been through.
I dont wanna sound arrogant or something but i knew all of this when i was 14-15 and i was really surprised when i see so mush people struggling with this cuz i thought this is how women normally behave towards men
Some people just have a bigger heart (in which they always think for others) and that’s not your fault ^^ you did good and that’s enough! Move one, if this one cannot give back to you what you have given them, OTHERS WILL!! And even BETTER!!
Girl where were you 4 years ago? I'm leveling up! Thank you!
Ugh I wish I was this way 4 years ago ugh gosh !!!! 😇
Please write a book and make that 💸💸💵 because all your speaking is facts and I will 100% support 🥰
Cynthia Mumbaya I would soooo buy her book if she wrote one! Great idea!
Right!!!! An audiobook would be love!!!
Omgosh I would totally consider this !!!!!!
Cynthia Mumbaya I'd have anything with her name on it on preorder💕
SAMEEEE
Sis please do High School talks. You’ll save so much young girls!
Yes I’m starting a series on my chance for that !!!!
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YES PLEASE I NEED THIS.
Know your worth ladies and add tax to it!
KrissyBeYou yasss breeny !!!
Love it!
“I don’t know” “maybe” if you hear those from your “men” they see you as EXACTLY that. A maybe, an I don’t know. DROP EM SIS💋💋💋
OMG another tip is to not drink excessively or get really high around men and where you choose to be with them. Public always
See I stay high so it doesn't phase me to smoke with them LOL but do not go home alone with them for sure always stay in a group with another girl and in public they always trying to trap you
Honestly being single is the best feeling ever. I don’t know about anybody else but when I was single I felt so free and happy not having to worry about anybody else. Coincidentally some dude came into my DM‘s and was claiming that he was trying to get to know me but I’m kind of over him now.
I’m building a roster all 2019, because these young men a mess
Joy Coleee 😂😂😂👌👌same here. You made me laugh. I soo needed this.
Joy Coleee rigghhttt🤣
PERIODT
But is a roster what you want?
Haha
The worst part about my situation is he pressured the relationship but once we got into one he did not treat it like it was one
Girl same!!! I didnt even wanna be with him at first but after his pushing I gave in
After a year of mistreatment and manipulation I asked him why he wanted to be in a relationship so badly and he said "girls usually don't wanna have sex when they're not in a relationship"
I even stayed for 1,5 more years after that 🤦♀️
💄 I'm 47 and you have learned in such a short time what took me years to learn and realize. Loving your channel.
Amen! Am 49 and now learning the hard way!
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"Date with a purpose" 💕
She spit nothing but straight facts! So empowering. I absolutely loveee this channel
Jasmine Raullerson so happy I found her I relate on that loyalty and growing damn know it too well.
Jasmine Raullerson literally addicted💕💕💕
@@HONEYBAEFR Yasss me too! her videos be on point! She has helped me so much. I can't wait for her and bellabarz to do a meet & greet
Yesss!! The phone call thing is sooo true! I don’t want a text relationship PERIOD. It’s so funny that I just told my ex the same thing. I DONT WANT A PENPAL 🙄 Never again.
Ok but seriously, the fact that I was so engaged in this video that I hadn’t even realized it was nearly 50 minutes long says a lot, love it ❤️ Your videos are so refreshing
Omgosh wow thank you SO MUCH !!!!☺️👸🏽🧡
It was 50 minutes?! Lol i had to go check to make sure it didnt even feel lile it
Phone calls matter!! 🗣💋👂🏾
I am saving myself for marriage all over again. I've been happily divorced for 10 years. I can definitely be without sex. I want stability and after I sleep with the man knowing he is my husband. I also want to make sure my man is coming home to me every night.
Me too! I've been celibate for over a year. Saving my emotions and physical pleasure for someone who loves me and respects me as much as I love myself.
Right I don’t understand people who feel like they need sex. It’s wierd
Xieria Tomlinson yaaayyy!!! You can do it. Happy for you..🙌👏👌👑🙂💜
Aris Romero very proud of you!!!🙌👏
Good for you👏🏾
This video is such a blessing!!! I was liking a guy hard until I saw this video!!! The standards are raised!!! No textship. No more sex until an emotional investment is set. No more situationships!!! Dates and gifts!!! No more buidling someone up to be disappointed!!! High value behavior!!!
