It hurts worse when the ones who claimed they loved turned out to be the toxic people in your life. It only gets worse when you realize that those people are your own family.
I can relate to this because I remember one time I was in North Carolina with my grandma and we weren't visiting one of my grandma's friends well I accidentally did something bad I got grounded which I mean the grounding was deserved Don't get me wrong but I was crying then she yelled you wanna cry I'll give you something to cry about and slammed her fist on my forehead
They have normalised it by saying if you have got physically abused or beaten up only then it hurts but I think words have equal Power . Either you can motivate or you can damage someone's personality.
It once happended to me A school day were we would it was a day before summer holiday we would just say a compliment or so good about anyone and I was complimented from a like helping idk what to call it that help one of my classmates that isn't idk how to say like let's just say needs more help and so and yeah- she complemented me about being helpful about that cause my class (it's now better) didn't really wanted to do much with her while me being since kindergarden helpful doing it and so and like how nice I am ,how much I like help I really started to tear up. Yeah- not First time
This happened to me. One time someone slid into my dms and sent me a recording of their new song. They said the song was made for people like me. I dont know them. But whoever they are thanks.
They are.... .... .... amazing. Truly. How they are spot on, talking about stuff I needed to hear and learn and understand - and I never knew I needed to!
My therapy lessons ended yesturday because my school stopped funding the counselor. Psych2Go is always here tho, i can learn what i need to try change myself
1. You have flashbacks. 2: You have low self esteem. 3. You have trouble controlling your emotions. 4. You emotionally eat 5. You have a chaotic sleep schedule 6. You have a heavy heart 7. You feel the most secure by yourself
I show EVERY SINGLE SIGN here. I'm alone in my room daily & even when my parents take me to family parties, I just let them party & sit alone playing, crying or just pretending to be happy around others but sad inside.
Or maybe they never did? I normally see it as an act now. I have been shunned, neglected and ghosted too many times now, so I don't trust anyone anymore. People are just fake.
I could relate to ur comment... Seriously everyone in my family says this to me, to apologise for being bad and rude to them. I couldn't help being that type of person when I constantly get reminders of what had been done to me in that period of 1 year.
1: You get flashbacks. 2: You have low self esteem. 3: You have trouble controlling your emotions. 4: You emotionally eat (emotional eating). 5: You have a chaotic sleep schedule. 6: You have a heavy heart. (Extremely sad, leads to emotionally numbness). 7: You feel the most secure by yourself. Edit: HOW DID I GET 1k LIKES??? Thanks!
here’s a summary of the video: 1. you get flashbacks 2. you have low self-esteem 3. you have trouble controlling your emotions 4. you find yourself emotionally eating 5. you have a chaotic sleep schedule 6. you have a heavy heart 7. you feel secure by yourself i know i, myself, have covered some of these points. if you have as well, remember that you’re not alone. i hope you become stronger and happier 💜
If theres something that I learned is that we do not need the whole world to care, its more than enough to know someone that cares. The problem is some of us just feel like noone understands.
Yeah, wish I knew this sooner, then maybe I could have prevented some of what I feel in today’s life (sense I’ve become 22) I guess it just means I got work to do on myself. 👍🏻
I didn’t realize how much toxic friendships could affect my well being until I watched this. I’ve had many toxic friends throughout my life so far and now that I know the symptoms of emotional trauma, I’ve realized that I fit the bill for a lot of them. I have been working on getting better mentally, and I’ve even decided to open my heart to someone. Thanks psych2go. Getting this info actually really helped me.
I literally experience each of these everyday.....People think your life is perfect because you smile and your polite but they don't know what is hidden behind your mask.
My own sister acts like how I feel is nothing. Im the oldest and she never got beat. The only person in the world that I TRULY don't like. The only person in the world who can irritate me in 0.2 seconds.
Oh my G O S H!!!!!! THISS!!!! I LITERALLY HATE IT WHRN PEOPLE CALL ME PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whenever I meet someone else who is "considered perfect" or acts "perfect" I feel bad for them because I wonder what their damage was/is. 😔
I feel so much comfort being depressed, being broken and being alone. Being loved, embraced and wanted feels so foreign and wrong, but when I express this openly, I’m ostracized.
You have pretty much just described my life. I trust on one. I care little about friendships. I sometimes get livid over the smallest and silliest of things. I really like to be left alone. Flash backs are an every day occurrence. I am, however, learning to control my emotions by not caring.
“The damage and invisible scars of emotional abuse are very difficult to heal, because memories are imprinted on our minds and hearts and it takes time to be restored. Imprints of past traumas do not mean a person cannot change their future beliefs and behaviors. as people, we do not easily forget. However, as we heal, grieve, and let go, we become clear-minded and focused to live restore and emotionally healthy.”
@@shiprajain8403 Find or even create "hope". Distraction is usually a good first step. Find almost anything to be able to divert your attention away from "the thing"... Get it off your chest. Tell someone you can trust. Tell the story and repeat it... Tell the walls... Write it down... go back and refine the story, use all the writer/author tools you can get and figure out to punch up the evocations of emotion, to build the experience of reading it into the experience of immersing in it... You might then consider sharing that with someone, and see what they think... again, someone you trust. Try something different... every day. Look for a hobby, but try different things. Find something to do that seems to relax you, nurture you, and build you up. If you're struggling, reach out. Find help from a professional. Get therapy, and if the first doesn't seem to help, don't be afraid to say as much. At some point and on some level, you'll have to forgive YOURSELF. You're human. It's okay to be human and flawed and weak and imperfect and scarred all up... Most of us (adult humans) are psychological trainwrecks. AND remember, just because you find it in yourself to eventually "let it go" or "forgive" someone who's scarred you emotionally... That does NOT mean you just "forget about it" and open yourself up to let them have easy access and do it all over again. I can forgive, but I don't forget... I learn from past mistakes. Now, I can forgive myself for screwing up the first time and getting into a mess... BUT I can also make the conscious decision that I deserve better than a mess for a life, and get away from people or things that aren't any good for me. That's also not judging them. They can be fine for other people. If anything or anyone, I'm only judging myself. If I can't handle the duty to drink alcohol responsibly and not get shitfaced or end up in fights or hurt someone else... THEN I should probably not drink alcohol. The same goes for hanging out with certain individuals. If it consistently creates trouble for me, or we end up in trouble, it's probably best if I stop hanging out with that or those individuals. Life is a journey. You spend most of it learning as you go... as you live. The scars may never quite go away, but they do fade. Have a little faith in yourself. I believe in you! ;o)
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 thank u so much for understanding and being helping me...i was feeling so lonely i felt i dont have anyone..but thnks for the advice...surly I'm going to do whatever possible i can... I hope one day I'll be a happy soul again
@@shiprajain8403 You're always welcome! AND yes, it takes time for wounds to heal, and scars to fade. We (humans) tend to retain the impressions of failures and heart-aches so much easier than happier times, but they also fade. I hope something of what I suggested is helpful. I hope you find happiness sooner than later... but I believe in you. You really can make it past all this and get better. It's a chance for growth on a personal level, growth to forgive, but to retain the "life lesson" and improve upon protecting yourself while you still seek your happiness. ;o)
Same, even though i already knew that. But i don't always know how to put my feelings in words. That's when psych2go comes in xD. It has been years.. still not fully healed from all the shit my parents (mostly, there were bullies and "friends" also) put me through.
I know it's been a while since you've posted this, and it may be small, but I really do hope you one day can fully recover.. I understand that it's really hard to go through stuff like this, I've watched family go through it as well. Not all, but glimpses. Just know people will come to the rescue if you call out. It's surprising how kind internet strangers can cheer up easily.
i remember when i was going through some stuff, i used to eat strips of paper as a stress response and did so for a couple of years afterwards as a trauma response. the disorder is called Pica and i wanted to mention it here since young children (especially neurodivergent children like me) tend to develop it during moments of trauma or stress.
It sounds more like an unholy spirit that had taken over. I would encourage you to listen to this message and I pray that it will be a help to you. ruclips.net/video/--gmrcR_iS8/видео.html
Same... Also I'm venting (and will get hate) The content I make traumatize me... I'm afraid of Gacha and it hurt me seeing Gachatubers commenting and get hate...
Omg I just ran across these videos. I’ve been going thru really rough times lately. I don’t feel loved, I feel ugly and unattractive, and it doesn’t take much to hurt my feelings. I’m engaged to be married and I don’t even believe my fiancé is at all attracted to me. We argue about my kids more then anything and we have no sex life at all. My fiancé looks at other women more then me. I’m depressed and very sad. These videos have been everything because I have no one to talk to about what I’m going thru. My fiancé only gets upset why I cry so these videos are my best friend right now.
When your parents say. "It's all in your head. It will go away. Or it's that phone that's causing, you to think like this." Little do they know it's them who emotionally wounded us.
I hope if I ever become a parent I can help my child grow happily . Ill spend time with them and play their favorite board games with them. I’ll help them find their hobbies and try to homeschool them. I won’t judge what they like because most of what kind of memes or humor they laugh at shouldn’t bother me. I’ll try to help them have the best childhood possible. Oh, wow. I didn’t know I felt like that until I kinda wrote this.
