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- Опубликовано: 1 июн 2016
- What you should focus on when you are moving on from a breakup with someone who made it impossible to stay together so you can get back to feeling good about yourself, your life and find someone better.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares how my book has helped him to move on from a breakup that was not of his choosing. Over the past month he was depressed and upset over a budding new relationship that went sideways. He talks about how he went out one night with a “no fucks to give” type of attitude after he got tired of feeling sorry for himself. He met a woman who was actually on a meet up with a new guy that was not going well. The dude even bought him a drink. She wasn’t digging the new guy and took him outside. She asked him for his phone number and started making out with him right on the spot. She told him that he would not regret giving her his phone number. About an hour later she invited him over. He shares what he did and said to seduce her successfully. A few days later he ran into his ex and he details how this new woman really helped him get over her. The new woman is pursuing him and making things very easy and effortless for him.
“Some relationships are simply not meant to work out. Despite your best efforts to save them, communicate and work things out, the other person may simply be unable or unwilling to make them work. Relationships are only possible when both people are committed to making them work. The reality is that everyone has flaws. No one is perfect. People who grew up in healthy families with loving parents who communicate like adults and who have a good relationship with both of their parents, often make the best teammates, spouses and partners. Rejection tends to breed obsession. It’s always helpful to remember that it’s not the actual person that we miss, but the fantasy of whom we thought they were. If you focus on what you can learn from loss and things that do not work out in life the way you expect, this will enable you to assign a positive empowering meaning and get the gift of the experience so you can become a better person going forward. Our struggles are meant to refine and improve us, not define who we are.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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If she leaves you, she is giving you space and time to think about whether she is worth your time. If you are in the right mindset you might find she racked up an impressive list of red flags you conveniently overlooked. When you figure out her leaving was actually a blessing and finally go about your own business, she will decide to come back. Then the tables will change as you show her the door. Then she will get annoyed because you rejected her and give you the stink look and avoid you. She wants what she can't have and develops a delusion that she loves you and secretly stalks you or your social media. This develops into an obsession as you pay her absolutely no mind driving her crazy. Then she tracks you down out of the blue someday and wants to talk. But you, now thinking she is nutso show her the door again. Now she is pissed and blocks, deletes, throws your stuff in the trash and thinks you are a piece of shit and never thinks about you again. Meanwhile, you don't give a toss about her whatsoever so none of this matters to you. This is my story. God bless.
This can happen in role reverse too. So be good to your ladies
Did we date the same girl?
You are so right about men taking the time to feel the emotion, rather than pushing it aside. Suicide rates are higher for men, and i'm sure society telling people that men aren't allowed to feel is a major contributing factor. You can be an absolute alpha male, but that can't take away the fact that you're human. It's completely okay to be sad.
I paint and refinish cars and I equate it to like women. You have to treat them all the same, almost as if you don't give a damn.
When a beautiful new lexus or higher end car comes in the paint booth for repair, it freaks you out, you get nervous, you want to do everything perfect. Whereas the toyota tercel you just painted before with 200k miles on it came out perfect because your nerves were calm and you just didn't foam at the mouth when the job needed to be done.
It's the same for women, we can't let them have us by the balls like that higher end car that needs repair. In the end they are just like the car having just four wheels and a steering wheel. These girls at the end of the day sit on the same shitter as we all do! Thanks again Corey!
i love your comment bro i call it the witch effect some guys just get overwhelmed with looks that they place a high value on them and get under the spell and end up dump because their not in the same page, not be willing to say your real thoughts because you care too much about to their opinion and of course pursue too much. i love your concept bro i used treat goodlookin women better but that just sets you up to lose . so now im just not givin a fuck if you look ugly, beautiful or entimedating i just want to know what are you about and your intentions because i dont like to be fake. dont get me wrong i want a goodlookin girl with a good personality just let me be because my best work is done when im relaxed
+efren salcedo exactly!! Totally agree. Honestly there is no problem going out with women that you are no potential with physically. It's a good way to improve your skills. These glamour girls are usually higher maintenance. I prefer someone around a 7-8. Little more down to earth.
