The Effects of Living in a Pandemic 3 Years Later
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- Опубликовано: 8 июл 2024
- From restaurants to the transit system, we share our experiences of living in a pandemic over the last three years. Plus, could dad-only baby showers be a new trend?
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Jobs should not rely on customers giving tips to pay their employees. They need to pay better, PERIOD. Everyone can't afford to tip or tip more so that others can make an affordable wage. It is unfair to try to put this burden on people who are cash-strapped themselves. It's easy to say well you shouldn't XYZ if you can't tip but some elderly and disabled people need things like Instacart and they can't necessarily give someone a large tip. Kathy Hilton is a multimillionaire she can afford to tip more but the rest of us can't necessarily do so, if you can good count yourself as privileged.
Edit: I TIP! because when in Rome do what the Romans do it is the way of the system right now but this is not a sustainable way for service workers to be paid. Their employers should pay them fairly so they do not rely on tips. It is not a customer's job to ensure that employer's workers are paid fairly.
If you can’t afford to tip don’t eat out. That’s part of the bill, everyone knows that. These people are waiting on YOU the whole night. Tip.
@@bleudiamondbleu tipping is not apart of the bill. it’s extra. you can have a good time without spending much. i don’t tip ppl unless they were great.
@@jalo7289 yes it is part of the bill in America, once again, they’re WAITING on YOU. Have some respect or go home.
@@jalo7289 unfortunately, tipping is apart of the bill. Plus, with staff shortage, tipping a great incentive to keeping the restaurant industry going.
@@bleudiamondbleu I actually do tip because I can afford to do so. Also, I rarely sit in a restaurant to eat, I order and pick up and they still expect a tip. My point is companies should pay their employees enough so that they are not dependent on tips. What other industries in the United States do you know that gets tipped for simply doing their job. I've seen people in these comments talking about tipping grocery store workers, etc as if that is the solution to them being paid minimum wage. It is not the customer's job to ensure they are paid a fair wage. INCREASE WAGES.
I love it! Kathy be spilling the tea! Can’t y’all feel them holding their breathe while waiting to see what she’s about to divulge! Ik her daughters had a talk with her after this aired! 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, i thought they did
🤣🤣🤣 Love Kathy Hilton
I love older people like that lmao. They dgaf anymore, just spilling everybody's tea. Quincy Jones and Brian Cox (Succession) are the same way.
@Look How she Ate That, I’m just over here sipping tea ☕️ . It’s cool until they start spilling information about your business. 😂😂🤣
@@MsDorcelus Trueee, then I'ma fight they ole asses 😭😭
As a health care worker it has drained me, we have so many covid cases and short staffed😞 7 nurses caught covid including me and they don't even care,if we have it, they simply put us with them and work 12-16 hours 🥴🙄plus so many family complaints over everything and anything😷
I love how open Ms hilton is. She is so honest any time you can tell.
The main issue is that many businesses base their business model off of paying frontline workers as little as possible instead of respecting them, valuing them and paying them a living wage.
I’m in retail and people don’t care whatsoever, complaining about why the fitting room is closed and don’t stop to read that the store is short-staffed. No sense of sympathy.
And of course they take it out in the employees, as if the employees aren’t stressed out about it enough already 😔. The employees make 0 decisions. They need to take their complaints to head office or customer service.
Mpm
My hubby’s friends gave him a “PAMPER PARTY “ That was almost 18 years ago. Pampers were from newborn to pull ups. BEST THING EVER!!
If we’re gonna get technical, Covid 19 has been around since “late” 2019 which means yes this would be the 3rd year…but it’ll mark 3 years by November. This virus was declared a pandemic in March of 2020, so were approaching 2 years in only 2 months.
Loni tried to keep her from telling the whole story line 🤣🤣🤣Kathy is talking like she's sitting at the kitchen table. For some reason she doesn't come across as a rich lady, quite down to earth.