One of my main reason to study abroad is to avoid this kind of word... Like seriously, I feel more comfortable in my boarding house than in my house right now (Corona, why tho?)
Tragically when it comes to parents some don’t care or don’t believe when they did things they thought they’re doing their best to help their children Even when we tried to explain to them, they dismissed it like that (Whether they’re rich or poor, there are times whenever they’re busy of something, they really have no time to listen to us whenever something happens, some of us blame ourselves and the parents just don’t want to take the blame) If there’s no chance of redemption there’s gonna be a high price to pay
Ture they don't understand we look for there help and they bush us away they say " it all in head " my parents force me to be social but because I've been bullied and beat in school I don't trust people I like being by myself alone where no one can hurt me
Our modern world demands that we give of ourselves, and never gives back. It's important to set aside time to give back to yourself, instead. Fuck those other guys.
My school does the oposite of other school instead of putting the kid who fought the bullies in detention the BULLY goes to detention and gives me nothing but fun and joyful memories
Never rely on government. It's all a façade. We are our own hero's, and help is always available. Starting with counselling and EFT or emotion code healing... May we each find the healing modalities best for us straight away. Plant medicine, homeopathy, acupuncture.... Don't wait until you're 36, like I have. Your health is worth the money. 💖
Yes, in many ways from my father growing up and I’m still working on it to this day. It’s been difficult but I’ve gotten to the point where I’m more confident about who I am and that there is nothing wrong with me being me, sometimes I fall back into the dark void but and I pull myself out and every time it gets easier and easier. I did have to get a lot of support from family but mostly close friends. Don’t get sucked into void reach out to those you love and there will be happiness waiting for in the end. Your worthy of love and happiness!
Pls take care of ur daughter, pls understand her and console her. It’s good u understand about her sorrow, our parents don’t , they just make things worse. Pls don’t be like my parents.❤️🙏peace
I can relate big time (Ps: Don’t you just love how others can relate to your pain and are also emotionally wounded? This comment section makes me happy🥰)
I'm here for u. I was hurt by my siblings really bad cuz I was the "goody two shoes" and I went thru a period of time where all I did was cry but now its numb and very confusing... god bless.
This video really speaks to me. I’ve gone through stuff, both well into my past and more recently. I feel like I’ll be okay, but have to keep working and taking care of myself.
1. You get flashback 0:50 2. You have low self esteem 1:21 3. You have trouble controling your emotions 1:55 4. You emotionaly eat 2:26 5. You have a chaotic sleep schedule 2:54 6. You have a heavy heart 3:20 7. You feel secure by yourself 3:55
i literally started crying when it said “crying easily over the littlest of things” everytime i think of it i start crying it’s been a year but i can’t get over it
Its common sometimes it takes tym some heal fast while for some a long tymspan is required but the good thing is to accept whatever happened just think it is the past things get changed u get change and move on i can understand too bcoz i was self going through it and i would just say distance urself frm those who remind u of those things and spend tym with one who cheer u up.... I wish u also heal soon and develop into a strong humanbeing just dont make it so easy to others to hurt u.
You will...took me 2 years and still think about somethings. I'll never forget but it doesn't hurt anymore. I relish this, it keeps me from repeating history.
i dont know what you're going through, but i can only say to you not to make deadlines on when you should heal. It takes time, it varies with people, it depends on your intentionality... but healing is possible. It took me 3 years to finally get over the betrayal I experience. In those years, I learn to love myself more, I learn to love others in a healthy way, I learn that whatever bad things people do to me doesnt affect my self-worth, I learn that I'm only responsible for my own actions and healing is one of the commitment I have to do for myself... It's tough, i did go through times where I suddenly just want to cry over the thought, until I learn to and decided to rebuke my own fears and anxiety, or talk to friends about it... I try a lot of ways to move on from it. You can too!! So, virtual huuuugssss!!!
@@WandaTanya IAM going through the healing process of how my soon to be ex husband betrayed me and it hurts so bad I was loyal faithful there for him every step of the way the things I have done for him are unimaginable. I can't get all those years back I am broken 💔 I just want to heal but I know it's going to take me a long time, and he doesn't care AT ALL
@@jenniferinman6403 same. I'm autistic and for the longest time, my adopted parents couldn't accept it. I had multiple emotional wounds. I don't know why but, I started pretending I was a famous actress and collected pictures of actors/actresses from the 30s and 40s. I guess bc they couldn't judge me. I really don't know why I liked the 30s and 40s bc I was born in the 80s.
@@shawnafleck4348 hi i have a question if you don’t mind. My friend is autistic and he isn’t able to talk properly or do many things for example using a phone, but i’ve seen many autistic people being able to do different things. Is there different types of autism or different stages?
Well it does... But that clock doesn't start until after you've let go, forgiven everyone involved (including yourself) and taken steps to move forward.
@@shaereub4450 Yeah, there's no way to get over something/let it go unless you get out of the line of fire - leave the job, leave the friendship, leave the marriage, etc - get away from people who think nothing of the damage they visit on your heart/mind/life because you mean absolutely nothing to them. I'm ashamed that it's taken me so long to understand this.
Hey bro, I feel you. I’ve had months of that shit. It doesn’t matter if it’s related to an emotional wound or not, to get better you gotta take care of yourself. Best tips are first of all go outside ( alone if you must ) for walks/runs/biking preferably somewhere natural or that looks natural like a park. and lower your screen time. This ones really important and I know I sound like a mom but I’m just a teenager and I know the feeling and I didn’t think it would help at first to. Work on being happy with what you have, get to a point where you look in the mirror and you’re happy with yourself. It can be hard, I know. The last thing you wanna do, (after all that is already normal and a habit to you), is make some really really good friends. I find that 1 or 2 is really the best amount. This is the hardest part but if they’re real friends which don’t judge you and you can tell anything to then they Will make you so happy you won’t believe it. I hope you try At least one part of this. Have a good day Hey bro, I feel you. I’ve had months of that shit. It doesn’t matter if it’s related to an emotional wound or not, to get better you gotta take care of yourself. Best tips are first of all go outside ( alone if you must ) for walks/runs/biking preferably somewhere natural or that looks natural like a park. and lower your screen time. This ones really important and I know I sound like a mom but I’m just a teenager and I know the feeling and I didn’t think it would help at first to. Work on being happy with what you have, get to a point where you look in the mirror and you’re happy with yourself. It can be hard, I know. The last thing you wanna do, (after all that is already normal and a habit to you), is make some really really good friends. I find that 1 or 2 is really the best amount. This is the hardest part but if they’re real friends which don’t judge you and you can tell anything to then they Will make you so happy you won’t believe it. I hope you try At least one part of this. Have a good day
It's been YEARS since my emotional trauma, but I have never been the same and can say that I still have at least 4 of these symptoms, even after getting help.
I've been emotionally damaged since 2019 my daddy cheated on my mom and we found out in April of 2019 I was there when she found out . I lost a lot of people in my family and I even lost my pappy this past December because of covid 19 and it has been a rollercoaster since 2019 so I hope that anyone that is going through anything knows that they aren't alone . I'm praying for all of you .
To all emotionally wounded people out there especially HSPs : I wanna tell you that you are a really strong person for bearing with this pain, and you should be proud of your self. It’s all gonna be alright one day, Hang on there buddy cuz I truly love you so much !! * virtual huggg*
Some emotional wounds can be lived with and not cripple you. I know this for a fact because I have one! I definitely was emotionally wounded when my beloved grandmother died nearly 5 years ago (February 10, 2018) and then one of my top 3 all time favorite Star Wars characters was killed off of one of the animated series 9 days later, causing salt in the wound, and for a while, I displayed ALL of these symptoms because my whole world was completely torn apart. But thankfully it’s not like that anymore. I still do have flashbacks every now and then and still feel like my heart’s been ripped out of my chest, but I’ve been able to learn how to “live with the pain.”
It’s really annoying because it’s not being moody at this point it’s the new me because of all the heartbreak and let down, I wish people knew more about emotions
To have a true good relationship you need to be vulnerable but its also dangerous so people have checked out to opening up when people aren't authentic you feel it. It keeps people not trusting cause its like your hiding something. Plus if your not real you will never get to met true like minded people cause you likely attract what your trying to pretend to be with likely a good amount of pretenders . Being you up front if they don't like it and walk away from the start you saved yourself a headache and wasted time getting attach. Plus more respect over time be true can earn you respect a bit pain in the beginning but getting to enjoying yourself is better.
Exactly. Those human vampires very often play the victim card and make you feel like you're the worst person in the world and that you hurt them, when in fact it's the other way around.