+PerpetuallyHighPoet thank you! Treat them all the same. They will wonder why you are not on your knees for them, and that's sexy and mysterious.
Treat all women the same. When you put the good looking ones on a pedestal, you fail
Need my daily dose of CW
Haagen Dazs won't help you get LAID... :-D
dude...CW = Corey Wayne..lol :D
Brandon Daniels 😂😂😂
You're coming from a place of neediness and scarcity get back on center Benjemin
Some CW a day keep the rejection away
Man, I cried watching this video.
My ex and I had a great relationship. I think some relationships just run their course.. Things began to get boring and she went off with some other guy. I've been enjoying myself for a little while, it's been good :)
damn man you don't even sound hurt
+jehcrazyjehcmy well it's been about 5 months man. I was hurt for the first month or 2 I'd say. I found Corey and things have been great for me. Looking at it from a different perspective
Good man! Just remember, life is all about having FUN.
+Tommy Nguyen exactly! No point in being angry or anything. I just let those feeling come and go. It is what it is!
damn, I need to apply those things quickly. For me it's been already 6 months and im still fucked up, it's been hard for me, im living alone for the first time, I'm studying 24/7 and no time to go out and have fun...
I do some bodybuilding, and I can attest to how powerful emotions can effect your body. (I write down the date, exercise done, weight, reps, even how the reps felt sometimes, ect.) When I'm depressed, I'm weak as hell even if food and rest were plentiful. When I got a little mad (more like motivated) and decided to stop feeling sorry for myself, I had some of the most awesome workouts ever!
DigitalHaze65536 it really fucks with you was depressed as fuck this past week I have not worked for the same reason
Fuck yeah i tend to hold on to everything and let it all out in the gym. Its great incredible motivation.
Mate feel ya
Anger IS a GREAT motivator - I BROKE ALL MY RECORDS ANGRY in the gym!
My first love of 3 years broke up with me two months ago and then I found your videos. I recently started watching your videos and got a copy of your book today. I needed this.
Thank you man for everything.
Kyle Manning did she come back?
I guess not...
Nothing like starting your day off with some CW !! 💪🏾
I know! Right! I miss the daily ritual of having coffee with the coach.
My girlfriend, the mother of my three year old ended our relationship of seven plus years. She was one or two months pregnant and just aborted yesterday..I'm crushed. Thank you for your videos Coach. I appreciate it.
Fuck her. Thats messed up
Oh my god that's horrible
I'm so sorry 😞 keep pushing on my friend
This material works. Period. Your book is #1, there is nothing like it ! When you read it 10-15 time...you will UNDERSTAND RELATIONSHIPS! Good job, Corey!
I'm a woman,but listening to this. coz your words will help me a lot
I’m a woman and I’m about ready to move on to the next because i don’t like that the video is only about men’s perspective and experiences.
Got to feel it to heal it! It's tough but it's completely true!
It always goes the same. Girl breaks up with me after 8 years and I honestly wasnt too happy with the relationship for a long while but when I got rejected boom I wanted her badly. Got in the shape of my life, got a sweet job, read books and did all kinds of things to become a better me. Got back with her, we fucked on the very first day we met again and things seemed well and here I am again 6 months later, back into the old pattern and rejected again even though I honestly believe that I'm the best option she got. It's odd that for the first 6 years of our relationship I just wasnt all in, like she was part of my life but really not the most important thing and she was so into me, even though I had very little time for her. Then I changed and told myself I need to marry this girl, she is so loyal and just generally nice. So I focus completely on her. In the end she loses her attraction to me and leaves me. Funny how that goes and kind of annoying that apparently its always one person who isnt so sure about it all. Just that she had the guts to end it all.
you cant love them like we think we need to, challenge over, she gets bored and wants to dip. The indifference made the difference.
dogfaceucy
Its actually funny how true that is. This girl loved me as long as I was trouble. She did her college degree while I was doing all kinds of shit that wouldn't get me forward. She never knew where I was or what I was doing really. She'd bitch about it and I wouldnt give a damn and she loved me. Eventually I "got my shit together" became the man she always wanted I thought. And she drops me. Its funny how that goes.