It hasn’t been 3 years
Although it's a pandemic I somehow find myself tipping just about everybody. It's like I feel compelled. Very trying times and I hope we get through this real soon
Same🤗
Same! But i hate it when some don't simply say Thank You! Anyone else had this happen a few times?! I like to see someone at least smile.
i tip extra too. we have such short, hard lives. it's the only kindness that i can give since we can't go out lol
Facts
Yeah I don't order or go out to eat unless I can tip very well
This has been a trend slowly picking up here in South Africa, where guys are having a gathering for the "dad to be" and they bring him gifts (mostly nappies and such lol) and its a whole vibe actually, sweet to see. The ones I've seen have been braai's (barbeques) and drinks with good music and just guys having good old fashion fun :-)
I had a male friend who had a baby shower and he called it a Dad Splash
That sounds 1000% better than the Datchelor party.
Lmfao dad splash that’s cute
My husband would his own baby shower with his friends, football, liquor, & wings..
Thats cute but also sounds sexual 🤣
For me it’s hard because I see so many places are hiring but when I apply I don’t get hired. The workforce is really competitive, contrary to what the media thinks
THIS!
YES! My boyfriend has been applying for *6 MONTHS*, 100s of jobs, 0 offers. Tons of ghosting, plenty of denials, very few interviews even. Very disheartening. I hate the narrative that everyone is sitting at home feeding off the system when that isn't the reality.
@@djmastertrej727 what Industry is he looking for work in? Is he applying using online applications? Those go through an ATS- applicant tracking system. Make sure he's using/matching verbiage listed on the job description and also update his LinkedIn, perhaps do some practice interview questions. There's other tips on YT as well. Best of luck!
@@ambition1224 Thank you for the tips! He's trying to get a job in tech working with data science. He's been applying online. Fingers crossed that something great is on the horizon for him.
@@ambition1224 Thank you for the tips! He's been trying to use LinkedIn to network more. He's been applying online for positions in tech working in data science. I'm hopeful that something great is on the horizon for him!
Loni doing all that fake laughing… like she working in customer service 😂😂
Lol right but you know how it is we always got to engage with the customers 🤣
She’s really putting on for Kathy, she was the same way with kim Kardashian came… lol
ikr she's extra loud this season
LMAO I thought I was the only one that catches this. But its nothing wrong with it when you look at it from a "customer service" mindset. Its only bad if she does this in real
If your business plan doesn't include paying your workers a living wage, you don't have a good or successful business plan. The American tipping system is archaic and it's high time to get rid of it as a compulsory practice and the only true way that workers can pay their rent, bills etc.
Not to mention the amount of anxiety it creates for the worker and the consumer. You're having to deal with someone's anxiety about making enough money on their shift while you eat. It makes for such an uncomfortable dining experience when you're constantly having someone come up to your table to check on you because if they don't, some people won't tip them in a stupid belief that they're not providing good service.
So true to the high expectations for customer service is outrageous people only think about themselves in restaurants. And like I said to someone earlier the restaurant business is not the only place to GIVes put on foot service and waiting on them hand and foot. Just this is the only one that do the tipping. I worked at department stores and I’ve waited on customers literally hand and foot asking them did they need anything taken close to the fitting rooms for them bringing them different sizes checking on you making sure they’re OK sizing them do you have people in the lingerie department size in their bras they can shorts fit checking on the lake controller OK sometimes having to walk outside bringing the packages to the car willing it to the car etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. etc. and it’s a good thing We are getting compensated for it because we are providing service to and it would be a shame to we were treated like the restaurant business they probably wouldn’t be no workers in the retail business
Loni looks amazing! Sending love from India. The Real Daytime is my favourite talk show 💜 (This is our time :'))
It’s not an incentive issue. People are finding better jobs. People have been highlighting issues with retail and fast food for decades and now you’re surprised that people are moving on to better treatment and pay???