When I was young my parents would get onto me anytime I got upset/angry, claimed I have a problem, asked me how I would feel if someone treated me the way I treat them (they have always been sarcastic and joking and recently I realized, extremely emotionally abusive) well now I have this thing where I just start crying when I get upset/angry and I start hating on myself and even hurting myself because of how they raised me, I hate being anything but happy because when I wasn't happy I was blamed by my parents and made to feel worthless. I'm currently with a therapist who's helping me with a different kind of trauma I endured at the hands of a different family member and only recently brought up how life with my parents is like and she was the first person I told this to who said that wasn't normal and was bad parenting, she was the first person to tell me that I'm not crazy for feeling the way I do. I wrote this so that anybody who reads this understands that you aren't alone and there is someone out there who will believe you and want to help you, you just have to find them.
That hit way to close to home for me. That sounds so familiar except along with being angry/upset I can’t argue back. When I was younger they wrote it off as anger issues and took me to an anger management therapist thing. I don’t remember much from that though since I was younger. I do remember always being afraid of getting a bad grade or in trouble with teachers because when I would get home it would end up in screaming matches. With me running to hide and cry in my room. I think that’s when i started learning to lie and hide anything bad from them so I wouldn’t get in trouble. Not that it always worked it usually would make it worse if they found out. But I got better at lying and hiding stuff from them. But I think I might at one point either grew up or stopped getting angry or sad altogether. Now I can’t remember that last time I’ve actually cried or broke down for myself. It’s like I just can’t and I don’t know if that’s good or bad. And now, well I think I’ve been lying for to long because I’ve lied to even myself about my own feelings. I always feel like I have to be the bubbly happy girl people see me as. Since I’m always seen smiling or trying to seem happy to not rock the boat as they say. I don’t even know what’s normal anymore. Is it normal for parents to tell their kids that they’re never going to make it in life. You should move out, live out on the streets. Lazy, useless. Being yelled at for simple things like not being quick enough to take the dog out. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, sometimes I feel so empty and I have no idea why. And that empty feeling just gets worse. I can forget about it when I distracted myself with other stuff like anime or reading a book, or watching RUclips. But then it comes back and sometimes it’s not just an empty feeling. Sometimes a stray thought of ending it all crosses my mind, or what’s the meaning of life. I don’t know I realize I sort of went off on a tangent there and I’m sorry. If anyone reads this I’m sorry for wasting your time and for being a bother.
@@ShotoTodoroki-qs3ip You aren't a bother, the best thing we can after all we've been through is to learn from the mistakes and wrongs that we've seen and endured, learn and do better so that we can make a positive influence on the world and hopefully, one day, we'll enter an Era where no one goes through what we've been through. The best part about walking through hell is the light we create at the end of it all. I love you (even though I don't know you) and I hope that one day you'll see your own worth. I wish you all the best in your healing.
You will. Healing takes time, patience and a lot of self introspection, I got closer to healing during the cause of the pandemic, I used to have all seven of these symptoms but now I have three and I believe that number will go down to one and possibly zero as long as am patient with myself and acknowledge all of the things that caused me to be this way in the first place. I don't know you but I really think you can heal&succeed because we all have some hidden unknown strength inside us, we just have to find it.
"Whether you think you can, or think you can't, You're right." Try taking the limits off yourself and see what happens. Who knows. You may surprise yourself with the outcome! #limitless
My mom said that she wishes that I feel what she feels everyday (She has a mental disorder) and that she hates me for being weak. Later she wanted to commit suicide, I had to hold her until she was tired and fell asleep. *What a wonderful life I have*
The depressed ones are the funniest The insecure ones are the prettiest The shy ones are the ones who want to talk the most The anxious ones are the ones who'll always comfort you The autistic ones are the coolest The abused ones are the kindest The traumatized ones are the ones who want to live in the present the most The suicidal ones are the ones who want to live the most But the ones who are living and keep living are the strongest (-Katie Blonde)
Yes. Very much… feels more than what you’ve mentioned. There are so many more signs emotionally wounded people feel and behave in different situations. (They always seek validation from others or ask for their opinion, even when their(EWP) intuitions and their heart know, whatever they are doing or did Was absolutely right decision or thing to do..!! They always live in a constant fear, that they might hurt someone unintentionally with their decisions or actions) There are many other signs and behaviour of emotionally wounded people..!! & trust me it’s so emotionally & mentally painful to live with those traumas. I have understood myself how much emotionally wounded I’m from soooo many years, I didn’t even realise that. I pray to God to heal them who’r suffering from Traumas and also help To heal Me 😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻
It hurts more when you are the person who has trust issues but when you find someone you can finally trust with your feelings.... One day they just disappear and when you desperately need their help they are not there.
yeah. i was in love with someone for three years and then they used my innocence to their advantage and left me. i’m also very sure they cheated on me and i’m still recovering over almost 6 months
Exactly what has happened to me. Now I try to focus on myself more because me being myself is when I am the most attractive. If u stay numb because of what people did to u.. happiness and the energy universe wants to send to u will levee come to u. Wishing you a happy life.
This hits so close to home for me. It actually brought me to tears. I know I'm a very blessed person and an lucky to have all that I do but I feel so empty inside. I gave to much of myself to one person and they deeply hurt me
I lost my daughter about 8 years ago and I can never get over it I have all these symptoms I haven't seen the doctor but this video does help me a lot thank you
Thank you for opening up to us. I don’t know the feeling but my heart felt the pain... I want to reach out and send you love and support brother. Be well... I promise to cherish my kids even more thank you again
i lost my 21 year old daughter 2 years ago. In great pain and badly emotionally wounded. I have all these symptoms shown in video. I am hiding from all my close friends
@@anitakaul4228 I’am so sorry for your loss, Sending you all the love and healing this world can give. It’s never easy but I hope your heart and soul heal, I hope you find peace in your pain, may god ease your pain,Amin💛🙏🙏
Hey now wait a minute, are you sure we aren’t the same person lmao? No but seriously, I hope you get better. Talk to someone, it’s a great way to start healing. It may seem difficult, but it’ll help you start the process. There are people out there for you, you just gotta look for them.
Sometimes the niceness that you show to others comes at the cost of your own happiness and well-being. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your niceness and use your good nature against you. Don't say yes so often that others start asking too much of you.
I deal with all of these. I’ve been feeling like I’m crazy & broken.. I’m so tired, and I’m trying to stay alive. I hope others know they’re not alone, we can get through this 🦋
A couple of years ago my crush rejected me, which did cause a lot of damage back than and let to me completely isolating from my feelings. Two months ago she came back to me and asked if we can hang out. She actually has a boyfriend, but at that day, she confessed me that she loves me and is struggleing between me and him. By now its not really a struggle anymore. She openly admids, that she loves me as much as she loves him. Now listen guys, I don‘t know what to do. I. love her more than anything else, but this whole situation is kinda destroying me. I want whats best for her.
A gentle reminder that healing isn’t linear. You’ll have good days & there will be days the pain will feel real all over again. What's most important is that you're always trying to get back up on your feet. You are worthy and deserving of healing. I’m here for you.💟
Feel all of these and lost ×100! You never realise how badly and deep someone hurt you until a year later and it still is just there! You try everything to block, distract or fake these feelings away but nothing works! Love and prayers to anyone feeling this right now 💜🙏
Emotional wounds leave scars like physical ones but we just can't see them,n it takes a while to heal but you will feel better eventually, these bad feelings won't last forever. Keep going and focus on being happy:)
What this video does not mention - which perhaps needs to be mentioned is that it may not be just one emotional wound. Emotional wounds can pile up quicker than they can be processed. If you are not careful you can also go through the same patterns of people rejecting you. Still. This is a good and well thought out list presented in a good clear manner so thank you.
I cry over little things happy or sad tears starts falling without me knowing. Even while I am watching this video I was holding tears when I aldready know I am deeply wounded. I really hate life:(
@@youtubelover2613 mention not! We all are going through the same thing so we can depend on each other for some time to get through this.We all can use a little help from each other.
I’m personally glad I got to this point. I loved and cared and hurt to the point I now feel nothing! It still feels strange to me, and in a way, proud of myself for getting a grip. Being alone all the time has been absolutely amazing. No one around to give me any kind of pain. I don’t see these as bad things. I’ve learned to protect myself and the outcome is that I finally have some peace in life.
I'm doing the same thing. Protecting my peace. Yes, I spend the majority of my time sitting by this window in my chair, but the house is clean, the air is clean, there's no stress, no drama no sadness no sorrow!
when she said flashbacks i suddenly cried i have been dealing with verbal abuse since young age and i always try to aviod remembering those moments and forgive those people.
I saw my mother die of a heart attack. She didn't just collapse, it was dragged out a bit. So, PSA that trauma comes in all shapes and sizes, as does grief and wounds and that it's always ok to make time to look after yourself.
A man who does not actively reveal his emotions needs you to reveal them in a positive light, for if negativity is involved, he will begin to truly feel nothing.
"Betrayal" in the header immediately struck a chord with me. When my co-worker lied about me to the boss, and the boss believed the co-worker. It was years ago, and I still feel rage interspersed with occasional episodes of fury.
My co-workers did the same thing to me. I lost my job over the idiots. I was with the company for 22 years and had never been reprimanded for anything. It certainly takes a toll on you emotionally. I’m sorry this happened to you.