*****
yeah 8 years. Perhaps I'm an idiot but I thought I'd grow old with this woman. And I really just dont like the general attitude of today, everything is replaceable, everybody is just out for the next thrill, the next rush, always consuming. I have done that and it just leaves you feeling empty. Then again being with the same person for 8 years kind of does the same. lol. Damn that shit is just way too complicated.
***** so true bro but hard pill for alot of us swallow. As soon as you accept what it really is , the better off we be
blafuckyou sounds like my life exactly.
When I started to feel anxious over the breakup because I am thinking about her I just go for a walk and feel 10 times better after walking it off.
I never thought of it as “stuck energy” thank you for sharing wisdom and strengthening men in their lives
Coach is like a second father to me. Love his work
If you don't want. Broken heart. And emotions don't attach yourself.
I dumped.my ex a week ago after I got sick of the craziness again. I still miss her, I saw her with another guy the other day, I keep running into her and It hurts so much. I want to call her but I need to stay strong. God help mw.
Man I find it really hard to find anything of meaning to myself or enjoy myself with after my almost 9 year relationship ended recently. I just feel depressed and lonely mostly. Yes I feel sorry for myself, I don't want to but it just comes in waves. I felt we had such an awesome thing going for so long but somehow we lost it. It's still hard to accept the reality of it. I still love her so much even though things were obviously less than perfect for a while, I don't think they were particularly bad either.
Every day is a struggle right now. I don't really have a "passion" to focus on , I'm drinking too much and none of my old hobbies really interest me anymore. I know I need to make changes and I'm trying (I still try and exercise several times a week, eat reasonably healthily, go out with friends and stuff) but I'm just sort of existing and it's hard to even get out of bed in the morning. I think if I could cut out the drinking it would be make a difference but I've had to face to fact that I'm addicted to it. It dulls my pain in the short term, but of course I know it's only hurting me in the long run. I'm having to face the fact that I've been dulling some form of anxiety with drinking daily for about 20 years already. I just hope at some point in the future I'll look back on this time and be able to say: "that was tough but I'm happier now". It's gonna be a long road to get there though.
Hey guys, how are you both doing?
yeah how are you doing buddy?
Stay strong man
My heart goes out to you bro ♥. Same thing here when it comes to your 9 year relationship. I lost my best friend and my everything due to a pill addiction that started again after she was clean for 12 years. Sad shit and the damage that was caused in her family is sad as well. I know God has the bigger plan and somehow, someway things will work out.
How are you today bro
Here I am. Been with her for 4 and a half years and if fucking hurts. I’m going to change, I’m going to work on myself and I’m not going to ever get heartbroken again. I swear by it. Thanks Coach, your videos have and will change my life forever.
Francisco Sanchez We go through the same situation. We deserved someone better.
We were 4 years together and she’s cheated on me 3 times.
wise words from the wise man himself... CW, you rock my friend!!!
Got to tell you, been watching you videos, at least five hours a day, read you book twice, starting my 3rd read, in the past month!! Signed up on Tinder last night, one of most beautiful girls on there been texting me all night!! You changed my life Corey!! Thankyou
Man...I am going through this right now...The moving on process is hard and you're right, I have to give myself permission to grieve. I love you man.
Moving on is hard process but in order to move on is you believe in yourself that you can make it accept that he is gone, enjoy yourself with things that you not used to do before, make some things new like doing exercise
Thanks for putting your self out here Corey. Got the book on Audible & listen to it daily on top of your abundance of stellar material here on RUclips. You have seriously eased my suffering immensely.
I spent time getting a gf back after a breakup. And I think it was worth doing, but it's not gonna be what you think.
When we were together after our breakup it always seemed like something was off. We didn't jive the same way. We when we slept together she didn't touched me the same way she used too.
Coach Wayne I know what you are saying . I used to be this way naturally around women . Until I got into my head . I can't wait to read your book 200 times .
Started listening to you in the last week and bought your book. This is really healing, thank you.
Read the book watched most of the videos. Im a great guy and all that but its clear to me now how bad I was fucking up. Wife just left me a week ago. Thank you. if i get my wife back great, if i dont i have a ton of great possibilities.