You are absolutely right. I have been nice to guys and try not to make them spend too much money on me, was really nice to them and none of them appreciated me. But I didn't take any crap, when I saw that I wasn't been appreciated I left. From now on I will only date guys that treat me the way I deserve and spend money on me and appreciate me. Otherwise they can go to hell.
You are very wise and knowledgeable,. You are amazing! keep it up!
I’m 21 and I just got played after investing so much for the first time. I’m here to deal with it all, not be jaded and to stay classy always. Thank you Asha. You are the kind of level up I needed.
I had to comment again lol, So when I date someone new I've been doing exactly what you said, telling the guy that I like when a man provides for a woman. I've been going out with guys who are too young, so most have been saying something like, "Oh I'm too broke for that, she has to be a career woman for me." Most are open about it so they don't get any calls back from me. SO TRUE that you should say what you want in the beginning and look at the response. I've wasted so much time in the past by not doing that!! It's a great way to move on quickly.
I’m so happy you learned babe ! 🧡
Not only that being straight forward removes toxic pple away quickly.🤷🏽♀️
Guys are hip now, they're trying to rush a title within a week, (but not social media update) which is laughable all the way around.
He then said, "what do u have to loose? "If it doesn't work out we'll break up." Trying to sleep w me after a week.
Lord jesus. When I said no, he said "I'll never bother you again."
autumn cullen they call themselves “boyfriends” 😂😂
Thank you for being the big sister I didn’t know I needed 😊☺️
When you said "It ends today" I shook my head like yes, yes it does! ♡♡
Oh yes babe !!!! 🤗☺️
I love that you're Christian as well I find you very relatable
Awww thank you so much !!!! ☺️🧡👸🏽
For you impatient ones, title related content starts at 6:52 🙂
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR PATIENCE ANGELS!!!! EAT SOME DINNER, GRAB A SNACK, AND ENJOYYY!!!😉. I NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET A FASTER UPLOAD haha. BE SURE TO GIVE THIS VIDEO A THUMBS UP!!!!!! I hope you guys enjoy !!! TURN ON YOUR POST NOTIFICATIONS !!!! I LOVE YOU A TEAM!!!!👸🏽😘❤️
Hi I just discovered your channel nice topics
I think you should update your instagram handle so people can know it changed.
Love love you! Especially when you talk about mental stability!!!
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You never put the IG link where you got that info about men in your video
After 2 1/2 years I can finally take a deep breathe and say it loud “ he doesn’t love me or care for me, let him go”. I clicked on this video not expecting to get the clarity I needed.Our relationship or whatever we had started off bad from the get go I realize just now I can’t keep outweighing that one beautiful memory over all the bad memories and comments I have from him. Thank you for uplifting my spirit and empowering me to be the beautiful rose I know I am. We are the treasure the prized possession and I need to start acting like I am a catch .💄💄💄💄
Wow I felt this so much babe :/ I think that so important to heal!!! I am the same way where I will say something out loud even if ur hurts but it’s the truth to help me In whatever the situation is ♥️♥️♥️
Wow I felt this so much babe :/ I think that so important to heal!!! I am the same way where I will say something out loud even if ur hurts but it’s the truth to help me In whatever the situation is ♥️♥️♥️
Asha C. Thank you for responding you are so beautiful and humble! I am telling every women I know about you! Thanks for sharing your wisdom with all of us! Positive energy and god bless you always! ✨
I most definitely agree with number one I’m texting this guy and he was trying to say we’re gonna do sexual things and I told him no we’re not then he brought it up again and I basically told him don’t talk to me in that type of way, u gotta let guys know their gonna respect u if not then bye. So when dating I shouldn’t kiss the guy either ? 💄💄
I hear you sis .. just as long as you aren't being pretentious .. keep in mind that while you can have that respect, try not 2 get sidetracked and in your feelings , if and when you find out that , you aren't the only date/"hangout" partner ...
everything is everything or it is nothing .
Great question babe, it honestly depends on you, I personally do not kiss on first couple of dates I just simply don’t want to nor do I feel comfortable, but that’s just me! I think in general kissing it ok but still keep it classy never just tongue it down so soon ! Be tasteful ! 😉🧡
Asha C. Okay I see lol
what's more important finding out if you're dealing with a sociopath or kissing him? would you kiss a sociopath?