There’s a lot of people like retail and restaurant jobs but they just don’t pay your people assume that any type of sales retail or restaurants are beneath jobs little do they know when you do it for a living it’s very hard very stressful in my life be as hard as corporate America jobs but retail restaurants are very very hard especially if you’re a manager your Besty work in corporate America jobs because you were in the office doing the paperwork doing things that people do as if you’re working in a cubicle everything in this whole world has gone up food clothes housing market cars taxes everything is going higher but the pay I don’t care what job it is I don’t care if you’re working from fast food to corporate America minimum wage across the United States said should be at least 15 to 17 an hour and nowadays because they are taking so much taxes out 15 an hour once you take out taxes are only bringing home a little over 500 a week and that’s no money unless you working in a department store making 15 to 17 an hour doing a commission job You’ll make 17 an hour plus commission but then the commission jobs aren’t stable to because you’re basically getting in trouble if their returns and it goes against you and it’s not your fault that they decided three months later to return something and it goes against your commission return policy is fine if you don’t like something but they hold it against the cashiers and the sales people it’s if it’s our fault that we had it returned I’m both sides retail restaurants all customer service jobs and we are very very underpaid and I’m so sorry for the waitresses and waiters they have to do all that work and we only rely on customers to pay them not the actual business itself so there’s literally no customers you are literally making no money can you imagine working a 10 hour shift at a restaurant and all you made for the whole day was $2.13 an hour?
What do they mean "three years later"? We're a little less than two months to the two year anniversary of it hitting the US.
Thought i was the only one who caught that
Covid has been around since 2019. It just didn’t cause shut downs in US until 2020
@@BlackTee93 and it didn’t become widespread untill 2020
Covid-19
@@BlackTee93 yes around November/December 2019 but that would still make it just a couple of months over 2 years
pointing at Loni while saying "good food" 🤣🤣🤣 that was so unintentionally shady
😫😁
Girl I saw that and was like dang lol
Which part
I was thinking that too at first but thought I may be reaching. 😬
In the US it’s really only been 1.5 years . March 2020 was the shut down
I think they are forgetting that not everyone has a 6 figure income like them and not everyone can afford to tip everyone/every time that’s the reality of it too because people only think about the restaurant business or nurses or small businesses but theirs a lot more places then that
I just LOVE Kathy here on The Real haha, she is as real as it gets! Very down to earth and easy to relate to
It's two years not three years.
Exactly, I don’t know why people want to increase the time so bad
This hit deep
I work in virology lab, before covid the work was a breeze but after covid i had to work over time, fill the place of other ppl, work when iam really sick/period, i do a work of 3 person myself due to shortage and all of this with the same salary
Some days i work to the point that i no longer feel my back
Crazy 🥺
I picked up a waitressing job in DC in the middle of 2020, the transit system was empty and the metro ran very slowly .
I love Kathy, let’s get her a permanent seat
You know, I live in P.R. and, I totally agree with Loni we need to have more patience and be appreciative of waiters and waitresses, but let me tell you, I went to a few franchise restaurants. The wait to be seated was over an hour, the shortage of workers was obvious and, I get it and I’m Patient trust me, I would never give anyone or have given anyone a hard time in a restaurant pre or during these pandemic times. It is difficult financially on all of us in one way or another, So to go to a restaurant with your family to enjoy a dinner is a big deal, but I have to say the service has been horrible and I’m not saying the server the food itself and the plating I’m like wtf 80 to 120 bucks later that’s what I’m paying for and you want a 18% tip?!! so we decided no more eating out and your better off going to a local mom and pop restaurant because the food, plating is way better.
Tipping more lately. Also, add a nice note on the receipt thanking them for their great service🤗
I just think the baby shower should be for the mom and dad. Both parties should be there. But then again I don’t want to play any stupid baby games. I’d rather we just have a fun time with food and gifts
I definitely agree with Loni 👏🏼 well said!!!
It’s barely been 2 years. 2.
Next month, it will be 2 years
Everyone has been affected mentally by the pandemic
I wish they would stop mentioning unemployment on here. Barely anyone is living off that anymore as the supplemental income has stopped + the federal program. I know they may be out of touch due to their industry but it just always comes off as tone deaf when any of them bring it up.
I agree! Every time they mention Im like "I wish it was still going on" lol
As an engineer & most coworkers being men - I've attended SEVERAL "Pamper Parties" over the last 10 yrs! Rather than a "baby shower" - usually because there's showering of gifts for Mama & baby, Dad's PAMPER PARTY was for everyone to bring a variety of pamper sizes & costco size boxes of pampers bc everyone knew they were going to need them. There is usually BBQ, beer, & poker involved. I agree the name "Dadchelor" isn't very tasteful but PAMPER PARTIES were always a blast & they could be co-ed (to include lady friends), for couples, or just a "guys gathering".