Coach it's incredible how you're intune to the emotions
Handle it with humor and what you observe you take part in💜
agree ill rather take their shit not to serious and make it into that makes me stronger like just laugh at it
agree ill rather take their shit not to serious and make it into that makes me stronger like just laugh at it
I truly needed to hear this today! Thanks, Coach Corey!
Coach Corey, I absolutely adore that you quoted Casa Blanca, you're so classy!! A classic, with some great lessons about love in there too. Here's lookin at you kid ; )
Basically LOVE is all just a fucking game. so sad
agreed. rejection is the toughest part but I learned that patience and networking is key in this game called love lol
thewizboy Yeah, it seems like it is huh? So many things the guy HAS to get perfect or else. Forget that
+thewizboy...thats why its called 'the game of love'
...or "love games"
thewizboy yeah it is the game to make a baby. when the baby is made it is done. but treu love is love for yourself the other and that baby. and the adult person takes charge and takes responsibility for those people. the child takes no responsibility and will be the one that needs love and can't yet give love. so be the adult for yourself and for others so they can be the kid or the adult. it doesn't matter witch of the two they choose because you are the caring loving adult for al three of them.
Thanks for you advices. Made me feel better. Because you are telling the truth.
nice work coach...because of you now am fearless wen it comes to relationships...
I needed this!
Perfect!!!
Been waiting for your video, Just broke up with my Girlfriend
Theres still something missing after you move on. Its the chance to talk to them and let them see how successful you were after they left....*warning: long post
I was in love for 3 years and i was going to school the whole time. I was getting paid peanuts. I had no money, no nothing. She was pressuring me for marriage and id say "soon dont worry" every time to calm her down. Well, i found out i wasnt gonna graduate when i thought i would and she dumped my ass. She wanted marriage more than she wanted me. She said "your time is up".
So she was gone and i finished the semester and met my now fiancee during that semester. Graduated college and got my dream job within a week of graduation. Suddenly i went from bring home pay of a $100 a week to $800 a week. I bought a nice truck, got rid of my shitty dirty car i had. Then i got a big promotion and on the same day i propsed to my fiancee. A few weeks later we find out we're having a baby. We just bought a beautiful home in the country and we're remodeling a room now for a nursery.
Yesterday, my mom blurted my exes name and i was cool with it. But then i woke up to a nightmare of her being married to someone else and i woke up panicky. I felt bothered. I felt like something isnt right.
Its not that i want her back, its that i want to see the look on her face to find out that less than 2 years after our breakup, i live with a wife and our baby. I want her to see how stupid she was. How impatient she was. I want her to see that im not a poor college boy anymore. That it was a temporary situation. Its hard for her to see this because i dont use social media to show anything about my life and my accounts are private.
But maybe shes kicking ass too. Maybe shes married with kids now and maybe she thinks im still broke driving a shitty car while she replaced me with someone better. I just want to make her feel at a loss at what she missed out on.
She probably doesn’t give you a second thought. The fact that you STILL want to rub it in her face means she won and is still winning. You are NOT 100% over her, no matter how much you tell yourself that you are. You have to figure that shit out, man. YOU deserve to be happy that she left you.
It‘s if like women see men like a stock portfolio. When they don‘t believe in your value rising over time or see your value going down or sideways for too long they cut the loss and move on. The burden of performance we have to face.
Great advice. It's good to see a different perspective. I'll be ok in time...i need to deal with these emotions. Moving on to something better might just be the best thing.
Libertarian Gamer how are you doing my friend?
Dude you always keep my spirits up
OMG!! THIS VIDEO GAVE ME LIFE!! I SO NEEDED TO HEAR THIS. ❤
I'm shocked! shocked i tell you!
Looking good, coach.
good vid. 1. the things you do are for you not for approval.2 .know how to protect and respect yourself, 3 .grow some balls. good notes corey keep doing your life perpouse
4th week broke up. Ive gotten about 30 phone numbers , made out with like 20 girls. Get your confidence boys
Hey coach, it's the first time I post a comment on one of your videos although I listen to your videos every day and I'll listen to your audio book soon! I learned so much listening to your message it changed me and my relationships so far, and will continue to! Thank you very much for your work, I'm confident I'll be able to send you a success story!