Yeah heart makes me with a broken and it is broken inside your heart an end then when your heart is broken you feel like you're about to die or expensive out for yourself out or passed out are like you like you got hit on the ground this is friendship when your heart when your heart give you a text I miss you don't feel good an enchanted and make you go lay down but you mixed you go. And it makes you cry when your heart is broken
1), I get explicit flash back a lot, 2), I have low self esteem, 3), I have a hard time quiting my mind, 4) I have heavy heart a lot, now as if I don't feel anything at all, nothing makes me happy at all, but I have a great smile on my face everyone says that to me...
I definitely relate to number 6. I feel emotionally empty and sad all the time. I am constantly holding back tears . It has been going on for more then I can remember.
I'm emotionally wounded and this results to i prefer to isolate myself, alone and avoid social events. I was able to divert my attention being busy at work everyday.
@@john-paulcabral4670 Hello Sir, I feel you. The same as mine. While working I'm tooking up my Masters degree. But I do hope that our hardwork will be paid off. Fighting Sir😉😊💪
Are you wounded emotionally?
U bet I am-
Yes
Very much so
ya
Hopefully
It hurts worse when the ones who claimed they loved turned out to be the toxic people in your life. It only gets worse when you realize that those people are your own family.
I can relate to this because I remember one time I was in North Carolina with my grandma and we weren't visiting one of my grandma's friends well I accidentally did something bad I got grounded which I mean the grounding was deserved Don't get me wrong but I was crying then she yelled you wanna cry I'll give you something to cry about and slammed her fist on my forehead
It's a lonely feeling 😔
This is my family i feel you buddy 😊😊
They have normalised it by saying if you have got physically abused or beaten up only then it hurts but I think words have equal Power . Either you can motivate or you can damage someone's personality.
i can't relate but I feel bad for u guys wish u the best
You know you have a big emotional wound when even random acts of kindness can make you cry.
It once happended to me A school day were we would it was a day before summer holiday we would just say a compliment or so good about anyone and I was complimented from a like helping idk what to call it that help one of my classmates that isn't idk how to say like let's just say needs more help and so and yeah- she complemented me about being helpful about that cause my class (it's now better) didn't really wanted to do much with her while me being since kindergarden helpful doing it and so and like how nice I am ,how much I like help I really started to tear up. Yeah- not First time
Me
This happened to me. One time someone slid into my dms and sent me a recording of their new song. They said the song was made for people like me. I dont know them. But whoever they are thanks.
Really?😭
YES!!!!! You are right!!! Thank you....❤️❤️🥺
"Do you have trouble quieting your mind at night?"
Um.....I am watching this at 3AM
0352 here
3.08am😂😂😂
Me i m watching but this on 4:PM
Me to.
I'm usually up doing homework at that time.
At this point I’m just watching these to confirm how messed up I am.
Literally
Same
Mood
i fells you men
🥸
when you realize that Psych2Go is probably your best friend because they know all this stuff about you lol couldn't be me
They are.... .... .... amazing. Truly. How they are spot on, talking about stuff I needed to hear and learn and understand - and I never knew I needed to!
Yeah they are more likely best friends even they're only strangers who can feel us
Aww thank you! We hope you found this video helpful :) Did you resonate with this video?
Psych2Go yes we all did!! 👌🏻
My therapy lessons ended yesturday because my school stopped funding the counselor. Psych2Go is always here tho, i can learn what i need to try change myself
The only “test” i have a perfect score on
Haha I got 100% every single one of these things I struggle with!
same.
The reality of thus isn't funny but this comment is hilarious lol
@@ceer4184 Team Emotional Numbness! Yeah!
:)
1. You have flashbacks.
2: You have low self esteem.
3. You have trouble controlling your emotions.
4. You emotionally eat
5. You have a chaotic sleep schedule
6. You have a heavy heart
7. You feel the most secure by yourself
That's Me.....ALL of these
@@jimmyboyzable 👊💥😩🤧😴🤦.
2, 4, 6, 7. Over half! Do I win?
I got 6/7
I knew something was going on but didn’t know what it was.
Now I know
All this things happen to me but I’m not emotionally wounded
I show EVERY SINGLE SIGN here. I'm alone in my room daily & even when my parents take me to family parties, I just let them party & sit alone playing, crying or just pretending to be happy around others but sad inside.
“I think the worst feeling in the world knowing that someone you used to talk to every day doesn’t care about you anymore.”
I feel you.
true
I'm the therapist of the friend group of emotionally unstable friend group but no one asks me if I'm ok
Or maybe they never did? I normally see it as an act now. I have been shunned, neglected and ghosted too many times now, so I don't trust anyone anymore. People are just fake.
@@immapotato2728 Are you ok?
"Why should I apologize for being a monster, when no one is apologizing for turning me into one?"
I could relate to ur comment... Seriously everyone in my family says this to me, to apologise for being bad and rude to them. I couldn't help being that type of person when I constantly get reminders of what had been done to me in that period of 1 year.
@@ayushi6247 You'll be okay soon, hang in there; and know that many care for you. Don't throw away your life, you can do this. ❤
@@allisonshi thanku so much for your positive reply..
@@ayushi6247 No problem, I'm just trying to help everyone that needs it.
omg where is this quote from i need to know
1: You get flashbacks.
2: You have low self esteem.
3: You have trouble controlling your emotions.
4: You emotionally eat (emotional eating).
5: You have a chaotic sleep schedule.
6: You have a heavy heart. (Extremely sad, leads to emotionally numbness).
7: You feel the most secure by yourself.
Edit: HOW DID I GET 1k LIKES??? Thanks!
tyyyy
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@Ryan Stephenson ruclips.net/video/v4hemRBZ3ec/видео.html
Me described
i feel all of it
it’s so nice to know people are feeling what I am feeling bc i thought i was alone in this
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here’s a summary of the video:
1. you get flashbacks
2. you have low self-esteem
3. you have trouble controlling your emotions
4. you find yourself emotionally eating
5. you have a chaotic sleep schedule
6. you have a heavy heart
7. you feel secure by yourself
i know i, myself, have covered some of these points. if you have as well, remember that you’re not alone. i hope you become stronger and happier 💜
kodiak: personally, saying that makes me feel secure, since people can relate to me, meaning i don’t feel alienated in this world
Wouldn’t it be kind of bad if other people experience this too :(
I have 2 of them :|
Bean The Alien: yes, but knowing that we’re all in this together, it makes some people feel safe
amy it makes me feel more upset that life ended up like this for them too
Listening to this broke my heart. I want the world to know this is how I mostly feel. But the world really doesn’t care.
No Body , the world might not care, but some of us reading this do. Take care No Body!
@@someonenew9442 😔☺️
No Body , hope you know someone still cares.
If theres something that I learned is that we do not need the whole world to care, its more than enough to know someone that cares. The problem is some of us just feel like noone understands.
Yeah, wish I knew this sooner, then maybe I could have prevented some of what I feel in today’s life (sense I’ve become 22) I guess it just means I got work to do on myself. 👍🏻
Might explain why I'd rather be alone. I feel the safest alone.
Me too, i dont like to socialize
me too but my parents forced me to be with others
Me too I feel safe being alone feels like no one can judge me or hurt me anymore
@Claire Grondz i can relate
I thought I was just an introvert... but now Im questioning myself.
I didn’t realize how much toxic friendships could affect my well being until I watched this. I’ve had many toxic friends throughout my life so far and now that I know the symptoms of emotional trauma, I’ve realized that I fit the bill for a lot of them. I have been working on getting better mentally, and I’ve even decided to open my heart to someone. Thanks psych2go. Getting this info actually really helped me.
I literally experience each of these everyday.....People think your life is perfect because you smile and your polite but they don't know what is hidden behind your mask.
I can relate 😐 even the closest person around u is unaware about all the things you're going through all alone!
My own sister acts like how I feel is nothing. Im the oldest and she never got beat.
The only person in the world that I TRULY don't like.
The only person in the world who can irritate me in 0.2 seconds.
That is so true.
I can relate.
Oh my G O S H!!!!!! THISS!!!! I LITERALLY HATE IT WHRN PEOPLE CALL ME PERFECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Whenever I meet someone else who is "considered perfect" or acts "perfect" I feel bad for them because I wonder what their damage was/is. 😔
"I think I'm fine but I want to watch this for fun"
5 minutes later : ...should I get a therapist?
SAAAAAAAAME-
Same-
Even if I need one I’m not going to get one. I should be able to handle it on my own right?
@@thisismyname5317 thats not how it works... GET THE HELP YOU DESERVE❤👈😣
@@pure.4ddiction thanks for the concern! I really don’t know what to though :)
And here ladies and gentlemen, is our RUclips Psychologist😃
@@kodiak9079 no
@@kodiak9079 I play Gacha Club
@@kodiak9079 So funny I forgot to laugh
@@kodiak9079 lol I used it for no reason
@@kodiak9079 and I'm not even in elementary school
I feel so much comfort being depressed, being broken and being alone. Being loved, embraced and wanted feels so foreign and wrong, but when I express this openly, I’m ostracized.
I understand you. At first,I used to feel that way.
I'm still healing slowly from it...
When I say I understand this....