2 years*
Yea but at the rate we are going it will be here for a couple more years etc..
I'm laughing at Kathy asking if she's going to get cancelled 🤣
The color and style of Loni's dress looks good on her, except for the scarf, it looks like they should've straightened it out better for her.
so funny pulling up this segment right when i'm in the middle of reading 'the 5 languages of appreciation'. 🤣🤣
It’s crazy. I live in NYC and I’m used to Rush hour in NYC (going to work and then going home) they took out the local train and made the express train, local. I was like WOW this has never happened in this manner. It’s sad but also because of the vaccines workplaces aren’t as careful anymore. But also, these jobs not valuing their employees. This time isn’t called “The Great Resignation” for nothing.
I don’t understand how a company pays their workers little to nothing with high insurance price. However, the owner is a billionaire or multimillionaire paying pennies. That is so sad and greedy
Your title is very miss leading. We are not yet at 2 years for the pandemic. Facts matter please.
Very misleading and false
Thank you! People want to increase the time so bad.. like it hasn’t been 2 years yet
The pandemic began in 2019, I think they just calculated 2019 to 2022. But I agree with you, it’s still not accurate.
During lockdown my favorite ramen Mom and Pop style place burnt down and my favorite sushi place ended up shutting down because you weren't getting the business that they needed in order to stay open. Both of these are really close to my college campus which means that pre pandemic they were getting a lot of traffic because of us students and the down town area.
Kathy is truly hilarious 😆
Please tip grocery store baggers! Even if they aren't allowed to accept tips!!
They all look fabulous today. 😍
Love Kathy! Add her to the show.
We've learned to call places before we head out
I had no idea Kathy got married so young.
3:26 Adrienne points at Loni when she says: "Good Food", like wth?!!!!
It was a Segway from talking about restaurants and Loni was the one to close that topic don't be silly
@@ruruvarela you are naïve or you haven't been around shady, catty people,
Wake up. They are very catty.
@@tryin2beehappygolucky431 okay but it should be playful even within friends is not that deep
My husband wanted food from a fast food last night. He went to 3 that where suppose to be open and all where closed. This also has created people who do not want to work as well. 2 years out we can't still be using the pandemic.
Pay them! Not bonuses and respect the lower working class!
I'm an essential worker and during COVID employer paid us more.
not Loni saying "she's had so many cute guys" 💀
I love Kathy Hilton! She’s so cool
Kathy is spilling it all.
I like Ms. Kathy Hilton... she needs to be on TV more often...
I agree! Jobs need to help their employees out. Also, if you want your favorite restaurant to stay open then tip well and continue to give them business.
I think that neighborhood community should help out the small businesses everyone should work together
Raise salaries
I've been working in foodservice for almost a decade now. Very low pay, very little effort on part of management to help develop employees or even appreciate them and very little desire for companies to increase wages for loyal, good quality workers. This is why people are leaving: they pay essentially nothing, so there is nothing to lose. The customers are losing too, on quality service and an inhumane system. Throw a global pandemic and it's a recipe ( no pun intended) for disaster
2020: Thank you essential workers you're our heroes!
2022: Hurry up with my coffee LET'S GO
Where I live it's common to have a guy baby shower. They call it a pamper and beer party, the dad to be supplies the beer and the guys that come to the party bring diapers or baby wipes. My brother in law had one and he got a room full of diapers and baby wipes. It was very helpful for my sister and her husband because they didn't have to buy diapers and wipes for a good amount a time and helped them save some money.
Women only baby showers, in my experience, are a thing of the past. Usually the expecting couple is celebrating together with family and friends so I don’t see a point in having gender specific separate parties… but I guess it makes sense if you’re coparenting in separate homes? 🤷🏻♀️
Why did Adrienne point at Loni at 3:26 when she said “good food”?🤭
Working in food service sucks sometimes. The pandemic only adds to that. Coming to work in snow/rain/crappy weather/being exposed to Covid (risking your life to make food for people) and people can't even tip you $1.00 $0.50 $0.25 or even a mere nickel! 😑 There's a lot of places hiring but when you have bills to pay and things to take care of sometimes you get stuck working where you can get the hours.