Stuck Energy, brilliant
Thank you Coach, I need this badly.
Your videos helped me through a lot a while ago during rough times, excited to read your book that i just got!
I think part of the problem that happens in situations like these is the realization that you could have made things work with the ex if you knew then what you know now. That's why when he sees his ex he kind of wants to talk to her and sort of show her that he is different now. Just my 2 cents, I could be wrong.
I am a lady and you have offered great advice!
Thank you, Corey
your advice is gold
Last paragraph sums it up for me lol. Awesome work.
I really appreciate your glance into the trauma topic as I would be really interested what the Coach thinks about attachment styles?
This one slapped bro!
I LOVE YOU
i was married for 15 years, it ended 1 year ago with her having an affair, i was left heartbroken and left with low self worth, and she blamed me for the affair, plus she left me with our 5 kids to take care of. we are now divorced, i have the kids. im 45 yrs old, how do i move on? i am over her, but she left me in a shitty situation. i would love to find a nice woman to date and spend time with, but with 5 kids, its almost impossible. or should i just concentrate on my kids? i deserve happiness too right?
scott kalinowski yes you do you deserve happiness aswell
You are very smart dude.
thank you for taking the time to help me out . you're 100 percent right . From here on out coach is the only one I'll listen to . I just heard about him on Friday and I immediately ordered the book and started watching the videos. I haven't made contact with her since Friday. I would like to set up a third date for weds or thurs. the only question is when do I set this up .. tonight, tomorrow?
Ordered it . Waiting for it . Will read it . I just found these videos last week . So I never knew this book existed .
I feel like making contact right now. It's been 11 days of NC and I am missing him. Struggling here!
@@olindalampkin5271 I am way a lot better now. It has been a year! I thought the pain will remain forever. I think, I am in the final stage of healing. Hope you are coping well.
I share the exact same emotion. I no longer want him back but a part of me still wanting him to reach out - guess it's the pride. I assure you, it will get better in time but there's a need for you to undergo the process for you to heal well. Later on full acceptance will come, then the real moving on. You did the right thing for letting him go..you all have yourself to focus on. It will also help to talk about this to someone you trust..someone who will just listen. You can also talk to yourself as if you are that someone who is telling you to forget about him, etc. It helps!
You should actually put the audio on soundcloud or spotify. I would listen to that all the time while going to work
She left me haven't seen her for 3 months or spoke to her at all. I finally get over it and start moving on then bam she text me out the blue saying she loves me...?
Right now i'd love to receive that
Screw that run
I just did it the other night. Girl played me well, but can't say I was doing everything right in the book either. however I had her back momentarily when she realized I would bounce when trying to cancel on me.
sadly, was all apart of her game
It happens to the best of us.
Keep going out and soon you will meet a girl who knows what she wants and communicates well.
Love the casa Blanca line
dr. uhler greatest and I've been going through something really familiar to the guy who send you the email you should have made this video awhile ago keep up the good work
Wow, same situation. Transferring in 3 months, and got dumped 2 weeks ago.
Justin Gibson how are you?
How are you now?
I'm only still in my marriage because of my son. But I don't know how much longer I can last I have mentally checked out. Just going through the motions day by day
This video deserves 2 👍🏻👍🏻
Great video
thank you corey
Dude, u r a living legend. I wonder why this channel doesnt have a millions os subscribers lol. Wish i had found u earlier when my crush was doing all the chasing but I was being a pussy. But hey there never a wrong time to do the right thing.
Thnx. Coach
I found your work from searching for, how to win an ex back.
This video is pure gold...
Hey coach, do you have a video on some exit strategies from an unhealthy, toxic relationship? I am currently trying to leave a woman who is very abusive and manipulative she threatens all types of things (incuding suicide etc)if i leave and we have a 3month old daughter which she uses to keep me or i "will never see her again". It's time to get out even tho i am in love with my daughter...the relationship itself is not what i want. Thanks Coach, keep up the great work!