If a bathroom were a person, they’d be my only friend. And they’d actually know what’s up...
Why is it so true 😭😭😭
Yeah only they know when I cry
get some laxatives then
@@selinakyle7460 I honestly don’t know if this is a joke or not
@@lowkeynotaliveanymore4607 not my room 😔 I have to share 🙄
When you’re the therapist in your friend group but you’re the only one that needs therapy.
Omg I can relate soooooo much
That is me
bro for reallll
Sounds like me
I relate so much.....
You have pretty much just described my life. I trust on one. I care little about friendships. I sometimes get livid over the smallest and silliest of things. I really like to be left alone. Flash backs are an every day occurrence. I am, however, learning to control my emotions by not caring.
“The damage and invisible scars of emotional abuse are very difficult to heal, because memories are imprinted on our minds and hearts and it takes time to be restored. Imprints of past traumas do not mean a person cannot change their future beliefs and behaviors. as people, we do not easily forget. However, as we heal, grieve, and let go, we become clear-minded and focused to live restore and emotionally healthy.”
A moment on the lips... A lifetime in the heart. ;o)
But...how to heal ..how to get out of this?
@@shiprajain8403 Find or even create "hope".
Distraction is usually a good first step. Find almost anything to be able to divert your attention away from "the thing"...
Get it off your chest. Tell someone you can trust. Tell the story and repeat it... Tell the walls... Write it down... go back and refine the story, use all the writer/author tools you can get and figure out to punch up the evocations of emotion, to build the experience of reading it into the experience of immersing in it... You might then consider sharing that with someone, and see what they think... again, someone you trust.
Try something different... every day. Look for a hobby, but try different things. Find something to do that seems to relax you, nurture you, and build you up.
If you're struggling, reach out. Find help from a professional. Get therapy, and if the first doesn't seem to help, don't be afraid to say as much.
At some point and on some level, you'll have to forgive YOURSELF. You're human. It's okay to be human and flawed and weak and imperfect and scarred all up... Most of us (adult humans) are psychological trainwrecks.
AND remember, just because you find it in yourself to eventually "let it go" or "forgive" someone who's scarred you emotionally... That does NOT mean you just "forget about it" and open yourself up to let them have easy access and do it all over again. I can forgive, but I don't forget... I learn from past mistakes. Now, I can forgive myself for screwing up the first time and getting into a mess... BUT I can also make the conscious decision that I deserve better than a mess for a life, and get away from people or things that aren't any good for me.
That's also not judging them. They can be fine for other people. If anything or anyone, I'm only judging myself. If I can't handle the duty to drink alcohol responsibly and not get shitfaced or end up in fights or hurt someone else... THEN I should probably not drink alcohol.
The same goes for hanging out with certain individuals. If it consistently creates trouble for me, or we end up in trouble, it's probably best if I stop hanging out with that or those individuals.
Life is a journey. You spend most of it learning as you go... as you live. The scars may never quite go away, but they do fade. Have a little faith in yourself. I believe in you! ;o)
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 thank u so much for understanding and being helping me...i was feeling so lonely i felt i dont have anyone..but thnks for the advice...surly I'm going to do whatever possible i can...
I hope one day I'll be a happy soul again
@@shiprajain8403 You're always welcome!
AND yes, it takes time for wounds to heal, and scars to fade. We (humans) tend to retain the impressions of failures and heart-aches so much easier than happier times, but they also fade.
I hope something of what I suggested is helpful. I hope you find happiness sooner than later... but I believe in you. You really can make it past all this and get better.
It's a chance for growth on a personal level, growth to forgive, but to retain the "life lesson" and improve upon protecting yourself while you still seek your happiness. ;o)
This explains why I have trust issues
We hope this video helped you in some way. How many signs did you relate to?
Same, even though i already knew that. But i don't always know how to put my feelings in words. That's when psych2go comes in xD. It has been years.. still not fully healed from all the shit my parents (mostly, there were bullies and "friends" also) put me through.
Psych2Go Around 3 or 4 and yes it was very helpful. Thank you so much 🙂
Exactly, me too. I keep my distance from ppl.
@@Psych2go stap making videos about depression, its anoying
I've been emotionally wounded for like 3 years now, still trying to heal
Is anyone by your side to help and support you?
@@AvengedPanzer I have my family (from far away) and a psychologist, yet, no friends, which makes me feel alone on this
I have been since I was 7- I am 13 now soon to be 14...
I know it's been a while since you've posted this, and it may be small, but I really do hope you one day can fully recover.. I understand that it's really hard to go through stuff like this, I've watched family go through it as well. Not all, but glimpses. Just know people will come to the rescue if you call out. It's surprising how kind internet strangers can cheer up easily.
I been all my sad 23 years of life but still trying to survive I just hope we all can get thew this
i remember when i was going through some stuff, i used to eat strips of paper as a stress response and did so for a couple of years afterwards as a trauma response. the disorder is called Pica and i wanted to mention it here since young children (especially neurodivergent children like me) tend to develop it during moments of trauma or stress.
I thought eating paper was just for trying to be funny 🤣
I knew a little girl with that disorder
It sounds more like an unholy spirit that had taken over. I would encourage you to listen to this message and I pray that it will be a help to you. ruclips.net/video/--gmrcR_iS8/видео.html
I used to bite my hair when I lost my aunt..
I'm crying while watching this vid, it's just that I realized, I've been emotionally wounded for so many years.
I hope your ok! Here have a virtual hug! 🤗 it’ll eventually be ok! You can do this! 😊☺️
It feels good to know I'm not the only one this happened to!
Same...
Also I'm venting (and will get hate)
The content I make traumatize me... I'm afraid of Gacha and it hurt me seeing Gachatubers commenting and get hate...
And you are not alone ❤️
All my prayers are for your recovery
HAHA I HIT THE LUCKY NUMBER, I GOT ALL 7!!!!
**dies inside**
Same
Me too
@Lisa that is right
I got them all too! :D
I felt that
The narrator's voice is really beautiful.
I know
Yes!!!!
She has a pretty voice
It's peacful I agree
Yeah
Omg I just ran across these videos. I’ve been going thru really rough times lately. I don’t feel loved, I feel ugly and unattractive, and it doesn’t take much to hurt my feelings. I’m engaged to be married and I don’t even believe my fiancé is at all attracted to me. We argue about my kids more then anything and we have no sex life at all. My fiancé looks at other women more then me. I’m depressed and very sad. These videos have been everything because I have no one to talk to about what I’m going thru. My fiancé only gets upset why I cry so these videos are my best friend right now.
This is actually…. Revealing. Makes me come to an understanding that my entire life has been a series of emotional wounds.
Mine too😥
Agreed
Yeah sounds rights
So true. Now I know why I have such sleep issues.
@@julietannenbaum6773
me too
When your parents say. "It's all in your head. It will go away. Or it's that phone that's causing, you to think like this." Little do they know it's them who emotionally wounded us.
I hope if I ever become a parent I can help my child grow happily . Ill spend time with them and play their favorite board games with them. I’ll help them find their hobbies and try to homeschool them. I won’t judge what they like because most of what kind of memes or humor they laugh at shouldn’t bother me. I’ll try to help them have the best childhood possible. Oh, wow. I didn’t know I felt like that until I kinda wrote this.
One of my main reason to study abroad is to avoid this kind of word... Like seriously, I feel more comfortable in my boarding house than in my house right now (Corona, why tho?)
FRKT THIS
Tragically when it comes to parents some don’t care or don’t believe when they did things they thought they’re doing their best to help their children
Even when we tried to explain to them, they dismissed it like that
(Whether they’re rich or poor, there are times whenever they’re busy of something, they really have no time to listen to us whenever something happens, some of us blame ourselves and the parents just don’t want to take the blame)
If there’s no chance of redemption there’s gonna be a high price to pay
Ture they don't understand we look for there help and they bush us away they say " it all in head " my parents force me to be social but because I've been bullied and beat in school I don't trust people I like being by myself alone where no one can hurt me
This video:*exist*
School/parent/goverment: I gonna pretend I don't see
Our modern world demands that we give of ourselves, and never gives back. It's important to set aside time to give back to yourself, instead. Fuck those other guys.
Borden Fleetwood
You sounded so philosophical or whatever and then you were just like “fuck em” 😂
Sad ORA noices
My school does the oposite of other school instead of putting the kid who fought the bullies in detention the BULLY goes to detention and gives me nothing but fun and joyful memories
Never rely on government. It's all a façade. We are our own hero's, and help is always available. Starting with counselling and EFT or emotion code healing... May we each find the healing modalities best for us straight away. Plant medicine, homeopathy, acupuncture.... Don't wait until you're 36, like I have. Your health is worth the money. 💖
Yes, in many ways from my father growing up and I’m still working on it to this day. It’s been difficult but I’ve gotten to the point where I’m more confident about who I am and that there is nothing wrong with me being me, sometimes I fall back into the dark void but and I pull myself out and every time it gets easier and easier. I did have to get a lot of support from family but mostly close friends. Don’t get sucked into void reach out to those you love and there will be happiness waiting for in the end. Your worthy of love and happiness!
me, knowing damn well that I’m emotionally wounded: lmaoooo there’s nothing wrong with me
HAHAH DENY DENY DENY!