You don’t sound to sure & that isn’t a good sign.. GAGE YOURRRR STANDARDS!!! Really think about what you want & when you want. Always be intentional. If you know you don’t want to have sex right away, then don’t kiss because we all know what that leads to. It all starts with you! Don’t let him or anyone else sway your focus. Best of luck 💜
I am simultaneously being roasted and encouraged and I love it
Thank you Asha! And I love are_you_a_basic_chick IG page too. I've been celibate for 5 years now and I just cant give my body away like I did in my past. I love myself and my😺to much to do that.
Good for u boo boo ❤️
Congrats it's been 4 yrs for me. 👏👏👏
And I'm still a virgin as well. Never giving it up
Chelsea Symone yes !
Hahaha! Your virginity seems a revange. Make sure, absolutly sure he is a virgin too, otherwise he doesn' t deserve it.
Never 🤣
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This definitely hit home as soon as I heard emotional insurance.. I just thank you for your wisdom & honesty. I didn’t have my mom to tell me the game nor did I have my father in my life. I’m basically winging it on my own & being a complete failure at it. So, I appreciate channels like this to help nurture women & help us out. Thank you soo much Asha! 🙏🏾🙏🏾 new subbie! 💄💄
Welcome to the A team babe !!!!!
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You Are A Gem. Thank
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I am Praying You Stay Strong and Purposeful!
Thank you so much 🤗 this means so much to me !!!!
The big sis I didn’t know I needed 💯💯
Hiii little sister !!! 👸🏽☺️🧡
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I could see your tears in your eyes from the start till the end of the video... I could understand your pain while you teach to others... Its really a great video.. for one and all woman out there... !!! Bless you dear for an eyeopening video posts like this !!! I am a continuous watcher for your videos. !!!
This gave me the clarity I needed I have been in a "situationship" for 3 years now and after this video I'm focusing on myself and putting myself first. Your such an inspiration to me❤️ 💄
Happy to help babe 🥰🤗
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you DO NOT know how many barriers you just broke w one simple sentence..
*" it ENDS today "*
thank you for creating Quality Queens👸🏾😍😝 #ATeam
Omgosh I felt this ! I’m so happy to help me love !!!!! 🥰🧡❤️
You literally have me tearing up because the majority of these subjects touch home for me. Thank you! Continue to empower women all over💜💜💜💄💄
Awwww babe :/ this touched my heart !!!! Wish I could hug you !!!!! 👸🏽🧡
@@AshaChristinaFoster 💜💜💜 love you already.! I'm supporting you 100 percent. New subscriber 💜💜💜💜
Kara Mcqueen I love you too Angel ! welcome to the A team !!!! 🤗🧡👸🏽
You just preached a Sunday message and all I can say Amen 🙏🏽
My first thought was “wtf 47.3 min" but everything you said was absolutely true. I’m happy you shared so more women can be more aware. 💄💄💋
😂😂😂 I’m glad you gave it a chance babe 🧡👸🏽
I wish I would have discovered your page years ago. You're so smart, and what you teach is basically common sense. Women just tend to look over, due to thinking with their bodies, and emotions. I always felt that I had to prove myself, to unworthy men in the past, but now my self esteem has risen so much. You can't keep doing the same old same negative behavior, and expect positive results. Thx so much and Please, keep these videos coming. Much❤
ASHA JUST DEBUNKED and explain to me everything i needed to hear thanks so muchhhhh I wish I had someone to explain this to me before I made stupid mistakes and got hurt ..... ThANKKKKK YOUUU SO MUCHHHHHHHHH💝😇
Babe you are more than welcome !!!!!! I’m just so happy to help !!!! Seriously !!!! 🧡👸🏽
Thank you SO much, I almost cried at the end when you looked at the camera and said that we are all quality queens....we need more women like this, spreading this message of value... self-worth...we are the PRIZE and we run the game how WE want. Stop letting these men dictate to you the terms and conditions of your life, stop bending over backwards to get their approval and beg them to finally see that you are worth it...you ARE worth it because you ARE the prize...just by being alive and existing. You don't owe anybody anything, make these men WORK for you and CHASE you...with a sly smile as you stay winning no matter the outcome.
i'm in fucking loveeee sis. This advice is so needed for even the smartest women cause our emotions and impulses be running us wild. Breaking down the science and steps to keep in mind make it that much easier to stay focused. Thank you so much Asha!!