Your ass leave to that relationship. go to court. document everything. get yourself a damn lawyer if you want to be in your kid's life. you don't have to be in that relationship just for the kid. I left my baby Momma with my daughter was 2 years old now my daughters 14 and very smart
I've had this happen to me before.
I communicated with her and encouraged her to get some help (which she did).
Try to leave her better than you found her (I suggested the book The Secret by Rhonda Byrne).
Seek counseling. My friend got some help when his wife wanted to put their new born son up for adoption.
You never know what kind of help you can get unless you ask for it.
Stay positive and be thankful for the small things you have in life.
Henry p has good advice....I'm gonna add; don't talk bad about the momma to your kid (they can figure that on their own, just build a good relationship with your kid....good luck!)
I had a really bad breakup with a woman in 2012, i made a video about it called 'some blokes guide to relationship breakups' i made all the wrong mistakes and went a bit crazy trying to get back with her, went through some bad depression. Video is in my uploads, hope someone finds it useful ? Im not a relationship expert, just something i wanted to make at the time. In uploads or just type in ....some blokes guide to relationship breakups
Im schocked i tell you! Schocked!! Haha😂😂
If you don't have access to cairopractic care meditation is a good alternative to release the muscle tension
Coach, I love you lol
3:25 You have to FEEL TO HEAL
I want 2 get back with my son mom she cooks 4 me and she ask 4 advice but Idk if I'm friend zone or wateva
hey Coach, as usual wel made and to the point! I have a story to share but just dont know how to contact you...Thank you for all the good work and effort!
Great stuff, I just order the book via amazon today. However I'm what I feel like somewhat of a situation right now. I've been on two dates with a great girl . whom I met off bumble . after the 2nd date at the end of the night we kissed for at least 5 minutes. she texted me when she got home and also stated she had a great time . I replied I did too. yesterday passed and neither of us texted each other. during our date she said she had a wedding she had to go to on Saturday.( so I knew I couldn't make plans for a third date on Saturday in my head). well today (friday) as I was hanging out with my buddy he suggested that I text her to see what she was doing tonight. I knew it was a bad idea . But he kept saying , you gotta show you're interested in hanging with her . if not she'll just go on bumble and find someone else . well that being said , I texted her. "hey , any plans tonight?" she replied at 10 minutes later with " hey I'm hanging out with my sister and friend in the city " I replied " sounds fun , have a great time." and left it at that. my question is , when and if should I text her again ? I'm thinking Sunday around 8 asking her how was the wedding , then quickly setting up the 3rd date . or possibly texting on Monday. thoughts suggestions? thank you folks .
my 2 cents....wait a few days, she may still be with family, it's about respecting space too. if she's into to you, it'll be no problem (besides, anticipation is part of the excitement...think foreplay!)
I just love you Corey Wayne
You miss me she said no then I went to the bathroom LOL hahaha
The only way out is in
Hi Coach, long time viewer, read your book 11 times. Interesting comment at about minute 16 in the video. You said when a woman says "we are not having sex", it usually means she will unless you talk her out of it. Any chance you can elaborate? I've always interpreted this as no means no. Thanks!
Point being the person who is saying "we are not having sex" is obviously thinking about having sex and also willing. On my last date I heard that I got lucky. As I remembered what Corey mentioned about that phrase I teased her and asked why would you think I would even want to have sex with you. ;)
This mindset is a result of your social programming. Women can't help but say these kinds of things to: see your reaction and to seem less easy. If you read Corey's book 11 times you'll remember the part about 2 steps forward and one step back when it comes to seduction. This approach works regardless of what a woman is saying. Remember, she invited him over. He's just walking through open doors.
I’m in so much pain
I'm about to meet my ex and just the thought of it gets me in the past frame of mind. Funny how that works. I afraid of that. When I dont think of her my thoughts and behaviour are different. Why the F that happens?
How did it go?
@@gesailer I have moved on from her. I'm on a different continent than her but still think of her. Shes with somebody else and so am I. Btw, we never met. She canceled the meeting.