Too accurate...
"hey are you okay" me "yeah just a little tired :D"
Yeah same I need help lmao
Haha haha same
my daughter is emotionally wounded, thank you for helping so now I know
Pls take care of ur daughter, pls understand her and console her. It’s good u understand about her sorrow, our parents don’t , they just make things worse. Pls don’t be like my parents.❤️🙏peace
I wish someone can understand that I feel so alone and sorrow 🙂💔
@@mdshifulislam1655 you are not alone anymore when you at this channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@mermerblessed4577 thank you so much.🙂❤️
@@mdshifulislam1655 anytime my friend now let us all open up and heal❤️
Wounded by a lot of people who misunderstand my quiet personality... but the wounds that hurt the most, are the ones from my family 😔
I can relate big time (Ps: Don’t you just love how others can relate to your pain and are also emotionally wounded? This comment section makes me happy🥰)
I can feel the family one too. And I agree the ones from family hurts a lot.
The wrost is when you end being rude as cope mecanism
true. Keep fighting, I support you
I'm here for u. I was hurt by my siblings really bad cuz I was the "goody two shoes" and I went thru a period of time where all I did was cry but now its numb and very confusing...
god bless.
This video really speaks to me. I’ve gone through stuff, both well into my past and more recently. I feel like I’ll be okay, but have to keep working and taking care of myself.
1. You get flashback 0:50
2. You have low self esteem 1:21
3. You have trouble controling your emotions 1:55
4. You emotionaly eat 2:26
5. You have a chaotic sleep schedule 2:54
6. You have a heavy heart 3:20
7. You feel secure by yourself 3:55
Thanks for the timeline 🔥🔥🔥
Why do I relate to all of these
Thank you for this
I am depressed, I feel like that...
@@Swuiddy0086 i think you should visit a psychologist
This video hits home, I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t care a whole lot about friendships because I don’t wanna expose myself to being let down
saaamee
me too
In my friend group, I'm the therapist friend who needs more therapy than the others.
Asriel Dreemurr and that sucks, u need either a family member or a therapist to talk to if they don’t listen
feel you on that one
It makes me cry knowing that I have every single of these.
unfortunately,l can relate to that but all of that is definied with depression soo...yea...
I don't know if I'm the only one... I began to cry spontaneously while watching this video.
The narrator's voice is like a hug from a beautiful angel.
yes, yes it is
What's a hug? ( rhetorical)
It’s so comforting
Its very peaceful:>
i literally started crying when it said “crying easily over the littlest of things” everytime i think of it i start crying it’s been a year but i can’t get over it
Its common sometimes it takes tym some heal fast while for some a long tymspan is required but the good thing is to accept whatever happened just think it is the past things get changed u get change and move on i can understand too bcoz i was self going through it and i would just say distance urself frm those who remind u of those things and spend tym with one who cheer u up.... I wish u also heal soon and develop into a strong humanbeing just dont make it so easy to others to hurt u.
You will...took me 2 years and still think about somethings. I'll never forget but it doesn't hurt anymore. I relish this, it keeps me from repeating history.
Crying right now
i dont know what you're going through, but i can only say to you not to make deadlines on when you should heal. It takes time, it varies with people, it depends on your intentionality... but healing is possible.
It took me 3 years to finally get over the betrayal I experience. In those years, I learn to love myself more, I learn to love others in a healthy way, I learn that whatever bad things people do to me doesnt affect my self-worth, I learn that I'm only responsible for my own actions and healing is one of the commitment I have to do for myself...
It's tough, i did go through times where I suddenly just want to cry over the thought, until I learn to and decided to rebuke my own fears and anxiety, or talk to friends about it... I try a lot of ways to move on from it.
You can too!! So, virtual huuuugssss!!!
@@WandaTanya IAM going through the healing process of how my soon to be ex husband betrayed me and it hurts so bad I was loyal faithful there for him every step of the way the things I have done for him are unimaginable. I can't get all those years back I am broken 💔 I just want to heal but I know it's going to take me a long time, and he doesn't care AT ALL
I thought I'm an introvert. But soon I realised that I just feel most secure by myself.
Totally. I hate to say it, but I was really happy during shelter-in-place... It was a great relief.
@@jenniferinman6403 same. I'm autistic and for the longest time, my adopted parents couldn't accept it. I had multiple emotional wounds. I don't know why but, I started pretending I was a famous actress and collected pictures of actors/actresses from the 30s and 40s. I guess bc they couldn't judge me. I really don't know why I liked the 30s and 40s bc I was born in the 80s.
@@shawnafleck4348 hi i have a question if you don’t mind. My friend is autistic and he isn’t able to talk properly or do many things for example using a phone, but i’ve seen many autistic people being able to do different things. Is there different types of autism or different stages?
@@melloo00 there’s a spectrum of low functioning and high functioning.
I felt that
Whenever I think about my family I feel a deep pain in my heart and the flashbacks are just keep going in my head again and again
"Time does not heal emotional pain, you need to learn how to let go"
-Roy T Bennet
Well it does... But that clock doesn't start until after you've let go, forgiven everyone involved (including yourself) and taken steps to move forward.
H...how ?!
Easy to say, difficult to do.
@@shaereub4450 Yeah, there's no way to get over something/let it go unless you get out of the line of fire - leave the job, leave the friendship, leave the marriage, etc - get away from people who think nothing of the damage they visit on your heart/mind/life because you mean absolutely nothing to them. I'm ashamed that it's taken me so long to understand this.
it's not that easy, I got verbal abuse when I was on I highschool, now I'm 30, the pain still lingered tho & can't disappeared
Me: has all of the signs
Again: its nothing im just sad at the moment
same
Relatable. :((
Ohhh yeah, I've come to the point of feeling mostly nothing along with a frequent dose of sadness... shit
Ikr me too...I didn't think of it as a big deal until i saw this video..I'm..scared..
Hey bro, I feel you. I’ve had months of that shit. It doesn’t matter if it’s related to an emotional wound or not, to get better you gotta take care of yourself. Best tips are first of all go outside ( alone if you must ) for walks/runs/biking preferably somewhere natural or that looks natural like a park. and lower your screen time. This ones really important and I know I sound like a mom but I’m just a teenager and I know the feeling and I didn’t think it would help at first to. Work on being happy with what you have, get to a point where you look in the mirror and you’re happy with yourself. It can be hard, I know. The last thing you wanna do, (after all that is already normal and a habit to you), is make some really really good friends. I find that 1 or 2 is really the best amount. This is the hardest part but if they’re real friends which don’t judge you and you can tell anything to then they Will make you so happy you won’t believe it. I hope you try At least one part of this. Have a good day Hey bro, I feel you. I’ve had months of that shit. It doesn’t matter if it’s related to an emotional wound or not, to get better you gotta take care of yourself. Best tips are first of all go outside ( alone if you must ) for walks/runs/biking preferably somewhere natural or that looks natural like a park. and lower your screen time. This ones really important and I know I sound like a mom but I’m just a teenager and I know the feeling and I didn’t think it would help at first to. Work on being happy with what you have, get to a point where you look in the mirror and you’re happy with yourself. It can be hard, I know. The last thing you wanna do, (after all that is already normal and a habit to you), is make some really really good friends. I find that 1 or 2 is really the best amount. This is the hardest part but if they’re real friends which don’t judge you and you can tell anything to then they Will make you so happy you won’t believe it. I hope you try At least one part of this. Have a good day
It's been YEARS since my emotional trauma, but I have never been the same and can say that I still have at least 4 of these symptoms, even after getting help.
Yes it’s quite relatable :(
Sounds like me. 😪
I've been emotionally damaged since 2019 my daddy cheated on my mom and we found out in April of 2019 I was there when she found out . I lost a lot of people in my family and I even lost my pappy this past December because of covid 19 and it has been a rollercoaster since 2019 so I hope that anyone that is going through anything knows that they aren't alone . I'm praying for all of you .
To all emotionally wounded people out there especially HSPs : I wanna tell you that you are a really strong person for bearing with this pain, and you should be proud of your self. It’s all gonna be alright one day, Hang on there buddy cuz I truly love you so much !! * virtual huggg*
Thanks a lot.. I really needed to hear that 😢
Thanks ^_^
tksss
Thank you! Sending you love 💕
❤❤😍
Me: **Has all of the reasons**
Also me: Yeah, this is fine.. I totally didn't see that.
me um some
Same.
I've isolated myself as much as I could for as long as I remember
@Deanna Newton the same happened to me but in fourth grade
Some emotional wounds can be lived with and not cripple you. I know this for a fact because I have one! I definitely was emotionally wounded when my beloved grandmother died nearly 5 years ago (February 10, 2018) and then one of my top 3 all time favorite Star Wars characters was killed off of one of the animated series 9 days later, causing salt in the wound, and for a while, I displayed ALL of these symptoms because my whole world was completely torn apart. But thankfully it’s not like that anymore. I still do have flashbacks every now and then and still feel like my heart’s been ripped out of my chest, but I’ve been able to learn how to “live with the pain.”