Respect ladies by heart
💄 I'm 16 years old and a lot of these tips are really helpful I wish I would have stumbled across your videos a lot sooner. I've sent this multiple of my friends and family members
You’re so sassy and I love it 😂
That is how I messed up so many times because I didn't let them work for it. I know now so I can do better in the future.
Please never stop with the videos, ive been binge watching your videos and all of them are the best advice every girl needs to hear! You're so intelligent and beautiful, cant wait to see where you go!
You havn't reached 500,000 subs yet? Girl you're so smart and high value. I love your mindset and I always think like you do about how to position and value myself. I don't settle for less even I'm lonely. A guy cannot play you unless you let him so!
Air hug from Thailand
Thank you so much for this video. I grew up in a strict Christian home where my parents taught me to be modest and wait until marriage. I didn’t date in high school so I came into college naive, and I made a lot of mistakes.
I hate how I am watching this video at age twenty after two and a half years of college, learning what I should’ve known a long time ago. I know it’s better late than never, and I am glad that I found out now instead of later. Thank you for sharing your knowledge, this will change my life forever.
Babe I wish I knew this at 18too :/. We live and learn it’s ok !!!! 22 is still young you can implement it all now !!!!☺️🧡
Also I can relate I was VERY naive because of my up bringing as well:/
I find myself actually nodding my head in agreement with everything she's saying.like I feel she was directly talking to me. so happy I found this video
Awww I’m so happy you found this video too babe !!!☺️🧡
Asha "WOW" your sooo WISE. Thank you. You are so needed for us woman more then you know.💖💖💖 💋💄
I am so happy that women and men today are spreading messages like this out to women. It’s lightworker’s work, that gradually reforms a new and better world.
Im not dating at all... For the rest of this year! I didnt do since so ill be ready with this great advice! Thnx my loves bella 😂& asha👌
I’ve been going through a hard time with a situation and you’ve answered so many of my questions. I truly believe God brought me to your channel. New subscriber here and I’ll be stopping by on a regular basis. Thank you girl! God bless you! 💄💄❤️
"no offense to anyone names bridget" lmaooooo
I had to state that disclaimer !
I turn 32 next month and I decided that I was done with the caliber of men that I have been attracting and that I deserve so much more. I have been working on myself for a few years now, and I happened to find your channel. I feel like it was a sign from the universe, bc I was feeling very lost on the how, even though I know what type of man I want to be in a relationship with. After I watched a couple of your other vids, I felt so empowered and loved by your advice. I wish my mother would have had these discussions with me, but I will chop it up as lessons learned and now I not only know better, but I feel confident to do better also. Thank you so much and keep up the amazing message.
#3, I always believed in this. I agree with this one especially not being physically intimate. I agree speaking to more than one or having your OPTIONS open until you get engaged and that man shows you your the only one. Your correct about them speaking or dating more than one woman.
Oh yes babe !!!!! 🧡
Asha C. 💜💜💜
Love you. Trying to level up myself. Have made a lot of mistakes and working through shame. But us women are powerful, resilient, and pressure makes diamonds. Thank you 💄
Good video, I needed to see this. I was giving too much of my energy away and I wasn’t getting the same in return. “It ends today” is right ❤️💄💄
Yes Babe !!!! I’m so happy you saw the video !!!!!! 👸🏽🤗☺️
I just want to say I've been feeling uncomfortably obsessive lately, and I've been trying to relax but for the life of me I just could not get a hold of myself. Thank you for the information you share. It clears things up, it eases the pain of letting go.
I love the red sis‼️❤️😍 love you and thanks for this video! About to grab my popcorn and watch!
Awwww thank you so much babe !!!! Honestly Red has been growing on me lately !!!!! 🥰👸🏽🧡
💄💄 So timely. Me getting played seems impossible now 💀💀💀
Babe me too !!!! It’s not possible !!!!!☺️👸🏽
Yes a dark side to this lifestyle is much needed! It's easy to assume that everything is roses and sunshine but reality is never like that.