@@mura0 sad to hear, but glad you moved on :) i wish i could fast forward time, especially now during christmas. But it‘s these moments we need to grow ourselves out from the dependency.
Wish you all the best!
@@gesailer same to you. Be strong and give it time. You will get back to normal soon.
Coach Wayne, should I be friend with my Ex's Bestfriend?
What if u messed up really bad where she says she can’t trust and I guys were together for long years, do I do the no contact rule, because she said we can still be friends and we still txt me but maybe because she feels bad u kno, I still want to try n fix and heal her wat do i do I still love her
Hey coach. I enjoy the videos and the knowledge you share with us. Maybe you can offer me some advice here. So I met her on tinder. We exchanged numbers and talked and text for about a week then met for a date. On the date she seemed to be so much different than she was when talking to her. I found it hard to try and get to know her. She was short with me and just seemed cold. But in my car before we got there we had time to talk. We actually pulled over for a bit to talk and it was really nice. I felt like I was connecting with her. By the end of the date leaving the restaurant I was thinking what the fuck just happened. There was even a couple sitting behind her and the lady looked at me with an expression like oh my god. Because she was not concerned with other people hearing her. I would ask her simple question on what her asian name was and she would say if I wanted you to know I would tell you. She would interupt me if I was saying something it just got worse as the night went on. So at this point Im about to leave her there with cab fare to get home because I was getting annoyed. So I said if you cant eat all your food that she should take it home with her. I was nice about it but she knew what I was getting at. When i said that to her this look in her eyes was something really creepy. It was a cold evil glare that gave me the creeps. Anyways On the drive home I tried to ask her if things were ok. And why she was seeming to be upset about something. She said do we have to waste time arguing all the way home Which is what I wasnt trying to do. So the next day I had to be honest with her and I said that I thought she was a little bit rude and wanted to know what was bothering her I would like to know lets talk about it. She responds to me saying that she doesnt want to be an outlet for me to take out my anger and she doesnt want negative people in her life. and told me not to call her or text her again. I was crushed . I could not believe she had just said all this about me and its not even close to the kind of person I am. I responded and said exactly what was on my mind. I was honest with her but I didnt surgar coat it either. I didnt disrespect her by calling names or anything like that I just was really bothered for her talking this trash about the kind of person I was. And that she was wrong and making excuses for me to be the one to look like Im at fault. And how If someone would feel that I did something wrong and told me how they felt I can admit my faults and take responsibility for my mistakes. She didnt even want to know why or cared to show some compassion about how I felt. All I did was point out these facts so She responds to me saying Im crazy and she is going to get a restraining order against me. So a day goes by and I start to feel like shit . She hasnt called me she hasnt responded to my texts. I called her to figure out that she blocked my number. I just wanted to say sorry but she wouldnt even care. I should have let it go but it went from good to bad so quick and what happened wasnt even that bad I thought. How can she be so mad about this. So my question is where did I go wrong here? Was i wrong? Do you think she will get over this and call or message me again? But I still don't think I was wrong for being honest about how I felt. Maybe I over reacted. What do you think. Thank you for taking the time for reading this. I look forward to hearing what you or anyone may advise me on this matter.
You went wrong when you started allowing her to disrespect you. You should've politely excused yourself and left. No need to act butthurt or appologize. Just make an excuse and leave. Feelings don't have a logic. Stop figuring out the reason why it happened.
My Dude, you have now met what is called an "Avoidant Personality" You can research it. I'll make it easy, they're emotionally flawed, move on...
Hey Corey, how can you gently let down or break up with love? Thanks
How can experience those inner childhood traumas or teenage?
something new in the logo opening video ???
I love cory whane but it's hard because I'm a girl and this is mostly for man. Rip. My bf just broke up with me and idk what I'm feeling. He's my first real love and I moved away to Curaçao and idk. I'm just hurt but at the same time okey
Hey coach, out of curiosity, where would you suggest are the best places to meet attractive new women?
***** my summer body isn't here, didn't hit the gym AT ALL. I meant local places in my city, if not too much trouble.
Just follow your interests. Do what you're inspired to do, enjoy it, and the right people will show up.