This explains so much! Emotional numbness, sleep problems, wanting to be alone all the time. I thought I was just getting old.
Yeah, that's me too.
Actually I do that to.
I agree
"oh stop being moody"
It's what they always say.
They also say...you have nothing to be sad about.
It’s really annoying because it’s not being moody at this point it’s the new me because of all the heartbreak and let down, I wish people knew more about emotions
My dad says stop crying over notheing when he knows how to do things..and i dont get help back from him?..
@Mike The Owl yeah true
Mzz H nice very understanding of him, people react do things differently and u have every right to cry if it helps u cope
Realizing that almost everyone may be wounded and are just trying to protect themselves, but we’re just attacking each other
This.
I haven't seen a non-hurt person in a very long time
To have a true good relationship you need to be vulnerable but its also dangerous so people have checked out to opening up when people aren't authentic you feel it. It keeps people not trusting cause its like your hiding something. Plus if your not real you will never get to met true like minded people cause you likely attract what your trying to pretend to be with likely a good amount of pretenders . Being you up front if they don't like it and walk away from the start you saved yourself a headache and wasted time getting attach. Plus more respect over time be true can earn you respect a bit pain in the beginning but getting to enjoying yourself is better.
i just needed this, like to feel im not crazy or just emontionally uneasy
Narcissistic abuse ....its the most damaging thing I ever had to deal with.
Yes. It takes years to get over. Going on 2.5 years here.
Exactly. Those human vampires very often play the victim card and make you feel like you're the worst person in the world and that you hurt them, when in fact it's the other way around.
@@lolomgmetobavi I cant even wrap my head around it, still!
Me neither :(
I am still trying to get over the damage caused by my parents and older sister's abuse.
When I was young my parents would get onto me anytime I got upset/angry, claimed I have a problem, asked me how I would feel if someone treated me the way I treat them (they have always been sarcastic and joking and recently I realized, extremely emotionally abusive) well now I have this thing where I just start crying when I get upset/angry and I start hating on myself and even hurting myself because of how they raised me, I hate being anything but happy because when I wasn't happy I was blamed by my parents and made to feel worthless. I'm currently with a therapist who's helping me with a different kind of trauma I endured at the hands of a different family member and only recently brought up how life with my parents is like and she was the first person I told this to who said that wasn't normal and was bad parenting, she was the first person to tell me that I'm not crazy for feeling the way I do. I wrote this so that anybody who reads this understands that you aren't alone and there is someone out there who will believe you and want to help you, you just have to find them.
@Walter Davis true❤️
Thank you
That hit way to close to home for me. That sounds so familiar except along with being angry/upset I can’t argue back. When I was younger they wrote it off as anger issues and took me to an anger management therapist thing. I don’t remember much from that though since I was younger. I do remember always being afraid of getting a bad grade or in trouble with teachers because when I would get home it would end up in screaming matches. With me running to hide and cry in my room. I think that’s when i started learning to lie and hide anything bad from them so I wouldn’t get in trouble. Not that it always worked it usually would make it worse if they found out. But I got better at lying and hiding stuff from them. But I think I might at one point either grew up or stopped getting angry or sad altogether. Now I can’t remember that last time I’ve actually cried or broke down for myself. It’s like I just can’t and I don’t know if that’s good or bad. And now, well I think I’ve been lying for to long because I’ve lied to even myself about my own feelings. I always feel like I have to be the bubbly happy girl people see me as. Since I’m always seen smiling or trying to seem happy to not rock the boat as they say. I don’t even know what’s normal anymore. Is it normal for parents to tell their kids that they’re never going to make it in life. You should move out, live out on the streets. Lazy, useless. Being yelled at for simple things like not being quick enough to take the dog out. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, sometimes I feel so empty and I have no idea why. And that empty feeling just gets worse. I can forget about it when I distracted myself with other stuff like anime or reading a book, or watching RUclips. But then it comes back and sometimes it’s not just an empty feeling. Sometimes a stray thought of ending it all crosses my mind, or what’s the meaning of life. I don’t know I realize I sort of went off on a tangent there and I’m sorry. If anyone reads this I’m sorry for wasting your time and for being a bother.
@@ShotoTodoroki-qs3ip You aren't a bother, the best thing we can after all we've been through is to learn from the mistakes and wrongs that we've seen and endured, learn and do better so that we can make a positive influence on the world and hopefully, one day, we'll enter an Era where no one goes through what we've been through. The best part about walking through hell is the light we create at the end of it all. I love you (even though I don't know you) and I hope that one day you'll see your own worth. I wish you all the best in your healing.
@@tildastarnight6753 I am, thank you. I hope you are doing well with whatever you are going through. :)
almost everyone who is sensitive is emotionally wounded.
Shit i cry very easily and are sensetive-
🙋🏻♀️
yes that's true, but we need to understand that there are more people who make us sad than happy, so we need to be strong.
I am the opposite, I experienced so much phycological trauma that I almost forgotten what sadness is.
@@akk0dha518 same
I'm at a pretty low point in my life right now and this was good to hear I just want to be able to weather the storm and get back to a normal life.
He is the best when it comes to recovery ex back💔💔😭
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I always say this as a child
“I highly doubt that i will have a successful future”
You will. Healing takes time, patience and a lot of self introspection, I got closer to healing during the cause of the pandemic, I used to have all seven of these symptoms but now I have three and I believe that number will go down to one and possibly zero as long as am patient with myself and acknowledge all of the things that caused me to be this way in the first place. I don't know you but I really think you can heal&succeed because we all have some hidden unknown strength inside us, we just have to find it.
Your not the only one but thank for saying it. 🙏🏻
"Whether you think you can, or think you can't, You're right."
Try taking the limits off yourself and see what happens. Who knows. You may surprise yourself with the outcome! #limitless
My mom said that she wishes that I feel what she feels everyday (She has a mental disorder) and that she hates me for being weak. Later she wanted to commit suicide, I had to hold her until she was tired and fell asleep.
*What a wonderful life I have*
Mine was also wanted to suicide but i stoped her.
I said really calm,just for what you did this.
Have faith in God , don't cease your prayer
@@user-dp3hh3bc6c just stop
@@user-dp3hh3bc6c Thanks :)
The depressed ones are the funniest
The insecure ones are the prettiest
The shy ones are the ones who want to talk the most
The anxious ones are the ones who'll always comfort you
The autistic ones are the coolest
The abused ones are the kindest
The traumatized ones are the ones who want to live in the present the most
The suicidal ones are the ones who want to live the most
But the ones who are living and keep living are the strongest
(-Katie Blonde)
Wow so beautiful
@@konstantinavantsouris3138 Fact.
ahah meeee
I’m making this my wallpaper now.
Very well written... Bravo!
Yes. Very much… feels more than what you’ve mentioned. There are so many more signs emotionally wounded people feel and behave in different situations.
(They always seek validation from others or ask for their opinion, even when their(EWP) intuitions and their heart know, whatever they are doing or did
Was absolutely right decision or thing to do..!!
They always live in a constant fear, that they might hurt someone unintentionally with their decisions or actions)
There are many other signs and behaviour of emotionally wounded people..!! & trust me it’s so emotionally & mentally painful to live with those traumas.
I have understood myself how much emotionally wounded I’m from soooo many years, I didn’t even realise that.
I pray to God to heal them who’r suffering from Traumas and also help
To heal Me 😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻
Psych2Go: You have a chaotic sleep schedule.
Me: Watching this at 2am 👁️👄👁️
I'm watching it at 4 am so.... Same fam
Catch you at 4:30 or so...
Haha- oh crap I just realized it’s 5:48 oh no
6:30 a.m. here
6:36am
It hurts more when you are the person who has trust issues but when you find someone you can finally trust with your feelings.... One day they just disappear and when you desperately need their help they are not there.
Sad tho- i can relate- but thats S A D, and sad spelled backwards is das, and das how it be sometimes- (credit to reddit r/memes)
@@michealafton793 yeah ik I'm not the only one who suffers from this but still it hurts. Thx for this reply
yeah. i was in love with someone for three years and then they used my innocence to their advantage and left me. i’m also very sure they cheated on me and i’m still recovering over almost 6 months
@@emilykelly4081 oh I'm sorry that happened. My experience wasn't with a bf or gf tho it was with a "friend".
Exactly what has happened to me. Now I try to focus on myself more because me being myself is when I am the most attractive. If u stay numb because of what people did to u.. happiness and the energy universe wants to send to u will levee come to u. Wishing you a happy life.
"7 Signs You're Emotionally Wounded"
*Me seeing that old meme of "It's just a flesh wound"*
*Tis’ but a scratch*
@@dfquartzidn6151 Lmao yeah.
Which meme?
@@Psych2go Black knight from Monty Python and the Holy Grail.
Have at you, ya panzy!!!