Theres a dark side to everything
Pick me Patty and Low Budget Bridget😂😂😂😂
Wow Asha..im shoook!!! This video is an eye opener....i just love your channel...from South Africa❤
Heyyyyyyyy wow Amazing !!!! Thank you so much Angel !!!!!!! ☺️🧡👸🏽
I love the advice u give these girls. I’m 30 and I could have used this advice earlier.. instead I learned through trial and error. Anyway, you’re lovely babe ❤️
You’re an absolute GEM!❤️✨
My mindset just took a whole 360 degree turn.😭❤💄
You literally opened my eyes to so much. I honestly needed this😩.Thank you so much girl!💕 💄💄💄
I wish there was a "LOVE" botton instead of a "like". U keep bringing the REAL. I LOVE IT!🙌😍
Bless your heart for trying to help women from being hurt and dishonored. You are so right on.
When she said it ends today. Lol made me loveee her. 💜💜😘😘
Can you do a video educating us young ladies about sex? I think you would do good with a Sex ed video cause so many girls give themselves up to the wrong guys. It would be helpful especially to virgins!
Wait till you're at least 18! You will not enjoy it if you do it early (cos guys are not experienced, pushy, you're not mentally ready, it will be disappointing, bad associations with sex will be stuck with you for long and influence your future intimate life in a negative way, the earlier you loose virginity the more painful it will be, etc.). That's number one advice for younger girls. Every sexologist would suggest waiting till 18.
sienna I agree! I’m 20 rn 😭
sienna I’m 24 and waiting till marriage.. a lot of these guys pretend they’re waiting too. But definitely wards off men who only want sex.
O Love please wait. I am very proud of you. I saved myself for my 1st marriage when I was 19.5 years of age. We didn't work out as we divorced 5 years later. The best thing has came out is our son. I've been happily divorced for almost 10 full years and saving myself for marriage since a lot of men these days BULL Shit to get into your pants. So please wait for marriage you will feel better waking up next to your husband and knowing your man will come home at end of the day. Save your health and beauty for a good future hubby!!!
I agree you do become more vulnerable when you’re not at a strong mental state. I’ve experienced that numerous of times jumping into situations knowing I mentally and emotionally wasn’t strong enough for it. Word of advice NEVER jump into ANYTHING until you are strong enough! If not you’ll get the short end of the stick every time
Babe this is a word !!!!!! SO TRUE !!!!!!🧡
So young and yet so much wisdom. I swear our parents let us down not teaching us some of these basics. Thank you so much for this. 🙏🏾
Literally have made every one of these mistakes just recently. Have GOT to break the cycle. Thank you for the reality check! 💋
Literally admire your mindset🙌💖💖
Awww 🥰 thank you !!!
Love this channel!! This should be a class Freshman year at college!! I feel so ugh that I’m just learning all this so late in life as my mom didn’t tell me anything. She just kinda checked out on this whole game. So I knew nothing!! Lol. But I hope that now that I know... I can reprogram myself and level up. 💄💄💄
That man who congratulated you thinks in black and white only, I've know some people like that and it's sad they're not open minded. You're so right that some people are incapable of seeing themselves. Thank you for this, these videos are just incredible.
Omgosh you are so sweet and honestly you’re right he is so ridiculous I’m laughing at the fact I ever gave him the time of day! Ugh I can’t wait for you guys to see my story time video ! It’s about him !
I’m so glad I’m learning this stuff at 16 before I’ve had my first boyfriend 😁 thank you!!
I'm so happy I found you and love your natural when I did. I love you both you have no idea. Thank you for all the love. ❤️
I grew up not having a good relationship with my mother. I never learnt these things. I had standards, but believe me I wish I knew all this advice from back then. It would have saved me a lot of hurt and heartbreak. 💄💄💄
Red look good on you..
Awww thank you babe !!!!!!🧡☺️👸🏽
💄I enjoyed this and it really opened my eyes a about my situation and I realised that I need to place myself on a certain pedestal and wait and see who is able to meet me there. No more settling
ur channel is really underrated fr i wish i came across ur channel a lot sooner girl xx
Thank you so much babe !!!!☺️👸🏽
I'm honestly so thankful I have the father that I did, because he told and showed me how to be treated when interacting with my mom. I've never allowed myself to get played because of this, and dodged so many bullets.
This video is crucial for women to learn, especially when they don't have a close and open relationship with a responsible father.