Adrienne say what? Omg! On the most basic statements from Kathy lol and every time she does it, Kathy pauses haha not sure if she is noticing what I’ve noticed lol
In S.A we call a men's baby shower a nappie braai
We don’t have baby showers in England. My parents had never heard of them
Idk why ppl keep say 3 yrs... it started here March 2020...
Eat locally, buy from your local farmers market and tip generously.
it’s not just about pay, patience, and kindness. the entire workplace has be redesigned across industries in order to attract people to jobs
a HUGE part of the worker shortage that no one is talking about is long covid. millions of people cannot return to work because they are still too ill (primarily women). and it’s being ignored!!!!
I love Kathy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
5:20 Kathy loves to talk about herself!
But... isn't what this show is about... and I'm no Kathy fan
@@a.sydney5036 Yes, it's a talk show, about topics, and she won't stay on topic lol 🤣
She is so cute
@@ashleyrodriguez8143 you wouldn't say that if she was your mother.
Tipping is just a way of ensuring wages stay low. Pay people a fair and steady wage so they don't need to rely on charity from strangers who these days do not have the money to spare.
My kid dad had diapers parties! They just just drank and they got diapers lol
If y'all go out to eat, please know that we risk our lives every day at work to serve YOU. So please present to restaurants respectfully and with compassion and grace. There are so many rude people out there who don't understand why they have to be turned away when restaurants are understaffed. So many servers and cooks are leaving the industry because of the lack of respect and poor pay. If servers catch covid, we can't work and we can't make a living. Please understand that 20% is compensatory tip. And if you can't afford to tip, you can't afford to dine out.
she said baby daddy lol
Definitely tip more 👍
I friking luv kathy❤😘🤗
Loni out here tryna keep the mystery of why Paris was angry and Kathy is just telling the whole plot. 😭😂
I’ve just heard that men aren’t supposed to be at baby showers, this was coming from a Caucasian woman so I can’t relate. However, I’ve never heard of that and my whole family will be there with my husband right by my side, by the grace of God! 🙌🏾
so we should tip more like the ppl eating out or getting a service aren’t in a pandemic as well? not everyone money is right.
Effective ways for companies to bounce back is support them federally and at a state level so that they can fucking pay people more.
In my family they have diaper parties. so all their friends get together, buy a whole bunch of diapers, and they drink and do whatever and enjoy themselves
This is just somebody's way of selling expecting parents more stuff. 😂
The Pandemic caused a domino effect around the world. It's a bitter sweet situation. Because sadly some ppl lost their love ones. And jobs ect. But some ppl benefited from the Pandemic. Starting with a pay raise ect. However we still in this mess together. I learned to adapt to the situation. I stop complaining about the thing's I'm used to. I'm just going with the flow. Nothing last forever. Everything is temporary. God never said life is easy. The reason why the Holy Spirit, is stamped on our heart's. This is Faith! For situations, circumstances, difficulties and struggles.
Loni hit it on the head!
oh wait that's Paris Hilton momma
It’s only been 2 years
Things that unhinge me: Skinny people who say they are trying to gain weight. Complaining about your cleaning lady going on vacation. Rich people who talk about a cab ride not being cheap. (Kathy Hilton) I didn't realize she married Rick Hilton when she was only 18! That means she's been wealthy her entire life!!
No shade, but is anyone else getting Kaitlin Jenner vibes from Kathy? 😂
That is a good thing, for guys
My boyfriend had a dad baby shower-called it a baby bash 🎉
I like that name. 🤔💭
Kathy invited to la carne asada 🔥
In Canada we call it a diaper party. The men bring diapers and they drink beers
Who’s gonna tell them that it’s only been 2 years??
Does it really matter? It feels like three years
We all work for low pay I wfh I listen to people scream and yell all day I don't get any tips
Why Adrienne said “ live in unemployment “like it’s easy to get a lot of money .
Youmean *two* years later?