This hits so close to home for me. It actually brought me to tears. I know I'm a very blessed person and an lucky to have all that I do but I feel so empty inside. I gave to much of myself to one person and they deeply hurt me
This speaks to me a lot. The social isolation, the low self-esteem, the flashbacks, etc. Starting to feel the numbness, too. :/
Same with me.. 😭
You'll be better
Same 2yrs won't ever b the same person again
The numbness is the worst. I'm glad I'm able to feel at least "something" even if it's constantly being hurt about the past and present
I lost my daughter about 8 years ago and I can never get over it I have all these symptoms I haven't seen the doctor but this video does help me a lot thank you
That must've been hard hope u get better.. And don't worry your not alone 😊
That is tortureous im sorry, i hope one day you have some sense of healing with your loved ones
Thank you for opening up to us. I don’t know the feeling but my heart felt the pain... I want to reach out and send you love and support brother. Be well... I promise to cherish my kids even more thank you again
i lost my 21 year old daughter 2 years ago. In great pain and badly emotionally wounded. I have all these symptoms shown in video. I am hiding from all my close friends
@@anitakaul4228 I’am so sorry for your loss, Sending you all the love and healing this world can give. It’s never easy but I hope your heart and soul heal, I hope you find peace in your pain, may god ease your pain,Amin💛🙏🙏
Me: Got heartbroken, got emotionally and mentally abused, and betrayed by my best and childhood friend.
Also me: MEME MAN.
Oh wow
come here, lemme give u a hug
Keep your head held high or the crown might slip💕sending you lots of love you didnt deserve any of that
Hey now wait a minute, are you sure we aren’t the same person lmao?
No but seriously, I hope you get better. Talk to someone, it’s a great way to start healing. It may seem difficult, but it’ll help you start the process. There are people out there for you, you just gotta look for them.
Betrayed by: my "family" of 9! Both bff's. My best tennis buddy of 35 years! Yes, i am BITTER.
Sometimes the niceness that you show to others comes at the cost of your own happiness and well-being. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your niceness and use your good nature against you. Don't say yes so often that others start asking too much of you.
Literally, I have every sign of emotionally wounded.
My mind: stop being so moody!
My mind: i am you!
I deal with all of these. I’ve been feeling like I’m crazy & broken.. I’m so tired, and I’m trying to stay alive. I hope others know they’re not alone, we can get through this 🦋
Same
Thank you ❤ You are welcome and safe here.
Thank you. I needed that 😢
Yes... My last relationship hurt me so badly. Even today, after doing a lot of therapy, I still feel that I'm kinda broken inside.
Don't worry about it, we're *all* a bit broken inside!
I'm in the same boat. Got my heart broken by my ex.
A couple of years ago my crush rejected me, which did cause a lot of damage back than and let to me completely isolating from my feelings. Two months ago she came back to me and asked if we can hang out. She actually has a boyfriend, but at that day, she confessed me that she loves me and is struggleing between me and him. By now its not really a struggle anymore. She openly admids, that she loves me as much as she loves him. Now listen guys, I don‘t know what to do. I. love her more than anything else, but this whole situation is kinda destroying me. I want whats best for her.
A gentle reminder that healing isn’t linear.
You’ll have good days & there will be days the pain will feel real all over again.
What's most important is that you're always trying to get back up on your feet.
You are worthy and deserving of healing.
I’m here for you.💟
As time passes, things changed everyday. But wound, wound heals. Scar still remain the same.
I know I'm this just had a flashback to when everything fell apart in my life and been crying for the past 20 minutes. It hurts so much
Aw! I hope those feeling heal! Sending you love! 💜
Sending a hug
Best wishes my friend. Hugs!
Sorry to hear :( Hope you're okay now. How are you feeling now?
@@Psych2go feeling a little better but still have a long way to go💙
Feel all of these and lost ×100! You never realise how badly and deep someone hurt you until a year later and it still is just there! You try everything to block, distract or fake these feelings away but nothing works! Love and prayers to anyone feeling this right now 💜🙏
Emotional wounds leave scars like physical ones but we just can't see them,n it takes a while to heal but you will feel better eventually, these bad feelings won't last forever. Keep going and focus on being happy:)
we all gonna be happy if we know the meaning of this life "the true one" and it comes from our creator here his words:
ruclips.net/user/ChosenSurah
😶 her voice is the human equivalent of beach house sounds.
true
She has a packed voice. Supportive feminine happy soothing. Love women with those voice traits 😍
true
@@BryceMWalter they will break your heart 😉
@Flowerfell Frisk that's your opinion. What I said was mine now run along
Some People are aggressive and toxic so I secure my self as an introvert
What this video does not mention - which perhaps needs to be mentioned is that it may not be just one emotional wound. Emotional wounds can pile up quicker than they can be processed. If you are not careful you can also go through the same patterns of people rejecting you. Still. This is a good and well thought out list presented in a good clear manner so thank you.
Pysch2Go honestly helps me so much, this channel is amazing
Glad our videos have helped you in some way :) Did any of these signs in this video apply to you?
I cry over little things happy or sad tears starts falling without me knowing. Even while I am watching this video I was holding tears when I aldready know I am deeply wounded. I really hate life:(
Don’t worry honey everything will be fine. We can only hope ❤️
@@epicofgirlycub8145 thanks😊
@@youtubelover2613 mention not! We all are going through the same thing so we can depend on each other for some time to get through this.We all can use a little help from each other.
Im not complaining, its just a matter of life.
My life
@@joycethiery2488 your right..
I’m personally glad I got to this point. I loved and cared and hurt to the point I now feel nothing! It still feels strange to me, and in a way, proud of myself for getting a grip.
Being alone all the time has been absolutely amazing. No one around to give me any kind of pain. I don’t see these as bad things. I’ve learned to protect myself and the outcome is that I finally have some peace in life.
I relate to your comment way too much.
Literally me. I realized I'm happiest when I'm alone nowadays. Its easier.
Same
I agree with you sooo much! I don't need others to feel happy or content,I'll always have ME and I'll always be there for myself while others don't.
I'm doing the same thing. Protecting my peace. Yes, I spend the majority of my time sitting by this window in my chair, but the house is clean, the air is clean, there's no stress, no drama no sadness no sorrow!
when she said flashbacks i suddenly cried i have been dealing with verbal abuse since young age and i always try to aviod remembering those moments and forgive those people.
I saw my mother die of a heart attack. She didn't just collapse, it was dragged out a bit.
So, PSA that trauma comes in all shapes and sizes, as does grief and wounds and that it's always ok to make time to look after yourself.
A man who does not actively reveal his emotions needs you to reveal them in a positive light, for if negativity is involved, he will begin to truly feel nothing.
When you relate to all of these but there is no one to talk to 😣😣😣
So me... 😭
I relate to like 5 of them
Same :(
I understand you. It's painful when you really need someone to talk to, but you don't have anyone to turn to.
Yes, I keep a hidden diary now.
I have many, but with no one to speak with that will truly lesson about them. Some I’ve had since childhood.
"Betrayal" in the header immediately struck a chord with me. When my co-worker lied about me to the boss, and the boss believed the co-worker. It was years ago, and I still feel rage interspersed with occasional episodes of fury.
Definitely I can relate to this…. Had an experience similar to yours too… that scenario is still with me and keeps playing into my head… ☹️
ruclips.net/video/v4hemRBZ3ec/видео.html
My co-workers did the same thing to me. I lost my job over the idiots. I was with the company for 22 years and had never been reprimanded for anything. It certainly takes a toll on you emotionally. I’m sorry this happened to you.
I've had that happen
Yeah heart makes me with a broken and it is broken inside your heart an end then when your heart is broken you feel like you're about to die or expensive out for yourself out or passed out are like you like you got hit on the ground this is friendship when your heart when your heart give you a text I miss you don't feel good an enchanted and make you go lay down but you mixed you go. And it makes you cry when your heart is broken
Emotional numbness and lashing out at people:
Me: This is normal.
Ikr. 🤦🏻♀️
Fr
I'm already 30 seconds into the video and I'm like: 100% yes
1), I get explicit flash back a lot, 2), I have low self esteem, 3), I have a hard time quiting my mind, 4) I have heavy heart a lot, now as if I don't feel anything at all, nothing makes me happy at all, but I have a great smile on my face everyone says that to me...
I definitely relate to number 6. I feel emotionally empty and sad all the time. I am constantly holding back tears . It has been going on for more then I can remember.
I'm emotionally wounded and this results to i prefer to isolate myself, alone and avoid social events. I was able to divert my attention being busy at work everyday.
I am currently studying, and I take on 5 courses more every semester just to keep my mind occupied, its a distraction for me 🥺🥺😭
@@john-paulcabral4670 Hello Sir, I feel you. The same as mine. While working I'm tooking up my Masters degree. But I do hope that our hardwork will be paid off. Fighting Sir😉😊💪
@@mariapaulinelanggong9817 1. thank you,
2. i’m too young to be called sir 🤣🤣🤣, but i’m 21 and in my sec degree so that has to count right 🤣
@@john-paulcabral4670 😂😂 ✌️✌️ Sorry. You can call me "Ma'am" too 😉😉
Just don't pressure yourself too much in your studies😊😉
I too have become most comfortable and secure alone. :(